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The podcast opens with a lighthearted recounting of chaotic behind-the-scenes antics involving pies, confetti, and Roman-themed pranks between hosts Chris Gethard and I Prevail members Dylan Gulley and Eric Gillett. This playful banter transitions into a serious discussion about the current state of rock and metal touring compared to pop and hip-hop. The band argues that while genres like country and pop are facing declines or stagnation, modern metal is experiencing a resurgence driven by nostalgia among older fans discovering new bands alongside their youth counterparts. They emphasize that live heavy music offers a visceral experience—featuring mosh pits, crowd surfing, and the risk of performance errors—that cannot be replicated in polished pop spectacles where artists often perform without backing bands or instruments. A central theme emerges regarding the evolution of songwriting within metal, specifically how it has fused with melodic structures to create radio-friendly hits while retaining emotional depth. Bands like Sleep Token and Bad Omens are cited as examples that masterfully blend catchy choruses with heavy breakdowns, keeping listeners engaged without sacrificing intensity. The conversation highlights a shift in lyrical content from purely aggressive themes to more poetic, emo-influenced narratives addressing universal struggles such as growing up, pressure, and isolation. This evolution allows the genre to remain relevant by connecting with audiences on an emotional level while maintaining the "push and pull" of dynamic live performances that surprise listeners rather than following predictable pop structures. However, the discussion takes a darker turn when exploring the personal costs associated with achieving success in this industry. The band members reflect on how their lives have become increasingly isolated due to extensive touring schedules, often missing significant life events like weddings, funerals, and family milestones. They address the psychological trap of "velvet handcuffs," where artists feel compelled to maintain a high-pressure pace even as they age or face personal tragedies, such as the recent death of their manager and booking agent. The conversation acknowledges that while success provides financial stability and creative freedom, it often comes at the expense of relationships, creating an illusion that one day life will be easier—a realization that frequently proves false when looking back on missed moments with loved ones. To mitigate these relational strains and maintain band cohesion amidst long periods away from home, I Prevail has implemented a structured system called "Sunday Smackdowns." This weekly ritual allows the members to address grievances, offer constructive criticism, and vent frustrations in a safe environment before they fester into resentment or affect their on-stage performance. The hosts praise this approach as an effective method for managing unspoken expectations that often lead to premeditated resentments in other groups. Despite the challenges of balancing career ambitions with personal well-being, including dealing with health issues like sleep disruption and anxiety, the band finds strength through shared struggle and a commitment to learning from their hardships rather than dwelling on them. Ultimately, they conclude that while the trade-offs are significant, the camaraderie within the group provides essential support, allowing them to continue pursuing their dreams without losing sight of what truly matters.
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Why did you get deepthroatated by
confetti?
>> That is up to-date research right there.
I respect that.
>> Yeah. So, um, yeah, Gabe, uh, really
crushes it with our content and comes up
with some awesome ideas and we kind of
pitched them and throw it into a pot and
and, uh, he we came in for a content day
and wrote this whole script up and it
was for this giveaway we were doing and
he had written in the script that he was
going to get pied in the face and then
Dylan shows up and I don't know, he just
changed his mind on the spot was like,
"Yeah, Dylan's going to get pied.
>> I got to be the guy behind the camera so
someone else has got to take the pie."
So, we p we we pied Dylan in the face
quite a bit. Mhm.
>> And uh from from that night, Dylan
plotted his revenge for pie and confetti
in Eric's face.
>> Yeah. And I got a you know, shout out,
we came as Romans cuz they went along
with it. We get into their trailer and I
get a text and they have this ritual
before their show. It's whiskey time.
And they go, you know, have this little
ritual and like get to the trailer now.
Whiskey time. So I'm walking in going
whiskey time. Whiskey time. Pie. Pie it
again. And now I can't see and my
mouth's open and I'm just like whiskey
time. And as soon as I said time, I
couldn't see anything. I just got a
mouthful of I didn't know what. And then
uh yeah, I couldn't breathe for a little
bit and the uvula in the back of my
throat turned into a disco ball. It was
like it was pretty
>> title your uh autobiography.
>> The mouth full of I don't know what.
>> I trademarked that. I'm taking that.
>> Yeah. Uh well, I don't know. I feel like
having a confetti [ __ ] is a good way
to start a show.
>> Mhm. Mhm.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I think it might have to be
a ritual. Just not on me this time.
Dylan Dylan, you you're owed one.
>> There's going to be some behind
thescenes warfare for sure. This will
this will start a two-year warfare.
>> Okay. This is the beginning of a a
vicious retributive cycle.
>> Yes, definitely. Um, I want to know what
you guys make of what's happening with
the rock and metal scene at the moment
because a lot of artists are rethinking
touring. There's some reports that have
come out recently that I've read. Uh,
pop, hip-hop, country, uh, little touch
and go, some in decline and certainly if
you aggregate it, a lot in decline, but
rock touring seems to be bigger than
ever. So, give me your thoughts. Like,
you guys been around for a minute.
>> Yeah. What do you make of the arc of
alternative and heavy music and stuff
like that?
>> Yeah, I think um I think you know rock
and metal, we'll call it modern metal,
is just in such um it feels like a boom
right now, a resurgence. um just having
chats with friends and it's like, you
know, I'm I'm 34, but back when I was
like 15, 16, 17, I didn't have the funds
to go out and see my favorite bands come
through Detroit or or whatever it may
be. and and now that we're of the age
and have some disposable income. um when
these bands do these 20 year anniversary
shows and and you know come back around
and they have this lineup of all these
other bands that you may have grew up
listening to on top of having some of
these new bands and it kind of just
appeals to our generation and then you
know I don't have any kids but I can
imagine my kids the next generation you
know it's like a family affair so
they're going out and seeing bands like
I mean we just played when we were young
and Blink 182 and Panic at the Disco are
headlining and then bands like
>> Back Sunday Brand Newh the used um man
that that lineup is just stacked. But
>> now you go out there and you see kids
that are like 15 to 18 and then you see
dudes our age and older that are out
there all in the crowd and I don't know.
I think there's a bit of nostalgia. I
think there's um Yeah. I don't I don't
know.
>> It's not just throwback, right?
>> No. All new bands with new albums, new
music coming out all the time, too. I
think people are pretty I don't I don't
know if desperate is the right word, but
I'll use it. Desperate for experiences.
And I think like pop concerts and all
that stuff is like sick. You get to see
your favorite pop artists, but the
reality is how that music is produced is
very track. Like a lot of these artists
go on stage, it's just them. They have
no band playing instruments. And I think
it's like a combination of like you want
to see a little bit of that risk factor
of like a band really playing and you
might see them mess up and that's kind
of interesting, but also like in the
rock and the metal community scene in
particular. I think audience engagement
is actually key to the experience
whether that's crowd surfing, mosh pits,
whatever that is. As opposed to if
you're going to go see a pop artist or
whoever, you're kind of just sitting
there and it's fun. It's cool. Like I've
been to pop pop pop shows and it's fun,
but metal and rock it's a little bit
more visceral and with everyone you know
>> behind computers all day, it's fun to
get punched in the face and to like
scream your favorite songs at the same
time. Uh makes you feel alive a little
bit, I think. And I think to to your
point too with the pop and everything,
it's like it just it sounds just like
the record, which is which is great, but
you know, there's something about that
like
push and pull of the live experience of
the band all playing together and and uh
I think there's a little bit of that on
top of that, too.
>> Yeah. Especially if you love a track,
you love a band and they play your
favorite track, but there's a twist on
it. Oh, maybe there's a longer solo.
Maybe they've added an additional chorus
at the end. Maybe just the way that the
singer that night decides to interpret a
way to say the vocals sticks in your
mind. I remember going and seeing the
bands like Bring Me in Newcastle when
they first started doing like
moderatesized theaters.
>> Mhm.
>> And uh they played a Halloween show.
It's just after Jordan had joined the
band. And um I'd seen an opportunity
kind of like a an ex ugly girl who's
just had a glow up. I saw the
opportunity to like befriend uh Jordan
cuz he was brand new to the band and he
was having some problem with Ableton. I
messaged him about it on Twitter. We
became friends and he said, "Yo, why
don't you come to the show that's
happening at the O2?" It was on
Halloween and they came out fully face
painted up as skeletons. They played the
whole show as skeletons. I remember like
watching that show from the back and
thinking so many of the songs that I
knew really well just had little twists
and adaptations that had been made.
>> Yeah.
>> And uh that was great cuz it it is a
unique experience. And I guess
>> well actually if you were to say that
from the pop side,
who who nearly [ __ ] killed that? Was
it Beyonce that nearly got killed by a
car that was over the top of a uh flying
over the top of the I swear it was
Beyonce was doing a show and she's one
of those like floating stage things that
you know goes right over the crowd and
everyone gets to look up. Uh I'm pretty
sure that some [ __ ] snapped and like
imagine if you were the guy that killed
Beyonce. Um you put the carabiner on
wrong or something like that. Um
>> my point being
>> you do get to see some stuff at pop
shows. Yeah.
>> It suggests that there's something about
rock and heavy music that you get out of
that show that you can't recreate with
Pink flying around a stadium or or the
Jonas Brothers with 20 people on stage
or whatever it might be.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I think you're right. I
think like pop you you're able to do the
spectacle a little bit more. You can
have Pink Yeah. doing trapeze over the
over the audience. It's sick. Like I I
would love if Eric did the trapeze.
>> I don't know about that.
>> You're built for the trapeze.
>> Am I?
>> Yeah. You have the exact body shape of a
trapeze.
>> God.
>> I also think like from a from a
songwriting perspective, like at least
when I was growing up, metal was all
about like how heavy can you make it?
And I still think that's like part of
it. But I think now more than ever,
metal and pop are fusing in a lot of
ways and fusing in a way that's done
very well. Like I think people have
tried it a lot where it's like they'll
have these heavy breakdowns and they'll
go into a very melodic chorus, but it
just never like really meshes, but you
know, you've got bands who are kind of
taking these sounds and putting them all
together like you know, Sleep Token, Bad
Omens, those
>> all those bands who are really
exploding. I mean, my theory is that
they're exploding because they've
mastered melody so much. And at the end
of the day, people want to listen to a
song that maybe makes them feel a
certain way, gives them energy at the
gym or whatever, but without a melodic
chorus, not all the time, but a lot of
the time, they're it's not going to get
stuck in their head. They're not going
to come back to it. Don't get me wrong,
I'm at the gym sometimes listening to
>> ass beaters and I just want to like
>> job for a cowboy.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I just want to go like super
hard and that's
>> really fun, too. And even those bands
are growing too. So it's almost like I
don't know if these bands all the way at
the top are just kind of bringing the
whole thing up with them, you know?
>> Yeah, definitely the verse chorus kind
of pop structure of a song with some
melody. I mean, say what you want about
Sleep Talk, dude. Caramel is one of the
catchiest,
>> dude. It's so good.
>> [ __ ] hooks maybe of all time of that
genre. Like it is so sticky. Yep.
>> Um and uh
>> it's fun. I like that.
>> It's just it really you can't get out of
your head the first time that you hear
that.
>> Uh so yeah, I think you're right. And it
makes it radio friendly. It makes it
like sort of uh chart friendly.
>> Yeah. And it's almost like, you know, I
just talked about how so many bands are
getting better at blending, but
sometimes when you are like, I don't
actually care about blending it. Like
that's a perfect example of a song where
the first three4s of that song is a pop
song really done well and then they're
just like now we're just going to go
into like the heaviest [ __ ] we've ever
done ever, right? And it's like
sicker because it didn't even try to
like meld them. It's just like here's
this and then here's this and what a fun
journey for everyone to be on. Yeah.
It's like you're you're really trying
something I think more than
>> I don't know. I don't want to be like
metal versus other genres, but
>> it's something about too like uh you
blows your expectations out like what
what you were you got three4s of the way
through the song you're like okay I kind
of get where it's going and then oh man
there's this switch up at the end and
you I think when bands do that very well
it's like you have the listener on the
edge of the seat you know you don't know
what to expect you get halfway through
the song and you're like okay this is
cool and then all of a sudden the bridge
comes or the breakdown comes or the
outro whatever it is that there's I you
know I don't see that much and you see
that in hip-hop a it. But don't really
see that in in pop. I feel like pop and
country, it's just like you get 30
seconds of the song, you kind of know
what you're going to get. The emotion,
the ride,
>> very rarely surprised.
>> Right. Right.
>> The final theory
>> is that maybe we're all just getting a
little more [ __ ] up and into like
these things that uh just make us feel
like viscerally. Like I feel like horror
movies, I don't watch horror movies, but
like I feel like those are on the rise
also. And like almost the more messed up
they are, the more popular that they
get. Like uh do you think the messaging
the messaging of metal is uh tapping
into an emotion that's difficult for
people to find kathis with elsewhere?
>> Yeah, I I Yeah, I think so. Um, there's
some of these like very heavy metal
bands and like just, you know, you look
at the lyrics, you listen to the lyrics,
it's just like very [ __ ] up and
aggressive and I think it's just a
healthy way to, you know, it's it's
human emotion. It's it's it's, you know,
you're feeling that. Uh, it's just a
healthy way I feel like to get that out.
Especially when you're in a a small club
with 200 people listening to just ass
beater breakdowns over and over and over
just screaming about the most like dark
dark message dark stuff, you know, like
the Acacia Strain is one band that had
some like hateful lyrics back in the day
and it's just, you know, I don't feel
that way. I don't feel like, you know,
chopping people up or whatever, cannibal
corpse or anything like that, but to
feel to feel that health in a healthy
way, I guess, is um something I think is
special.
>> Certainly elevated. If you look at like
a sleep token or bad omens now, uh the
message is just like poetic emo,
>> right? It's Ohio is for lovers for 2025.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, like I'm outside of your
window like that. It's that sad Nikki FM
type thing that we all grew up listening
to.
>> Yes.
>> But just like significantly elevated
with much more sophisticated production.
>> Yeah.
>> Um but it still speaks to huh I have
challenges and sometimes they're hard
and nobody understands me and this is
difficult and I don't know what I'm
doing and there is pressure and I'm
growing up and things are changing. It's
like these timeless modern problems.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I feel like I had the gift
of
reconnecting with the emotion of metal
this year in particular cuz I'll be
honest like I've been in this band for 8
years and this point I'm 33 years old
and I'm like yeah you know like the the
emotions that I had when I was 14 are
are different now. Right. And I'm kind
of like
>> am I going to sing about being really
stressed about work and
you know being married for like
messages.
>> Yeah. Exactly. my inbox is a nightmare.
But um man, I think for honestly most of
us in the band, we've had one
individually some of the hardest years
>> that at least that I've ever had in my
life
>> of
>> uh Yeah. I mean, I lost we we lost our
our manager, our booking agent. He died
tragically in a in a plane accident. Two
days later, I lost my grandpa. One week
later, someone broke into my house while
I was sleeping. And I mean many other
things that I probably can't really get
into, but um I I feel like it took me to
low places where I it was more than just
like heavy music is fun at the gym. And
it's like I viscerally my my emotions
are viscerally connecting with this
music. And it
was a gift in a lot of ways because it
it allowed me to see through like the
fans eyes of what they're experiencing
when they're hearing this music. Because
again, 33, I'm like, yeah, I'm just,
hey, I like the songs. Song's cool, but
I'm I'm a drummer. I'm not always
listening to to lyrics and like
connecting. But yeah, I feel like I got
to do that this year more so. And I I do
think like metal and rock has a little
bit more of that those themes to connect
with,
>> especially if you're getting kicked in
the nuts by life, which you know, if
everything's going great and Grammy
nominations and we're on the road and
ticket sales are going up,
>> you know,
how much are you connecting with the
It's kind of the like um
golden prison uh like velvet [ __ ]
handcuffs thing that podcasters or
comedians get accused
You know, if you're a comedian, Whitney
Cummings got this great line where she
says, uh, "In order for art to imitate
life, you have to live a life." This is
why you can tell when comedians are
getting too successful cuz all they talk
about are airports, dinners, and shows
>> because that's all they know.
>> You know, if you're if you're touring
200 days out of the year,
what life have you got to inject into
the art?
>> And um I guess
>> for you guys as well, uh if you This is
my problem with [ __ ] Luke Combmes,
man. Like I love that guy's music so
much. He was the person that got me into
he was the soundtrack to 2019 which was
the year I decided I wanted to move to
America.
>> But his music to me has got less
resonant linearly as his life's got
better.
>> Yeah. I'm like, I [ __ ] do some cocaine
or like get in a fight or like lose a
leg or something. Like I need some, you
know, I just want a little bit of sort
of great. It's like, you know,
everything's going great and I'm getting
a bit older and my dad's older than me,
but he's really lovely and my wife loves
me and my kid loves me. I'm like, [ __ ]
Luke. Come on, man. And that's not to
say that you can't make music from a
happy place, but that
>> I don't know. But there's something
about the friction, I think, that causes
people to dig a little bit deeper. Like
when you're going against the grain of
life, it seems like um people tap into
emotion a little bit more acutely.
>> 100%.
>> Yeah. Um, I think I think on this record
for us, uh, there's a few songs that had
to go back and like look at these events
or these uh, situations or these
difficult times I had in the past and
uh, pick open some scabs that didn't
really fully heal and and that that also
is finding finding inspiration and and
looking back on some difficult times and
and hard times that I really haven't
had, you know, any therapy to get
through and just kind of just let it go
for for 3 or 4 years. So that's, you
know, it's it's not doesn't always have
to be about what's going on in your life
right now, but to look back and and
really, you know, someone put it once, I
can't remember how they worded it, but
it it takes some time to look back and
fully have a a full thought or, you
know, fully grasp what you went through.
And uh that that's something too if I'm
not you know I'm trying to draw it from
the well of inspiration and looking back
on a a past failed relationship or you
know past you know you want to call it
trauma um to to dig at those and and
really it's very important for us to
write music and every song have come
from something that has some real
emotion and and can be relatable to
someone. And yeah, I think I think that
is a big challenge for artists when they
start getting bigger and you know
they're playing arenas and and you know
ticket sales are going through the roof
and like you said Grammy announce all
this stuff and it's hard to be relatable
and that's what you know growing up I
took a lot out of music and I found you
know a lot of things to relate to and
when I was a you know teenager going
through like oh the world hates me and
no one loves me and
>> and uh you know once you get to that
level like how how do you how do you
still write music to relate to your fans
and and Uh yeah, so for me
specifically it was like going back and
like digging through some things I just
didn't work out, you know,
>> and I I Yeah,
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What is the process of writing records
which deal with deeply emotional
personal topics like that as a group?
Because it's like, well, I'm the guy
that sings the words, but I'm the guy
that makes the melody, but I'm like, I
feel sad, but I feel ambivalent, but I'm
uncertain. I've got, you know, I'm
excited or whatever. and you're trying
to I spoke to the guys from underro I
think there's an increasing trend of um
solo acts masquerading as bands or uh
bands that sort of perform uh publicly
as a uh democracy but in terms of
production it's much sort of closer to a
dictatorship and in some ways I can see
why that is a huge [ __ ] hack. You
don't have to do any of this diplomacy
[ __ ]
>> Yeah.
>> It's like this is what the song's about.
This is how the song's going to sound.
You want to track on the record and help
me cut it? Brilliant. If not, I got
[ __ ] 50 people that are gonna come
and do it. Sweet.
>> Um, but you often have the opportunity
to tap into different people's emotions.
So, is that is that tough? You got what
10 tracks on a new album and you're
like, it's not a lot of room for ton of
guys to get their creative, you know,
presentation out there.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I um I I think being with these
guys for the last 10 11 so years it's
it's uh that was a huge plus to sit down
in a room and be like well okay we start
working on an instrumental for a song
let's say and it's kind of pulling at
this emotion and you know pull out some
lyric notes and okay this this line that
I wrote a while ago this kind of feels
like it matches the mood of the
instrumental and okay well when I was in
this headsp space and and there's
certain songs we sat down I was like you
know I I think I can really pull from
this and you know maybe Let's say it was
a a a bad relationship I was going
through years ago and you know they were
around me when that was going on. So
it's not like super foreign to them and
sit down and kind of like write some
lyrics down this is kind of what I was
feeling. And this is kind of what I was
what I was going through and and if you
can tap into that and you have something
similar like bounce some ideas off each
other and kind of like we all kind of
feel there's everyone's got you know
unique stories but there's some overlap
and if you can tap into that and and
help you know generate some lyrics out
of that you know I'm sure there's going
to be something that overlaps. So you
know I'm just thinking one spot song
specifically but
>> how do you have you ever contributed any
lyrics ever?
>> Um maybe a single word. Yeah. So we so
we joke that we are business metal and
so that translates to the writing
process as well where it's like we kind
of have these different departments
right so um me and John I would say
we're more in the instrumental
department
>> cuz I I'm not trying to play in a
sandbox that I don't belong in you know
I'm like hey I grew up like I played in
so many bands and even then it's like I
can write some like cool instrumental
parts or like suggest cool things and
obviously play drums well and write cool
drum parts
I'm not a poet. I'm not like I'm happy
to talk about my feelings, but if you're
like, "Now make it like artistic." I'm
like, "Uh,
>> I can hit things hard. That's my art."
Um, and so yeah, and then Steve and Eric
are are really good at like, yeah, like
to Eric's point, me and John, really all
of us in the room too, contribute to the
instrumental, but
>> might set a vibe and that vibe might
create an emotion in Steve or Eric of
something that they've been dealing with
in the past or recently. And the two of
them will like will almost sometimes
separate. The two of them will like go
in a different part of the room and just
go back and forth. And sometimes they'll
be Eric like here's what I'm trying to
say. And the two of them will try to
figure out how do we get to say that in
the most artistic way possible or or the
most authentic way possible. And then
meanwhile me and John will try to
>> keep laying down like the foundation and
come up with parts that we think are
cool and then kind of come back
together. And yeah, there are some times
where I'm just sitting there like
watching them do their thing and there
are some times where Eric's just sitting
there like watching me be like, "Okay,
>> move the snare drum over one note and
then hit this symbol like the," you
know, it's like it can get very tedious.
But
>> yeah, it's uh departmental for sure.
When you or when any band creates
something deeply emotional and then
performs it a few hundred or thousand
times, does it still resonate in the
same way? Does that drop over time? Does
it heal you? Does it reopen old wounds?
Yeah, that's a great question. I think
there's different songs and different
points in my life and different
performances, let's say, that you know,
some of these new songs we just started
playing. I have been like, "Oh god." All
right, don't mess up the lyrics.
Remember, this is the first second.
Okay, here's the note you're hitting.
And and I I lose that for a moment. But
um
yeah, there's a certain point in the in
the tour that you start playing that
song that I'm like I'm reconnecting with
it. And then after, you know, a couple
tours, you know, sometimes some of these
songs are like
emotionally disconnected and I'm going
through the performance and there's been
some times where I'm look out and I see,
you know, someone sobbing to a song and
then I'm like brought back immediately
to like the emotion that I was feeling
in it and and then all of a sudden then
I I have a new a new connection to it
again. And I'd like to think after that
the I perform the song a little bit
better for the rest of the tour. But
>> so you feel this is an interesting one.
I was talking to Johnny Frank about
this. So, Bill Murray got that new More
Than Hate track.
>> And um they have just started performing
it live. I think it only came out maybe
6 weeks ago, 8 weeks ago, something like
that.
>> And uh I was talking to him last week in
Dallas. And he said, "Uh, dude, I got to
be honest, like when I'm performing the
track, I'm so focused on the performance
cuz I've done it live like 15 times. And
that's not a lot. That sounds like a
lot, but that's not a lot." Yeah.
>> Um, so he is still finding new ways to
mess up
>> and he doesn't know all of the potential
pitfalls and uh that I never really
realized well [ __ ] like even if you've
done a bunch of like runroughs and
rehearsals or whatever and even if you
added half an hour on sound check so
that you can like run new bits a few
times over and over the difference of
okay and where am I going to be on the
stage and what's going to go on. So
yeah, I guess when
this is something I never considered as
a an audience member, and I hope I don't
screw up everybody's ticket sales here.
Um, but if a band is touring a new album
and you have the choice between being at
the start of the tour and being a little
bit deeper into it, I think it's
probably a good idea to push your
tickets. You know, you can choose
between what the Dallas or Houston show,
but for some reason because of the
rooting, they're coming to Houston four
weeks later. Like, do you go to the
maybe you go to the second one? Maybe
they're a bit tighter by then. Maybe
they know the tracks a little bit more.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, there's also some
excitement to being there in the early
stages and seeing us like mess up and
try like to do our best, you know?
>> Um,
>> yeah. I think, man, it's like such an
interesting balance of like tour life is
exhausting. Um, it's like you might
start at 100%. I mean, I'm you know this
way more than I do, even with all the
[ __ ] you're dealing with, but like you
might start at 100%. And then, okay, the
shows are very physical and then you're
sleeping on a tour bus very poorly and
then the shows are more physical and
you're sleeping worse and it's like by
the end of the tour I might have 30% in
the tank and I'm working three times as
hard to play the same part. So, it's
kind of this
>> thing that you've got to balance the
experience with the set with the level
of gas left in the tank
>> because and also what you have in the
earlier parts of the tour is adrenaline,
which also will just like
>> push you to fatigue and resentment and
boredom and
>> Exactly. Cuz Yeah. Then not only are you
more fatigued, but you also are low on
adrenaline because you're like, well,
I'm kind of bored now. I know how to
play everything.
>> Yeah. I want that like shot of
adrenaline. and it would help me get
through this physically.
>> So, it's a it's a tossup a little bit
there.
>> Going back to the metal world of sort of
rock ascendancy that we're seeing at the
moment, do you think that you need to be
really talented to be a sort of world
touring alternative artist now? How
basically how much of it is talent and
how much can you ride off the back of
social media hype and good marketing?
I had no talent when I was starting this
thing. I I didn't belong out here, man.
I I just took like I feel like every
room I was in, I was had this mentality,
just be a sponge. Just soak up as much
as you can. And I think that got me
through the first, you know, years of
touring and all that. But, um, I do I do
think it takes, you know, you you can go
in off the hype and off the Tik Toks and
off all that, but you have to quickly
figure your [ __ ] out real fast if you're
up on stage. And and
there's so many variables. You're not
just posting a video, you playing.
There's so many variables of of a live
set. And I mean, even like the thing
where I'm looking out in a crowd and I
see up in the front row and someone
doesn't know the words to the song and
they're just,
you know, fish mouth and like just
random lyrics I I [ __ ] up lyrics
because I was looking at that guy. I was
like, what is he saying? Oh [ __ ] what
am I saying? Oh, what verse am I in?
Where am I? You know, but um yeah. Yeah,
I think there's Man, I think there's a
good mix. you
>> it's unforgiving then in that regard
like the the the hype can kind of only
carry you so far.
>> Yeah, I'd argue that you need a good
product, right? So like you can first of
all I'd argue that you need a lot of
talent to be good at marketing and to
cuz you're not the the labels and all
that like they they will provide that
for you but like I ultimately think the
bands that are doing the best are the
ones who understand how to market
themselves. So one I'd argue that's a
skill. Two, if the product is shitty,
right? Like Chris, if this podcast
sucks, but you're really good at
marketing, like sure, you're going to
get it in front of a few more people,
but at the end of the day, people aren't
going to come back. And now you're
working your ass off to just market a
shitty product,
>> right?
>> That's not really going to work. So,
like I I do think especially in today's
landscape, like how it used to be is
bands would get discovered by a label,
they explode. Like it's very it was very
gatekept, right? M and but if you were
through, you were through and you all
you had to do is like show up and play
music and now
you could upload a song to Spotify right
now while we're having this
conversation, put in a prompt into AI
and then upload it to Spotify, right? So
like the landscape is more competitive
than ever, which I think means that
bands
who are not always like there's plenty
of very talented bands who don't get
traction, but it's very competitive. you
need to have like very good songs, very
good marketing, like you have to be more
well-rounded than ever.
>> Um, as opposed to, hey, I'm just like a
good musician.
>> That might not really get you noticed
much.
>> What do you make of the advent of AI
artists?
>> Oh, man. Don't get me started. I um it's
it's it's a little frightening, man. um
you know just came across a friend of
mine went on a rant and posted all these
bands on Spotify that were you know AI
bands and whether it's a band that's
feeding prompts in getting it and
playing it or to it's one guy that just
used Chat GPT Grock whatever to create
everything
>> and then you go look at the monthly
listeners and there's 700,000 monthly
listeners and it's it's not the fear
that someone's going to go I'd rather
listen to this AI band over you know a
real human band. It's the fact that it's
just going to get slipped into
playlisting and it's just going to be on
your playlist and it's just gonna just
accumulate more and more of all these
other fake bands and by the time you go
and look through your playlist, you're
like, "Oh, who's this? Who's this? Who's
this?" And there's no real musicians.
But my ultimate worry is that,
you know, who's to say that someone who
owns a streaming platform um doesn't
just start making music off AI himself
or herself and and feeding it into the
playlisting. And now there's even less
of the pie. You know, artists are
getting, you know, fractions of a penny
on the dollar for streams. Well, now
that those playlists that these bands
are fighting hard for, who's to say the
the CEOs of, you know, Apple Music,
Spotify, title, whatever, aren't just
making their own music, feed it into the
algorithm, putting in the place, you
know, into the playlist thing, and now
how are we supposed to fight that?
>> Be like, uh, Only Fans owning the AI
girlfriend generator.
You've got the distribution and you've
got the source material as well.
>> 100%. Yeah, it's a tricky balance
because
in one way I'm like you can't very
difficult to stop a train that's already
moving, right? But then also kind of
like what I was talking about with
concerts, I'm like I think people are
craving more physical experiences or um
people to connect with, right? Like I
think I think it'll be an interesting
balance of like yeah an AI song could
come on and you might not know it's AI
and you might not really care that it's
AI cuz it's like well the song's good
but I wonder like even if that has like
a a huge boom that it wouldn't end up
going to the other side of like yeah but
I kind of miss connecting with an artist
or with a band or like what they
actually
had to say you know or like if it's AI
there's nothing to really not much to
really connect with, you know. Um, all
that said,
I don't know. Well, we'll see what
happens. Look, I I saw um what about two
months ago, there was a bunch of
screenshots floating around. Maybe it
was the new terms and terms of service
that Spotify had that sounded like an
adjustment had been made to say that
your music can be used in data training
sets that can be reproduced in
perpetuity with and without
like credit eta du all of the legal ease
and then I came across this Spotify
announced a collaboration with major
labels Universal Music Group, Sony
Music, Warner Music Group to build an
AIdriven features while protecting
artist rights and ensuring fair
compensation, proactive move in the face
of rising concerns about generative AI
tools using artists voices and sounds
without proper licensing. Streaming
giant Spotify states it will involve
direct licensing and artist permission
frameworks. The partnership signals
industry acknowledgement of AI as both
an opportunity and a threat. So, I don't
know where it goes. I certainly know
that I'm getting delivered more AI bands
in my radio. You press one single. I
think I played this is exactly what
happened. I played the new Bad Omen song
the day it came out. It was on the day
we were filming with McConnA and we'
finished up and I put it on through the
the system at Stray Vista where we
filmed that [ __ ] and it came on and then
the next track came on and I was like
this is a really interesting sound. This
is a funny little track. like I'll go
over and have a little look. I was like,
"Oh, it's what AI band like the first
Omen's next track was them."
>> That is
>> [ __ ] premier position.
>> Yeah.
>> Algorithmically.
>> Yeah.
>> And uh
>> it's
picking up speed. I would say it's but I
mean the obviously the other and you
made great point that
>> if I use AI to enhance my songwriting
and then cut the track myself with my
bandmates,
>> who knows?
>> Yeah.
>> Like how does anybody know where the
initial
inspiration for this track came from?
Like hey write me 20 number one hits in
the style of Sleep Token and Bad Omens
and I prevail and then you go oh maybe
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wisdom. Yeah, it's really it's really
interesting that way because there is
like
I I would imagine that music would start
to get a bit watered down. Could be
wrong, but that would be my theory on
it. And to your point of what you were
reading, I think there's a lot of
opportunity for like discoverability of
like I I think I saw something that chat
GBT and Spotify are coming together. So
I could just be like, "Hey, find me an
artist who um is really heavy and like
good for working out, right? And then
they can feed me real artists." Like
that's actually a really cool
opportunity where a I can actually
support it. Um but yeah, it can be snuck
into songwriting. I, you know, I feel
like that's what the whole writer
strikes were about uh a couple years
back in Hollywood is like not using AI
for script writing because I would
imagine
>> I guess I don't really know if they are
using it or not but that everything
would just kind of start to get watered
down but also AI is getting better and
better. So will it really get watered
down?
>> Yeah. Will it enhance everything? I mean
here's another way to look at it.
Everybody gets inspired by something,
you know, the way that you construct
your particular uh melodies.
>> Well, it's because you grew up listening
to Biffy Cairo or Billy Talent or
whoever the [ __ ] like weird My Chemical
Romance's first style EP or whatever the
[ __ ] it is. You go, "Okay, so
>> do they own the inspiration that came
through you?" Obviously not. I don't
think anybody would say that. But, uh,
originality is just undetected
plagiarism. Yeah. is a kind of way like
you play the drums. Well, you hold the
sticks in a particular way. You didn't
invent the way that you hold the sticks.
You didn't invent the way that the the
drums are put together. So, do you
always need to pass it back up? And I
think you there's an interesting ethical
challenge here of how much assistance is
too much, right? How much does it sort
of feel like it's being uh perverted by
AI and how much is it just well it's
just another tool you it's [ __ ] pro
ProTools or Decapitator or whatever the
[ __ ]
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. That's that's an interesting
slippery slope you get down cuz you know
you like to think that inspiration you
hear you know like these bands you
mentioned Yeah. I loved all those bands
and I took influence from them. You know
the style of music we want to play from
from lyrics to melody and all that. It's
it's but it's something it's something
that was you know back then there's no
AI so it was something that they were
inspired by and then that band was
inspired by and it just waterfalls down
cascades down into our creative process
and and then it's it's up to us to put
it through our filter and use our own
words and and and generate the same
emotion or feel that we're going for
that we were inspired by. But it all
ultimately is through the human
experience. And then you have the
opposite where it's you just go to a
computer and be like, I'm sad. Write a
sad song like Myical Romance. And it's
like, here's the options. And it's like,
well, now I'm just picking and choosing.
Like I'm going down the grocery store
and going, I'll take that one. I'll I
like that brand. I'll take that one.
I'll take that one. It's it's Yeah. I
It's like, where does artistry
where does artistry stop when you start
using tools? But then at the same time,
you know, Melodine, you know, pitch
correcting on the track or or you know,
when you're demoing songs and you you
program the drums,
>> you know, bands done that for the last,
you know, 20 years and and you program
the drums and man, actually, let's track
the drums. Well, the program drums I
think sound better. Well, you run with
it. And well, where's that line? You
know, it's so it's it's it's very
blurred line right now. does seem like
every time there's been something that's
come into the music industry that's like
controversial at first,
the convenience ends up winning out,
right? Like I feel like, you know, 50
years ago, the idea of someone writing a
song, this is we'd have to go back a
little further, but someone the idea of
writing a song for someone else and that
pop artist just taking it and then just
singing what you gave me, I think was
initially like artists aren't even
writing their own songs now. But now no
one when Justin Bieber's singing a song,
no one's like, "Did he write that?" Like
no one cares. Yeah. They probably think
that he did, but most of the time it's
someone here's a song, you have a good
voice, sing it. Cool. And
>> I can see that. Yeah. To your point of
then pitch correcting in the studio, but
then pitch correcting live or then, you
know, quantizing to make every the
timing of every instrument perfect. And
then even samples of, oh well, I can
just take this sample and I can mess
around with it, but now it's mine and I
can like build
>> to a click track. We'll have a click in
our ears to ensure that everybody's at
least on time, even if it's not
quantized after the fact or
>> Rick Bato was telling me about how um
when digital recording first came in and
it meant that you didn't just have to do
things in one take. Yeah.
>> Tape.
>> You go, well, I mean that wasn't what
they recorded. Yeah, I know that there's
if you are recording something and your
finger just brushes the wrong string,
you're like, "Hey, dude." Like whatever,
fourth bar in on that second bit there.
I just caught it a little bit wrong. Let
me just go in and then bing. Okay, there
we are. Slot that one thing in there.
Okay, so like you could play, and I
think you can do this. You could play an
entire track, one note at a time. Yep.
>> Yeah. Just be like, "Okay, there's that
note. I've got that right.
>> And then I can go in and then we'll do
it again, and we'll do it again, and
we'll do it again." and you got this
Lego Lego brick building block set
>> and you've constructed a track. So,
yeah, it's a interesting challenge. I
mean, have you guys do you guys
use AI tools? Have they assisted at all
with anything that you guys do?
>> No.
>> Never.
>> [ __ ] medieval,
dude. We're grandpas over here. No, the
most is we'll be in the back of the bus
and we'll think of a really stupid
prompt for AI and then we'll just be
like, "Oh, AI, write a song about Eric
falling down and his pants coming off
and poop goes everywhere and like we'll
see we'll see what the AI spits out."
But no, in our actual
>> entertainment tool, not Yes, exactly.
Where where do you see it like do you
feel any type of threat about AI in the
podcasting space? Because I know like AI
podcasts are
>> Notebook LM does a a really good job of
it. Um I mean you can now go and say I
want I don't know whether you can say it
for people um but you can certainly say
I want to learn about the final week of
the fall of Berlin in Nazi Germany uh
and make the podcast 20 minutes long and
relatively serious and not will spit out
a very listenable with breath breaks and
ums and laughter and all the rest of it
and it is it's very listenable. Um my
sort of position on this is that
ultimately the the market is going to
choose what's best for it and that's not
always great. Ultrarocessed hyper
palatable foods that calorie dense like
people will tend to choose those over
something else. It's very difficult to
get them to choose the thing which is
better for them. But when it comes to
this what's better for them is just
what's most accurate, entertaining,
educational. Um, so it is going to be
incumbent on whoever it is, whatever
industry you're in to just be better.
Like if you can be defeated by AI or a
robot, I I don't know what the leg is
that you have to stand on uh to be able
to compete with that. Now, there are
certain things that you can do. For
instance, you could go live. Um, if you
were responding live to messages and
comments and stuff from people, that
would be the equivalent, my my
equivalent of doing a show on stage.
>> Um,
>> but even then, AI is just going to get
quick enough where it's going to be able
to render in real time responses and
video and then stream those back to
people. So, all you're doing is kicking
the can down the road with regards to
that. And I think you guys do have a
good moat. I think all bands have a
great moat around their um the main
money maker which is touring and sort of
the associated [ __ ] that comes along
with that. Uh because until the robots
get as good as you guys on stage,
that's not going to happen.
>> I mean, the Chuck-e-Cheese band was
pretty sick.
>> That was dope. Those robots were sick.
>> That is true. Maybe maybe your [ __ ]
demise is closer than you think.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh but yeah, I think there's I think
there's a motor around that. And um
it'll be it'll be a fascinating few
years. My my like unpopular really
unpopular with musicians theory is that
musicians believe that they have a they
should have a special kind of protection
around them. Uh because it's so hard to
be able to do the basics of what you
guys do. Anybody can sit down with a
microphone in front of them and do a
podcast. I mean, anybody can sit down
and try and sing and like make a song,
but
>> the barrier to entry is significantly
higher. Like, you need to learn so much
and practice for a very long time. And I
think that
>> a shortcut to a place which is not very
far away doesn't feel like that much of
a cheat.
>> A shortcut to a place that's taken a
decade or 15 years to get to feels much
more unfair. And I think that this is
one of the reasons that musicians have a
particular bee in their bonnet around
why why AI needs some sort of
restriction on it. It feels particularly
unfair that the muggles who haven't
spent all of their time learning to sing
or play drums or guitar or whatever are
just able to type some words in and then
do something which is comparable.
Whereas,
as is being demonstrated right now, any
idiot can do a podcast, right? like any
three idiots, any three idiots can do a
>> podcast. Y
>> um
>> so it's about how can you sort of stay
ahead and you're not I mean if you think
you're going to slow the
>> uh behemoth leviathan that is AI, it's
not going to happen. So it's a case of
how are you going to be able to adapt to
it.
>> Yeah, totally. And I try not to just
like sit around thinking,
well, it's unfair and I hope it doesn't
do something bad, you know, like that's
not I don't think that's really going to
take me to the place that I want to go
in life.
>> Um, but yeah, to your point, it's like,
okay, well, what what's in my control?
Because I can't control AI. I can
control how well I show up or what I
choose to spend my time focusing on that
I think like is the biggest needle mover
in my project or my skill set or
whatever that is. But yeah, to to
analyze all of those things like is is
difficult, right? Because at a certain
point,
>> what got me in the band is not what's
going to get the band bigger, right? If
I spend all my time,
10 hours a day just practicing drums,
like if I if I get 10 times better at
drums right now, the band will grow 0%.
You know what I mean? It's like I got to
a certain point where it's like, cool, I
can do the job and I can do it well and
I can be creative and try to stand out
in my own ways, but now what's the next
thing that I can focus on that will
actually take me to where I want to go?
It got me the audition, which is very
cool.
>> But yeah, it's it's always like a thing
I'm trying to think about in my head is
like, yeah, what now? What? What are
some of the other
secrets that the music industry should
be talking about but isn't?
>> I think
that kind of like what I was saying of
how competitive things are.
It's not for the most part enough to
just be a good band anymore. I think you
need to be very multiaceted
in
having your department in the business,
right? So like for example, if we use I
prevail for example,
we all do our music thing. We all have
our own weird skills. This guy can yell
really loud and that's like a cool
skill, right? But
for me, okay, like my department is
cool, I can play drums, but I'm also
have a ton of experience uh growing in
organic content media machine or team or
whatever that is and marketing and
back-end business and growing the merch
sales or whatever that is, right? And
then we have our guitar player, Steve,
who's very in like the accounting,
business management world. Yeah, he's a
really good lead guitar player, but he's
also like a nerd on Excel, right? And
it's like you you kind of have to have
these like other facets that contribute
to the overall project. And outside of
that, I would just say I used to think
that being in a band was like showing up
and playing drums and like performing
and someone just like hands you a check
and it's like, "Oh, cool. Like, thanks.
I played the show. I got paid. See you
later." But it's like, oh, actually
there are these nine different arms of
how you can make money. But before it
comes to you, it's going to go a percent
10% is going to go over here for the
person who booked the tour. 20% is going
to go to just the general manager who
just handles business stuff. Then all of
your music is going to get split into
three different arms of publishing and
then people who try to put it on like
freaking video games and stuff and
whatever your Spotify cut is and then
how much goes to the label as opposed to
the people who wrote the songs and it's
like this ginormous spiderweb of money
going to a million different people and
then you're here at the bottom and
you're just like ah I try to catch as
much as I possibly can. Yeah,
>> that uh is a it's just so complex,
right? Like for I'm I'm sure it's
complex for you too and I oversimplify
it, but I'm like you do a brand deal and
they're like cool, here you go. Here's
your monthly or yearly significantly
more simple. But that is because I've
done the equivalent of remaining
independent as an artist.
>> Uh I'm not signed I've never ever been
signed to any network. I'm not owned by
a media agency. Uh, I'm not even signed.
I don't even have an agent. Wow.
>> So, like everything is just me.
Everything is bootstrapped. Everything
is bootstrapped. The tour that we put
together bootstrapped. Team that we put
together bootstrapped everything. Like
we booked our own tour manager. Like
this is not Yeah. So, um, that means
that there's a lot more effort that has
to go in on the front end, but there's
so much more control on the back end.
>> Yes. Yes. You're like, you know, the
something isn't working out with
whatever partner this is, whatever
member of staff this is, whatever
contractor we have. There's no
obligation um beyond loyalty, which
counts for a lot. But, you know, there's
no there's less [ __ ] and it is it is
wild to see people just want to go and
hear good music from their band that are
happy and healthy and playing a show and
hopefully well enough remunerated to
keep doing it. Uh, and there's just a
lot of holes in the Swiss cheese slice,
uh, that you don't get to see. And, uh,
I don't know. I I I hope that it doesn't
seem at the moment, at least the genres
I'm interested in, you guys, uh, and
your cohort, doesn't seem like that many
people feel like they're eating [ __ ]
because I think live is going so well
for so many people. Um,
but yeah, if I was a big hip-hop fan or
something, maybe I'd feel differently.
Maybe I'd be worried about the sort of
upcoming hip-hop artists and whether or
not they can make money like they used
to back in the day or something. Yeah.
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part about being in a band, too, and I
don't want to like complain about money.
my my I'm not trying to complain about
money. I'm just trying to say like I
think it's important to understand how
the back end of the business works and
like yes now you can be independent if
you want to like you can like there are
plenty of Spotify artists who have they
made a good product their song their
songs are good
>> and they develop the skill of organic
content or paid ads or I mean probably
not paid ads as much but like yeah
marketing themselves. If you have a good
product and you can market yourselves
and you can push people to the right,
you know, whatever you want that to be,
buy tickets or go stream the song, like
you can simplify the whole process and
just get really good at team building,
which is what I assume is the skill that
you've had to build to to do it all
independent.
>> Horrendous out of it.
>> Yeah. But it is like it's it's this
weird like for me I look at how my life
has gone and it I grew up everyone
Hey, what do you want to be when you
grow up? I want to be a drummer. And
everyone's like,
>> you know what you said as a kid?
>> Yeah. Oh, yeah.
>> Okay.
>> Um I
>> What was the response when you said I
want to be a drummer?
>> You're stupid. Like I grew up in the
suburbs of Michigan. We're still from
there. But
>> yeah, there's no there's no professional
musicians that I knew of coming out of
Michigan. There are, but you've got Kid
Rock, you've got Eminem. Like there's
there's some Yeah. Uncle Cracker.
There's some big players. But yeah,
everyone's like, "You're stupid. Go to
go to school. do, you know, go to
university uh for you. I wouldn't say
college, but um go, you know, go to
college and get a degree in business.
And I'm like, I don't care about
business. I want to play drums. The
ironic thing is that to be able to play
drums professionally, I had to learn a
lot about business.
But then, you know, by my own accord,
really fell in love with a lot of it cuz
it's like I think any musician starts to
love it because it's very challenging.
It's very challenging to develop a skill
in songwriting or singing or drumming or
whatever that is. And then at a certain
point, it's not you've you've never
arrived. There's you can always get
better. But I think business has that
same thing too, right? It's like,
>> oh, now there's now it's not just
drumming that I have to get better at if
I business is an umbrella term, you
know, there's accounting, there's
marketing, there's blah blah blah blah
blah. So, there's endless things to have
direct input on the lyrics that you
write, the melodies that come out.
You don't have the same with
how well the accounts are put together.
And if you negotiate the margin on the
merch 10% off, like I always used to
feel bad when I ran nightclubs in my
20ies because I had this sense that my
success I could always excuse my
successes away. Uh I was like velcro for
criticism, self-criticism and teflon for
self-praise. Um because
your contribution to the success of a
business, anything really within the
business operations, even if you come up
with the best marketing tagline of all
time, you're not the one that delivered
it. You're not the one that chose how
the audience responded to it, and you're
not the one that said that the sales
whatever created the page that had the
conversion rate optimization, that did
the um and it meant that I always was
more easily able to ignore
where I'd done well
>> Mhm. with things like that. And I think
one of the great things about what you
guys do and what I think everybody needs
in their life is something where a
direct almost one:1 input to output
ratio of um effort to reward is
available. If you write a [ __ ]
slamming song individually or as a group
like you that thing is yours and you
made it directly. there was no
molestation in between you and this
thing happening. And um I think a lot of
the time people feel
out of control and out of connection
with what's going on in their lives
because there are so many layers of
[ __ ] between them and the [ __ ] that
is is supposed to be the goal on the
other side of it.
>> 100%. And that's why I think as much as
the business stuff has been enjoyable to
really dive into and and grow. Like
that's why I'm still
so happy that I'm a musician in a band
because you do have these moments. Like
with this last album we made, we blocked
off eight months. We're basically
>> Mondays from
10 to 6. We show up in the studio every
day and it we we just walk in. We walk
in not knowing what we want to create
and we walk out with something
>> and that I I can't I just don't have
that in any other area of my life where
it feels like pure creativity
>> and those short moments are like just so
awesome like driving home in your car
listening to this 30 secondond demo that
you just wrapped up 5 minutes ago and
then the next honestly the next day on
way to the studio, you listen to it and
you're like, "Actually, it sucks, but
the drive home felt so magical, but now
we have to improve it." And you
constantly Yeah. Eric comes in, it's
like, "Yeah, that sucks, but
>> let's do this." And then you're like,
"Oh [ __ ] that's awesome now." And every
It's just like it feels like pure
creativity. And it's incredible.
>> Yeah. Crazy to think that you come in
with, you know, five dudes coming in a
room and have haven't even talked about
what we're going to work on today and we
sit down and you find some central
meeting point and you just pull things
out of thin air and then you leave 8
hours later going, we have a 30-se
secondond audio file. There's something
that came out of nothing, you know? And
that that that bit of creativity and and
feeling that reward is is unlike
anything else we have going on in our
life. I feel like, you know, you come in
with nothing and you leave with
something that was created by a group of
group of friends that you're like there
there was nothing before this and now we
have this this piece of art and and you
feel like you got something off your
chest or you feel excited with the
direction this thing is going and then
it starts shaping the record and then
you're like, "Okay, well, we did this.
What what what should what should be the
counterpart of this song?" You know,
what what we did something a little
heavier on this. Let's uh just the whole
creative process is is so rewarding, you
know, in that in that sense.
>> What have you learned about navigating a
a career in an industry that's ripe with
burnout and crisis and recovery and
stuff like that?
>> Oh man. Um, for me personally, being on
the road specifically,
uh, when we do like, you know, three and
a half weeks in Europe and we have two
days at home and then we do a 6 week uh,
tour in the States and then we're home
for a month and we go back to Australia
for 3 weeks and then your your time
zones are all [ __ ] up and and being
lost on on tour just, you know, that
that burnout feel, you know. Um, for me
personally, it's like trying to find
those days off when we have them. uh to
feel like a human again. Like I'm I'm
big into uh some trading card games,
collecting records, and you know,
finding bars or coffee shops I've been
to when we had a day off in that city
prior. So to to step away off the bus
and go explore a city on my own or go
with meet up with some friends or other
people on tour and play cards or you
know find a bar record shop doing
something that makes you feel like a
person again uh has definitely helped
that that you know four weeks into a you
know 7 week tour or whatever it is. It's
like
>> feeling like a human again is very
important. So having those hobbies and
having those things to to distract
yourself from the the the mental fatigue
has uh been huge for me.
>> Yeah. I mean I think like
being on the road is
a a gift in so many ways and you know
like a dream come true and also
right like life happens when when you
are on the road and you miss it like
people die right our our we've all lost
family members while being on the road
and finding out I mean friends and
family members I mean you'll find out a
couple hours before you have to go play
and you're like, "Okay, I just found out
that a huge piece of my life was is now
gone and now I have to go like in front
of thousands of people and you know, not
that we played smiley music, so it's not
like I have to like put on a smile, but
man, you have to
you have to get through some shit." And
that might be in the midst of
tension in the band or overall fatigue
from tour where you're like already
you're physically drained. You're
mentally drained. You're in your 30s
living with eight other grown men men in
a bus the size of this room for months
at a time. You haven't seen your family
for months at a time. Uh tragedy
happens. Like it is
a lot. And
I
and also like
on the road there have been so many of
like I think collectively our lowest
moments but it's also coupled with these
moments that are so unique that I
personally could never get and once it's
done it's done. Like for example like
the the creativity of creating a song.
I'm just like I won't I don't think I'm
going to find that somewhere else or
performing in front of people and being
like part of a collective experience.
Like sorry Eric I there have been many
moments in my time with the band where
I'm like is this really what I want to
do? Like I am exhausted from the chaos.
I miss being home. I love being home. Uh
like is this really what I want to do?
But I think there's
these things where it's like, but once
it's done, it's it's done. And also,
yes, like there are times where there's
like tension in the band, but also you
form you trauma bond together as as a
group, you know, where when people
really need it, like you are there for
each other. And like there's never
another time in my life where I'm going
to have be able to have sleepovers with
my 30-year-old bros, you know what I
mean? But on tour, like every night,
it's like after the show, I'll see you
in the back lounge.
>> Silly bus time.
>> Yeah. Silly bus time is what we call it.
Uh it's just kind of coming down from
the adrenaline, cracking a ton of jokes,
and then going right to sleep. It's a
sleepover, you know. But
>> yeah, it's
emotional whiplash. all the time.
>> Yeah. And and what you're saying about
going up and having some kind of loss or
turmoil back home and and trying to
navigate that and then an hour later
you're going on stage. It's it's
important especially being the performer
or singing the words putting on the show
to remember that, you know, this may be
the one concert that that kid is going
to all year long or this uh these
people, these fans, these this group is
is trying to escape whatever's going on
in their life. Whether it's all the
political stuff they're fed up with
seeing online, whether it's their own
family issues, whether it's, you know,
loss, whatever it may be, this is their
moment where they're coming for 3 4
hours to forget all of that and to have
a good time, drink some beers with their
friends, shout the lyrics back to to us
and and and forget everything. So, it's
also keeping that in mind when we go on
stage like this is just as much our
moment having fun up here as your
moment. you know, you're once this month
or once this year getting to to release
or or exercise some demons in the pit or
to just forget about all the the
[ __ ] that they have going on at
home. And then, you know, having to
remember that when you're going through
something yourself to go up there and
go, "All right, this is for them." You
know, put put the show we call it
putting getting into our showies like
you're you got
>> severance. It's your innie and your
audi. It's like our normie and our
showy.
>> Yeah. So, it's time to zip into our
showy and and get out there and give
give everyone the show that they want to
they they deserve. You know,
>> that's what's called being a
professional,
>> right? Like, you know, if you're a a
firefighter and you've had a big
argument in a sleepless night with the
wife last night or arguing or something,
it's like I'm not equating rock stars
and firefighters in terms of importance.
>> Thank you. Thank you.
>> Cuz you're saying that we're more
important, right? Yeah. Okay. Good.
Good. I just wanted to make sure
>> significantly. Um, but they they have to
turn up and do a job. And I think it's
good to think about it in terms of
service. There's certainly at least sort
of from my side looking from the outside
in um because any job that's a lot of
fun uh or that has just fun as a part of
it uh starts to see anything that isn't
fun as a bug, not a feature. M.
>> And you go, "Hey, yeah, I know that
sometimes shit's hard, but for some
people's jobs, all of it's hard."
>> Yeah.
>> And the fact that, well, you know, I'm
tired or this has been long or I'm
whining to you about how many flights
I've got to do this week and tour tour
for me starts this week. And I'm like,
"Yeah,
but I'm going to go and do this thing
with my best friends in cities that I
love and get to see." and you go, "Well,
I think this is why people have limited
sympathy for traveling musicians that
whine about how hard it is because
they're complaining that some of the
things are difficult."
>> Meanwhile, most people's jobs, all of
the things are difficult. They don't get
the positive reinforcement in the way.
It's like, you know, I struggle to sleep
because the adrenaline is high. You go,
well, some people don't ever feel
adrenaline. Mhm.
>> Like the reason that you've got that is
because of how much positive
reinforcement you got earlier in the
night.
>> Um yeah, I guess
>> something I'm interested in. You
mentioned it's like it's a sleepover
with your bros in your 30s.
Everybody's aging, right? Everybody's
getting older. Uh at least a bunch of
you are married or in relationships or
maybe all of you are. So, I'm interested
in how you navigate that as everybody
grows up because people have personal
lives that aren't going to be as
negotiable as they used to be. You don't
choose when your kids born.
>> Your big band turns of sperm means lots
of potential road bumps
>> for people to navigate. So, you're going
to have to say, "Hey, darling. Um, I
know that you're really keen on having a
a a baby next year. The mar the wedding
was wonderful. Thank you for allowing us
to slot it in in between Australia and
the the second run on the US tour. Um,
we're not going to be able to start
trying until late July. Um, because
we've got this new amphitheater
run that we've got that's lined up and
you know I like surely this is something
that's in the back of your guys' minds
as you start to plan your personal
future. And then how does this work with
blending the band?
>> Yeah, I mean I'm going through it right
now planning a wedding and next spring
and and just constantly reminding the
guys like, "Hey, check the calendar. Uh,
we got a tour offer." And is that tour
offer again? Okay, cool, cool, cool. All
right, I have a week I can get married.
But uh yeah, that's that's um
I think it's something that we don't
talk about, but we all feel and and know
it's in the back of our mind. like our
guitar Steve just had a kid 3 years ago
during when we were uh recording our our
last record and he went off and Melissa
had the baby and then they uh we
released the record and went on the road
shortly after that. So, you know, he
missing the the you know, early early
years of of uh his child's child's life
and it's difficult trying to plan around
life events, major life events like
that. But, you know, we we try our best
between the the five of us to plan
things uh the intimate parts of our
lives and in our our little group and
and uh you know, if someone's got to fly
home for a weekend, we try to slot some
some time, you know, days off where it's
okay, you can fly home this weekend. All
right, cool. We'll meet up with you in
you know, three stops from now. And but
yeah, it's something that I think I
don't know if we have it mastered, but
it's it's something that we I don't want
to say struggle with, but it's something
that is a difficult thing to to have our
our personal lives and those huge
moments and you know, having a kid or
getting married or, you know, friends
weddings, standing in weddings, what
whatever it may be is uh it's it's a
challenge. It definitely is a challenge.
>> Yeah. I think it's like you're you're
trading sacrifices, right? So, in the
early days, the sacrifice is I'm going
to go out and tour for 9 months of the
year and make $12, right? That's the
sacrifice and you make it and then that
that stops to be that stops being the
sacrifice. It's like, oh, we're we're
touring touring less and making more
than $12. So, okay, cool. But then,
yeah, as you get older, there's more
sacrifice in a in a different way. Your
parents are getting older,
>> thinking about having kids. How how do
you navigate that? How do you navigate a
marriage where it's long distance?
That's pretty uncommon. But also in some
ways like
I think with any sacrifice
it's difficult but also there are gifts
inside all of it, right? Because
what a lot of people experience kind of
like to what you were saying earlier is
of like oh their jobs suck all the time.
like you are you might always be with
your spouse and never kind of have that
opportunity to truly miss your spouse.
Like some people just never have the
opportunity to actually miss their
spouse, which is interesting. And there
is like a gift in that of I'm gonna be
gone and I'm gonna have this opportunity
to desperately miss you and to have
reconnection time which yes can
sometimes be an adjustment. Right. For
sure. Uh I heard you talk to the
underworld guys about this very
relatable of yeah you might come home
and your spouse is like I was kind of
used to living here by myself. Right.
Yeah. Your your your partner is saying
to you, I know that you've come back and
you immediately want me to drop into
this life that you've imagined,
>> but I've had to create a life where I
can cope with the distance of you being
away.
>> Yeah.
>> Like, so yeah, I've walled myself off a
little bit. Yeah. Maybe I'm not as as
soft or accommodating as you might like
me to be
>> because you've been playing shows for
six weeks in front of a few thousand
people a night [ __ ] about on the bus
with your friends,
>> right?
>> Yeah. Totally. And you you're both
coping in your own ways, right? And I'm
coping by laughing my ass off with my
friends, right? And uh in yeah, this
weird way where
and everything is kind of handed to you
on the road, you know? Um but then
coming home, it's like those coping
mechanisms don't work in a marriage
where it's like, yes, I want time and I
want this and I want this. It's like,
well, this is not really a marriage.
Like that's not a give and take. That's
just a take.
>> Um
>> but yeah, I do think like what that
opens up then is more conversations to
grow closer and be like, "Hey, like
>> this isn't actually working when I'm
gone or it's actually not working when I
come back. like how can we
>> navigate this together and use it as an
opportunity to grow closer or to create
systems in our family or any of my
relationships to make this work better
uh without completely overstretching
both of ourselves. And
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miss someone is an interesting one.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh how many months do you reckon you've
been on the road on average for the last
few years?
>> We've as we've gotten older we've tried
to bring it down to around four months a
year
>> or five.
>> Yeah. Um where my first year touring
with these guys I think we were gone for
nine.
>> So you're still talking now about you
know three days out of every week. So
you're only home for maybe four out of
seven. Plus there'll be travel. Plus,
there'll be songwriting, plus there'll
be rehearsals, plus there'll be all of
the other stuff. So, you're talking
about, you know, if you if you do a
month with five with everything else on
top, it's probably closer to six.
>> Sure.
>> So, you're talking about three and a
half days out of every single week that
you're apart from friends, family,
partner, kid, etc.
>> It's tough. It's a it's a a [ __ ] you
know, that was the fascinating thing
speaking to Aaron and Tim. Uh Aaron
said, did he get married and went on
tour or had a kid and went on tour like
three days later or something and just,
you know, we got to turn it around
because this is what you've got to do.
And um it's an interesting question.
Most people when they're building a
project, what they're looking to do is
over time
do fewer things that they don't want to
do. Like almost everybody's goal in life
is to say, "I just don't want to do
things I don't want to do anymore."
>> Right? that's like where people want to
arrive at.
>> But there's an interesting challenge
that I've been feeling recently, which
is what do you do when you start to get
close to being able to actually making
that a reality? Like what does that look
like? Um,
and it's difficult because you're used
to working at this particular rate and
you get reward and reinforcement at that
same particular rate. But what was the
point of touring for 9 months
every year for five if you don't then
drop it down to doing it at the pace
that you want to? And then how do you
know what the pace that you want to is?
Because you're always going to feel a
high after you've come off stage, but
then what's accumulating in the
background? How many ruptures without
repair have occurred in the
relationship? How many missed weddings
and degraded friendships and funerals
that you haven't been able to deal with
and thoughts that you haven't given
yourself time to just sit with because
you're in the chaos of the show and
someone's bringing you cool new food and
we're going to go skiing today. We're in
Salt Lake. It's going to be great. Like
all of these things are these weird
hidden costs that you pay kind of out
the back here. And um I see especially
with the age and this is meant
complimentarily
the metal scene is not young.
>> Yeah.
>> It's not young like you guys are a
veteran band who are like middle-aged I
guess for
>> like metal stars.
>> Yeah.
>> Ollie from Bring Me must be 38. Uh I
think he's about my age. 36 to like 40
or something like that. I think he might
be my age. 37. Um,
you're talking like I don't know what
Ronnie Radkkey is. Ronny's going to be
like, you know, 40s. I think
>> Ronny's in his 40s. Like,
>> can you really still cr Like 46? We're
still cranking it. Four months on tour.
You know, the kids are off to [ __ ]
like middle school. You go, "Oh, if
you're not careful, you missed your
life. You missed your life. You didn't
just like do this thing when you were
young and had fun." [ __ ] under oath,
right? Like the guy I mean, what was it
that Tim said? He's like, "I've got a a
14-year-old daughter, but I only know
her as seven."
>> Oh, wow.
>> You missed half alive.
>> Yeah. It's It's the illusion that it's
the ever growing illusion that
>> one day you'll be done.
>> Yeah. I'm I'm doing as much as I can
right now so that I can retire at 40 and
have all the
>> retire. I know. But I'm saying that's
what the illusion is. It's that I'm
going to work really hard right now. I'm
going to get it while I can because you
never know when it's going to be done.
You never know when it's going to end.
>> I understand the hatemaking season
thing. I get it.
>> But it's an illusion in a way, right?
Like I
>> It's a horizon. Every step you take
toward it, it gets one step further.
>> Exactly. And it's weird cuz I'm aware of
it and I also play into it and I I feel
like I can't escape it even though I've
been told and I see and I'm like I see
that it's an illusion.
>> In in your defense, that's the same with
junk food. It's the same with overusing
your phone on social media. It's the
same with staying up late. Every single
night you've ever stayed up late. I know
I need to go to bed early, but you
don't. And you know the lesson and you
can feel it unfolding in front of you
and then the next day you forget it and
redo it again. You know what I mean?
Like it's the same thing.
>> Yeah.
>> We're just simple creatures, man.
>> Yeah.
>> But Yeah. Yeah. That that is a man that
is something that that is a little scary
to think about sometimes where it's like
we've been doing this for 11 years and I
I look back I'm like man remember that
tour that was 7 years ago that was I was
23 I'm 34 like where did my life go? But
then you're able to look around, you
know, our our house, like this house I
paid for by screaming at people. And I
have these awesome little trinkets on
the wall, you know, whether they're a
gold gold plaque or a photo of us
playing at Red Rocks or or whatever. And
it's it's
it's tough to tough to think that like
you're saying, it's the horizon just
keeps going keeps going. When when when
are we going to be content? I I don't I
don't know. I guess the only thing I can
hope for is to build this up as as big
as possible so we can bring our loved
ones out on the road more often. We can
have these shared experiences more often
out on the road or
>> you're then asking a lot of your loved
ones, right?
>> Exactly.
>> If you're saying, "Hey honey, you know
your life."
>> Exactly.
>> Um, how do you feel about not having a
>> How do you feel about your life being
How about my life is your life?
>> Yeah, it's a difficult balance. And also
like with with what you're saying of
like you missed your life. I'm I'm
thinking about that and I'm like maybe I
I see that point and I think there's
something to consider there for sure of
missing the people who you love. But I
also think if I were to flip it, I think
if I were sitting in my house in my
office or whatever behind my computer
all day, which I just do on the road,
but I I think I might have the same
thought of
>> you miss your life.
>> I'm missing my life. if I'm wasting it
in the same place every single day doing
the same thing every single day. Like I
think it it's Yeah. This you just want
what you don't have.
>> Choose your regrets, dude. It's so so
true. You've nailed it.
>> Um
>> everybody assumes the thing that's
missing in their life is the thing that
they want.
>> Yeah.
>> And we are
>> like that.
>> Yeah.
>> In our ability to be able to wish the
grass is greener despite the fact that
we were on the other grass only a week
ago.
>> Yeah. I'm I I I know that it's the fact
coming back from tour, you've just
finished tour, you're like, "Thank [ __ ]
for that. Oh my god, I'm so tired and I
just want to lie in bed and I just want
to like cuddle my wife or do whatever."
And then seven days later you're like,
"I'm bored."
>> Yeah, this sucks. I'm bored. I want to
be like, "I'm not doing enough. I should
be in more chaos." You're like,
>> you just did a seven week tour. And I
think this is the same. Everybody feels
it is sort of part of the human system
to always feel like you're not doing
enough. And that not doing enough can be
not doing enough peace and also not
doing enough work. And uh yeah, mark of
a good nervous system, I think, is one
that can adapt to both without feeling
like it's missing the other.
>> Yeah.
>> And you're like, "Oh, like I'm just
>> I'm okay with this."
>> Yeah.
>> I feel like I'm okay with this. I
>> I know. Um, I've heard her Mosy say like
something, I'll paraphrase it, of like
the grass is always greener on the other
side, but cuz there's a bunch of [ __ ] on
my side, but there's also a bunch of
[ __ ] on the other side. It's just
different [ __ ] Like, which [ __ ] do you
want? Cuz there's [ __ ] on both sides,
right? And I think we view other
people's life through rosecolored
glasses, right? I'm sure Chris,
most of your audience would be like, "If
I could have Chris's life where I'm
talking with interesting people all the
time, doing big [ __ ] I got this sick
drink company called New Tonic."
>> Tasty.
>> So good. I don't know which one my
camera. Is this my camera?
>> So good.
>> So good. Yeah. Wait, sorry. I'll figure
it out. Anyway, I'm sure a million
people would be like, I want Chris's
life. Yeah, sure. He's got health
problems. Yeah, sure. like it maybe been
a couple a rough couple years, but they
kind of just overlooked that part. You
know what I mean? And they would they
still take that trade? Maybe.
>> But I think
again, yeah, we we look at we look at
other people's lives and are like, I
would take I would take all of it
because the good thing seems so good
that all the [ __ ] with it
>> is worth it. And maybe sometimes that
that's true, but people find industries
that work for them,
>> right? Like if you're not
>> that much of a touchyfey, affectionate
person.
>> Well, you know, I would be at home, but
I wouldn't like the wife's got her thing
going on. We might not be hanging all
that much in any case, so I might as
well be away,
>> right? Um, and that's where you see
I I I wrote this essay a little while
ago about people who have the the talent
but not the constitution to become very
successful. Uh, Lewis Kapaldi was my
sort of canonical example of this until
he came back and smashed it at
Glastenbury this year which I'm really
really happy for him.
>> Nice. Um, L Capali, great example of
phenomenal voice, phenomenal songwriter,
but someone who suffered so badly with
performance anxiety that he went out on
the main stage at Glastenbury not long
ago and couldn't get his words out and
he's got this he's developed this sort
of Tourette's like nervous tick from how
much pressure he's applied to himself.
You go, how unfortunate to be someone
who's so perfectly
constructed. It's like having a really
fast engine
put into a Honda Civic. It's like a V12
engine, so you have all the power to be
able to drive real fast and none of the
control to be able to direct it.
>> Yeah.
>> And um that is a a unique kind of pain
where you go, [ __ ] like the thing that I
want to be a world class recording
artist, touring musician or or or
what [ __ ] soldier or sports star or
whatever. I have all of the capability.
I just don't have the constitution to be
able to handle maybe the pressure that
comes along with it or the work rate or
the travel. Like you could have really
sensitive circadian disruption like in
your sleeping pattern and that would
mean you could not be a touring artist
or like it would just take such a toll
on your health that your uh expiry date
would be would be pretty snap close.
>> Yeah.
>> And um Yeah. Yeah.
You're right. The there will be bits of
[ __ ] on either side of the fence. And
what is the price that you want to pay
in order to have the life that you
admire is a [ __ ] really good question
about that.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I've heard you say about life on
the road and missing uh funerals,
missing friends and birthdays. There's
this Keith Urban thing, The Road on CBS
at the moment. First episode came out
this week. So during the premier episode
of the road on CBS, Urban opened up
about the difficulties of life on the
road as a cheering musician. It's a
calling and you're born to do it or
you're not going to make it. He said
when you wake up on a tour bus at 3:30
in the morning and you're sick as a dog,
you're in the middle of nowhere and
you've got to play your fifth show later
that night. You haven't slept and you
miss your friends and you're missing
your family and you're completely lonely
and miserable and sick and you say to
yourself, "Why am I doing this?" Urban,
who recently split from aranged wife,
Nicole Kidman, continued, "The only
answer could be because this is what I'm
born to do. We're going to find out
who's made of that stuff. And we're
going to find out who's made of that
stuff is to do with being on the road."
Really interesting that someone who
recently split from his aranged wife is
sort of being used as the and look, if
you two are sufficiently successful,
this could be your life also. like
really does show how narrow the aperture
is that we perceive success through,
right? Like it really is. I It doesn't
sound to me like Well, I mean, it's a a
public interview, so how how would you
No, it's not quite the place for someone
to drop into their emotions. Uh it
doesn't particularly sound to me like
Keith Urban would say I would rather
give up my touring or have not toured at
all and still have my marriage to Nicole
Kidman. But who knows, maybe in
retrospect he'll think something
differently. And uh yeah, the prices
that you pay, the things that you miss
in order to do the thing that you love.
It's different with you guys versus um
like some person that works offshore on
an oil rig or a soldier, right? Cuz it's
not too dissimilar. They do tours,
>> different sorts of venues. Um, but I
think people feel differently about that
because that feels like more of a
obligation.
>> Yeah.
>> There's a nobility.
>> Yeah.
>> Attached to that. There's some there's
you guys get less sympathy because
you're like [ __ ] about.
>> Yeah.
>> Champagne problems, man.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I I do have um I do have
some sense of guilt sometimes where I'm
like, how dare I feel so bad right now?
like
um
the I feel like one of the first times I
went through something hard on the road
was uh one of my best friends and uh
living living at my place with me um
took his own life um right before we uh
walked on stage in Pittsburgh. And that
was like the first time that I I like
allowed myself to like feel feel bad
about
missing things. Like when it was a
wedding or something, I was like I was
like, "Oh man, I'm just is this really
I'm I'm getting to live my life and my
dreams and and do these things and like
I don't you know, shame on me for for
feeling any type of way." But when when
that happened, that was like the first
time that I was like, "No, it's okay.
It's okay to feel bad." Like it's, you
know, man, sorry, I'm getting thinking
thinking about that time. That was
really really tough, man. But then on
the outside, like I said earlier, you
just have to suit up and go out there
and play and and uh remind yourself how
how lucky and blessed you are to be
doing this. And um yeah, over over the
last few years, I've tried to balance
that like sense of guilt of uh living my
dreams, let's say, over, you know,
missing the funerals and the friendships
and and planning. Oh, okay. Well, I go
back, I'm just going to have to rebuild
that relationship or they understand. My
my family understands that I'm I'm out
here doing doing big things and and
trying to trying to live my dreams. But
it's it's it's it's a it's always a
challenge. It's always a challenge going
out on the road and being gone for so
long and and then looking back at the
things you're missing, but then all you
know reminding yourself like this is
what you signed up for. You know, how
lucky are you that the fraction of a
percent of people get to do this and
enjoy it while you can cuz tomorrow just
be gone. You know, AI could take over.
You know, we're just done.
>> Yeah. Yeah, I think it's um
it's tricky to balance the
responsibility of
you have a you have a group of thousands
of people who paid, you know, however
much to
like get a release from whatever they're
going on in their their life. And we are
kind of like pioneering that ship in a
lot of ways. like Michael Jordan, you
know, has that I I actually don't
remember what the quote is, but there
there's that like infamous game where
he's puking on the sidelines, but he's
still playing cuz he's like, "This might
be the only time someone gets to see
me." And like they this could have been
their past two weeks paycheck to be
here, so I'm going to play. I'm going to
to no matter what like be here. And so I
think it's balancing that responsibility
while also not becoming um not uh
valuing their validation in an unhealthy
way. So it's like you have a
responsibility to them. But I think some
people I can't speak for Keith Urban,
but like
>> I think some marriages can fall apart
because a lot of artists are desperate
for validation. I mean, we're we're
putting ourselves on a stage in front of
people uh screaming our our name, not my
name cuz I'm the drummer, but screaming
your band's name. And it's like, yeah,
those group of people like probably want
a little bit more validation because of
X, Y, and Z in our childhood, right? But
I think that's when relationships,
marriages can fall apart because you're
so desperate for the validation from
strangers as opposed to the places that
it actually matters from.
>> Bro, I I think so much about
how sad it is that some people got
oneshotted with
status games in high school and never
grew out of them. Mhm.
>> Like they just need to be
accepted by the cool kids, even if the
cool kids were a bunch of strangers on
the internet.
>> Yeah.
>> And they just you can see I I think they
cycle through life ignoring or almost
feeling an ick or a kind of allergy to
anybody who gives them free and
available love. It's like, oh, if you're
giving me something, you're you're
offering it to me without withholding
it, without there being a price
attached. You just, oh, you seem to just
like me for me. What's wrong with you?
>> Like, no, you're supposed to make you're
supposed to reject me or not want me.
You're supposed to make me hurt for it
or something. And um that's a pattern
that is really unfortunate because it's
going to cause you to ignore
the very thing that you want. you're
going to disregard the very thing that
you're trying to get, which is someone
to just see you.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And that can also be a good
thing though because
some of those people don't actually
really see you. You know, if you're like
dating someone for a long time, Yeah.
they probably really see you. But if
someone who doesn't know you and is like
trying to pour this validation your way
and you really receive that, which
there's a healthy degree, but there's
also the other side where it's like,
well, you don't actually know me. You
might be a fan of
>> our songs, our music, which is really
cool, but like
>> if I if I take all this praise, that's
where I think ego can get really
dangerous. And we've seen so many people
go down that path.
um where you just accept all of this
praise from people who don't know you.
But then on the on the same side, that's
when like often times their downfall is
because with any
almost any rise there's going to be a
time where well okay you got big enough
now the only thing left to do is to turn
on you.
>> You know what I mean? Um, I feel like
it's kind of a a tale as old as time and
then you have your period of time where
people turn on you and you weather that
storm and then people get bored of
turning on you and they go, "Okay, well
now they're down so like let's lift them
back up. Now they have somewhere to go
again." Right.
>> So I think that's so right. And uh you
can almost see it in these little
cycles.
>> Yeah.
>> Up and down. And um I think everybody
has anybody that gets to a size has to
have an ascendancy, right? That's why
you get to the size and everybody has to
have a moment where they icorus it a
little and it is just whether or not
they manage to pick back up on that one.
And after that I mean you can obviously
completely like kamicazi yourself if
you're
>> do something wrong. But um after that
one typically I I see very few people
that just keep going up.
>> Like almost everybody has one dip. So
it's like okay get ready for the dip.
>> Yeah. Um, I I guess with you guys,
how has
the or how do you define your guys'
identity as a band now that the lineup's
changed, that the dynamics evolved, that
the sounds evolved as well? Um the
reason I think about that is
artists, podcasters, comedians, um get
they capture attention for doing a thing
well.
>> Yeah.
>> There is a temptation to just do that
thing again. Uh and there's been a lot
of change from you guys last album to
this one. You're stepping up into full
vocalist doing everything mode. Uh plus
an evol evolution in terms of sound.
I'm interested in what like how you
think about sort of identity of the band
and not being trapped by what you did
before but staying true to your roots
but not being behold. You know what I
mean? Like how do you navigate all of
this?
>> Yeah, I think it's a it's a challenge
that we're we're finding out right now.
Um learning as we go. But yeah, I I I
think it's difficult on a personal side
cuz you you think
you haven't changed individually. We
haven't changed. The writing is still
we're still writing and not from the
outside a lot's changed, but on the
inside maybe not so much. So when you
hear and see
out, you know, whether it's fans or fair
weather fans or whatever that are are
like, oh, this it's a whole different
band. It's different. It's not it's like
well we we don't feel that different. We
know there's a change but we don't feel
that different. So that that's been a
very difficult thing for me personally.
It's like you know I I've been writing
in this band since day day one and now
all of a sudden I I feel like a stranger
to my my own band just from the
perception of of a couple nameless
people out there, you know, and it's um
it's been it's been a a struggle
personally, but
yeah. How how do you feel about this?
>> I think our identity is
it is shifting like I think to what you
were talking about earlier, you have
this um you have a a lot of times there
are like these bands with certain
dynamics, right? And like no doubt the
dynamics are now different. Um, and in a
lot of ways
with that with that change, we've kind
of leaned into the different a little
bit from the standpoint of like
how we are trying to interact with each
other as a group and trying to
uh nourish our relationship with each
other as much as possible. But in some
ways it's
I keep talking about gifts.
Um but like
there like you said the thing that got
us here we don't even in some ways our
our sound is naturally now different. So
we don't even have some of like that
option to go back to of like well we did
this thing and it's like well no no
matter what we do now it's going to be
different. And so we have to or we get
to
reanalyze like what do we want to be
moving forward? What do we want to be to
each other? How do we want to be with
each other? What do we want a sound to
be?
>> It kind of um breaks open your life in a
new way. I I liken it to Yeah. a
relationship where you have a
relationship with someone for for 10
years and
after a certain period of time it's like
hey I actually think you want this and
and I want this and we're going to move
in those separate directions and it is a
time of self-discovery you know the
interesting thing about it is that most
people in a relationship they go their
separate ways and there's pain there for
sure but it's kind of up to you to
ask yourself, "What do you want next?"
in a band situation. It's interesting.
It's like, it's almost like you have a
big family around you saying, "Well, I
actually liked you better when you were
with that person, and I actually want
you to do this." And it's like, "Well,
okay." Like, I appreciate the feedback.
Like, understood,
>> but
>> I kind of have to go on this journey. I
hope that you can come on this journey
with me. Um because my my family, my
fans, you know, the the metaphor, you're
very important to me and you've been
with me this time. I would love to
continue in a relationship with you
guys. Also, um please have a little bit
of trust in me that like I'm going to
reinvent myself in a way where I'm going
to try to grow from this experience and
do what is authentic to me and us. And
yeah, that's kind of what the process
has has been like. And yeah, no, no
doubt there's been a ton of challenges
in it. But damn, do I think we've we've
grown a ton from it? Absolutely. And
really excited for what that what the
path is for us moving forward. I mean,
I'm so stoked on this record. Chris, I
you I told you to let me know if it's
[ __ ] and you didn't let me know. So, I'm
just assuming you It's great. I still
>> I'm just insecure. I need more
validation. Oh my god.
>> Please, strangers on the internet, tell
me that I'm good enough. [ __ ]
millions of people a year are not
enough. Um,
>> what I thought was interesting with what
you guys did. And I think
I'm not convinced that Sleep Token quite
did this, it'll be interesting to see
what Omen's third track comes out
tomorrow, I think.
>> Oh, does it really?
>> Yeah. Um,
>> what you guys did that was really
interesting was you chose three very
different tracks from the album. Um, and
I thought that was kind of unique. Uh, I
would say President did a not bad job
with releasing ahead of their EP. I
thought that was good in terms of the
sequence. I did find a couple of them a
little sy and I might have hot swapped
one of them. I thought Conclave was
actually maybe a stronger track that was
like hidden deep in the EP and they
could have brought that out.
>> Um, Omens, both of their tracks have
been a little sy but [ __ ] like
obviously [ __ ] brilliant. which is
great. And uh I thought it was
interesting. I I've had this idea in my
mind for ages about um you as a band
decide that you're going to put out two
or three or four singles and then you
you drop an album. So presumably you
have an idea about what your best foot
forward in some regard looks like or at
least uh your best foot forward as a
collective when you take these three.
This is an indication of what the what
the longer record's going to be like.
But then you put it out on Spotify and
the [ __ ] audience gets to decide and
you're like track eight.
>> Really?
You [ __ ] Really? The [ __ ]
acoustic track? Are you Are you kidding
me? Or whatever. Right. They picked the
thing.
>> Well, that's actually the case here.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I I checked
this.
>> Okay. I was going to say it's way too
specific.
>> Yeah. No, it's weird, dude. It's like we
like I said we've been writing this I
mean man the writing process was just 8
months but then we recorded it then we
mastered it then we m mixed it then
mastered it and I mean all in yeah a
year and three months or something like
that of just
>> pouring our our souls out to each other
you know a few guys in a room and it's
like I think this is sick. Is this sick?
I think it is. I I don't know. Is it?
And uh
>> I like getting lost in the sauce.
>> Yeah, 100%. And we're like we're
removing tracks. We're like this song
actually sucks. Like that song we we
wrote and we're like it's not going to
make the album. Like it's we it's
different. Like it's just an acoustic
song. Like when are we going to do that?
And Eric was like
uh he didn't say this but he felt so
he's like guys if this song is not in
the album I'm going to leave. Like he
wasn't really but
>> um but yeah. So it's weird. It's this
weird like the insecurity just starts to
like build of like well let's just let's
move this one out. I don't know. And
then two months later you're like let's
bring it back in. Like I haven't
listened to that one. And you're like oh
it's actually really good. But yeah then
you get this like confidence once you
like have written the whole thing.
You're like I see this as a work of art.
I'm really excited to release it. Then
once you've written it the insecurity
starts creeping up again.
>> [ __ ] I knew we should have cut track
eight. Yeah. What um for a normie like
me, what is the sort of number of tracks
that you've cut that didn't make a 10
album record, a 10 song album?
>> Yeah, I think we had like three or so
maybe that got to a second chorus. Am I
>> I think I think four or five.
>> Four or five. Yeah. Then don't forget
the
seven songs we wrote even before
scrapping all of those.
>> Yeah, true. Good point for
>> probably another 10 songs,
>> right?
>> That still seems relatively lean to me.
That seems like a pretty good hit rate,
right? To write
one in two songs makes the album
>> makes Master [ __ ] out there.
>> Yeah,
>> that seems like I don't know. Is that
>> It might be. Yeah, I I feel like every
band has something a little bit
different. The the interesting with
thing with us is that like yes, let's
say one and two songs, but the song that
you know it now has also taken six
different forms where it's like, oh
well, the chorus was actually different
and verse two is actually a completely
different part. We rewrote the bridge
three times. And so I think
>> as long as we have a nugget that we
think is good enough, mainly
>> we're building it around something.
>> Yes.
>> Yeah. if we're like, "Oh, this course is
sick. Let's keep going back to it. Let's
keep going back to it. Let's keep going
back to it." And the nice thing is like
you get to see if it stands the test of
time.
>> Yep.
>> Like that's what I mean about when you
put it out there and the audience gets
to choose because that's also in a
really hilarious way kind of going to
determine what the live set looks like.
>> Mhm.
>> Because if song eight, the acoustic song
eats [ __ ] and you go, "Wow, I mean
there's [ __ ] no chance that we're
playing that live." But if there's the
prospect of, oh [ __ ] like this is it's
a most played track on Spotify ranked at
the moment or whatever.
We have to do that. [ __ ] We have to do
this. No. Like, oh yeah, whatever.
Right. But it's cool. It's cool cuz
you've had this idea. Look how clever I
am. I know my my release in advance. I'm
going to do my little singles. I'm going
to make them come out and be in the
right order. And then you put the
[ __ ] thing out and then all of your
fans just go, "Fuck you, dude. I'm going
to choose what I want.
>> Yeah.
>> I think it's so cool.
>> Yeah. And it's uh it's I don't want to
say challenge, but it's like when we
start writing the record and then you
start fantasizing about the future like
a year a year and a half from now, you
start, okay, when we do the headliner,
you know, we're going to open with this
song. Imagine this the set opening like
this. And we rolling this song, we pull
this deep cut out from two records going
that goes third. And then we've learned
quickly after the last record, we were
like, this opening track is going to be
the opening track to the show. And then
the album's been out for a couple months
and maybe less than that, a month. And
you go out there, people are excited to
see you and they're excited to see some
of the new stuff, but they want to see
that that record that they grew up on or
whatever it may be. And you go out and
you play that first song and you're
looking in the crowd and no one's
singing it cuz they don't know the words
and you're like, "Oh god, this is going
to be a rough four minute. You got to
educate the next one." So, so now it's
like, you know, we have these little
nuggets of ideas like how the set's
going to be, you know, when we go out
and tour it, you tour this new record
again, but you know, you got to let the
fans pick the songs. You and then you
see the, okay, these songs are popping
off. Hell yeah, we get to play these.
Well, where in the set should we play
them? We don't want to blow our load
early and play all the cool stuff from
the first half and everyone's sitting
like, you know, it's building the set's
like, you know, taking that emotional
roller coaster. You know, we have so
many different sounds and different
emotions through through our lyrics and
and moods and all that and you don't
want to put all the heavy stuff right up
front. You don't want to save all the
energetic stuff till the end. You know,
it's building that dynamic roller
coaster
>> journey feel like to go on. So, let me
give you this, right? But just in case
you guys thought that you had it hard,
the way that I have to put together a
live show, uh, I come up with ideas in
the most sterile environment possible,
uh, just on my own.
>> Maybe it gets clipped and put on the
internet. I have an indication that some
people think it's cool or maybe not. Who
knows? Then when I go and test it live,
there's no sound, right? Because the
single best thing that can happen at a
unless it's standup and there's some
bits of stand up, but that's not the
meat and potatoes of my live show.
If I'm going to go and do this, like the
best thing that I can have is pin drop
silence.
>> Ah, yeah.
>> So, I'm inverting what every live artist
throughout history has ever tried to go
for. I want the most sil I want deathly
quiet.
>> Yeah. and then like hanging on what the
next bit of the story or the word is
going to be. I'm like, was that more
quiet than the other bit? Like I have no
[ __ ] idea. And then people finish up
and they go, I love the bit about the
the man that fell over on the on the
street or whatever the [ __ ] it is that
someone comes up with. And I'm like
>> I trying to aggregate that
>> is uh for me, you know, a a real
interesting challenge. I've loved the
live element. I've loved being able to
put together a set not too dissimilar to
the way that you guys do. I've got like
tracks. I've got
>> Mhm.
>> insights and ideas and I can piece these
together in an interesting manner that
hopefully takes people on a journey and
I don't want to have all of the funny
stuff up front and I don't want to have
all of the sad boy stuff at the end and
you know so on and so forth. You'll see
on Sunday in Toronto.
>> Um
>> but the [ __ ] feedback mechanism,
dude.
>> Yeah.
>> Is like I don't know. I feel like a MI6
a Sherlock Holmes
trying to reverse engineer what it is
that the audience is thinking about.
Yeah.
>> Are you enjoying this?
>> Do you like it more than the last bit?
Who [ __ ] knows?
>> What does the uh what does the silence
represent to you?
>> Tension,
>> presence.
>> Yeah.
>> Like real
like I I there's bits that happen. I
haven't got enough of them in this one,
but the next show, which is Australia,
New Zealand in uh March, um and then
Bali, uh I there's a couple of bits
where people catch their breath where
you hear like a
like that. I'm like, "Oh, that's [ __ ]
cool.
>> That's sick."
>> Like, especially given that the room is
[ __ ] pin drop silent and then you
hear this like collective
depressurization of the whole room as
everyone just gasps a little bit and I'm
like, "Oh, that's [ __ ] cool."
>> Um, and then there's like laughy bits
and I've got some new uh I tested I did
the final work in progress show last
night and uh tested some new standup
bits and they [ __ ] destroyed. They
were so much fun. They're like there's
some of them that are way too spicy for
me to feel comfortable saying in like I
tested some Canada stuff and I'm like I
can't do that in Canada and I tested
some America stuff and I can't do that
in America either stuff. Um
>> slip them.
>> Yeah. But it's it's real interesting and
I've I've very much appreciated getting
to watch uh you guys and and everyone
else like how much attention gets paid
to constructing a S. I was with [ __ ]
Sam and Dan from Architects.
>> Jesus [ __ ] Christ, dude. Like they
pay so much attention to like every
little bit, transitions, bits in between
songs and uh
yeah, you're just some [ __ ] dude in
the crowd boopping away having a good
time and you don't realize, oh, they
played like they played the song from
the old album or whatever and you go,
yeah. Do you realize how many
conversations and like tens of hours
were had just about that one bit?
>> Oh yeah. of that one section of that
show that you went to. It's crazy. It's
so cool. It's like it's it doesn't just
effortlessly happen. It's kind of like a
comedy set, right? Like there's all of
this work that goes into it to make it
seem effortless on the front end.
>> Yeah. I mean, we're already talking
about, you know, this this winter uh
getting together and, you know, just,
you know, doing some creative stuff,
whether it's like demoing or whatever it
may be. But it's live show. We're we're
planning our live show and we're
planning on Okay. Well, if we're going
to play this song, what's the kind of
cool interlude or how does it go from
this song to this song? Okay, there's a
guitar change, so we need to eat eat up
some time. Well, maybe I'll I'll talk
over that part. Is it going to be dead
silent? There's going to be music under
it. Is it going to be, you know, and
then start talking like, well, how can
we spice up these old songs? We're going
to extend the bridge. Am I going to try
>> great jokes about America and Canada if
you need to throw something?
But yeah, it's um yeah, a lot of a lot
of thought goes into that and I think
that's what makes these shows even more
special. I've seen Artex a handful of
times and if I wasn't in the shoes I am
now, I probably wouldn't have realized
all the little details. But yeah, you
can you can tell if you if you're
looking for it or you're you're paying
attention to the whole the whole set,
you can tell that they've put in a lot
of work. Based on your experience, who
do you think has got the greatest
attention to detail in the world of
alternative music as a member of a band
or a collective overall?
>> Bring to the Horizon. I think
>> I was going to say as well Ollie's level
of attention to detail is like a [ __ ]
universe warping thing.
>> It's insane. Yeah.
>> Yeah. I I think that's the game, you
know? I think like
paying attention to those 1%
details and like nailing them. It it's
it's the difference between being Bring
Me the Horizon, right? Like one of the
biggest rock bands right now and I guess
anyone else, right? It's like Roger
Federer has said, you know, one of the
greatest tennis players ever like has
only won like 50 55% of his points.
says, "Someone that reads the newsletter
[ __ ] knew that I liked you, man. I
[ __ ] knew that I liked you.
>> I also like tennis." So like,
>> but yeah. Yeah. In order to win 80% of
his games, he's only won 52% of his
points.
>> Yeah. And and that that's and we don't
get me wrong, like we try to we try to
play that game. Like I think right like
Yeah. If you're at a if you're in the
audience eating a corn dog being like,
"Oh, I'm having a lot of fun with this."
Like you don't realize that not only
like we uh have
carefully and painstakingly built the
live set like we there have been half
the video footage from one of our tours
I filmed in my basement with these dudes
like and we just like paint cuz we had
someone else do it and we're like it's
just not right like we're just going to
have to do it ourselves.
>> What you mean you filmed it? Filmed
what? So like video content in the uh in
behind us on on stage. We've uh
>> on the IMAX. Yeah. The equivalent.
>> Well, the IMAGs would be like following.
>> Yeah. But it's the screen that it's in
between the [ __ ]
>> We had like a character like narrate in
between every couple songs. And so that
character was cool. Yeah. But then even
I mean Yeah. Going back to the
songwriting process, like I was joking
about being like, "Hey guys, what do you
think if I add this one note where I'm
playing at 30% velocity on the snare
drum?" Most people will never even hear
it, but I think that they'll feel that
it's there and you that might make a
difference. And it's like paying
attention to those little things or like
Yeah. And bring these case like what is
the thing that builds the lore of this
whole
>> the outfit or social posts. And then you
take it a step further, I suppose, with
somebody like Sleep Token. You also
remove things, right, which allows you
to suck in that speculation
>> 100%.
>> That that vacuum. Yeah. I mean,
>> I've been thinking an awful lot recently
about
uh attention to detail and obsession. Um
kind of I have a conflicted relationship
with obsession. Uh quite an obsessive
person,
which is good, and the attention to
detail also good, but it comes with
quite a high price. And I think uh you
see this with uh any of my artist
friends that are at that kind of a
level. Um I think it's almost impossible
to not have chronic self-doubt
and a high attention to detail. I think
that the two things are the same thing.
>> Um I think I think the reason that
you're pushing so much and that you're
paying attention is like can this be
better? Let me give you an example.
depending on how old the can of
Newtonic. Oh, okay. This is interesting.
So, this is a slightly older badge. I
can tell that this is an older badge
from the back here. Uh,
>> yeah. Yeah. Okay. So, you see the
Instagram logo there.
>> Mhm.
>> See, it's slightly offset outside of the
follow us.
>> Yep.
>> To the left. It might not be on that
one. That'll be centralized. That should
be centralized. So, mine and yours will
be off to one side and yours should be
in the middle. Do you see how mine's
offset
>> to the left of the F? Yep. Guess who
picked that up?
>> You.
>> Yes. Like, and this is like millions of
cans deep, right? This this run's been
going for ages. And I'm like,
>> oh, somebody left like half a point to
the left. They left aligned it inside of
the margin. They didn't center align it
inside of the space.
>> Yeah.
>> Great. We now have a can that's got this
1% not even like 0.0 1% uh improvement.
Fantastic. when I'm trying to refine the
question idea that I've got for Matthew
McConnA or the way I'm going to word
this new oh the atlas complex I'm going
to come up with on a newsletter
not so fantastic in my personal life.
>> Yeah.
>> Right. It's like hey obsession
you're great at work can I turn you off
when like you know I want to [ __ ]
chill out on a nighttime.
>> Yeah.
>> You don't get to do that. It permeates
all of you. And I think this is one of
the reasons that artists get conflicted
a lot of the time. And um Ollie is a
good
example of that. He is a [ __ ] good
friend. I've known him for like over a
decade and a lovely lovely lovely guy.
But you pay a high. If you want to be
Ollie Sykes, you pay a high price. If
you want to be vessel from Sleep Token,
>> you pay a high price.
>> Yeah.
>> Um
>> you don't get extraordinary outcomes
with ordinary inputs. And these guys
have got extraordinary inputs, but
they're not all good.
>> Yeah. I Yeah, I'm convinced that you
can't achieve anything
great without having high levels of of
obsession. And it is I think it's just
yeah like what pain do you want? Do you
want the pain of not achieving the big
thing that you really want to achieve?
Or do you want the pain of doing that
while knowing that what takes you there
also can be an internal struggle every
step of the way? Just which pain do you
want?
>> Mhm.
>> And had a healthy dash of imposttor
syndrome over it. And
>> it's great.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh Mark Manson has this idea. He says um
what are you willing to what pain do you
want in your life? What are you willing
to suffer and struggle for any
um pursuit even the most existentially
aligned will regularly feel like work.
So if you're oriented toward the pain
you're more likely going to be aligned
with what you can do over the long term
as opposed to if you're just oriented
toward the pleasure. So everybody says
find what looks like work to everyone
else but feels like play to you as a a
good piece of advice for a competitive
advantage which is unique and N of one.
But that disregards the fact that even
the best pursuits regularly feel like
labor.
>> Mhm.
>> Right. like being on the bus and these
sleepless nights and chaos and being
away from the family and all the rest of
this stuff like that is the price that
you pay every if all it was was pleasure
be like I have no real desire to play a
musical instrument but it would be fun
to get the pleasure of just like playing
on stage but I don't want to have to
spend a decade learning to play an
instrument.
>> Mhm. So orienting yourself toward the
prices is better than orienting yourself
toward the profits because people get
kicked out. It's the exact same with
relationships. It's exact same with
relationships. Relationships don't end
because insufficient good times. They
end because of too many sufficient bad
times.
>> It's not that you're connecting at too
shallow of a level typically. It's that
your disconnections are occurring at too
deep of a level. M
>> and the way that you handle arguments is
the best predictor of it. How many
people break up because they say, you
know, the exciting times, they just
weren't that exciting. No, it's because
we kept arguing all the time. It's
because things were going wrong. It's
because we couldn't connect. It's
because, you know, it was like
an overabundance of problems,
not a scarcity
of of of praises, let's say, if that
makes sense. Yeah. And uh I I think that
I think that you see the same thing with
with people's pursuits. And it's like
you want to be [ __ ] vessel, you want
to be Ollie Sykes, okay, this is the
mindset that you need to have and this
is the sort of life that you're going to
have to lead. This is you want to be
Lewis Kapaldi.
>> Mhm. Cuz you can't separate his anxiety
attacks from his songwriting ability.
Yeah. That his anxiety attacks are his
songwriting ability.
>> It's like just this huge [ __ ] It's a
onesie, right? It's not an outfit. It's
not something that you get to piece
together. This huge big onesie and you
just zip the [ __ ] up and you're like,
"Okay, I guess I'm just him now."
>> 100%. Yeah. I mean, yeah. I think about
like Bo Burnham comes to mind where I'm
like,
>> great example.
>> A genius. I'm like, you are a genius
comedian. And also to be that genius,
you have panic attacks on stage. And I
mean, God, I I have no idea what he's
just gone. He's gone.
>> Yeah. Where the [ __ ] is Bo Burnham?
>> Yeah. Yeah. It's I I think you know or
like Michael Jordan, right? Like you
want to be the the greatest basketball
player, but to be that you have to what
a large percentage of people who
interact with him would maybe say he's
an [ __ ] You know what I mean?
>> And still now at the Last Stands thing
seems
>> No, like still conflicted.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And it's interesting. I find
I find it interesting that we are like
typically so pain averse as a collective
while also
the standard way of life is I'm going to
get in a relationship which means
there's going to be a lot of pain in
there like with what you were saying and
>> then I'm going to have children which is
probably one of the I'm not a parent but
like one of the challenges and you just
accept you're like I just don't sleep
for years and but like the idea like
it's the same principle that like I'm
going to sacrifice my life for x period
of time for this longer greater vision
that I think it's going to make my life
better in the long run if I'm not again
I'm not a parent I think that's what
they think I don't I don't know but it's
interesting to me that for a lot of
people that doesn't necessarily apply to
other aspects of their life either
Um,
which is, yeah, for me it's kind of like
flipped on the reverse though, too,
where I'm like, oh yeah, I'm I'm willing
to give the the sacrifice for the career
and all that type of stuff. And then you
throw a kid in my face and I'm like, I
don't know if I'm willing to do that
right now. You know what I mean? So, I
don't know. Maybe it's just one or the
other.
>> I don't know. I don't have a kid either,
dude.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I uh the obsession thing,
one one final point on that I'd love to
get your opinion on. Um, so people talk
about sort of the relationship between
discipline, motivation, obsession, and I
think the reason obsession is kind of
having a moment right now. Zack Pogb is
uh a friend of mine, lives in New York,
does a lot of running. He's like Mr.
Obsession. And I I think he's fantastic
at what he does. I think his new running
app is great and everyone should go and
download it. I've always been a little
conflicted about the obsession thing. Um
because I'm trying to detox myself at
least a little bit from obsession. I'm
trying to become more of a lifestyle
maxi
>> than like a a progress maxi, let's say.
And um the reason that I think people
love obsession so much is
it's the freest motivation that you're
ever going to get. Like if you say that
sort of motivation is I kind of want to
do this thing and discipline is I have
to do this thing. Obsession is I can't
not do this thing.
>> So if you think about sort of uh
discipline is you forcing yourself
through something and motivation is you
encouraging yourself through something.
Obsession is you getting like ripped
like pulled forward by the thing. Does
that make sense? It's like like being
pulled by it. And in some ways that's
great, but in other ways I think it's
really dangerous because
at least with motivation and discipline
largely you at least get to tolerate the
gas pedal but with obsession you never
get to turn it off.
>> Mhm.
>> It's like oh I have like I am compelled
I can't not do this thing. What what if
there's a time when you do want to not
do that thing? What if you need a
weekend off? What if you have had
somebody close in your life pass away
and you need to think about that? You
probably could do it dealing with your
emotions for couple of couple of weeks
or something and you go, "No, no, I must
I must do more tracks. I there's songs
to play and I get shows to do." And
h I I wonder I worry that uh the profits
that are very obvious from obsession. Um
free motivation, free discipline,
consistency without effort basically. um
because you're being pulled.
I wonder how many people will look back
and realize that that was um like just
chronic imbalance
that um felt easy at the time and in
retrospect they're like, "Oh, [ __ ]
I don't know whether that was the best
decision and I didn't really have that
much choice." So like a little bit more
scrutiny around obsession uh might be
worthwhile. Like this is very wet clay
[ __ ] bro science at the moment. All
right. So like it might be it might be
largely [ __ ] But
>> what's making you rethink? What's making
you want to step back from obsession?
>> I've done basically the same thing for
nearly two decades now, which is just
completely bury myself at working hard.
And that's great. Um, but it can cause
you to become
uh myopic and laser focused and
blinkered about other things that you
could do with your life. And that's not
even necessarily other things outside of
the project. It's other things within
the project. So, for instance, for me to
go and do the live shows, it makes my
life harder. Um, and
financially it's a horrendous decision.
Um uh
>> there for sure.
>> It's I mean even you know we we're going
to do
shows between 1,500 and 750ish caps. So
they are you perfectly profitable and
and and apart from the fact that I've
got to fly a [ __ ] ton of people out.
Um
>> uh that it's fine. But if I was making a
business decision, I would just continue
to do the show. If I was making a
platform decision, I'd just continue to
do the show. I was making a lifestyle
decision. I just continue like all of
the elements of obsession would point me
away from variation be like do more of
the thing.
>> Mhm.
>> But that doesn't necessarily live lead
you to a varied well-lived adventurous
life. And um yeah, I'm thinking much
more about what do I sort of want to
look back? What what are the memory
dividends that I want to give myself in
future? And maybe that means letting go
of some modes of validation and and
positive reinforcement that I know work
and rolling the dice on some. I'm like,
huh, I'll see if this I'll see how this
makes me feel. Maybe this would just be
different or interesting. Maybe this
will contribute to um
longevity, consistency, like uh stick
with itness uh over time because I'm not
going to just like continue to grind
away and grind away and grind away. But
I've just done I've done business and
like hard lots of time in front of a a
laptop or walking and talking on the
phone coming up with ideas or writing or
doing whatever. I've done that for a
long time. I'm like I think maybe trying
to remove the blinkers a little bit is a
a bit of a good idea. the equivalent of
an acoustic track, I guess, on an album.
>> Track eight in particular.
>> Track eight. Yeah. Yeah. Do you um in
the back of your head, do you think at
all of like well like if the obsession
is still like chirping at you like
>> do you still think like okay well yeah
like obviously like I would keep doing
the thing but also knowing that if I'm
going to keep doing the thing
>> like sticking with the main format and
repeating what works is really important
but there also has to be room for that
20% experimentation knowing that 18% of
those experiment experiments will flop,
but those 2% might be a new format that
I can now use and build. Like,
>> do you find the obsession kind of
sneaking in that way or is it purely
like
>> I just want to do this for me cuz I
think it's like a cool thing.
>> Yeah, that's it's a really great
question. Um,
I guess this is the same as, you know,
the second album, third album syndrome
that bands have where they go, we got
famous for doing that thing.
>> Yeah.
We just do it again. We just do it
again, right? We could just run it back.
Like people want more of they love that
last one. They just want more of the
same, right?
>> Um
yeah, the opportunity to experiment. One
of the slight difficulties that you have
with this is that there's no such thing
as practicing in private.
Yeah. Every single We didn't go through
this. We didn't dry run this in a
rehearsal space yesterday. Oh, when you
say that, I'm going to make a dick joke,
and when you do that, you know, we'll do
silly bus time. Like, um
>> it's stuck.
>> Yeah, it is. It's it's in um
you don't get to do that. So, everybody
gets to watch you fail in public.
>> Um you sort of learn out loud over and
over again. And that's great because you
get to track the journey and it's like,
oh, how interesting is this? You know,
it would be like if every demo it, in
fact, no, it would be like if every
practice session on the drums was
published on the internet.
>> Oh my god.
>> Right. Because there's no such thing as
practicing. There's no such thing as
>> like you can perform in private.
>> There's you can't do that here. And you
can't even practice in private. Yeah, I
>> mean, I could do a a pod with someone
that was just a friend that I wouldn't
ever publish, but the stakes aren't
there, which means that no one's going
to take it as seriously as you need to
because you don't have the scrutiny and
the fear of the audience.
>> Yeah.
>> So, yeah, it's just it's it's it's an
interesting one, man. It's a a very
unique um position to be in and uh
experimentation new studio which is just
right now being built a couple of miles
away from here. That'll be exciting.
>> Awesome. Um, trying to do stuff like the
McConna thing, running that back. Uh,
yeah, just okay. What what what what's
new? What's different? Um, trying to
integrate music into the next live show,
like the Australia, Canada, Australia,
New Zealand one next year. That'll be
interesting. Okay. What what are some
areas where that 20% exists where I
might be able to find the two? And um,
yeah, it'll be it'll be exciting. But
that being said, when I see the degrees
of freedom and the amount of
experimentation that somebody like an
Ollie or a Noah or whatever is is able
to play with or you guys like [ __ ] like
it feels
I want to embrace more of that. I think
it's very admirable. I think you you
guys are very fortunate that you have so
much artistic freedom. I think that's
something that you shouldn't take
lightly because there are much more
constricted
uh modes of putting your ideas and your
thoughts and your emotions out there and
uh you guys have one of the ones that's
the freest
>> um like as is shown by the fact that you
can release a [ __ ] acoustic track. Uh
and and and it not just release it,
release it and it be received like
unbelievably well. Um,
yeah, trying to
trying to embrace that that opportunity
to be all right, we can be a bit more
experimental. What are you like what
what do you wish
when you sort of think about
um the next few years for the band? What
what would you love to experiment a
little bit more with? Like have you got
ideas for how you want the live show to
look, ideas for how you want new sounds
to come through? Like what are you
working toward?
Yeah. Um
all of it. I mean from from the you know
now with with this sonic change we have
uh still rediscovering
what the next chapter iteration is going
to be. This is just the beginning. You
know what we getting to now get to see
what what works and what may not work
and just with the music alone. But then
going to the live shows and you know
we've done practical stage setups with
we had a a tour where there was a a
wrestling ring and it was rage on the
stage and then we went and did the thing
where it was just video content and as
crazy as video content we could to
incorporate with the songs whether it
was lyrics or just these crazy scenes
that we're standing in front of. And now
how do we incorporate the two to have
this massive look and how do we how do
we keep making the the live show better?
How do we uh transition from this song
to the next song and and make this
memorable moment and and uh yeah, it's
just
like you said, I think we're very lucky
to be in this position as as challenging
as it is. Also lucky to have all this
open ground. It's a little daunting and
and scary to look at the big picture of
it and go, "Okay, what do we do first?
Where do we go from here? What what is
the best move?" move cuz like you were
saying it's like you're trying things
and you're trying them in front of a
million people. You know there, you
know, failure is going to feel bad, but
if you crush it, it's going to feel so
rewarding. But we if you look at all
these different things, you know, in in
categories, it's uh it's exciting to to
look and see, you know, I'm I'm ready to
get back in the studio and start
writing. I'm ready to get with the guys
in this off time and start playing out
the live show. which songs are going to
be in or what's going to be the encore,
what's going to be the first song, what
what what's going to be to the to the
merchandise to the the stock, you know,
everything. It's um there's big open
road and it's it's exciting to see
it's just exciting to think about what's
going to come from our creative hive
mind here.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I think like I'm thinking
about the obsession piece and I think
like for myself
probably for a lot of artists across
music or whatever
I feel like obsession comes from
scarcity of like I have to be obsessed
about this because
I this could end at any time. We could
put out again this is I don't think this
is true but like I think the insecurity
on our part is
>> with everything being an experiment or
fully creative
>> it's we don't have that format we can
keep coming back to because then people
go like
>> let me put it this way if you put out
the the podcast format you've got the
three cameras you go back and forth you
can bring in a new guest ask good
questions people aren't going to be like
I'm so sick of you sitting in a room
asking people good questions and hearing
thoughtful responses, you don't hear
that as much, at least is my assumption,
right? But if we
>> I prefer the old question.
>> Yeah. Exactly. Exactly. But if we Yeah.
If we keep trying to recreate the same
song, people are like,
>> I just like the original song. Stop
trying to do the same thing. I want to
hear something new. And so we're
constantly in this state of like, okay,
let's try to balance these people who
like our old music.
They might say that they want the same
[ __ ] but they don't want the same [ __ ]
But then if we give them the new [ __ ]
they're like, I don't like it because
it's new. And so it's like
it feels like your whole career is uh
balanced on like we release one bad song
and everyone rejects us and hates us.
It's not true, but that's the insecurity
and and that's like the scarcity of that
this whole thing could end like that at
any time. And so I'm going to obsess to
try to build as strong of a foundation
as possible so that if an experiment
goes wrong,
>> meaning a song is not received well or a
tour doesn't sell the way you want it to
that we're still okay. Like we're we got
the next thing coming up and we got the
next song and you know
>> so it's a bit
>> while yes I agree like the creativity of
it is great. As a as a fellow YouTuber I
know what it's like to be like this
format works. We're just going to put
swap this word in the title. Boom. We
got a video. We're good to go.
Thumbnail. We know exactly what it's
going to be. But yeah, in the world of
like creating a song, it's like what do
we think is cool?
>> I would really struggle, I think, with
the pressure of getting it right.
>> Yeah.
>> Because Yeah, you're right. I I put an
episode out. It, you know, some people
liked it, but not everybody liked it.
>> Sure.
>> Doesn't matter. It's one of a thousand.
>> Exactly.
>> Literally one of a thousand.
>> You got many more coming that week.
People already
>> You don't like it on a Thursday? Wait
two days. Yeah, there's another one on
Saturday. Wait two more days, there's
another one on Monday.
>> Yep.
>> Um
>> the
[ __ ] sphincta tensing
concern of album release morning.
>> Yeah.
>> What are people going to say? What are
the reviews going to be like? What's
Reddit going to say about it? What's,
you know,
>> like [ __ ] are people going to
download it? People going to stream it?
Are they going to d Like that's a and
you've spent all of this time and you've
poured bits of yourself into it and
you've second guessed it and
yeah, that would be that must be a
that's a real a real real challenge. I
think I'd very much struggle with that.
>> It is. I I think we had
we had one experience this year I
mentioned that I think kind of put that
in perspective. So, you know, we've
we've had this whole situation of like,
okay, we're coming out as a band with a
new lineup and
releasing
our first song as like the new lineup
the day before our manager dies in a
plane crash. And it's like perspective
just dawns on you so fast of I mean
we've been working right like I said for
14 15 months on this this one moment of
like we can't [ __ ] this part up. This is
our coming out party of new song, new
lineup. And for all of that buildup to
then have like the tragic event happen
the day before, it was a perspective
shift of like, dude, I don't I don't
care. like we yes we put this out but
like
we
lost one of our guys like to put it out
without him like just felt
wrong in itself. Um, so I think like I
don't know I it it's a helpful reshift
of man
we are just so
self-centered I think as as people and
just like thinking about like what are
people going to think about this? What
are people going to think about this?
What are people people going to think
about this? But like in that moment it's
just like oh dude none of this none of
this actually matters. I enjoy doing it.
I want people to connect with it. That
is still my goal. I still do have the,
you know, with with the following
singles, like I still had that thought,
but it's like, oh, but
in the grand scheme of things, like this
is
this is a two and a half minute song.
>> And if people don't like it, okay, and
if people like it, that's super cool.
But yeah, kind of like what what you
were talking about earlier, man. like
I'm not
my I'm not going to miss my life because
of this one song because something just
tragic happened in my life. I'm going to
make sure that like I'm with my people
like seeing how you guys are doing,
seeing how everyone affected is doing.
>> Um yeah, perspective can dawn on you
real in a in a single moment pretty
quickly.
>> Yeah.
Yeah, man. That was uh very very tough
and conflicting time and emotions you're
building up for this like
excitement. Here we go. Here we go.
We're about to pull the trigger. Here we
go. Countdown begins. You know, two
weeks away, a week away. We're getting
the video back a couple days before and
lining up the artwork, getting the
single, all this stuff, doing the the
press the the week of to have it all
dropped the, you know, days following
and and then waking up 24 hours before
the song comes out. I don't think it was
24 hours. I think it was that that night
it was coming out I believe.
>> Yeah, technically at midnight. Yeah.
>> So, you know, waking up to the worst
man. Waking up to the worst [ __ ]
phone call and and then it's
all of that all of that's gone. All that
that the excitement, all the the
pressure, all the the unanswered, the
unknown is it it doesn't matter anymore.
It doesn't matter. And uh yeah, it's
been a really really eye opening, really
uh difficult release just with all of
that happening on top of the change, the
lineup change, the the uncertainty, the
unknowns, and then um having that guy
that you just call and text anytime if
you know, oh man, I'm sorry. just
he having that rock that you're like,
"Oh man, I'm going to call him if you
know we're freaking out about this
release or the you know what are the
comments going to be? Oh, I got Dave I
can just hit up and he'll ease my mind
over it and you kind of realize uh
what's what's most important in life all
this it doesn't matter. Take a shot on
something and it it it flops.
It's not the end of the world, you know.
it there's there's going to be more
opportunity to come, you know, and
yeah, it's been a crazy time. It's been
a crazy time in the Hyperville camp.
>> Yep. Yeah. I mean, it's weird cuz I feel
like we were talking about it earlier
almost in the opposite sense of like,
well, I want to like I want to live life
and like
doing exciting things is like that is
living life. But then it does always
kind of come back to like Yeah, but who
was with you?
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Like who are the relationships? Like it
I my perspective is I I don't know that
unless they're bad relationships, it's
it's worth losing relationships over.
You know, I don't know what Keith Urban
thinks. Um you know, maybe that's that
that was a even trade for him and God, I
don't [ __ ] know what his what his uh
situation was. I can't even begin to
comment on it. But like
>> yeah, I think what what's
what's the sacrifice? what's the cost?
And like I think it's fair to ask like
is it worth it or not? Um a lot of the
times I think that answer can be yes,
but I think starts to get dicey when
it's relationships. Like if that if
that's the cost of losing good
relationships, like I don't know.
Yeah,
dude. It is a
It sounds like it's been a
series of being kicked in the dick
months so far this year. I'm sorry that
you guys have had to go through that.
I'm really sorry.
>> We appreciate it, man. Yeah, it's been
um it's been tough. It's honestly, you
know, in a point where you're supposed
to be like, "All right, this is the most
exciting thing that's going to happen in
the next couple months getting to see
what people say and have new music and
material and then, you know, that
happens and we each have personal things
going on at the same time." And it's
been tough, but um I think uh you find
strength through the struggle. And I
think our relationship within each
other, within within the band has only
gotten stronger. I think um
relationships just outside our inner
circle have gotten stronger. Um
yeah, I've I've always been um someone
that's tried to keep that mentality of
like positive mental attitude and
strength through struggle. You know, you
go through something, okay, what am I
going to learn right now from this to
carry and and learn a lesson from or or
whatever whatever it may be. But, um,
yeah, it's been tough, but I've learned
a lot. And I think we've all learned a
lot. And I think, uh, it it, you know,
that's all you can really do is is
grow from it and and, uh, learn life
lessons the hard way and and implement
them down the road and be try to be a
better person or a better friend or a
better, you know, family member,
whatever it may be, better bandmate.
And, uh, yeah. Yeah. That's it. You
know, try not try not to dwell on it and
just take the lessons as like um
well, I mean, you're going to have one
hell of an amount of uh deep emotional
wealth to tap into when it comes to
writing the next record. And you know,
what better of a tribute to somebody
that was a huge part of the band than to
just keep doing the thing that they
wanted you to crush at, you know? I
think you see this with architects.
>> Oh, absolutely. That that was Oh, man.
Tragic.
tragic. And then hearing the record, I
I've been a fan of them for a while. So
like hearing the records
leading up to um his passing and then
going back and and really understanding
the lyrics
>> in context. Oh man,
>> they won't play that tribute song live
anymore.
>> They refuse to.
>> Uh I think that's track 8 as well on
their album, interestingly enough. M
>> and uh they'll play
on this most recent tour, they play the
sort of like interlude and then they
play an intro.
They play like a bridge and an intro
thing and then just as the lyrics are
about to start, they just kill it.
>> And they just go into the next track.
>> Yeah.
>> Um and yeah, they were like, it's just
too [ __ ] heavy to play live. Yeah.
>> Um,
>> but yeah, man. I'm sure that he's
feeling real proud of what you guys have
done. I really think he will be.
>> Thanks, man.
>> I appreciate that, man.
>> Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah. It's uh man
just grateful grateful to like
have have other people that like we can
be
open about it with, you know, like not
not everyone has that
>> [ __ ] dude. Imagine if you were a solo
artist.
>> 100%.
>> Oh, yeah. You're just some bloke on a
bus.
>> Yeah.
>> With a new manager.
>> Yeah.
>> With with the same Maybe the lighting
guy. Maybe you've got like maybe maybe
like your [ __ ] Yeah. your LD or like
your TM or something is like kind of
cool.
>> Yeah.
>> And you have a bit of a chat with them,
>> but no one else really knows what you're
going through or the pressure of the
performance or anything else. So, yeah,
when you say like the relationships and
the camaraderie that you have in the
band, um, yeah, sure. Would it be great
if you didn't have to split the
measly tiny amount of money that the
record labels drip feed to you? The
[ __ ] end of the human centipede. Um
uh would it be nice if it didn't have to
go like four other ways on top of your
way? Maybe. But then how much harder
would it be? Like it would be more than
five times harder.
>> Oh yeah.
>> You know.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh so band mates are expensive, but when
you look at them in terms of like
motivation fuel, they're probably pretty
cheap.
>> Yeah. I think
>> I I think like
we all are trying to impress each other
in a certain way which like grows all of
what we do cuz I think a lot of the guys
in the band are very impressive
individuals and impressive people. So
it's like okay well if I'm going to
>> if I'm going to stay in this I got to
really show up
>> game up.
>> So that's one that's one thing that I've
noticed at least since spending a bit of
time around bands. Um, there is this odd
balance between the need to keep morale
high, especially on tour,
and the understanding that if you
suppress your emotions for too long,
that it's going to [ __ ] you up.
>> Yep.
>> Because if you're moping, like I know
for a fact that there are
ancillary, maybe not quite central. In
fact, no, I know I know for a fact too.
We all know uh that there are
um people that are part of band
constructs
who are more talented than they need to
be
but a sufficiently difficult hang
that they actually can't survive
in the world of being on the road with
the other people that are there. It's
like loved the video girl. thought she
was brilliant. [ __ ] me. She did my head
in.
>> She can't stay.
>> Well, we're not gonna get someone better
at video. I would happily have someone
half as good at video who is like
[ __ ] 90% less annoying.
>> Yeah.
>> Um or whatever it might be, right? It's
just clash of personalities, class of
culture, whatever. And one of the things
I think that's in the back of the mind
of lots of artists that are spending
time on the road is must keep morale
high. If I'm struggling and I steam into
the [ __ ] back lounge at at 11:00 a.m.
and go, "Today sucks. Everything's hard.
I'm tired. My back hurts." And you know,
you just unload all of this. Well, now
everybody else is feeling that way.
>> Mhm.
>> And you don't want to be the guy that
brings the vibe down.
>> Yeah.
>> But also, if you're in this permanent
like constant state of denial,
at what point are you allowed to
actually have I'm struggling, man. I I
miss whoever it is. I I miss this person
or I I've been thinking about this or me
and the misses are like we had a tough
conversation last night. Uh you don't
have any room for that. So you've got
this weird I got to perform on stage and
then I also kind of have to [ __ ]
perform to my bandmates
>> to an am and I got to sort of tolerate
the temper the [ __ ] dose, right? We
got to like dilute down triage this
[ __ ] sadness. the realness or maybe
go can like I can I can talk to the
playback tech like he's good like I'm
all right to talk to him about how sad I
am or whatever but like I can't unload
it on the band because I want to make
sure that like Eric got a big night
tonight his family's all coming he's
going to be a bit more nervous than like
whatever the [ __ ] like it permeates
everything.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. That's something we've we've had.
I think every band's had like whether
it's crew or band member or something
that's that's just going through
something and and uh doesn't know the
best time to dump. And uh
>> over the years uh the crew that we've
we've had that returned for multiple
years uh
>> we have strong relationships with them.
The guys in the within the band and the
the crew that are on the bus with us. um
been doing it for long enough. I feel
like we have our own little uh I don't
want to say clicks, but you know, uh
Gabe and Steve have a lot of things in
common. Dylan and our other guitarist
and I have a lot of things in common.
John and I have in common things. So,
there's different types like days that
where, you know, a day off or something,
us two are going to go hang. and and uh
if I'm having one of those days I really
need to talk sometimes like if I if I
bring it up it's I just got to I got to
vent about something like are you
emotionally available right now for me
to like dump on the a dump on you real
quick?
>> Oh yeah yeah yeah sure. But
>> I think we've been doing this so long
that
I could just
>> I don't know. I feel like um I feel like
I was going through it on this last
Europe tour pretty heavy and I didn't
say [ __ ] and because I know everyone's
going through it with with Dave and
everything else going on around the camp
and I just, you know, kind of bit my
tongue and kind of stayed shut in. And
I'm usually one of the guys that's like,
I'm going to go check out this band.
We're on this fest today. I'm going to
hop from this stage to this stage. Go
have some beers with them and do this.
And I just didn't do any of it. And I uh
I'm grateful to have these guys be so in
tune with each other that they see
something go on. They they they know.
They know. And before I even know
sometimes that I'm I'm falling off the
wagon emotionally or doing they step in
like, "Hey, let's dude. Come have a beer
with me. We're going to the bar tonight.
Like come on. Come out." And
and it just gets brought up in
conversation. and I talk it out and it's
like, damn, I really [ __ ] needed
that. I really needed that
>> being in tune much. But again, the
[ __ ] solo artist thing, dude. And I
mean, this is another another challenge
like something else that people don't
realize with their favorite band. As
soon as you move from
midlevel
to just beyond where you guys are, as
opposed to being on the bus, you'll
probably be able to get hotels every
night.
>> Yeah.
>> And wouldn't that be wonderful? Ah, so
much better sleep. Oh, I'm on my own.
Yeah,
>> I'm in a room on I'm on my own. I'm in a
room on my own.
>> Yeah.
>> And that again, velvet handcuff. Do you
know how few [ __ ] bad You remember
being in the [ __ ] transit thing,
sleeping on the roof, whatever the [ __ ]
And then
>> Walmart parking lots, man.
>> Yeah. And you're like, "Okay, now we've
got a bus. Wouldn't it be great for
Wouldn't it be great if we had hotels?"
And it um for every level there's a
devil
>> is a way to look at it.
>> I like that.
>> Yeah. I mean, yeah. Do you is Taylor
Swift getting a ton of sympathy? You
know, not really. No.
>> Um, but yeah, like someone who's on her
own on on her private jet, but also
alone, you know,
>> very lonely. Yeah. Would it be better? I
mean, I my tour
>> we get to fly me and the guys, we can
pick a row. Like, hey, we get to pick
our seats. Like, that's kind of nice.
Like, you know, you've got to board
together. You're in the airport. Maybe
you get yourself some [ __ ] like tacos
or something. Yeah. And there is this
weird
isolation that comes with not that comes
with success because that sounds like
it's like the ethos of being successful
>> or something. There is a type of
isolation that is afforded by luxury
like structurally afforded well you know
you don't need to get the bus you can
get an Uber or you don't need to get the
Uber you can get a driver. So you don't
even you it's the same guy and he knows
that you don't want to talk
>> or whatever.
>> Yeah.
>> Like you don't need to be in the van,
you can be in the bus. You don't need to
be in the bus, you can be in the hotel.
You don't need to be in the hotel. You
can be each in your own bus and then on
your you know and you become
increasingly isolated.
>> Yeah. Well, I mean this can even happen
to people at home too, right? It's like,
oh, I just want a cool house with like
I'm sick of going to the gym. I want a
gym in my house. That'd be cool. Okay,
cool. until you get a gym in your house
and then you're like, I'm sick of always
having to like go out for meals. I'm
just going to door dash everything and
oh, I'm sick of going out to the pool. I
just want a pool in my own house. And
before you know it, it's like you just
build this is not from experience, by
the way, but but like, you know, for
people who are successful is like, cool,
now I have this place where I don't have
to go anywhere. And that actually kind
of sucks.
>> Yeah. I'm sick I'm sick of having to I'm
sick of getting complained at by my wife
when I want to play video games. I just
want a video game room. Yeah.
>> You have video game room and you spend 2
hours less per day with your wife.
>> Yeah%.
>> Yeah. And yeah, it's I'm grateful for
the complexities of living with a bunch
of smelly men and we have a system for
this. So, yes, there's navigating like
our own emotional internal struggle with
each other. And yeah, those I think are
done typically through like one-on-
ones. you're like, "Oh, let's go grab
lunch or whatever." And, "Hey, man, my
whole life [ __ ] sucks." And then you
talk about that, right? But then how do
we all work together and not build
resentment together?
>> Um, a lot of testosterone. You know,
we're artists, so it's maybe a lot on
the lower side, but um,
>> we've built a system called Sunday
Smackdowns. So every Sunday on the road,
we will just kind of group together and
it's kind of like, hey, this is the time
like
how how's everything gone this past
week? Are we good? Is there anything?
>> Yeah. And I mean it it can either be
personal of like, hey, that thing you
said the other day actually like really
pissed me off. Like,
>> can we kind of talk about that a little
bit? Or
>> hey dude, I think like
what you're saying during this part of
the set is not landing like
>> or Gabe, your timing on this song is
actually not great or
>> your wardrobe is like
>> pretty lame actually, right? like kind
of the just an opportunity for us to
come together and it's like creating the
umbrella of
we are open for criticism and we are
open or constructive feedback whatever
you want to say.
>> Fearless feedback.
>> Fearless feedback. Yeah. and also able
to give it and it kind of it
disintegrates this awkward thing that I
think a lot of us experience in
relationships
uh where
let's say your girlfriend thinks like
you know hey everything's all good uh
then you kind of have to have this
awkward moment you're like hey I want to
bring something up and now it's like oh
she wasn't expecting you to bring
something up and now it's kind of like
well hey I was just kind of like wanting
to have a nice little Sunday afternoon
and Now you're coming to me with this
thing that I did yesterday. I don't
really feel like talking about it, but
it's important to you, so we'll talk
about it. But I'm kind of on ed like now
I'm on edge. But
>> I think honestly just literally having,
hey, this is a thing that we do. And
hey, if we sit down, we're like, all
good. Yes. Okay, cool. Let's see you
later. But it just creates an
environment to be able to like open up
about it and like not have that like
butting of heads
>> in a non-judgmental way. It's really
smart. Yeah, especially walking off
stage if something
>> frustrated you or you bumped into like
we don't do like much blocking, but it's
like ah dude, I was I was going to step
up on the riser with the the spotlight
and at that point or like you know
whatever whatever it may be. It's like
don't have to walk off stage and it's
still burning in my brain and it's the
other guy doesn't even know he did it
and now I have to bring this up and well
now you just look back on that show that
like it sucked and then it's going to
roll into your next show and all that.
So to have that where it's like, yeah,
like a week ago I've been thinking about
it. Honestly, it didn't even really
bother me that much. I'm just going to
say right now, but I I've cooled off
over it, too. Like it's But then you're
not ruining someone's show the next
time. Then you're when you go to
perform, you just you're thinking about
that and you're not thinking about being
in the moment of performing. And yeah, I
think it's very helpful we started doing
that. Dale Kanigi wrote a lesserk known
second book that's called uh how to stop
worrying and start living. And in it, he
advocates for something called worry
time. Uh, and that's basically what you
guys have got, which is um, if your
brain knows when it's going to be able
to ruminate about something, it's able
to release at least a little bit of the
need to ruminate right now. As opposed
to you like getting just a tiny bit of
sand flicked at you every second,
>> you just pick this big rock up at the
end of the week.
>> And um,
>> I I I think that's really smart. There's
this [ __ ] wonderful idea from Neil
Strauss. He says, "Unspoken expectations
are premeditated resentments."
>> Whoa.
>> Wow.
>> [ __ ]
>> Yeah. It's a [ __ ] It's a real like
Oh, that's so true.
>> That's so true. I didn't tell you that I
wanted you to do this thing and then you
didn't do it and I got mad at you.
>> Mhm.
>> Or I didn't tell you that this thing
pissed me off and I wanted you to stop
and then you kept doing it and I got mad
at you.
>> Um, unspoken expectations or
premeditated resentments. And what
you're doing is you're allowing
yourselves to have a free non-judgmental
forum where people are able to bring up
any of the uh
spoken expectations, right? And they're
able to get away from those
metastasizing into resentments. Uh I
think it's it's it's [ __ ] it's
clever. I wonder how many uh bands would
have uh improved their longevity if
they'd implemented what's it Smackdown
Sundays.
>> Yeah, Smackdown. Sunday Smackdown. Yeah,
I think Wonder
>> We're licensing it right now.
>> The silly bus and
>> silly bus time. I got it tattooed on my
finger already, so you can't take it as
you baby.
>> That's exactly the same as registering
it with the [ __ ] trademark office.
Yeah.
>> Soon as you get it tattooed, I'm first
person to get it tattooed on. So, sorry
Nike. [ __ ] someone got it tattooed on
them in 1940 or some [ __ ] Uh, Gabe
and Eric, I appreciate the [ __ ] out of
both of you. I think the new record's
fantastic. Everyone should go and stream
it. Are you touring? When are you
turning next or have you not released
that?
>> Uh haven't released it at the moment.
We're playing Warp Tour in November, but
yeah. Uh really busy next year that
people will see. We're we're in Europe.
Yep.
>> Uh in October that's announced.
>> September, October.
>> Yeah, something like that.
>> And then Yeah. to to be determined.
>> Yeah. Lots of stuff coming though, so
keep an eye. We'll be we'll be touring.
We were just saying we're going to be
touring like, you know, like four or
five months a year. It's a lot more than
that this year, I think.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I would also just like
to sign off by saying uh Chris, your
calves are magnificent.
>> I'm so jealous. I did not know this
about you. It has not been addressed, at
least from what I've seen. And
>> damn.
>> Thanks, man. I wondered why you were
looking at that angle. I thought it was
something else. I would say
>> I would say sort of the forearm and
calf, the extremities. Oh, yeah. I do
well at the extremities. As you get more
toward the middle,
>> uh less conditioned. Did you get out
toward the ends? Very, very lean and
very well conditioned. Boys, you're
great. The new record [ __ ] slaps. I'm
so happy to see you. I thought you
crushed it when I saw you at Summer of
Loud as well. And uh I'm looking forward
to the tour. I'll be there.
>> Nice. Thanks for having us.
>> Congratulations for making it to the end
of a podcast episode without getting
distracted. What a wonderful
achievement. How about another
achievement? Uh this episode, which I
also love.
Come on.