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In this engaging live stream, psychic medium Toni Green introduces his latest book, "When Denial Ends, The Healing Journey Begins," a concise 99-page guide filled with affirmations designed to help viewers let go of denial and embrace their true selves. Green emphasizes that perfection is found in accepting people exactly as they are rather than trying to fix them, and he encourages the audience not to feel upset if someone was not meant for them, suggesting there may be many potential partners rather than just one. Throughout the session, he shares insights from his previous works and promotes a book club series held every Tuesday, where they explore themes like whether repeating negative patterns are actually signals pointing toward necessary healing within oneself. He also mentions his availability for private readings, corporate events, and birthday parties, while noting that his hypnosis CDs and other books can be purchased on his website. Green dedicates a significant portion of the video to answering viewer questions from the chat, addressing topics ranging from career advice to romantic relationships and connecting with departed loved ones. He advises a viewer named Aana that her wise grandfather would encourage her to start her own business or side project if she feels unappreciated in her current role, noting that discontentment is often a sign that something better is available. When asked about a potential marriage partner by Emma, Green honestly delivers a "no," explaining that while the person in question has no flaws, forcing a relationship with someone who isn't the right fit will likely lead to pain and disappointment, especially for women who tend to bond deeply and try hard to make things work despite incompatibility. The medium continues to offer specific guidance on love and life transitions, telling Karen that her next serious relationship is likely a year away but advising her to enjoy dating casually in the meantime without pressure. He reveals an interesting detail about this future partner: she will not know them personally yet, but someone she is currently involved with already knows them. For another viewer feeling lonely despite being surrounded by people, Green delivers a powerful message from her grandmother to "get out" and start living life on her own terms through new hobbies or work endeavors. He also warns viewers about the dangers of settling for less than they deserve, reminding them that nice, healthy partners exist every day and that one should not compromise their standards just because they fear being alone. Throughout the session, Green touches upon various spiritual and practical topics, including the upcoming retrograde in Mars and Cancer, urging everyone to watch their words carefully during this astrological event. He answers questions about financial trips, predicting shore-related travel for a viewer if they plan strategically without overspending. He also provides comfort to those grieving, telling a viewer whose father passed away that while pain may not always get easier, we simply learn to adapt and should allow ourselves to embrace good moments rather than suffering unnecessarily. Finally, he offers career advice to job seekers, suggesting they clean up their social media profiles for AI screening processes and targeting specific weeks in July for new opportunities, concluding with a reminder that there are millions of people out there and one should never settle for a relationship that makes them question their worth or feel dragged down.
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[music] Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green. I'm the psychic medium, hypnotist, channel, healer, all the things. All the things. Okay. I am the author of eight books. And guess what I have in my hands? It's such a tiny book with such pertinent information. Look at this. It's here. [laughter] I am so happy. Okay, so from cover to cover, 99 pages. But let me This is my latest book, by the way. When denial ends, the healing journey begins. and I want to um tell you a little bit of what's in the book. So, I'm just gonna read um some of the things um I already see. Okay, so here's this is just on the back cover. Let's go on the greatest journey of your lifetime. The journey of you. Um, and I'm going to open it just to any page and just read one of the things in here. The pages are not numbered, though. Um, [sighs] they sound so harsh, but they're really not. They're just very like things that you know what a lot of this is things we wish our mothers would have taught us. Things we wish our mothers would have known. Okay, so this one says, "Your person is not a fixer uper. Your person will be perfect for you the way they are." I love that. I love it so much. Um, don't be upset if you're not the one. Not everyone was the one for you. And maybe there's not just one, right? Like maybe there's not just one. Okay. A lot more of that in these little pages. Yep. Chalk full of things like that. Okay, this is book number eight. Love it. Love it to bits and pieces. Um here is book number seven. What if a transformational guide? And we do a book club on this every single Tuesday. [clears throat] And tomorrow's question which I which it tomorrow's question is what if the negative patterns or things that repeat in your life repeat to show us what we need to heal in us. That's tomorrow's question at noon right here where you are right now. Well on YouTube. On YouTube. Okay. Don't get scammed. I will never ever reach out to you. I do have hypnosis CDs available um on my web page. Also, all of my books where you can get them and the hypnosis CDs on the web page. Uh okay. I'm available for private readings, pop call readings, corporate uh group charity events, all the things. name it. And their birthday parties. Yeah. All the things. Okay. Oh no, I forgot the I forgot the the things again. The the uh songs again. That's okay because we've got them. We've got we've got songs. We have a lot of songs. All righty. Here we go. So, I'm going to do songs from heaven. It may be a song, you know, a a song your loved one knew and listened to. I hear Tammy Wette already. I don't need my list because they're coming in strong. Um, a song you loved, your loved one loved, you listened to together. It could be the answer to a question. The next time you hear it, it could be that your loved ones with you. Um, hear me wet. And then I hear, "Stand by your man." I have no words on that. Although I have a lot of words on that. I have no words on that. Next song. I'm just moving right along. Right along. [gasps and laughter] The next song is uh um give me a second. [clears throat] Uh Joe Cocker. Is that like Joe Cocker? Is that a joke? I feel like it's not a joke. I feel like it's not a joke. Okay. Apparently, they're just coming through with artists. Uh Tina Turner, Jim, Jim, Jimmy, Jimmy Hendris, and then that song. Her name was Lola. Lola Fana. I don't know if that's her name. I think I'm singing it that way. I don't know if that's the name. Um and then, uh that's the song. Um, is there like a lolita and then up all night, up all night, [snorts] sleep all day. [laughter] Back in the day, that song meant one thing. To women going through menopause, that song means a whole [laughter] another thing now. [gasps] >> [laughter] >> Sorry. Okay, next. Okay, next. [laughter] Um, give a little bit Give a little bit of your love to me. That song. Okay, now I want to go to names. Even though like they keep saying songs, songs songs. Um, I'll do songs with names or confirmations. This could be the name of love one of your loved one of a family member, family, friend, pet. It's to let your loved one know you're there with you. It's just a confirmation person, place, pet, thing. That's what I'm trying to say. And if you if you hear it and it makes you think of someone, it's for you. No matter no matter how many people it's for, it's also for you. Okay. Joseph H. Helena. Helena. Margaret. James, Pamela, Belinda, Melissa, George, Lisa, Mickey, Sandy or Sandra. And then they're showing me Cassandra. And then I see they're I hear Pete, but I see P A we e like pee-wee. Peeweee. I I'm not sure about that, but that's what I'm getting. So, I'm giving it. Okay, I'm going to start to go into questions. Um, and we'll see what we'll see what we come up with. Okay, guys. Thank you so much for being here. Um, I'm here every Monday at noon to answer your questions. The questions can be about life, love, career, finance. They can be about uh connecting with a loved one on the other side. I just need your loved ones first name and their relationship to you. And what else? I think that's everything. I'll I'll go through more as we go through it, but yes, that's that's pretty much it. Okay, let's see. Uh, hey, good morning Karen. Hi Aana. Ahana says, "Hey Tony, I want to know I want to know what advice does my grandfather Shaunie want to give me?" And then I did ask Aana is there a specific area and so he said career business. Ahana, the first thing um the first thing I'm getting Aana is that your grandfather was like kind of like wise like a sage. You know how they say the matriarch? This I I feel like the male version of that is patriarch like just very wise like counsel people going to Shani your I I hope I'm pronouncing everything correctly for advice and um and just uh like counsel a lot of counsel and the one thing that I pick up for you is if if you have not started to think about I hear that song you can go your own way like starting your own business or side thing a little bit on your own whether it has to do with your chosen career or says something else really consider uh doing that now if you are in a space where you are in a in a company or whatever where you're just not feeling appreciated and you're not ready to go off on your own, you can start on your own a little bit. Could just feel the waters, whatever. Um, if you're not ready to do that, at least look at what else is available out there so that you feel you know what like like what's good for you? Like I feel like if you there's some I I feel like whether it's going off on your own or something a new company or something there might be something like with the song you can go your own way. I just feel like there's something that will be coming in for you either either way that you look at that. Okay. So, it would either be starting on your own, maybe one one thing at a time and building it up while you're still there or looking for a completely different position altogether. I'm sorry, my nose is a little itchy. If you if you if you look now, I don't know why I hear look now and then a pause and then hurry. Um but I think you know you might be pleasantly surprised at what you find. Aana, I hope that was really helpful for you. I really do. I feel like if there's discontentment like your grandfather is saying if there's discontent if you're dis discontentment with where you are it you should not be in a place where it is not like good and and that is a sign to that there's something better for you that's a sign to start looking for something else. Okay. All righty. Uh, it's so funny. I I don't know why this happens, but I'm looking in the chat and when I I'll I'll type a a message into the chat and it says like, "Hi, Karen." But then when I scroll off of it, it says, "Do it." with some weird symbols. I don't know. I don't know how this happens. Okay. Um, Emma. Hey. Hey, Emma. Please tell me if this guy named I don't know how to pronounce it. Banan, I'm guessing the right person for me to marry. You know what, Emma? I'm really, really sorry. I'm going to be really honest. As soon as I asked, as soon as I read that earlier, I did get like no. So, I did try to clarify with Emma and I said like, "How how far into a relationship? Are the two of you?" And she said, "We're friends, but more than friends. I want to know if he is the one for me. And should I move ahead with this romantically?" No, sweetie. I feel like he is not. I feel like there's someone else that's going to come in that like is going to be such a good fit for you. It's going to be so strong and powerful and it's going to be so uh kind of it'll be different. There's nothing wrong with this person. Let me say that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with this person. If you tried to make it work, if you tried to move ahead romantically, because I know how us women are once we're we're involved with somebody and we start bonding to them, we we try to we really really try to like make it work no matter what. We're like, "No, no, no. I no, I I want to and I'm just going to say if you try to some time will pass, but eventually it might end up you know, not being where or what you want it to be. And I'm double-checking right now. Um, I'm asking it in all different ways. And I'm really happy that you did tap in to ask that because for women, I think it can be a little different for men because they can they can detach their feelings a little bit where women it's all the feels go in like we're like all about those feelings when we're involved. So I hope that helps love. I really really hope it helps. Um Karen says, "Hi Tony, ready to move on. Do you see someone new for me? Yes. Um, it's going to be a little bit of time before this someone new comes in. It's okay if you have like before that actual situation comes in, the the longer term relationship. You might have a few people that you meet that are like just a couple coffees or, you know, just some good conversation. I see one of them possibly being like a dinner and that guy really likes you, but I don't feel like it's going to be like a mutual click for a bit of time. So, go ahead and, you know, talk to people, enjoy their company. um and ha uh have some conversations. I feel like your person's going to be coming in maybe next year, which when when we say that does it no, it could be December and we could say next year and it would [clears throat] seem so far away. So this for the rest of the year just enjoy your time, enjoy going out and doing things and uh that doesn't mean don't come like go ahead and and have a few dates and talk and meet people. Um, and ironically, ironically, Karen, this the connection you're going to have, the per wait, let me say this differently. The person you're going to meet, the person that you're you're going to meet and have a longer relationship with is somebody you don't know him. However, I don't I'm going to say it exactly like I'm hearing it. Someone you're involved with knows them. Now, you can This could be a friend because you're involved with your friends, right? This could be a friend or it could uh be somebody you meet for coffee. I don't know. I don't know. Let's get messy. [laughter] Let's get messy from the beginning. I'm kidding. Um, but you don't know this person. Uh, when you meet them, you're going to be surprised at who they are. And I don't know why it's coming out that way, but it is. But it is going to be a little bit of time before you meet this person. So, go ahead and uh, you know, talk to a few people, have a few dates, whatever. Okay. Love. Okay. Hey, Fawn. Uh um let's see. Barely Soulful says, "Hi, I want to know if my grandmother I'm trying to read the the name. Uh if my grandmother veneer vineer venere has any message for me. I'm you guys. I'm really sorry that some of the names are very unfamiliar to me. So I'm doing my best to try to pronounce them. But I can I can get it. I can get it. Okay. Barely. So full. Your grandma, your I'm just going to call her grandma V. She's here. I feel like your grandma loved love songs cuz the first thing I either she loved love songs or this is for you that song I'm all out of love. I'm so lost without you. And I would normally make fun of that song. I started to, but because it's your grandmother, that that could be how you feel about the situation. So, I'm not going to make fun of that song. Um, I and I want to [clears throat] ask you, uh, Barely So, have you been feeling like a bit lonely or stranged lately? Have you been feeling a bit on your own? Cuz everything I'm I'm getting is like it it's in that that sort of thing where you're feeling a bit lonely, estranged, on your own, like kind of feeling like you maybe you don't know even if you have people around. You know, the loneliest place to be in the world is in a house full of people by yourself. The loneliest place to be in the world is in a house full of people by yourself. So, um that doesn't mean you are like literally physically alone. It could mean that you just are feeling a little by yourself. I don't know. I I'm hoping or maybe your grandmother felt this way, but this is what's coming through so far. Um the message is get out and then she intentionally stopped. I thought there was going that that that was not the end of the sentence, but it is. Get out. And I said it again hoping there would be more to the sentence. Um, start doing things kind of on your own. Uh, uh, live your life. Figure out what you want again and move forward with that. And it it I'm going to say like whether that's with uh work or hobbies or just trying something new. It's really important for you to get out right now. However, now you barely soulful. What's going on in your life? Because I that is not where I thought that that that uh would go. I did not think that that I think if if that you're going to understand that message better that how you understand that message for you is is the way it's meant to be. I can hear that message and think, "Oh, it maybe it means this or maybe it means that." You're going to understand it exactly the way it's supposed to be for the exact part of your life it's supposed to be for. Okay. Barely so full. Thank you so much for the question. If you guys have a question, please put it in the chat um about life, love, career, finances, or connect with a loved one. I just need their first name and their relationship to you. Thank you. Okay, let's see. Thank you, Fawn. [sighs and gasps] Crazy Polaroid. Will Casey likely agree to being a partner of my media brand? Okay. [gasps] Uh not at this time, love. I feel like there are other things going on [snorts] or and or might have too much expectation. Might they their expectation they might like want too much or too much expect if they do agree they might want too much or expect too much. It I hear it might cost you too much. It might cost you too much. whatever that means for you, love. And if I'm saying the name wrong, it could be Cassie. I don't think it is. Um, uh, pay attention to the fine print. Pay pay very close attention to the fine print, especially, um, the fine print about if it doesn't work out. Okay, that's really important. Okay. Ah, [gasps] Karen says, "I love the new background. Looks great." Thank you so much. Oh, thank you, Aana. Thank you so much for the compliment. Um, Heather, good afternoon. Hey, Heather. Hope you had a great weekend. I did. It was fun. I had a [clears throat] really I had a really fun weekend. Woohoo. [laughter] What's that? I don't know the words to that song. I just know the woohoo. Oh my goodness. The school of flourishing. Hey Tony, I would like to know what the next Oh, I don't do that on here. Love. If you want to know what the next three to six months, First of all, that's not like a like a There's a lot. If you want a timeline reading like the next three to six months, please book a private session. And if you want to know the next six months, um yeah, you would definitely need to book like a 30 minute session. If you have a more specific question, I can answer that on here. Um but uh yeah, I don't do like that sort of answer on here. love. Um, okay. Let's see. Let's see. Let's see. And you guys, thank you for all the donations. I'm really grateful. And one thing I want to say is if you've been in unhealthy, toxic, whatever relationships, I really do recommend this. And if you are on a journey and you want to open your mind a bit, I do recommend this. This one we do every Tuesday, one question. And this one we eventually I will do a book club for this one. But more importantly I have a program called relationship recovery for this one. Now I want to be clear this isn't only like love relationship. This is like some of us grew up in unhealthy uh cycles in our childhood. Some of us grew up in unhealthy first, second, third relationships. Some of us have unhealthy like friends. Uh, not friends, fam. Uh, siblings. That's the word I'm looking for, siblings. Or we keep getting that same type of guy. We keep getting that same type of work situation. And this kind of really does help to to to hopefully help you have that light bulb moment and to let you know most of all most of all it's it's not you. It's not only you. Um and it's not it's it's not something you have to stick with or stay with. I'm going to I'm going to share a little story with you guys. I had a client and I love love love her. I'm not going to say her name. Um I'm sure she would not care. She was in this [sighs] marriage for a very very long time. And finally at the age of 70 she divorced. And her thing that she said to me was, "I kept waiting for him to change to get it to to be that to just get it to be and they they had children." And so, and she said, "I just kept waiting for him to get it. I kept waiting for it to get better. I kept waiting um for him to to be not, you know, all the things we wait for. Oh, he's going to get it. He's going to change. He's going to go back to the person he was in the beginning." Um, so at 70ish, she finally said, "He's not changing. the only thing that'll change is if I leave. And she did at 70. She left and she just said, "That's it. No more. I'm not doing it anymore." And the one thing I got from that is don't wait. People are who they are. Whoever they show up as is not the person they're going to be three or six months in or even a year in. And whoever they end up being to you, that's who they're going to be. And the only you can't in most cases help them be a diff different version of themselves. They were that in the beginning and if that's who they wanted to be with you, they would. So, my biggest thing for this little bitty book here is if you get a light bulb moment that helps you understand the situation, takes away confusion, whatever it is, it was worth it. It was so worth it. Um, and these this is based on not only my situations, my friends situations, my family situations, my client, it's based on all of it. All of it together. um to help people not try to glue together a broken glass that you'll never be able to drink out of cuz it's just going to leak all over the place no matter what. So yeah. Okay, let's see what we have here. >> [gasps] >> Uh that Dano. Hello. Yes, Dano, you may ask a question. Oh uh Amish comedian. Hey Amish comedian. Thank you. I'm grateful for you guys also. I ah no [laughter] no no I can't I'm not even gonna I'm not even gonna say that I Amish comedian I think that's a joke. I'm just gonna take that as a joke and move on. I do not do uh circumcisions. I'm not sure really what you mean by that but yes. No. Okay. I just lost my place. Uh okay. Let's see. Where are we? Right here. Thank you so much, Fawn. Um, oh, Joe Cocker is a singer. Awesome. Oh, I love that he sings Sitting on the Dock of the Bay. I love that song. That is such a great song. Okay. Uh, okay. Hey, Darlene, I'm still live, love. Okay. Michelle Diaz. Michelle, hello from Canada. Hey, Canada. Hi Michelle, best wishes to you and your family. Thank you so much. Is there any advice or guidance from my guides, ancestors or my father Martin who passed away? It has been very hard without him. Okay. [sighs] So first when I [snorts] when I ask is your father here the first thing I see is a man who was I don't want to say stocky but he wasn't thin he wasn't thin and I don't know why I don't know if this is your father or your grandfather but I see flannel like a flannel looking top and like a uh I don't want to say stocky because I feel like just bigger boned but the message for you is sometimes it doesn't get easier. Sometimes we get used to it. Isn't that the truth? Sometimes it is it doesn't get easier. We just get used to it. Um and your father says it's it's it's a sign of it's uh first of all he's just saying it's a sign of the times, but then he's saying also that Embrace the good moments that you have and allow yourself to have the good moments. Don't be in a space where you feel like you're having to um like it's not okay to be happy. It's not that you have to mourn. Uh allow yourself the pleasures of life is what he is saying. and allow yourself to be in that space where you can be uh in in situations and things that make you happier or the things that you love in life, the things you want to do, who you want to be around. And don't suffer yourself around people you don't want to be around. Um you don't have to tell them, but you can be minimize or minimal amount of time with them and then be able to move on. There's relief coming in about uh 6 months. You'll feel not so heavy in your heart, but also there will be some other relief coming in whether it be financial or just your energetic relief. And if you have an energetic release, it will also bring in a little bit more finance. Um and then he he's saying don't suffer fools. Don't suffer fools love. Whatever that means for you, I hope it makes sense, sweetie. Hey, darling. Good to see you. You want to know is any message on love? Um, [sighs] Darlene, they're saying um the the first thing I hear is that song, take it easy. Go slow. Don't Well, the song is take it easy. Um, and then they say just go slow. Take your time. Don't, this is a really big one for us girlies. Don't settle because you think you can't do you can't get or do any better or don't don't accept accept someone thinking this is just how it is or how it goes. Um because I if you if you're not like really impatient, I don't want to use the word desperate, but if some people just really want to be in a relationship, they really want to be in love. And I get that. I love I love that. We all love that feeling when we meet someone and it's so exciting and good in the beginning. Um, but don't h don't compromise. Thank you. Don't compromise what you want because you think don't compromise because you think what you want isn't out there. I hope that makes sense, sweetie. I hope it does. Yeah. I'm going to say this. Every day of the week. Every single day of the week. If if you know this, you know it. Like this is one of those if you know, you know. Every single day of the week, a nice guy, a good guy, a healthy guy, a calm guy, a peaceful guy, or or woman or woman. Beats out hot. Beats out comfortable. beats out whatever other thing every day of the week because the nice guy, the good guy isn't going to do the things the other way. Okay. All righty. Enough about that. Let's move on. >> [snorts] >> Okay. You're so welcome, Aana. You're so welcome. Ricky. Ricky. Hey. How are you today? Good morning, Tony. Dear, happy Monday. Happy Monday. New week. Happy retrograde. Full moon. Oh, yeah. It's crazy in these skies right now. There's something with cancer that's supposed to make people just spout off. just be like out of their mouth. So, be careful what you say. Right now, it's a full moon tonight. It's a retrograde. I think the retrograde is a retrograde in Mars and Cancer. I don't know. But it's this this next bit of time. Just like watch your words. That's all I can say. Um, thank you so much for all the compliments. Do you see financial uh [sighs] do you see financial future and trips in future? Thanks dear to um trips. Yes, I feel why do I hear to the shore? To the shore. You're going to make some trips to the shore. I don't know what shore, but to the shore. You're going to know. Then I hear the Jersey shore. Uh when I say I don't know what shore. You know, if you want to do trips, you're going to be able to do them. You just have to plan them out. Be strategic. Just be very strategic and you will be good. Um, and don't over like don't overindulge, don't overspend, and everything will be good. Okay. I of I have a little brother. Hey, how are you, Desiree? Oh, wait. Nope. Have to change it. Got it wrong. Hey, Tony. Is Desiree happy in her marriage? I'm going to say it exactly the way I'm hearing it. She's as happy as she can be. I hope that makes sense to you. At first, I thought you told you were saying my name is Desiree because I skipped words. I'm sorry. Um, she's as happy as she can be. There's I think she either she only allows herself to be so happy or the situation because of the the dynamics of it, she's as happy as she can be. Okay. I do feel like she kind of might not always allow herself a lot of joy. Okay. Uh, let's go to MJ Zen. Should I continue to talk with my sister about our parents? I instantly get a no. Which one of you is like one of you is overwhelmed and the other one is done? Like like they don't want to. I feel like maybe your sister doesn't want to hear it, but like one of you might either she's overwhelmed and she doesn't want one of you like there's I hear overwhelmed done and then there's nothing like there's nothing that can be done about the situation if that's what I'm getting. Um so just for right now give it a break. In about a month and a half it it will be revisited because of a circumstance and then in six months everybody will closely look at it because they'll have to. But don't push it now because sometimes but like whatever it is it's it's it's just it is what it is. people don't want to deal with it because they're overwhelmed, because there's too much or because they feel powerless in the situation. So, it's it's not the right time yet, love, or at this time, month and a half and then at the six month mark. The six month mark could be six months from the month and a half or six months from now. You're going to know when the time comes. [clears throat] Excuse my froggginess. Uh, [sighs] okay. I'm looking for the next question. I'm trying to read the names, you guys, cuz they're the they're their their YouTube names. They're not like the normal names. So, I'm it's a bunch of letters together that you normally wouldn't see. So, Ishita says, "Hello, I want to know when I'm going to meet the right person for me romantically." Okay. Uh, is she done? If there's anything you need to clear out, like you know how we date and then like we're over the last person but we haven't healed from the last person and certain things like still make us like about the last person. Um, get let it go because there's the potential for somebody to come in in a month. Yeah, a month and this could be a really good relationship, but this person doesn't put up with stuff. Um, this person won't play games. They're a good person. They're a really good person, but they don't play games. They're not they don't put up with any nonsense, any immaturity. So like if you're if you test if you test somebody like in a relationship, if you want to uh what they're not going to deal with that they'll they don't have time for that. Um so really don't look at it as and I say this a lot you guys you know when we say am I I want to I want to meet someone I want to date someone I I want this I want like I want you to think I want to meet my husband even if you don't want to get married like that husband type person and when we think of someone we're just dating We'll put up with certain things that we would never put up with if we were like from the jump from the jump if we were like uh okay this person's my husband we would not allow certain behaviors but because we think well we're just dating yada yada but if we're like this is my husband this is not the type of way I want to spend the rest of my life [snorts] and then the second thing is if I were his wife, how would I behave as a wife? Okay, now flip it, switch it. If you're the male, the female, how would I behave as a husband? How would I behave as a wife? How what expectations do I have for my husband to behave as a man and in a relationship? And then be that. And if they don't show up the same, don't be afraid to walk away. Because that's a thing we think, will I meet someone better? Of course. Of course. Like, of course. Right. There's millions upon millions of people out here. Of course. And then, um, oh, but we get hooked on the Oh, but but maybe or what if. What if what if he was the one? If he was the one, he would not be dragging you. He would not be treating you in a way that makes you question it or she would not. They would not be be in any way having you question it if they're the one. If you believe in the one. Okay? So, please know that. And also don't allow yourself to to to think, well, if I just say it this way, they're going to get [clears throat] they're not eight, they're not 10, they're not even 16. If they didn't get it by then, chances are, you know, they're not going to. Um, okay. But in a month, in a month, love, I feel like there's the potential for somebody to come in in approximately a month. Uh, be ready. Be ready and be be in that position. Be in the position of the relationship you want. And now that doesn't mean start doing wife things. That means behave as the person you would be. No games. This person does not like immaturity or games at all. Okay. Uh Tanya, hello. Hopefully I'm not too late. Any messages from my dad, Bill? Why do I hear same old same old? Right. Right from the jump. Same old, same old. Is that something somebody used to say a lot or you say a lot? Um, there's a song there's a beat playing in my head. Okay. Stand up something. Stand up for your rights. That song is coming through. At first I couldn't even get the words like the words were muffled. So that song is coming through. And why do I hear reggae? That's so random. Reggae. Maybe is that song reggae? Um I don't [laughter] even know. Okay. Um the next thing I hear, Tanya. Are you taking something? Are you taking a pill at night? I see a glass of wa I see someone like this is what I'm seeing Tanya. I'm not trying to call you out. Someone in pajamas sitting on the edge of the bed with a glass of water and a pillow putting it and taking it. Whatever that means for you. It doesn't mean you are. It could mean somebody else did or is. Um if if you are, that's a confirmation. That's a if that's about you, it's a confirmation. Um, also go natural with anything you're doing. Try to make everything as natural as possible. Uh, [sighs] okay. And he says, "Th talk talk to him." He says, "Talk to me more. Talk to me about it. tell me everything. And I think that has more to do with you just like talking about it because I feel like Tanya sometimes we feel like we don't want to like we might say little bits and pieces to people but we don't put the whole thing on them. He's saying put it on me. Put it on me. So I h that makes me very very okay Tanya that's what he has for you love and have fun this summer. I hear that song uh summer loving loving summer loving and then I hear um girls just want to have fun. So get out and have fun. Don't let don't let let things put you down. uh get out and live your life. Like if this is heavy, go where it's light. Like if for example if your job's really heavy and it's a lot of responsibility when you're not at work just freaking you know I don't know go go go where it's really light and you can have fun and do that like kind of to balance do the balancing act sort of thing. Okay. Um Tanya I do feel like there's a trip coming up for you. Um it I don't know if it's a girls trip. Now girls could be you uh and family, the girls of the family. It could be female friends. It could be um but I hear the girls the girls. And even if it's just like a weekend or an overnight, say yes. And maybe that's the balancing of it. I feel like and there might be another trip after that. uh whatever they are within your uh realm. Uh go for it. Go for it. Okay, Tanya. Okay. Um Okay, next is [sighs] [gasps] Karen. That is so awesome. Karen says, "I'll be 75, so I'm excited to live each day." I love that. Yeah, we have to, right? Absolutely. Hey, Rebecca, how are you? Thank you, Rebecca and Fawn, for everything you do. Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Okay, you guys. Uh, I'm looking at the clock and I'm looking at uh uh questions. Uh, Katherine says, Katherine K9, I love that name. It's She says, um, hi Tony. I have been actively applying for a new job. Do you see me getting it soon and is good for me? Thank you. Oh, thank you so much for the coffee. I appreciate that. Um, I see something coming in in July. You don't know about this yet. Second, this I think you're going to find out about this position the second week of July. I don't I hear remote, but I feel like I don't feel like it's fully remote. I feel like part maybe. I don't know. Um I feel like the second week of July is when you're going to find out about it. The beginning, maybe the beginning of the second week, the seventh or eighth. maybe maybe the sixth, but the seventh or eighth. And then you're going to find out about it then. And then um I think there's going to be a a couple of new listings that you apply to and you're going to end up with one of those. It's going to be good. You're going to like it. You're really going to like it a lot. You're going to like the position a lot and you're going to be really grateful. I I feel like it's coming in right in the nick of time. Okay? And I'm going to say this for anybody and everybody looking for for work positions. Clean up your social media. make just while you're looking, make it all private and make sure your resumes and your applications can go through AI because these are the things they're checking now before you even get like they have AI run they run your things through AI and I even though I don't like AI I really don't but because we are in the world we are today. I would say AI, this is what I did. Uh, put it in the proper way for this company and and have it have AI kind of help you build your resume and your your everything. Um, make sure there are no errors and go from there. Um but the the sixth and seventh really stand out and then the eighth for finding positions. Um and I always say don't only apply where you see it but go to the company and look at the other pos their positions apply from there and then also what other positions do they have available. Okay, I will see you guys very soon again. You are so loved by so many. And um until next time, have an absolutely amazing rest of the day. [music] >> [music]