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How “Avoidant Culture” Rewards the Wrong People - Mercedes Coffman

Chris Williamson

Mercedes Coffman argues that modern dating culture has shifted toward an era of immediacy and avoidance, where apps are designed to reward novelty and dopamine rather than fostering intimacy or gradual development. This "avoidant culture" prioritizes convenience over effort, leading emotionally avai …