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The video explores the complex dual nature of modern technology as both a powerful tool for decentralization and a mechanism that often centralizes power in ways detrimental to human well-being. While innovations like YouTube and AI offer significant benefits regarding knowledge access and efficiency, these advantages frequently accrue to large organizations rather than strengthening direct interpersonal connections or spiritual growth. The discussion highlights how algorithms on platforms such as TikTok prioritize engagement metrics over transcendent values, effectively distracting users from their own agency through endless content loops designed by payment structures focused solely on capturing "eyeballs." This centralization of power is further illustrated by the influence of entities like BlackRock and state governance models driven by fiat laws, which contrast sharply with historical common law or indigenous approaches that prioritize community care.
A significant portion of the conversation addresses the psychological impact of digital tools, comparing the addictive nature of the internet to substances like heroin due to its ability to fundamentally alter brain chemistry through infinite scrolling sessions filled with rage-baiting and doom-scrolling content. Although some studies suggest that limited, deliberate use of short-form videos can lower cortisol levels in anxious individuals when used as a coping mechanism rather than an escape, the consensus remains that technology often degrades life by diverting attention from spiritual well-being to mere distraction. The speakers reference figures like Tristan Harris and his concept of "apocalyptimism," arguing that negative outcomes from AI and social media are infinitely more probable without intentional regulation, thereby rejecting a laissez-faire approach in favor of ethical commitments to protect the oppressed and avoid dehumanizing technological trends.
Beyond these concerns, the dialogue considers how humans have already adapted into a form of "transhuman" through basic technologies like cooking and clothing, yet warns against future advancements that might further distance us from our humanity or rob individuals of the necessary struggle for genuine growth. The group debates whether tools such as chatbots used for spiritual lessons amplify existing capacities without shortening the process or if they bypass essential personal development; ultimately, the focus shifts toward practical solutions like "right-sizing" one's time between digital interaction and direct human engagement. This perspective is reinforced by advice from Melinda Gates on balancing local volunteer efforts with international donations to prevent burnout, suggesting that true empowerment comes not just from creating content but from taking direct action to help disenfranchised individuals facing systemic barriers such as housing shortages.
In conclusion, the video advocates for a mindful approach where technology serves decentralized and ethical purposes rather than consolidating power or fostering despair through addictive design patterns. The speakers emphasize that while tools like Discord can be effective for organizational restructuring in places with aligned values, other nations lack the necessary spiritual framework to utilize such technologies effectively without falling into traps of distraction and inequality. By prioritizing direct action over theoretical output and curating digital feeds intentionally to counteract negativity, individuals can harness technology's potential for safety and mutual aid while maintaining a messianic vision that combines human ingenuity with divine care. The ultimate goal presented is to ensure that technological advancements enhance rather than diminish the capacity for genuine connection, ethical governance, and spiritual flourishing in an increasingly complex world.
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How much time do I spend on technology
every day versus, you know, directly
talking with people.
>> Do you guys think religion is also a
technology? I I sometimes characterize
it that way. Let's talk about
>> [snorts]
>> government as well, cuz that's what I
call the algorithm.
>> My mind's going to be racing all night
because of
everything.
>> Stephen Grow.
Um,
those are the good kinds of things that
are transcendental, those sorts of kinds
of things that are most rewarding in
life and they often show up between
people. And um,
devices [clears throat] can enable some
of that, but there's a huge cost to
them. What brings us together is the
things that we achieve together, things
that we actually work on together, the
things that we uh, participate in that
define you know, how we socialize.
Um, and it's it's not handed down to us,
it's not rules that
um, are are just given by
uh, those of on high.
I'm I'm going to say some things later
about government
where I don't have a lot of faith in
some of the governance institutions we
have.
One of my best friends, Justin, says,
"Hey, uh,
the most efficient form of government is
a uh, dictatorship." And he's absolutely
right. Yeah, if you want efficiency,
that's what you go to, but I don't think
that's what we want in our lives and
that's not what gets us to those
transcendent values.
So, tech, great. It's given us some
great things.
Um, you know, knowledge, science that we
can get on YouTube and Khan Academy and
learn things so quickly and now with
ChatGPT and robots, they're
actually marvelous teaching us things.
It's it's fantastic.
And I'll scale, you know, never who seen
before and the connections
[clears throat] that we have. So, I can
call my mom tonight. She's in Kansas
City and I better remember to do that.
Most of the forget some Sundays.
But they're
not the long-running relationships.
They're not the long-running connections
that we have. And so, okay.
So far, tech has got some good things,
but where have the benefits of
technology
gone? The massive
the majority of the benefits of tech
have gone to
organizations. They haven't gone
directly to these connections that we
have.
TikTok, you know, the algorithms, the
engagement, the ad spend.
Those are the things that have gotten
the most traction. And that's what tech
pulls us towards. So, it hasn't been
towards a spiritual ends.
And [clears throat]
you know, um
our work
the work that I do in technology, it
supports some of these mechanisms like
my latest work was in county recorders
where we deal with land rights. And
people want to know that if they own a
land or a property, that they can work
on it. We did some of that work in
Rwanda. And there was a huge interest
because
they're very insecure in their rights
there.
But our technology
didn't solve those. It's mostly all of
the social problems around it. That is
the biggest part of the work. The
technology just recording it and having
somebody stamp it isn't the solution.
So,
um you know, it could be different, but
that's just the way that the world is
right now. So,
um we'll certainly organizations that
that dictate the meaning that that you
know, supports our
our jobs, our salaries, that that pays
us money.
And we give our attention to these
things.
>> [clears throat]
>> Um
there's always the argument that AI will
save us from this. Um the Okay, I'm
hearing laughs, so this is good because,
you know, hearing that argument um that
it's, you know, going to all of this
knowledge is somehow going to reward us,
you know, there's still incentives on
running those algorithms and who gets
to, you know, manage the token spend
that goes to what purposes. And or, you
know, that is still something that's
managed by people in the end. And so,
that alone is not going to
save us.
Let's talk about government as well
because that's what I call the
algorithms. That's, you know, walls that
are enshrined and so police will come
and enforce the rules that were set up
and those were supposed to be for our
good, right? For peace.
Um we've had some great benefits, you
know, we never would have had nuclear
power without large S of the government
applying to that. And same thing for
space exploration.
But
you know, this last century was the
century of democide.
I'd argue that the large governments, I
mean, this is just one factor, but it's
hundreds of millions of people that were
killed by their own governments. This
isn't warring neighbors. This isn't
civil wars even. This is the government
actively
oppressed and murdered and, you know,
some of them were due to famine induced
and then things like that. Um
you know, can you imagine just that much
death that is caused by these
institutions?
And on top of that, the oppression that
would happen at the same time, you know,
how many
people had to live lives segregated and
and coerced and and, you know, how much
creativity did that squash? Hundreds of
millions of people. Um
so I I haven't read this book. I want to
the Utopia of Rules, Technology
Stupidity and the Secret Joys of
Bureaucracy.
I feel like we might be caught in that,
especially in America. There's all the
cry for legislation to solve problems.
Now, you know, there's all alternative
ways that we could be doing things. It's
going to be harder and harder as
say governments give more and more uh
control, especially over our digital
lives.
Um it used to be that we had common law
in England. That's how
things
started out in small communities, small
governments. When there was a dispute,
then something was decided and then that
became precedent that you could judge
against for future
decisions.
Eventually, it got twisted. The
king and the court used to just oversee
the
uh ways that they did it to make sure
they followed, you know, good standards
rules, but it got flipped to where now
they were deciding the rules.
Rules were actually made by fiat. So,
that's where we come up with statutory
law. And now that's what the world we
live in.
Legislators create laws because they're
trying to solve problems rather than
hey, we have disputes and here's the
precedent for previous disputes where we
resolve it.
Um that may mean that we don't have you
know, we're not not keeping children
safe in some ways, you know, that may
mean we're not
um
guarding against every possible traffic
infraction, you know, where there's
certain things safety that
we don't get if we
actually go by common law, but
there's
other alternative ways. For example,
indigenous peoples had different ways of
governing that
we could learn from.
Part of the problem is that we beg for
this ourselves.
Um we think of retirement and it's just
okay, how much do we have to save to get
there?
Rather than hey, what kind of family are
we building so that we have that support
when we get older?
Um and it's you know, of course along
the way we rack up debt. We've got to
pay off that debt.
Um but banks are more than happy to get
us into that. Um
Another part is we've heard of
stakeholder capitalism recently where
hey, okay, the government's going to
take parts of companies and then that
will trickle down to us, you know, with
the benefits of those.
Um that in my mind that just enables
some more cronyism and that will all and
you know, how much do we actually get in
the end?
Um
It also I feel like it empowers the
corporate power. So for example,
BlackRock is buying all kinds of land
and homes in areas.
You know, that of course affects prices
and things, but it's also
you know, who as a neighbor, who do you
work with when you want? I I have
friends who've built roads between their
houses. It's like who do you talk with
if you wanted to build a road or you
wanted to solve problem in your
cul-de-sac?
And they are remote.
Uh you you want to be able to work with
your neighbors and anyway, there's a
problem if they own so much of the
uh
so much property.
Aladdin is the name of their algorithm.
Um
>> [clears throat]
[laughter]
>> So you know, this may just be the way
the world is. You know,
my friend Robbie says, you know I I like
your revision of what things could be,
but you know what?
We ended up with the world we have
because we had indigenous people here
and they were beat.
Um it's just nowadays those with the
bigger guns they get society the way
they want it to be.
So, you know, they support the bankers
and the merchants, and that's who's
going to win.
So,
um
I hope not.
Uh I will read this just in case you
can't see it all. He's saying that
giving a story around a campfire saying,
"Yes, the planet got destroyed, but for
a beautiful moment in time, we created a
lot of value for stakeholders for
shareholders and
all of us." May just be the way the
world's going, and we just have to be as
judicious as we can with our families
and our friends and loved ones
and people here in uh uh
uh good communities.
Um
I've [clears throat] got a little bit of
tangent here because this is the Mormon
Transhumanist Association,
and it sounds like you're using the word
transfigurism
now, which
>> we um we but is the name, but that's
just like the domain name. I mean
>> The domain name, right right right.
>> Transfigurism is uh was always this
thing that was like um
something we wanted to input like to
promote, but it was like we knew it was
aspirational. Um
Yeah. Yeah, anyway, go ahead.
>> So, um
I can't wait to talk afterwards because
I mean, trans is beyond. It's It's so
what? Beyond humanism. So, does that
mean it's posthumanism? I mean,
enhancement seems like an okay idea, but
um when it comes to, you know, if we're
going to get beyond that, what does that
mean? You know, is it an organism that
we have created we understand it or
>> [clears throat]
>> created and we don't understand it, and
there's problems either way with that.
So, anyway, that will Yeah, I'm sure
come out in the discussion.
Um Okay, technologists love peer-to-peer
technologies. These are, you know,
directly interacting uh technologies.
We've got blockchain with Bitcoin and
Monero, and then we've got mesh-tastic
networks with low-power radio signals
that we can connect directly between
each other, and I've always loved that.
But, um and I'll just mention my biggest
project is gifteconomy.org
where I'm trying to create more and more
interactions that are gift and actually
create a actual sustainable living based
on those.
I think that would be fun, but maybe
that's still a technology that's getting
in between people and I may be totally
wrong on that and this may be a
digression and
thanks, you know, to Carl who wrote that
an insightful comment here where he said
that I had him install it and he said,
"Okay, yeah, but the work of tracking
and curating contributions could get
kind of tedious."
Exactly, that's the kind of interaction
you don't want.
>> mean to critical in any way.
>> Now you say
>> That's a quote, isn't it?
>> Let the record show.
>> Right.
So, I got to admit this is about me. Uh
this is my experience in the industry. I
live in tech. I have spent my my my time
making tech problems work um and
planning with others to make it work and
and planning to to solve things just
with tech and, you know, that empowers
other organizations, it empowers
systems.
I haven't seen how it empowers people
and and that's why I'm giving this talk.
So,
for me part of the solution has been
trying to right-size the time that I
spend. Um how much time do I spend on
technology every day versus, you know,
directly talking with people.
Uh so, how much
how that is on the technical problems
versus the people problems,
problems people have directly with one
another and um you know, in their lives
just empowering each other.
And then are the technical solutions
real or do they, you know, give more
power to someone like the banks.
Um
Sorry, I don't mean to call them out.
It's just yeah, I don't have a lot of
respect for today's banks.
Um
okay, so that's how I try and
uh ask myself the right questions and
this is my goal to spend as much time
directly with people even though I work
in technology.
I can't leave it to my product managers
to be the ones that are talking to my
customers. You know, I have I should be
involved in talking to humans and to
making the solutions and
hopefully I'll right-size that in real
life.
So, so happy to have this
discussion rather than just a talk
because I I can't wait to hear
what you people's impressions and um you
know, gain real understanding of what is
progress, you know, and
maybe there may not be any way to
measure it. Um it's just something we we
always have to feel, but um
I'm I'm open to other uh opinions. So,
I'm happy. Yeah, go ahead and any
questions or comments or any discussion
points.
You ready? Go.
>> Yeah, so um I guess I'll kick it off by
saying
uh
your question about transhumanism is a
good one and um it's often
one of the first ones that we get. Um
and I think that it's a debate that's
even been had amongst transhumanists is
like
um one of the things on our website that
in our introductory
um essays about what we believe in
um that we talk about is that we would
we've kind of
downplayed the use of the term
posthuman.
Uh
some transhumanists have used that term
to talk about whatever state we're in
way down the future. So So the idea
being like
if you think about um
the way we are now compared to let's say
the way our pre-human ancestors were,
um
it's different enough that we think of
humanity as a a different species
altogether. And so when transhumanists
[clears throat]
use that term post-human,
they're thinking of a state that's so
much so different from what we are now
that it merits being
called something else.
However, we sort of feel like
the term post-human could have a
dehumanizing
uh overtone to it where it's like
what kind of post-human are are you
talking about? It could be
something um someone could imagine that
to be a state that is um
deficient in some way or lack something
really valuable that we valued in being
human.
So we've used we started using the terms
term superhuman to talk about that state
or super-humanity.
>> [clears throat]
>> Um
now there still are dangers in using
that term because some people when they
hear that term imagine
some solitary superhero who's like
taking over and and fixing everything,
right? Which is more like a dictator
than like a collective
uh transcendent humanity, right? So
um
so
getting the
feel or the vibe right is hard and um
but that that is what we've uh tried to
do in the work that we're doing and
especially we've used uh Christ as kind
of the ideal human.
And the interesting thing about that
metaphor is that the Christian world
also has a collective metaphor for
Christ, right? When Paul talked about
the body of Christ and how every
every member of that body has a purpose
and a and a function.
Um so, it doesn't have to be just an
individual. You could you could aspire
to be being more Christ-like as an
individual, but you could also do it as
a community, you know, so.
Um so, that you know, those are that's
my short version of like the kind of
transhumanism we're going.
>> Right.
>> Yes.
>> So.
>> As that going according to Carl Jung.
>> Right. So, I mean, if you guys disagree
like chime in, you know, like
>> I remember at one of their shows is
David Pearce went there and I went to
Singularity Summit 2011. It's the only
one I've been to, so I don't know how
representative it is, but it was a
gathering of many transhumanists and the
theme of the year was to like
emphasizing humanism as it as like kind
of humanism being encompasses
transhumanism. Like it is a very human
thing to use to think about how
hopefully advising you to better
yourselves and to use technology in uh
to that end. And um yeah, I think I've
sometimes heard posthuman as just
uh not even necessarily an aspirational
thing, but as a you could What are What
are all of the places that are reachable
>> Yeah.
>> whether or not it's advisable starting
from the point of human. One way that
you can reach this state is by stripping
parts of your humanity away. So, are we
going to do that?
>> But this is actually a really good point
because
um we are already transhumans in the
sense that
to be human is to is to have your reach
exceed your grasp. Right, to be human is
to try to fix things that you don't
like.
Um
and also uh if we look at the core
technologies of humanity, which I always
go back to cooking and clothing,
like
uh there was a time when humans didn't
wear clothes and when they didn't cook
their food,
or maybe you could call those prehumans,
but like
for all intents and purposes, to be
human is to wear clothing. Like nobody
walks around
uh
for the most part naked all the time,
you know, and
um
and our brains actually evolved and
adapted to cooking. And so,
um we're not static a static species.
We're actually always in a state of
changing things.
>> Mhm.
>> And that's kind of part of what it means
to be to be human.
>> I have a question about your
presentation.
You talked a lot about how like, you
know, technology has spiritually hurt
us. In your imagination, is there a
possibility space in which it has
enhanced us spiritually?
>> I don't know. I haven't seen much of
that.
>> Really?
>> I You know, there are people that have,
you know, apps and and things that um
um you know, try and connect. I
I love to read poetry online and there's
so there's there's little, you know,
little
>> Cuz you read poetry without the
invention of writing.
>> Yeah, we have to decide about
technology.
>> Which reading is that?
>> True. Like, so we We really would have
>> We go deep on what tech
>> Yeah.
>> Ah, yeah, yeah. No, that's great.
>> We're not just thinking of like iPhones
and
>> Yeah.
>> Chrome and like souped-up cars. We're
thinking of like the full gamut of what
tech is.
>> Absolutely.
>> Pants and democracy and all of that.
>> Say that again?
>> Pants.
>> Pants and democracy.
>> Democracy needs
>> [laughter]
>> Right. So, okay, writing, let's go back
to that basic one. Um did we gain
anything spiritually from being able to
>> I think so.
>> write? And and so, the communication we
had before that, verbal, you know, and
It's funny how we might be getting back
to verbal now interactions.
>> Yeah, yeah.
>> Um
but
did, you know, we we can share Okay, we
can share poetry and and that can be
inspiring. Um
so, let's see. That that is a good
counterargument. I'm and to thinking
about that one.
>> I should So, the another interesting
thing is we have this scripture that
says, "In the beginning was the word,
right?" It also implies that like
something about writing was like uh
godlier or whatever.
>> I don't know. Like and that would be
speech. I mean, speech language.
>> Yeah, that's a good
>> Yeah, that's true. It could be just
speech. Yeah.
>> So, that that would support I would say
yeah, it definitely supports us in
um being able to to to to evoke our
spirituality that's already there.
Um
does it really build anything that
wasn't already there? Does it Does it,
you know, does writing give someone who
wasn't didn't have that spiritual
aspect, you know, something new? And I
don't know whether it does. I I feel
like if you had those sensibilities, you
know, and you didn't have writing, you
know, you would find that very rewarding
in other ways. So, um
that is that's not a great argument
back. So, I'm going to keep thinking
about that.
>> So, it may not It sounds like it's more
of an enhancement than something
changes. So, um for someone who's a
poet, in order for them to enhance their
spirituality, the tool of language
itself then becomes the expression of
that thing. So, without the tool, you
can't have the expression. So, similar
with like maybe the
I don't know. You You said writing. The
church has a website. So, the church has
a website to to contact people and use
technology and things to in find
enhance. So, did that mean like all of a
sudden the church became more spiritual
with the internet? I don't know. Maybe,
but it definitely did become more
powerful.
>> It became more influential.
>> Yeah. So, what
>> Yeah, spread the knowledge, spread the
Yeah.
>> Exactly.
>> That I can see.
>> So, I think there's I think there is a
possibility because it definitely can't
spiritually hurt us, absolutely. But,
there's a possibility space in which it
actually enhances.
I don't know. Imagine using like a
chatbot to prepare your spiritual
lessons for your Sunday school lesson in
the school or whatever.
>> But, wouldn't that already come from
you know, your um
you're making it happen because you've
got that spiritual
hunger inside you that that's doing it.
And it it it maybe enhances it and it
allows you to um generate more content,
for sure. Maybe generate more
interesting pictures.
>> More sloth, too.
>> Yeah.
But, does it bring out more of the the
spirituality? I I feel like the
language, the speech, you've got me on
that one cuz that that is a core thing
that we can now I like forgiveness.
You know.
Or or connection between me and my wife
and sharing goals. Those those affection
totally elevate our spiritual
connection. Um that's a good
counterargument. I don't know if that I
see it in today's internet.
>> I see I really like in your uh
gifteconomy.org
Actually, one of the paragraphs here you
say, "We're growing a digital platform
that helps people connect locally, share
resources,
and support one another directly without
middle men or gatekeepers. Whether it's
sharing a meal, lending a skill, or
helping a neighbor, this tool will make
generosity easier, safer, and more
visible. It's technology is designed not
to take your attention, but to give it
back to your community."
And something that stands out on your
own website is
this idea that these tools make it
easier, safer, and more visible.
I know for me, I feel like I can grow
spiritually the most when I'm safe, when
I feel safe.
And
uh I feel like
>> [clears throat]
>> my ego doesn't want to be in a
self-preservation mode.
And then it can just feel
very
um
Yeah, it just feels like really safe and
so I think it's cool that even your own
website here is like saying something
that's like it's a way to spiritually
enhance us in my opinion. So
>> Interesting.
>> Yeah, kind of building off of that
comment on the last sorry, did you raise
your hand?
>> Yeah, I'm going to
>> Okay, raise your hand you can
>> I'm going to do it later.
>> Um
but
just segwaying in a little reverse
order. Uh the feeling safe as a
prerequisite, someone can shout out
which uh
prophet it was that talked about their
mission experience of giving a tract to
women who took it last this is going to
help me probably greatly handle that. Um
you can't and you
you can't you can't you can't blame
people for not being spiritual
when they're dying.
So yeah, like anything that enhances
those things
and spirituality affirming
um
to jump back
is it 1600 years farther from that we've
got this is pure religion or this is
true piety? Uh and then the translation
to care for the widow and the orphan.
Um
the other so first question is uh I I I
missed it again. Did we talk about like
good definition spaces spirituality and
whether like loving and forgiving people
is the most important thing about
religion as some of that more heretical
uh early Christian writers would say
um
or and then
segwaying out of that, second question,
mutual aid mutual aid organizations that
are an extremely important technology
for actually in the society we're in
getting food to people.
>> [clears throat]
>> Um
>> Yeah, I think that's a good point.
>> you I have a then as your
>> The real quick on that one
like don't put too many out at once cuz
we won't be able to answer them all.
>> But I tried to specify.
>> But I like this like first thing like
the one you mentioned of visiting the
widow and the fatherless. I bet if you
look at what you're doing in those
activities, you're using tech.
>> Oh, yes.
>> to feed that.
And then also
I think your point about mutual aid
societies is really good because like
we don't often think of some other
inventions like
religion
corporations, commerce, trade
all sorts of human organization, human
ways of organizing themselves as tech
but really it is technology. It's like
>> Like hospitality
expectations is a technology and it made
human like insane travel for extremely
early humans possible.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah, yeah. Absolutely everybody in my
language group
I know what to expect when they show up
on their doorstep.
>> Yeah.
>> And that was incredibly beneficial to
us. So yeah.
>> Do you guys think religion is also a
technology? I I sometimes characterize
it that way.
Um
>> So his third question is religion is a
technology.
>> I would have said no. I want to keep
hearing what you have to say.
>> Yeah, what I'm thinking of is that um
if you there there may be a time when
you go back far enough to where
whatever it was and by the way whenever
he starts driving you crazy I can take
him out and then I can put him outside.
He's just a little too affectionate.
>> He's a little too friendly.
>> Anyway,
uh
I I do think that
there may have been a time when humans
didn't organize themselves the way they
do and didn't have these elaborate
rituals and these ways of
engaging with each other
in what we think of as religion today.
And I do think those are
like social accumulations, kind of like
developments that took place over time.
And so
um
if you think of technology as applied
knowledge, which is one of the core
definitions of technology,
it's sort of um you could say that
the knowledge of like how to ritualize
or these practices and beliefs in a way
that allows them to be sustained by
larger bodies of people,
that could be thought of as a type of
social technology.
>> Kind of analogous to writing code,
right? [clears throat] Like the code is
not the
hard wires that it's running on, but
it's
>> It is dynamic.
>> Yeah, it's applied knowledge that is
then able to be distributed in a way
that's understood and then and can
connect people all over.
>> Yeah.
>> The So, the two questions were um
like defining defining spirituality.
Defining spirituality as maybe just
caring for those widow and the
fatherless.
>> And what defines spirituality?
>> Yeah, like like what what definition are
you working with for spirituality when
we say technology and algorithms are
depreciating or spirituality or
enhancing it? What is spirituality in
your eyes? And the second one was have
you talked to mutual aid societies?
>> Yeah, you talked with mutual aid or like
what you may think about like what you
time bank stuff and what your priorities
and the gift economy stuff cuz I also
didn't learn about that because I was
starting to lose track of the questions.
>> [laughter]
>> There's a lot of stuff outside.
>> So, I'll
>> Just get on the car. So, that's our
excuse.
>> Right. Uh I'm trying to remember all of
these. Oh, religion, yeah.
Uh cuz I'm going to forget. All right.
Uh
so, I'm going to start with the last one
first with the mutual aid societies.
Love, I mean, that is uh somebody
getting together and if you want to call
that a technology, yeah, I I guess that
was outside of my
thinking what a technology is. We we get
together, we, you know, may have an
way we organize, but
that's the key part of that is is coming
together meeting and doing.
A lot of today's
Uh,
benefit organizations are for part of
things we delegate. We pay the Battle
Food Pantry. They do a great job, but
it's been shown that they haven't really
reduced the rate of poverty.
And the ones that like time banking
is a great idea. I've I've enjoyed some
of those stories Berkshire's and and
whatever, but
they're still focused on this technology
of trade and exact
accounting,
which is
I think the safety part is a good
argument and I'm still wrestling with
that one, but I don't think that
I don't know how the the technology save
money or the the mutual aid
automatically
builds anything with spirituality. In
fact, I think it does serve to pull us
apart if we're not
I'm careful.
>> What about the argument that um
like money enables
more it facilitates an exchange of value
and so therefore
it produces greater prosperity generally
speaking
and a modicum of prosperity is necessary
for us to meet the baseline of Maslow's
hierarchy of needs. And like it was said
earlier, like you're not going to be
wanting to hear much about the gospel if
you're starving to death.
>> That's what I'm still wrestling with
that safety one. So I we've got speech
that's that's
a very very good example.
We've got the
>> [clears throat]
>> safe
so I
When you brought that out,
uh
you felt like that there might be tech
or internet that has built your sense of
safety?
>> Yeah, I guess especially the first part
of the paragraph I
>> Oh, so wait. Yeah, my words yeah. I I
said a lot of them there. But do you
have you seen examples of of how that
has helped like you have been helped in
your safety from
tech and internet?
>> Yeah, um
I have my husband to think about who I
really am.
>> What?
>> Yeah, like all the time.
>> I need a specific example.
>> I can I can literally tell my girls if
I'm going somewhere that I don't feel
safe at and we automatically build a
community with the technology. We have
apps for it.
>> Right, cuz you can follow each other.
>> Yeah, safe.
>> Always check
>> You can say I'm walking home now. If you
don't hear from me in
>> Yeah.
>> And you can say I'm walking home with
which you can do with stranger mode. I
women I've never met and be like I am in
this location.
>> Wow, okay.
>> So there's lots of safety there.
>> Yeah, and so uh earlier one thing I
thought of was like maybe somebody as
far as it um
enhancing your spiritual development
like maybe somebody
wants to talk to their pastor, bishop
and like they don't feel comfortable
approaching them after the sermon and
like once websites were created for
churches they find it very well to send
like somebody an email to staff. And
also um
I I guess I'm curious your take on the
fact that there used to be um
like uh sexual assault crisis hotlines
that you had to call in from. And so
there used to be like one landline for
the family. Most of the time someone's
assaulted is family. Like and then it
became like, "Okay, there are websites
now and you don't have to worry
someone's going to hear you in the next
room because you have online." But um I
did training for one of these uh for for
the national one for rain, and I
remember this was like '07 feeling like
I didn't like graduate from there
totally certain of how to talk through
somebody how to block the text so like
that could be a vulnerability where like
somebody thinks they're in a safe
environment, but like it's not really
safe. Don't worry I didn't end up
volunteering cuz I moved out of state
and stuff, but like um the side of like
getting anybody into a compromised
situation, but um I don't know. Yeah,
I'm curious to see your response.
There's all that like the drama the the
um
you know, the the veneer of safety maybe
where it's not life fully covered in.
>> Sorry, I'll let you answer cuz
um I
I don't have an answer for that one. I'm
just writing it down. You know, I'll do
them.
In fact, I want to before you go on, you
mentioned two, you mentioned the mutual
aid.
>> I was just echoing that and then I had
my own, but we haven't gotten to those
yet.
>> By the way, don't feel like you have to
totally answer all this like
>> [laughter]
>> These are good criticisms that you know,
I want to go away with and think about.
>> This is really an exploration and one of
the things I maybe should have mentioned
is like we often disagree with each
other about things like um and all we
ask is that people engage respectfully,
but like each person here may have
slightly different opinions about stuff.
So don't um feel like it's you know,
everyone against just this or that.
>> Yeah, no I get that.
>> I'm offended that I'm going home any
minute, but go ahead.
>> I was going to I was also going
>> I've changed my opinion a lot on this.
>> Well, so Fran Fran so Fran so brought up
something interesting which
uh made me think about the Catholic
church actually. Um their practice of
confession is really interesting because
it's a ritual that everyone is expected
to perform regularly. I suppose supposed
to go every week as far as I understand.
Um so it's not something that anyone
would think ill of you for going to the
confession booth because it's like, "Oh,
no, we're just doing what everyone else
does, right?" And then once you're
there, it's it's supposed to be totally
confidential. And the priest is not
supposed to even mention what's been
said in there outside of that context,
right? So,
um, that's a really interesting
approach, very low-tech, relatively
low-tech, right? But interesting in that
it
um, I could we can obviously see some
situations where it might be abused, but
like in a lot of cases
>> I think we have.
>> Yeah, yeah. [clears throat]
Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
>> There's been evidence of abuse in the
church.
>> However, I would bet I would bet that
there's also been lots of
like positive examples coming from
confession as well where
but mostly I'm just pointing out that
it's interesting because it's like a
place where you can unburden yourself
without anyone else having to be
like shame you for it, right?
>> And also with like,
one thing I liked about the Christian
world is like, it's not like, are you
going for premarital counseling? It's
like, to whose pastor? It's just assumed
that like you get premarital counseling
maybe before you're even engaged. And
like, I think in the secular world it's
sort of like pathologized if you do
that.
>> Right, right. Yeah. I think that's maybe
fading a little bit. It used to be that
if you were getting counseling you were
getting a divorce. And now it's now I
think it's much more common for people
to seek out therapy with their spouse.
>> I think along with us, so the the study
on
veterans in the military and they got
therapists to come talk with them to try
to figure out what their PTSD symptoms
were so they can get them help and
access. Because of their training
if you're a marine with PTSD you can't
say, "My symptom is I still wet the bed
in PTSD whatever they're going through."
And so they set them up with chatbots
and said, "Talk to the chatbot. Don't
talk to a human, talk to the chatbot.
And [clears throat] they got more
in-depth information about their PTSD
symptoms through the chatbots than they
did talking to real people. And they
knew, they're like, "We're going to get
this information and we're going to
process it." But for a Marine who has
been trained that certain things like
nightmares are weak, you know, things
like that, they can't even talk about
their symptoms with a human, they went
through the medium of the technology to
get access to the care they actually
needed. It saved their lives.
>> Um I think we're kind of brainwashing
ourselves that the technology is
threatening us. It's kind of bringing us
down.
Look pretty good.
Um
And just in the like yeah, there's an
app that helps you be safe on the
streets, but the ways that people can
stalk you have so exponentially
increased by technology.
>> Oh, stalk. You said stalk. Oh, I thought
I said stalk. Okay. Yeah.
>> Stalking, stalking, I don't know.
Technology, arms racing.
Yes, human standings.
Okay, well, sexploitation online is now
a big thing or scammers are calling
grandma and for technological ineptitude
and its
uniqueness,
what we do to like deal with these
problems.
And so I think for me like the
question of like is technology good or
bad
is dumb.
>> [laughter]
>> Like are dogs good or bad? Like they
might bite you, but they are man's best
friend. Like there's this dual nature.
>> Yeah, yeah.
>> And with all like specifically deciding
what aspects of technology we want to
define or we want to discuss or what use
is, like we're just going to go in
circles and be like, "Oh, but fire can
heat up your food, but it can burn you."
Like
>> That's
>> I
I think I appreciate that. I I
thank you because it brings me back to a
point. It can be used for good. Let's go
back to speech. Yes, that enabled
um all kinds of communication. You know,
it may be poetry, maybe it's spiritual
uplifting, but it also enabled all kinds
of manipulation and all kinds of Oh,
wait. Religion. Same thing. How many
religions out there actually, you know,
I would not trust with my spirituality.
So, um overriding um uh uh push, I I
feel like might I
I still feel like like it might be
negative. I'm I'm sorry to say there's
reasons to go the other way, but um
yeah, um there there's so much more that
pulls us away.
>> Yeah. Did you want to finish?
>> Yeah, I think kind of what we're seeing
with a lot of our examples, uh going
back to what Blair said in the
beginning, you know, um technology is
the answer.
>> It's the amplification of whatever.
>> Of whatever.
>> And it's a question of like, yeah, we
can take what we start with our our
control of essence and whatever and then
put it through an algorithm and get
something out and it can go
more good or more bad. Um but like the
question, I don't know, for me the idea
of using a bot to like prepare something
cool lesson or like be something
spiritual, for me it feels like it it
robs my own spiritual growth, my own
opportunity to like wrestle with the
things. Um
at best it would empower my ability to
like research inspirational
material that I could like
learn from and then add into my
spiritual practice and something like
that. So, it empowers me to maybe go
through something a process faster,
but it doesn't
create like it doesn't change the
process
that I'm pursuing. Like if I want to if
I want to say words that are pretty and
make people be like, "Hallelujah." I can
do that, but if I actually want those
words to mean something to me, I still
have to go through the words to I
what it means spiritually and then
living them and experiencing them
yourself and naturally to me
to some level I can I can like boost
that with an algorithm but I can't
shortcut it.
>> Yeah, that's sitting by me here. I I
think that'll be
a lot more empowering for me.
>> [laughter]
>> Well, I I have a question about that and
maybe maybe trying to lean more towards
like
is it more positive as like a question?
Um one of my favorite books Factfulness,
oh something he says in it is that the
world is still bad but it's better than
it's ever been before. And so if it is
an amplification of us if technology is
and we are safer than we've ever been
before
then to me that's like does wonders for
trying to
see that it might it's like probably at
a net positive. At least it's definitely
worth it to uphold that. It's like we
can make it a net positive to to put in
the work that is like I see those things
and I see it like robbing a spirituality
but I also like how I engage with it
spiritually is I see people and and I
see them say things or put communities
together online directly, you know, get
rid of the middle man.
You meet people more directly online and
and then I go, "Oh my gosh, I am going
through the the same thing you are. I'm
not alone."
And then I feel safer that I'm not
alone. And then I put work towards
talking with those people and once I
feel safe, I feel like I'm more open to
ideas outside of what
I currently believe. So it doesn't even
feel like it's like enhancing my own
echo chamber, my own algorithms. In a
way it feels like it's that safety opens
me up towards I'm trying to see
different spiritual perspectives. And so
honestly the way that I engage with like
technology feels a world just like a net
positive, because the world is bad, but
it it's safer than it's ever been.
>> And I have a feeling the most people in
this group are yeah, tending towards the
positive part.
>> [laughter]
>> Yeah.
>> That is selection bias, right?
>> Yeah, right.
>> Yeah. In fact, like our logo right here,
see that?
Um, the wheel,
the wagon wheel, symbolizes human
ingenuity.
And the wings are like divine aid.
And so really what we're sort of
promoting is this notion that we can
use our ingenuity or whatever gifts we
have, in fact, we think of those even as
being like a part of the divine image,
um,
with God's help to kind of make the
world a better place, you know.
So [clears throat]
>> And the sewing was done by a robot.
>> Yeah.
>> [laughter]
>> I love that.
>> I hope you win, yeah.
>> You're
>> Yeah.
Yeah, I'm on that on the other side.
>> [clears throat]
>> Going back to some of your content, I
think that one of the things that should
could resonate with the Mormon
transhumanist audience with what you're
saying is that
in terms of the evidence you were
presenting in and the negative impact, a
lot of it was about the way that
technologies has been used to centralize
power within governments and within
corporations. And um,
the Mormon transhumanist vision of, you
know, how these technologies should be
used is is necessarily messianic,
meaning um, concerned for the least of
these and the oppressed. And um, I think
the way your argument resonates the most
is um, not necessarily in theoretical,
but in the demand it [clears throat]
creates for receipt
that are not there. I mean, that I would
argue are not there. And um, and that
like um, the world is less is more
unequal, con- power is concentrated more
than it's ever been in our world's
history and that's because of this
technology and like
you know the the commitment to the
Mormon transhumanist vision of the world
is an absolute ethical commitment to the
decentralization of power
[clears throat]
and that's kind of like the opposite of
what we've seen in the last
10 years or so.
>> I don't necessarily disagree but I am
curious about
the ways that it's also empowered
individuals, you know, like I I'm still
thinking through
whether or not it's been a net
centralization of power or a net
decentralization of power because if you
think about like
>> Well, that's some
>> some types of tech like money for
example
is is possibly like decentralizing power
in the sense that it uh
each individual who has like they they
have more
>> autonomy distributed.
>> Yeah. No, I agree. I agree but like they
have like the autonomy to go and like
procure things that maybe they used to
have to rely on the manor lord to get,
right? Or or like um
I don't know um
Right, but these little
>> These little pressure valves are also
part of the mechanism that helps the
power become centralized and more too.
>> So sure
>> You can always point to little to little
things like that but that's the big
question is the macro question. I mean
we we all should a covenant against the
singleton which is like on the horizon,
you know, so
>> singularity.
>> Well, I mean I'm just thinking about the
ways that like individuals are empowered
by technology as well. Like so like the
fact that everyone has a device that
they can communicate with anyone else in
the world at at a moment's notice is
like a form of of decentralization type
empowerment, right? So
>> Yeah.
>> So maybe it's
What I want to know is what is the
covenant
>> All the time, right?
>> decentralization
>> Well, no like
>> Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Like just today I made a phone call,
right?
>> I'm just saying that
some of these things like because we
have the technology and we're like great
I can do this, but we have all these
detractors whether and it's an a power
imbalance that's like
distracting us or it's incentivizing
certain things then that takes some of
that away from us. So like yeah, the
internet is extremely democratic like
Nepal used it to great efficacy to
restructure their government, right?
Yeah, like Discord.
Other countries aren't doing that. We're
still using like the
electoral college that centralizes
things.
>> What did Nepal do? Sorry, I was curious.
>> Um they used Discord to distribute
like how to do I think that helped who
is person in there to choose a new
person and use Discord to
>> [laughter]
>> Discord was radically structured in
Nepal to do things that were real
serious Discord.
>> They really
had the the organizational structure and
the mutual aid type structure and on the
ground like to use that tool really
effectively. But even though we have the
same tools,
we don't have the same like power,
[laughter] we have
no aligned ethics,
no aligned aligned spiritual values. And
I'm getting really frustrated that like
I have all these tools in my own life
but they are degrading my life because
yeah, I have unlimited unlimited time,
but do I know I scroll on TikTok?
>> Mhm.
>> Because that even though I'm empowered
by using TikTok,
right? I'm empowered by using TikTok
because I can make videos about things
that are important to me and I can learn
more about the world.
But I end up with these distractions
that are enriching our relations instead
of allowing me to communicate with the
many people that I know in my life and
what actions I take.
>> Mhm. Is that all?
>> Back in the day when it was a hot
question whether it was really evil or
illegal to bundle a browser with an OS.
Mhm. Oh, man.
>> That's been a while, yeah.
>> Yeah, yeah. Like the last
>> Or Netscape.
>> That's it.
>> So, some people haven't like raised
their hand, but yeah.
>> I'm spoken. Uh yeah, the final answer I
think my perspective on it is
I like that you brought up Maslow's
hierarchy of needs already. So, I think
she like as much as technology raises
people out of the base level of red
light the light food, shelter, as much
as technology can get people out of that
into self-actualization. I think that's
a spiritual net positive. But, it
doesn't necessitate that more technology
means that that's happening.
>> [clears throat]
>> It's still just a tool. I look at it as
a tool. I guess I don't know about your
first slide about any morality. It is
let's go on. I look at the technology
and it's like whether or not it's really
using it is kind of hitting us
spiritually.
I think if we're already past those base
levels
um
it's a struggle if you're looking to
help other people who are also at that
level. But, if you're able to use the
technology to lift others, then I think
that would be
again a spiritual net positive again.
But,
you're lifting others to where they can
now have more spiritual experiences.
And in that spiritual heaven.
>> I mean, it sounds like a few of us think
that way where it like basically
technology is orthogonal to morality.
And and so, it depends on what it's used
because it is an augmenter and an
intensifier and whatever. Um
I'm happy to be after having just
listened to a couple hour podcast with
Tristan Harris
um who's the
founder of the What is it? Center for
Humane Technology. He's the guy that did
that documentary, The Social Dilemma.
>> Yeah, yeah.
>> And then now he's been involved with
this one, the AI doc.
>> Mhm.
>> Um
And so and he doesn't like the term
doomer, but I kind of felt like, "Oh,
this is good for me to get away from my
MTA peeps and kind of listen to someone
that's kind of a little more pessimistic
on this." Although he calls himself a
apocalyptimist.
>> Mhm.
>> So
But anyway
Yeah, right.
But uh it basically made me like I
thought he made a really good point um
in talking about, "Yes, you know, you
can use this for good and for bad, all
kinds of technology, right?"
And specifically talking about
once we got to the internet and
especially social media and now AI
we're getting to a point where
as he puts it, the number of bad
outcomes
are infinitely more they're just more
options of ways this can go wrong than
there are on ways that it can go right.
Which doesn't mean that it couldn't be
the best, most utopian future ever, but
it's not going to do that by accident.
And so the questions that you're asking
here um were a lot of the same ones that
they were kind of asking too that I
think are I think that it becomes really
incumbent upon anyone that is bullish on
technology
to say, "You don't just build it and
they will come." Or you don't just do
the approach that Sam Altman and every
other AI person seems to be taking,
which is
"Well, if I don't do it, someone else
will do it. Therefore, let's charge full
steam ahead without worrying about about
the brakes or the you know, I mean,
maybe you get Anthropic occasionally
saying something like "No, Mr.
President, we don't want to hand you the
ability to have AI
>> But even that didn't
>> make kill decisions." Right, they went
to someone else. They they jumped them
and said, "Go
>> Well, not only that, but like
has been basically coerced into
>> Right.
>> Right. So, like, it Yeah, so it fails on
both fronts. And I think it becomes a
self-fulfilling prophecy. The other
thing I'm kind of throwing in here So,
it I'm talking about my own views, I
feel like
I'm bullish on technology as it's more
primitive technology. Certainly, look at
things like speech. You're like, yeah,
there's there's the first example, too.
You can say bad things, you can say good
things, you can heal the world, you can
hurt the world.
I don't think anyone here says humanity
would be better if we couldn't
communicate. Right? Like, you know, we
>> [laughter]
>> But, people I I I would say that the
people who didn't communicate are
probably dead, though.
>> Right. Right.
>> people who had the power, the
technology, whether it was
communication, the ability to build
alliances, the ability to do things,
they're dead.
>> Right.
>> So, we can sit here and say, oh, it's
spiritually hurting us, and that's fine.
It probably is. I I agree with you to a
certain extent. But, that's going to be
the dead group.
>> Right. The people that take the vow of
silence, the people that that say, oh,
our religion is great, but we have a vow
of celibacy, they're not going to have a
shaking You know, they're not
>> argument to be bullish about technology,
but recognize the power involved in it.
It's instead of building a dam, like,
start rerouting, start
>> Yeah.
>> new pathways, in which could this be
spiritual?
>> I think we had a comment from you for a
long time. Did you
>> Yeah, sure. Thank you. My name is Chris,
by the way. I'm Middle Eastern. It's my
second time here.
>> So, what was your name?
>> Chris.
>> Chris. Okay.
>> Um, what you said today in this
discussion helped me with the decision
that I had in my mind. Um, I do a lot of
work with
I guess I'd call them the
disenfranchised. They're the most
victimized by the banks, by every
system,
pharma, food, education system, prison
industrial complex,
all of that. Like they're just got the
short end of all of it and they're just
trying to live and get by and it's hard
cuz they're compromised on so many
levels. And I'm like in the guts of
their messy lives helping them survive,
learn skills.
>> Is this part of your work, your job?
>> Um no, just by personal endeavors.
>> Okay.
>> Um kind of through the church but
without an official calling to serve the
need.
>> Mhm.
>> Is there a film series?
>> On the other side of that, I have a
zillion ideas in my head of books,
programs, podcasts, information that I
think would make the world better.
And I just realized and I always have
this FOMO that when I'm over here
helping this person just like
get a job even though they're out of
prison, they have felonies, and no one
wants to hire them. And how do you
explain that story? Even if you can get
in front of a human who cares cuz it's
all an algorithm, right? And you can't
rent anywhere because BlackRock owns the
houses and you just get dumped in the
trash pile of the applications, right?
So, I realized today I don't think the I
think this is more on the level you were
talking then like well is speech
technology, but I don't think the world
needs my
book ideas and another podcast and
another whatever with my good ideas. It
needs
more of me in doing that stuff.
>> Action speaks louder than action.
>> someone saying the feeding of the
whatever it was that you said that
sounded better but literally on the
ground. The widow and the fatherless and
like really really helping people
instead of writing my brainy stuff.
>> Yeah, one on one.
>> I want to push back a little bit on this
and say
not that I disagree so much as that I
think the idea that there is one course
of action that would be more productive
or more overall useful for humanity,
it might be mistaken. This idea I think
it might be more
I don't know. I I feel like
we even amongst this group here probably
have many different callings and gifts
and talents and
>> I just said I have that in my brain. I
was like
oh when I'm doing this I was not right
after one of the 20 books in my mind is
realized like I don't know the world
needs more of my
>> For you you're saying this is like this
is the better use of your time. Is that
what you're saying?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay.
Yeah, that makes sense.
>> But if you want somebody to push back
against I'll I'll line up Chris and say
I think it'd be better if more people
took that route rather than the you know
>> Yeah, I mean I guess I guess what I'd
say is like
there are times though when someone
because of their particular talents or
gifts like has a voice a message for the
world or whatever and it
ends up influencing a much larger group
of people because they
have that gift or whatever. I don't
>> And maybe my book comes later when I've
worked with 10,000
people right and I get this picture of
like what's really happening. So maybe
it's just later.
>> Yeah, yeah, yeah.
>> Um there was a a master class by Melinda
Gates um on philanthropy and
doing doing good works like that
and
kind of breaking down this dichotomy
even into more fragments like there are
lots of ways that all of us can spend
our time and I think that if you hyper
fixate on one of them you're going to
burn out, you're going to lose like you
like you you just articulated maybe your
book comes later after you've done
something else. And um you know like we
all have talents, we all have influence,
we all have time and money and all that
stuff to varying degrees and in
different ways.
And I think that if we
if we use them mindfully and think about
ways. Like for example, my time is
usually best spent according to this
Master Class
um locally and my money is best spent
out of where I am now cuz right here my
dollar doesn't go as far as it does in
poorer countries for example.
And so um so like a lot of our donations
go out of the country and a lot of our
volunteer time goes locally. And so like
that kind of thing like breaking up your
time and and your thoughts and it kind
of connects back into something that I I
kind of pinned for for a while. My my
thought is my
my algorithm on Instagram for example
has been kind of like consciously
curated to be almost entirely
positive environmentalism news
because I feel like a lot of young
people that I know are very very
convinced that the world will end and so
they are not applying to school or work,
they're not pursuing relationships,
they're having less sex, they're not
doing living. They're they they are
giving up.
And so I felt about a year and a half
two years ago called to like sharing the
ideas that we can save the world. That
yeah, climate change is real. It is a
big problem and we can do things to fix
it and there are people taking action.
Like it it is a it is a problem that
will that will get worse and it will
suck and species will go extinct and
people will die, but we will pull out of
it and we can have a future still. The
world is not going to burn entirely. You
know, like that kind of thinking. And so
like
I feel as though
I feel as though algorithms
kind of depend on our feedback.
And the idea of like technology kind of
makes the world frictionless and it's so
much easier now to enter an echo chamber
or to, you know, like create a to create
slop or to eat unhealthily or whatever.
Like the
the key I think is a little bit of
intentional effort
in the direction that we want to go.
And so like if by default
we mean something like when we are
exhausted and stressed and we are just
looking for a quick a quick dopamine hit
or a quick sugar rush or whatever.
Um
then like I I just I I prefer to believe
that humanity at its default is not
at stress.
And or rather I don't think that we
should think of it that way. In the same
way that I don't really like the idea of
like the Buddhist principle that all
life is Dukkha, all life is suffering.
Um and then there are like there are
moments where you're experiencing some
temporary like pleasure or joy or
something, but even there there's a form
of Dukkha because you must acknowledge
that it will end or that it could have
been better even while you're
experiencing it. And so the answer for
that problem that they that they kind of
state is baseline that all life is
suffering is to remove desire from the
world. And I would argue that you could
very easily say that the zebra is black
with white stripes not white with black
stripes that the default could also be
joy and peace and love and awe and all
that and sometimes you dip down into
suffering. And that's true for different
people's privileges real all of that is
something that we need to acknowledge,
but when it comes to this group in
particular and like people who are using
social media and they're victims of
algorithms and and like are addicted to
chatting with AIs and stuff, I think
that the The for me has been just to be
really intentional about how I use my
technology. Like I make it a point to
call my parents across the world at
least once a week. And I I make it a
point to have cash on hand so that I can
give it to the homeless person on the
corner. And so like I try to be mindful
of the technology that I have access to
and use it intentionally.
>> I think that's perfect for what any
individual can and should be doing now.
Like that combined with Chris's, you
know, get out there and hands-on active,
be the change you want to see in the
world. Um
the questions that really bug me are the
ones that seem out of my control, but
which affect me and everyone else, which
a lot of times aren't due to malice,
they're due to a lack of the same kind
of conscientious planning that you're
talking about on the individual level,
but perpetrated on the [clears throat]
international level. I mean, that I
think social media is such a great
example where it's like
>> [clears throat]
>> nothing malicious, it's just the fact
that the payment structure for it was
designed to be, you know, money for
eyeballs. And that automatically selects
for rage baiting and doom scrolling and
people retracting from the world rather
than going out into it. And all of these
things that in retrospect were
foreseeable, but but no one was
motivated to see it. And it actually
came probably from a good place where
people are saying
we want the internet we don't want to
have it be even a buck a year, but if we
in retrospect if we'd paid for that,
it's like we could have
we could have made social media actually
make our lives better rather than having
us become the product for someone else's
shareholder value.
>> Can I poll the group on something that's
too personal? Like has anyone here ever
like taken Raise your hand if you've
ever like taken a Sabbath from your
tech.
>> From your tech?
>> From your tech.
>> From your tech. Can you unplug?
>> Oh, all right. And like like keep your
hands up if you've done that more than
once. Like any kind of regularity. Oh,
okay.
>> No regularity.
>> So, like
>> [laughter]
>> I guess I'm I guess like [clears throat]
I think this question like
I answer it differently for having done
that maybe as far as like not good not
positive than I might have if I hadn't
done that. And like I'm I'm not from the
church and I got married so like I have
experience with alcohol and I would say
like I guess until recently I think it
could have been said that like yeah,
like some people struggle with alcohol
addiction but like most people can like
handle it okay. And now just like I
guess what's changed the last maybe like
18 months about like online gambling
with men and like other things it sounds
like it it it's actually like heroin.
Very few people can dabble in it and be
okay.
And like that that's the exception not
the rule. So, that's
>> Are you saying that about alcohol as
well or just
>> No, no. So, alcohol is how I used to
think of like tech. Okay, some people
are going to get addicted but most
people are fine. And now I'm like today
the internet is actually like like
probably like heroin.
I've met people who've done heroin and
like not like occasionally but I like I
never I don't think I could try that and
like not get addicted.
>> What about um
I mean if you're just saying that people
find it very difficult not to use the
internet, I would agree but like if
if you're saying that the internet has
the same sort of negative like mostly
downsides and very little upside um like
heroin, I would say no.
>> I I guess I would just say like it it
does seem to like
change your brain and like
has like the addictive property so you
can be like functional using it but you
are a different you and like I didn't I
just didn't even occur to me to try it
like I was listening to like um
an Orthodox Jewish woman like talking
about the holidays where um
on like certain holidays you basically
treat them like Shabbat. So she's like
when you get 3 days in a row where like
two like a a 48-hour holiday like is
either right before or after Shabbat.
She's like, "It's crazy. You get like
your 90s brain back."
Yeah, I I've almost done that where I
have to like keep my phone but like
but like yeah, it's
>> Have you So you've done it? Right?
You've done some Yeah.
And you tell tell us about your
experiences. I'm curious.
>> I mean, if you want to you know I
Fortunately, I don't have the experience
of having been addicted to like opiates
[clears throat] or something. So I can't
say I know it's exactly like that, but I
I do know what it's like to
Like like my memory is different when
I'm not using it. My comfort with
boredom like my comfort with like
different feelings is just different.
>> Yeah. [clears throat]
I wonder if anybody's had experience
with specific aspects of the internet.
Like are people cutting out all like
your book on your TV reader or your
>> podcast to listen to often about
productivity and I'm like
the irony friends will stop.
>> [laughter]
>> Do you guys agree that all agree that
short-form videos are bad?
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> [laughter]
>> I've only had that for a minute. They've
had short-form chat videos on people who
struggle with anxiety and PTSD and
things like that. And limited scope of
short-form videos of like cat videos and
things like that actually decrease their
cortisol levels, help them activate
their sympathetic parasympathetic
nervous system and
Exactly. Within the limited scope. So I
don't think the infinity scroll counts
as that, but again it's
being more deliberate and you know
>> Yeah, that's like there was like a
practice to maybe give us a modifiable
when you you had a really stressful
moment that was like maybe scary or you
noticed your brain wanted to spiral,
that's the time to play a game of
Tetris, to do something that's totally
mindless and to watch a cat video. And
then there are other times where the the
response is to reflect on it deeply and
write in your journal.
>> By the way, this did exist before the
internet like
my aunt played solitaire all the time.
>> Yeah.
>> Um
and everyone always did the crossword
puzzle in the New York Times. There's
still a lot of people still do and
there's like a lot of like occupying
things that people did before
>> But I think it's more like gambling,
right?
>> Like you
>> It's like gambling.
>> You went to Checo
>> Gambling is correct. Absolutely. They've
done studies on that, too.
>> Yeah. Wait, you think it's more like
gambling than than like reading
>> Than like reading
>> Yeah, I would read the I would read the
funnies in the paper, but like you read
through it and you're done.
>> Like you can only read it so long.
>> Yeah, yeah. I I heard you saying you're
just saying there's like that was
There's an endless wheel
>> quickly
finished, right?
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> It's discreet.
I agree with you.
>> the change or or the casual suit with
like is it fair
for these social media companies to have
large scroll features or auto play
>> Yeah, yeah. I've heard this, yeah.
>> That's the issue cuz like the the
problem is not that
that there's a category
or that there's all these things, the
problem is that it's put in a structure
that removes our agency.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's also a problem in
my opinion that like that the existence
of interesting content is endless.
That's what that like I I tell my kids
about this a lot like I remember a time
when you know, there was an hour in in
the evening when nothing good was on TV
after that and you just kind of like
went to sleep because he didn't have a
lot of stuff to do.
>> I always like tell myself, "What do you
care about this?"
>> Yeah, yeah.
>> No.
>> And it's hard to say what's the optimal
amount and then not only do it, but as a
parent try to make your kids
>> I should have said this to you like we
sometimes these discussions go for a
long time and we [laughter] don't feel
we don't feel like we have to stay
>> So I have my bedtime and I got an hour
to drive. So I am going to take a
>> Yeah, thank you.
>> Mine's going to be racing all night
because of
everything.
Very, very good conversations. I
appreciate all of us.
>> Yeah, thank you, Trey.
>> Yeah.