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What Would I Tell My 21 Year-Old Self?

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When reflecting on what he would tell his 21-year-old self, the speaker emphasizes overcoming fear and uncertainty to move from running away from problems toward pursuing passions that drive impressive achievements. He acknowledges that feeling unrecognized or unvalidated is a common byproduct of youth rather than a personal failing, encouraging listeners not to subjugate their own desires for others' happiness. His specific advice includes falling in love slowly while breaking up quickly if necessary, and he explicitly advises against fearing the repercussions of putting oneself first. In terms of financial strategy, he recommends buying Bitcoin and engaging with "531," a concept associated with Rammo Palmo mentioned during his discussion on mental sharpness. To maintain peak cognitive performance for recording episodes, the speaker details a highly specific routine that involves eating bacon and eggs or sausage without carbohydrates, consuming minimal caffeine early in the day, and training moderately hard at an intensity of RP7 to RP8. He aims to be slightly hungry before taking one Newtonic supplement about an hour prior to work, followed by sipping on it throughout the session while ensuring exposure to sunlight and physical movement like walking. This regimen allows him to stay "dialed" for approximately four hours; beyond that time, he notes a decline in focus as his body fights between fatigue and stimulants, eventually becoming less effective if he continues pushing without adequate recovery or fuel adjustment. Regarding the purpose of his content creation, the speaker asserts that he primarily creates for himself rather than solely for an audience, viewing his show as a thinly veiled autobiography driven by his current interests and professional struggles. His deep fascination with evolutionary psychology serves as the "source code" for understanding human behavior, while his past obsession with productivity gurus like David Allen, Thiago Forte, and Peter Attia provided initial organizational frameworks that were ultimately tailored to his personal needs. He argues that following one's own curiosity is the most effective way to serve an audience because it generates a unique fingerprint; unlike other creators who might chase trends or reverse-engineer what will click on platforms like Twitter or Google searches, he believes authenticity resonates more deeply even if specific topics do not immediately gain traction. The speaker concludes that while there are inevitable "perverse incentives" and growth loops in the creator economy—such as optimizing for audience retention or trying different formats like live Q&A sessions—that one must learn to play this game without letting it define their identity. He warns against becoming an outlier by constantly adapting content based on external validation, noting that every other thinker has access to similar data regarding trends and search terms, making the unique value of a creator's work dependent on following their own instincts. Ultimately, he maintains that if a creative endeavor does not speak personally to him, it is better not to do it at all, as authenticity cannot be faked when an audience steps into one's room versus being alone in it. The discussion also includes a promotional segment regarding health monitoring, where the speaker highlights limitations in standard annual physicals which typically screen for only about 20 biomarkers. He promotes his partnership with Function to run comprehensive lab tests twice a year that monitor over 100 red blood cell biomarkers and screen for 50 types of cancer at stage one. This service provides actionable recommendations on heart health, hormone levels, thyroid function, and more through an expert team of physicians who analyze the data into a simple dashboard. While such detailed analysis usually costs thousands of dollars, Function offers these panels for $500, allowing users to bypass their weight list by visiting functionhealth.com/modernwisdom or using the link in the description below.
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If you could sit down and have a conversation with your 21-year-old self, what would you say? I I guess it depends how long the conversation is, but I'd probably just say fear less. So much of my life, especially in my 20ies and even still now, is driven by this fear. It's driven by uncertainty. It's um running away from something that you don't want is running towards something that you do and that will push you to do lots of great things and maybe become a very impressive person. Uh but it's not the fuel that you want to be using for a long time. So, first off, I would probably say I understand that you don't feel very recognized or very validated or very seen by the world. That's fine. That's not some personal failing of yours. That's kind of just a byproduct of being a 21-year-old guy that doesn't quite know what he wants yet and is struggling to connect with the people around him. I would say fall in love slowly and break up quickly. Uh because much of your 20ies, if you're not careful, will be spent in relationships that you should have left sooner for both of your sakes. Um don't be guilty about disappointing people. Don't fear the repercussions of putting yourself first. Don't subjugate your desires in order to keep somebody else happy. Don't make yourself unhappy in order to keep somebody else happy. Buy Bitcoin and do 531. That's what I'd say. Rammo Palmo, under what conditions do you feel the most mentally sharp and able to form co perform cognitive tasks? That's a good question. Um, so I've got a pretty dialed routine now before the big episodes. Uh, which is no carbs at all. So, uh, bacon and eggs, sausage and eggs, breakfast. Um, minimal caffeine earlier in the day. Uh, maybe one coffee in on a morning. Go and train moderately hard but not super hard. So, RP7, RP8. Um, then I want to be a little bit hungry and then I want to have probably one Newtonic about an hour before and then sip on a new tonic throughout whatever it is that I'm doing. And if I get all of that in and I've got sunlight my eyes and gone for a walk and I've been moving, I'm I'm pretty [ __ ] dialed. And that can last can hold on to that as long as I keep the neutonic levels up. I can hold on to that for probably about four hours and then it starts to sort of become psychotic after that time because I'm you're fighting this tension between fatigue and stimulants but more more stimulants aren't necessarily fixing the fatigue. Uh they're just making more stimulated. Um yeah JD fits. Do you create for yourself or for your audience? That's a good question and unfortunately it's probably the biggest middle finger uh I create for myself. Um this show has always been a thinly veiled autobiography. Um whatever it is that is on my mind, whatever it is that I'm dealing with, whatever it is that I'm interested in, uh what's happening to me professionally, personally, um much of that is the inspiration. uh not everything obviously um but much of that is the at least the beginning it's sort of the spark of the direction that I take the show in um you know I I I fell in love with evolutionary psychology because I I found it really insightful about understanding the sort of the why you are the way you are really sort of seeing the source code of human behavior at least from a a sort of conditioning sense and then obviously that gets coded into genes Um, that was a huge part of of understanding me because I wanted to. It was a big period where I was into productivity. So, I was just rinsing through every productivity guide. David Allen coming on and get Thiago Forte and Peter Akis, you know, getting all of the the big names in productivity on to help organize my things three GTD process and and you know, what's the best email client I should be using? Um, it's just for me and I think the best sure there are some artists like creators out there who can make content for an audience and really enjoy the process. But for me, the more that I don't follow my own curiosity and the more that I don't make it for myself, the less I enjoy it and the less successful it is. So I I genuinely think and maybe again this is just Stockholm syndrome. I genuinely think that the best way to serve you guys is to just follow my own curiosity because I'm not I'm not that much of an outlier. I'm not that different. I think a lot of the challenges that I face and a lot of the interests that I have are really representative of those that any other thoughtful, sensitive person has. And that means that if I follow my instincts, some nonzero portion of other people are also interested or care about this thing that I'm thinking about. And it gives me a unique insight because everybody has access to what the audience says. Every other creator, thinker, artist, songwriter, whatever, they all have access to what are the trends that are going on online. Everyone can see what's happening on Twitter. Everyone can ask chat GPT what the most search search terms are on Google, right? So that means it's a very unique body of work and not necessarily accurate but if you follow what you do, I think that that really elicits a unique fingerprint uh and one that absolutely resonates. even if it doesn't, you pursued something that you found interesting. And the more that I try and reverse engineer what will click, what will resonate, well maybe I should be doing the Q&A, maybe I should have someone ask me the questions on the Q&A or maybe maybe the Q&A should be done live or maybe I should be streaming on Twitch or whatever. And if it doesn't speak to me, not doing it is the best strategy because even if it would be optimal, even if it would be better in some way for audience growth, if it doesn't speak to me, it's not going to be authentic. And there's always this tension, right? Everybody shows up in you show up differently when someone else steps into your room versus when you're on your own. So when it's audience, there's all of these perverse incentives and trying to be 100% yourself is essentially impossible. But you can get closer and closer to that and you can also get further and further away and you train yourself in either direction. So for people that are wanting to create a body of work, you need to play the game. You absolutely need to play the game. There is a game to be played. There are mechanisms in place, growth loops that you need to take advantage of. So you do need to play the game, but you need to know that it's not about the game. play it, but it's not about it. I think that's really important and that's a strategy I'm holding on to. Did you know that your annual physical only screens for around 20 biomarkers, which leaves a lot of gaps when it comes to your understanding of your health, which is why I partnered with Function? They run lab tests twice a year that monitor over a 100red biomarkers. They even screen for 50 types of cancer at stage one. They've got a team of expert physicians that then takes that data, puts it into a simple dashboard, and gives you actionable recommendations to improve your health and lifespan. They track everything from your heart health and hormone levels to your thyroid function. Getting your blood work drawn and analyzed like this usually costs thousands, but with function, it is only $500. And right now, you can get the exact same blood panels that I get and bypass their weight list by going to the link in the description below or heading to functionhealth.com/modernwisdom. That's functionhealth.com/modernwisdom. Would you look at that clip is already over, but if you want more, don't be sad. The full episode is available right here. Go on.