Video summary
Virgo, your current situation is marked by a sudden and unavoidable shift that dismantles old structures built on shaky foundations rather than serving you anymore. This initial disruption feels like a lightning bolt designed to clear away what was unnecessary so you can see more clearly, but it forces the release of things you may have been stubbornly holding onto despite the universe's repeated attempts for you to let go. Once this dust settles and the old patterns collapse, you are invited to assess your true values from a place of personal integrity rather than fear or habit. The focus moves quickly toward self-alignment, asking what path truly resonates with who you are now that the external pressures have been removed by these sudden changes.
Following this realization, the guidance shifts toward grounding yourself in tangible reality and taking small, solid steps to build something new on a stronger foundation. You are encouraged to embrace your natural Virgo traits of practical wisdom, organization, and stability as you nurture yourself through this transition. This involves setting firm healthy boundaries while caring for your physical and financial well-being, effectively stepping into your personal authority without panic or regression. The message here is that by focusing on self-love and abundance, the energy you were previously pouring into unreciprocated efforts will flow back to support your own growth, allowing you to reclaim your peace of mind and beauty.
However, as you move forward, you may encounter a nostalgic pull from past relationships or situations represented by fond memories that tempt you to reconnect with people who are not currently offering real progress or commitment. While it is natural to reminisce about good times, the reality is often that these interactions lack follow-through and represent unfinished business rather than genuine growth opportunities. You might find yourself caught in a cycle of reaching out only to realize there is no tangible work being done to fix broken dynamics, leading to feelings of exhaustion from trying to referee your own emotional battles or chase ghosts who cannot grasp the reality of moving on.
Ultimately, the path forward requires patience as you allow your heart and mind to adjust at different speeds while resisting the urge to re-engage in chaotic patterns that drain your energy. It is important not to beat yourself up for feeling attached when logic suggests it is time to move on; instead, view this period as a necessary delay where you learn to trust the process even if outcomes are uncertain. By giving yourself time to outgrow these situations and recognizing that uncertainty is normal, you can eventually find clarity and step fully into your higher version of self without regret or lingering guilt from past mistakes.
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Oh my god, have I got a reading for you
guys. OMG.
Uh yeah, you've got the Tower, the
Lovers, and [music] the Page of
Pentacles. So, this is going to be very
interesting,
and I think you're really going to like
this one. So, smash the like button, do
subscribe. Let's get into this.
>> All right, Virgo. So, you're starting
here
with the tower.
Okay. So, this to me is giving off
an energy where I feel like things are
crumbling and the sudden unavoidable
change is going to start occurring here
in your life. And it's not the kind of
change that asks for your permission.
It's more like a lightning bolt and it
just shakes loose whatever was built on
shaky foundation. Okay? So, if there's a
situation you're in or situation, ship,
a relationship or some kind of belief
system recently
collapsed or something felt disrupted,
the tower
will only destroy what isn't built to
last.
Okay? So, it clears away the structure
so you can see things much more clearly.
Okay? So, it's kind of like carving away
that which isn't
necessary.
you know, it's cutting the sandbags, so
to speak.
Okay. And then you've got the lovers,
right? So, this is showing us what
happens after all this dust settle set
settles. Okay. So, the lovers is about
alignment, values, and choices. And now
it's asking
you to kind of look and say, well, now
that the old structure is gone, what do
I truly value?
>> [music]
>> And it's not only about romantic
connections, but it's about
self-alignment.
You are being called to make a decision
from a place of personal integrity
rather than a habit or fear. So the
tower has forced the release. But the
lovers gives you the power to choose
your own path forward because the lovers
is not just about love, it's about
choice.
Okay? So and then you land here on the
page of pentacles, right? So this is
your outcome and your action step. So
the page of pentacles brings this it's
like this grounded tangible reality
after all the tower and the decision
making of the lovers. This page comes in
and offers like a fresh realistic
opportunity here. Okay. It represents
you taking small solid steps towards
building something real, learning a new
skill, starting a new project or
grounding a new lifestyle. It's about
It's not about grand gestures, but it's
about planting a real seed and solid
ground.
Okay? So, whatever was going on in your
past was trying to let you go. You
didn't need to let it go. It was trying
to let you go, but you kept holding on.
The universe was like,
"Release,
release." The universe was trying to get
get away from you. You know what I mean?
Was trying to say, "Hey, let go. Let go.
Let go. Let go." And it was trying to
let you go, but you weren't letting it
go. [sighs]
Well, somehow something came in and
forced the collapse. Everything just
boom, just went boom.
Came out of nowhere. Just Okay. Well, if
you're not going to let go
of us, we're trying to let go of you and
you are not giving an inch. So, boom,
here it comes. Everything just goes
everywhere.
Okay. Whatever it was that was no longer
serving you, but you somehow were trying
to make it serve you is what I feel like
was happening. And that's okay. It's
okay. It's part of the It's part of
growth. It's part of learning.
Lessons have learned, been learned, or
you're learning them now. And you're in
this position now with the lovers where
now what do you have left to work with?
And now you have a choice and to start
planting a new seed here in your life,
which is a very positive thing. So bring
it all together. The tower tore down
what was holding you back. The lovers
asks you to choose a path aligned with
your true values. And the page of
pentacles gives you the opportunity to
start building that vision step by step.
Embrace the clean slate because I feel
like you're building on a much stronger
foundation now. Now you have the soil
that you need to start planting your
seeds. Now let's get into the rest of
the reading. All right, you've got the
death card, you have the queen of
pentacles,
and you have judgment. Okay. So now with
you sitting right here in the middle,
this is you stepping out of an old
chapter and stepping fully into your
personal authority. Okay. [snorts] So
with the death card, death does not
always mean you got to be scared. Okay?
It's not death in the physical sense.
It's [music] death is rarely about
physical ending. Although for some of
you it could be like physically removing
yourself from something. But it's about
profound transformation and necessary
closure. So something in your life, like
we said, ran its course.
The cycle's closing. A habit is dying
out or an old way of identifying
yourself is naturally falling away or a
past relationship or whatever it might
be. And this card is here which is
saying stop resisting the inevitable
shift. Release what no longer serves
you, which you've well you were forced
to perhaps. It's the only way to create
space for the new energy trying to reach
you, right? And here you are. You sit
right there in the middle of your
reading.
And and you're there to show yourself
how to navigate this transformation with
self-sufficiency, practical wisdom,
grounded security. That is what Virgo is
all about. People think Virgo is like
this nitpicky, just cleans the house all
day, uh very difficult to be with.
Actually, Virgos are very reserved,
conservative. They're thinkers. They're
organized or they they like to organize
and they're very stable and grounded
type of energy. Okay. The Virgo, the
Queen of Pentacles, she doesn't panic
when things change because she knows her
worth and capabilities are rooted in
solid ground.
That's who she is. And if you're like,
"That's not me." Well, that's need
that's who you need to transition
yourself into your true element because
that is who your true element is. So
this card here, the Queen of Pentacles
sitting at the center here represents
you nurturing yourself, taking care of
your physical, financial well-being, and
setting firm healthy boundaries. You're
being asked to mother yourself through
this shift and focus on building a
stable, supportive environment for
yourself or maintaining it, the one that
you've already built. Now we reach
judgment. And this is the the the
awakening, the ultimate call to action.
So judgment is like absolute clarity.
It's where the fog lifts. You hear your
higher calling.
This is you forgiving the past,
releasing the old guilt and answering
the inner bell that tells you it's time
to step into a higher version of
yourself. So no longer will you be bound
by past mistakes or former versions of
who you were or that person you were
without boundaries. Okay. So, this card
comes in to confirm that a major life
decision or a realization is beginning
to take place. And it's coming in to
give you the clarity needed to move
forward without regret,
which is okay. You can do that. All
right. I want to see if you had some
kind of relationship, if this is related
to a relationship or what this is in
relation to.
All right. So, you've got strength,
the empress, and the five of wands.
So strength represents you stepping away
from a partner
and it shows that this decision isn't
coming from anger, spite or impulse.
More likely coming from a deep inner
resilience and emotional maturity. And
this is like taming the lion. And that
takes patience, self-control, and quiet
conviction.
Okay? [snorts] And that lion, taming
this lion, you're taming something here.
Maybe you're taming your heart. You're
taming the animalistic side of you that
needs to like breathe.
This is about taking hold of your
composure, mastering your mo emotional
reactions, and refraining from engaging
in unnecessary drama. So, you're not
storming out the door. You're calmly and
gracefully stepping back because you
know your worth. And there's the
Empress.
standing firmly in the center of this
spread. The Empress represents your
return to self-love, abundance, and high
standards. So, when you shift your focus
away from someone who isn't
participating in your growth or in the
growth of the relationship, all that
energy you are pouring into them flows
right back into you. Do you know that?
If it's not, it's because you're pushing
it away and you're trying to push it
onto your partner. No, that's your
energy. You need to take it back.
The Empress does not chase, she
attracts. She knows she deserves peace,
respect, and a life that feels rich and
nurturing. The Empress card serves as a
reminder that stepping away from a
dynamic that isn't in your best interest
is an act of self-care,
self-love. It's reclaiming your space,
your beauty, and your peace of mind.
And then you got the five of wands,
right? So, that card there tells me
everything I need to know about why
you're making the shift right now.
Because the five of wands in every
single tarot deck represents petty
conflict,
drama,
friction, competing egos, and just plain
exhaustion. Okay? Whether it's one
person you're stepping away from or a
group of people,
okay? It's this constant back and forth
of miscommunication or a feeling that
you're continuously fighting to be heard
or understood. That's why it's
positioned at the end of the reading
here, like at the end, because it
confirms that you're opting out of the
noise. You're recognizing that arguing
or trying to fix a chaotic dynamic is
not going to serve you. It's not worth
your time or your energy
to be the referee in your own fight.
It's like you're working two jobs,
sister. Two jobs. You're not only the
fighter in the ring, but you're also
refing the whole fight. You're probably
on the sidelines keeping the score as
well. And you're probably out in the,
you know, in your mind. You're out there
serving refreshments. You're doing it
all. Stop doing it all. Just can we get
some peace here? Go take a bathroom
break.
Okay. So,
you're really coming into like this new
place, right, of who you are or who you
need to be. or who you once were.
Who you once were.
Virgo, you got into something
with a person, people, place, or thing,
and
it drained you. It just drained your
energy. And but you're such a trooper.
You You know, I got this. I got this. I
got this. That That could also be a
trauma response.
I mean, you don't have to have it. You
don't have to got this. You don't have
to do it. You don't have to live in
that.
I always used to say on my other channel
years ago, I used to say
it. Holding on is much more painful than
letting go. Because when you let go,
you're just floating through the air.
But when you're holding on, you're using
every last bit of energy to keep from
falling. And that is exhausting.
And a lot of times people don't want to
fall because of the uncertainty. They
don't know what's going to happen. But
uncertainty
is normal. That's okay. You don't have
to have it all figured out. You don't
have to know what the end result's going
to be. It might be better
than you thought,
but
or it could be worse, but you got to
figure that out, you know? I mean, but
it doesn't matter because that's all up
in the air. You don't know. You can only
look at what's going on right now,
right?
I just had a crazy analogy in my head
and I I really want to use it, but
I don't want to come off as insensitive.
I think I'll keep it to myself because
I think I could use better analogies
than what I'm trying to talk about, but
this one I'm I see it in my head and I
hate the fact that I even have this
image in my mind because it's an image I
got imposed on me during 9/11. But I'm
not going to I'm not going to say it,
but it makes perfect sense. So, I'll
just save that for me. But let's keep
going and see what else is coming up
here for you. All right. You've got the
six of cups,
the knight of pentacles in the reverse,
and the six of swords in the reverse.
Okay.
So to end up this portion of your
reading,
the six of cups brings back nostalgic
energy, memories, and past familiarity.
And because you pulled away and you're
choosing your own peace, this is showing
the natural pull to look back either on
well, it could be their end or your end.
And it's natural. It's natural to
reconnect. It's natural to reminisce.
It's natural to look back or think back
and to be in that space.
There's a reflection on what used to be
sweet memories or perhaps an attempt
from them or you to reach out using old
familiar sentimentality to test the
waters. So, if it's not going to be you
reaching out to touch the waters, it
will be the other person. Okay?
There's this a kind of um it's the
familiarity, it's the feeling. The cups
is all about the emotions. It's the
good. You know, when people go their
separate ways,
give enough time to pass people, unless
it was a really horrific traumatic
experience, but if it wasn't, given
enough time that's passed, um only the
good memories flood back and we want to
reconnect with those good memories
always. We want to reconnect with those
p that person who we enjoyed those good
memories with because it gives us good
feelings. It's not unnatural. So there
will be a a an opportunity or uh a reach
out for sure from whatever has come or
has gone away.
Okay. The Knight of Pentacles reversed
reveals the reality of the effort made
by them though. Zero real progress.
That's the thing. Upright, the knight is
slow, steady, and reliable. But
reversed, he represents stubborn
stagnation, lack of follow-through, or a
complete refusal to make real changes.
All right? And so, while the six of cups
brings up these sweet memories between
you, the knight of pentacles is showing
that no actual growth or long-term
commitment is really being offered. It's
the same old pattern wrapped in
nostalgia with no practical steps
towards fixing what was broken broken.
It's just, hey, I miss you. Hey, how are
you? [sighs and gasps]
So, the six of swords reversed
and this is about smooth sailing
into calmer waters generally when it's
upright. But reversed this, this is like
unfinished business.
This is like delayed healing or feeling
temporarily stuck in the situation.
It can show that moving on isn't always
a clean instantaneous breaks. There are
lingering ties, emotional baggage or
difficulty feeling fully sailing away
while the old dynamic loops
in and keeps trying to pull you back.
Okay. So, this is where the cycle rinse,
wash, repeats happening.
Some of you have been through this cycle
quite a few times. Some of you are going
to run the cycle yet again. Maybe them
dishes are clean. You do not need to
keep running that cycle. Clean break.
You don't need to keep running it. But
some of you are going to run it again
and again. Everybody's done it.
Everybody's been there. You probably
have, some of you probably have five,
six, seven more times you're going to
run this this cycle again.
You get free. You start healing. You're
feeling better.
And you're choosing new paths for
yourself. You're [gasps] getting
yourself departed from the departer. You
are [laughter] moving forward. And then
they, you know, they reach back out and
with their sentimentality.
And because you have such a beautiful
heart and you're emotional and you're
deep and you're sentimental,
it pulls on your little love strings a
little bit here. Totally totally
understandable. And and you know
something, the only time you're really
going to be able to get away from this
[snorts] is when your heart's when your
feelings aren't attached to it anymore.
Because then your logic's going to kick
in and say, "Well, that doesn't make
sense for me to keep doing this.
Nothing's happening. It's not going
anywhere." And that could take a long
time. So don't be so hard on yourself.
So if you wind up going back because
you're getting the reach out again,
okay, well maybe you need to do that.
Maybe you need to go through that. maybe
need to get your heart broken a lot for
you to feel that things are going to
shift and change. And I know you want to
hear, "Well, they're coming in and
they're doing the right thing and
they're going to fix it."
And sometimes they will.
And this isn't going to be forever,
but you need to figure out how long
forever is going to be for you,
you know.
So,
as always, when you
begin to pull away from the relationship
or the people, the conflict or whatever,
there's always going to be that rubber
band energy snapping back on you, right?
And that's the six of cups showing the
nostalgia surfacing, resurfacing.
But I'm feeling with the Knight of Wand,
Knight of Pentacles in reverse,
despite any fond memories, even if you
reach out to them and they respond or
they reach out to you and you respond,
there's no I'm not picking up real
tangible work or growth being put into
change the dynamic.
Sometimes
it's difficult when [snorts]
it's difficult when the relationship
ends but that person is still existing
elsewhere because then you always think
that there's a chance that things could
actually work.
You know when the other person no longer
when they cease to exist in the physical
sound sense all you have are the me
memories and you can go back and
reminisce about the good times but there
won't be a chance to reestablish the
relationship in a physical sense because
they've passed on. That's a really hard
thing to accept.
But some people don't accept it. Some
people do. But your situation may not be
this. Your situation is this person is
existing here on this planet elsewhere.
And neither of you are able to make this
work for some reason right now.
But you miss each other. And you have
fond memories of each other. And the
reconnection keeps being the connection
keeps being remade over and over. And
then there's this going back. And then
it's heartbreaking even. It's like
you're in a relationship with a ghost
sort of
that there, you know, you reach out and
there's no you can't grasp
because the reality doesn't exist. Can't
grasp the reality of the of the
situation. So overall, the message feels
to me that um give yourself time to
outgrow
this situation. That's what's going to
take. You know, I know a lot of you like
your head probably is in the right
place. Like some of you your head's
already there, but your heart is still
catching up. And it takes a while.
You know, just because a behavior
changes doesn't mean that everything in
the mind and the heart is going to
change follow immediately as fast as the
behavior change. You know, it's like
when you pop an aspirin, the behavior is
you popping an aspirin cuz you're
seeking relief. But it's going to take
30 to 40 minutes for it to actually
start working.
So, you have to give yourself that time.
This whole love thing, the heart is
always on a delay. It's always on a
delay.
Always
on a delay.
And remember that
because your your brain
is running thousand miles an hour ahead
and your heart's back there like your
little brother or sister who's panting.
Wait up. Wait up. And you're like, I'm
sick of waiting for you. Okay, I'll go
back.
And then everything slows down again.
Anyway, so that's the tarot portion of
the reading. I wanted to give you some
other cards here
to see what else is coming up for you.
Um, if you guys joined in on the Sunday
Secrets Revealed
show that I did on Sunday, which
depending on when you're listening to
this was either earlier today or
yesterday. Um, I hope that you guys will
join in. For those of you who did, it
was awesome. Thank you. And to the
anonymous person who sent me that email,
I wish you all the best. I hope you get
a chance. I didn't see you in the chat,
but maybe you were watching and get a
chance to go back and listen to the
advice that I gave you. So, yeah, you
guys can send me an email and tell me
your story and I will read it
anonymously during the my Sunday live
stream and me and the chat will give you
our opinions and our advice and you can
pop in the chat to do this. So, you have
coffee cup, meeting and talking,
savoring the moment, feeling elevated,
building friendship. So, yeah, some of
you are going to make um you're going to
accept the return from someone or you're
going to offer the return and they're
going to accept it. There's another
round to go.
[snorts]
Some of you have another round to go and
they have another round to go with you.
Looking at pictures, missing you,
nostalgia, making new memories.
See, that's what I'm saying. That's six
of cups.
Okay. And teddy bear interested in you.
Blooming romance, flirting, want to
date. Yeah.
Well, wanting to date is not wanting a
long-term relationship. So, are you
going to date? Is it going to be casual?
If that's Yes. Yeah, it will be. Is it
going to be like we're going to move in
together and we're going to live
together and happily ever after? No, I
don't see that. I mean, hey, anything
could change in the years down the line,
but I'm not getting that energy right
now. I'm just getting, you know, like I
said with the Knight of Pentacles is uh
being reversed. That's a non-committal
energy here. It's stubborn. There's no
follow through. It's just a complete,
like I said, refusal to make full-on
changes. So, dating is non-committal.
It's flirting. It's romance. It's
interested. I miss you. Can we talk?
Some of you are going to go back
because it's in your heart. And don't
beat up on other people who do that.
Because everybody has to go through the
motions, right?
And I I always like I'm the the mo the
least controlling person I know because
I don't have the energy to control other
people. I'm like,
"Go ahead. Do what you got to do. Let it
be your energy or burning and not mine
because I'm like, dude, I at my age, I
just want to sit back with a nice cool
watermelon margarita and chill and relax
and watch my shows. I have got no time.
I'll give you my piece of advice, but
you're on your own. Go do what you got
to do, you know? So, you never have to
worry about me getting frustrated with
it. I never get frustrated with people
who make the same mistake over and over.
I mean, at some point, I'm just like,
what are you, an idiot? But pretty much,
I'm just like, all right, well, here's
what I would do.
Take my advice or don't. I don't. It's
up to you. you're the one that has to
sit on the toilet and do your own thing,
not me. I'm not doing it for you. But
that's just me. So,
I'm just my control level is like
practically at a zero,
literally.
Um,
just can't be bothered.
I don't even care if people don't follow
my advice. If they keep coming back and
asking me for for advice and then
they're not even following half of it,
I'm just like, you're an [ __ ] That's
all there is to it at this point.
Like, now you're just annoying me.
I'm not talking about those of you who
are requesting readings from me. I'm
just talking about other people in life
in general.
All right, let's get some Chinese signs.
As you can see, there was no daily
reading today. uh earlier today or on
Monday morning.
Well, Monday morning is what I meant. Um
but I'll have it back tomorrow
for you guys. Okay, let's see. So you
have year of the rabbit,
year of the snake,
year of the rat, year of the monkey. We
have a rooster
dog cap dog. Last night, let me just say
this real quick. Last night it was uh or
Saturday night, whatever night over the
weekend um was my mother's 80th
birthday. Happy birthday, Mom. And we
had a cake. And later on in that night,
I was playing poker with some of the
boys in the family. And um
[snorts and laughter]
my nephew, he's like 30. He was sitting
at the table with my my son. And the
both of them were sitting at the table
going, "Capeta dog, kapeta dog." And I
was like, "Oh, I miss my I miss my house
of Virgo. My ver my magicians. I miss
you all." It was so funny. And they have
no idea how significant that phrase is.
For those of you who know, you know, if
you know. And then we've got Year of the
Goat. And last but not least, Year of
the Horse.
All right, let me get some charms
and some signs for you.
Cancer, Gemini, Capricorn,
and Pisces.
Cancer, Gemini, Capricorn, Pisces. We
have TL,
we have the fifth, the 2nd,
and the number 40. We also have 52
and the 25th,
significant numbers.
And man, another rocking horse, a blue
rocking horse. [clears throat]
Somebody's having a boy.
And we've got cherries.
Sweet cherry. She's a brick house. She's
my mate. Just letting it all hang out.
Okay.
Um that kind of feels to me like um like
an air freshener. I don't know. Cherry
air freshener.
Um also Oh, they're just giving me
Carl Loggerfeld.
or a name brand,
coach, maybe
name, brand, clothing, accessories,
fashion. All right, you guys. So, I'm
going to leave that there. I hope that
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have it. Yeah. So, do check it out.
These are all updated prices, heavily
discounted. And uh yeah, I hope to see
you over there. Bye. [music]
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Clear. [music]
I just need to clear my head.
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