The Money Making Expert: The Exact Formula For Turning $100 into $100k Per Month! - Daniel Priestley
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Daniel Priestley, a seasoned entrepreneur who has built seven businesses from zero to over £1 million in their first year and three exceeding £10 million, argues that entrepreneurship is now more accessible than ever due to affordable global small business opportunities enabled by technology. He emphasizes that ideas alone hold no value; rather, success comes from execution and the ability to attract a team. Priestley advises aspiring founders to treat their concepts as scientific experiments, utilizing low-cost methods like waiting list landing pages to validate market demand before investing significant resources or reputation. By failing fast and cheaply—much like Elon Musk's strategy with the Model 3 Cybertruck launch—entrepreneurs can avoid paralysis and identify whether a concept aligns with both personal passion and genuine market needs. A critical component of Priestley's framework is redefining "passion" not as superficial hobbies, but as an alignment between one's origin story, mission, and vision. He contrasts this authentic drive with the misalignment found in those who chase wealth without a deeper purpose or background connection to their venture. This distinction creates what he calls "life force energy," which is irreplaceable vitality that brings projects to life compared to mere functionality. Priestley illustrates how environment dictates performance; just as dance classes can transform an individual's ability, entrepreneurs must immerse themselves in vibrant communities of like-minded people rather than remaining stagnant in corporate jobs or toxic social circles that suppress their potential and creativity. The conversation also explores the shifting landscape of business through the lens of Artificial Intelligence (AI), which Priestley describes as a fundamental general-purpose technology comparable to an iceberg hitting the Titanic, yet often ignored by society. While AI excels at generating content based on data, it lacks context; humans must provide that vital life force and strategic direction for AI tools to be effective. This dynamic suggests a future where successful businesses will likely consist of small teams—perhaps five people including roles like CEO, CTO, COO, CFO, and CMO—who leverage AI to achieve the output of much larger organizations. Furthermore, Priestley highlights that wealth creation often comes from acquiring existing declining assets or structuring deals creatively using tools like ChatGPT for drafting terms, rather than starting entirely from scratch in a saturated market. Finally, addressing work-life balance, Priestley challenges the notion that it is an inherent trait but suggests it is actually a result of working hard on projects that simultaneously build valuable assets and align with personal passion. He contrasts this with "toxic" labor where one works long hours without creating lasting value or equity, such as driving for Uber. True fulfillment arises when work develops skills, reputation, and income-generating assets that allow individuals to eventually choose their workload rather than being forced by necessity. The episode concludes with a reflection on relationships, drawing parallels between business vitality and the deep connection required in love, reinforcing that whether in entrepreneurship or personal life, success stems from bringing genuine energy and purpose to one's endeavors while avoiding environments that drain them.
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I've started seven businesses that have
gone zero to a million in their first 12
months, three businesses that went north
of 10 million, but here's a crazy thing,
anyone can do this and I'm going to take
you step-by-step through the best ways
to start making that life-changing
amount of money. Daniel Priestley. Money
and business expert.
That's helped thousands of people start,
scale, and grow their own multi-million
pound businesses from scratch. These are
the best ways to start a business. We
start with an idea, but we need to
sharpen our ideas in the market, not in
our minds. I see so many people they
raise money, book an office, buy
computers, but after all of that no
one's interested in their idea. So, we
have to conduct tests where we fail fast
and fail cheap. If for example, waiting
list is one of the fastest ways to test
an idea. And this is what really smart
entrepreneurs do. Like Elon Musk
launched a waiting list for the Model 3,
he launched a waiting list for the
Cybertruck, validating the idea. In
fact, Rolex had a massive breakthrough
when they stopped selling Rolexes and
they started selling the waiting list.
But if it's crickets,
okay, fair enough, let's have another
idea. But what if someone steals my
idea? Ideas aren't worth anything. The
value is for the person who does it.
What are the fundamentals of being an
exceptional salesperson pitcher? First,
you will have to you said business is a
team sport. Is there anything you found
that is consistent across all of the
best people you partnered with? So,
here's what I'm looking for.
And there's a lot more to go through,
but one of the other strategies for
building a business is
And that should get you into the six
figures of revenue just by doing that.
It's shocking because it's so simple.
Let's talk about money. Let's talk about
it. If someone's out there and they've
got 100 pounds or 1,000 pounds worth of
disposable income, what should I be
thinking about to make myself
financially free? The truth is that
there's incredible wealth to be created
and one of the biggest opportunities in
the world at the moment is
It's absolutely crazy to me that so many
of you have decided to watch our show um
and so many of you have decided to
subscribe to our show. We now have 5
million subscribers on YouTube, which is
a number that I just can't comprehend
and it's a dream that I absolutely never
could have had. We started The Diary of
a CEO just over 3 years ago now and in
my wildest expectations, we might have
had 100,000 subscribers by now. So, you
can imagine how shocked I am that so
many of you have chosen to tune into
these conversations every week um and
spend some time with us. So, thank you.
And I made a deal with you. I made a
deal that if you subscribe to this show,
that we would continue to raise the bar
and in 2024,
we're going to raise the bar like never
before. I've been working for the last 9
months on a surprise for all of you that
have subscribed to this show and I'm
very excited to deliver that for you.
The production's going to change. We're
going to go even further with our guests
and we're going to tell even more global
stories. So, as always, if you
appreciate what we're doing here, the
simple, free favor I'll ask from you is
to hit the subscribe button. Let's get
on with the episode.
Daniel,
if someone has just clicked on this
podcast,
can you tell me the reason why they
should stay around and listen in what
you think they're going to get from this
conversation? I think we're living
through the most incredible time in
history.
Never before have people had the
opportunity to build something that is a
global business full of fun, freedom,
and flexibility, full of passion and
purpose.
And today that is accessible to almost
anyone who'd be listening to this
podcast. The baby boomers, they got
access to affordable housing.
We get access to affordable global small
businesses.
Now, the entrepreneurial journey is
scary to a lot of people,
but if you conduct the right
experiments, have the right mindset,
follow the right process, it's really
predictable and safe for people to get
involved in entrepreneurship.
And I think anyone who's listening to
this is going to see that it's a lot
more process-driven than they think,
that we can go step-by-step to build a
business that you absolutely love. On
the other end of this conversation, in
an hour's time or 2 hours time or, you
know, whenever this podcast finishes,
what are they going to have that they
didn't have before this conversation?
We're going to talk about the
entrepreneurial journey as a set of
steps, predictable steps, and they're
going to be able to have a map of how do
you move through that entrepreneurial
journey? Like, what do you do first?
What do you do next? How do you go to
the next level and scale up and who do
you contact? Uh and it's based upon
literally coming across thousands and
thousands of entrepreneurs at each stage
of the journey. So, ideally what I want
people to walk away with is just that
clarity around how this entrepreneur
thing works.
And who are you? What's your experience?
So, my background is over 20 years of
entrepreneurship. I started my first
company when I was 21 years old. I did 2
years working for a mentor from 19 to
21. Uh we built a business from scratch
to millions of revenue. I then left that
mentor. I went out on my own, started my
own first small business. Uh it grew
very rapidly, went from zero to a
million in the first year and then 10
million in year three.
I started uh seven businesses since that
have gone zero to a million in their
first 12 months. I've done three
businesses that went north of 10
million. And what about this
accelerator? I I read that you have an
accelerator where you have thousands and
thousands of entrepreneurs who come to
your accelerator for business advice
coaching from getting from zero to, you
know, up on that um up to that
trajectory. Yeah, so 12 years ago I
noticed this trend um around this idea
of global small businesses and I
basically saw that technology was making
it possible for anyone to do the things
that multinational corporations were
doing. And I started an entrepreneur
accelerator designed for people to
position themselves as a key person of
influence, to build their personal
brand, to build a core team of people
around them, to digitize the value that
they offer, um and to take the most or
make the most of the times that we're
living in. And since then about 4 and
1/2 thousand companies have gone through
this whole process. Um we've seen people
go from zero to multi-multi-million
pound exits. We've seen people build the
business of their dreams where they get
to live and work from anywhere. And you
know, we've also seen what people
struggle with and what they've found
difficult. We've gone through pandemics
and global financial crises and all of
this sort of stuff with our clients.
It's dancing classes for entrepreneurs.
It's it's a high-performance environment
where you get to be around people who
want the same sort of things that you
want. Uh you get to have some
accountability, some best practices. Uh
you get a community or a network around
you. Uh and you go through that
entrepreneurial journey with other
people who who are going through it as
well. Do you think anyone can be an
entrepreneur?
I think entrepreneurial spirit is
something that we're all born with. Um
entrepreneurship is this idea that we
want to create value for others, that we
want to take a little bit of a creative
risk, that we want to do something that
represents self-expression. There are
different stages to the entrepreneurial
journey.
And everyone can go through those
stages. Um there's also not one type of
entrepreneur. There are people who are
very good at finance. There are people
who are good at operations. There are
people who are visionaries. There are
people who are doers and get stuff done.
And there are businesses that suit those
types of people. So, it's about finding
out who you are, finding out what kind
of business would actually be well
suited to that person, and then making
sure that you're doing the thing that
you're you're well suited to. How does
one know that a business would be suited
to them? Cuz if you
you know, gauged on the the people that
come up to me in the street or the taxi
drivers I speak to or my friends or the
DMs that I get, everyone's got an idea.
Nobody seems to be short of ideas.
Mhm. But so many people seem to be stuck
at that moment of making a decision to
pursue a particular idea that they
almost get like paralysis. Like
sofa-preneurs, you know, all of their
ideas stay on the sofa that they were um
conceived on, but they never seem to get
out of the sofa because of like that
paralysis. I don't know if this is the
one.
Mhm. I get that all the time. Is this
the idea?
The The thing is we need to sharpen our
ideas in the market, not in our minds.
So, what we have to do is go make
contact with other people and see what
they say and see what they think. So, we
have to conduct uh tests where we fail
fast and fail cheap if we fail at all.
So, here's an example of what I like to
do when someone has an idea. I say set
up a very simple waiting list landing
page
and essentially let people know, I'm
thinking of starting something in this
particular space or we're launching
something in this space later in the
year. If you're interested, join the
waiting list. Now, that waiting list
concept, essentially, if people will
join the waiting list and if you get
hundreds of people joining a waiting
list, it's pretty good indication that
it is a good good idea. Uh if you launch
a waiting list and you message 3,000
people and say, "I'm launching a I'm
launching this thing. Do you want to
join the waiting list?" and no one
joins, then it's a good indication
that's not the idea, right? Cuz we have
to have a good marriage between what
we're passionate about, what we want to
do, and what the market wants. Um
there's 6 million businesses in the UK,
30 million businesses in the USA. And
that basically means there's a lot of
businesses doing a lot of things that
already exist. So, the market might not
have an unmet need. The market might
say, "Hey, I already have a great
cupcake supplier. There's already
someone who makes great coffee in my
neighborhood. We don't need another
one." Okay, fair enough, let's have
another idea, right? You can always have
plenty more ideas. So, you got to test.
The faster you can get on with
conducting a fast and cheap test, the
better you're going to, you know, go
with your entrepreneurial idea. Cuz
that's one of the big sort of mental
barriers that people have is they see
that committing to any of these ideas is
going to cost them 3 years, their
reputation, and potentially hundreds of
thousands of their money or or an
investor's money. So, that again creates
paralysis because the discomfort
associated with being wrong when you
think there's so much on the line will
hold you in place, but your idea there
of just throwing up a landing page
immediately kills the paralysis.
And also just a landing page of a
waiting list. Yeah, we
So, you're not even saying that this
thing is a dead certain. You're just
saying, "We're going to be launching
something if we get enough interest." Um
and here's the waiting list. And by the
way, this is what really smart
entrepreneurs do. Like Elon Musk
launched a waiting list for the Model 3,
he launched a waiting list for the
Cybertruck. Uh I think he launched a
waiting list for a flamethrower. Yeah, I
I joined all waiting lists. Yeah, and he
he's, you know, he's essentially what
he's doing is a very smart process of
validating the idea. One of the best
mindsets that we have as an early-stage
entrepreneur is the mindset of a
scientist conducting a little
experiment. And what we're trying to do
is not be emotionally attached to what
happens one way or another. What we What
we want to do is we want to say, "You
know what? If people don't like this,
okay, I'll have another idea. If people
do like this, I'll go to the next step."
Um so, a scientist is just kind of like
conducting an experiment. And the best
experiments are cheap and fast. A
waiting list is probably the most
powerful early stage experiment you
could um you could go with.
Elon Musk, when he launched the waiting
list for Cybertruck,
I don't think there would have been an
investment bank on the planet that would
have backed a factory for something that
looked like Cybertruck. But when he
walked in and said, "I've got a million
people who have put down a $100
deposit,"
if only 5% of them go ahead, they can
crunch the numbers on that and say,
"Yeah, okay, we'll fund that. Fair
enough, let's build it." Um so, it's
very powerful. I did this recently. I I
had my team come up to me and say, "Hey,
we could do a startup around um
an AI that helps people write a book."
And um
I said, "Well, I'm not sure if anyone
would like that, but let's launch a
waiting list." So, I launched a waiting
list, put one post on LinkedIn, 750
people joined the waiting list. I was
expecting 150.
Uh and in the waiting list, we actually
asked questions like how much would you
pay for it per month? And how many
months do you think it would take you?
And what would success look like? And
what would failure look like? And what
else would you try instead of this? If
this didn't exist, what would you use?
So, we asked all these questions. We
collected a ton of data.
Uh and then off the back of that, we
specked out the product. I also went to
angel investors and said, "Do you guys
want to come and invest in this one?" We
raised £300,000 on the SEIS um scheme
uh at a £3 million valuation for an
idea, no lines of code, nothing built,
nothing designed. Uh and essentially, we
got ourselves ready to to launch in a
couple of months just simply off the
back of that waiting list and all the
data that we uh that we collected.
So interesting.
The The other point you said within
there was about You said there's kind of
two things, what you're passionate about
and what the market wants. Now, on the
point of passion, it's so cliché. People
say, "Follow your passions, do things
you're passionate about," etc. How role
How important do you think the role of
passion is in actually succeeding at any
of these ideas? So, if I've got four
ideas, cupcake business, floristry
business,
soccer business, and I don't know, AI
business,
what role does my own intrinsic passion
of any of these areas matter in the
chances of success?
Passion matters a lot because business
is hard and you have to stick with it
through the downs. So, the reason
passion is valuable is because you are
going to go through valleys
um and they're going to be painful and
they're going to be the the
gratification is going to be very much
delayed uh in any business journey.
So, passion is the thing that gets you
through. It's not the thing that you
ride high on, it's the thing that you
get through the hard times with. Um I
have a very weird definition of passion.
I kind of like tried to strip it back to
its bones. And I look for an alignment
between origin, mission, and vision. So,
I essentially say, "What is your origin
story? What's your background?" I want
to see that you're doing something that
aligns to what you've always been doing.
I want to see that this goes back to age
10. Um for me,
when I ask people about why you're doing
this thing, I want them to start the
story a long time ago. And I want them
to tell me about little wins that
they've had along the way that have led
to this moment, which is why they're
starting this business. To me, that's
That's great.
Because anything that we keep coming
back to as a recurring theme is what
we're meant to be doing. So, for me,
I've going right back to age 10, I have
experiences throughout um my teenage
years and going back to age 10 that were
about business as a force for good. Um
and it goes right back to a garage sale
that I did when I was 10 years old. We
had a house fire. It was a horrible
experience, but it turned into a
positive experience because I set up
this garage sale and made some money.
And something bad happened and I turned
it into something good through business.
And for me, there's this recurring theme
that all of my little wins line up to
these these themes.
So, the origin story is really powerful.
The vision for the future is what do I
want to see happen in the future? If all
of this goes well and other people are
doing it, too, what would this look like
in the future? What would 10 years from
now, 20 years from now be if we were
celebrating? What would we love to be
celebrating? And then the mission is
what is the most high-value thing that I
could possibly do that's in alignment
with that vision.
So, essentially,
if there is a strong alignment between
origin, mission, and vision,
something happens where you're you you
carry yourself in a different way. You
you you sit differently, you speak
differently, you're you're in this
alignment. Other people pick up on it.
They want to quit their job and come and
work on your team.
Um they hear about the vision, they hear
about your origin story, they hear about
the mission, and they go, "Oh, I'm going
to leave what I'm doing and come and
join that." And that's the magic of
entrepreneurship. So, for me, that's
passion. It's not about like
superficially, I like snowboarding or um
oh, I've always enjoyed baking a cake.
It's
the uh alignment of origin, mission, and
vision.
Interestingly there, um I was trying to
think about what the opposite of
everything you've said just looks like.
What's the opposite of passion in your
definition? What's the misalignment look
like? So,
can you give me a an ex- an example of
what the opposite of that definition
looks like? The opposite is I heard
about some guy who pumped a crypto coin
and made millions of dollars, so I want
to go and find out how to pump crypto
coins. Or
uh I heard someone who made money
flipping property, so I need to flip
property and I'm going to do a a course
on flipping property. I've got no
interest in property. Uh I've never been
interested in property. I've never shown
any interest in in any of these things.
I just want to make money and it's got
nothing to do with my background. I've
got no little wins in this. I I I have
no real vision for the future other than
being rich. Um so, essentially, this is
of no value to anyone listening. No one
cares. In fact, when people hear that,
they're repulsed by it. In most cases,
just hearing someone talk about that
makes you feel, "I definitely don't want
to see you for the next 2 years." Why
are they destined to fail?
Because they can't attract a team. Uh
essentially, all of business and life is
a team sport. And it's your ability to
attract great talented people around you
who want to work with you that is
ultimately the reason we succeed. And
it's ultimately the reason we feel good.
So, if you're saying things that repulse
people,
then talented people leave. Talented
people don't want to be involved. If
you're saying something that feels
resonant, that it feels aligned, and it
feels like um something's happening, it
feels like
this guy's up to something. Or this you
know, this woman is up to something.
She's enrolling people in this vision
that she's got, and people love her
story,
it's destined to succeed because good
people are getting involved and more and
more good people are getting involved.
Do you
knowing what's a good opportunity and
what's not a good opportunity,
do you think that when you're younger,
you should be saying yes to more stuff?
Cuz like in the position you're in now,
you're bombarded with opportunity. So,
you have to use a kind of a different
mental framework. Yeah.
Do you think when people are younger,
they should have a different bias
towards accepting
opportunities or [ __ ] around and
finding out?
Yeah, definitely. We We should
definitely go through that phase. Um and
also be willing to say, "Oh, that wasn't
it. I'm going to stop and go try
something else." So, you dropped out of
university, I dropped out of university.
I was so excited to go to university,
and then as soon as I realized it's this
is not going where I want to go,
I had to make the decision to leave all
my friends um and walk away from
university. That that sort of dark
valley you have to walk through of
uncertainty when you make the decision
to leave the
um well-worn track of university or a
corporate job or the 9-to-5, that
How How does one prepare mentally? Like
what's the mindset of someone that goes,
"Do you know what? I'm going to go
through the stinging nettles, through
the bushes, and be lost and find my own
way"? I always enjoyed all of this, by
the way. So,
the my mindset was that I was always
quite excited that um being lost I felt
was probably going to be part of the
process. I have a simple view around
mindset, which is you're either being a
reptile on autopilot or a visionary.
What's that reptile thing you mentioned?
What's the definition of that?
Oh.
Well, reptile mode is fight, flight,
freeze, freak out, um
throw tantrums,
be angry at the people you should not be
angry at, um feels unfair that the
world's against you, um all of that.
And the visionary? What's the definition
of that? So, the visionary, I don't know
if you've had these moments where you
feel anything is possible um and you
feel very expansive. Um you think in
long time frames. So, you think in maybe
10, 20 years out. You also might see the
world as one small place. So, you might
um mentally, your mental model might be
that the world is just one little ball
that flies around the sun, and there's
markets everywhere, and that there are
opportunities everywhere, and that there
are people trying to get stuff done, and
I could have a business that's anywhere.
And you
feel a sense of love and compassion and
optimism uh and you typically uh become
more influential in your circles. The
other strange thing about the visionary
mindset is that um they did some
research with Indian farmers, and they
found that uh these particular people,
they got paid their yearly salary
in one lump sum, and then they had to
make that last for the whole year.
And as they were getting close to the
end of that cycle, they had uh an IQ
test which showed that they were 15
points of IQ lower than when they'd just
been paid the lump sum. So, the lump sum
allowed them to think long-term. It
allowed them to feel affluent and
abundant, and their IQ the scores on the
IQ test went up um as a result of
feeling good and feeling amazing and
feeling affluent. And then by the time
the money had run out and they were, you
know, not sure whether they're even
going to make it to the next one, their
emotional intelligence, their actual IQ
intelligence, had dropped significantly.
So, one of the things that is a real
challenge that if you're doing it tough,
is that you're essentially regularly
putting yourself into these uh
situations where your IQ is right down.
Your your emotional intelligence and
your IQ suffers as a result of being in
reptile mode. I remember a time where I
got a parking ticket for $40.
And I I freaked out. Like I flipped out.
I had a massive fight with my friend and
you know, like I I was in a place where
$40 was was seriously an issue. Um and I
remember thinking I'm just going to eat
cereal for weeks um to try and get
through this. Um and so full reptile
meltdown mode. What would the uh
visionary have responded to the parking
ticket?
Well, the visionary has a different view
of life. And the the first thing is that
if a resource exists on the planet
anywhere, that resource is really just a
couple of conversations away. So,
essentially a visionary would say,
"Well, someone's got $40. I'll just have
a talk with them and and see what they
need and I'll help them with whatever
they need and they can help me with the
$40 that I need. Um maybe I need to wash
their car. Maybe I need to, you know,
help them with their video editing or
something." So, the visionary is all
about
the idea that there's really not a lot
of boundaries between the resources on
the planet, that it's just a gray zone
around who owns what and who's got what
and we can just have conversations about
that. So, visionaries can easily raise
money and raise funds because they just
think, "Well, someone's got the money
and they want to put it to use, so I'll
just give them a plan as to how we're
going to put it to use." There's a great
story that I love, which is I think it
was the producers of Top Gun
were creating these little models of
airplanes and boats and they were trying
to figure out how they would do like a
Star Wars style Top Gun movie. And
someone said, "Have we actually called
the Navy and asked whether we can use
their planes and their boats?"
And everyone's like, "No."
And it's like, "Well, they've got planes
and boats. Let's see if they want to do
it." So, they ring up the Navy, as you
do, and they speak to the general and
the general says, "Oh yeah, we want to
enroll more people in the Navy, so we
would love for you to make a Hollywood
blockbuster film. What do you need?" And
they basically say, "Well, here, have
the jets, have the boats, have the
aircraft carriers, whatever you want to
do."
So, it's kind of weird to think that
someone woke up this morning with the
resource that you want. And if you have
a conversation about how that resource
gets used, right? Essentially, you are
now as
it's as good as you having the resource.
Someone woke up with an aircraft
carrier.
If you've got a good use for that
aircraft carrier, why not have a
conversation about how that aircraft
carrier gets used today?
It's shocking because it's so simple.
And and but it's so resonant with me.
There's two examples I'll give. The
first I've talked about many times is
when I was 16, 17, in sixth form, saw
Carly Stokes sat in
head girl, but she was picking the
vending machines we were going to get in
the school. And in my brain, I thought
we have 2,000 paying customers here.
Surely there's a vending machine company
that would love to put that these
machines for free and give us a cut.
Went to the computer room, sent five
emails based on Google search rankings.
By the same day, and Mr. Sprinkle, who
was our head of Key Stage 5, has
confirmed this on live TV,
someone showed up with a tape measure to
fit the machines because one of my
emails had gone to a former student who
was now the CEO of a vending machine
company and he'd been looking to give
back to the school.
Example
B comes
In in that one, Yeah.
did you feel what it felt like to be a
visionary where it's like anything's
possible? Like, why are we not just Of
course we've got 2,000 clients. Like
Like it Did you feel cuz you must have
felt reptile versus visionary in your
life. You've had reptile moments where
you're like
100%.
I hate everyone. I want to kill
everyone.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know,
and then you've had moments where it's
like, "Oh, you know, You can bend the
world. Yeah, we can we can bend reality.
Exactly. We have conversation about how
reality works and we'll just, you know,
bend it. Yeah, and so my question has
always been like, where does that come
from? Because
I view our beliefs, all of our beliefs,
as a stack of evidence we either have or
don't really have. And for me, the
youngest of four siblings, I had so much
space compared to my siblings when I was
young that I got to like we said
earlier, like [ __ ] around and find out.
I got to conduct experiments. And that
led me to believe that the world is
bendable. I used to say when I was 14
that if someone said to me that we need
to go to the moon next week, I believe
there's a way. Cuz I think there's
probably a rock rocket going and all I
need to do is contact the person and
make a compelling pitch. That's how I
get to the moon next week.
that at 14?
Yes. I used to say this all the time.
Like, my my difference between myself
and my peers, they were academically
better, but in my head, there was the
only thing that stood in the way of
where I am now and where I want to be is
a bunch of people. Bunch of
conversations. Yeah. And pitching.
Essentially, pitching is enrolling
people into new ideas. So, what
entrepreneurs do to advance their ideas
is we pitch them into existence. We
start with an idea and we pitch it and
we pitch it and we pitch it. We sharpen
our pitch by talking to people.
But what we're doing that's different is
we're not just explaining the idea to
people. We're trying to enroll them into
that vision. We're enrolling people into
this vision that we've got for the
business.
And
that
um process of getting people to do
something that they didn't wake up
thinking they would do that day
is pitching, right? That's And that's
one of the first tools that you learn as
an entrepreneur. And actually, on
Dragon's Den, that is the main tool that
people are given in order to enroll the
dragons into investing or or getting
involved or not.
So, um where does it come from, I think
was your question.
Uh I believe it's built into every
single individual, that it's an
evolutionary function, that essentially,
at the very base of our brain is this
reptile mode, which is fight, flight,
freeze, which is rarely appropriate, but
in a survival situation, probably is
appropriate. And then there's autopilot
mode, which is essentially just do what
you've always done, repeat the past, you
know, just get into a loop
uh if it worked last week and and I
didn't die last week, well then I might
as well do the same week again.
Um and then there's visionary mode,
which is what could I do differently?
What, you know, what might What What
would be a creative way to solve this
problem? So, I feel that a lot of people
think they're missing something and
actually it's all built in. And if you
can get yourself into that visionary
mode, often it's the people you hang out
with, um it's the books that you read,
the podcasts that you listen to.
If you can get into that mode, then a
lot more becomes possible. You get more
IQ points, you get more EQ points.
Um and you see the world in a in a very
different way. The key question there is
like, how do you get into that mode? I
have a very one-dimensional biased um
journey. So, I'm not sure if my journey
is the the best one to take um notes
from. But from what I've seen
personally, people are either in some
kind of upward
spiral towards being more visionary
because it's compounding in their favor.
They're they're they're sending the
email and then it's working, which means
they have the evidence to send more
They're more likely to send emails with
more conviction and more frequency
because it worked last time. And then
more work, they get more responses. So,
they send more emails. It's this upward
wonderful reinforcing spiral upwards and
they become more and more visionary.
Like Elon Musk is at the very top now.
He's like, "Spaceships to Mars."
Yeah. He's like, "Neuro chips in your
brain that monkeys can control computers
with." That's someone at the very top of
that visionary cycle. And at the the
bottom of the reptile cycle is someone
who, you know, at work
the CEO says, "Does anyone want to stand
up and share their ideas?" And they just
slouch back in the chair. Mhm. Because
they've had their confidence um
negatively reinforced. Maybe last time
they tried,
it didn't go bad. Maybe their father or
their mother gave them bad feedback one
day and they're in this downward spiral.
Well, when they do show up, they show up
with low confidence. They put in a bad
performance. It goes bad. Less likely to
show up
call that autopilot mode, which is I've
never done this before, so I won't do it
next time. Mhm. Um reptile mode is is
very destructive. You're You're actively
breaking your world. All right. So, it's
it's where you
do the worst possible thing. Okay. Um
so, you are throwing tantrums and
you're lashing out against the people
who you should You're actually lashing
out against the people who are trying to
help you, probably.
Um so, that's that's where you're really
at the bottom of reptile mode, very
destructive.
Autopilot, in your situation where you
said about the person who, you know, is
given an opportunity to speak and they
say, "Oh, well,
you know, it's not what I do."
is the autopilot response. Mhm. The
visionary is like, "Oh, this is a chance
to mobilize resources. Um I've got an
opportunity here to
expand my sphere of influence and become
a key person of influence in this room."
You know, so the visionary is like, "Oh,
great. This is This is a good
opportunity. I can do more with this."
If the pitch is the keys to everything
you want to be, because if if we're
saying that it's really conversations
that stand in the way of where you want
to go, and it's the pitch that is
essentially the key to wherever you want
to go,
what are the attributes of a perfect
pitch? What are the fundamentals of
being an exceptional salesperson
pitcher?
Well, you've seen some great pitchers on
the Den. Um and a bad ones, too. Yeah.
So, here's what I look for. Clarity is
the base level. You just don't want to
confuse people.
Um authority is the ability to
communicate
that you are worth listening to, that
there's something about your background
or what you've done or the data that
you're possessing or the mentor that
you've got
that gives you some sort of authority to
be talking about this. So, clarity and
authority.
Uh defining some sort of a problem that
the customer has or some sort of problem
that exists in the world that needs
solving and that you've identified an
insight or a solution for that problem.
Then the why, which I would say is about
communicating why you care enough about
this that people would buy into you as
the person to drive this forward.
You then want to define the opportunity.
What is the bigger opportunity for
anyone who gets involved? The next
steps. What should someone do next?
And then the emotion or the essence that
you want to leave people with so that
they remember you based on that essence
or that emotion that you made them feel.
So, that's the great arc of a of a of an
inspiring pitch. What was the last one
there? Was it the emotion? So, clarity,
authority, problem solution, the why,
opportunity, next steps, and the
essence. And it spells out capstone.
Capstone. So, that's how I remember a
great pitch. I've I had to come up with
a way of remembering this because I was
pitching so often. I had to be able to
come back to, okay, how do I pitch this?
So, the essence, that's the one I I
wanted to some more definition
People remember you based on how you
made them feel. So, you want to think,
how do I want to leave people feeling?
What's the emotion that I want people to
remember?
When I'm pitching? Yeah. So, you want to
finish the pitch on an emotion. You want
to finish the pitch by expressing
um what it is that you
uh essentially what is the emotion or
the feeling that you want um you want
this business to be about. And what's
the opposite of that then? The emotional
piece. So, what's a pitch that is
lacking Uh well, a lot of pitches finish
on next steps and it's very logistical.
Um so, I've seen a lot of pitches that
are going great and then they go, and
then here's what we need to do next,
blah blah blah, and then it becomes a
little to-do list and everyone goes, oh,
that kind of landed flat. And if you
finish on the essence, then you actually
just bring people back to, this is what
it's really about. So, that we even
though we've talked about opportunities
and next steps and the finances and all
that sort of stuff. You want to finish
on, this is what we're really about.
What we're up to in the world. I've been
thinking a lot about, you know, some
adjacent subjects to what we're talking
about here, but this idea that if you
just asked five times more than you're
currently asking, your life would
change.
Mhm. Um the secondary example I was
going to give after my coffee um
machine example from when I was 16 was
when I was 18 and I was completely broke
and that's when I was shoplifting those
Chicago Town pizzas to feed myself. And
I need I start I was starting this
business called Wall Park and I needed
camera equipment. I sent 20 emails to
camera companies saying, hey, I've got
um this website I'm going to launch,
we're going to record videos on campus,
I need some cameras. If you lend us the
cameras, we'll put your logo on all the
videos we make on campus. Within 72
hours, Samsung had sent 10,000 pounds
worth of camera equipment to my front
door in my side. I got an email the day
after the cameras arrived and it said,
these are um returns. Send them back
when you don't need them anymore. And
I'd solved someone's problem for him
because he had returned cameras in a
warehouse that he didn't know what to do
with. He sent me 10,000 pounds worth of
camera equipment for free within 72
hours. You just asked. And I I go, oh my
god, like, when you're at the bottom and
you have nothing to lose and you have an
internet connection and a Gmail account,
why aren't you sending out 20, 30, 50
emails a day
Yeah. asking?
You think in emails, I think in calls um
cuz when I was 18, you pick up the phone
and make a call. Um
I always had this rule called make three
calls.
And I remember nightclub party that I I
saw these 15-year-olds um sitting in the
street. I'd just turned 18 and I was um
loving going to nightclubs. And I saw
these 15-year-olds and they're
skateboarding and they're hanging out in
this little area and um they were asking
me what it's like to go to a nightclub
and I said, oh, someone should put on an
under-18s nightclub party so that you
can experience it and see what it's
like. They're like, oh, that would be
amazing and and I thought, oh, I'm going
to do it.
So, I called the nightclub I'd been
going to and said, oh, I have a
promotions company and we run nightclub
parties for under-18s during the school
holidays. We've selected your venue to
be one of our venues um for the next uh
holidays. Would you be interested in
discussing that? He said like, yeah,
send through a proposal. And then I'm
like, oh, okay, yeah, we'll send a we'll
send through a proposal.
And anyway, we ran we ran a series of
nightclubs at that thing and we
uh it was the first time I'd ever made
10 grand in a night because we had a
thousand people pay 10 bucks a head.
And that was a lot of money and it was
all cash and
uh it was it was wild and it was just
literally just asking. I have to say, a
lot of people send me messages. I get um
many thousands of messages a week across
my inbox, LinkedIn, Instagram, the
podcast, etc. And because
I'm exposed to so many thousands of
messages as I'm sure you are, you get to
see the variance in a good ask versus a
bad ask. Yeah. Now, I want to drill down
on that. What are the core components of
a great ask? The best ask has with or
without you energy.
With or without you energy is the energy
that you have when this is going to
happen with or without you.
So, essentially, when you say, we're
going to be doing this filming and do
you want to send some cameras and we'll
put your logo at the bottom, it's
happening with or without you. You can
be the company that gets the logo or
not. Um but it is happening with or
without you.
Um the worst asks are I desperately need
this to happen and if you don't say yes,
no one will ever say yes and and
therefore, I'll give up. So, if I think
about the best asks that come through,
something is going to happen and it's
going to happen whether I'm involved or
not and I get to choose whether I want
to jump onto that or not. Um and those
are the most compelling and most
exciting uh opportunities that that get
pitched. So, I'll give you I'll give you
an example. When I first arrived in the
UK, I had a suitcase and a credit card
and I'd never been above the equator. I
arrive in London
and I'm going to launch a business in
London. And within the first two weeks,
I message all the people who are
influential in in my industry and I
basically say, I'm I'm hosting a dinner
party.
There's going to be about 30 amazing
people there who are the who's who of
the industry. Um I've just arrived from
Australia. If you'd like to come along
to the dinner party, let me know and
I'll um allocate a spot to you. And
within two weeks, I'd filled 30 spots at
my at my dinner party.
And they were all people who had massive
databases. The biggest database was like
600,000 people.
So, I've got this dinner party and I
stand up and I say, I'm Daniel Priestley
and I've just arrived from Australia and
I'm going to be launching a business
here. I thought I'd put together a
dinner party just to kind of get to know
everyone.
I've got my diary with me. I'd love to
make a time uh in the next couple of
weeks to sit down and have a chat with
you about how we could do a commercial
partnership or a joint venture um as
part of our launch. I'll just come
around and I'll make a time and um and
and and then other than that, enjoy the
evening. So, I walk around and I booked
28 one-to-one meetings for the following
two weeks.
And everyone who I had a one-to-one
meetings with knew that I had 28 other
one-to-one meetings and they could see
that I'd hosted this party. Mind you,
the party this dinner party cost like
1,500 quid. It wasn't it wasn't nothing,
but it wasn't a lot.
So, I then end up having these uh
meetings and everyone starts agreeing to
support my launch. So, I'm pitching into
existence that we're launching this
thing
uh and then the biggest database with
600,000 people, they say, yeah, we'll
support your launch.
So, when we did the launch email
campaign to everyone's database, we
booked hundreds and hundreds and
hundreds of people. We did two nights in
Manchester, two nights in um
Birmingham, Milton Keynes and then we
did like three or four events in a row
in London. We did 4 million pounds worth
of sales off the back of it in the first
few months. It was interesting that
whole experience of just putting
together a dinner party and
getting everyone involved, but it had
with or without you energy. What what's
the sort of psychology underpinning
that? Is it like scarcity? What is it
that's causing with or without you
energy to make people choose to buy from
you or go with you?
I think people like to get involved in
something that they feel is happening um
and
it also demonstrates that you're a key
person of influence, that you're
actually an influential person in your
industry, that you have the confidence
to say, I'm I'm putting this on and it's
going to happen. We're going to make the
movie. We're going to launch the
business. We're going to do the thing.
We're going to raise the fund. You're
you're free to join
or not. Uh totally fine.
Uh it's the there's no neediness and
humans respond to the idea that they
don't want to miss out on something
that's going to happen.
Um very rarely exciting things happen,
right? Most of the time for most people,
everything's humdrum
and then occasionally something
exciting's happening and you don't want
to miss out on something that's
happening. So,
you know, I don't like no one likes
neediness.
People like things that are happening
and people like to flock around key
people of influence. So, by
demonstrating that you're a key person
of influence who's putting something
together, people just naturally
gravitate around that. It's interesting
cuz it reminded me of an example from a
company that I
I invested in five or six years ago.
And in one of my first meetings with
them, I looked at their website and they
had this button on there that said um
become a member now.
And I said, we should try changing that
to join the waiting list. And when I had
my first board meeting with this
company, they said, Stephen, of all the
things you've done for us, the most
valuable thing you did was getting us to
change that button from become member
now to join the waiting list. And I
said, why? They said, two things
happened. The first is, the amount of
inquiries we got the amount of people
clicking that number rose by 500%.
The second thing is, conversion went up
by about 300% because previously, just
by changing a couple of words on that um
button, people would click the button,
they would then get scheduled an
appointment to have a tour of this um
facility. They would then not even show
up for their tour.
They would because they didn't value it.
The minute we changed it to join the
waiting list and then they got an email
saying, hey, you've been selected to for
a queue jump or whatever.
They would never ever miss the tour. And
if they were late for the their
scheduled tour by 1 hour, they would
profusely text and apologize and try and
reschedule.
Tiny shift. Tiny shift in just a couple
of words.
Because if you look at how human
psychology works, in order for someone
to want to buy something, they have to
be about 100% certain.
In order to join a waiting list, you
only have to be 5 10% certain that you
want to do something. And people like to
warm up to things a little bit slowly.
So, join the waiting list means that,
hey, you only have to be slightly sure
that you want to do this.
Then, the uncertainty of do I get
through or not? I've joined the waiting
list. I've made a micro commitment. Now,
it's there's a an uncertainty gap and
it's like, oh, I need the certainty. I
need to know whether I'm off the waiting
list or I'm through to the next phase.
So, now we enter a different like, oh,
will I will I or won't I get through?
But it also gives the business a great
opportunity to warm people up. So, you
talked about doing a tour of the club.
Let me give you some other examples. Um
Glastonbury Music Festival, they tell
people that they can't book a ticket,
they can only register for a ticket um
that they're interested in a ticket. So,
a registration of interest, but not a
ticket sale.
So, what they do is they get 700,000
people to register interest, and then
they tell you slowly who are some of the
bands, and they warm you up to will you
get it or not, and they tell you 500,000
people are now registered, 600,000 are
registered, 700,000 are registered, and
they say, "But there's only 140,000
tickets."
But then they say,
"We're going to make the tickets
available at 5:00 a.m."
So, only the true believers are going to
be there, only the true music fans who
are willing to get up early. And then
there's this whole like suspense and
excitement of like will I get a ticket
or not. People set their alarm in the
morning. They know that 700,000 have
registered, 140,000 will get through, so
they just fight for those tickets.
Rolex had a massive
uh breakthrough in the way that they uh
in becoming a a big brand when they
stopped selling Rolexes and they started
selling the waiting list. So, you can't
buy a Rolex.
The way it works with a Rolex is you go
into a Rolex retail store, and the only
thing they will sell you is getting onto
the waiting list.
So, they won't actually sell you a
watch.
So, first you will have to get on the
waiting list and register,
and then about 6 months later they'll
say, "Good news.
Uh we have the watch that you want
available, but it's only available for 3
days. Right, other than that, we can
hold it for you for 3 days, but after
that we'll have to sell it to somebody
else."
And essentially everyone goes rushes
down and gets the Rolex. So, that
cycle of join the waiting list and then
make the sale is brilliant. And this
translates perfectly for people at the
early stage of the entrepreneurial
journey, because it doesn't matter
whether you want to do a rocket to Mars,
or whether you want to launch a cupcake
business, or you want to do a fashion
brand, or you want to do uh a service of
bookkeeping and accounting. All of those
you can launch a waiting list with
minimal cost. Um you set it up very
simply and basically.
Um you use a template. Boom, you you've
got a waiting list. And you can also
collect the data. So, you you can't just
join the waiting list. Name, email,
answer five questions to get on the
waiting list. How much are you willing
to pay? What are you trying to achieve?
What's your biggest fear of that could
go wrong? What would you try if this
didn't exist? So, you ask a few of these
questions, and then people get on the
waiting list, you've got all that data.
When people hear that, they'll think
that putting someone through a set of
sort of rigorous questions to give them
access to the product on the other side
would would deter most people. But it
reminds me of a psychology study that I
read about then wrote about in my last
book, where they got two groups of
people.
Um and it they had a boring community
forum online as the sort of the product.
They let one group of people straight
into the boring community forum, and
then they asked them how much they
appreciated and found value in the
boring community forum. That group of
people said it was boring.
Right? Then they had this other group of
people in this study, and they didn't
let them into the boring community
forum, they made them
go through a rigorous selection process.
And the people that got into the boring
the same boring community forum, when
asked in surveys after, "How much do you
value the boring community forum?" they
said it's great. Yeah. And it's this
psychological bias, because you've had
to fight for something.
What you describe is Harvard. Yeah.
It's Harvard University. Exactly that.
It's the same university subjects that
everyone teaches, but it's hard to get
in. Yeah. Um I use one of the other
strategies for building a business is
waiting list, but also discussion
groups. So, one of the things we do when
we launch a business is we don't launch
the product or service, we launch the
discussion group. So, the first thing is
uh let's say let's say I was going to
launch a gym in Wandsworth, I might say
we're going to do weight loss
Wandsworth, an online discussion group
on WhatsApp. And we just promote the
hell out of that group, and if we had
4,000 people in that group, we could
then launch a gym pretty easily off the
back of the discussion group. So, I'm a
big believer like in wait list,
discussion groups, anything like that
that is super fast, low risk, low cost.
These are the best ways to start
businesses that that you you know, and
you're collecting data, you're getting
people to answer questions to get in.
And you're learning about what the
product market fit probably is going to
be the right product for those people in
Wandsworth. Exactly. And sometimes you
get very surprised. You you find out
that, "Oh, I thought this was going to
be for men who want to build big
muscles, but it's actually for women who
are excited about CrossFit." It's like,
"Oh, okay, didn't didn't know that."
Like I now have asked the questions, I'm
finding out that it's slightly different
to what I thought. I thought everyone
would love red, but everyone loves blue.
Uh okay, we we can we can do that. So,
in those early stages of of business,
you want to when I said uh before about
conducting fast cheap experiments,
waiting lists, discussion groups, online
assessments are amazing.
So, an online score card or an online
assessment, great way to think of them
is a readiness assessment. So, a
readiness assessment like are you ready
to launch a podcast? Answer 10 questions
to find out. Uh are you ready to build
your brand? Answer 10 questions to find
out. Are you ready to be an investor in
this type of investment? Answer 10
questions to find out. So, it's an
online assessment where you answer a
series of questions to get a readiness
score, and then based on the readiness
score, uh you
people will then find out if they're 30%
ready, 40% ready. And people love these
readiness scores. This is one of the
fastest ways to test an idea and getting
signals of interest. Everything is
downstream from lead generation in
business, so you essentially have to
uh you have to
generate leads, and then you figure out
if you've got a business or not. So, the
fastest you can get into the lead
generation, the better.
One of the worst things that people do
when they're starting a business is that
they think that having a business is
about the supply side of what they're
doing. Supply side means your ability to
look after a customer and keep a
customer happy. But actually a business
has to start with the demand side. It's
you've got to test the demand side
before you test the supply side. If you
can't manufacture demand, there's no
point manufacturing supply. Doesn't
matter. You know, if you say, "Oh, I've
you know, I've come up with this chili
and basil flavored ice cream." Great,
you can make that, but does anyone want
that? Right? You got to check out
whether you have the ability to to get
that um product into a market. So, what
I see so many people they take a
qualifications, they get certifications,
they might raise money, they might set
up a venue, they might book an office,
they might buy laptop computers, all of
this stuff. And they might spend 3 to 6
months doing that. And then finally,
after all of that, they then experience,
"Oh, no one's interested in this. Now
what do I do with all that stuff?" So,
in the chili and ice cream example, what
should they have done?
Join the waiting list. We're launching
chili and basil ice cream. If you'd like
to try and taste it, join the waiting
list. People don't know what they want
though. Because in in the ice cream
example, it's a taste thing, right? So,
it sounds good, but in reality it could
be like So, I mean this is a crazy idea.
It's a terrible idea that we're
But anyway, let's let's go with it. Um
so, you you create a waiting list. We're
we're doing really wild flavored ice
creams, and it's crazy flavors like
chili and basil ice cream and uh salt
and pepper ice cream and blah blah blah.
If you're interested in really different
exciting new flavors of ice cream, join
the waiting list, and we will invite you
to a taste tester um when it's ready.
You'll get to come to an exclusive event
where you get to try and test our latest
recipes in the mid in central London.
So, now you promote the waiting list,
and you see can I get lots of people?
And some of the questions might be which
flavor are you most looking forward to?
Are you looking forward to octopus
octopus ice cream? Are you looking
forward to, you know, which one? Uh
Right? So, you go through and you they
answer all the questions, and then they
join the waiting list. Then you say,
join the ice cream discovery discussion
group. Right? So, now they're in there
talking about their favorite ice creams
and what crazy flavors they like, and
you can actually have a daily poll, and
you're doing that all in WhatsApp.
And then you say, "Now come to the the
event that we've got, the taste testing
event." You could launch the ice cream
assessment. All right, what kind of what
which type are you? Are you the savory
ice cream person or the sweet ice cream?
Are you the, you know,
So, you could have four ice cream
personalities. They take the test and
find out which ice cream personality
they have. So, you can do all of this
stuff for free or almost for free
without making a scoop of ice cream.
Right? None of this stuff involves
actually any commercial kitchens, none
of it involves packaging or branding, or
any of the expensive stuff. You're just
doing the things that's testing whether
people are actually interested in this.
And if it's crickets, if you put a lot
of effort into trying to get people
interested in this, and you've got 12
people in your little group, and they're
all, you know, sadly looking at each
other going, "Where's the basil ice
cream?" You know this is never going to
fly. If it, you know, I was thinking
there, some people might come to the
discussion group, you know, your
friends, whatever, your mom comes down.
She goes, "Yeah, your ice cream's great,
Daniel." Mhm. Well, you want to do cold
outreach. Cold outreach I
I don't know how long we're going to
talk about ice cream, but cold outreach
is is where you essentially make um
a list of all the communities and groups
that exist online, all the all the
accounts that already have followers,
and you just cold outreach a thousand
people, and and get them involved.
But Daniel, what if someone steals my
idea?
Well, my my experience tells me until
you've got a Ferrari, no one steals your
idea. Yeah.
People steal ideas from people who have
Ferraris. Right? So, it's that bias
towards if you've been successful in the
past, then your ideas are worth
stealing. The beauty of having nothing
is no one's going to steal your ideas
ever. They're going to look at your
account on Instagram and go, "Oh, you've
got no followers, and you know, you
haven't got a Ferrari, so I'm not going
to steal your idea." So, you've got this
great advantage when you're starting
from zero that no one no one will steal
the idea. And here's the other thing.
Ideas aren't worth anything. Uh here's a
great idea. Let's rip down all the old
buildings in London and build brand new
buildings. What's that idea worth?
Trillions. Well, it would be worth
trillions if we did that. Well, actually
no, the value is for the person who does
it. So, if someone else steals your
idea, but does it, they deserve the
money. All right, let them have it.
They're better at executing. Get on with
the next idea and be better at executing
next time. So, if someone's able to
execute better and faster than you, they
deserve that money. That's fine, let
them have it. Get on to the next idea.
Mhm. Thinking about it like this
podcast, there's lots of pod- there's
like 3 million podcasts. A lot of
podcasts. The idea itself to start a
podcast isn't where the value is derived
from.
No, so much of it is pitching and um and
also the commercials behind the scenes,
you know, creating the right offers,
making sales. So, this is the other
thing that early stage businesses need
to do. You got to stop calling yourself
an entrepreneur and start calling
yourself a salesperson. Are you going to
get out there and make sales in the
early days? So, a lot of people are
really uncomfortable with the idea of
making sales, but that's what an
entrepreneur does. An entrepreneur is a
salesperson, especially in those first
couple of years. You are you are the
chief salesperson. If you can't sell it,
nobody's going to sell it.
At the heart of a lot of these topics is
this idea of failure.
Because you're talking about
experimentation, we're talking about
asking, with all these things. And
people's relationship with failure seems
to correlate to their eventual success.
Over the last couple of years in
particular, especially from doing this
podcast and a lot of other more recent
businesses that I run, I've realized
that
that experimental mindset, the type of
person that quickly runs the test versus
sits and procrastinates for years, is
really the winner in most pursuits. And
then I studied Amazon and Jeff Bezos'
shareholder letter says, "This has to be
the best place in the world to fail." I
looked at booking.com and they have that
moment where they launched their
experimentation platform cuz they were
sick of arguing about what the best
feature was in the boardroom. I look at
Thomas Watson back, you know, I think
1950 or '60 where he says, um one of his
employees had just made a huge mistake
which cost the company $600,000 and he's
asked in an interview, "Are you going to
fire them?" And he goes, "Fire them? I
just spent $600,000 training them."
These people seem to have a different
attitude towards the value of failure.
Yeah, this goes back to the school
system. The school system is designed
for component labor and you don't want
components to fail. Um what we're doing
now is different. So, we're especially
now we're entering the entering the age
of AI. So, in in a post-AI world, most
of the things that we think of as
valuable that the school system could
possibly teach us are not going to be
very valuable very long.
So, functionality versus vitality. When
something is functional, it performs a
task reliably. When something is vital,
it's irreplaceable life force energy.
So, what we have to do is recognize that
the value has swung from something that
is reliably able to perform a task to
something that breathes life force
energy into into a project. So, I know
this is kind of woo-woo, but
essentially this is the difference.
When you are breathing life force energy
into something, you're okay with
failure. We're we're just conducting
experiments. We're finding the way that
works. And we just found 900 ways that
don't work and now we're going to find
the next one. And you're you're bringing
something into existence. It's just like
being a parent. You know, when when you
see the child fall down, you you get the
child back up and you get them on to the
next thing. And when we learn riding a
bike, we have to go through falling off
the bike. So, there's all of these
experiences that you know what it's like
to bring life force energy to something.
And that involves a process of failure.
Um and then functionality, if we're
really
um putting our value around the idea
that something has to be functional or
that I have to be functional, that my
value is in my functionality, then
failure is such a bad thing. So, this is
a big difference in how the pendulum is
now swinging. We have to remove the idea
that you are valuable because you're
reliably functional. We have to swing it
back to this idea that you're valuable
because you breathe life force energy
into something. For someone that doesn't
know the definition of life force
energy, how would you define that? So,
this word vitality has two definitions,
irreplaceable
and life force. So, if something is
vital, it's irreplaceable and it's life
force. So, you need to find something
that you are the irreplaceable life
force. You pitch it into existence. You
create it. You innovate it. Um you take
ownership of it. You enroll others into
it. Um That's the alignment kind of
thing you're talking about. You're
aligned to that thing. Yeah, you fully
express your life. You're enjoy- you're
enjoying this because it's your life
journey.
Um and uh you know, we're so tuned out
from from the idea of this that that
essentially we have to relearn what the
hell does this even mean, this
definition. Life force energy is what
kids do, right? Think about, you know,
everyone's talking and everyone's
serious and then a 5-year-old bounces
into the room. Look what I found, right?
And then it's like, "Look, there's mud
and there's this and there's you know,
it's like, whoa." And suddenly
everyone's disrupted and they bring
energy into the house. They bring energy
into a room. So, they just know what
it's like to fully express themselves
and breathe life force energy into
something. Let me give you another
example.
There are magicians
and they have these like fake thumbs and
these things.
Those fake thumbs are functional things,
right? There's a functional thing called
a fake thumb and that's how you do the
magic trick.
But it doesn't mean that everyone who
has that fake thumb can do the magic
trick. In fact, some people do the magic
trick and people go, "You're just
wearing a fake thumb." Right? Then there
are magicians who completely make you
believe in the magic. And they're using
just the fake thumb as well. They're
just doing the same functional thing as
the other magician, but they're so good
at doing it. They're so good at
enrolling you in it. They're so good at
getting you your attention and your
engagement and your beliefs aligned to
what they want you to believe that
suddenly bringing that magic trick to
life is what the magician is doing. When
you study magicians, you realize that
it's not about the gadgets. It's not
about the functionality. It's about the
way they do the trick. It's the way they
breathe the life force into the trick.
So,
the the life force is the magic. It's
the way you it's the way you bring it to
life. So, the idea that I noticed years
ago when I wrote the book Key Person of
Influence was that there are these
people who make stuff happen around
them. Um and these these people
they build reputation. Their names come
up conversation. They have more fun.
They build reputation. All that sort of
stuff happens. And when they're involved
in something, it all comes to life. And
when they're not involved in it, it
almost dissipates. It gets something
magically doesn't happen. Um your
involvement in 40 different compa-
companies, people would ask the
question, "But how are you involved in
40 different companies?"
And the thing is is that you're not
functionally involved in 40 different
companies, but you're breathing a life
force energy into 40 different
companies. There's something that your
your energy brings
that stuff happens with you involved
that wouldn't happen if you weren't
involved. You're the irreplaceable life
force. And if that irreplaceable life
force
comes gets gets removed, the result
won't be the same. If you're involved,
the result will be different. And that's
what people want from you and it's not
functionality. No one's saying, "Can you
come and work in the office?"
It's very very interesting, very very
true. And I the two sub-questions that
spiraled off that were
how does one know and does one need to
know what their
vitality, their life force energy is? Do
we need to know? And is there a way for
us to find out what it is? We need to
get into environments where it becomes
normal to explore this stuff.
And we need to be around people who are
full of life. So, when you are around
vital people, you discover things about
your own vitality. You've had this
experience of launching a podcast that
gives you access to the world's most
interesting people and me. Um
and you've got this
uh I bet from every single person you've
raised your energy. You've raised your
vitality. Something inside you was
awoken in each and every interaction
that lifted your vibration up. When
you're in a low vibration environment
where everyone's functional, everyone is
suppressing their life force in order to
be functional, you essentially just
resonate with that and you suppress your
life force in order to be functional.
So, we need to get into environments
where vitality is the norm, uh where we
raise our energy, where we feel good
about thinking about vision, mission,
and values and we feel good about
exploring origin and what what value
that might add to the world. Um it feels
normal to be conducting experiments. It
feels normal to be making sales. Um it
feels normal to want to be a key person
of influence in your industry.
Um it feels normal to have a
conversation about what resources
already exist on the planet and how they
could be used differently.
So, all of those things happen inside
the right environment. So, I have a
saying that environment dictates
performance.
I went in into a number of prisons with
a charity called Key for Life. And what
we discovered is that a lot of these
young men are entrepreneurs, but in
their environment, the product that you
would sell is an illegal product. But
they're the in that environment, the
only successful entrepreneurs they come
across and the only successful
entrepreneurs they meet are selling
drugs.
So, they go, "Oh, that is my pathway.
That's what I do. That's my mentoring.
That's the environment." If you were to
take this same entrepreneurial spirit
that these young men have and showed
them, "Oh, here's an IT services
company." They'd go start an IT services
company. Or here's a book publishing
business. "Oh, okay. Now I'm going to be
a book publisher." So, these their
entrepreneurial spirit, the only place
they saw in the environment of someone
who's on the rise was this drug dealer
friend, so they got involved in it. So,
environment dictates performance. What
we need to do is we need to find
environments that lift us up. What if
we're not in an environment that lifts
us up? Cuz there's going to be a couple
of million people right now that are
that when you've described the
definition of life force energy and
you've also used the word stagnation as
almost the antithesis of that, they're
thinking, "Oh my god. I would love some
life force energy. I'm in a corporate
job in the city. I've been doing it for
10 years. I'm I'm institutionalized in
this place because I've been here so
long that I don't even know what the
outside world would look like. And I've
got all these ideas, but I've been they
can feel their soul has been drained to
some degree."
Check your mortgage.
Change it. Well, change environments for
at least an hour or two a week. And what
I mean by that is
I'll give you an example.
Uh when I was 21, I was going out to
pubs drinking with friends all the time.
We were getting drunk and that was the
normal night. And there was this one
night where these people turned up who
did le bob uh Latin jive dancing. And I
looked across the room and I saw them
jive dancing and I went, "Oh, that's
incredible." And I get talking to the
the guy and I say, "How did you How do
you do this?" And there's like six
beautiful girls and this one or two guys
who they're all waiting for a spin. And
I'm like, "How do you How are you doing
this?" He goes, "Come to dance classes."
So, I'm like, "Go to dance classes?
That's I would never go to dance
classes." I rock up at dance class. And
then when I was there, I was in this
environment where it was completely
normal to dance. That was just the
normal thing.
In that environment, you grab a partner
and you the music comes on and they show
you the moves and you do the moves.
When they demoed the moves, and I can
vividly remember this from 20 years ago,
when they demoed the moves,
I thought to myself, there is no way
I'll learn that in 3 months. And then by
the end of that first 2-hour session,
I'm doing the whole routine and I'm
comfortable with it. I'm like, "Wow, I
can do this."
So, being in the You can't do it outside
of the environment. You can only do it
in the environment. So, entrepreneurship
is an environment thing. You You do it
inside an environment and you It's very
hard to do that outside of the
environment. So, you basically have to
find entrepreneur meetups, entrepreneur
groups.
Um you you find a mentor.
Uh you You know, in every city around
the world right now, there are
entrepreneur meetups every night of the
week. Uh online, there are
entrepreneurial events every day of the
week. So, you just get in You just get
in the environment. There's this thing
called social shedding, which I've never
actually shared with anybody before, but
it's this idea that when you take that
first step into dance class and you get
to see behind the curtain of another
world, you slowly no longer resonate
with your
other friendship group. And what And
there's often a friction there where
they say, "Oh, Dan, you Dan's done They
start cracking the jokes. Oh, Dan's a a
ballet dancer now, lads."
And what they're doing there is is
somewhat linked to this phrase, "Misery
loves company." They don't want you to
leave. No one wants you to change.
You're Dan Priestley. We know you as
this. Do not change your identity. If
you try to change your identity, we will
mock you. We will
disguise as a friendly roast and we will
try and hold you back because if you
change, what does that say about us?
Well, that's If that's holding a mirror
up to me, it means that I'm less than
you in some way. And I hear this from
entrepreneurs or startup entrepreneurs
that when they that decision to start
building a personal brand or starting
that cupcake business typically causes
resistance from their existing social
circle and then this decision whether
they want to socially shed, which means
letting some of those people go.
If we were born at any other time in
history, you would grow up in a town,
get a job in that local town, and go to
school in that local town. Um and
everything would have revolved around
just the local issues of of that
particular place. You probably would
know a thousand people for your entire
lifetime
and you'd have this very tight circle.
There's something in our evolution about
being part of these little local
communities. And for the first time in
history,
you can choose to be tapped into a
global community, anyone in the world
who who shares values or you want to
share their values. It's now freely
available to to us. There's something
that feels very foreign about that
because it's never happened for the last
5,000 years. And then there's something
very exciting about this where you go,
"Actually, I'm living in a different
time now. This is an incredible moment."
I think that what's happening is that
we're going through an empire shift. And
the current empire shift is this empire
shift away from geography to digital,
which means that we connect on values.
We connect on purpose. We connect on
origin, mission, and vision and those
sorts of things.
So,
what the larger shift that's actually
happening is this shift of do I want to
play by the old rules of the
geographical base system or do I want to
play by the new rules of being in the
cloud? And in the cloud, anything's
possible because I can go anywhere. I
can do anything. I can access any
information. I can connect with any
person on the planet.
And as soon as you make this shift into
the new empire,
that's where everything starts to shift.
And now you So, we all have to make that
shift. So, the big shift is not even
just changing your friendship group.
It's the courage to change empire. It's
the courage to say, "Actually, you know
what? The world is a very different
place than what I was born into. It's
now going through a big change. The
faster I can actually get into this wave
and surf this wave the better."
That's so interesting. And one of those
shifts from the old empire to the new
empire is seen in building a personal
brand because the old gatekeepers of
media and reputation were just
newspapers and the radio. And there was
like, you know, 10 of those. So, you got
to be lucky to get one of those. Now, in
the new empire, in the clouds, you can
build your own media company around you.
Mission-free, you can digitize your
value. Um you can connect with anyone in
the world who resonates with what it is
that you do. So, when we launched the
most recent business, um ScoreApp,
we launched it in London, but because it
was the pandemic,
um we ended up with employees all over
the world. And we've never had an office
and we still don't have an office. And
it's this incredible business. And
what's happening is that we now have
clients signing up every single day.
Over 100 people sign up. And we have
clients in 152 countries. I checked
yesterday.
And they resonate with a message. And
there's no The The business doesn't
exist anywhere. There's no actual place
that you can go to visit ScoreApp. It's
just a digital business.
The employees are everywhere. The
customers are everywhere. But what holds
it together are these intangible things
such as values and vision and the value
that we offer and the ideas and the you
know, all the stories. And all of that
intangible stuff now exists in the cloud
and the whole business exists in the
cloud. So, it is an incredible time.
Personal brand is one of these
incredible things where you don't need
permission. You can just go straight to
the market. You've done that. Um and
anyone who resonates with your story,
your ideas, you know, your the things
that you want to get done in the world,
they can just follow along.
Um I I hate the idea of personal brand
being like
showing up and doing dances.
It's actually it's about sending out a
signal of this is what I'm up to in the
world. And do you want to come along for
the ride? Do you want to be part of
that? Like, are you up for this game
that I'm playing? Do you want to
Do you want to take part in what I'm
interested in? So, it's it's a
connection. It's It's not
an image. It's not like a voice or a a
message that gets repeated over and
over. It's I'm up to something in the
world and I would love more people to be
part of that. Come with me. I think I
might have Adam Grant speak in one of
his books about the big misconception
with personal branding is it that it's
this kind of pursuit for fame, whereas
great personal branding isn't
self-promotion. It's idea promotion.
It's this is what I believe. This is my
perspective. Gather around if you think
the same. Self-promotion sounds like we
just won an award last night at the
marketing awards and you're all in the
table taking a selfie. We are amazing.
That doesn't cultivate a a personal
brand. Personal brand is this is my
perspective on the world. Um if you've
got the same perspective, which we call
idea promotion, come join me.
It's not look at me. It's look at this.
Yes. It's not chasing the spotlight.
It's becoming a spotlight and
spotlighting the thing that matters
most. And it's it's shining the light on
something else, especially on an idea.
So, we see people online who are
shameless self-promoters. I went to the
gym today. Look at my avocado on toast
with chili flakes.
And they're saying, "Look at me. Look at
me. Look at me."
And the people that we most want to
follow are the ones who say, "Don't look
at me. Look at this. This is what's
going on in the world. And this is what
you should You should be excited about
this."
Um And And that's the difference because
on the surface, we might see you and
say, "Oh, you know, Stephen's all about
like look at Stephen." It's like, "No,
no, no, you're missing the point. If you
think it's about that, you've missed the
point." He's shining a light on
something that's going on in the world
and he's bringing stuff into the
spotlight. He's not trying to say,
"Check me out." He's saying, "Check this
out." It's interesting that the podcast
was the most accelerating thing for my
personal brand and it's really
bringing people here and then do my very
best to listen as much as I can.
Which is interesting, right? Cuz we've
kind of cultivated It's almost like the
campfire. We've cultivated more people
sat around the campfire listening to
conversations like this. It is
incredible that these times that we're
in, these are the conversations that
would have been behind closed doors 20
years ago. And you would have been
incredibly privileged to be able to sit
and listen in on those chats. And now
they're they've been democratized. These
type of high-level conversation, the
types of conversations you have that you
share with the world. Uh you've
democratized something that was once a
very elite activity and you've made it
freely available.
People.
I've I've come to learn especially over
the last couple years about the
importance of people. You talked about
people at the very beginning of this
conversation.
Hiring people, finding the right people
to join you in your mission. How
essential to being successful in both
business but just more broadly in life
is assembling the right group of people?
So, business is a team sport. There's no
There's no getting around it. I don't
believe in solopreneurship. I don't
believe that you can be a one-person
entrepreneur. I think entrepreneurs are
team players and that they assemble
teams. Um they put together teams of
amazing people. Sometimes they put
together teams of ordinary people at the
beginning and then they become amazing
people. So, I'm a believer that
two-person co-founders or a founder plus
an assistant is a great place to start.
Four-person campaign teams.
Eight-person core teams. 30-person
performance teams. So, I love the
British military's approach to team
building. Uh so, in the British
military, they have two-person scout
team, four-person fire team,
eight-person section, 30-person platoon.
So, they go 2 4 8 30.
And um I I've used that myself in my own
scale-up approach where if there's a new
idea, we put two people on it. Once it's
proven, four people are on it. Once it's
up and running, eight people are on it.
Once it becomes a business that has its
own stand-alone value, 30 people are on
it. So, it's 2 4 8 30. Um and that's
been um that's been a British military
learning uh that that I that I kind of
went, "Well, if they've done 400 years
of HR experiments, why wouldn't I just
learn from how they organize their
teams?"
Is there anything you've
found that is consistent across all of
the best people you've hired, worked
with, co-founded a company with,
partnered with? Is there any consistent
thing?
I'm I'm always looking for complimentary
energies. So, here's what I'm looking
for.
Uh in the deck of cards, there's four
suits.
So, you got clouds, so head in the
clouds, spades, doing the work, hearts,
connecting with people, diamonds, money,
finance, data. So, I always look for a
balanced team of someone who's visionary
with someone who's a spades person doing
the work, implementer,
someone who's hearts connector with
someone who's money or or data. So, I'm
looking to try and perfectly balance my
team with the four suits. And I've seen
visionary people who get nothing done
because they don't have an implementer
around. I've seen amazing connectors
who don't have anyone balancing them
out, so they know never retain any of
the money that's flowing around them
because they're an amazing networker,
people are doing deals around them, but
they they're not involved in any of it.
So, for me, it's the it's the connection
between those four energies. And when
you get all four energies firing, um and
in one team, then you get the value
creation and retention. Let's talk about
money. Let's talk about it.
We're in a cost of living crisis in the
UK and many countries around the world
are either in or on the brink of
recession. So, one of the most popular
questions we've had at The Diary of a
CEO in the last 3 to 6 months is about
money, people's concern about their own
money, spending, finance, and saving. If
I'm someone out there now that has, I
don't know, $100 or £100 worth of
disposable income every month, or if I
have a thousand or ten thousand pounds,
what should I be thinking about as it
relates to
creating more money and making myself
financially free?
The first thing is you just want to earn
more. Um people massively settle for how
much they could earn. Um
so, the first place to I think to invest
is in yourself.
But, here's the first principle. The
first principle is income follows
assets.
Income follows assets means that the
more assets you have, the more income
you'll earn.
If I own If I want rental income, first
I need a house. If I want dividend
income, I need shares. Um if I want to
be paid as a brand ambassador, first I
need a brand. So, essentially, the more
we can accumulate assets, the more easy
and effortless the money flows.
So,
um
we have to figure out, well, what assets
could you accumulate? And what assets
could you formalize and own? I wrote a
book called 24 Assets, and I listed out
all the different digital assets that
are new economy assets that people could
have, things like brand and positioning,
things like databases, things like
company culture is an asset now. So, uh
I talk about, how do you formalize those
things?
If someone's just starting out and
they've got a hundred um a month, to be
to be perfectly honest, trying to invest
a hundred a month or any of that, it's
not going to do anything. It's not going
to change your life. But, if you put
that into your own skills and your own
development, um let's say you don't have
negotiation skills. Well, there are
courses that you can take for a hundred
dollars that give you negotiation
skills. Let's say you don't know how to
close sales. You can take a a course on
how to make sales. Let's say you don't
feel confident public speaking, you
could do public speaking course. Um so,
there are things that allow you to gain
your skills.
The other thing, too, is money is
relationships. So, if you don't have a
lot of money, you typically don't have a
lot of relationships. Um you might have
a limited number of relationships or a
limited number of relationships with
people who have a flow of money.
When you have a high degree of
relationships with people who've got
money flowing, it's very effortless for
that to flow to and from you as well.
So, you might have to invest in
relationships. Um when I arrived in the
UK, I knew that uh one of the places
that I would meet interesting people
would be private banks. So, I didn't
qualify for private bank, but I went
into a private bank, and I said, I'm
going to be launching a business, and of
course it's going to be great and
successful. I want to bank with a
private bank.
Um can I Do you have an entrepreneurs
program? Oh, yeah, we did. And they
start selling me joining the
entrepreneurs program. And it cost me
£600 to
open an account with that private bank,
but they immediately invited me to
dinners, and they invited me to
networkings and all these sorts of
things in the private bank. One of the
things that I've recommended a lot of
people do
is host dining dinner parties
and reach out to people who you don't
know.
Uh
Here's a Here's a silly story. I was
just in Dubai,
and I know someone who has a
hundred-foot yacht.
So, I said, Jeremy, can I borrow your
yacht for the evening? Um I'm going to
be putting 15 really influential people
for a dinner party. Uh we're going to
have burgers on the boat.
And he And he said, oh, great, can I
come? And I said, of course you can
come, it's your boat.
So, he said, great, that'll be exciting.
So, he basically said, you can you can
host this party on on my hundred-foot
boat. So, I reached out to all the
people who I didn't know, and I said,
hey, we're putting together burgers on
the boat, would you like to come along
and have some burgers with interesting
people?
And then they came along, and I made the
investment into relationship. Um now,
the funny thing is, a lot of people say,
oh, but you know someone with a
hundred-foot yacht.
Funny thing is, I I think plenty of
people who have a boat, especially in
Dubai, it sits empty most of the time.
You could reach out to 30 people and
say, we're going to do it on someone's
boat, would you like it to be your boat,
with or without you energy?
So, making investments into
relationships
is a really powerful thing. For a
hundred dollars a month, personally,
what would I do with a hundred dollars a
month? Take people out to dinner. That
would be my number one investment. I'd
I'd probably be taking people out to
dinner.
Why?
Uh the investment into the relationship.
So, I would be inviting the
But, anyway,
it was interesting cuz I actually have
done that with you, and we never ended
up following up with you, and you never
followed up with us. But, Here's the
Here's the thing. I want to share that
No, I want to share that because
sometimes it doesn't work. Right?
Sometimes you have to send out like When
I sent out 3,000 cold DMs to launch a
business, I didn't expect 3,000 people
to respond. I expected 30 or 40 people
to come back to me. When I gave gave
that to you, do you remember it? I
remember getting a briefcase, and I'm
I'm trying to I do I do quite a lot of
public speaking these days, so Um we
only had like a five like a two-minute
interaction, and I said, hey, this is a
little gift for you. Inside, we've
created something for you, have a look.
Um Was it something I had to scan?
Probably.
Was there something scannable in there?
Yeah, we'd built we'd built you a little
landing page campaign.
Yes, I remember.
Yeah. I remember getting in the car and
saying to my team, oh, this is cool.
Yeah. And then, of course, it gets
passed to the team, and they're like,
yeah, yeah, fair enough. Yeah. Put that
on the pile of cool things. Um So, the
point is is I'm saying that to say
these thing You don't want to get hung
up on the idea that one person's like in
that same event, we gave that same thing
to another really well-known person, and
they've gone with it, and they're like
um
you know, millions of followers, and
they're one of our clients now. So, we
have with or without you energy, which
is when when my team do this, we pick 30
or 40 people who'd make amazing
connections and contacts in our VIP
outreach team, and then we reach out to
them, and we expect maybe two or three
of them to get back to us.
So, it's that idea of
you know, don't Like, if someone
messages you and you don't message back,
it's not the end of the world. There are
other people you can message, and
there's a And look what happens. And
there you go. It comes around again. It
always comes around If it's If it's
meant to happen, it'll happen.
So, what about people You know, so many
members of my team speak to me and ask
me about investing.
They might have tens of thousands to
invest or whatever, but I'm curious
about your personal investment thesis.
With the with the capital that you have
spare, what do you do with it to create
more money?
So
What does your portfolio look like? It's
extremely boring. I just stick any
available capital into S&P 500.
What's the S&P 500 for anyone that
doesn't
Yeah, the top 500 stocks in the US. So
essentially any government that inflates
its currency anywhere in the world, that
money will hit the economy and it will
eventually make its way back to the top
500 companies in the US through spending
or that capital will end up being put
into the S&P 500 which inflates it. So
one way or another it's going back to
the top 500 companies in the US. So it's
almost impossible to beat the S&P 500. I
hate investing. It's not my thing. I
like expansive business creation. I'm an
optimist. Uh great investors are often
pessimists. They're very good at
thinking what could go wrong and they
analyzing risk. I hate that [ __ ] So for
me personally I want to as much as
possible
expand the portfolio of businesses that
I think should exist in the world. And
I've always made my money by just saying
I romantically like the idea of this
business existing and I'm going to pour
my energy into it and it's going to
become worth millions. Rather than
thinking about where I want to invest
money, I want to create something that's
investable for other people to put money
into
because that's how you really make
money. So the exciting thing is not
placing my own chips. The exciting thing
is creating something where others want
to place chips into that. So let's talk
about that journey then. Yep. That
journey from got an idea, want to start
that ice cream business, that chili and
basil ice cream business, whatever.
Except for tens of millions.
Except for tens of millions. It I I get
off the ground. People love my chili and
basil ice cream. What what is the
journey that an entrepreneur goes on
from zero up until they exit? So there's
there's a key stages.
The first four stages where everyone
gets caught is called chaos, concept,
audience, offer, sales. So you have to
develop your concept so it's a good
concept. You've validated it. You've
conducted some experiments. You're
aligned to it. Other people are excited
about it.
Audience is that you engage an audience.
Waiting lists, dinner parties,
uh scorecards, uh quizzes, discussion
groups, all of those are great audience
builders. Yeah. Um offer is that you
construct a packaged up offering so that
people can buy something and that they
that audience can now act on something
and buy. And then sales which is the
ability to talk and discuss
with your interested parties to close
deals, to actually get sales across the
line, and to do that predictably and
reliably. So for sales we establish
something called a rhythm of laps,
leads, appointments, presentations, and
sales and we measure our pipeline every
week. How many leads, how many
appointments, how many presentations,
how many sales. So those are the first
four things, concept, audience, offer,
sales.
And that should get you into the six
figures of revenue just by doing that.
The next thing is about team building.
You've got to establish a key person of
influence who's got a personal brand,
who's leading leader of the company,
who's going to embody the brand, and
you've got to build a team of eight
people around them. Um a general
manager, marketing and sales, finance
admin, um uh IT, media, and operations,
those kind of roles. And essentially you
now build this core team of eight and um
the key person of influence job is to
engage bigger and bigger audiences. And
so they they get out there and tell the
story of the business. They get on
stages. They pitch. Um they publish
content. They raise their profile. They
do joint ventures and partnerships. So
they're leading from the front while the
general manager or ops director is
making sure things don't fall apart
behind. Once you hit about eight people,
you now have to digitize absolutely
everything of value in that business. So
now you go through the whole process of
digitalization of the value. So you're
getting ready to scale. Which means for
example moving physical relationships to
a CRM, some kind of data the database or
Building a CRM, uh formalizing your
intellectual property, um
building a brand, a company brand, um
formalizing your organizational culture,
uh getting into um
uh really good investor relationship and
and documentation governance. So all of
these are developing systems, developing
assets of the business. Um having online
marketing and sales systems, having an
online way of generating a lot of leads
reliably, having an online way of making
customers mostly happy most of the time.
So you're basically trying to build as
many assets as possible. What you're
trying to do at about eight to 10 people
is raise revenue per person. So let's
say you've got 10 people with 100,000
per person. So you've got a million of
revenue. 10 people times 100,000 million
of revenue. If you can add assets
and get it to go to 1.1, 1.2, 1.3
million. Now you've got 130,000 per
person.
So what you're trying to do is add as
many digital assets as possible to get
the revenue per employee or the revenue
per person up. Once you see that the
revenue per person is going up, now you
can add people because the more digital
assets there are times by the number of
people, now you're going to
be successful.
Now the really hard jump is from 12 to
30. From 12 people to 30 you're too big
to be small, too small to be big. Very
difficult time in any business's life.
Um and what you have to do is go through
a transformation of a small team of
rebels and misfits to a professional
team that's that's manufacturing value.
A lot of people have to go.
Unfortunately some of the earlier people
who were there because they could
breathe and had a pulse and all of that
sort of stuff.
They uh unfortunately have to go find a
new startup and you now have to go and
bring on team members who come through
recruiters with a proper process
and who they go through an an entire
process of how they join the team.
They're on boarded correctly and now you
transform into a more valuable
professional organization.
Once you hit 30, you've got a five
person executive team plus a
non-executive director and an advisor
and then you've got some teams of teams
and now you're doing 10 million of
revenue, 3 million of profit and now
you're exitable. How do you got to make
a decision early? That was a mouthful,
sorry.
so true. It's so it's so funny that
Did you agree with that?
All of it. I agreed with all of it. The
interesting thing as well is the part
you said about of the first 10 people
you hire, very few of them are equipped
already or able to adjust to the
environment you have at 30, 40, 50, 60,
100.
Totally. And it's And part of the what
I've noticed is that when there's 10
people, you're requiring a different set
of skills and you're you're thinking
more about multi multi-disciplinary
individuals that can kind of wear a few
hats but not do anything exceptionally
well. Swiss army knives. Yeah.
do 25 things badly. Yeah, exactly. And
then when you get to like 50, 60, 70
people, it's really
Specialists. Specialists, yeah.
Bread knife. Bread knife, yeah. Just
cuts bread really well. Just that. So on
this then,
when we're thinking about our own
careers, we've got to ask ourselves that
question which is are we a specialist
that should be going into a company
where there's 50, 60, 70 people or are
we that kind of Swiss army knife that
should be playing in startups and then
going from zero to one versus like one
to two? Yeah. I I have I've had to
wrestle with with that myself. I
personally absolutely adore the first 2
million of revenue. That's That is where
my fun That for me is fun. It's where I
find it exciting.
I become almost pathologically
distracted once we hit 2 million of
revenue and I have to remind myself, oh
wait a second, we've got a fast growth
business here. Stop thinking about other
things.
I really enjoy getting businesses past
that first couple hundred thousand a
month and then for whatever reason I'm
like dreaming of a blank page. I just
want some like what if we did this? What
if we did that? But here's the cool
thing.
There are so many amazing people who are
phenomenal at the two to 20 million
jump. So at the moment the person who's
leading Dent Global is Glen Carlson.
Glen is I've known him since I was 14
years old and actually what he's
phenomenal at at the moment we've
discovered is that he's really really
good at driving that next jump, the two
to 20 million jump. So there's the zero
There's the zero to 200 grand like
testing. There's the 200 grand to 2
million which is like, yeah okay, this
thing's got some legs. There's the 2
million to 20 million jump which is
we're professionalizing, we're become a
proper business. Um we're becoming
valuable. We're getting all the right
people.
What's shocked me cuz I've known Glen
for so many years is that we've just
recently discovered that that's what
he's suited to. He's really good at the
two to 20 million jump. He's so good at
recruiting talented people. He's so good
at pushing them through a process that
weeds out like 15 amazing people down to
two amazing people down to one. How
would you make the case to someone
that's just heard what you've said about
your companies and that you like that
zero to two million phase? What case
would you make to me
to
admit what I'm not good at for the sake
of my business because everyone can
relate. Like I I don't mean to share
this without asking him, but I'm sure he
like he's in control of the edit so he
can take it out if he doesn't like it.
But But did you think I was going to do
it? Jack turned around to our team the
other day and it was I've actually
spoken to so many people about this
moment since he said it. Jack said, you
know what? Um if Jack's run this podcast
from zero, so zero subscribers to where
it is now, it's 5 million subscribers.
Jack turned around at 5 million
subscribers and was like, I'm not the
best in the world at doing lighting. So
what I've done is I've gone out and I
found someone who's the best at lighting
and they're going to teach me. They're
going to redesign my set. At 5 million
subscribers, he's getting someone else
to redesign his set so that the lighting
is amazing. It takes a certain kind of
person to put winning over ego.
that. You know what I mean? And I I
think about this so many Yeah. I
Jack probably didn't know the
profoundness of that moment to me, but
someone who is applauded from everyone I
you've built the best you know,
whatever. For him to go, do you know
what? There's so much I don't know.
He He role modeled humility and he role
modeled um the idea of winning is better
than
uh being right. Right. Yeah. Um and
overlings not underlings. That a great
company is great because you bring in
overlings not underlings.
So an underling is someone who's not as
good as you are and an overling is
someone who's way better than you are.
So it's that confidence to bring in the
overlings.
All of my businesses have been great
because overlings run them.
Every everyone who is in my organization
is way better than me at the thing
they're doing and I feel like like the
conductor in the orchestra can't play
all the instruments and probably maybe
is okay at one instrument but actually
their ability to bring in the best in
the world at that instrument is what is
what makes them a great conductor. The
ability to enroll people.
So the first thing I'd say is that
there's value to be made at every level.
If you're watching this
and you're you know you're not a founder
and you're sitting there going all the
people who make the money are the people
who start from scratch and get something
off the ground and look at Daniel and
look at Stephen. Those guys are the zero
to one guys. Wouldn't it be great if I
was one of those but I'm not. Well
actually that's not true. The truth is
that there's there's incredible wealth
to be created if you can take something
from two to 20 million. There's amazing
wealth if you can take something from 20
to 200 million. Do you know this is
worth mentioning one of the biggest
opportunities in the world right now.
Biggest There's there's two major
opportunities in the world but one of
the biggest opportunities in the world
at the moment is baby boomers who want
to retire and
a typical scenario is you get someone
who's late 60s early 70s. The business
had a high water mark of a couple of
million and now it's dropped down to
maybe a million or six high six figures
because the person's semi-retiring and
because the business has been on decline
it's almost unsaleable. The person wants
to retire and they just want to hand
over the keys and they just want that
business to go to someone who's fresh.
And what they're willing to do is to do
a vendor sale exit. Cody Sanchez who you
had she talks about this. I've done
deals like this.
And actually Jeremy with the 100 foot
yacht that's how he that's how he does
it. So you essentially you buy a
business that the person wants to retire
and you take over that business with
fresh energy and you bring it back to
its high water mark. So there are so
many people who what they would be
suited for is not starting with a blank
sheet of paper like me but they would
actually go and find you know Bill and
Sarah who want to retire and they want
to do a deal where they get paid out
over five years to hand over the keys to
the business. Let's zoom in on this
because a lot of people don't understand
the concept of like a management buyout.
So I see Bill and Sarah they're running
a laundromat. Yeah. Well here's a real
life example. A real life example from a
friend of mine is called Kit King and
basically he
approached someone who had that
business. They built it up to I think a
few million and then he the guy was
ready to retire. When when he walked in
the orders would get printed out and put
onto a spike and spike number one was
like this is an order and then when it
was fulfilled it goes onto the fulfilled
spike piece of paper and then you know
he this young guy comes in and he
digitizes the business and he gets all
the automated order thing flowing. Cost
about 25 grand to get in a specialist
who could do all of that and then he
basically
re-engaged the team. The team were
totally unengaged. I think there's about
a dozen people and they'd not had a team
meeting in ages. They'd not There was no
vision for the business. They'd not gone
and spoken to customers in a in forever.
And then he comes in
goes and talks to customers, starts
hosting some online events, starts
sending out messages, starts digitizing,
builds a bit of the brand and that
business has I think I'm like 500% in
like two years. It's massively
successful but he started with something
that had been going for 30 years. In
that example you don't necessarily need
any money. No no no this was no money
down. So you can
create a multi-million pound business
theoretically
starting with zero money
Remember that remember that money's just
a database.
So it's a database of the value. So what
you do is like if I want to buy a house
I go to the bank and they lend me the
money to buy the house. If I want to buy
a business the person who already owns
the business is probably the most likely
person to see the value in funding the
business. A bank probably won't but the
person who
is selling it. Let's say I let's say I
go to Bill and Sarah.
I say look there's no question your
business is worth 1.2 million. I don't
have 1.2 million. I have a little bit of
money that I'm going to invest into the
business to grow it. Can I pay you the
1.2 million over six years seven years?
And what we will do is this is my
business plan. You will be the board
members, chairperson of the board and
the business will be the security for
that loan. So if we screw up and we
can't make our payments you take the
whole business back with everything that
we've thrown at it everything that we've
done at it. You'll be able to take it
back and sell it to somebody else if we
skip our payments.
So you're securing the purchase of the
business with the business itself.
You're doing a business plan where it
makes sense that the business could make
the payments. Now think about it from
Bill and Sarah's point of view. They've
got this thing that's driving them
crazy. They want to retire. They want
They want to go south of France. They
want to go spend time with the
grandkids.
And now someone's coming along and
saying yeah we're going to pay you 120
grand a year for the next seven years.
And if we don't then you get your
business back.
And if we don't you get the business
back. And if they believe you which is
the key part if they believe in your
ability to execute because
And if there's and if there's no one
else offering anything else
they believe you and there's no other
options it's a great deal. Now there are
here's here's a crazy thing. 65% of the
value of all business equity in the
economy is owned by baby boomers right
now.
So if you were to take
if you were to throw a dart board at all
the valuation of every company in the UK
or the USA
there's a 65% chance that you hit a baby
boomer.
Right? So it's it's it's incredible. Now
all of those businesses have to be
passed on somewhere. Now all of these
young people they all want to have the
latest psychedelic startup or they you
know something like that and they're
like oh I don't want the elevator repair
business that does 8 million a year. You
know it's like go get in get involved in
that right? So that's a huge
opportunity. The arbitrage in the
opportunity here is boring businesses.
Boring businesses that you can you can
bring something to it. You can digitize
it. You can make it interesting. You can
create a culture that's exciting. The
thing about a boring business boring
boomer business
boring boomer business right? I said
that first
I said that first
trademark
So the boring boomer business the BBBs.
What you know a business can be
exciting. It can do a boring thing but
still be an exciting business. You the
way you run the team and the culture the
the money that it spits out can be
exciting. You can use that business to
sponsor a charity. You know I've got a a
friend and a client called Sebastian
Bates. He's got an amazing martial arts
school that's in the UK and Dubai called
Warrior Academy and he's used all of his
his very profitable. He's now set up
martial arts schools in Kenya, Nepal.
All of these different areas that are
struggling areas now have a martial arts
academy. He's set up his own charity and
he's basically
doing martial arts schools for kids who
have never had anyone look out for them.
They're often street kids and homeless
kids. They come into martial arts and
they get taught life skills and martial
arts and confidence character.
But the point is is you can take a
boring business and the way that you run
it you can do you can launch a charity
associated with it. You could hire young
people who are coming out of prison and
give them a second chance to get started
and that could be part of the excitement
of the business. There are so many ways
to make a boring business an exciting
business. Most of the times Bill and
Sarah have given up on that. They're
just you know they've been doing it for
20 30 years. They're not fresh. And the
business has been in decline. Anyway
that's a huge opportunity. Massive. Way
bigger than starting something new. Like
if if I was starting from scratch that's
probably actually where I'd probably
start.
It's so funny that that never dawned on
me. When I was penniless in Manchester
and I was very persuasive but my
strategy for wealth creation was to
pitch a brand new tech company because I
just seen that Social Network movie with
Mark Zuckerberg. Whereas really I could
have just you know as you said gone for
Bill's business and presented a young
fresh digital social first vision
and and mitigated his risk by And even
if you wanted to do social chain you
could have started by buying a marketing
agency that was declining
already doing 2 million that's high
water mark was 4 million and it's halved
over the last six seven years. But it
still has a core team and it's got a 20
year reputation and it has a contract
with AWS and it has a contract with
HarperCollins and it's like oh yeah
we've got all these things in place. You
buy that business that's doing 2 million
as a starting point and then you say now
I'm going to do social chain on top of
that. So now you go from two to you know
whatever but rather than starting from
absolute scratch you could you could
actually start with a couple of million
of revenue just by
just by going in and doing a deal with
someone who's already got a starting
point. Two key skills here.
The first skill is sales. We've talked
about that. You have to be persuasive
and the second key skill is even
understanding the structuring of that
deal. Mhm.
You know and those are two very
different things but they're imperative.
What I've come to learn over the last
five years is the people in my life that
are the best wealth creators have those
two skills.
Yeah.
They understand how to structure a deal
and they understand how to sell
Yes.
Yes. Yeah sales is sales that demand
creation the the doing the deal and
structuring phenomenal
skills. And everything that you want is
on the other side of a structure that
exists. So
with Score App
2022
AI comes out
and I go oh my god AI changes the
fundamental nature of this business. We
need to be on AI. I thought the first
thing I want to do is bring someone onto
the team who is an AI expert. So I
approach Professor Andy Pardoe who's the
head of AI for Warwick University and I
say we're setting up an AI advisory
board. Would you like to be on our AI
advisory board? Here's how much we pay
per year.
And would you like to join the board?
And he's like, yeah, I'll I'll join the
advisory board. So, he comes and joins
our advisory board. He starts making
some recommendations about how we adapt
to the AI challenge.
We didn't need anyone else. That was
absolutely perfect. He brought with him
a team of researchers who came in and
worked on the back end of our system as
well.
But, what was interesting is that that
happened in 2 weeks. So, from 2 weeks we
went from no AI uh integration to having
Professor Andy Pardoe, who's a PhD of
AI, who's got 25-year background of AI
as our advisor
because we set up an advisory board.
Um so, I just knew what structure to
structure it as. Mhm. You know, so had I
said, can you help me? I need to figure
this out. You you wouldn't have been
able to No. No.
But, how do you get someone that's, you
know, at the very start of their
journey? They don't understand all these
They don't understand structures. Yeah.
I mean, it's hard because in theory, you
you know, you go talk to a CFO Yeah. and
you basically talk to an experienced CFO
who's done a lot of M&A and you just
say, oh, actually, do you know what's
even wild?
Today, you don't even need a CFO. You go
on ChatGPT
act as a CFO, explain to me what
structures I would use to to do this. Um
how would I structure a deal How would I
structure a deal with this? Explain to
me, I would like to buy a business uh an
existing 20-year-old business. I would
like to buy it so that um I don't have
to pay anything up front and that the
owners of the business finance my new
ownership of the business. Act as a CFO
and advise me on how to do that
transaction. And uh what's amazing is
ChatGPT will do a good job of that or a
good starting point.
Draft the heads of terms.
You can ask ChatGPT to do that. Yeah.
Draft
Draft the heads of terms for that deal.
Review the draft of heads of terms to
see if there's any omissions or
mistakes.
Would you have changed Now that you've
seen that, would you do anything
differently? Yeah, I would change this.
You can send the email an email to the
finance director of this company
proposing that we acquire the business
with no money down.
Asking for a meeting. Yeah, yeah. Isn't
it crazy that we live in this new era
where the possibilities in terms of
communication, storytelling, persuasion
and the cost of um a sale have
completely completely changed.
Dynamics have shifted. AI is changing
everything. We haven't realized yet,
have we? If you think about how we're
behaving No, no, no. We haven't quite
realized the potential of the technology
we have.
We are like on the movie the Titanic
when they hit the iceberg and they're
all just like dancing on the thing and
someone says, oh, it's an unsinkable
ship and the guy with a white face
uh says, it's made of steel, it will go
down. It'll sink. When I first saw AI do
what AI does, I had that moment of like,
oh, no,
this changes everything. We've just hit
an iceberg. The this is a fundamental
general purpose technology that is going
to change everything. It's going to
change every industry top to bottom.
Everything's going to have to reorganize
itself around an AI landscape. But,
we're all pretending like it doesn't
exist. We're all pretending like this
thing isn't doing what it's doing. Um
but, yeah. There's one thing that AI
disagrees with you on. When I say AI, I
mean Sam Altman um from ChatGPT. You
said earlier business is a team sport.
Now, he has a WhatsApp group, Sam
Altman, the founder of ChatGPT. And in
that WhatsApp group, he's got a bet with
some friends that they'll be the first
ever one-person billion-dollar company
soon. And they're guessing on the date
of the first ever one-person
billion-dollar company because with AI,
the team sport becomes you
and a large language model like a
ChatGPT.
I think that it's directionally correct
what he's saying. The one-person AI
business will be beaten by the 10-person
AI business and that like
uh yes, it probably will happen. It like
let let's assume it. Of course, it will
happen. There will be a person who
creates something using AI and it and
it'll be a standout thing. But, to
replicate that again and again, having
what we will see a lot of is five-person
teams with a CEO, CTO, COO, CMO, CFO who
work together as five people doing the
work of 500 people using AI. That'll
happen definitely and that'll be rep you
know, that'll reproduce.
But, to a degree, business is is always
going to be a team sport that
essentially
five or six people will always be one
because they're they're
they're talking to each other and
they're covering different angles. And
whatever AI strengths AI is very good at
content but not context. And having five
people who share a context and create a
context together, then the content can
happen using AI. I AI without that
context, it it doesn't know what to do.
So, it doesn't have any purpose. Right
now.
Yeah, it to a degree it can start to it
still needs a first mover on what is the
context. Why are we doing this in the
first place? Right now. So, well, that's
the one person.
Um
yeah, I I agree with you that there is
like we are at a time in history where
we can't see around the corner.
Um we don't know what society will look
like. But, here's a few things I do know
about. I do know that as as it
as it stands right now,
humans are great at context and AI's
good at content. And if you can provide
AI with an amazing context of to what
it's meant to be doing, it will fill in
all the blanks, but it needs the context
first. I know that vitality versus
functionality. AI's great at
functionality, but it needs someone to
breathe life force into it. It's the
human life force that we that we breathe
that we breathe into things. So, it
still needs vitality even though AI does
a lot of functionality. And the warning
that I have for people is that AI is
very good at turning you into a creator
or a consumer.
So, it essentially figures you out and
it says, oh, TikTok, huh? Uh how about
we get you to spend 16 hours on TikTok?
Um and and hypnotize you into spending
way longer than you thought on this
thing. And the AI is really good at
saying, we'll drive you down the to the
edges of how much someone can consume.
But, it will also drive you to the edges
of how much someone can create. And one
thing that is going to happen in the
next few years is everyone is going to
have to make a conscious decision.
Do I want to be a creator or a consumer
when it in relationship to AI? Because
if if you allow AI to use you, it'll
just turn you into a a consumer. You'll
listen to more stuff, watch more stuff,
do more like spend more money cuz AI is
good at that. Or if you use it to build
stuff and make stuff and produce stuff,
you will be doing superhuman levels of
creativity uh because of AI. But, it's
going to divide society into consumers
and creators.
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Oh, work-life balance. Um Is it a thing?
Is there Is it possible to be wildly
successful and not work exceptionally
hard? The people who talk about
work-life balance as a as an important
thing, they normally worked their asses
off to the extent that they almost burnt
themselves out. Then they had a
come-to-Jesus moment. And then they now
espouse work-life balance in hindsight
after having a massive breakthrough from
the massive amount of work that they
did. And that is typically the pathway
towards the work-life balance guru.
So,
here here's the unfortunate thing.
You've got to look at what
You got to look at the statistics.
People who earn over 100 grand
uh typically work 55 hours.
But, per week.
But, there's work and there's work. So,
you and I work enormous amounts of
hours.
But, we're not digging up roads. We're
not laying cables. We're not doing
boring repetitive stuff. In most cases,
our work is creativity. It's publishing
things. It's pitching deals. It's
sitting there in Dragon's Den analyzing
what's going on. It's doing interviews.
So, there's a new style of work. So,
when people get angry about work-life
balance and they say, damn it, work-life
balance has to be a thing.
It's normally because their association
to work is that work is such a negative
thing and work is something you have to
do in order to make money. And when
people say, oh, I do 55 hours a week and
I love it, they go, well, something's
deeply wrong with you. It's like
You're toxic. Yeah, you're toxic. Well,
actually, the
Apples and oranges.
Yeah, I'm enjoying I'm doing something
that's deeply fulfilling and passionate
and I could do it from home and I do it
online and it's digital and I see my
kids all the time while I'm doing it and
I actually don't feel like I even work
that hard. I'm just enjoying it but I am
but I am doing that stuff. Keep in mind
this.
If you're doing a lot of hard work that
doesn't develop an asset simultaneously,
it's probably going to end up toxic. You
may burn out. If you do a lot of hard
work that simultaneously develops an
asset, the asset value eventually takes
over and then you're working completely
by choice.
So simplify that as if I was a
10-year-old.
If you create podcasts and those
podcasts go on to YouTube and that
people can watch them a year later, two
years, three years later, you've
developed something that has a life of
its own and it's going to continue to
create value without you having to
physically be there. So if your work is
creating a byproduct of an asset if you
own the company that you started and you
own the shares in that company and that
company becomes more and more successful
and the equity value becomes more and
more valuable, you're building your work
is creating a valuable asset. Um if
uh like my wife, you renovate horrible
properties into amazing properties, her
work creates income and an asset
simultaneously. What's the opposite of
that? Where you're working but you're
not creating any assets. Well, an Uber
driver. I used to work at McDonald's for
two days.
in McDonald's as well. I I loved working
at McDonald's. The asset that I created
was a deep
uh appreciation for systems. But the the
problem with being an Uber driver is
that you can actually do 16-hour days.
However,
at the end of 16-hour days, that's it.
You've earned that amount of money and
you've not developed any additional
asset. Uh you've just performed a role.
Um so you're not building simultaneously
an asset. The people who love their work
and don't burn out are the people whose
work creates
income and asset at the same time and
they're doing something that's
fulfilling and passionate.
And an asset could be reputation, skill,
deep skills. Yes. Deep Something that
has a life of its own. Something that
lives beyond the the day that you
created it.
Daniel, thank you so much. Um we do have
a closing tradition on this podcast
where the last guest leaves a question
for the next guest not knowing who
they're leaving it for.
And the question left for you is
what is the one thing you'd wish you'd
known about sex and relationships in
your youth that you later learned?
The the a lot of the enjoyment of sex is
the relationship that you're having with
someone outside of
that moment. Um so in my youth
I saw sex as a standalone thing that was
a compartmentalized thing and
essentially, you know, if you can pick
up and have sex, then that's a win. But
you discover pretty quickly that it's
actually
empty and meaningless and and also
awkward and really awkward the following
day and all of that sort of stuff.
Whereas when you find someone who you
really love and you're building a life
with them and you're uh sharing highs
and lows with them and there's a deep
connection, then it's actually something
that is it's almost like an ingredient
that is infused through all of that. Um
so it's it's very linked to love and
connection and life. Does that fit into
your framework of function and
Functionality and vitality, yeah. So so
it's either done from a space of love
and life force energy or it's done as
something that's functional. Probably
something that people have to go through
to experientially learn. I think that um
you know, that there's
you know, the the other thing for for
young men is that
that that the the way that sex happens
for a man is different to how it happens
for a woman and that you you know, you
may have a feeling or I had a feeling
when I was
uh a young young guy in my late teens,
early 20s that I was unlovable and
unattractive and
um and that no one would want to have
sex with me so I'd have to trick them
into, you know, having sex through
pickup lines or things like that. And
actually when I built my confidence and
when I built who I was as a person, then
it actually became much more of a
natural experience. Um and
uh I'm not sure what I'm trying to say
here. It's not
No, it goes back to the energy you were
describing. The where you don't
necessarily need the sale.
Yeah, with or without you energy, that
definitely happened. Um
yeah, so I you know, when I became an
entrepreneur and I speak in front of big
audiences and wrote a best-selling books
and all of those sorts of things, I had
much more with or without you energy and
the beauty was is that when I met my
wife, I was in a really great space
where I you know, she was she had with
or without you energy. I had with or
without you energy and we recognized
each other as um
great a an amazing
force of collaboration and partnership
and we realized that one and one would
be 11 in this situation and actually it
was it was uh a magic moment. I knew I
was going to marry her within about 12
hours.
Daniel, thank you so much for your time.
You have so many incredible incredible
books
real smash hits. So it's funny that
these books are growing in popularity
despite the fact that times are changing
which I think speaks to how timeless
they are and you create a lot of
content. So I think if people want to
hear more from you on an ongoing basis
basis and continue with this sort of
education that we've had today, then
they should definitely check out your
social media channels because I followed
them and the way that you create content
is very much like the way you speak.
You're very good at taking large complex
ideas, distilling them down into sort of
simple, relatable, understandable
concepts and delivering them to people
in a way that's actionable and
accessible. That's what your books do.
That's what your content does and that's
what you do so well. So thank you,
Daniel, for being on my show. It's a
huge compliment coming from you. Thank
you.
You're you're a master of what you do.
So I appreciate you, Daniel. Thank you.
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