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The Price Most People Pay When They Become Famous - Alex Hormozi

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Alex Hormozi draws a sharp distinction between becoming known and becoming respected, warning creators against letting algorithms convince them that popularity equates to value. He observes that many content producers feel compelled to sacrifice their personal values or identity simply to gain more views, as the algorithm often rewards conformity over authenticity. For Hormozi, this pressure feels like dancing on a monkey's back, leading him to prefer being shut off by an algorithm tomorrow while creating niche content for ten interested people rather than producing viral hits that make him feel like "Ronald McDonald" and cause him to lose his soul. He argues that when creators solve the problem of helping their specific audience find what they need, organic growth naturally follows; conversely, chasing trends creates a vicious flywheel where negative feedback loops become increasingly difficult to escape once something becomes perceived as uncool or untrendy. The transcript highlights how integrity is easily traded for exposure but cannot be bought back later because there is no return policy on one's reputation. Hormozi introduces the "subway test" from publishing, asking whether a creator would feel comfortable having their full work displayed publicly in a subway station; if the content relies on selling specific bodily functions or panders to low-brow tastes without substance, it fails this test and becomes difficult to sustain long-term. He notes that many individuals with massive platforms have fallen out of favor not because they became irrelevant, but because they became "cringe," effectively swimming upstream against a current that only grows stronger over time. This phenomenon is described as cancerous for any public-facing project, where the moment something is seen as catastrophic or uncool to consume, it permanently damages the creator's standing regardless of their actual skill level. To illustrate these dynamics, Hormozi points to Shane Gillis and his Netflix special *Beautiful Dogs* as a prime example of someone who remains relevant because he avoids being cringe; despite controversies in his past, Gillis is respected for not appearing uncool or out-of-touch with the times. In contrast, figures like Donald Trump are noted for believing what they say, which prevents them from being labeled as fake even if their content polarizes audiences into distinct camps of love and hate. Similarly, Kanye West (Ye) has faced multiple cancellations yet retains a level of respect because he is perceived as acting on genuine beliefs rather than feigning opinions for personal gain. Hormozi suggests that while mental stability or the accuracy of one's claims might be debated, the perception of authenticity shields creators from becoming "fake," which is often more damaging to their legacy than being wrong about a topic. Ultimately, Hormozi concludes that true timelessness in content creation comes down to authentic belief rather than pandering for approval, noting that even if someone believes something controversial or different from one's own views, there is no cringe attached as long as the conviction feels genuine and not driven by personal profit. He identifies pandering—creating solely for others' opinions while seeking personal gain—as the equal opposite of authenticity, creating a "double cringe" effect that accelerates decline in public favor. By adopting authentic belief as his north star, Hormozi aims to avoid becoming fake or irrelevant, suggesting that creators should prioritize solving real problems for their specific audience over chasing viral metrics. This approach ensures that even if the creator's reach is limited initially, they maintain a soulful connection with their work and build a sustainable career based on integrity rather than fleeting algorithmic validation.
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there's a big difference between becoming known and becoming respected don't let an algorithm convince you otherwise I mean I think this is probably super pertinent for for people in our position um but I'll go from the internet perspective and we can Circle back to IRL um but I mean a lot of people will make content obviously I make stuff for me too like talk about artists making things for themselves like I make most of my tweets are just like notes to self um but like if I ever feel like I have to sacrifice who I am or the values that I believe in in order to like get more views or something like that I see it happen more times than not because the algorithm and the views and the likes become kind of a proxy for conforming in in their own way like Everyone likes this type of thing do more of that and that makes me feel very like dance monkey dance and um I think there's there's few things that kill my soul more than that and so I would rather you know I would rather the algorithm shut me off tomorrow and I continue to make stuff that I find interesting that 10 people find interesting that is actually the same stuff as me then just have these viral hits that I feel like I'm Ronald McDonald in um and just feel like I've completely lost my soul and I I do think as a side note that if you do the first one where your intention is to maybe help find the 10 people who are really interested in your thing you probably will create more of the viral hits but when you solve for the other way I think you accomplish Nei I have this theory that more creators fall out of favor because they become cringe than because they become irrelevant I love that you yeah I love that I think it's I think it's true I think if you think about the thing that you do almost anything that anybody is creating is public facing because if it wasn't public facing it would just be a hobby doing your painting because you love painting is a hobby doing your painting to try and sell it is something that you do as a business or as a a public project the flywheel is so vicious in the positive direction and even more vicious in the negative direction if it becomes cancerous or uncool or untrendy or catastrophic or cringe to be seen to be watching or listening to or consuming the thing that you make it is you are permanently going to be swimming upstream and it is only going to get worse which is why you look at Shane Gillis is a really great example of this at the moment he's someone who is great at his craft big platform moved to Austin got all of the multipliers in place but he isn't cringe MH and because he's not cringe if you've watched beautiful dogs his Netflix special it's not uncool it's like there's this idea in publishing because I've been doing my research ahead of the book there's this idea in publishing called the subway test right would someone be prepared to have the full dust jacket version of your book out on the subway all right and if your book is like like stop erectile dysfunction L see the erection problem right like yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah like like no more flatulence today or something like if that's if that's your book it's going to be very difficult or if it's written by somebody where it's like oh really don't want to do that so and and this is the point where there are tons and tons and tons of people on the planet who have huge platforms that nobody respect mhm and I've seen even within my 7ye career of doing this the Arc of people trade Integrity for exposure and not be able to buy it back yeah because there is no return policy on your integrity on your reputation and those people would give anything to be back in the Cool Kids Club I I mean this is a like I love this entire train um I was thinking like what what creates like like what's what's timelessly not cringe right like so like if cringe is the ultimate like what we don't want then like what would what is forever not cringe and the only thing that I can like really think of is is just true authenticity which is an overused word but again easy to say hard to do I think what is what is forever cringe on the equal opposite side is is pandering like whenever you're seen as someone who's only doing stuff for other people's opinion approval like makes whatever especially double cringe when it's for your own personal gain and so if the equal opposite of that is uh something that is to my personal detriment um that is truly something that I believe in it honestly doesn't matter what it is because there are some people that probably believe things that I don't believe but I genuinely think based on what I see that they genuinely believe it and it's and they don't really stand to gain much for believing it yeah there's no cringe there it's just like that F that man [ __ ] believes that and I think that um some of the you know some of the characters in our current you know piosphere and things like that like many people you know you say the word Trump and you have half the you know people who hate you and the other half that love you it's like I think most people agree that he believes what he says now whether you believe the content of what he's saying is a different story but Mo like I don't think many people have called him as somebody who's like I think he's he doesn't really think that about himself like no I think I think he really does and even I'm just going to push the edges cuz that's where you have to like explore the fringe look at someone like Kanye who's been borderline cancelled for I mean multiple times right but like why is Kanye quote uncan because he hasn't been right not really like if he came out tomorrow with a hit a Hit album I'll bet you it would [ __ ] sell because I think that at least for me from what I see I think he does what he believes and people might be like he's mentally unstable there's all these other but like no one thinks he's being fake and I think that like if that becomes the north star of like I 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