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But yes, I have a poem for someone. So yes, we we do it in that order. Good morning, Mark. >> Morning. >> Say hi to my people. >> My name is Mark Mavave. Apparently, >> did you have to tell them? So guys, my name is Mave. Um, currently what goes on on the Y morning what goes on here. >> Yeah. >> All right. You're welcome. Phoebe, welcome back. >> Thank you so much. Yeah, I'm back. You thought I was by >> Yeah, I'm I'm here. I'm here. >> All right. So, what was I saying? Like I said, there's a special wish here. Okay. Yes. And I hate I hate reading um the wrong words the wrong way. So, let me just say there's a special uh dedication to someone special from someone special for a birthday. Okay. Uh today is the lady's birthday and a boyfriend who loves her very much has sent her a wish. Okay. So, I'm going to read exactly as it is. So yes, enjoy this is your wish and your name is Ji. >> Yes. So that's your name and um enjoy this. It's for you on your special day. And the message goes okay. I love you with all I am and all I'll ever be. The person of my dream, my son, my sky, my sea. I need you as the valley loves the river through its fields. Or as a note upon a page, the music that it yields. Romance must have a language fit for feelings deep and high. For love like ours, there cannot be a floor or ceiling sky. You are as much a part of me as middles are of earth or as a song is of a heart replenishing its worth. So on your birthday no my heart has given all its room to love that makes time to love that makes time disappear and chasing away gloom. I cannot imagine life without your gentle shining grace. My love goes down too deep to fit standards of time or space. Hey >> Jisha, >> I love you as a hook loves air. A sailor loves the sea. And on this day, I light my love with heartfelt poetry. With every ear that comes our way, intertwined in bliss, my soul remains forever, yours, sealed with a kiss. I am truly blessed to have you, Gyre. Yes, that is your wish from your loving boyfriend. Enjoy your day, Phoei. Stay guided. >> I don't know. I do not know. >> I know. >> Love like this. Love one day. One day >> deep down >> what you're feeling. You write down >> love like this. Like you're even making me who is reading jealous jealous because I have to be professional watch. Surely give give us some space. Give us some space to breathe. We single people it's my birthday. Happy birthday to me. We will do better. >> Oh the best. Anyways, yes, Karibu sana and we dive in straight to our discussion because I see time in akima and let me tell you the questions we have today are amazing. You're going to love it. That I can promise you. Yes. So, we are doing uh this or that. This is where I give Mark and Phoebe an opportunity to choose one uh aspect or one thing that they would rather have except or apart from the other. Okay. And we dive in straight. First question is 500k today at 50k every month for two years. Which do you go with fib? >> As for me, bring that 500k now. 500k. Yeah. For the 50k every month, it's a it's a good deal. But uh >> for me I'd rather take the 50kce once within a month. >> I'd rather take the 50k boundaries. >> So yeah for me 50. Okay, >> great. many projects I have when you pay 500k. >> Thank you. >> Yeah. >> Um number two, between a high paying job that you hate >> or a lowpaying job that you love. >> First thing first, so please please give me the high paying job, but I don't like it. Yeah. Hey. Okay. Okay. >> It's not that serious. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> So, I'll take the cash. >> I'll take the cash. It's not worth it. still not worth it. >> Money is important, >> right? Um, be rich but unknown or famous but broke. >> Wait, you haven't you haven't question please. No me I am asking question. >> Um I would go for what I love because what you love >> because um I've tried doing things that I don't love doing >> and no matter how much money you're giving me, I'm not motivated to come back. So obviously just anything but I would that one person that would really like one I am enjoying what I'm doing right now so this is what I love but this is not see my boss is not listening please that's all what I'm saying but what I'm saying is um >> what I'm doing is driven by my passion and the love for it pesa is important I need the money, but I would do my all when I'm doing what I love. >> Yes, I would give it my all, but when it's driven by money, money is never enough. So at some point I'd feel like I'm not driven. Yeah. It's very difficult. So for me I'd go for what I love. Yes. And now the question that I asked next was be rich but unknown. very famous. Well, to me, let me just be rich and unknown. So, I'll I'll literally let me just be rich and you guys don't know me. You get me? Yeah. >> Okay, Mark. I'd rather be rich. personal life. I want to be rich. >> I want to be famous. >> I want to have lots of lots of money. >> Yes. Please don't make me choose. Okay, I want to be rich and I want to be famous. Now, the next question is, own a beautiful house in the village or a small apartment in Nairobi. >> This one you're not even supposed to talk about it in the village all the time. >> Wow. >> In the village. The way Nairobi it's so chaotic and I just want my peace >> in the village. I think get used to the town life so in that small apartment in a big town. >> So you never know. >> Yeah. So yeah, >> I also feel like growing up from me. I don't want to get that again. It's peaceful. By the way, you'll have to work. >> I am working and I love what I'm doing. >> Okay. >> My friend is a farmer and she loves it. Mimi, >> you can you can do that. It's not. >> But if we are going to farm, >> uh we we would do it right now with money. But I think it is traumatizing. We would love to go back. you guys. Hey, that is a it's not like I know how to do all those things, but please, but I don't want to do that. So, definitely when you're in the village, that's what you're going to do. Exactly. So I feel like for me me and you are >> so many. Yes. It's not a true but in regards to what I want to do be here. Yeah, >> it's going to be easy for me cuz there are so many >> chances around in the city. >> True. >> Yeah. Um, another question is choose one. Okay. >> Never pay rent again from today forever. Amma never pay for food again from today forever. >> Wait, rent food. >> Never pay for food again. >> Never pay food. Even though Okay. Oh, really? Okay. For me. Yes. I am not and I am sorted because one mimi I am a person who fasts a lot. We're not even like >> even a short period. So I think for me rent you know what from today I'm sorting I'm giving you a house because that's the other way it would mean I'm giving you this house you never need to parent again. Hey >> my answers are my prayers are answered. I don't need anything else. I'm very very okay. >> Yeah. But well, we can't see even without without them saying it out aloud. >> Oh my god. again. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, man. >> Wow. Interesting. >> Be guided. Wow. Okay, let's go to the next one. Um, >> 1 million Kenyan shillings savings >> or a fully paid off car. Choose one. Um, give me the 1M. Yeah. >> Okay. >> Yeah. Let me have the 1M savings. >> All right. millionav your dream car or whatever. >> I think it's your dream car. Yes. You want to change? >> I think I I might Hey. >> Uhhuh. What's your dream car? >> A range. >> Yeah. I'm just a girl. I'm just a girl. Like >> Yeah. >> So, if you give me the range, I'll I'll have to take it. M >> yeah, >> I'll take the savings. >> The savings. What do you mean? Excuse me. If you take the car, okay. Okay. All right. I think I'm also with you. >> Try again next time. >> The money. >> Yeah. Okay. Have unlimited money for travel or unlimited money for shopping? to ask a girl. >> I know. >> Oh my god, it's so difficult. I don't know. I don't know. >> Shopping or money or or or travel? >> For me, I love doing both. So, >> choose one. One has to die. >> Travel. >> Yeah. >> Okay. All right, Mark. everything still fashion accessories. >> Okay. I think I would go for um traveling especially since it's unlimited. >> Yeah. Yay. You can go anywhere. Okay. But I hope shopping is still shopping. Wow. Wow. Wow. Anyway, >> but we just But I bet food everything is hotel. another. >> Yeah. >> Switch to >> Should we give you a chance to switch? >> Yeah. >> Um, financial freedom at 40 >> or fame at 25. >> Oh my god. I me the fame thing. So, financial freedom at 14. Okay, >> I'll go for the fame. >> I'll use it wisely. >> Could you promote? >> Okay. I also think I'll go for the film. Not because of the film, because of the age. 25. 25. >> I'm not sure if I'm going to be at 40. Stupid. There's not Okay. >> Yeah. So, I feel like um cuz now you're not limited to what you can use this thing for. >> Yeah. >> You can make the money. You can make the connections, the relationships with people. So, yes. Mimogan came at 25, >> right? >> Have a six figure salary >> or a six figure side hustle. That's tough. >> Wow. side. You have like the main job salary or a six figure side hustle? Yeah. >> Uh yeah, I love money. Let me get the six figure side hustle also. And then then >> So it doesn't matter how how much you're being paid for your job. >> Yeah. >> So as long as six figures I I don't know. Uh Mark comes out with you before I think think about it. >> You never know. Yeah, it's >> unfort for a whole six months. So you see that's the problem. So it'sing yourself. >> And you see that's why I I I said at first that let me do what I love because no matter how much money you're giving me at times these people really >> like put pressure on you. And now when you've been pressured to do something you don't love, you see you're not enjoying it. So yeah, right. >> Uh based on his explanation, I'll have to stick to my answer. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Six figure side hustle my thinking. >> Yeah. All right. I think um I would also go for that. Not easy. I can work from home. >> Yeah. And Yes. And I'm getting the money, so I go for that. All right. Now, we jump to love and relationship. Now, date someone who loves you more or someone you love more, >> I've dated someone ID that oh my god left right and center dust everywhere. So let me let me for now let me now look for someone who loves you >> loves you. Yeah. >> All right. >> So it's not the same boys take advantage. True. M. >> So you don't have to do anything. Yeah. So for me I I'll prefer chasing someone chasing. And in regards to that, what about the lady that approaches you? You know, I don't sleep now. So like for me try >> but once you obsessed >> okay but I don't think this is going to work >> other than you just cheat Okay. Well, now for me, I would go with you, Fibbe. Um, just go for the man that loves you because I will, it's very easy for me to control my heart and tell my heart to love someone. >> Yeah. >> But it's very difficult for me to tell to make someone love me. So if I come and I see that you do not love me as much as I love you, then I just walk away because um it's I'm going to convince myself to love you when I see that you love me enough. >> Yeah, Dr. Love is speaking. >> Yeah, clock it. >> Another question is perfect chemistry but terrible communication or perfect communication but terrible chemistry. >> Pardon? Perfect chemistry but terrible communication or perfect communication but no chemistry. >> We'll work on communication let let us have chemistry plus I think like chemistry the communication too. So perfect chemistry. Okay. Mark >> also go for the chemistry. As long as >> Yeah. >> Perfect chemistry. Ah, perfect communication. Okay. Sorry guys. Um, okay. >> So, it makes sense. >> Yeah. All right. I was to choose communication. That's why I'm laughing. and the example that he's making because yeah it makes a lot of sense that you need to vibe with someone but at times people are just difficult they don't want to work on their communication and for me communication is very because good morning so >> yes so that's how much communication means to me I'm texting you or maybe And you know for women we want to know what am I going to dress what am I going to like we need to prepare beforehand. So you don't expect I'm coming to pick you up >> and go where >> and do what you know cuz I I didn't even prepare at all. So all that falls under communication. So in as much as they are all important like you're saying you need chemistry with someone cuz it's someone you don't you can't laugh to their jokes >> make crack joke the best that he can ever so chemistry is as important as communication is producer No, it's not at gunpoint. We want both. Both have to be there. Yes. So, let's go to uh know your partner's full dating history or never ask about it. >> Never ask about it. Let bygon. >> Yeah. So, never ask about it. But at some point you can, but not that much. What if she the man is 1990 before >> maybe I'm a change? >> Wow. >> Okay. >> But but I prefer me I prefer Yeah. You here now. Yeah. I'd rather not know. Yeah. Yeah. True. So rather not. Plus also to add on that you both you have like good chemistry like you're vibing and then when you get to know about the person's past >> yeah so you end something that was really nice so >> just because you brought up the past. >> True. Yeah. All right, Mimi. I think if you want to talk about it, Sour, I I'm okay because at times people are hurt and they are they have traumas that maybe they've not healed from and maybe they they are still carrying the traumas. So, come you're okay with opening up and speaking to me about your past. Mimi, I'm very okay. I'm going to listen to you. One, I'll never judge you for what you've done because I have done worse. So, yeah. Um, I wouldn't judge anyone for what they've done, but I wouldn't force you again to talk to me about your past. If you're okay talking about it, go ahead and talk about it. If you want to bury it, watch. Yeah. So, it's all on you. I am in for if you want to talk about it or if you don't want to talk about it. >> Now, date someone extremely attractive but boring or average looking but hilarious. I love laughing, but but please hear me on this one. I'll I'll I'll I'll be the hilarious person. Let me just have you fine thing. Come over here. Yeah. >> All right. >> Yeah, >> Mark. >> I prefer having the average looking. >> Mhm. But it's okay. Oh my god. I'd rather have the hilarious one. Mhm. So, I'd rather have the hilarious one at some point. >> Mimi, I would go for I I am first attracted to how someone looks. >> So, it is very difficult for you to attract my attention if you're not good-looking. Like I might never even notice you. >> That is my problem. I might never even know you're there for a whole year and I've never like so >> at least but the average one would work if you're hilarious cuz me I'm a very serious person by the way. It's because we vibing. But I am out there people would >> really take me as that serious person. So I don't want a man that is also being taken as that serious man. relationships. So, yeah, I feel like the average one, as long as he's hilarious, we're good. >> You're good with it. >> Okay. >> Yep. Cuz me, I know I'm pretty, so we're going to use my little >> Yeah. So, let's go with um where is it? One soulmate for life or >> surely what? Anyway, let me just read it out. One soulmate for life or several great loves throughout your life. >> Just give me the one one soul. What are we even talking about here? >> What are we even talking about here? >> I'll be good with that one. >> Okay. >> Okay. Mark, hear me out. Okay. >> Maybe something happens, you guys break up, you find another one that you're so much in love forever. >> Mhm. >> Not an advocate for monogamy. Okay. All right. >> It's the whole point. The pastor that was talking to us about marriage, he needs advice more than us. >> He needs more advice. >> Hey, >> still I prefer having >> several. >> Several. >> Okay. Good for But as long as >> Yeah. Like ina another one comes in until you're old. >> It's not healthy by the way. >> Giving your heart to all those people. >> Yeah. It's not healthy by the way having that one person that understands you like. This is how I like this. It's not healthy. >> Anyways, he has decided it's your choice. >> It's all right. >> All right. Have a partner who is very romantic or financially responsible. >> Financially responsible. Oh my god. Why are you guys confusing me? Why Why are you doing this to me? Why? It's your question. >> Just answer to me. I'm saying okay like money all the time. Romantic, you know, slowly you'll get there soon. >> Yeah. Romantic. >> Yeah. They need someone like spoil. >> Interesting. >> Next time. >> All right. For me, I think Basha. >> Thank you. >> Money. >> Thank you. I'm a baby girl. Of course I need you to >> I did money comes like she has said I'll teach you. >> Thank you. >> Yeah. Don't worry. I got the other side. >> Money will come. Thank you. >> The other one will come. >> All right, let's go to Wow, I see we have just 9 minutes. So, date someone your family loves but you don't fully click with or someone you love but your family dislikes. Mom, dad, you know what your opinion? Yeah, we go with whatever the heart wants. >> So if you don't like her, that's their problem, not yours. >> All right, let's go to um another segment I see here that is called Kenya edition. Kenyan edition as we wind up. Yes. Matus everywhere for a year or bod everywhere for a year. >> Ba ba. >> Oh, okay. >> I I don't I don't know. But I just just being around like a lot of people. Get me out of here. Like no for me. Buddha. Like just places. Yeah. >> May you receive it in Jesus name. >> Amen. Hallelujah. >> Mark prefer expensive. >> Oh, is it >> expensive? >> The price like pain. >> Yeah. >> If you count probably >> but it's like 500. It's convenient, by the way. >> Both of them have their advantages and >> disadvantages. Every weekend or biryani every weekend? >> What are you even asking you guys? Yeah, I don't do that. So, I prefer protein. Are you even serious? Wow. Every weekend you are for life. >> All right, let's see. Chapati and beef stew orali. I love I know >> I know but I love don't even ask. >> Yeah, thank you >> all the way. Yes. So you're taking us out. The three of us order for them. Mimi, my love is chapari. So I can't cheat on chapari and forever. Yeah, but anyway night life or coast night life? >> I haven't experienced coast life. Night night life. I would love co cost night life. Night life. Yeah. Whatever. >> Yeah. >> You get me? Yeah. >> Preferenc. >> I want to experience it. >> Okay. >> One day. I'll go. One day. >> All right. Um, I think we got to put a stop at that cuz if we continue with the questions, we might go on and on and on and on. Oh, let me ask this as the last one. Always have power but no Wi-Fi or always have Wi-Fi but constant blackouts. >> Doesn't make sense. Okay. power. But hey, all the time. All the time. All the time. >> Wow. That's a very accusation. >> That's a very accusation. >> All right. Okay. Time has really gone. So, Phoebe, tell us um a few. No. Do we have time for remarks? Let me see. Uh yes, just a minute. >> How was it? Have you enjoyed it? Have you loved it? And where can we find you online? I've loved every single um episode >> we had in the morning up to now. I walked in here at like a different persona like like I have something I've carried something that I'm walking out with and I hope you also are walking out with something. It's not only me. >> Yeah. So see you next time. You can c catch me on all my social media platforms at Fibskila Mahali Instagram and Tik Tok. Facebook. Yeah. So, that's it. See you next time. Bye-bye. >> All right, Mark. I enjoy Basan. So you can follow me on IG. >> All right. Okay. Yes. So like you've been told it's not a lie. Okay. That's the same way we are here. Yes. We are represented. We are just showing you who we really are and how we really are. Yes. I was here in the morning. We had an amazing discussion about marriage and that as women we don't love. We don't give love. We have no love to give. So if you say I'm in love with this guy, I love this guy. To be you have nothing. You have no love to give. Go research on what are you really giving or those are emotions. Yeah. So make sure that you research and know what it is that you're really giving. M. Yeah. music and lifestyle IG and he told us where we can find him on all his socials guys and then like share and make sure that you follow and support our very own Kenyan artist and that people here But yes, we have loved the discussion. It has been amazing and beautiful. But that's it from me for today again next week. But do not go anywhere because we still have a lot of programs lined up for you. It's just it for us as the Y in the morning family. You can find us on all social media platforms at Y254 channel on all my socials. Eliza Kimmani. See you next time. Have yourself a beautiful and blessed day. Bye. >> Bye. Bye.