Why Building Streams Of Income Is Spiritual | The Glory Hour
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Karen Shatline redefines the role of a Chief Executive Officer not merely as a business title but as a woman who has found deep alignment with God, rising above doubt to nurture her family while maintaining success, passion in marriage, strength, peace, and purpose. She emphasizes that this state is not an arrival point but a constant, intentional pursuit of growth where women should compete only against their past selves rather than others within rigid boxes. Shatline shares how she initially felt torn between business and ministry due to the toxic belief that these paths were mutually exclusive, until God spoke during a beach encounter about being both "priest and king," empowering her to launch businesses while continuing evangelism without feeling incomplete in either role.
Central to this vision is the understanding that believers are stewards of their finances who should create multiple streams of income—at least four—to fund the kingdom and avoid scarcity, drawing inspiration from Lydia in Acts who used her business for ministry impact without abandoning it. Shatline advises women not to wait for opportunities but to build them when they do not fit existing structures, utilizing diverse experiences instead of competing within predefined categories. She illustrates prioritizing family legacy over professional obligations through the "10-year rule," which involves evaluating decisions based on their long-term impact on marriage and children, such as canceling a speaking engagement to attend her daughter's baseball game.
The discussion concludes with Shatline sharing how God supernaturally healed her of leukemia, reinforcing that true ministry is about leading people to Jesus rather than personal achievement or status. She encourages women to embrace change, listen for the quiet "whisper" of God in daily decisions, and lay their brokenness on the altar to become a mosaic reflecting His glory. Ultimately, she calls believers to leave a legacy where they have done all that God called them to do so others can die with nothing left but love for Him, transforming personal struggles into a reflection of divine purpose.
The segment ends with Karen directing viewers to chemovement.com to access resources related to her ministry and the CEO movement, where women gather in table communities to empower one another through Jesus' love. She expresses deep gratitude for being invited to speak on this topic, noting it was an honor and pleasure to share these insights during The Glory Hour, inviting others to join a community dedicated to spiritual growth and business excellence intertwined with faith.
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Can you really define what a CEO is?
>> Yes, absolutely. A CEO is for that woman
who [music] has doubted her voice, who
has felt like, you know, she has so much
inside of her, but [music] she doesn't
doesn't know how to get it out there.
So, a CEO is that woman who has found
alignment with God. In all of that
struggle, she has rose above it. And she
has found alignment and rhythm with
heaven and with God. And she understands
that she can nurture her family and she
can be successful. She can have passion
in her marriage [music] and she can
still be strong.
Hey, Glory family. I want you to sit and
ponder on this phrase just for a moment.
Lead boldly, love deeply, and leave a
legacy. That's the heart behind the CEO
movement created and founded by Karen
Shhatline. Karen is an international
evangelist, author, public speaker,
entrepreneur, wife, mother, and Gigi
grandmother who is on a mission to
encourage, empower, and equip women to
lead from all walks of life. Karen, it
is an absolute joy to have you on the
Glory Hour today.
>> It is my honor to be here. I've been so
looking forward to spending this time
with you and just getting to share and
awaken and empower women. So, thank you
for having me on.
>> Oh, you're so welcome. And I've been
looking forward to this time, too,
because you have written and created a
incredible devotional, the CEO Movement
about becoming a CEO. We're going to
dive into all of that. And before I we
dive into it, I know a lot of people
from the Cornerstone Television Network
family are familiar with you because
you're a big part of our family. You and
your husband Pat and all the work that
you do for the kingdom of God. So, it is
an honor to see you again.
>> Thank you so much. And you know, we have
been traveling like crazy. So, when I
got the invitation, I was just like,
"Okay, I've got to clear my schedules
because I want to be able to be on this
show and just uh just spend time with
you." So, thank you again.
>> A that really means a lot, Carrot. So,
thank you for making space and room in
your schedule just to be with us here on
the Glory Hour. It truly truly means a
lot. And so without further ado, want to
like get into this because I know you
have so much that is inside of you. So
much that God has done in your life and
the way that he's led you and he's
guided you in all facets and arenas of
every sphere of like what you've been
called to do. So can you just share a
little bit about how God birthed this in
your spirit and put the CEO movement
into your heart?
>> Absolutely. Well, it really did start
several years ago. uh my husband and I
were a part of a business that we you
know made it to the top of the company
you know were on the leadership team and
all throughout our uh teams that we had
a part with us I noticed there was a lot
of women who were struggling to find a
place a seat at the table they were
struggling to find you know step into
their calling they felt insignificant
they felt like their voice didn't matter
they felt like they weren't educated
enough or they were a little too much or
[laughter] you know so they were just
looking for answers and looking for a
community of women that wouldn't compete
with them but would actually link arms
with them to help them rise higher. So I
actually it was about five years ago I
just started a community within our
business for those women and I realized
something really important. It's hard
for women to find real relationships and
it's hard for them to find relationships
with women who uh women are just so
competitive and so people don't realize
that but they're so competitive and they
feel like they can't rise without
pushing someone else down and so or
missing their moment. So I just started
training and mentoring women on how we
can win together. And so and out of that
just over the years about a year year
and a half ago I just started writing
devotions and sharing those with women.
And out of it one morning I just woke up
and I the Holy Spirit just spoke to me
and said, "Karen, this is a book and
this is a book that needs to be in the
hand of every single woman." And that's
just kind of how I walked into the
kitchen and I looked at my husband and
probably getting ready for another trip
and I just said, "I just need to tell
you something." I said, "I've just
finished a book." [laughter]
And he was like, "What? I didn't even
know you were writing a book." And I
said, "Well, it just kind of
accidentally happened, but I'm ready to
get it out there to the world."
>> Well, it's so beautiful. Thank you for
your obedience because I was able to go
through it in the devotional of becoming
a CEO and it just dropped so much
illumination light wisdom of certain the
tension that I've been you know
experiencing in my own life you know as
a lot of women there's a lot of
different roles a lot of different hats
that we wear and something that you said
Karen that is so so true the competition
that we experience with women that is so
sad so I was just really grateful to
read and to dive in and just what it did
in my spirit and my heart and so can you
really define what a CEO is.
>> Yes, absolutely. A CEO is for that woman
who has doubted her voice, who has felt
like, you know, she has so much inside
of her, but she doesn't doesn't know how
to get it out there. So, a CEO is that
woman who has found alignment with God.
In all of that struggle, she has rose
above it and she has found alignment and
rhythm with heaven and with God. And she
understands that she can nurture her
family and she can be successful. She
can have passion in her marriage and she
can still be strong and she can be fully
present and also have peace and purpose
in her life. And that's it's not
something that just happens. It's not
something that you arrive at because
it's a constant uh intentional
life that you have to live. And that's
where a lot of women I think uh they
miss what being a CEO is is because they
have this concept that it's either I've
arrived or I don't know what I'm doing.
And it's a constant every single morning
walking with intention, not perfection.
Uh I found that my pursuit of perfection
in my life left me empty, longing,
disappointed and all of those things.
But when I realized that God never
demanded perfection, only pursuit of
him. And so when we are living our life
in constant pursuit of him,
intentionally
becoming, growing every single day,
don't stop being a a learner. Don't stop
being someone who is chasing after
becoming more, you know, but not in
competition with someone else. So, the
only person I'm in competition with is
the woman I see in the mirror every
single morning because I want to be at
least 1% better than I was yesterday.
And so, and I'm not competing with every
anyone. I'm wanting to train my daughter
to understand that God has placed more
than one gift inside of her, more than
one talent, more than one ability. She
has the ability to literally find her
identity in Christ and leave a legacy
that will outlive her for generations.
>> Oh, I love this so much, Karen. It's so
so good. And that quote from your book,
it says, "Let go of the pressure to
perform and lean into the divine truth
of who you are." are. I just love that
point of leaning into the divine truth
of who Christ is and that's where we
find our identity. That's where we find
our soulless. That's where we find our
peace. And you know, Karen, as you're
just sharing this, can you just take us
a little bit into your story of how you
arrived at this point and just realized
like this is who God is calling me to
be?
>> Absolutely. Uh all grow the time I was
growing up, I felt called into business.
Um, but I loved God with all my heart
and I knew at some point I was also
called into ministry. And so I pursued
business and then when I met my husband,
he was of course in full-time ministry
and we got married and went into
full-time ministry. But there's so many
preconceived ideas out there. um whether
it's told to you, whether you're taught
that or whether you just think it, you
know, toxic mindsets of your own.
There's this preconceived idea that if
you are in business, then you're not in
ministry. And if you're in ministry, you
don't pursue business. That they don't
go hand inand. But my husband and I
actually do teachings on how we are
called to be both priest and king. that
we are called to uh lead our family to
the altar for encounters with God, but
we're also called to leave an
inheritance, a legacy that outlives us.
So, when we got married, I put all the
business on hold. I just kind of gave
that side of myself up because I thought
that's what God wanted from me. And then
as I grew and as we were in ministry, I
travel, I speak alongside my husband,
we've pastored churches, we've youth
pastored, we're evangelists, full-time
evangelists and authors. But there was
always that longing, something I knew
God had placed inside of me. And you
know, my husband and I about I think it
was probably 11 years ago awakened to we
had an encounter on the beach where God
spoke to my husband about being both
priest and king. and we uh went into
business and exploded that business and
uh several businesses since, all while
still serving God, never letting our
foot off the gas in ministry. And it
awakened something inside of me that I
felt like was missing all of those
years. It was like a missing puzzle
piece that I gave up. Like, you know,
you put a puzzle together and there's
always that one piece you can't find and
it's like under the table or something,
you know? And I thought that's how I
always felt like there was this little
piece that was missing inside of me that
and when we stepped into min or business
it was like the puzzle was complete and
it just exploded. And then I found that
not only am I called to minister the
gospel and the love of God but I'm also
called to awaken women to becoming more
which is a ministry in itself. And so
that's when I just started mentoring
women and you know helping them walk
through that and getting rid of those
toxic mindsets. And you know in a world
right now where there's all this uh you
know discrepancy over women whether
women should be doing this or women
should be doing that. I say you do
whatever God calls you to do. And if
he's called you to do it, he's equipped
you for it. And there will be a u an
avenue for you to get there. I love that
so so much because I think you know
Karen there's this like uh tension um
just even when you were like sharing
about your story with you and your
husband of like you yes you're in
full-time ministry you're evangelist
you're speaking you're writing books but
there was this place of marketplace of
business that was deep inside your heart
and I loved how you said it was like the
missing puzzle p piece and you felt so
complete and I think I have
conversations with my girlfriends it's
the same thing of you know feeling
sometimes I don't I don't know it's like
the Christian culture kind of puts us in
this place of like I have to do one or
the other, but there's room for it all.
There's room for I don't say even both,
but like whatever God is calling you to.
And I just love how you know your
example, your life is an example of that
of just living for God and just going
where he's calling you to go and
stepping out into the deep. And I love
you guys had an encounter on the beach.
[laughter]
>> Yes.
>> Well, and that's just it. We were
actually on the beach and uh God just
began speaking to my husband first
number one about taking his health back
and then and we both did at that point.
We both got healthy. Uh he lost 72
pounds. I lost close to 30 pounds and
started realizing that our bodies are a
temple. And if God has called us to run
a race, then he's called us to run it
strong. And so I think, you know, that's
one thing in the body of Christ that I
think we miss a lot of times is that,
you know, we take care of everybody
else, but we don't really take care of
ourselves and, you know, we put
ourselves last. So, we took back our
health and then God showed him that he
didn't call us to die for the church
because he already died for the church.
And so, we could we don't have to live
in a constant state of scarcity and lack
all the time. we can go out and create
streams of income. And you know, I
remember one time we were traveling, we
were flying and we were so exhausted. We
had been backtoback events. This was
before we did uh business and we were so
exhausted and we were on the plane just
sitting there and my husband leaned over
to me and he said God spoke to him and
said, you know, we constantly, you know,
pray in ministry for a benefactor for
our ministry. someone ought to come
along, you know, and just, you know, sew
into this ministry. And he was praying,
God, send us a benefactor so we won't
have to work, you know, so hard. And God
literally spoke to him and said, I'm
trying to make you the benefactor. I'm
trying to make you the one that is going
to fuel this mission that I've given
you. And in that moment, you know, God
brought businesses, you know, to us and,
you know, we've started several
businesses and come to find out, you
know, we realized that if all you do is
ministry and you never get out there
among the people, among, you know,
business, among, you know, the people
that are out there, ministry can make
you weird, you know? I mean, it can just
make you where your own little bubble
where you can't even relate to people.
all you talk is Christianes talk and all
you do is you know all of these
different things when God has called us
to minister to everyone we come in
contact with whether you're on a plane
whether you're at the grocery store
whether you're at the gym working out
you are a mobile upper room and we put
ourselves in this little box and we say
well we're ministers so that just means
we are tied to just the four walls of
the church and that's just not the case
we are called to go out into the world,
but we're also called to raise up and
leave a legacy for the next generation,
an inheritance for the next generation.
And so, and to, you know, to go out
there and minister to those that are
creating jobs, who are, you know, doing
all of these different things. So, I
think for so long I had such a distorted
view of what real ministry was and I
feel like God's awakened us to the fact
that we're called for so much more than
what we have settled for.
>> Karen, I'm over here going like, "Amen.
Hallelujah. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes."
because this is literally what I've been
I guess I've been feeling and you know I
talked in my quiet time to God and just
also to my friends as well is that very
thing like I love how you were just very
transparent and real that you know
sometimes it's like yes ministry is a
very it's a beautiful thing but if
you're honest say you're stuck inside
that bubble for so long you become weird
you speak Christian ease and you don't
even relate to the people like you we're
supposed to be out in the world you know
what I mean to being salt and light and
we just turn people off because we're
just so out of touch of what's happening
and what's going on. And I just love
what you're you're saying and it just is
beckoning us to like, you know, go to
God and to like seek him um and to see
where he's calling us and lead us to go.
There's two like quotes that you had
that were like nuggets um that I really
feel this is like your life is embodies
this and this is where it comes from is
you said you don't wait for doors you
build your own was such a good point and
also I love you say that true capacity
doesn't come from how much you do it
comes from how closely you walk with God
>> right right and that statement about you
don't wait for doors you build them it
came from because I felt bike for so
many years. I didn't fit at any table. I
just there was not a table that I felt
like I fit at. I didn't fit at the just
the mom table. I didn't fit at just
minister table. I didn't fit at, you
know, the business table. And there was
so much competition in all those realms.
And you know, I just I came to the point
where I said, if I can't find a table to
sit at, then I'm just going to pick up a
hammer and some wood and I'm going to
build my own going to build my own
table. And I'm just going to invite
every woman I know to come sit at that
table with me to let them know there's a
place here. There's an invitation for
you here. You don't have to fit into a
certain box to fit at this table. We're
welcoming your giftings. We're welcoming
your your talents. for welcoming, you
know, that, you know, place in you for
you to come so that we can glean all we
can from each other but duplicate no one
because we are called to be who God
called us to be. But there's things that
I can learn from you. There's things I
can learn from the woman at Walmart.
There's things I can learn from the
pediatrician. There's things I can learn
from all these women who are in all
these different walks of life. I don't
want to become her, but I want to learn
from her life. and I want to learn the
things that she's walked through and the
things that she's overcome. And then I
want to share the things I've walked
through and the things I've overcome so
people can learn from me. And so, you
know, that's what the true Titus to, you
know, uh, command is for us to train up
the next generation. It's not just
talking about in, you know, purity and,
you know, homemaking and, you know, all
of those things. It's so we can glean
from each other and grow into who God's
called us to be in every area of our
life.
>> Oh, this is Karen. I'm just like, I'm
sitting in this. I'm sitting in this.
This is so so good because, you know, I
I feel the similar that it's like in my
own world, and my own life is that, you
know, I didn't feel like comfortable at
certain tables. Like I didn't I didn't
fit in, especially with the Christian
like models like like I don't fit into
this. I have, you know, different
experiences sometime. And I love how you
said you, you know, God like really put
it into your heart as like I'm just
going to build a table, but I'm going to
invite other women to come and sit there
of all different walks of life. Doesn't
matter Walmart or if they, you know,
their pediatrician like we can all lean
and glean from each other. And that is
such an important thing. And the other
thing that I know you mentioned in your
devotional becoming a CEO is that these
modernday Lydia that was really
powerful. Can you dive into that of like
what God's calling us in this season?
Absolutely. Because I think about women
like her and I talk about different
women and I've got a part two to that
book that's coming and then another book
for women in the second phase of life.
But uh I love talking about Lydia
because so many people, you know, and
I'll just say it, you know, there's
people that say women shouldn't preach,
women shouldn't, you know, all this
stuff. Well, that's not what the Bible
says. And you know, the Bible uses women
all the time because Lydia, I mean, she
was a dealer in purple cloth, the most
expensive material there was in her day.
She dealt with highlevel, high income,
high influence people all the time, and
she invited them into her home. What I
love about her, it fascinates me is
because when she encountered Jesus,
when she had her conversion moment,
Jesus did not ask her to give up her
business once she met him. He actually
used her business and she opened her
home and she operated in excellence. She
operated, you know, in selling
necessities to people. She served. She
did all of those things. But God didn't
abandon ask her to abandon who she was
in that business realm just because she
was entering into that ministry realm.
And you know what I love is that
she actually started one of the first
house churches in Philippi. I mean she
was like she was literally a pastor
pastoring these people that were coming
into her home. She was very, you know,
abundant and giving and supporting and
all of those things. And we are called
to be modernday Lydia. We can create a
stream of income. Actually, we do a
teaching on we actually should have four
streams of income. There were four
streams in the garden. There was water
going out in every direction. God's
calling us to have at least four streams
of income. And we should be because I
mean we learn during different things
like COVID and the world shuts down and
all that. You need to be uh having
different streams so that when one dries
up you've got this other over here. So
we actually teach people that you need
to be pursuing different things. My
husband and I have several different
businesses and you know at different
times we focus on one more than the
other but we are called to be Lydia's
that will all always be creating wealth
so that we can fund the kingdom. I think
when we are given our business one thing
that we need to understand in business
is that our business is not our own. It
belongs to God. God gave it to us and we
are only stewards of what he has given
us. Just like we are stewards in our
marriage, we are stewards of the
children that God gives us. We are to
steward them well. We are stewards in
ministry and over the lives of people.
And just the same as we are in those
areas, we are stewards of the financial
responsibility of businesses. We're
stewards of the people who work with us,
our partners in business. We're stewards
of the finances that come in to that
business. And we are stewards in that
whatever business we are doing it should
be making kingdom impact. If you are
dealing in oil and gas you know we live
in Texas so I mean there's a lot of oil
and gas. If you're in oil and gas
whatever you're doing in that business
should be advancing the kingdom and you
should be giving and advancing the
kingdom with that. You should be
stewarding and leading your employees
and your uh partners in your businesses.
you know whether you are working in food
service that is a steward you are
stewarding that and you should be having
kingdom impact in some way and so that's
what I think we can take away from Lydia
is that I think we need to stop
apologizing
for walking in excellence stop
apologizing
for growing wealth stop apologizing for
being strong and walking in a place of
authority and abundance. And so I think
that that is very important.
>> Yeah. I I love this of like it's so
important for us to like um walking in
our authority, understanding God has
given us creativity, understanding that
he's giving us different desires and
dreams and gifts that, you know, we can
go out into the world and to be make a
kingdom impact. And I love what you
brought up about the four streams,
having at least four streams. This is
something um in my family when I was
raised that's what I was taught about
having different streams of income. Um I
came from my father was an is was an
entrepreneur. He had his own business.
Um so like I grew up under that and then
I have an uncle. He's out in California
and he inspires me. I mean this I mean
I'm half Jamaican too Karen so it's like
a joke that Jamaicans have like multiple
jobs [laughter]
but like but he has multi I mean he's
he's a teacher. He has a tutoring
center. there's these different things
where he has these multiple streams and
I think it's so important that we grab
hold of it and also you know um it's a
it's a kingdom con it's a kingdom
concept but also you look at what's
transpiring in our world and in our
economy like you mentioned how you and
your husband had to pivot and you know
focus on different things and making
streams when you we have things that are
hitting our economy like the pandemic
and even things that we see going on now
and with AI I mean these it's God
there's so many things in his word that
he instructs us points us to he's like,
"Hey, this is wisdom because I don't
want you to be behind or fall behind and
you know, he doesn't want us to be
without." So, I I just love that so much
of like pointing us in that direction.
>> Yeah. Because even during, you know, the
pandemic, you know, because we were
full-time evangelists and so we traveled
and spoke and that's how we lived. And
so when we were because we did have
businesses when the world shut down our
calendar was filled for two years like
just two years out and in one day in one
afternoon completely gone because no one
was traveling no one was you know every
the doors were shut to everything but we
still had a business and that because of
that we never skipped a beat. And so,
you know, I think, you know, God wants
to awaken you to dreams. And I think
sometimes people think, well, I don't
know what to do in business. I don't
know where to. But I believe God is a
creative God. He created the universe.
He breathed life into man. He created
life. And out of that, I think when he
created us, he created us to be
creative.
>> Yeah.
>> And so, and usually I tell women all the
time when I'm mentoring them, I'm like,
"What do you enjoy? What is it that
you're good at? You might be good at
decorating. Well, have you ever thought
of going into, you know, something to do
with that? You might be good at, you
know, um, you know, cooking. Have you
ever thought about, you know, creating
something out of that? There's always
something. There's every person has
gifts. Every person has abilities. It's
just maybe we haven't cultivated them
yet. And so there's always whe your
hobbies are usually something that could
turn into a business. I love uh
decorating. I love, you know, all things
that my husband and I flipped luxury
homes for a while because we just love
doing it. He loved working with his
hands during the pandemic. We actually
flipped houses because we love that sort
of thing. And I found that I had a an
ability to, you know, furnish and to
stage houses and and then I found out I
loved uh refurbishing antique furniture.
And so I, you know, have a thing where I
do furniture and people are like, "How
do you even have time to do that?" That
is more like a like a escape for me
because it's just I enjoy it. And then I
flip reclaimed, you know, reclaimed
treasures and, you know, help people,
you know, give them another home. And so
I think when we look at that, women need
to understand there are things that
you're doing on a daily basis that you
could actually create a stream of
income. And you know, no idea is too
small. And you know, and I think that's
what I talk about in the book. I take
women all the way from identity to
spiritual growth to vision and dreams
and leadership and growing internal, you
know, theirelves all the way to leaving
a legacy. So, the goal wasn't just to
have a fun little devotion. Like, I tell
women all the time when I encourage them
to get the book, I say, "Now, this isn't
a feel-good coffee table book." I said,
"You're gonna probably get mad at me at
some point in the book. you know, you're
going to be think that I'm pushing you
or I'm, you know, something. But this is
a book to challenge you, to cause you to
start thinking bigger, to start to think
and not just about money. This isn't
about money. This is about impact. And
it's, you know, you are called to make
impact in the world, impact on people's
lives. And so I want women to first find
their identity in Christ as a daughter
of God because everything else flows out
of that. I tell uh women all the time I
cannot uh separate my success from my uh
faith because it is because of my faith
that I am successful. And the minute I
lay that down, walk away from integrity,
walk away from the daily encounters,
that's the moment I'm going to lose
myself. And so I have to intentionally
be pursuing God, listening for the
whisper, pursuing uh my family,
nurturing my kids, my grandkids. Like
you said, I'm a Gigi. I don't want to be
called grandma. That sounds old. So I'm
a GI. And so, but I also am passionately
in love with my husband and we nurture
that relationship. And so I think if we
will prioritize the things that need to
be prioritized in the season that we're
in, God will bless the next season when
the door opens.
>> Oh, I love that. I love that so much
because there's like these as I'm
looking through my notes, I because even
what Karen was saying with the
devotional stretching you, oh y'all, I
got stretched like I it was like I
didn't know I needed it and the moment
it was pricking me and stretching me,
but it was also giving revelation. And I
do want to say this as you mentioned
about like um how you like designing
because I did notice I was like, "Oh, I
could tell you have an interior design
touch." And so when you were talking
about flipping homes and staging, I can
totally see that based off of your your
background. And one thing um that that
really hit my heart and my spirit that
it
>> and um because I've just been walking
through a transition season where God is
birthing things in me. I have like
writing things down, things I'm pursuing
is this thing of stretching between
roles and responsibility. I didn't
realize like I um when I was going
through your devotional becoming a CEO,
it hit me like last night. This is like
fresh off the press my spirit that I was
like, "Oh my gosh, I'm being stretched."
And I thought I was trying to fit in
this place or that place, but what you
were sharing about the stretching really
impacted me and understanding even the
flow of the stretching that I don't have
to put myself in a box. It's just God is
giving me greater capacity, but it's
through that time of his presence and
what he wants me to do.
>> Absolutely. And I think sometimes we're
also afraid to let go of things that
worked yesterday. And you know, or
things that made us feel like we were
doing what we were supposed to do
yesterday. One of my favorite statements
is I am learning to love the sound of my
feet walking away from those things that
no longer serve my purpose
>> and my future. And that was difficult
for me because I am a creature of habit.
I like routine. I like for everything to
fit neatly into its little place. And
you know I don't like change. And you
know I had to change my mindset on that
because there were some things it
doesn't mean they were bad. It just
meant they don't fit this season
anymore. And if you have to let go, let
go. If you have to start over, start
over. You know, we always say is that
everyone deserves a chapter 2 in their
life. And you know, everyone deserves to
be able to step into a new season. And
we have to stop comparing our chapter 1
in this part of our life to someone
else's chapter 20. You know, it took
them perseverance. It took
determination. It took them contending
every day and putting in the action
steps to become who they are. And we
can't just all of a sudden say, "Well, I
want to be where they're at without
walking through the things that they
walk through to get there." But what I
can do is if I'm in a chapter 20 of my
life, I can share with other women some
of the pitfalls and some of the things
they can avoid to get there a little bit
quicker. And so, you know, the things
that I had to learn through mistakes,
through, you know, all the different
things. But all along that journey, I
think it's understanding what's
important in the season you're in. Uh,
for example, our family, my husband and
I, many years ago, right after we got
married, we decided that we would have a
10-year rule. And so what that 10year
rule means is 10 years from now, how
will the decisions we're making on this
particular subject affect our marriage,
our children, and everything else in our
life. And for an example of that would
be I remember one time I was supposed to
go speak at a conference in North
Carolina and it had been scheduled for a
very long time. Abby, our daughter, uh
she's grown now, but she was playing,
she was cheering for parkball. And so
they were going to have their little
ceremony where, you know, you walk out
on the field and the dad gives a flower,
you know, and all this stuff. Just
little ceremony. And it was scheduled
for the week after I was getting back.
Well, they moved it because of some
different things. And it fell on the
very day that I was supposed to speak in
North Carolina. And I looked at my
husband, I said, "The 10-year rule."
>> 10 years from now, that event will not
even remember that I wasn't there.
They'll get another speaker. They will
have a powerful move of God. I'm sure
lives will be changed. People will be
saved, delivered, set free, but they
won't remember that I wasn't there. But
10 years from now, Abby will remember
that I wasn't there. And that's what the
difference is. And so I re called on
cancelled. They weren't happy. They did
find another speaker that they had a
powerful move of God. But that one
moment on that field where the parents
walked their children out and handed
them a rose to my little five-year-old
daughter.
She may not even remember that day, but
it would have left a lasting impression
on her if I had not been there. And so I
think in our businesses as women, in our
marriages, with our children, in
ministry, in all the different things
that we do in life, it's about leaning
in and discerning what impact is going
to be the greatest in this moment and
deciding to pursue that. And so, you
know, it might not always be the most
popular decision. And it might not
always make everyone happy because the
two most offensive words in the English
language are yes and no. Someone's
always going to be upset with you
whether you say yes or whether you say
no.
>> You know, Ken, I just love your 10-year
role because I think oftent times, you
know, we will put so many things ahead
of what's really important, but just
thinking about, okay, every decision I
make, what what's the impact going to
be? And I just love that so much of how
you laid down that speak engagement
because it wasn't about that. It was
about being there for your daughter is
being there for Abby. And it reminds me
of a point that you bring in your
devotional about divine systems and
building what last of just you have
created this divine system in your the
framework of your life and your
relationships with your marriage and
your family and all that you do that it
just is reflective of God and it's just
is about impact and leaving that legacy
for your family. Well, and that's the
whole goal, you know, and and nobody's
perfect. We're not perfect, you know,
but these are things over the years that
we have learned. My husband and I will
be married uh 36 years in September, and
we've tried to keep that role. We didn't
always have to celebrate our
anniversaries on the anniversary or our
birthdays on the birthdays or any of
those things, but it's about being
intentional
about making time for those things. And
you know, we've always said, you know,
even in our marriage, you know, we are
each other's biggest cheerleader. People
sometimes don't know uh how we do it
because we preach together, we do
business together, we write books
together, and we just really like each
other. You know, we really we have, you
know, we are passionately in love with
each other. And over the years of
raising our kids, you know, we've
learned through different things, you
know, we've learned how to rebuild the
altar in our home. We wrote the book
Rebuilding the Altar, you know, when our
son was being recruited for college, you
know, football, and he was being exposed
to a whole lot of things that he didn't
get exposed to at home. And we really
went to war and battle for him. Nate
actually talks about that. That's part
of his testimony. And you know, so it's
not about being a perfect family. It's
not about having perfection in your
life. It's not about doing everything
right all the time. It's about
understanding and listening for the
whisper. That's what Pat and I uh always
do is we listen for the whisper. Even,
you know, for decisions, you know, even
when we were flipping houses, we would
listen for the whisper on which house to
buy or when it was time to to sell it
or, you know, different things like
that. And I think, you know, the more
time you spend with God, the more you
understand and hear his voice. Even way
back, like I've been uh eight a little
over eight years ago, God radically and
supernaturally healed me of leukemia and
I heard his voice before I was even
diagnosed and he I was standing at the
kitchen sink and God literally spoke to
my spirit and said, "You're about to
walk through a difficult and uncertain
season, but do you trust me?"
And that is the key is do you trust him?
And we went on that one-year journey.
And I think that was part of even
leading to writing this book in a way. I
went on a one-year journey of doing
nothing but leaning in and trusting God.
I continued to travel. I continued to do
things, you know, all those different
things. And then when I went to Brazil
to speak at a conference, God radically
healed me on the platform at this event.
And I could go on and on about that
story, but it was just such a
supernatural moment. God healed me and
spoke to me on stage, spoke to Pat all
the way in uh another state in the
United States and that the storm was
over. But it's because every day laying
our lives on the altar. Every day
praying, you know, Psalm uh five, every
morning you'll hear me at it again.
Every morning I'll lay the pieces of my
life on your altar, Lord, and I'll wait
for the fire to send because there are
broken pieces in each one of us. There
is brokenness in every single one of us.
And it's not about being perfect. It's
about recognizing the brokenness and
being willing to lay it at the foot of
the altar and wait for the fire of God
to descend and to turn it into the most
beautiful mosaic that his glory can
shine through for the world to see. And
so, you know, it's a journey of
becoming. I that's why I'm sharing that
every season of your life every I I told
my kids years ago because I am a
creature of habit and I don't like
change. I wanted them to embrace change.
So I used to tell them anytime we moved,
anytime you know plans got disrupted,
I'd say hey you know what life's a great
big adventure with God. Embrace every
part of the journey because the journey
is part of the destination and what you
learn in this season and how you walk
out of one season determines how you
walk into the next season. And so I want
women when God healed me. I realized
something. I want this one life that I
get to count. I want to make impact. I
want to make a difference. I want to
leave a legacy. It's not about me when
I'm dead and gone. I don't want anybody
say, "Well, Karen wrote this book or she
did that." No. I want to hear God say,
"Well done." Because you led people to
the feet of Jesus and you awakened them
to all they were called to be so that
they could die with nothing left in
them. I want to die with nothing left
inside of me, having done all that God
has called me to do.
Karen,
[sighs and gasps] that is just so I just
am so grateful that you shared your
supernatural story of healing and just
all that God has like done in your life
and doing your life and that how at the
end of the day, it's not about the
books. It's not about how many places
you've gone. You just are bringing
people right to the feet of Jesus. Like
that is your heart cry is that they
would encounter the altar, the same
altar that you've created for him. That
women and men and families would have
that as well. so that the generations
would be transformed forever. Can you
just take a moment um as we're wrapping
up our time together just to pray for
that woman who's just been listening. Uh
just pray for her heart and for her to
walk into her divine calling and all
that God has called her to be as a CEO.
>> Absolutely. Father, I just pray right
now for every woman out there, every
woman and every man that's out there
that is listening to this program that
maybe pick up this book that has been
doubting their voice, that has been
doubting their purpose, that have felt
like they weren't enough or that they
couldn't accomplish anything. Father, I
pray that right now, wherever they are
right now, that you would meet them
right where they're at. that you would
speak to them, that you would call them
by name, that you would let them know
that they are valued, they have purpose,
you have a calling on their life, and
that you want to use them for greater
impact. I pray that right now for the
woman who feels that maybe she's at home
with her babies, that that is a calling,
that that is purpose, that she is
raising the next generation of empowered
warriors for you. If it's a woman that's
sitting in an office maybe during her
break time and she feels guilty because
she has a a passion to pursue business.
Father, I pray that you give her a
rhythm in her life where she can be
fully present at home and she can still
fulfill the gifts and the callings.
Nurture her marriage, nurture her
children, but also nurture the giftings
you've placed inside of her. And I pray
that each one of them have an encounter
with you where you touch their hearts
and bring them to the place of freedom,
forgiveness, and pursuit of you in
Jesus' name. In Jesus name.
>> Amen. Amen. And if you just prayed that
prayer with us, you can give us a call
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We have a compassionate prayer partner
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with you because we know that you are
called to great things, mighty things,
and God is stirring those things in your
heart for this season and for this time.
You've been called for such a time as
this. And Karen, for such a time as
this, that you are so amazing. Thank you
for your journey, for your story, for
your wisdom, and just what you poured
out out of love uh today. It's it's
truly touched my heart and I know that
it's touched so many others and I just
encourage all of you to support Karen
and her ministry and also the CEO
movement. So you can go to
chemovement.com
um and there's all the resources and
ways that you can get connected and be
part of the community and the table of
women that are gathering together to
empower and encourage each other through
the love of Jesus. Karen, it was such a
joy, such an absolute joy to be with you
today.
>> Thank you for having me. It was my
pleasure and my honor.