Video summary
In this engaging live stream, psychic medium Toni Green introduces his latest book, "When Denial Ends, The Healing Journey Begins," a concise 99-page guide filled with affirmations designed to help viewers let go of denial and embrace their true selves. Green emphasizes that perfection is found in accepting people exactly as they are rather than trying to fix them, and he encourages the audience not to feel upset if someone was not meant for them, suggesting there may be many potential partners rather than just one. Throughout the session, he shares insights from his previous works and promotes a book club series held every Tuesday, where they explore themes like whether repeating negative patterns are actually signals pointing toward necessary healing within oneself. He also mentions his availability for private readings, corporate events, and birthday parties, while noting that his hypnosis CDs and other books can be purchased on his website.
Green dedicates a significant portion of the video to answering viewer questions from the chat, addressing topics ranging from career advice to romantic relationships and connecting with departed loved ones. He advises a viewer named Aana that her wise grandfather would encourage her to start her own business or side project if she feels unappreciated in her current role, noting that discontentment is often a sign that something better is available. When asked about a potential marriage partner by Emma, Green honestly delivers a "no," explaining that while the person in question has no flaws, forcing a relationship with someone who isn't the right fit will likely lead to pain and disappointment, especially for women who tend to bond deeply and try hard to make things work despite incompatibility.
The medium continues to offer specific guidance on love and life transitions, telling Karen that her next serious relationship is likely a year away but advising her to enjoy dating casually in the meantime without pressure. He reveals an interesting detail about this future partner: she will not know them personally yet, but someone she is currently involved with already knows them. For another viewer feeling lonely despite being surrounded by people, Green delivers a powerful message from her grandmother to "get out" and start living life on her own terms through new hobbies or work endeavors. He also warns viewers about the dangers of settling for less than they deserve, reminding them that nice, healthy partners exist every day and that one should not compromise their standards just because they fear being alone.
Throughout the session, Green touches upon various spiritual and practical topics, including the upcoming retrograde in Mars and Cancer, urging everyone to watch their words carefully during this astrological event. He answers questions about financial trips, predicting shore-related travel for a viewer if they plan strategically without overspending. He also provides comfort to those grieving, telling a viewer whose father passed away that while pain may not always get easier, we simply learn to adapt and should allow ourselves to embrace good moments rather than suffering unnecessarily. Finally, he offers career advice to job seekers, suggesting they clean up their social media profiles for AI screening processes and targeting specific weeks in July for new opportunities, concluding with a reminder that there are millions of people out there and one should never settle for a relationship that makes them question their worth or feel dragged down.
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[music]
Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green.
I'm the psychic medium, hypnotist,
channel,
healer,
all the things. All the things. Okay. I
am the author of eight books. And guess
what I have in my hands? It's such a
tiny book with such pertinent
information.
Look at this. It's here. [laughter]
I am so happy. Okay, so from cover to
cover, 99 pages. But let me This is my
latest book, by the way. When denial
ends, the healing journey begins. and I
want to um
tell you a little bit of what's in the
book. So, I'm just gonna read um
some of the things um
I already see. Okay, so here's this is
just on the back cover. Let's go on the
greatest journey of your lifetime. The
journey of you. Um, and I'm going to
open it just to any page and just read
one of the things in here. The pages are
not numbered, though. Um,
[sighs]
they sound so harsh, but they're really
not. They're just very like things that
you know what a lot of this is things we
wish our mothers would have taught us.
Things we wish our mothers would have
known. Okay, so this one says, "Your
person is not a fixer uper. Your person
will be perfect for you the way they
are." I love that. I love it so much.
Um,
don't be upset if you're not the one.
Not everyone was the one for you. And
maybe there's not just one, right? Like
maybe there's not just one. Okay. A lot
more of that in these little pages.
Yep. Chalk full of things like that.
Okay,
this is book number eight. Love it.
Love it to bits and pieces.
Um here is book number seven. What if a
transformational guide? And we do a book
club on this every single Tuesday.
[clears throat]
And tomorrow's question which I which it
tomorrow's question is what if the
negative patterns or things that repeat
in your life repeat to show us
what we need to heal in us.
That's tomorrow's question at noon right
here where you are right now. Well on
YouTube. On YouTube. Okay.
Don't get scammed. I will never ever
reach out to you. I do have hypnosis CDs
available
um on my web page. Also, all of my books
where you can get them and the hypnosis
CDs on the web page. Uh
okay. I'm available for private
readings, pop call readings,
corporate
uh group charity events, all the things.
name it. And their birthday parties.
Yeah. All the things. Okay.
Oh no, I forgot the
I forgot the the things again. The the
uh songs again. That's okay because
we've got them. We've got we've got
songs. We have a lot of songs. All
righty. Here we go. So, I'm going to do
songs from heaven. It may be a song, you
know,
a a song your loved one knew and
listened to. I hear Tammy Wette already.
I don't need my list because they're
coming in strong. Um, a song you loved,
your loved one loved, you listened to
together. It could be the answer to a
question. The next time you hear it, it
could be that your loved ones with you.
Um, hear me wet. And then I hear, "Stand
by your man."
I have no words on that. Although I have
a lot of words on that. I have no words
on that.
Next song. I'm just moving right along.
Right along. [gasps and laughter] The
next song is uh um
give me a second. [clears throat]
Uh Joe Cocker. Is that
like Joe Cocker?
Is that a joke?
I feel like it's not a joke.
I feel like it's not a joke. Okay.
Apparently, they're just coming through
with artists. Uh Tina Turner,
Jim, Jim, Jimmy, Jimmy Hendris,
and then that song. Her name was Lola.
Lola Fana.
I don't know if that's her name. I think
I'm singing it that way. I don't know if
that's the name. Um
and then, uh that's the song. Um,
is there like a lolita
and then
up all night, up all night, [snorts]
sleep all day.
[laughter] Back in the day, that song
meant one thing. To women going through
menopause, that song means a whole
[laughter] another thing now.
[gasps]
>> [laughter]
>> Sorry. Okay, next. Okay, next.
[laughter]
Um,
give a little bit Give a little bit of
your love to me. That song. Okay, now I
want to go to names. Even though like
they keep saying songs, songs songs. Um,
I'll do songs with names or
confirmations. This could be the name of
love one of your loved one of a family
member, family, friend, pet. It's to let
your loved one know you're there with
you. It's just a confirmation person,
place, pet, thing. That's what I'm
trying to say. And if you if you hear it
and it makes you think of someone, it's
for you. No matter no matter how many
people it's for, it's also for you.
Okay. Joseph
H. Helena. Helena.
Margaret.
James,
Pamela,
Belinda,
Melissa,
George,
Lisa,
Mickey,
Sandy
or Sandra.
And then they're showing me Cassandra.
And then I see they're I hear Pete, but
I see P A
we e like pee-wee.
Peeweee. I I'm not sure about that, but
that's what I'm getting. So, I'm giving
it. Okay,
I'm going to start to go into questions.
Um,
and
we'll see what we'll see what we come up
with. Okay, guys. Thank you so much for
being here. Um, I'm here every Monday at
noon to answer your questions. The
questions can be about life, love,
career, finance. They can be about
uh connecting with a loved one on the
other side. I just need your loved ones
first name and their relationship to
you.
And what else?
I think that's everything. I'll I'll go
through more as we go through it, but
yes, that's that's pretty much it. Okay,
let's see. Uh, hey, good morning Karen.
Hi Aana.
Ahana says, "Hey Tony, I want to know I
want to know what advice does my
grandfather Shaunie
want to give me?" And then I did ask
Aana is there a specific area
and so he said career business.
Ahana, the first thing um
the first thing I'm getting Aana is that
your grandfather was like kind of like
wise like a sage. You know how they say
the matriarch? This I I feel like the
male version of that is patriarch like
just very wise like counsel people going
to Shani your I I hope I'm pronouncing
everything correctly for advice and um
and just
uh like counsel a lot of counsel and the
one thing that I pick up for you is if
if you have not started to think about
I hear that song you can go your own way
like starting your own business or side
thing a little bit on your own whether
it has to do with your chosen career
or
says something else
really consider
uh doing that now if you are in a space
where you are in a in a company or
whatever where you're just not
feeling appreciated
and you're not ready to go off on your
own, you can start on your own a little
bit. Could just feel the waters,
whatever. Um,
if you're not ready to do that,
at least look at what else is available
out there so that you feel
you know what
like like what's good for you? Like
I feel like if you
there's some I I feel like whether it's
going off on your own or something a new
company or something there might be
something like with the song you can go
your own way. I just feel like there's
something that will be coming in for you
either either way
that you look at that. Okay. So, it
would either be
starting on your own, maybe one one
thing at a time and building it up
while you're still there or looking for
a completely different position
altogether. I'm sorry, my nose is a
little itchy. If you if you if you look
now,
I don't know why I hear look now and
then a pause and then hurry. Um
but I think you know you might be
pleasantly surprised at what you find.
Aana, I hope that was really helpful for
you. I really do. I feel like if there's
discontentment like your grandfather is
saying if there's discontent if you're
dis discontentment with where you are it
you should not be in a place where it is
not
like good and and that is a sign to that
there's something better for you that's
a sign to start looking for something
else. Okay.
All righty. Uh,
it's so funny. I I don't know why this
happens, but I'm looking in the chat and
when I I'll I'll type a a message into
the chat and it says like, "Hi, Karen."
But then when I
scroll off of it, it says, "Do it." with
some weird symbols. I don't know. I
don't know how this happens. Okay. Um,
Emma. Hey. Hey, Emma. Please tell me if
this guy named I don't know how to
pronounce it. Banan,
I'm guessing
the right person for me to marry. You
know what, Emma? I'm really, really
sorry. I'm going to be really honest. As
soon as I asked, as soon as I read that
earlier, I did get like no. So, I did
try to clarify with Emma and I said
like, "How how far into a relationship?
Are the two of you?" And she said,
"We're friends, but more than friends.
I want to know if he is the one for me.
And should I move ahead with this
romantically?"
No, sweetie. I feel like he is not. I
feel like there's someone else that's
going to come in that like is going to
be such a good fit for you. It's going
to be so strong and powerful and it's
going to be so
uh kind of it'll be different. There's
nothing wrong with this person. Let me
say that. There's absolutely nothing
wrong with this person.
If you tried to make it work, if you
tried to move ahead romantically,
because I know how us women are once
we're we're involved with somebody and
we start bonding to them, we we try to
we really really try to like make it
work no matter what. We're like, "No,
no, no. I no, I I want to and I'm just
going to say if you try to
some time will pass, but eventually
it might end up
you know,
not being
where or what you want it to be.
And I'm double-checking right now.
Um, I'm asking it in all different ways.
And I'm really happy that you did tap in
to ask that because
for women, I think it can be a little
different for men because they can they
can detach their feelings a little bit
where women it's all the feels go in
like we're like all about those feelings
when we're involved. So I hope that
helps love. I really really hope it
helps. Um
Karen says, "Hi Tony, ready to move on.
Do you see someone new for me? Yes. Um,
it's going to be a little bit of time
before this someone new comes in. It's
okay if you have like
before that actual
situation comes in, the the longer term
relationship. You might have a few
people that you meet that are like just
a couple coffees or, you know, just some
good conversation. I see one of them
possibly being like a dinner and that
guy really likes you, but I don't feel
like it's going to be like a mutual
click for a bit of time. So, go ahead
and, you know, talk to people, enjoy
their company.
um
and
ha uh have some conversations.
I feel like your person's going to be
coming in
maybe next year, which when when we say
that does it no, it could be December
and we could say next year and it would
[clears throat] seem so far away. So
this for the rest of the year just enjoy
your time, enjoy going out and doing
things and uh that doesn't mean don't
come like go ahead and and have a few
dates and talk and meet people. Um,
and ironically,
ironically, Karen,
this the connection you're going to
have, the per wait, let me say this
differently. The person you're going to
meet,
the person that you're you're going to
meet and have a longer relationship with
is somebody
you don't know him. However,
I don't I'm going to say it exactly like
I'm hearing it. Someone you're involved
with knows them.
Now, you can
This could be a friend because you're
involved with your friends, right? This
could be a friend or
it could
uh be somebody you meet for coffee. I
don't know. I don't know.
Let's get messy. [laughter]
Let's get messy from the beginning. I'm
kidding. Um,
but you don't know this person. Uh, when
you meet them, you're going to be
surprised at who they are. And I don't
know why it's coming out that way, but
it is. But it is going to be a little
bit of time before you meet this person.
So, go ahead and
uh, you know, talk to a few people, have
a few dates, whatever. Okay. Love.
Okay. Hey, Fawn.
Uh
um let's see.
Barely Soulful
says,
"Hi,
I want to know if my grandmother
I'm trying to read the the name. Uh if
my grandmother
veneer vineer
venere
has any message for me. I'm you guys.
I'm really sorry
that some of the names are very
unfamiliar to me. So I'm doing my best
to try to pronounce them. But I can I
can get it. I can get it. Okay. Barely.
So full. Your grandma,
your I'm just going to call her grandma
V. She's here.
I feel like your grandma loved love
songs cuz the first thing I either she
loved love songs or this is for you that
song I'm all out of love. I'm so lost
without you. And I would normally make
fun of that song. I started to, but
because it's your grandmother, that that
could be how you feel about the
situation. So, I'm not going to make fun
of that song. Um,
I and I want to [clears throat] ask you,
uh, Barely So, have you been feeling
like a bit
lonely or stranged lately? Have you been
feeling a bit
on your own?
Cuz everything I'm I'm getting is like
it it's in that that sort of thing where
you're feeling a bit lonely,
estranged, on your own, like kind of
feeling like you maybe you don't know
even if you have people around. You
know, the loneliest place to be in the
world is in a house full of people by
yourself.
The loneliest place to be in the world
is in a house full of people
by yourself.
So, um that doesn't mean you are like
literally physically alone. It could
mean that you just are feeling
a little by yourself. I don't know. I
I'm hoping or maybe your grandmother
felt this way, but this is what's coming
through so far. Um the message is get
out
and then she intentionally stopped. I
thought there was going that that that
was not the end of the sentence,
but it is. Get out.
And I said it again hoping there would
be more to the sentence. Um, start doing
things
kind of on your own. Uh, uh, live your
life. Figure out what you want again and
move forward with that. And it it I'm
going to say like whether that's with uh
work or hobbies or just trying something
new. It's really important for you to
get out right now. However, now you
barely soulful. What's going on in your
life? Because I that is not where I
thought that that that uh would go. I
did not think that that
I think if if that
you're going to understand that message
better that how you understand that
message for you is is the way it's meant
to be. I can hear that message and
think, "Oh, it maybe it means this or
maybe it means that." You're going to
understand it
exactly the way it's supposed to be for
the exact part of your life it's
supposed to be for. Okay. Barely so
full. Thank you so much for the
question. If you guys have a question,
please put it in the chat um
about life, love, career, finances, or
connect with a loved one. I just need
their first name and their relationship
to you. Thank you.
Okay, let's see.
Thank you, Fawn. [sighs and gasps] Crazy
Polaroid.
Will Casey likely
agree to being a partner of my media
brand? Okay.
[gasps] Uh not at this time, love. I
feel like there are other things going
on [snorts]
or and or might have too much
expectation.
Might they their expectation they might
like want too much or too much expect if
they do agree they might want too much
or expect too much. It I hear it might
cost you too much. It might cost you too
much. whatever that means for you, love.
And if I'm saying the name wrong, it
could be Cassie.
I don't think it is. Um,
uh, pay attention to the fine print. Pay
pay very close attention to the fine
print, especially,
um, the fine print about if it doesn't
work out. Okay, that's really important.
Okay.
Ah,
[gasps] Karen says, "I love the new
background.
Looks great." Thank you so much.
Oh, thank you, Aana. Thank you so much
for the compliment. Um, Heather, good
afternoon. Hey, Heather. Hope you had a
great weekend. I did. It was fun. I had
a [clears throat] really I had a really
fun weekend. Woohoo.
[laughter] What's that? I don't know the
words to that song. I just know the
woohoo.
Oh my goodness. The school of
flourishing. Hey Tony,
I would like to know what the next Oh, I
don't do that on here. Love. If you want
to know what the next three to six
months, First of all, that's not like a
like a
There's a lot. If you want a timeline
reading like the next three to six
months, please book a private session.
And if you want to know the next six
months,
um yeah, you would definitely need to
book like a 30 minute session. If you
have a more specific question, I can
answer that on here. Um but uh yeah, I
don't do like that sort of answer on
here. love. Um,
okay. Let's see.
Let's see. Let's see. And you guys,
thank you for all the donations. I'm
really grateful. And one thing I want to
say
is if you've been in
unhealthy, toxic, whatever
relationships, I really do recommend
this. And if you are on a journey and
you want to
open your mind a bit, I do recommend
this. This one we do every Tuesday, one
question. And this one we eventually I
will do a book club for this one. But
more importantly I have a program called
relationship recovery for this one. Now
I want to be clear this isn't only like
love relationship. This is
like some of us grew up in unhealthy
uh
cycles in our childhood. Some of us grew
up in unhealthy first, second, third
relationships. Some of us have unhealthy
like
friends. Uh, not friends, fam. Uh,
siblings. That's the word I'm looking
for, siblings. Or we keep getting that
same type of guy. We keep getting that
same type of work situation. And this
kind of really does
help to to to hopefully help you have
that light bulb moment and to let you
know most of all most of all it's it's
not you. It's not only you.
Um and it's not
it's it's not something you have to
stick with or stay with. I'm going to
I'm going to share a little story with
you guys. I had a client
and I love love love her. I'm not going
to say her name. Um I'm sure she would
not care. She was in this [sighs]
marriage
for a very very long time. And finally
at the age of 70
she divorced.
And
her thing that she said to me was,
"I kept waiting for him to change to get
it to to be that to just get it to be
and they they had children." And so, and
she said, "I just kept waiting for him
to get it. I kept waiting for it to get
better. I kept waiting
um
for him to to be not, you know, all the
things we wait for. Oh, he's going to
get it. He's going to change. He's going
to go back to the person he was in the
beginning." Um, so at 70ish,
she finally said,
"He's not changing. the only thing
that'll change is if I leave. And she
did at 70. She left and she just said,
"That's it. No more. I'm not doing it
anymore."
And
the one thing I got from that is don't
wait. People are who they are. Whoever
they show up as is not the person
they're going to be three or six months
in or even a year in. And whoever they
end up being to you,
that's who they're going to be. And the
only you can't
in most cases help them be a diff
different version of themselves. They
were that in the beginning and if that's
who they wanted to be with you, they
would. So, my biggest thing
for this little bitty book here is
if you get a light bulb moment that
helps you understand
the situation, takes away confusion,
whatever it is, it was worth it. It was
so worth it. Um, and these this is based
on not only my situations,
my friends situations, my family
situations, my client, it's based on all
of it. All of it together.
um
to help people
not try to
glue together a broken glass that you'll
never be able to drink out of cuz it's
just going to leak all over the place no
matter what. So yeah. Okay, let's see
what we have here.
>> [gasps]
>> Uh
that Dano. Hello. Yes, Dano, you may ask
a question.
Oh uh Amish
comedian. Hey Amish comedian. Thank you.
I'm grateful for you guys also.
I ah
no [laughter] no no I can't I'm not even
gonna I'm not even gonna say that I
Amish comedian I think that's a joke.
I'm just gonna take that as a joke and
move on. I do not do uh circumcisions.
I'm not sure really what you mean by
that but yes. No. Okay. I just lost my
place. Uh
okay. Let's see. Where are we? Right
here.
Thank you so much, Fawn. Um, oh, Joe
Cocker is a singer. Awesome.
Oh, I love that he sings Sitting on the
Dock of the Bay. I love that song. That
is such a great song. Okay. Uh,
okay.
Hey, Darlene,
I'm still live, love. Okay. Michelle
Diaz. Michelle, hello from Canada. Hey,
Canada. Hi Michelle,
best wishes to you and your family.
Thank you so much. Is there any advice
or guidance from my guides, ancestors or
my father Martin
who passed away? It has been very hard
without him.
Okay. [sighs]
So first when I [snorts] when I ask is
your father here the first thing I see
is a man who was I don't want to say
stocky but he wasn't thin
he wasn't thin
and I don't know why I don't know if
this is your father or your grandfather
but I see flannel like a flannel looking
top and
like a uh I don't want to say stocky
because I feel like just bigger boned
but the message for you is sometimes it
doesn't get easier. Sometimes we get
used to it. Isn't that the truth?
Sometimes it is it doesn't get easier.
We just get used to it. Um
and your father says it's it's it's a
sign of
it's uh first of all he's just saying
it's a sign of the times, but then he's
saying also that
Embrace the good moments that you have
and allow yourself to have the good
moments. Don't be in a space where you
feel like you're having to um like it's
not okay to be happy. It's not that you
have to mourn.
Uh
allow yourself the pleasures of life is
what he is saying. and allow yourself to
be in that space where you can be
uh in in situations and things that make
you happier or the things that you love
in life, the things you want to do, who
you want to be around. And don't suffer
yourself around people you don't want to
be around. Um
you don't have to tell them, but you can
be
minimize or minimal amount of time with
them and then be able to move on.
There's relief coming in about uh 6
months. You'll feel not so heavy in your
heart, but also there will be some other
relief coming in whether it be financial
or just your energetic relief. And if
you have an energetic release, it will
also bring in a little bit more finance.
Um
and then he he's saying don't suffer
fools. Don't suffer fools
love. Whatever that means for you, I
hope it makes sense, sweetie.
Hey, darling. Good to see you. You want
to know is any message on love? Um,
[sighs]
Darlene, they're saying um
the the first thing I hear is that song,
take it easy. Go slow. Don't Well, the
song is take it easy.
Um,
and then they say just go slow. Take
your time.
Don't,
this is a really big one for us girlies.
Don't settle because you think you can't
do you can't get or do any better
or don't
don't accept accept someone
thinking
this is just how it is or how it goes.
Um
because I if you if you're not
like really impatient, I don't want to
use the word desperate, but if some
people just really want to be in a
relationship, they really want to be in
love. And I get that. I love I love
that. We all love that feeling when we
meet someone and it's so exciting and
good in the beginning.
Um,
but don't
h
don't compromise. Thank you. Don't
compromise what you want because you
think don't compromise because you think
what you want isn't out there. I hope
that makes sense, sweetie. I hope it
does. Yeah. I'm going to say this.
Every day of the week. Every single day
of the week. If if you know this, you
know it. Like this is one of those if
you know, you know. Every single day of
the week,
a nice guy, a good guy,
a healthy guy, a calm guy, a peaceful
guy, or or woman or woman. Beats out
hot. Beats out comfortable.
beats out
whatever other
thing every day of the week because the
nice guy, the good guy isn't going to do
the things
the other way. Okay. All righty. Enough
about that. Let's move on.
>> [snorts]
>> Okay.
You're so welcome, Aana. You're so
welcome.
Ricky. Ricky. Hey. How are you today?
Good morning, Tony. Dear, happy Monday.
Happy Monday. New week. Happy
retrograde. Full moon. Oh, yeah. It's
crazy in these skies right now. There's
something with cancer that's supposed to
make people just spout off. just be like
out of their mouth. So, be careful what
you say. Right now, it's a full moon
tonight. It's a retrograde. I think the
retrograde is a retrograde in Mars and
Cancer. I don't know. But it's
this this next bit of time. Just like
watch your words. That's all I can say.
Um,
thank you so much for all the
compliments. Do you see financial uh
[sighs]
do you see financial future and trips in
future? Thanks dear to um
trips. Yes, I feel why do I hear to the
shore? To the shore. You're going to
make some trips to the shore. I don't
know what shore, but to the shore.
You're going to know.
Then I hear the Jersey shore. Uh when I
say I don't know what shore. You know,
if you want to do trips, you're going to
be able to do them. You just have to
plan them out. Be strategic.
Just be very strategic and you will be
good. Um, and don't over
like don't overindulge, don't overspend,
and everything will be good. Okay.
I of
I have a little brother. Hey, how are
you, Desiree?
Oh, wait. Nope. Have to change it. Got
it wrong. Hey, Tony. Is Desiree happy in
her marriage?
I'm going to say it exactly the way I'm
hearing it. She's as happy as she can
be.
I hope that makes sense to you. At
first, I thought you told you were
saying my name is Desiree because I
skipped words. I'm sorry. Um, she's as
happy as she can be. There's I think she
either she only allows herself to be so
happy or the situation because of the
the dynamics of it, she's as happy as
she can be. Okay.
I do feel like
she kind of might not always allow
herself a lot of joy.
Okay.
Uh,
let's go to MJ Zen. Should I continue to
talk with my sister about our parents? I
instantly get a no.
Which one of you is like one of you is
overwhelmed and the other one is done?
Like like they don't want to. I feel
like maybe your sister doesn't want to
hear it, but like one of you might
either she's overwhelmed and she doesn't
want one of you like there's I hear
overwhelmed done and then there's
nothing like there's nothing that can be
done about the situation
if that's what I'm getting. Um
so just for right now give it a break.
In about a month and a half it it will
be revisited because of a circumstance
and then in six months everybody will
closely look at it because they'll have
to. But don't push it now because
sometimes but like whatever it is it's
it's it's just it is what it is. people
don't want to
deal with it because they're
overwhelmed, because there's too much or
because they feel powerless in the
situation. So, it's it's not the right
time yet, love, or at this time, month
and a half and then at the six month
mark. The six month mark could be six
months from the month and a half or six
months from now. You're going to know
when the time comes.
[clears throat]
Excuse my froggginess.
Uh, [sighs]
okay. I'm looking for the next question.
I'm trying to read the names, you guys,
cuz they're the they're their their
YouTube names. They're not like the
normal names. So, I'm it's a bunch of
letters together that you normally
wouldn't see. So, Ishita
says, "Hello, I want to know when I'm
going to meet the right person for me
romantically."
Okay. Uh, is she done? If there's
anything you need to clear out,
like you know how we date and then like
we're over the last person but we
haven't healed from the last person and
certain things like still make us like
about the last person. Um,
get let it go because there's the
potential for somebody to come in in a
month.
Yeah, a month and this could be a really
good relationship, but this person
doesn't put up with stuff.
Um,
this person won't play games. They're a
good person. They're a really good
person, but they don't play games.
They're not they don't put up with any
nonsense, any immaturity.
So like
if you're if you test if you test
somebody like in a relationship, if you
want to
uh what they're not going to deal with
that
they'll they don't have time for that.
Um
so
really don't look at it as and I say
this a lot you guys you know when we say
am I I want to I want to meet someone I
want to date someone
I I want this I want like I want you to
think I want to meet my husband even if
you don't want to get married like that
husband type person and when we think of
someone we're just dating We'll put up
with certain things that we would never
put up with if we were like from the
jump from the jump if we were like
uh okay this person's my husband
we would not allow certain behaviors but
because we think well we're just dating
yada yada
but if we're like this is my husband
this is not the type of way I want to
spend the rest of my life [snorts] and
then the second thing is if I were his
wife, how would I behave as a wife?
Okay, now flip it, switch it. If you're
the male, the female, how would I behave
as a husband? How would I behave as a
wife? How what expectations do I have
for my husband to behave as a man and in
a relationship?
And then
be that. And if they don't show up the
same, don't be afraid to walk away.
Because that's a thing we think, will I
meet someone better? Of course. Of
course. Like,
of course.
Right. There's millions upon millions of
people out here. Of course. And then,
um, oh, but we get hooked on the Oh, but
but maybe or what if. What if what if he
was the one? If he was the one, he would
not be dragging you. He would not be
treating you in a way that makes you
question it or she would not. They would
not be be
in any way having you question it if
they're the one. If you believe in the
one. Okay? So, please know that. And
also
don't allow yourself to to to think,
well, if I just say it this way, they're
going to get
[clears throat] they're not eight,
they're not 10, they're not even 16. If
they didn't get it by then, chances are,
you know,
they're not going to. Um, okay. But in a
month, in a month, love, I feel like
there's the potential for somebody to
come in in approximately a month. Uh, be
ready. Be ready and be
be in that position.
Be in the position of the relationship
you want. And now that doesn't mean
start doing wife things. That means
behave as the person you would be. No
games. This person does not like
immaturity or games at all. Okay. Uh
Tanya,
hello. Hopefully I'm not too late. Any
messages from my dad, Bill?
Why do I hear same old same old? Right.
Right from the jump. Same old, same old.
Is that something somebody used to say a
lot or you say a lot? Um,
there's a song there's a beat playing in
my head.
Okay. Stand up something. Stand up for
your rights. That song is coming
through. At first I couldn't even get
the words like the words were muffled.
So that song is coming through. And why
do I hear reggae? That's so random.
Reggae. Maybe is that song reggae? Um I
don't [laughter] even know.
Okay. Um the next thing I hear, Tanya.
Are you taking something? Are you taking
a pill at night?
I see a glass of wa I see someone like
this is what I'm seeing Tanya. I'm not
trying to call you out.
Someone in pajamas sitting on the edge
of the bed with a glass of water and a
pillow putting it and taking it.
Whatever that means for you. It doesn't
mean you are. It could mean somebody
else did or is. Um
if if you are, that's a confirmation.
That's a if that's about you, it's a
confirmation.
Um, also go natural with anything you're
doing. Try to make everything as natural
as possible.
Uh, [sighs]
okay. And he says, "Th
talk talk to him." He says, "Talk to me
more. Talk to me about it. tell me
everything.
And I think that has more to do with you
just like
talking about it because I feel like
Tanya sometimes we feel like we don't
want to like we might say little bits
and pieces to people but we don't put
the whole thing on them. He's saying put
it on me. Put it on me.
So I h that makes me very very
okay Tanya that's what he has for you
love and have fun this summer. I hear
that song uh summer loving loving summer
loving and then I hear um
girls just want to have fun. So get out
and have fun. Don't let don't let let
things
put you down.
uh get out and live your life. Like if
this is heavy, go where it's light. Like
if
for example
if your job's really heavy and it's a
lot of responsibility when you're not at
work just freaking you know
I don't know go go go where it's really
light and you can have fun and do that
like kind of to balance do the balancing
act sort of thing. Okay. Um Tanya I do
feel like there's a trip coming up for
you. Um it I don't know if it's a girls
trip. Now girls could be you uh and
family, the girls of the family. It
could be female friends. It could be um
but I hear the girls the girls. And even
if it's just like a weekend or an
overnight, say yes. And maybe that's the
balancing of it. I feel like and there
might be another trip after that. uh
whatever they are
within your
uh realm. Uh go for it. Go for it. Okay,
Tanya.
Okay.
Um
Okay, next is
[sighs]
[gasps]
Karen. That is so awesome. Karen says,
"I'll be 75, so I'm excited to live each
day." I love that. Yeah, we have to,
right? Absolutely.
Hey, Rebecca, how are you? Thank you,
Rebecca and Fawn, for everything you do.
Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you. Thank you.
Okay, you guys. Uh, I'm looking at the
clock and I'm looking at uh
uh questions.
Uh, Katherine says, Katherine K9, I love
that name.
It's She says,
um, hi Tony. I have been actively
applying for a new job.
Do you see me getting it soon and is
good for me? Thank you. Oh, thank you so
much for the coffee. I appreciate that.
Um,
I see something coming in in July. You
don't know about this yet.
Second, this I think you're going to
find out about this position the second
week of July. I don't I hear remote, but
I feel like I don't feel like it's fully
remote. I feel like part maybe. I don't
know. Um
I feel like the second week of July is
when you're going to find out about it.
The beginning,
maybe the beginning of the second week,
the seventh or eighth. maybe
maybe the sixth, but the seventh or
eighth. And then you're going to find
out about it then. And then um
I think there's going to be a a couple
of new listings that you apply to and
you're going to end up
with one of those. It's going to be
good. You're going to like it. You're
really going to like it
a lot. You're going to like the position
a lot and you're going to be really
grateful. I I feel like it's coming in
right in the nick of time. Okay? And I'm
going to say this for anybody and
everybody looking for for work
positions.
Clean up your social media. make just
while you're looking, make it all
private and make sure your resumes and
your applications can go through AI
because these are the things they're
checking now before you even
get like they have AI run they run your
things through AI
and I even though I don't like AI I
really don't but because we are in the
world we are today. I would say AI, this
is what I did.
Uh, put it in the proper way for this
company and and have it have AI kind of
help you build your resume and your your
everything. Um, make sure there are no
errors and go from there. Um
but the the sixth and seventh really
stand out and then the eighth for
finding positions.
Um and I always say don't only apply
where you see it but go to the company
and look at the other pos their
positions apply from there and then also
what other positions do they have
available. Okay, I will see you guys
very soon again. You are so loved by so
many. And um until next time, have an
absolutely amazing rest of the day.
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