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How Childhood Trauma Affects You Across A Lifetime | Patrick Teahan

Lewis Howes

Patrick Teahan explains that childhood trauma often disconnects individuals from themselves and the world by instilling a core belief of being "bad," wrong, or an outsider who was taken advantage of. This disconnection is frequently driven by shame, which complicates other emotions like anger or joy …

The Hidden Price Of Unprocessed Trauma - Bessel van der Kolk

Chris Williamson

In this discussion, Bessel van der Kolk challenges the traditional medical and psychological paradigms which often treat trauma as a disembodied cognitive issue or strictly define it by external events that exceed normal human experience. He argues that both medicine and psychology have historically …

How Trauma Affects Your Life - Bessel van der Kolk

Chris Williamson

Bessel van der Kolk explains that trauma fundamentally alters how the body registers and responds to events, often causing individuals to react as if they are being traumatized long after the original incident has passed. He illustrates this with a poignant example of someone who was sexually assaul …

The Hard Truth About “Working on the Relationship” - Matthew Hussey

Chris Williamson

Matthew Hussey argues that a significant portion of relationship struggles stems from fundamental incompatibility rather than issues that can be easily fixed or worked on through effort. He illustrates this with examples such as differing sleep schedules, noting that while minor differences might be …