The Savings Expert: They’re Lying To You About Building Wealth - Do THIS Instead! | Humphrey Yang
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The video challenges conventional wisdom about building wealth by arguing that financial instability in America stems less from low incomes than from a lack of awareness regarding expenses and poor impulse control. Host Humphrey Yang identifies complacency, where individuals settle for "good enough," as a major driver of poverty, while also critiquing the traditional pursuit of home ownership which has become unattainable due to high costs in many cities. A crucial distinction is drawn between being cheap and being frugal; true frugality involves minimizing unnecessary spending on low-value items like fast fashion or depreciating cars so that resources can be allocated toward experiences, freedom, and comfort rather than hoarding capital for status symbols. The hosts emphasize that feeling wealthy often requires having double one's current assets to feel secure, suggesting that humility is more important than ego when defining financial success.
To cultivate lasting wealth habits, the speakers advocate for intentionality over relying solely on natural personality traits like being a "saver." Practical strategies include creating a dedicated spending fund where a specific percentage of income is earmarked guilt-free for enjoyment to prevent unconscious overspending, and using cash or debit cards instead of credit to feel the true cost of purchases. The discussion highlights how modern technology often lowers friction in spending, making it essential to track expenses manually or via apps while automating savings to build discipline over time. Furthermore, they advise against risky side hustles like dropshipping or day trading for those seeking stability, recommending instead that individuals focus on scalable skills aligned with their strengths or pursue freelancing and consulting if extra income is needed without distracting from a primary career path.
When it comes to specific asset choices and investment strategies, the hosts recommend reliable brands like Honda and Toyota for car purchases due to low depreciation, while noting that used Teslas can offer value despite market volatility caused by production news. For investments, they suggest a diversified portfolio heavily weighted toward broad index funds like the S&P 500 rather than individual stocks or frequent trading which incurs tax pitfalls, with Bitcoin serving only as a small alternative asset allocation of around three to five percent. The conversation also touches on wealth tiers, where $100k signifies financial discipline and $500k allows for "Coast FIRE," while true lifestyle freedom in high-cost areas often requires millions; ultimately, they conclude that money should be spent on meaningful experiences like concerts or gifts for others rather than material goods.
In a rapid-fire Q&A session, Humphrey Yang reinforces his core philosophy by advising viewers to rent instead of buy homes initially and to pay off mortgages before investing further in the market. He recommends Roth IRAs over traditional ones, prefers gold over Bitcoin as an alternative asset, and suggests concentrating portfolios when young before diversifying later in life. For someone earning a stable salary with extra time available, he prioritizes learning new work-related skills to increase income potential rather than seeking promotions or second jobs that might detract from meaningful work forever. The overarching message is clear: the most effective way to improve wealth immediately is cutting expenses, and true financial freedom comes not just from accumulating assets but from maintaining psychological comfort through disciplined spending habits and a focus on experiences over possessions.
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An alarming new trend. More Americans
are tapping into their 401ks for
emergencies.
>> There are a million things that keep
people broke, but these three things in
particular are doing the most damage.
>> A family of four [music] now needs
nearly $140,000 a year just to survive.
>> New data shows Americans are saving less
as they struggle to [music] keep up with
rising costs. The personal savings rate
across the country is nearing a record
[music] low.
>> Do you think that that trend is going to
stay the same in 2030? Do you think that
people are going to be even worse off
than they are today? The blueprint to
wealth is incredibly simple, but most
people don't know where [music] to
start.
>> The stock market has set 53 all-time
record highs since the election. Think
of that one year.
>> The rich are getting richer and they're
getting richer faster. I mean, that's
the reality.
>> What are [music] the biggest financial
red flags? I mean, you can get away with
a lot of stuff. You just carry yourself
like you look rich.
>> We're minting millionaires faster than
[music] we've ever minted them before.
>> So, what is technically the number one
wealth killer? Look, if you want to get
rich in 2026, here's how you do it.
Humphrey Yang, you used to be a
financial adviser and now you're a
financial educator on YouTube. I
absolutely love your videos. You
simplify very complex topics. We have a
lot we agree on. We also have some
things we disagree on, which I am very
excited to explore this episode. Thank
you so much for coming on the Ice Coffee
Hour. Thanks for having me. I'm excited
to dive into some of these deeper topics
that we might disagree on. Let's
>> So, I want your take on some of these
insane statistics. More than half of
Americans currently cannot cover a
$1,000 emergency. And on top of that,
one in five car buyers has a payment
above $1,000 a month. Is this the fault
of the American economy or are people
just spending themselves into oblivion?
You know, I think it's partially lack of
financial education, obviously, number
one. And number two, impulse impulse
control zero. A lot of Americans just
have no impulse control. They go to a
car dealership. They see their shiny new
toy. They want that shiny new toy. They
say, "Oh, I can afford the monthly
payment." And then they get kind of
roped into these car loan terms, high
APRs, no money down or low money down,
so that they can just drive the car off
the lot and they get something that they
can't really afford. But do you think
that Americans are getting more
impulsive as time has gone on? Like are
we are we worse off now than we were 10
years ago in terms of like financial
literacy and financial discipline? or is
there something else at play? I'm going
to say yes. I'm going to say that Gen Z
and younger probably feel like they
can't get ahead, right? Because
everything is so expensive. So, they
start giving up on long-term financial
goals and instead opting for the short
term, right? Renting something that is
really nice to live in and also, you
know, getting a luxury car that they
probably can't afford because they're
like, "Well, what's the point of saving
for a house? I'm never going to get
there." Why do they feel like they can
never get to a house? I yes I guess it's
more challenging now easy for you to say
no no it's it's more challenging now
than it was back in the day but at the
same time I mean like we've explored
this subject in in in so much depth if
you just set aside a little bit of money
and you invest it yes it might take you
5 to 10 years unfortunately that's very
that's very difficult and annoying but
like it's it's still doable
>> yeah I think like the biggest argument
that you might hear is that the relative
wages to what things cost Let's say from
the boomer age to now is a lot the
relative cost is higher, right? So that
means you know the median wage 50 years
ago could have bought you a house in 1
to two years of your earnings. But
nowadays it's like 5 to seven or even
more just and even for the down payment
in a lot of these places people have to
work 10 years before even saving enough
money to get that down payment. Do you
think at the crux of it all it's truly
just home ownership? Because a lot of
other things have gotten cheaper
relative to wages, like a lot of things
in the technology sector, you know,
microwaves, phones on average, like
things are decreasing in cost relative
to the increase of wages, but homes
obviously there's been a huge change in
terms of affordability. Yeah. I mean, I
think that's also like the narrative
that we're kind of taught, right? Which
is like the American dream is owning a
house. So that is kind of the benchmark
that people kind of judge their own
personal finances against. And so if
that's like the ultimate financial goal
for a lot of people, to have a house and
then to have a family, which is the
point of life in America, then if they
can't really afford these homes anymore,
then yeah, then I can see why they would
just be like, "All right, well, I'm
going to yolo my money on Khi or I'm
going to yolo my money on, let's say, a
$1,000 car payment."
>> So part of me wonders if buying a home
is not actually the goal anymore. Like I
think that other people just want to get
rich. It's it's not even about buying a
home and having a place to like to to
hang your hat. It's about like having a
Lamborghini and having all of these
things that are advertised to us with
mark like genius marketing commercials,
Tik Tok investors and traders that are
able to
>> I don't think it's that return. I think
it's just the house is being seen now as
an investment is like a a wealthb
buildinging vehicle. You think people
are still in the same mindset as they
were previously?
>> I don't think any of it's changed. I
just think things have gotten a lot more
expensive and people with social media
are a little more apt to like complain
about things and be vigilant about
things. Absolutely. But I don't think
it's a Lambo anymore. I don't think like
people really care as much about that as
they do like if I buy a house, I'm going
to be way wealthier in the future.
>> I think it's consumerism. Like I think
if you go on TikTok, everyone's talking
about buying the new expensive clothing
or buying expensive vintage clothing or
looking the best, having like the nicest
watch, living in the high-rise
apartment. All of like expensive life is
glamorized now. And so everyone wants
that, but they can't afford it with
their wage. And so yeah, they go to
things like call she or they want to
yolo their life savings on Wall Street
bets.
>> Yeah. I mean, I think 50 years ago,
even if everybody was average or
somewhat the same, you didn't really
care. You know, you're just kind of in
your own little bubble. But these days,
if you're average or homogeneous, then
you're going to look at Tik Tok, you're
going to look at Instagram, and everyone
that's standing out online are these
like huge outliers that are just, you
know, living these glamorous lives. And
then you're going to want to naturally
just want to be part of that, right?
Like, if you don't feel like you're
standing out, then you you just feel
like, oh, well, I'm just so normal. But
that's completely fine. So, when it
comes to building wealth, what do you
think is the biggest reason that people
feel held back? Do you think it's that
they don't make enough money,
>> they spend too much money, cost of
living, things like healthare or
housing, or bad investment decisions?
Okay, I think ranked in order, number
one is probably income. Number two,
really close behind it is how much they
spend. Bad investment decisions, I don't
know. I don't see that many people I
mean unless they're going for the
get-rich quick stuff. I think that if
you're just paying attention to good old
standard S&P 500, I don't really think
you can make too bad of a decision
there. But usually it comes down to like
their impulses are usually too bad. So
like or you know they're too impulsive
so they spend more than they should and
they're just not saving enough. So and
that could be combed by having a higher
income. But really it just comes down to
income and expenses. So what financial
behavior does the most damage? What do
you think? And then I'll give you my
opinion because I think what you would
say is spending. I would you know what
it would be spending but I would say
assuming I don't say spending is
complacency.
>> It's just feeling like I'm doing good
enough not to try for something better
or that things are lukewarm and they
aren't bad and other people have it
worse. But you know my situation's
decent. It could be better but it's
okay. And from that, you just kind of
stay in that like middle ground where
you're just kind of like treading water
a little bit, but you're never going to
go any more than that.
>> I tend to agree. I think it's
realistically spending. I don't think
it's an income problem. I think it's a
spending problem. And you can see this
because people earning up to $150,000 a
year are still paycheck to paycheck. No
reason for them to be paycheck to
paycheck.
>> But if it's not spending, then
realistically, I think it's an attention
problem.
>> I think it's lack of awareness. That's
what I was going to say is lack of
awareness to what is going on in their
financial life.
>> You cannot improve upon something if you
aren't paying attention to it. If you're
just ignorant to it, then it's just
going to fester and spiral down.
>> I use this analogy all the time, which
is like if you're trying to lose weight,
you're going to weigh yourself, right?
You're going to go to the gym, you're
going to weigh yourself maybe once a
week, once every two weeks, and you're
kind of conscious of what your weight is
and if what you're doing is reaching
your goals or not. with finances, people
just for some reason they have a blind
spot and they just can't figure out how
much they're spending. And it's hard to
face how much you're spending too
because it's kind of an embarrassing
thing, especially if you feel like you
spend money a little bit frivolous
frivolously, right? What's really
interesting is that you came in, by the
way, exactly on time.
>> I did.
>> We were going to start at 11:00. You
show up exactly at 11:00 and you said
that on the way the cab driver only got
paid $4
>> Mhm. for the trip from the Las Vegas
strip to our studio here. And it's a
decent drive.
>> It's like a 25 minute drive. Sure.
>> But $4, how do they get away with paying
someone $4? And walk through the math
and what this person should be doing
instead of a $4 ride. Okay, so this
person in particular was a really tough
situation. Okay, this guy's 78 years
old. He's a senior and he's just trying
to make ends meet. He's driving for this
cab company. He told me that the base
fair is $5.50. 50, but immediately that
goes to the taxi cab company, right? And
so the on the remaining fair he gets 40%
of it. So the fair was like 28 bucks. So
right then and there that's $23 of an
effective fair that he's going to get.
Maybe 2250. 40% of that. What's that?
About 8 bucks, 8.80, maybe 10. So he
just drove me 25 minutes out of the
strip. Now he has to drive back to the
strip for more business. and he waited
in the hotel line in the taxi stand line
for about 10 10 15 minutes. So, right
then and there he's making less than 10
bucks an hour if he's driving the cab.
Now, the nice thing is he doesn't have
to pay for maintenance on the car. I
think he might have to pay for gas, but
I don't think he has to pay for
maintenance. Um, and he basically just
gets to take that home. But in his sit
situation, if he's making 10 bucks an
hour as a cab driver at 78 years old, he
might not have any other employable
skills. And so, he might just have to be
stuck in that situation. That's really
tough.
But are you saying for someone younger
perhaps?
>> I'm just thinking how is there not a
better use of this person's time
>> that could even be at like as a greeter
somewhere or at any other
>> business
unless it's purely something where it's
like that's a type of career where you
could just clock in when you have some
extra time. Yeah.
>> Which might be the case.
>> You know, we don't know him and we don't
know what his situation is like. I mean
>> uh but in that particular situation, I
don't know what he should do. Maybe he
should maybe he might need another job.
I'm not sure. That's a really tough one.
Do you think there's a chance he's lying
for a tip, you know? [sighs and gasps]
Of course there's a chance. That's a
chance. But
>> you cuz you left him a pretty good tip
after I left him a $20 tip. But still,
let's like I think that there is a
chance, but then there's also like I
believe in the good of humanity and I
feel like he was a pretty honest person
based on the 20 minutes that we shared
together and we were talking for a
little bit.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Could he be lying?
>> He did get 20 bucks out of you, though.
>> He did, but he actually didn't. He was
like, "You don't have to tip me." He's
like, you know, I was like, "I'll just
tip you 10 bucks." And he was like, "Oh,
great. I'll be happy with that." And
when I gave him So, so the fair was like
$29. I gave him 40 at first. $29.50 or
something, whatever it is. So, he he was
effectively going to get a $10 tip and
he was really happy with that. And I was
like, "All right, let me just do you one
better. Here, I have an extra 10." And
he was elated. So, that just made his
hour, which was nice. You know what's
interesting is tips can absolutely be
manipulated. Like I had I had a friend
that worked at an ice cream shop and
apparently when you scoop ice cream it
can start to hurt your wrist if you do
it for like 8 hour shifts like a few
days in a row. And so what he would do
is wear a brace on his wrist and when he
would go to scoop the ice cream he'd be
like and like the the customers would
say oh is is your wrist hurting? What's
going He's like yeah just you know a few
shifts in a row and yeah it ends up
hurting my my wrist and it's a little
bit weak and oh but it's fine. It's
fine. I'll be okay. And he said he
noticed a significant jump in the amount
of tips he received once he started
wearing the brace on his wrist and
acting like it hurt to scoop ice cream.
>> I I believe that. I mean I mean hot
girls get better tips as waitresses,
right? In general and hostesses.
>> I got another story for you. We knew
someone who was driving for Uber
>> and really friendly person and he would
make conversation and in the
conversation he would bring up that he's
doing Uber
>> to help pay for a future child and that
him and his wife were saving up to have
a child.
>> The tips he got were insane. Like he was
telling us people would tip him like
$100. Oh my god.
>> For just casual rides around town
>> and he would just mention this. Now he
was telling the truth.
>> Yeah. But had he not said that, the tip
would be substantially less.
>> I'm I'm for that. I think, you know,
don't hate the player, hit the game. I'm
I'm fine with that. And, you know, if I
overtip this cab driver today, then, you
know, he got me.
>> All of a sudden, next time you go to get
ice cream, every single ice cream
[laughter] scooter is just going to be
wearing wrists and every single Uber
driver is going to be preparing for a
future family. Every single one. So, you
mentioned you think that people are
worse off today than they were 5 years
ago or in 2020. I'm curious
>> living wise. Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm curious. Do you think that that
trend is going to stay the same in 2030?
Do you think that people are going to be
even worse off than they are today?
>> I put it at more than 50%, so maybe 60%.
Yeah. They're probably even more worse
off if the cost of living increases go
the way that they're going and nothing
gets changed with wages.
>> So, you attribute it mostly to a cost of
living.
>> Yeah. I mean, grocery prices are way up.
Energy prices are up. That's because of
the war. But even even before then,
energy prices were up. I mean, the
inflation stuff from CO still was like
4% was the last one. But that obviously
that had some energy, but still it's
over 2%, right?
>> Yeah. Even filling up the gas tank
recently, it's now $6 a gallon at a lot
of places.
>> You drive a Tesla.
>> I do. But I had to fill up another car.
>> Okay.
>> And I was paying six bucks a gallon for
gas for the premium.
>> Yeah.
>> And it adds up fast.
>> Adds up bad.
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>> So, what do you think is hurting people
the most right now? Do you think it's
inflation, housing, interest rates, or
lifestyle creep? I think it depends
where you go. In San Francisco, housing.
San Francisco rents are crazy right now
because of the AI boom and um a lot of
people can't afford housing there
because everyone that's coming there for
rent is AI, right? And so they're
getting this inflated salary or this not
inflated but high for their for their um
industry salary and the rental market
there is small. So, I would say their
housing, but I would say across the
board probably inflation is is probably
like I would rank that the highest. And
inflation does include rent prices, too.
>> That's crazy. I don't I just
think that it's the cost of living.
Like, I think that yes, the cost of
living is increasing, but you can live
elsewhere. Like, you can move and have
cheaper housing.
>> Easier said than done, though. If you
have your whole community in one area,
your family's there, your friends are
there,
it's hard just to pick up. And
>> I don't I'm not saying like move to a
different state. I'm just saying move
into like a cheaper place and move in
some roommates. Like I still live in a
house with five people. I have four
roommates, you know? I
>> it's you can make living cheap. I could
choose to live in Vegas and spend
$10,000 a month on rent or I could
choose to live in Vegas and spend $700 a
month on rent
>> if I'm renting out rooms. So like the
way that I see it is yes the overall
environment might get more difficult to
live in. I 100% agree with that
solutions
>> but there are absolutely solutions and
it's the problem will not get solved if
you put the burden of pro solving the
problem on other people or on the
environment or on cost of living or
inflation like that's just not going to
solve the problem. I agree. It's not
going to solve the problem. But I think
you can still recognize like the reality
that a lot of people are facing, which
is like it is more expensive.
>> For sure. But I would never I would
never attribute it to the the number one
problem that's facing people if they're
dissatisfied with where they're at
financially.
>> Oh, well, if that's the question, then
yeah, then they can make better choices,
but or different choices to maybe save
money. But still, I think that is the
number one thing that affects everybody.
Well, since so many people live paycheck
to paycheck, including those making over
150, $200,000 a year,
>> at what level is living paycheck to
paycheck purely a spending problem?
Probably over 150 200k a year. Yeah, at
that point it is a spending problem
because what is 150k a year after tax?
Like take home like 10, you're bringing
home 10k a month. Let's say your rent is
40% of that. So 4K a month, you got 6K
left to work with. At that point, it's
probably a spending problem. Unless you
got a family of four. What would you
say?
>> Outside I think of New York and San
Francisco I would say probably.
>> Yeah. I'm also talking Yeah. Outside of
New York and SF because I think in New
York and SF 150 even in Seattle 150 is
like or Austin 150 is
>> maybe closer to the median. I would say
really anything above like $90,000 a
year, you should be able to save some
extra cash.
>> What about you, Jack? What do you think
the threshold?
>> I'm gonna get so much hate for what are
you gonna say? $40,000 a year. Jack,
>> I mean, it depends. So, like if you're
living in a place like Las Vegas, like
this is like an average cost of living
city, I'm pretty sure. Like, in America,
>> I'll go. Yeah. If I was if I was earning
$50,000 a year, then I'm sure that I
would somehow be able to find a way to
save an addition like save $1,000 a
month, $12,000 a year. I just think it's
doable. I would just I would
>> salary 50k a year.
>> 50k a year.
>> That's going to be 42 after tax.
>> 42 after tax, 4,200 after tax. So that's
25%.
>> So it's like it leaves me with 30k. So
like my my rent would maybe be $1,000 a
month. Like the rooms that are in my
house are renting for like $750 to
$1,000 a month. So let's just call it
$800 on average. So then you you still
have what would you still have? You'd
still have $20,000 $20,000 a year to
like spend on whatever.
>> So like
>> well then it's car
>> and we're talking car insurance
potentially gas maybe utilities.
>> Okay. Car car insurance for the year.
Let's just call it two grand, right? So
you have $18,000. Then you have food.
Let's just say $400 a month. So you're
down to
>> 400. It's not that much for food. I
mean, maybe if you're doing like, you
know, meal preps and costing.
>> How much do you want to give for food?
>> Probably 600 bucks a month for food.
>> Okay. $600 a month for food, which I
think is pretty high.
>> But let's just say you're at 600. So
that's what $7200
$7,000 per year. So what is the math
now? We're down to like 10k after car
insurance, after food. And then you just
have any other entertainment, any other
like random life expenses that seem to
come up. That's always
>> even even a plane ticket to see your
family.
>> I agree with you. But when I was making
$50,000 a year, I was I was not doing
those things. Like I was not spending
money on entertainment because I think
that like it's more important to be
saving money and like focusing on
increasing my income. And then once I
was able to do that, then like maybe my
my my tolerance for like or my bar where
I set like I can afford these things is
just a little bit higher.
>> Here's the thing though. I think it's
easier to do that when you're 20 or 21.
Harder to do when you're like
>> I agree with that 100%.
>> Like 30
>> without question. If someone's 30, it's
going to be tougher than if you're like
just toughening it out at like 19 or 20.
>> I agree. And if you run into like a
crazy emergency expense, 3Gs
>> that that could easily just take a dent
savings, right?
>> Yeah. But that's all the more reason to
have a savings and to not spend it on
things like going to the theater or like
a subscription services or buy now pay
later. I just think that 50k a long time
ago would have given you a little bit
more breathing room than that because
right now it seems like 50k is really
>> 100% but I just don't like saying online
that
>> you know you you have an excuse if
you're making less than $90,000 a year
to not be or to be paycheck to paycheck.
Like I want people to think that they
can not be paycheck to paycheck even at
$50,000 a year. Like I want I want them
to think that they can still make some
compromises, make some sacrifices, and
like decrease their entertainment budget
by $100 a month to be able to save and
invest that money for a rainy day or if
an emergency happens.
>> No, I agree. I think, you know, I've
recently been interviewing a lot of my
viewers because I have like this new
show where we do like
>> I review three viewers per episode and a
lot of them are early 20s and they make
50 60k and they're saving 20 25%. So it
is possible, but their conditions are
also really good, right? they they maybe
live with a couple roommates, they have
really low expenses. That's that's
pretty good. Or maybe they're just like
still in school. So stuff like that.
>> I agree. I just think that like online
if you say that like oh like if you're
making under $90,000 and you have a
reason for not being patri is an easy
opinion to take because people are going
to be like oh yeah like you know I
making $80,000 a year can't save and
this guy just validated what I had to
say. So like people are going to applaud
you for that. But I would like it's it's
it's a more dislikable opinion to have
to say like, oh well, like you should be
saving money even at $60,000 a year.
Granted, this is assuming you have no
kids, you know, like you don't have like
some debilitating, you know, heart
condition.
>> Yeah, I think I agree. With good
financial discipline and good habits,
you can still make it.
>> Yeah.
>> So, what is technically the number one
wealth killer?
>> Technically, it's divorce. But
>> is it really?
>> Yeah. When I was like doing my research
online, yeah, it's usually divorce. like
how so?
>> Uh well divorces are expensive. The
divorce lawyers are expensive on its
own. So I think the average divorce
lawyer cost you like between 5 and 10k
at least. And then um the splitting up
of the assets usually a little bit
rough. It's going to cost you a lot in
terms of opportunity cost as well. So
like let's say you had a joint
investment account and now you have to
split it. you're going to have to sell
those sell those stocks or you might
have to sell those stocks and then take
those gains or you might have to restart
investing. I thought now let's just say
you have a joint investment account.
Can't you just do an AATS transfer and
then that person gets some of them
without having to sell and then you keep
the cost basis?
>> Yeah, it's assuming both people want to
hold the stock. But what if one person
wants to sell it, right? And just wants
>> then you can a cats out and then sell it
probably.
>> Yeah. Then to me that would just be
their decision to sell. like they should
have the the tax burden if they want to
sell.
>> I guess I've never been through a
divorce, so I can't really speak on
that, but in doing my research, divorce
was was one of them.
>> And what's the solution to that? Picking
a better partner. I don't know. Picking
the right partner or maybe asking the
right questions before you get married.
I don't know what the right questions
are, Graham. Maybe you do. [laughter]
I think it's just being upfront and
transparent as early as possible,
putting it all on the table,
>> and then that's an easy out where, hey,
if if this doesn't work for the other
person, you tell them early. and then
they know and they could find a partner
who maybe the financially is more
compatible. Yeah, I think that is a
really big like rift for a lot of
couples is the financial aspect side.
Like a lot of couples just don't talk
about it. And so you don't know what the
other person has. You don't know what
the other person's values around money
is. And so that could be a big reason
for financial or relationship problems.
But I think the other wealth killer was
cars. I mean, if that's what you want to
talk about,
>> what would you say are the biggest lies
that people believe on all sides of the
spectrum about money?
>> I mean, we have such sim I think both of
all of us have like these similar views
on money.
>> I don't think so.
>> Really?
>> I think I disagree with you, too. Yeah.
I think I disagree with you guys.
>> Just Graham and I.
>> Yeah. Well, I think you guys probably
agree a lot more. We're pretty loud.
>> Yeah. But I would say I disagree with
you guys.
>> What do you disagree with the most? I
would say I don't think you guys are
frugal. I think you guys are cheap.
[laughter]
>> That's harsh.
>> Why do you got to say you guys?
>> Yeah.
>> Well, this is
>> Well, define cheap like uh like as
because maybe we're doing this exercise
yesterday, like as a percentage of your
income, like how much you spend.
>> It's funny. I don't see Humphrey as
cheap at all.
>> I splash around it sometimes.
>> Yeah, Humphrey's balling. He brought two
gold coins here. One of them's uh pretty
pretty hefty.
>> We're going to talk about them later.
So, you think I'm cheap? I do. I think
that you guys are both technically
cheap. And it was interesting. So I
found I I asked if there is a
mathematical definition to cheap versus
frugal as opposed to like a
philosophical or psychological
definition of it. And this is what I
got. The mathematical definition of
cheap would be minimizing costs even
when the lost value exceeds the money
saved. So, an example would be taking a
20 minute longer flight connection to
save $300 is probably frugal. Taking a
10-hour longer itinerary to save $100
when you earn $200 an hour is probably
cheap. That's such an extreme example
that neither one of us would do that.
It's that's an example. That's not like
an example of a definition.
>> Yeah. Give us an example of something
that we do.
>> You're just trying to say like we're
just saving to save rather than saving
>> based on anything. I I mean I would go
by the definition minimizes costs even
when the lost value exceeds the money.
>> But your own definition
>> that is my definition. I agree. Your
definition is just
>> well I think that there is like an
actual value to money. Money is not good
for the sake of it being money. Money is
good for the things that money can do.
And like money buys things like comfort.
It buys things like freedom. So like
there's value to money and freedom. And
you can assign the the unit as like a
dollar to tie to it. And so like if your
comfort and freedom and time and stress
are all worth this amount and money is
worth this amount and you spend like
let's say less money but all of like
your stress and the stress goes up and
your freedom goes down but like this
unit is greater the unit of value lost
>> is greater than the unit of money spent
then I think that that is being cheap.
You're just saying like the ways that we
think about money perhaps, me and
Graham, are just like a little like our
framework's a little off.
>> Yeah. So, here's here's an actual thing
that actually might this might click
with you, Graham. I would say Humphrey,
you spend 1% of your withdrawal rate
annually, right? That's what you're on
track for right now personally. 1% of
your withdrawal rate.
>> Where did you get that from? Talked to
him about it yesterday. Okay. Yeah. And
you save 100% of your net business
income
>> currently. I'm saving Yeah. Close. Well,
I reinvest in the business, but other
than that, yeah, like net profit. Yes.
>> Yeah. You save 100% of your net business
income, right? So, like you're not
spending that personally and you're
spending 1% of your investment
portfolio. So, like I would just say
that there is no way that like if you're
only spending 1% and from this 1% you're
able to live the life that you're
living, traveling, eating the food that
you want to eat, doing the things,
spending the money on personal things
like you want to be spending it. If you
bumped it up to two, realistically, the
financial
>> Yeah, my bottom line would probably be
fine.
>> It would nothing would change, but you
have double the amount of options that
you have right now. Like, there's no way
that that that that's not being true.
>> That's assuming that you double the
spending, you double the options. You
don't.
>> Sure. But even if you 10% increase the
options, I would say it's like you're
not
>> saying I could live a little and spend a
little bit more.
>> That's exactly right. Yeah. But I don't
think Humphre is depriving himself of
anything. I don't think he's in.
>> Here's a great example. I'm going to
Norway next week, right, with my
girlfriend. And right now we have
premium economy tickets. Okay.
>> Love it.
>> Premium economy. Great value.
Now, lie flat seats are an extra $2,200
>> per ticket.
>> Per ticket.
>> Yeah, I agree.
>> For 10 hours.
>> Yep.
>> And so in my head, I'm thinking $4,400.
I would much rather have $4,400 and we
can do whatever we want in Norway. We
could go out to the finest restaurants,
use that money there. But Jack is
saying, "Well, you don't spend that much
money anyway. you might as well just buy
the $4,400 because you could do that and
do all the cool stuff you want to do in
Norway and your total portfolio or total
investable assets are hardly going to
change. So I kind of I can see his I can
see his argument and personally I want
the life flat seat but but you know it's
it's like I agree with you. I agree with
you. Premium economy to me is
>> 80% of a first class ticket.
>> I but value like how do you determine
value of something?
>> Like value to you is different than
value to the market.
>> Correct.
>> Yeah. Because like if you have an
abundance of a certain resource, then
adding more of that resource to your
life might not actually be very
valuable. But if you don't have an
abundance of something like a lifeling
food you want to eat or let's say you
want to go to the gym but you don't want
to hire a personal trainer or health
like you don't have an abundance of
those things then you can sacrifice
something that you are abundant in which
is money cuz it's just a resource like
people want to acquire money just for
the sake of having more money and this
drives me up at the wall. It makes no
sense. You're saying oh yeah but I could
spend $4,400 extra when I get to Norway
on whatever I want. I'm like, "Dude, you
are at the point right now where you're
spending 1% of your withdrawal rate and
saving 100% of your business profits.
Like, why not both? You're not actually
losing anything." If like if you get so
excited, if you get so excited about the
optics of spending $4,400 in Norway,
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that you are abundant with, which is
money, better. Yeah, I think I think you
really bring up like a good mental blind
spot, which is like a lot of people
treat different buckets of money
differently, right? Like if we were to
say, let's spend $4,400 on
a nice mattress, you might not blink an
eye, like, oh, that like that's a great
investment, but then all of a sudden
we're having this debate, $4,400 for 10
hours of flight time. Like, is that
worth it? And I think that is a trait
that I have inherited from my parents,
which is like scarcity mindset. And
we've talked about this before, probably
on a podcast 5 years ago, but it's still
hard to fight those feelings because you
always feel like money could be better
used elsewhere if if you don't feel like
it's being best used, for example, in
this lie flat seat. So, you're I'm
always thinking about the deal. Am I
getting a good deal? Is this worth the
money? And that's kind of how I've
operated my entire life. And probably
Graham, that's how you do.
>> And here's the thing, too. premium
economy. You're at an age right now
where premium economy is fantastic, but
doing premium economy on a 10-hour
12-hour flight at 65 is going to be a
much different experience. So, I'd say
you while you still can, well, Jack can
still live with roommates, we could
probably say the same thing to Jack.
Jack, you could move out and you could
buy a baller mansion and like do this
and that and all these things and get a
car with longer range instead of having
to charge when you drive a Ventura. Like
all these things you could do. I will
defend Jack a little bit here, which is
that if I continue to think this way in
terms of this mindset that I have, like
I will not be able to switch it off.
Like I'm already 38, so like by the time
I'm 65, will I switch this off?
Realistically, I don't think we would
switch this off.
>> Yeah. I I think it's a slow trickle.
>> Yeah. And it's like it's hard to spend
once you have if you're wired like that.
>> Like I I did that basically going to
Europe. I took premium economy there but
did the first class going back
>> and
>> but he didn't want to like this was
something that we had multiple
conversations about.
>> Oh yeah. I really didn't didn't want to
but I but I justified it because I could
plan out an entire video with
>> justified it as a business expense.
>> Yeah. And that was the only way I was
able to get out that video is if I had
my own space where I could like zone in,
headphones in, and just focus nonstop
without any distraction
>> for like 10 hours straight.
>> But I think that's a just that's like a
justification, right? And so
>> I don't need I wouldn't have done it
without
>> I agree that you wouldn't have done it,
but just because like that doesn't
necessarily make you right because you
did it and you were successful in that
way. I think that as your friend, I
would I would encourage you to value
your comfort like just a little bit
more.
>> But but the problem is I am comfortable
in premium economy. I'm not uncomfort.
>> What about like it seemed like Macy
posted a couple of pictures on her on
her Instagram with premium
>> and she was very excited about I've
never seen her post premium economy on
her story, but she posted the life flat.
She posted the life flats on her story.
>> She did when we went to Japan. The
premium economy is a fantastic seat. She
is just fine with premium economy. But
this is all to say that I think that
money for the sake of money is it's it's
it's a trap. I would say that is a lie
about money that everyone believes. Like
whether you're wealthy or whether you're
poor, it's like if someone who's broke
wants to get more money, I would love to
ask them why do you want more money?
Like what is it that you would like that
you don't have right now? And if they
say, "Oh, well, I want to go and eat at
a steakhouse and I want to have a nicer
car and I want to like move into this
house." I'd be like, "Okay, which car?
Like which steakhouse? Which house do
you want to move into?" And I'm like,
great. Like, let's figure out I I agree
with all this. Like, let's figure out a
way that you can do that and I want that
for you. But if I asked Graham, why does
he want more money? Like, he can't come
up like try to answer what do you want?
>> That house I want
>> and you can't afford that right now.
>> Couldn't I would be I would be
completely stressed out of my mind.
>> That's Yeah, but you're going to be
stressed out of your mind in any
environment. Whether you had twice the
amount of money, you would still be
stressed.
>> I would not. I would not. There's a
there's a price point right now where if
I bought in that price point and I found
a a good deal in that range, I wouldn't
be stressing about it at all.
>> But I think that your perspective on it
is a little bit too far pushed out of
the norm. Like if you ask everybody else
that is aware of your financials, Jason
Oen, you said, "Oh, I wouldn't even
think about it. I'd buy it."
>> That dude is spending $500,000 on a
jersey,
>> but it looks like he's living an amazing
life. It looks like he's loving life and
he's making a ton of money. Would it be
different if one day I didn't want like
you know a family? He he is just Jason.
He is just chilling. It's just him. He
doesn't have to worry about taking care
of anyone. He is just living life and
everything he has at this is just a
bonus.
>> Well, you guys have interviewed a lot of
guests and some of the guests are
reckless with their spending. Like I
think I watched that Togei one or maybe
some other
>> Togei for sure. Togei.
>> So like is there a balance here? Like
>> 100%. I'm just saying that I think Togei
is extreme in the same way that I think
>> Graham is extreme.
>> You and Graham are extreme. Graham
spends.5% of his portfolio and saves
100% of his net business income. That's
insane to me. That makes no sense.
>> Maybe it's more than that. I don't know
what the what the percentage is. Yeah.
So, how how do we change, Jack? How do
we do it?
>> I don't know.
>> I don't know how to change like like for
me, I think like my entire life, I
always ask myself the question of like,
why am I doing something? And if I can't
come up with a good answer, then I have
zero motivation. Maybe it's an ADHD
thing. Like ADHD is essentially like
your dopamine receptors are bad.
Dopamine is motivation. It's not
necessarily happiness. Although they
sometimes feel like the same thing. So
like if I can't motivate myself to do
something. The only way I can get
motivation is if I have a good answer of
why I'm doing it, I'm not going to do
it. And the same thing applies to
everything I do. Like if I want to make
more money, even if it's like doing
consulting and maybe the rate is like
something incredible that like, oh, I
could go buy this and I could buy this
and I've wanted this. Like if I just
don't want to do it, I I I don't know. I
I can't motivate myself to do something
just for the sake of doing it. Like I
want to have a reason for everything
that I do. It's like being intentional
about things. Also, math, like math is a
very very easy
justificator or just justifier for me
spending money on things. It's very
easy. Like I will spend $100 to save an
hour of my time.
>> Yeah. Yeah. You're putting math though
above behavior. And as Dave Ramsey would
say, I think behavior always trumps math
every single time. People default to
their behavior.
>> Yeah. But like what if your behavior is
rooted in math? Well, that's you then.
There you go, Jack. There's there's your
answer. But if you talk to most people,
it's going to be a behavior. It's going
to be something.
>> I think that is inherited from your
parents. I think it's just that's just
how it is with money at least.
>> I think that if you were talking to a
loved one, the rules that you would give
to them are different than the rules
that you apply for yourself.
>> But I think that's true with a lot of
things, right? Like we're always good at
giving advice but not taking our own. Uh
what were your parents like in terms of
spending money?
>> Very frugal.
>> Oh, interesting.
>> Yeah. So like we grew up in a you know
middle class family and then I got older
and I realized okay we were probably
upper middle class not upper class but
upper middle class but we never went on
any vacations and the few vacations that
we did go on were paid for by other
people and the only vacations we did
were camping trips.
>> Oh.
>> So like I never had I didn't get an
iPhone until super super super late in
life. I never had like the newest gaming
console. Like I always like was far
behind the curve. And so like growing up
with very frugal parents I realized okay
like I need to figure out how to make
money. so I can afford the things I want
to afford. And I grew up very frugally
because of them. Like I repeated that.
But then I asked my dad on this drive.
We were going to go play pickle ball and
I asked him, "Hey dad, like if you could
go back in time and change anything,
what would you have done?" He said,
"Well, maybe I would have started living
a little bit earlier." Living a little
sooner.
>> Was money a big topic for you guys
growing up or
>> No, we wouldn't really talk about it.
>> Oh, interesting.
>> Yeah. It was just you had to like
formulate your own thoughts about money
probably when you're
>> Yeah. But like but I I think that like I
I realized that I can't just continue
saving money for the sake of money. Like
I don't like looking at a bank account
and just seeing it go up. That's not
exciting for me.
>> Meanwhile, Jack, you're showing me your
numbers. Be like, "Yo, I just took
this." [laughter]
>> Yeah. Like that. That's cool. But it's
cool because it's it's not cool when the
S&P 500 goes up and I own S&P 500. I
like it if I'm like, I want to start
selling options on this stock and then I
see that that strategy worked out. It's
like, yeah, it's like it's growth. It's
something that's experimental. That's
fun.
>> Well, see, I would I want Okay, so now I
want to ask the same question to Graham,
which is that did your parents stress
money growing up? Because maybe this is
where we are very similar. My dad was
always talking about money. Like he
would not like that was his favorite
time.
>> No, my parents never talked about money.
Um and I didn't uh I was just always
inherently a saver of of everything.
Like my parents did go through money
problems, but I was not aware of it.
Like you would have no idea as like a
five or six.
>> So when you wanted like a video game or
something when you were 10, what what
would you do? Did you say mom I want
this? Usually they would say you have to
like wait for Christmas or like oh your
birthday's in a few months and you'll
have to wait for then. But it was all
like I never wanted anything expensive.
It was maybe like a Game Boy
>> or like like a new a Nintendo 64 game.
They were like 60 bucks and it was
always like oh we'll wait for Christmas
or maybe your grandma will buy that for
you. Like
>> so you kind of learn delayed
gratification at a young age. I like
that.
>> Yeah certainly. But by the time I
figured out they had, you know, some
money problems, like I was like 15, 16,
17, eight. And by then my habits were
already like very frugal. I was just
naturally just wired, I think, to like
accumulate and save.
>> I was a squirrel in a past life and just
like finding the nuts and just burying
them away.
>> He loves nuts.
>> He really loves about those those nuts.
>> You got to edit a squirrel in your face
right now. That's be funny. But I was
always a saver. Like I I remember just
getting uh birthday money,
>> Christmas money, like just things like
this. And I wouldn't spend it. I would
keep it in an envelope
>> uh on like a dresser cabinet and I would
just just keep adding. I like adding to
it.
>> I think some people are wired to save
>> and some people are wired to spend. And
>> I don't know what you are. You're kind
of like in the middle. You're a weird
hybrid. You're a mutant.
>> I would say I felt like I was wired to
like to save, but then I just sort of
changed because I realized I wasn't very
happy doing that. And yes, I still save
and I save very aggressively, but I'm
not going to ever hesitate at something
that would like make my life a little
bit more comfortable when the math makes
sense.
>> Okay.
>> And you?
>> Oh, I'm definitely wired as a saver.
>> And are you happy with that?
>> Uh, so far I've lived a pretty happy
life, but yeah, I think to your point, I
could live a little bit more for sure.
Like I was talking to my girlfriend
about what you said last night and she
was like, "You do whatever you want to
do." But still, it's like, you know, I
just want to be responsible with the
money cuz it's like, I don't know. She's
like, "You do whatever you want to, but
those lie flat seats sound [laughter]
awesome."
>> I
as like a philosophical argument, I
think that being a good steward of money
is to like be intentional about it. And
I think that it's unconscious behavior.
I think it's it lacks intentionality to
just say every dollar that I get, I'm
immediately going to throw into this
index fund past a certain point.
Obviously, this like this conversation
does not apply to many people. It's like
if you are if you are a crazy spender
then you should be more intentional
about your money. If you are a crazy
saver you should be more intentional
about you know
>> interesting uh in the index group
there's a link down below in the
description. It's a group of like 30
highle entrepreneurs business owners
someone provided and I'll do a shout out
here his spending fund sheet.
>> Oh yeah I like that. It was really
interesting and it was almost a tax
bracket of how much you could spend
guilt-free, guaranteed, and the money
comes off the top into an account that's
purposely meant to spend. And obviously,
if you don't spend at all, it rolls over
to the next year, but it's money
specifically just earmarked for
whatever.
>> And it was interesting, but like up to
the first $150,000, it was like 5%. Mhm.
>> And then from $150 to $500,000 of
income, it went to like 10%. And then
incrementally and then like above, you
know, a million a year, it was 25%. And
just kept going up all the way to 95%.
So everything earned above X amount. 95%
of that is meant for fun. It's like a
bonus, like we don't need that much
more, so we may as well just enjoy it. I
thought that was quite interesting and
that might be a good way to go about it
is just to say hey based on a percentage
3% no matter what I'm putting it aside
or 5% 10% whatever it might be I got to
find a way to spend that.
>> Yeah. And I talked to a lot of people
that have the same save regime that we
do and that's kind of what I tell them
too is like set aside 5% of your
paycheck every month and just be like
that's the money you can spend. And so
maybe I should do that. I should tell
all of them.
>> Maybe I save aside 0%. I should do that.
>> I'm sorry guys. I'm sorry. It's just
it's unconscious. So, what do you think
is the best way to save money?
>> Tracking, automating. Tracking and
automating. That's what I would do.
>> How do you track and automate
>> in So, so I track everything manually
cuz I'm OCD about it.
>> But every expense I log in an app uh
especially discretionary expenses. So,
that goes into my spending tracker app
and I've had it since 2014. I've tracked
every expense since 2014. And then at
the end of every month, I put that into
a spreadsheet and I do all my
categories. I just kind of see how the
trends go in terms of discretionary
spending. Uh, and I have a sheet for
every year. So, 2026, 2025, all the way
to 201 like 14. And so, that's how I
track my expenses. And that's what got
me in a great place of saving initially
in 2014. I just haven't stopped because
it's now a habit.
>> May I provide a piece of unsolicited
advice?
>> You have already done a lot.
>> I think I found a way for you to spend
some money. A bookkeeper.
>> Ah, I have a bookkeeper.
>> Oh, but they don't do that for you. uh
not my personal expenses.
>> Some of this though is important
psychologically that you go through your
own expenses.
>> Yeah.
>> Like it's it's like trying to outsource
uh you know uh tracking your meals
throughout the day. It's like something
that you need to be made aware of to
make the decisions that help you long
term. I would argue I've probably
overdone it at this point. You know,
2014 till now is 12 years. I probably
had overdone it after 4 years to be
honest. But at that point, I was like,
well, I'm just I'm so addicted to this.
Or not really addicted, it's such an
ingrained habit that I'm just doing it.
And I like seeing my spreadsheet. So
that's also part of it.
>> What do you get from it? What what does
that tell you? What do you
>> perspective? I love perspective. So like
anytime I'm feeling bad about my
financial situation or where I'm at,
where I'm at in life, I look at this
sheet and I'm like, oh, like 5 years
ago, me would have been really happy
with where I am today. And sometimes
that gives you some perspective and some
pauses like, oh, you're actually you're
doing good. You're doing well. You're
like progressing. And you know, I even
do that with my YouTube stats. So like I
have a spreadsheet from like 2021 of
like all the videos we posted, how many
views they got after 30 days, 7 days, 24
hours. I'm looking at this, I'm like,
"Okay, well the floor of views is going
up." So back in 2021, maybe I got 10,000
views after 30 days. And now it's like
130,000. I'm like, "Oh, this looks
great." So every time I think I'm
failing at something, I can look at this
sheet and it's like, "Oh, you know,
you're you're not doing too bad." Why do
you think that you're failing at things?
I don't know. I have this constant
stress cloud above my head thinking like
>> I'm not doing enough or like doing doing
well enough or I kind of I kind of
really like working too. I have the like
this work ethic of always I have like
this this desire to keep going.
>> Um
probably comparison too like comparison
is a thief of joy but sometimes I look
at what other creators are doing or what
other successful people are doing or
stuff like that and I'm like dang why
can't that be me? that I already have a
great life. So, it's like ah I I could
use some more of Jack. Jack. I need more
Jack in my life.
>> Would you say that you were wealthy?
>> No. Half the time maybe. H
>> half. So, you don't have a resolute
answer. It's
>> No, I don't have a resolute answer. I
don't think I'm wealthy.
>> If someone else had your exact
financials, would you call them wealthy?
>> Income?
>> I'd say they're wealthy or doing very
well. Yeah, sure. But I do not feel
wealthy.
And Graham, do you feel wealthy?
>> No. The answer is always [laughter]
the the answer to for feeling wealthy is
always double from what you currently
have. Is technically when people say
they feel wealthy and it's always
double.
>> But shouldn't that tell you something?
Like isn't there something to be drawn
from that?
>> You know what it is? I think it's just
humility. I think as soon as you say,
"Yeah, I feel wealthy." It's just an ego
thing. It's not it's not about
expressing this to a million people, but
it's about feeling happy and
comfortable.
>> I don't know, man. I just think there's
so much value in a you know, a dollar
that uh
>> you you just got to be
>> I feel wealthy in time right now, which
I think is is good, which is like in in
the flexibility of my time, the choices
I make with my time, and I think that's
the ultimate goal anyway. So, in terms
of that, yeah, I think I've already kind
of won the game there. But in terms of
like monetary value, I feel like maybe
not as wealthy as other people, but
maybe their time isn't as free.
>> Do you have any tips or like secrets for
saving money that have worked really
well for you?
>> I used to uh put like cash in an
envelope like on a monthly basis and
just like
you know like extra cash that I that I
would have I just put it in an envelope
and just kind of put it away and just
out of sight, out of mind. And then at
the end of like, you know, six months,
you look at this envelope and it's got
like 800 or 10, you know, $1,000. It's
really nice. Where do you get cash? Like
I just don't see cash.
>> I got $600 on me right now. I love cash.
>> Why do you keep cash?
>> I don't know. I I was always taught that
like a gentleman should have have cash
just for like opport, you know, like
random opportunities.
>> Opportunities. I thought you were going
to say like, oh, for like tipping people
out or for like
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's what I mean by
opportunities. like tipping people out
or like
>> oh it's not like a cutting a deal
somewhere or like you know some
sometimes you're in Chinatown and they
take cash only or like last night we
went to a Takaria cash only right
>> and debit
>> and debit but still like I had cash even
if we were screwed
>> so if someone's dissatisfied with where
they're at financially and maybe it's
their spending problem let's let's say
realistically if you're listening and
you're dissatisfied with where you're at
financially let's all agree it's
probably a spending problem 80% of the
time it's a spending problem 20% an
income problem
>> if you're one of these 80% what would
you recommend they use for payments?
Should they pay for everything with a
credit card, debit card, cash, buy now,
pay later? What would you recommend them
to pay for things?
>> Well, as a as a blanket statement, yeah,
debit or cash. That's a blanket
statement for everybody. Obviously,
every everyone's different. I'm not
going to say everyone should use a
credit card and get that 2% cash back
because really, if you have a spending
problem, that 2% isn't going to make a
big difference, right? Is this a good
strategy? Like, should people employ
actually going back and paying in cash?
I mean, if it physically pains you to
give that cash up, then yeah, or debit
at least, so that you can't overspend.
Yeah,
>> I tend to agree with that. The studies
show that people are more willing to
spend money if it's on a credit card
than they will be if it's actually with
like physical cash or on a debit card.
>> Or these days, it's tap to pay, so it's
even worse.
>> Yeah.
>> Because it doesn't even feel like you're
spending money. And I've spent, you
know, a day's worth of of transactions
once. I'm like, I don't even remember
these because you just
>> pretty soon it's all going to be AI for
spending. You're just going to be able
to walk in, take something off the
shelf, put it in a cart, walk out.
There's going to be no tap to pay, no
credit card.
>> That's what Amazon tried to do. But
remember, it was just like people
watching the groceries, the grocery
shoppers from like another country
>> for now. For now, but eventually it's
going to get good enough, I believe it,
where they're going to make it so
seamless.
>> You're just going to look at your
statement and be like, "How did I spend
$800 today?" Like, what? But you just
like picking things and walking around
with them and then that's it.
>> The obstacle to spend has drastically
decreased. I was in a Uniqlo in Japan.
You go and you get this basket, throw a
bunch of clothes in and at checkout you
literally just plop the basket on this
thing like on this saucer and it reads
all of the tags in the basket and it's
just like here you go. Tap the thing and
then you pay. And I spent like $100. I
didn't even need to like get the thing
scanned. I didn't need to talk to an
attendant. I didn't need to do any of
that. I just dropped my basket in the
thing. It scanned it immediately. Just
tapped, walked out.
>> Yeah, that's crazy.
>> It takes like a minute to leave the
store after you've picked out your
things before you've paid. It's crazy.
>> So, yeah, I would say that cash. Spend
with cash.
>> If people were to walk away from this
podcast with one idea, what would it be?
>> They could categorize every single thing
they want to spend money on and add 20%
to what they are currently spending on
those things. So let's say you you put
in an Excel spreadsheet, you write down
rent, food, transportation, recreation,
whatever it is, you have that in column.
Add 20% or even up to 50% and just total
how much you would need. It's usually a
lot less than than you would think. And
so like that's an experiment that I
challenge a lot of people to do, which
is like, oh, give me an idea of your
annual expenses for your like not your
dream life, but like your target life,
like where you would like to be, and
then give me uh uh basically the same
column of of your dream life. You know,
I want to spend from $3,000 a month in
rent to $5,000 a month in rent or $8,000
a month in rent. And do that for every
single category. It's usually a lot less
than you would think. And I think that
helps a lot of people understand like
they don't have to swing for the fences
or like do the yellow sports betting in
order to get there. They can do it with
discipline and investing. And maybe I
can take some of that own medicine
myself.
>> How often do you see people trying to
look rich in San Francisco? Not often.
In fact, it's the opposite there. You
want to look poor. The more the poorer
you look in San Francisco, the richer
you are, which is the [laughter] so
messed up, but it's absolutely true.
Like I've seen some people looking like
slobs and they've got like 20 billion
dollars.
>> You know, I saw this funny chart. It was
a bell curve and instead of the like the
left side was just someone looking
homeless
>> and then it was the guy with the Lambo
and the suit and then it went down to
the billionaires and it was like the
homeless again.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean I think there's a
famous tweet. It's like the five levels
of wealth and you know it's like level
one you have a Timex, level two you have
I don't know what it is like an Omega,
level three Rolex, level four PC
Philippe, level five Apple Watch, you
know, it's like it's just like that. So
I agree. I think it's such a power move
to be able to walk in anywhere with
sweatpants and a just kind of raggedy
t-shirt.
>> Yeah, sometimes the sweatpants with the
raggedy t-shirt and holes, those guys
have a lot of
>> Why don't you have a raggedy Do you feel
like you're not there yet? What do you
mean a raggedy t-shirt? Yeah, the thing
that you just said.
>> You should see Yeah, dude. You should
see me when I'm not going and filming a
podcast. Usually when I'm coming in
here, we're filming.
>> I've seen you before. Like when I lived
with you. I saw you when you I feel like
Okay. You have that one. You know what's
hilarious? Actually, oh man. You're
probably not going to be okay with me
doing this, but I
>> to me I wouldn't even
>> You're not going to be okay with me
saying or doing this, but we were in LA
for an index meeting and you were
reaching to the back of the car to grab
something and your shirt was kind of
cropped and it and it came up a little
bit. is going to hate this.
>> And uh and your underwear was peeking
out from your pants and your underwear
had a gaping hole about this big on it.
>> And and I couldn't believe it. And I
actually took a picture. So like he and
it's like he was trying to flaunt it
because he was re I don't know why he
was reaching in the back of the car for
as long as he was, but he was. And I I
was able to get my phone out and take a
picture because he had a huge hole in
his and like dude and and this is what I
said. I literally said, "Hey, Graham,
like let's be honest, cheap, not frugal,
but you are wearing underwear with huge
holes in it. Dude, what are you your
functional? It still works.
>> It's not functional, bro. It's you're
like your naked butt is touching your
pants.
>> Naked. It was a whole like
>> It's not Let's refer to the picture,
dude. Yeah, it's maybe this big on an
iPhone." Like, yeah. So, like realistic.
And you know what I said? I was like,
"Dude, I'm going to buy you some new
underwear." And so, I texted I texted I
know. I texted our contractor. I was
like, "Hey, can you run out to like
Costco to get some new underwear?" They
didn't have like extra small or whatever
I thought your size was. [laughter] So,
so I I swear, no, it's not messed up cuz
he is extra. But I I I did ask I was
like, "Can you" And I was like I was
like, "I'll pay for it." Cuz I I was
trying to buy you underwear to show you
like, "Dude, you should not be wearing
underwear with huge holes in." So, he's
talking a big game. I never got the
>> They didn't have an extra small.
>> Somebody send Graham some underwear.
>> I There's a very specific underwear I
like. It's the Kirkland Signature
Premium Whatever.
>> I want the same one you have, though.
It's not the ones that I personally, you
know, took off my body, you know, but
>> I used to wear holes with uh shirts with
holes in them, too, like undershirts,
like when I was in high school. And uh
yeah, I had a a close girlfriend of mine
tell me like, "That's not cool." I'm
like, "You you can't do that."
>> And how did that feel?
>> I was like, "Thank you." I
>> So, you were receptive to
>> Yeah, I needed that. Yeah.
>> Would you wear underwear with holes in
it?
>> No.
No hole.
>> It's It's functional, dude. I stop I
stop insurance if they get a little
shrunk. I just don't like
>> How many holes does your underwear need
until you determine it is not
functional?
>> When it's when it's like when it's
unusable.
>> When it's more than 50% holes than
actual fabric.
>> Yeah, I would say is a good probably 35.
You got to cut it off.
>> So, if it's a tiny hole, you're okay
with it. Do you think there's a good way
for people to look rich for cheap?
>> Maybe just the way they carry
themselves. I mean, you can get a lot
you can get away with a lot of stuff.
You just carry yourself like you you
look rich. Yeah. So, that's the cheapest
way. You just look like you belong
there.
>> I love these videos. I see them all the
time of like five cars to get under
$30,000 that make you look rich.
>> And you get you get served those videos.
I get those
>> all the time. And it's like an old
Mercedes 500 SL.
>> Yeah. Uh, or you could get like a
Maserati used.
>> Oh, yeah. Those depreciate like crazy.
>> Older Aston Martins.
>> Good prices. Older BMWs.
>> Great. And then, uh, in terms of like
clothing, a lot of it's just like
getting cheap clothes that you could
tailor a little bit.
>> Yeah. Well tailored clothes. Yeah.
Sometimes like someone's wearing a
welltailored shirt, I can't tell if it's
Laurel Piana or whatever the, you know,
just like a really cheap brand that's
looks good.
>> Yeah. That's funny. Mercedes S-Classes,
too. They depreciate pretty well.
>> Part of me is so tempted just to buy
one. Yeah,
>> cuz I see them on Facebook Marketplace
and some of them I see 18 to $22,000,
>> but no one that's watching this podcast
wants to look rich. They just want to be
rich.
>> It's tempting for me to want that
S-Class Mercedes because they're like 20
grand and these cars were like 150,000
new.
>> Yeah.
>> And they look pretty good and it's like
you're driving around an S-Class.
>> That's pretty for 20 grand. How many
cars do you have?
Do you want people to know that you look
that you are rich? How many how many do
you have? That's the thing. He thinks
that because like the market says
something is worth 20 grand that like
it's worth 20 grand to him. But I'm
like, dude, you don't you don't touch a
lot.
>> 75% of your cars
>> for for 20
you would not have a place to park it.
You'd be asking if you could park it in
my space.
>> Graham's a car guy.
>> My space.
>> And you've always been a car guy.
>> Yeah. I like He has been a car guy.
Yeah, that's true.
>> Yeah.
>> So, if you say that people tune into
this episode not because they want to
look rich, but because they want to be
rich, let's talk about the ways that
people can actually be rich in 2026.
What are the best things that someone
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Louisiana. What are the best things that
someone can do if you're talking to
someone 18 to 35, they got some time on
their hands, maybe they're working a job
part-time. I've always thought that
content creation is a great way to get
you make one copy of something and it
can be viewed, you know, a million
times. So zero cost of marginal
replication, right? Like just like
software. So, I'd say like if you're
young and you're like looking for
something to look to do on the side, you
want to build some sort of skill that
can pay you well in the marketplace,
coding, you could do you could do
podcast or content, but that's a lot
harder. That, you know, we've we've
acknowledged that that's a lot harder
these days because of the saturation,
but you need some sort of skill that
commands a lot of money in the market,
which means that it has to make a lot of
money somewhere down the line in the
whole life cycle of whatever you're
doing, right?
>> What do you think of becoming an AI
consultant? We've had a few people on
the podcast who say you could make 8
to10,000 a month becoming an AI
consultant setting up processes systems
for businesses.
>> I agree. I think that's a that's like a
huge asymmetry right now, right? Just
like if you were joining Tik Tok in
2019, there were no there were hardly
any creators on there, right? So there's
this mismatch in the market. You have
all these people wanting to watch Tik
Tok in 2019, not a lot of creators. So
immediately you just get all this
demand. Same thing with small
businesses. They're not on AI. Like
these these are mom and pop shops. So if
you're like the AI consultant and you
can AIify their business, then great.
Like property management companies could
probably use an AI person. Yeah.
>> And a lot of that stuff can be automated
or agentic. How often are side hustles
worth it? If they pay you more than your
hourly rate, I think they are worth it.
So let's say you make 25 bucks an hour
and you can do a side hustle that pays
you 35. I think it's worth it, right?
Right? Or or you're flipping stuff on
Facebook Marketplace and maybe you make
a hundred bucks for 3 hours work, 33
bucks an hour. I still think that's
worth it because it's maybe fun for you
too, right? So it also depends on how
fun it is. What do you think?
>> Generally not worth it. Okay. Why?
>> I think you get way more value doing
what you're already doing, but to a
better degree. And that's even if you
can pick up extra hours at the job you
already have, I think that would yield
probably a better result. And I think
even if you were to work harder without
compensation early on, I think you'll
see a better long-term outlook.
>> Okay. What if you're a server at like
Applebee's
and you want you can either pick up more
hours for 20 bucks, 20 bucks an hour, or
you can do a side hustle. I would say
the side hustle needs to then be a hobby
or something that you would be doing
regardless that hopefully makes money
>> or something that you're uniquely good
at.
>> Okay. I think most people have something
that they're just better than average
at. Like Jack for instance
[clears throat]
>> would do really well as a as a side
hustle charging for pickle ball lessons.
Like that's one of the things like if he
was just like just a random guy or
whatever. You I think you would do
really well and all these like 70
yearear-olds who want to play pickle
ball hire Jack at like 50 bucks an hour
to teach them how to play and strategy.
I think you would do really well.
>> If you want pickle ball lessons in Las
Vegas, you know where to find me.
Instagram link down below. JLS LB Y.
Which side hustles are not worth it?
>> Drop shipping. [laughter] Is that a side
hustle?
>> Drop shipping. Day trading.
>> Anything where you can lose money. I
think yes.
>> But you would say something like Turo
might be worth it or Uber might be worth
it. Like I would argue in a lot of those
times it's probably not worth it when
you account for depreciation, some of
the work involved.
>> Yeah, Uber's tough because you have to
figure out what your effective hours,
you know, dollars per hour are after
depreciation and gas and all that stuff.
So yeah, I think I think maybe Uber is
not worth it, but anything that
scalable.
>> Yeah, anything that's not scalable or
like doesn't
or like makes you more tired for your
main hustle where you're not performing
as good. So like an example would be in
Vegas, it's 100° out. If you're
powerwashing sidewalks, you're going to
be tired for your job later. It's just
it's it's 100° out. How are you not
going to be tired? I think that would
affect your main job, right? So at that
point, probably not something like that.
Now, speaking of cars,
with car payments hitting a record high,
why do you think so many people are
willing to go broke for their car?
>> Well, median prices of cars have gone up
by a lot. So, like that's that's
definitely number one. Number two,
probably just social social status and
looks. I'm I'm guessing it's probably a
looks maxing thing.
>> Like, if you want to show up to your
office and you're driving a beater, like
that doesn't look optically as good. But
if you're showing up in like the newest
Subaru, which could could run you 50K
these days, MSRP,
>> like that car payments can be high. So,
it also depends on their interest rate,
right? Interest rates are really high
right now.
>> And their term
>> I have a theory that housing has gotten
so unaffordable that a lot of people
have just said, I'm never going to be
able to afford a house, but I could buy
this really cool car. I agree.
>> And now that's within reach. Or I could
buy this really cool card or this
collectible or this thing or this watch.
I could afford all these things but not
the house. So, I may as well just kind
of get what's in reach.
>> You think it's status or you think it's
within reach stuff?
>> I think it's within reach, but I also
think it's a status thing.
>> Yeah.
>> But I think mostly because lending
standards for cars are like just it's
wild.
>> Yeah.
>> What they can approve you for
>> and they don't have as strict
underwriting requirements as a house
does.
>> That's right. With a house, they have
very strict underwriting requirements.
Right. You you need to be you you need
to have like a certain debt to income
ratio. But with a car, it's like
whatever. It's like, "Oh, you got good
credit here. Here's a loan."
>> I love these videos. I also get these on
Instagram of the car dealer.
>> Uh
>> Oh, yeah. When they go and they're like,
"What's your car payment?"
>> No. No. It's the deal. It's a dealer.
>> Yeah. We just got this person a new
Dodge Challenger. You will not believe
the deal that they got. They got a a
purchase price $45,000, 0% down, 35%
interest with monthly payments of $1,000
for the next seven years.
>> Yeah. They don't ever say the interest,
but it's always like Yeah. zero down,
>> no money down, no credit, and and the
loan term is like 20 years.
>> Yeah.
>> But and then you see this this guy is
probably shouldn't be driving a Corvette
driving a brand new Corvette.
>> Yeah.
>> Like a very nice one, too.
>> Yeah.
>> Or or it's like or it's like a brand new
Mercedes SUV.
>> Sure. Yeah.
>> And you know,
>> but those people can't afford a house in
any market. Like even if housing was
more affordable, they would still not be
able to afford a house. I would heir a
little bit more on the side of like,
hey, it's marketing, it's consumerism,
and a lot of people want things because
they're told they should want it or
because people that they're around also
want the same thing.
>> And so, like, a lot of it's hobby
hopping and and
>> yes, people may be buying cars cuz they
can't afford the house that they would
have been otherwise able to afford, but
realistically, they're just
overspending.
>> What car purchase immediately tells you
that someone's bad with money? Maybe
like a Dodge Hellcat.
>> Don't those those are like the number
one repo car, right? I think they're
[laughter] the number one repossessed
car or the most definitely stolen. It
might be the most stolen. I feel like
it's a Challenger or like a Charger.
There's one of those. It's It's a Dodge
of some sort usually.
>> Yeah.
>> The thing is like if here's an
interesting thoughtprovoking thing you
say, Graham, that people are buying cars
because they cannot afford houses. But
the same people that are buying cars
because they can't afford houses are not
able to afford the cars that they're
buying. Like this is
>> But they're able to get it. They're not
even able to get the house. That's a
good point because otherwise they would
just get the house.
>> They're able to sneak their way into
>> but also if they were to sneak their way
into the house then they would be doomed
just as just the same
>> cuz they stretching for something that
they shouldn't be
>> stretching probably retain more value
than the car would.
>> That's true. That's true.
>> Car would be worth a lot less. When do
you think it's worth it to buy versus
lease a car? Buying is almost always
better than leasing in my opinion
financially, but people have different
priorities or people might only want the
car for two years because of business
reasons or whatever it may be or they
can write right off the lease payments
or uh they don't like maintenance so
they want the newest newest car so they
can have maintenance covered under the
warranty. Sure, I get that. But I think
in terms of just financially, yeah,
buying a car is the cheapest way. There
was a moment I was so close to leasing a
car. It was uh a year ago and it was a
Tesla Model 3 when they had the
promotional offer of like $349 a month
>> zero down for like a brand new Tesla
Model 3. And I was doing the math on
this thinking how on earth
>> does this make financial sense because
buying the car you would lose more value
than you just paying the lease. And the
reason they were able to get it down so
much is that they were pushing inventory
out,
>> getting rid of some of the old stock for
the newer cars and throwing in that
$7,500 tax credit.
>> That's how and then as soon as that went
away Yes. And so for a brief period of
time, it was cheaper to lease a Tesla
Model 3 than buying one.
>> I was also taught by uh an ex car
dealer. She used to run the McLaren
dealership. She just told me on the
side, you should probably lease these.
And I think that was just because
they're super cars. They depreciate
quite quickly and you're probably not
going to want to drive it for longer
than 5 10 years. Just lease it.
>> Yeah.
>> Does it ever make sense to get a loan on
a car?
>> Oh, like finance the car.
>> Mhm.
>> Uh depending on the interest rate. Yeah.
>> If you can't purchase it outright.
>> Yeah. I mean, that's what most people
do.
>> But does it make sense? Cuz what most
people do does not make sense.
>> I think as long as the monthly payment
makes sense for your budget, then that's
fine. But obviously, I would want you to
pay off your car as quickly as you can,
especially with interest rates right now
being over 8%, 9% on some certain auto
loans. Yeah.
>> But wouldn't it make more sense for them
to just buy something that they can
afford in cash and then invest the
difference?
>> It would. Yeah, it would if if they're
willing to, but sometimes like let's say
your budget's 10K. Um, maybe you can't
find a used car that you maybe the used
car that you're probably going to get is
like way too old or you want something
in the middle there. For 10k you could
find 2003 500 SL Mercedes.
>> Not what you should be buy first.
>> Probably not working.
>> Yeah.
>> 100,000 miles, but you look incredible.
>> You're going to have to replace one
small sprocket and it's going to cost
you $700.
>> What a sprocket. What's a sprocket?
>> It's just like a term for like a just
like
>> It's like a car.
>> Yeah, it's like a widget.
>> It's a widget.
>> Yeah.
>> Car widget.
>> Never heard of that before.
>> It's just like It's
>> I'm sure there's some mechanic.
>> A spring. A widget. A sprocket. It's
like just a small part of the car and
it's going to cost you it's going to
cost you up the wazoo.
>> Yeah.
>> You know what that is, too? Yeah. It's a
>> lawsuit. Yeah.
>> What What is the best car to buy in
every income bracket? Let's say you're
making $50,000 a year. What's the best
car to buy? Probably like a Honda Civic.
What about a $100,000 a year?
>> Oh, at that point 100,000 maybe like a
Toyota RAV 4. 200,000 a year. Something
with a low depreciation rate. Let's
think of that. Let's Let's think about
that. $200,000 a year. A lot of Toyota
SUVs.
>> I think Audi's don't really
>> They do. The Toyota has the strongest
resale. A lot of the Toyota for Yeah.
>> What about Tesla? I feel like Teslas are
becoming more of a budget friendly car.
>> They are very budget friendly. They're
electric, which is nice. Um,
>> and low maintenance and repair costs.
>> That is true. And the insurance costs
are very cheap if you get it through
Tesla insurance. So, that's an option.
>> But they do depreciate quite quickly,
>> unless if you buy a used one. I I bought
a new Tesla. Unfortunately, it was one
of the very few financial mistakes I've
ever made in my life. I'm kidding. It
made so many really horrible financial
mistakes, but it depreciated a lot very
quickly.
>> Yeah. And your resale value because
Tesla is such a dynamic pricing company
that you it could just go down like
overnight, right? You've seen that a lot
where they just like they just drop the
price or they go up or they go up, which
is crazy, right? Right. But you're kind
of at the whim of Tesla.
>> You know what's crazy? Right now, the
Tesla Model X has gone up in value 30%.
should have bought that instead of
Ethereum.
>> I couldn't kidding. That's a meme. It's
a meme. It's a It's a meme on Twitter.
It's like, oh, this went up 6%. Guess
you're outperforming Ethereum for the
past 10 years, you know?
>> Yeah. I couldn't believe it. This is one
of the stupid decisions, but I was
tracking Tesla values for a year. And I
was watching because here's the thing. I
I don't need a new car, but I want to
upgrade I want to upgrade my Tesla Model
3 at some point. An S or an X. I just
want longer range.
>> No Cybertruck.
uh for the right deal I would. Okay. But
I mostly in SRN X and I just want longer
range. So I've been tracking the values
and I was doing the math of like okay
here's how much my car is depreciating
in value. Here's how much these are
coming down. This is coming down more. I
don't need a new car. So I'm just going
to wait. I sort of throwing some lowball
offers on Facebook Marketplace just for
fun. Like local cars
>> there.
>> Just for fun. Like you have no intention
of buying these cars just
>> No, he would buy them. Yeah. But he'd
rather spend 90 hours of his time
[laughter] across a year to try to save.
I'll give you $400 on
>> I'll give you an example. There was a
2022 Tesla Model S. They were asking
like $43,000 for this car and I threw
out $38,000 and I'll pick it up this
weekend and they said no. And they ended
up probably selling at like 40. But I
thought, hey, at 38 I'd buy this car. So
anyway, then Elon announces that they're
going to stop making the Model X and the
Model S.
>> It goes up.
>> And they shot up in value. The X went up
30%. The S went up about 15%. And the
Model S Plaid went up about 20%. And I
remember I had an opportunity to buy a
2021 Tesla Model S Plaid, moderate
miles, uh $47,000.
That same car today would probably be
worth 58.
Live and learn.
>> You live and learn.
>> So, what did you learn from that then?
>> Maybe I should have just uh made more
offers.
>> More offers. So, it's about the offers.
It's not about like Are you more mad
that you lost out on the 30%.
>> Or did you want the car?
>> I think you you probably
>> I wanted I was more mad about the 30%.
But here's the other one. Here's the
here's the other regret that I have.
>> Do you see what I'm saying?
>> I know. I don't like I'm saying the the
loss is greater of like comfort, of
security, of happiness. Like there's
there is value to that. And you have
abundance of money. There is no more
value. I'm also happy with my car.
Here's where I am upset. Elon Musk
lowered the price of the Cybertruck to
$59,000
>> and I was so close to pulling the
trigger, but I was watching the
Cybertruck values continuing to go down
and I thought, well, in probably a year
I could get the nonbudget version of the
Cybertruck for the same price as the new
lower-end one. And so I didn't do it.
But and then of course he raises the
price $10,000 and now all of them are
selling for way more.
>> So
>> So what do you want at this exact
moment? What I would love is a probably
a 2023 late model or 2024 Tesla Model S
or X with hardware 4
uh for a reasonable price.
>> What is reasonable price?
>> Uh market minus 15%. So if [laughter]
>> Okay. So, if anyone in my audience has
something that matches that criteria,
preferably California, Arizona, Utah, or
Nevada,
>> and you would sell me a car like that,
and you have that car that you're just
trying to get rid of, but you don't want
to deal with the hassle of selling it,
putting it up on an auction site or
anything, reach out to me with the email
in the description. And the the benefit
with me is that, you know, it's me. I'm
not going to like uh scam you. Yeah.
They're not going to pay you like
drastically under market 15%.
>> Could you flip it and sell it like at
market to someone else in the day? Yes.
But like you can sell it to
>> a lot of people don't want a lot of
people don't want to put their car on
Facebook marketplace and deal with tire
kickers. Deal with process
>> and so at least give me the discount of
just the convenience of going with me
and I am your buyer. I will take great
care of the car. I'm not a wholesaler.
>> You'll sign a shirt too.
>> I I'll sign a shirt. We'll hang out. I
think that's a great value. And on top
of that, you can also buy his used Model
3 from market plus 15%. [laughter]
>> It does come with full self-driving
>> famous Graham Stefen car. He's literally
willing to meet with some dude off
Facebook Marketplace and hang out with
him for an hour and a half to save
$1,500.
>> Graham is just StubHub. You're StubHub.
Basically, you get the 15% premium on
the sale, but you want the 15% discount
on the buy.
>> You make money in the spread. [laughter]
Yeah, that's you. You're stubb.
>> I would sell my Model 3 for the right
price though.
>> For the right price. [laughter]
>> But it comes
>> What is the right price? What do you
think you're going to
describe what exactly is your
>> So I almost I almost sold my Model 3. Um
and someone's going to pay $20,000 for
it.
>> How is it worth 20,000? Right. So
explain what is your Model 3? What year?
How many miles?
>> It's a 2019 55,000 mi on it. Uh with
full self-driving. Uh it is the premium
plus I think is what they called it.
>> What's the market value?
>> Uh like 18
>> probably $18. Uh the hard part is that
it has full self-driving.
>> Okay, got it.
>> And so that in and of itself I paid
$8,000 for it. Now it is hardware three,
but the full self-driving you don't get
the full 8,000 when you sell it unless
someone really values that full
self-driving. And so you have other cars
without the full self-driving salt,
maybe a little less, some with full
self-driving salt, a little more.
Gotcha.
>> Uh, but I had a guy ready to pick it up
at 20, and it was me that decided to
keep the car, but he wanted to buy it.
>> Got it.
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, well.
>> Do you think that there are actual like
tears to wealth that you could say pass
this amount? Like this is the line that
I draw. Pass this amount, yes. Before
this amount, no. How would you draw true
tears to wealth? Uh, I think that
depends on like what you want to spend
in retirement. I think we talked about
this a lot, right? But yeah, tier one,
100K. I like that. I think that's a
really good number.
>> 100K in terms of like net worth.
>> Yeah,
>> I think that's like the six figure net
worth is a goal that everyone can aspire
to and probably reasonably hit within a
reasonable time frame if they're being
disciplined and diligent with their
finances. So, that's definitely tier
one.
>> And what opens up at this tier? uh
psychological comfort of knowing you
have six figures. Compound interest is a
little bit better at the $100,000 level,
especially if you have $100,000
invested, right? We know that. Um what
would be what would be tier two? I don't
know. I think Oh, also tier one, like
the confidence that you can got there.
Like that's that's huge. I think a lot
of people can't get to the five figure
mark. So, if you can get to the six
figure mark, I think that proves that
you are an exceptional accumulator of
wealth, at least in some fashion, right?
You can't you can't get there
accidentally and you can't get there by
spending too much. So it proves to me
that you have some sort of discipline.
Tier two tier two varies. I think a tier
2 is between like 500k to a million. And
I think at that level it's like okay you
could probably reasonably assume let's
let's say you have 500k and you're let's
say before the age of 40 you can
reasonably reasonably assume that this
person will get to coast fire or
something like that. And define
coastfire.
>> Uh coastfire is the point at which your
investments are right now in which if
you never touched it until the age of
full retirement age, which is 67, it
would grow to a full retirement. So
let's say you have 500k right now, you
know, with compound interest 8% returns
in the S&P 500. By the time you're 67,
it'll be worth, you know, whatever, $2.4
million. And that would cover your
retirement traditionally at a 4%
withdrawal rate. I think that's a
reasonable goal that a lot of people can
get to um with some diligence. So that
that's probably like the next big level
like coastfire or around 500k depend I
don't know 500k is a good psychological
level too and then maybe like tier three
like ultra like ultra tier three is like
maybe like 5 mil
>> and what happens there I think that's
like just financial freedom pretty much.
What do you think? Don't you agree like
5 mil? I feel like you just like
>> I I tend to agree and I think that there
are some caveats, but I think that
$100,000, yes, I think you've proven to
yourself that you have the discipline
that is necessary to like actually
achieve financial freedom. $500,000 like
it it bumps your likelihood of financial
freedom. Let's say at $100,000 it was
like 10% or 15%. At $500,000 like okay,
you've sustained this for a long enough
period of time to be at like 80%. like
85 90% like that's a huge gap for like a
smallalish change in numbers and then
yeah 5 million it's like okay at a 4%
withdrawal where you have $2,000 like
$200,000 a year that's very hard to
spend if you have reasonable standards
of living and uh and then past that what
would you say is like the next level
>> dude I I haven't gotten that far
[laughter]
uh trying to think uh I've never gotten
that far but oh yeah no I know what you
mean but like I haven't really thought
about it because it it felt like 5
million was the frontier number. Like
once you get there, it's great. But if I
had to give it another number maybe
where like your lifestyle changes so
much or like you have the freedom to
spend on whatever you want without any
repercussions like 25.
>> 25.
>> Yeah. I feel like 25 is like a good
number. I don't know why. I just It's
arbitrary by the way. 25.
>> So you don't you never really thought
past 5 million?
>> No.
>> Why not?
>> I don't know. I never thought I would
need more than 5 million.
>> But now that you have $5 million, do you
think past it? Well, you don't know if I
have $5 million.
>> Oh, am I not allowed to say that?
>> Oh, you can say it. Sure.
>> Okay. So, like are do you think past it?
>> Yeah, I've like thought past it, but I'm
like,
how is that gonna materially change my
life so much? I don't really know.
>> Lifelats
probably lie flat seats.
>> It's tough though in San Francisco cuz
in San Francisco 3 and a half gets you a
house like a a medium
>> twobedroom, oneb, 1100T house in a
decent area.
>> Yeah. Yeah, I mean 20 like 10 20 any
anything in the double digit millions
would be really nice. You know, you
could probably buy a house in cash,
chill.
That's probably where it's at. And then
maybe the next tier is like when you can
afford a private jet, which is like, you
know, 150. Do you ever aspire to have
that level of wealth? I think it's an
aspiration, but you know, if I don't get
there, it's fine.
>> It's an aspiration when you're sitting
on the tarmac
waiting for a delay. Yeah.
>> But then you're like, well,
>> yeah, you have to make so much. You
know, it's exponential how much more
money you have to make to even to even
have the private jet, unless you do like
net jets or something.
>> So, what aspirations do you still have
at your current net worth?
>> My current aspiration is that I really
like making content. I still I still
enjoy it. I'm sure Graham, you enjoy it,
too. And I like helping people with
their finances. Like, anytime someone
comes up to me and says, "Oh, your video
helped me invest." or your video helped
me figure out my budget better. Like I
feel like that's my purpose. So I want
to see how far I can take it. So maybe
my aspiration is just like reaching more
people and building out more of a
business around that in like a way
that's not just like something, you
know, snake oil.
>> No, no, no. So you would just say that
you're very satisfied and content with
where you're at right now.
>> Yeah. But then how do we juxtapose that
with what you were saying earlier this
episode? How you were like, I constantly
feel an urge like I need to be working.
I need to be saving more money. I need
to be doing this. I'm not doing well
enough.
>> Yeah, I think maybe that's like me
balancing my professional aspirations
and career with like my overall life
satisfaction and happiness. Like
overall, I'm like, yeah, I'm like a
generally happy person. So, it's hard to
take that away from me, but I am
stressed because I still have these
aspirations to like build a fulfilling,
you know, content business. And what
aspirations do you have, Graham?
Um,
I probably want to find something else
other than the main channel to to fill
my time
>> but something in addition.
>> I want to keep I want to keep growing
something and I feel like I've capped
out on that that main channel to the
point where it's a little repetitive for
me.
>> Yeah,
>> the podcast I love but it's not uh as
like intense as like sometimes I like
that building things. I think you like
seeing things go from 0 to one.
>> Yeah, I think so.
>> So, like you you just like seeing that
increase. Like you would probably get a
lot of satisfaction out of growing a
channel from like 0 to 10K more than you
would
>> seeing that number going from 5 to 6
million.
>> I'm trying to put some of that energy
right now to the memberships
>> and like uh really taking that over and
doing a lot on that because I think
there's a lot of potential to go from
zero to one, right,
>> on the membership side of things. And so
if you want to join the memberships, by
the way, I'm putting all my resources
behind that. And so there's a lot of
extra content that you'll get with that.
And I check my phone like every few
hours for comments.
>> He's always on his phone.
>> And we'll have a post show conversation
with Humphrey just talking about a bunch
of other random stuff. So you can also
watch it there.
>> Yeah.
>> So that's probably where I'm going to be
putting focus on. Um other than that,
man, you know what? Like I had this uh
like I really like getting into art and
music and so I've always wanted to do
those things but they just I can never
do them because they just don't it
sounds awful but like I can't quite
monetize it and I I feel like I'm just
spinning wheels if I'm not like
>> making money doing something. So if I
>> like if you're doing something for fun
you're like ah I could be making money
right now.
>> I look at the opportunity cost of like
if I'm let's just say I put together a
band. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm playing drums
in a band and we're like, you know,
rocking out in like a corner of the
house or whatever. Then I'm like, okay,
well, I spent a few hours doing this
when I could have done all these other
things
>> or like maybe doing some artwork or
something. And
>> do you know how that feels or no?
>> Maybe a couple years ago I was more
familiar with that, but I think I just
got to the point where like working for
the sake of just working. Like I don't
What's interesting is that like Graham
will come into the warehouse and we'll
work for a couple hours and he'll be
like, "Dude, I feel like I've been here
for 2 hours and I haven't done
anything." And I'm like, "Okay, well
like what would you like to do?" He's
like, "I I don't know. Let's let's put
this shelf up and then we'll put a shelf
up and then after that he'll be like,
"Okay, I feel good. I feel like we got
something done today." Like I'm I'm glad
I came in today because we we checked
the box and I'm like that's
>> I [clears throat] I don't feel like My
happiness is tied to like putting up a
shelf or like like checking a box of
like, oh, well, I got this work done
today. Yes. Will I I'll feel better if I
get more work work done in a day as
opposed to less. Like, yeah, sure.
Absolutely. But I also like there are
other things that I enjoy doing aside
from working and like making money.
>> Yeah. You don't want to waste time. If
if I sit around doing nothing for an
hour, I'm like, I just wasted an hour of
my life. I'm never going to get that
back. But at least if I put up a shelf,
>> but something that I
>> The thing that I would question with
that is like don't you think at a
certain point like if Warren Buffett
who's worth, let's say, hundred billion
dollars is, you know, near his, you
know, death bed unfortunately, but like
he's getting older. If he spends an
entire day going over the financial
statements of a of a company as opposed
to spending time with his family, is
that a wasted day? Is that wasted time?
>> Yeah, but I'm not spending time with my
family here. I'm just sitting on the
couch just like twiddling my thumbs just
trying to think of something to do.
>> Exactly. But I think that like I think
that the same rule could be effectively
applied to your situation where it's
like if you're not working, time is
being wasted. Just like you said, if
you're not like you would not enjoy
jamming out even though you love playing
the drums and you've played for most of
your life, you love all of these things
in life, but you you will not let
yourself enjoy it because you feel like
it's wasted time. We should be saving
this for the post show.
>> Yeah. realistically because then we're
gonna go off on a long tangent here.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I know what you mean though.
It's like opportunity cost of time. You
don't really think about it too much,
Jack, but I think Graham and I probably
think about it, which is like my my
current hour could be used for something
more productive, right? And productivity
makes me feel good at the end of the
day. Like when I have a really good
productive day, I feel really good about
myself.
>> Usually the days where I'm having a
quote bad day is when I I'm staring at
the computer trying to do something and
nothing's coming out and it's been like
4 hours of me just sitting there. I'm
like, "Oh, now I feel like I wasted this
time and I also wasted the opportunity
to like go do something else."
>> All right, we got to get back on track
here about like finances. It's It's very
difficult because we've spent a lot of
time together. It's like we always want
to talk about the philosophical,
psychological things. We got to get back
to finances because we know that's what
you guys want. What is the perfect
portfolio for someone watching this
right now?
>> Moderately conservative. I'd probably
say 90% stocks, 10% other. Other could
be if they're more conservative, fixed
income. other could be if they're more
aggressive speculative assets. But yeah,
I think if you're young and you're
making money, 90 to 100% equities is
probably fine.
>> And what do you mean equities? Like how
do you determine which stocks you would
want to buy?
>> Uh most of the time just S&P 500 is is
good enough.
>> Is that what you do personally?
>> That is not what I do personally.
>> So what do you do personally?
>> Personally, I've been buying more
individual stocks.
>> And why do you do that instead of buying
the S&P? I think my appetite for risk
has gone up over time um as I've been
making financial content and I'm always
paying attention to the markets. I'm
investing in big companies that I know
and love and I know intimate detail or
not intimate but I know them intimately.
Uh so my portfolio has been getting more
weighted towards individual stocks but I
think you know I was on the Money Guy
show maybe like six months ago. I think
I need to diversify back into the S&P
500. Why would you say that if you have
you done well with individual stocks?
>> Uh I have done well with individual
stocks but I do think that the entire
market has done really well with
individual stocks and I just really want
to make sure that if I have the amount
that I have so far that I protect that
capital and so I should really take my
own medicine there. So I think I've
learned a lot on this podcast which is I
should probably spend a little bit more
right in my personal life and I should
probably take my own medicine and
diversify back but the tax hit on the
individual stock is tough. Do you think
that people should consider tax
consequences when investing in stocks?
>> Um, how long are they investing for?
>> Let's say they're investing for
retirement and they're in their 20s or
30s,
>> then probably not.
>> Not as Especially if it's in a
retirement account. Yeah.
>> Let's say it's not though. It's a
taxable account. You see, you made a
whole bunch of money, but you're like,
"Oh man, if I sell it right now, I'm
going to have to pay all this tax."
>> Yeah. I mean, that's I don't know.
That's a tough balance because what what
is their situation going to look like
when they're 65? I don't know. Is their
tax bracket gonna be really high for
long-term capital gains? Um, are they
going to be able to weather that tax
bill depending on their other assets?
I'm not sure. So,
>> that that maybe is not a good question
for me cuz I'm not sure.
>> I personally I've made more mistakes uh
avoiding the tax than I have uh writing
it out. Like there there's so many
positions where I was up a ton and I
said, "Oh man, I don't want to sell it
because I'm going to have to pay the
tax." and then it just drops like I lose
all
>> those positions would you have held for
40 years or are these like
>> you know that you were up a lot on
>> um some of them like I'll give you an
example Ethereum I bought in at the very
bottom of like 20 something uh and I was
up like 10 and something%
I figured instead of selling I'm just
going to let it ride
>> okay
>> and now I'm basically break even on that
or no I'm down a little bit I believe so
you would preferred to sell it, take the
tax it, but at least have the gain.
>> Yes. And what's
>> you would have not known if it would it
could have gone up enough to take.
>> That's true. The other funny thing is,
of course, the one time I do start to
take profits, it was on Bloom Energy,
and I started selling at like I sold a
little chunk at 250, a little chunk at
like 275, a little chunk at like 285,
and now it's past 300. And of course,
it's the one stock where I'm like, I'm
going to trim some of this.
>> That's the one that just keeps going up
higher.
I feel like you're you're measuring
yourself up against the perfect
investment though. Like you still what
percent return did you get in Bloom and
over how long of a time period was it?
>> Hundreds of percent and and but I'm
paying taxes as though it's like uh
ordinary income basically short-term
gains.
>> I would say that's like the only real
distinction that I would make. Obviously
it's extremely nuanced and it's a case
by case basis, but if you can hold it
out so you're not taxed at short-term
capital gains and you're taxed at
longterm, then that's like the biggest
thing. And then past longterm I don't
think that tax consequences should make
any decision for
>> you shouldn't guide your investment
decision and I agree too.
>> What do you think are the best
investments to get rich?
>> The best investments to get rich. I mean
that's a loaded question. What do you
think?
>> It's tough cuz like concentration does
really get you rich fast if you
concentrate in the right thing, but it
can also ruin you fast. So um do you
want risk of ruin then? Yeah, even tell
us whatever that means.
>> Dude, if you want risk of ruin, then
yeah, you can concentrate in any, you
know, individual stock that you want and
if it 10xes, then it 10xes. But if you
want the disciplined approach where
you're going to get rich slow than index
funds,
>> what do you think about the market being
at an all-time high right now? Do you
think
>> frothy?
>> Yeah.
>> Do you think people should invest
differently with the market hitting an
all-time high?
>> No. Dollar cost average. DCA and chill
>> always and forever. Dollar cost average.
>> Dollar cost. time in the market beats
time in the market.
>> What do you say to the people who feel
like they should sell a little bit right
now and maybe take like half off the
table with the market the way it is
right now?
>> I would ask them if it's out of a need
like a psychological need or if it's out
of like a portfolio need or like do they
need the money or they just they're just
worried that it's too high.
>> Yeah.
>> Um I would reevaluate your time horizon
like if you're going to be investing for
30 years like should you be selling half
right now because in 30 years it's
probably going to be higher than it is
today. So no. Do you feel any desire to
sell?
>> Oh, yeah. I do. But I I fight it. I
fight it. I I'm not going to sell. But
yeah, definitely.
>> Interesting.
>> Yeah, I feel it. Like I see the market
right now and it makes no sense to me
whatsoever.
>> Yeah. Things are getting disconnected
from their fundamentals.
>> And the same thing happened. I remember
in 2021 when people were throwing like,
oh, I'm going to add Bitcoin to this and
then it goes up in price. People are
doing the same thing with AI. They just
say, oh, we have this new AI division.
It's like
>> I think it really depends on the type of
investor you are, right? Like if you're
investing for really long-term stuff,
retirement account, passively, you're
not even looking at it. But for someone
like you or someone that's very active
in the market,
>> maybe you could trim a little. Sure.
>> I wouldn't. I know.
>> But you could, but you could if you
wanted to if that's what you really
believe, which is like we're out of
>> Yeah. But I also know that I don't know
enough to be able to beat the market.
>> Got it. That's good.
>> And that every time I think, okay, this
is it. This is the peak. It's going to
double from there. So, it's not it's not
worth it. It's not worth it for me to
sell. It's better for me just to keep
buying and holding. And that's what I
just continue to do. But I fight the
feelings.
>> Yeah.
>> How often do you see bad investment
advice?
>> Like online?
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, yeah. All the time.
>> What's the worst advice you've seen?
>> Just anything on Wall Street Bets is
usually the worst advice I've seen. I
mean, you see a lot of success stories
on there, don't get me wrong, but I see
like zero date to expiration. Is that
advice though or is that just people
speculating?
>> I don't think that that I think Wall
Street bets advice. That's just
like they all know what they're doing
and that it's gambling. Like
conventional advice that's bad.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh I don't know if this is investment
advice, but like the idea that oh,
you'll just save more or invest more
when you make more money. I don't think
that's true.
>> I agree with that. to like let's say
someone is not already saving and
investing and they're like, "Oh yeah,
once I get my raise, I'll I'll save more
then." No, I don't think that's true
either. So maybe something like that,
but that's not really investment advice.
It's not telling someone to buy a
certain stock or buy a certain uh thing.
We were talking about this yesterday,
dividend stocks, right, for someone
who's young. Like
>> really the only reason you would have
dividend stocks if you're like 21 years
old is just for psychological comfort,
but really it's not doing much for you
in terms of growth. So, you know, Graham
and I reviewed some people's portfolios
yesterday and it's like, well, you
should probably be re reallocating into
VTI or VT or V.
If we are to all pick, let's say each
three of us at the table two stocks that
we think are going to do well over the
next 10 years, which two stocks would
you pick?
>> I'm picking Robin Hood because I've been
a big Robin Hood bull uh since like $18,
$15. So, I really like Robin Hood. I
like the direction that they're going. I
liked Vlad when I met him. So, I always
liked founderled businesses. I saw that
their financials were growing
year-over-year. I like all the offerings
that they're coming out with, right?
They have credit cards, they have
custodial accounts, they've got the
well, I guess they have the Trump
accounts now. Um, and I just think it's
the de facto brokerage for Gen Z and
younger and maybe a slight a big slice
of millennials as well. And I think that
their assets under management is only
going to grow. So, for me, I thought
Robin Hood is at least on the cutting
edge of brokerages, right? Whereas the
old brokerages, they might take a little
bit longer to adapt. Um, I don't like
the sports betting stuff or the poly
market stuff that's on the Robin Hood
app. That's maybe one thing morally that
I can't get behind, but I just contacted
them to disable it on my app, so I can't
be tempted there. So, that's one. The
other is probably just Google. I just
don't think you're going to be Google.
like like I feel like Google's like full
AI capabilities are not fully realized
yet. Uh kind of same thing with Apple. I
feel like Apple's really positioned well
for like the AI revolution cuz they
haven't really done much, but you know
that they're probably working on it and
they're just a little bit slower to
market than all the other all the other
big like mega caps, but I feel like
they're in a good position too. So those
are probably my two or three. But
what are yours? You picked my exact
ones. Let's go.
>> Yeah, I would say Apple. I just think
that the Moat is insane. Like, you know,
I tell me to buy a different phone,
bring me a phone that's two times better
than the iPhone. I probably wouldn't
change. Uh, and then on top of that, and
also the way that like MacBooks are used
in college, like it's kind of just like
the the go-to computer in education. And
I Yeah, I would have to agree. Apple, I
think it's safe. I think it's like it's
a safe bet. Well, we Okay, so two things
about that. I think one, I really like
the the new CEO is more hardware
focused. I think that's kind of going
back to their roots of like being
hardware focused, which is nice, even
though services is a is a large part of
their business now.
>> So, that's like one more thing great
thing for Apple. But, we were talking
about the S&P 1 yesterday, which I
thought was interesting, too. You want
to tell people about that?
>> Yeah. And then we'll get
>> Graham the S&P and that's that's another
argument for like Nvidia or like any of
the other like top, you know, three
companies or whatever. The S&P 1, if you
look at the way it's performed over the
past 20 years, it is obliterated. What
is the S&P again? The S&P 1 is when you
buy the number one largest market cap
company and then as soon as a different
company takes over and becomes the
largest in market cap, you immediately
sell and buy that company.
>> Yeah, but you're getting a tax
consequence in that. So, you're
constantly trimming.
>> What did we just talk about? We we we
just constantly selling it.
>> Dude, this doesn't happen every 3
months. like the number one market cap
company changes a lot of times they'll
ride out for a couple years, a few
years. So, you have long-term capital
gains. But yeah, if you if you wrote out
the S&P 1 for the past 20 years, the
returns are like I don't even know.
We'll put up a example right here, but
like 3 or 4x the SP
>> is that is that before or after tax,
probably before tax.
>> I'm just saying when you constantly trim
your position, depending on your tax
bracket,
>> 20 to 23 and a half% or whatever it is,
you're constantly trimming that down and
then reinvesting. You have to outperform
>> of course. Yeah, I agree with you. But
you literally said 10 minutes ago that
every single time you've made a decision
based off of taxes, it is not healthy.
>> And you're giving me another
hypothetical scenario.
>> It's not a hypothetical scenario.
[clears throat] Like you can look at the
data. I don't
>> Okay, we'll look at the data.
>> What are your two stocks, Graham?
>> Uh, I would say I'd like Robin Hood,
Amazon, and Google.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. I've heard Chris Camilo
talk about Amazon, so I got to look into
that more.
>> I'm an Amazon now. I'm an Amazon
literally just because of Chris Camila.
Like it's I I you would argue the same
thing, right? Like
>> listen, I like Amazon a lot, but I stay
out of individual stocks. It's purely
because Chris and I'm in Amazon.
>> Okay. So your portfolio is mostly ETFs
and maybe like a couple individual stock
holdings
>> pretty much.
>> What percent is individual stock
holdings in your portfolio? Like less
than 1%.
>> Oh, that's really low.
>> Oh, yeah. It's It's not much. I mean,
it's
>> Is your crypto position higher?
>> Yeah. Oh, yeah. Crypto is like now it's
maybe eight. Maybe eight to 10. gone up
so much
>> since your cost basis or just cuz you
>> dollar cost I just kept dollar cost
averaging and I just didn't stop and
then when it dropped to like 60 to 65 I
just I couldn't help myself but to buy
more and we'll see if that was a bad
decision or not.
>> Cool.
>> Speaking of Bitcoin, yeah,
>> what are your thoughts on Bitcoin?
>> Uh I think it's not going anywhere. I
think it's obviously low right now for
low relatively speaking. Um and and it's
definitely underperformed this year.
It's down. I think you can have, let's
say, if you wanted it in your portfolio,
three to 5%. I mean, I know you have
eight, but that's still, I think, within
reason. It's like an alternative asset.
It's kind of like if you're just
diversifying into like gold or
something. I think if you wanted
Bitcoin, that's fine. Yeah. I have like
one Bitcoin, that's it. Well,
>> when did you
>> That is a lot.
>> When did you first buy Bitcoin?
>> Uh 2014 2013 2014.
>> How much?
>> I bought one Bitcoin for $100 back then.
And what did you do with it?
>> I spent it at a cafe. [laughter]
Wow. Wow.
>> The most expensive coffee you've ever
purchased.
>> And yeah, it's like a It was like a $60
I mean, I think at the time I spent 60
bucks at this at this cafe cuz we didn't
know how Bitcoin worked and you had to
like send Bitcoin from one wallet to the
other using using, you know, the um the
32 or what however long the wallet
character address is.
>> And so I sent this Bitcoin to this cafe
in Palo Alto, Koopa Cafe. It's like a
famous cafe where entrepreneurs meet.
But I sent it to them and I didn't know
that Bitcoin transactions, they take
like 30 minutes to confirm on the
network because we didn't know anything
back then. So the person behind the
register was like, "We didn't get it
because they don't know either, right?
No one's really paying with Bitcoin."
And so I sent it again and then I had to
basically send it like three times and
like that equivalent was like I don't
know. 045 bitcoins or whatever.
>> So and so they just kept the bitcoin. I
don't know where it went. Yeah. And but
you held on. They could have lost it.
>> You held on to the remaining 0.55.
>> Uh, no. I probably sold that and then I
I rebought in 2017.
>> Yeah. You buy at the price that you
deserve.
>> Is that Ramsey thing?
>> No. No. That's the Bitcoin thing is you
buy at the price that you deserve.
>> Interesting. Yeah. And then uh yeah,
2017 I mean I've been in crypto for a
long time. just maybe not as like I'm
not as outspoken about it, but I
definitely keep up with what's going on
and I know a lot about crypto. I just
don't make stuff on the channel about
crypto anymore because my audience hates
it for some reason. They're just more
into traditional retirement and growing
your wealth slowly. Not that not that
Bitcoin is not doing that. It's just
like once I say Bitcoin on the on the on
the channel, people just are like, "Ah,
that's like a scam." So,
>> what is the stuff that your audience is
most excited to hear about?
>> Fire.
>> Fire. Why do you think fire is so
important to people?
>> It's freedom. I mean, it's like when
it's it's like when is when is the when
is it done? When when's the job done? I
think that's like a big thing. So, that
that does really well on the channel.
Psychological things do really well on
the channel, like when is enough. Um,
and then other other formats,
affordability, cars, houses, stuff like
that. What does money mean to you? You
know, when I was like a kid, I always
thought that money was like a really
dumb concept because it's like fake.
It's just it's just value that we assign
to it. Uh but I view it as a resource
that you can trade for things. So, I
like that. And I also view it as
something that
can bring a little bit of happiness.
Sure.
>> What do you think the best things are to
spend money on?
>> Experiences. Other people.
>> What experiences have you spent money on
that you say that's worth it? I went to
I mean I'll I'll just give you an
example. I went to the Aerys tour. I
thought that was worth it.
>> Taylor Swift.
>> Yeah. Taylor Swift. Yeah. At Sof.
>> How much were tickets?
>> I think it was like 1,200 bucks a
ticket. I bought two. Yeah. They were
great.
>> She was great. And by the time I got
there,
>> the tickets were like 3,000 a piece. But
yeah.
>> Wow. I will say like I mean it's just a
night I remember like really well. Like
every Taylor Swift concert I've been to,
cuz I've been to the 1989 concert and
the Reputation concert, the other
albums, they're always just like the
craziest time of your life, cuz it the
stadium is so loud. The energy is is all
there. It's like it's it's really
incredible. And you know what? I want to
go to a Coldplay concert because of
that, too. Or a BTS concert because I've
noticed a stadium concert to me is like
the energy is electric, and I like that.
And I'm actually going to the World Cup
game next Thursday. It's like Australia
versus Paraguay. And you know, I think
that'll be sold out. So, that's going to
be like an experience that I I'll
remember, too.
>> Speaking of Taylor Swift, did you guys
see this Morning She's pregnant?
>> No.
>> Yep.
>> Really?
>> I'm kidding.
>> Oh, [laughter]
gotcha.
>> You should have held on to that for
longer. I would have it. I would have
believed it, too.
>> I didn't I didn't check.
>> I was doing it because someone's going
to clip that. Oh, that's funny.
>> So, you're a Swifty.
>> Uh, I mean, yeah. I'd like to think so.
Yeah, sure. I just like experiences, so
I think to your point, spending money on
experiences like that, that was worth
it. Um, buying things for other people
is nice, too. Like just buying dinner,
picking up dinner. What are the worst
things to spend money on? I don't know.
I haven't felt like I've made a bad
decision in terms of purchasing
something recently, so I don't really
have any worst decisions. The clothes,
probably. Sure. Especially if it just
like shrinks or
I don't know. I think gambling.
[laughter]
Don't Don't gamble.
>> You know what we could do right now?
$100 each coin flip.
>> You want to do that, Jack?
>> I have $100.
>> So do I.
>> You guys want to do it?
>> Sure.
>> I'll officiate. Okay.
>> Yeah, I'll do it. I'll do a $100 coin
flip. Do you want heads or tails? I'll
let you pick the heads or tails for the
coin flip.
>> Uh, I would like heads. All right, I'll
be tails.
>> Do you have a coin?
Just flip a coin. Heads or tails?
>> Wow. Digital coin. This is how This is
how
>> Let's go.
>> Oh, there you go. Cool. So,
>> congratulations. Did you believe me?
>> Yeah, I believed you.
>> Okay. Wait.
>> Yeah, it was.
>> No. Yeah, it was heads. He just looked
for a second like he didn't believe me.
>> No, because you were like showing your
phone.
>> Okay. Yeah.
>> I got Graham Stefins $100.
>> How does it feel?
>> Pretty good.
>> $100. Richard,
>> how do you feel?
a little bummed out, but [laughter] but
it's that's fine.
That's fine. You know, it is what it is.
>> It's the way the cookie crumbles.
>> It is. It is. You win some, you lose
some. So, this is uh
>> Would you do it again?
[laughter]
>> I don't know if I would cuz I kind of
hit a limit.
>> You cut your losses there.
>> Yeah, I kind of hit a limit where I'm
like,
>> but you could get back to where you
were.
>> That's a great point.
>> Would you
>> What if you do double or nothing? $200.
>> No, I wouldn't do that. I would do
another hundred for the sake of content.
>> I would do another hundred. That's
double or nothing.
>> No, it's not. Double or nothing is 200.
>> That's It's technically double for him.
>> Well, actually, no. Let's save this for
the post show. Okay,
>> we'll save it for the
>> If you want to see the next coin flip
post show. All right, we have some rapid
fire financial questions for you,
Humphrey. Let's see what you got to say.
>> All right, sir. Rent or buy?
Rent. New car or used car?
>> Used car.
>> Lease or finance?
>> Finance.
>> Credit card or debit card?
>> Credit card.
>> Payoff mortgage or invest?
>> Payoff mortgage.
>> Roth or traditional?
>> Roth.
>> Bitcoin or gold?
Gold. I like gold lately, but I've also
been collecting gold. So, yeah. Index
funds or individual stocks? Index funds,
real estate or stocks?
Stocks. Higher income or lower cost of
living?
>> Higher income.
Concentrated portfolio or diversified
portfolio?
>> Depends on age. Younger concentrated.
[gasps]
Die with zero or leave a large
inheritance.
>> Leave large inheritance.
>> Retire early or work on something
meaningful forever?
>> The latter. Work on something meaningful
forever.
Track every expense or automate savings.
Track
1 million at age 25 or 5 million at age
50?
1 million age 25. And then we have some
multiple choice. Which will improve the
average person's finances the most?
[clears throat]
Cutting expenses, getting promoted,
changing careers, starting a side
hustle, or starting a business?
>> Probably cutting expenses.
Are side hustles usually a legitimate
path to wealth, a useful source of
supplemental income, a distraction from
advancing in a primary career, or mostly
internet marketing?
>> B, which was a useful source of
supplemental income?
>> Yep.
>> What's the best side hustle for the
average person? Freelancing, an existing
skill, reselling, content creation, ride
share or delivery, real estate,
e-commerce, consulting, local business
services. I'll go freelancing,
uh, consulting. So, basically using the
the skills you already have. And then I
would go like reselling and then small
business services right after that.
>> Someone earns $70,000 at a stable job.
Choose the better use of 10 additional
hours per week.
>> What are the options?
>> You get that?
>> Working towards a promotion. That's what
you'd say, bud. Learn a new skill. Build
a side business. Work a second job. or
invest and research stocks. Learn a new
skill I think is what I would say. Yeah.
Especially if it helps you at work. Like
let's say you're at work and you learn
database management on the side. Like
you could you could increase your income
by a lot doing that. So Humphrey, thank
you so much for coming on the ES coffee
hour. Really appreciate it. We got a
post show for all the members coming up.
So if you want to join, you'll see some
extra content me trying to win my money
back. Thank you so much. We're also
going to link to all of your information
>> down below in the description. Go and
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until next time.
>> Thank you. Bye.