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In this discussion, Matthew McConaughey reflects on his experience immersing himself in British culture while filming *The Gentlemen*, noting that he found significant value in learning and performing the specific rituals associated with upper-class life. He describes how every aspect of posh behavior involves precise timing, costumes, seating arrangements, and etiquette, which he initially viewed as entertaining whimsy rather than mere affectation. McConaughey admits to fully indulging in this persona during his time there, even honing his marksmanship skills at pheasant shoots until locals began inviting American guests over specifically for him to demonstrate his shooting prowess. The conversation takes a critical turn when McConaughey recounts an incident that he felt represented the posh culture going too far. During a dinner party attended by twenty-four people, each guest displayed extreme ostentation, including massive oil paintings draped over their chairs and personal waiters serving them on time. The situation escalated after the meal when young guests from wealthy families dropped cigarette ash directly onto an expensive Persian rug rather than using an ashtray. McConaughey was disturbed by this act of posturing, interpreting it as a deliberate display where dropping ash on a $550,000 carpet is considered cooler and more impressive than adhering to basic decorum like using an ashtray. McConaughey observes that Americans are often blind to these nuances because the concept of "posh" carries such strong connotations in England that it has become part of everyday vocabulary for school children, where it simply denotes someone well-to-do with a privileged background. He contrasts this with his own perception of class dynamics through an anecdote about playing cricket with a young man named Danny who received a Mercedes-Benz as a seventeenth birthday gift—a significant sum at the time that signaled wealth to McConaughey but was perhaps less shocking in retrospect compared to other displays of privilege. This highlights how different cultures interpret symbols of status differently, with Americans potentially viewing such markers more casually than they are viewed within strict British class structures. The dialogue also touches upon broader societal shifts regarding the monarchy and private wealth, acknowledging a growing skepticism around the royal family despite their role in preserving national culture. McConaughey notes that while some argue for abolishing the institution due to issues like titles of nobility exceeding human equality, others value the rituals that define British identity, such as the medieval procession at Newcastle University where mace bearers wield weapons and present caps in specific sequences. He suggests that Americans are hungry for these established traditions because they lack deep historical roots compared to nations with trees older than their countries themselves, warning against becoming so watered down by modernity that one loses appreciation for enduring cultural practices. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reflection on how class distinctions and ritualistic behaviors function differently across cultures, particularly between the United States and Britain. McConaughey's journey from enjoying the whimsical aspects of posh life to criticizing its excesses illustrates the complexity of adopting foreign social norms without fully understanding their underlying values or limitations. The discussion concludes with a recognition that while Americans may not grasp every nuance of British class systems, there is still much to learn about how tradition and ritual provide structure and meaning in societies where they have been cultivated for centuries.
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you did the gentleman with guy yeah you
spent a good bit of time
presumably and meshing yourself into
British culture what did you learn while
you with that
well so there is still a
royal dance to play the part and do and
that I found that interesting and quite
entertaining I
remember you know that everything has
there's a costume and a and a timing and
who goes here when and here's how you
sit there and this is how we do this and
I found it very interesting and pump and
Circumstance yeah it was all there and
and and I never and I and I indulged in
and and and and played that part and
enjoyed B of Whimsy now when I went out
and they saw that I was actually very
good shot at pheasants I got a few hey I
got a few out of boys bring the American
over here hey we like you now right good
with guns um and then I remember this
one though where the the the the I think
the term is the where the posh went
overboard but nobody seemed to notice it
but me and we were at this dinner and it
was one of those dinners where 24 people
on this side 24 people on that side m is
down there and mis's down here M has a
24 foot by 18 foot oil painting of
herself over her chair and Mis has an 24
foot by 18t over his chair and it was
just ABS it's just all just [ __ ]
great everyone had their own waiter they
s ding on time and this is just
absolutely great well after the dinner
the youngsters the sons and the
daughters had come over with their
friends and they were all also POs to
smoke a cigarette yes and I remember
this one get flick in the ash there's an
ash tree right down the table boom on
the carpet I was like
dude and without even saying he's like
no man it's it's what Posh it's it's a
it's a it's a I'm posturing it's it's
it's cooler to go I'm I can drop my ash
on on on your
$550,000 Persian rug than it is to put
it in the ashtray and I was like why
that one I think y'all went overbo I
think you went out of bounds on that one
but the fact that that was it was a was
games but but they were doing it
inconsistently isn't it fascinating the
Americans are basically blind to class
you've had to use the word Posh almost
in speech marks there it's like a word
that yeah yeah yeah there is not a
single School child that doesn't use the
word Posh in primary school once a day
in England everybody and it means class
it means this person is well to-do from
a well-to-do background okay and there's
you know I remember uh there was a guy
uh that I played Cricket with uh cricket
is still a working-class sport in the UK
it's not necessarily upper class it's
very workingclass Town it was a kid who
got uh a Class Mercedes used uh for his
17th birthday which is one you can drive
in the UK I was like wow
Danny's from a posh family I never
really knew that much but I knew he had
money he always had nice kit he always
had new new boots at the start of each
season but I was like wow he got a
Merced in retrospect it's maybe a seven
Grand car 10 grand car something like
that for me I'm like oh Mercedes though
bro yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah is there
something though going on with the as as
the royal family and the king and the
queen
losing power and that's becoming is is
these these millionaire exits is this
still a bit of a how dare you become
that wealthy in the private sector
you're not a Royal or no I I certainly
don't think with regards to that but
there is definitely uh skepticism around
the monarchy at the moment um and I'm
really not sure where I stand on that
one of my friends is a very compelling
argument that we should do away with it
doesn't like the word your highness
higher than what uh but also what was it
that you would saying like what have we
got if we don't hold on to the culture
and the things that people know us for
and I like the pump and Circumstance
when I graduated uh from Newcastle
University there's this 10minute
procession of different mace bearers
literally wielding medieval weapons
dothing their caps to different people
in
different sequences in order to show who
and where and why and it's like this is
[ __ ] cool what whatever it is it's
still cuz America we're whether we know
or not we're hungry for ritual yes and
we don't have near as much R it's not
established right there trees that are
older than your country yeah we're just
just puppies I hope
that you don't get watered down to where
y because y'all have amazing ritual
laugh giggle at it or not do it and
appreciate it and go this is a different
place and it's been around it's been
around a while um
yeah Posh class okay yeah yeah little
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