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Kyra starts her day preparing for a black-tie birthday event and an upcoming Jay-Z concert in New York City, where she openly discusses the pressures faced by Black creators on social media regarding whether to alter their authentic selves or perform differently to secure brand deals; ultimately, she chooses to remain true to herself despite industry expectations. Her preparation involves getting makeup done by Reagan, styling outfits that range from feminine corsets and lace to streetwear-inspired jeans and wedges, while selecting accessories like clip-on earrings and various lip products including Kylie Cosmetics and NYX. She also shares her intentional approach to nutrition with a meal featuring avocado, smoked salmon, sauerkraut, and rice cakes, promoting the Nourish app for access to registered dietitians along the way. However, travel plans quickly face significant disruption when she encounters flight delays due to employee issues at an Atlanta airport, causing her to miss her initial boarding window and struggle with hotel bookings because flights were grounded by thunderstorms; eventually, she secures a room at an InterContinental hotel near Hudson Yards but maintains positive energy throughout the ordeal. She enjoys dinner at Monkey Bar with friends before heading toward Yankee Stadium for the concert, only to find that upon arrival outside the stadium, security closes all gates and denies entry due to overcrowding or logistical issues. This leaves her stranded outside in the rain after hours of waiting without access to the event, a situation compounded by exhaustion from walking without water which nearly caused them to faint before they even reached the venue. Despite getting close to entry with their phone dying, the speaker chooses to leave rather than risk passing out or being unable to get home safely, reflecting that sometimes plans do not work out regardless of time or money spent; after surviving on McDonald's food and seeking joy at Monkey Bar while exploring the city for sunglasses, they express a deep sense of acceptance. The narrative concludes with the realization that one should stop chasing perfection long ago and instead embrace flaws, viewing an imperfect trip as a valuable lesson in choosing oneself over searching for non-existent perfection before heading to the airport from the Bay Area wearing Skims pants, Hermes slides, and Tank Air. Ultimately, when life serves lemons, the wisdom is to make lemonade with extra sugar rather than dwelling on what was lost or expected.
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I'm sorry, the day can't go wrong cuz I look too good right now. >> Imagine flying to NYC for 24 hours to have the perfect day and it turns out like this. >> They closed the door. >> We are stuck outside. We've been out here for hours. They won't let us in. >> I was about to die out there. >> Did I die? No. Was it traumatic? Yes. Let's go back to how IT ALL STARTED. >> HEY, Y'ALL. WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER VIDEO. If you're new here, my name is Kyra. [music] Don't mind how I look. We're about to turn to basic today in 2.5 seconds. Maybe not 2.5 seconds. I'm on my way to go get my hair done and I'm going to a new stylist today, which I'm super excited. I've been wanting to go to her. Her work is amazing and I seen that she does these beautiful like Hollywood waves. Going to a black tie event today and I see she does good updos and I've been wanting like this one specific updo. It lives rent-free in my head. Always wanted to try it. So, that's what we're doing today. And then, the black tie event is for my friend's birthday party. So, I definitely got to show up and show out. I have this cute little gown. The lace. I'm in my lace era right now. Corsets and stuff. I don't know. They've been calling my name. So, I'm tapping into it and I cannot wait to get dressed tonight and I'm debating if I want to go get my makeup done by Reagan cuz I'm like, do I feel like doing my own makeup? Should I just get it done? I should just get it done, you know? Cuz the pictures and stuff from every angle got to be on point. So, I need to log back into the navigation cuz I unplugged y'all so I can talk to y'all. Yeah, I don't know where I'm going. So, I'll check in with y'all once I get there. >> [music] [music] >> Down the street is the house [music] in which she stayed. On the corner of the >> [music] [music] >> Alexa, turn on all closet lights. Hello. This light I'm right here. Okay, it's getting better. It's getting better. As y'all can see, we had a hectic morning. I was getting ready for the event that I have to go to tonight, which I'm super excited to celebrate with the girls. And it's going to be a good time. As you can see, I'm in my new closet, but I don't know for how long because I got good news today. I fear I haven't updated y'all on a lot of life things lately, and I'm not going to share with y'all just yet because I want to wait till it's closer to the date when it's happening, but there's some new life updates. Pat on the back. I'm so happy for a new. That's all we finna say. I got my makeup done by Reagan. She is the best. Look how airbrushed my face look. I'm going to go take pictures before the event. That's why I got ready early. And I'm really trying to just be intentional moving forward with everything that I do because I just been really in my head about a little second because there were some family issues going on. Y'all know my mom is my manager. So, it was just some things that were going on with her. She's fine now. Um put me on a little delay because obviously she's my manager. She helps me like negotiate invoices and all the things. Health is the most important thing that I even preach on my channel. You know, taking care of yourself. Just like things had to take a pause. My blogs have been a little backed up. I feel like out of place a little bit. It's okay to take care of myself other than working. And that was one of my goals for this year anyways cuz y'all know in the beginning of the year I went to the acupuncture appointment, and she basically said like my soul was empty. Yeah, I just am putting myself [clears throat] first and prioritizing me, but at the same time, this is my job, and I love coming on my platform, and you know, just having my community there with me. And also, another thing to know, I don't know why I've been really in my head about how I want to show up online on all these platforms. Oh, it's going to rain. Why? Really going back and forth about how I want to show on these platforms. I love creating, y'all. I love creating, obviously. But, there obviously is a strategy all the time when it comes to posting on Instagram, Tik Tok, and of course, I want to always be organic, but still at the same time I don't know how to explain this. At the end of the day, this is a job, so you have to appeal to people that are going to hire you, if that makes sense. And me being a black girl, we can't just come on this platform swearing. We can't come on this platform overly loud. Can't shake ass without it being called ghetto, but let it be somebody else, they can shake their ass and they think it's funny. We just can't do that. It's just so hard. Do I want to approach social media different? And that's why you see like some creators really switch up their ways because they want to appeal to bigger brands to get bigger projects. And don't get me wrong, I love I'm very, very grateful for the projects that I get already. Some people feel like they have to clean it up to get those opportunities, and I'm at a point where I feel like I don't want to do that. Like, I don't want to not be myself and get these opportunities. And mind you, I get great opportunities. I'm just so grateful. There are other rooms that of course I would love to be in. You have to sit back and think how can you get there? But like at the same time, you just have to be yourself. Praying, God willing, you'll be entered in that room some way, somehow, some way. But, I just don't feel like I I to switch up who I am to be in that room cuz that's that would be a disservice to myself and I just wouldn't feel authentic. See what I'm saying? I don't know. It's just like there's so many thoughts, girl. It's really hard being a black girl on social media. We can't just come on here and be. We have to literally perform. At the same time, we also need to do better as a community, a black community, to make sure that we support each other. That's why I'm always when just want to make sure like everybody is supported, everybody is seen because I know how much hard work goes behind the scenes on try to create content, planning, even talking on camera still like a skill that some people have a problem with doing. Probably practice over and over to get the right clip, you know? It's just like so many things that go on. I just want better for our community. That's all. That's all. That's what really was in my head. That's really what's been in my head lately. Like I just feel like we deserve better. Those are just thoughts that are in my head. I've just really been going back and forth on how I want to be on this platform. I feel like not how I want to be, but as far as like making my sponsored content, like I love doing that, but it takes a lot of time. And of course, like I'm so blessed and grateful to get the opportunity. I don't know where the what what I'm saying right now, girl. But yeah, girl, like I just really just miss y'all. I miss vlogging. You know like when you have so many thoughts, you don't even know where to start. That's where I'm at with it. Well, let's get into this lip combo. I've been getting so many questions on the lip combo that Reagan did. I ordered the lip liner she used, but this honestly reminds me of like a cool brown. Cool brown from Fenty. It's called What's it called? Extra Thigh? I mean, I always use brown liners. Glosses don't last on me. My lips look crazy. So I'm like, maybe I should try doing matte lip. What is this honey love color Reagan used? I am trying to order the brand. Ooh! >> [laughter] >> I told y'all when I talk a lot, things just go left. But yeah, we need to touch this lip up. So, Bre can always send me off with a touch-up kit. The color that she uses is called Hue Hue bar, but it's out of stock right now. They said it's comparable to Honey Love, and I have Honey Love. Forgot what we were talking about. I'm just so ADHD ass [ __ ] >> [laughter] >> Like, I really think I have ADHD. Like, I have a shopping problem. Like, I was looking up symptoms for ADHD, girl, and I'm just like, that's me. I'm an impulsive shopper. It's actually disgusting. Like, y'all would be like, that's why I have so much stuff. That's why I have to get rid of so many things. And I feel like I'm like, I always try to justify my purchases. I'm like, Never wear it. Never wear it. Never do. Anyway, so I need to touch up my lip, and I need to put my clothes on immediately. We need to put some powder on, too. I've been loving the Kylie lip liners, and also this MAC um plum liner, and then the Huda Beauty lip contour stain. As you can see, the lip liner is still on. So, I don't think I want to touch that too much. I am going to enhance my cupid's bow a little bit with the Huda Beauty, cuz I want that to stay on all night. Oh my gosh, y'all. Did y'all watch Love Island last night? I ain't going to lie. Melanie, mama ate that. I really don't want her with Sincere. So, I'm going to use the Kylie Cosmetics plum plum plumping lip liner in the color iced latte. It's like a warm brown. Cute, right? All right. All right. All right, right? I just feel like I haven't talked to y'all in so long, it's actually disgusting. Getting older. [ __ ] don't got no energy. This [ __ ] trying to live off vitamin D. Using the Kylie Cosmetics cinnamon, and I've been loving this NYX satin matte. I just picked it up randomly the other day, cuz I had a sponsorship with them, and it's just this nice nude. It kind of looks like the nude she already had on my lips, right? And this is in the color cozy wit, and I low key have to get a more of these cuz it's like the perfect nude. You see that? Like so tea. But I always want my lips to look fat, juicy, and matte. I just love a good matte. Then I'm going to add some more liner. Cuz I was just in the shower. Why did I just sound like Michael Jackson? >> [screaming] >> Crazy. Getting closer. I'm burning now. Thick things. And then I'm just going to spray some all nighter spray. Oh, and then I got to put y'all on my new favorite blush. It's by Nars. It is the Nars Inferno Illuminator. Y'all look how pretty this is. It's gorgeous. But let me put it on my cheek so y'all can see what it's really giving. Y'all not ready for this glow. Do you perfection. This is like the perfect blush and highlighter combo. I'm sorry. And tomorrow y'all, I'm going to the Jay-Z concert. Hova. This is honey love. As you can see. Yes, I'm living for it. Yeah, I'm about to get dressed, put my clothes on, and then I'm going to figure out what I'm going to accessorize my outfit with. And then these clip-on earrings, y'all always ask me about them. They always come in clutch. They look like big diamond earrings, but they're like not. They're clip-ons. Brunel glow oil and the lotion. This combination smells so good. Black owned. The glow oil it smells just like dead cool. I'm going to put the scent on the screen. It literally smells just like it. I just had the perfume, but I ran out. Even though my skin isn't going to be exposed, I still want to smell like this in combination with my scents. Get on to it. And it's been my replacement for the Fenty eau de parfum cuz I don't know what the Rihanna is on right now, but she needs to restock that. I need to actually make a post and say this post is for Rihanna and Rihanna >> Your touch. >> [music] [music] >> Hey girl, it is the next day. Last night was so fun and y'all my face was beat to the gods. Reagan really set my face so good because my makeup lasted all night. I didn't even put my hair in rods. That's how tired I was. I was exhausted. [music] Getting ready for a big event is such a long day process. I'm exhausted by the end of night. And yeah, it was like really cute. And also she booked it at Mary's studio. She has like a photo studio. So if y'all need somewhere to shoot and stuff like that, make sure y'all go hit up my girl Mary. She obviously has a vent there as well. I'm outside of Ulta and y'all know I've been obsessed with matte lip, right? And before I go run the rest of my errands, I'm like, I need a good everyday matte lip. That NYX fat matte, I don't know. I'm addicted. I'm addicted. I need like a everyday color cuz I tried to put this the color I used last night on and it's not cute. It's only cute when my makeup is done. So I need like a good more like everyday color. And then I need to go to the tailor because I got girl, I got a full bag of clothes that I need to wear. I haven't even worn them because they don't fit. You know, the waist is getting smaller. >> [laughter] >> No, I'm just No, not just playing. It is. I need to go home, clean, and pack because we're going to New York for the Jay-Z concert, which I'm so excited about. So we just have some errands to run. So I'm going to go in Ulta Beauty first and see what matte lip we can find. Do y'all like these semi fairly sunglasses? I need to go to the store. They're giving me very much vintage retro. But I can't wear this with makeup these with makeup because they're so close to my face and it look like it's about to rain. Y'all, this heatwave? Listen, I'm all for the heat. Personally, I love the heat, but I haven't been able to even have a pool day. I don't want the heatwave to end until I have my pool day. Thank you. Don't shoot the sun just yet. Yeah, I told y'all this is my ADHD kicking in. I feel like I can't conquer the day without a good lip combo until I get my lip. I haven't even told y'all the new Drake perfume. Y'all, this smells heavenly and I love the packaging. It's so cute on your counter. 10 out of 10. That smells lovely. Hey babe. Hey babe. Hey babe. I am going to get two of the plump lip liners just to have cuz this is so good. It's like the perfect brown. This was the spray that I sprayed on my face last night. But yeah, the Urban Decay All Nighter just free up on that. Cuz I don't want to look like a grease monkey anymore. And I'm not going to lie, I told y'all Kylie Cosmetics the plumping lip liner is so good. So I think I'm going to try this pink color. It's called Risky Rose. For like a everyday liner. And here is what we're looking for. And oh, I fell into a ad for this. That oil is so good, y'all. This one is my favorite. Love this. Been wearing it every single day. So good. But where is the Fenty Mattemoiselle? I low-key should get a fortune cookie, too. And I like the Fenty Mattemoiselle because of the finish. That's why I'm addicted [music] to them. The skin is so good right now. But let me hurry up cuz this music is not going to ruin the vibe. Cozy Whip, number one. So good. But for everyday, I low-key need to get this Flamingo Feather. I like this more. Oh yeah. It's pretty. I can do this Pink Puff with that Kylie. No, that's too pink. There's [music] a difference. This is more like a natural lip color. This is different. But it's pretty still. I think that's what I'm going to do. What one is this? Rose Robe is pretty nice. I think I'm going to get that, too. This nude color. Wait, let me see Cashmere Cutie. Oh, mhm. Cashmere Cutie is too like nude. But I I don't like this. It'll be really cute with a dark brown. So, I think I'm going to get that one, too. I'm going to get Cashmere Cutie, this one, Flamingo Feather. Wait, should I get that one? So indecisive. So, I got Rose Through, Cashmere Cutie, the Flamingo Feather. Let's go check out. Success. I just got to the tailor, and when I say, like, I'm not even playing with you, this bag broke. Look how much stuff I have. Anyways. These pants. Baby tee. >> These are ready to wear. I'm getting all my new ones. >> Mine. My color. >> This is my travel shirt. It's New Orleans. >> Just like that, we're done. I wish. Hey girl, so I just got home, and I'm about to make me something, cuz I'm starving. I'm about to put y'all on my cute little plate that I love to make food on. I think I showed y'all this before, but isn't she so cute? She's so cute. Some sauerkraut. Y'all know I love to keep my plate colorful. Fermented foods for the gut. This is what your gut is asking for every single day. Avocado. Avocado with fish is my go-to. I wish I knew how to make sushi. Sometimes I even eat the avocado on its own, and put a little bit of salt and pepper. And then I got to add my favorite rice cakes for a little crunch. And then for some extra antioxidants, I'm going to drizzle a little olive oil, and then sprinkle some salt and pepper. And look how good this plate looks. So easy. I just take my rice cake, add a little avocado, smoked salmon, sauerkraut. Taste test. Mhm. I'm really intentional on what I put in my body. I don't like to snack on processed foods. It just all depends on how you snack and what you put in your food. And I'm very intentional because I like to eat whole foods that actually nourish my body and help my hormones and not send me on a blood sugar roller coaster. And my dietitian actually sat me down and said, "Girl, you need to stop snacking." because I told her my goals. Girl, after she told me that, that's when the shift happened. I was like, "Okay, bet." And making that change alone, I've seen such a huge difference with my body. Y'all know I've been on this gut journey for a minute now, just figuring everything out as I go. And getting a registered dietitian has been such a game changer for me. But she introduced me to the anti-inflammatory approach of it all. And the best part of having a registered dietitian is that it's covered by insurance through Nourish. And Nourish is sponsoring this video. And y'all seen me talk about Nourish so many times. I mentioned it on my Instagram stories because I really genuinely want everybody to talk to a registered dietitian because it's so life-changing. Cuz I'm getting high-quality care without paying out of pocket. And it's so easy. All you need to do is download the app. And girl, once you see your insurance is on there, you're good to go. Once you get matched with a dietitian, everything changes, girl. And I'm not going to lie to you, this journey has been very, very challenging, but I had to be consistent and honest with myself. Like, "Girl, if you don't put in the work, you're not going to see the results." And I've been disciplined in this new season and the transformation is just crazy. Because this has been the most I've seen my body change and it works with me and not against me because it works with my hormones. And if you have PCOS, and being on an anti-inflammatory diet keeps my gut healthy. [music] And the best part about having a registered dietitian through Nourish is that you can message them at any time, >> [music] >> anywhere if you're confused about a meal so you'll be able to stay on track. We don't have time to be falling off. And logging my meals in on the app makes it so easy for me to track my macros. Girl, they have everything on the Nourish app like if I'm getting confused on what I want to eat, they have meal inspo [music] on the app. And I love the Nourish app because it's guided support right in the palm of your hands, girl. And we all deserve a high quality life and I always say it all starts [music] from within. This is why you need a registered dietitian to work on what you're inputting into your body. And with Nourish, this has been my turning point and I just want the same for y'all. So make sure you download the app. Click the link down below and sign up for the Nourish app with my link because the girl, you really have nothing to lose. And thank you so much Nourish for sponsoring this video. I'm about to finish this and then I'm going to start packing my clothes for New York because I'm not trying to miss this flight. I need to [music] make it to this concert. So cheers. So I need to figure out what I'm going to wear to the concert and I want to pack just like a day cute little daytime outfit as well. And I'm not going to lie y'all, having my closet like this has made it so much easier to get dressed. I can see everything, everything's out. So I'm about to pick out some outfits. I'm like trying to figure out if I want to be cute and sophisticated like very feminine vibes or do I want to be New York streetwear style. That's the thing about being a girl like you don't know the vibes you want until like you actually put the clothes on. Or actually until you get in that situation because it could be raining sunny. Let me try on some outfits for y'all and see what it's giving. Oh wait, let me show y'all what Fancy Club just sent me. They're a Vietnam based brand and I cannot wait to visit Vietnam so I can act go to the actual store. But anyways, girl, they reached out and was like, "Girl, we want to send you some stuff." So I'm like, "Okay, girl, send me, send me." Y'all probably seen this bag all over social media. Why is everyone doing it? As you can see, it's as Kyra. I think that's what I was supposed to say PR or something like that. Are you going to gag when you see this bag? Girl, what? Turquoise ostrich leather. Get into the vibes. This long clutch. Chic. We're trying to get into that. We're trying to get into the couture. Cuz I want to let y'all know I can do it all. Okay, couture, street, anything. Anything I want to be I can do it. So, yeah, I'm excited to style this bag. And I love the silver hardware. So cute. It's giving Bottega, but not Bottega. And I don't have a long clutch, so I cannot wait to style this. I'm super excited. And y'all, I swear to you, I think I've explained this before, like I've been into corsets and laces, but I really feel like it's been my closet allowing me to tap into my feminine energy. Cuz I swear to you, it's I don't know, I just feel super girly in this room. I'm trying to match the vibe. And how cute is this lavender and leopard set? Are you kidding me? Y'all, I'm about to walk out of this. And it also comes with a matching skirt. Hello. Waist is going to be snatched in this corset. And it's one of those corsets that you tie up in the back. So, you know it's about to be snatched. Okay? Oh my god, this material feels so good. I just love a good quality brand. I'm obsessed. I wanted to show y'all that cuz it's very cute, see? So, this right here is an option. I can wear this set. It's from Local European. Y'all can't even see it. Okay. I just got this not too recently. It's like this satin two-piece set. And I love a good abstract No, what is it called? Like I love a good like draping to a shirt. I just feel like it adds structure. It makes the outfit interesting, [music] if that makes sense. See, this is so cute. And this is a medium large, too, for reference. I did used to order their cargo pants like a long time ago. I seen this set and I was like, "Ooh, yes, that's cute." I could wear these Havaianas, the Isabel Marant flip-flops. You know what I mean? Cuz it adds to the outfit. [music] I just had to get these. They're so cute. Okay, cute, but no. It's too baggy. The These need to be a a with a heel. You know what I mean? It's just too like I don't know. I don't want to give No. It's giving pajamas right now. Again, it's too relaxed. >> I don't know. >> Donkey donkey donkey donkey donkey Are you a girl that wears heels during the day? I really want to be. I really want to wear kitten heels during the day. Makeup done, hair done, you know? A little cute bag. >> [laughter] >> This would give concert if I really wanted to, but I really I don't want to wear this to the concert. It's giving like cute dinner vibes. I mean, you could dress this up or down if you want to, but right now I'm feeling It should be dressy. So, I just got this dress from Express. Girl, it's giving Missoni. Camera wants to be pissy and die. And like I said, y'all, I swear my closet allows me just to be fun. So, I have this with jean polka dot skirt that I been wanting to wear. It's giving free young home run free, you know? [music] You know what I mean? Like in New York, I'm like playing around with some colors. These are brown polka dots, but they kind of look black. I was like, "Okay, let me see [music] how these look with flip-flops." And I kind of like how this looks. And y'all, this shirt I got And it was like $8. And when I say one of the softest shirt I have worn, I'm like, "Okay, baby." And then my little vintage Dior little bag that [music] I got so long ago. I feel like this is giving New York, like free spirit, cute. And then we have our new sunglasses that will to it off with some sunnies. and I just checked the weather just in case. It's going to be 90°. So, I was like, "Yeah, this is [music] cute. This is giving I'm in the city. [music] I want to go to get me a matcha. I want to go get me some lunch before the concert. Yes, this is so cute. I can't. But, there is a one more top I wanted to try out with it. So, let me just see the difference. This top is more like >> [music] >> that deep V. Which I thought would be like super sexy, like I'm able to dress it up or down. I'm not mad at this top, either. This one is more like I don't know. I'm definitely going to have to have boob tape. No, we going to be sweating and stuff. Mhm. My boob tape going to be sweating and not sticking. [music] Yeah, let's just not Let's just stick with the other option. I want to drop so bad. I just want my boobs to touch my chin. But, yeah, I'm I'm really feeling this outfit. This is going to be [music] running around in the city. Y'all, this is where we're starting with the concert outfit. These freaking wedges feel like nothing. They're [music] like sponges. These chocolates, if I get them warm, okay? Let me have some chocolate. And then, I have these dope ass Kai jeans. And I The The best thing [music] about these jeans is that I didn't have to get them hemmed, tailored, or anything. I got the petite size. And they they fit like a glove. Hey, hey. I was going to wear this shirt [music] with it. But, this shirt looks like a daytime shirt. But, these [music] are two completely different shirts. And it's lightweight, don't get me wrong, and I like the sleeve length. I think it gives it something. But, I don't think it's giving a concert. So, we're starting here, cuz the pants are definite, and so are the heels. [music] We're still sticking with the Kai jeans, but it needed a little something something, so I put this this chain on it. And then [music] I paired it with my little Louis Vuitton Murakami. Paired it with these Jeffrey Campbell [music] wedges. I like these because it complements the Chi right here. It says Chi in red. I I think I don't know if I remember correctly if these [music] weren't that comfortable wearing throughout the day cuz I wore them for a shoot, but I don't remember them being like irritating me. But I'm not going to lie, these yellow wedges by this brand Finesse y'all, these [music] are so comfortable. They feel like a pillow for this one. I just love like a wedge. Like this is just giving like [music] probably next to a fruit stand. Actually, you know what? Let me I'm going to take a picture next to a fruit stand. Do they even have fruit stands in I could wear these jelly flats from Steve Madden, which I love. They're a baby heel, [music] but you can't see it. It's giving grandma. We're doomed. But this could be an option and they're super comfortable. But I'd rather have some height. I think I am going to do the red. Definitely going to be able minimal makeup. Cuz we [music] sipping on some purple rain. Body insane. Yeah. Picking out outfits, success. >> Yeah, I'm out that Brooklyn. [music] Now I'm down in TriBeCa, right next to the Narrows, but I'll be hood forever. I'm the new Sinatra. And since I made it here, I can make it anywhere. Yeah, they love me everywhere. [music] I used to cop in Harlem. All of my Dominicanos right there on Broadway. Pull me back to that McDonald's. Took it to my stash spot. [music and singing] 560 State Street. Catch me in the kitchen like the Simmons whipping pastries. Cruising down A Street. Off-white Lexus. Driving so slow with BK's [music] from Texas. Me and my best thot. Home of that boy Biggie. Now I live on Bedford and I brought my boys with me. Say [music] what up to Ty Ty. Still sipping Mai Tais. Sitting court side >> [music] [music] >> Yesterday's travel day was special. Tell me why I go to the airport. Mind you, I'm running late already. I'm hurrying [clears throat] up trying to pack and then whatever. No notification yet until I'm in the Uber to go to the airport and it says flight is delayed. And I'm like, oh, perfect cuz I'm already running late anyways because I was already so excited that I was at a T gate. My girl, they changed it to a D gate and then that's when I said it's delayed. So, I'm like, oh, perfect, whatever. So, I'll go to the international side and I'll be closer to D gate and we'll be cool. We'll be on our way to go. We get to the gate. Get to the gate, there's no flight attendants, no captain. We're still waiting on them to come back from wherever they're coming from. I think it was Denver or something. I don't know. That's besides the point. They weren't there for takeoff. 45 minutes to an hour goes by. They're still not there. All this rushing for what? This can't be real. We finally got to board. Girl, I kid you not, there was something going on with the employee. She overworked herself figure out who can cover her cuz they can't go over a certain amount of hours or something like that. I'm just like, what the Why wasn't this handled before? Cuz it was already a late flight. I don't want to be too late coming in cuz I don't want to be that tired and I want to make sure I'm able to get into my hotel. And I don't know about y'all, but the way I miss flights, I cannot book the hotel until I'm on the plane. Finally on the plane and taking off for whatever, booked the hotel. The hotel says I can't book it for that day because it's like 12:00 at this point next day. So, I had to book it for the next day. So, I'm like, "Okay, but they're not going to let me check in at 1:00 a.m. Maybe, fingers crossed. I don't know." Girl, they said, "Oh, we see your reservations here Sunday." which was technically today. They don't have no rooms to accommodate me for that night because obviously people that are staying in there from Saturday are still in the rooms. They're fully committed. So, they don't have no more room. What? I'm going to have to sleep on the street. Not really. Calling, calling, calling, calling every single hotel to see where I can stay. Girl, it's like 3:00 in the morning at this point. Found a room at the InterContinental which is where I'm at now. Girl, I was over it. At at that point at 3:00 a.m., 4:00 a.m., I was like, "I'm over it. I need to go sleep." So, I just woke up and I got ready and obviously I still have my reservation at the Equinox Hotel which I love that area, love Hudson Yards. So, I was low key wanted to stay at Fouquet's and I was trying to cancel that reservation, but nope. So, I'm just going to go back to the Equinox, stay there. It's a new day. We're going to have a good time here in New York. Yeah, right now I'm getting ready, finishing up my skin care. I'm trying to debate if I want to put some makeup on. I'll probably put a little bit on cuz you never know who you're going to see. I want to go get a matcha. That's number one on my list. Zero rhythm zero. The blueberry matcha. Try that cake. That's on my agenda. Obviously, we're going to the concert. Trying to go to Monkey Bar. This morning has been too. So, I tried to book a reservation at Monkey Bar. Monkey Bar is so hard to get into. So, I was like, "Let me just see if somebody cancel their reservation." Who knows? Girl, tell me why is two reservations open? 11:00 and a 12:00. And I was like, "Oh my god, I can do 12:00 if I get up right now." So, I'm like trying to book the reservation, da da da. It said, "Sorry, somebody booked the reservation." I'm like, "No." Everything is going wrong. And then when I'm trying to get these concert tickets, girl, tell me why the same thing happened. I was trying to get a certain seat. They said, "Oh, sorry, somebody booked it already." God, what are you trying to tell me? What are you trying to say right now? You're trying to say something. You're very loud and clear right now. So, I'm just trying to be positive. I'm trying to enjoy the day. When everything goes wrong, something's about to go right. So, I don't be tripping. I don't be tripping when stuff like this happens. Like, that's how I operate. When [ __ ] goes left, I'm going to still go right. You know how that is. I'm excited [snorts] for today. I'm about to finish getting ready. I'm about to drop this towel, and I'll check in with y'all once we get dressed. >> [singing] [music] [singing] [music] [music and singing] [music] [singing] [music] >> I'm outside in AMG right outside TT Two turnt, baby girl, you know me. Still with the dogs [music] that I grew beside. All the [ __ ] around me brighter they die. Got to watch [music] the time cuz it's flying right by. I'm outside in a AMG right outside >> [music] >> TT Two turnt, baby girl, you know me. Who am [music] I? All the [ __ ] around me brighter they die. Got to watch the time cuz it's flying right >> I'm sorry, the day can't go wrong cuz I look too good right now. We are all dressed and ready. I love these layers on this hair. This skirt is from With Jean. I've been waiting to wear this skirt for like a year now. Top, I don't even know where these are from, girl. I think these were from Nordstrom or something. They came with a ribbon sponsorship with them a long time ago and I was just hooked on these little flats that I just couldn't let them go. First scent is the Dead Cool Mineral Milk. This smells so good and fresh. Like if you need like a good everyday signature scent, highly recommend. I just recently found this. Y'all know I recently just went through my closet and my perfume. And then the Le Labo The Noir 29. At Le Labo you can customize the label to say and mine says one band, one sound. One band, one sound. Anyways, the MFK Gentle Fluidity. This has been my go-to for years. And this combination is so good. I'm also going to see if I can have get reservations at Monkey Bar and then take my bags to my new hotel and just dilly dally. >> Nice stuff. >> [music] [music] >> It's so silly of me to act like I don't need you back. When all all [music] I can think about is us since I seen you. >> So y'all I forgot my sunglasses at home for my outfit, but I'm debating if I should just keep this outfit on, but I still need some sunnies. But why did I underestimate these? Cuz they kind of look good and they don't touch my face so they won't leave any marks. Yeah, let's see what else we can find. Y'all they have these pink ones. Um excuse me. I need these immediately. I like these. These are giving baddie. Okay. What's this? Okay. So I was at Gucci the other day and I see that they had these Gucci sunglasses and I really want these to fit my face so bad, but I'm going to just show y'all how good these look. Look at how fire these look. They look cute today. Maybe this is a different style. Wait y'all, these actually kind of look good today. These curves. Y'all just got done with at Saks. Got those two pairs of shades. Um I have an addiction and it needs to be stopped. Y'all I'm about to make my way over to Monkey Bar. Got a reservation. And y'all what's crazy is I wasn't even going to be here today if I got off that plane. Did I say we're sitting so for so long waiting on the flight attendant to figure out their situation or whatever. On the plane for like 45 minutes and I was this close to getting off the plane and saying, "You know what? I'm going to just go tomorrow." Girl I'm so happy I did not say that because girl they grounded all the planes today from Atlanta cuz it's thunderstorming and I don't even like flying when it's thunder thunderstorming and raining and stuff. So thank God I did not get on. I swear having patience has really, you know, worked out in its favor for me because I feel like I'm learning patience. And sometimes when I feel like I don't feel like waiting for stuff or I feel like I become impatient or trying to hurry up and get out of a situation, I'm like, wait, let's just wait a little bit longer. Let's just wait a little bit longer. And it always works out. I'm a lucky girl. It always works out for me. But yeah, I'm walking there now. And I'll talk to y'all once I get there. I cannot wait to try this food, y'all. My mouth is watering. My stomach is growling. Yes. >> [music] [music] >> I'm inside and what I can say so far is that the customer service 10 out of 10. I don't want to speak too soon and I don't know why my camera wants to be all some type. But yeah, I don't know. The customer service here is 10 out of 10 and I ordered I cannot wait to try the food, y'all, and the monkey bread. I can't wait to try Just ordered a Riesling. I'm really not trying to drink alcohol before going to the concert cuz I'd rather drink there. I'm winning on that. But that I'm beyond here is so sexy. Oh, thank you. Uh this is delicious. Y'all, are you kidding me? That's salad. The wine and this is Riesling. >> No. >> The long grain >> I'm going to get to you and I'm looking at let's take a bite. crazy Exactly. Like I'm a food blogger. The butter, the truffle butter. I'm sorry. Oh, it's good. No. >> I'm sorry. >> waiter ever. The best waiter. >> Thank you. >> I need to take one of these home. Y'all, this bread This bread is like 10. Mhm. Good. Guys >> Do you need anything else at the moment? >> I don't think so. Thank you. Close your eyes. Customer service here. Oh. salad Caesar with with trout trout salad Good with the bread and crab crab meat. Honey comes with a dipping sauce. Two of them. This one looks like honey mustard or something. Tastes like And the bread is so soft. Try now. the crawfish Good. Some with a little tartar sauce. I know your mouth is watering now, Mom. But you want to try some? And of course I got to let you try some, girl. Here. Open up. It's actually disgusting. Okay, y'all. The steak just And we got some fries. For what? Oh, it's like apple slices. Y'all, this sauce right here. This is so good. Right here, too. Happy Thanksgiving. I think like this is my favorite. Yeah, it's like a A O E. And >> [music] >> This is so good. Y'all, this is 10 out of 10. [music] This is exactly where I'll be if I was staying on my period. Y'all, look how perfect this is. Getting crabby patty. This is so good. Content creator, but Got to have a pickle. >> [music] >> As you can see, I really enjoyed this meal [music] at Monkey Bar. The starter was the star of the show. This is their truffle monkey bread. And when I say one of the best breads I ever had as an appetizer, along with the truffle butter on the side. [music] I just wish I could have it right in front of me right now. And then, of course, I have to have veggies on the side, so I ordered a Caesar salad with trout. I would skip over this or ask for it without the trout because it was a little too fishy for me. The crab cakes tasted like a delicious crab cake you probably tried before. Um nothing special is about it, but it was just a very well-done crab cake. And these crab rangoons, I'm not really a crab rangoon type of girl, but obviously I was here, so I was like, "Okay, let's just [music] try it." Mustard that they had on the side was very good. I actually used that for other dishes, but overall I would skip over the crab rangoon. It just wasn't my favorite. But let's get into the second and star of the show, the Wagyu steak along with the Wagyu burger. Girl, if I could have this every day as a protein, I would. [music] This steak was so delicious, so flavorful, so juicy. Uh like I just love Wagyu. I eat meat in moderation, so this would definitely be the meal I would use as an excuse to [music] eat meat. So if you're ever in New York, please stop by Monkey Bar. You will not be disappointed. >> Hey Wanida. She's so pretty, y'all. Look at her dress. >> Oh my god, y'all. I bumped into Oh my god, y'all. I can't [laughter] breathe. I can't I'm having a moment right now. >> Let's hug. >> Stop. >> [laughter] >> Oh my god. >> It's so worth it. >> It's so worth it. Stop. >> I'm here for the Jay-Z concert. >> You smell really good. >> Oh, it was your recommendation. What do you mix with the Nest thing? Do you remember you had the Nest thing that you said you mixed it? >> Yes. >> I took that and then I mixed it with other stuff, but random stuff. >> Yeah, but the Nest one you really like. >> Yes. >> Yeah, it's so awesome. >> Girl, please. I'm like I'm [laughter] like LOVE YOU GUYS. I'M LIKE, "WAIT, YOU WALKED PAST I'M LIKE, I know that face. LIKE THERE'S NO WAY I HAVEN'T seen that." And then you're just like casually just I'm like, "God." >> That is so funny. >> I'm so happy you're here. >> Yeah, thank you. So happy to see you. I hope you enjoy yourself. >> at all? Oh, I've been to it once. It's packed in tonight? >> It's packed in. It's packed in on the weekends all the time anyway. >> Okay, okay. I might go there after the concert. >> You're going to have a time. >> Bye. >> [music] [music] >> Oh my god, this is so crazy. I'm not doing this. I'm not doing this. They closed the door. Okay, we got to go to a different gate. Hi from outside Yankee Stadium. What the [ __ ] is happening right now? A bunch of [ __ ] We are stuck outside. We've been out here for hours. They won't let us in. They won't let us in. They closed everything. Look at the whole concert is out inside. >> They're closing all the gates. They're closing all the windows. They won't let us in, y'all. I don't know how I'mma get in here like I don't know. I'm not used to mine. So, now I My head is hurting. My head is pounding. But, we're going to make it. Positive vibes, positive energy. >> Yeah. >> Ain't that right? >> We'll figure it out. >> Yes. I'm screaming. No, they look good. >> They didn't stop. I'm tired. >> How we feeling? Update, how we feeling? It is currently Show the time. >> 11:19 >> Bro. But, shout >> I've been here since 6:45. >> That's crazy. But, shout out Jay-Z though, he paid overtime till 3:00 a.m. >> Yeah. >> Shout out him. >> If you want me to throw the DIAMOND AT ONE TIME >> To be continued. >> One by one. >> Merchandise also. And if you do not have a ticket, you may be subject to an arrest. One by one. No pushing or shoving as we seek to remain open. One by one. No pushing or shoving as we seek >> Yeah. She do. HEY! THEY WANT TO SHUT IT DOWN. Shut it down. Yesterday, I did not get into the concert. I just couldn't. I tapped out. I had to go to McDonald's to survive. I had to get a high C [music] to revive me because I was literally about to pass out from all the walking that I did yesterday and not having any water. Girl, I was about to die out there. Jay-Z and Beyoncé, no. This close to the door, but I was like, you know what, my phone's going to die. I don't even know how I'm about to get home. Best decision for me to just take an exit. I did feel defeated. I was out here for the concert and to not be able to get in the concert was kind of a bummer. You know, I'm really trying to look at everything in a positive aspect. I wanted to try a restaurant that was on the top of my wish list, which was Monkey Bar, and I never thought a meal could bring me so much joy [music] that I wanted to cry. I got to walk around the city, get some steps in, found some fire sunglasses. Jay-Z is also having some more shows overseas, and y'all know I love me a good London and Paris trip. So, maybe it just wasn't meant for me to see here. It just wasn't. I had to get my fix somewhere else. Sometimes everything just doesn't work out, and that's okay, no matter how much time and money you spend on it. I'm about to get ready to go cuz New York, you got me. Goodbye, New York City. Y'all, last night was the show. I have to sit down and tell y'all about it, but I need to make my way to the airport cuz I woke up so late cuz I got in so late last night because of that situation happening. But anyhoo, I must go get me a matcha to cheer me up this morning before I leave. Um, are we feeling the Guccis? I think I'm feeling it. I'm feeling it. Don't even want to get started with that. But yeah, um, but yeah, I'm going to fill y'all in once we get home, but I just want to make a few stops before I have to go to the airport and go back home to Bay, so let's go. And then my outfit is just Tank Air with my favorite Skims pants. I just love the material. They're so soft. And then my Hermes slides. But yeah, let's go. >> I stopped chasing perfection a long time [music] ago. Learning to walk in my flaws, embracing the good, the bad, [music] and most importantly, the ugly. So when life happens, it doesn't happen to me. >> [music] >> I become the master of my own life. When life serves me lemons, I make lemonade, a tall [music] glass with the most sugar. The trip didn't turn out how I envisioned [music] it in my head, but that's just how life is. Searching for perfection when perfection doesn't even exist. Life is imperfect, but always choosing myself is the [music] perfect life. Until next time. >> Mhm.