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The session explores the radical educational philosophy of Sri Aurobindo, as interpreted through research by Nandini Sengupta and insights from The Mother. Sri Aurobindo's vision was fundamentally distinct from conventional schooling; he viewed education not as the mere imparting of knowledge but as a process of drawing out the latent potential within the child. His approach emphasized clarity of thought, word, and action, arguing that without clear thinking, one cannot achieve clear expression or effective action. This philosophy extended to his concept of nationalism, where India was revered not merely as a geographical entity but as a living deity. Consequently, education was intended to consecrate every aspect of a student's life to the service of this "Mother," fostering selfless character and a deep sense of duty rather than personal vanity or material gain.
A central tenet of Sri Aurobindo's pedagogy is that true education cannot be taught directly; instead, the teacher's role is to guide the child in discovering their own inner truth and interests. He advocated for starting with the child's immediate environment—family, society, and local geography—before expanding outward to global concerns, ensuring learning remains relatable and meaningful. This method prioritized curiosity and imagination over rote memorization, encouraging students to observe nature and draw logical conclusions rather than accepting pre-digested facts. Furthermore, he stressed the importance of moral education through example, asserting that teachers and parents must embody the virtues they wish to instill, such as sincerity, courage, and self-control. The transcript highlights a critical conflict between these ideals and modern pressures, noting how utilitarian expectations from parents and society often stifle organic growth and lead to distress among students.
The Mother's writings on education complement Sri Aurobindo's vision by addressing the practical challenges of maintaining discipline and sincerity in a changing world. She clarifies that allowing children to "flower" does not mean abandoning them to chaos or selfishness; rather, it requires a structured environment where noise without attention is deemed an act of selfish stupidity. Discipline, good manners, and absolute sincerity are presented as non-negotiable foundations for progress, countering the postmodern tendency to reject established norms without offering a constructive alternative. The discussion also touches upon the impact of artificial intelligence in classrooms, where the lack of originality and sincerity in student work becomes evident, reinforcing the Mother's insistence that industry and truthfulness must flow from an inner sense of purpose rather than external rewards like grades or trophies.
Ultimately, the dialogue concludes that the path to a transformed society begins with the transformation of the individual educator and parent. Sri Aurobindo's call for students to become "hero warriors" fighting against the enduring past implies a responsibility to build a future based on high ideals rather than mere revolution for its own sake. The session underscores that while the expectations placed on teachers and parents are immense and often difficult to meet, they are essential for nurturing children who are upright, honest, and ready to serve humanity. By rejecting ego, stagnation, and external validation, the educational community can foster an environment where children develop their unique talents with joy and freedom, aligning personal growth with the broader mission of national and spiritual regeneration.
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So good afternoon uh and welcome to this
session on uh Shri Orurabindu and the
mother on education. So uh I will start
with asking Nandini uh uh a question
about uh she has in fact done research
on Shriar Rubindu's education and uh so
Nandini can you start the session by uh
telling us what emerged from your
research as to what was Sherbindo's
vision of India and education.
>> Thank you. Um so I want to start with a
rather interesting comment that was made
by a colleague of Shirindu. His name was
uh AB Clark. He was the principal of the
Bodha College before Shawindu took over.
So uh somebody asked him and you know
when Shorbindu first came to Bodha uh
somebody asked AB Clark that what do you
think of Orurubindu Kosh? And AB Clark
says um if Jon of Ark saw heard heavenly
voices I am quite certain Orurabindo
Goss sees heavenly visions. So very
early on uh this kind of puts in context
the kind of uh teaching that Shirindu
brought uh with him and started
imparting and it was radically
different. I think it is still very
radically different in many ways and
although he had a not very long stint he
just he taught in Bodha for about his
entire stint in Bodha was about 13 years
and then he was principal of the Bengal
uh national college which later became
Jadapur University for just a year.
But the way he looked at education was
so different, so radical uh for that day
and age, even for to this day and age.
And this becomes particularly relevant
given all the agitations, students
agitations that we have seen in recent
times that his voice now becomes even
more relevant uh even more important to
understand and to adopt.
uh so he had he himself uh chose uh
particular strains of uh you know lines
in education for his own choice when he
went to England and then he had a stint
in Boda followed by his stint in uh his
principal uh ship in national college in
Bengal. So can you tell us um what you
have learned from his choice of subjects
and how it prepared him for his tasks in
the future? U let's start with his
education in England first right so you
know in England he was in Manchester he
was under the guardianship of a couple
and uh then later on he joined a school
called St. false. It was a it was a
fairly um upper class uh school and
Sherbindo uh actually cracked a joke
when he was asked whether uh he studied
uh science and maths and all that. He
said, "Oh no, no, no, no. My my we were
far too posh for that sort of thing." Uh
so he that was of course a joke but
basically what what he did during his
stint with uh the couple that they was
he was staying with as well as in St.
Paul says he focused on
a couple of subjects and this is very
important. I'm glad you asked this
because this has become another very
important aspect of uh his version or
his theory of education. So when he was
in St. Paul's he focused mostly on Latin
and uh French uh and English and of
course then along with that he is uh
read history and and geography um and it
is interesting that he then went on to
win a scholarship at King's College
Cambridge uh for reading the classics um
which he he aceded by the way but the
but the interesting thing about this is
when he was in Bodha
um many of his students uh used to say
that although professor Kosh uh taught
us English
ostensively he didn't teach us English
because he would use the subject as a
kind of window to talk about many many
different things you know he would use
English literature to talk about
philosophy to talk about spirituality to
talk about nationalism, to talk about
politics and geopolitics, to talk about
even grammar, but most importantly he
used English to talk about clarity of
thought and word. And this is very
important because one of his students
his name is Rajaram Patkar. Now he has
he has documented this particular memory
that uh professor gosh would always
insist he he would make us write essays.
All right and these essays were
essentially debates and he would insist
in those essays that every line
should logically follow from the line
before and connect to the line that
comes after. And that is true for every
paragraph as well. And as students are
want to do, he you know Patkar was
grumbling about it. Why are you making
us do this? So he actually approached uh
Sherbindo. And mind you, it was not very
easy for these boys, these young boys to
approach Sherbindo. Not because
Sherbindu had any heirs. He was the most
shy and unassuming person. But they felt
intimidated by his scholarship a little
bit. So they felt like if I ask a
question maybe he will realize that I'm
a fool. So but you know this boy
mustered up courage and went and asked
him and Shindu said you see there is a
reason why I'm asking you to do this
because unless you have clarity of
thought you cannot have clarity of words
and unless you have clarity of words
there will be no clarity of action. You
see this is at the core of his
philosophy and I feel that a lot of our
children today modern generation you
know uh they desperately need this that
you have to know even when they are
protesting or agitating you should know
what are you protesting about. There
should be clarity of thought in your
head that will translate into clarity of
words where you will know that if your
agitation is for a particular thing
bringing in extraneous influencers or
influences into the picture does not
serve your cause and clarity of action.
It is very easy to say you know bring
down this is the revolution shara
whatever it is it's very romantic you
know and it's very it feels very good
but it is a dopamine hit at the end of
the day what are you achieving you see
clarity of thought clarity of words
clarity of action this is what I think
this is what I say this is what I must
do this this is very important
>> uh after that of course if you want to
add anything from his bored stint you
can go ahead but then there there was a
call for nationalism there was the need
to liberate India from the yoke of the
British there were all sorts of uh
colonialisms whether it was coloniality
of the mind whether it was uh perceiving
uh India as a piece of earth or as a
living being. So how did he bring about
these notions via his uh his vision for
education and the youth of India? So you
know um it this Sherbindo uh was one of
the first uh leaders of the freedom
movement who thought of India not as a
piece of land but as a sacred living
deity and uh and again and again his
students his students like Chandwani K
Munchi who became a very famous
historian later on um and so on our
Dalal and of course the gentleman we
just mentioned Rajar Ram Patkar they
have mentioned this again and again when
they came up to him and said what is
India what should we feel because
remember at that time uh the British
administration taught uh Indians to
think of themselves as Bengali people,
Marata people, uh Tamil people and so on
and not as a unified we are Indians. We
are Bhartya. Uh but what Sherbindu did
was and this Kane Munchi has um
documented in his writing that he
actually he took Kane Munchi to the map
of India
and said behold the mother and this is
her. She is not dead. She is not inert.
She is a living deity and you must
everything in your life you must
consecrate to her. and um this very core
of nationalism it is so important
because when he comes to to Kolkata from
Bodha and he's he is involved in the uh
you know this uh partition of Bengal
that the agitation against
the partition of Bengal that was
happening 1905 1906 um at that point he
was one of the first people to say there
are three things that we need uh that we
as Indians need and Congress needs to
inunciate
and the first is saraj we need complete
independence. The second is suadeshi
which means we need to boycott the flood
of um goods from England, cheap goods
from England which were putting our
artisans out of work. And the third is
national education. Why is national
education important? because it is
national education is the way to help
national character grow. Right? So it is
very important and at this point if you
will give me uh the opportunity I just
want to read out uh uh a speech that
Sharbindu gave just two lines.
>> No no please take your time.
>> Uh he gave this speech on the last day
uh of his principal ship at the Bengal
National College. Uh and then of of
course he plunged uh heart and soul into
the uh political movement and this will
tell you what he meant.
So he says that uh I want to see what
what do you want uh from us? The
children the students asked him.
No,
>> it's okay.
So he says what do you want from us? The
students are asking him professor gosh
what do you want from us? So he says if
you will study study for her sake so
study for the sake of India train
yourselves body and mind and soul for
her service.
If you earn your living earn that you
may
live one minute
for her sake. I wish to see some of you
becoming rich. Rich not for yourselves
but that you may enrich the mother with
your riches. I wish to see some of you
become great. great not for the sake of
vanity but so that you may satisfy what
is great for her and make India great.
So I just wanted to read out this
because you see how critical this
feeling of nationalism is to his idea of
education that for a student everything
that the student does must be
consecrated at the feet of mother India.
You know that was very important. So
this is India emerging out of uh of
course colonial loot extremely depleted
of its resources and uh yet he had
vision for its youth to be as sincere as
selfless as possible. Uh what is the
reference to the bhavani mandonder that
he makes in his writing? So um so uh
just for the sake of the audience,
Bhavani Mandr was this very beautiful
idea that Sherbindo and his younger
brother Bin Kosh uh thought of that
there would be this um temple to mother
India. Um and this temple would be a
place where young uh students, boys and
girls would train body and soul in
brahachara or acetism. So aesthetic
training of body and soul and these
young men and w women would be the
future of India. So it would be like
something like a gurukul. uh it would be
a temple to mother India and associated
with that would be like a gurugul where
these young men and young women would be
trained to control their body you know
physically and also trained in their
mind to work for the freedom of India
and later on uh when Barin Gosh started
his Muradi pukur group uh in Maniktala
where uh a bunch of revolution he He
collected a bunch of very young men who
were all uh inspired by revolutionary
thoughts and that was a takeoff from
this uh concept of the bhavani mandr. So
incidentally today we are celebrating
actually uh re revolutionary day or
those who were martyred uh 14th August
every year. So uh youngsters like Kudam
Bos, Profulo Chaki all of them actually
uh we should remind ourselves were
inspired by Shriorbindo and they were
part of the Anushilan Samiti which is
the first organized revolutionary
movement of these youngsters and what is
I think most important to understand
when it comes to Sherbindo is that he
appealed to people with his writing and
his mind and it is it is uh it is the
love he instilled in these young boys to
go to the gallows
smiling with wand mataram on his on
their lips is all because of the of of
uh I was going to say the gentleman
Shriraindu's pen. So
>> I just want to say one thing uh you know
in the context of what you just said
that um it's again very interesting that
um one of his students uh Chandwani I
think approached him one day and said oh
macau was in in you know there was a
great buzz about Macaulay at that time.
So this boy walks up to Shirrobindu and
says, "Professor Goh um I'm trying I'm
reading Macaulay. I'm trying to write
like him and all that. What should I
do?" You know, his English is different.
And and what Shirindo said again is a
tenate of his concept of education. He
says, "Do not be Macau's slave. Be your
own master." So uh what what you're
talking about what Sherbindo's idea of
national education was and that is
something that he has inunciated later
on as well is allowing the child to
think for themselves not be brainwashed
by people who you may think are smarter
than you maybe speak better than you may
be you know cooler than you whatever it
is you think for yourself you know don't
be somebody's slave, be your own master.
So that is at the core of his teaching
as well.
>> So that is also the responsibility of
the education system to ultimately
>> Absolutely. So again, so he says that um
this is one of the things that he has
talked about in his um idea of
education. He first of all he says
education cannot be taught and this is
again revolutionary. It is revolutionary
for all times. He says that
>> he can quote the first principle that
shocks everybody. Every other teacher
who goes through the conventional BED BA
system, the first principle of teaching
is that nothing can be taught. I have I
have surprised so many college and
university professors with this you know
with all their degrees and all their
experience to tell that actually nothing
can be taught. They come like what do
you mean? [laughter] So you can
elaborate. So, so, so he says that um
that education cannot be knowledge
cannot be taught and it is not the job
of the teacher to stand in a pulpit and
you know give lectures and impart
knowledge. That is not the job of the
teacher. The job of the teacher is to be
a guide to bring out what is inside the
child. bring it out so that the child
flowers in the way he or she is supposed
to flower not in the preconceived way
that the teacher may want society may
want the parents may want or the you
know whatever not that way the way that
child wants to flower and uh one of the
things that he says is when the ch
children are very small and this is
something I've seen in the ashram school
u it is important not to get them into
formal uh educational setups. It's much
better to have an informal setup where
the child's two things are encouraged
curios curiosity imagination. So those
are the two most important things and he
mentions this quite a few times that
that will allow the child to then when
he gets into that formal setup to see
for himself and choose for himself what
he wants to do which which subjects he
finds more interesting which window he
wants to open. Um so so that is that is
one of the aspects and the other aspects
is he always says that it is a child
learns much
by observing and drawing conclusions
from it. This is what he was say talking
about when he said clarity of thought,
clarity of words, clarity of actions. So
he says if you allow the child to really
observe say a flower and the child
observes the flower very closely sees
the way its petals are sees every minute
about that flower and then goes on to
deduct from what his observations are.
That is the first step towards
scientific discovery. And that way the
mind is not shackled by what somebody
else may have written or may have
deduced or may have thought. You are
observing you're drawing logical
conclusion from it. So it's completely
radical.
>> So uh can I move on to so shindo's
vision of uh
there are two three things
>> then then complete that point. Let's
complete shindo's vision. Yeah. Okay. So
two two more two more things that I just
wanted to say. Uh it's very interesting
that uh when Sherbindo would um like I
said that he would teach one subject and
use it as a window to go into uh much uh
more than what he what that subject was
entailing. And one of the things that he
taught when he was uh um principal at
Boda uh was Jane Austin's Pride and
Prejudice.
And uh one of his students uh his name
was Ar Dalal later on said that you know
it's very interesting that uh we used to
go and complain to uh professor gosh
that you know you talk about so many
different things you are not uh
preparing us to answer exams uh and uh
you know we will all fail. the factors
that we none of them failed and much
later what he learned in class uh
encouraged him to become a novelist
himself. So so the so what Shirinda was
saying is that it's the teacher's job to
start with the child's immediate
environment. So self uh uh family,
society uh an immediate environment and
then go progressively outwards. So then
you take it to the country and you take
it to the world and and so on. So the
the vision starts with you and then
proceeds outwards. Um and that is what
he was doing um in his class as well.
And uh he says that uh that uh is also
true when you are teaching a subject.
For example, if you start with say
Sanskrit or Latin, you start with that
and you use that as a window to get into
literature and then you can use that to
get into English literature, Bengali
literature and then you use that to get
into history and you use that to get you
know so it's like a so he says that it
is much better to really understand one
subject very well and then go on whereas
today school education as you know the
children are given a a little bit of
everything. No, history, geography,
physics, chemistry, biology, maths, blah
blah. So many little things.
>> My geography book which I taught to my
children had things about the
Appalachian and the Rocky Mountains. So
I brought it down to the Vindyas and
then Ilgrees because it has to be
relatable, you know. It has to be like
we are in the tropics. We we don't know
so much about the temper temperate or
the arctic zones, you know. So that was
one of the things in fact one of the
tenets I followed when I taught
geography. Bring it down to Pondicher.
uh which is the day that the sun is
overhead. It's always around my birthday
around 28th April. So I I make them
stand in the middle of the uh during
COVID I remember I said go out in the
sun right now and see if you have a
shadow
>> you know. So that that's what that's
what makes geography so much more
interesting when you relate it to your
immediate surrounding. Yeah.
>> And the last thing that he said and this
is again relevant to the student
agitation. He says that there are the
there are three gonas
uh in human character
and it is the teacher's job to encourage
the satwig gona and it is the teacher's
job to control the rajas gona but it is
also the teacher's job to completely
trample the tamas
and and that I think a lot of uh our
educationists would should remember you
know because if you don't out the
tamas then the national character that
he's talking about uh will not be built
the way it should be built. So uh
perfect uh link to what I wanted to say.
I as I was uh preparing this uh
particular uh presentation I went back
to to this book by the mother on
education and uh she is so direct and
she doesn't waste any time when she
tells you what to do or what not to do.
So there's somebody who says but mother
when I get so tired my mind gets so
tired you know doing all this mental
work then I when where is my time for
you and she says that is not mental
tiredness that is mental tamas just a
oneline answer from the mother you know
she's very nonsense I love the way she
talks so uh what happened with in 1943
2nd of December is actually the
manifestation in terms of a proper
school of Shirbindo's vision of
education So um this is the notebook
given by the school to our students and
I always love this uh first prayer that
shindu has given us because he doesn't
talk of academics. Uh it's the best
part. So for him the children should be
helped to grow into straightforward
frank upright and honorable human beings
ready to develop into divine nature. So
that is uh the first uh prayer we have
on our notebooks and if you go inside is
the school prayer. Now I will read the
English translation of the oh it's there
in English here also. So it says make of
us the hero warriors we aspire to
become. May we fight successfully the
great battle of the future that is to be
born against the past that seeks to
endure so that the new things may
manifest and we be ready to receive
them. So this is actually our school
prayer and this is written by the
mother. Now uh there are uh I will list
out a few points and observations after
which I will come to the first sentence
of this magnificent book that I think
all parents, teachers and students
should read. The mother on education and
I will come to its opening line but
before that there are just a few
observations that I want to make. So
young inquisitive minds are a boon to
society. Nobody denies that. Young minds
that question existing practices are
also a boon to society considering that
many norms and systems are indeed
outdated or have lost their core value.
You know, so if you go to the human
cycle also from symbolism to typo to
conventional, we have a lost a lot of
the essence of what uh what we done by
wrote today.
Um the mother in her school prayer too
wants us to make of us hero warriors to
prepare us for the battle of the future
against the past that seeks to endure.
And we know how rigid these uh these
foundations are within which the
youngsters have to jostle to find their
own space. But very often there is a
major slip in aspiration. We want to
break the past but we don't know where
we want to go. Inner growth and
character building. When we forget the
ideal towards which we have to strive
for, but we question and even seek to
destroy the present. This lapse leads us
to the slippery slope of being
uncultured, rude, irreverent, and
outright barbaric in our minds, hearts,
and behavior justified in the name of
challenging existing norms and tenets of
society, including and especially tenets
of order and decency and knowledge
systems and a culture that have thus far
kept us together. So today's society
when we look at the uh trends in
academia the one of the trends in
postmodernism is to question is to
declare that the current state is
unacceptable and then to conclude that
the current state is thus because of
what has been and what is and therefore
reject what is in order to bring in the
new utopia that they always dream of.
But in rejecting what is they also
reject what is good that has survived
over the over time. So this trend can be
explained when we see the destructive
foder of postmodern ideas creep into the
minds of our young via academia. So this
is where schools have to take
responsibility for what they try to
infuse the revolution they try to infuse
in their students. Our education is
failing our young.
When truth of the highest order that
requires immense personal effort and
discipline to pursue and acquire is
reduced to versions of truth established
by minds and beings that have no
aspiration for higher seeking, you get a
society normalizing anarchy, univilized,
irresponsible, highly self-centered
Philistine behavior. The need of the
hour therefore is to return to the first
lines of the book on education. And what
is the what are the first lines that the
mother talks about? An aimless life is
always a miserable life. This is not too
difficult to understand. But it is the
second line that is very important for
all of us young and old to remember.
Every one of you should have an aim. But
do not forget that on the quality of
your aim will depend the quality of your
life. This is a big big important catch.
So revolt or you will revolutionize as
you will but your aim should be high and
the quality of life you wish for will
depend on the aim you have set yourself
out to be. So by all means break the
shackles of the past that seek to
endure. As she has said us told us in
our prayer that is what we are. We are
not students in her school. We are
warriors. I love this. Uh but we have to
establish the future that seeks to be
born. So we should not forget that aim.
Uh but you have to keep your aim high.
So this is the opening that I wanted to
to just bring you to this to what this
book has and then this book goes on to
instruct all of us as to what should be
our job. So I'll carry on with uh
You want me to connect that with?
>> Yeah, if you can please do.
>> So, uh, one of the things that
[clears throat] Shindu talks about also
is, uh, the concept of the ego um, in
the teacher. Um, and, um, again there is
a very nice sweet um, example. Uh, one
of his students Chanwani got into the
Eelfinston College. um he got a
scholarship
to go to Elfinson College in uh uh in
Bombay and Shbindo uh actually wanted
him to do something else. But when
Chandwani came and said this is the
college uh that I have decided to go to,
Shbindu gave him a glowing
recommendation letter.
And so his student says that it was so
interesting to see that this man whom
everybody venerated including Sahaj
himself you know the the patron the
Maharaj of Bodha uh had absolutely zero
ego.
So he would give his point of view. It
was up to the student to accept it or
reject it. And if the student rejected
it, he would be very happy to say that
is fine. So how many of us as teachers
or students or parents
uh can give up that ego you know and
this brings us to that to the agitation
that a lot of the niche agitation was
centered around how many young children
young people killed themselves uh
because of this uh the paper leakage and
everything that was a as a parent it it
is It's deeply saddening and deeply
problematic. But as a parent, I also see
that a huge part of the problem is the
expectations that parents put on the
children. And when we were growing up, I
remember I wanted to do, you know, I I
joined college. I wanted to do English
literature. And my family members said,
"Oh, no, no, no, no. Medicine,
engineering, CA or suicide?
What are you going to do studying
English literature? You'll want to get
married. That's the end of your So, you
know, so if you have
the the immediate sort of ecosystem
around you, your parents, your teachers,
the people around you who have
expectations
of the possibility that you represent,
if they are telling you that listen, if
you don't crack IIT now, your life is
over. or once you're in IIT if you don't
get whatever it is X grades your life is
over can you imagine the the pressure
that it puts on the children so what
kind of parents are we if we come to the
parenting job with this amount of ego
>> yeah so the mother again she's very very
clear about what she wants the parent to
be so that actually begins before
conception so uh it's it's a it's a huge
job so you know I I in fact I make my
students feel happy by telling them, you
know, you guys have it very easy with
the mother. Everything is about the
parent being a yogi and the teacher
being a yogi. You're all children, you
know, we have to mold you and we have to
be so perfect, you know, and that's what
it is because she expects the parent to
be a living collaborative and and uh so
uh so with regard to the parent, yeah,
so uh their influence is powerful. So
that's that we much understand like she
spoke about family pressure and uh this
is I'm not quoting the mother this is
these are my summaries okay um and uh
you have to
the the parental input
u has to be uh led by example. If you
want your child to be one way but your
behavior is another way then you cannot
expect nor blame your child to be to not
be what you wished it. So you have to
live the high ideal you wish to see in
your child. And that is where sincerity,
honesty, courage, patience and
self-control. Now this is I suppose if
all of us in India look closely with uh
with our to our children and uh
especially look introspect us as parents
as what we are. We have to see whether
we are doing this ourselves before we
expect that of our children. So this is
also a little frightening as a parent.
Children learn primarily by imitation.
So again if you uh your so your
education has to begin before birth even
during conception and through the course
of the pregnancy she asks you to be
quite a model human being you know and
that is difficult you know you have so
many women u allowing the all sorts of
behavior because of the hormonal turmoil
they have because they're pregnant but
the fact is that if you want to have a
child bring a child to this world you
cannot let your behavior your thought.
It has it actually is a is a task. She
assigns you a a huge task. And then of
course once the child is born the owners
of the parent is to as you said uh as
Shabbinda also wanted to support an
organic growth. Let the child discover
what is true within him. So mother has
very distinctly up to the age of 13 and
14 onward. So up to the age of 13 she
says you have to be the support you have
to be that educator that instinct uh
instructor that parent who helps to the
who helps the child realize what he has
within to bring that and 14 onwards she
encourages the child to find out his own
life and his interests to the extent
that is possible and most important we
are all products of our family um
legacies our family expectations
And so uh to consciously avoid imposing
that and I and as a teacher actually in
the school for 15 years and having
studied in the school myself and having
seen much children through uh I think
one of the biggest conflicts our
children have because the experiment is
trying to emulate the mother's dream but
we are imperfect as teachers and we
imperfect as parents and I see children
in that conflict of not understanding
how to reconcile parental expectation
versus what is being done in the school
versus what they read the mother has
said the school should be there is huge
conflict. So that is that is something
that we have to as parents realize we
cannot do. Uh so conventional parental
pressure for utilitarian success is
frequently the greatest obstacle to the
child's reper growth. So when you talked
about STEM and suicide that is exactly
it you know uh what what is your child
doing? My child is actually when I I
have to answer my daughter uh if I have
to be truthful about what what my
daughter is doing, she's actually going
to a farm every week and she's observing
bees, she's observing butterflies, she's
observing uh a turtle and uh she's
observing uh a ball python, she's
observing their uh and she's making
notes, you know, and [laughter]
how and said, "What does the child want
to become?" I said, "She'll decide." But
uh you know at some point in my head
back of my head I do worry like uh okay
she's pursuing this but then where is
she going to take it but then I have to
check myself as a mother but then that
is what the school allows and that's the
beauty of the school. So uh again uh
that is and most important is that um
this thing about telling the child and
this is really a malady that you haven't
got the grades you haven't got the prize
you haven't got the uh recognition uh
then then where are you the pressure on
the child to bring that trophy home for
the parent and that expectant parent you
know looking at the child with that
trophy as that was all that there was to
achieve at that age of 12, 13, 14, you
know, that is what uh is uh is uh is
destructive for a child as far as
parents parenting is concerned. So that
is what that is the job of the parent
here. Um actually um taking a cue from
what you're saying, Sherbindu says that
moral uh education is very important but
moral education by example. Yeah,
>> it's the teacher's job. It's the parents
job to give that example. You cannot ask
the child to be a truthful child if
you're constantly lying, you know, about
small things in front of her and so on.
You know that if you show probity, the
child will learn it.
>> So moral education through example. So
part two is teachers. Unfortunately, we
fought in we fall in both categories. So
we are like forced into doing yoga
whether we want it or not. So what are
the demands of the teacher?
Oops.
Uh yeah. So uh not easy again. Uh so you
must be what you want the students to
become.
That summarizes the extent of effort we
are actually expected to
uh put in when we take our classes. So
be a living example. complete
self-control
uh no ego no preference no sense of
superiority that I am imparting this
knowledge to you none of that vanity
and this is uh this is actually a
lifesaver continuous self-progress
because uh most of the ills of teaching
come when you think that you have it all
your notes are prepared year after year
how much is English literature changing
if I if I'm stuck if if I say I take v
the Victorian age how much more Can I
add to it? But then the fact is that you
can add. There are so many ways to teach
it differently. There's so many ways to
compare it that literature to
contemporary literature. So the progress
of your student will depend on your
progress. So there is no stagnation
possible. You the a teacher has never
acquired knowledge when it comes to uh
the mother's system of education. Again
act as helper not as a guide and
especially not a dictator.
uh she has quite interesting things on
homework which which I leave you all to
read. Uh it's quite interesting how she
you should always remember that the
mother almost always is focused on the
child. So the onus of how to uh how to
do your homework and what to expect from
it and and uh how much pressure to put
on your child for it is act again for
the teacher uh said never hammer a child
into a preconceived shape. This I think
even Tagore has uh put in his writing
with he founded the Vishabharati uh and
anyway they were waferers of the same
path. So you can see that never to put
uh no scolding I will fail.
Uh and this is the this is the beauty.
Children have to be happy. Are they
happy in your class? You know, do do you
see happiness in them? And uh again,
this is something that we have I would
say in over 80 years in our school
achieved to a very large degree and
refrain from compliance no matter what
the pressure is not to rely on tests or
external marks. So this independence
from any you know board I I know because
when I work for this NGO I know the
pressures they have for the 10th and the
12th and I look at our children and I
say wow you don't even know the
pressures you're not getting you are
just such happy children you know your
your 10th and you don't even know what
is a board exam and here we are in the
NGO you know supporting children with
extra coaching classes which they cannot
afford otherwise just so they get that
crucial mark in the 10th that determine
what they will do you know the 10th it
determines where you will go you know
and then the 12th of course so a
teacher's progress is a must and uh
Dandini the teacher's first duty is self
transformation
without it all advice [laughter]
remains ineffective so we have a lot of
work to do but then she doesn't spare
the student either that's the sweetest
bit about the mother
>> so quickly uh talk about how much time
do I have? So uh when so the mother
doesn't spare the student in the sense
that uh this I found really I in fact I
was uh seeking the best uh
answer to what was happening in my
country and uh this is something that uh
I is there in the mother's writing in
French in one of the staircases that
leads up to the children's section in
our school and this is the translation
so you you know uh people mistake this
whole thing that let children flower let
let let let them find their own self and
that can quickly lead like I said to
absolute degradation and then you allow
absolute rubbish in the class in the
name of oh my god let the children no
don't scold this is you know but the but
the mother is absolutely trenchant about
this she says to be noisy in class is an
act of selfish stupidity
if you don't intend to attend attend the
class silently and attentively, it is
better not to come. So I tell my
students, you know, if I told you
selfish stupidity, you would say [gasps]
Ali is giving us, she's swearing at us.
But these are the mother's words. She
does not tolerate this sort of, you
know, license to bad behavior and
teachers, you know, taking their hands
off their students to let them do what
they like. And then there is complete
chaos and indiscipline and screaming and
shouting all in the name of some sort of
warped understanding of what is the free
progress of a child. No, there are
limits and if you do not if your noise
is preventing somebody else from
progressing, it is actually a reflection
of selfish stupidity. This this is how
trenchant she is. And then there is the
other one.
Uh this is an extract from the this is
all quoted from this book uh education
an extract from the minutes of teachers
meeting. The meeting felt concern over
lack of discipline, good manners and
right behavior among some students. So
again the mother you know
I insist on the necessity of having good
manners.
I do not see anything grand in the
manners of a gutter snipe. Now these are
not my words. This is the mother 4th
March 1960.
It's 1960. So again you know it's very
easy to read part of her and then
relinquish all responsibility and then
be lentious and libertina libertine when
it comes to your attitude to but that is
not what she's asking at all. Discipline
is at the core. It is at the very core.
And then for students,
this is what she says.
The things to be taught to a child, the
necessity of absolute sincerity.
Nandini, since AI has come in, what are
the problems you face with this?
[laughter] Oh my god.
So, you know, I am I I have been forced
to now run every single word that is
submitted as home assignment through an
AI tracker. And it is really sad and and
the fact is that I know because I know
how these kids write.
>> Exactly.
>> So the moment they start writing in
those sets of three sentences, I can
tell this is AI. So there you go.
>> And what about I have problems with even
them reading elaborate summaries and not
reading and coming in class. So
sincerity is uh something that we have
to try and insult from age up to like I
said 12, 13, 14. But by 14 a child
should know for his own good that uh
ultimately the the the thing that will
take you forward is not academics but if
you are sincere you know with sincerity
everything else will flow you know
industry will flow from sincerity uh
reaching your goal everything flows from
there. Second point, the certitude of
the final victory of truth.
You know, so this again uh
ily lumè.
This is the prayer prayer we were
taught. Oh, at the end of the tunnel is
light. At the end of the battle is
victory. So uh don't give up on truth.
Again, it's a reflection of sincerity.
The possibility and the will to
progress.
No stagnation, no space.
>> Yeah. Absolutely.
And then of course all the elements of
the ideal child. So you see uh it's
difficult for a parent. It is difficult
it is uh it is difficult and very
idealistic for a teacher but it is there
is no less expectation actually from the
student too. So uh good temper, fair
play, truthfulness, patience, endurance,
perseverance, equinimity, courage,
cheerfulness.
So this is what she expects the children
to be. So yeah, so this is my summary of
uh what I uh so actually I'm thankful to
the the organizers because initially uh
I don't think I'm capable of talking of
any work of shindu but revisiting the
opportunity to revisit this book on
education by the mother is why I said
yes I because I read them read it twice
during my pregnancies and I said no it's
high time teaching I should go back to
this book again. So actually I'm quite
thankful uh you have closed mimas.
>> Uh um yeah a big thank you to the
organizers and it's always it's always a
little bit daunting but also a great uh
uh opportunity to talk about Shbindo and
and and the way he thought about
national education and importance of
education. Uh but for me I think uh I'm
not a product of the school. I'm not a
product of sic. I've sort of parachuted
from outside. So for me it's a bit of a
learning curve as well.
>> It is still a learning curve for all of
us [laughter]
>> and
>> we are not any special I'm telling you
>> and to and to see how revolutionary
uh his ideas were is is just brings us
right back to why we are here. Thank you
again.
>> Thank you.
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>> Oh.
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