Toni G 524 Psychic Medium

[music] Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green. I am Tony Green, the psychic medium channel hypnotist and healer. [laughter] um here to give you approximately I'm just adjusting a few things. Sorry about that. Approximately 60 minutes of you know questions, answers, shenanigans all the way around. Shenanigans. All righty, let's get started. Please never get scammed. I will never reach out to you on any social media platform. Not one, not ever, for no reason. Second, [clears throat] if you would like to ask a question, you can put a question about life, love, career, finances in the chat. Please, no health questions because, well, we're not allowed to talk about health. We all have to plead the fifth on that. [clears throat] It's [snorts] our constitutional right. [laughter] I have some family members that owe me an apology I'll never receive and they will never acknowledge. Do y'all have that too? Do y'all y'all are y'all having that too? It's okay though. I still love you. I still love you 100%. All righty. Okay. Uh back to the show. No health questions. If you want to connect with a loved one up above, please just give their name and their relationship to you. I will do the best that I absolutely can to get that info to you. Next, um, uh, this show airs on WS, all of their affiliate stations, streaming channels like Roku. Is it Roku or Ruku? Whatever it is, I'm many others. and on LA uh Rude Rangers. Oh my goodness. Sorry, Rudy. Rude Rangers. All of their streaming channels, radio stations, and um everybody's podcasts. It's It's everywhere. It's just it's it's it's out there. It's all over. [laughter] Okay, you guys, with the new with this new setup that I'm using, which I am so far loving 100%. 1 million%. You can call in if you choose to or yeah, it's a it's like a call. It's a computer call. So, you I put a link in the chat. So, if you are watching live, I go live every Monday at noon on YouTube to record the show for said TV. There's a link it's got and then you just uh click that link and I believe you come you can come on and then what I can put you on. So you have an option if you want your face on camera or not on your end you have to you know look at that and say no FaceTime. I don't want you can turn your camera on and let it just be audio if you want to do that. All right. I have some songs from heaven. I I have nothing. Nope. Nope. Wait before I go to songs from heaven. It's my latest book. I love it. Um when denial ends, the healing journey begins. And this is so good. Anyway, I think it is it was channeled. So, and then uh what if a transformational guide which um tomorrow's question that we will be discussing is what if the only thing you need to be is love and once you are love everything you need and want flows effortlessly to you. I really want to discuss this tomorrow because everybody has this idea of what love is and what it looks like. And they believe so many people believe love is just putting up with and dealing with and and being just all loving. But what if that's not what if part of love is not putting up with? What if love is holding others accountable and helping them grow? What if love is sticking up for yourself and not putting up with? We're going to discuss all of that tomorrow. Okay. All righty. Songs from heaven. They're doing it again. They want to get into these songs. Um, and the first song is that song and I know I've done it recently or I think I've done it recently. That song that does come on Eene. Oh, you know what? I mean, in this moment, you mean everything. I know I can't sing, so please don't send me an email [laughter] telling me my voice sucks because we all agree. Okay, [laughter] that's not part of the song. That whole last part was not part of the song. It's just a Come on, Eileen. And then they're doing that. Come on. Wait. Come on, Eileen. I tal [laughter] Come on. Jesus, please stop singing this song. [laughter] Oh, I'm going to cry. It's so bad. My And I know I have no musical skills, nor do I want them. This is not my goal in life. I don't come on here and think, "Ah, I'm going to be like known for my singing. I'm going to be known for how badly I sing." Um, [laughter and clears throat] okay. The next The next Uh the next song is um it was a long I'm waiting for the the main verse of it. He like talks in the beginning. It's a guy singing. Oh. Oh, I got it. You got to know when to hold them. No when to hold. No when to fold. [laughter] No when to walk away. No when to run. Okay. That that one. And they're really emphasizing the part of the song where they say you never count your money while you're sitting at the table. Okay. That song, The Gambler, Kenny Rogers. Okay. The next one is Uh, I don't really I don't really know this and I don't really know how to say this, but like make me a promise. Make something about make me a promise. Make me a promise. Make me a promise. Make me a promise. Okay. All righty. Okay. I am going to go into the questions now and um I have had some people. Okay, so if you want to skip the line, if you want to get your question answered right away, um you can go to buy me a coffee and donate via buy me a coffee and I will get to your question right away. And there have been a couple of people that have donated via buy me a coffee. And I'm going to go in the order that they donated. And the first person is is Pat. And I I actually love what Pat is saying here because I'm I'm just going to say before I read her question and and what she says, I think we all go through this in some way at some point. And And it's it's it's heartbreaking. So, I'm just going to go through this and I'm going to I'm going to um read what she says. It says, "Good morning, Tony. I only got a tiny bit of explanation being able to now call in via pop call. Could you explain again today?" Yes. Okay. So once I come on live using this new app that I'm using for streaming, I will put the link in the comments and then you can click that link and come on. So anybody who wants to come on live will be able to do that um from that. And then pop call is an also an app that you can use to ask during the show or after the show at any point to ask questions um for of me. Okay. My heart is aching over so many family members today. I just want to cut off everybody, including my son, after my birthday celebration this weekend. It's not birthday. It was a birthday celebration, but there are quotes there. So, I used quotes. I will buy you a coffee. Thank you so much for the coffee, Pat. I definitely want to cut off I think it's supposed to be my niece. I I'm not going to say her name on here. Intentionally cruel. nephew oblivious of me and my feelings. Just tired of years of it. My son's wife just seems to ruin every event. Emasculated. My son hyper controls. Hold on. Hyper controls my granddaughter. Please comment on any way you wish and on whomver. Thank you. Bless you. Okay, Pat, the first thing I'm I'm gonna say a a little bit here, so I hope it and you might need to listen this to this two or three times. So the first thing is with family we we have expectations and hopes with loved ones with family we have um so much expectation and hopes of how it will be what it will be. Um that they're finally going to come around, that they're finally going to see us, that they're finally going to be, you know, good to us. uh they'll be respectful. Um but the one thing that that I think so many of us have learned in this life is people people are who they are. Um you can take a wild lion and put it in a cage [snorts] and the first time you don't feed it and it gets the opportunity it's going to eat your butt. It's just it's that's who the lion is. Even if it's not wild, if you don't feed it, it's going to eat. It's It's going to eat you. It's self-preservation, no matter how good you are to that line. Look at all these people who have these exotic animals, which they should not, but that's not that's not for me to say, I guess. And they they they get like was it Sig Freedom Roy who got his like head bit off or whatever happened to him with that tiger? Um, no matter how good you are to them, no matter if you if you feed them every day, if you buy them you're very good to them and kind and loving and you go in for that kiss and they bite your face off because it's their nature. It's very rare that a person will change their nature. Now the second part of this is and it's very very important to understand when people and as people when and as people mature they get set in their thoughts and their ways and how they feel about things and it's very difficult for them to change that. Very very difficult for them to change that. And there are today compared to 2020 people have changed dramatically. Some people have changed dramatically. And it's not for me to say why or what caused that, but everyone I talked to has definitely [clears throat] noticed it. Um, so P, when it comes to situations like this, going in and having an expectation of someone who has consistently been, and I'm just going to use the word for, for lack of a better word, has consistently been disrespectful to expect them to all of a sudden be respectful and happy or to show up for you at an event for you is just not going to be happening. Some people just don't have that capability and some people just they don't care enough outside of themselves. They don't have enough wherewithal to look at other people and actually celebrate them. They don't have the um ability to say this is this person's event. Let's try to all get along and make it about this person or or even just show up and be kind and decent to each other. And it doesn't matter why. So many people will say, "Oh, well, they were brought up like this and that. We were all brought up like this or that, right? Especially from a certain time frame. There was no gentle parenting in my era or, you know, many people's eras. There was there was no take a time out, go think about that. There was none of that. [laughter] There was a lot of you're so stupid, smack like I did, we did not get gentle parenting. >> [laughter] >> Um, so, um, the the the thing here is to realize who people are. It doesn't matter why they're that way. And to allow yourself to be in safer surroundings, to allow yourself to be in a space where you're not triggered by behaviors. Now, one thing I will say, it's it's it's normal to want to cut everybody off and to say, "That's it. I'm done." Because the the the just the behaviors and the disappointment and possibly the disrespect just puts you over the top and it's not a one-time incident, especially if it goes on and on and on. Um and we all have sto we all have our experiences with this which is very very unfortunate. Um which does not take away from you and your experience. But what I will say Pat is instead of saying I'm cutting them all off but if you want you can do that. You can say, "I'm taking a break, and from now on, if there's communication, it will be like five minutes or less. Three minutes or less. I'm literally going to look at the the phone when it rings, and I'm going to watch it. When that 3 minute mark hits, I'm going to say, "Oh, excuse me. I I have to go. It's a it's a doctor calling on the other line." And and say, just let go. Um, it can be very difficult to just cut off everybody all at once. And there could be times when it becomes a you you wonder if you did the right thing and it's very disturbing to your psyche and there's a lot of loneliness. So before people cut people off, I I say start minimizing. It doesn't do any good to tell people what they've done or how they've behaved. If they were aware of their behavior, nine chances out of 10, they would have already changed it. And if they are aware of their behavior, they just don't care and they're going to keep behaving like that. They feel entitled to behave like that. They think it's okay. and they're not going to change, not because you're not important, but because they are okay with their behaviors and it gets them what they want. So, what I would say to you is minimize contact. Even like on at the holidays which are a bit away, you have the freedom of choice to go spend it with friends or to spend it [clears throat] with family or to spend it alone. I mean there there's nothing that says that holidays have to be spent with others but you have that choice that you can make to go in whichever direction. Um there was a period of time where for the holidays I just volunteered um at at like homeless shelters or you know wherever and I quite enjoyed it to be quite honest. Um, I would say to you, start planning those things now so that when they come, you don't have the emotional rush of what do I do? And the guilt of am I doing the right thing? Is this the right way to do it? Should I change this in any way? So that's the one thing I would like to say to you and have you understand that it's your [clears throat] choice and your ability uh to kind of um be in a space where you get to decide how much of yourself you give to them and how you give it to them. and what that means for you. And I I do believe I'm I believe that if somebody is is disrespectful to you, what are you losing? The hurt, the disrespect, the pain, the feeling, the way you feel. That's what I would say for you to understand moving forward. Okay, love. That's very important for you, Pat. I hope that's very helpful. The second person that donated via coffee is um Aloha Jay. And Jay's question is, let me pull it up here. Hi Tony. Great to speak with you again. you also Jay [snorts] after oh great to speak with you again after many months I I need to complete sentences it's part of part of my he has 22 public school 22 education I don't know what number school I went to I make that up [laughter] um an update my dad is in long-term care and from this I started speaking with my sister in 8 years viewed My mom's last message to me from 8 years ago from all of this. What does my mom Yumi want to say to me? Grateful for the messages. Blessings to know you over the years. Jay, thank you so much. That's so so very kind of you. It's a blessing to know you also. Jay, the first thing that I would want to say to you is um take your time. You don't have to commit one way or the other. And your mom, your mom, I there's a woman here. I'm pretty sure it's your mom. She was uh a little bit more petite with dark hair at one point. Um, whomever this woman is, she is she is here and your mom like if this is a grandmom and your mom or an aunt and your mom. Um, life is short. Take care of what you need to take care of, but also take care of yourself. This is your your mom speaking now. Um, don't allow people to I don't know if this makes sense to you. uh don't allow people to take on you or talk on you or to talk over you or to I don't know quite how that's meant. Maybe you might um and don't allow people to to intentionally like misunderstand you. Some people misunderstand you and they really do do it on purpose. Uh it's it it is a form of gaslighting when you explain something and then the person's like, "No, no, no." They they're just they're just they're committed to misunderstanding you because it feeds their agenda, but because it feeds their agenda and they're misunderstanding you, they have to gaslight you. Um Allow those. Okay. Blood does not equal commitment is the way she's saying it. If someone is not good to you, they're just not good to you and it's okay for you to release yourself from that situation. You can be in public and be um kind in public and to get through what you're getting through. But if it becomes unkind, you don't have to participate. And that is what she is saying. Um and I I just personally will add never let somebody who's supposed to be f Never let someone treat you worse than you would let a stranger treat you. It doesn't matter if they're family or not. Um especially if they're family, I feel uh because we get into these relationships with people, whether it's as a partner, a friend, or if they're a family member, we let things slide with them. We let them sometimes be disrespectful, abusive in whatever way. And the idea is that those that are in our circle, especially our inner circle, should be the most respectful to us. We can't expect everybody to be respectful, but it's okay if they're not to not have them in our inner circle. Just because somebody has come back in your life, it doesn't mean you have to keep them in your life. The two of you can help each other get through this time and point if things progress in a natural and healthy way. Okay. But if they do not, you do not have to keep it. And that I hope is so helpful for you, Jay. I really do. Um, and I'm sorry for what your father is going through and what you and your sister are going through with your your father in long-term care now. Um, if to to be honest, Jay, I feel like the two of you will reconcile at least for a bit, but it's it's going to be a little bit strained because the situation you're coming together under is a bit strained. Um, okay. I hope that makes sense. Hey, Heather, how are you? I did have a great weekend. I hope you had one, too. Hey, um Fawn. Hi, Karen. Uh thank you, Heather. Okay. And if somebody does want to I noticed that Rebecca came on a few seconds ago. Rebecca, if you want to come back on, I would love that. Uh that would be amazing. I would absolutely love that if somebody has a question they want to ask like in the good old times when I started and there was uh blog talk radio. [gasps] Happy Monday Kate. [snorts] Okay. Uh Kate says, "Would love a message from my friend Paul." Uh Kate, I'm going to go down to the bottom a bit. Uh oh, there's a lot here. I'm Oh my goodness. Um, there's a lot here. Well, let me just do this really quick. Hopefully, I'm going to get back to the right place. Okay, Kate. Oh, Rebecca, just give me one quick second, love. Thank you. Okay, Kate, the first thing that Paul would want to say to you is don't uh that song, don't you forget about me. And then that song that like something about don't tread on me. Those two songs are coming um in very quickly. Um the next thing that Paul would want to say is um it's time for you to make a change in your life that will help you to progress more in the direction that you're already going. I feel like there's a a question or something with commitment for you, whether it be to work or to someone or something. Uh to allow yourself to find the commitment that you want and you it's it's okay. Like it's okay now. It's okay to have that commitment love. That's what I'm getting from the from Paul for you love. Okay, next. Hey, let me go to Rebecca. [clears throat] Let me go to Rebecca. Okay, unmute and then let me put Rebecca on. Hey, Rebecca. How are you? I hope I did it well. Rebecca, are you still muted? >> There we go. >> There we go. Okay. How are you? >> Good. Good. Hope everyone's doing well and enjoying the show. I just was testing it out to see if it worked. >> Oh, it does. Yes, it's awesome. Thank you so much for the test run. Absolutely. >> But, you know, I'll ask a question. Let's see here. Um, a message from my mother, Raquel. >> Okay. >> If any Yeah. The first thing she is saying is beautiful family. Beautiful family. Beautiful family. And then the next thing she is saying, who is um Miguel? Who's Miguel? >> My cousin. Oh, and yes. M. Yes. >> Is that the only Miguel? >> No, there's multiple. But I think I know who what she's talking about. And I just don't Yeah. So, is there I I just want to double check because I'm hearing Miguel. Miguel. Miguel. Is there a Miguel that could be coming through from the other side? If not, then they're speaking on somebody who's who's already here. >> Okay. I don't know if >> Okay, let me just Well, maybe if I just get the rest of the message, [laughter] we would all know. I interrupt so much. Okay, so um Uh Miguel is is going to have some concerns coming up. Nothing big, but everybody might be concerned about it. Whatever is coming up, but there doesn't need to be so much worry because everything is going to um like work work out. It's all going to be okay. It's going to be okay. That's that's the M Miguel message. So, even if something comes up where there's a lot of concern, no worries because it's all going to work out. Okay. Um the other thing which is closer to home for you is that there's going to be more travel coming in very soon and suddenly for you and for some family members and it's okay to have that travel uh do what you need to do, do it appropriately and take the travel. I feel like it's not only you. It's a couple of people that are going to have like [clears throat] sudden travel maybe unexpected or sudden travel. [cough and clears throat] >> Yes. >> And it it will it will uh take the travel. Don't worry. Uh but work everything out that you need to and everything will be okay. [clears throat] >> Okay. And then the other thing is that uh there is some I don't know there's some good juju coming in for you over the next month. So that's good. >> We want good juju coming in all the time, but there's really good juju like >> extra like sprinkle on top of good juju coming in for you over the next month. Whatever that is. I don't know. But um yes, that is it. And and don't um don't take too much time away from what you need to be focused on is the last part of it. And this would be even to like um work things like working out or things like taking care of you. Taking care of you also. Okay. Love. >> Thank you so much, Tony. You are so welcome, Rebecca. Thank you so much for um coming on and being part of it. >> Yes. Thank you. >> You are welcome. Thank you again. Bye-bye. Okay, you guys, let's let's go to the next one. See, you guys, if you just click the thing, you can decide if you want your face on or not. Hey, Christine. Um, and then it will I I'll be able to bring you on that way and you can just ask your question. Um, [sighs and gasps] oh, somebody said that one of the songs in the beginning, Make Me a Promise, which I don't know that song. I've never I've never heard it, but I I trust it. I trust you, Jay. Christine, will I find the right doctor for diagnosis for my eye issue? Yes. Are the doctors I'm seeing the right? I feel like you're going to find the right one. I don't feel like you have met the right doctor yet. I feel like in about a month and a half, you will meet or be in contact with the right doctor. Christine. Uh, okay. Let's see. [snorts] Uh, [sighs] let's see. I'm I'm going through the questions and there are a couple health questions which I cannot answer on social media. So I have to um just kind of skip over those. Uh so Darlene says, "Any messages when you see me selling my house boat?" Darlene, I feel like when again when you feel like you have a stable alternative to your housebo, that's when you are going to sell your housebo. Um, I feel like if you really want to sell it, you will sell it soon. It will it will go somewhat quickly. But I also feel like if you're h if you're I don't want to say hesitant, but if you don't know your next solid step, it might not go as quickly. Like so you've been on a housebo for a bit of time. Correct. So, in selling the house boat, you may find that uh [sighs and gasps] you're changing if you're not going to another housebo that you're having to find another place to live that you will or will not own. And where is that going to be? What is that going to be? I feel like you're just very That's it. Thank you, spirit. you're very conflicted internally about what direction you should take and how to take it. Um especially if the amount you get for the housebo is not a good amount um to to kind of like set you up or keep you going. I do feel like there is there are some resources. If you're leaving the housebo, you need to reach out to someone that helps with resources and gets you set up in your next in your next situation. Did you guys I did not know this. I did not know this. I know I've said it before on my show. I I know I have. Did you guys know um HUD housing and urban development? If you're on HUD, which is the what we call the section 8 housing or the rent assistance housing or where wherever you live, it might be called something different. Did you know they assist you in purchasing homes and paying the mortgage on those homes? I did not I I did not know that. I did not. Well, I do now. But that's interesting. That's very interesting. So, that is also a a way to kind of navigate different systems, if you will. All right. You are welcome. You know, I'm going to say Pat Pat followed up with she wants to cut off her knees. She's intentionally cruel. Yeah, there are people who are intentionally cruel. And the goal is to love yourself more than you need others. To love yourself more than you need the approval or the relationship or anything else. Now, I I want to say this. If you Pat, I know you're a an animal lover, but for everybody listening, if you have a child, an infant, like a young child that really has been taught not to talk back to adults or it cannot defend itself or a pet. And somebody did that to your young child or your pet and it just shook you. It shocked you. You would not ever leave your child or your pet with that person alone. And then also though, but then also too, you would not bring them around them or tell them they have to communicate with them. So, you need to hold yourself to that that same exact standard. you and I there's a statement that I channeled and I often say now and it is when the pain outweighs the pleasure people move on. But as long as the pleasure there's some little pleasure and that pleasure might just be in your mind. It might not even be the reality of the situation. The pleasure might be like the family nostalgia, the friendship nostalgia. Oh, I'm going to go see them. We're going to have lunch. We're going to have dinner. Or we get to have these great little uh conversations or whatever that pleasure is. Um in your m even if it's just in your mind of how you think it's going to be. Um if that outweighs [clears throat] the pain of the reality of the situation, you will not let go the moment. And and here's the thing that's really difficult for us humans is pain fades quickly. It has to for us to survive. We go through the cycle of pain, the hurt, the crying, the anger, the the depression, the anger. We go through the steps or the cycle of the pain of the incident that happened. But we also make excuses for them, right? We also justify it. We also then let it go and we let it fade to the background because in order to move forward or to be a part of the family or just because this is how we've been taught since childhood, we let that pain go, right? And we assume we just have this assumption that um we have this assumption that okay next time it will be better or next time I won't talk to them or I only see them like twice a year or whatever the assumption or the justification that runs through our brain to help us survive it. But when the pain when the pain is greater than the pleasure, we can then let go. When we've and another way to say that is when we've just had enough and we don't care if we're going to be lonely. We don't care if we're ever going to see their face again. We don't care if there we're ever going to, you know, go to another family get together. We don't care if, you know, anything. Then we know we're ready to let go. But as long as we have internal conflict and the conflict is always between our head and our heart um then we will continue the cycle that we are going through. Now I want to tell you something and I I want to be very very clear about this. Abusive people will always abuse. And it's only your [clears throat] job. You're the only one who can stop that abuse. Because abusers many times are in denial about how they treat other people cuz no one's going to say anything to them. And if they do, it doesn't matter because the abuser is is never going to like register that because they've already justified how they treat people. So, it's only your responsibility to keep people away from you that are not good to you. If people are disrespectful, they they in some way in in in what you you perceive because they think this is perfectly normal. They feel like what they're doing is perfectly normal and it's okay. Um nine times out of 10 when somebody does something very poor to you, uh they've they've already justified it. [clears throat] Because if they hadn't justified it, they'd realize it was what it was and they would apologize for it. And people who never apologized for their bad behaviors. I had someone in my life that once said, "I know what I did was wrong, but I'm not apologizing. Tell me you're a full-blown sociopath." Psychopath without telling me you're a full-blown narco psychopath. [laughter] I know what I did was wrong. Well, I'm happy that you have that level of understanding, but I'm not apologizing. Shoo. Shoo, little bug. Shoo. Shoo. Is that someone we keep in our life? And why? If we keep them in our life, why why would we? Who's But the point is when you understand human behavior and how people do things because it's their program, but more so it's the way they get what they want. When people are cruel, they know they can other people will be afraid to say anything to them and they can control rooms and they can behave that way. Um, when people are in any way uh not good people and they're not held accountable, they will continue. It's not your job to change people. It's your job to change who you allow into your life that is not treating you kind with kindness and respect. Um, and we want to be the better person. We want to be the bigger person. We want to be understanding. Why? We can be the bigger person once. We can be the better person once, but in order for us to have to think we're the bigger, better, more loving person, that comes number one from ego. And number two, that implies that somebody has already done something to us that is not acceptable in normal human dynamics, in normal human behavior. And if they do it once, they will do it again. Even if they're caught, even if they're busted, even if you know all the details, even if somebody else told them that was a ass move. Sorry for the language. [clears throat] If that somebody told them that was a poop butt move, they're going to do it again because that's their human dynamic and they're going to do what's right for them at all times. They're not going to take into consideration how they personally affect other people because they really don't care. People like this care about getting what they want, when they want, and how they want it. And if they have to hurt somebody else, that's that person's problem in their head. I cannot tell you the number of times family members have told me, "You're too sensitive." I I I should not have to have thicker skin to be around someone. I should not have to be desensitized to be in somebody else's presence because at that point you're no long it's no longer a presence. It's an abuse session. I cannot tell you the number of times people have said things and it might I'm not the type that's going to blast you. I'm going to let you behave the way you behave, say what you're going to say, do what you're going to do, and then I'm going to go home. I'm going to think about it. I'm going to overthink about it. I'm going to rumin about it. Um because as a human that's how you get to the bottom of something. That's how you completely understand it and then I'm going to make my decision of is this justified or not? But the fact that I have to go through all those steps tells me it's it's justified. It's just my heart over my head. And when you can finally get in that space where you are um in a good place uh with everything, then you're going to be so happy. You're so welcome, Pat. You are so welcome. Thank you. Uh Jay, I'm happy you understand what I mean. Ricky Ricky, hey, happy Monday. Happy magical Monday to you, too, Ricky. Ricky, um thank you. Look [laughter] at I'm going to read I'll I'm going to I think I can do this. There we go. There's the question. Uh, hi Tony. Happy magical Monday. You look amazing. Thank you so much. Do you see anything in finance and or relationship? Thank you for your insight. You are so welcome. Okay. Um, I'm going to go with the relationship end of that because I feel like within a month within a month you have the potential to meet someone. And I hear by the docks, by the docks, by the docks. I don't know what that means for you, Ricky, but get to the docks. [laughter] Um, hopefully it's not a docks. I think it's like by the like by the Jersey Shore or by the Is that a river? by e it's either by a river or a lake, a beach, but but it's not beach. It's like a pier or a dock is what I'm seeing. Um I feel like within a month, be out and about, be meeting people face to face. Um if you have an event that you've been invited to, whether it's a lunch, a a shower, a wedding, whatever it is, go. There's good potential there. Uh but just out and about Ricky is what I feel like and within a month is the time frame they are giving me for that. Uh you're welcome. You're welcome. It did. It worked. Eliza, how should I invest my money successfully? That's a good question. See, that's this is always so tough for me because my personal beliefs and guidance might be a little bit different. You know, Eliza, the one thing I know for a fact, and everybody has a different belief on this, and I'm going to try to just um go with what something that returns money monthly is what I'm hearing. And something that returns money monthly would be something like a property, something like a like a property that an investment property, an investment, something along those lines, something that allows you to get a return monthly. Um, and that would be as of right now what I'm hearing for you. If it's an investment property, it doesn't have to be, you know, it's almost be better if it's certain areas are much better for investment properties than other areas. Um, but Eliza, I do hear if you do investment properties, do not do any kind of government um [clears throat] assistance like allow people with government assistance because [clears throat] Um they it's it's it's not it's because I I'll say I'll say why some people have the personality that can handle tenants really well and some people have the personality um that can handle certain types of people. Um, and I have to be very careful how I say this because there's good and bad in everything, but when you start dealing with programs, number one, you can't come off them as quickly as you can get on them. And number two, uh, they start to rule and run your property, and number three, you don't get to pick and choose who you want in that property. And if you're a softer person, uh you will be run. The the tenant will run you and the the organization will run you. So Eliza, for what I'm getting for you is, uh no friends, no family, no organizations, just rent to somebody who's like a medical student or an engineering student or something like that. But that's what I'm hearing for you, love. Hey Bobby, how are you? Or is that B? It says B O B Y. Is that bring your own? No, it's Bobby because B O is not B. [snorts] Am I the only one who? Yeah, I am. Um, is Never mind. Hi, Bobby. How are you? [laughter] Oh my goodness. Okay, [gasps] the witty ginger. Tony, can you please try to reach Marcy or Ron and see if there are any specific messages for me? Something that will validate it's them coming through. Don't Sure. Um, you know what? I don't get to choose the messages. I don't get to choose the validations. I know people think I'm in control of other people. Sir, I Woody Ginger, I don't even control myself and what comes out of my mouth. There's no way I'm controlling what comes out of their mouth or what they give you. And if you want a lot of validation, I would love it if you would get a private personal session. But for the case of this, we'll do what we can for you, Witty Ginger. Okay. So the the first thing I get is Ron is coming through and I you know the first thing I feel like Ron would want to say is stay where you are. Don't Don't I I don't know why it's coming this way, but don't float too far away from home. Stay where you are. Don't float too far away from home. Now, I don't know if this if you're thinking about a relocation, if you're thinking about whatever it is, but that's the first thing. Or this could just be today. Stay at home, chillax. Or if you are going out because you have to, don't go too far from home. The next thing is Easter 97. And then this I'm seeing some some egg like decor and I don't know why but Easter 97 and this egg with like pastel pink and blue and white. Okay. And then it's not an egg egg. It's a decor. Um, and then the last thing again, stay stay where you are. Don't float too far from home. And Witty Ginger, I really hope that makes sense to you, love. I really do. Oh, we're already almost at an hour, you guys. Oh my goodness. Thanks for joining. >> [music]