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The core argument of this episode centers on the concept that human life operates within a biological simulation controlled entirely by the brain, which translates electrical and chemical signals into our perceived reality rather than processing direct sensory input from the outside world. The speaker emphasizes that because the brain is an extraordinary predictive machine designed primarily for survival—specifically to keep us safe, fed, and procreating—it naturally prioritizes negative information over positive data. This evolutionary mechanism creates a bias where we perceive threats more readily; for instance, mistaking a garden hose for a snake results in minor embarrassment rather than death if one fails to react to an actual predator. Consequently, the subconscious mind processes emotions faster but speaks only in emotional language, often hijacking individuals with irrational fears or feelings of unworthiness derived from past traumatic associations, such as hearing a car engine and feeling immediate danger due to a childhood accident where a tree blocked harm. To counteract these biological defaults and unlock full potential, the speaker advocates for taking conscious control over both the mind and body through narrative retraining and pattern interruption. By consciously repeating positive affirmations with high energy and enthusiasm—such as declaring oneself a "learner" capable of mastering any skill—the individual can force the brain to justify this new emotional state at a physiological level. This process involves actively interrupting negative thought loops before they solidify into reality, ensuring that one does not become what is repeated in their internal dialogue. The speaker illustrates how focusing on the 80% success rate rather than the 20% failure allows for a positive feedback loop where challenges are viewed as opportunities to learn and adapt, leveraging the human capacity as an "ultimate adaptation machine." Furthermore, understanding that emotions are made by the body based on historical interactions helps individuals realize they can retrain their physiological responses through new stories told with conviction. A critical component of maintaining mental clarity is managing the balance between creative flow states and meditative calmness to eliminate what the speaker terms "background radiation" or anxiety. The host explains that meditation serves as a tool to activate the parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest) via diaphragmatic breathing, which acts as a physiological hook to lower stress levels when they rise unexpectedly during the day. This practice is not antagonistic to creative work but rather essential for it; clearing the mind of fear and overwhelm allows one to access deep flow states necessary for high performance. The speaker shares personal anecdotes about moving quickly into new ventures without overthinking, citing a specific example where he launched a major NFT initiative within 48 hours by trusting action over analysis. He references Marie Forleo's experience with dance classes as further proof that taking immediate action often provides the clarity needed to decide on a path much faster than prolonged deliberation ever could. The speaker also details his rigorous research methodology, which involves synthesizing vast amounts of information through "learning in swarms" rather than focusing deeply on a single source initially. By consuming content at accelerated speeds and researching topics from multiple angles simultaneously—such as reading ten books or watching numerous interviews on sleep science—he allows an osmosis effect to occur where complex concepts naturally become clear over time. This approach, combined with the "Always Be Learning" (ABL) framework, ensures that he is always prepared for conversations because his unique experiences and accumulated data interact in novel ways when synthesizing new information. He maintains a relentless curiosity, dedicating an average of two and a half hours daily to learning while performing mundane tasks like brushing teeth or cooking, ensuring no moment goes unused for intellectual growth. Ultimately, the conclusion drawn is that by mastering one's thoughts, managing biological responses through breathing and narrative control, taking decisive action over analysis, and continuously synthesizing knowledge, any aspect of life can be improved and human potential unleashed.
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Everybody, welcome to another episode of
Impact Theory. I am going to be talking
to you today all about
the power of thought. This is one of the
most important topics. I don't care what
anybody tells you. If you get your mind
right, if you get your thoughts under
control, you can change the trajectory
of your life. You can literally change
every aspect of your life, whether
you want to believe it or not, you are
living in a simulation. It's just that
simulation is happening between your
ears. And one of the core concepts of my
life is the fact that
your brain
is housed in a vat. Light never touches
your brain. Think about that. Sound
never touches your brain.
You get these electrical chemical
signals that are
translated by your brain into all this
stuff that you think of as being the
real world out there around you, but in
reality, it is all happening inside your
mind. It was the neuroscientist David
Eagleman that first got me thinking
about that, and it is such a powerful
idea to realize that everything that you
think of as the real world is really a
simulation being run by your brain.
Now, once you realize that you are
living in a simulation that's controlled
by your brain, and the way that it
influences you is through your
subconscious and your conscious mind,
you begin to realize that you've got to
take control of the conscious part. And
they both influence each other. So,
getting a hold of your conscious mind is
going to have profound implications in
terms of your emotional well-being, in
terms of the feelings that you have uh
are coming from your body. So, it is
this incredible two-way street of your
body reporting to the mind, the mind
reporting to the body, the mind running
all of these predictive
um
simulations essentially about what the
future is going to look like. Your brain
is this extraordinary predictive
machine. And taking control of that
process, realizing that you can take
control of that process, is arguably the
most important decision that any human
being will ever make.
So,
the power of thought. What is it?
It's everything.
All right. Question number one.
What role does the subconscious mind
play in our thinking process for making
decisions? All right. Read Lisa Feldman
Barrett's book How Emotions Are Made.
Understanding that two-way street that I
was talking about between the mind and
the body is extraordinarily powerful
because it is how you're going to get
out of this death loop of whether it's
background what I call background
radiation of anxiety, whether it's even
something as profound as depression.
Ultimately, you have to retrain your
body. And this is one of the reasons
that psychedelics are proving to be such
a profound tool in the fight against
intractable depression and anxiety is
you're causing this total disruption of
the way that you relive the event. Now,
once you
take a memory out of storage in your
brain and you're sort of holding it in
working memory. So, you're reliving this
thing. You're reassigning emotion to
that before you restore it. Now, that
emotion is that two-way street between
the body. So, the way that emotions are
made is your body will give you a
sensation that's based on historical um
interactions. So, I remember one time as
a kid I was um playing out in front of a
house. I was actually drinking out of a
hose and I heard the roar of a car
engine, the squeal of tires, and then
pow! The car hit a gigantic tree about
20 ft from me. And had the tree not been
there, it would have killed me. It was
crazy. It would have smashed into the
house. It was nuts. And for
two decades
after that, the sound of a racing car
engine would make my heart speed up. It
was crazy the way that I had formed this
association of danger with that sound.
And the person ended up getting like
absolutely battered in the car accident.
So, of course, that was part of the
trauma. They're stumbling out of the
car, bleeding profusely. It was madness.
And that got fused with this heightened
physiological response. So, now I would
hear a car engine rev, right?
Subconsciously, I now have this fight or
flight moment of something that actually
doesn't have any sort of real-world tie
to danger. But because of that one
experience, now my subconscious have
been hijacked, and it kept feeding me
the signal that I was in danger whenever
I heard that sound. And so,
understanding at the biological level
what's going on, that your brain goes,
"Whoa, I'm getting this sensation. There
must be a reason."
And that is one of the most important
ideas in my life is that the brain will
justify
whatever emotion you have.
So, if you think negative thoughts about
yourself, that begins to wire in at the
body level. So, when you think about
speaking up in front of somebody, when
you think about, um,
you know, taking a risk at your job or
whatever, putting yourself on the line,
and you have these negative thoughts,
the mirror about yourself, the mirror
thought of stepping out in front of
people triggers that subconscious
feeling that you're not worthy, you're
not good enough, whatever, and it makes
you want to retreat into yourself. Now,
when you understand that that's actually
a process that you can insert yourself
into, you can take control of the
subconscious sensations being sent by
your body
by telling yourself a new narrative
about yourself, and that over time it
actually will begin to wire itself at a
body level because the brain will
justify whatever reaction you feed it.
So, if you get hyped up and like, "Hey,
I'm a learner, man. I can get good at
this no matter what. You put me in front
of people, I'm going to be able to
figure this out." If that's the story
that you repeat and you say it to other
people and you do it with energy and
enthusiasm, then the brain goes, "Oh,
okay, cool. I get it. We're excited
about this. Doing this thing, getting
out in front of people, we're going to
learn. This is a moment of excitement
for us." It takes time, but you really
can shift the subconscious signal that
your body sends you by rehearsing it at
a heightened level of excitement.
This is where I get really obsessed with
this idea that we're all having a
biological experience. And once you
realize you're having a biological
experience
and you can take control of some of
those biological processes, you can get
a tremendously improved outcome.
All right. So, don't let your negative
thoughts run away with you. Don't let
them dictate your life because they will
feed your subconscious and your
subconscious ultimately is what feeds
that sensation.
And they say that the subconscious mind
can process data faster and faster,
meaning much more information much
faster. But the subconscious mind speaks
in the language of emotion.
And we just talked about how those
emotions are formed and they become a
part of your everyday life. So, you need
to insert yourself so you can change
that process.
All right.
Question number two.
How do you go about bringing the vision
in your mind and making that into a
reality? All right. Here is an idea that
I want you guys to get obsessed with.
You become
what you repeat.
Let me repeat that. You become what you
repeat. Now, if you become what you
repeat and the thing that you repeat in
your own head is what a loser you are,
that things never go your way, that the
world is against you, that you're hard
done by, that you're just not talented
like other people, that things weren't
meant for you. If that's what you're
repeating in your head, that is what is
going to become your reality. Because
if you predict it, right? Nothing ever
works out for me. I'm a loser. I always
screw things up. Okay? Your your brain
is a predictive machine. We talked about
that before. So, your brain is
predicting, you're telling yourself on a
loop that this never works out for me. I
always screw things up. I'm too stupid.
Whatever. Your brain then is going to
expect to see that. And then basically,
no matter what happens, your brain is
going to find a way to conform that
to the narrative that you tell yourself.
Okay? And we've all seen people do this,
where we're there in a room with them
and we see things, "Whoa, things are
like really working out for them. This
is going great." And then when they
retell the story, they only focus on the
negative parts. And it's like, "Whoa,
were we in the same room?" Because what
I saw was 80% good. Sure, 20% bad, but
it was 80% good. And all that person
repeats is the 20% that was bad. And
because that's their habit, that was all
they saw when they looked at that event.
And so, really understanding the
necessity
of grabbing a hold of that process, of
recognizing whatever you allow yourself
to repeat is going to be the thing that
you see. It is going to become the
bedrock of your life. So, if you're
repeating, "I'm a learner. I can figure
this out. There's nothing that you can
put on me that on a long enough timeline
I can't figure out." These are the
things I tell myself, by the way. So, if
you're ever wondering what it's like to
be inside my head, it starts with a
negative thought. I refuse to allow
myself to repeat that. I do what's
called a pattern interrupt. So, as soon
as I say, "Oh man, I'm too dumb. I'm
never going to figure this out." I
pattern interrupt. No,
you're the learner. Do not allow
yourself to repeat that you're dumb and
that you can't figure this out. You're
the learner. Anything that anybody
brings you you can figure out. Going
back to the previous question, I say it
with enthusiasm. I'm telling other
people. I get myself hyped up. I smile.
I get energetic. Now my brain goes,
"Whoa, the body's like getting really
amped up about this. The amplitude of
reaction will get justified by my brain.
And now, because I'm repeating it that I
can learn anything on a long enough
timeline, I can be anyone at anything,
human potential is nearly limitless, the
average person is the ultimate
adaptation machine, therefore I am the
ultimate adaptation machine. I can get
good at anything with disciplined
practice." And I'm saying that
I'm saying it in this heightened
emotional way. Now, all of a sudden, my
brain is justifying that, "Whoa, we
really must be a learner. And this
really must be a good thing because
we're saying it with all this
excitement." And so, now,
by repeating that, by doing that on a
loop, by having that running 40, 50
times a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a
year, I now get an innate emotional
response to challenge that's positive.
And that puts me in this positive loop
of where I don't encounter a challenge
and want to stop or want to back off or
feel badly about myself or think about
all the times where I screwed it up. I
encounter that challenge.
I've repeated so many times that I can
figure this out, and I've celebrated my
wins so obsessively. And when I do
something and 20% goes wrong and 80%
goes right, I'm spending all my time
with the things that went right. I learn
from the things that went wrong, but I'm
repeating about the things that went
wrong that I can figure this out. I can
learn it. I can get better.
And then on the 80%, I'm celebrating it
to really lock it in.
And so, that repetition is exactly how
you make it stick.
All right. Next up. How to find
difference How to find the difference
between digging deep and overthinking.
Like, how to identify overthinking and
stop doing it because you need to think
to analyze, but if you overthink, you
don't get a solution.
All right. So, thinking is super
important and overthinking is a
catastrophic waste of time.
Now, I have rules in my life and this is
all a part of how I get control of my
subconscious mind, how I get control of
the things that I repeat, how I'm making
sure that I'm making the most of my
time. And what I am obsessed with is how
just how the human mind works. So, not
judging it, not saying, "Oh, I wish it
would be different." Though there are
many things that I do wish would be
different. I focus entirely on
recognizing the truth of the way the
human mind works. And the way that the
human mind works is that if you don't
take action,
you will never
get the full benefit of
the way that experience,
action
has this magnification effect of the
lesson. It's what I call the whiteboard
effect.
When I was in high school and I was in
math class, the teacher would explain
something, I would think I had it, and I
would go home and I would realize,
"Whoa, I actually don't know how this
works."
The times where they forced me to go up
to the whiteboard, even though I didn't
want to do it, and I had to actually do
the problem. I had to take action. I had
to go through it. Then I realized where
my sense that I understood something met
the reality of I actually don't know
this. And it forced me to work through
it. That is life. There are things you
can try to think your way through and
thinking is very valuable, but it needs
to be done in conjunction with action.
So, you're not thinking in a vacuum,
you're thinking back on the action you
took.
So, to give you an idea, I recently had
a big initiative here at Impact Theory,
which is NFTs. And
I didn't know anything about it and I
went from hearing the letters NFT put
together in that order for the first
time, and 48 to 72 hours later, we had
launched a major initiative. And and I'm
talking multiple millions of dollars
initiative. And the team was panicking a
little because
we were moving so quickly, but what I
wanted them to understand is I'll never
be able to think my way to understanding
this. I can always back out of the
initiative and not end up spending all
the money that we, you know, had
earmarked for it. But to really
understand if this is real, I have to go
down that path. And uh Marie Forleo has
a tremendous example about this, so
powerful,
about dance class. And she was like,
"Oh, you know, I'm 25, could I ever be a
dancer? I don't know." And she spent
like a year like hemming and hawing. And
then she said she went and took a single
dance class, and 20 minutes into the
dance class, she knew whether she was
late to the party or not. She wanted to
dedicate her life to dance. And that 20
minutes in a dance class had her in
tears, and she was just like, it was a
transformational moment for her. And 20
minutes did what a year could not do.
And so, when you force yourself to take
action, which is the rule that I have in
my life,
that I know action cures all. You're
never going to be able to think your way
to the right solution. Do a little bit
of thinking, do enough to have a general
direction of which way you want to go,
and then take action. I cannot tell you
how many problems that is going to solve
for you in your life. Take action. Take
action. Action cures all. Going back to
that idea of repetition, right? So,
that's one of those ideas you should get
very obsessed with. Go out, take action.
You will be shocked at how rapidly um
you will get past whatever death loop
you've been in around overthinking. Now,
you're going to take action and then
think. Take more action and then think.
Take more action and think. So, as I go,
I'm constantly researching. I'm
constantly learning. I'm constantly
reflecting on what I do, but I'm always
doing.
And if you do that, it will transform
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Why is it so much easier to manifest bad
thoughts than positive thoughts? All
right, so going back to the idea, you're
having a biological experience.
The brain works a certain way, okay? We
are not all blank slates. Science seems
to peg it roughly at 50/50. 50% of who
you are is born. It is the human brain,
and the human brain has evolved over
millions of years of evolution. It is
designed to do one thing, and that one
thing is to keep you alive long enough
to have children that have children,
okay? That's what the brain is trying to
do. And once you understand that the
brain does not really care how you feel
any more than it gets you to take the
right actions, right? It wants you to do
things to keep you safe, fed,
and it wants to make sure that you're
procreating. Now, you can begin to see a
lot of sort of human dynamics
once you understand that that is what
the brain is designed to do. So, the
brain is not designed to make sure that
you run your own company or that you
come out wealthy. The brain is not
designed to make sure that you love
every moment of your life. The brain is
designed to keep you alive. Now, to keep
you alive, it's got to make you pay
attention to the negative stuff. So, one
of my favorite examples of how the brain
is wired for danger and risk perception.
So, think about if you've ever seen a
garden hose out of the corner of your
eye and jumped only to realize, "Oh man,
that's just a garden hose, it's not a
snake." Now, the reason that the brain
is wired like that is you are way better
off thinking that a hose is a snake than
you are to think that a snake is a hose.
If you think that the snake is a garden
hose and you
don't react and don't get out of the way
and the snake bites you, you die. But,
if you think that the garden hose is a
snake and you jump out of the way, then
the only problem is a little bit of
embarrassment. And so, that is the thing
that plays out when you think about why
your brain is constantly going to
negative thoughts because it is far
better to say, "Hey, whoa, whoa, whoa,
whoa."
This is dangerous.
You're not smart enough for this. Just
chill, take a backseat because in a
world, which we don't live in anymore,
but you know, over the eons of
evolution,
to get ostracized from a group was
essentially certain death. And so, your
brain wanted to make sure that you
didn't do anything that was going to get
you ostracized from the group. So, the
brain in many ways is
is unafraid is probably the right way to
think about it. It is unafraid to keep
you small. It is unafraid to warn you.
It's not that it If it sees you're doing
well and that you're crushing it, then
it's going to lift you up as well. So,
there is that flip side of the coin.
But, that can be a very dangerous game.
So, there's always this hedge. So, to
me, and this is just sort of ballparking
it, gut instinct, it seems to be
somewhere like five to seven times more
impactful
on the negative side. So, for you, like
social comments, right? Is a really easy
way to think of it. For
it to balance out, you would need to get
roughly seven times the number of
positive comments to the negative
comments and still walk away from that
feeling good. And that is just the brain
sussing out danger, the brain trying to
figure out um how to keep you safe, and
understanding that that's the driver,
then you get into the territory that I
think is incredibly powerful of
realizing you don't have to believe
everything you think,
and you really don't have to believe
everything you feel.
And
inserting yourself
into both the conscious and subconscious
dialogue that your brain and body are
having is critically important to
maintaining your mental health. Because
as your brain in a world where we're
hyperconnected, and there is constantly
the the {quote} {unquote} risk from an
evolutionary perspective of being
ostracized, of having the group turn on
you, saying something stupid, having
people attack you, um your brain is
constantly like danger signal, danger
signal. And you get a signal as if it is
physical danger. So somebody saying
something negative about you actually
hurts, it triggers pain receptors in
your brain, and registers as actual
danger. And so inserting yourself into
that,
realize that it actually isn't danger,
and recognizing that the brain has a
bias towards negativity, that it's just
trying to keep you safe, you can begin
to navigate that. You can either say,
you know, thank you brain for trying to
keep me safe, but in reality, this is
not some big dramatic thing, and so I'm
going to be perfectly fine. Um or you
can just use it as a habit loop trigger
of every time your brain tries to get
you to focus on the negative, you remind
yourself to consciously take control of
that and focus on the positive.
Just all of that boils down to the key
of understanding that that is the
brain's nature. That is what the brain
does. This is not a failing of you. This
does not mean that you're a bad person
or that you have a defective brain. It
simply means this is the nature of the
human brain. And
it gives you that in of being able to
take some conscious control. So, just
make sure that you actually exert that.
All right.
Okay.
On the one hand, I feel I have to
immerse myself in creative thinking and
that takes time to get into a flow
state. On the other hand, I feel
meditation and clearing my mind is
helpful. How do you manage these two
states of mind? I feel that the calm
meditation somehow blocks the creative
immersive flow. Thanks. Okay. So, this
is going back into that idea of thinking
versus doing. Meditation is
extraordinarily powerful, but there is a
reason and I In fact, let me back up and
say not only is it powerful, but
it saved my life is a little dramatic,
but it's really close to being true. And
so,
I spend about 20 minutes a day
meditating and I spend the rest of my
day going hard, building things, trying
to get into the flow state. Now, the
reason that that time balance exists is
that's what I find um is useful. So, the
reason I'm meditating, I want to get rid
of background radiation, anxiety, fear,
um stress, overwhelm, okay? I want to
get rid of all of that, which I do
by breathing from my diaphragm. It's
what I call a physiological hook into
the mind. So, it's a it's a seesaw.
Meaning, when one side goes down, the
other goes up.
And if you think about the two
antagonistic forces of the seesaw being
the sympathetic nervous system, known as
fight or flight, and the parasympathetic
nervous system, known as rest and
digest, and only one can be up at a
time. So, as the sympathetic nervous
system goes up and you slide into fight
or flight, you are no longer calm. As
the reverse happens and the
parasympathetic
nervous system goes up, then the
sympathetic nervous system goes down and
you are calm and you can't be both calm
and anxious at the same time. Now, the
reason I refer to breathing from the
diaphragm as a physiological hook is
that by breathing from the diaphragm,
even if you don't want to, you will
slide into a parasympathetic response.
So, you will force the parasympathetic
nervous system up, rest and digest, and
the sympathetic nervous system down.
That's why it's incredibly important to
learn how to effectively breathe from
your diaphragm. There are a ton of
YouTube videos out there.
It is very easy. You're breathing from
your belly. That's basically the
punchline.
It is relatively easy to do.
And like I said, you can if you search
Mark Divine box breathing, that's the
person that introduced me to it,
you will learn how to breathe from your
diaphragm, you will learn how to do a
very simple version of meditation, and
you can get all the benefits. Now,
having said all of that, by doing that,
I get into a calm, creative state, but
then that calm creative state gives me
the insights that I need to then go and
work on something. So,
I want to spend my time being
productive. Meditation for me is about
learning to very quickly get rid of
background radiation. And if I find
during the day it's going up, I'll sit
and meditate in the middle of the day.
Whatever. Like,
you're going to operate so much more
effectively once you're in that calm and
creative state than you will if that
background radiation is going up. And I
think that you will find that while if
all you do is meditate, you'll never get
into the sort of performance aspect of
flow, but if you don't meditate, you
won't be able to achieve flow because
you have that anxiety, you have those
fears, you're stuck in your head, you
know, all these ideas are sort of
crashing on you at once, it can be very
overwhelming.
Meditation allows us to clear that and
to actually perform at our best. So, to
me, the only sort of worry is
you want to make sure that you're
spending time actually executing,
but you want to have done the prep work
first. So, um
there is such a thing as
not getting the results that you want
from meditating. If you're letting your
mind wander, you're not consistently
breathing from your diaphragm.
So, don't panic if in the beginning
meditation isn't working as well as you
would like. Um
that is definitely something that you
can get better at just by doing it every
day, you know, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 20
minutes.
Um
and I think the more you do it, the
faster you will find yourself being able
to slide into that. But, the two aren't
um antagonistic to each other other than
at a time allocation
um standpoint. So, don't be afraid. I
start my days with meditation. I find
that sets me up well, but like I said,
if I'm struggling, if for whatever
reason um stress is creeping in, anxiety
is creeping in, then I'll sit down and
and meditate again because
functioning optimally
for a shorter period of time
is far more useful than functioning sub
par for a longer period of time, which
is also why you should get sleep.
But, that's how I see it.
All right, next up. What is your thought
process behind when you do your
research? I'm amazed how you are always
prepared. How, in all caps, do you do
it? What's the process? I completely
suck at this. Okay, so honestly, my
process is extraordinarily
simple. Now, the way that I think about
it, sort of the the at a conceptual
level, is that
we're synthesizing machines.
And the more information we take in, the
more unique ideas we're likely to have.
So, our unique mind, our unique
experience is going to interact, you
know, in in the case of researching a
person, is going to interact with all
the things that I learn about that
person. And it's going to interact in a
unique way. So, I'm going to come up
with unique questions. There's going to
be a unique part of their story that I'm
attracted to. And so, my process is my
thought process is twofold. One, I want
to get in as much data as I can. So, I
want to read their book. I want to watch
a bunch of videos that they've done, all
the interviews that I can get my hands
on. So, that I'm interacting with a lot
of things. And then the second part is
that I want to follow my unique
reactions. So, when I'm hearing somebody
do an interview and, you know, the
interviewer asks them a question and
they give an answer and they're like,
"Oh, yeah, you know, it's funny that
makes me think of my dog and the time
that they died on my bed." And then they
just move on to the other part of the
question and nobody follows up. The guy
is obviously saying like the dog dying
on his bed like really had made an
impact. I want to know about that. Like
how has that played in? Why mention that
in this arena? Like now I'm super
curious. And I found by
loading myself with information, letting
my mind sort of bounce around on that
thing and then being totally unafraid to
chase the things I find are interesting.
So, maybe nobody else asked them about
that. But I find it interesting. And so,
I'm going to pursue that. That like So,
obviously I've been doing that for years
now. But in the very, very, very
beginning when it was called Inside
Quest I didn't do that. And I really was
trying to like this is what I think an
interviewer is supposed to be. And so,
I'm asking the questions I think an
interviewer is supposed to ask. And then
finally I was like no, no, no. Let me
just chase the things that I find
fascinating. Now, how I learn is a very
specific thing that I call
learning in swarms. I'll often refer to
it as reading in swarms, but because
when I'm researching for an interview,
it's often um podcasts, so I'll say I'm
learning in swarms. So, I will learn
about the guest and their specific life
story or whatever, but also if they have
a topic, I'm going to go research the
topic as well. So now, as a synthesizing
machine, I get all these ideas that they
talk about. So recently, I had a sleep
expert on the show, Matthew Walker.
Fascinating, fascinating interview. You
want to check it out. Now, part of the
research for that wasn't just
researching what he knows about sleep,
it's all the other people that I've
researched about sleep. It was also like
he would talk about a specific topic
around sleep, I want to go figure out
about that thing. And that becomes
really powerful. So you take this idea
and I'm I'm just I'm not going to sit
down and like, you know, watch one
interview or read one book and like
really labor the point. I'm going to go,
"Hey, I'm going to go through this at if
it's uh normal language speed, I'll go
through it at 2.2 x speed. Um if it's a
book, usually I'm closer to 3x speed
depending on the narrator." And
there's going to be a lot of stuff that
I won't understand. I'm like, "Okay,
that's interesting. Yeah, I'm not quite
sure I'm following that." I don't slow
down. I keep going cuz I know I'm going
to attack this in a swarm. So, once I
finish that, maybe I go into another
interview, maybe I go on to another
book, whatever. And now, as I read in
the swarm that is this topic, I begin to
figure out what the vernacular is, what
the important topics are, who the
players are in the space, who's really
saying something insightful, who's not,
cuz you don't want to over-invest in one
book and spend all your time researching
and taking notes. It's like, I'm going
to read, you know, 10 books on the
subject. I wouldn't read that many books
for an interview um just cuz limited
time. But you get the idea. Like, when
I'm trying to take in a topic, I'm going
to go as hard as I can, as many
different interviews as I can, as many
different books as I can, and get this
topic from a whole bunch of different
levels, and just naturally over time
there's sort of an osmosis effect around
that topic where you just begin to
understand what the main themes are,
what the like oh, maybe I didn't
understand, um, you know, to take sleep.
You know, maybe you don't understand the
the way that amyloid plaques are washed
out of the brain at night, okay? Maybe
in the beginning you don't understand
that the brain actually shrinks in the
middle of the night and that there's,
um, you know, this system for cleaning
out the fluids in the brain. And so, the
first time you hear it you're like, I've
no idea what that is. I don't know what
that means. I don't know anything about
it. But by the third or fourth time you
come across it it's like, oh, cool,
okay, I'm really beginning to understand
what this is. Um, that's hugely
important. And then, here's another part
of, um,
why I'm so prepared for interviews. I'm
deeply curious. So, I spend it averages,
so obviously some days is way more, like
on the weekends, some days is less.
But on average, if you took uh, a week,
a month, or even a year, it's going to
be the same average. Two and a half
hours a day, every day, seven days a
week dedicated to learning.
And so, it's pretty shocking how many
different topics you can touch on. I
keep a list called to research. So, here
are the things that, you know, I want to
research. Um, and so, whenever I have a
down moment, I've got, you know, a
gaggle of YouTube videos that I can
watch. I mean, there's, you know, the
fact that you guys are are watching this
video right now, I'm sure you already
subscribe to the idea that YouTube is an
unlimited treasure trove of knowledge.
It is
Honestly, it's one of the most
extraordinary things to come out of the
internet. It is insane how much
information you can learn for free on
any topic you can imagine. There's
somebody out there creating content
around it. So,
I have a an endless list of things to
research on YouTube, and then I just do
it fiendishly. From the second from the
second I wake up, I keep three pairs of
headphones next to my bed, so that if
one is dead at any one time, I'm never
in the position where I can't
immediately put headphones on and start
listening to something that I previously
earmarked, so that I'm ready to go. I
never miss a beat. I brush my teeth
while I'm reading or listening to a
video. I make my food. I feed the dogs.
I pee. Everything that I do, I'm doing
Not everything. Everything that I'm
doing by myself, uh, I do
while I'm learning. If my body can be on
autopilot, um,
working out. I don't listen to music
while I work out. When I'm working out,
I am listening to a book. I'm listening
to a YouTube video. I'm learning. So,
that framework that I call ABL, always
be learning, has served me
extraordinarily well, so that I'm
synthesizing all of this data, that when
somebody mentions something that maybe I
didn't realize that they were into, but
I've already researched that, you know,
at some other point in my past, and
again, researched it in a swarm, so that
I've encountered that idea so many times
from so many different angles that I can
easily apply it to what that person is
talking about. Um,
that's how I think about it.
Get all the information you can. Be
endlessly curious and throw an ungodly
amount of time into learning. And then,
it all just looks like magic.
And speaking of magic, that is the power
of thought. I can't think of anything
that will more profoundly change your
life than getting your thought process
right and getting your mindset right,
thinking about things in the right way,
taking control of your thoughts.
At the end of the day, it's the most
important thing that you could do for
yourself. It truly is magic. It's the
magic of
the mind. You see what you think about.
You become what you repeat. You feel
what you embody.
So, take conscious control of that
process and there is not a single
element of your life that you can't
improve. I promise you, there's not a
single element of your life that can't
be made better
by taking control of what you think
about that thing.
There's an amazing Shakespeare quote.
Oh, let this burn into your soul.
Nothing is either good or bad,
but thinking makes it so.
There's nothing either good or bad, but
thinking makes it so. If you think
something is bad, then it is. If you
think something is good, then it is.
Tony Robbins has this great concept. He
says, "Think of the worst thing that's
ever happened to you in your life."
And now ask yourself,
"How was that actually the best thing
that ever happened to me?"
And by changing the question that you
ask, you change the mental and emotional
result that you get without anything
changing about that past event.
All right, don't fail to leverage the
power of your own thoughts, guys.
It determines the quality of your life.
All right, and speaking of things that
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