Video summary
Andrew Huberman introduces a framework for understanding stress and emotions grounded in physiology rather than subjective experience, arguing that these concepts are often misunderstood due to outdated views of them solely as negative or ancient survival mechanisms reserved for physical threats like predators. He clarifies the distinction between stressors (the external events) and stress itself (the physiological response), emphasizing that the human stress system is generic and designed to mobilize resources regardless of whether the threat is psychological, social, or physical. Huberman explains that acute, short-term stress activates a specific neural pathway involving sympathetic chain ganglia in the spinal cord, which releases acetylcholine followed by epinephrine (adrenaline). This response dilates blood vessels in muscles and organs needed for action while constricting flow to non-essential systems like digestion, thereby sharpening focus, enhancing cognition, and boosting immune function against infections. Consequently, he challenges the notion that all stress is bad, noting that short-term adrenaline release can actually help combat bacterial or viral invasions by deploying killer cells from the spleen. To harness these biological mechanisms for health, Huberman discusses tools to deliberately activate this beneficial acute response through deliberate hyperventilation (similar to Wim Hof or Tummo breathing protocols), cold exposure like ice baths or showers, and intense exercise that raises heart rate significantly. He cites a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences where subjects who performed cycles of rapid breathing followed by breath holds experienced zero symptoms after being injected with endotoxin compared to controls, demonstrating how artificial activation of the stress response can suppress illness. However, he stresses the critical importance of turning off this system once it is no longer needed; failing to deactivate the acute stress response leads to a crash in immune function and sleep disruption when one finally relaxes or goes on vacation. He defines chronic stress not by duration alone but by the inability to achieve good sleep, which serves as an objective marker that the body has moved from short-term activation into long-term distress requiring intervention. For managing medium- and long-term stress, Huberman introduces the concept of raising one's "stress threshold" or capacity through a practice he calls dissociation: learning to remain mentally calm while physically flooded with adrenaline. By intentionally placing oneself in activating situations—such as sprinting or taking cold showers—and then cognitively regulating the emotional response rather than panicking, individuals can expand their ability to handle pressure without burning out. He debunks the myth of "adrenal burnout," clarifying that adrenal glands do not wear out; instead, exhaustion usually stems from chronic psychological distress or other factors like sleep deprivation. To support this physiological resilience during periods of high demand, he recommends specific supplements backed by research: L-theanine to enhance relaxation and reduce task-related anxiety without causing sedation, and ashwagandha to lower cortisol levels in healthy individuals experiencing elevated stress. He notes that while these tools are effective for adults managing temporary spikes in pressure, they should not be used year-round or as a substitute for foundational lifestyle factors like sleep, nutrition, exercise, and social connection. Huberman concludes by reframing emotions through the lens of internal state matching external demands rather than viewing them as fixed traits located in specific brain regions. Drawing on the work of neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett, he posits that we label experiences as "good" or "bad," such as anxiety versus excitement, based on whether our current physiological arousal aligns with what is required by the situation; being alert and stressed when facing a deadline feels appropriate, whereas feeling activated while trying to sleep does not. This perspective allows individuals to gain agency over their internal landscape using objective tools like respiration patterns (such as the physiological sigh) and gaze dilation rather than relying on vague concepts of mindfulness that may hinder performance in real-time tasks. Ultimately, the goal is not to eliminate emotions or become robotic but to modulate the autonomic nervous system so one can lean into life more effectively, reacting responsively instead of reactively, regardless of whether external events are within our control.
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Welcome to the Huberman Lab podcast,
where we discuss science and
science-based tools for everyday life.
I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor
of neurobiology and ophthalmology at
Stanford School of Medicine.
This podcast is separate from my
teaching and research roles at Stanford.
It is, however, part of my desire and
effort to bring zero cost to consumer
information about science and
science-related tools to the general
public.
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Today's episode is going to be all about
the science of emotions.
The first month of the podcast, we
talked about sleep and wakefulness.
Last month, we were talking about neural
plasticity, the brain's ability to
change in response to experience.
And this month,
we're going to talk about these things
that we call emotions.
We're going to decipher what they are,
how they work,
how we can control them, when we might
not want to control them.
There are going to be four episodes on
emotions.
And today, we're going to talk in
particular
about something that most often is
called stress.
Now, you might be thinking, "Wait,
stress isn't an emotion."
But, stress really lies at the heart of
whether or not our internal experience
is matched well or not to our external
experience or the events that are
happening to us and around us.
And, as you'll soon see, those converge
or combine to create what we call
emotions.
Now, I want to be very clear that we're
going to talk about the biology of
emotions. We're going to talk a little
bit about some psychological concepts
related to emotion.
And we are definitely going to talk
about tools to control what we call
stress or commonly think of as stress.
We're also going to clean up some common
myths about stress. For instance, that
stress
impairs your immune system.
That's true in certain contexts. And in
other contexts, stress actually enhances
your immune system and makes it function
better.
There
is going to be a lot of discussion about
whether or not our internal state,
whether or not we are alert or calm, is
good or bad depending on the
circumstances. So,
where we're headed here is I'd like you
to come away from today's episode with
what I call an organizational logic, a
framework for thinking about these
things that typically we just call happy
or sad or depressed or anxious.
And I'm going to make sure that you have
tools that are grounded in physiology
and neuroscience that will allow you to
navigate this otherwise complex space
that we call emotions that will allow
you to ground yourself better when
you're feeling
like life is weighing on you or you're
kind of being pulled by the currents of
life,
as well as to support other people,
whether or not that's in a psychological
practice, if you're a if you're a
practitioner, or you have clients or
children or spouses, really to be able
to support other people in your
environment better.
And the tools that I'm going to focus on
today
range from behavioral tools. We will
talk about some of the more valuable
supplementation tools that are out
there.
And we're going to talk a little bit
about things like depression, PTSD, but
we will be devoting entire episodes to
things like depression, PTSD, and even
attention deficit and
obsessive-compulsive disorder, which
believe it or not,
although this might not surprise many of
you have a very strong emotional
component. It's just not just about
compulsive behaviors and intrusive
thoughts. It's also about the emotional
load of being in that state.
So, I promise that
today we're going to clean up a lot of
misunderstanding.
We're going to give you a lot of tools
and you're going to learn a lot about
the biology of how your body and brain
work together. Because if ever there was
a topic that brought together the brain
and body or mind-body relationship,
it's stress and emotions. It's also the
positive emotions. When we feel
something, whether or not we're super
happy or just feeling kind of pleasant
or we are feeling stressed, anxious, and
overwhelmed, it isn't just in our head,
it's also in our body.
And as you may recall, the nervous
system, which includes the brain and the
eyes and the spinal cord, but also all
the connections with the organs of the
body,
includes the brain and body. And those
organs of the body,
your gut and your liver and your spleen,
they're also communicating with the
brain.
So, I look forward to a day in fact when
we no longer think about neuroscience as
just the brain. And many neuroscientists
now also think about the body, of
course. The brain controls the body, but
the body is also having a very profound
and concrete influence on the brain.
I think
up until recently,
people would hear about kind of
brain-body and always think about
mindfulness. We're actually not going to
talk that much about mindfulness at all
today. Mindfulness is kind of a vague
concept, in fact. When you think about
mindfulness, it's good to take the
opposite. What's the opposite of
mindfulness would be mindlessness. Well,
all of a sudden we're into territory
that isn't really easy for one person to
describe their experience or to help
others with their experience. Today,
we're going to talk about objective
tools that match the brain-body
experience or separate the brain-body
experience in ways that leverage your
ability to lean into life better, to
feel better, literally, to just feel
better about what you're experiencing,
and believe it or not, to be able to
control your emotions when that's
appropriate. This isn't about becoming
robotic. This isn't about trying not to
feel human. This is actually about being
able to lean into life better
as a consequence of being able to
control some of your inner real estate.
This nervous system that includes the
brain and body, and how that nervous
system is interacting with the outside
world. So, it's to place you in a
greater position of power, and so let's
get started in deciphering what is
stress, what are emotions, and why did I
batch stress and emotions into one
discussion today.
Okay, so what is stress? We hear all the
time that stress is bad. We hear people
saying they're really stressed out.
What is stress?
You've all presumably heard the
arguments or the framework that stress
is this horrible ancient carryover from
times in which humans were pursued by
animals or other human predators, and
that whenever we feel what we call
stress or feel stressed out, that it's
just this unfortunate invasion of
something that we no longer need in
modern life, that this was designed for
when we were being attacked by bears or
tigers or lions or whatever it is.
And gosh, what an unfortunate thing. And
we have so many creature comforts
nowadays, but we have not eliminated
this stress. Almost as if it was like an
organ or a system in our body that was
bad for us, that we're stuck with just
because of the species that we are.
But first of all, all species experience
stress.
And
I think that it's fair to say,
even though I wasn't there, that yes, in
fact, throughout our evolutionary
history, we were vulnerable to animal
attack and other human attacks
on a regular basis up until a point
where we started developing, you know,
weapons and structures and fire and
other things that allow us to protect
ourselves better from those animals and
and invaders of various kinds, but it is
entirely naive for us to think that in
ancient times
ancient times being kind of loose term
for
previous time, medieval times, you know,
100 years ago, 1,000 years ago, 10,000
years ago.
Of course, there were infidelities,
right? Partners cheated.
People died. In fact, before the advent
of phones, which we're going to talk
about today,
you can imagine that someone might head
off on a hunt or to go visit a relative
and never come back and you would never
know why. That would be very stressful.
So, there was psychosocial stress. There
was a stress of losing loved ones. There
was the stress of cold, of famine. There
was the stress probably also of just
worry. This idea that you know, ancient
versions of the of humans 1,000 years
ago, 100 years ago didn't worry, I think
that's that is entirely inconsistent
with everything we know about the
structure of the human brain 100 years,
1,000 years ago. So, all the problems
that we're struggling with existed for
ever.
It's just that
stress at its core is a generalized
system. It wasn't designed for tiger
tigers attacking us or people attacking
us. It's a system to mobilize other
systems in the brain and body.
That's what stress really is. It's
designed to be generic and that's the
most important thing that I'd like you
to understand today is that the system
that governs what we call stress is
generic.
It wasn't designed for one thing.
And that gives it a certain advantage in
taking over our the state of our brain
and body, but it also gives you, all of
us, an advantage in controlling it
because it's based on hardwired
biological mechanisms
and
there are hardwired biological
mechanisms, meaning cells and chemicals
and pathways and tissues that exist in
you right now
that require no neural plasticity that
allow you to put a break on stress. And
so we're going to talk about those.
So you have a system for stress and you
have a system for destress that are
baked into you. They were genetically
encoded and they you were born with them
and you still have them now.
So if you're alive and listening you
have the capacity to control your
stress. And today I'm going to talk
about ways that you can control your
stress not just by doing some offline
practice of meditation or breathwork or
something like that, but real-time
tools. Tools that allow you to push back
on stress when stress hits in real time.
You know, this is something that my lab
works actively on in developing and
testing these tools and evolving these
tools.
And there are other laboratories that
have that do this as well.
So let's talk about the stress response
and by doing that you will understand
exactly why the tools I'm going to give
you work. For those of you that are
saying, "Wait, I just want the tools.
Just give me a summary."
Trust me, if you understand mechanism,
you are going to be in a far better
position to incorporate these tools, to
teach these tools to others, and to
modify them as your life circumstances
change. If you'd like the cheat sheet or
you just want the one-page PDF,
eventually we'll get that stuff out to
people, but it's really important to
understand the underlying mechanism.
Okay, so what is stress? Well, let's
just distinguish between stressors,
which are the things that stress us out
and stress, which is the psychological
and physiological response to stressors.
I'm mainly going to talk about stress,
which is your response to things.
Let's be clear about what we already
know, which is that
stressors can be psychological
or they can be physical.
Okay? If I put you outside on a cold day
without a jacket for a very long time,
that is stressful.
If I have you prepare for too many exams
at once and you can't balance it all
with your sleep schedule and your other
needs for comfort and well-being like
food, rest, sleep, and social
connection, that is stressful.
So, stress, and as I mentioned before,
is generic. It doesn't distinguish
between
physical and emotional stress. So, what
happens when the stress response hits?
Let's talk about the immediate or what
we call the acute stress response. We
could also think of this as short-term
stress.
So,
you have a collection of neurons. They
have a name. It's called the sympathetic
chain ganglia, and it has nothing to do
with sympathy. Sympa means together, and
there is a group of neurons that start
right about at your neck and run down to
about your navel, a little bit lower,
and those are called the sympathetic
chain ganglia. You don't need to
memorize that name. There will not be a
quiz, but it's important to know that in
the middle of your body, you have a
chain of neurons that when something
stresses us out either in our mind or
because something enters our environment
and we see something that stresses us
out that we don't like heights if you're
afraid of heights, somebody you dislike
walks into the room, et cetera,
that chain of neurons becomes activated
like a bunch of dominoes falling
all at once. It's very fast.
When that happens, those neurons release
a neuromodulator, a neurochemical that
I've talked about before on this podcast
called acetylcholine. They release that
at various sites within the body.
Now, this is important because normally
acetylcholine would be used to move
muscles. Actually, every time we move a
muscle, pick up a cup of coffee, write
with a pen, walk down the street, it's
spinal neurons connecting to muscle and
releasing acetylcholine. So, in the
brain, it's involved in focus, and in
muscles, it's involved in making muscles
twitch. But, what if we were stressed,
we wouldn't want all our muscles to
contract at once because we would just
be kind of like paralyzed like this. You
know, in in what tonic activation is
it's called. We wouldn't want that.
Something they call tetanus, believe it
or not, because the tetanus toxin will
cause that kind of rigor of the of the
entire body. You do not want that.
When those neurons are activated,
acetylcholine is released, but there's
some other neurons for the aficionados
out there, they're called the
postganglionic neurons. Those ones
respond to that acetylcholine, and then
they release epinephrine, which is the
equivalent to adrenaline.
So, we have this system where it's very
fast. Whenever we're stressed, the core
of our body, these neurons down the
middle of our body, release these
chemicals, and then there's adrenaline
or epinephrine
released at particular organs and acts
in particular ways. We're going down
into the weeds here, so just stay with
me cuz it's going to make a lot of
sense, and you will appreciate having
this knowledge in hand. That epinephrine
acts in two different ways.
Some things like the muscles of your
legs and your heart and other things
that need to be active when you're
stressed,
they have a certain kind of receptor
which is called the
beta receptor. And that beta receptor
responds to epinephrine, and blood
vessels dilate, they get bigger, and
blood rushes into our legs. The heart
rate speeds up. Lots of things happen
that get activated. And at the same
time, that epinephrine activates other
receptors
on certain tissues that we don't need,
the ones involved in digestion,
reproduction, and things of that sort
that are luxuries
for when things are going well, not
things to pay attention to when we're
stressed, and that binds to other
receptors that contract the blood
vessels. So, basically, the stress
response, this is the key phrase here,
the stress response A is generic, I said
that before, and B,
it basically pushes certain systems to
be activated and other systems to not be
activated. So, the stress response is
two-pronged. It It's a yes for certain
things, and it's a no, you may not right
now for other things. So, that's the key
thing to understand about the stress
response. That's why your heart speeds
up. That's why you feel blood in certain
organs and tissues of your body, but not
in others. That's why your throat goes
dry, because it turns out that when you
get stressed, the salivary glands are
shut down. There's a lot less blood flow
to the neurons that control salivation,
and so, you're going to start
swallowing. You feel like your throat is
getting dry. There are a lot of
different effects. I'm not going to list
them all off, but basically, you are
activated in ways that support you
moving. So, that's the third thing. It's
First of all, it's generic. Second of
all, the stress response activates
certain things and shuts down other
features of our body, and then, it's a
sense of agitation that makes you want
to move. And that's because,
fundamentally, the stress response is
just this generic thing that says,
"Do something." And movement in this
case can either be the bias to move in
terms of action, or it can be the bias
to say something. When we are stressed,
we are more likely to say something that
probably we shouldn't say. We are more
likely to move, and if you're trying to
suppress movement, you'll feel that as a
tremor. You're going to feel agitated,
and that's because it was designed to
move you.
So, this is important because if you
want to control stress, you need to
learn how to work with that agitation.
I'd like to give you a tool at this
point because
I think if we go any further with a lot
more science, people are going to begin
to wonder if this is just going to be a
kind of standard university lecture
about the stress response. I'm going to
give you more science about the stress
response, but I want to take what we now
already know about the stress response
and use that
as a framework for thinking about
how one might reduce or even eliminate
the stress response quickly in real time
should it arise when we don't want it.
So, we're taking the podium or we're
sitting down at a Zoom call
and all of a sudden we're feeling
flushed. We're feeling like our heart is
racing. We're feeling a little too
alert. We're feeling a little worked up
and we want to calm down.
As far as I am aware of
the best tools to reduce stress quickly
so-called real-time tools are going to
be tools that have a direct line to the
so-called autonomic nervous system. The
autonomic nervous system is a a name
given to
the kind of general features of
alertness or calmness in the body. It's
typically it means automatic, although
we do have some control over it at
certain what so-called levers or entry
points.
Here's what doesn't work to control
stress.
Telling yourself to calm down. In fact,
that tends to just exacerbate stress.
Telling someone else to calm down also
tends to exacerbate their stress.
If you want to reduce the magnitude of
the stress response
the best thing you can do is activate
the other system in the body which is
designed for calming and relaxation.
And that system is called the
parasympathetic nervous system because
as I mentioned before, the neurons that
control stress run from about your neck
to your navel.
The parasympathetic neurons, para just
means near, exist in they are the some
of the cranial nerves. So, it's kind of
let neck and lower brain stem, kind of
back of the brain and in the neck, and
in the pelvic area.
And the parasympathetic nervous system
is really
because especially the cranial nerves,
the ones that are up in the brain stem
and in the neck area, those have a
direct line to various features of your
face, in particular the eyes. They
control things like eye movements, pupil
dilation,
things of that sort, as well as the
tongue, the facial muscles, et cetera.
The parasympathetic nervous system, many
people don't realize this, is the system
by which we control the face and the
eyes and to some extent our airway, the
trachea.
And it's these neurons that reside
within the pelvic area. Now, the neurons
within the pelvic area are involved in
control of
the genitals, the bladder, and the
rectum. And those don't have a direct
line. You don't have a direct way to
control those. It actually has to go
from brain to spinal cord and then out
to those organs. Whereas the
parasympathetic nervous system has
certain entry points or what I'll call
levers, right? That will allow you to
push back on the stress response in real
time and diminish it and feel more
relaxed really quickly. So, I'm going to
teach you the first tool now so I don't
overwhelm you with all this academic
knowledge without giving you something
useful.
And the tool that at least to my
knowledge is the fastest and most
thoroughly grounded in physiology and
neuroscience for calming down in a
self-directed way is what's called the
physiological sigh. S I G H. Now, some
of you might have heard me talk about
this on previous podcast, but I'm going
to explain this in the context of how
respiration in general is used to calm
us down. It turns out you're all doing
this all the time, but you are doing it
involuntarily. And when you stress, you
tend to forget that you can also
activate these systems voluntarily. This
is an extremely powerful set of
techniques that we know from
scientific studies that have being done
in my lab, Jack Feldman's lab at UCLA,
and others now
that are very, very useful for reducing
your stress response in real time.
And here's how they work. These days
there seems to be a lot of interest in
breath work. Breath work typically is
when you go and you sit down or you lie
down and you deliberately breathe in a
particular way for a series of minutes
in order to shift your physiology,
access some states, and it does have
some utility that we're going to talk
about. That is not what I'm talking
about now.
What I'm talking about when I refer to
physiological size is the very real
medical school textbook relationship
between the brain,
the body,
and the body as it relates to the
breathing apparatus, meaning the
diaphragm and lungs, and the heart.
Let's take the hallmark of the stress
response. The heart starts beating
faster. Blood is shuttled to the big
muscles of the body to move move you
away from whatever it is the stressor is
or just make you feel like you need to
move or talk. Your face goes flushed,
etc.
Heart rate, many of us feel is
involuntary. Just kind of functions
whether or not we're moving fast or
moving slow. If you think about it, it's
not really
purely autonomic because you can speed
up your heart rate by running or you can
slow it down by slowing down by
your run. You can move to a walk or lie
down, but that's indirect control.
There is, however, a way in which you
can breathe that directly controls your
heart rate through
the interactions between the sympathetic
and the parasympathetic nervous system.
Here's how it works.
When you inhale,
so whether or not it's through the nose
or through the mouth,
this skeletal muscle that's inside your
body, called the diaphragm,
it moves down and that's because the
lungs expand, the diaphragm moves down.
Your heart actually gets a little bit
bigger in that expanded space. There's
more space for the heart. So I'm not
talking about your emotional heart
getting bigger. I'm talking about your
actual physical heart getting a little
bit bigger. The volume grows. And as a
consequence, whatever blood is in there
is now at a lower volume or moving a
little bit more slowly in that larger
volume than it was a before you inhaled.
Okay? So, more space, heart gets bigger,
blood moves more slowly, and there's a
little group of neurons called the
sinoatrial node in the heart
that registers its pay Believe it or
not, those neurons pay attention to the
rate of blood flow through the heart and
send a signal up to the brain that blood
is moving more slowly through the heart.
The brain then sends a signal back to
the heart to speed the heart up. So,
what this means is if you want your
heart to beat faster inhale longer
inhale
more vigorously
than your exhales.
Now, there are a variety of ways that
one could do that, but it doesn't matter
if it's through the nose or through the
mouth. If your inhales are longer than
your exhales, you're speeding up your
heart.
If your inhales are more vigorous, so
even if your inhales are shorter than
your exhales, you are speeding up your
heart rate.
Now, the opposite is also true. If you
want to slow your heart rate down, so
stress response hits, you want to slow
your heart rate down.
What you want to do is again capitalize
on this relationship between the body,
meaning the diaphragm and the heart, and
the brain. Here's how it works. When you
exhale
the diaphragm moves up, which makes the
heart a little bit smaller. It actually
gets a little more compact. Blood flows
more quickly through that compact space,
sort of like a just a pipe getting
smaller.
The sinoatrial node registers that blood
is going more quickly, sends a signal up
to the brain, and the parasympathetic
nervous system, some neurons in your
brainstem, send a signal back to the
heart to slow the heart down.
So, if you want to calm down quickly,
you need to make your exhales longer
and or more vigorous than your inhales.
Now, the reason this is so attractive as
a tool for controlling stress is that
it works in real time. This doesn't
involve a practice that you have to go
and sit there and do anything separate
from life. And we are going to get to
emotion emotions and stress happen in
real time. And so while it's wonderful
to have a breathwork practice or to have
the opportunity to get a massage or sit
in a sauna or do whatever it is that you
do in order to set your stress controls
in the right direction, having tools
that you can reach to in real time that
require no learning. I mean, I had to
teach it to you. You had to learn that,
but it doesn't require any plasticity to
activate these pathways. So if you're
feeling stressed, you still need to
inhale of course, but you need to
lengthen your exhales.
Now,
there's a tool that capitalizes on this
in a kind of unique way, a kind of a
twist, which is the physiological sigh.
The physiological sigh was discovered in
the '30s. It's now been explored at the
neurobiological level and
mechanistically in far more detail by
Jack Feldman's lab at UCLA, also Mark
Krasnow's lab at Stanford.
And
the physiological sigh is something that
humans and animals do anytime they are
about to fall asleep.
You also do it throughout sleep from
time to time when carbon dioxide, which
we'll talk about in a moment, builds up
too much in your system.
And the physiological sigh is something
that people naturally start doing when
they've been crying and they're trying
to recover some air or calm down
when they've been sobbing very hard or
when they are in claustrophobic
environments. However,
the amazing thing about this thing that
we call the diaphragm, the skeletal
muscle, is that it's an internal organ
that you can control voluntarily, unlike
your spleen or your heart or your
your pancreas where you can't just say,
"Oh, I want to make my pancreas turn out
a little more insulin right now. I'm
just going to do that with my mind
directly." You can't do that. You could
do that by smelling a really good donut
or something, but you can't just do it
directly.
You can move your diaphragm
intentionally, right? You can do it
anytime you want and it'll run
in the background if you're not thinking
about it. So, this incredible pathway
that goes from brain to diaphragm
through what's called the phrenic nerve,
p h r e n i c phrenic. The phrenic nerve
innervates the diaphragm. You can
control anytime you want. You can double
up your inhales or triple up your
inhales. You can exhale more than your
inhales. Whatever you want to do.
Such an incredible organ and the
physiological sigh is something that we
do spontaneously, but when you're
feeling stressed, you can do a double
inhale.
Long exhale. Now, I just told you a
minute ago that if you inhale more than
you exhale, you're going to speed the
heart rate up, which would promote more
stress and activation. Now, I'm telling
you to do a double inhale exhale in
order to calm down. And the reason is
the double inhale exhale, which is the
physiological sigh,
takes advantage of the fact that when we
do a double inhale, even if the second
inhale is sneaking in just a tiny bit
more air, cuz it's kind of hard to get
two deep inhales back to back. You do
big deep inhale and then another little
one sneaking it in. The little sacs in
your lungs, the alveoli of the lungs.
Your lungs aren't just two big bags, but
you got millions of little sacs
throughout the the lungs that actually
make the surface area of your lungs as
big as a tennis court. It's amazing. If
we were to just spread that out, what
those tend to collapse
as we get stressed and carbon di- carbon
dioxide builds up in our bloodstream and
that's one of the reasons we feel
agitated as well. So, and it makes us
very jittery. I mean, there's some other
effects of carbon dioxide I don't want
to get into, but when you do the double
inhale exhale, the double inhale
reinflates those little sacs of the
lungs and then when you do the long
exhale,
that long exhale is now much more
effective at ridding your body and
bloodstream of carbon dioxide, which
relaxes you very quickly. My lab, in
collaboration with David Spiegel's lab,
David's the associate chair of
psychiatry at Stanford, are doing a
study right now exploring how
physiological sighs and other patterns
of breathing done deliberately can
modulate the stress response and other
things related to emotionality. Those
work are ongoing. I want to be clear
those studies aren't done. But it's very
clear
from work in our labs, from work in Jack
Feldman's lab, and others that the
physiological sigh is the fastest
hardwired way for us to eliminate this
stressful response in our body quickly
in real time. And so, I'm excited to
give you this tool because I think most
people have heard that mindfulness and
meditation is good, exercise is good for
us, we all need to be getting enough
sleep, etc. But life happens. And when
you find yourself in a position where
you are more alert and activated than
you would like to be, regardless of
whether or not the stressor is
relationship-based, or it's financial,
or it's physical, or anything like that,
you can look to the physiological sigh
because it bypasses
a very important feature of how we
function, which is that it's very hard
to control the mind with the mind,
especially
when we are in heightened states of
activation. When we are very alert or
very sleepy, it is very hard to use the
so-called top-down mechanisms of
intention and gratitude and all these
things that are really powerful tools
when we are not super activated and
stressed, or not super tired. But when
we are anywhere in the range of very
alert and stressed to very sleepy,
physiological sighs are a powerful way
of bringing our level of so-called
autonomic activation, which just means
our level of alertness, down. And so,
whether or not it's in line at the bank,
or or or not you're wearing a mask
nowadays, or you're not. Whatever I
don't you know, whatever the conditions
may be where you're at and your needs
when you're feeling stressed the
physiological sigh done just one to
three times. So, it'll be double inhale,
exhale, double inhale, exhale, maybe
just two times will bring down your
level of
stress very, very fast. And as far as I
know, it's the fastest way to accomplish
that.
An important note about the
physiological sigh or exhale emphasized
breathing for lowering the stress
response.
Many people
worry that their heart rate does not
come down fast enough.
I want to tell you you do not want your
heart rate to reduce very fast. There's
actually something called the vasovagal
response where people will stand up or
they'll get up in the middle of the
night to use the bathroom and then all
of a sudden they'll collapse, they'll
faint.
That's because the heart rate was
reduced too much. Some people will see
blood or they'll see something really
troubling
and stressful and they'll pass out.
That's an over activation
or an acceleration of the calming
response. They're not so stressed that
they kind of fall off the cliff of
stress.
They get so stressed that the rebound
mechanism for calming themselves down
goes too high, too fast. They calm down
too fast and they collapse and faint.
And so, be aware that if you're going to
use the physiological sigh or exhale
emphasized breathing to calm down
that your heart rate will take about 20
to 30 seconds to come down to baseline.
And you may need to repeat the
physiological sigh a few times. So,
that's an important
note about the use of breathing to
control levels of stress.
The other thing is that
when you decide to look to the body to
control the mind
it does something else that's very
powerful. When you are stressed in your
mind and body, so you're feeling really
agitated, activated, and worried
and you use a tool like the
physiological sigh or exhale emphasized
breathing
you will notice that then your brain and
your mind becomes more available for
controlling the stress response and
reacting to it, which is great because
the the sweet spot in life is to be
provided you're not trying to sleep is
to be alert and calm. And so that's the
idea is to be alert and calm and to
bring you back into that sort of plane
of alertness.
For those of you that have trouble
sleeping or just relaxing through the
day, the physiological sigh can be
repeated for 10 15 cycles if you like.
Some people find that it actually puts
them to sleep. So if they lie down and
they're reading and they do too many of
these that actually can put them to
sleep. And what you'll find is that most
breath work protocols, the kind of stuff
that's done away from real life that you
set aside time and decide to do quote
unquote breath work,
most of that works such that if you're
in doing inhales that are longer and
more vigorous than exhales, it tends to
be activating and alert you. If you're
doing exhales that are longer and more
vigorous than the inhales, it tends to
put you to sleep. And many of the
protocols that are out there from
laboratories and that are on you know,
populate the internet and wellness sites
and whatnot, if it's exhale emphasized
breathing, often times it's been used as
a tool for trying to teach people to
fall asleep. Physiological sigh is a
little different. It's designed to be
used in real time. Just think of it is
just kind of in your kit of things that
you can do as life uh happens and as you
need to react to life.
A note about nasal versus mouth
breathing. There's a plethora of
information out there now
because of James Nestor's book Breath,
the new science of a lost art, um which
came out this last year, excellent book,
as well as Jaws, which is from uh Sandra
Kahn, Paul Ehrlich with a forward by uh
Jared Diamond and Robert Sapolsky, um so
a collection of people from Stanford,
Jared Diamond's not at Stanford, but the
rest are, and um some heavy hitters on
that book, which is about the the
benefits of of nasal breathing. And in
many cases nasal breathing is more
advantageous than mouth breathing for
all sorts of things, cosmetic features
of the face, especially in kids,
um warding off infection, etc.
With the physiological sigh, the best
way to do it would be double inhale
through the nose, exhale through the
mouth, but if you can't and you can only
do that through your mouth, just do it
through your mouth. If you do want to do
it all through your nose, do it through
your nose.
This anchors back to some underlying
neurology or neuro- neuroscience.
Um so, for those of you that want to
know, you have two breathing centers,
one that's involved in rhythmic
breathing for inhales followed by
exhales followed by inhales followed by
exhales, the so-called pre-Bötzinger
nucleus, named after a bottle of wine
and discovered by Jack Feldman at UCLA,
and a nearby nucleus called the
parafacial nucleus, also discovered by
Jack Feldman at UCLA. And the parafacial
nucleus is involved in anytime you
double up the inhales or double up the
exhales. It was designed so that you
could could breathe while you're
speaking, because you can't always go
inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale when
you're speaking. So, I tell you this not
to overwhelm you with knowledge, but
just know that when you double up your
inhales or you double up your exhales,
you're activating this parafacial
nucleus, and it has other cool effects.
Because it's located near the neurons
that control the face, it also has a
tendency to relax the jaw. There's some
interplay between the neurons that
control the speaking stuff and the stuff
for your tongue. So, all of a sudden
when we do this physiological sigh, we
tap into neural circuitry that allows us
to speak more clearly,
to control the muscles of the face and
jaw. Maybe that means not saying certain
things when we're stressed.
And just generally to relax.
And so, this brings us back to the
neuroscience of this parasympathetic
nervous system, this calming system in
that's been genetically encoded into us
that we all have regardless of who our
parents are, which is that the neurons
that control all this stuff, the face,
the eyes, etc.,
are all working together.
And that's why when we get stressed,
it's hard for us to speak or we tend to
jitter and these kinds of things. Just
like all the neurons that cause stress
in the center of the spinal cord are
working together to get our body
activated.
Okay, a lot of science today. You've now
got the physiological sigh as a tool.
You know that exhale emphasized
breathing will slow your heart down and
inhale emphasized breathing will speed
your heart up. So, let's think about
something now. Let's think about stress
from not whether or not it's acute or
chronic, whether or not it's good for us
or bad for us, but on three different
time scales because then we can arrive
at what this is all about as it relates
to emotions because trust me, this has
everything to do with emotions and
whether or not you're functioning well
emotionally or you're not functioning
well emotionally, whether or not you're
coping or not coping. So, those are
typically psychological terms and
psychological discussions. We are
entering this through the portal of
physiology, the stuff of medical
textbooks, and we will arrive at the
psychology soon, but I really want you
to understand the difference between the
three kinds of stress on three different
time scales, short-term, medium-term,
and long-term, and what it's good for
and what it's bad for. I think we've all
heard that stress is bad for us. We've
seen these
pictures intended to frighten us and
indeed they are frightening. You see the
nice, really plump brain on the left
that says healthy or control and then
you
see the brain that says stressed above
it on the right and then it's like
withered or we see that the hippocampus,
an area involved in memory, is smaller
people that are stressed. We see that
the Alzheimer's brain is made worse by
stress, that people who have a
predisposition to schizophrenia when
they get stressed, higher incidence of
schizophrenic episodes.
You hear that addicts will relapse when
they're stressed. I mean, okay, we get
it.
And it's very important, but I think
we've all heard now so many times that
stress is bad,
but in that conversation, unfortunately,
it's eclipsed some of the really
positive things that stress does for us
in the short-term.
So, stress can be short-term,
medium-term, or long-term. Long-term
stress is indeed bad for all the reasons
I just mentioned and many others.
But, what's never actually been
discussed is
what stress is so terrific for, positive
for
in the short-term and
I think we tend to overlook the
important question, which is what is
short-term and what is long-term. No one
ever bothers to tell us what is chronic,
what is acute, right? Is it 5 minutes?
Is it 5 days? Is it for the duration of
final exams or is it for the duration of
a senior thesis in college? No one No
one actually draws boundaries around the
stuff or even general guidelines. And
so,
it's become a bit of a mess, frankly, to
try and decipher this whole space around
stress. So, I'm going to try and clean
some of this up for you based on what we
know from the scientific data.
First of all,
acute stress, when the stress response
hits, that is good for your immune
system. I know that might be a tough
pill to swallow, but it's absolutely
true.
In fact,
stress often comes in the form of
bacterial or viral infection.
And the stress response
is in part organized to combat bacterial
and viral infection. There are pathways
from the same brain centers that
activate these uh neurons in your in
your spinal cord to make you feel like
you want to move.
There are other neurons in your brain
that activate things like your spleen,
which will deploy killer cells to go out
and scavenge for incoming bacteria and
viruses and try and
eat them up and kill them.
So, short-term stress
and the release of adrenaline in
particular or epinephrine, same thing,
adrenaline, epinephrine, is good for
combating
infection.
And this to me is just not discussed
enough, so that's why I'm discussing it
here. And it relates to a particular
tool that many of you ask about,
but
I don't often get the opportunity to
talk about in such an appropriate
context. It's not that it's ever
inappropriate to talk about, but what
I'm about to talk about now is the use
of, again, respiration, breathing,
to
somewhat artificially activate the
stress response, and that will
accomplish two things, okay? I'll return
to medium and long-term stress, but I
want to say short-term stress is good
because the dilation of the pupils, the
changes in the optics of the eyes, the
quickening of the heart rate, the
sharpening of your cognition, and in
fact, that short-term stress brings
certain elements of the brain online
that allow you to focus. Now, it narrows
your focus. You're not good at seeing
the so-called big picture, but it
narrows your focus. It allows you to do
these what I call duration path outcome
types of analysis. It allows you to
evaluate your environment, evaluate what
you need to do. It primes your whole
system for better cognition.
It primes your immune system to combat
infection, and that all makes sense when
you think about the fact that famine,
thirst,
bacterial infections, viral infections,
invaders, all of this stuff liberates a
response in the body that's designed to
get you to fight back about against
whatever stressor that happens to be,
psychological, physical, bacterial,
viral. Again, the stress response is
generic.
The tool
takes advantage of the fact that when
adrenaline is released in the body
from the adrenals, it has the effect of
also liberating a lot of these killer
cells from the immune organs,
in particular from the spleen, but from
elsewhere as well, and interactions with
the lymphatic system, that combat
infection.
The way this works in the real world is
best captured by a study that can be
mapped back to so-called Wim Hof
breathing. Now, Wim Hof breathing is so
named after the so-called Iceman Wim
Hof.
Wim, of course, being this uh Dutch he I
think he his self-titled daredevil. And
indeed, he has many, many Guinness uh
Book of World Records for things like
swimming under icebergs and going up
Kilimanjaro in his shorts and um
crossing the desert um you know, without
water, etc. Things that um are quite
dangerous if you don't know what you're
doing. Um and Wim obviously uh survived
or I'm telling you he survived.
But, there are two components to a sort
of breathing protocol that he developed
that was based also on what's called
tummo breathing, t u m m o. So, before
Wim, there was tummo breathing. And many
people call this now super oxygenation
breathing, although the breath work
aficionados will probably say, "Well,
it's not super oxygenation cuz you're
also blowing a lot awful lot of carbon
dioxide." What I'm talking about here,
regardless of whether or not it's called
Wim Hof, tummo, or super oxygenation, is
rapid,
deliberate breathing. So, it's
deliberate hyperventilation.
Why would somebody want to do this?
Well,
deliberate hyperventilation done for
maybe 25 cycles. So, inhale, exhale,
inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale.
Typically, it's done in through the
nose, out through the mouth, although
sometimes it's um just through the
mouth. If you do that
for
15 breaths, 20 breaths, 25 breaths, you
will feel very alert. People who have
anxiety will feel anxious. They might
even have an anxiety attack.
However,
we need to ask why that kind of
breathing feels that way. And it's
because that pattern of breathing, rapid
movements of the diaphragm,
will liberate adrenaline from the
adrenals. So, it's the release of
adrenaline.
I mentioned that Wim is also called the
Iceman. Well, that's because he actually
discovered this pattern of breathing
somewhat.
And again, it maps back to tummo
breathing
by going into cold water. When you go
cold water, that too is a stressor and
you liberate adrenaline in response to
cold water. So, if you get into an ice
bath or a cold shower, you will
immediately release adrenaline from your
adrenals.
Now, there are all sorts of things
related to this about psychological
control and stress thresholds that we'll
talk about. But, I really want people to
understand that when adrenaline is
released in the body, you are in a
better position to combat infections.
And so, whether or not you breathe very
quickly in these cycles of 25 breaths,
and regardless of what you call it,
doesn't matter, adrenaline is released.
If you take a cold shower, adrenaline is
released. If you go into an ice bath
deliberately, and
even if you do it non-deliberately,
adrenaline is released. You are
mimicking the stress response, and that
adrenaline
serves to suppress
or combat
incoming infections. And this was
beautifully shown in a study that was
published in a very fine journal, the
Proceedings of the National Academy of
Sciences for the US.
It's literally called Proceedings of the
National Academy USA to distinguish it
from other proceedings of other national
academies in other countries.
The way the experiment went is that
people were injected with endotoxin
or in some cases they were injected with
with a bacterial wall that mimics
infection. It It gives you a fever. It
makes you feel nauseous. It makes you
feel sick. It is not pleasant.
Half of the people did a particular
pattern of breathing that looked very
much like the pattern of breathing I
described a moment ago of doing 25 deep
inhales and exhales followed by an an
exhale holding their breath, then
repeating 25 inhales, exhales,
holding their breath. So, this would
look something like this, or if you're
listening, it sounds like
25, 30 times you'll start feeling heated
up. You'll start feeling the adrenaline
response. You're liberating adrenaline
in your body, then exhale, hold your
breath for 15 seconds,
and then repeat. And then typically
after doing three or four rounds of
that, they would inhale very deeply and
hold their breath. Now, I want to
emphasize, never ever ever do this
anywhere near water. People have passed
out.
So-called shallow water blackout, people
have died. Don't do it in the bathtub,
do it in the hot tub, don't do it before
swimming. Please don't do it anywhere
near water. Please don't do it at all
unless you get clearance to do it from
your doctor because there are some
pulmonary effects and whatnot. And the
breath holds should definitely not be
done by anyone that has glaucoma or
pressure uh you know, concerns for the
eyes. But these repeated
cycles of breathing that liberate
adrenaline
allowed the group that did that protocol
to essentially experience zero symptoms
from the injection of this E. coli,
which is remarkable. They had much
reduced or no symptoms. They didn't feel
feverish, they didn't feel sick, they
weren't vomiting, no diarrhea, which is
remarkable but makes total sense when
you think about the fact that the
short-term stress response that what's
typically called the acute stress
response, is designed to combat all
stressors.
In fact, were you to cut yourself
very deeply while out on a hike in the
woods, the other thing that would happen
is that there would be a rapid
inflammation response.
And we always hear inflammation is bad,
inflammation gives us Alzheimer's,
inflammation is the worst thing. But the
swelling is associated, the inflammation
is associated with the recruitment of
things like macrophages or microglia if
it's a neural tissue. Cells in our brain
and body whose job is to act like little
ambulances and rush to that site and
clean it up. And indeed, the
inflammation response looks horrible, it
sounds horrible, but it's a great thing
in the short-term. You want to have that
tissue marked as in trouble and you want
the body and brain to react to it.
So, if you're getting peaks in stress
from time to time throughout your day or
throughout your week, you are in a
better position to combat infection. You
are in a better position to heal your
wounds, physical wounds.
Many great things happen in the stress
response. Now, of course, the stress
response isn't always super intense.
Sometimes it's milder. Sometimes it
allows us to just focus on something cuz
we have a deadline. That can feel
stressful, but that's one of the reasons
you procrastinators out there, people
always ask me, "What can be done for
procrastination?"
What can be done for procrastination is
you can understand what's happening,
which is that you are self-imposing
stress because stress acts like a drug.
It is a powerful nootropic. I get asked
about nootropics. The most powerful
nootropic or smart drug is stress. It's
the concern of failure. It's the desire
to do well. It's the impending deadline.
It's the oh my gosh, I have to do this
thing now or I'm going to fail. That is
the best nootropic you will ever find.
That combined with a good night's sleep,
which we'll talk about. But, we spent a
whole month on sleep, so I don't want to
backtrack too much.
Okay? So, short-term stress, great. The
key is to be able to turn the stress
response off when you're done, when you
don't want that. In fact,
let's just really tamp down the
relationship between the short-term or
acute stress response and infection.
Many of us are familiar with the
experience of work, work, work, work,
work or taking care of a loved one or
stress, stress, stress, stress, stress,
then we finally relax. Maybe we even go
on vacation. Like, "Oh, now I'm finally
going to get the break." And then we get
sick.
And that's because the adrenaline
response crashed and your immune system
crashed with it.
So, please understand this. Now, many of
you might say, "Well, how long? Is it 2
hours? Is it 3 hours?" A lot of you out
there that really like specificity. It
will vary for everybody.
I would just kind of use a rule of
thumb. When you are no longer able to
achieve good sleep, what good sleep
means to you, and please see the
episodes on sleep if you want more about
tools to sleep. When you are no longer
able to achieve good sleep, you are now
moving from acute stress to chronic
stress. You need to be able to turn the
stress response off.
If I have one wish, well, I have many
wishes for this lifetime, but if I have
one wish today
that I hope will permeate
and spread out there is this idea that
we need from a young age, but even as
adults and forever, we need to learn how
to turn off our stress response.
Physiological sigh is one.
If we're going to activate our stress
response intentionally by ice baths,
cold showers, cyclic hyperoxygenated
breathing, aka Tummo breathing or Wim
Hof breathing,
we also need to learn how to press the
brake, okay? So, let's think about the
stress system. It knows how to activate
itself. Now we're talking about a way of
deliberately activating your stress
system
in order to combat infection. I do this
from time to time. I might feel a tickle
in my throat or like I'm getting kind of
run down.
I will do this kind of breathing. I do.
I will take 25 or 30 breaths, exhale,
hold my hold my breath. 25, 30 breaths
again, exhale, hold my breath for about
15 seconds.
25, 30 breaths again, exhale, hold my
breath for 25 or 30 seconds, then a big
inhale, and I hold my breath until I
feel the impulse to breathe.
Again, I feel it's safe for me. I've run
it by my doctor, so it's fine. I'm You
should not do this unless it's right for
you, but I do this. Some people like the
ice bath. I rarely do the ice bath. Some
people like cold showers. I like hot
showers. So, I take hot showers, but I
do this kind of breathing. Again, they
are all having more or less the same
effect
of increasing adrenaline and which
allows you to combat the
infection because you're activating the
immune response. Okay.
So, now let's talk about medium-term
stress. Medium-term stress is going to
be stress that lasts anywhere from
several days to several weeks. Okay? We
might think of that as long-term stress.
There are times in life when we are just
dealing with a lot, okay? This
particular quarter I happen to be
directing a course, I'm doing the lab,
I'm doing this. I enjoy all these things
immensely, but I'm kind of near my
threshold. I'm I'm near the point where
any additional thing, like I couldn't
log on to a website the other day and I
it felt like the most intense thing in
the world at that moment and I kind of
laughed at myself. Fortunately, I caught
it, but that typically wouldn't be my
response under conditions where I wasn't
pushed to threshold. What is this
medium-term stress? What is stress
threshold? Well,
stress threshold is actually our ability
to cognitive ly regulate what's going on
in our body. So, we've all heard so much
about we need to unify our mind and
body. We need to be at one with our mind
and body or you know, and now I I
realize I'm kind of poking fun at some
of the new age-y language, but the
reason I poke fun is not because I don't
think it has value, but it has no
specificity. What does that mean? I
mean, I think I'm always in the my body.
I've never fortunately looked across the
room and seen my arm over there or my
leg over there. I'm connected to my
body. There actually is a syndrome where
people feel disconnected from their
limbs. This is a real clinical
condition. These people actually will
seek out amputation. They will try and
convince doctors to amputate certain
portions of their body. It's a really
terrible thing for people to have um
and it relates to a a
change in central maps in the brain,
believe it or not. Most of us want to
keep our limbs
um whichever ones we happen to have and
most of us feel one in mind and body so
much so that when stress hits, we feel
it in our mind and body. A lot of stress
inoculation,
a lot of managing medium-term stress on
the on the time scale of weeks or maybe
even a couple months. So, we're not
talking about years of stress.
A lot of that has to do with raising our
stress threshold. It's about capacity.
And there are very simple tools,
excellent tools that will allow us to
modulate our
capacity for stress. And they look a lot
like the tools I just described.
They involve placing oneself
deliberately into a situation where our
adrenaline is increased somewhat, not to
the extreme,
and then when we are feel flooded with
adrenaline,
and normally we would panic, it's about
cognitively, mentally, emotionally
calming ourselves and being comfortable
with that response in our body. So,
unlike trying to unify the mind and body
and make it all calm or make it all
alert, this is about dissociating mind
and body in a healthy way. And what
would this look like? Well, this is
something I actually do as a practice
because
I mentioned before you can use
physiological sighs. In real time, you
can use
the cyclic hyperoxygenation breathing to
combat infection if you're feeling kind
of run down.
And
there's also way in which you can use
things like
cold showers or if you exercise and you
bring your heart rate up very high, you
kind of go into that high intensity
realm where your heart is beating a
little bit harder than you're
comfortable with.
And that you're or you're just you feel
uh some people think it's lactic acid.
No one can agree on this whether what
the burn is by whether it's lactic acid
or it's built up of hydrogen or
whatever. I don't want to get into that,
but we're all familiar with the intense
feeling of of your muscles kind of
burning because you're you're working
very hard physically.
The key in those moments is to learn to
relax the mind while the body is very
activated. And what that tends to do,
there's a limited amount of research on
this, but what that tends to do is it
tends to create a situation where what
once felt like a lot feels manageable.
Okay, you've raised your stress
threshold or your stress capacity.
One way that you can do this, and this
is kind of fun, if it's approved by your
physician and you're able to do this,
you can bring your heart rate up. You
could do this through an ice bath if
that's your thing or a cold shower or
cyclic oxygenation breathing where you
could sprint or you could go hard on the
bike.
Whatever it is that brings your heart
rate up.
And then what you want to do is you want
to actually try and calm the mind while
your body is in this heightened state of
activation.
And the best way that I'm aware to do
that again goes back to physiology not
psychology.
When we are stressed, our pupils dilate.
The effect of that pupil dilation is to
create tunnel vision. It literally
narrows our view of the visual world. We
no longer see in panorama.
And there's some other effects as well,
but that's because the visual system
through this cranial nerve system that I
described before is tethered and is part
of this autonomic nervous system.
By deliberately dilating your gaze,
meaning not moving your head and eyes
around, but by deliberately going from
tunnel vision
to broader panoramic vision, literally
seeing more of your environment all at
once. You don't have to do what I'm
doing which is not blinking. You're
welcome to blink.
But it means deliberately dilating your
gaze so that you can see yourself in the
environment you're in,
it creates a calming effect on the mind
because it releases a particular circuit
in the brain stem that's associated with
alertness, aka stress.
Now, this is very powerful. If you're
running for instance and you're at max
capacity or close to it where you're
kind of hitting like 80, 90% of maximum
on the bike and you dilate your gaze,
what you'll find is the mind can relax
while the body is in full output.
And this is relates to work that in
various communities people are are
working with this in the sports
community, military communities, etc.
But it's a form not really of stress
inoculation. It's more about raising
stress threshold so that the body is
going to continue to be in a high
alertness, high reactivity mode,
high output, but the mind is calm. And
so this isn't about unifying mind and
body. This is actually about using body
to bring up your level of activation
then dissociating, not the
clinical dissociation kind of disorders,
but dissociating the mental or emotional
response from what's going on in your
body and over time, so if you do this,
you know, a couple times, you don't have
to do this every workout, but if you do
this every maybe once a week or so, you
start being comfortable at these higher
activation states. What once felt
overwhelming and like a lot of work now
is
manageable. It feels tolerable. So,
that's for navigating medium-term
stress. Now, there are other tools as
well, but we don't want to go over 90
minutes cuz 90 minutes is one ultradian
cycle. I always try and keep these
podcasts to one ultradian cycle in case
you haven't noticed, so you can derive
maximum benefit from them
based on ultradian cycle principles of
learning.
So, I don't want to go into every little
bit of this and I want to make sure we
get to emotions, but I want to emphasize
that these medium-term stressors
of it's been a hard month or hard week
or it's
uh semesters on the quarter system, so
10 weeks or semester,
that is becomes more manageable when we
train ourselves to
be calm of mind when our body is
activated.
And
if you haven't noticed, most of the
tools I'm describing today are nothing
like the sort of, okay, sit and do
meditation. I'm not I'm actively
avoiding saying the words NSDR,
non-sleep deep rest. I talked a lot
about those tools during the months on
sleep and neuroplasticity and of course
they're wonderful for replenishing your
ability to lean into effort, to learn,
to focus. Please do try and check out
NSDR protocols, see if they're right for
you. The margins for safety I think are
enormous. You're basically just
listening to a script. We have links to
them in previous captions. I've talked
on them on various podcasts before. We
can provide them again, but today I'm
really talking about tools so that you
can learn to dance with stress
to
in the short term reduce that stress
response a little bit if you feel it's
too uncomfortable. In the medium term to
be comfortable at these heightened
levels of activation because life is
going to continue to come at you and we
can't pick the stressors, but we need to
be able to function at a higher capacity
often.
And then there's long-term stress. Now,
long-term stress is bad. You do not want
adrenaline up in your system for a very
long time. In fact, you you ideally you
would have your stress go up various
times throughout the day, but it would
never stay elevated and it would never
prevent you from getting a good night's
sleep. Now, that isn't realistic, okay?
I I would say
for me
three, four nights out of the month, no
matter what I do, I take on too much or
something happens and life is life and I
don't get the best night's sleep that I
would like to get.
For many of you, it's
30 nights per month. For some of you,
it's zero nights per month and
congratulations to you zero nights per
month people. If you are managing your
sleep really well every night, that is
fantastic.
You really want to be able to fall
asleep at night, stay asleep for most
night and if you get up, go back to
sleep for as long as you need to in
order to feel rested. That's what I
define as a healthy relationship to
sleep.
Check out the episodes on sleep if you
want tools to be able to accomplish
that. We can all accomplish that. It can
be done and there are tools to do it.
Zero cost tools.
Okay, so let's talk about long-term
stress.
Earlier I talked about how breathing
can modulate heart rate
through this loop that includes the
brain and the parasympathetic nervous
system.
I don't think I mentioned this and I
want to make sure that I mention that
breathing controlling heart rate through
the sympathetic and parasympathetic
nervous system is the basis of what's
called HRV, heart rate variability.
And we know that heart rate variability
is good. You don't want your heart rate
chronically elevated or chronically low.
A lot of people think, oh, I want a
really nice low heart rate. And indeed,
if you're in shape, the stroke volume of
your heart will be greater and you can
have a nice, you know, slow heart rate.
Um you know, years ago when I was
running regularly, uh you know, I think
my heart rate was down at like 50 or 60
or something like that. That's That's
great, but and now it's higher than that
because I'm running a little bit less,
but
everyone needs to determine what's right
for them, but you don't really want your
heart rate to be chronically low or
chronically high. Both are bad. We know
that chronic stress, elevated stress,
and especially in the so-called type A
personalities,
creates heart disease, leading killer of
for in most every country, but in
particular in the US.
Because of the way that adrenaline
impacts those blood vessels of
constricting and um some and dilating
others, it's just that kind of
hypertension, chronic hypertension, is
just bad. And so chronic stress truly is
bad. I want to really make that clear
because I I emphasized a lot of what
some of the positive effects of stress,
but you want to be able to tamp down
your stress in real time. You also want
to be able to modulate your stress and
your your emotional relationship to
stress in the body in the medium term,
but by no means do you want to be
stressed out all the time chronically
for months and months and months and
years on end.
The best tools, the best mechanisms that
we know to modulate long-term stress,
might surprise you a little bit.
First of all,
they're going to be the things that
don't surprise you, which is everyone
knows getting regular exercise, getting
good sleep,
um using real-time tools to try and tamp
down the stress response, etc. That's
all going to be really useful.
The data really points to the fact that
social connection and certain types of
social connection in particular are what
are going to mitigate or reduce
long-term stress. And this is a
particularly important issue nowadays
where we have all these proxies or
surrogates for social connection. You
know, we're online and texting with
people a lot, so we can feel connected.
You know, people are like the plane's
about to take off and everyone's texting
with each other, you know, they're
whether or not they have fear of flying
or not. They're like, "Okay, you know,
see you, love you, hate you." Whatever
it is that they're trying to communicate
to people.
Then, you know, plane lands, everyone's
phones out, see you, love you, hate you.
Let's hope it's fewer hate yous. But,
everyone has this kind of need to stay
connected to one another. Humans are
incredibly social creatures. Now, there
is a way to look at this whole business
of social connection, not from just the
kind of wishy-washy new-agey
perspective. And I want to point out
that sometimes I'll say wishy-washy
new-agey. I have nothing against that.
Uh I just uh my goal here is always to
put uh scientific data and some uh
neurochemistry on things, so that for
those of you that are into wishy-washy
new-agey stuff, you also can arm
yourself with some arguments for those
of you uh
the members of your family and your and
your life that maybe aren't um so tuned
into the typical language around those
practices. Like, "Oh, connection is
really key. We all get oxytocin."
Actually, did you know that connection
between individuals rarely causes the
release of oxytocin? Oxytocin is
released in very particular
circumstances, like
post-orgasm,
baby and mother milk let down. It's
associated with kind of really intense
kinds of pair bonding things of mother
and child. Also, father and child, but
especially mother and child because it's
relationship to the lactation system. Um
couples post-sex. Um these kinds of
things that were reflect deep kind of
layers of our biology. And oxytocin is
not just released when we, you know,
walk in and you know, pat the dog on the
head or we see somebody and we give them
a hug and hey, great to see you, you
know, fist bump. Uh that's not a
situation for oxytocin.
The way to think about social connection
and how it can mitigate
some of the long-term effects of stress
is really through the systems of
neuromodulation like serotonin
and
through in
blocking certain things that are really
bad for us when we feel socially
isolated, things like tachykinins. So,
let me explain what these are. Serotonin
again is a neuromodulator.
Neuromodulators are a little bit like
playlists in the brain. They tend to
amplify or bias the likelihood that
certain brain circuits and body circuits
are going to be activated and that
others will not. Serotonin generally,
and I'm I realize I'm speaking very
generally here, but it generally gives
us feelings of well-being. At very high
levels it makes us feel blissed
and it tends to make us feel like we
have enough in our immediate
environment. This is why some of the
side effects of antidepressants that
elevate serotonin and actually can help
a lot of people with depressive symptoms
but
the side effects associated with drugs
that increase serotonin tend to be
reduced affect. They tend to kind of
blunt affect or make people feel
um like their libido is lower. Desire
goes down because the body has so much
serotonin and the brain has so much
serotonin that one feels like they have
enough.
But serotonin
pharmacology aside or taking, you know,
antidepressants aside
a topic for another time
serotonin tends to make us feel good.
When we see somebody that we recognize
and trust, serotonin is released in the
brain.
And that has certain positive effects on
the immune system and on other systems
of neural repair and and synapses and
things that really reinforce connections
in the brain and prevent that long-term
withering of connections. So, serotonin
is tied to social connection. Now,
social connection can take many forms.
As many of you know, I am very attached
to my dog. I hope he's attached to me.
He's asleep most of the time, so I don't
know and even if he was awake, I don't
really know what I would ask him, but he
seems more or less to be attached to me
as well.
And there's
no scientific evidence that it has to be
human human attachment. I do have
attachments to humans as well. But you
can have attachments to other people.
Some of those can be romantic
attachments. Those could be familial
attachments that are non-romantic,
friendship, pets,
even attachments to things that just
delight us. One of the things that
really can mitigate against the
long-term negative effects of chronic
long-term stress isn't just having fun.
We hear all this stuff. You need to play
and have fun. That can be a little bit
of a tough concept, especially for the
hard-driving people or people that are
stressed. But having a sense of delight,
a sense of really enjoying something
that you see and engage in, witness, or
participate in, that is associated with
the serotonin system. And certainly play
is one of those things, social
connection of various forms. Those are
things to invest in. Some people might
say, "Well,
you know, nobody wants to be my friend
or nobody wants to engage socially
anymore."
I'll be the first to admit, social
connection and friendship and
relationships of all kinds to animals or
humans or inanimate objects takes work.
It takes investment. It takes time in
not needing everything to be exactly the
way you want it to be. I I have a friend
who struggles with this and often times
the conversations
just circle back to the fact that when
you want social connection, you often
have to be more flexible. You have to
eat on other people's schedules.
Sometimes you have to eat things you
don't necessarily want to eat the most
in that moment or stay up a little later
or wake up a little earlier. Social
connection is something that we work
for, but it is incredibly powerful. I
want to of course tip my
hat to um not it's only appropriate to
call him the great Robert Sapolsky, my
my colleague who I'm I'm fortunate uh
not to know at Stanford, of course has
talked about this quite a lot. So I I
want to acknowledge uh Robert's
incredible work and discussions around
this. You can look up those materials
online and his wonderful books.
But primates, and we are primates, we're
uh we're social species. And as Robert
has said many times before, never before
in
any primate history, but in particular
in human history, have we interacted
with so many strangers at a distance
when we are not really connected to
them. So, finding just a few people,
even one, or an animal, or something
that you delight in,
believe it or not, has very positive
effects on mitigating this long-term
stress, on improving various aspects of
our life as it relates to stress and
emotionality.
So, that's the social connection part.
The other thing is that social isolation
that goes too long is associated in
everything from flies, believe it or
not, to mice and humans with this
molecule tachykinin. Tachykinin
is a molecule that makes us more feel
fearful, paranoid, and
impairs our immune system. And so,
tachykinin is like this punish internal
punishment signal. It's like our body
and our brain telling us, "You're not
spending enough time with people that
you really trust. You're not spending
time doing things that you really
enjoy." And I often think about
tachykinin for myself, because I'm
pretty hard driving, I have a lot of
pursuits. I also have a lot of wonderful
people and an incredibly wonderful
bulldog in my life. But, there are times
when I can be so goal-directed and so in
motion and trying to accomplish
everything that I sometimes forget that
about tachykinin. And I like to remind
myself, so much so that I actually have
a little post-it above my desk that
says, "Tachykinin" to remind me that
tachykinin is this very sinister
molecule that starts being secreted when
we are not socially connected enough.
And this is why long meals with friends
or family, where there We'll talk about
phones in a moment, but where there's no
intrusions, or even if there are, just
feeling like we are connected suppresses
tachykinin.
And tachykinin is something you really
want to avoid, because chronic isolation
chronically high tachykinin
that's associated with long-term stress
really depletes so many good functions
of our brain and body and promote so
many bad ones including irritability,
paranoia, fear, etc. That is really
something to avoid. And so I want to
highlight tachykinin as something to
avoid. I don't want to completely
disregard oxytocin. It's just that
oxytocin has been built up a lot in the
media and really serotonin works on much
faster time scales. Now how do you know
if you're making serotonin? You don't
know in the moment but you can learn if
you pay attention to kind of recognize
these feelings of comfort, trust, bliss,
delight. And those are not weak terms.
Those are not associated just with uh
psychological terms. They are
they are every bit as physiological as
the movement of your muscles or the
secretion of adrenaline that and many
people focus now on gratitude. You know,
gratitude is a little bit subjective and
here we're moving from um some objective
objective to kind of subjective things
but recognizing and in particular
writing down things that you're thankful
for however small they may seem
does seem to have a positive effect on
the on the serotonin system. Now there
are a plethora of things that will also
impact well-being and allow you to
modulate your long-term stress reduce
the likelihood that you'll engage in
long-term stress. And we don't have time
to go into all these but of course
finding the diet and nutrition that's
right for you, the exercise schedule
that was right for you, the sleep
schedule, all that.
But do not underemphasize the social
connection part. Please. As well there
are some compounds that are not
antidepressants
although if you need antidepressants and
a clinician prescribes them to you,
please follow their advice if that's
what's right for you.
There are compounds that are not
prescription compounds that can modulate
the stress system and sometimes because
of the way that life is we just don't
have the opportunity to control life and
to control our response to stress. And
at least for myself, I can only talk
about my own experience, I found it
useful in times of chronic stress to
start modulating some of the
neurochemistry related to the stress
response in order
to help. Now, if a doctor prescribes you
prednisone or prescribes you some other
hormone or something, that's important.
But what I'm talking about now are
non-prescription things. You should
check out examine.com, this free
website, which will allow you to put in
any supplement and evaluate that
supplement with They provide links in
the so-called human effect matrix to
PubMed. It tells you the exact subjects
they were done in. It was a
postmenopausal women? Was it kids? Was
it normal adults? Was it people with
autism?
etc. Check out that site for any and all
supplements you're considering or
taking. I highly recommend it. I've no
relationship to them. I just think it's
a wonderful site that's curated all this
important information.
But the some of these compounds are
effective enough they can kind of take
the edge off and I'll use them
periodically myself. And so I just
thought I'd mention them since there a
number of you that are interested in
them. The three I want to focus on and
one that I think you need to be cautious
about that I've mentioned before
include
ashwagandha.
Funny name, but that's what it's called.
L-theanine or theanine it's often called
and melatonin. Let's talk about
melatonin first. Melatonin I talked
about during the month on sleep.
Melatonin is a hormone secreted from the
pineal in direct relationship to how
much darkness you are in, not emotional
darkness, but light suppresses
melatonin. Melatonin helps you fall
asleep, it doesn't help you stay asleep.
I
personally do not recommend
supplementing melatonin
because
it's supplemented typically at very high
levels.
You know, 1 to 3 mg or even more. That
is an outrageously high dose. It's super
super physiological compared to what you
normally would make. It also has a
number of potentially negative effects
on the reproductive access and and
hormones there. Some people can take it
without problems. If you like it and
that's your thing, fine. I just want to
cue to the fact that there can be
issues. You should check on examine.com,
talk to your doctor, especially in kids
because melatonin suppresses the puberty
response in a number of species.
Enough about the negative things of
melatonin except that people who take
too much melatonin chronically
often time when they're taking it to
sleep or for whatever reason, yes, it
can reduce anxiety and stress, but it
also can reduce the output of the
adrenals to the point where it can
become problematic. Now,
a note about adrenal burnout. There is
actually no such thing as adrenal
burnout under normal conditions. The
adrenals have enough adrenaline to
support 200 years of stress, for better
or for worse.
The concept of adrenal burnout
has origins in the work of Nobel Prize
winner Hans Selye, who actually
discovered what he called the general
adaptation syndrome. He discovered a lot
of things about stress. He did some
phenomenal work that turned out to be
true.
That we have stressors, there's
something called distress. He talked
about eustress, which is positive
stress. Eustress has never really caught
on in the in the kind of more general
discussion. But he had this theory that
if stress went on long enough that you
would eventually reach a phase called
exhaustion. And that turned out to be
wrong.
Although many of you may feel exhausted
after chronic stress, there isn't really
a physiological exhaustion that happens.
And that eventually got picked up and
ran with by the general public and they
talk about adrenal burnout. Too much
coffee, adrenal burnout. You hear all
this stuff. There is no such thing as
adrenal burnout. The adrenals don't burn
out. There is something however called
adrenal insufficiency syndrome, which is
a real physiological problem where some
people have very impaired adrenals and
they can't produce adrenaline. And
melatonin taken at very high levels for
periods of time that are too long, can
cause suppression of the cortisol and
epinephrine release from the adrenals
and can create a kind of pseudo
adrenal insufficiency syndrome.
So,
beware melatonin for that reason.
Please
I'm trying I alone can't get rid of the
phrase adrenal burnout.
I'm not trying to um give a hard time to
anyone who feels burnt out or exhausted,
but it is for other reasons. It is not
because of the adrenals are burnt out
unless you happen to have adrenal
insufficiency syndrome. So, I'm not a
fan of melatonin for a lot of reasons.
Now, I've mentioned several. The other
is L-theanine. I've talked about
L-theanine, which provided it's safe for
you, can be taken 100 mg or 200 mg about
a 30 minutes or 60 minutes before sleep.
It can enhance the transition to sleep
and depth of sleep for many people.
It it increases GABA, this inhibitory
neurotransmitter in the brain. It tends
to turn off our forebrain a little bit
or or reduce the activity of our kind of
thinking systems and ruminating systems
help people fall asleep.
That's for sleep, but theanine has also
been shown for people that are
chronically anxious or chronically
stressed to if you look at the studies I
have a large collection of studies in
front of me right now. If you want to
see those links, I know if you want
those, go to examine.com, put in
theanine. They linked for instance, it
is known to significantly increase
relaxation. There are four studies
listed there with PubMed links. It is
known to have a minor effect on anxiety,
but eight studies have shown that. Um
which I think is a fairly large set of
studies. Some of them in great journals.
Um
it also can reduce task completion
anxiety. So, anxiety related to task
completion. Not good to the
procrastinators perhaps, but for those
of you that are chronically stressed, it
can increase attention a little bit, can
reduce blood pressure a little bit,
improve sleep quality,
etc. It definitely has a notable effect
on stress. Two studies in particular um
that it can notably reduce the effects
of stress. So,
there's a lot there. It also has effects
on insomnia, on some blood lipid
profiles. And so, go to examine.com and
check it out. But, this is one reason
why I supplement theanine for sleep.
But, if I'm feeling like I've been under
a lot of stress, and I'm not managing my
stress very well with the short-term and
medium-term tools that I talked about
earlier, I might start taking a little
bit of theanine, especially in the late
afternoon, which is when I tend to start
to feel like I haven't gotten enough
done, and the day is kind of carrying
on. And so, you can blunt the response
to stress a little bit, which is why a
lot of companies are now putting
theanine into energy drinks. I am
not a big fan of most energy drinks.
Most of them have taurine, which I know
some of you wrote to me and said, "Oh,
taurine's great for all these reasons."
Taurine also has effects on the
microvasculature that, at least for me,
were not good. It caused bursting of
microvasculature in my sclera, in my
eyes, which is why I'm not a fan of any
energy drink that has taurine
or taurine generally. But, that's just
me. You have to decide for you. I'm sure
the comment section there'll be a couple
um taurinistas out there that will say,
"But, I love taurine." Great.
Keep the taurine companies in business,
but it's not for me. And I'd like people
to know that it may or may not be for
them.
The other supplement that can be very
useful is ashwagandha. Ashwagandha is
known to lower anxiety and cortisol.
There is six There are, excuse me, six
studies that collectively show
reductions in cortisol, which is
Cortisol is typically associated with
waking up in the morning, which is good.
That's a healthy, brief cortisol bump
that goes away, provided you're getting
your light at the right time of day, is
at right correct times of day, like
morning and and evening. But, you don't
want cortisol chronically elevated.
That's associated with all the bad stuff
about stress.
There's a
very strong effect of ashwagandha. You
can find dosages at examine.com.
They report in across six studies 14.5
to 27.9 reduction in cortisol in
otherwise healthy, but stressed
individuals. Now, I don't know about
kids. You have to look at what the what
the what it says on various supplements.
Most things here are being done in
adults, so please check carefully. But,
this is great. I mean, the opportunity
for me anyway to be able to take
something that can help me reduce my
cortisol so that I don't get some of the
long-term effects of stress. And I'm not
going to take ashwagandha year-round. I
would only do this if I was feeling like
I wasn't managing my short- and
medium-term stress well. So, I don't
take it on a regular basis. I do take it
when I'm in these times when things are
particularly stressful.
It has There are five other studies that
show
reduced stress. So, that's not cortisol
measurements, but things like fatigue,
cognitive impairment, etc.
Um it does lower total cholesterol,
which may or may not be good or bad for
you up to 10%.
Um so, some people don't want their
cholesterol lowered. Some people might.
Um cholesterol we'll talk about this in
a month on hormones, but cholesterol is
the molecule from which testosterone and
estrogen and cortisol, for that matter,
are synthesized. So, you don't want to
get your cholesterol so low then you
There are all sorts of negative effects,
but you don't want it too high either.
Um mild effects in good clinical studies
on reducing depression, probably
associated with the effects on stress,
and some other things as well. So,
ashwagandha is something I use from time
to time. It's kind of interesting.
L-theanine
I rarely will use those during the
daytime except under conditions where
I'm feeling chronically stressed. So,
check out the Human Effect Matrix on
examine.com. Again, a phenomenal
website. I think I've sent them a few
emails before. Uh that's the only
exchanges I've ever had with them, but I
just think it's wonderful that they put
together this resource. Otherwise, we'd
be stuck mining PubMed. They've um
collated the the papers from PubMed with
links to PubMed. So, terrific resource.
So, social connection and some
supplementation, of course, diet,
exercise, sleep for long-term stress.
And now, we are finally in a position to
talk about what we have set out to do
from the beginning, which is spend the
month on emotions.
It was very important that we discuss
stress, and we discuss in the context of
short, medium, and long-term stress.
That we discuss tools for short-term,
medium-term, and long-term control. I
don't really want to say mitigation of
stress. Stress is going to happen, but
our ability to modulate and control
stress in real-time, offline, using
tools
such as respiration, using tools such as
dilation of gaze, using tools like
social connection, maybe some
supplements. Certainly, take care of
your sleep and nutrition and exercise.
Again, tons of resources and information
in the sleep episodes, so you can look
there. We will do a month on hormones,
on exercise, etc. But let's talk about
emotions because
in subsequent episodes, we're going to
talk about OCD. We're going to talk
about depression. We're going to talk
about mania. We're going to be talking
about dopamine and all sorts of things,
but at the core of emotions
is this question, what is an emotion?
Well, it's complex. There isn't a single
brain area for any one of these things
that we call emotions.
My framework, and I think the modern
science, both psychology and
neuroscience
is pretty well aligned with what
Lisa Feldman Barrett has talked about.
Now, Lisa's at Northeastern University.
She runs a big lab there. She's a world
expert in emotions. She's written two
books that are really wonderful. One is
how emotions are made, which was her
first book. The second one is seven and
a half facts about the brain.
That's a wonderful book as well. It came
out more recently. I hosted Lisa on an
Instagram live once. Maybe we'll get her
her here on the podcast if we're lucky.
We don't agree on everything about the
neuroscience of emotions, but I
subscribe to most everything that I've
heard Lisa say.
In particular, the fact that emotions
are context-dependent, there's a
cultural dependence, etc.
I look at things mainly through the lens
of physiology and neuroscience at kind
of low-level circuitry.
And
one way to think about emotions that I
think is consistent, and I think Lisa
would generally approve, I can't speak
for her, but I would hope she would
generally approve of this description,
is that when our internal state of
stress or calm matches the demands on us
or is mismatched from the demands on us,
we tend to interpret those as good or
bad. Let me give you an example.
If I am feeling
very anxious, very stressed inside
and I have a lot to do, that doesn't
feel good
but it's really no different than if I'm
very tired and I have a lot to do
because there's this mismatch. I'm not
in the right internal state, my internal
state isn't correct, rather, to meet the
demands that are being placed upon me.
So, in both cases, whether I'm too tired
or I'm too stressed to do what I need to
do
the valence, meaning the value that I
assign to that is I don't feel good.
It's not a good situation and I don't
feel good. Now, I might call it
stressed, I might call it anxious, I
might call it worried, might call it a
number of things, but it's not good.
However, when I'm
tired and I want to fall asleep
well, then I feel good because that's
what the demand is. I need to go to
sleep and I'm tired. If I'm wide awake
and I need to fall asleep then that's
not good and I tend then the brain tends
to go down the direction of interpreting
the situation as a bad one. So, while
the discussion around emotions is far
more nuanced and more elaborate than
this
one way to think about your relationship
to emotions is whether or not your
internal state is matching the demands
that are upon you.
So, in that way, we don't really
place so much value on whether or not
we're feeling alert or sleepy. We only
place value on whether or not that
alertness, whether or not it's
full-blown stress or not, or our
sleepiness, whether or not we're falling
asleep or just a little bit drowsy,
whether or not that matches the
conditions that we face.
And it's a useful framework to have, and
it's the reason in part why I spent this
last hour and a half or so
talking about stress and how to control
stress.
One reason we did that is because I
think it's a valuable opportunity to
learn some tools and understand stress
and really learn how to take control of
stress, which I think we could all
benefit from doing regardless of age.
The other reason is that when you start
to understand that you have this kind of
seesaw system in your body, this
autonomic nervous system, that takes you
from
alert and calm to stressed to full-blown
panic, it has that capacity, or from
sleepy and drowsy to
passing out tired to, you know, God
forbid, let's hope never, but a coma,
right? That you're basically on this
seesaw all the time, and where you are
on that seesaw of alertness or calmness
positions you to be in better
reaction
to the demands that you face, whether or
not the thing that you face is a need to
fall asleep or to listen quietly and not
react. You now know, for instance, that
if your job is to take feedback, or
maybe you're going in for a job
evaluation, or
you're in a relationship where you're
there was a call for a discussion, and
somebody needs to talk to you about
something, and we need to talk about
something. You're going to there like,
"Oh goodness, this is going to be
rough."
Learning to reduce that stress response
a little bit so that you are in a
position to hear
the information better.
And remember from a previous episode, if
you close your eyes, you'll be able to
actually focus on the information
better. There's your permission to not
look someone directly in the eye while
they talk to you if you really want to
hear what they have to say.
You will be able to modulate that stress
response and lean into life better. You
will be able to
react to things in a more effective way
and to not be be
And this is really one of the important
things to me anyway is that so much of
the language around psychology, which I
I think is a wonderful field, but pop
psychology in particular is be
responsive, not reactive. Well, great.
But then how does one do that? Well, one
does that by modulating their short-term
stress response in real time. Not by
saying, "Hold on, I need to meditate.
Hold on, I need a massage, and then I
can have this conversation." By
modulating the reactivity in real time.
How does one, for instance, be mindful?
Which is a beautiful concept, but how
are you mindful? Well, I don't know.
When I'm moving through my day, a lot of
times I'm just trying to get things
done. And as soon as I start monitoring
and seeing what I'm doing and it kind of
third-personing what I'm doing, it
actually takes me out of the
effectiveness and experience of what I'm
doing. So, for me, sometimes that
mindfulness, that observer as they call
it, is a is something that doesn't help
me. It actually hinders me. What's
important to me is to be able to work
and focus and then to be able to
disengage. To be able to do a non-sleep
depressed or to be able to still fall
asleep even though I've been working
hard until 9:30 to put my head down at
10:00 and be out cold sleeping
by 10:02. That's possible if you can
learn to to control this stress
response. And to do that, we can't use
the mind to control the mind. We need
tools. And so a lot of the
um people being grumpy or anxious or
depressed, a lot of that, provided it's
not for some underlying neurochemical
reason that's chronic, a lot of that
comes from being
poorly rested, from overworked, from
feeling like the world is bearing down
on us. And so rather than take a
subjective view of this, I take the view
of objective physiology. What can we do
that's anchored to these neuronal
systems in our body, in our brain, in
our eyes, in our diaphragm, etc., and
look to those as tools, levers that we
can pull on and push, and maneuver
through life in a way where we start to
feel like we have some agency, we
actually have some real control because
we're controlling the internal
landscape.
So, I think
that ought to set the stage for where
we're headed next, which is to talk
about all the things that you normally
think of when you think of emotions,
like happiness, like awe, like joy, and
we will get into some of that, but all
of that rests firmly on the foundation
of this thing we call the autonomic
nervous system, this stress modulation,
this calming modulation system.
And again, whether or not you're
activated or you're calm is not good or
bad, it depends on the situation.
Certainly when you want to fall asleep,
being activated isn't good. When you
have work to do, being activated is
great. So, I hope today
you were able to take a slightly
different view of this thing that we
call stress, not just see it as evil,
but see it as powerful and useful in
certain contexts, and great for us in
certain contexts, and problematic in
other contexts, and as well to think
about the various tools that I've
presented that can allow you to adjust
and modulate your internal levels of
alertness or calmness so that you can
lean more effectively into life, which
includes sleep and social connection,
and the work you have to do, and of
course acknowledges that the events in
the world are beyond our control. What's
in our control is how we react to them,
something that's commonly said in the
wellness and self-help and psychology
world, but for which there often aren't
as many concrete tools that we can
really look to and trust in real time.
And of course, there are other tools out
there, as always. I'll say it. I I
strive to be accurate, but I'll never be
exhaustive. I might have exhausted you.
I might have cured your insomnia with
this uh discussion today, but in all
seriousness, my goal is to bring you
tools and information so that you can
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