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Why Getting Hit by a Car Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me

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The speaker recounts a bizarre and traumatic event from about ten years ago when he was struck by a speeding Ford Fiesta after leaving the cinema where he had just seen *Batman v Superman*. Despite seeing the car approaching at speed, his instinctive reaction allowed him to jump onto its bonnet, roll over it, and break both the windscreen and the driver's side mirror. Although he suffered significant physical injuries including deep gashes, shoulder damage that still affects his range of motion today, and a concussion, the immediate pain was surprisingly muted due to adrenaline. The incident left him feeling guilty about damaging someone else's property, yet he maintains that as a human being, his life is more valuable than any mirror, even if it was particularly handsome. Following the accident, the trauma caused severe anxiety and physical limitations that forced the speaker to sell his successful game store business because he could no longer reach high shelves or handle the stress of management. This sudden loss initially felt devastating as he lost everything he had worked hard for, but ironically, it pushed him back into isolation where he resumed playing video games in his room. It was during this period of forced downtime that he rediscovered his passion for creating content online, eventually launching a new YouTube channel with the support of old friends who noticed his absence from social life. The legal battle against the driver dragged on for years involving frustrating court proceedings and lowball settlement offers, but ultimately resulted in compensation that provided financial freedom without forcing him into traditional employment he despised. The speaker argues that this chain of events created a profound "butterfly effect" shaped by his specific Ford Fiesta encounter, leading to life-saving outcomes such as avoiding an accidental terrorist attack at the shopping center where his former store was located. Had he not been forced out of business and into isolation earlier, he might have remained in that location when it eventually caught fire due to a car incident inside the mall. Beyond this narrow escape, the accident fundamentally reshaped his career path from running a retail shop to building an entire media empire based on gaming content, granting him autonomy over his time and work life. While acknowledging that getting hit by a vehicle is objectively terrible, he concludes that in hindsight, it was the best thing that ever happened because it forced him onto a different trajectory where he now enjoys creative freedom and financial stability without having to answer to an employer.
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Hey there friends. How's it going? Today I'm going to be telling you about the best thing that ever happened to me. Getting hit by a car and why you should do it too. Anyway, I got hit by a car about a decade ago now. Wow, how time flies. I had just gone to see Batman vs. Superman and at the time it seemed like the worst day of my life. And then I got hit by a car. For real. I actually was in the cinema seeing that movie and I came out and I got struck by a Ford Fiesta. It was a really weird moment like in time for me cuz I saw the car coming and I was already kind of across the road and they they were like coming speeding down the road and into a turn with a stop and they just kept going and in the moment you're kind of like a bit of a deer in headlights like Bambi. I'm pretty sure Bambi got hit by a Ford Fiesta if I remember right. I have a distinct memory of the headlights looking at me and just coming right at me. And I thought, okay, it's going to hit me. And I I don't actually remember thinking. I just reacted and kind of jumped and pushed down on the the bonnet of the car as it came towards me. It was probably looked really cool and heroic. So, I rolled up over the car. I hit the bonnet, hit the windscreen, I cracked the windscreen, rolled off the side of the car, and broke the mirror. Yeah, I might have got pretty messed up from it. But you should have seen the Fiesta. You know, they weren't going to be having many more Fiestas, I'll tell you that much. But I was horribly, horribly hurt. [laughter] You know, it hit pretty hard. Ford Fiesta. Small car. I thought I could take it, but it's just out of my my weight class. How much does a Ford Fiesta weigh? About 1,000 kg. I'm about 90. So yeah, I'm nearly onetenth Ford Fiesta. Actually, I thought I was 100% Irish. I took a DNA test. I actually took two two DNA kits. Uh but I guess they were wrong. The funny thing is is like I was lying on the ground after being hit by the car. I wasn't I wasn't able to move my arms too much, but I I didn't actually feel too much in pain. So yeah, that's pretty funny, right? >> [laughter] >> No, I don't know why, but in my head I was thinking someone was going to get out of this car cuz they did drive up a bit and then stop and they were getting out and I thought they were going to be like in shock, but he just got out and started screaming at me and I was like, "Why are you running in front of my car? Look at my mirror." And he was like showing me his mirror that was dangling on by a wire. This for him should have been a big moment for reflection, but unfortunately I broke the guy's mirror, so I stole that from him, too. I still feel guilty to this day. >> I saw a little bit of myself in that mirror. >> So, I did feel bad about the mirror, but at the same time, I'm a human person, >> and my existence should be valued a little bit more than a mirror. No matter how handsome that mirror was. >> Luckily, three of my good friends were there with me. I think at least one of them thought I was dead. [laughter] they were able to come over and kind of talk down the other person and talk some sense into me because I was like, I don't need an ambulance. I'll walk it off. It's just a flesh wound. [laughter] But I I do remember I I didn't feel that much pain, you know? The adrenaline is a crazy drug. I just remember the guy shouting at me and I was like, "What are you talking about? You ran a stop." And I looked over at the stop and then he continued yelling and I was just like, "Nah, go away." [laughter] And then I was whisked away in an ambulance up to the hospital where I had to wait for hours and hours and hours for seemingly no reason. I got some scans done. I told the nurses what happened. One of the nurses was like, "Wow, you sound like a stunt man." And I was like, "Yeah, I don't think a stunt man is this messed up after they do their stunts." If you told me lying in that hospital bed that this would eventually lead to my dream career, I'd have assumed the concussion was worse than we had thought. and I was likely going to die. Hospital wasn't actually the part that changed my life. Oh, no, no, no. No hospital can fix me. I had quite a nasty gash here and a lot of pain. My shoulders couldn't really move outward or upward. I still feel that when I do that, I still feel it in my shoulder. A bit of my jaw got messed up. I got slightly different jaw lines because of it. At the time, I didn't believe him, but the doctor said, "Oh, you would have been better off if you did break stuff rather than the soft tissue damage and stuff because it generally is harder to to heal or it takes longer or something." And I was like, "You lying fuck." And I put him in his pers. [laughter] I just was thinking at the time, "No, I'm glad I didn't break stuff." [music] But in hindsight, I get what he means. It's not that bad, but I get like random bouts and like certain angles aren't great. Uh, so yeah, [music] that's why getting hit by a car was the best thing that ever happened to me. Like and subscribe. Future Kevin here, and I am so sorry to interrupt. This next part will seem like an off-topic ramble, but it is highly relevant, okay? Especially when we get to the accidental terrorist attack, but we'll get to that later. I'm just saying pay attention, but also pay attention to your surroundings, okay? Keep your eye out for any Ford Fiestas. At the time I was running a game store. I sold like uh used games. We traded them and and like electronics and phones and stuff like that as well. And I owned and managed this store. The store was doing fine. It wasn't doing amazing. I was earning a modest living which I was quite happy with cuz I was doing my own thing on my own time and I like that. But then I couldn't reach shelves higher than about here of which there were a lot of them. And also I was quite uh just drained from the whole thing. I found uh everything more draining and a lot of like anxiety I guess after it. One time I was walking down the street and a just an old lady came out of a lingerette unexpectedly and I was just in my heart I went [laughter] I was so jumpy you know. Long story short, I can make this short story long if you want to hear more about that whole side of things, but I had to sell the store. Uh I couldn't afford to pay someone like a manager's wage. And honestly, there was an opportunity to sell and I took it and I got out at the business. It was a tough business, you know, to try and to try and build up and uh a lot of ongoing things, [music] you know, the staff and incidents, random stuff, random stresses, people screaming for no reason. It was a massive relief to get that stress off my shoulders, but at the same time, it really sucked to lose everything I had worked so hard on and so suddenly because a Ford Fiesta shaped sledgehammer came in swinging. So once I sold the store, I did the only thing I knew how. I stayed in my room playing video games and then making videos of them and posting them on the internet. It is quite ironic that a lot of the motivation for getting this store was to get out into the real world and stop being alone in my room all the time. Like I grew up in the countryside [music] alone all the time and then I moved out as soon as I turned 18 to a different country. Didn't really make any friends cuz I was just staying at home all the time. And then I got the store and things were getting good. I was getting social. I was hanging out with people like [music] many evenings a week. It was really cool. And then you should have moved >> and I'm back in my room playing games. I was still running the store. I was doing videos here and there in my spare time. And I was also like trying to rehab all these injuries and go pay specialists and see this person and that person which were not being covered by anyone. I had to pay out of my own pocket which was an absolute joke to be honest with you. In Ireland, they have a thing called the personal injuries assessment board. And at the time, anyway, you literally had to go through their process before you could try to sue someone, which in this case would be the guy's insuranceing company. I think that process is a year and they're going to lowball you and you get nothing in the meantime. So, it's just a waste of time, frankly. And while that's all going on, this guy's getting charged in the criminal court for dangerous driving. That's one tier up. He leveled up from reckless to dangerous. [laughter] I did that so long ago. And the court case, oh my lord, it was so frustrating. We this old Irish judge who was just giving people nothing but a slap on the wrist. And this man who hit me with his vehicle, was refusing to take any accountability. Didn't say anything to me about what had happened. Didn't seem to have any sympathy. He was probably still thinking about his mirror. [laughter] He was looking into it like such a beautiful, beautiful mirror, staring at his own reflection. This mirror is gorgeous. as everyone in the courtroom watched CZTV footage of me getting hit by a car and watching this guy just drive straight into me and passed the stop, no brake lights, and trying to tell everyone that he was breaking. As the guard was pointing at it, going, "So, you're saying you were breaking, but your brake lights aren't on?" So, miraculously, both of them must have broken at the same time. And the guy's like, "Yes. Apparently, that's good enough for the judge. He's like, "Okay, well, that could simply be AI, even though AI hasn't been invented yet." >> So, the guy pleads not guilty to everything. Like, not even reckless. He was still like, "That guy ran in front of my car. He's a bad man." I'm paraphrasing. I had to go up to the stand first and tell my side. And I feel like I was quite obviously I have bias in the whole thing and it's my perspective, but I think I was quite objective. But then this guy gets up, lies his ass off, and I don't get another chance to say anything. The judge just kind of splits the difference and says, "Okay, you're guilty of reckless driving, but not dangerous driving." I believe in a criminal case, you need 99% certainty, and in a civil case, you just need 51% certainty. And after another god knows how long, I think like two years of going by of going to doctors all the time for these checkups. I had to go to their doctor who was an absolute ass. He just grabbed my arm one time and yanked it up. I don't know. [laughter] I don't know. Is he trying to catch me out? And I'd just be like, "Ow." Or [laughter] something. He was just an ass. We end up in court and uh it's it's so weird. I've been in court a few times now. Long story. I can go into it someday if you want me to. I was insistent on not settling because it was incredibly low. One of my friends at the time was like, "Oh, at least now you'll be like a millionaire." And I was like, "Dude, th this ain't America. This this is Ireland." I was quite fortunate. I could get by in the meantime. I had like a really really good living situation because I think other people would be forced into a position where they have to settle immediately for a super low amount because how the hell are you supposed to live in the meantime otherwise? But yeah, I got that bag. So, it's it's quite a good financial investment in yourself to get hit by a car and that's why it's the best thing that [laughter] it was not worth it. Trust me. probably thinking, "How is this good from everything I've said?" Well, first of all, it's pretty funny. And second of all, [laughter] there are butterfly effects. Butterfly effect in the shape of a Ford Fiesta. The most obvious, I suppose, is having this YouTube channel. I did mention I did YouTube beforehand, but I started again. I I posted a little video on my old channel, like, oh, made a new channel. I just want to kind of start fresh. Um, [music] I had like 400,000 subscribers, I think, and I got like 8,000 on the new channel cuz the channel was pretty dead. So, it was cool that I I had some very supportive people [music] that that came over from there. And I still bump into people like in real life who watch me from that long ago, which is nuts. So crazy. It's literally half my life away at this point. I'm 32. I started YouTube when I was 16. >> Because he's dead. I killed him and he's dead in the room. Anyway, back to the Butter for effect. >> The weirdest thing that I avoided, I think, uh, the shop was in a shopping center. Okay. And this shopping center in unfortunately had some incidents. The biggest one was an accidental terrorist attack on the shopping center, which shut down the whole thing. some person was driving their car and the car started smoking and they thought to themselves, "I should probably pull in and get help." So, they drove into the shopping center, which had no outdoor parking, and parked their car and then went down inside the shopping center to ask for help. Now, unfortunately, where there's smoke, there's fire. And a fire started. A big fire started. It spread to the cars next to it. This car park was multiple stories high and once a few cars caught fire, the whole parking lot caught fire. So that woman basically probably was going out for a shopping and then had to go home to her family and say, "Well, guys, I accidentally blew up the shopping center." That's one of those days. The hell? I went I went to Google it to to see like some more details and there was another one in 2025. And then of course you got the pandemic and all that like there is an alternate universe Kevin who is lucky enough to not have seen Batman vs Superman but his life just went out of control and the shop stuff you know it sucked but I learned a lot from that. Uh it started me investing in some stuff which was cool. Uh thinking about the more long-term stuff. I just think that alternate Kevin would have happily chipped away at that store and probably you know be okay with that. I just like having my own freedom and and like be on my own time. Um, and my attention span isn't that good. So, I don't work so good. [laughter] I got to work my own way. I have never worked an actual job. I've only worked for myself. Oh, and I hate my boss. This whole YouTube [music] thing has been my life. Literally half of my life. I'm like so thankful I get to do this to this day. Got to take the bad with the good, the good with the bad. And that's what it's all about. I suppose it may not be technically the best thing that ever happened to me, but it sure sucks a lot less to think of it that way. I think it just forced me onto [music] a different path. And given all I had gone through and everything I would have to sacrifice to start over, I don't really see myself doing it unless I get hit by a Ford Fiesta. And yes, it has to be a Ford Fiesta. If it was any other car, no deal. Ireland, get your together when it comes to people getting hurt, okay? or else I'm gonna call that woman from the the shopping center fire. You know, [laughter] that's not a bomb threat. Just just so we're clear. All right, that's a joke. I'd be interested to hear about your stories if you got anything like that that at the time sucked. Maybe I don't know, you drove a burning car into a shopping center and things just got out of hand. I'd love to hear what happened in your life that may have seemed rough and turned around and in hindsight you're like, "Damn, I'm so glad that happened." And it's kind of terrifying to think about if it didn't. [laughter] I hope you enjoyed this story. And let me know if you want to hear more. I got lots of stories, man. I do some weird stuff. I get in some weird situations. I don't know how cuz I feel like I don't leave my room that much. But anyway, thanks for watching. I hope you enjoyed and I hope to see you next time. Bye for now.