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The core argument presented in this discussion centers on the paradoxical relationship between fear and action, asserting that true confidence emerges from confronting terror rather than avoiding it. Drawing a parallel to John Wayne's definition of courage as acting despite being terrified, the text posits that individuals who appear most self-assured are those who have faced down their deepest fears without lingering in them. The mechanism for overcoming anxiety is identified as movement and momentum; by taking a step into the unknown, one forces the brain to focus on processing immediate surroundings rather than generating fear-based scenarios. Consequently, action serves as the cure for fear, transforming it from an obstacle into fuel that drives perseverance. This process inevitably involves failure and embarrassment, but these setbacks are reframed not as signs of inadequacy but as proof of risk-taking and growth. The ultimate goal is to rise after falling repeatedly until one builds a sense of self-renewal on the other side of fear. A critical component of this philosophy is the rejection of inherent superiority in favor of recognizing human potential through sheer effort. Citing Buckminster Fuller's observation that there is nothing in a caterpillar indicating it will become a butterfly, the speaker argues that humans are born "hopelessly average" and possess no innate guarantee of greatness or specific gifts. Instead, success depends entirely on how an individual chooses to actuate their latent potential through relentless hard work and dedication. The narrative challenges listeners to ask if they can push themselves so far over time that others view them with awe or dismiss them as naturally talented when the reality is simply sustained effort. This transformation requires a willingness to suffer sacrifices, endure negative feedback such as being "kicked in the teeth," and refuse to accept limitations imposed by external critics or internal doubts about one's average nature. The text further explores the psychological dynamics of pain versus joy, suggesting that rather than attempting to eradicate past traumas or current suffering, individuals should focus their energy on cultivating an intense sense of joy. Quoting Aristotle and Joseph Campbell, the argument is made that focusing attention on light during dark moments allows positive emotions to crowd out negative ones, effectively changing one's internal chemistry and life story. This approach aligns with the idea from Mary Shelley that "the beginning is always today," urging listeners not to rely on New Year's resolutions but to seize the present moment for change. By defining goals through imagination first, as Napoleon Hill suggests, individuals can generate the necessary energy to pursue their dreams, proving that facts alone cannot sustain a human soul; instead, belief and desire are required to fan the flames of ambition into an unstoppable force. Ultimately, the discussion concludes with Theodore Roosevelt's assertion that life's greatest prize is the opportunity to work hard at something worthwhile. Success demands pouring oneself completely into a vision larger than one's own self, embracing the difficulty rather than seeking ease. The speaker emphasizes that adaptability and extraordinary capability are unlocked only by falling in love with the grueling process of improvement and believing in one's ability to succeed without prior knowledge of the outcome. Whether it is January or an ordinary Tuesday, the imperative is immediate action: taking a single step into the unknown fueled by faith rather than waiting for certainty. By refusing to be dictated to by anyone, including one's own potential limitations, individuals can define their destiny and build something unprecedented through the sheer force of will and the refusal to stop when knocked down.
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As John Wayne said,
"Courage is being scared to death
and saddling up anyway."
Here's the secret.
The people that do the most with their
lives, the people that seem the most
self-assured, the ones that seem to
embody confidence, the ones that seem to
define
confidence,
they're the ones that had to face down
the most fear. They simply didn't linger
in it. They faced up. They took action
and in action they began to tame the
fear. And that's the most ironic thing
about being a human is the very thing
that you're terrified of doing, actually
taking a step into the unknown, taking
that step
is the very thing that will cure the
fear. It's the very thing that's going
to suppress that. It's the very thing
that's going to give you the confidence
because in that moment all you're trying
to do is process what's around you and
your brain does not have the opportunity
to explore and be afraid at the same
time.
And when you understand that, when you
understand that the ally that you have
is movement, the ally that you have is
momentum, the thing that you don't need
to be afraid of is fear because that
will be quelled
by doing something.
That will be quelled by facing your
fear. That will be quelled by saddling
up even when you are at your most
terrified. And as Samuel Johnson said,
"Great works are performed not by
strength, but by perseverance." It's
facing that fear and going after it
anyway. It's falling down, the very
thing that you were terrified of,
embarrassing yourself in front of
people, and getting back up. And that's
the key. Getting back up is all that
matters. You're all going to fall. Every
one of us are going to embarrass
ourselves not once, not twice, but over
and over and over
if we're lucky
because it means that we tried.
It means that we got up. It means that
we cured our fear by taking action. It
means that we took a risk. It means that
we put something at risk. It means that
we took that fragile part of ourselves
that lives inside, that wants to hide,
that wants to move backwards, and we
ripped it open, and we laid it bare, and
we said, "What will come will come, and
whatever it is,
I'm going to learn from that. Whatever
it is, I'm going to push through that.
Whatever it is, I'm going to persevere
because on the other side of
perseverance
is a sense of self,
a sense of confidence, of being reborn,
of being something new because you built
upon yourself. You took that ember of
fear, and you turned it into something
powerful because you weren't afraid. You
didn't back down. You weren't worried
that that would be a permanent state.
You understood that it was only a step
on a longer journey. And when you can
see your life
as a long journey,
and that you know perseverance is what
it demands,
then you'll stay the course.
Then,
you'll win.
As Buckminster Fuller said, "There's
nothing in a caterpillar
that tells you that it's going to be a
butterfly."
And welcome to the human condition.
That's the truth of what it's like to be
a person. You're hoping that you turn
inward and see some sign, some glimmer,
some gift that you have that's been
bestowed upon you, that you were born
with, that is your very birthright.
But there's nothing. You were born
hopelessly average. And the sooner that
you accept that, the sooner that you
accept that you were no better than
anyone that came before you and everyone
that's going to come after you. But all
of us have potential.
And so, the question becomes, the
question you have to answer with your
very life, the question that your
actions will answer,
what are you going to do with that
potential? Will you actuate it? Will you
bust your ass to get good? Will you get
so good over time that you can play with
the greats? Will you can so good that
people look at you with awe. Can you get
so good that you become the excuse that
other people use not to try? Can you get
so good that people have to dismiss you
as naturally talented? Can you get so
good
that people refuse to believe that they
could get that good? Can you work so
hard gaining a set of skills and driving
yourself day after day to get better,
never accepting who you are, always
pushing yourself forward, always
demanding more, and seeing the beauty in
what you can become and knowing that
even today as a caterpillar with nothing
with nothing to indicate you'll become a
butterfly, can you become the butterfly
through sheer force of will?
Because if you can become that, you
become a beacon of hope not for other
people,
for yourself because you prove that
there really are no limits. And as Walt
Disney said, you may not realize it when
it happens, but a kick in the teeth
may be the best thing in the world for
you.
Why?
Because it's the thing that's going to
make you react. It's the thing that's
going to hold you down. It's the thing
that is going to make you say
never again. No more. I refuse to accept
this about myself. I refuse to accept
that I'm average. I refuse to accept
that I can't be something more. I refuse
to stop when something kicks me in the
teeth. I refuse to stop when people hate
on me or tell me that I can't do
something. I refuse to be dictated to by
anyone, even my own potential. I refuse
to be held back by anything, least of
all me.
And when you get that in your head, when
you know that you can transcend even
yourself, that negative voice in your
head, that even getting kicked, even
failing, getting knocked down, and being
covered in blood, mud, dirt, everything
that would try to stop you,
that you'll rise up, and that you'll
keep pushing, and that you'll define
what you're going to become. When you
have that in your mind,
then you become unstoppable. Then you
are the caterpillar that becomes the
butterfly, but you have to be willing to
take the knocks. You have to be willing
to make the sacrifices. You have to be
willing to suffer.
And when you're willing to suffer,
you can become anything.
Because it's in that process of breaking
and mending and growing and shaping that
you realize that you are both the
sculptor and the marble.
And therein lies the pain of creation.
But in that, you can create yourself to
be anything you want.
So, the question isn't can you do it?
It's only are you willing to do it?
Never give up
on what you really want to do.
The person with big dreams is more
powerful than the person with all the
facts.
H. Jackson Brown.
Truer words have never been spoken. It
is one of the most interesting things
about the human condition.
That all of the facts in the world, no
matter how true something may
objectively really be, the only thing
that matters is whether or not you've
got the energy to see through to the end
of what you want to do. And the energy
comes not from truth.
The energy comes from your dream. The
energy comes from what it is that you
want to do. The energy ultimately is
born out of what you want to create.
It's born out of a willingness
to allow yourself to dream. It's born
out of a willingness to think that you
actually can do it. It's born out of a
willingness to take that first step. But
the only reason that you're going to
take that first step is you believe that
you can actually make your dreams come
true. And that sense of this thing that
you have in your mind, that you can make
it real, that you can bring it into the
real world, and have that excitement
that you've long fantasized about, and
understand and really feel in your gut
that that thing that you've dreamed
about can be real. And when you have
that, that's when you're going to have
the energy that you need to push
and to fight and to go through all of
the difficult things that you're going
to have to to get on the other side and
make that dream real.
As Ferdinand Foch said, "The most
powerful weapon on Earth is the human
soul on fire."
But the human soul can't be on fire
without a dream. A human soul is not fed
by facts. A human soul is fed instead by
a belief that it can accomplish what it
wants to accomplish. It's fed by that
thing, that idea that you've had in your
mind that you fanned those flames of
interest and turned it into a real
fascination and fanned those flames
further into excitement and allowed
yourself to truly embody
that belief
that you can make it happen. So right
now, whatever it is, whatever crazy
dream you have, and we all have one,
stop judging yourself for it. Stop
telling yourself that you can't do it
and understand when you cultivate that
fire, when you take that little ember
and you fan it into a raging inferno,
that that thing, that human soul on
fire, is what's going to allow you to
build something
that the world has never seen before.
But it starts with that dream. It starts
with your willingness to cultivate that,
to think about it, to allow yourself to
do that, because so many people stop
themselves. They think they're an
amateur. They think that they could
never do it.
And even if that is a fact,
it's not something that's going to help
you live a life that excites you. It's
not something that's going to help you
excite other people.
The one thing that will do that
is the dream.
So right now, allow yourself that.
Simply to dream.
As Joseph Campbell said,
"Find a place inside where there's joy,
and the joy will burn out the pain."
Now, I get it.
Life inevitably comes with some degree
of misery, and I get it.
For many of you, things have happened in
your past
that are unspeakable.
And whether that's something big or
whether it's something small, each one
of us has something inside of us that
hurts.
It's something that we wish weren't so.
It's something that we focus on when
we're alone. It's the thing that keeps
us up at night. It's the thing that
wakes us up in the morning. It's the
thing that we obsessively come back to
over and over and over for whatever
reason that we think means that we're
not good enough.
But I also know
that inside each one of us
is something beautiful, that even in the
midst of pain, if you allow yourself to
focus on that, to feel the joy, to not
just think about it, but to actually
feel the joy, it will begin to crowd out
the pain. It will actually take that
room, and just like when you're trying
to create something amazing in your
life, do not
waste time trying to tear down the old.
If you're trying to create something
beautiful in your life, spend all of
your time trying to build that new
thing. So, if you want to feel joy,
don't try to eradicate the pain.
Instead, focus all of your energy on
that joy, and let it become so bright
that it ultimately takes over the pain.
And as Aristotle said, it is during our
darkest moments that we must focus
to see light.
And that's the thing with pleasure and
pain. When you've got that ache inside
of you, when you feel that something in
your past is stopping you from moving
forward. It is in that moment that you
must put your focus and attention on the
things that are good, on the things that
you've done that are good, on the joys
and the beauty and the things in your
life that you're grateful for, all of
that.
If you take your time and you put your
focus on that even when it hurts,
especially when it hurts.
If you're able to do that, if you're
able to find a way to take all of your
energy and put it on that, to repeat it,
to let it become a mantra, to let it be
the first thing you think about when you
wake up, the last thing you think about
in the night, and the thing that you
cling to when you wake up and cannot
fall asleep, if you let it be that thing
that you can put all of your attention
on that, then you can actually change
your chemistry, you can actually change
your own story, you can actually change
your life.
But you've got to know
it's in our darkest moments
that we must focus on the light.
Happy New Year, everybody. I hope this
time of year is as exciting for you guys
as it is for me, and I definitely think
about new beginnings,
but I don't think about resolutions. And
the reason that I don't think about
resolutions, and the reason that I hope
you guys don't think about resolutions
either, is as Mary Shelley said, "The
beginning is always today." And that's
the important thing. Whenever you're
hearing this video, whether it's at the
first of the year or not, whatever
moment this is finding you, I want you
to take this moment to realize that you
can make whatever change you want to
make in your life.
As Napoleon Hill said, "First comes
thought. The beginning, as you will
observe, is in the imagination." And
that's the key to getting started is you
have to understand that you already have
everything that you want, but you've got
to think about what it is you're trying
to create in your life first. You've got
to define that starting with the goal
and understanding where it is that you
want to go and then having the courage
to take that first step.
You've got to have that courage.
You've got to have that willingness to
step forward into the unknown, not
knowing where it's going to go, not
knowing what you're going to have to do
to get there and not overwhelming
yourself by looking at the entire task,
but rather taking a single step.
And as Theodore Roosevelt said, far and
away
the best prize that life has to offer is
the chance to work hard
at work worth doing.
This is where everybody fails. This is
the thing that is the great destroyer of
dreams. People want it to be easy.
And the only people that are going to
succeed are the ones that really
understand that the prize that life has
to offer is to really pour yourself into
something that is worthwhile, to gain a
set of skills that are going to serve
other people, to do something, to have a
vision
that's bigger than yourself and to go
after it with everything that you have,
but ask yourself, when was the last time
you poured yourself into doing
something, where you gave yourself over
completely and totally to something
because that
that's what success is going to demand
of you. If you're really going to tap
into the human ability to adapt, to
grow, to get better, to become capable
of the extraordinary, to really do
something that is going to change
people's lives, whether yours or
somebody else, you've got to fall in
love
with the process
of busting your ass for something that
you believe in. And if you can do that,
if you can identify that thing that
you're willing to give yourself over to
and take that first step in courage
without knowledge, without knowing
exactly where it's it's to end up, but
believing in yourself,
having faith
in yourself
that you can do it,
then you'll be able to accomplish
anything you set your mind to. And no
matter what day today is, no matter when
this message is reaching you, whether
it's the first of the year
or it's a random [ __ ] Tuesday,
start now.
Start now.