Video summary
Andrew Huberman introduces the science of gratitude, emphasizing that effective practices differ significantly from common assumptions like simply listing things one is thankful for. He highlights a study published in *Cell Reports* showing that listening to the same story causes listeners' heart rates to synchronize almost identically across different locations and times, demonstrating how narratives coordinate physiology through neural circuits. Huberman distinguishes between stable personality traits and transient states, arguing that specific approaches can rewire the nervous system to induce calmness or responsiveness. He notes a historical pessimism in psychology regarding happiness, citing Sigmund Freud's view on our constitutional tendency toward unhappiness, but contrasts this with modern neuroscience which identifies parallel pathways for prosocial behaviors versus defensive fear responses. The goal is to activate "prosocial circuits" that bring us closer to others and sensory experiences while antagonizing the brain areas responsible for freezing or backing away from threats. Huberman reveals a surprising finding: receiving gratitude is far more potent than giving it in terms of activating these neural networks. A study using Near-Infrared Spectroscopy (NIRS) showed that listening to a letter of gratitude read aloud by a coworker activated the prefrontal cortex much more robustly than writing or sending one's own letters. Furthermore, research involving functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) demonstrated that watching stories about others receiving help—such as survivors of genocide recounting how they were aided during their ordeal—robustly activates gratitude circuitry in observers who feel a sense of affiliation and empathy with the storyteller. This mechanism relies on "theory of mind," the ability to understand another person's experience without directly undergoing it, which is processed by prefrontal networks that set context for our perceptions rather than just registering factual details. To build an effective gratitude practice, Huberman recommends grounding the exercise in a specific narrative or story about receiving genuine thanks, whether from oneself recalling past experiences of being thanked or observing someone else receive help. Instead of constantly searching for new stories on social media, he suggests selecting one compelling narrative and creating brief bullet-point notes that capture the struggle before the gratitude was received, the nature of the help provided, and the emotional impact afterward. Repeating this practice for just one to five minutes allows these neural circuits to develop familiarity through neuroplasticity, making it easier to instantly access a state of gratitude by simply reading those cues. This approach is distinct from traditional meditation practices that require long-term repetition before yielding results; gratitude protocols can trigger immediate physiological shifts because the brain's prosocial networks are highly plastic and responsive to reminders of receiving help. The biological benefits extend beyond neural activation, with studies published in *Brain, Behavior, and Immunity* showing that regular gratitude practice reduces amygdala activity—the brain region associated with threat detection—and lowers levels of inflammatory cytokines like TNF-alpha and IL-6 almost immediately after the session concludes. Huberman explains that neuromodulators play a crucial role here; while dopamine and epinephrine drive exteroceptive states focused on pursuit, serotonin promotes contentment with one's immediate experience. He discusses compounds like 5-HTP or tryptophan as potential ways to enhance serotonin but cautions against disrupting sleep architecture. Another legal compound mentioned is *Sceletium tortuosum* (Kanna), which potently increases serotonin and reduces anxiety by interacting with serotonergic pathways, potentially enhancing the efficacy of a gratitude practice when combined with behavioral techniques or future non-invasive brain stimulation devices. Huberman concludes that while counting blessings all the time has value, a scientifically grounded protocol involves grounding oneself in a specific story of receiving thanks three times per week for about one to five minutes each session. This method effectively shifts physiology by reducing fear-based circuitry and inflammation, offering resilience against trauma and improving social relationships across various contexts including family, work, and self-perception. He emphasizes that this practice is not "wishy-washy" but a potent form of self-intervention comparable in effect to high-intensity interval training or pharmacology. By leveraging the brain's natural storytelling circuits and the power of receiving gratitude—either directly from others or vicariously through narratives—we can harness these prosocial pathways to improve mental health, cardiovascular function, and overall well-being without needing extensive time commitments.
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Welcome to the Huberman Lab podcast,
where we discuss science and
science-based tools for everyday life.
I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor
of neurobiology and ophthalmology at
Stanford School of Medicine. Today we
are talking all about the science of
gratitude. In part we're doing this
because of the upcoming Thanksgiving
holiday, which of course is all about
giving thanks, gratitude, but also
because there's now a wealth of data
showing that having an effective
gratitude practice
can impact a huge number of health
variables, both mental health and
physical health in positive ways. Things
like cardiovascular health, things like
relationships, things like mental
health, things like physical and
cognitive performance. And these are not
small effects. These are very large
positive effects.
However, in researching this episode, I
was completely surprised as to what
constitutes an effective gratitude
practice.
I, I think like many of you, would have
thought that an effective gratitude
practice simply involves writing down a
few things or many things that we're
grateful for, or thinking about those,
or
really making an effort to somatize or
feel some of the elements of gratitude
while writing out that list or thinking
about that list. It turns out that an
effective gratitude practice doesn't
resemble that at all.
The neuroimaging data, the physiological
data looking at things like inflammatory
markers,
other studies purely looking at the
psychology and the long and short-term
effects of a an effective gratitude
practice point to a completely different
approach to using gratitude to
positively impact health metrics.
Fortunately, these are things that we
can all do very easily.
Uh some of them are actually uh fun. Uh
you can do them in a variety of
contexts. So today we're going to talk
about the science of effective gratitude
practices and we are going to describe
what those are and how you can
incorporate them into your life.
Before we dive into today's topic, I
just want to highlight a particularly
interesting set of findings from the
literature. This is a study that came
out in the journal Cell Reports, Cell
Press Journal, excellent journal. It's
very relevant to today's topic. In fact,
we're going to spend more time with this
paper a little bit later in the episode.
The study involved having subjects
listen to a story.
The subjects are all listening to the
same story, but those subjects are not
listening to it together. They're not
rounded up in a circle or all in a room.
They're in separate rooms or in entirely
separate locations
on the planet or they are actually
brought into the laboratory on separate
days.
What this study found is that different
subjects listening to the same story
undergo the same
variation in heart rate.
In other words, the gaps between their
heartbeats start to resemble one another
in response to the same story. Now, this
is very interesting. This is a
coordination of the physiology of the
body in response to a narrative, a story
in different people. And yet when they
line up the heart rates of these
different people who listen to the story
at completely different times, they find
that those heart rates map onto one
another almost identically. It's really
remarkable.
We're going to talk about what this
means in terms of coordination of neural
circuits in the brain and neural
circuits in the body and the organs such
as the heart, but also the lungs and
other organs of the body and what this
means for changing one's overall state.
A key theme that's going to come up
today again and again is the distinction
between traits, which are
pervasive aspects of who we are and how
we tend to react to different types of
circumstances, and states, which are
more transient. They tend to
uh you know, you can invoke a state in
somebody, a state of fear or a state of
relaxation. But
what this study really starts to point
to is that there are specific approaches
that any of us can take in order to
really rewire our nervous system such
that we are calmer if we want to be
calmer in certain circumstances, that we
are more responsive in certain
circumstances if that's our goal. So,
we'll return to how one would go about
doing that, but I think these results
are just beautiful in the sense that
they really show that our brain and our
body are highly coordinated because
people are listening to the story and
the heart rate is
changing in response to the story, but
that there is a
what we call a stereotopy, a sort of
stereotyped response to a given story.
In my mind, there was no reason why the
results had to be this way. You know,
two people listen to the same story, why
should their heart rates be almost
identical to the same story? Very, very
interesting and points to the power of
narrative and story in coordinating our
physiology. And this is something
powerful that we can leverage. Before we
begin, I'd like to emphasize that this
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Let's talk about gratitude. And to
begin, I'd like to emphasize the various
aspects of mental and physical health
that have been shown to benefit from a
regular gratitude practice.
There are studies showing that
performing a gratitude practice
twice or three times or even just once a
week can lead to a pervasive, a
long-lasting impact on subjective
well-being.
People report feeling happier, more
meaning, joy, even awe for their life
experience simply in response to adding
a gratitude practice. The key thing is
it has to be the right gratitude
practice, and we're going to talk about
what the right gratitude practice looks
like in just a little bit.
But there are additional benefits of a
gratitude practice.
There are studies showing that
a regular gratitude practice can provide
resilience to trauma in two ways. It can
provide a reframing and resilience to
prior traumatic experiences, so
buffering people against the negative uh
physiological effects and psychological
effects of earlier trauma, but also
inoculating them in many ways to any
traumas that might arrive later in life.
So, that's a powerful thing. And today
what we will talk about how that's
actually accomplished is actually
accomplished by shifting the way that
the fear and defense networks in the
brain actually function. And we'll get
right down into the details of that. The
other thing that a gratitude practice
does is it's been shown to benefit
social relationships,
but not just for the relationship in
which you express gratitude, right? So,
on the face of it you might think,
"Okay, if I express gratitude for
somebody over and over and over and over
and over then I'm going to feel better
about that person." And indeed that is
one effect of a gratitude practice,
that's called a prosocial or intersocial
gratitude practice, but
there are now several studies, recent
studies in good journals, pointing to
the fact that a regular gratitude
practice can also enhance one's social
relationships across the board, in the
workplace, at school, at with family, in
romantic relationships, and even one's
relationship to themselves, which is
really what the subjective feelings of
well-being are. So, it's clear to me
that an effective gratitude practice has
an outsized effect on many, many aspects
of mental and physical health. And for
those of you that are coming to this
conversation thinking, "Gratitude
practice, oh that's kind of wishy-washy
or woo, it's going to involve, you know,
putting your hand on your heart and
feeling into all the amazing things that
you happen to have even when things are
really terrible. That's not where we're
going at all.
And equally important is to understand
that the neurochemical
the anti-inflammatory
and the neural circuit mechanisms that
gratitude can invoke are equally on par
with some of the effects of pharmacology
of things like high-intensity interval
training and exercise and other things
that we think of as kind of more potent
forms of self-intervention. So, if you
are of the mindset that a gratitude
practice is kind of weak sauce, um,
buckle up because the data actually
point to the fact that a gratitude
practice is a very, very potent way in
which you can steer your mental and
physical health in positive directions
and that those effects are very
long-lasting. Before we dive into the
tools and mechanisms and scientific
studies around gratitude I'd like to
just set the framework for the
discussion. Gratitude is what we call a
prosocial behavior or a prosocial
mindset.
Now, you can be grateful for something
without it involving anybody else. So,
the social part isn't meant to convey
anything about interpersonal relations,
although it can and today we're going to
talk a lot about how interpersonal
relations can be incorporated into a
gratitude practice in really powerful
ways. But, prosocial behaviors are
basically any behavior or mode of
thinking that allow us to be more
effective in interactions with other
people including ourselves.
Now, prosocial is not just a name that
we give these different tools and
practices and mindsets. They're actually
neural circuits in the brain that are
specifically wired for prosocial
thoughts and behaviors. And these are
distinctly different from the circuits
in the brain that are involved in
defensive behaviors. So, without getting
into too much detail just yet, we will
later
we have circuits in the brain that are
what we call appetitive. They are
designed to bring us closer to things
and to bring us
into closer relation to the details of
that sensory experience. Now, that could
be a delicious food that you're eating.
It could be interacting with a loved
one. It could be interacting with a
friend or anyone that you happen to
like. It could even be in your relation
to yourself. These circuits that we're
calling prosocial circuits light up in
the brain if in neuroimaging, meaning
the neurons are firing more actively,
more electrically, um, robustly. Uh,
it's sort of like turning up the the
volume on these neural circuits in the
brain. And the neural circuits in the
brain that are associated with aversive
or defensive behaviors, things like
backing up, things like covering up the
vital organs of the body, things like a
quaking of the voice, all of the things
that are associated with defensive
behaviors are actually antagonized,
meaning they are reduced when the
prosocial circuits are more active. So,
the framework here that I'd like to set
is that we have this kind of seesaw of
neural circuits in the brain. One set
that are prosocial and are designed to
bring us closer to others, including
ourselves, closer to certain sensory
experiences, right? Because a lot of
prosocial behaviors can also be geared
towards things like pets or food or
anything that we find we want to be
closer to and want more of. Whereas the
defensive circuits
involve areas of the brain, yes, such as
areas that are involved in fear, but
also areas of the brain and body that
are literally associated with freezing
or with backing up. So, the way to think
about gratitude is it falls under this
category of prosocial behaviors which
are designed to bring us closer to
different types of things and to enhance
the level of detail that we extract from
those experiences. Now, the existence of
these two neural circuits that I've got
placed on this, uh, sort of,
metaphorical seesaw, if you will,
runs counter to a lot of the messaging
or the ideas that were put forth in the
last century about the psychology of
happiness and gratitude versus, uh, the
the psychology of depression and
struggle and concern about the future.
In fact, I'd like to read a quote from
the great and we should call we really
should call him the great Sigmund Freud
because um despite uh having uh certain
uh traits that people uh criticize him
of, uh Freud was indeed a genius about
many aspects of psychology. But, I just
want to uh read you Freud's stance on
happiness and this invokes elements of
gratitude as well. And then you can uh
gauge for yourself.
Quote, "Our possibilities of happiness
are already restricted by our
constitution. So, he's saying that we're
basically wired to not have happiness
easily. Unhappiness is much less
difficult to experience. We are
threatened with suffering from three
directions. One, from our own body,
which is doomed to decay and
dissolution, and which cannot even do
without pain and anxiety as warning
signals. Two, from the external world,
which may rage against us with
overwhelming and merciless forces of
destruction. And three, and finally,
from our relations with others, the
suffering of which from this last source
is perhaps more painful to us than any
other."
That's Sigmund Freud. And not all of his
writings were uh that pessimistic, if
you will.
What Freud is referring to there
are those defensive circuits. And of
course, he talked about psychological
defenses. And in full disclosure, I am a
huge fan of much of the psychological
literature
and psychoanalysis of Sigmund Freud and
his descendants, like Jung and others. I
think there are strong elements of truth
there. But, it gives you a sense of the
kind of mindset of psychology early in
the last century.
And then, of course, was the emergence
of the positive psychology movement,
which was really about invoking the
understanding and eventually the um
elucidation of the neural circuits for
things like happiness and awe and
affiliation and things that we are
calling prosocial circuits. So, the
field of psychology has a dark and
light, uh if you will, and the field of
neuroscience has a dark and light. You
have these what we call parallel
pathways in the brain, and we have
parallel pathways in the mind that set
us up for feeling good about things or
for feeling less good about things. I
think what's really salient from the
quote from Freud is that what he's
saying is our default is to be concerned
about the future, to be wrapped in our
defenses, and to some extent that's
true.
And the reason we can say that's true is
because
most of us need a gratitude practice. We
need to do certain things in order to
feel good and to feel happy. We actually
have to put work into it. It is quite
possible that there's an asymmetry in
the way that these prosocial versus
defensive circuits are set up such that
because defensive circuits are designed
to keep us safe, psychologically and
physically safe, that they have more
robustness, or they can actually drive
our behavior more easily. I'll give you
an analogy in the system that I'm most
familiar with as a neuroscientist, which
is the visual system. In the visual
system, we have parallel pathways.
We have neurons in our eye that respond
when things in our environment get
brighter. Literally, when the lights go
up, these neurons start firing like
crazy. And we have neurons in our eye
that respond when things get darker,
when things start dimming or go from
white to black.
The circuits for detecting darkening are
much more robust and much more numerous
than are the circuits for brightness.
And that is probably related, probably,
to the fact that dark objects or
experiencing looming, meaning incoming
objects and being able to perceive them,
is something that's vital to our
survival. Whereas being able to perceive
the brightening of things might be
important to survival in certain
contexts, you know, car lights coming at
you at night or something of that sort,
but not as often in a kind of a
evolutionary or ethological context as
the darkening of things. So, I think
Freud's quote and the field of
psychology now
point to the fact that
indeed, we have the capacity for
happiness and we have the capacity for
great worry and concern and depression
and unhappiness. And the neural circuit
literature also supports that.
The key thing for today's discussion is
that gratitude turns out to be one of
the most potent wedges by which we can
insert our thinking and as you also see,
our the physiology of our body
between these two circuits and give a
little more
levity, if you will, to the side of the
seesaw that's associated with positive
prosocial feelings. And if you keep
imagining this seesaw imagery,
what's really beautiful about gratitude
practices is that if they're performed
repeatedly and not even that often, but
repeatedly, then one can actually shift
their neural circuits such that the
seesaw that I'm calling prosocial versus
defensive behaviors can actually start
to tilt and the little hinge, if you
will, on the seesaw in the middle can be
adjusted in little tighter when the side
for
gratitude and for well-being and for
feelings of happiness is a little bit
higher. What this means is that
whether or not Freud was right or wrong,
whether or not uh the neuroscientists on
what in one camp or another right or
wrong, we now know with certainty that a
regular gratitude practice can shift the
prosocial circuits so that they dominate
our physiology and our mindset in ways
that can enhance many, many aspects of
our physical and mental health by
default. So, we don't always have to
constantly be in practice trying to be
happy. So, the succinct way of saying
all this is yes, indeed, we might be
wired or in such that we have a greater
propensity for unhappiness than
happiness, but gratitude practices,
provided they are the effective ones and
they are performed regularly,
can shift those circuits such that we
are happier on average even when we are
not performing those practices. Now, I'd
like to talk about some of the
neurochemistry and neural circuits
associated with gratitude and prosocial
behaviors.
Numerous times on this podcast I've
talked about so-called neuromodulators.
For those of you that might have
forgotten nerve, never heard of
modulators before, neuromodulators are
chemicals that are released in the brain
and body that change the activity of
other neural circuits. They make certain
brain areas more likely to be active and
other brain areas less likely to be
active.
These neuromodulators have names like
dopamine, serotonin, acetylcholine,
epinephrine, and so on.
The main neuromodulators associated with
gratitude and prosocial behaviors tends
to be serotonin. Serotonin is released
from a very small collection of neurons
in the brainstem called the raphe, r a p
h e, the raphe nucleus, and a few other
places in the brain. And the raphe
neurons send these little wires that we
call axons out to numerous places in the
brain,
and they tend to increase the activity
of particular neural circuits
that lend themselves
to more approach
to particular types of experiences. That
makes total sense if you think about it.
Have a chemical that under certain
circumstances released in the brain that
triggers the activity of neural circuits
that makes the organism, you, more
likely to stay in an interaction with
something or even lean in and seek a
more detailed interaction with that
person, place, or thing.
Beautiful work from a cognitive
neuropsychologist. His name is Antonio
Damasio.
He's a
world-class
neuroscientist, has been in the game a
very long time, has explored the
so-called neural correlates of
gratitude. And two main brain areas are
activated by these serotonergic systems,
and when people experience something
that makes them feel
gratitude, even if it's shallow
gratitude or deep and if it's all the
way to deep gratitude, they see
activation of these particular brain
circuits I'll mention in a moment, and
the amount of activation scales with how
intensely the person experienced the
feeling of gratitude. And those two
areas have particular names, you don't
need to know the names, but for those of
you that want to know, they are the
anterior cingulate cortex and the medial
prefrontal cortex. And of course, these
brain areas are connected to a number of
other networks in the brain. In fact,
that's how they get you or others to
lean into certain experien- experiences
because when these areas are active,
certain thought processes get invoked.
Those thought processes probably
resemble something like, "Hmm, I'd like
to experience more of this or hmm, this
feels really good." And then they
literally feed onto your muscles via the
neurons, making you
happy to stay stationary if you're
experiencing something you like or to
move closer to something that you find
attractive to you, literally.
So, these are powerful circuits. Of
these two brain areas, the one I'd like
to focus on the most is the medial
prefrontal cortex.
Many of you have probably heard of the
medial prefrontal cortex because this is
the area of the brain
that is involved in planning and in deep
thinking and evaluation of different
types of experiences, past, present, or
future.
It seems actually that pretty much every
study of a human anything seems to
involve the medial prefrontal cortex, or
at least one could get that impression
uh just by looking at scientific
abstracts and and papers these days.
So, I think it's worth us taking a step
back and asking, "What does the medial
prefrontal cortex really do, right?" How
could this one piece of neural real
estate that we all have right behind our
forehead, how could that be involved in
so many different things? And the reason
it can be involved in so many different
things, and the reason it's especially
important for gratitude, is that medial
prefrontal cortex sets context. Okay? It
sets context and it literally defines
the meaning of your experience. Now,
this is not at all an abstract
phenomenon. I'm going to give a very
physiological example of this.
And then we're going to translate it to
gratitude, but I really want everyone to
understand how is it that medial
prefrontal cortex sets the context of
everything in your life?
Well, it does it the following way. You
have a number of circuits deeper in your
brain that simply create some
sensations, or they allow you, I should
say, to perceive certain sensations.
Let's use the example of cold exposure,
something that we sometimes talk about
in this podcast for other reasons.
If you were to deliberately place
yourself into an ice bath,
it would be uncomfortable, even if
you're adapted to cold and so forth.
The discomfort is non-negotiable.
However,
if you are doing it because you want to,
or because you have knowledge that there
are particular health benefits,
the
medial prefrontal cortex can then
control areas of your deeper brain like
the hypothalamus to positively impact
the neurochemicals that are released
into your system. You'll still get a lot
of adrenaline by getting into the ice
bath, but the fact that you are doing
this deliberately,
and your knowledge that you are making
the choice, that it's you that's
deciding to put yourself through this
discomfort,
has been shown to
create a very different and positive
effect on things like dopamine, on
things like anti-inflammatory markers,
uh, in your immune system, etc.,
compared to if
someone pushes you into an ice bath or
if you are doing it because someone
insists that you do it and you really
really don't want to. So, there's a very
subtle distinction here. It's just a
It's just a distinction of motivation
and desire or lack of motivation and
being forced into something. And there
are a number of other effects of this
that have been uh described in the
episode with Robert Sapolsky uh that I
did earlier this last year, he talked
about a a study in animals which has
also been shown in humans if you take a
mouse from a sense and it runs on a
running wheel, which mice really like to
do,
there are many positive effects on
reducing blood pressure, improvements in
neurochemistry, etc. in that mouse.
However,
if there's a mouse in the cage right
next to it that's trapped in the running
wheel and it has to run every time the
other mouse runs because the wheels are
linked, well, then the second mouse
that's forced to do the exact same
running
experiences negative shifts in their
overall health metrics. Blood pressure
goes up, stress hormones go up, etc.
because it's not actually making the
choice.
Medial prefrontal cortex is the knob. It
is or the switch rather that can take
one experience and allow us to frame it
such that it creates positive health
effects. And the exact same experience
framed as something we don't want to do
or that we are forced to do can create
negative health effects.
Now, how exactly the neurons in medial
prefrontal cortex do that is rather
complicated and frankly not completely
understood. But it's somehow able to
adjust the activity of other neural
circuits that are purely reflexive, as
we say in neuroscience, like really dumb
neural circuits. They're just like
switches. And place a context onto it.
So,
gratitude is a mindset
that activates prefrontal cortex
and in doing so sets the context of your
experience
such that you can derive tremendous
health benefits, which leads us to the
question, what kind of gratitude
practice is going to accomplish this,
right? Because it is not simply the case
that I could take a knife, don't please
don't do this experiment, and cut my
hand and say, "Oh, you know, I'm do I'm
going to enjoy this. I'm doing this cuz
it this is good for me and it won't
hurt." Of course, it'll hurt just like
the ice bath is cold no matter what.
But, I can't lie to myself, right? If I
If I have some knowledge that cutting
myself is bad for me, that's very hard
to override. And so, the medial
prefrontal cortex has a tremendous
capacity to set context, and it does
that beautifully with respect to
gratitude, but you can't simply lie to
yourself. You can't simply say, "Oh,
well, every experience is a learning
experience." Or, um
you know, a terrible thing happens, oh
good, I'm just going to say good, and
that your body will react as if it's
good for you. That's a myth, and
frankly, it's a myth that's fairly
pervasive in the self-help and
self-actualization literature.
We have the opportunity to reframe and
set context on our experiences, but that
requires a very specific set of
practices. We can't simply lie to
ourselves or {quote} fake it until we
make it. Neural circuitry is very
powerful and very plastic. It can be
modified, and it's very
context-dependent, but it's not stupid.
And when you lie to yourself about
whether or not an experience is actually
good for you
or not,
your brain knows.
So, what does an effective gratitude
practice look like?
Well,
let's examine what an ineffective
what a poor gratitude practice looks
like, because therein lies some really
important information,
including the fact that I, and I think
millions of other people out there,
are doing it wrong.
Most gratitude practices that you see
online and that people talk about in
various talks and so forth,
involve something like writing down or
reciting or thinking about
five or 10 or three or 20 things that
you're especially grateful for. And then
really trying to feel into some of
those, really
trying to think deeply about the
emotions, the sensations, the
perceptions that are associated with
those particular people, places, and
things on your list.
Most studies
actually point to the fact that
that style of gratitude practice is not
particularly effective in shifting your
neural circuitry, your neurochemistry,
or your somatic circuitry, the the
circuits in your body cuz you literally
have organs and neural circuits that are
connected, the circuits of your brain
and body toward
enhanced activation of prefrontal
cortex, enhanced activation of these
prosocial neural networks that we were
talking about earlier.
Now, that may come as a surprise to many
of you and certainly came as a surprise
to me.
There is some evidence that if there's a
shift in so-called autonomic arousal
during these gratitude practices, these
ones that I'm calling ineffective, that
they can be made slightly more
effective. So, what do I mean by a shift
in autonomic arousal? Well, very
briefly, we have a aspect to our nervous
system, both within our brain and body
that we call the autonomic nervous
system. It's a little bit of a misnomer
because autonomic means automatic, and
in fact, we can take control of the
autonomic nervous system. It has one
branch, meaning one set of connections
and circuits that are associated with
making us more alert, the so-called
sympathetic
nervous system.
Or I should say sympathetic arm of the
autonomic nervous system, but that's
really a mouthful. It's really
associated with enhanced alertness
of any kind, for excitement or fear, and
it has nothing to do with sympathy. It's
just about enhanced alertness. And then
the other arm of the autonomic nervous
system is the so-called parasympathetic
arm of the autonomic nervous system, but
that's also a mouthful. So, let's just
say it's the calming aspect of the
autonomic nervous system. So, it's
associated with decreased heart rate,
decreased breathing rate, etc.
So, we have these two aspects to our
autonomic nervous system, and it has
been shown that if people are brought
into a state of heightened sympathetic
tone, meaning more alertness,
then the intensity of the emotions that
they experience in their gratitude
practice is enhanced, and the
effectiveness of that gratitude practice
can be enhanced.
This is seen nowadays, somewhat
commonly, as having people, for
instance,
cyclic hyperventilated breathing, as we
call it in my laboratory.
Breathing that's very intense of the
inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale very
deeply for 25 or 30 breaths, then people
will sit in a meditative stance, or
they'll focus on their
on their notepad and paper, and they'll
they'll write out the things that
they're grateful for, and then they'll
really try and feel into those things,
or they'll think about those things. And
it makes perfect sense as to why
enhancing autonomic arousal
toward more alertness would create more
robust feelings, or more robust impact
of these gratitude practices, because in
that state, you are more alert, and
therefore you are able to bring more
detail, more richness to the perception
and the understanding of what those
things on your list happen to be.
But,
and I should say that there are numerous
other approaches to this. At you know,
sort of self-help type stuff, and
self-actualization seminars, people will
do things like cold baths, or they'll do
chanting, or they'll have any number of
different experiences, all of which are
mainly geared towards increased
autonomic arousal. You know, there are
even practices out there using
pharmacology to create increased
autonomic arousal, and then drop into
gratitude.
Across the board, those increase the
potency of the gratitude practice, of
listing things out on paper or in one's
mind or or saying them out loud. But,
somewhat surprisingly, at least to me,
that form of just expressing thanks,
expressing gratitude,
is not the most effective way to shift
these prosocial circuits in positive
ways for one's physiology and anatomy
and psychology.
Turns out that the most potent form of
gratitude practice is not a gratitude
practice where you give gratitude
or express gratitude, but rather where
you receive gratitude, where you receive
thanks. And this to me was very
surprising. There are a number of
studies about this now. One in
particular that I think is interesting
is called prefrontal activation while
listening to a letter of gratitude read
aloud by a coworker face-to-face, a near
study, NIRS. I'll explain what all this
means. You now know what the prefrontal
activation part is. This is activation
of the prefrontal cortex. The NIRS NIRS
study, that's just a technical
term.
It's a It's a form of of imaging brain
activity. It's non-invasive, so it's a a
kind of a skull cap. It looks like a
looks like a hoodie with a bunch of
wires coming out of it basically, that
can measure neural activity without
having to remove any parts of the skull
or put a person into one of these
tube-like fMRI machines, which is very
invasive. It's also a wonderful tool
because it allows human subjects in the
laboratory to move around and to engage
with one another. So, in this particular
experiment, what they did is they had
coworkers write a letter of gratitude,
of thanks, to another coworker,
unbeknownst to the other coworker, and
then they sat down together, and then
they imaged brain activity as this
letter was being read and as the letter
was being heard, received. And it showed
very robust effects on these prefrontal
networks that pointed to the fact that
receiving gratitude is actually much
more potent in terms of the positive
shifts that it can create than giving
gratitude. So this raises a couple of
important points. First of all, if you
are somebody who is prone to write
letters of gratitude, ideally
I think it's it's requisite that these
be genuine letters of gratitude or
saying things that are genuine
expressions of gratitude. This could be
by text or in person or by phone.
You have within you a very potent form
of shifting somebody else's neurology.
Now, that's wonderful and I think there
are many people like that out there, but
for many people who are want to
experience the positive effects of
gratitude, you it's probably not the
most uh advantageous approach to just
sit around waiting hoping that someone's
going to deliver all these letters or
words of gratitude. How is it that you
can create that sense of receiving
gratitude for yourself and thereby
derive the effects of gratitude as
outlined in this particular study. And
there we go back to the important work
of the great Antonio Damasio who
explored these neural correlates of
gratitude to define the areas of the
brain that are associated with prosocial
behaviors like the prefrontal cortex.
And what's really interesting about the
work that Damasio and colleagues did is
first of all, they used functional
magnetic resonance imaging. So this is a
very high resolution approach to
exploring what areas of the brain are
active and they has very high what we
call temporal resolution meaning you can
see things in time at very fine scale.
So a lot of mechanistic detail can
emerge from these sorts of studies. What
they did was interesting. Rather than
have people
express gratitude, they had the subjects
go into the scanner, so their brains are
being imaged, and they watched
narratives, stories about other people
experiencing positive things in their
life. And And in this case, this was
these were powerful stories. These were
stories about survivors of genocide. So,
that's what they're they're watching.
The subjects were were subjects that
were not survivors of genocide. So, they
were watching these videotapes of people
that had survived genocide
and
had people help them along the way as
part of their story of survival, either
psychological and or obviously they they
survived long enough to make the video,
so were physical survival. So, within
these stories, there was a
there was a conveyance of a lot of
struggle. These people talked about the
horrible situations they were in, but
also
small but highly significant
features of their history that had led
to their own feelings of gratitude. So,
for instance, you know, it says a woman
at the This is literally from the
scientific paper.
You know, somebody had been sick for
weeks. So, the woman's describing how
she'd been sick sick for weeks, and then
another prisoner
who was a doctor finds a particular
medicine somehow. It doesn't describe
how. And literally saves her life. Or an
ally who was also in a stricken
circumstance
gave this person a pair of glasses when
their eyesight started to falter.
So, these sorts of stories. Now, just
hearing this in the context of nothing
but a scientific paper in discussion,
these probably don't aren't that
impactful. What's really important about
this study and is really important for
all of us to know is that these stories
of other people receiving things that
were powerful for them in their life
trajectory is embedded in story.
And the human brain especially is so
oriented towards story. We We have
neural circuits that like to link
together past, present, future, have
different characters, protagonists and
antagonists. From the time we're very
young until the time we're very old,
story is one of the major ways that we
organize information in the brain. There
there does seem to be storytelling and
and story listening circuits in the
brain. So, what's important is not um
simply that these people survived
genocide. That's obviously important uh
and and wonderful, but it's not just
that they were helped along the way.
It's that the description of their help
is embedded in a larger story. So, the
human subject is uh in this scientific
study is watching these powerful
stories. And
the neural circuits associated with
prosocial behaviors and with gratitude
become robustly active when they start
to feel some affiliation with the person
telling the story. They start to feel
some resonance. We might call that
empathy, but it doesn't necessarily have
to be empathy. Empathy is a somewhat
complicated uh thing to define because
it it involves
literally a setting aside of one's own
emotions and really focusing almost
entirely or experiencing almost entirely
the emotions of another. It could be
sympathy. It could be empathy. What we
do know is that it
that the stories themselves were able to
shift the physiology of the subjects in
the in this study and activate these
what we're calling gratitude circuitry
that involves the prefrontal cortex. So,
if you think about the earlier study
that receiving gratitude is the most
powerful way to activate these circuits
for gratitude,
the subjects in this study in many ways
are receiving a sense of gratitude
but through the narrative of one of
these other subjects, which I find
fascinating. You know, I would have
thought a great gratitude practice would
be sit down and list out all the things
you're grateful for. That just seems so
logical to me, but it turns out that
these neural circuits don't work that
way that to really activate these
circuits for gratitude and the serotonin
and that probably the oxytocin system as
well and that's prefrontal networks,
one has to powerfully associate
with the idea of receiving help. Okay,
the the subjects are
associating or experiencing empathy or
sympathy for somebody else who received
help. In the other study we described a
few minutes ago, the person hearing the
letter was receiving gratitude and that
would amplify the activity of these
circuits.
And that takes us to a larger theme of
what are these prosocial circuits? And
an important concept to emerge from this
is one that's most often associated with
the autism literature frankly, which is
this idea of theory of mind. So just
very briefly, theory of mind is the
ability to attribute or to understand
the experience of another
without actually experiencing the thing
that they're experiencing. Again, it
kind of sounds like empathy, but this
was actually a um
uh
term that's now been demonstrated in the
psychology and neuroscience that's been
linked to some uh very robust findings
associated with brain areas and so forth
that was looking at autistic kids and
non-autistic kids. Uh the person largely
responsible for developing theory of
mind is Simon Baron-Cohen. He I believe
he's either the brother or the cousin. I
I can't remember recall which to the
comedian Sacha Baron-Cohen. Simon
Baron-Cohen is a professor at Oxford
University or at least he was the last
time I checked. And the theory of mind
test can be done on adults or on
children and we can sort of do that
experiment right now if you like and you
can think about how you would behave if
you were a subject in uh a theory of
mind test. Theory of mind test involves
you or a child or some other adult
sitting down and watching a video of a
child going into a room or a person
going into a room, opening up a desk of
uh or dresser, a drawer for instance or
a desk drawer and placing something in
it like a pen or a toy and then leaving.
And then another person walking into the
room
and clearly looking for something in the
room
and one presumes it's the toy or the pen
depending on the context.
People who have strong theory of mind
make the obvious conclusion that the
person looking around for the pan or the
or the toy is confused or they um
they're perplexed. They don't know where
the toy is. They're looking for the toy.
Someone who is uh fairly far uh to one
side of the autism or Asperger's
spectrum
will simply focus on the location of the
object, on the location of the the pen
or the toy. And this is especially true
in children. They will say, "Well, it's
in the second drawer. It's in the second
drawer." And they'll say, "Well, how
does uh the person who comes into the
room feel?" And they'll say, "Well, it's
in the drawer." So, they tend to focus
on the specific factual elements of the
scenario rather than place their mind
into the mind of the other person,
so-called theory of mind. Now, that
doesn't mean that people with autism and
Asperger's don't have empathy. In some
cases, they can. It sort of depends on
where they are on the spectrum and so
forth. But, theory of mind has very
strong basis in these prefrontal cortex
neural circuits that we were talking
about because, as you now know, the
prefrontal cortex sets context on what
we see and experience. And the theory of
mind task that I just described uh very
briefly
is a
pure example of
context setting, right? It's not about
the fact just the factual elements about
the location of the objects. It's about
the context. Someone is looking for
something that someone else put some
place that makes it such that that
object is hidden. So, basically, theory
of mind is your ability to put yourself
into the mindset of another.
And
in order to get activation of these
gratitude circuits, one needs to put
themselves into the mindset of another
or to directly receive gratitude. So,
let's just take a moment and start to
think about how we are going to build
out the ultimate gratitude practice,
meaning the most effective gratitude
practice
for us to do
because of all the many positive effects
that an effective gratitude practice can
have if it's the proper one.
It's very clear that receiving gratitude
is powerful, but it's also very clear
that waiting around to receive that
gratitude is an impractical approach.
Now, there are methods that have been
developed by my colleague at Stanford,
Kelly McGonigal, and others that
actually have developed things for the
workplace, for school, for co-workers
and students to write out um
particular worksheets related to, you
know, what they're thankful for from
others and exchange them. And so, those
are very useful practices. I don't want
to take anything away from the important
work that Kelly and others have done.
But, in the absence of having other
people to do these practices with,
what we know for sure is that there has
to be a real experience of somebody
else's experience. And that the best way
to do that is story. So,
in thinking about how to build out an
effective gratitude practice,
it's very worthwhile, I believe, to
find someone's narrative that's powerful
for you. In many ways to think about
this is it's got to be a story that
inspires you because of the, for lack of
a better phrase, the beauty of the human
spirit or the ability of humans to help
other humans. And I find this remarkable
because what this really means is that
the circuits for gratitude are such that
we can exchange
gratitude. We can actually observe
someone else getting help, someone else
giving help, and that observation of our
species doing that for one another
allows us to experience the feeling of a
genuine chemical and neural circuit
activation lift, if you will.
Very, very different than simply writing
out the things that you're thankful for,
right? And so,
how would you do this? Well,
people digest story in a number of
different ways. People watch movies,
people uh listen to podcasts, people
read books. There are tremendous number
of stories out there.
It's clear that an effective gratitude
practice has to be repeated from time to
time. So, what I would not suggest is
that we build a protocol in which you're
constantly foraging for inspirational
stories over and over again. You know,
social media and the internet are
replete with those.
Uh that's not going to be a very potent
protocol or tool because the most potent
protocol or tool for gratitude is going
to be one that you repeat over and over
again.
Rather, the most effective protocol or
tool is going to be
either to think into, and you could
write this out if you like, but think
into when somebody was thankful for
something that you did, and really start
to think about how you felt in receiving
that gratitude, or
and or, I should say,
imagining or thinking about deeply the
emotional experience of somebody else
receiving help.
Now, what narrative you select is going
to be very dependent on you and your
taste. It's going to be very dependent
on what resonates with you. But again, I
want to emphasize that
the story that you select does not have
to have any semblance to your own life
experience. It's just about what happens
to move you. And so, the way that one
could do this, and actually I've started
this practice for myself on the basis of
the learnings I've had in the in the
last few weeks around preparing for this
episode, is to find a story that's
particularly meaningful for you, and
then to just take some short notes,
bullet point notes, uh about maybe list
out for instance on a just a small sheet
of paper, um or in your phone if if
that's your preference, uh just list out
for instance, you know, what the
struggle was,
what the help was, and
something about how that impacts you
emotionally. Okay? This is something
just for you. You don't have to share it
with anybody.
That kind of shorthand list of bullet
point notes serves as your shorthand for
getting into this mode that we're
calling gratitude. And actually closely
mimics a lot of what was done in these
various studies. Because even though the
studies I've talked about up until now
were really focused on
what we call acute imaging studies where
someone watched a story or received
gratitude while the experiment was done
and then that's it, one and done. There
are other studies looking at gratitude
in this context over many weeks, up to 6
weeks. And what
one observes is that there's so-called
neuroplasticity of these circuits.
Neuroplasticity is the brain and nervous
system's ability to change in response
to experience.
And that these neural circuits start
developing a familiarity with the
narrative. So that for instance, let's
say you sit down the first time you've
you've found a story that you find
particularly compelling, you've written
down um a few notes about what that
story is, just to remind you,
um and then you read those out and you
think into the richness of that
experience, that receiving of gratitude.
Or if you prefer, you're doing the
protocol where you're thinking about
when someone was deeply grateful or was
great genuinely grateful to you, that
you're thinking about that, the neural
circuits become activated
with each subsequent repeat of the
practice. Now, this could be done
literally for 1 minute or 2 minutes or 3
minutes. This is not an extensively long
practice. And that's another beauty of
of gratitude practices is that they have
these outsized positive effects on so
many aspects of our physiology, but
these are very short practices. They're
the kind of thing that you can do
walking to your car, the kind of thing
you can just sit down for a minute and
set a timer and and do. Because they are
really about changing your state of mind
and body. And if you have an experience
of receiving gratitude or a story that's
very potent for you, it becomes a sort
of shortcut into the gratitude network,
these prosocial networks, meaning the
activation of these circuits becomes
almost instantaneous. And that's very
different than a lot of other practices
out there. You know, I'm not aware of
any meditation practices, for instance,
that you can do only a few times
and then within,
you know, a week or so you just have to
do them for 1 minute, you immediately
drop into the kind of optimal state that
that meditation practice is designed to
create. There are some shorter
meditation practices that are very
potent and very effective like that, but
gratitude and the circuits associated
with it appear to be especially plastic,
meaning especially prone to
being able to be triggered, in the good
sense of the word triggered, just by
simply reminding yourself of this
particular narrative. Now, there's
another very clear and positive effect
of using this narrative or story-based
approach to a gratitude practice.
And that's what story does for our
physiology.
Earlier in the episode, I mentioned this
really incredible study in which
listening to a story
coordinated the heart rate of different
individuals.
And change literally changed the way
that their heart was beating. The
title of the study is "Conscious
Processing of Narrative Stimuli
Synchronizes Heart Rate Between
Individuals". The first author is Perez,
again published in Cell Reports, Cell
Press journal, excellent journal. And
it's a really elegant study. They looked
at instantaneous heart rate, they use
electrocardiogram to do that, which is
simply a way to look at heartbeats with
very fine precision. They also looked at
the breathing of subjects as they
listened to these stories.
Some of you may know that breathing and
heart rate are actually linked to one
another in a really interesting way. The
simple way to put it is that when you
inhale, your heart rate speeds up a
little bit, and when you exhale, your
heart rate slows down. And this is
because of the movement of the diaphragm
in
in your thoracic cavity, and the
physicians and medical types call this
respiratory sinus arrhythmia.
There's a mechanism there we could get
into but I I don't want to distract us
from the main theme here. So just
remember when you inhale, your heart
rate speeds up and when you exhale, your
heart rate slows down. They looked at
breathing, they looked at heart rate in
different individuals and
listening to a story
produced very consistent gaps between
the heart rates of the people who are
listening.
Different individuals in the study who
were not located in the same place when
they listened to the story,
listening to the story on different
times, different days entirely,
had very similar heartbeat patterns
listening to this story.
What this means for your gratitude
practice is that having a story that you
can return to
over and over again, even if it's not
the entire story, you're just using the
shorthand bullet point version of your
story,
will create a perceptible and real shift
in your heartbeat and in your breathing.
And actually that's been demonstrated
over and over now that an effective
gratitude practice is one that can
rapidly shift not just the activation of
these circuits in your brain for
prosocial behaviors, but also
activation of particular circuits in
your heart and in your lungs and the
other organs of your body such that you
can get into a reproducible state of
gratitude each time. So an important
component here is that there be some
element of story. Again, you don't have
to listen to or read or think about the
entire story start to finish in order to
extract these benefits and that it be
the same story over and over.
And as a consequence, that's going to
shift your physiology into presumably a
more relaxed state because typically
that's the one that's associated with
gratitude, although
activation of these gratitude circuits
has also been shown to create sense of
awe or sense of joy. There are a few
studies looking at uh um and kind of
parsing the difference between gratitude
and joy. Uh I was able to find a few
studies about that, but uh in general,
they tend to the neural circuits that
are activated tend to overlap quite a
lot with those uh that act that create a
sense of gratitude. So, we don't want to
split hairs unnecessarily there. The key
thing is that you want to use the same
story, even if it's your if it's your
own experience or somebody else's, and
keep coming back to it over and over
again. That makes it a very potent tool
that you can get a tremendous amount of
benefit from with even as short as 60
seconds of practice.
Earlier I talked about how you can't lie
to yourself and say, "You know, I'm so
grateful for this thing that I actually
hate." And in a moment I'm going to tell
you about some scientific data that
proves the statement I made is true. And
that you can't just lie to yourself and
derive the benefits of a gratitude
practice.
The data are also going to point to the
fact that if you are giving gratitude,
not just receiving it, but giving
gratitude, that too has to be genuine.
There's a really interesting study
published in Scientific Reports, which
is a Nature Research journal.
Uh the title of it is Neural Responses
to Intention and Benefit Appraisal are
Critical in Distinguishing Gratitude and
Joy. It's a somewhat complicated study,
so I'm just going to hit on some of the
high points, but basically what they did
is they use functional magnetic
resonance imaging.
So, they could look at brain circuitry
activation with very high precision. And
they had people receiving money
in this
in the context of this uh experiment,
and they had some knowledge as to
whether or not the money that they were
receiving was given to them
wholeheartedly or reluctantly.
And there were a number of different
variables in the study, including how
much money was given. So, in some cases
it was very little, in other cases it
was modest, in other cases it was a lot
more.
And they also varied the extent to which
the giver of the money, that they called
the benefactor, was doing it
wholeheartedly or seemed to be doing it
somewhat reluctantly. And they looked at
whether or not
the sense of gratitude scaled with the
amount of money received
and or
the intention of the benefactor, whether
or not the person giving the money was
doing it wholeheartedly or reluctantly.
And what's remarkable is that
while the amount of money given was a
strong component in whether or not
somebody felt that they had received
gratitude, which makes sense, you know,
the amount of money is is some some
metric of whether or not somebody feels
thanked.
The stronger variable, the bigger
impact, came from whether or not the
person giving the money
was giving it with a wholehearted
intention and not a reluctant intention.
And of course there was an interaction
where the best circumstance, of course,
is where the person received a lot of
money from somebody who wholeheartedly
wanted to give them a lot of money. And
they did every derivation of this, but
this is important. This tells us
many things that extend way beyond
gratitude practices, which is that
genuine thanks are what count. Okay, we
could probably presume that, but
receiving genuine thanks is also a
strong variable in determining whether
or not we experience real gratitude or
whether or not it's empty, regardless of
the size of a gift. So, this constrains
our gratitude practices somewhat, but I
think in an interesting and important
way.
You can't make this stuff up. You can't
tell yourself that an experience was
great or that, um, you know, I got a lot
of money and therefore it it justified
it, even though, you know, I think that
they give it to me reluctantly or my
boss hates me, but they gave me a raise.
Um, that stuff stings uh for all the
right reasons because there are circuits
in our brain and body that are oriented
towards these prosocial interactions.
And in some sense, what we are looking
for as a species, what these circuits
want, if you will, is to receive things
from people that are giving them
wholeheartedly. And that tells us that
if if we are the giver, that we better
be giving wholeheartedly or we are
undermining the sense of gratitude that
someone is going to receive from us. So,
we are gradually building up the
ultimate gratitude practice based on
the variety of scientific literature
that's out there. And I know that many
people are probably interested in
developing a gratitude practice that has
long-lasting, maybe even permanent
positive effects on their neural
circuitry.
So,
with that in mind, I want to turn our
attention to a really interesting study.
It's entitled Effects of Gratitude
Meditation on Neural Network Functional
Connectivity and Brain-Heart Coupling.
And to make a long story short and a lot
simpler than that title,
repeated
gratitude practice changes the way that
your brain circuits work. And it also
changes the way in which your heart and
your brain interact.
You're familiar with the fact that your
brain controls your heart because you
could be stressed about something that's
perceived with your brain, and then your
heart rate will speed up. You're
probably also familiar with the fact
that if your heart rate speeds up for
some reason or no reason, you're
probably think, "Well, what's making my
heart rate speed up?" That's because
they, the brain and the heart are
reciprocally inner- innervated, as we
say. They're talking to one another in
both directions. It's a two-way highway.
This study looked at changes in
so-called functional connectivity within
the brain and between the brain and the
heart
in response to gratitude practices.
And as a control, they used what I think
is very interesting, a resentment
intervention. Uh, I think resentment is
a is a an apt control, uh, and quite
different than gratitude.
To make a long story short, what they
found is that a repeated gratitude
practice could change the resting state
functional connectivity in emotion and
motivation related brain regions. If I
haven't mentioned a strong enough
incentive for doing a regular gratitude
practice until now,
this is definitely the one to pay
attention to.
Because what they found was a regular
gratitude practice
could shift the functional connectivity
of emotion pathways in ways that made
anxiety and fear circuits less likely to
be active and circuits for feelings of
well-being, but also motivation to be
much more active. I find that remarkable
and important because a number of people
struggle with issues of motivation. A
lot of people who are highly motivated
also have issues with anxiety and fear.
And so, this study really points to the
fact that it's a two-fer. If you have a
good gratitude practice and you repeat
it regularly, you reduce the fear
anxiety circuits. You
increase the efficacy of the positive
emotion feel-good circuits and the
circuits associated with motivation and
pursuits are actually enhanced as well.
So, that's a very strong incentive to
uh, in have a gratitude practice and one
that you use regularly. We'll talk about
how regularly in in just a moment.
I don't want to go into too many details
of the study, although we will put a
reference to it if you like. It includes
a a lot of fMRI data, imaging data of
different brain areas, many many tables
and examples of matrices of before and
after gratitude, after resentment, uh,
etc. You do indeed have circuits in your
brain for resentment, whether you like
it or not.
Um, we all do. And uh, some people just
those circuits are more robust than
others. But the remarkable thing is one
can shift
these circuits in the direction that I
think most people would like, which is
more sense of well-being and motivation
and less uh, resentment and fear.
Literally. And what's really cool about
this study also is that
the interventions are only 5 minutes
long. It's incredible. 5 minutes long.
And so as we start to build out our
ideal gratitude practice, we know that
it has to have certain features. First
of all, it has to be grounded in a
story, probably a story that you've
heard in its entirety at least once, but
then you can have a shorthand version
that's so called bullet points that I
talked about before that allow you to
drop into that story where the emotional
associations with that story. So you
don't have to listen to the whole story
each time. That story should be one in
which you are genuinely being thanked
for something and it made you feel good.
Or it could be a story about someone
else genuinely expressing thanks, okay?
Based on this
description of the gratitude practices
that we talked about earlier.
Your gratitude practice can be very
brief. I mean, it can be as brief as 1
minute, 60 seconds, or 5 minutes, which
still seems very brief to me, although
in these studies they were getting these
really major effects just from 5 minutes
of gratitude practice.
Some of these papers involve
people doing some
focusing on their breathing and calming
themselves
as they go into the gratitude practice,
but that's within the 5-minute block. So
if you decide that you're going to do a
a gratitude practice that involves
first,
you know, I don't doing some calming
breathing, exhale emphasized breathing
for instance, or physiological sighs,
things I've talked about before on this
podcast that can help calm you down cuz
they have a lot of exhales, which you
now know slows your heart rate down, and
then doing your gratitude practice,
that's fine.
It's actually not necessary, but a lot
of these studies used that. I think once
a narrative has been set, you've heard
the story and it has meaning for you or
you have a recollection of a story where
you were genuinely thanked, then I think
just 60 seconds or maybe 120 seconds
should be sufficient. Then the question
becomes how often to repeat this
gratitude practice.
That's not exactly clear from the
existing literature. I can't point to
any one study that says five times a
week or four times a week. So, I'm going
to throw out a number,
uh which is three times a week. And then
people will ask, "Well, when should I do
that gratitude practice?" And I'll tell
you uh what I tell most everybody about
most every practice with a few
exceptions, which is the best time of
day to do this practice is when you
first wake up in the morning
or before you go to sleep at night or
any time of day.
So, we've talked about some of the
neural circuitry changes associated with
a regular gratitude practice. And I
should mention that there's an
additional neural circuitry shift that
occurs.
It relates to a structure that I
mentioned just briefly earlier, which is
the so-called ACC or anterior cingulate
cortex. This is an area of the brain
that has several functions, but more and
more data are pointing to the fact that
the ACC is actually involved in
empathy and is involved in understanding
the emotional states of others in
general, even if it doesn't evoke a
sense of empathy. And there are several
studies that point to the fact that in
humans who have a regular gratitude
practice, the ACC becomes more robustly
engaged uh even with these very brief
gratitude practices. Uh we actually have
a project in our lab.
Uh this is actually done in animal
models with uh
where animals observe other animals
experiencing
uh
certain emotional states. And one of the
brain areas that we've identified as
important for this uh it's kind of a
primordial form of empathy cuz we really
don't know what these uh mice are
thinking. Uh we we work on humans. In
the case where we work on humans, of
course, we ask them and they tell us uh
what they think they're thinking. Uh
with the mice, we we ask them, but they
don't tell us much of anything
interesting. Instead, we we measure a
number of physiological signals. But,
the important point is that the the ACC,
the anterior cingulate cortex, seems to
be an important hub for the
generation and execution of empathy at
as it relates to feelings and empathic
behaviors, altruistic behaviors of of
animals helping animals and humans
helping other humans. We see this in the
animal models, we see this in humans.
So, if you want to be a more empathic
person, a gratitude practice is also
going to be very effective for that, it
appears, especially using this narrative
type approach where you are using
someone else's narrative of receiving
gratitude as a way to tap into your own
sense of gratitude. Thus far, we've
mainly talked about the effects of
gratitude on neural circuit activation
and changes, a little bit about some of
the changes that are happening in terms
of the body, heart rate, and breathing,
and so forth, but we haven't talked a
lot yet about the changes in health
metrics, in things like inflammation or
reductions in inflammation,
and immunity and things of that sort.
So, with that in mind, I'd like to
describe the results of a really
interesting recent study that was
published in the journal Brain,
Behavior, and Immunity. This was
published 2021. The title of this of the
study is exploring neural mechanisms of
the health benefits of gratitude in
women, a randomized control trial. The
first author is Haslett.
And basically, what this paper showed
was that
women who had a regular gratitude
practice of the sort that we've been
talking about up until now,
showed
reductions in amygdala activity, a brain
area associated with threat detection, a
intimate part of the fear network in the
brain. So, reductions in
amygdala activation and
large reductions in the
production of something called TNF
alpha, tumor necrosis factor alpha, and
IL-6, interleukin 6. Now, if you happen
to have listened to the episode that I
did on activating your immune system and
immune function, you heard about TNF
alpha and IL-6. TNF alpha and IL-6 are
inflammatory cytokines. These are
chemicals that exist in your body and
that are released from cells when there
is damage or kind of a systemic stress,
when your system is in duress. And in
the short term, they can be beneficial.
They can call in signals for wound
healing and repair of cells, etc. But
you don't want TNF alpha and IL-6 levels
to be too high and you don't want those
levels to be up for too long. And so,
this study is really nice because they
showed significant effects in reducing
TNF alpha and IL-6 in response to a
gratitude practice. And because they
also observed reductions in amygdala
activation,
this area associated with threat
detection and fear,
it's likely
and I should emphasize likely cuz I
don't know that the direction of the
effect is that there are neural circuit
changes which in turn shift the degree
to which these inflammatory cytokines
are released in the body. Although, for
all I know, it could be the other way,
too. It could be that having a gratitude
practice shifts something about heart
rate and breathing which in turn shifts
the or lowers the amount of TNF alpha
and IL-6 and that in turn reduces
activation of the amygdala. We don't
really know the direction of the effect
the effect, excuse me, but if I had to
speculate, I would speculate that it was
a shift in neural circuitry that led to
a change in the circuits of the body.
And another interesting aspect of this
study is that the reductions in amygdala
activation and the reductions in TNF
alpha and IL-6 were very rapid. They
occurred
almost immediately after the gratitude
practice was completed. And even though
that study was performed exclusively on
female subjects,
based on the biology and circuitry of
the amygdala and the biology of TNF
alpha and IL-6 performing this
inflammatory role in both men and women,
I don't see any reason why the results
of that study wouldn't pertain to both
men and women.
So, what about the chemistry associated
with gratitude? Are there certain
chemicals in our brain or that we could
enhance in our brain that would enhance
our gratitude practice?
Indeed, there are. And earlier I
mentioned the chemical, the
neuromodulator, serotonin as having a
powerful influence on the activation of
neural circuits associated with
prosocial behaviors and gratitude and
other sort of feel-good behaviors.
To make a long story short,
neuromodulators like dopamine and
epinephrine and norepinephrine tend to
place us into a state of exteroception,
meaning a state of observing things and
focusing on things outside the immediate
reach of our body and confines of our
skin. They tend to put us in pursuit or
in thinking about things out in the
future or out away from our physical
body.
Whereas the neuromodulator serotonin and
some of the associated pathways like
oxytocin and other neurochemicals
tend to, I want to emphasize tend to be
associated with states that are about
contentment with what we have within the
confines of our body and our immediate
experience. So, they're not so much
about pursuit, but about gratitude and
about appreciation for what we already
have.
I'd be remiss if I didn't therefore
point out that
if one were to shift their chemistry
toward having higher levels of
serotonin, you would
by all logic experience heightened
levels of gratitude. And indeed, some
people do this. They will take compounds
that increase serotonin. There are a
number of compounds out there. As you
know, I'm certainly not suggesting
people do that. A couple of the
supplement-based legal over-the-counter
approaches to this
are things like 5-HTP, which is a
precursor to serotonin. Some people will
take 5-HTP to try and enhance their
sleep. I'm not a fan of doing that
personally.
I've talked about this in the sleep
episodes, but
the state that we call sleep has a very
complex and important architecture as it
relates to neurochemicals and by taking
serotonin by supplement or by
stimulating serotonin release by
supplement with 5-HTP or with tryptophan
which is an amino acid precursor to
to serotonin, one can run into the
problem of disrupting the normal
architecture of sleep cycles throughout
the night. I experienced that as if I've
taken 5-HTP or tryptophan, I fall asleep
very deeply but then I wake up 3 hours
later and I can't fall asleep at all and
actually it sometimes even messes up my
sleep the subsequent night. Some people
are not so sensitive to 5-HTP and
tryptophan and they actually really like
it. So again, you have to talk to your
doctor to decide what's right for you.
You're responsible for your health, not
me and you have to determine what works
for you. Everyone's slightly individual.
But
one could imagine enhancing their amount
of serotonin in their brain and body by
taking 5-HTP or tryptophan before a
gratitude practice. That seems a little
bit extreme given that the gratitude
practice is only about a minute to 5
minutes long on a regular basis, but
there may be instances in which you're
really trying to amplify these circuitry
in the brain and body that are
associated with gratitude and therefore
that might be something that you want to
explore.
There's a new compound that's out there,
a legal over-the-counter compound.
At least it's uh legal in the United
States. I don't know about overseas. And
um that's a compound called kanna, k a n
n a. Uh it's an interesting compound. It
goes by another name as well uh which is
and I'm going to mispronounce this and I
apologize. This is sceletium tortuosum.
Please see our uh timestamps if you want
to see the spelling of that.
Um but I'll just call it kanna for uh by
its other name for short. It's an herb
that um is traditionally chewed uh prior
to stressing endeavors is how it's
described on examine.com. But I looked
at some of the studies on this. It's
kind of interesting. It um very likely
increases the amount of serotonin in the
body and pretty potently. Um it is
generally taken in dosages of anywhere
from 25 to 50 mg and it creates
a kind of a prosocial
gratitude enhancing or I should say
gratitude circuitry prosocial neural
circuitry enhancing
effect because of the ways that it
interacts with the serotonergic pathways
of the brain.
So, it also has another name. It's
sometimes called Zembrin, z e m b r i n.
Again, I'm not suggesting that people
run out and take this stuff. It's but
there is an emerging practice
of people using Zembrin, Sceletium
tortuosum, also called kanna, k a n n a,
in order to enhance the states that are
about
comfort and pleasure with what one has
in their immediate sphere of experience.
And so, one could imagine,
if it's safe for you and right for you
and legal where you live,
in enhancing serotonin by taking kanna
and then doing your gratitude practice.
What's the logic behind that? Well, it
you know, it
often times we hear about supplements
and pharmacology for quote unquote
increasing plasticity or opening
plasticity. You know, if I had a dollar
for every time someone said, "I hear
that such and such opens plasticity."
Well, indeed there are molecules
associated with the thing that we call
neuroplasticity, but neuroplasticity is
not an event. It's a process. Meaning it
has many, many steps. It occurs during
wakefulness. It's consolidated during
sleep and so forth.
Taking a substance that increases a
neurochemical in your brain will likely,
provided it's the right substance and
it's the right
practice, will likely enhance the
amplitude or the intensity of that
practice and make it a more potent form
of inducing neuroplasticity. Meaning it
will
create longer lasting or more robust
brain changes than if one hadn't
increased their chemistry in this pharma
way, this way of taking something. But
that doesn't necessarily mean that you
couldn't get to the very same place
without it with by simply doing
a slightly longer gratitude practice or
putting a little bit more mental effort
into it. That said,
I think the future of neuroplasticity
really resides in not just one approach,
not just neurochemistry and taking
substances to increase neuroplasticity,
not just behavioral practices to try and
increase neuroplasticity, not just brain
machine interfaces or or or devices to
increase neuroplasticity, but rather the
convergence of multiple tools. So, you
could imagine enhancing serotonergic
transmission as we say in the brain
using something like Kanna combined with
a gratitude practice in the not too
distant future. This will probably also
be combined with some sort of
non-invasive device to stimulate the
prefrontal cortex at the same time.
Please don't do that recreationally.
Those devices are for clinical use only
currently.
But I think you start to get the idea.
So, for those of you that are a little
bit more exploratory and you want to go
and do some reading on this, I thought
you might find uh Kanna interesting. I I
certainly did. There are a number of
studies that will pop up on PubMed. I
recommend
using examine.com as your jumping off
point. There are some decent studies
that they describe in their so-called
human effect matrix. So, those are
studies done on humans. And the main
effects that that have been documented
in the scientific literature are
minor but significant increases in
cognition, executive function. Executive
function is something that's also
associated with prefrontal cortex and
reductions in anxiety. And that seems to
be a common theme that we're seeing
again and again. You saw this in the
study
uh the the trial where we saw reductions
in TNF alpha and reductions in amygdala
activation. So, which would ostensibly
lead to
reductions in anxiety. You're seeing
increases in activity in brain networks
that are associated with feelings of
well-being. So, again, back to that kind
of push-pull of defensive anxiety and
fear-like circuitry in the brain being
antagonistic,
as we say, to the circuits that are
associated with prosocial, feeling good,
receiving good feelings type circuitry
and events in life.
So, as you now know, there is a lot of
science about how gratitude can
positively impact neural circuits in the
brain, anti-inflammatory markers in the
body,
brain, heart, breathing coordination,
and on and on and on.
I'd like to just highlight the key
elements of the most effective, at least
to my knowledge, gratitude practice.
And when I say the most effective, what
I'm doing is I'm gleaning from the
scientific studies I was able to find
and combining the various findings of
those studies into what I think is a
very practical and what should certainly
be a very effective gratitude practice
for all the positive effects that we
described.
First of all,
that gratitude practice has to be
grounded in a narrative, meaning a
story.
You don't have to recite or hear that
story every single time you do the
gratitude practice,
but you have to know what that story was
and what the gratitude practice
references back to.
Second of all, that story can be one of
you
receiving genuine thanks. And the key
elements there are that you are the one
receiving the thanks, the gratitude, and
that
it's being given to you genuinely,
wholeheartedly.
Or it can be a story of
you observing someone else receiving
thanks or expressing thanks.
And that has to be a genuine interaction
as well, both
between the giver and the receiver.
So, those are the first three elements.
What I recommend would be after you've
established the story that you want to
use for your gratitude practice,
that you write down three or four simple
bullet points that can serve as salient
reminders of that story for you. It will
serve as kind of a cue for that story
without having to listen to or
talk out the entire story.
I would recommend
writing down something about
the state that you or the other person
were in before they received the
gratitude,
the state that you were in or that the
person was in after they received the
gratitude, and
any other elements that lend some sort
of emotional weight or tone to the
story. This could be three pages of text
if you like, or it could just be a
couple of bullet points. I don't think
it really matters. The important thing
is that it's embedded in your memory and
that it's really associated with this
genuine exchange of thanks and the
retrieval of thanks. I think those are
the key elements.
And then it's very simple. The entire
practice involves
reading off these bullet points as a cue
to your nervous system of the sense of
gratitude,
and then
for about 1 minute, which is a trivial
amount of time if you really think about
it, or maybe 2 minutes, or if you're
really ambitious up to 5 minutes, of
just really feeling into that genuine
experience of having received gratitude
or observed
someone else receiving gratitude.
And then, in terms of frequency,
I think a a good rule of thumb would be
to do that about three times a week and
the time of day doesn't really matter. I
can't see why there would be any
so-called circadian effects of this. I
know some people like to do a gratitude
practice before they go to sleep at
night. I don't see any problem with
doing this before you go to sleep at
night. I also don't see any problem with
you doing this on your lunch break or
mid-morning or first thing in the
morning. I I can't see any logic for
placing it any one time of day and not
another. So, I think the most important
thing is that you do it at least three
times a week.
And as mentioned before, it's very, very
brief, so there are very few barriers of
to entry for doing this.
So, if we just take a step back from
this protocol and compare it to what's
typically out there in the literature,
which is
you know, make a list of all the things
you're thankful for, recite in your mind
all the things you're thankful for,
count your blessings. I think everybody
should be counting their blessings all
the time. There's always something to be
thankful for. But in terms of a
scientifically grounded gratitude
practice that is also scientifically
demonstrated to shift your physiology at
the level of your immune system and your
neural circuitry, reducing anxiety,
increasing motivation, all these
wonderful things that so many of us
are chasing all the time as goals. I
think a gratitude practice reveals
itself to be an immensely powerful tool
for any and all of us to use. And that
should come as no surprise because these
prosocial circuits, these circuits for
gratitude are not a recent phenomenon.
Discussions about gratitude date back
hundreds if not thousands of years. What
we've done today is to take the modern
science right up until 2021
and to really distill from that the
neuroimaging data, the neurochemistry,
the various aspects of brain-body
connectivity, look at the protocols,
take various subject groups. Some were
done in women, some were done in between
two individuals, some were done with
brain imaging, all the all the very
various uh
changes on a theme
that allow us to point to a simple but
very effective protocol that certainly
we could all use around Thanksgiving.
But uh you know, Thanksgiving is just
but one day throughout the entire year,
of course. I personally have been using
a gratitude protocol for the last
several years. But that protocol was
based on my um ignorance, really, about
the scientific literature uh and was
mainly based on what I'd heard out there
on the internet, which is that I should
uh list out or think about or or
verbally recite the things that I'm
grateful for. Uh
the sort of protocol that we arrived at
today based on the scientific literature
is distinctly different from that. Um
and as a consequence, I've started to
script out a protocol identical to the
one I just described, and I intend to
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