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Virgo, your current situation is marked by a sudden and unavoidable shift that dismantles old structures built on shaky foundations rather than serving you anymore. This initial disruption feels like a lightning bolt designed to clear away what was unnecessary so you can see more clearly, but it forces the release of things you may have been stubbornly holding onto despite the universe's repeated attempts for you to let go. Once this dust settles and the old patterns collapse, you are invited to assess your true values from a place of personal integrity rather than fear or habit. The focus moves quickly toward self-alignment, asking what path truly resonates with who you are now that the external pressures have been removed by these sudden changes. Following this realization, the guidance shifts toward grounding yourself in tangible reality and taking small, solid steps to build something new on a stronger foundation. You are encouraged to embrace your natural Virgo traits of practical wisdom, organization, and stability as you nurture yourself through this transition. This involves setting firm healthy boundaries while caring for your physical and financial well-being, effectively stepping into your personal authority without panic or regression. The message here is that by focusing on self-love and abundance, the energy you were previously pouring into unreciprocated efforts will flow back to support your own growth, allowing you to reclaim your peace of mind and beauty. However, as you move forward, you may encounter a nostalgic pull from past relationships or situations represented by fond memories that tempt you to reconnect with people who are not currently offering real progress or commitment. While it is natural to reminisce about good times, the reality is often that these interactions lack follow-through and represent unfinished business rather than genuine growth opportunities. You might find yourself caught in a cycle of reaching out only to realize there is no tangible work being done to fix broken dynamics, leading to feelings of exhaustion from trying to referee your own emotional battles or chase ghosts who cannot grasp the reality of moving on. Ultimately, the path forward requires patience as you allow your heart and mind to adjust at different speeds while resisting the urge to re-engage in chaotic patterns that drain your energy. It is important not to beat yourself up for feeling attached when logic suggests it is time to move on; instead, view this period as a necessary delay where you learn to trust the process even if outcomes are uncertain. By giving yourself time to outgrow these situations and recognizing that uncertainty is normal, you can eventually find clarity and step fully into your higher version of self without regret or lingering guilt from past mistakes.
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Oh my god, have I got a reading for you guys. OMG. Uh yeah, you've got the Tower, the Lovers, and [music] the Page of Pentacles. So, this is going to be very interesting, and I think you're really going to like this one. So, smash the like button, do subscribe. Let's get into this. >> All right, Virgo. So, you're starting here with the tower. Okay. So, this to me is giving off an energy where I feel like things are crumbling and the sudden unavoidable change is going to start occurring here in your life. And it's not the kind of change that asks for your permission. It's more like a lightning bolt and it just shakes loose whatever was built on shaky foundation. Okay? So, if there's a situation you're in or situation, ship, a relationship or some kind of belief system recently collapsed or something felt disrupted, the tower will only destroy what isn't built to last. Okay? So, it clears away the structure so you can see things much more clearly. Okay? So, it's kind of like carving away that which isn't necessary. you know, it's cutting the sandbags, so to speak. Okay. And then you've got the lovers, right? So, this is showing us what happens after all this dust settle set settles. Okay. So, the lovers is about alignment, values, and choices. And now it's asking you to kind of look and say, well, now that the old structure is gone, what do I truly value? >> [music] >> And it's not only about romantic connections, but it's about self-alignment. You are being called to make a decision from a place of personal integrity rather than a habit or fear. So the tower has forced the release. But the lovers gives you the power to choose your own path forward because the lovers is not just about love, it's about choice. Okay? So and then you land here on the page of pentacles, right? So this is your outcome and your action step. So the page of pentacles brings this it's like this grounded tangible reality after all the tower and the decision making of the lovers. This page comes in and offers like a fresh realistic opportunity here. Okay. It represents you taking small solid steps towards building something real, learning a new skill, starting a new project or grounding a new lifestyle. It's about It's not about grand gestures, but it's about planting a real seed and solid ground. Okay? So, whatever was going on in your past was trying to let you go. You didn't need to let it go. It was trying to let you go, but you kept holding on. The universe was like, "Release, release." The universe was trying to get get away from you. You know what I mean? Was trying to say, "Hey, let go. Let go. Let go. Let go." And it was trying to let you go, but you weren't letting it go. [sighs] Well, somehow something came in and forced the collapse. Everything just boom, just went boom. Came out of nowhere. Just Okay. Well, if you're not going to let go of us, we're trying to let go of you and you are not giving an inch. So, boom, here it comes. Everything just goes everywhere. Okay. Whatever it was that was no longer serving you, but you somehow were trying to make it serve you is what I feel like was happening. And that's okay. It's okay. It's part of the It's part of growth. It's part of learning. Lessons have learned, been learned, or you're learning them now. And you're in this position now with the lovers where now what do you have left to work with? And now you have a choice and to start planting a new seed here in your life, which is a very positive thing. So bring it all together. The tower tore down what was holding you back. The lovers asks you to choose a path aligned with your true values. And the page of pentacles gives you the opportunity to start building that vision step by step. Embrace the clean slate because I feel like you're building on a much stronger foundation now. Now you have the soil that you need to start planting your seeds. Now let's get into the rest of the reading. All right, you've got the death card, you have the queen of pentacles, and you have judgment. Okay. So now with you sitting right here in the middle, this is you stepping out of an old chapter and stepping fully into your personal authority. Okay. [snorts] So with the death card, death does not always mean you got to be scared. Okay? It's not death in the physical sense. It's [music] death is rarely about physical ending. Although for some of you it could be like physically removing yourself from something. But it's about profound transformation and necessary closure. So something in your life, like we said, ran its course. The cycle's closing. A habit is dying out or an old way of identifying yourself is naturally falling away or a past relationship or whatever it might be. And this card is here which is saying stop resisting the inevitable shift. Release what no longer serves you, which you've well you were forced to perhaps. It's the only way to create space for the new energy trying to reach you, right? And here you are. You sit right there in the middle of your reading. And and you're there to show yourself how to navigate this transformation with self-sufficiency, practical wisdom, grounded security. That is what Virgo is all about. People think Virgo is like this nitpicky, just cleans the house all day, uh very difficult to be with. Actually, Virgos are very reserved, conservative. They're thinkers. They're organized or they they like to organize and they're very stable and grounded type of energy. Okay. The Virgo, the Queen of Pentacles, she doesn't panic when things change because she knows her worth and capabilities are rooted in solid ground. That's who she is. And if you're like, "That's not me." Well, that's need that's who you need to transition yourself into your true element because that is who your true element is. So this card here, the Queen of Pentacles sitting at the center here represents you nurturing yourself, taking care of your physical, financial well-being, and setting firm healthy boundaries. You're being asked to mother yourself through this shift and focus on building a stable, supportive environment for yourself or maintaining it, the one that you've already built. Now we reach judgment. And this is the the the awakening, the ultimate call to action. So judgment is like absolute clarity. It's where the fog lifts. You hear your higher calling. This is you forgiving the past, releasing the old guilt and answering the inner bell that tells you it's time to step into a higher version of yourself. So no longer will you be bound by past mistakes or former versions of who you were or that person you were without boundaries. Okay. So, this card comes in to confirm that a major life decision or a realization is beginning to take place. And it's coming in to give you the clarity needed to move forward without regret, which is okay. You can do that. All right. I want to see if you had some kind of relationship, if this is related to a relationship or what this is in relation to. All right. So, you've got strength, the empress, and the five of wands. So strength represents you stepping away from a partner and it shows that this decision isn't coming from anger, spite or impulse. More likely coming from a deep inner resilience and emotional maturity. And this is like taming the lion. And that takes patience, self-control, and quiet conviction. Okay? [snorts] And that lion, taming this lion, you're taming something here. Maybe you're taming your heart. You're taming the animalistic side of you that needs to like breathe. This is about taking hold of your composure, mastering your mo emotional reactions, and refraining from engaging in unnecessary drama. So, you're not storming out the door. You're calmly and gracefully stepping back because you know your worth. And there's the Empress. standing firmly in the center of this spread. The Empress represents your return to self-love, abundance, and high standards. So, when you shift your focus away from someone who isn't participating in your growth or in the growth of the relationship, all that energy you are pouring into them flows right back into you. Do you know that? If it's not, it's because you're pushing it away and you're trying to push it onto your partner. No, that's your energy. You need to take it back. The Empress does not chase, she attracts. She knows she deserves peace, respect, and a life that feels rich and nurturing. The Empress card serves as a reminder that stepping away from a dynamic that isn't in your best interest is an act of self-care, self-love. It's reclaiming your space, your beauty, and your peace of mind. And then you got the five of wands, right? So, that card there tells me everything I need to know about why you're making the shift right now. Because the five of wands in every single tarot deck represents petty conflict, drama, friction, competing egos, and just plain exhaustion. Okay? Whether it's one person you're stepping away from or a group of people, okay? It's this constant back and forth of miscommunication or a feeling that you're continuously fighting to be heard or understood. That's why it's positioned at the end of the reading here, like at the end, because it confirms that you're opting out of the noise. You're recognizing that arguing or trying to fix a chaotic dynamic is not going to serve you. It's not worth your time or your energy to be the referee in your own fight. It's like you're working two jobs, sister. Two jobs. You're not only the fighter in the ring, but you're also refing the whole fight. You're probably on the sidelines keeping the score as well. And you're probably out in the, you know, in your mind. You're out there serving refreshments. You're doing it all. Stop doing it all. Just can we get some peace here? Go take a bathroom break. Okay. So, you're really coming into like this new place, right, of who you are or who you need to be. or who you once were. Who you once were. Virgo, you got into something with a person, people, place, or thing, and it drained you. It just drained your energy. And but you're such a trooper. You You know, I got this. I got this. I got this. That That could also be a trauma response. I mean, you don't have to have it. You don't have to got this. You don't have to do it. You don't have to live in that. I always used to say on my other channel years ago, I used to say it. Holding on is much more painful than letting go. Because when you let go, you're just floating through the air. But when you're holding on, you're using every last bit of energy to keep from falling. And that is exhausting. And a lot of times people don't want to fall because of the uncertainty. They don't know what's going to happen. But uncertainty is normal. That's okay. You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to know what the end result's going to be. It might be better than you thought, but or it could be worse, but you got to figure that out, you know? I mean, but it doesn't matter because that's all up in the air. You don't know. You can only look at what's going on right now, right? I just had a crazy analogy in my head and I I really want to use it, but I don't want to come off as insensitive. I think I'll keep it to myself because I think I could use better analogies than what I'm trying to talk about, but this one I'm I see it in my head and I hate the fact that I even have this image in my mind because it's an image I got imposed on me during 9/11. But I'm not going to I'm not going to say it, but it makes perfect sense. So, I'll just save that for me. But let's keep going and see what else is coming up here for you. All right. You've got the six of cups, the knight of pentacles in the reverse, and the six of swords in the reverse. Okay. So to end up this portion of your reading, the six of cups brings back nostalgic energy, memories, and past familiarity. And because you pulled away and you're choosing your own peace, this is showing the natural pull to look back either on well, it could be their end or your end. And it's natural. It's natural to reconnect. It's natural to reminisce. It's natural to look back or think back and to be in that space. There's a reflection on what used to be sweet memories or perhaps an attempt from them or you to reach out using old familiar sentimentality to test the waters. So, if it's not going to be you reaching out to touch the waters, it will be the other person. Okay? There's this a kind of um it's the familiarity, it's the feeling. The cups is all about the emotions. It's the good. You know, when people go their separate ways, give enough time to pass people, unless it was a really horrific traumatic experience, but if it wasn't, given enough time that's passed, um only the good memories flood back and we want to reconnect with those good memories always. We want to reconnect with those p that person who we enjoyed those good memories with because it gives us good feelings. It's not unnatural. So there will be a a an opportunity or uh a reach out for sure from whatever has come or has gone away. Okay. The Knight of Pentacles reversed reveals the reality of the effort made by them though. Zero real progress. That's the thing. Upright, the knight is slow, steady, and reliable. But reversed, he represents stubborn stagnation, lack of follow-through, or a complete refusal to make real changes. All right? And so, while the six of cups brings up these sweet memories between you, the knight of pentacles is showing that no actual growth or long-term commitment is really being offered. It's the same old pattern wrapped in nostalgia with no practical steps towards fixing what was broken broken. It's just, hey, I miss you. Hey, how are you? [sighs and gasps] So, the six of swords reversed and this is about smooth sailing into calmer waters generally when it's upright. But reversed this, this is like unfinished business. This is like delayed healing or feeling temporarily stuck in the situation. It can show that moving on isn't always a clean instantaneous breaks. There are lingering ties, emotional baggage or difficulty feeling fully sailing away while the old dynamic loops in and keeps trying to pull you back. Okay. So, this is where the cycle rinse, wash, repeats happening. Some of you have been through this cycle quite a few times. Some of you are going to run the cycle yet again. Maybe them dishes are clean. You do not need to keep running that cycle. Clean break. You don't need to keep running it. But some of you are going to run it again and again. Everybody's done it. Everybody's been there. You probably have, some of you probably have five, six, seven more times you're going to run this this cycle again. You get free. You start healing. You're feeling better. And you're choosing new paths for yourself. You're [gasps] getting yourself departed from the departer. You are [laughter] moving forward. And then they, you know, they reach back out and with their sentimentality. And because you have such a beautiful heart and you're emotional and you're deep and you're sentimental, it pulls on your little love strings a little bit here. Totally totally understandable. And and you know something, the only time you're really going to be able to get away from this [snorts] is when your heart's when your feelings aren't attached to it anymore. Because then your logic's going to kick in and say, "Well, that doesn't make sense for me to keep doing this. Nothing's happening. It's not going anywhere." And that could take a long time. So don't be so hard on yourself. So if you wind up going back because you're getting the reach out again, okay, well maybe you need to do that. Maybe you need to go through that. maybe need to get your heart broken a lot for you to feel that things are going to shift and change. And I know you want to hear, "Well, they're coming in and they're doing the right thing and they're going to fix it." And sometimes they will. And this isn't going to be forever, but you need to figure out how long forever is going to be for you, you know. So, as always, when you begin to pull away from the relationship or the people, the conflict or whatever, there's always going to be that rubber band energy snapping back on you, right? And that's the six of cups showing the nostalgia surfacing, resurfacing. But I'm feeling with the Knight of Wand, Knight of Pentacles in reverse, despite any fond memories, even if you reach out to them and they respond or they reach out to you and you respond, there's no I'm not picking up real tangible work or growth being put into change the dynamic. Sometimes it's difficult when [snorts] it's difficult when the relationship ends but that person is still existing elsewhere because then you always think that there's a chance that things could actually work. You know when the other person no longer when they cease to exist in the physical sound sense all you have are the me memories and you can go back and reminisce about the good times but there won't be a chance to reestablish the relationship in a physical sense because they've passed on. That's a really hard thing to accept. But some people don't accept it. Some people do. But your situation may not be this. Your situation is this person is existing here on this planet elsewhere. And neither of you are able to make this work for some reason right now. But you miss each other. And you have fond memories of each other. And the reconnection keeps being the connection keeps being remade over and over. And then there's this going back. And then it's heartbreaking even. It's like you're in a relationship with a ghost sort of that there, you know, you reach out and there's no you can't grasp because the reality doesn't exist. Can't grasp the reality of the of the situation. So overall, the message feels to me that um give yourself time to outgrow this situation. That's what's going to take. You know, I know a lot of you like your head probably is in the right place. Like some of you your head's already there, but your heart is still catching up. And it takes a while. You know, just because a behavior changes doesn't mean that everything in the mind and the heart is going to change follow immediately as fast as the behavior change. You know, it's like when you pop an aspirin, the behavior is you popping an aspirin cuz you're seeking relief. But it's going to take 30 to 40 minutes for it to actually start working. So, you have to give yourself that time. This whole love thing, the heart is always on a delay. It's always on a delay. Always on a delay. And remember that because your your brain is running thousand miles an hour ahead and your heart's back there like your little brother or sister who's panting. Wait up. Wait up. And you're like, I'm sick of waiting for you. Okay, I'll go back. And then everything slows down again. Anyway, so that's the tarot portion of the reading. I wanted to give you some other cards here to see what else is coming up for you. Um, if you guys joined in on the Sunday Secrets Revealed show that I did on Sunday, which depending on when you're listening to this was either earlier today or yesterday. Um, I hope that you guys will join in. For those of you who did, it was awesome. Thank you. And to the anonymous person who sent me that email, I wish you all the best. I hope you get a chance. I didn't see you in the chat, but maybe you were watching and get a chance to go back and listen to the advice that I gave you. So, yeah, you guys can send me an email and tell me your story and I will read it anonymously during the my Sunday live stream and me and the chat will give you our opinions and our advice and you can pop in the chat to do this. So, you have coffee cup, meeting and talking, savoring the moment, feeling elevated, building friendship. So, yeah, some of you are going to make um you're going to accept the return from someone or you're going to offer the return and they're going to accept it. There's another round to go. [snorts] Some of you have another round to go and they have another round to go with you. Looking at pictures, missing you, nostalgia, making new memories. See, that's what I'm saying. That's six of cups. Okay. And teddy bear interested in you. Blooming romance, flirting, want to date. Yeah. Well, wanting to date is not wanting a long-term relationship. So, are you going to date? Is it going to be casual? If that's Yes. Yeah, it will be. Is it going to be like we're going to move in together and we're going to live together and happily ever after? No, I don't see that. I mean, hey, anything could change in the years down the line, but I'm not getting that energy right now. I'm just getting, you know, like I said with the Knight of Pentacles is uh being reversed. That's a non-committal energy here. It's stubborn. There's no follow through. It's just a complete, like I said, refusal to make full-on changes. So, dating is non-committal. It's flirting. It's romance. It's interested. I miss you. Can we talk? Some of you are going to go back because it's in your heart. And don't beat up on other people who do that. Because everybody has to go through the motions, right? And I I always like I'm the the mo the least controlling person I know because I don't have the energy to control other people. I'm like, "Go ahead. Do what you got to do. Let it be your energy or burning and not mine because I'm like, dude, I at my age, I just want to sit back with a nice cool watermelon margarita and chill and relax and watch my shows. I have got no time. I'll give you my piece of advice, but you're on your own. Go do what you got to do, you know? So, you never have to worry about me getting frustrated with it. I never get frustrated with people who make the same mistake over and over. I mean, at some point, I'm just like, what are you, an idiot? But pretty much, I'm just like, all right, well, here's what I would do. Take my advice or don't. I don't. It's up to you. you're the one that has to sit on the toilet and do your own thing, not me. I'm not doing it for you. But that's just me. So, I'm just my control level is like practically at a zero, literally. Um, just can't be bothered. I don't even care if people don't follow my advice. If they keep coming back and asking me for for advice and then they're not even following half of it, I'm just like, you're an [ __ ] That's all there is to it at this point. Like, now you're just annoying me. I'm not talking about those of you who are requesting readings from me. I'm just talking about other people in life in general. All right, let's get some Chinese signs. As you can see, there was no daily reading today. uh earlier today or on Monday morning. Well, Monday morning is what I meant. Um but I'll have it back tomorrow for you guys. Okay, let's see. So you have year of the rabbit, year of the snake, year of the rat, year of the monkey. We have a rooster dog cap dog. Last night, let me just say this real quick. Last night it was uh or Saturday night, whatever night over the weekend um was my mother's 80th birthday. Happy birthday, Mom. And we had a cake. And later on in that night, I was playing poker with some of the boys in the family. And um [snorts and laughter] my nephew, he's like 30. He was sitting at the table with my my son. And the both of them were sitting at the table going, "Capeta dog, kapeta dog." And I was like, "Oh, I miss my I miss my house of Virgo. My ver my magicians. I miss you all." It was so funny. And they have no idea how significant that phrase is. For those of you who know, you know, if you know. And then we've got Year of the Goat. And last but not least, Year of the Horse. All right, let me get some charms and some signs for you. Cancer, Gemini, Capricorn, and Pisces. Cancer, Gemini, Capricorn, Pisces. We have TL, we have the fifth, the 2nd, and the number 40. We also have 52 and the 25th, significant numbers. And man, another rocking horse, a blue rocking horse. [clears throat] Somebody's having a boy. And we've got cherries. Sweet cherry. She's a brick house. She's my mate. Just letting it all hang out. Okay. Um that kind of feels to me like um like an air freshener. I don't know. Cherry air freshener. Um also Oh, they're just giving me Carl Loggerfeld. or a name brand, coach, maybe name, brand, clothing, accessories, fashion. All right, you guys. So, I'm going to leave that there. I hope that gave you a little insight. I will see you all back here very soon. Don't forget to put a like on the video if any of this resonated. I would greatly appreciate that. 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