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Why We Fall for the Wrong People - Jessica Baum

Chris Williamson

Jessica Baum defines safety not merely as an internal state but as a profound sense of connection, togetherness, and physical relaxation that is deeply rooted in secure attachment. She argues that while individuals often strive for self-sufficiency—a trait culturally rewarded through "workcoholism" …

The Psychology of a “Daycare Child"

Chris Williamson

The podcast critically examines the detrimental effects of traditional daycare settings on infant development, highlighting the separation of babies from their primary attachment figures and placing them in institutional environments with high caregiver-to-child ratios ranging from five to one up to …

How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

Andrew Huberman

Dr. Allan Schore, a clinician and psychoanalyst at UCLA, explains on Huberman Lab how relationships fundamentally shape brain development through right-brain dynamics rather than conscious thought. He posits that approximately 90% to 95% of human motivation is governed by the unconscious mind, which …