Video summary
The video opens with a warm morning greeting that quickly transitions into a serious discussion about the psychological impact of social media on self-perception. The hosts explore how platforms like Instagram often present curated, idealized versions of life that make viewers feel inadequate or "left behind." They highlight specific examples, such as young women appearing wealthy and married at nineteen, which creates immense pressure on others in their twenties or thirties who are still building their careers or living with their parents. The conversation emphasizes that these online portrayals are often faked realities designed for engagement, leading many to believe they are failing when they are simply on a different timeline.
A significant portion of the dialogue addresses the societal pressure regarding age and success, challenging the notion that one must achieve financial stability or marriage by a specific age. The hosts argue that there is no constitutional rule stating that living with one's mother at twenty-five constitutes failure, pointing out that many successful individuals have made their mark in their forties and fifties. They encourage viewers to reject these rigid societal scripts and instead focus on their unique journeys, advising against comparing oneself to others who may have advantages like wealth or connections. The message is clear: success is not a race with a single finish line, but a personal path that should be walked at one's own pace without fear of falling behind.
Beyond career and age, the video offers profound advice on self-love and emotional resilience in the face of life's uncertainties. Using anecdotes about dating mishaps and workplace inequalities, the hosts stress the importance of valuing oneself before expecting others to do so. They urge viewers not to let external circumstances or perceived injustices pull them down into despair but to instead work harder and maintain faith in their potential. The discussion also touches on the dangers of chasing milestones at the expense of enjoying the present moment, reminding everyone that no one is coming to save them; they must take responsibility for their own growth while trusting that God's timing is perfect. Ultimately, the video concludes with a call to action for viewers to love themselves, set high standards, and believe in their destiny rather than letting social media dictate their worth.
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[laughter]
But I didn't know it's this serious now.
I didn't know. Hey. Anyways, good
morning.
>> Good morning. [laughter]
How are you doing?
>> I am very fine.
The African queen representing
>> I I I love uh big things especially when
it come to hair bulky
African woman, African lady. I love just
changing hair frequently.
Be prepared
>> anytime surprised and shocked and
ready. Amazing. But you look de you're
looking very very nice. I saw it um on
the video you had posted and then I was
like, "Oh, she looks amazing." Live
seeing it live is more beautiful. But I
hope it's not heavy.
>> No, it's not heavy.
We don't want a lot of heavy things, but
yeah, you look amazing. How's your
morning [gasps]
[laughter]
weather for today? They they don't
expect you to be but get get a what? Get
a duvet.
People put water in that what's it
called? There's a certain bottle of of
water and blanket. So I think with that
you'll be sorted and drink a lot a lot
of porridge.
>> I didn't know that.
>> Really?
>> Yeah, it does. It does. But
>> be very ready to go to the L 101 times.
Every every other minute, every other
second. So, but it does help with cold.
But now for those of us who drank a lot
of it during school times
my guys
that as well those are two foods that
people really don't want um after school
cabbage
like
I don't want to get back there. Yes,
it's a beautiful and amazing morning.
Apart from the cold, everything else is
great.
>> But it was drizzling in the morning
actually.
>> Even now,
>> oh, it's it's still Yeah, we just sit to
call
>> in a warm place. So, we don't even know
what's going on outside. So, it's this
is to tell you if you're prepar
make sure that you dress up warmly, make
sure your shoes accommodate this
weather.
>> Yes.
>> Because
That's that's it. The deal for the day.
It's It's good to do that, but the
weather needs some warm shoes and shoes
that also can walk in the mud.
>> Unless you have a car.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Unless you're driving. But yes,
it's a beautiful and amazing morning to
praise the Lord. Yes. And I don't
understand why
is saying that he does not believe in
God and it's very sad because he has
been raised by a pastor mom and um when
you think about that someone saying that
they don't believe in God because and
they have been raised in a Christian
family
>> so many questions come to mind what do
you think about this
>> so first of all I've done an interview
to that manuh
you remember
>> yeah Yes, he was the top boxer of
I did an interview with him and he was
like I thank God for the far we are
right now we are training well and then
don't believe in God I'm like
>> yeah why are you contradicting yourself
what happened
>> yes what happened but
what I know
there is God. So I let us give him time.
>> Yeah. True. But no the the thing is most
of the times uh you know there's
religion and there's Christianity and
most of the times people are in religion
and that's why you'll find someone like
him. Maybe growing up there are things
the mom does or the family does and he
sits down and questions are you guys
even born again? you're doing this and
you're born again, you know, and that
contradicts the whole thing about um
Christianity and people tend to feel
like eh it's not even worth it saying
that you are born again or you're a
Christian. But the reality is that we
don't follow people. We don't follow our
pastors because they are human beings
like ourselves. We are supposed to
follow Jesus. We're supposed to look
unto Jesus cuz he's our perfect example.
But now
when you look at your fellow
like we are losing it and we are not
where we should be because like um
comments everyone is talking about how
God is like you just need God like God
always everyone is saying about hey God
above all because that's the reality. Uh
and there's a comment here someone
saying probably something happened to
you. Yes. Like you've said
change but the reality is that God loves
him and like you've said he's going to
have an encounter with God and realize
oh at the end of the day there's God is
real and um there's no need for him to
think that God does not care or God is
not there because situations
but the reality is that God is there.
God loves us. God cares about us
individually and nothing can change that
about him.
>> True.
>> Yeah. So, um
God
really cares about all of us and he
loves us so so so so much. I see. You
want you have something? Yeah.
God uh God God loves you even if you
don't believe in him. He loved you in
your mother's womb. He loved uh he love
continuously. John 3:16, for God so
loved the world
that he gave his only begotten son that
whoever believes in him shall not perish
but have everlasting life. He is mighty
to transform his mercies and great. We
give you time and you will experience
that. So I feel like we just give him
time.
>> Yeah, true. with time.
Everyone has their own day. And once you
encounter God, you will never ever
recover from that. Yeah. So, we just
keep and pray for him as well. Cuz
that's that's when when someone says
that it's their heart, their heart is
bleeding. There's something that's going
on with them that's not okay. Cuz even
if you give up on everything else,
giving up on God is the last thing you
would think about. Cuz life is terrible.
things happen but you still stick to
God. So when you hear someone saying
that they don't believe in God, hey,
it's a big it's the problem is as
worse than we can even think about.
>> Yeah, true.
>> Yes. And um there's a sad story here
about our very own digital creator
Faradosa the Turkana creator. Apparently
she is unwell. Um we are told that she
is she was hospitalized in Turkana after
appearing visibly weak and unwell. Her
camp helper Shangazi shared the update
and asked fans to keep Faradosa in the
prayers as efforts continue to get um to
to better her treatment. So uh there's a
video here that is showing her being
taken to hospital in a wheelchair and
it's very sad but we uh we put her in
prayers and pray for her.
>> Yeah, I remember a video from that
beautiful lady Fossa was like
I was like it it was really funny.
>> Yeah. She was like naturally funny.
>> Yeah. And seeing her in that situation,
that condition, it breaks my heart. And
I feel like my prayer is that she will
be fine.
Let's pray for her.
Certain situation. We just want to see
everybody well
two.
So
just stay strong. We pray to God that he
grant you healing and I know you'll be
healed. Amen.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Healing is for today and God
is powerful to heal. So we speak that
over her. And um also Natalie Natali is
also unwell ICU but she's saying that
she's still weak mentally physically you
know after uh being diagnosed with stage
4 um and endometriosis.
Yes. So we we keep praying for them and
believe that God has the power to heal
them because
God you're the only one that [snorts]
can deal with it. You're the only one
that can handle this situation. Yes. We
pray for her and we know that she is
going to be well. Do you have any other
story from your side?
>> Uh before we go to the next story,
there's a time Natalie um was just
narrating on how people treated
especially on
blah blah blah. I feel like
through that situation.
So I I feel like
that person
NTV
the best friend.
Take good care of her. Okay. She is
funny. She's a little bit funny.
I'm like, what are you doing? What are
you doing? But I'm so grateful.
>> But that's how it should be.
Depressed. But now when you're making
some funny funny reactions, feel excited
and joyful.
>> So Laura, keep on being there for your
girl Natalie and we wish her quick
recovery. I pray that God will heal her.
And before we go to the next story, she
came to Isaiah 41:10 says, "Do not fear,
for I am with you. Do not be dismayed,
for I I am your God. I will strengthen
you and help you praying for your health
and trust in him, you will be healed." I
love the way content creators also they
acknowledge that God is the healer and
uh that the way forward. So Natali, we
pray for you, mama, you'll be fine.
>> Yes. Um, at the end of the day, God is
our everything. God is our healer. He's
the only one that can be able to deal
with those situations that we feel are
too big for us. And healing is for
today. God wants us well. He wants us
healed. And yes, um, that's that's like
all you need to do is believe in him.
This is the time to believe
and all this time you give yourself
faith. You give yourself into believing
and uh very soon you see God working
miracles. True. Yes. And now as we close
up on the side of what's trending we
have heard of movers
[laughter] by the way.
>> We would want to know
Anyways, according to the information
that we have
those guys are content creators and they
are they are coming up as movers you
know movers companies are those
companies that they help you move
instead of
they come they pack everything they move
unpack
new house
like you don't need to.
So these people they are from the
ghetto. So how they look, their
appearances, how they speaking, they
just look and they are now posing as a
gang
or anything what comes to your mind is
man these are gangsters. So how they
dressed, how they look, they look like
gangsters. And then now they're saying
that they're helping you move and now
they have some ultimatums.
>> [laughter]
>> So they're very funny and when you see
some of the videos that they have done
>> like
so many of them and they're looking so
um
>> like their faces are very serious and
then they have their slogan that they
are saying so they're just scary people.
>> Yeah.
>> So I saw a video the day with
groupy
and
>> [laughter]
>> It's not changing your mind.
Yeah. And I love the way
comment section
you know I first saw that on people's
statuses
like who are people until you you come
to look for them and they're like ah
okay that's creative. Yeah.
>> Yeah. It's something that is there
moving and all that. But now the kind of
way they have come about with it it's a
fun kind of content. Yeah. And it's
amazing.
Well, people are being creative and it's
beautiful when you see people exploring
into different kinds of creativity. But
please
and copy copy cuts.
Someone comes up with a content, the
other one wants to come and do the same
and outshine the person who was doing
it. But at the end of the day, that's
amazing. So
what's going on with them? Then there
you have your information. And that is
what they are doing. And so we get
straight to the discussion of the day
like everything is online like every
people are accessing
everything online and um
>> there are it's it's good but it it still
has its own
disadvantages at the end of the day. But
um when when you look at advantages and
disadvantages of being online and um
social media, we find that the
advantages
because uh you're going to have
conversations with people like the whole
world is now a global village. You can
talk to anyone anywhere and um it's
amazing and beautiful. But now um we are
having an amazing discussion here and um
this question at some point touches on
the online aspect because uh like we are
saying very many people are online and
we are asking um because now most of the
times you what we see online
ladies uh there's a lady I don't know if
you came across her she was preparing
for her show she's 19 years old and she
shopping and all that create content um
around her doing her shopping for and we
were like
>> Rash at 19 first that is the first
question and the second question is
>> where like because she was saying she's
getting married to a very rich man
>> so you're like okay at 19 years old
>> you you you're very young to be even
thinking about marriage okay me I don't
know maybe after 18 you're free to think
about
But at 19 for me was very young and
that's there
around ages. I am 20. Come and see my
house. And you look at that house and
you're like,
>> what did you say? How old are you again?
>> And most of the times you might ask
yourself, hey, what am I doing in this
life? Am I am I?
you see someone at 20 having so much
money and you you're in your 30s and
you're still in your mom's house and
you're like hey what is not happening?
So that's the question that we are
having today. The pressure to have it
all figured out because um
>> that is something that's real. People
think it's not real or it's not there
but it's there and it's real. People
have a like people people struggle so so
so so much with feeling like they they
left behind like um why why not me
and you see they doing so well
something and you're like
so we asking feel behind in life
are you feeling that you're behind in
life
because most of the times people create
content, you look at them and you're
like
the same,
what's wrong with me? What am I doing
with my life?
I can see
>> and it's real. The pressure is real. Cuz
you're going to hear someone is earning
a six figure salary and you're like,
Repeat again. And you're trying to do
the math and it's not adding up
according to you. And you feel like
you're you're losing it. You feel like
you're you are a loser in life. Like
you're you you're not doing enough. You
know, and most of the times people beat
themselves up thinking, "Hey man, I am a
failure. I am not doing the right thing.
I'm not doing what I should do." But at
the end of the day, uh that's not how it
is. And that's why we want us to discuss
this uh this topic today. Are you
feeling like you are behind in life or
uh is it social media? Because the
reality is that social media is not
reality. What we show you online is what
we want you to see.
>> Yeah. Like
what the content creators what those
people post is what they want you to
see. True.
You might not even know them. Yeah. And
they showed you the life that they
wanted you to see. But in reality, that
is not who they are.
>> True.
>> They always feel like, yeah, they always
feel like, hey, this person is is not
faking it. How can you fake it for all
this while? How can you fake it for all
this period? But the reality is that
people fake it [music] out here. Believe
in fake it till you make it. I am not
one of them. But
>> at some point there are people who are
living a fake life. Totally fake. And
when you even think about it, it it
scares you cuz people are going all out
taking loans for example
>> sustain that life
>> a certain kind of lifestyle and it's not
worth it at all. So yes, that's the
discussion we're going to be having
today. And if you have a question for
us, make sure that or a comment to me.
Let me let me repeat again. Okay. feel
behind in life social media.
So you'd like to know are you really
feeling behind you know it's social
media. Yes. And we are on all social
media platforms at 254 channel and #isy
in the morning. So make sure that you
comment tell us um are you feeling
behind or is it social media that is
making you feel that way? And we have
some discussion questions that are going
to lead this amazing conversation as we
get to dive in and see um what it what
what is really happening. Is it social
media or are we really behind in life?
[music] Yes. Uh so our first question is
why do people feel like they are falling
behind in life? I feel like feeling like
you're afraid
after one year.
[laughter]
What's not happening? Where did
[clears throat] I did I miss out on
something? What is that detail that I
missed out on?
>> Yes.
Show me your ways.
Show me your ways anymore. But I I feel
like
>> you see those ways and you like I don't
want to see them anymore. [laughter]
>> I I know I said show me your ways, but I
didn't I didn't think it's this.
And I feel like
20
work
amazing because at the end of the day
like you're saying everyone is walking
their own journey. Everyone is I was
talking to a friend of mine and he was
telling me um he's in campus. He's doing
a different course from what he had
done.
So he's still in campus. And then he was
telling me that most of his friends are
married. Most of them so like he feels
like
they have families.
So I told him everyone has their own
pace. how they they are married and uh
it's their choice. Yeah,
>> that's what they've decided to do. Where
you've decided to first study and then
you'll get married later and you're
going to find out that your lives will
never be the same at some point. Those
guys by the time and is precious where
you're building your businesses, you're
making money and you're you're building
yourself and you're building up world
for your kids and for your family. By
the time they coming, they find you,
you're going to be stable. But
as a man let me look for money and then
there's another man who will think like
[laughter]
so people are totally different
>> we add yours and mine we grow together
yeah which is crazy
but yes people have their own aspects
and their own ways of doing life but the
reality is that You are walking your own
journey. Do not let society, do not let
nobody come and control what you think.
Because now what we feed our mind, yeah,
I'm left behind. You will not even do
what you're supposed to be doing cuz all
the time
you're left behind. Things are not
working out. You're not doing what
you're supposed to be doing. And that is
you wasting yourself. That is you
wasting your time thinking about and
focusing on the wrong things. So like we
very very important
to no matter how long it takes, no
matter which path I take, we are going
to arrive and that is what we should
like that's what should drive us.
>> But now uh another question is what age
should someone be successful? At what
age should somebody be successful?
Because that is something that very many
people have an issue with. come to your
20 and you're doing so well and then
they're 30 they're like wow 20 what was
I doing is it about age and that also
trickles down to getting married there
are people who feel like um as a lady
when you're 30 you can no longer be
married you're already old you're not
you're not good for marriage and all
that but is it true is it true that um a
certain age
limits you from success or limits you
from making it in life is it just people
thinking about it.
>> I think it's about uh
it's about people thinking about it. A
lot of many people have made it in their
40s, in their 50s. So seeing someone
a lady who was just doing shopping for a
wedding. I'm like you're being getting
married to um a rich man. Why are you
doing this alone? Rich people, they just
leave things for other people to do for
them. Like shopping
just make calls hey I need this and that
and that and that can it be delivered
hey like
>> yeah and that's the pressure we are
giving ourselves
and again I really discourage okay I'm
not married
[laughter]
but but make sure that before we get
into marriages
financially stable especially we ladies
a very successful man
in a certain way of
But if you have your own money, you can
just do your own hair, you can do your
own nails, you can yourself, you can
just go out without asking him for the
money. And that the way to go, you'll
feel like first of all, take care of
yourself before you allow someone to
take care of you. Yeah.
someone who is really big.
But
can you can you do those things for
yourself?
Yes. And I feel like age
so many people made it in 40s and I will
start by entertainment
ages
free. Okay. I've watched this man
movies so I can attest. Aladded is major
breakout film role and achieved a global
stardom at his 50s.
Another lady uh another person and it
Stanley coated the modern Marvel comic
universe starting with the fantasy 4
just before turning 40.
C anal
developed the street receip and launched
KFC as a Frances operation when he was
65 years.
>> 65 and he was still dreaming. His dream
was still alive.
>> Yes, you're 25 and you 23.
>> What's stopping you?
You cannot make it.
>> Now what's who are you following or who
are you looking up to? Because if we
have such kinds of people, we even have
um some Nigerian actor, he's called
Leonard or something like that. Yes. He
he alumaku 40
>> and he he got married after
>> 40 something years old and he was doing
so well and there's someone who's 30 and
they've already given up and feeling
like they will never get married. They
will never get this job. They will never
make it. Why are you limiting yourself?
Who said where is it written on which
constitution? Where is it written that
when you get to 25 years old and you're
still in your mom's house you are a
failure? Who said that?
>> Because those are are things that
>> you know
>> and and that was the life for that time.
But right now we are in a very different
society. Yes. A very different uh
season. So it's very funny
>> that [clears throat] your mom lives in
uh let's say where let me let me speak
about you find your mom lives in
and then
>> those are very close areas just because
you feel like
>> I I I should
and you are neighbors with your mom.
>> You go eat supper in your mom's house
and then go sleep in the house that
you're paying rent.
I don't
because society expects you to do
something does not mean that it is
reality. Because society has put some
standards.
>> Are you sure that that is the script we
should follow? Because at the end of the
day
and I feel like
discouraged.
Just start just do what you have to do.
Believe in yourself and let's go make
money and make our lives better.
a certain event with so many journalist.
So they feel
people
by the way.
You have to listen to him.
21 22 and you want to be
successful journalist
[clears throat] you have a point. It's a
process. You learn things.
21.
I don't want you tomorrow. Pack your
things and go.
>> Yes.
Where are you at? you're asking your
employees like that
and you know like you're saying
I was with a friend of mine and then we
see this man on the road he's he's a
young man he's having a suitcase so he
was crying
what's going on and he says that he has
just beenazi
abruptly and he was really crying so he
was saying how um he was really trying
his best to just hold on to his job. But
and you think about it, most of the
times these people in authority, they
don't think about these other people's
lives. And maybe it's because they've
never had an experience of that like
you're saying.
You know, there are people who have been
given everything.
You remember when we were being given
stories,
you know, and you're trying to compare
yourself with such a person and that is
reality. There are people who are like
that. But then what happens? We don't
sit down and start crying and start
thinking that we are left behind. You
work hard. You you do better.
Let's say you want to go to a fancy
hotel and
trust you they will attend to them
before you because of the color of their
skin they are ahead of like
attention more than they even should
anywhere any office you go and then
what do you do you don't go bleaching
yourself you don't go crying that they
don't like Africans, you do your best.
You you you you increase if if that
person is working once one hour, you you
double your hours. Work two hours to get
to the level of that person. But you
don't sit down saying that all these
people are very unfair. Racism,
but what do you do? You don't allow that
to pull you down because that's the
mistake most of us make. We we we we
allow it to pull us down. We allow it to
make us feel like we are nothing, like
we don't deserve to be anywhere in life.
And that's why we we we make the worst
mistakes. You've not gotten that
opportunity. But then what do you do?
You don't sit down and cry. You think
of, okay, why did that person qualify
and I was disqualified? What can I do to
make sure that the next time an
opportunity like that opens up, I don't
lose it. I actually
disqualified or you're told you're not
enough and now you hate yourself. You
will never you never meant to do
anything. You will never try again.
>> That's a mistake most of us make.
>> Yeah. And the point is if you are young
CEO make sure that you respect your
elders
but make sure that you respect them.
They are your elders. Um and when you
you are just giving them direction
[laughter] people
maybe
but in next maybe five or six months
tables do and just let be so conscious
when we dealing with the people who are
older than us especially
learned so many things on how to deal
with this life and how to um maybe talk
to people um deal with people and
no pressure.
Yeah, true.
That is a question we having. who said
that you need to do this at this
specific time and if you don't do it at
this time you're done for. Amma you
don't you're not important anymore in
life. Do not allow such kinds of lies to
occupy your mind. Yes, we are asking do
you feel behind in life or is it social
media that has made us see it in that
way? That is the question that we are
having and we are on all social media
platforms at 254 channel. So, make sure
that you drop your comment and we're
going to be reading it as we get to wind
up on this discussion. Yes. To me, are
you feeling behind in life or is it
social media that is putting or rather
setting those standards? Yes. And now,
um, we get to ask this. Uh, how do you
know whether you're genuinely behind or
simply on a different path? I I feel
like
afraid of
I'm like
I'm ready. I don't want to rush.
I feel like blessing is not serving me.
Let me get someone else. What about me?
What next for me? Does your life stop?
Yes.
I'm looking for a rich husband.
Remember when you are rich, when someone
is rich?
What about you? What next for you?
ever. So I feel like
you have left behind.
Please get money, get rich first. Okay.
But be stable first before you even try
to get married or even relationship.
Dust is constant. [laughter]
Dust delayed and not dust denied.
[laughter]
>> Equal to at some point you're going to
either now or later.
>> Yeah. Or later. But at the end of the
day, make sure that
your trust in God, please. Yes.
>> And you know, you're advising ladies and
even guys through the same.
>> Yeah.
>> Yes. That I hope you don't find this
[laughter] video.
>> I will make sure that you and I hope
you're not watching. Okay. a friend of
mine. Um,
I don't know if I should say he's a
friend of mine, but he's someone that
looks up to me so much so if he needs me
to ad.
And he tells me he had told me about a
certain lady.
Um, and so he went to the lady and told
the lady he likes her and all that. And
the lady was like, "Give me some time.
I'll I'll respond to you." So um at some
point the lady comes back and she's like
showing interest.
>> So the guy feels like oh
and then
>> suddenly the guy is attacked by some
people
>> and they take take away his phone and
so he doesn't understand what is going
on.
Yeah,
the lady was dating all along. You see
how people want everything for
themselves
but still and I hold on to this other
side. So the guy was telling me about
what if those guys did worse? What if
they they beat you up or something
terrible
and he was telling me know they I got my
phone backani authorities or something.
So I told him, bro, why are you why are
you playing with your life? Because one
thing the person that is putting you on
hold already shows they don't care about
you. Yeah. So advice madame advice
>> love yourself. Oh my goodness. I don't
know how many times I'm going to tell
you that love yourself. Be the first
person you care so much about. I know
that that contradicts the Bible kido. I
am a very very staunch Christian. Yes.
And the Bible tells us to love our
neighbor. that as you love yourself, you
first love yourself so that you can have
a template of how you're supposed to
love your neighbor. So before you start
thinking about the other person at a
change,
>> who told you they're going to change
constant, the fact that it is delayed
does not mean it is denied. [laughter]
So the reality of life is someone that
is treating you as an option is not the
person for you. And it's very crazy that
there are people around you who love you
genuinely, who want to be there for you
genuinely, but you don't see them. Open
your eyes.
>> Open your eyes and see the the love that
is around you that you are you can't
even see. Yes, that was a a little um
trail.
Love yourself. And uh at the end of the
day, so I told the guy, I I I don't like
making decisions for people. So I told
him, "What do you think? what do you
think you should have done? And then I
told him, that's it. You already have
the answer. Then go ahead and do what
you what you should have done. So he was
like, I am blocking her right now
because you're going to block her and a
week later you're going to unblock her
and that's not that's not it. That's why
I can't make the decision for you. You
decide for yourself. At the end of the
day, you matter and you are enough and
you are important. Oh my goodness. And
we love you so much. So so so so much.
So yes.
I love you so so much. And probably as
you wind up, there's a question here
that I feel we should discuss. Can
constantly chasing milestones make us
miss the present?
>> Cuz most of the times we focus on hey
deadlines, I need to get this. I need to
get my first million. I need to get
this. I need to and you even forget to
see the good things that are actually
happening around you. And how does that
affect us? And I feel sometimes
let me start with ladies first, young
ladies first. Sometimes I feel like you
need to make it a loted
is pocket money. Yeah. But
the same same things happened to Vana7.
So what do I do?
We are trying to chase this life
process. We need to to take
failed and failed and failed and failed
until
this is what I did. of the problem that
nearly encounter onita
but
at the end of the day make sure that as
you are chasing the things that you are
chasing make sure that you are taking
good care of yourself don't try to
affect your future negatively
things happens
about
what you post
And
in that time
I feel like yes we need to chase
whatever we are chasing but we be so
vigilant. Yes.
>> Yeah. Amazing. I think that's a very
good uh way to end things because at the
end of the day
>> we we we we we are not supposed to dream
small.
>> Yeah. Have a big dream that scares you.
My pastor tells us have a big dream that
scares you that you can't even sleep at
night. You have to wake up and pray. So
have a big dream that you're really
looking up to and um that drives you
into doing what you ought to do. Like
you can't settle for less because you
know and you can see and you can feel
that aana like I I should not settle. I
need to do more. I need to do better and
that's it. Like have a big dream that
but the fact that you're dreaming big
how to
certain level
but the hotel that you can afford to go
to. Do you treat yourself? Do you take
yourself out? blessing was saying do
things for yourself without expecting
other people to do them for you. You
love flowers, you love chocolate, do you
get it for yourself?
No. Start bringing yourself buying
yourself those flowers so that you
already set a standard even the person
that is coming knows even if I don't get
her the flowers, she'll still get them
herself. Yeah. And that that shows how
much uh you value yourself. And the more
you you value yourself, the more this
other person will value you. Like
Like you need to to to have self love.
You you you need to care about yourself
so much to and treat yourself well.
>> Nobody is coming to do it for you.
Nobody is coming to give you that life
that you always say you want. That life
that you always desire. Nobody is go is
coming to give it to you. It's upon
yourself to work yourself up, to work
smart, to do everything you ought to do
to get to that level.
Help us. We believe in destiny helpers
and we believe in God sending people to
help you. But the reality is that
Nisawa, he's going to send those people,
but you also you have a part to play.
You have something that you ought to do.
Yes. So, let's get to hear from blessing
your final advice to my amazing people.
feel like
9 to 5
in this life. No,
it's about time
and don't forget that God loves you.
Thank you so much and everything you do
include God cuz God is the source of
everything. My good name is Bessie
Blessing. It has been me your girl the
co-host for today. I'm so excited. I was
so excited to be here and again
you keep warm. You can get me in every
social media platform blessing Instagram
blessing Facebook blessing YouTube
blessing and Tik Tok bessie blessing. I
think that's for that's for me for today
and uh thanks for having me. Amazing
blessing.
Make sure that you follow her, okay?
And she's an artist, guys.
If you've not listened to her song,
you're really missing out on a lot. It
was so addictive that I had to now stop
listening to it because where yes,
that's how nice the song is. And
remember, I don't even understand what
it means, but yeah, I was listening to
it and vibing and enjoying
>> cuz actually that I don't think it's
that difficult but I think
I didn't honestly I always hear
at some point I do but
>> for your song I got zero like anything
at All it
but I enjoyed it. It was such an amazing
room. So
blessing YouTube, go and watch,
subscribe, like, share, comment. You're
going to love it. You're going to enjoy
it. And call her for your shows as well.
By the way, if you have uh shows
probably she does um live uh what are
they called? Performances. Yes.
performance. She's got to show up. Yes.
And do it there. So, make sure that
already
[laughter]
blessing. Anyways, let me let me not
talk a lot about her.
She is single as well. So, DM, this is
your chance, guys.
Okay. Why am I speaking on your behalf?
Anyways, I know she doesn't want
beggars. So, if you're if you're up your
game and then text her and
[laughter]
>> I can't believe I'm the one talking
about all these things. Anyways, yeah,
we are about to get to read the comments
and you really feel you want to share,
drop it. We get to read. I see people
are really giving it their all.
And you're like, "Wow." Okay. But by the
before to get to the comments, um I see
a story here. A woman has shared her
shock after discovering that the man she
has been dating for two months was
actually her cousin.
>> Okay, I know that lady. She's actually
my friend. And I was like, "Girl, you
told me you were dating. You did told me
you were dating." And
>> what really happened?
by the way
in
really
we shall see each other when we come
back and then we shall go. Yeah.
That's crazy.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. So, so what's the end go? How does
this kind of a story end? I don't know.
Okay. Let me not let me not talk as the
person I used to be. Let me talk as the
person I am. Right now, I think I can
just let it go. But I man, it's not my
fault. I didn't know. Even the Bible
tells us that sin is the sin you know
the one that you do not know is not sin
>> that was the not me right now [laughter]
please don't go saying that le said you
can date your cousin no I'm not saying
that but at the end of the day I think
there are some things that can be done
about it nothingituals
to cleanse you guys
it was nice knowing you fall in love but
please sorry we can't do this we can't
do this anymore
is my cousin
anyways we had our discussion Facebook
movers yes we told you about movers and
we want to know kama you can use them as
your moving company. We see you.
But the comment is flat with poor
plumbing in a dripent
readily available. Finally floor. I mean
from first to fourth floor
optional.
That's crazy.
>> [laughter]
>> They're very scary, guys. Have you Have
you seen these people? When you look at
them, they're just scary. Hey. Okay,
let's see.
Good morning. Good morning to you
from
County.
[laughter]
Good morning my lending
looking
really. [laughter]
Okay.
and love.
Okay.
Maxwell,
good morning.
Good morning to you to Maxwell.
Take us through those
presented
WCW Eliza show. Thank you.
You look great.
Director
>> Director from Migos
Locked in Amazing.
[laughter]
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. He's a great great great fan.
Amazing.
So I don't know if we have we can take
us
>> DJ Brendom Chelsea. Good morning. Good
morning to you too, DJ H.
present.
Yes,
woman crush Wednesday. Yes. Yes. Yes.
>> Yes.
>> All right. Um I don't know if we have
any other comment that we have left, but
yes, those are some of the comments that
we've had.
We always have our post Facebook and
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you want to find her online. For me, I
am Eliza Kimani, your TV host of the
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So, we are taking a very short break and
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