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In this discussion, Konstantin Kisin and his guest critically examine the phenomenon of glorifying victimhood in Western culture, arguing that shifting from aiding actual victims to supporting anyone claiming them has fostered charlatanism and virtue signaling online. The conversation highlights how digital platforms incentivize performative morality; individuals who publicly champion marginalized groups often hide sleazy or unethical behavior behind closed doors, a dynamic the guest describes as a compensatory mechanism for those with hidden flaws. This environment rewards extreme ideological displays to signal loyalty within one's tribe while threatening opponents, creating an ecosystem where reason and common decency are sacrificed for tribal validation. The speakers suggest that this digital revolution is akin to the tobacco industry promoting harmful products, noting that society will likely look back on current social media usage with horror once the full damage of these incentive structures becomes clear. The dialogue extends to the concept of "trade-off denialism," where societal discourse avoids acknowledging the negative consequences or limitations of proposed solutions, such as those regarding climate change. Kisin advocates for a framework based on satisficing rather than maximizing; just as people stress themselves out trying to find perfect travel options only to miss them entirely, society should accept acceptable levels across various domains instead of demanding perfection in every area. This approach is necessary because optimizing strictly for the edges of the bell curve—focusing exclusively on rare cases like disabled individuals or specific minority groups without regard for the majority—leads to neglecting the vast middle section and ultimately increases overall suffering. The speakers emphasize that normative statements, such as "family is good" or "exercise is beneficial," are essential for a functioning society but are increasingly difficult to make in an environment dominated by reflexive contrarianism. A significant portion of the interview addresses gender dynamics, specifically challenging the narrative around toxic masculinity and male behavior in public spaces like gyms. The guest argues that men's attraction to women is biologically evolved rather than purely cultural or pathological, noting that suppressing natural drives without addressing them leads to frustration. He points out how internet culture has created a slippery slope of hypersensitivity regarding minor interactions, such as glances at gym-goers, which distorts reality through projection and expectation bias. The discussion also touches on the absurdity of labeling diverse issues like climate change or financial crises solely as symptoms of toxic masculinity, suggesting that this rhetoric often serves to dismiss valid concerns rather than solve them. Furthermore, they touch upon recent fraud scandals involving major podcast figures like Theo Von, using it to illustrate the "Wild West" nature of new media where trust is fragile and accountability mechanisms are weak compared to established institutions. Looking toward a constructive future, Kisin proposes that society must move beyond the binary conflict between woke and anti-woke ideologies by establishing positive visions for what people should aspire to be rather than just defining who they oppose. He draws inspiration from figures like Jordan Peterson and Dana White, emphasizing authenticity, responsibility, and competitive drive as essential traits for personal growth and societal health. The conversation concludes with a vision for consolidating the fragmented new media landscape into robust organizations that can produce high-quality content while maintaining integrity. Kisin expresses admiration for the American entrepreneurial spirit and enthusiasm but acknowledges the need to blend these values with British sensibilities to create something better, ultimately calling for individuals to take responsibility for their own lives rather than seeking meaning solely through online activism or victimhood narratives.
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one of the things that we've spoken
about privately that we haven't yet
spoken about publicly is victimhood and
James Cantor came on the show he's a sex
researcher he gave me this really
interesting quote I wanted you to react
to shifting from aiding victims to
aiding everyone who claims victimhood
has led to an awful lot of charlatanism
shifting from doing good to looking good
has led to an awful lot of virtue
signaling their interaction is now
Western culture at least online what do
you think about that I think it's true
and if you think about you know I
believe people respond to
incentives that's fundamentally the
driving force of all human behavior
we're respond to
incentives if you incentivize victimhood
you're going to get
victims uh and I think online is really
the the shift that happens because the
online World rewards it and it also
allows people to fake victimhood in a
way that in person you can't really like
if you see someone living in a massive
house you go well you may be in in some
ways but you're actually well taken care
of here but online you can create any
Avatar you want and that Avatar can be
projected onto the online space from a
mansion that's kind of where we are yeah
the fact that our opinions are more
important than our deeds and our words
are scrutinized while our actions are
done in private you know how many people
have we seen over the last few years
Ellen degenerous lizo uh who's that late
night host that just got popped for
apparently being Jimmy Fallon I think uh
allegedly has these people that
outwardly are supposed to be Champion
for the underclass like I'm supporting
women of all sizes or I'm supporting
people that have different sexual
orientations or I do the whatever and
then you find out behind the scenes that
they can't even treat a PA with
dignity I don't know it it seems to me
like being someone who out front prozes
about standing up for the for the under
class is almost becoming a red flag to
go I probably should scrutinize what's
actually going on behind the scenes here
when I was a standup comedian in the
comedy world there's a golden rule of
this the more a comedian talks about how
he's a male feminist on stage the
sleazier he is backstage that's it's
like a golden rule never fails always
the same so anyone who goes on stage and
talks about how brilliant they are
they're always always always Sleazy and
evil behind the scenes it's just how it
works and I think it's actually it's a
kind of compensat mechanism people who
are hiding a bunch of [ __ ] have to go
out and then pretend to be something
they're not the morality sort of stands
on the shoulders of this
performative [ __ ] is there a
solution to this is there a way that we
can scrutinize given that people's deeds
and their actions and their words and
their opinions are always going to be
far
apart I think that we are living through
a digital Revolution for which we're not
prepared uh naturally that's what
Revolution is right it's a change in in
the Paradigm of how we exist so I think
that 10 15 20 years from now we will
look back at the way we use social media
now and be horrified by it you'll you'll
be a little bit like you know tobacco
companies promoting cigarettes as a
healthy thing to do and then we'll be
like whoa whoa whoa this was actually
causing a lot of damage so I think the
answer to this is is a healthier
relationship with the online World in
particular uh My Hope Is that we get
past this stage and work out how to use
all of that stuff better I see it in
myself like the way I use social media
now is very different to the way I would
have used it even two years ago so um
I'm much more responsible with the way I
use it and I mean in terms of my own
life in terms of how much time I spend
on there and what I do but also in terms
of the way I act on social media because
I am trying to be more responsible in
what I say you know it's very easy and I
think especially on on X or Twitter
whatever you want to call it
to get clicks and I know exactly how to
do that which is dunk on somebody and I
spend less and less of my time doing
that now because I just I don't think
that makes the world better I don't
think it makes me better there's very
rare it's very rare on Twitter to have
someone uh break the fourth wall and say
that was out of order you're not allowed
to say that everybody plays this sort of
permanent game of sardonic tennis right
here's some Blas comment about how you
suck or some smart snipe back at what
you said and oh I hit it back across the
net with something else no one actually
says what they should say which is
that's [ __ ] out of order and then
you're approved if you do this is why
this is why it's disincentivized this is
coming back to the point about
incentives social media rewards certain
types of behavior and punishes others so
if you're the guy that says maybe we
shouldn't you know pile on this person
if your team is doing the piling on
you're like the the one who's not
willing do you know what I mean not
willing to join in with stoning somebody
and that's why you're a loser that's the
the model that we operate in so being
responsible is disincentivized yeah the
um I love this idea that an absurd
ideological belief or an extreme
ideological belief is a show of fty to
your own side and a threat display to
the other right and the more absurd or
extreme the belief the
more likely it is that your own side can
trust you and that the other side should
fear you m do you know what I mean that
if it's if you have to put reason and
Sensibility and common decency to one
side in order to like here I am holding
my hand in the air for whatever the
current thing is your own side sees you
as a reliable Ally and the other side
sees you as a formidable foe mhm it's
Tribal mechanics but multiplied by a
thousand correct because it's online
with everyone scrutinizing you yeah and
so you have these weird pathologies like
you've got and it's not comment on him
personally but you've got like a guy who
lives in Malaysia commenting on American
culture War issues and getting like
millions and millions of views for his
commentary and whatever and he just go I
see what you're doing there but are you
actually contributing to anything do you
know what I mean uh because it's just
flaming Fanning the Flames of whatever
is going on um and I see that as a you
know like I say it's a period it's a
transitionary period I hope that we get
to a point where we start to use social
media in a different way and actually
you know this is unpopular thing to say
but I don't envy the big Tech
Executives uh because it's a really hard
job because the on the one hand you
incentivized to encourage engagement and
on the other
hand the engagement is achieved by
amplifying anger and Division and all of
these things so I I hope we can work
that out as a as a society how do we
move forward with social media what
about the victimhood side of things then
you know like it's kind of it's almost
like old Trope to talk about snowflakes
and all this sort of [ __ ] it feels
you know five year ago culture Warrior
hor [ __ ] but the underlying Dynamic is
still there that we've got this sort of
tyranny of the minority in some regards
that fragility is something to Aspire
toward or at least it's something which
is rewarded in a variety of different
ways what's your sort of conception and
and framework of this with a little bit
more perspective that we've got now well
I'm going to be speaking at ARC Jordan
Jordan's thing later this year and one
of the things I want to talk about is
that I think everyone's embraced this
now we all now do it I feel like those
of us who've been concerned about
wokeness have sort of got into that
place where we are like I'm a victim
I've been canceled I've been this and
I've been that and I think it's time
actually for us to step into our power
now and go okay well we've created these
New Media organizations we've created
alliances we've created Community we've
created things and the question really
for us is now we know what we're against
but not enough people are willing to say
what are we for exactly and that's cuz
it's much harder to do but that is the
mission now is how do you get past woke
anti-woke into the future and the future
has to be about offering people a better
alternative to that victimhood uh
because it's it's more rewarding for the
individual to to see themselves in that
way I think um and this is you know this
is why Jordan Peterson was so successful
when he broke through because he was
saying to people take responsibility and
I think we all actually now are in a
position where we have to say it to
ourselves yes
the right-wing snowflak a sphere that
nobody really ever talks about I'm
pretty sure that you hate that even more
than you hate leftwing snowflake as
feere like it's it's
so yeah the using the callout culture to
say this is something that shouldn't be
happening this is
pedestalize about that remain extremely
unanswered like where do you get meaning
and purpose in your life now in a
society that has few and fewer children
in which young people are delaying
adulthood longer and longer and longer
um where do you get meaning and purpose
exactly for now for some people that's
you know online activism but actually
how fulfilling that is I don't know so
the big questions remain unanswered and
perhaps increasingly so actually I think
there may be there could well be an
argument that 80 years ago people had
way more meaning and purpose readily
available to them at you know just
through the course of normal life you
know get married have kids whatever now
obviously that wasn't universally and
available to everybody Etc but I think
in the modern world actually way more
people are lost they don't know what
they're supposed to do exactly so in the
past we had a kind of like set
trajectory you're supposed to follow
which hurts some people because because
it wasn't the trajectory for them well
when you take away all trajectory then
everybody's lost and I think a lot of
people are in that position now so we
and and as I say I think it's way harder
to think about what the positive vision
of the future is but that I think is the
task now that's the mission that's you
know what is it that if you think
wokeness is stupid and dangerous and
harmful which I do well what do you
think in addition to that what do you
think beyond that what is it that you
think people ought to do if they ought
not to be victims what ought they to
think about with their lives right um
and that's a very difficult question uh
that I have more questions than answers
about actually it's way easier to
identify problems than propose Solutions
right and you almost see this on the
internet that if somebody identifies a
problem it's kind of hard to criticize a
criticism it's possible Right but it's
way easier to criticize a proposal and
it's almost like a defense mechanism
that people have to frontload or front
run avoiding the criticism that they
know will become will be incoming you
know it's the caveat it's like I'm not
saying that we don't need to care about
such and such and I'm not saying that
this isn't a big deal but maybe we need
to think about this thing it's almost
like a a conceptual equivalent of that
yes and I find myself doing that all the
time fortifying with caveat all the time
man because I think the the other aspect
of the online the way the communication
happens online is like if you make a
statement a generalized statement you
might say exercise is good for you and
somebody will be like yeah but what if
you've got an e injury and before you
know it like you hate disabled people
like that's kind of how the conversation
happens but we I think when when we stop
being able to make normative statements
everything else breaks down right we
have to be able to say for most people
most of the time pairing up with some of
the sex that they are attracted to and
and building a life together is better
than not doing that we have to be able
to say that without the one person who
was in an abusive relationship what
about me right yes we understand you but
we're talking about the 95% of people
right uh and you feel free not to go
along with whatever we're putting on the
table it's like if we put a menu of
things on the table you don't have to
eat everything no one is making you eat
the gluten it's the Ricky jaice guitar
lessons thing right no Want guitar
lessons so I think we have to be able to
say all other things being equal family
is good well this is the the tyranny of
the minority I [ __ ] love that phrase
I think it's so smart to optimize for
the edges of the bell curve rather than
the middle and as you said before there
is a it is important to recognize that
there are people who fall outside of the
the Norms of normality and that they
need some care as well and if you didn't
have that sufficiently broad perspective
view these people would just fall
through the crack that's [ __ ] [ __ ]
and nobody wants that to happen but when
you optimize for that you actually end
up if you were to net out what happens
you end up with more suffering because
you neglect all of the [ __ ] fat bit
of the middle of the distribution that's
right and we've we've stopped being able
to make that point because we and also I
think a phrase that I came across and I
didn't come up with this but somebody
was saying to me the other day that we
live in a world of trade-off
denialism what's that mean every
decision has tradeoffs it has positives
and negatives and if you go well we
should do this and someone goes yeah but
what about the thing that and then you
can never really acknowledge it's like
the climate catastrophe right no one
wants to talk about the fact that many
of the solutions that are being proposed
would be worse than the
problem so it's like if you say anything
about how we're approaching that issue
you are denying that climate change is
real or you are denying that it's a
problem or you're denying that we should
address it no I just think your idea how
to fix it is stupid right and we've lost
the ability to have that conversation as
well and I think we really need to
reintroduce that it's one of the things
I talked about in my Ox speech which I
think is why it did well is because
people want oh yeah all right because
because if we just do the stuff that
we're being told we need to do that's
actually worse and that sort of opened
it up I think we've totally forgotten
that every there are no Solutions only
trade-offs my favorite quote ever from
Thomas sa yeah it's lovely and that the
difference between maximizing and
satisficing from behavioral economics is
an interesting one so maximizing is
everything must be 100 100 100 100
satisficing is hitting an acceptable
level across everything and what the
satisficing allows you to do is allows
you to iser rate much more quickly and
as you say you can imagine you can do it
in your own life it's like how many
times have you done it going to go away
on holiday with the misses and we're
going to have a [ __ ] Airbnb or
booking.com favorite list with 30 hotels
or 30 places in and by the time that you
get down to choosing them the choice has
been made for you because all of the
nice ones have gone and you're now two
days before you leave right that's
maximizing yeah and you're so stressed
you need the holiday [ __ ] yeah it was
awful you didn't even enjoy the
experience of it as well yeah yeah I
understand man like you know people feel
like they're being left behind they feel
like life is happening to them or
happening for other people and they're
not a part of it and I I get that like I
you know [ __ ] it's disquieting life
is going on my friends are moving on the
world is changing and I'm all
confused but I suppose this sort of
information ecosystem conversation which
you guys have had a good bit and I've
had twice over the last few weeks first
with Sam Harris and then with Eric
Weinstein what do you make of this like
the heterodox sphere has its problems
the Legacy Media sphere has its
problems independent creators that just
get to [ __ ] post anonymously on Twitter
and Reddit also I like very unreliable
what's the do you think about this like
how all of this comes together and how
you move forward through it I I see a
lot of problems with New Media too I
mean and I've said this from day one in
terms of what we do at trigonometry it's
uh we don't have a budget to employ a
bunch of people to do extensive research
on things or to do factchecking for us
so we can't do certain things that the
mainstream media can do and should do
the problem is the mainstream media
isn't doing it either right uh but
there's a there's a really important
role for the mainstream media I just
wish they'd play that role uh but you
know I I think where I agree with Sam
even though I disagree with him on covid
and and to some extent well to a large
extent Trump and all those things is
there not everything can be fixed on a
podcast that is absolutely true there
are certain things that are a matter of
research and deeper study and it it's
not not everything can be sort out in
3our conversation between two podcasters
it's that's not how how that works and I
think uh New Media has its own problems
um it over rewards Charisma it over
rewards
passion it it massively under rewards
any attempts to uh cling to truth it
encourages people to go off in the
pursuit of the most uh exciting t take
and Truth isn't always exciting yeah you
know so I I think the truth is we need a
vibrant ecosystem in which all of these
different pieces play their own
different roles um which is why I'm in
favor of Maximum freedom because that's
where you get everybody doing their
thing and then you know over time people
this people who want wholesome content
if you like when it comes to facts or
information or whatever can seek it out
because people aren't stupid they they
they can see through um they will
eventually see through someone being
super charismatic or whatever they'll
get to a point where they go actually
what I'd like to do is have a look at
what different sources are saying about
this and make up my own mind you saw
with Co you know the mainstream media
really suppressed a lot of very
legitimate points of view uh a lot of
important information but then you get
the response to that which is to go
quite far off the other end and I've
ended up somewhere what I hope is a kind
of reasonable Middle Ground between
those two positions there's a really
great blog post by window Bogle gosub
stack.com one of my favorite writers why
you are probably an NPC and he frames
out five different types of NPC and the
the most obvious two you know like sort
of the mainstream NPC and the contrarian
NPC he makes this really great point
which is that the contrarian NPC is no
deeper thinking than the mainstream NPC
they're just the inversion of it yes and
he uses the the line of um being a black
sheep might make you different but
you're still a sheep and
that Allure this sort of Romance of
being the independent thought leader
maker sense maker person I understand
why it happens but yeah reflexive
contrarianism is no more nuanced than
reflexive belief of the hemony yes and
um you know I don't judge people for
that because I I think that's an element
of my thinking you know a kind of I
think it's very understandable the
disillusionment with
the way the institutions have been
captured or have been corrupted or
perverted or what whatever it is that's
happened to them um it is natural that
that would produce an equal and opposite
reaction um I encourage myself and other
people to go beyond that I try as best I
can and to go okay well we're reacting
to this this is how we're behaving
what's the actual what's the actual
truth because that's where we started we
started from the position that we cared
about the truth that's why we're so
annoyed with the mainstream uh can we
can we find somewhere in between those
two positions that actually is an
attempt to find that truth um and it's
it's the case with everything you know
we've had a bunch of we just had the the
co-found of Navara media on trigonometry
the far-left
YouTube no maybe not farle is it kind of
corista supporting kind of people and
others because we're trying to speak to
different people from different uh
places and really get to to what the
bottom of is of different issues because
those perspectives are valuable too one
of the things that Sam brought up on the
episode with me was his Infamous Twitter
clip with you what was the experience of
that particular 180 seconds Catching
Fire
like you know I felt terrible when that
happened really really terrible
because I've never been on the end of a
Twitter [ __ ] storm to that extent but it
it's not pleasant no matter how strong
minded you are whatever there's a reason
that Rogan always says don't read the
comments right like like the great man
Joseph Stalin says quantity has a
quality all of its
own so there's only certain number of
negative comments you can ignore until
just the volume of [ __ ] becomes
overwhelming so my primary concern
actually not I don't know Sam well but
uh was for his well-being actually I
just I just worry how he would
experience that more than anything that
was my concern because our approach is
always about giving a guest an
opportunity to reveal themselves in the
best light possible and for some people
that light shines very brightly and can
burn um but that's not our intention we
never go into an interview with a desire
to out somebody or expose somebody it's
not a got you it's not a got you so I
was worried about him and I emailed him
straight away just to you know check up
on him and and you know also we didn't
put that clip out we could have done
because we obviously understood that it
was a controversial thing he said and
actually uh most people don't know this
but that was not the most controversial
thing he said in that interview in my
opinion we talked about covid on locals
which was the paywall section of the
interview and what he said there I found
quite what did he say I don't remember
the wording and people have to go and
watch it but it was you know I came away
from that thinking that you know he's
overestimating the threat and as a
result of that is prepared to do some
pretty drastic things or or demand
drastic things to be done um so first
and foremost as somebody who interviews
people for a living I was concerned for
him but I also felt that you know what
he said was wrong I didn't agree with it
um
and I I I my view on it is that if you
overestimate the nature of the threat
all else follows and I think on Trump
and Co that that is where Sam in my
opinion is is that's why he's doing what
he's doing and saying what he's saying
because if I thought Trump was as bad as
Sam thinks it'd be very tempting to
think along the lines that Sam thinks
along and likewise with Co if I thought
this was like
Eola that
spreads I'd also be you know we should
also be honest you know the conversation
people like well there's never ever ever
any reason for for the government to
mandate vaccines and I broadly agree
with that unless the disease is really
like dangerous and deadly I I said this
at the beginning of covid like imagine
that the disease had 100% mortality rate
for all women or it was 100% mortality
right for all people under the age of 10
there'd be some people who'd support it
well yeah but I I think that the the
fundamentally it came down to a risk and
reward yeah equation and most people
considered that the risk of getting
covid was not greater than the risk of
either getting the vaccine or of opening
up mandated vaccines as a pathway
overall right and it's just where do you
sit on this equation there's lots of
other things but broadly I think it's
where do you sit on this equation
and Sam I completely agree with him that
I think
CO as an event was like the worst kind
of vaccine that we could have given our
epidemiology our medical system the view
of vaccines overall vaccine skepticism
at large I bet has gone through the
[ __ ] roof it has it has have you had
a look at this yeah of course it has I
know anecdotally just speaking to people
how much that's that's the case yeah so
if we are to have something that comes
around the next time and it does kill
[ __ ] all children under 10 or all
women or whatever the [ __ ] it's got some
incubation period of 28 days and a
mortality of
40% it's just a scop it's another scop
this is CLA Schwab doing it again this
is the wef and it's like oh God God like
that's that's it literally would have
been better if Co hadn't happened right
yeah sure enough we can get masks out of
the way more quickly and we've got like
some some inefficiency in in the system
we're opened up but if you were to look
at covid as a like operational
logistical vaccine our response to it
failed us way worse than if we'd never
got it at all and we got a vaccine
injury from covid yes yes we did and and
I also think the one thing that is sort
of inexplicably neglected and all of
this
is I'd really like to know where Co came
from I'd really like to know don't you
think that's important don't you think
we should know where it came from
because there are some credible
assertions about its Origins that would
suggest that we may have another
pandemic soon um is that right haven't
seen this well
if this came from a lab in Wuhan because
of gain of function
research and we are not willing to be
honest about that and gain of function
research
continues why wouldn't we have another
pandemic I never looked into this much I
know that uh Sam had Matt Ridley and
somebody else somebody else on his show
we've had Matt on to talk about this as
well yeah and the truth is we don't know
yeah uh but I I'm using the kind of the
smell test here because I grew up in a
in a in a communist
Society um and what communist societies
do when there is something and all
societies do this to a Lar extent
because people don't like to to expose
their own flaws and no one wants to be
like oh I was responsible for killing
millions of people you know but they
will cover it up in a way that you know
that is proper and Matt actually gave
this example of there was a leak
somewhere in the Soviet Union which was
a radioactive leak I think or maybe it
was a biological uh and they covered up
for ages and then you know when the
Soviet Union collapsed we finally find
out no no it was actually a leak so if
this is a product of uh gain of function
research getting out into the real world
which is credible that there's there's
very credible assertions about that the
world needs to know and this type of
research needs to
end but if we are unwilling to have that
conversation honestly and do the proper
investigations which would be difficult
because the CCP wouldn't want that and
on top of that you've got all this other
[ __ ] about how it's racist and all
of that uh we've got a problem so the I
I think my worry with everything that's
happened with Co is not only have we not
learned the lessons I feel like like you
said we've got a vaccine injury from the
experience and everyone is sort of stuck
in their corner and like Sam said to you
everyone's got their own facts about it
now correct yeah um that's that's a
problem it's interesting what you said
about the felt sense of being in the
blast radius of Sam's online experience
I noticed it
is someone called it Sam Harris's World
embarrassment tour because he did my
show he did Steven's show and he did Tom
Billy's
show and I don't know man like there
seems to be
something it's almost like there was
resentment sat on the internet latent
resentment sat on the internet waiting
for Sam to [ __ ] up and then he did a
thing oh maybe maybe it's right I don't
think it was personal that was my the
reason I paused there I don't think it
was personal to Sam I think particularly
on his Trump comments there are a lot of
people who were like this is what we
always knew the Trump haters think deep
inside and Sam was willing to vocalize
it which is I don't care how big the
transgressions are on the other side I
don't care what Hunter Biden has done I
don't care what Joe Biden's done no
matter what they do it can never be as
bad as orange man bad and that's sort of
how he came across and so the people who
who fell gasl this entire time
about um you know the overestimation of
the threat of trump they they were
Vindicated in that moment and I think
Sam just caught him was caught in the
Rage of people feeling like the kind of
like the perfect timed storm with the
perfect Pebble in the perfect river that
directed it yeah yeah yeah yeah it's so
interesting man you know we I had this
conversation with uh a fitness
influencer called Sarah Safari in La a
couple of weeks ago uh I'd be interested
to get your thoughts on this I think
it's anous the Sam situation a lot of
people especially right of Center say
things like you can't judge somebody on
just one thing that they
say yet when it came to a six-pack of
Bud Light being sent to Dylan mulany by
some marketing intern somewhere deep in
the annals of the anheiser Bush thing or
millerite released one video the
millerite thing felt a little a bit more
produced it's probably gone through a
few more layers but largely I just
wondered I thought it was interesting
that
the charity that a lot of people right
of Center ask to be given to their
commentators or you know their Champions
that are cancelled for taking out of
context points there was that uh Rosanne
bar bit with theovon where she made a
joke about the Jews which was the most
egregious clipping that I've ever seen
from anything ever the end of a three
minute long bit and they took the final
30 seconds and put it up as if it was
representative of the whole thing it was
so [ __ ]
bad but I did notice nobody decided to
use that same idea about well hang on a
second maybe maybe this is just one
small Department in one small corner of
one small Brand's marketing push and
they gave this person who is very
unpopular on the internet a sixpack of
Bud Light and before you know it Kid
Rock's got an AR-15 pointed at a few
cases of your drink what do you think
about so so I think I would separate
those two out so Sam I think is that
point applies very much and this is what
the angle I'm coming from and by the way
we're about to go back to America and
we'll interview Sam the sequel so we'll
see how that works out I'm looking
forward to it uh but with Sam what I
felt was for me I don't know if it's
true of other people but for me Sam has
a lot of credit in the bank with me and
so and so I felt that while I strongly
disagree with what he said I think that
was clear in the interview um he has
enough credit in the bank with me that
I'm willing to have a lot of
understanding and a lot of Grace with
him and I I like and what I would say as
well is you know we were having a lot of
tech issues on the day that we
interviewed Sam and he sat there for
like a good hour while we were trying to
scrambling to get the microphones to
work and he was the most decent human
being that we've had on the show who
someone really is when the cameras
aren't rolling that seemed to me like a
really important thing that other people
obviously wouldn't have seen so um I
have a lot of time for Sam and respect
for him I don't have the same
relationship with Dy
malany and I also think you haven't
taken a world of wisdom from Dylan
milany over the last you'll be surprised
man you'll be surprised and so um I
think look Dylan m is a symbol in to
many people like Sam is a symbol to many
people for different things but I I
think it's a slightly different issue
because you I don't know if you saw but
immediately after the the dill mulvania
controvery the marketing executive who
was responsible for this there was there
was a video of her talking to I think a
reporter about the thinking
behind what the idea there was it seemed
a little bit more thought out it was
thought out and her her angle was our
our customers are [ __ ] that was her
angle are [ __ ] yeah what's a [ __ ]
customer well it was just uh it's just
these guys who've got like a you know
old-fashioned sense of humor and they
don't do you know what I mean like we're
going to educate our customers and I'm
like you sell beer that's not your job
sell them the [ __ ] beer and shut up
right um and look the trans issue for
reasons I actually think are quite
understandable and obvious is the
lightning rod of our time um so I'm not
surprised that that caused the reaction
that it did and and I understand it I
I do think and I said I wrote a substack
on this at the time um that perhaps the
giving so much attention to it is what
prompts these Brands to to go down this
route obviously with Dyan malania had
backfired for sure it's a role of the
dice for attention it's a role of the
dice for tension that I don't think
they'd considered and I think that
executive ended up being fired I do
understand why people got as fired up
about as they did because your rewarding
behavior that a lot of people would feel
is the wrong Behavior to reward in the
public guy Dylan MH but that woman is
one lady maybe maybe in her interview
with the reporter she said this went all
the way up and the director CE the
[ __ ] Chief marketing officer or
whatever was involved in this but if it
wasn't the
case I don't think if if it turned out
that it was one small group in in the
corner as I like guessed or whatever I
don't think that the internet would have
given budlight any more leeway I don't
think they would have said we need to
separate the art and the artist here you
know they've made beer for three decades
for however [ __ ] long it's been
around and maybe maybe a try maybe it it
shows their woke bonafides it shows that
they're the
man-hating like left leaning bluehead
cucks that they always
were but I don't know like it seems like
a lot of the time people want it's a
it's a smart idea to be able to say
Rogan has been in a few controversies
over the last few years most people said
I have faith that you're telling me this
is the tip of the
iceberg I've seen the whole Iceberg
right I know that there is nothing
lurking deep down in the depths massive
Advantage he has is he's published like
5,000 hours of content over the last
decade which means that you have a
pretty good body of evidence that sits
on the other side of the scale but light
you don't know much about what's going
on inside of the marketing department
but I just thought it was interesting I
thought that maybe this is a time where
it would be illustrative and you should
be careful about trans transgressing
rules that you want to be enforced so if
you want the don't judge somebody by one
single occurrence rule to be enforced
and then you don't enforce
it that as you said before that tiit
fortat game it opens up what they did it
so this is playground mentality I
understand what you mean but I think I
disagree actually I think the reason
that people uh were as upset about as
they are is while it's these are
different companies the sense is
imagine it wasn't just Rogan who said
something but it was Chris Williamson
and trigonometry and all the other
podcasters who do what we do all at one
point said the same thing and then there
was yet another example of a podcast
saying it so when you look at the
Gillette M toxic masculinity ad if you
look at all the other instances where
corporations put Pride flags all they
replace their brand with not in the
Middle East not well obviously not yeah
did they do it in Russia they can't do
it in Russia I doubt it I doubt it I
can't imagine why in Mother Russia gay
has you yeah exactly so I think what
people felt was here again we've got a
corporation just absolutely taking the
piss lecturing the ordinary public and
thrusting these very Niche issues onto
what is a very very like normal
household beer and you just can't escape
this [ __ ] that's what I think people
feel it's kind of a straw that broke the
camel's back Corporation overall that's
interesting cuz what I was doing was I
was taking budlight as a individual
instance on its own what you're saying
is this is more endemic of a broader
Trend among big corporations well
broadly speaking if you think about what
the anti-woke narrative is the anti-work
narrative is and I agree with very large
part of it is that most of the major
institutions whether that be media
whether that be the Civil Service
whether that be uh the political systems
the parties the uh the corporations the
education system they've all been
captured or corrupted or through some
other mechanism become uh the projectors
of a certain world view onto the public
who do not share that world viw and so
when you
see the toxic masculinity Gillette ad
which is like hey you know you you're
you're a man you're a piece of [ __ ] buy
a
Razer you know hey you're a piece of
[ __ ] buy our beer yeah Etc it sort of
builds up to a point like why is
everyone telling me I'm a piece of [ __ ]
um and it gets old and you know and I
actually you know particularly this
anti- mascul anti- masculinity narrative
that you see everywhere in movies uh in
advertising in in all sorts of different
genres uh I think it's really really
dangerous because if you think about
Gillette ads in the '90s you were a bit
younger than me I don't know if you
remember them but they were best man can
get and it's like some blonde hot chick
in like a whatever she's like on
shoulder actually actually that wasn't
the '90s Gillette ads the 90s Gillette
ads were a bunch of men being healthy
masculinity it was a man putting his tie
on as he holds his baby up before he's
going to work he was a man uh hugging
his son on his way to his wedding he was
a man protecting his wife or you know it
was a it was a healthy view of men and
relationship ships and men and women and
so on um and I I sort of say you know
healthy masculinity is the '90s Gillette
ads that's what it looks like um men
being responsible men in relationships
with women being respectful being kind
but also being strong looking after
their children teaching younger versions
of men how to be men Etc right um and I
understand why people men and women are
[ __ ] tired really really tired of
this idea that men are bad and evil my
wife
who's complet I always say my wife is
completely apolitical and as a result of
that extremely
based right like she hates this [ __ ] and
I can't tell you how many women I speak
to who are very very tired of men being
demonized in this way and so am I well
especially given that a lot of those
women will have sons and they want their
partner to be good and healthy they
don't want them to be feeble you know um
so I actually I understand the push back
against that I really do and I think
it's necessary yeah yeah the I mean I've
spent a lot of
time talking about modern masculinity
and and the challenges that everybody is
facing what do you think like looking at
it from your perspective growing up
where you did in a communist country
coming here
13 remembered it coming here at 13
what's what do you think the
conversation around modern masculinity
from both sides of the fence is missing
like what what don't they understand
about being a man in 2023 and the
challenges and the way that the culture
sees them I think we should zoom out
more even more than that and ask the
question what is it that we want as a
society and I piss both sides of the
spectrum off by saying what I'm about to
say which is any ideology and I mean any
ideology that pits men against women or
women against men is toxic and damaging
and dangerous and unhealthy and that
includes some forms of feminism and that
includes you know the incel worldview
and all sorts of things so the thing
that we're really missing is a reminder
of the fact that I'm going to do the
caveat thing we talked about yes some
people are not heterosexual but for the
vast majority of people the single most
meaningful thing in your life is going
to be the relationship you have with
your intimate partner almost always of
the opposite sex right and we need each
other men and women need each other
we've been working together for
Millennia and any anyone who tells you
that your enemy is the opposite sex that
person is your enemy yeah that person is
your enemy that person is my enemy and
that person is our society's enemy um
they are destroying or attempting to
destroy the very building block of our
society that comes from both sides of
the advice as well the red pillar
sphere teaches men that women
are adversaries to be avoided or res
resources to be used and discarded those
are the only two ways and you know
that's black that's the entire
manosphere actually that's black pill
mtow
incels pickup Artistry red
pill Sigma male all the way like the
full that's the the entire gamut for
anyone that doesn't know the memes
that's the entire mosphere of the
[ __ ] manosphere and uh yeah there's
no one in there very very few people in
there who
say You're supposed to be a collaborator
with the opposite sex most of your
competition is intrasexual not
intersexual men and women have worked
together for eons you need each other to
survive just because you've outsourced
protecting and provisioning to the
police department and the local
supermarket and you women have
outsourced the resources and uh the
company
to your ability to gain education and
employment and
Netflix like still broadly like we're
not going to be able to out technology
ourselves from the last 120,000 years of
humans being the way that we are so
there's more to relationship than dildo
right like you're not a dildo to your
partner there's more that you bring to
the table sometimes well I'm speaking
for myself maybe I'm I'm not sufficient
in that department but my point is let's
frame this in a positive way what is it
that we're trying to say what we're
trying to say is men and women need each
other men and women need to work
together uh men and women are not
enemies that the most powerful you are
ever going to be is with a good woman by
your side what do you say to the people
that go this is Trad pill nonsense like
tradcon talking point 101 like this is
just another NPC meme but coming from
like someone that's steeped in a type of
relationship that men or women don't
need anymore well you know how Bitcoin
is say have fun staying poor have fun
being a loser you you want to spend your
life uh being unhappy with opposite sex
whether you are a feminist or one of
these people go go for it I'm not going
to tell you how to live your life but I
don't think it's going to lead you to a
good place um you know I'm I have male
friends re who've recently found their
like soulmate or their partner and they
blossom they blossom the moment that it
happens uh because we evolved to be
together we evolved to work together we
evolved to drive each other forward in
really powerful ways I would not I
wouldn't be a tenth of the man I am
without my wife did you read the post I
put up a couple of weeks ago about the
[ __ ] you family no I didn't see that so
[ __ ] you money right you're able to
become oh I did see that yes
sufficiently financially independent
that money you you don't need to do
things you don't want to do [ __ ] you
Freedom you don't need to do things that
you don't want to do but then the final
stage I see amongst my male friends who
are you know 30s and 40s is the [ __ ]
family which is a all that I
fundamentally care about in the end is
me and the people that are a part of
this nuclear pod
and everything else can go to hell
everything else can fall apart Jimmy
Carl has just sat in that seat he's been
through his fair share of like roller
coasters and he's been with his partner
like a decade and a bit like [ __ ]
forever maybe even 20 like something
years and now he's got a son and a
daughter and yeah the coming home to
know that as long as that's okay as long
as that's set i'm presuming that you've
stacked the [ __ ] you money with the [ __ ]
you freedom and then you had the family
on top it must be kind of similar to
being indestructible I'm still working
on the [ __ ] you money yep still a long
way to go on the [ __ ] you money the
freedom and the family the freedom and
the family yes uh and my wife and I we
we met by complete accident when we were
18 married by 20 and been together ever
since and the just on a very practical
like what did I get out of it level it's
it's been the single most beneficial
source of inspiration comfort you know
pick each other up when you're down all
of that
I I I I mean I admire people who don't
have that and still do lots of stuff in
the world but it would be so much harder
so so much harder um so again I'm not
telling other people how to live their
life I'm just saying this has been one
of the most tried and tested solutions
to various problems that human beings
experience
throughout history we evolve to be
together uh and if it's a TRD talking
point then maybe that's right maybe
maybe that some TR talking points are
correct getting back to the masculinity
conversation why do you think it's so
difficult for people to publicly
advocate for the problems of men and
boys uh because victimhood doesn't work
for men the way it works for women we
don't feel sorry for
men and rightly so by the way rightly so
I mean biologically men are disposable
the way the women aren't for the obvious
reasons if you have a tribe of 10 men 10
women you send the women off to war
you're screwed you send the men off to
war one comes back you can still
replenish the population so men are
disposable always will be much more than
women uh and so we are we don't feel
sorry for men in the same way and I not
advocating that we feel sorry for men
because I don't believe that's a
solution to men's problems uh the
solution to men's problems is for men to
be better what's that mean uh it means
uh you know what I mean look at you this
is what your entire life has spent on
bettering yourself physically
emotionally psychologically mentally
you're obsessed with performance you're
obsessed with being better you're
obsessed with being happier more
fulfilled all of these things it's a
pursuit of your own greatness there are
structural disadvantages that are faced
by men as well right that very few
people are willing to accept at the
moment socioeconomically men are falling
behind education employment mental
health work currently suicide awareness
Suicide Prevention Week in the UK the
according to one of the guys I was
literally talking to half an hour ago if
you are a man the single biggest threat
to your own life is yourself you are
more likely to die by your own hand than
by any other way are
you am I I've got suicide I've got
suicide in my family so I know but I
don't think you are the greatest threat
to you that's true but and I'm not of
the greatest threat to me and why is
that not everybody has the same genetic
predisposition sure but you just said
you do and yet you are not the greatest
threat to you why is that because you're
fulfilled because you're successful
because you're striving and achieving
because you have in life what you should
have in life uh the meaning and purpose
and the pursuit of a goal right and for
men this is one of the problems with you
know this mental health conversation one
of the reasons that men's mental health
is not as good as it could be is that um
a we do live in a society which
discourages them from being men and
being the way that men are supposed to
be um but the other reason is that most
of the personal development um and
psychology fields are geared towards
female ways of being and most of the the
ways that we treat for example
depression men don't need the same thing
as women do when it comes to that what
men need is to feel powerful uh and
capable right the reason you don't you
are not the greatest threat to you is
that you feel in charge of your life
right and that's what men need to pursue
with every fiber of the being that's
what I mean when I say better uh you
need to struggle and you need to fight
and you need to achieve and then all of
this other [ __ ] Falls by the wayside and
it's always been like this you know I'm
someone who's been depressed at points
in my life and it's not because I was
having a mental health problem it's
because my life was [ __ ] and I was [ __ ]
that's why right so what need is to
pursue their dreams to fight and
struggle and to achieve there was a a
point that you brought up earlier on
about how no
guidelines is liberating and terrifying
altogether and I think it's it's
interesting to talk about how there
isn't only one way to be a good man but
there aren't an unlimited number of ways
either and the problem of breaking open
the expectations around men means that
guidance for men and boys also largely
dissipates I had this conversation in
qar and the guy I was debating had this
conception of the manbox and he said if
you're inside of the manbox it can be
constraining because he was a a member
of the LGBT community Kuwaiti American
grew up in the Middle East and wanted to
be a dancer as a boy I'm like I imagine
it's pretty [ __ ] difficult for you to
find a manbox that fits that conception
of you in it sure but if you completely
blast it open and you can be anything
that you want to be there's no
guidelines at all there's no guidance so
how [ __ ] hard is this going to be you
got to you got to reinvent from first
principles what it means to be a man and
Ian you've heard this from Mary
Harrington and Lise Perry
but a lot of the guidance that was given
to men previously around chivalry it is
simply a difference of degree not a
difference of kind to go from men should
hold the door open for women and make
sure that she gets to the front door
safe at night to you shouldn't hit your
wife it is one one single thread between
those which is women are more vulnerable
and should be protected right lovely
conception that Mary in classic Mary
style
said the bouro rules that benefited
women who had had a partner that grew up
in a two parent household that went to
some high futin institution was around
people that had good good male role
models yeah sure you can break open the
doors of chivalry and maybe pay for the
first date or maybe you can drive
yourself home or get the taxi on your
own or whatever it is because the
environment that you're in is largely
very
different the guy that grew up or the
the woman that grew up in a relationship
with a man who comes from a single
parent household whose mom or dad was
addicted to alcohol or drugs or there
was multiple partners coming through the
house they never got taught not to beat
your wife let alone not to hold the door
open and like the rules for thee but not
for me it's like the rules for us
protecting everybody not just me and
yeah I I think it's a really interesting
frame to think about where the cultural
changes come from a lot of the time they
come top down but the environment can be
so different that getting rid of
something that seems quite innocuous up
here can actually Cascade down to the
bottom and the same thing goes for this
tyranny of the minority again absolutely
there are people that will be outside of
the manbox and maybe we should expand it
so that they can fit in it but if you
blow the doors
open Where's the guidance like what does
it mean and this is also a consequence
of luxury beliefs which is Rob
Henderson's term I'm sure you've had him
on the show um and the the principal
luxury belief of our time is there's no
difference between men and
women that's a luxury belief there are
people who can afford to have it but
most people can't afford to have that
belief and then all else follows from
this uh because if you accept that there
are differences between men and women
then men and women should act
differently and that also means that
it's okay for men to be men and it's
okay for women women to be women one of
the things that I find really [ __ ]
weird man since we had our son is people
will go to my wife oh you're just you're
just at you're just you're just at home
and I'm like what do you mean just at
home are you [ __ ] insane she's she's
raising our
son and and providing everything that we
need as a family and that you're calling
that just a thing so
but but a lot of women will judge other
women for just being at home yeah and
actually I think it doesn't apply to
everybody caveat but for most women the
greatest gift their partner can give
them is opportunity if they want to be
at home with the children to do that
about 80 85% of women say that being a
stay-at-home mom is an opportunity that
an option that they aspire to have yes
and financially for most people it's
very difficult yeah right now so it's
it's it's the greatest gift and so it's
not just like men are treated badly or
women it's it's this whole dynamic hurts
everybody um and so men and women need
to work together uh dads need to be
involved in their kids lives these are
some yeah look their Trad points one one
if that's what you want to call them but
it's what works it's what works for the
kids it's what works for the family did
you read the uh men are lost can we find
a way out of the Wilderness article by
Christine Ember who was in The
Washington Post a couple of months ago
was Washington Post in there something
anyway she had this beautiful conception
in it that said um many young men feel
their difficulties are often dismissed
out of hand as whining from a patriarchy
that they don't feel a part
of it seems like a lot of modern men are
being made to pay for the sins and
advantages of their fathers and
grandfathers and I thought that that was
very interesting that um kind of like in
comedy right you're allowed to punch up
but you can't punch down and because
have had it good for so long you have
this this concern in giving them any
sympathy and even though
largely pick most of the extreme
negative outcomes that you want in life
apart from sexual assault and it's
you're going to find a man on the
receiving end whether it's homelessness
drug addiction violent crime mental
health being in jail suicide like all of
it and there was this video of
um uh I think it was a trans
so a woman who became a man or looked
like a man or whatever who was
absolutely horrified by the lack of
attention oh people crossed the street
when they were walking towards it wasn't
even just that it's just like people
ignore you when you're a woman you get
attention and people just ignore a guy
most of the time for most intents and
purposes but that's you know those are
in my opinion in a radical differences
between the Sexes the way the our
biological roles are when women are
going to get more attention I think you
can definitely see like listening to
your like pull yourself up by your
bootstraps kind of mentality especially
when it comes to men you can definitely
see that sort of Soviet like man beard
man lift thing man protect woman like I
that was actually money Ander thr but
that's that's the best Russ you getting
out with me um yeah I I I think that you
can see that and this is why you know
there's a multiplicity of opinions about
how to do this and I think it's why it's
interesting that everybody can
contribute you know in it okay give me a
critique of what I'm saying I'd love to
explore that with you no but there's
nothing that I would disagree with
massively I think that it's important to
recognize the structural disadvantages
faced by men and boys at the moment
going from a brwn based to a brain-based
economy when you have a disposition to
be less conscientious where you are put
into an education system that doesn't
suit the disposition of boys but you're
graded in the same manner as an entire
sex who
does boys and that going to fall behind
and I think that you're seeing the
outcomes of this in the way that
schooling and between the ages of 21 and
29 women earn a grand and a bit more
than men do right the the the gender pay
Gap isn't a gender pay Gap it's a mother
pay Gap right that's the the the
penalization comes to mothers I don't
disagree with any of that but the
question is what's the answer what's the
solution to that I think that creating a
positive view for masculinity creating
and this is again why you know Peterson
and Andrew Tate as well have been so
successful because they said you can be
something you can actually step out
there and Wrangle the world and I
believe in you and I'm proud of you and
it's not wrong for you to try and want
to get Mastery or conquer something or
achieve something have ambition to be
able to make decisions easily and stand
up well under pressure like you know
these are all [ __ ] good things that
are not only good for you but they're
good for the world as well I think that
there needs to be a positive Vision that
would be one I think that that creates a
positive feedback Loop for men I do
think that there's some Manning up in
the most Transcendent include uh like
Wilbur and way that we can but I also
think that you know we need to look at
structural initiatives that can help
boys and men because there's no other
group on the planet who when they fall
behind are pointed at and said this is
your problem you need to sort it out
every other group we would spend
billions in taxpayer funded money to
create committees and Charities and
initiatives that actually work out what
going on and help them boots on the
ground to be able to do this I don't
think like if a man has a problem or if
a woman has a problem we say what can we
do to fix Society if a man has a problem
we say what can a man do to fix himself
now maybe that's the fundamental
asymmetry at the heart of the sex
difference but in a society that has
Surplus resources that can help I don't
see why we wouldn't afford the why we
would make men unnecessarily swim
upstream if that makes sense
it does make sense however I think
that my view is what you said earlier
it's the fundamental asymmetry between
the Sexes now it's true that all groups
face various structural inequalities for
example I'm 5'9 barely and you play
basketball not very well I should say
for for for that reason alone actually
if you look at the evidence heightism is
one of the biggest openly available
forms of discrimination that isn't
condemned or dealt with in any way and
one of your team is scous so that must
be he's even shorter than me awful yeah
yeah so what's the answer to that my
answer to that has not been to get leg
extensions uh or to complain about
structural heightism do you know that
like structural
heightism you you joke but if you want
to play this [ __ ] game this is my
point I'm not laughing at that I'm just
it's structural heightism as a term that
I haven't heard before so if you look at
the CEOs of the top Fortune 500
companies like 90% or something like
don't quote me on it you can look it up
like a very very very significant
portion of them are over six' tall
almost always the taller president wins
I think as well right now is the answer
to that not in Russia by the
way in Russia you don't need h so is Do
We complain about that should we
complain about that should I sit here
and be like oh because I'm 5'9 I don't
get the that it doesn't help anything it
doesn't change anything right and I
remember it's so funny because I have a
a friend of mine who's like a green
Party voter voter the the most woke
person that you could possibly imagine
and he's like
55 and I made this point to him I said
yeah but you you know you talk about
these structural issues with like this
group and that group and whatever and
you're five did you know about you know
hitis and whatever and he was like yeah
but being 55 has just made me who I am I
like yes yes you are what you are the
world isn't going to change to you right
my favorite scene in Game of Thrones
have you seen game of thron is Tyrion
when he's talking to Jon Snow and he
calls him a bastard and Jon Snow takes
offense and he goes have I offended you
bastard he goes let me give you some
advice bastard never forget what you are
the world won't wear it like ARMA and it
can never be used to hurt you that's the
answer to all of this right and you're
right about Peterson and Tay who I think
very different figures but nonetheless
their success is based on the fact that
they're telling men what men do need to
hear in that respect which is it's okay
to be a man it's okay to have drive it's
okay to have ambition it's okay to have
aggression it's okay to want things it's
okay to want status it's okay to want
money it's okay to want Power these are
all things that are okay they have
pathological side effects when not
handled properly but the drive to
achieve the drive to succeed the drive
to dominate the drive to win these are
good things and pursue them and by the
way here's the interesting bit those
woke
women they love that [ __ ] this is what
I'm going to teach my son right whatever
the society tells you about how it's
wrong to be a man at the end of the day
they're all going to reward you for
being a real man this is the best time
in some ways to be a real man because
you clean up the competition is is
outing itself is taking itself out of
the picture if you act like a man you
clean up that's the position we're in
well there's a number of uh left leaning
women who are lamenting the fact that
they can't find a man who meets both
their political preference and also will
woo them appropriately on the on the
date right it's like why are all of the
men who do the things that I want from
the other political party I think it's
30% or 40% of Democrats and Republicans
fear that their son or daughter will
marry somebody of the opposite political
belief so you know this tribalism that
we spoke about earlier on speaking about
toxic masculinity as part of that debate
I did a little bit of preparation and I
found some of my favorite headlines of
things that are toxic masculinity mass
shootings gang violence climate change
the financial crisis is toxic
masculinity brexit the election of
Donald Trump not wearing a mask eating
meat physical fitness fast food
capitalism is toxic masculinity and
communism is toxic masculinity hip hop
smelling of Axe Body Spray which is Lynx
for the British people being stoic
risk-taking religion but also secularism
and Atheism playing board games being
interested in cars and saying hello or
have a nice day all toxic masculinity
man say hello is [ __ ] atrocious mate
is
it yeah the that's sort of I think
that's part of the male gays you know
there was this um I think it was a rule
was it not put on the London Underground
for a while that like the men's like
wandering eyes are something that was a
concern but here's another thing right
I'd be interested to get your take on
this I brought this up with that same uh
Fitness influencer a couple of weeks ago
Sarah really good response as
well internet incidents big
ones people in the real world use the
response of the internet they
crowdsource their sense making to how
other people
responded so you'll have seen these gym
Tik toks of girls videoing themselves
working out and sometimes there's a guy
in the background and if the guy looks
over a bit much because for whatever
reason he's looking at her he's looking
at the camera he's looking at himself
he's doing whatever sometimes they make
a big song and dance about it the first
big one of those that
happened it could have gone either way
you could have tossed a CO and I would
have said I don't know the internet may
say that this is reprehensible I didn't
I thought it was fine but I could have
seen the internet going on the other
side of the fence and saying yeah sure
should find this guy like docks him
shoot him blah blah
blah it didn't and that now has created
a new uh bar of behavior expected
Behavior both for men and for women the
interesting thing that it made me
realize is the women who saw that Tik
Tok had it have gone the other way and
had it have been completely
reprehensible and and totally not
allowed would then have reset their
worldview
expectation way more sensitive
their radar is now looking for did that
guy glance over three times or more in
the space of 90 seconds if so this
equals a dangerous situation because the
internet told me so and it's a a very
sort of slippery slope in One Direction
only it only moves towards more
sensitivity not more robustness right I
thought that was interesting perception
is projection what's that mean it means
that you see what you expect to see
you perceive your own projections of the
world uh you had that [ __ ] hyperv
viral moment about the scar makeup tell
tell it again for the people that don't
so they did an experiment where they
told a group of women that they're going
to put scarring on their faces or visual
disfigurement of some kind and then they
would go in into an interview and the
purpose of the experiment is to work out
whether the interviewer is going to
treat them differently because of their
fysal facial disfigurement what they
didn't tell the women is as they were
leaving to go for the interview they
touched up their makeup and without
showing them the F facial disfigurement
removed the scarring so they went into
the interview thinking they're facially
scarred but they weren't and they came
back reporting massive levels of
discrimination specific comments that
the interview had made about them that
they perceived so you you you see what
you expect to see this is why teaching
people victimhood is so dangerous
because it makes them victims it makes
them expect certain things and then they
will react differently I mean you know
police interactions are a good example
of this if you expect that the police
are going to treat you badly because of
who you are you're going to act in a
different way and therefore cause more
problems and I say this to somebody you
know I was a very angry young man and I
and my wife used to piss me off so much
she would constantly say like I'd get
into an argument with somebody and I'd
be like that guy's a prick he did this
and she'd be like you creating those
situations you know that right and I was
like No And it took me like a good 10
years to work out absolutely I was ABS
[ __ ] lutely I was right so we we
perceive the things that we put out into
the world and this is you know Peterson
talks about this is you can't see
without hierarchy because your brain has
to know what to focus on and what you
focus on is a function of the filter
that you project onto the world I'm
focusing on you now instead of the
bookshelf behind you I could have been
sitting here picking out a good book
this entire time it's been a waste but
so that's that's what's happening there
but it's interesting I mean I said
something at the time I was like look
these creepy men need to stop staring at
women in gyms otherwise they're going to
stop wearing lingerie to go there and
then when everybody
loses and and what I'm the point I'm
trying to make is that like you
know this is a very I'm GNA say
something very controversial here Chris
you ready men are attracted to
women I've heard about let's sit with
that for a moment I've heard about that
so you know this idea
that you're going to be barely clad and
men aren't going to notice that yeah
sorry that's that's not what our brains
are for learned our brains are for
looking at your ass that's what they're
for that's what they evolved for I know
it's crudely put I learned the term for
this new style of gy short it's got
what's called a butt scrunch right have
you seen the butt scrunch yes right yeah
you're a married man online of course
yeah someone showed me a photo I tried
to look away um yeah it which is for the
people that haven't seen it and aren't
training in gyms with like 20y olds in
it's like a normal pair of shorts
training shorts for a girl like kind of
tight but then it's got kind of like a
thong bit that separates the ass cheeks
out um which has been normalized very
quick do you remember when do you
remember the first time that wearing
just leggings became a thing cuz I do
cuz it wasn't when I went to UNI so it
was after 2006 it was after maybe it
happened while I was at Uni so maybe
before
2010 but I remember thinking wow that's
like that's like everything on display
that's kind of like kind of like no
pants yeah but then also kind of not and
then now it's like oh that's kind of
like no pan well like that's kind of
like just a thong but blue or like
purple or Lilac I feel you've dedicated
a lot of time to describing this
accurately which which I appreciate I'm
casual orthologist on the side um I
wanted to tell you about this can I can
I say something just on that before you
move on because I think we we sort of
like we're we're trying to pretend
things all the time
which yes men shouldn't be pigs right we
can all agree on that but in order to
not be a pig I first have to see your
ass that you've shoved in my face right
so I see it I am then after that not a
pig right but I see
and it's there and there's my brain
isn't calibrated or designed or evolved
I mean the the sole purpose of our genes
is to reproduce right how is that you
see what I'm saying well there's a
female frame that's placed around this
conversation specifically that I don't
think
fully I maybe go as far as to say like
sympathizes with
the male brain reward system there is an
inbuilt reward system that men have for
looking at sexually gratifying objects
even things like two rocks that look a
bit like boobs right right what's the
first thing a boy does when he gets a
calculator right
boobs yep now is that because of toxic
masculinity or is that because men
evolved for millions of years throughout
evolutionary history including preum
animals to seek the opposite sex and the
drive in males is just overwhelmingly
strong now once you have noticed that
how you act is where culture and society
and civilizing Men comes in right just
cuz you saw someone's eyes doesn't need
doesn't mean that you allowed to go and
stare at it or grab it or whatever but
you saw it and you're
not it's it's almost like it happens and
then you're like okay I need
to [ __ ] yeah yeah yeah yeah that's how
it works now what do you want me to do
about
that what are you supposed to do about
that I'm open to suggestions blinkers
blinker
men big some people would be in favor of
that big Veil that goes over the top
right little bit of inside baseball for
people who aren't familiar with what's
going on in the podcasting world and
apparently this one's slipped by you as
well Theo Von and other significant
podcasters allegedly defrauded of
approximately $4 million and then calls
out the fraudster in a
video in an unexpected turn of events
Colin Thompson the man who is working
under cast media and with theovon is is
accused of orchestrating a fraud
operation that cost Theo Von's podcast
the this past weekend and potentially
other podcasts an estimated $4 million
theovon and his crew detected
inconsistencies in their payments which
is when trouble started advertisers
allegedly paid Colin Thompson and cast
media directly leaving Theo with less
money than anticipated and I know from
my side of the fence that there are
quite a few other podcasts that were
with this particular company and it
seems like this
gentleman has been living a good life
meanwhile he's been robbing Peter to pay
Paul to keep on cycling this through
photos of Lamborghinis and nice houses
allegedly and people aren't happy and
then Theo did a 10-minute video that uh
said sorry brother you messed with the
wrong rat and this video I think within
24 hours it hit a mill plays photos of
the guy all the rest of it
so ructions ruction in the podcasting
world I can't wait to be able to be
defrauded of $4
million that's my dream goal to get to
that
position [ __ ] yeah you got to be careful
man you got to be careful that's why
what we're building trigonometry and
we've got some big plans Beyond just
trigonometry itself is um you know
bringing cool people together but doing
it under our own steam under our own
umbrella having everything managed by us
with the right values and the right team
uh it's really important yeah for the
people that don't know how podcast
advertising works it's I handle almost
all of my big Partners as well directly
but a lot of the time there'll be an
agency that sits in between you and them
invoicing is kind of hard oh there's an
IO and did the deliverables get done and
how many numbers did that podcast hit
and so on and so forth and also who's
advertising at the moment oh there's a
new company in town maybe we can
increase the the cost or the the price
that we're charging for this all that
like it's messy and it's back and forth
and whatever whatever especially if
you're doing lot of little deals as
opposed to how I have it which is a
small number of larger partners and uh
yeah you have these guys that sit in
between you and them classic agency
model it's like a modeling agency right
like you have a model there's your
talent you have clients that want models
and you take a bit off the top take
somewhere between 10 and 25% depending
on who the partner is and how big the
deals are but they hold the money like
they get paid the money from The
Advertiser and then less they're cut
they'll pass it down to the
podcaster these podcast are largely run
I mean you'll get your YouTube AdSense
Revenue which is not nothing but [ __ ]
hell it's not what you're making from
your proper partners and uh yeah if I
don't know man I mean it's such a it's
obviously you can chase these people
down for like we're going to [ __ ] get
in for fraud but he's just going to
declare bankruptcy or [ __ ] move to
the Cayman Islands or whatever
so yeah I feel this is the first time
that we've seen a big case like this
which is slap Bang in the bullseye of
the anal of of our world right it's the
first time that this has happened
and it's kind of surprising it hasn't
done before but hopefully it's a
formative experience that that's one
other
thing if you want to [ __ ] some people
over for $4 million don't [ __ ] people
over that have a combined reach of 20
million YouTube subscribers you know
what I
mean absolutely no it's not a smart move
uh but look I I I think we're sort of
living through a wild wild west of of
the internet I mean actually the wild
wild west of the internet is over but
the podcasting world it's it's very new
so there's going to be a lot of this
[ __ ] going on I imagine this isn't an
isolated incident actually um so yeah I
think we all got to be careful and smart
about how the way we build we build
things that we build rule BR britania
rule
britan rule britan on you're actually
British unlike me I'm trying rule
britania at last night of the proms
hijacked by activists waving EU Flags
the sight of hundreds of European Union
Flags the last night of the proms have
prompted an outrage from brexiteers and
a call for the BBC to investigate those
waving the EU flag in the Royal Albert
Hall appeared to outnumber those waving
the Union flag at the event which is
usually a patriotic display following a
campaign by pro-europeans the spectacle
of so many EU flags being waved as the
whole belted out Rule Britannia provoked
disgust from leading Euros Skeptics
what's going
on I
I voted from the guardian I voted rain
in the
referendum and I've
largely I don't know if I've changed my
view of that how I would vote but my
view of that issue has evolved so much
precisely by seeing these [ __ ] morons
who just completely incapable of
understanding what democracy means
democracy means that when you lose you
accept it there's some other Parallels
for that particular
statement when you lose you accept it
and we've had for the last s
years these just absolute [ __ ]
lunatics running around acting like what
democracy means is they always get their
way and they have to insert this into
everything they've just become obsessed
uh and
it's it's mindboggling to me how how
we're still talking about brexit is
mindboggling to me I I I don't get it
yeah that's insane it's insane that's
like a
On's old talking point now I think if
you were still talking about brexit your
brain is broken when do you think that
rule gets applied to
covid I think that with covid I actually
said this before covid was over and it
in this instance I get things wrong all
the time but this was something I turned
out to be right that people will want to
forget very quickly and they have done
even even I want to move on from Co we
talked about it earlier but I don't have
any great desire to talk about it most
people have moved on without learning
the lessons of the thing so I think the
reason to still talk about covid is that
there is a future pandemic coming and we
ought to learn the lessons of this one
while we still can with brexit it's a
political decision that is not
reversible unless you have another
referendum which in which case you free
to campaign to have another referendum
if that's what you'd like I'm not sure
showing up with EU flags and the proms
is the way to achieve a second
referendum just I'm not political expert
but that I there is a like a Resurgence
of activism occurring at the moment but
it's always in criticism of stuff yeah
so George Mack one of my friends
highlighted that the last time that
there was a ticket tape parade for
someone that wasn't healthc Care
Professionals in America for something
not against something was Nelson Mandela
in the '90s
so you
have a
culture of activism and of public
displays
of
passion however can only be against
something or people are only choosing to
do it against something and people
respond to incentives what what's that
um saying every great every great cause
begins as of mov movement becomes a
business and eventually degenerates into
a racket and there are many people in
this country who made a career out of
being prominent remainers and when
brexit was
over what are you going to do so they
just carry on and the people they feed
this crap like having this crap fed to
them so they just they keep going it's
it's a it's a reward incentive based
system
because it's a pointless conversation
you're not going to change the result of
the referendum even if you succeeded in
proving the brexit was a bad idea it's
already happened so you can argue for a
second referendum or another referendum
if you want but that's it right but
talking about how sh brexit is isn't
about achieving a result beyond your own
personal enrichment satisfaction status
Etc and and you know FEI this Marina
perkus woman there's a [ __ ] ton of these
people on Twitter whose only thing that
they do is talk about brexit and and get
you know thousands and thousands of
views it makes me sad to think about
people
who I know there's like one incident
that occurs especially like public stuff
like some catastrophe or News St like
people that are still talking about
meline mccan do you know what I mean
like I understand [ __ ] terrible
situation but there are people whose
entire lives I want I mean they are her
parents
uh I once stepped
[Laughter]
into [ __ ] sake
constant you was there you left an open
goal it had to be yeah you can take the
comedian out of Comedy
um I once descended I got hit with the
[ __ ] like blast radius of um these
two investigative journalists I had them
on the show when The Disappearance of MN
mccan came out on Netflix and these were
the two main people husband and wife and
I brought them on I thought [ __ ] hell
like these are the two these are the
[ __ ] experts these are the guys that
Netflix went to they must be like
[ __ ] legit you
any brought them on turns out there is
an Ardent [ __ ] group of people who
really do not like them on the Internet
and I was a part of like meline McAn law
for a couple of weeks because this guy
has platformed these people that we know
they're a part of the like whatever the
[ __ ] cover up scheme and they didn't
know the thing that went on do you
haven't read the original police report
from Portugal or wherever she was
from and it's there's part of me that
thinks like noble cause you're chasing
after it there's part of me that thinks
holy [ __ ] you've been captured by this
one thing like this one incident has
just completely controlled your life for
forever I mean the one thing that
doesn't get said of often enough is you
know there's a certain proportion of
society that's not mentally well
massively over represented online right
so I think a lot of people are just you
know it's it's it's an obsession of
theirs or whatever you don't get to see
what's driving this is what I often
think when I'm reading Twitter replies
CU I'm like well the these people are
like you know normal and right and most
of them are of course they are but like
you read something weird and then I sort
of like go okay let's imagine what sort
of circumstances I would have to be
sitting in to write this and then I see
that picture and I go okay this makes
sense you know what I mean like when I
see people saying really crazy [ __ ] I'm
like so this I I just think what we
forget sometimes is a lot of people are
you know in that situation I was telling
you about this preventative medicine
place that I've been to in America so
it's called Fountain life and I did a
podcast with the founder forever ago and
thought that sounds [ __ ] cool didn't
really know what preventative medicine
was although it's kind of encapsulated
in the name and I ended up getting like
everything done full body MRI CT scan
heart angiogram brain angiogram I need
to do that man full Works yes I will
100% link you in with them one of the
things they do I think it's called
contrast uh so you're hooked up to an IV
which is uh like a mechanical IV so when
they press a button just [ __ ] goes into
you so they've got you in the [ __ ]
canul or whatever it is they've got the
the thing in there and then there's this
this huge big wheel spinning around you
unbelievably quickly so you kind of in
MRI machine it's a little bit more open
than this huge fuckof wheel that's
obviously like scanning [ __ ] and then
this they pump stuff from this machine
into your vein and it lights up your
heart it goes into the um ventricles of
the heart while this thing's in a very
specific position over you blah blah
blah but the felt sense of it
is Heat starting in your neck and going
only through your torso doesn't touch
any of your limbs going only through
your torso and finishing in like your
bladder and then it cools off around
your bladder for about 20 seconds it is
one of the strangest [ __ ] experiences
it's not unpleasant strange not I would
definitely wouldn't even say it's that
unpleasant to be honest [ __ ] it's like
must be what feeling like a dragon is
like just [ __ ] heat moving around
inside of you so yeah that was very
interesting I can't wait preventative
medicine though we were saying it
before playing a game where you try to
catch up to a disease that's already
happened by Design is a losing fight
right absolutely no I I think that that
seems to me to be the future of the
direction that we're going is like
looking into genetic
predispositions I know people who are
having procedures because they know they
have a certain risk Etc you know Chris
Hemsworth found out on that disc
Discovery documentary that he's got I
think he's got um genetic predisposition
to Alzheimer's so he's spending way more
time with like his family and he's doing
other thing He adjusted his entire life
because I might not be able to remember
this should learn a second
language that's protective against
Alzheimer's people who speak multiple
languages are much less likely to have
it oh I
wonder might might which way the causal
effect works I don't know but I imagine
exercising your brain in multiple ways
is helpful to protecting yourself
against like
that yeah I I don't know man you know
there's a multiplicity of of
um ideas about how we're supposed to
live our lives and in some regards it's
amazing you know the promise of free
access to information 24 hours a day all
of human civilizations knowledge at your
fingertips that combined with the
falling away of The Gatekeepers and this
loss of trust in
institutions actually makes for really
[ __ ]
like disquieting Journey for a lot of
people because who do I trust do your
own
research [ __ ] I've got a Life to Live
I've got to try and to the family and
the kids and the house and the dog and
the me and and you want me to I got to
go and do my own give me the medical
journal I'm going to go through this
whether it's about health are carbs good
is sugar good what about should we be
eating more butter what about meat is
meat killing me or should I go vegan
what about paleo liver King says I need
more testicle like you you know and it's
everything and I'll see you and I'll
raise you which is what if the way for
you to live your life that's optimal is
different to mine right my wife's very
into aerobic medicine and that's the
entire concept of it is the different
types of people that need different food
different uh different times that they
eat they all sorts of different things
um so a lot of it is experiential like
um I when I found out that you could
just eat protein and greens I was like
whoa this is amazing and that's what I
do I have carbs every now and again but
it it fits how I am wired and my wife's
the exact opposite she's water she's
wind wind yeah you're fire I'm F I'm
yeah I'm fire is the lead for me Anton
Anton's wind Francis water knew it BL
bloody water Prett obvious bloody water
yeah water is great if you can get it
off the
sofa then it it's like a ball rolling
down the hill you can't stop it it
becomes Unstoppable but it's a [ __ ]
hard it takes a lot of fire to get water
off the sofa yeah I was fascinated he
taught me about this in uh in Austin
when we when we were hanging last time I
thought it was really fascinating you
taught me as well ambient water ambient
not not refrigerated water should avoid
drinking cold water yeah too much yeah
yeah well just that's that's their way
way that's how they say it and I'm by no
means an expert but generally ingesting
cold things is not good for you is is
what yogurt love yogurts so much though
they you also not great as I understand
I mean look I'm not supposed to eat red
meat and I eat mostly red meat so you
know you break the rules sometimes yeah
but no I I understand what you mean that
different different sort of Strokes for
different folks but [ __ ] hell like
even if there can be Different Strokes
for different folks I should be able to
find a source that can I'm this kind of
a person therefore I can do this kind of
a thing and this is
where if I was more
conspiratorial I would say that the goal
of a messy information landscape is not
to convince you of any one
narrative but to convince you that no
narrative can be
trusted and it seems to me that if I
was maybe even a nefarious domestic
actor wanting to make a sort of
nihilistic
fatalistic Placid com not compliant but
just like surrendered
populace well you know the rat
electrification experiment right where
they put a rat in a in a Cell where the
floor gives them an electric shock and
what they found was um in Psychology
this is called what's the term learn
helplessness yes this is the lone hel
experiment where if the rat is able to
end the electric shock by pressing a
button then the rat will continue to do
that if the rat has no control over the
electric shock it will just lie down and
take it right so I think this um you
what you're talking about is a system
that creates learn helplessness in
people um which is one of the reasons
while of course it's super tempting to
bash the mainstream media and they
deserve a lot of the bashing we need a
IMM mediate ecosystem that's trusted we
do need politicians who can be trusted
I'm not happy with the status quo that
we've got at the moment where we trust
no one and with good reason but the
solution to that isn't to trust the
mainstream the solution is for the
mainstream to become trustworthy yeah um
do you think that's even possible I
think it's very difficult in the modern
environment it's very very difficult
because um I just see that us we're
running a small media organization to to
you are too right it's like do you get
everything right do you is your research
always on point you know so it's very
very difficult interesting what you said
earlier
about um there are certain things that
they're able to do that we're not you
know like factchecking and stuff they're
also because of how they're incentivized
and subsidized and the
expectations like non-sexy stories you
know digging
into weather and accounts and stuff tell
me which YouTube channel is going to
predict tomorrow's weather no one M
right not sexy enough too much of a cost
to be able to do and no one's saying the
[ __ ] Met Office they're captured by
the woke although there was that thing
this year right where they made most of
Europe look like it had turned to Ash
because anything over 35 degrees Celsius
meant that it was like the blackened end
of a cigarette so maybe there is a
little bit incredible I mean [ __ ]
going on yeah well there is a lot of
[ __ ] going on what's interesting is
there's no I find the climate issue
absolutely fascinating it's genuinely
fascinating to me because the the
historical ignorance on that issue that
is being deliberately spread is is like
mind-blowing to me do you know the
Romans when they occupied Britain they
grew grapes on hadran's wall hadran's
wall for people listening is what used
to protect England from Scot from what
is now Scot what is now England from
what is now Scotland right one of the
northern most points on the British
Isles uh now if you don't know Scotland
[ __ ] cold it's average weather in I
used to live in Edinburgh for seven
years average weather in Scotland in in
August is like 18 degrees in rain at
best right
so uh the the what we are being told
about that issue is absolutely
mind-blowingly incredibly unhelpful and
inaccurate wasn't the I think it's still
around somewhere in London or somewhere
in the South Coast 40 mil Inland from
the coast there's ports py castle Yeah
pavy Castle you go there and they're
like Yeah The Sea used to be here I
don't see the SE 200000 years ago yeah
so this whole conversation is very very
odd to me and uh after my Oxford speech
went viral I I had a lot of invitations
to go and speak to different people and
I I was talking to this guy who works
for the Indian government at a high
level and he told me when when India
became independent in 1947 average life
expectancy was 37 years old in India and
today it's I think
82 and that's because they burn fossil
fuels now are we saying to a billion
plus Indian people they're not allowed
to do that anymore do you know what I
mean like the way we talk about this
issue just it it's it it's a cult it
doesn't make any sense it doesn't make
any logical sense the things that are
being suggested that we do don't make
any sense the way we're approaching it
doesn't make any sense it's it's
incredible to me the way this
conversation is being had um and I and
I'd love to understand you know Eric who
you just had on he always says this like
we're lying about the climate for the
wrong reasons do you know what I mean
like it's like his point is climate
change is happening and it's a serious
issue but we're lying about the way to
deal with it and lots of other things
around it um that's one of the most
weird things to me about what's
happening like bjon
lomor during that oh my God Heatwave
we're all going to die kept posting
stuff about you know like actually the
the number of forest fires is the lowest
it's ever been then the number of
hurricanes in America is etc etc etc and
I would love to know what's going on
with that [ __ ] I would love to know
because you got any
theories
um well one thing that's interested me a
lot is obviously people are familiar
with the concept of group think but
there's another thing which is um the
the abene Paradox I don't know if you're
familiar with it it's basically the idea
that people will often do things because
they think other people want them done
um and you combine that with mass panic
indoctrinating kids into being terrified
Etc and I also think human beings love a
doomsday narrative and a a portion of
the sort of side that I've been arguing
on which is this anti woke side is like
The Barbarians at the gates now I
genuinely think that's true I think we
are undermining the founding pillars of
our civilization but there is an appeal
to that worldview and and if you look
back NE neither of us are old enough but
in the 1970s the planet was Cooling and
everybody was terrified of global
cooling terrified terrified of the
population bomb absolutely now we're
terrified of the depopulation it's it's
what we love we love to think and I
think there's a kind of like we live in
special times oh like a mass solipsism
yeah like look look you know the last
2,000 years you know [ __ ] has happened
and you know you had Jesus and you had
World War II and whatever but now is the
real time when [ __ ] is happening you
know and who knows maybe it is happening
not on this issue I don't think but yeah
the idea that we are living through a
climate catastrophe seems highly suspect
to me highly suspect but also somehow
very sexy very sexy now that's not to
say the climate isn't changing the
climate is changing but the question I
think we also ought to be asking is is
the climate changing a bad thing well
climate related deaths have decreased by
50 times over the last 100 years that's
Alex Epstein has he been on your yeah we
haven't had him on but yes oh dude you I
mean you guys would [ __ ] love him I'm
sure
uh he's an interesting dude yeah uh
climate related deaths have decreased by
50 times more people are killed by cold
weather than hot weather yes way way way
way more and we know that because this
is the thing about the idea of pursuing
n zero is it makes energy more expensive
that's the method by which you achieve
this to some
extent uh and T you know pensioners
freeze to death every winter in this
country now that doesn't seem like a
good thing to me I don't think making
energy more expensive for poor elderly
people and them freezing to death on
their own in their homes in the winter I
don't think that's what I don't think if
we were setting out to improve the world
that would be one of the ways that we do
that but because we're trade-off
denialist because we refuse to
understand that actions have
consequences good and bad um we ignore
that uh and this
hysteria it's cult-like and it it it's I
find it very strange I find it very
strange whatever you think about the
climate issue in and of itself our
response to it is is strange people are
just looking for a cause yeah right and
this is why Co was so captivating on
both sides because it gave us a
righteous War to wage uh and again when
you've got a multiplicity of ways that
you can go with your life the manbox has
been blown open nobody says that you
should be this to for masculinity maybe
I don't even need to get into a
relationship I can just boss [ __ ] or
like Insel my way through the next
however many decades of my life do all
this sort of stuff ah he a single Vector
along which I can move I'm no longer in
an open field I'm on a set of railway
tracks and yeah you know Peterson had
the ordering chaos like Paradigm out
there uh it feels like there's a [ __ ]
hell of a lot of chaos and not a massive
amount of order for people and then the
people that live in chaos land and
prefer that look at the people in order
land as tyrants and the people in order
Land look at the people in chaos land as
[ __ ] Vigilantes and yeah it's it
doesn't surprised me man you know and
this is where I said to Eric I wish that
I'd got Eric to watch the Sam episode
before he sat down with me because it
was difficult for me to portray a
three-hour conversation in 20 seconds
but I don't think that those guys are
too far apart like Eric's saying we've
lost faith in our institutions but we
can't get rid of them Independent Media
is both advantageous and not going away
but we [ __ ] can't like Outsource our
sense making to them as well
how do we live in this new world what
does success look like in this regard I
thought it was [ __ ] interesting look
I think we we're living in a this is a
metaphor that is overused but it's sort
of the invention of the printing press
kind of situation that I mean that
caused two centuries of religious
War so I think what H what the social
media in particular and the internet
more broadly has done it is has broken
our ability to make sense of the world
and we are all reaching for a way to do
that I think it's going to take some
time uh and it's not going to be without
consequence um you know and I it's it's
interesting because the argument about
free speech is made very complicated by
the existence of social media because
there are people who say they're free
speech
absolutists I've never called myself
that because I don't believe anyone is a
free speech absolutist what what's your
conception on Free Speech Give me the
give me the framework well think about
this so Elon Musk says he's a free
speech absolutist he buys Twitter and
then the moment people trigger his
personal preferences he shuts that
particular form of conversation down
right when it was about children or
something like that right spreading
something it was I think he said it
about Alex Jones or whatever right
anyway my point is X Twitter whatever
has a moderation policy because it has
to it has to because the technology is
so
powerful this is the I'll give you both
sides of the argument right but the
argument for moderation as an content
moderation is that the technology so
powerful if you can start an assault on
the capital or an undermining of an
election or whatever it is or a riot or
a a mass shooting or whatever if you can
start that from your phone the
technology is too powerful to be left un
uncontrolled uh and I have a lot of
sympathy with that argument however
let's flip it the other way
around you live in the United States now
a country for which I have a tremendous
regard the history and the formation of
the country is very interesting because
it it it it creates a country that is
fundamentally very different to every
other country that's existed
before do you get
1776 if there is
Twitter and it's
moderated I don't think you do because
who would allow a revolution to happen
you think King George would allow the
spreading of
misinformation right so we are stuck in
this place where on the one hand yes
free speech is absolute and is really
super important on the other hand
actually most people it's very easy to
be a free speech absolutist until you
are in the hot seat making the decision
and imagine you are in the hot seat and
you've got the CIA the FBI the heads of
government the whoevers your friends
coming to you and going if you don't do
something people are going to get killed
and they are going to get killed and
that's on your conscience it's up to you
right so it's a very very difficult
thing with the power of the technology
that we have that has the ability to
multiply information narratives opinions
whatever to in such to such an extent so
we have not worked out how to handle
that at all and everybody who says they
has they have a solution to it I'd love
to see them be in the hot seat for a day
and then we'll see how absolutist they
are about Free Speech or how Pro
censorship they are because there's a
flip s side to the coin which is you do
moderation you're going to get accused
of bias from both sides y right so I
don't have no Envy for those people now
I do think they've made a [ __ ] ton of
mistakes I'm just saying I suspect I
probably would have done too yeah Sam
had an interesting analogy where he was
saying if I spend five years building up
the waking up social media platform and
I want only Nazis to be allowed on it I
should be allowed to only have Nazis on
my social media platform or the inverse
I should be allowed to kick Nazis off
it's not my job to have people I don't
want on my social media platform and
this comes back to the like is it the
pipeline versus Public
Service ARG I mean there's a very strong
counterargument to that argument which
is the one you've just made which is
once you've captured the entire Market
you're a monopoly and we regulate
monopolies for a reason which is uh to
be kicked off to be kicked out of the
local pub does not prevent you from
going and having a drink in a pub to be
kicked off Twitter prevents you from
communicating in that element of the
Public Square has there been any you
know there's there's usually concerns
around Monopoly has there been any of
that to do with online platform is there
such a big as such a thing as too big of
an online platform like [ __ ] Facebook
and Tik Tok and and YouTube of like you
know large portions of the planet as
users so this is a new category in that
regard absolutely the banks got so big
that they needed to be split up you take
large things and make them into smaller
things right but you can't not with this
cuz no one wants to be on the third best
Twitter nobody wants to use the third
best Google right you do it you split
them off and then everyone just
converges back on which the Monopoly is
what makes it valuable the fact that
it's on there is what makes valuable
that's why Elon Musk bought Twitter
rather than building his own from
scratch yeah because he has the money to
build his own Twitter but you just can't
drag people over enough so the Monopoly
is the point
this is why it's such a tricky thing a
new category yeah of business that's
it's that's why it's the point with with
sort of
frictionless gravitation toward
whichever thing you want to choose to
use people will always Converge on the
biggest the best the whatever one
whereas yeah if Jim shark gets two and a
half billion users or customers they say
you need to split up into JY and shark
right or Lloyds and TSB uh it's not
quite the same you don't have not
everyone's going to converge on this
particular one it's interesting um one
of the analogies I used to use from my
nightclub days and Twitter's kind of
like this in Nightlife events it's one
of the only Industries where the other
users of the product are the primary
value of the product itself so if you
ask one of your friends on you in your
20s mate how was last night and they'll
say mate it was amazing so many girls in
that club go hang no I asked you how
your night was I didn't ask who were the
other people that went to the event you
know you don't say why do I use an
iPhone I use an iPhone because David
Beckham's got an iPhone so I use an
iPhone because the camera and the apps
and battery life and stuff like that but
nightlife was very very interesting in
that way which is why it was so mimetic
the same reason why like I'll I'll open
this up to you internet uh some industry
Secrets here sometimes nightclubs hold
cues and sometimes they make their cues
thinner than they need to be so they
look really long and then they take a
photo because it looks like it was busy
and we did that we did that all the time
we still do the fresh as week next week
in Newcastle it's exactly what every
single nightclub will do but you have
that same thing with regards to the
social media as well the other users of
social media largely determine your
experience on it which is why you know
Rumble is this and Truth social is
whatever right is there a left leaning
is there a left well they had one
masteron didn't they I don't know what's
happened to which tells you quite a lot
speaking of masteron I had a guy called
Ben Lamb on the show he's the CEO of
this company called colossal he is using
ancient genetic information to bring the
woolly mammoth back to life within 20
years we will have actual woolly
mammoths walking on this planet so
they've found in the Arctic very good
for preserving DNA they found bones and
all sorts of other stuff uh Mammoth
carcass remains from that they've taken
I think it's maybe 40 or 50 different
because you don't get a full DNA
sequence in any one of them then they've
brought them all together used AI to
fill in the little gaps they're then
going to
implant a uh whatever it's called stem
cell plur potent stem cell inside of the
Asian elephant so an Asian elephant will
give birth to a woolly mammoth and then
after a sufficiently long amount of time
they'll get placed up north and they can
do all sorts of awesome stuff uh for
helping to fertilize the Arctic uh and
he also wants to bring back the dodo
bird the interesting reason he wanted to
bring back the dodo bird was the reason
that the dodo bird was killed off was
because of unsustainable uh hunting
practices so you'd think that the
mammoth has like a a real function right
the dodo bird kind people laugh at it
for being this stupid pigeon That
Couldn't fly away but maybe it was
because of the introduction of a
particular a particular like predator or
whatever yeah it might have been like
ecological imbalance that was done by
man-made and his point is Mammoth does a
thing it's like the the farmer of the
Arctic doo
bird is like a symbolic representation
of do you see all of the work that we
had to [ __ ] go to to bring this thing
back to life be more careful when you
introduce invasive species into
different uh different ecologies I was
like [ __ ] hell and he's super fired
up about it I found him really Charming
so I had a conversation with him the
other day I thought that was cool so
they're gonna bring back prehistoric
animals I I think I remember seeing a
movie about that yeah I did say you know
how far back can we go uh real problem
bones bones and teeth don't hold much
genetic information which is a [ __ ]
massive shame but we can do stuff like
saber-tooth tigers like particular types
of saber-tooth cats um I was asking him
what else did he want to bring back
there was this huge [ __ ] sloth this
massive thing it was like the largest
marsupial or some they live like on an
island where there were no Predators I
think so yeah this gigantic [ __ ]
sloth so there's like a laundry list of
different ridiculous MEAP fora
prehistoric an or prehistoric like
deceased it's called de
Extinction uh extinct animals that he
wants to bring back I just thought like
between that and preventative medicine
and Ai and what your thoughts on AI how
are you feeling are you uh [ __ ]
scared that you're going to lose your
job to GPT 6 or I'm not scared I'm going
to lose my job no
um it's going to make a very significant
impact on the world but what that's
going to end up looking like I don't
think anyone really knows uh I think
there's probably there's a lot of fear
porn about it and it may be justified it
maybe I don't have any profound thoughts
about it I think um if you look at human
history people always use technology for
basically the same things right getting
laid killing each other Etc right so
you'll produce amazing porn you'll
produce amazing weapons you'll produce
amazing everything and then human beings
are going to do what they always do I
think is the truth right um like I
remember I think it was Desmond Morris I
I used to read a lot of his books I
don't know if you're familiar with them
but it's one of the things he talked
about he said like when you dig up a
clay tablet in Egypt from
you know 4,000 years ago you read it is
basically the same [ __ ] that we talk
about now you know my son doesn't call
doesn't write to me or doesn't visit me
or whatever it's you know Human
Condition doesn't change the tools we
use to express it do I saw a report from
an ancient stone tablet from I think
Egypt or ancient Rome uh that was a
justification for why this employee
hadn't turned up to work it was a sick
note that he'd written and it's this
[ __ ] elaborate story about what
happened and the the wife and there was
the catastrophe and all this stuff and
yeah you do realize that human nature is
pretty [ __ ] resilient yeah over a
long enough period of time but coming
back here's another thing I'll say about
the Free Speech conversation which is
that we haven't made nearly a an honest
enough case about Free Speech which is
why we're having a a stupid debate about
it because no one wants to say the truth
which is Free Speech has consequences
that are bad but
like there are people who say atrocious
horrific [ __ ] there are people who will
use the opportunity to be on a social
platform to mobilize and do Terrible
Things um now there's a big conversation
now about whether there's a lot of
anti-Semitism on X and actually there is
there is I have to block more people
than I used to have to block to uh on
Twitter uh but I am still in favor of
that being AOW out uh because I'd much
rather these people were in the open and
people could see what they are and they
can have their conversation instead of
going off into a kind of like a private
place where it's just them and the
arguments are never challenged so I
think one of the things people don't say
enough about free speech is yes it
causes harm but the Harm's worth
it uh and uh we don't make that argument
because it's too honest and you know
complicated and unpleasant and whatever
but the other side of the argument is
terrifying to me I don't think I've told
the story publicly but last time I did
question time uh question time is this
big discussion political discussion
program here in the UK um before they do
the show they do a warm-up
question that's not recorded and it's
not released so it's like a
warmup and the conversation at that time
was Donald Trump had just been unbanned
on
Facebook and they was asking
whether that was okay and they went to
me first and I was like look not that
I'm his biggest fan but I do think the
former or sitting president of the
United States should be able to speak in
public yeah I do controversial as that
is and then they went around the table
and whatever and then they went to the
labor woman who was there very nice
woman and she without batting an eyelid
went I think we should have the safest
internet in the
world and and what safer than North
Korea right this is come coming back to
this point about tradeoff denialism like
they think safety doesn't have a price
and the other argument is freedom
doesn't have a price and the truth is
they both have a price and what we're
trying to find is the right point in the
middle between those two we want enough
freedom and enough safety and that line
is somewhere in the middle because if
you think about it that that's true of
any issue I can end murder outside of
the prison system
today I can stop murder wouldn't do you
and rape do you want to stop murder and
rape yes okay let's lock up all men
between the ages of 15 and 40 until they
age out of it you've ended
murder right but we don't do that why
not because there's a trade-off between
safety and
freedom and so it's the same of
everything and it's the same with free
speech you mentioned Trump what do you
think happens in
2024 I I'm not an expert on it but um it
looks like they're going to try and put
him in
prison and it also looks like he might
win
is that possible yeah can both things
happen can you be president from prison
yeah you can be president from prison
yeah [ __ ] off you can't be president
from prison look it up you can be
president from prison oh my God and you
can run from prison more
interestingly I wonder may maybe maybe
if you are I don't know maybe you can't
be president you can definitely run from
prison maybe you get elected and pardon
yourself right so you're okay let's say
let's say that there's
no prison what what happens presuming
that everybody is a but why would we
presume that I mean I think it's pretty
clear that that's what's going to happen
okay it's the path that they're on it
looks to me like they're going after him
we just had Scott Adams on the show uh
and this is he said Trump needs to win
to stay out of prison
that's what he thinks um and I also
think that the other thing he said is
like he actually interestingly said that
he thinks Trump started this because
when he talked about Hillary and he said
I'm going to lock you up they were like
oh oh you want to play let's [ __ ]
play so I think they're going after him
now and they want to put him in prison
and I think they will but you also think
that
he I think he'll he'll win the
nomination for the Republicans yeah and
then it's I mean who the [ __ ] look at
the last election who the [ __ ] knows
what's going to happen but he can run
from prison that much I know that's
[ __ ] insan vivec ramas Swani playing
tennis with his top off whilst Trump's
in prison as the Trump ramas Swani 2024
[ __ ] thing that looks like what it's
going to be right I think that's what
vivec's going for yeah he's angling for
it for sure yeah and who do you think
gets nominated for the Democrats well
he's got he's going to be Biden isn't it
I mean they're not going to abandon him
unless
what he falls down a flight of stairs
yeah and in his case it wouldn't even be
a conspiracy it's just who do you
think's the running mate any idea no man
look I let's be honest neither of us is
an well although you are now an adopted
American so you probably an immigrant to
that great nation I know even less than
you yeah uh you know I try I the more I
the more people listen to what I say the
less I try and talk about things I don't
know enough about I mean that was a
Douglas Murray thing he was someone had
asked him
about two years ago had asked him why he
hadn't written many articles he writes
like four or five columns a week it's
like 3,000 4,000 words every week and
then his books and then his speaking on
top someone had asked him something
along the lines of why haven't you
commented that much on Co he says I'm
going to do something which is very rare
in the modern world which is to not
comment on something which I know
nothing about and I thought what a
[ __ ] beautiful and outlier philosophy
to have but this is you know I see this
I see this allure in myself and you know
I have to check myself and probably fail
almost all the time at doing it uh you
people start to listen to you about a
thing or for a thing and you go well why
shouldn't I comment on the
Ukraine maybe my maybe my take on the
Ukraine
is useful maybe maybe I maybe the world
does deserve to hear what my thoughts
are
about immigration crossing the
channel and then you realize I mean I've
commented on both those things but
thanks mate but you are from the [ __ ]
region of the Ukraine and immigrants to
the UK yeah right that's a lived
experience yes exactly uh I know exactly
what you mean your point is very very
very valid it happens with comedians
incidentally which is why comedians
political opinions generally speaking
are so demented because you stand on
stage all day making other people throw
their head back and admire you right or
be enthralled by you or whatever and
you're like oh maybe I do know something
let me give you my opinion about brexit
it's like no no just be the clown shut
the [ __ ] up now that's why I don't do
comedy actually it's one of the reasons
it's like I always was I was more
interested in making a point than I was
in being artificially funny you know
what I mean um and I always thought of
myself more as a saturnist anyway which
was a different thing but yeah uh being
in front of a microphone use you with a
level of confidence that is very often
inappropriate right it's like
permanently being
on uh oratorial Viagra yeah if
everyone's listening to me I must be
worth listening to that's that's what
happens in your brain regardless of what
it is that I'm talking about regardless
of the format or the yeah I've got these
um these live shows coming up uh toward
the end of the year November mid
November um that's awesome thank you uh
what's your advice for someone who I've
touring comic played [ __ ] thousands
of shows across your career what do
people who haven't put that time in on
stage not know about how being on stage
works this is going to sound like a [ __ ]
answer but actually it's stage time is
just like air miles on the clock like
with pilot you have to fly a certain
number of miles um but you know I always
think about you know whatever Charisma
whatever else it is is really about a
comfort with yourself in front of other
people if you're and not everyone is
equally charismatic naturally but if
you're comfortable with who you are and
you are able to do that while you're on
stage or in front of a camera or
wherever that's that's the the the magic
ingredient it's like my favorite quote
is the most important thing in Show
Business is authenticity if you can fake
that you can do anything right
authenticity is the key ingredient which
is why I think you've been successful I
think it's why Joe's successful I think
it's why Francis and I have had the
success we've had it's I almost feel I
don't know if you feel this but the
longer we go it's like the more layers
of the UND we peel off to reveal more of
who we truly are yeah I would say so
because you become more comfortable with
things that you masked over before yes
there's you know
uncertainty
or like nerdiness I suppose like
unnecessary rabbit holes that you want
to go down
and I've never had this before obviously
you had this and you may have had it
before comedy I don't know but I never
had a single Pursuit that I got to go as
narrow and deep on as I have on having
conversations with people and when you
really really start to [ __ ] like
drill down into okay what does what does
Mastery begin to look like which I'm not
at but I can Glimpse I'm like okay what
does that actually look like what does
that feel like what does it look like to
make rules and then break rules and then
put them back in again and do things I'm
talking to some of the guys now I want
to start doing slightly
more um scripted bits as a part of maybe
some of our ad reads as a part of maybe
some of the intros um and that's like if
you actually look at that that's a very
inauthentic way of doing what is
supposed to be an unbelievably authentic
relatable medium we're taking the rules
from you know like sitcom Legacy Media
to try and apply that to this but I
actually think that that's breaking
rules that have been made and the reason
you can is because you've learned them
unbelievably well right it's not not
knowing the rules it's disregarding them
purposefully yes and I'm just EXC I'm
excited by by all of the different
options and opportunities and and ways
that there's Co stuff to do and it's
[ __ ] awesome to see what you guys are
doing at trigonometry the what I know
about what's coming that more people
will find out at some point over the
next however long is [ __ ] amazing I
think that the UK needs a nice movement
a good conglomeration headed by people
who understand this industry that can be
a platform for others who have amazing
and interesting things to say but don't
yet have the platform that they deserve
to be able to say them on well this is
what we've been working on for a long
time and I I can't quite say exactly the
people in who are going to be involved
other than to say they're going to be
[ __ ] awesome uh but we want to use
the platform that we've built uh to make
it so that trigonometry is the main show
on that platform but there will be other
shows with other people and me and
Francis interspersed with other
interesting funny hilarious clever
commentators Etc so rather than you know
two trigonometry interviews a week and
some raw shows and a bunch of we've
started doing a lot of scripted stuff
ourselves comedy uh you know my I re I
often record my substack pieces now and
we put them out as videos we we had a
couple of really viral ones one I did
about communism and fascism that you do
one about Jordan Peterson recently I did
yeah yeah that one's done very well
surprisingly um yeah so uh but also we
want to start thinking about how you
know I'm thinking about us now as a
media
organization that's my frame for what
we're doing want to bring other people
through help them make exciting content
that fits with the values of what we do
that's going to be entertaining for our
audience it's going to be informative uh
and grow it over time into a real hub
for awesome content um that to me is
super exciting next phase with this
because I think the media industry uh
that we are in the New Media industry is
is going to change rapidly uh and one of
the things I see coming down the pipe
quite quickly actually is consolidation
uh this idea that you're going to give
five quid a month to your favorite 70
creators it's not going to happen the
admin alone will kill you right so
people are going to want a place and you
know obviously our politics are very
different but the model of the daily
wire is I mean they've executed it
incredibly well went to go and see them
I filmed on Brett Cooper show four five
months ago something like that yeah and
uh dude it's a it's a machine workshop
for creating content yeah over there's
the merch Team all they do is make
[ __ ] tumblers and designs for
t-shirts yeah here's an entire 3x10 row
of editors all working away millions of
meeting rooms and here's an entire
different building with everyone's
Studio it and oh here's a control center
that allows us to edit anything at any
time and I found this out [ __ ] I'll
check that this is okay to say Shapiro
has got some special [ __ ] landline
thing some special type of connection
that runs from where he is in Florida to
where the Hub is in Nashville that
allows them to cut his show live as if
they were on site wow I didn't know that
and I've been in that studio a couple of
times now in in Florida well I've so I
haven't been to that one but I've been
to the pipeline where that [ __ ] ends up
at yeah yeah yeah been there too it's
impressive it's very impressive what
they build say what you want say what
you want but here's here's an
interesting thing for you two two
analogous stories that I'm sure that
you've thought about before the sort
of
slow dilution or [ __ ] explosion of
The Young
Turks and Crowder daily
wire that in a you know you're talking
about congealing or bringing together
meanwhile a lot of the groups and
affiliations and organizations you know
IDW largely disbanded that was like a
loose affiliation that wasn't an
organization though loose affiliation of
people Young Turks you know you say the
wrong thing slightly and downstream from
that some people on the network don't
agree with other things that you've said
you know like [ __ ] apparently bencho
was crowd as first ever lawyer or some
[ __ ] as well and then you know
they've split off and the big
conservative and he turns out that he
bought the URL only a couple of months
after they spoke but months before he
announced that he recorded these phone
calls and all this sort of
[ __ ] so I think that sometimes we're
too quick to try and patent match stuff
yeah and it's like oh all organizations
devolve into you know fractured
individual like groups or whatever or
all you know power becomes centralized
into one thing it's like maybe it's just
flug maybe it's just Tides you know
maybe there's like es and flows and and
and stuff Happ well look I think you're
going to be able to continue to do what
you do uh whichever way you want to do
it I'm interested in bringing uh people
through who are very talented but who
basically what we had to do with
trigonometry and one of the reasons I
haven't made their few money uh is that
we have a big team as you do but we have
we've always had a big team because we
wanted to create the foundation for what
we're about to do um and so Francis and
I really don't make a lot of money from
it because we're investing in the future
and what I want to do is we've kind of
created a factory for making content I
want to bring people in who don't want
to build their own Factory but who are
very good as creators of making content
yes exactly I mean car Carl Benjamin Lo
yeah he's done that spanked it he's
doing very well they they're playing a
game of Monopoly around the [ __ ] some
like transport police [ __ ] somewhere
in the country and it's like they're
slowly taking up the the transport
people have got the corner office and
got all of the ones on either side
Apparently one of the guys was telling
me that he had some incident that had
occurred at the railway line he had some
sort of stalker that followed him at the
railway line and because it happened at
the train station the transport police
had pick up on it and he rang them and
the guy rang him back and he could hear
him through the wall he said mate should
I just come through opened the door and
was talking to the guy that was dealing
with his case like [ __ ] hell that's
interesting but yeah you know this it's
cool man it's cool and feels way more
cool to see it happen from Grassroots
where you can watch episode one of some
horeshit show thank you with terrible
lighting and [ __ ] audio all over the
place and no one knows what they're
doing ugly host ugly H yeah that hasn't
change and then you work to the stage
where you're like holy [ __ ] like I can
actually see the full trajectory of this
entire thing laid out in front of me as
opposed to like oh [ __ ] rert Murdoch
and is it Shady M shade face invested a
nameless [ __ ] like hooded figures
drinking Adrena Chrome dancing around a
pentagram yeah yeah that's where we want
to go I understand no but closing uh
closing the loop on all of that I I just
think this is the next phase in terms of
what we started with which is let's stop
whining about how we've been canceled
you know I think it's it's SP a thing of
mine was like we keep saying well the
mainstream media isn't doing this then
well let's [ __ ] do it then make your
own mainstream media if if you think
that they're doing it wrong let's
[ __ ] do it right let's do it uh and
let's see who wins that's the thing for
me is like I love the competition I love
uh attempting to build new things the
creating the challenge of that working
out how to run a business with [ __ ]
immigrant mentality man man to me this
is the most exciting thing you know we
were talking with a good friends of mine
last night about how much money you need
to be happy and I was like and and
somebody said that the statistic are
$70,000 a year maybe it's in like $29
but whatever beyond that point it
doesn't really make any difference and I
was like well for me it does make a big
difference and then I thought you know
what what if I made a million dollars a
year which is way more than I make now
but I wasn't having the experience of
growing working with my friends all of
that and then I was like actually yeah I
don't think it is the money it's the
it's the doing it it's the creating it's
the building this is why of all the
people that I love to watch I love Dana
White interviews I was about to bring up
Dana White [ __ ] I just I cannot wait
to interview him it's you got him in
America uh we are working on it so he's
basically he's open to it but it's just
about finding the right time as you can
imagine he's a busy guy yeah
um I [ __ ] love that guy I love
listening to that guy I love the way he
dealt with Co I love everything about it
you've seen that clip it went super
viral a couple of times where he says
bet against me [ __ ] can bet against me
tell me it's not going to work I love
that [ __ ] every single time man like
that energy I'm the same I really really
enjoy it and I think that it's missing I
think that there's not enough like
conquerors in the world of personal
development and
business there is from a performative
level but I don't look at Dana White and
think that he's saying what he thinks
sounds cool for people to hear no I
think he's speaking his philosophy
forward yes which is one of stand on
this hill come and have a swing yes yes
and uh I've always been like incredibly
competitive I thrive on it I love it um
and look one of the things by the way
you've taught me I will say this is you
were the first British podcaster who was
in our space who when I've met has been
from a who had a growth mindset which is
why I said when we first started how
unsurprised I am by the amazing success
you're having because you've always had
that attitude and it shows and that's
why you're successful and that's why
you're friends with everyone in the
industry you know I I just um I think
it's a natural con your Success is Not
an Accident is what I'm saying at all
it's a natural consequence of the person
that you are and Dana why inspires me in
the way that I'm inspired by your
success as well because it's just like
this is a guy who got his friends
together they bought this thing for $2
million or whatever it was at some point
there were 30 something million in the
hole and they just kept going until they
crushed
and there's a lot of other things that
they do very well I think as a if you
just switch on the G the fights on a
Saturday night you wouldn't see but they
they make it entertainment they make
reality TV shows out of the content they
the the way they present the fights is
like very well organized and it's
beautifully sharp think about it this
way think about what if you watch Boxing
now how [ __ ] pedestrian unnecessarily
ceremonial it seems this [ __ ] guy
carries out a and dos' cap and [ __ ] a
list of 50 people who've donated money
to this thing we are here in the
presence of the the by the Nevada state
and the this this this you're like no
[ __ ] just tell me the fight yeah show
me the fight give me the tail of the
tape get me amped up let them punch each
other and also uh what they've done
incredibly well is with boxing no one
gives a [ __ ] about anyone on the
undercard or the card They just care
about the headline fight yep uh UFC the
headline fight May very often isn't the
best fight that actually happens on the
night they will be the best fighters on
the night but it won't be the best fight
so fight of the night will I would guess
only maybe 30% of the time go to the
main car yeah and it's just they they
and therefore they are building up other
Talent this is what we're talking about
with what we're doing they're building
up Talent who are not the headline
Fighters but you're seeing them from an
early start and you follow them and
you're like oh this person is getting
better and they're fighting this guy and
whatever so just from a business
perspective I am so inspired by that
attitude I think it I love it and I
think we're probably going down very
different paths in that you've gone to
America where that attitude is prevalent
I'd love to take it every time I go to
America I come away buzzing but I'd love
to bring more of that [ __ ] here that's
how I see our future sat next to
opposite Steven Bartlet yesterday and
said if I could gift the UK anything it
would be enthusiasm yeah you know
there's just so much enthusiasm in
America and there's [ __ ] there's also
stuff that they're super [ __ ] at and I
wish has I wish that I wish I could take
some of Britain to America as well I
went to LA man I spent three days in La
sort of in the kind of like
entertainment world you know doing bill
Mah and stuff around
that that is a different [ __ ] world
my friend how so oh
it's I am not a religious person not yet
anyway but when I was there I was like I
can see why people need religion
this place needs God it [ __ ]
does I'm serious man like the way people
think about other people like if all you
have is your success if your value
derives from your status and success
whoo that gets dark quickly wo that gets
dark quickly [ __ ] disposable objects
every oh man it's [ __ ] the way the
way see people see each other is there's
no Humanity there it's just like you're
an object for for what I'm trying to get
to um and that was
eye opening to me it made it Hollywood
makes sense to me now the movies they
put out make sense to me now that I've
been there a lot of it makes sense in a
way that I'd never realized see I never
realized how powerful Hollywood is at
shaping our idea of what reality is
because the movies like we in in Britain
we think we understand America right
because we watch their their content
that's why but that's not the reality of
America at all and the more you travel
around America the more you are
confronted by that fact you know the
more time I spend in the US it it makes
it makes me more right-wing in the in
the American conception of like states
rights because I'm going there's no I I
had a fly from Salt Lake City to LA and
you get on the plane in Salt Lake City
and you arrive in La which is not that
far and you go these are different
[ __ ] these aren just different
countries these are different worlds
different Religion different people
different way of thinking different
philosophy different culture different
everything and the values are completely
different um you know America is an
incredible place um I'm really enthused
by it and there's also tradeoffs to to
to some of the way that people are there
as well so it's and it's actually you
know we talked about masculinity and
femininity and I think um I actually
know what people mean when they talk
about toxic masculinity and toxic
femininity which is you need both you
want to be thinking about it as raising
both bars at the same time if you want
to be a good leader for example right
you need to be strong and you need to be
able to say the thing that people don't
want to hear and make yourself say the
thing that you don't want to say because
you don't want to upset people and other
hand you also need empathy and
compassion too like you want to be
raising both up and I see that in the
same way as culturally I want to take
the best of the US stuff and the best of
the British stuff and meld it together
into into something really exciting [ __ ]
yeah Constantin kissing ladies and
gentlemen where should people go they
want to keep up to date with your stuff
uh the the best place to find my work is
trigonometry of course on YouTube and
the podcast and I write on substack
which has got really blown up at the
moment uh I'm excited about that as well
so on Twitter you know Constantin
kitchen everywhere hell yeah Constantine
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