Video summary
Kyra starts her day preparing for a black-tie birthday event and an upcoming Jay-Z concert in New York City, where she openly discusses the pressures faced by Black creators on social media regarding whether to alter their authentic selves or perform differently to secure brand deals; ultimately, she chooses to remain true to herself despite industry expectations. Her preparation involves getting makeup done by Reagan, styling outfits that range from feminine corsets and lace to streetwear-inspired jeans and wedges, while selecting accessories like clip-on earrings and various lip products including Kylie Cosmetics and NYX. She also shares her intentional approach to nutrition with a meal featuring avocado, smoked salmon, sauerkraut, and rice cakes, promoting the Nourish app for access to registered dietitians along the way.
However, travel plans quickly face significant disruption when she encounters flight delays due to employee issues at an Atlanta airport, causing her to miss her initial boarding window and struggle with hotel bookings because flights were grounded by thunderstorms; eventually, she secures a room at an InterContinental hotel near Hudson Yards but maintains positive energy throughout the ordeal. She enjoys dinner at Monkey Bar with friends before heading toward Yankee Stadium for the concert, only to find that upon arrival outside the stadium, security closes all gates and denies entry due to overcrowding or logistical issues. This leaves her stranded outside in the rain after hours of waiting without access to the event, a situation compounded by exhaustion from walking without water which nearly caused them to faint before they even reached the venue.
Despite getting close to entry with their phone dying, the speaker chooses to leave rather than risk passing out or being unable to get home safely, reflecting that sometimes plans do not work out regardless of time or money spent; after surviving on McDonald's food and seeking joy at Monkey Bar while exploring the city for sunglasses, they express a deep sense of acceptance. The narrative concludes with the realization that one should stop chasing perfection long ago and instead embrace flaws, viewing an imperfect trip as a valuable lesson in choosing oneself over searching for non-existent perfection before heading to the airport from the Bay Area wearing Skims pants, Hermes slides, and Tank Air. Ultimately, when life serves lemons, the wisdom is to make lemonade with extra sugar rather than dwelling on what was lost or expected.
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I'm sorry, the day can't go wrong cuz I
look too good right now.
>> Imagine flying to NYC for 24 hours to
have the perfect day and it turns out
like this.
>> They closed the door.
>> We are stuck outside. We've been out
here for hours. They won't let us in.
>> I was about to die out there.
>> Did I die? No. Was it traumatic? Yes.
Let's go back to how IT ALL STARTED.
>> HEY, Y'ALL. WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER
VIDEO. If you're new here, my name is
Kyra. [music]
Don't mind how I look. We're about to
turn to basic today in 2.5 seconds.
Maybe not 2.5 seconds. I'm on my way to
go get my hair done and I'm going to a
new stylist today, which I'm super
excited. I've been wanting to go to her.
Her work is amazing and I seen that she
does these beautiful like Hollywood
waves. Going to a black tie event today
and I see she does good updos and I've
been wanting like this one
specific updo. It lives rent-free in my
head. Always wanted to try it. So,
that's what we're doing today. And then,
the black tie event is for my friend's
birthday party. So, I definitely got to
show up and show out. I have this cute
little gown. The lace. I'm in my lace
era right now. Corsets and stuff. I
don't know. They've been calling my
name. So, I'm tapping into it and I
cannot wait to get dressed tonight and
I'm debating if I want to go get my
makeup done by Reagan cuz I'm like, do I
feel like doing my own makeup? Should I
just get it done? I should just get it
done, you know? Cuz the pictures and
stuff from every angle got to be on
point. So, I need to log back into the
navigation cuz I unplugged y'all so I
can talk to y'all. Yeah, I don't know
where I'm going. So, I'll check in with
y'all once I get there.
>> [music]
[music]
>> Down the street is the house [music] in
which she stayed.
On the corner of the
>> [music]
[music]
>> Alexa, turn on all closet lights.
Hello.
This light I'm right here. Okay, it's
getting better. It's getting better. As
y'all can see, we had a hectic morning.
I was getting ready for the event that I
have to go to tonight, which I'm super
excited to celebrate with the girls. And
it's going to be a good time. As you can
see, I'm in my new closet, but I don't
know for how long because I got good
news today. I fear I haven't updated
y'all on a lot of life things lately,
and I'm not going to share with y'all
just yet because I want to wait till
it's closer to the date when it's
happening, but there's some new life
updates. Pat on the back. I'm so happy
for a new. That's all we finna say. I
got my makeup done by Reagan. She is the
best. Look how airbrushed my face look.
I'm going to go take pictures before the
event. That's why I got ready early. And
I'm really trying to just be intentional
moving forward with everything that I do
because I just been really in my head
about a little second because there were
some family issues going on. Y'all know
my mom is my manager. So, it was just
some things that were going on with her.
She's fine now. Um put me on a little
delay because obviously she's my
manager. She helps me like negotiate
invoices and all the things. Health is
the most important thing that I even
preach on my channel. You know, taking
care of yourself. Just like things had
to take a pause. My blogs have been a
little backed up. I feel like out of
place a little bit. It's okay to take
care of myself other than working. And
that was one of my goals for this year
anyways cuz y'all know in the beginning
of the year I went to the acupuncture
appointment, and she basically said like
my soul was empty. Yeah, I just am
putting myself [clears throat] first and
prioritizing me, but at the same time,
this is my job, and I love coming on my
platform, and you know, just having my
community there with me. And also,
another thing to know, I don't know why
I've been really in my head about how I
want to show up online on all these
platforms. Oh, it's going to rain. Why?
Really going back and forth about how I
want to show on these platforms. I love
creating, y'all. I love creating,
obviously. But, there obviously is a
strategy all the time when it comes to
posting on Instagram, Tik Tok, and of
course, I want to always be organic, but
still at the same time I don't know how
to explain this. At the end of the day,
this is a job, so you have to appeal to
people that are going to hire you, if
that makes sense. And me being a black
girl, we can't just come on this
platform swearing. We can't come on this
platform overly loud. Can't shake ass
without it being called ghetto, but let
it be somebody else, they can shake
their ass and they think it's funny. We
just can't do that. It's just so hard.
Do I want to approach social media
different? And that's why you see like
some creators really switch up their
ways because they want to appeal to
bigger brands to get bigger projects.
And don't get me wrong, I love I'm very,
very grateful for the projects that I
get already. Some people feel like they
have to clean it up to get those
opportunities, and I'm at a point where
I feel like I don't want to do that.
Like, I don't want to not be myself and
get these opportunities. And mind you, I
get great opportunities. I'm just so
grateful. There are other rooms that of
course I would love to be in. You have
to sit back and think how can you get
there? But like at the same time, you
just have to be yourself. Praying, God
willing, you'll be entered in that room
some way, somehow, some way. But, I just
don't feel like I I to switch up who I
am to be in that room cuz that's that
would be a disservice to myself and I
just wouldn't feel authentic. See what
I'm saying? I don't know. It's just like
there's so many thoughts, girl. It's
really hard being a black girl on social
media. We can't just come on here and
be. We have to literally perform.
At the same time, we also need to do
better as a community, a black
community, to make sure that we support
each other. That's why I'm always when
just want to make sure like everybody is
supported, everybody is seen because I
know how much hard work goes behind the
scenes on try to create content,
planning, even talking on camera still
like a skill that some people have a
problem with doing. Probably practice
over and over to get the right clip, you
know? It's just like so many things that
go on. I just want better for our
community. That's all. That's all.
That's what really was in my head.
That's really what's been in my head
lately. Like I just feel like we deserve
better. Those are just thoughts that are
in my head. I've just really been going
back and forth on how I want to be on
this platform. I feel like not how I
want to be, but as far as like making my
sponsored content, like I love doing
that, but it takes a lot of time. And of
course, like I'm so blessed and grateful
to get the opportunity. I don't know
where the what what I'm saying right
now, girl. But yeah, girl, like I just
really just miss y'all. I miss vlogging.
You know like when you have so many
thoughts, you don't even know where to
start. That's where I'm at with it.
Well, let's get into this lip combo.
I've been getting so many questions on
the lip combo that Reagan did. I ordered
the lip liner she used, but this
honestly reminds me of like a cool
brown. Cool brown from Fenty. It's
called What's it called? Extra Thigh? I
mean, I always use brown liners. Glosses
don't last on me. My lips look crazy. So
I'm like,
maybe I should try doing matte lip. What
is this honey love color Reagan used? I
am trying to order the brand.
Ooh!
>> [laughter]
>> I told y'all when I talk a lot, things
just go left. But yeah, we need to touch
this lip up. So, Bre can always send me
off with a touch-up kit. The color that
she uses is called Hue Hue bar, but it's
out of stock right now. They said it's
comparable to Honey Love, and I have
Honey Love. Forgot what we were talking
about. I'm just so
ADHD ass [ __ ]
>> [laughter]
>> Like, I really think I have ADHD. Like,
I have a shopping problem. Like, I was
looking up symptoms for ADHD, girl, and
I'm just like, that's me. I'm an
impulsive shopper. It's actually
disgusting. Like, y'all would be like,
that's why I have so much stuff. That's
why I have to get rid of so many things.
And I feel like I'm like, I always try
to justify my purchases. I'm like,
Never wear it. Never wear it. Never do.
Anyway, so I need to touch up my lip,
and I need to put my clothes on
immediately.
We need to put some powder on, too. I've
been loving the Kylie lip liners, and
also this MAC um plum liner, and then
the Huda Beauty lip contour stain. As
you can see, the lip liner is still on.
So, I don't think I want to touch that
too much. I am going to
enhance my cupid's bow a little bit with
the Huda Beauty, cuz I want that to stay
on all night. Oh my gosh, y'all. Did
y'all watch Love Island last night? I
ain't going to lie. Melanie, mama ate
that. I really don't want her with
Sincere. So, I'm going to use the Kylie
Cosmetics plum plum plumping lip liner
in the color iced latte. It's like a
warm brown.
Cute, right? All right. All right. All
right, right? I just feel like I haven't
talked to y'all in so long, it's
actually disgusting. Getting older.
[ __ ] don't got no energy. This [ __ ]
trying to live off vitamin D. Using the
Kylie Cosmetics cinnamon, and I've been
loving this NYX satin matte. I just
picked it up randomly the other day, cuz
I had a sponsorship with them, and it's
just this nice nude. It kind of looks
like the nude she already had on my
lips, right? And this is in the color
cozy wit, and I low key have to get a
more of these cuz it's like the perfect
nude. You see that? Like so tea. But I
always want my lips to look fat, juicy,
and matte. I just love a good matte.
Then I'm going to add some more liner.
Cuz I was just in the shower.
Why did I just sound like Michael
Jackson?
>> [screaming]
>> Crazy.
Getting closer. I'm burning now.
Thick things. And then I'm just going to
spray some all nighter spray.
Oh, and then I got to put y'all on my
new favorite blush. It's by Nars. It is
the Nars Inferno Illuminator. Y'all look
how pretty this is. It's gorgeous. But
let me put it on my cheek so y'all can
see what it's really giving. Y'all not
ready for this glow.
Do you
perfection. This is like the perfect
blush and highlighter combo. I'm sorry.
And tomorrow y'all, I'm going to the
Jay-Z concert. Hova. This is honey love.
As you can see.
Yes, I'm living for it. Yeah, I'm about
to get dressed, put my clothes on, and
then I'm going to figure out what I'm
going to accessorize my outfit with. And
then these clip-on earrings, y'all
always ask me about them. They always
come in clutch. They look like big
diamond earrings, but they're like not.
They're clip-ons. Brunel glow oil and
the lotion. This combination smells so
good. Black owned. The glow oil it
smells just like dead cool. I'm going to
put the scent on the screen. It
literally smells just like it. I just
had the perfume, but I ran out. Even
though my skin isn't going to be
exposed, I still want to smell like this
in combination with my scents.
Get on to it. And it's been my
replacement for the Fenty eau de parfum
cuz I don't know what the Rihanna is on
right now, but she needs to restock
that. I need to actually make a post and
say this post is for Rihanna and Rihanna
>> Your touch.
>> [music]
[music]
>> Hey girl, it is the next day. Last night
was so fun and y'all my face was beat to
the gods. Reagan really set my face so
good because my makeup lasted all night.
I didn't even put my hair in rods.
That's how tired I was. I was exhausted.
[music]
Getting ready for a big event is such a
long day process. I'm exhausted by the
end of night. And yeah, it was like
really cute. And also she booked it at
Mary's studio. She has like a photo
studio. So if y'all need somewhere to
shoot and stuff like that, make sure
y'all go hit up my girl Mary. She
obviously has a vent there as well. I'm
outside of Ulta and y'all know I've been
obsessed with matte lip, right? And
before I go run the rest of my errands,
I'm like, I need a good everyday matte
lip. That NYX fat matte, I don't know.
I'm addicted. I'm addicted. I need like
a everyday color cuz I tried to put this
the color I used last night on and it's
not cute. It's only cute when my makeup
is done. So I need like a good more like
everyday color. And then I need to go to
the tailor because I got girl, I got a
full bag of clothes that I need to wear.
I haven't even worn them because they
don't fit. You know, the waist is
getting smaller.
>> [laughter]
>> No, I'm just No, not just playing. It
is. I need to go home, clean, and pack
because we're going to New York for the
Jay-Z concert, which I'm so excited
about. So we just have some errands to
run. So I'm going to go in Ulta Beauty
first and see what matte lip we can
find. Do y'all like these semi fairly
sunglasses? I need to go to the store.
They're giving me very much vintage
retro. But I can't wear this with makeup
these with makeup because they're so
close to my face and it look like it's
about to rain. Y'all, this heatwave?
Listen, I'm all for the heat.
Personally, I love the heat, but I
haven't been able to even have a pool
day. I don't want the heatwave to end
until I have my pool day.
Thank you. Don't shoot the sun just yet.
Yeah, I told y'all this is my ADHD
kicking in. I feel like I can't conquer
the day without a good lip combo until I
get my lip.
I haven't even told y'all the new Drake
perfume. Y'all, this smells heavenly and
I love the packaging. It's so cute on
your counter.
10 out of 10. That smells lovely. Hey
babe. Hey babe. Hey babe. I am going to
get two of the plump lip liners just to
have cuz this is so good. It's like the
perfect brown. This was the spray that I
sprayed on my face last night. But yeah,
the Urban Decay All Nighter just free up
on that.
Cuz I don't want to look like a grease
monkey anymore. And I'm not going to
lie, I told y'all Kylie Cosmetics the
plumping lip liner is so good. So I
think I'm going to try this pink
color. It's called Risky Rose.
For like a everyday
liner.
And here is what we're looking for. And
oh, I fell into a ad for this. That oil
is so good, y'all. This one is my
favorite. Love this. Been wearing it
every single day. So good. But where is
the Fenty
Mattemoiselle? I low-key should get a
fortune cookie, too. And I like the
Fenty Mattemoiselle because of the
finish. That's why I'm addicted [music]
to them. The skin is so good right now.
But let me hurry up cuz this music is
not going to ruin the vibe. Cozy Whip,
number one. So good. But for everyday, I
low-key need to get this Flamingo
Feather. I like this more. Oh yeah.
It's pretty. I can do this Pink Puff
with that Kylie. No, that's too pink.
There's [music] a difference. This is
more like a natural lip color. This is
different.
But it's pretty still. I think that's
what I'm going to do. What one is this?
Rose Robe is pretty nice. I think I'm
going to get that, too. This
nude color. Wait, let me see Cashmere
Cutie. Oh, mhm. Cashmere Cutie is too
like nude. But I I don't like this.
It'll be really cute with a dark brown.
So, I think I'm going to get that one,
too. I'm going to get Cashmere Cutie,
this one, Flamingo Feather. Wait, should
I get that one?
So indecisive. So, I got Rose Through,
Cashmere Cutie, the Flamingo Feather.
Let's go check out. Success.
I just got to the tailor, and when I
say, like, I'm not even playing with
you, this bag broke. Look how much stuff
I have.
Anyways.
These pants.
Baby tee.
>> These are ready to wear. I'm getting all
my new ones.
>> Mine. My color.
>> This is my travel shirt. It's New
Orleans.
>> Just like that, we're done.
I wish.
Hey girl, so I just got home, and I'm
about to make me something, cuz I'm
starving. I'm about to put y'all on my
cute little plate that I love to make
food on.
I think I showed y'all this before, but
isn't she so cute? She's so cute. Some
sauerkraut. Y'all know I love to keep my
plate colorful. Fermented foods for the
gut. This is what your gut is asking for
every single day.
Avocado. Avocado with fish is my go-to.
I wish I knew how to make sushi.
Sometimes I even eat the avocado on its
own, and put a little bit of salt and
pepper. And then I got to add my
favorite rice cakes for a little crunch.
And then for some extra antioxidants,
I'm going to
drizzle a little olive oil,
and then sprinkle some salt and pepper.
And look how good this plate looks. So
easy. I just take my rice cake, add a
little avocado,
smoked salmon, sauerkraut. Taste test.
Mhm.
I'm really intentional on what I put in
my body. I don't like to snack on
processed foods. It just all depends on
how you snack and what you put in your
food. And I'm very intentional because I
like to eat whole foods that actually
nourish my body and help my hormones and
not send me on a blood sugar roller
coaster. And my dietitian actually sat
me down and said, "Girl, you need to
stop snacking." because I told her my
goals. Girl, after she told me that,
that's when the shift happened. I was
like, "Okay, bet." And making that
change alone, I've seen such a huge
difference with my body. Y'all know I've
been on this gut journey for a minute
now, just figuring everything out as I
go. And getting a registered dietitian
has been such a game changer for me. But
she introduced me to the
anti-inflammatory approach of it all.
And the best part of having a registered
dietitian is that it's covered by
insurance through Nourish. And Nourish
is sponsoring this video. And y'all seen
me talk about Nourish so many times. I
mentioned it on my Instagram stories
because I really genuinely want
everybody to talk to a registered
dietitian because it's so life-changing.
Cuz I'm getting high-quality care
without paying out of pocket. And it's
so easy. All you need to do is download
the app. And girl, once you see your
insurance is on there, you're good to
go. Once you get matched with a
dietitian, everything changes, girl. And
I'm not going to lie to you, this
journey has been very, very challenging,
but I had to be consistent and honest
with myself. Like, "Girl, if you don't
put in the work, you're not going to see
the results." And I've been disciplined
in this new season and the
transformation is just crazy. Because
this has been the most I've seen my body
change and it works with me and not
against me because it works with my
hormones. And if you have PCOS, and
being on an anti-inflammatory diet keeps
my gut healthy. [music] And the best
part about having a registered dietitian
through Nourish is that you can message
them at any time,
>> [music]
>> anywhere if you're confused about a meal
so you'll be able to stay on track. We
don't have time to be falling off. And
logging my meals in on the app makes it
so easy for me to track my macros. Girl,
they have everything on the Nourish app
like if I'm getting confused on what I
want to eat, they have meal inspo
[music] on the app. And I love the
Nourish app because it's guided support
right in the palm of your hands, girl.
And we all deserve a high quality life
and I always say it all starts [music]
from within. This is why you need a
registered dietitian to work on what
you're inputting into your body. And
with Nourish, this has been my turning
point and I just want the same for
y'all. So make sure you download the
app. Click the link down below and sign
up for the Nourish app with my link
because the girl, you really have
nothing to lose. And thank you so much
Nourish for sponsoring this video. I'm
about to finish this and then I'm going
to start packing my clothes for New York
because I'm not trying to miss this
flight. I need to [music] make it to
this concert. So cheers.
So I need to figure out what I'm going
to wear to the concert and I want to
pack just like a day cute little daytime
outfit as well. And I'm not going to lie
y'all, having my closet like this has
made it so much easier to get dressed. I
can see everything, everything's out. So
I'm about to pick out some outfits. I'm
like trying to figure out if I want to
be cute and sophisticated like very
feminine vibes or do I want to be New
York streetwear style. That's the thing
about being a girl like you don't know
the vibes you want until like you
actually put the clothes on. Or actually
until you get in that situation because
it could be raining sunny. Let me try on
some outfits for y'all and see what it's
giving. Oh wait, let me show y'all what
Fancy Club just sent me. They're a
Vietnam based brand and I cannot wait to
visit Vietnam so I can act go to the
actual store. But anyways, girl, they
reached out and was like, "Girl, we want
to send you some stuff." So I'm like,
"Okay, girl, send me, send me." Y'all
probably seen this bag all over social
media. Why is everyone doing it? As you
can see, it's as Kyra. I think that's
what I was supposed to say PR or
something like that.
Are you going to gag when you see this
bag?
Girl, what?
Turquoise ostrich leather. Get into the
vibes. This long clutch.
Chic. We're trying to get into that.
We're trying to get into the couture.
Cuz I want to let y'all know I can do it
all. Okay, couture, street, anything.
Anything I want to be I can do it.
So, yeah, I'm excited to style this bag.
And I love the silver hardware. So cute.
It's giving Bottega, but not Bottega.
And I don't have a long clutch, so I
cannot wait to style this. I'm super
excited. And y'all, I swear to you, I
think I've explained this before, like
I've been into corsets and laces, but I
really feel like it's been my closet
allowing me to tap into my feminine
energy. Cuz I swear to you, it's I don't
know, I just feel super girly in this
room. I'm trying to match the vibe. And
how cute is this lavender and leopard
set?
Are you kidding me?
Y'all, I'm about to walk out of this.
And it also comes with a matching skirt.
Hello. Waist is going to be snatched in
this corset. And it's one of those
corsets that you tie up in the back. So,
you know it's about to be snatched.
Okay? Oh my god, this material feels so
good. I just love a good quality brand.
I'm obsessed.
I wanted to show y'all that cuz it's
very cute, see? So, this right here is
an option. I can wear this set. It's
from Local European. Y'all can't even
see it. Okay. I just got this not too
recently. It's like this satin two-piece
set. And I love a good abstract No, what
is it called? Like I love a good like
draping to a shirt. I just feel like it
adds structure. It makes the outfit
interesting, [music] if that makes
sense. See, this is so cute. And this is
a medium large, too, for reference. I
did used to order their cargo pants like
a long time ago. I seen this set and I
was like, "Ooh, yes, that's cute." I
could wear these Havaianas, the Isabel
Marant flip-flops. You know what I mean?
Cuz it adds to the outfit. [music]
I just had to get these. They're so
cute. Okay, cute, but no.
It's too baggy. The These need to be a a
with a heel. You know what I mean? It's
just too like I don't know. I don't want
to give No. It's giving pajamas right
now. Again, it's too relaxed.
>> I don't know.
>> Donkey donkey donkey donkey donkey Are
you a girl that wears heels during the
day? I really want to be. I really want
to wear kitten heels during the day.
Makeup done, hair done, you know? A
little cute bag.
>> [laughter]
>> This would give concert if I really
wanted to, but I really I don't want to
wear this to the concert. It's giving
like cute dinner vibes. I mean, you
could dress this up or down if you want
to, but right now I'm feeling
It should be dressy. So, I just got this
dress from Express. Girl, it's giving
Missoni. Camera wants to be pissy and
die. And like I said, y'all, I swear my
closet allows me just to
be fun. So, I have this with jean polka
dot skirt that I been wanting to wear.
It's giving free young home run free,
you know? [music] You know what I mean?
Like in New York, I'm like playing
around with some colors. These are brown
polka dots, but they kind of look black.
I was like, "Okay, let me see [music]
how these look with flip-flops." And I
kind of like how this looks. And y'all,
this shirt I got And it was like $8. And
when I say one of the softest shirt I
have worn, I'm like, "Okay, baby." And
then my little vintage Dior little bag
that [music] I got so long ago. I feel
like this is giving New York, like free
spirit, cute. And then we have our new
sunglasses that will to it off with some
sunnies. and I just checked the weather
just in case.
It's going to be 90°. So, I was like,
"Yeah, this is [music] cute. This is
giving
I'm in the city. [music] I want to go to
get me a matcha. I want to go get me
some lunch
before the concert. Yes, this is so
cute. I can't. But, there is a one more
top I wanted to try out with it. So, let
me just see
the difference. This top is more like
>> [music]
>> that deep V.
Which I thought would be like super
sexy, like I'm able to dress it up or
down.
I'm not mad at this top, either.
This one is more like
I don't know. I'm definitely going to
have to have boob tape. No, we going to
be sweating and stuff. Mhm.
My boob tape going to be sweating and
not sticking. [music]
Yeah, let's just not
Let's just stick with the other option.
I want to drop so bad. I just want my
boobs to touch my chin. But, yeah, I'm
I'm really feeling this outfit. This is
going to be [music] running around in
the city. Y'all, this is where we're
starting
with the concert outfit. These
freaking wedges feel like nothing.
They're [music] like sponges.
These chocolates, if I get them warm,
okay? Let me have some chocolate.
And then, I have these dope ass Kai
jeans. And I The The best thing [music]
about these jeans is that I didn't have
to get them hemmed, tailored, or
anything. I got the petite size. And
they they fit
like a glove.
Hey, hey. I was going to wear this shirt
[music] with it. But, this shirt looks
like a daytime shirt. But, these [music]
are two completely different shirts. And
it's lightweight, don't get me wrong,
and I like the sleeve length. I think it
gives it something.
But, I don't think it's giving a
concert. So, we're starting here, cuz
the pants are definite, and so are the
heels. [music]
We're still sticking with the Kai jeans,
but it needed a little something
something, so I put this this chain on
it.
And then [music] I paired it with my
little Louis Vuitton Murakami. Paired it
with these Jeffrey Campbell [music]
wedges. I like these because it
complements the Chi
right here. It says Chi in red. I I
think I don't know if I remember
correctly if these [music] weren't that
comfortable wearing throughout the day
cuz I wore them for a shoot, but I don't
remember them being like irritating me.
But I'm not going to lie, these yellow
wedges by this brand Finesse
y'all, these [music] are so comfortable.
They feel like a pillow for this one.
I just love like a wedge.
Like this is just giving like [music]
probably next to a fruit stand.
Actually, you know what? Let me I'm
going to take a picture next to a fruit
stand. Do they even have fruit stands in
I could wear these jelly flats
from Steve Madden, which I love.
They're a baby heel, [music] but you
can't see it. It's giving grandma. We're
doomed. But this could be an option and
they're super comfortable.
But I'd rather have
some height. I think I am going to do
the red.
Definitely going to be able
minimal makeup.
Cuz we [music] sipping on some purple
rain. Body insane.
Yeah.
Picking out outfits, success.
>> Yeah, I'm out that Brooklyn. [music] Now
I'm down in TriBeCa, right next to the
Narrows, but I'll be hood forever. I'm
the new Sinatra. And since I made it
here, I can make it anywhere. Yeah, they
love me everywhere. [music] I used to
cop in Harlem. All of my Dominicanos
right there on Broadway. Pull me back to
that McDonald's. Took it to my stash
spot. [music and singing] 560 State
Street. Catch me in the kitchen like the
Simmons whipping pastries. Cruising down
A Street. Off-white Lexus. Driving so
slow with BK's [music] from Texas. Me
and my best thot. Home of that boy
Biggie. Now I live on Bedford and I
brought my boys with me. Say [music]
what up to Ty Ty. Still sipping Mai
Tais. Sitting court side
>> [music]
[music]
>> Yesterday's travel day was special. Tell
me why I go to the airport. Mind you,
I'm running late already. I'm hurrying
[clears throat] up trying to pack and
then whatever. No notification yet until
I'm in the Uber to go to the airport and
it says flight is delayed. And I'm like,
oh, perfect cuz I'm already running late
anyways because I was already so excited
that I was at a T gate. My girl, they
changed it to a D gate and then that's
when I said it's delayed. So, I'm like,
oh, perfect, whatever. So, I'll go to
the international side and I'll be
closer to D gate and we'll be cool.
We'll be on our way to go. We get to the
gate. Get to the gate, there's no flight
attendants, no captain. We're still
waiting on them to come back from
wherever they're coming from. I think it
was Denver or something. I don't know.
That's besides the point. They weren't
there for takeoff. 45 minutes to an hour
goes by. They're still not there. All
this rushing for what? This can't be
real. We finally got to board. Girl, I
kid you not, there was something going
on with the employee. She overworked
herself figure out who can cover her cuz
they can't go over a certain amount of
hours or something like that. I'm just
like, what the Why wasn't this handled
before? Cuz it was already a late
flight. I don't want to be too late
coming in cuz I don't want to be that
tired and I want to make sure I'm able
to get into my hotel. And I don't know
about y'all, but the way I miss flights,
I cannot book the hotel until I'm on the
plane. Finally on the plane and taking
off for whatever, booked the hotel. The
hotel says I can't book it for that day
because it's like 12:00 at this point
next day. So, I had to book it for the
next day. So, I'm like, "Okay, but
they're not going to let me check in at
1:00 a.m. Maybe, fingers crossed. I
don't know." Girl, they said, "Oh, we
see your reservations here Sunday."
which was technically today. They don't
have no rooms to accommodate me for that
night because obviously people that are
staying in there from Saturday are still
in the rooms. They're fully committed.
So, they don't have no more room. What?
I'm going to have to sleep on the
street. Not really. Calling, calling,
calling, calling every single hotel to
see where I can stay. Girl, it's like
3:00 in the morning at this point. Found
a room at the InterContinental which is
where I'm at now. Girl, I was over it.
At at that point at 3:00 a.m., 4:00
a.m., I was like, "I'm over it. I need
to go sleep." So, I just woke up and I
got ready and obviously I still have my
reservation at the Equinox Hotel which I
love that area, love Hudson Yards. So, I
was low key wanted to stay at Fouquet's
and I was trying to cancel that
reservation, but nope. So, I'm just
going to go back to the Equinox, stay
there. It's a new day. We're going to
have a good time here in New York. Yeah,
right now I'm getting ready, finishing
up my skin care. I'm trying to debate if
I want to put some makeup on. I'll
probably put a little bit on cuz you
never know who you're going to see. I
want to go get a matcha. That's number
one on my list. Zero rhythm zero. The
blueberry matcha. Try that cake. That's
on my agenda. Obviously, we're going to
the concert. Trying to go to Monkey Bar.
This morning has been too. So, I tried
to book a reservation at Monkey Bar.
Monkey Bar is so hard to get into. So, I
was like, "Let me just see if somebody
cancel their reservation." Who knows?
Girl, tell me why is two reservations
open? 11:00 and a 12:00. And I was like,
"Oh my god, I can do 12:00 if I get up
right now." So, I'm like trying to book
the reservation, da da da. It said,
"Sorry, somebody booked the
reservation." I'm like, "No." Everything
is going wrong. And then when I'm trying
to get these concert tickets, girl, tell
me why the same thing happened. I was
trying to get a certain seat. They said,
"Oh, sorry, somebody booked it already."
God, what are you trying to tell me?
What are you trying to say right now?
You're trying to say something. You're
very loud and clear right now. So, I'm
just trying to be positive. I'm trying
to enjoy the day. When everything goes
wrong, something's about to go right.
So, I don't be tripping. I don't be
tripping when stuff like this happens.
Like, that's how I operate. When [ __ ]
goes left, I'm going to still go right.
You know how that is. I'm excited
[snorts] for today. I'm about to finish
getting ready. I'm about to drop this
towel, and I'll check in with y'all once
we get dressed.
>> [singing]
[music]
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[music]
[music and singing]
[music]
[singing]
[music]
>> I'm outside in AMG
right outside
TT
Two turnt, baby girl, you know me.
Still with the dogs [music] that I grew
beside.
All the [ __ ] around me brighter they
die. Got to watch [music] the time cuz
it's flying right by. I'm outside in a
AMG
right outside
>> [music]
>> TT
Two turnt, baby girl, you know me.
Who am [music] I?
All the [ __ ] around me brighter they
die. Got to watch the time cuz it's
flying right
>> I'm sorry, the day can't go wrong cuz I
look too good right now. We are all
dressed and ready. I love these layers
on this hair. This skirt is from With
Jean. I've been waiting to wear this
skirt for like a year now. Top, I don't
even know where these are from, girl. I
think these were from Nordstrom or
something. They came with a ribbon
sponsorship with them a long time ago
and I was just hooked on these little
flats that I just couldn't let them go.
First scent is the Dead Cool Mineral
Milk. This smells so good and fresh.
Like if you need like a good everyday
signature scent, highly recommend. I
just recently found this. Y'all know I
recently just went through my closet and
my perfume. And then the Le Labo The
Noir 29. At Le Labo you can customize
the label to say and mine says one band,
one sound. One band, one sound. Anyways,
the MFK Gentle Fluidity. This has been
my go-to for years. And this combination
is so good. I'm also going to see if I
can have get reservations at Monkey Bar
and then take my bags to my new hotel
and just dilly dally.
>> Nice stuff.
>> [music]
[music]
>> It's so silly of me to act like I don't
need you back.
When all
all [music] I can think about is us
since I seen you.
>> So y'all I forgot my sunglasses at home
for my outfit, but I'm debating if I
should just keep this outfit on, but I
still need some sunnies. But why did I
underestimate these? Cuz they kind of
look good and they don't touch my face
so they won't leave any marks. Yeah,
let's see what else we can find. Y'all
they have these pink ones.
Um excuse me.
I need these immediately. I like these.
These are giving baddie.
Okay.
What's this?
Okay.
So I was at Gucci the other day and I
see that they had these Gucci sunglasses
and I really want these to fit my face
so bad, but I'm going to just show y'all
how good these look.
Look at how fire these look. They look
cute today.
Maybe this is a different style.
Wait y'all, these actually kind of look
good today. These curves.
Y'all just got done with at Saks. Got
those two pairs of shades. Um I have an
addiction and it needs to be stopped.
Y'all I'm about to make my way over to
Monkey Bar. Got a reservation.
And y'all what's crazy is I wasn't even
going to be here today if I got off that
plane. Did I say we're sitting so for so
long waiting on the flight attendant to
figure out their situation or whatever.
On the plane for like 45 minutes and I
was this close to getting off the plane
and saying, "You know what? I'm going to
just go tomorrow." Girl I'm so happy I
did not say that because girl they
grounded all the planes today from
Atlanta cuz it's thunderstorming and I
don't even like flying when it's thunder
thunderstorming and raining and stuff.
So thank God I did not get on. I swear
having patience has really, you know,
worked out in its favor for me because I
feel like I'm learning patience. And
sometimes when I feel like I don't feel
like waiting for stuff or I feel like I
become
impatient or trying to hurry up and get
out of a situation, I'm like, wait,
let's just wait a little bit longer.
Let's just wait a little bit longer. And
it always works out. I'm a lucky girl.
It always works out for me. But yeah,
I'm walking there now.
And I'll talk to y'all once I get there.
I cannot wait to try this food, y'all.
My mouth is watering. My stomach is
growling.
Yes.
>> [music]
[music]
>> I'm inside and what I can say so far
is that the customer service
10 out of 10. I don't want to speak too
soon and I don't know why my camera
wants to be all some type.
But yeah, I don't know. The customer
service here is 10 out of 10 and I
ordered I cannot wait to try the food,
y'all, and the monkey bread. I can't
wait to try Just ordered a Riesling. I'm
really not trying to drink alcohol
before going to the concert cuz I'd
rather drink there.
I'm winning on that. But that I'm beyond
here is so sexy.
Oh, thank you.
Uh this is delicious.
Y'all, are you kidding me?
That's
salad.
The wine
and this is Riesling.
>> No.
>> The long grain
>> I'm going to get to you and I'm looking
at let's take a bite.
crazy
Exactly.
Like I'm a food blogger. The butter, the
truffle butter.
I'm sorry. Oh, it's good. No.
>> I'm sorry.
>> waiter ever. The best waiter.
>> Thank you.
>> I need to take one of these home.
Y'all, this bread
This bread is like 10.
Mhm.
Good.
Guys
>> Do you need anything else at the moment?
>> I don't think so. Thank you.
Close your eyes.
Customer service here. Oh.
salad Caesar
with with trout trout salad
Good with the bread and crab crab meat.
Honey comes with a dipping sauce. Two of
them.
This one looks like honey mustard or
something.
Tastes like
And the bread is so soft.
Try now.
the crawfish Good.
Some with a little tartar sauce.
I know your mouth is watering now, Mom.
But you want to try some?
And of course I got to let you try some,
girl. Here.
Open up.
It's actually disgusting.
Okay, y'all. The steak just
And we got some fries.
For what? Oh, it's like apple slices.
Y'all, this sauce right here.
This is so good.
Right here, too.
Happy Thanksgiving.
I think like this is my favorite.
Yeah, it's like a A O E.
And
>> [music]
>> This is so good.
Y'all, this is 10 out of 10. [music]
This is exactly where I'll be
if I was staying on my period. Y'all,
look how perfect this is.
Getting crabby patty.
This is so good. Content creator, but
Got to have a pickle.
>> [music]
>> As you can see, I really enjoyed this
meal [music] at Monkey Bar. The starter
was the star of the show. This is their
truffle monkey bread. And when I say one
of the best breads I ever had as an
appetizer, along with the truffle butter
on the side. [music] I just wish I could
have it right in front of me right now.
And then, of course, I have to have
veggies on the side, so I ordered a
Caesar salad with trout. I would skip
over this or ask for it without the
trout because it was a little too fishy
for me. The crab cakes tasted like a
delicious crab cake you probably tried
before. Um nothing special is about it,
but it was just a very well-done crab
cake. And these crab rangoons, I'm not
really a crab rangoon type of girl, but
obviously I was here, so I was like,
"Okay, let's just [music] try it."
Mustard that they had on the side was
very good. I actually used that for
other dishes, but overall I would skip
over the crab rangoon. It just wasn't my
favorite. But let's get into the second
and star of the show, the Wagyu steak
along with the Wagyu burger. Girl, if I
could have this every day as a protein,
I would. [music] This steak was so
delicious, so flavorful, so juicy. Uh
like I just love Wagyu. I eat meat in
moderation, so this would definitely be
the meal I would use as an excuse to
[music] eat meat. So if you're ever in
New York, please stop by Monkey Bar. You
will not be disappointed.
>> Hey Wanida.
She's so pretty, y'all. Look at her
dress.
>> Oh my god, y'all. I bumped into Oh my
god, y'all. I can't [laughter] breathe.
I can't I'm having a moment right now.
>> Let's hug.
>> Stop.
>> [laughter]
>> Oh my god.
>> It's so worth it.
>> It's so worth it. Stop.
>> I'm here for the Jay-Z concert.
>> You smell really good.
>> Oh, it was your recommendation. What do
you mix with the Nest thing? Do you
remember you had the Nest thing that you
said you mixed it?
>> Yes.
>> I took that and then I mixed it with
other stuff, but random stuff.
>> Yeah, but the Nest one you really like.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah, it's so awesome.
>> Girl, please. I'm like I'm [laughter]
like LOVE YOU GUYS.
I'M LIKE, "WAIT, YOU WALKED PAST I'M
LIKE,
I know that face. LIKE THERE'S NO WAY I
HAVEN'T seen that." And then you're just
like casually just
I'm like, "God."
>> That is so funny.
>> I'm so happy you're here.
>> Yeah, thank you. So happy to see you. I
hope you enjoy yourself.
>> at all? Oh, I've been to it once. It's
packed in tonight?
>> It's packed in. It's packed in on the
weekends all the time anyway.
>> Okay, okay. I might go there after the
concert.
>> You're going to have a time.
>> Bye.
>> [music]
[music]
>> Oh my god, this is so crazy.
I'm not doing this. I'm not doing this.
They closed the door.
Okay, we got to go to a different gate.
Hi from outside Yankee Stadium.
What the [ __ ] is happening right now?
A bunch of [ __ ]
We are stuck outside. We've been out
here for hours. They won't let us in.
They won't let us in. They closed
everything. Look at the whole concert is
out inside.
>> They're closing all the gates.
They're closing all the windows.
They won't let us in, y'all. I don't
know how I'mma get in here like I don't
know. I'm not used to mine. So, now I
My head is hurting.
My head is pounding.
But, we're going to make it.
Positive vibes, positive energy.
>> Yeah.
>> Ain't that right?
>> We'll figure it out.
>> Yes.
I'm screaming.
No, they look good.
>> They didn't stop. I'm tired.
>> How we feeling? Update, how we feeling?
It is currently Show the time.
>> 11:19
>> Bro.
But, shout
>> I've been here since 6:45.
>> That's crazy. But, shout out Jay-Z
though, he paid overtime till 3:00 a.m.
>> Yeah.
>> Shout out him.
>> If you want me to throw the DIAMOND AT
ONE TIME
>> To be continued.
>> One by one.
>> Merchandise also.
And if you do not have a ticket, you may
be subject to an arrest.
One by one.
No pushing or shoving as we seek to
remain open.
One by one.
No pushing or shoving as we seek
>> Yeah.
She do.
HEY!
THEY WANT TO SHUT IT DOWN. Shut it down.
Yesterday, I did not get into the
concert. I just couldn't. I tapped out.
I had to go to McDonald's to survive. I
had to get a high C [music] to revive me
because I was literally about to pass
out from all the walking that I did
yesterday and not having any water.
Girl, I was about to die out there.
Jay-Z and Beyoncé, no. This close to the
door, but I was like, you know what, my
phone's going to die. I don't even know
how I'm about to get home. Best decision
for me to just take an exit. I did feel
defeated. I was out here for the concert
and to not be able to get in the concert
was kind of a bummer. You know, I'm
really trying to look at everything in a
positive aspect. I wanted to try a
restaurant that was on the top of my
wish list, which was Monkey Bar, and I
never thought a meal could bring me so
much joy [music] that I wanted to cry. I
got to walk around the city, get some
steps in, found some fire sunglasses.
Jay-Z is also having some more shows
overseas, and y'all know I love me a
good London and Paris trip. So, maybe it
just wasn't meant for me to see here. It
just wasn't. I had to get my fix
somewhere else. Sometimes everything
just doesn't work out, and that's okay,
no matter how much time and money you
spend on it. I'm about to get ready to
go cuz New York, you got me.
Goodbye, New York City. Y'all, last
night was the
show.
I have to sit down and tell y'all about
it, but I need to make my way to the
airport cuz I woke up so late cuz I got
in so late last night because of that
situation happening. But anyhoo, I must
go get me a matcha to cheer me up this
morning before I leave. Um, are we
feeling the Guccis? I think I'm feeling
it. I'm feeling it.
Don't even want to get started with
that.
But yeah,
um, but yeah, I'm going to fill y'all in
once we get home, but I just want to
make a few stops before I have to go to
the airport and go back home to Bay, so
let's go. And then my outfit is just
Tank Air with my favorite Skims pants. I
just love the material. They're so soft.
And then my Hermes slides.
But yeah, let's go.
>> I stopped chasing perfection a long time
[music] ago.
Learning to walk in my flaws, embracing
the good, the bad, [music]
and most importantly, the ugly.
So when life happens, it doesn't happen
to me.
>> [music]
>> I become the master of my own life.
When life serves me lemons,
I make lemonade, a tall [music] glass
with the most sugar.
The trip didn't turn out how I
envisioned [music] it in my head,
but that's just how life is.
Searching for perfection when perfection
doesn't even exist.
Life is imperfect, but always choosing
myself
is the [music] perfect life.
Until next time.
>> Mhm.