These Women Are Messing The Game Up!

Hey, hey, Tony Gaskins here. I'm listening to this. It popped up on my line that y'all sent me and it's a brother who doing a reaction to this young lady named Sarah on tonight. And so it's like a traditionally conventionally attractive woman and she's on the Be Simone podcast and she talking and and and then you know stuff she be saying be sounding good and then she got to where basically she's saying if her man start beating on her, she going to prison. You know, she going to be a widow. But if he start cheating on her, that's different. And be smart as like, why you so adamant about the physical violence, but not about the cheating? And and then she kind of went into like, you know, we talked about it and that's a something that we'll like a bridge we got to cross when we get there. and that right now I'm saying I don't want another woman in the relationship, but when I get older or something, if there's a younger woman who can help with the kids. And that's right there when she said that she would be willing to let her man have another woman at some point maybe for a real woman and a woman with class and a woman that is ever under any circumstances worth listening to. Another woman is never ever ever ever under any circumstances. She could be the the real woman could be a quadripollegic special needs one eye and you ain't f to bring no another woman into that relationship. when a woman will compromise her man because and this this what let me know when a woman don't know what she talking about when it come to men. We don't need a second woman. This coming from a man who slept with over a hundred women by the age of 21 who was lost who was one of the guys who was out there getting clout off of how many women I could get as a broke man. Not not even as no millionaire, as a broke man with no following, with no none of that was able to get any woman that I wanted. And guys used to Oh, oh, oh. I used to give women away. The pro aletes and everything came to me for women. So, this coming from somebody who got a pass. We don't need a second woman. not to sleep with. Now, if you want a nanny, if you want a maid, if you want a chef, but I'mma tell you like that, a lot of women don't even want that cuz she don't want nobody in their house. She don't want nobody in her house. She don't trust no woman in her house behind her doors around her man cuz she know how some women is. So, I'm going tell you what y'all women got to realize before y'all go out here talking and giving advice. You first got to know what you talking about. And y'all forgive me. I had to respond. So, I had to pause this then came back. Listen, you y'all first got to understand men. And I'mma tell you something. Like a man who is genuine and real don't even want his woman out giving public relationship advice because we know how hard a relationship is. We know when you give advice, you put a target on your back. When you give advice, you you get in a place you in increase your spiritual warfare. I know this because I'm a relationship advisor and I've been doing this online in a real way since 2009. Really started in 2007. So next year I'll make 20 years that I've been a professional relationship coach and online giving relationship advice. And that's because I did everything the wrong way. That's because I was out there doing it the way that society teaches us to do it. Get as many women as you can. Flip and toss as many women as you can. And I'm going to tell you something from a male perspective. We want a woman. Your average man wants a woman that is unlearned enough to think we need a second woman. I couldn't convince my wife on a cold day in hell to let me have a second woman to help her with sexing me when she don't feel like having sex or to help her raising the kids, to help her round the house, to help her do nothing. And one thing you realize as a man is once you meet a real woman, everything in your life changes for the better. But everything your whole perception about women changes when you meet a woman who truly knows herself, love herself, and respect herself. Now, here's the thing. Don't mean that the woman is perfect. Don't mean that the woman can't be broken. Don't mean that the woman won't One thing the woman will do is stand up for herself. she will leave that that woman will be in a place to where she trying to figure out if she not being treated right, loved and respected, she she looking at her other options to leave. She trying to figure out what it's going to take. She'll come up with her exit strategy and she'll leave. She won't put up with no end in everything. Now, one thing she not to do is just go get no fullblown sexual relationship with a bunch of random guys, a bunch of dudes because she mad and hurt and she been cheated on. That's not something she going to do. And people don't realize that. But the thing about it is is it's a lot of these women out here. And that's why I try to tell y'all. So here go this sister. She going around and I think I saw Charlmagne from the Bre Club poster not long ago. And y'all know me, I have to balance the scales. I can't see ignorance and just let ignorance fly. And and I would sit with the sister when I get the chance and if I could and really educate her and give her the game about men to help her understand what a real man is. Because my hope is that her man is not trying to convince her that he may need a second woman one day. That's absurd and asinine. That's not a thing. We can't even please one woman. We we don't even understand one woman enough to have two. We we we ain't even you human. Humans don't understand humans of the opposite sex on that level to have two. You spend a lifetime learning one. it. A woman spends a lifetime trying to fully understand men and vice versa. A man spends a lifetime trying to fully understand a woman. And this what I need y'all to understand like hope now for y'all if you on my page and you watch all my videos you already up like you already up to speed. You already done got your software update. You already there. If you new here then you might fall for some of this stuff out there. Y'all forgive me dealing with situation in my boys program. Y'all know I got the boys summer program. So listen to me. You got your software updated. But if you new here, then you probably fall for some of this stuff. And you probably sitting there thinking like, man, what? Man, I probably might need another woman in my relationship one day if I'm, you know, whatever age. She said maybe when she get to 60. She say 50 she going to be in her prime, but when she get to 60, she'll have to see. She'll have to see if she ready to have her man have a younger woman. It makes no sense. It makes no sense. The man old too, 60. The man old too. Yeah. Things still get up. Yeah. Still could, you know, sleep with a woman, whatever. But not to no point. He need two. And it's like, okay, you need help with the kids. That don't even make sense. And she just said, she said, "If if we need a younger woman in the relationship to help out with the kid, you 60, your kid grown. Your kid's grown." So So what are you talking about? What are you talking about? Do you want another woman in your relationship or not? It's a yes or no. Ain't no gray area. Ain't no maybe, maybe not, maybe. I don't know. I got to cross that bridge when I get there. No. No. If it's an option, you're a bop. If having a third leg in your relationship is an option, male or female, you're a bop. You shouldn't be in no relationship. You should be single. A relationship is two people. And so on one breath, she said she about the nuclear relationships. nuclear relationship don't have a third will as man and a woman, husband and wife. And see, that's why I have to try to tell y'all. Y'all have to stop listening to these people out here on this internet who ain't proven. And so, this is the thing. I've been married 20 years and I done seen both sides of it. I've I've been that man who will have a woman believe that we need multiple women. And I've been that man who has been with women, cheated on them, and they stayed. Told them about it or they found out about it and they stayed. I done been that man. And then I've been the man to be married and faithful. And not only am I married, but I've been married for going on 20 years. So, it's a lot of wisdom that you gain when you've done it the wrong way and then you do it the right way. And you get to compare both ways. And what I want what I want to help women understand is you have to stop selling yourself short. I need every single woman I need every single woman to understand. Stop selling yourself short. Stop putting a lid on a man and believing that your man can't be faithful and your man can't just be with you. If he can't do that, he's not a man. If he can't be with one woman, he's not a man. He's a grown boy. There's a difference. Manhood requires a level of discipline and a level of sacrifice that is uncomfortable and uncommon. If he needs multiple women, that means he has childhood or adulthood trauma that he has not healed from. End of story. We don't need multiple women. That is a lie and nobody is telling it but lames and women who are unlearned and don't understand men. I'm giving you the real cuz I've been that man who had multiple women and I am now the man who has one woman. So after seeing both I'm telling you the truth between the two. We don't need multiple women. We might want multiple women, but we don't need it. And a woman under no circumstances should ever encourage, allow, or reinforce a man having multiple women. That just like telling your son or your daughter they could eat cookies and cake and drink CocaCola all day long, every day. and top it off with ramen noodles. When you tell a man, you understand how men are. Men got to cheat. Men got to do this. Men got to do that. You okay with it? Long as he do it respectfully. That doesn't mean you love him. It means you hate you. And him doing that doesn't mean that he loves you. It means he hates him and he doesn't respect you. Point blank period. Get that through your spirit and then come back and listen again and again and again till you get that through your head. And any man telling you otherwise, tell him come see me. Tell him come see me and tell me and let's talk about it and let's talk about it and we'll get to the bottom of it. We'll get to the bottom of it. Y'all forgive Let me post this on Instagram real quick. So I'm posting that right there. I I post that on Instagram. Hey, if you don't follow me on Instagram, go on over there, follow me on Instagram. But I'm Listen, I am so sick of this. So that's what made me come out and say this. Nothing nothing, you know, no disrespect to the lady Sarah F not, but sister, it's time to pack it up. Time to pack it up. If you need some more, some real insight, some real feedback from a real man who is living and loving and treating a woman the way she deserves to be treated, the way she needs to be treated. If you need to hear from a man who is 100% faithful, because I know you know a lot of jump offs, you know a lot of people out there, a lot of women out there that's out there in these streets. You talk to all of them. You poll your whole audience. Ask your whole audience, male and female, is any of them dealing with me? Is any of them sleeping with me? And they all going to tell you no. And the reason why I said male or female, because you have these men out here that's also dealing with men. And so a lot of times today, people are thinking, "Oh, if you if ain't no scandal on you with a woman, it must be a man." There's none of that. Not no male, not no female. Now we got men sleeping with dogs, sleeping with cats. Got the lawyer out there in Texas just got in trouble for beastiality. So listen, you can't find no snail, no flounder in the ocean, no man, no woman, no transite, no none of that. So if you need to hear from a real man who's living with real discipline, real commitment, real love, who understands the human experience, who talk to humans every single day for an hour at a time with each one of them I'm talking to. Every single day I give you the game so that you can help these people understand what's really possible. So if we need to get go back on there on be some own podcast and have us a conversation cuz y'all need to stop putting into the air that y'all will consider a man having multiple women. Y'all need to stop doing that. because it's young, vulnerable, impressionable women. And then here and then the brother who was doing the reaction hear his dumb behind go Yeah. Uh yeah. Cuz you know, see like with polygamy, you know, you building a community inside for yourself like for your for your you building this community like she sound like a real one saying that she would be open to polygamy. Well, shut up, boy. Get off the internet, punk. Shut your behind up and get off this dog on internet. Tom M. She [snorts] a real one for for saying she'll be open to her man having enough. That's she That's a dumb one. Ain't no real one. Yeah. I just Oh my goodness. But listen, man. Listen, if you a green beret, if you was a Navy Seal, reach out to me, man. We f to start a a a microphone computer snatching tribe or something militia. If you get on this here internet and you say something stupid, we coming to smash your camera, smash your microphone, and let you know if you open your mouth again on the worldwide web, we f to be done with you. Listen, this is God world. These are God's streets. You need to push and to promote what he said we need to do. Do you think your daughter needs to see two moms, her daddy with two moms with you? Do you two wives? Do you think if the the little girl and the little boy they came out of one vagina but then they daddy is sticking his thing in to another woman vagina and they mama is okay with it and so they looking and like okay so all right so mama what daddy doing because he was in the bed with you and then he was in the bed with with Mama Mama Joyce over here. And then one time I got up and all three of y'all was in the bed. Do you do you understand how detrimental, how confusing that would be to your child? And so now your child now your daughter in the middle school done started having sex because they cuz she find out that's what y'all doing. And she behind the stairwell getting the train ran on her because of you, big dummy because a big stupid dumb daddy feel like he need to have two women. So now your daughter getting the train ran on her from the eighth grade, might be the sixth grade. I remember I knew a girl in the seventh grade getting the train ran on her. You know why? Cuz her daddy was dumb. just like y'all. And it's it's sad, man. It's sad. It's sad, man. That thing upsets me. It angers me. I'm tell you like that, man. It angers me. Like, I I I be out here and I just be like, "Man, what is y'all talking about?" Like, bro, it's it's it's a certain life you just got to live. like, yeah, you know, like I want to go out here and sleep with another woman. A part of marriage is sacrifice. It's like, yeah, you always going to be tempted. Okay. Such is life. Life is hard. Like it it ain't meant to be easy. Like, you got to understand that. Like, come on now. >> Okay. It got posted. Stop sell yourself short. >> It say video ain't got no sound but I'm listening to it. So what is talking about? >> Okay, there you go. Let me see if that work. So yeah, y'all forgive me. I was I'm multi-posting. People keep emailing me every day about what they could do for my brand and we could we could do this kind of pose. we could do that kind of post and we could scale you and all of this and it's like listen y'all listen I can Y'all forgive my wife text me, you know, it's like it's one of these things where I could just sit back, you know, hush, let it go, but I I can't. Oh, and what about going to say y'all? I I could scale myself. If I want to post on all the networks, I post on all the networks. Y'all please start emailing me about that. Like, oh my goodness. It's like, I don't want to post on all the networks. I don't want to scale. Like, I'm taking my time growing as I need to grow. And get tired of hearing about that now. And y'all got to realize like what I'm what the stuff I'm sharing is earthshattering because don't nobody want to hear it. It ain't that we don't know it. It ain't that we don't deep down know it and deep down believe it. Don't nobody want to hear it. And that's the issue. We know it's true. We know it true. Like you you don't need no multiple women. But what y'all have to realize is that's another reason why I don't want to scale and all of that because that just more hate on me. That just more hate on me. That more people mad with me, more people all that. And I'm a human, you know. That's not easy. Ain't easy. It ain't easy for, you know, all my, you know, for my people, for for my homeboys. Cuz listen, my homeboys want to have multiple multiple women in all of that, you know? They they they they and when I say my homeboys, I mean guys I know, guys I grew up with not that's not not literally saying guys that I'm around here hanging out with, kicking it with, and all of that. And so, you know, that's what you got to realize and understand. It's like they they want to get them some some extra women. That's human nature. Like you want comfort and convenience. And so what I mean by that is they want comfort and convenience. They want to be able to get to this place to where I say comfort and convenience, it's like woman one don't want to have sex today. So woman two will. Woman one and two both on their monthly cycle. Number three ain't. So if every single day you want to knock you some off, you could check and see, hey, which one of y'all want to get down tonight? If you can have you a group chat, hey, which one of y'all want to get down tonight? Boom. All three of them put their hand up. All right. Boom. Fome. Let go. Fome. And you just making up stuff. You coming up with stuff. That's a grown boy dream like or Kesha getting mad with Tanya because Tanya put her hand up first and Kha was like oh my name Kesha I'm supposed to be pick Misha you out there so what you pick Tanya not how you gonna put your hand up so fast you what you ain't got no life what you just sitting there waiting by the phone waiting on him to write in the chat to see who f to get some. You You got You the one got some last night. It my night to get some. Your dirty such and such. And so that's a grown boy dream. He got them fighting against each other, all that. They jealous. Now what it will do is make the pick Mishas. It will make them step their game up. And I'mma tell you what the issue is. What's going wrong with what's going to happen? I'mma tell you what's going to happen now cuz I experienced it too as a man cuz I'm talking my wife knows because I'm talking I got a standard to uphold. So because I don't know if the sister I think the man who was doing the review said she married now. I don't know if the sister Sarah is married or not, but with all that talking she doing, her man gonna hold her to that. He not waiting to 60 though. He might go try to get up get him another woman this year and just may like he got too much going on. And then what he going to do is he gonna try to sleep with her every hour of the day and she gonna have a migraine one day. She gonna have a stomach ache one day. She going to have micro tears from the last session and she going to be like, I I'm not feeling good right now. But now because you make yourself a do girl, because you make yourself to where you don't have any agency and your life is not your own and all you got to do is just shut up and please a man and you can't say no to sex ever or two nights or three nights out the week because you're tired and because you're not feeling good because you going through a decrease in hormones. lower hormones and which is medical conditions. So now you put yourself in a position to where that man going to say, "Well, I asked you last night, you said no. I asked you tonight, you said no." So what do you mean by I can't have no other woman or you not ready for me to have another woman or your brand is too big for me to have another woman or this woman is going to can't be trusted when I I'm keep asking you and you keep saying no. So now you put yourself in a position where you always got to say yeah. And then all the man gonna do is just raise the stakes to where now you got to say yes at 3:00 a.m. Then you got to say yes again at 5:00 a.m. Then you got to say yes again at 5:00 p.m. Then you got to say yes again at 900 p.m. Then you got to say yes again at 11 p.m. Then you got to say yes on this here desk at your office at his office. Then you got to say yes in the bathroom at your mama house. Then you got to say yes at the bathroom down to the church. Then you got to say yes at in the bathroom at at y'all child twoyear birthday party. The man going to keep raising the stakes. Now now he want three meals a day. Now he want three meals a day. Spec and span clean house. And he want sex three times a day. Now he want sex with the toys. Now he want food made, brought to the bed, eat then have sex, then eat again, then have sex again. Like he's going to keep raising the stakes because you bumping your gums because you saying all of this, women need to do that, women need to do that, women need to do that, women need to do that. You put yourself in a prison with jobs that you not getting paid for. And that's why I try to tell women that's the danger of women giving relationship advice. A man going to come to collect. A man going to collect. Like yesterday, I'm in a mall. My wife, she she had some she had some something she had to do at the mall. She hadn't already did what she had to do at the mall. She picked me up from the airport. She took me to the mall. I think we supposed to be looking for a dress for her sister wedding. I end up buying a $3,500 Bayga purse. $1,000 pair of Gucci mules, $500 worth of makeup brushes, $1,100 worth of aloe, you know, the fitness. Well, Cold Stone ice cream later that night, and something else I'm forgetting. I'm forgetting a couple things. All because she took me to the mall. And why? Cuz I got to stand on what I teach and preach. Like I'm a provider, man. I love Milwaukee. And but guess what? I had woke up 500 a.m. Well, little And then but guess what? I had to go. I was in a rush. So wasn't one wasn't the easiest. Wasn't the softest. So it's like, okay. Hey, all right. You practically done woke me up. Nbody ain't ready. Jet woke up. You ain't brush your teeth. I ain't brush my teeth. You about to get on the plane to go do a podcast interview and you come over here want to knock boots. All right. All right. When I pick you up, we slide by the mall. Cha ching. Swipe the car. So it's like it's a give and receive. I got what I wanted in the morning before getting on the road to go do a podcast interview to promote the Destiny app and the purpose.com. Flew back home. She picked me up from the airport cuz I had her drop me off and pick me up. I could have drove and parked but I wanted to spend some time with my wife. Want me a little act of service going to the airport. So guess what? One of her love languages is gifts. We going by them all. They're like that. 5,000. Come today. 3600 on the face for all the different stuff they do at the little stuff. All the different little treatments and all of that. Just like that. 9,000 right there two days. It's like when you want to bump them, you going to have to you going to have to live up to what you talking about. So that's what I'm trying. Y'all women out here making all these promises and you putting all these standards out here on these women. Oh, you should never be saying no to sex and oh, one day you need to be open to him having a second woman who might be younger and fitter and finer. Oh, he might cheat, but if you stay, you done made a agreement that he could cheat. Oh, this. Oh, that. It's like, okay. Yeah, you you don't do all that. He He He going to collect. He going to collect. And spiritual warfare going to come. That's why you see most people who give advice on any subject end up going through in the area that they advise on. Right now, Grant Cardone, financial guru, quote unquote billionaire, is under a major lawsuit for his financial institution, his his real estate investment trust and could end up losing it all over some of the practices that he got going on in that real estate investment trust. And so, that's what I need you to realize and understand. Same thing with the relationship. Swole buddy, relationship coach with all the muscles. Dark-kinned brother with all the muscles teaching on relationships every single day. Get caught in a cheating scandal cheating on his wife. You going to get tested where you talking. So you got to be very careful. And mark my word because see the thing about it is I ain't never been wrong when it come to relationship advice. I ain't never been wrong. Ain't nobody ever come back to me and say, "Tony, you wrong about what you said." So guess what? It's going to turn cuz it's principle based. It's going to turn out to be true. They're not going to come and tell me, "Tony, you were right. You was right. I was out here bumping my gums. I was out here trying to hold women feet to the fire. Tell them what they got to do. All this for their man." And boy, a man took me through the ringer. Wo me slap out. He ain't going to do it cuz cuz and a man love that. A man love you. Finn to put all that pressure on yourself. A man love Oh. Oh. You not f to make this situation to where it's comfortable for you to where you got some advantages in here to where you where you good? Oh. Oh, you ain't going to do that. Oh, okay. All right. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So guess what? It's a give and receive now. It's a give and receive. Everybody love language get spoken. So tonight if I mess around feel a little risky. [ __ ] all those. All right. That's my gift right there. And then guess what? If she need something from me tomorrow, I got I got to show up. I got to figure it out. It's a give and receive now. But but when you talk when you when you bumping your gums, you are writing yourself a check that you better be able to cash. So don't tell a man that you will consider and you will give it great thought about him having a second woman cuz he going to he going to get her. He going to find her and he gonna find her before you ready. So like my wife, she know, she know I'm trapped. I'm trapped by my teachings. She know I can't cheat on her, beat on her, talk down to her, disrespect her, do none of that because cuz I done gave away the game and left no crumb. ain't left no room to play the game. So my wife don't check my phone when I'm on the road. She don't ask me FaceTime me and show under your bed, show me the shower, show me ain't no other girl in there with you. She don't keep me on the phone all night. She don't question me. When I come home, she don't say, "Were you good?" When I leave, she don't say, "You better behave yourself. You better be good. You better not cheat on me." She never say nothing of the sort cuz she knows I already wrote a check that I got the cash. She know that me bumping my gums online done put me in a box. It done put me in a prison where I can't cheat if I want to cheat. It's a lot of times I'll be out in the airport somewhere. Boom. Look up, see a woman. The woman beautiful. Here go right there, man. Hey, boy. Hey, boy. You ought to do your little flur, boy. Boy, look in look. Hey, boy. Look around, boy. Hey, look in the eye, boy. That what going through my head. I'm thinking about it. I'm like, no, no, no. Do the right thing now, Tony. Do the right thing. But you, hey, you in this thing now. You say you faithful. Got to be faithful all the way. No, don't pay her no attention. That what she want. She want you to look over there at her. She want She trying to make eye contact. Nope. Don't do it now. So, I don't do it. Boom. I do the right thing. Next thing you know, lady come up to me. Hey, Tony Gins. I saw you from across the way. I thought that was you, but then I as I got closer, I realized that was you. So great to meet you. I I watch your videos. I love your message. I can't tell you how many times that happened to me. And I'm just like, Lord, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, Lord. Because if I had have looked at that woman with lust in my eyes and shot her a gaze, shot her that look and like, "Yo, what's up?" Uhhuh. Put that thing on you, girl. Had I looked at her like that and she know exactly who I am, I done lost my witness. I done lost my witness. Now she say, "Oh, see there, he no different than the rest of them. He just like all the rest of them. Just like the rest of them." So I have to be mindful of that. Guess what got me in that position? Bumping my gums. If I was a if I was a construction worker, general contractor, that wouldn't matter cuz I'm building houses over here in this city. So when I'm in the airport, she don't know who I am. I could not have on a rain or have on a rain, look at her, lust out her, look her from head to toe. She she'll just see a a a perverted man looking at her. Or if she think I'm attractive, then she then she feeling good. Then we talking. We done exchange number link up in the city. Knocked off just like that. My name John Allen. You don't know me. But because I bumped my gums online, I would honestly say right now 80% of black women that I meet know who I am. I honestly say that. And I'm going to be honest with you, a lot of time the 10 to 20 I think they be lying. I think they because the internet ain't butt so big. So when you got videos going viral it it and you not under a rock internet ain't butt so big. So when you reaching tens of millions of people and black women got a got a photographic memory. Black women recognize me from the back of my head and ain't never seen nothing but the front of my face. I'd be like, "How in the world you recognize me from behind me and never once was in front of me?" Tony, is that you? I'm like, "What the world?" It was a lady, she recognized me from the side of me. I say, "Mike, and I can't and I can't be no one now. It ain't like this." Oh, his feature is just so whatever, you know, so rare, so unique that it had to be him. No, no, I don't want to hear all that. It just black women got a photographic memory. So they see you and they don't watch you. I mean, I just be I just be in the mall. I'm about to buy me a pack of bubble gum. the lady working in the in the store. Tony Gaskins, I watch you on YouTube. Good to see you. Good work you doing out here. Good to see you in person. Okay. Yeah, you have a good day now. I'm like, man, boy, I can't go nowhere. And so what the Lord showing me, you trapped, buddy. You trapped. It's a wrap. He ain't get no buns. It's over for you. Your player day is over. So unless you want to crash and burn, unless you want to go ahead and give up everything, all the integrity, the purpose.com, November 28th, get your tickets for Tampa Bay, Florida. Unless you want to give up all your purpose, everything you called to. lose your wife, lose your sons, lose your respect, lose your name, lose your ministry, unless you want to give up all that playboy, you done. And so that's what I'mma tell to y'all women like like the sister Sarah. Hey, be careful what you say out here on this internet cuz that man gonna come to collect. He coming to collect now. And so you got to realize, you got to realize now. You got to realize. But hey, [ __ ] Tony Gaskins, if you're an intentional single, make sure you go to the Destiny app, especially if you a man cuz we have a lot of quality women on there. And ladies, y'all give us time now. You You ain't met the one yet. So don't get on there expect to meet them in two days. Now be realistic. That's why we made the year package so cheap. And then also why it's free to get on there and use. And so get on there. And now we don't have push notifications. So you got to check it. Go in there every couple of days, log in and check it to make sure you ain't got no matches. And it's intentional matchmaking. So you ain't just going to be getting matched, you know, just matched all willy-nilly all over the place. So understand that now, but get on in there. Get sign up for the year. Y'all forgive me. I'm here yawning and meet you somebody destinyapp.com. Also, November 28th, the purpose arc seminar. Make sure you're there. Grab your ticket if you especially if you in Florida, Georgia, for sure you could drive us in Tampa Bay, the Grand Hyatt. Get on in there. God bless you. Keep your head up. Keep going. We'll talk soon.