Thinking of Taking Off Your Hijab at Work? Watch This First | Dr Haifaa Younis

Yeah. >> Okay. I used to wear the hijab all the time. Now, alhamdulillah. But the thing is, I work in a high school. I don't wear it anymore. And >> there is every single day at the end of the day when I'm driving back home, it kind of gets to me. As you said, it's just that I don't know. I'm so overwhelmed trying to wear it. And I hate myself for that. Frankly speaking, I always question myself like why am I not wearing it? Is it because of the other people I'm working with or is it just the environment? Where am I stuck? Who it's your job? And I mean it. If my job going to take me from Allahh, it doesn't worth it. As I always say this to myself, don't sell your for your lost stock market. Quit. If you cannot be you who you are, who you want to be, who you are actually in work at work, quit the job. You have of Allah. He will give you not a job in high school. He will give you even better one option. Or you go tomorrow and wear it on Monday before you leave. You are the strong. Keep me strong. No other options. There's no tomorrow I will do it because tomorrow shaitan is going to come to you. Doesn't worth it ladies and gentlemen and brothers and sisters doesn't worth it. You know there's this beautiful statement I don't know who said it and he said the wise person who leaves dunya before duny leaves him or her and flourish and build his or her grave not homes before he or she enters. And look at the last one. and he pleased his lord before he or she meets him. put these three in you before you go to school when you are when you are getting dressed get ready put these three and see if you're not going to do the hijab and I ask everybody in this room including my myself please make a dua for you because you don't know whose dua will be respond who Allah will accept and if she gets strong Allah knows how many people who have the same issue they will see you they will follow you you know it's a domino effect the negative is domino effect but the positive is also domino May Allah keep you strong. That's a dua I always ask Allahh. Ya Allah keep me straight steadfast steadfast on your path. Yeah absolutely. But in general we all go through this. We anybody who works knows this right? If Allahh want to test you will send you a boss that will make your life miserable. She or he right? So this is an uncons I am in a situation unc make fun of me make fun of my hijab make fun of my accent you name it we go through it number one I'll say back to our lecture remember there is a Allah who's stronger than this person who can remove this person in a minute who can literally destroy this person in a minute don't you ever fear any human being look at Allah Hala and says make me way out of this. Get me out of this. Whether he will move you to another department or another school or they move him or her number one I you know every question you ask me I come back to number one is a dua and number two nobody can harm you unless Allah allows it. What did he teach? He was your age. You know the famous young boy I'm teaching you words right the scholar says he was 12 or 13 this age what did he teach him long hadith it's ani but the whole nation get together to harm you no one will harm you unless allows it this is what I want to tell you have this the more people see you're Strong strong meaning you're a Muslim attack attached to Allah subh t'ala subhah they get scared from you meanwhile mom if you can change it without going to the details don't brush this feeling now specifically about the youth don't brush the feeling of the youth and and Hai you know this very well if she tells you I am scared that means there's a reason even if If you think this reason is not relevant in my eyes but I am much more older. I've went through this, done that, been there. But for her, I need to help her. But let her do it. Either change it, but number one, both of you ask Allahh. But don't be afraid. This is what I'm going to say generic. Don't be afraid from anyone except Allah. He's he will protect you always. Always. So I feel I am I'm a sinner. I did not obey Allah. I'm worthless. Right? That's exactly one of the tricks of shaitan. That's another trick of shaitan how he comes. Every one of us has his weakness point. So shaitan knows where is the weakness. I tell you what when when I see I'm worthless because I am a sinner. How do I say to myself? That doesn't mean it's okay. No. But remember what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says. The most merciful verse in the Quran. Some of you may know it. That's how by the almost all the scholars of Quran agrees the most merciful ayah in the Quran say my servant and Allah says he even put the yeah that's there's a lot of talk about even this letter they have transgressed against themselves. What did they do? Meaning he went way above the limit. What did they do? Doesn't matter. And what did Allah says? Don't despair from the mercy of Allah. And then he put this statement. Subh that's not my word. Allah verly Allah forgive all the sins. Even the Indian the scholars lot of discussion. What about the mushik then the is another verse and is responded to this. So this is what you tell yourself actually it's a good news look at the positive you know you are have done so many I'm not saying you but the person done so many things that they are not even worthy of this then immediately I say alhamdulillah ya Allah you're showing me my shortcomings if you didn't want me to repent you will not show me my my shortcomings if you didn't want me to come close to you you will would have let me be heedless no you are a creation of Allah then he loves you. You are the one then he loves you. You are a sinner all of us are sinners and the best among us repent. Don't you ever let paralyze you with this. No. Yes. I made a mistake immediately asam taught us follow every bad deed with a good deed it will be removed. So don't let come to you this way at