Video summary
The video serves as a heartfelt tribute to Big Grip, a prominent member of Yo Gotti's CMG collective who recently passed away. Hosted by Reality TV and featuring Dre from the clothing brand Convertible Bird, the discussion centers on honoring fallen brothers within the hip-hop community rather than focusing on the unconfirmed rumors surrounding his death. Both hosts emphasize Grip's significant role as a negotiator and a "good cop" to Yo Gotti's more aggressive business persona, highlighting how he represented the label with genuine passion and hands-on involvement in artist development. The conversation underscores the deep personal bonds within the group, noting that while public figures often receive tributes, it is crucial to recognize the contributions of those who may not always be in the public eye but are vital to the culture.
A major portion of the dialogue explores how mourning practices have evolved in the age of social media, contrasting modern digital condolences with the intimate gestures of the past. The hosts reflect on a time when paying respects required physically traveling to a family's home to offer personal comfort, whereas today, tributes often manifest as comments or reposted images. While acknowledging that times have changed and people must adapt to new forms of communication, they argue that showing love through any available means is essential, especially given the dangers of travel in certain regions. The discussion touches upon the complexities of current events in Memphis, where ongoing tensions make visiting a funeral home risky for some, leading many to express their grief online as a safer alternative while still maintaining respect for the deceased and their families.
Beyond the specific loss, the hosts use this moment to advocate for unity and the role of leaders in bridging divides within the industry. Reality TV shares his history of speaking out against beef between major artists like The Notorious B.I.G. and Tupac Shakur, arguing that true leadership involves being a voice of reason rather than taking sides or stoking conflict. He emphasizes that hate rarely wins over love and that it is the responsibility of experienced figures to encourage reconciliation and protect families from further harm. The conversation concludes with a strong message about valuing life, treating everyone with equal dignity regardless of their status, and continuing to push forward for the culture despite the pain and loss experienced by the community.
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[music] Yeah, we on Boss Talk TV. Shout
out to E. The reason you see
you understand
RIP to my [ __ ] Grip, man. I mean, me
and Grip go way back, bro.
So,
rest in peace, my [ __ ]
>> Wow. Wow. Guys, make sure you like,
subscribe to the channel, man. Uh, you
know, more details surface about uh Yo
Gotti's uh close close friend, aka
brother. A lot of people say his
brother. A lot of people got in the
comments. They say that's not his
brother. Well, we made mention of that
in the deal, but one thing we going to
do is really uh pay tribute to our
fallen brothers that are down here. TMZ
might not report on it or they may miss
certain ones because they're not
important to them, but they're very
important to us down here. All of the
fallen soldiers, the people who u mean
something to the people who we we got
people that we put in the public eye.
And a lot of time a lot of people don't
or they don't recognize them. But, uh,
Boss 101 definitely, uh, man, uh, was
hard, it was a hard thing to see, uh,
Gri who of CMG, um, you know, start
getting all those tributes from a lot of
different people. Uh, I got my boy, uh,
uh, my boy Dre from around the way, New
York, New Jersey, stand up. Uh, and I
got my my girl reality TV, man. Good
morning, y'all.
>> Man,
>> man. Um, did y'all see this start
surface here? Well, I know reality TV
did cuz she's the one sent it to me.
She's the first one sent me anything on
this. I didn't even know it had
happened, but I have seen grip in
pictures and hanging uh, you know,
closely around uh, CMG like uh, one of
the guys who really mean a lot to him.
He wears the chain. He he represents to
the fullest more than a lot of those
guys that even was over there. You see
him rep this thing, you know, from the
heart.
It seemed like he he was more he was
more hands-on with the artist than the
other people if that makes sense. Like
he some people do their job but some
people really do their job.
>> Yeah. Uh he definitely uh when I seen
Booy talk about it and y'all know how
big of a I'm a Booy fan, you know. So,
you know, shout out to Booy, you know.
Pimp, you know, the birth of Booy
really. Well, brother Boozy go back to
Young Bleed, which that's my boy, you
know, and and and Young Bleed really was
tight with me. Y'all see how how But
then also his second emerge, you know,
uh PC. So, all that mattered to me. So,
all of that be kicking in. But to see
him speak out about it, you could tell
from his the way he spoke that he had a
um a real tight relationship with him
and [clears throat] it was like, dang,
man. Like, you know, we just keep losing
people. But we getting older, you know,
we are getting older and we do, you
know, I mean, we we if you can't do
certain things you used to do, I'll put
it like that. I don't know what the
clear cause of death is. A lot of people
speculating, a lot of people saying
this, saying that. We over here, we
don't we don't get out like that. We we
just basically lay on the fact of what
really is being said in the public eye.
And you know, like I said, you could
tell with the pictures that you see him
and Gotti uh always was linked and and
uh you see him on pictures even when Big
Juke was living, you know, and just uh
he always he even being a spokesperson
at certain times, man. But definitely um
uh going to truly be missed for that
camp. Uh when you seen this Drake, what
did you think when you first seen it
surface on the internet?
>> Uh so, uh reality TV is right. So, I met
Big Grip in 2013
from a guy who I had the same
relationship with him as I have with
you. He used to sell my clothes and he
has a store in Columbia, South Carolina
called Area 57 and
>> Yeah. Yeah, I know that store.
>> Yeah. And at that time, I told Snoop
like, "Yo, I'm trying to get, you know,
cuz you know, Convertible Bird had went,
you know, cuz Matt was going through his
thing. So I was like, "Yo, I I want a
way to get back into my southern, you
know, cuz I used to mess with all
artists, not just the Northeast." So he
put me with Grip. And you're right,
reality TV. Grip. Grip was a gentleman.
But one thing I like about Grip, he was
a good cop to to Yoatti's bad cop. You
know what I'm saying? Yo Gotti just want
the numbers, this, that, and the G. Grip
was a negotiator. Grip talk to you,
smooth you over. Grip was a nice dude,
man.
>> Wow.
>> Kicking with Grip. I ain't know you I
ain't know you and him had linked up on
the clothes because that's what people
don't get about you. That's why I keep
you as a dynamic always on my line
whether we doing boss talk or not
because with them clothes and the way we
linked and the way you know you know
owning stores and all the stuff we done
been through convertible bird all the
stuff that you was pushing over there
your you know your gilly yard days
whatever you was doing you was linking
with these artists placing this merch on
them and then that ran you into a lot of
the CEOs that ran you into a lot of the
business the ones who basically does the
business or would say hey he's going to
be there and they going to put this gear
on. So I know you link with a lot of
different people including Gotti, you
know, and just the way that you are, you
know, you basically once you link in
with people, you pay close attention to
what's going on with character. So I
always admired that in you. So yeah. So
you and him, you know, basically you,
him, Gotti, all that when this going on,
how did you even first uh meet uh Grip?
Yeah, I met Grip in at uh at Snoop spot
in Columbia, South Carolina at his law
school and we we kicked it. He was like,
"Yo, he was a cool dude. I'll never
forget when I said, "Yo, you look like
James Harden. I'll never
>> Wow." He
>> started laughing. I was like, "Yo, you
look like Hardened."
But he was cool though. He was a good
dude. He was a good cop though.
Definitely. Cuz sometime he'll be like,
"Yo, we going to make this happen." And
then a day later he'll call me nah. You
know, he said this. said, "Dad, Dre," I
was like, "Oh, there we go." But no, I
[ __ ] with Brook. I [ __ ] with Brett. I
mean, I didn't even It was been at
least, I would say, since my father
died, 201.
But up until then, from like 2013 for
like five years, I I was rocking with
Grip a little heavy. You know what I'm
saying? So, RP to the brother, man.
>> Wow.
>> RP to the brother.
>> And and reality TV, what did you think
when you seen uh there's different
things as that was wrote. Shout out to
H&HA. It says that CEO grip was closely
assoc associated with Gotti and business
partner in CMG. His passing has led to
tributes from Booy W luchi and more. Hip
hop is sadly suffered another losses
this month as reported emerged that CEO
Gri has passed away. Grip was business
partner and close colleague of Yoatti
and the CMG camp as uh caught by the
Jasmine brand of Instagram. various uh
figures in the rap world
um took to social media to pay tribute
to Memphis fixture. And you have, you
know, this is something that happens
now. I want to talk about that a little
bit. You know, our feelings and the way
we display how we feel about things. You
know, it's a little different than what
it used to be, guys. And I want to just
set on that for a second because when
you think about a person passing away,
used to, you know, I remember those days
we really were rocking with them. We
pull up to their mama house, we tell
her, "Hey man, we sorry for your loss."
But now we just because we so in tune
with everybody and how we moving now,
you get a comment or you get a a post or
you get a picture reposted.
Is this something that that you guys
feel is healthy or do y'all feel like it
separated us more as a people or how do
you feel like that links now versus p,
you know, versus in the in in the in the
younger days in the past days? And I I
hit you with that one, Dre.
>> Did I Did I lose you, Dre?
>> Okay. I'm here. So you said now I I lost
what you were saying.
>> I basically was saying about you know
now you know back in the days people
would pull up to mama house and uh you
know tell her hey we sorry for your loss
you know and I think it still goes on on
a smaller level now but people are
justified by just posting a comment or a
picture and saying they paid tribute to
the person. What do you think about
that?
>> Oh you're saying a more intimate uh
actually paying your condolences versus
just posting a picture.
>> Correct. for getting in the comments.
Yeah. Putting praying hand.
>> I think that listen um
we live in a microwave society. Um we
don't so you had to go into big mama's
house or big daddy's house or somebody
you knew died because there was no
social media. So you had if you were in
proximity you had to show up if that was
your peace. It was a sign of respect. I
think it's just a form of different
communication now. But listen, times
have changed, life have changed, and we
just had to adapt. If I'm in New York
and something was to happen to you or
reality TV and I can't get to Dallas,
yo, I got to find my way to still
support you and support Tribute. Now,
lucky for me, I'm Crisco to Maine all
the way to Spain. I can get on a plane,
you know what I'm saying? And I can do
what I do. But most some people don't
have it like that. Some people can't go
to Dallas on a drop of a dime and and
and stay at one of his wives house and
say I'm here to support my man because
he no longer here. Right.
>> So listen, as long as we show due
respect,
>> you know what I'm saying? As long
listen,
but we don't want to lose anybody. But
we also have to like we also have to
remember that times have changed and the
best way to do it is to show love any
way you can. It's one thing not to post
anything or say anything about it. So,
at least you have to make the attempt.
And that's all I say about it.
>> Well, I won't ask I won't ask reality TV
the same thing.
>> Well, I think that their situation might
be a little bit different, but because
of the situation with D and Yatti. So, I
think it might be a little bit harder to
go pay uh your respects personally
because know what happened to his
brother and young Dolph and stuff like
that. And I'm saying that because people
was in the comments saying long Dolphin,
it ain't got nothing to do with Dolph.
>> I seen that too.
>> I think that situation that situation
may be a little bit decent,
>> man. You know,
>> remember how his brother died, so that
was at a funeral. Right.
>> Right. Correct.
>> So say that again. Reality TV. You feel
that the situation is different in what
way? I'm trying to understand what you
were saying.
>> I'm say like personally like personal
their situation is different cuz you
don't know what might happen.
>> Yeah. And and I'll say this too, Dre.
What she's saying is if you drive up
over there and and and you say you new
grip and you you you now you just pick
the side. If somebody see, oh yeah, you
you with that side or or you know, it's
just the the hurt that's done came
through losing soldiers in these areas
because of uh different people and that
was always a thing. But that was always
a thing. Yeah. Yeah. But that was always
a thing. It's just a little bit more in
your face now. But back in the days if
something happened, I remember when I
lost my homeboy, we had came to put in
some work in the country and uh I he got
out of the car with me and he got
stabbed in the heart and threw out at
the church the next you know once we got
out I were going to where I were going
to do my work at while I was out of
town. He went to where he was going to
do heals at. He gets stabbed in the
heart, throwed out uh uh uh in front of
a church on Main Street and it's like,
damn. Like we just was come, you know,
coming to get down and he gets killed.
Uh
I have to go back up there the next day
cuz I got, you know, I got a couple of
uh guns and stuff in the car. So I'm
like, damn. like and I got his saw out
12 gauge and and I I bring that back to
his uh brother to his twin brother
actually. So that was a tough time, but
dealing with beef and people getting
killed and pulling up on that block and
not knowing who who did this and how how
this thing is going is a is it's a
different thing uh in the '9s than it
than it would be now. Cuz now people got
cell phones back in the 90s when that
happened. You know what, you know, I
just pulled up and I really ready for
all the smoke because I'm 20some at the
time. But now, uh, it's a whole
different ball game. Um, at 50
something, nobody pulling up like that.
Unless it's it's really close kin. If
it's family like y'all or something,
it's different. But, you know, just
somebody I knew cuz I met them on the
internet. That's a different world,
right? Meaning, I might not even know
this person. A lot of people are chiming
in and and like you had a you knew Grip,
you know, we just pretty much reacting
and showing love to Grip because of all
the time building up with the music of
CMG or Dolph. We all react because we
feel like we closely knit it because we
we downloaded that music or we we we
rock with those people and we
contributed and so we feel people had
feelings and this stuff back in the day.
They just couldn't react to it. Let's
talk about that for a second. So at the
end of the day, you know, it's handled
different now. That's all I was saying.
I didn't give nobody the mic, but
reality TV, you can speak.
>> I don't know why you choose me to speak.
[laughter]
>> Are you saying a lot?
>> Yeah, definitely.
>> But I do feel like the I I would be
scared to go to the funeral. And I'm
only saying it because what happened at
the uncle funeral.
>> Oh yeah. To at Juke. Oh, at the uncle
funeral. It wasn't Juke attended.
>> That's that's it was somebody funeral.
>> So it's still it's still a war zone. And
you feel like
>> I definitely feel like it's still a war.
That's why I say they situation probably
a little bit different.
>> I think I think it's right under your
fingertips here in Dallas, too. A lot of
fallen soldiers that
>> you got you got to you got to really be
a person who prayed up to deal with
certain people because they going to put
you in a box. Oh, you chose a side. I've
been hearing that forever. Whether it be
with whatever situation and you got to
be strong enough to know I know in my
heart I'm not in nothing. And I'm by the
grace of God given a a a platform so
that I can speak to uh all camps and
show love to all camps. That's the
problem with everybody. You really fall
prey to some comments or some situations
where people try to call you and try to
put you in something that you're not in.
You have to be able to be smart enough
to say, "You know what? I'm I don't have
no ill will toward now one of these
parties. And I'm going to keep on
talking to both of these parties because
I'm I want to show that you can show
love in the midst of hate. And if you
really show love enough that hate going
to bag down cuz I ain't never seen hate
win over love. I really haven't. And if
you really show love, people have
changed their minds. People have I look
at Mo three mama when when when Kiwan
White got convicted and she said, "Don't
nobody love you. I love you. You know,
that's closure. You know, that's that's
a different level now. That nobody seen
that coming. So that that's why real
soldiers will stand up and and and and
be in the gap to say, "Man, we going to
be all right." That's what you had back
in the days in the old older guys that
was on the scene, they would step up and
say, "You know what, man? Y'all y'all
both need to stop what you're doing,
man. This ain't a good thing for
nobody's family. And somebody got to
have be a voice of reason when things is
happen like what happened with Dolph and
what happened with uh Juke and what
happened with Mo three and what happened
with uh Yella and and and and you know
uh all of these Roy Lee and all these
people man who going to say something
and be a bridge instead of a a a person
who starts and and and and stirs up
[ __ ] You know, when Biggie died and
Tupac died, there was people like Snoop
Dogg who basically tried to say, "Hey,
man. I ain't in this, man." And I'm
trying to bridge the gap. People don't
like to tell the truth about that cuz
they want you to pick a side so bad. But
there has to be voices of reason that
step up and say, "You know what, man?"
Like T when I was talking to him last
week. Hey, man. I tal I seen Biggie
there when Tupac first got shot and and
and and Biggie couldn't get in and and
Pac was there. You know, you got to be a
voice of reason that's not afraid to
speak up on truth and try to bring some
closure or some bridges instead of some
walls and friction. And I I digress, but
yeah, uh Dre, you know how it go.
>> Yeah. I mean, look, um, my father used
to say when he was on this planet, when
one of his friends used to die, he used
to say, "Boy, there's people that's
dying that never died before." And you
know, you never know when you're not
going to be here. You know what I'm
saying? And um, yo, you got to Life is
Life is a precious thing. That's why one
thing about me, I try to be the same to
everyone.
I I try to be the same to every person,
you know. I try to be upstanding and and
you know try to you know like I always
say I shake the janitor hand like I
shake the CEO hand. You know what I'm
saying? [snorts] And and that's just the
truth. You got to we have to value life.
You know you never know. You never know
when I I go to pick up my phone to call
E and he might not be here or I you know
pick up my phone to stalk uh reality TV
and she not here. You know what I'm
saying? And vice versa.
So you have to, you know, value this
precious time, man. You only get one
time on this planet. Make the best of
it, man. Get you a bunch of W. Get you a
bunch of
>> Oh my god.
>> You know,
talking about a bunch.
>> Wow. Well, you
>> say on that.
>> No, no, that's real. Uh, wife and Luchi
said, "Damn, big dog." You know, you you
see all these thing, then you hear money
bag. Yo, he just throws up, you know,
the the hearts and, you know, uh, the
bird and and show. So, there was there
was ways to show him early respect,
people who, you know, and and and people
who really And then there's people who
really just was fans of the guy. Uh, you
see them throwing uh different, you know
what I mean? I know those guys over
there. Um definitely trying to
understand how to move around the
algorithm that we just lost a real close
knit to this family who spoke well about
us who wore the chains we wore who hung
out at the place we hung out with wasn't
afraid to represent us. Of course you
going to have the Dolph people in the
comments. They was in our comments
yesterday but at the end of the day
that's just a part of it. They it's a
lot of people still hurt and a lot of
these commenters are hurt. They don't
know how to deal with pain. So, you're
going to get that a lot of times. And
I'm willing to deal with that. That's a
part of being a leader. You don't let
little bitty naysayers or people who
hurt or people who ain't on a level to
understand stop you from uh speaking out
and saying, "Hey, man." Um, like I said,
one of my most viral videos ever was
when uh Yo Gotti and uh Dog first
started and I talked about them and I
tried to, you know, be a voice of reason
in a time where it was thick and and
people didn't want to hear it. But I
said somebody was going to end up dead
or in prison and a lot of people are
dead namely Dolph some of the came some
of the people that on on each side are
in prison. So you seen that with all
this. I spoke prophetically to that and
it hurt people because they didn't want
to hear it at the time because we was in
the mix of both guys was here when I
spoke on that. Don't make me pull up
receipts cuz I damn sure got them. And
and you know I just always tried to be a
voice of reason and say man y'all ain't
ready for this. what this going to bring
going to be heavy and hurt a lot of
people, man. And and I I met Dolph uh I
never met Dolph. I met Gotti and just um
you know, I met the guys that were with
him, rightand man at the time. Uh I
hadn't seen him in years, but I know he
went through a lot. So that's why I'm
saying guys, you got to understand, I
always been here for the culture, but at
the end of the day, my voice as a here I
am as a 50some year old man versus being
a younger cat. I always got mad at the
people in hip hop, the leaders who don't
speak up in these tough times. So, you
know, in the book of Isaiah, it says,
"Here am I, Lord, send me." So, at the
end of the day, if you going to say
something about people not speaking up,
then you find yourself being the one to
say, "I'm going to have to speak up. I'm
going to have to say something. You
giving me a voice." And that's why I'll
always speak out for these uh brothers.
Uh no matter what you think. If you want
to get in the comments, you can get in
the comments because it ain't going to
stop nothing. And you ain't show ain't g
ain't gonna hurt my feelings because I
know who I am.
>> Damn show ain't gonna stop me.
>> No, we've been getting to it a long
time. I've been owning stores as you
know, Dre for 20 some odd years. Um I've
been running around here uh serving the
black community, helping open up barber
shops, helping open up uh helping
rappers open up studios. Uh I've always
been one who really got in the mix of
the culture. Uh little girl get shot
this four years old. I'm pulling up. You
know, it's a lot of people can't say
that. You a lot of people just sitting
around talking and they all they got is
the comments. So, we in the community
have to be, you know, me being a
business owner for over 20 years, you
have to step up and and and be a leader
in the midst of your people and your
culture. And that's what I've been not
only now to uh I've been this to rappers
and people who you feel like is your uh
biggest you their biggest hero. You you
didn't see it coming, but God will give
me a speech in the mix to all of that,
bro. I'm able to pick up the phone and
talk to people that certain people I
never be able to talk to in their life
and they show a lot of respect because
they know I love the culture and and and
the receipts check out. So that's a
whole game. If your receipts check out,
people will respect you and it don't
matter how much money you got. It don't
matter who you are. They're going to
say, "You know what, brother? That's a
solid dude right there." And the
anointing of God kick in for me because
that's how I believe and people show me
a lot of love and respect and I just got
to give it up to that. So, I definitely
have made myself a part of this uh being
a voice and saying this speaking in the
midst of a culture that we need to be
able to look out for each other and
being able to get people to hear me
certain people and getting people to be
encouraged. That's what it's all about,
man. Especially at this age. But I ain't
going to stay on my my my soap box,
y'all. Y'all tune in. There's a lot
going on. The Rosco Dash stuff is uh
going on. There's a line of people, man.
Uh uh Solo Luchi like there's a lot of
people that support what we got going on
over. I can't mention everybody. Trill
talk, no pill talk, but want to say
thank you guys, man. All you guys, even
the ones I didn't mention, the ones who
really rock down with me, man. Clint
Payback saying all these people, man,
that keep pushing for Boss Talk 101,
man. We still here. We pushing. We
pushing through, man. And I hope you
guys are enjoying it as much as I am,
man. Because have met a lot of great
people, man. We got some big things
happening coming in the near future.
Y'all about to be We about to blow your
hair back. We about to blow your hair
back. And if you got a do-agg on and
you're a white boy, you might get waves
messing around with me. We about to blow
your dang do-rag off. Waves going to pop
in. It's going down, man. Boss Talk 101.
We making moves, man. And we trying to
figure out ways to be, man. I mean, we
want to be precise, man. Strategic with
this whole culture. Uh uh uhhuh. uh just
this culture just just push. It's going
down, man. Watch for the articles, too.
Shout out to you folk. Shout out to uh
um uh Nessa AI. Y'all go watch them
articles cuz we do build articles as
well over on on uh uh Boss Talk 101
News. You got to check us out, bro. It's
a whole movement down here as writers.
It's if you get if you get in that
limelight, we going to write about you.
You can go check it out. It's happening
every day. A lot of people share it. Uh
Erica Badu has shared those writings.
Bun B 8ball MJG uh Greg Street, a lot of
people have shown love to the articles
that those guys write. Growing and we
going to keep putting it in y'all face
man from the south pushing up. Hey man,
like uh man, appreciate the love, man.
And also guys, if you still watching,
y'all already know me. What I've been
doing, I've been pushing a a whole real
agenda when it come down to putting it
out there. Making sure you guys
understand what really going down, man.
Is going down, man. in the dirty, man.
Uh, listen,
make sure you love your loved one, man.
Cuz little grip, that was a lot. You
notice I didn't touch on none of the
rumors or what they saying, how he died.
We don't care nothing about that. We
care about people. And we let the people
who pretty much deal with all the
different reasons why deal with that. We
lost a soldier, man. And we don't like
to see our brothers, none of our
brothers, I don't care what side it is,
we don't like to see them get up out of
here. And we want to be a bridge to to
the family. Now, boss talk 101. Man,
listen guys, if you still watching right
here, you'll see right here. Um, man, I
don't know. Like I said, I think I'm
going to put that that one up right
there about that little boy that got
that was a sad situation in that chief
in Mississippi. He got fired behind it.
Boss Talk 101, appreciate your reality
TV. Appreciate your round around Roy
Dre. Appreciate the love, man. It's
going down. Boss Talk 101 reviews.
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