Virgo ♍️ You're Done......

Hey you guys, welcome back. Let's get into your reading. See what messages there are for you for this. Whoa, Virgo, you this is your card. Literally, you went flying right off the off the table here. What is happening to you this week? What is going on? Oh, well, that makes sense. Virgo, you look poed this week. Literally, you're about to cut somebody off for sure. Or you feel like you're getting cut off, but you're about to like end something here this week. Quit your job, end a relationship. Yep. Look. Yeah. You're It's like the decision is being made. Your intuition is really screaming at you like you're at a stalemate right now and you're about ready to cut it off because nothing's happening. Nothing is moving forward with whatever this situ communication. There's communication that's not happening. I feel like you're looking down at your your screen and you're like, "What the heck? Did you get blown off? Are you like are you ghosted? What's going on?" You are completely like I'm done. That's what I feel like you're doing this. We're going to dive deep to see, you know, what area this is in, if anything specifically, but it looks to me like just the way that card flew off the table. I don't know if you saw that, but let me tell you what, that was like, I'm done. That's your energy. I'm not dealing with this anymore. All right, so smash the like button. Do subscribe. Let's get into this reading. >> All right, we're looking at the week ahead here, Virgo. Oh my goodness. The week ahead. Let me see. Today's, as I'm recording this, Sunday, September 20th. Okay. So, from now until Yeah. the 26th of September. Happy birthday if it's your birthday today. All right. Let's see what's going on here. What is Virgo done with? Oh, okay. Some kind of connection from with a past person. you had some kind of reunion or reconciliation or you were hoping for that or connect like meeting up or being together. Something from the past shows up that you're cutting off. You're done. Okay. And I feel like this week you're really weighing it out. You know, you're you're kind of like him and honing about it a little bit. You know, um I feel like you've been on some kind of emotional roller coaster this week. Maybe it's on your or in the past, but this week it's still you're still on it. There's a whole bunch of you know what, I have been up and down with this. You know, one minute it's up, the next minute it's down, then it's up. It's like this consistent roller coaster pattern. Uh you're seeing some kind of pattern starting the beginning of this week. Okay. And it feels to me like this does have something to do with maybe a soulmate connection or someone that you've been dealing with who is from your past. All right. Now, listen. I mean, I don't look this this really is a predictive model for this week. This this is not I don't feel like there's we're talking about a past person in the sense of like what happened yesterday. This feels like going forward this week, it looks to me like you're coming to a decision. Nothing's happening. There's no forward progress. There's no movement. Let me see. Let's see what you get to the middle of this week. Yeah. So, you're very secure in your decision this week. And like I said, the reason why this is coming about is there's someone who I feel like somebody ghosts you or doesn't reply. And it could have happened before, but this week it's like, okay, that's it. Not waiting anymore. Making the decision and doing the cut off. Okay. And you come to this decision where you feel very secure. You have waited waited out. Should I or shouldn't I? I see you doing that in the beginning of the week. Like, you know, this person is very important to you. They mean a lot to you. You have a special connection with them. Could be a water sign, but it it to me, I feel like you're being very practical. You know, it's like, are we going to connect and we're going to have this future together? We're going to build this legacy together. You don't know because it's like it feels to me like what I'm getting is you're sometimes feeling like you are and then sometimes you're like unsure about it. You don't know what's happening because maybe this person's moody. I don't know what their deal is. But it it's very up and down. So this week it looks like you're very secure about a decision to cut this off midstream is what I'm getting. doesn't feel something does not feel solid. And with the Empress, you feel like you know your worth and you feel like you know you deserve more than this unstable energy. Yeah. I feel like you've been trying to stabil you've been trying to like stabilize the ship. You know, you're at the helm, the helm, excuse me, and you, you know, the captain of the ship, and your person is like the ocean in the middle of a storm, and you've been trying to All right, over here. Lean to the left, lean over to right. Like, you're dancing. You're you're dancing, trying to keep everything from shifting too far in one direction or too far in the other. And it feels to me like you're like, "Oh, it's exhausting." You know, it's like being on one of those vibrating machines. You know, it's constant. It's giving you a workout. It's giving you a run for your money. And you need stable, solid ground in terms. Now, for somebody, this could be about a job situation as well. You know, like you, you know, you're waiting to hear back from someone about a job thing and you're not hearing back and then they're they're kind of kicking the can or they're telling you, "Yeah, we're going to get back to you." But it's like, "What's going on? What's going on? You're putting other positions off. You're not sure, but you know, this feels like a cut your losses kind of thing. This is what I'm getting. Like you're coming to this place where you deserve better. You know it, and you're ready to cut your losses here. Any investment that you made, I mean, this is definitely someone that you feel it doesn't so it does feel like a heart-to-he heart connection. You know, it does feel like someone that you truly care about in terms of a relationship and someone that you truly love and there's familiarity and you have a history, but the practicality of the relationship seems to be missing, you know, despite the feelings you've been waiting. You have been waiting, but I feel like you're no longer this week. you're cutting it off, okay? Cuz you get a totally different perspective. You get a totally like you get a shift. You know, the hangman is always to me like the little kid hanging upside down from the monkey bars and seeing the world upside down in a completely different way. You get a completely different mind shift here after doing this or coming to this decision. Usually the readings have been talking so much about, you know, somebody coming back from the past and them really wanting to be with you. And while all that's true, there is a Virgo here that's actually dealing with this scenario where this is something where you haven't been blinded, but you've really been trust trying to trust your gut about leaving this relationship because of its uncertainty. And it's not something that I feel like you have been sitting on lightly. It's been heavy and deep and intense for you. Um even and it's it's kind of um a push and pull with your feelings and your emotions because you really do care about this person. You know, you've given this a lot of thought. It feels like this week though, you're like, "I'm out." Like you're you're not going to continue on with it. And you might even communicate to this person. You know, you're seeing something differently this week. You have like a little light bulb moment of some sort. You get a revelation of some sort about your belief system in this relationship and who this person is. You've even talked to this person about trying to learn them what's in their head, what they're thinking, what they want. you've been communicating with them about where you are, about what you like, you know, but I don't know if it falls on deaf ears or or they're not willing to learn or they're not willing to listen and you've been doing all the trying to understand them and learn and listen about what they want. But and are those conversations even in even happening? Is there an exchange of this? Yes, too for some. But the thing is it's like okay it's talked about but then nothing comes of it if that makes any sense. I don't know who I'm talking to here but I'm picking up somebody's energy where it's like yeah we have talked about it. We have discussed what each of us is looking for. We have talked about the future. We have come to an understanding. But nothing's happening. Look, Knight of Cups. We have talked about romance. We have talked about how much we we've learned each other's love language. Like we understand it, but nothing's happening. What does that even mean? I don't even know. And it seems to me like you're done with this. You, like I said, you've given it so much thought here. You've really been heming and hawing about this. Do I keep investing in this relationship? Should I I look how much, you know, you're saying to yourself, look how much I've already put in. Look at this pile keeps growing and growing. Like I'm literally out of coins here. I don't know what else to do. I've got just a very little bit left. Do I save that for myself or for somebody else? Or do I keep trying? I mean, you've given this so much thought. Your feelings have definitely I want to say kept you from actually ending it because you don't want to go through the grief. You don't want to feel the pain. You don't want to feel the loss. You don't want to have any remorse. You know that buyer's remorse kind of thing where you purchase something because how you feel and you feel good about it and then after you get it, you realize you've paid so much and wasn't all that you thought it was and you really didn't get from it what you thought you were going to get and now you have buyer remorse. You don't want to feel the loss. You don't want to feel like you're going to have any regrets. You really do a lot of thinking and talking with yourself about cutting this off, but you are trying to avoid this, but you know, you can't. You just can't. You can't avoid it. I mean, you could tell yourself, you can try to convince yourself that they're the ones who are going to regret it. And you know, but you will have those moments that'll pop up and you'll be like, did I make the right decision? You don't want to have to make make that decision and then come back later and be like, you know, some people do that. They make the decision to end it, but they do it in a way that they don't have any regrets. So, they say, "Can we just be friends? That way, they don't have to feel the pain or the remorse or the regret." But it's kind of shallow if you ask me. Go through the [ __ ] pain. Go through it. You're brave. Be brave. Deal with it. It's not like you haven't had it before. You've survived every single thing. You've survived every conflict you've been in. Every petty argument or BS that hurt your heart. You've survived it all. You will survive this if and I feel like you do it. I feel like you just hold your nose and jump in. You just do the complete cut off. Now, some of you are going to just be like, you know, I deserve better than this. Let them regret it. They're not coming with the bloody stump. They're not showing up. They know everything there is to know about me now. There's plenty of time has passed. Their decision should have been made to make move it forward with me. I've asked them to move it forward and they always delay. You know, look, you can't be the empress and sit in a chair waiting for jokers to entertain you all day long cuz you know the empress already had like you can't be an empress unless you have an emperor and some of y'all are just having fun with jokers and they they should be just complete entertainment for you at this point. It should be. So, if you've been investing time, which I see you have, in a joker, all you're going to get are tricks and jokes. And the joke could even be you at the end of the day, right? So, you know, you don't want to feel the pain. You don't want to feel the regret or the remorse or whatever. You're going to either way, you can have the pain now and let it keep let it go on for a really really long time because this joker isn't showing up or you can just cut it off and feel the pain right away and then it'll be over with. But it looks to me like, you know, I don't Virgos don't make decisions lightly. When a Virgo has come to this place in a relationship, it's probably too far gone at this point for Virgo to turn back cuz they get so convinced in their mind that it's just not going to go anywhere or that it's not worth the investment. If a Virgo is still asking if it's worth the investment, then it hasn't hit them yet. They're not ready to accept that it's not going to go anywhere and they might have to deal with this a few more times over. But some there is one Virgo here today that's listening to this and that is actually going to go through with this cut off this breakup. Yes, it's going to take courage for sure. But it turns a whole new leaf here. It will all those blockages will be removed. And I'm not talking about a scenario where you just ghost or you just disappear on somebody. Breaking up with someone is literally saying, "This relationship is over for me. Do not reach out to me in the future. Do not call. Do not text. Do not show up at my door. Do not follow me on social media. And if I have to, I will block you. The relationship is over. That's when the blockages are removed and everything opens up. If you haven't done that, if you've ghosted or if you just went no contact or you just stopped talking, the blockages are not going to be removed because you're keeping the door open for this person of yours to return and you're doing it subconsciously and you may not even realize it. And then you're like, but when you haven't talked and nobody else has showed up, it's cuz you're still holding reservation for them, you know? But there and that and that's not who's in this reading. This reading here is some mfer who's like I am finished. I am done no more. I have thought long and hard about it. I know there's going to be pain, but I ain't afraid of no pain. I am not. And I am ready for my blessings to come in. And I'm ready for growth and change. And you know with that Ace of Wands, something new, someone new to fill them shoes. Oh my gosh. Yeah. So, I mean, I maybe I'm just talking to like 1% of the Virgos and all the rest of you are like, "Hey, I need to do that." Whatever this situation is. Yeah. This Virgo here in this reading here is like, "I'm after it. I'm done." Very ambitious. going after what you want, going after that new growth, that change, that new beginning and done with this devil uh how do I want to call it unhealthy bondage uh mental bondage or bondage scenario that you feel like you've been in. Yeah. So, you I'm you know what? If if that's something that you feel like you need to do, like you're your last your wits end here with this situation. If that's where you're at and you are you're like you if you've done it already, I just want to send you a thumbs up. If you have not done it yet and you are still contemplating it, well, I just send you love and blessings and courage if it's something you need to do. But there is a Virgo I'm speaking here to today who is determined and there are some of you who have already done this and this is just confirmation that you've done the right thing. Yep. Clearing your energy field here and focusing on yourself before acting right. And that is to this is about self-care. Why ending this relationship? Why you're ending the relationship has to do with your own self-care. It has nothing to do with blame. It has nothing to do with another person. It has nothing to do with whether there's marriage involved or not or anything like that. This is about this is not helping. This relationship does not help me love myself. It makes me unlove myself. My energy is drained from this relationship. It is not in my best interest because it does not help me care for myself. You know what I mean? Lean on your inner circle during this time. Support all around you. Detach with love to clearly see the truth. You might be in denial. That's fine. Like I said earlier, some of you have been on the precipice of actually taking the step forward to start over, but you're not ready. You might still have a little denial. There might still be some reservation or feeling like it's your trauma or it's all your fault. I mean, I don't know why you would think that cuz it takes two to tango, sister. So, you know, if somebody told you that it's your fault and that you're too sensitive or that you require too much, that's a red flag. and you need to be forewarned that that's abuse. If someone has told you that, if someone has said to you, you want too much from me, or I don't know what you're looking for, you what do you think? What am I supposed to be for you or I I'm not here to save your life. I don't know. I can't be what you need. Like, you ask too much or you want too much. Like, if you're hearing stuff like that, literally the person who wants to be with you, who has fallen for you, is never going to say that stuff ever. They are never ever ever going to say that stuff. They're going to be like, "Babe, what can I do? How can Let's try to make our relationship. What do we need to do? What do I need to do? What happened?" Yeah, I'm being an ass sometimes. You know, like the person who's really for you and respects you and loves you and is just in awe of you isn't going to give you confusion. Point blank period. This is not going to cause confusion. And trust me when I tell you this, been there, done that. The person that's for you is not going to give you confusion. They're going to show up and they're going to be present daily as much as they can be. So, some of you thinking about taking that leap of faith, it's safe to make the move you're considering. It's going to be a bene benefit to you that the abundance will outweigh the grief or the feeling of buyer's remorse because you will get it back. You will. Trust me. It'll outweigh the fear of being alone, the loss. Anyway, felt more like a pep talk than anything, but I do see this week you really making some chess moves for yourself, not for anybody else, but for you. So, if you're in a situation where you feel like the person that you're with um or let me just say the relationship is not you're the relationship is not turning you into a better person. It's making you feel worse as a person. Then you're not in the right one. You're not in the right one. Because when you're in the right relationship, you walk away feeling like a thousand bucks, a million bucks. Somebody's given that feeling to you and you're giving it back to them. You know, it's very simple. I know it doesn't sound simple because you probably don't believe that you deserve it, but you do. That person you're with who's meant for you is going to make you feel like a superstar in their world, in their heart, in their mind. I know that sounds fanatical, but it's not because you would do that with for them. you would make them feel like a superstar. You would you would just you would give to them. You would love them. You would support them. You deserve that in return as well. And if you're with someone who's not doing that, I mean, I'd be like, "Go on now. Get on down the road. Disappear. Stay out of my inner circle. Wow. Boom. Lightning strikes. This strike sends a ripple effect into your life. Things may seem to be in chaos or maybe they have been, but it may be for the good. After every storm comes the washing away. Stand firmly on the ground. And if you decide, cuz some of you have already decided. Some of you are just like a day away from doing it. But if you decide that this is what you want to do and if you have done it, this is all for your better good. Lightning lightning is the tower and this is collapse. And the reason for the collapse is not necessarily the lightning strike. The lightning strike is more of a wakeup call. But the collapse of the tower is because it was built on leaky foundation. It had no chance to stand because it wasn't built on solid ground. And what is solid ground for a relationship to build upon? Solid ground is safety. All the basic needs. safety, shelter, protection, respect, acceptance, love, honor, trust. That's the foundation that has to be in place before the relationship can be built. And now listen, I'm going to say it again. This reading is not for everyone. Those of you who are listening here and it's resonating, I see you shaking your head like, "Mhm, I hear you. Mhm. I hear you." Like in your mind as you're laying there in your bed going, "Mhm. Mhm." Or you're driving in your car hitting that steering wheel. Damn, that's right. Or on the train or on the plane or on the bus or just walking through the park, wherever you are. I see you coming to this decision this week for sure. Now, some of you might be like, I don't get it. Everything's going good this week. We This is the best week we've ever had, but there's a tower moment. Something happens. So, that doesn't mean for you to be on guard and, you know, be all worried. You need to go with the flow. Some of you are just in a season of yin and this is a time of rest and contemplation or the relationship's in a season of yin and there are some things to contemplate. I don't know if we're in a Mercury retrograde right now because quite frankly I haven't even checked but I think we got some stuff going on with the moon. I'll tell you that. Let me get some Chinese signs. Now this is not meant to be a doom reading. This is meant to give you courage if you're on the verge of this. And this is also for those of you who have literally pretty much done everything you could to try to make the relationship work and it was just a oneman show, okay, or one woman show. It's not necessarily advice, but it is some guidance to tell you that when you get to this place, you can never go wrong with respecting yourself. It's it's not it's not ever a failure to end a relationship because you love yourself or because you care about yourself and your sanity and your emotional health. That's never going to be a bad thing. All right. Chinese signs. Chinese signs. Let's see who's showing up here. Okay. Year of the tiger, rabbit, pig, rat, horse, snake, dog, and ox. All right. Maybe that'll resonate, maybe it won't. I just feel like, and I just need to say this, this is a bold move for you to be making this week to really just, you know, make this decision to actually follow through on it. And this is actually a really good week for you. Probably the most profound and bravest thing you've ever done. Literally something you should be proud of. It's not about hurting another person. It's, you know, people often think that if you're loving, if you like need a moment of self-care that you're being selfish, well, yeah, you're being selfish because you need to care for yourself. And they think that that's you're you're being abusive to them because you're neglecting them. But if you have to neglect someone to give yourself self-care, I don't even feel like those are the right words. It's it has nothing to do with the other person. It's it's about you. Like I mean if you got to go to the bathroom like and they get upset because you're not in the room with them because you need to go use the toilet like you're crazy. This is what I have to do for myself. You know what I mean? Like and you cannot come in the bathroom with me. You know what I'm saying? Like it's crazy if anybody is mad at you for giving yourself time and breaking away from a relationship because you're too busy caring about the other person and carrying all the weight of the relationship. And I'm not talking about if you're in a situation with someone who's like tragically ill or you know those are different circumstances because that I just they're just different cir I'm not talking about this. I'm talking about self-centered people you know whoever you might be dealing with here. If they can walk and they can talk and they can work and they can take care of the business but maybe they just need some therapy or something that's fine. Okay. But I'm not talking if you're caring about a child or if you're caring like a romantic relationship, okay? I mean, this is this isn't even about the other person. This is about you needing to break off the relationship so you don't feel bad about yourself because somebody here, there's a Virgo here who's not walking away each time you interact with the person feeling like a queen or even a king. These are the gifts that we give each other. And if you're the one who's making this person feel like a king or a queen and they're not doing that in return, like that's self-centered behavior. That's like disgusting. It's gross. It's a little bit of it's a sacrifice. But when we love someone, it's not really a sacrifice. It shows up that way. But when we really love someone, it's like not a problem. Like, yeah, babe, I got you. I'll do this for you. Not because of what you do for me, but because I just care about you so much and I want what's best for you. You know what I mean? Jelly beans. All right. Anyway, I feel like I'm missing something, but let me just move on to what we have here. All right. We have the 20th, the 7th, we have Cancer, we also have 69. Ooh la la. We have Leo. We have the 11th. We also have the 27th. We have F, E, K, C, Y, J. We also have the 1st, the 6th, the eighth, the eth again, the 18th, the 17th, the 26th, the 28th. I think I said the 27th. I think I said the 21st. Don't remember that fast. I lose it. We also have Sagittarius twice the sixth again and the 10th. Okay, let me get a charm for this week. A you have teddy bear for this week. A charm. You know, if you feel sad or you go through the motions of grief, you really do need to get a little cuddle buddy. Get a cuddle buddy. And I don't mean I don't mean find someone um and use them. I mean a hug is good, but you know, be careful with other people's hearts when you're going through grief because, you know, I don't want to sound like I'm giving you advice, but I'm just trying to say that sometimes, you know, when you go through a breakup, you want to latch on to another person or in a relationship or rebound. I'm just trying to say um do your very best to avoid entanglements like that when you're going through cuz you will you'll go through this grief process. You might feel really good in the beginning because you're taking care of yourself, but after a while could get a little hard. Just be careful with that. That's all I'm saying. Um but this, you know, this makes me feel like a trusted friend. Um you know, even crying in your little teddy bear, that kind of thing. I mean, listen, I don't care how old you are when you sad and you you're going to cry at night if if that's how you operate, right? There's nothing wrong with um having a little teddy bear or a stuffy. There's nothing wrong with that. Nobody's going to know about it. That's your personal business. But it really does bring comfort. Maybe you already have one of these, but you know, I feel like you just need hugs this week. I feel like you should seek them out, honor yourself, and you should talk to trusted friends or people who you can talk with, you know, and sit with you. If it's a difficult decision for you to actually do it, and if you fear being alone, find your cuddle buddy this week. That's all I'm saying. Find your cuddle buddy. Um, I'm getting Kentucky. I'm getting Casey. K A C E Y is what I'm picking up. And I'm also getting Jeff. All right, just a couple of names there. So, I'm going to leave your week ahead reading. I hope that wasn't like doomy for you. I just um just the messenger. All right, you guys. So, I'll see you back here very soon. Bye. >> Lately, I just need to clear my I just need to clear my head. I just need to clear my head. I've been stuck