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Unconventional Advice For Doing Hard Things - Ross Edgley

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Ross Edgley redefines resilience, arguing against the conventional notion of simply gritting one's teeth or suffering through pain without intervention. Instead, he posits that true resilience is about "suffering strategically managed," a concept illustrated by his refusal to run with a pebble in his shoe during a marathon training session; rather than enduring unnecessary damage, the strategic approach involves stopping to remove the obstacle and managing one's physiological state. He emphasizes monitoring internal signals such as neurotransmitter levels, caffeine depletion, muscle glycogen stores, carb intake, MCT oil usage, body temperature, and hydration needs like porridge oats. This pragmatic view challenges the glorification of the "tough heroic man" in a convenient modern world where people move from conditioned houses to cooled offices without facing natural hardships, suggesting that acknowledging these biological limits is more effective than pretending they do not exist. Edgley draws historical parallels between his own expeditions and the contrasting approaches of Antarctic explorers Robert Falcon Scott and Roald Amundsen to highlight different philosophies on resilience. He notes how Amundsen utilized "Norwegian efficiency," incorporating trained Olympic skiers, dogs for transport and sustenance, and learning from indigenous people in the Arctic Circle, whereas Scott's British expedition relied on ponies that fell through ice, mechanical skis that broke down, and tins of food that spoiled quickly. Edgley admits to initially adopting a "Scotty" mindset with his Loch Ness swim but shifting toward Amundsen's efficiency for the Yukon River challenge. This shift involved working cooperatively with nature rather than fighting against it; he observed how glacial melt provided stronger currents and even felt Mother Nature guiding him after previous failed attempts, viewing these environmental factors as part of a spiritual partnership where the river would guide those crazy enough to try such an endeavor. A critical lesson from his experiences involves shifting focus from outcome metrics to process-oriented execution, particularly during long-duration swims like the six-hour on/off intervals in the Yukon or across Moray Firth under pitch-black conditions with no landmarks. Edgley explains that fixating on how far one has gone or checking a clock distracts from the immediate actions required for success, such as maintaining high elbow catches and proper leg kicks. He references a study involving runners on treadmills where visual cues of passing pillars were manipulated to alter perceived speed; similarly, in open water without visible land, relying on outcome anxiety can lead to stagnation or regression. His experience getting stuck in a counter-current for four hours while complaining about lack of progress only to learn he had drifted backward 200 meters underscored the ocean's indifference and reinforced that avoiding distraction by focusing solely on the process makes positive outcomes inevitable without needing constant dopamine hits from checking distance covered. To maintain this process-driven mentality, Edgley advocates against engaging with distracting thoughts like "why don't we just ask" or questioning one's location, which can rip a swimmer out of their optimal state. Instead, he suggests blindly and stubbornly thinking about the immediate mechanical aspects of movement to stay present in the moment. This approach was further solidified by his recovery from an Achilles rupture sustained while playing cricket four years ago at the end of COVID-19 lockdowns. His rehabilitation stack included caffeine, MCT oil, cinnamon, a hip replacement procedure for Andy Murray involving steel balls and ceramic sockets as inspiration, and listening to Ryan Holiday's *The Obstacle Is The Way* on Audible alongside Huberman's insights on perception studies. These elements combined to set the tone for his recovery, demonstrating that resilience is not just about mental toughness but also about strategic management of physical limitations and environmental realities. Ultimately, Edgley concludes that the most effective way to build resilience is by accepting constraints rather than fighting them, a philosophy he applied when swimming in darkness where visibility was nonexistent or dealing with unpredictable river currents. By treating challenges like the Yukon River as partners that provide necessary conditions—such as glacial meltwater for current strength—he transforms potential failures into guided opportunities. This perspective extends beyond physical endurance to emotional and mental fortitude, urging individuals to stop glorifying unnecessary suffering and instead adopt a strategic mindset that addresses limitations directly. Whether it is removing a pebble from a shoe or adjusting one's strategy based on weather patterns, the core message remains that resilience lies in intelligent adaptation rather than blind perseverance against insurmountable odds.
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give me your overview of resilience and and how you've come to think about it from a a human standpoint yeah I I say in the book um that resilience is suffering strategically managed and what I mean by that is you know so often I think people think in terms of gritting your teeth Manning up you know and and for me it it it just wasn't quite right to sort of say that that's not that's not an approach that I found works it's like me and you go for a run right now um if we're 5K into the run and we're going to run a marathon you turn to me and say Ross I got a pebble in my shoe I won't go resilience man up run with it and wear it down no like just just let's stop and take the pebble out Chris you know I mean it's it's suffering strategically managed and I think um especially with the latest swim as well with the Yukon it is really nice if people say oh Ross is really tough he's really resilient I'm like no no it's just suffering strategically managed you know uh neurotransmitters chemicals in the brain caffeine depleted of muscle glycogen carbs uh I need more than that MCTS uh I'm getting cold make sure that the porridge oats are turned up you know I mean it's anything that's going on limiting limitations and I think um to go on from a little bit of a tangent it it it's kind of what I I love the heroic age of Antarctic exploration you with admon Robert Falcon Scott Shackleton and when Robert Falcon Scott and admon the Norwegian uh Falon Scott being the British guy when they were racing to the South Pole it was so interesting that admon with Norwegian efficiency you know he turned up his guys were trained Olympic ski there's Olympic skier in his team as well who led from the front everybody was made to practice in skis not only that as well they turned up with dogs this is something that he learned when going to the Arctic Circle as well from the indigenous people there so he knew that if he got to the South Pole with this number of dogs that on the way back he could eat a certain number of dogs for sustenance and the British at the time were like a that's ungentlemanly like eating dogs that's terrible and then equally when you look at the British Expedition they brought ponies that ended up falling through the ice and they had to feed them to the to the orcas they brought uh mechanical skis that just broke down tins of food that were just completely useless and poisonous as soon as they arrived and I think it was so interesting that learning from that I was very much Scotty of the Antarctic when it came to Loch Ness and Tres Amino you know I turned up and it was like right let's give this a good go whereas for the Yukon I was is very much trying to be adanson you know this Norwegian efficiency and um that's one of the biggest things to come back if I was to add a chat to the art of resilience it would probably be uh that story I read it uh I think I messaged you about this by snap I ruptured my achiles playing Cricket the most British way to do it um four years ago at the end of the end of Co and I put together and this is the same if anybody is going through good for physical stuff probably also all right for emotional stuff uh obstacle is the way by Ryan holiday art of resilience by yourself on Audible I think I go go audible cuz that's cool uh and then um resurfaced the documentary about Andy Murray is uh hip replacement where he gets a ball and socket it's like a steel ball and a a ceramic socket hip replacement and those three that's my stack you know yours was caffeine uh MCT and cin um mine was those three and um that was the thing that really kind of set the tone for the rest of my recovery um but it is it's such a unique perspective on resilience and I think that we are definitely in an age of um glorification of the tough heroic man and the main reason being that it feels like something that's very absent it feels revolutionary it feels um counterculture in a world which is very convenient and you go from conditioned house to cooled office um it feels traditional in a sort of wholesome way to talk about just gritting your teeth and getting through it um but given the choice I mean what did you do for the swim you didn't swim upstream when it came to what you were doing mentally you didn't try and swim upstream and it feels like that's kind of the philosophy that you've taken yeah yeah it yeah I love what you said that yeah I never actually never thought about it like that but that um this is this is why I wanted to appreciate coming on here cuz I'm still deconstructing the Yukon so this is almost just like therapy it's not podcast at all please tell me about your ancal tra yeah no but that is exactly it I didn't really think about it but yeah figurative metaphorically yeah it was very much trying to uh work with the river this is going to sound so strange as well but it it really is like quite spiritual when you do and that's the only way I can describe it for want of a better term but with the Yukon it just just it it almost provided everything that we needed so so the glacial M the glacial lakes they're melting which made sure that we had like a stronger current uh we had a brief window of those two days where the sun actually came out uh it it just felt like the Yukon was like you know what like if you're crazy enough to come and try this we'll we'll we'll guide you well after the first two attempts that you've done for this you would oh something Mother Nature was all right I've kicked you in the kicked you in the deck twice here we go I'll give you a nice little helping hand explain to me where your mind is you know you're doing 6 hours on 6 hours off if it was great British Swim you're doing 15 minutes or half an hour or 45s what are you doing with your mind for that long I the biggest thing that I've taken away is solely focusing on the process and this is something I actually learned from the raw Marines because and anyone listening will be able to understand when you're focusing on the outcome you're not actually focusing on the process so if you are rowing you're on a treadmill something whatever it is if you're looking at the gym clock and being like how much longer have I got oh my god I've only done 15 minutes no no no no you're focusing on the outcome you're not focusing on the process if you're running on a treadmill Focus how my four foot striking my heel striking how's my Cadence that's what you should be focusing on when I'm swimming how's my high elbow catch am I catching am I finishing my stroke what's my leg kick doing that's the process the moment I immediately turn to the boat and start saying how much further have we got how far have we gone th those metrics are important but if you keep on asking that you're not focusing on the process if you're not focusing on the process you're not focusing on the outcome but the weird thing is by just solely focusing on the pro process the outcome becomes inevitable how do you avoid tapping into dopamine's a hell of a drug and the where am I where was I how far have I gone oh this is exciting that's something that fuels motivation and for a lot of people that's a Temptation now is there a mantra that when that voice comes into your head say why don't we just ask I'll just and you know that it's going to rip you out of this process driven mentality that you say is optimal is there something that you do to bring yourself back to that not necessarily I think it's just really blindly and stubbornly thinking of the process it was actually I I love um hubman he talked about there was a study and I hope I don't butcher this but he was talking about how he there was a study where they had people on a treadmill and they had them run in kind of this kind of like Corridor and in this Corridor they said you run as fast as you want so they did and as they're running in this Corridor the sort of pillars going past them were either sped up or slowed down and what it was showing VR of some kind exactly that exactly that and it was sort of saying how they were manipulating The Columns moving fast so if the columns are going faster they think they're running faster if they go slow they're like oh my God is that as fast as I'm running and that's one of the biggest things that I took away one from the GB swim and this certainly on the GB swim because when you're swimming across like the Moray fur for instance there's no land there's no landmarks you can't see anything also not only that it say it was kind of like complete completely overcast you've not even got the moon so it is pitch but you're swimming in a black hole and you're like am I even moving like what is going on and I've even seen that I remember in um St Lucia once I did a swim and uh got caught in a bad counter current and I swam as hard as I could for 4 hours this was after an 18-hour swim and I did not move for those four hours I was swimming as hard as I could to stay on the same spot so so that's like running a marath well an ultra marathon for 18 hours and somebody just putting a treadmill in the middle of the road and going I'll just run on that for 4 hours it was not and then I remember stopping turning to the captain and said how are we doing he said Ross I'm I'm so sorry we've not made any progress for four hours I remember turning and I won't repeat quite what I said my language was quite colorful I was like what do you mean we've not moved I was complaining for about 20 seconds and he just said so sorry sorry Ross can I just interrupt you there I went what and he goes the whole time that you've been complaining you've gone back 200 meters I was like and that in that moment really taught me the ocean does not care but sorry going back to that that the experiment I heard from hubman I thought that was so interesting as well because I'm just literally like those columns going past sometimes I'm like don't don't tell me because you might turn around and go oh Ross you're 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