The Man Who Invented the Hip Thrust on The Science of Glutes | Mind Pump 2947
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The development of a specific glute aesthetic is heavily influenced by genetics rather than training alone, with factors such as intramuscular fat storage, skeletal anatomy like sacral slope, and natural muscle distribution playing decisive roles. While some individuals possess a biological advantage for creating a round or shelf-like appearance, others may face limitations due to ethnicity-specific fat patterns or an "upside-down heart" muscle shape that cannot be fully altered through exercise. Despite these genetic ceilings, consistent strength training can still lead to significant hypertrophy and increased muscle density, as modern research confirms a strong correlation between getting stronger and building muscle size, provided the lifter avoids common pitfalls like quad dominance during hip-dominant movements.
To maximize growth and prevent injury, effective programming requires careful attention to technique, equipment variety, and exercise selection that accounts for individual anatomical differences. Brent advocates for using different hip thrust machines to ensure a full range of motion and avoiding cheating by sliding back on the bench, while also emphasizing the importance of eccentric control to build strength without excessive fatigue. For those who struggle to activate their glutes during squats due to quad dominance or specific biomechanics, hip thrusts often yield better results, and rotating exercises like belt squats or leg presses can help maintain strength across different planes of motion when low back issues arise. The host further suggests targeting specific glute subdivisions through stance modifications, such as switching between sumo and narrow stances, and utilizing abduction variations to ensure balanced development without relying on junk volume.
Beyond physical training, the discussion extends to client management and personal lifestyle choices that impact long-term success in fitness and relationships. The host identifies certain types of clients he no longer trains, including those addicted to being shredded who cannot build muscle, individuals who fear bulk despite low body weight, and those who fail to feel their muscles working during sets, noting that quality volume of three to four hard sets is often more effective than excessive repetition. On a personal level, the host reflects on his own growth over the last eighteen months, attributing positive changes in his relationships and life to therapy, following experts like John Gottman, and stepping away from social media addiction to avoid adopting a victim mindset. He acknowledges the challenges of modern dating where financial independence often leads to transactional relationships, contrasting his desire for a genuine family life with the influencer lifestyle he sometimes projects, while also criticizing the prevalence of fake trainers who lack real-world experience in favor of evidence-based methods.
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Brent, welcome back to the show, man.
>> Thank you for having me.
>> I think it's been a while. Three years.
It's been three years. How
>> fair we were talking about that. Didn't
realize how long it's been.
>> You're Whenever we talk about uh people
that um we like and respect in the
space, your names always pops up. A good
example of uh being able to combine
science with experience. So, it's always
good to have you on the show cuz I I
appreciate uh your points of view.
Always.
>> Thank you. Thank you.
>> So, I want to open with this. Uh can
anybody build a nice butt?
>> Hell no. [laughter] Yeah. So,
>> okay. Okay. Explain that. Explain that.
>> Why can't anybody do it?
>> It's I I always say 60% of this is
genetics. Um and and I'm getting annoyed
at some of these,
>> you know, when I started I was the only
glute guy and and now I'm like the
grumpy old man. I'm like a trend. Yeah.
>> Yeah. But now there's like a thousand.
But these people are like preying on the
genetically disadvantaged acting like
it's like everyone can get a a huge, you
know, set of glutes. Um it's
[clears throat] just your training
variables. You're just not training the
right way. And if you use their cues and
then and then do their fancy exercise,
your glutes will grow. And um that's not
the case. I remember um
>> remember John Meadows, he he he threw me
this this client. He's like, "I cannot
get this person's glutes to grow for the
life of me. Um, you know, I'm going to
send them your way. Hopefully, you can."
And I I did every I tried everything.
Nothing. You know, I swear glutes didn't
grow a centimeter.
>> And it's just, you know, you look at
bodybuilding. A lot of bodybuilders have
a hard time bringing up weak parts and
they're on 15 different drugs,
>> right?
>> And they have good genetics for building
muscle. But if you have a weak part, but
if you think what what factors go into
making the glutes look nice. I always
laugh because you know some of my
clients
well some of my best hip thrusters don't
have the roundest glutes. They have
wider hips
>> and that's you think about the
cross-section area. That's going to be a
lot of you know a lot of glute um fibers
but spread out at a longer distance
>> better biomechanically. It's more more
advantageous.
>> They have like huge glutes. is just not
round perky glutes. What people want is
the round perky glutes. And so that's a
lot of your skeletal structure, you
know, your sacral slope and then like
distances between well that's muscular
touch, but just with your skeleton, you
know, um if you have a really flat
sacral slope or if you have like a
longer distance between like the, you
know, the the femur to to like the
sacrum, if there's more distance, it
might make it look more round. But also
just like think about if all four of us
flexed our biceps, some would bulge
more. You know, some some are pe, you
know, peak more, some are more flat.
>> Some glutes are like that, too. Like
they just project outwards more. And I'm
going, what makes them
>> I've got I have this one client that
just everyone wants her glutes. I have
like top three Miss Bikini olymp Olympia
contenders train with me and they walk
in, they go, I want her glutes. And it
she has the the the girls like to
measure their their you know their
glutes their hip circumference.
>> They all want like 40 inch glutes and
Kiana has
>> like 34 or 36 and she's the one that
everyone wants.
>> She's not big around. It's just so round
and perky.
>> Um and then there's the fat content. I
think the glutes have the highest
intramuscular fat content out of all the
muscles.
>> I did not know that.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. And like in and it's not a it's a
sign of like disease and like not not
being healthy but there are people who
have 50% intramuscular fat like not
outside the muscle inside the muscle
>> even healthy
>> no no those are not healthy people but
there is some evidence that like if you
work out I believe in cyclists um
they might have more intramuscular fat
but there's more more mitochondria
around or something.
>> Okay.
>> Just like sumo wrestlers tend to have a
lot of fat but not as much visceral fat.
If you exercise, you're
>> going to be healthier. But some
[clears throat] if you store a little
bit more fat inside the muscles and then
you store it outside the muscles.
>> Um also just some I I in Fort
Lauderdale, I swear some of these these
are the ones getting accused of having
BBLs. They don't they just their fat
doesn't go to their stomach. It goes to
their their butt and their thighs, you
know, and it
>> and combine that with modern leggings
and
>> cinches it up real well. It looks like
it looks round. So, they gain
>> they can gain 10 lbs. It doesn't
>> look it doesn't look bad. It looks good.
And they'll be like, "Coach, I lost six
pounds." And I'm like, "Good job." And
they're like, "No, not not good job. I
want to get that back." I go, "Okay,
let's eat. Like, let's eat more." But
they want to reclaim that six pounds.
Whereas I have [clears throat] a I do
have some Asian clients that have round
big round glutes. They tend to have very
dense glutes in my experience like but
they can have strong glutes but it's
very dense. I don't think they store
>> I have no research on this but I think
they might have flatter sacral slopes uh
less intramuscular fat and they also
don't have extramus muscular fat there.
when they gain a lot of Asians gain
weight, it tends to go other places, not
their not their hips, not their glutes.
And so there's all all these factors,
your origins and insertions, which you
mentioned, which are going to determine
like how how
>> a long butt or short butt.
>> Yeah. [laughter] Or or like in body in
bikini, the lower insertions make or
like coveted. But also like there's
studies on Yeah. different people's like
some people have way more upper glute
than lower glute. It's funny because
when I was growing up in the 90s and
stuff, everyone wanted to look like a
like a Sports Illustrated swimsuit model
or Victoria's Secret model. And you you
wanted to be thin, but you did want
glutes, but you wanted that upside down
heart-shaped butt, that teardrop, you
know, look. No one talked about upper
glutes. And now it's all about the
shelf, and everyone wants upper glutes.
And I feel like that's very genetic. I
have this client RA in Fort Lauderdale
and all the Fort Lauderdale girls are
like, "I need more upper glutes." And
I'm like, I feel like there's this mass
um glute dysmorphia out there.
[laughter] Like, these are the best
butts ever. And I'm training these girls
and they all think they have bad butts.
Bad butts. [laughter]
Poor glute development. And And I'm
like, like your glutes are amazing. What
are you talking about? And they're like,
"Well, look at Race." And I'm like,
"Okay, race is, you know, she's
Brazilian and yeah, I don't even do
progressive overload with race." Some of
these influencers that look so good. You
just don't injure them. They just need
to train hard. Don't follow any system.
Just kind of go hard in a few exercises
and then mix it up all the time and
they're going to look amazing. But it's
so genetic and not everyone can. Hell,
how how many times you go to the gym and
you see guys that don't even look like
they've ever touched a weight in your
life and they're and then you see them
year after year.
>> Yeah.
>> It's not easy for people to build
muscle. And so there's the whole like
developing muscle on a whole, but
there's also individual weaknesses. Like
we all have muscles that grew easily and
ones that didn't. If you're someone
whose glutes don't grow easily
um and you're like a nonresponder, it's
it's tough. You can gain strength. you
could gain density. Like I'm sure, you
know, if you get way stronger at
different glute exercise, I'm sure your
density goes way up. You probably do
build more, you know, more more
sarcomirs and stuff like that. But um
[clears throat] but it doesn't project
outwards. It doesn't end up with much
rounder glutes. Yeah.
>> So the answer is definitely no. And if
you've trained enough people, and that's
what I wish I could tell these people,
you haven't worked with enough people.
And they could say, "Oh, I'm I'm the
magician. I you just uh you just don't
know the secrets. No,
>> but you you've worked with a lot of uh
of clients that uh have probably come to
you have tried to grow a butt on their
own and they're struggling or they want
more and so then they they they're doing
a lot of the exercises that they're
supposed to. Would you say it's a a
common or uncommon thing when you get a
client and one of the reasons they have
trouble growing their glutes is because
uh their quads are taking over a lot of
like the good movements like squatting
and and movements like that. Does is
that common or uncommon?
>> Super common. And there's even some new
research to show like you
[clears throat] know some people use a
lot more quads to squat. I mean, it's
like it's common sense, but it's nice
having research to support it that,
>> you know, you can look as they go
heavier and heavier, their glute
activation doesn't go up more, and that
you could say, "Well, EMG doesn't mean
anything." Sure.
>> But they can break down the, you know,
like the the joint torques and stuff and
show that they're relying on strategies
to lift heavier. They're relying on knee
dominant strategies and they don't end
up using their hips uh their hip
extensors more um for the squat. Whereas
other people, the opposite. And and so
not not only not only do I think that is
important because in our industry you
see people just say just get strong just
get strong at squats
>> and Romanians and you'll be good
>> and some people rely more on quads and
hamstrings and with those movements
>> but I also think there's a case for the
mind muscle connection.
There's a lot of research on like brain
adaptations to
isometrics in particular, you know, like
get on all fours, put a band on,
do like a kind of like hip extension,
abduction, external rotation mix
where you're kind of doing it kind of
looks like a fire hydrant but also
kicking back. And they hold that for,
you know, for like
like off and on for 20 minutes three
times a day. So an hour of that
concentrating and they do that for one
week and you see crazy increases in
cortical like cortical motor um like
activation and less inhibition. Um
>> so you get a better connection to the
muscle.
>> Exactly. And it's just the brain's
ability to activate the glutes in the
first place.
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it when uh I love it when studies
support what those of us who've been
training clients for decades have have
always known. Like when I had clients
who had challenges connecting to a
muscle, isometrics practiced uh uh you
know daily was a surefire way to get
them to be able to feel it. Just a good
old you know fashion isometric depending
on the position and how we activate.
>> But it was it's like oh yeah now I can
feel my lats. Now I can feel my glutes.
Now I can feel my pecs. Whereas before I
couldn't.
>> Well, do you remember like growing up
when you first started lifting weights?
Like I mean if you guys were like me I'd
be in the mirror like at 15 16 like how
do I
>> couldn't flex your chest spread my
little
>> I couldn't flex my chest. I remember my
buddy could feel a pinch of painting
between there and I'm like I couldn't
even flex my chest. And then you learn
by like flexing the muscles and you
build that mind muscle connection.
>> And then you and then you you're doing
an exercise and you're like, "Oh, that
you see that connection there that
>> I I know how to flex and activate it
hard in isolation and now I can
incorporate it more into everyday move."
And that's what some of the research
found too through doing these isolated
glute movements. It then carries over
and they end up using their glutes more
for functional movements like squats and
single leg squats.
>> Yeah. So uh so two things and I'll start
with the first one. I do want to
encourage most people because most
people generally speaking you can change
the way you look through strength
training. You can see some adaptations
uh but there are genetics uh that play a
big role in the kind of bodies that we
tend to look at on social media but for
the average person they can build muscle
they could get stronger and they can
improve. And I just want to say that
because someone might be listening be
like ah it's a waste of time.
>> I I wanted to do that too. I have to
[laughter] say, but you can always gain
strength, gain function. And
>> I've never had a client where you
couldn't tell at all. Like there was no
even even some of my clients that were
like, I'm seeing no progress, then they
tend to see a picture from before and
they're like, okay, it has grown. What
would you say too, like what's your
opinion on u cuz I I feel like this can
make a big difference. somebody who
wants uh let's say a bigger butt and
maybe we don't grow the actual
circumference but by training like
hamstrings and other muscles we the
illusion of the a bigger butt or a
better butt it happens.
>> I kind of think it's the opposite
though.
>> Okay.
>> Like if you and that's something that
pisses men off and men and like and like
hardcore female lifters they get so mad
like why would you want to just get
strong at everything? And that's kind of
how I try to what I try to do with my
clients. In
>> fact, I formed that strong lifting. It's
like just a competition for my cl with
my clients that we do.
>> And they're so freakishly strong, it's
insane. They do six lifts. Squat, bench,
deadlift, chin, military press, chin-up,
and hip thrust.
>> And and the stronger they get at those,
the better they look. I remember when we
were in in 2020, we took a trip to
Tulum. That was during CO. It was like
everywhere was abandoned. Like so we you
we're on the beach and everyone thought
we were celebrities. They're like they
see like one guy walking with 30 women.
They're like, "Who is this guy?"
[laughter]
But I'm like, "Oh my god, my clients who
are bikini competitors, they look like
they could step on stage in about four
weeks of dieting. They've never looked
that way off season before." And all
they were they were I'd put I put the um
>> I' I'd had a spreadsheet and I'd put it
on the reverse hyper every day so
everyone could look at it the numbers
and they the girls would be like you
know Amanda would be like wait Vanessa
hit this on the squat great I've got to
beat it and it was it was like the
ultimate tool to like keep them
competitive but so I do like everyone
getting stronger at all the big basics
but if you have if you don't have big
glutes say you have flatter glutes and
then you get big quads quads and
hamstrings. It just makes the glutes
look even smaller. So, it's the glute to
thigh ratio. So, I have a lot of clients
who I I do have them do the hell the one
I posted about two days ago who saw
really good improvements. She has the
propensity to build big legs. She was a
track athlete in high school and like
just can can easily go up in the squat
and the in fact I've given her a leg
press four times. Um, and she's she's
doing five plates on the side bags on
each side
>> for 10 reps. And I'm like, I've given
her that four times and yeah, like she
she can build big legs, but I give her
like one set.
>> One set or maybe two
>> just to prevent some atrophy and just
keep it.
>> I mean, she's growing, but yeah, like I
want the glutes growing more.
>> Yeah.
>> And we've achieved that. But we have to
do a lot of hip thrust, a lot of
abduction, a lot of kickbacks, a lot of
the special machines that I have now,
these kneeling glute isolators and the
3D abductors and stuff that are awesome.
You guys should get them. Now, talking
about a client like that, okay, I love
that you brought her up because my
experience when I have a an athlete,
especially a runner, what we talked
about earlier with just quad dominance
and we talked about the the neurological
studies that you talked about, like they
have done so many repetitions of quad
dominant running, right, that you then
take that person and they go squat. It
is so difficult to get that client to
connect to the glutes. Would do you
think that that's part of her challenge?
I know genetics play a role, but would
you think that was part of her challenge
of developing glutes is because she's
gotten so good at at running and that's
like
>> I think it's part what makes someone
quad dominant is like like half of it's
like practice what you said they spent
their life playing soccer or they only
>> Yeah.
>> I mean I remember my my I have an
identical twin brother and I watched him
um he was only doing like legs. He
wasn't doing posterior chain much and I
watched him do a kettle bell deadlift.
I'm like he's way more upright than me
and then after like a few months of
training with me and I I I hit a lot of
hamstrings too. Then he's like stiff
legging it up. He's like taking his legs
out of it and that's what a lot of women
they can stiff leg what they can
deadlift because they're so posterior
chain dominant. But um he he became more
more hip dominant than quad dominant
over time through training with me. his
first instinct cuz he had mostly just
done like leg press and squats and
goblet squats and things like that. He
was naturally more upright with his
deadlift. And that's kind of a good the
the the deadlift is a good barometer of
how quad versus hip dominant you are. Um
>> kind of how natural you would sit to
pull it up.
>> A lot of people will will want to stiff
leg it and then you're like get those
hips down a little bit and then and then
you start going heavy and they start
shooting their hips up cuz they're
stronger that way. But anyway, I think
half it's also structure. You get these
people with
um with long long femur, like long legs
in general.
>> Sure.
>> Really long legs.
>> Also makes for a good runner. So it's
like
>> Yeah. And and I remember Mark Ripto
talked about this in one of his books or
something. it. He had a a a a female
lifter pull sumo and she was like she
was like her torso was horizontal after
satisfying the right conditions with the
bar over the midfoot the and the scapula
because her structure had had to be that
way. You get some people and that's back
to what we're talking about. You get
these people making these bold claims
and it's like you've never trained. Go
train some NBA players.
>> Like they are so hard to train. They're
they're
>> what you think you know goes out the
window when you're training some 610 or
7 foot one guy that you know is all legs
and stuff and so um so anyway yeah I
think a lot of it structure not just
bone structure skeletal structure like
your anthropometry and proportions but
also which muscles tend to grow and
things like your kneecap. I I know I
have a small patella um compared to a
lot of guys and that how far your
patella sticks out detons determines
your knee extension moment arm and so if
you have a bigger patella thicker
patella and you know it sticks out more
then you're stronger at knee extension.
That's right.
>> Or if you just have the ability to get
big quads. I've ne I can't get big quads
cuz my knees hurt. I have knee pain and
it's so frustrating because I can do
like two sets, anything more than that
for quads and I'm I'm hobbling around.
If I could just get rid of that knee
pain, I could handle way more volume and
get bigger quads. But there's a lot of
factors that go into it um with your
like how big if if the muscle was
bigger, you would use it more. And then
if a muscle gets bigger, it also gets
better leverage. We published a study on
that. my my colleague Andrew Vagotssky.
I was talking to him about it like
theoretically and then he went and like
got I think he borrowed a data set from
Stu Phillips like on the biceps and
modeled it and it's a it's published in
Pier J like a really nice it shows as
the biceps get bigger. It inserts at a
more horizontal angle. So now it's like
pushing on a wrench it's better
leverage. If you push on a wrench at an
angle it's not effective force. If you
push on at a 90° angle, that's all the
force is effective.
>> Yeah, in in many cases that's the case.
In some cases, not so much. I think
depends on the muscle. You brought up
isometrics uh before. I feel like
isometrics are one of the most
underutilized
>> form of strength training. Uh maybe
because they don't produce the same
hypertrophy as the traditional
contractions, but
>> new study,
>> yes,
>> new study just published.
Um, I think it was published. My friend
Brad Stonefeld throws me these studies
before they're published. [laughter]
Just don't talk about it. I think this
one was published.
>> That's all right.
>> They did. Yeah. Yeah, it was published.
They did um like isometrics in the
stretch position.
>> Yeah.
>> Versus leg extensions and matched for
like time of effort, you know? So,
>> Got it.
>> Like,
>> so 30 seconds. Exactly. Versus 30
seconds.
>> Yeah. And it was the same growth.
>> Yeah. Yeah. isometrics uh
>> they they run the same and then they
kind of fall off the risk factor and the
safety of it
>> the I think the value of isome the way
that they strengthen tendons uh and uh
the way you can generate force and
stability and they don't fry you like
other forms of contractions and nobody
utilizes them I mean if you go to the
like the bronze era of strength athletes
they used isometrics all the time and
they did some incredible feats of
strength we don't use them enough I
don't do you use them with any of your
with your clients
No, but I do. I mean, I'm a student of
the game. I love I love everything.
>> I miss training males, too, because I
could I used to love you. We learn every
We're bored. You learn every aspect of
grip training and the different types of
grip. I don't use that knowledge with
it. But every once in a while,
>> I get to I get to use the the
like when I remember this is I'm going
to go off topic here.
>> Yeah, sure. I was uh training my client
Estrella. She
>> the rotissery [snorts] hip thrust.
You're you're about 30% stronger, but
it's a tilting pad, you know, it tilts
for you and it and it's it's the Fort
Lauderdale squad. It's their favorite.
So, when I started when I moved to Fort
Lauderdale, my San Diego girls were
like,
>> "Oh, are you enjoying training those
cheaters? Those fakers where they can't
they can't hip thrust normal. [laughter]
>> The internal competition that you have
is
>> always like that. They're always
[ __ ] too. How are your new bitches?"
I'm like, "Well, you'd love [laughter]
them. You'd actually love them. Why are
they always
>> That's hilarious."
>> But um the They're like, "Oh, do they
like their little cheater cheater pad?"
And and they love the rotisserie and
it's it's a lot of they're like bros.
They
>> There's a new glute builder elite with
like a Smith machine that moves and they
feel their glutes, but they're like, "I
don't like that." I'm like, "Why?"
"Well, I can only use two or three
plates on it." And I'm like, "But do you
feel your glutes?" "Yeah, but I can only
use two to three plates." I'm like, "Who
[laughter] cares? That's less plates to
load. They want to load all the plates
on. They're like bros with bench press.
With hip thrust, they're like bros with
bench press.
>> And so, um,
>> so anyway, Estraa [snorts] is like the
strongest at rotisserie hip thrust. She
has done
>> like
>> 765 for eight and she weighs like she
weighed like 120 back then. Now she
weighs like 108. She's so strong. It in
fact people always talk about like
what's dangerous for hip thrust and
stuff. We don't ever get low back
injuries. We get hip bruise like with
the rotissery their hips get beat up.
You can't then rotissery 2 days later
after you do something like that.
>> Wow. From the pressure
>> the pressure they get bruises and
swelling and stuff. So we have to then
do if it's really bad we have to do the
kneeling glute isolator which is a
kneeling machine or or or single leg hip
thrust or they could do part like I
could sit on them backwards. Like if I
sit on them, they can do partner hip
thrust and
>> they could, you know, hip thrust me for
like three sets of 20 and it's good, but
because it's spread out a lot, the
surface area,
>> but we [clears throat] we can't just do
like you can't do retic, you can't do a
heavy barbell hip throw cuz you're p.
But anyway, she's like, "Yeah, I it's so
funny because I come in town like what I
mentioned to you guys earlier. I have
Fort Lauderdale, San Diego, and Las
Vegas. And when I come in town, they
know they're gonna hit PRs or they're
expected to. They love it, but then I
think they're ready for me to leave
after a [laughter] couple weeks.
>> Gets intense.
>> So, I have Estraa and I'm like
I've h I've had her do so I don't
[snorts] like with barbell hip thrust,
they slide back and that's cheating.
They they want to slide back when they
do it.
>> Yeah. You want to go straight up. You
want to hinge and not slide back on the
machine. So I started having to use
instead of my glute benches
the ramp that like glute builder makes.
It's like a ramp.
>> So it's like almost like a decline or
>> almost like a decline bench.
>> But I'm like cuz if you if you shift
back on it,
>> it stops you.
>> Well, it stops you, but it's also higher
up. So it makes it harder. But then I
find them cheating. They find out a way
to cheat with everything. But anyway, I
had her just do ramp
and it's like this. That's how you know
what the best lift is in my opinion. If
you get stronger at squats, your all of
a sudden your leg press went up and you
didn't even do leg press.
>> You got carryover deadlift goes up. Y
>> and and and that's what with barbell hip
thrust, it makes the rotisserie go up
even though I don't know, it's weird.
Retisser is hardest at the bottom but
then easier at the top because your body
weight
>> goes over the top of it and now it's got
>> it's like a teeter totter. It's helping
you out on
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> So, you're not lifting as much weight on
this side of the fulcrum. But anyway, uh
so I said, "Hey, you're going to you're
going to we're going to set a rotissery
pair." She's like, "No, I haven't done
that in like 6 weeks. I haven't done a
single set." And I'm like, "Trust me."
And I put on it's so funny cuz all they
listen to is
>> I want to say regatone, but maybe it's
not. Maybe it's what it's their their
hip-hop. They're like
>> Latin hiphop round the clock. And
luckily I'm like not one of those like
I'm 50. I just turned 50. [laughter] I
can still listen to their music and be
okay, but it's all day long of, you
know, Bad Bunny and stuff like that and,
you know, Carol G and stuff. So, anyway,
um, but I I put on like Papa Roach, Last
Resort.
>> That's the PR song. All these girls
don't know any heavy metal. So, but
Estraa loves the loves Last Resort.
>> So, she she's always like, "Put that on.
Put the song on." And it's like a mental
cue like and she's like a total bro. She
takes 10 minutes to psych up and she'll
wrap her wrists because pushing the bar
forward is hard on the wrists. You know,
these these girls are they their hip
thrusts.
>> So then so I have her do I think it was
Yeah. 765 and she hits 10 reps and then
afterwards she's so God there was this
movie back in the day.
>> I can't [clears throat] remember
Vladimir was the guy's name the football
player and he was like
>> oh that's the program.
>> The program.
>> Yes. remember he's like
>> and he puts the weight shaking. That's
where it reminded me she finished her
set and she's like shaking and then like
I go off and train other people and then
it's like 10 minutes later and she's
like coach I'm like she's so stimulated
and like so amped up. She's like I feel
like I'm going to throw up
>> and go this is a long story just to get
some basic things [laughter] but um so
she's like I feel like I'm going to
throw up. Well, that's something you
encounter as a trainer sometimes,
especially with newbies, you know,
they're going to throw up. And I
remember reading an article from like
>> God, so long ago when I was like in 2012
when I was getting my PhD, I think I'm
I'm going to butcher it, but I think
they had like a man on this side of a
leg press and a woman on the other side
and he was doing concentrics and she was
absorbing doing eccentrics. But when you
do heavy eentrics, it doesn't raise your
blood lactate or anything. Doesn't get
your heart rate up. Like think of going
downstairs. is you don't you're not
breathing hard. Eccentrics are mostly
elastic, the tighten stuff like that. So
it's not
>> so you could theoretically I I reason
that she could do eccentrics
>> even though she feels like she's going
to puke. So
>> she's like I want to do more. I don't
just want to do one set and then she's
fizzled out. And that's probably my bad
as a coach. I literally zap them on
their first set. But it works. These
girls have insane glute development.
They're strong as hell. But you wouldn't
want to. Theoretically, you should have
them do like three sets and on their
third go to failure. But this is a
psyched up music pumping, 10 people
watching. And we also have a PR bell
that we ring. We ring the bell when they
So it's like the ultimate environment
for PRs. Also, everyone's hitting five
plates, so it's not weird there. You
come there and you're like, I better
step it up. It's like Westside for
squats. If we train at Westside, we'd be
way stronger at squats. Um, but the the
hip thrust, like the glute lab is the
the west side for hip thrust, you know.
So anyway, I had her do eccentrics. I
had her do like three sets of five where
she would come up with like 315 lbs and
then I I I would sit on one end of the
barbell on the Thruster Pro. Like it's
like a hammer strength plate loaded and
then I'd have two two girls sit on the
other side.
>> So it's like a 700 lb eccentric and she
can control it. you're very strong
eccentrically in the hip thrust. She
could control it. Then we'd step off,
she'd go to the top, we'd sit on it,
>> and it didn't and she got like three
good sets in, very productive sets. And
that's where research benefited
practice. Usually it's the other way
around. You think of something in
practice and then you research it. But
that's what we were talking about like
things like isometrics and all these
things
>> that you know every once in a while they
come in useful as a trainer.
>> How important is getting stronger?
because you've talked a lot about
hitting PRs, lifting more weight, and
this discussion doesn't come up as much
these days, but it still kind of comes
up about, you know, strength is a decent
coralate for muscle size. It's not
perfect, but it's decent. And you'll get
some people arguing that you, you know,
strength, you don't need to chase it as
much, but I hear you talk all the time
about getting stronger, get these girls
stronger. In my experience, if you get
stronger consistently, you build muscle.
It just happens. So, talk about how
important strength is. So that's another
area that this was like 10 years ago.
There was a guy Jeremy Leni that was
bringing bringing to the like raising
awareness to the fact that it wasn't
very related at all.
>> Yeah.
>> And I remember there was this guy in the
field that kept kept asking him and he
would never answer the question. Then
why are there powerlifting weight
classes? Yeah.
>> And the guy would never answer it. But
he did point out there's not a good
there's not good research showing a good
relationship a good correlation between
strength and hypertrophy. And now since
then we've had studies emerged in fact
just one emerged in the last year
showing very high relationship like very
close relationships with strength and
hypertrophy. So
>> back back in the day we're like well
your strength can be a lot of things can
increase your strength you know your
your a lot of neural factors half of
it's like the neural factors and then
technique skill coordination your
intramuscular coordination all that
stuff and then also like
>> you know stiffness and all these things
and your there's things other than just
muscular hypertrophy that could
theoretically influence strength but
anyway now we know that it's very
related
But I think it's I think for me my the
pendulum kind of swings. So I was all
about strength with the strong lifting I
told you about. And then I left to Fort
Lauderdale and I
and then my San Diego squad was left all
on their own. And I remember going like
I can't close up San Diego that they're
going to have to train in other gyms
where they don't have this equipment. I
can't do that to them. So, I just kept
the gym open. I didn't take on clients.
I just said, "You guys just I give you
all keys. You guys just keep using the
gym and I'll pay the the the lease."
>> That's nice of you.
>> Yeah. And and then they don't have me
here there. I didn't teach them
properly. I realized cuz they always had
me there. So, it's just like if the four
of us were training and we're all doing
squats and, you know, one of us was
like, "Ah, my low back's hurting." We'd
be like, "Dude, don't squat." You know,
you don't let them squat if your low or
deadlift if your low back is hurting.
You'd be like, "You go do
>> like Bulgarian split squats and and
we'll squat and then we'll we'll do leg
extensions together, whatever."
>> That's just how it is. But I didn't. But
also, we had to learn that the hard way
through getting injured. You know,
remember before you had a bad low back
injury, you just thought you were
bulletproof. And it still takes you a
couple injuries to even after the first
one, you're like, I think I'm good
again. [laughter]
And so they they they
so then they started pushing and I
remember I would give them if I tried to
give them like three three by like 3x5
at 80 85% of win max they cannot just do
three sets of five cuz they're used to
training to failure.
>> They have to at least the last set they
do an AM wrap set and I'd be like I said
three sets of five and they're like but
it was easy. Some lifts the the the
percents nail it. It's perfect. So other
lifts not quite as much like military
press. It's a some people could do three
sets of five with 85% was so easy and
other people not. But anyway, they want
to get a good workout. They don't no one
likes to keep five reps in the tank or
even three reps in the tank if you're a
serious lifter. So
they were so
obsessed with the with the big
with the big six, you know, I say the
big three, but
squats, squats, bench, deads, military
chins, and hip thrusts. And
>> they would train through pain
>> instead of around it. And when I was
there, if your low back is acting up, no
squats or deadlifts. If your knees are
acting up,
no squats. We do hip dominant stuff, you
know, but with me not there, they would
push through it. So then a lot of them
started experiencing pain
and they still have it and they can't
get they're more injuryprone now. And
>> when I started training my squad in Fort
Lauder, I had way more machines. So I
taught them because I don't I it's three
times the size of Glute Lab San Diego.
So, I taught my Florida squad. I want
you to care about your belt squat, your
hack squat, your pendulum squat, your
leg press. We have two leg presses. I
want you to care about your single leg
strength. I want you to care about your
barbell back squat, but also we have two
squat machines. So, we have like 12
different squat patterns that we're
paying attention to and they feed off
each other, you know.
>> Um, and and then then same thing with
like the deadlift pattern. We have like
five plate loaded deadlift pieces.
They're all unique. And I I want you to
care about your single leg RDL, all your
deadlift, also your 45 degree hypers,
you know, and these because they kind of
feed into each other. And same thing
with hip thrust. I don't want you just
worship the barbell hip thrust. I want
you getting strong at all the hip
thrust. Yes, they will have a favorite,
but anyway, so much less injuries. We
barely have any injuries there because
they rotate stuff around and they're
they know that if if you can't back
squat, that's fine. Do some belt squats.
Uh you know, like they know that things
transfer if you're pushing your belt
squats hard or your leg press or
whatever. You're not going to just lose
all your squat strength. And then they
build up all these things and then if we
want to say we have we just had another
strong lifting competition two weeks
ago. All they need is just, you know,
six to eight weeks to focus on that lift
and it'll skyrocket. But they're they're
because they have the foundation there.
They have the specificity reserves left
if they wanted to increase it,
>> but they're training year round and not
getting injured. Where the San Diego
squad,
>> some of them have back pain and then I'm
trying to give them like Jeffersons and
stuff like that to build that tissue
tolerance, but it's hard with me not
there. So anyway, lesson learned when
you're obsessed with just strength on a
few lifts. Yeah, neat.
>> Look at all the power lifters were
popular
>> back when we were coming up 15 years
ago. There's no one's left. Now they're
getting smarter. They're doing way more
reps in reserves. So, you have two
options. Do more variety like my Florida
squad or keep a lot of reps in reserve,
which is hard for serious lifters. Yeah.
>> How many of us want to keep five ri
you're communicating something that um
something we talk about on the show a
lot with our own our own workouts,
right? We we always are talking about
the core lifts,
>> how they should be a foundation uh of
your program, but then we always say
like but that doesn't mean you won't
catch me on machines all the time doing
unilateral
>> and the way it looks like for me is
here's these are my core lifts similar
to your six that we're talking about
that I'm always kind of focused on
trying to get stronger there. But what I
know happens to me and it happens on a
probably every other week where I
overreach where I have a workout I was
pumped up from Papa Roach too many too
much and I'm and and then my my knees my
back or someone's talking to me coming
into Friday's workout and guess where
I'm at? I'm on the machines. And so
that's a perfect way to kind and so as
coaches
>> But by the way, how old are you now?
>> Yeah. Yeah. No, I'm 45.
>> 50? Yeah.
>> Yeah. 47 46.
>> And so these young these 20-year-old co
guys out there, they don't get it. Yeah,
>> because we were all bulletproof back
then. As as you get into your
40s
>> and even more so 50s, you just mentioned
you overreach. I do that every week,
too.
>> Every week something's a little off and
you have to pivot and train around it.
You don't train through it. You don't
go, "Oh, my shoulder's killing me on
this movement. I'm going to do it
anyway." You have to find something that
doesn't hurt while you And that's kind
of the art. It's like a it's like a cool
art science did is try try to how can I
maintain my strength while my shoulder
heals up or something.
>> Well, there's two parts of that. One, as
you get older, you just have
accumulated, you know, potential, right?
Just potential for injury, potential for
movement patterns. But even for younger
lifters, uh if you get really strong at
a specific movement, even if it has
carryover, if that strength uh so far
exceeds, let's say stability going
laterally or rotation, you actually
increase your risk of injury.
>> So you're super strong on the sagittal
plane and like you could squat 500 lb,
but your lateral stability barely
supports, you know, 100 lb.
>> You know, you're playing with your kids
or something happens, you need to cut to
the left. Next thing you know, you twist
your knee and you're like, "What's going
on? I can squat 500 lb. How did this
happen?" It's like, "Well, it's like a a
really powerful car without a reinforced
frame and it twisted." And so that can
also be an issue is just I'm really
strong in one direction. Yeah.
>> But I don't have the support.
>> Most people don't consider these other
planes of motion, rotation, lateral
stability. So, yeah, it's always
something we're trying to incorporate in
their programming.
>> Yeah. I also think there's a a genetic
element to soft tissue strength. I have
friends that if they had strong soft
tissue, they could have be become world
class powerlifters. But
>> you know, imagine if you could just
squat, bench, and deadlift as hard as
you wanted every week. And when you're
20, you can.
>> Yeah.
>> But now we can't just go I can't do
weighted dips like I used to like, you
know, deep weighted dips. I have to stop
at parallel and be real strict. Even
weighted chin-ups aggravate me a little
bit now. So that's where the machines
become more
>> every [clears throat]
40-year-old lifter that's been lifting
for 20 years gravitates towards more
hammer strength machine more machines in
general but the hammer strength is a
little easier in the stretch and a
little harder in the squeeze and a new
study uh that we published showed that
there wasn't any difference in muscle
growth between making it harder in the
stretch versus making it harder in the
squeeze like everyone I saw everyone
would think that it was a stretch yeah
every that the stretch in fact the the
researchers who carried the study out
all hypothesized that the stretch but we
did four muscles. We did rear delts,
side delts, pecs and glutes and all four
muscles saw the same growth. So
>> interesting.
>> So I think that and and that that
increases your longevity. That's what I
loved about Westside. They used a lot of
bands and chains. So less hard on the
body when you use bands and chains.
>> They are they're phenomenal. I got I hit
huge PRs using bands and they feel so
smooth just adding them to the weights.
Um the benefit of training uh increasing
or train or or decreasing resistance in
the different kind of ranges of motion
is just that's how you get stronger then
you know you want to get a little
stronger in the stretch then train it
there you go strong
>> by the way that's what I think of with
my hip thrust program now it's like
>> we have load in different positions
>> yeah we have so many devices there like
I mentioned earlier the rotisserie is
harder at the bottom the bottom heavier
in the stretch
>> and then but so so the things that get
you stronger hip thrust in the bottom
are rotissery but also leg deep leg
press and squats
>> squats and leg press whenever I'm doing
heavy squats I'm so strong at the bottom
of the hip thrust but then you fail at
the lockout and then what what's hardest
at the lockout well just regular barbell
hip thrust but then if you want to make
it even harder you do pauses pulses or
bar plus band add the bands to it
>> and then also we have the kneeling glute
isolator we you can load it's like a
kneeling hip thrust but you can load it
with plates or bands if you load it with
all bands hands. It's the hardest in the
full hip extension.
>> How often do you have to uh convince
like your clients to uh be in a surplus?
>> Yeah. Oh, calories for calories for
>> I don't tend to talk to them much about
diet. That's up to them. Like,
>> well, let's just
>> because they go through phases where
they need Well, yeah. If I got a client
that was,
>> you know, starts getting to under 15%
body fat, it's kind of a hard discussion
to have like,
>> yeah, but he's also you got the the bias
that he has is that
>> you got a self selection. got a lot of
bikini competitors that understand
macros and diet. Oh, it's so true. I'm
I'm spoiled. I don't Yeah. When I used
to train
>> General Pop was I guess we're talking to
work is getting them to understand.
>> Yeah. Yeah. General pop is grossly
undereating protein, never tracked
macro, doesn't weigh food. You got a
bunch of girls that are like carrying
their their food with them.
>> What I do with my clients is I I have
like
>> they tend to in my experience with a lot
of the women don't like the whey protein
like we do. I've guzzled down so many
whey protein shakes in my life. They
tend to irritate their skin and or just
they don't digest it well. So, I have
like protein yogurts, you know,
>> like the oos with 23 g of protein
>> and I'll just give it to them on their
way out. Hey, take a take a yogurt, you
know,
>> take take this, take two.
>> Yeah.
>> Because then that's if they drank two of
them, that's 46 grams. That's half their
if they weigh 120 that's almost you know
because yeah ideally they'd hit 1.0 0
but if they hit 7 on a daily basis
that's still good you know but yeah a
lot of the a lot of people will get.3
grams per protein you know that's
limiting their progress
>> also we I mean we'll hear this a lot
just in you know gen pop and social
media it's like I want a six-pack I want
to get a bigger butt it's like pick one
>> we gota we got to work on one or the
other because uh talk about building in
a deficit how many people try to do that
and how impossible it is
>> yeah So, and that's always the most
frustrating thing when you have a
competitor. There's several types of
clients I don't train anymore. Um, and I
and I'm so glad I don't have to that I'm
at the point where I don't have to I
>> Oh, I was talking to Doug. Go ahead.
>> Oh, okay. Sorry. Um, there's there's
three three types of clients I won't
train anymore. And I'm so glad I'm at
this point where I don't have to train
everyone. the first client is the
shredded, you know, bikini or wellness
or figure competitor and they're just
shredded and they're like, I want to
build my glutes. And I look at their,
you know, I look and they're they're
they've been shredded for three straight
years. Like you can tell they're at like
>> 12% body fat. You know, how are we going
to build your glutes when you're
>> 10% and they're they're they're they
can't have an off season. They can't
raise their body fat. They're addicted
to being lean. And it's so hard for some
very difficult
>> men and women when you've got those abs.
See, I never had those abs. [laughter]
>> When you have this shredded,
>> they want that look. You get addicted to
it.
>> Um the
>> really struggle with putting body fat on
and it's so necessary, especially with a
a female. Talk about when you have a
female
>> who's under, you know, 17 18% body fat
and she's trying to build her glutes and
it's just so hard to build that that low
of body fat. And then the second type
that I won't train is the
person that complains after every set, I
didn't feel my glutes. I don't feel my
glutes. It's like
>> you have to realize like you have to you
don't make your trainer's life a living
hell, too. [laughter]
>> You know, like if I'm saying you want
you're not going to feel it on every
set.
>> You [clears throat] know, I could put a
band around you and have you do super
high reps. We're trying to get these get
creative, but it's if we want to build
your glutes, you're going to have to
get, you know, get good at the basic
movement patterns, too. Hopefully, we
can increase your [clears throat]
>> how much you feel your glutes, but
if you say that on every set, yeah, I
don't want to,
>> you know,
>> train. And then, real quick, the third
is the I don't want to get bulky.
>> Oh god.
>> And they're [clears throat] like, I
don't want to do this. I don't want to
get bulky. And
>> good luck trying to get bulky. You can't
even do
>> You weigh 120 and you can't even do a
pull down with 70 lbs.
>> Yeah.
>> I just want you to know that you just
described a majority of Jin Pop.
>> Yeah.
>> I mean, that's that's a majority of the
the people that are probably going to
listen to this episode, right?
>> Spoiled trainer that I
>> Well, that that's not my point I'm
making that you're spoiled by any means,
but I am. But I I I have to go to I go
to a lot of commercial gyms so I don't
lose touch with
>> Yeah. with like reality because I do I
would be
>> oblivious to half the problem if I only
>> Oh, half your conversation is convincing
uh to lift weights heavy or just to eat
in a surplus.
>> Yeah. You just talked about those three
people that you won't train is literally
a majority and you're working with the
girls that are saying, "Hey, I am
comfortable bulking. I am willing to
carry my food and hit my macros every
day." Like, I am willing to chase PRs. I
mean, those are three huge lever movers
in the pursuit of an ass that you've you
got already automatic. You know what I'm
saying? And so, and yeah, Jen Pop is
like, I got to convince those three
people or those three that those three
things are okay. It's like, I can't tell
you how many conversations I have around
we need to put body fat on or you got to
consistently hit that protein intake. We
have to get stronger. I mean, those are
like your repeated conversations when
you're talking about gym pop. For sure.
I want to bring something to you, Brett,
cuz there for a while there, there was
this huge debate. It's really not there
anymore, but there's a huge debate. What
builds the glutes more? Squats, hip
thrust. Remember the whole like squats
versus hip thrust? There was this huge
debate. And then they came out with
studies and they showed that they're
pretty both pretty darn good at building
the glutes. And you're probably better
off doing both of them. But you still
see people um on social media through
their experience who say, "Squats didn't
build my butt. Hip thrusts built my
butt."
theory. You'll hear vice versa
sometimes, too.
>> So, my theory around that, especially
with the crowd that says squats didn't
do it, but hip thrust did, is I think
what we're looking at are people who are
quad dominant, uh, and the hip thrust
just it's easier to hit the glutes with
a hip thrust. It's harder to be quad
dominant on a hip thrust than it is on a
squat. So, my theory is when people
can't build their glutes with a squat,
the hip thrust is probably going to do
better for them. So, what do you think
about that? Well, you still hear that
debate by I don't think you'll ever I
don't think it'll ever go away
completely, you know, like what's
better, squats or hip thrusts? And it's
always squats or hip thrust. What about
RDL's?
>> Yeah.
>> You know, what about single leg leg
press or like a lunge or Bulgarian or a
glute dominant step up? Um, they're
probably all similarly effective, but
here's why I like the hip thrust the
most is because it just doesn't beat you
up as much and it doesn't injure you. It
doesn't beat you up. You can do it more
frequently. So,
>> good points. Very good points, Brett,
because I was just thinking this right
now while we were talking earlier about
getting strong.
>> The stronger you get, you have a higher
risk of injury.
>> Oh, yeah.
>> And some exercises, it's like you got to
be very careful is really safe.
>> Yeah. Think about the most weight you've
squatted, you know? Yeah.
>> Could you get back to that? And once you
get to all four of us, like the most
I've deadlifted
>> and squatted, could I get back to that
at age 50?
>> What happens? You start get back, you
start getting to and then you always
injure yourself. It's like you've got a
>> unless you start taking like steroids
and stuff like that. I feel like you
have a natural limit where
>> it starts to be hard on your connective
tissue, you're you you might strain a
muscle or something's give something
gives. So,
and you can still get that way with hip
thrust. Not like you're going to injure
yourself. It's just you hate you get so
sick of hip thrusting doing all the
volume. But if the four of us when we're
if we were doing top sets, really hard
sets, how many really really hard sets
of squats could we do a week?
>> Yeah.
>> And how many really hard sets of
deadlifts could we do a week? Right.
>> Probably twice a week,
>> max.
>> Twice a week. Maybe two really hard
sets.
>> Yeah. I can't do four hard four sets to
failure and then do it three days later.
Like you might we could have in our 20s
maybe, but like now that we're all in
our 40s and me in my just turned 50,
it's just harder now. And and you have
more margin for, you know, once you
start getting to that level where you're
like, [ __ ] I might snap. I might tear
something when I come down. You know,
squats and even deadlifts off the floor,
you're like, God, please don't
[laughter] please don't snap. Um whereas
with hip thrust it's it works you at a
shorter muscle length and so it you
don't have that injury risk and you can
do more volume but you still have the
same issues of and that's why with my
program I I rotate the focus. I never
heard of anyone doing that, but I think
it's so wise to do because
first of all, periodization seems to be
important with strength, but not with
hypertrophy,
>> right?
>> But I believe periodization is important
with hypertrophy.
>> Um, but like I like to think I I made a
video once and I never posted it because
it just didn't come out right, but I'm
like
>> imagine you're trying to juggle six
balls. All right, those are my favorite
lifts. You guys have your different
lifts,
>> but mine, as I mentioned, are squats,
bench, deadlifts, military chin-ups, hip
thrusts.
>> And it's really hard to juggle six
balls. But if you're a really good
juggler, maybe you can pull it off. But
think of progressive overload as the
ball getting a little bit bigger each
time. So if you go up on your squat,
that ball gets bigger. And as the balls
get bigger, you know, especially if
you're going up on all six of them, it
gets to a point where you cannot juggle
those six balls. They're too big. So,
you you take two of those balls, one an
upper one a lower body ball and one an
upper body ball, and you focus on those
two, and then you set the other four on
maintenance. Maintenance is easy. You
know, do two sets a week, hard sets a
week, you can maintain it. Do it at the
end of the session, you can maintain it.
But, and I realize there's kind of a
separate strategy for each lift. If you
guys were trying to go for a chin-up PR,
you could probably hit an all-time
chin-up PR, you just start training the
chin-ups frequently, right? You know,
and I'm like, if I want a chin-up PR, I
got to do it three times a week first in
the workout. And yes, you can do
different grips. Yes, you could do band
assisted and weighted one day or try
variety, but you got to hit that pattern
first
>> a few times a week and then you'll do
it. So I realize there's a different but
with deadlifts you can't be like I'm
going to do deadlifts hard three times a
week. No way.
>> But you could do a lighter stiff leg
session and then a harder maybe one day
start off with 45 degree hypers because
it's a similar pattern. But so I I mix
around the focus. So one month we have a
strong lifting focus which is just get
it's a well-rounded program. Get get
focus on your total body strength. Then
the next month it's a squat and bench
press focus.
Then the next month after squats, your
knees are feeling beat up, you know? So,
it's wise to switch to hip thrusts. Now,
it's hip thrust and chin-ups. Okay? And
I used to do deadlifts with chin-ups,
but if you do chin-ups after deadlifts,
you're they theyaken you a little bit.
My my my girls are like, "Don't put chin
up after." I get my Buddha barre
members get mad at me if I forget and
put cuz like during the strong month if
I ever put they they love they love
their chin-up strength and they know
it's affected after deadlifts. So
anyway, I put I put uh deadlifts and
military together. So you have those and
then after deadlifts your low back is
feeling it. So, it's a good time to do
variety and single leg like then I have
the I call it as a glute squad special
month where it's a lot of variety in
stances. That's where we do sumo,
curtsy, rotational, a lot of stuff like
that because in theory a sumo stance,
you might have heard this everyone's
saying well sumo is all adductor.
>> Yeah.
>> And I'm like when did sumo become all
adductor?
>> I know. I know.
>> But when they say they think about it,
here's your stance. When you len when
you spread the legs, you're lengthening
the adductors. You know what else? You
lengthen the lower glute max, but you
shorten the upper glute max because the
glutes go over the center of rotation.
So when you go out, the upper glute max
will shorten, the lower glute max will
lengthen. Now, when you go deep,
because of the way the glutes are, how
they wrap under the pelvis, you can get
a better stretch going real deep with
narrow stance.
But with a sumo stance, a lot of stuff
we do isn't rock bottom. You know, even
like sumo squats, sumo deadlifts, sumo
leg press, we're not necessarily going
like you [snorts] weren't like
>> Mhm.
>> So theoretically that might work more
lower glutes.
And then it's opposite with curtsian,
this like single leg
rotational RDL where you twist on the
way down.
>> Yeah. I I think uh
>> that lengthens the upper glute max and
it shortens the lower glute max. So that
would be a strategy to work more of the
shelf, more the upper glute max. And
>> you might be saying,
is there any evidence that you can
target upper versus lower glute max?
There has never been until now. Even our
plot kin 2023 study that you mentioned
earlier,
squats versus hip thrust tied for glutam
in all three regions. We measured lower
glute max, middle glute max, and upper
glute max. Squats and hip thrust tight
in all three. We we thought that squats
would grow the lower glute max more and
hip thrust would grow the upper glute
max more. No, same pretty similar all
three. So, I was kind of wondering maybe
you don't can't target them that well.
EMG shows you can target them, but we
didn't have a study and then it's going
to be published real soon. The
researcher posted about it on social
media, so I can mention it. um Jao
Nunes, he had one group do um cable
kickbacks and the other group do uh
cable standing hip abduction. So the
group that did cable kickbacks was
leaning forward and then you know
kicking the leg back and then the
standing abduction was leg
go out in front and then straight to the
side. It wasn't back at an angle like
the glute medius kickback. It was just
straight to the side. And what they
found was that the cable kickback group
grew mostly lower glute max, little bit
of upper glute max, and then not much
glute meter men at all. And then the
standing abduction group grew mostly
upper glute max, barely any lower glute
max, and not much glute meter men
either. We always thought abduction is
more glute meter min.
>> Based on the research,
>> you don't it's kind of the glute meter
min might not grow that much,
>> but it's upper. It was upper glute max.
So we we so basically I've always said
throw in your abduction. Throw in your
abduction for upper glutes, but I always
just said upper glutes thinking it would
be glute meat and upper glute max and
glute man, but it's it seems to be
mostly upper glute max.
>> Interesting. It was glute meat.
>> So you can target subdivisions. So
that's why after the deadlift month,
you're beat up. Throw in the curtsy
curtsy lunge or the rotational single
legardial. Throw in some sumo stance.
just get have fun and don't focus on
PRs. That's the one kind of de lo where
I'm not I say focus on the mind muscle
connection. Get some quality workouts,
but we don't have to beat PRs that much
because every other month we're focusing
on setting records and it's daunting.
But I also try to periodize the
individual weeks. Week one, learn the
lifts. Week 2, three, and four go up
with week four hopefully culminating in
a all-time PR on the focused lift. and
they anyway that's my system with booty
bud Brett and I think it's you I think
it's really smart and wise to do I've
just never heard anyone periodize that
way back in the day we read all the
books on periodization all the Russian
texts and tutor bump and all these books
and stuff they only talked about
manipulating volume and intensity
>> and we're like you can periodize
anything why not switch the focus of the
lifts it's it was always like you're
going to do the same core lifts and
tinker with tinker with the uh the
volume and the effort and all that, but
instead I think you should I think a
better way to periodize is switch the
focus of the switch the lifts and the
prioritization and then the others go on
maintenance mode. So exercise order and
then exercise selection variation makes
sense and and uh the challenge with
studies uh because I think periodization
does help with hypertrophy but the
problem with studies is they're not long
enough
>> to show the benefit. So periodization uh
helps prevent injury and pain.
>> And injury and pain like you get hurt,
you're not building anything.
>> And so as a as a trainer, having trained
lots and lots of people,
>> I periodized and I don't care what the
data says on hypertrophy. I know when I
do it, right, my clients don't get hurt
as much.
>> But that that's why I did that's exactly
why I started doing with booty barrel.
I'm like I don't want people getting
hurt. I want you training year round
injuryree and painfree hopefully. And
it's hard to do if you are utilizing
progress. I 100% agree with you and I
see these people that are like, "You
don't ever have to switch your lifts
around. You can do the same lifts year
round." Okay. Are you using progressive
overload? Because a that's boring as
hell, but b you you don't get
>> Speaking of boring joints, I got to ask
you this because you're although so
there's a confusion around workout
programming. People think complex
programming involves five uh you know
million different exercises when really
it's it's fewer exercises but there's
variables that we're playing with. You
mentioned your favorite six. Do you ever
get criticiz criticized like oh that's
so basic. Why aren't you doing all these
other exercises? Why that was the I keep
talking about this post I made two days
ago that did really well. It got like
>> you know it was just I made it myself.
That's why I was proud of it. I have a
team that does. I was bored and I made
it myself. And um
>> like still I could do this still.
>> Yeah, I still got it. But I made I had
her do I had cuz lately I'm hearing all
this stuff and you guys might see it and
it annoys you. Like the secret to
building big glutes. You see these
influencers say the most obnoxious
literally like the most obnoxious stuff
I've ever heard. The most like unhinged
stuff. And it's like the reason why
you're not building glutes is because
you're not training your hip flexors
[laughter]
by hip flexors. I'm all about getting
like gaining hip flexor mobility, but
that's not going to make you grow your
glutes.
>> And I have is that a real post?
>> Yes, that was going around. And it's
like when one person says it, it goes
viral, then
>> 50 of them crop up and you can't and it
and because it's entertainment
algorithms, you can't a scientist can't
keep a lid on it. It's just this this is
now out there. Um, and then it's like
some functional type guy being like,
"You're not training your spiral chain
or your the Sarra effect or your
posterior oblique sling or whatever they
say." And so what I did with this post,
>> like it was my client Ryan. She was in
she was in inside the house um drinking
her yogurt and I go, "Oh, we let's go
back out to the garage. I want to film
something real quick." And she's like,
"I'm all sweaty." And I'm like, "No, we
just have to do this one thing." And I
made I put a band around her knee like
laterally.
>> Oh, I saw that clip. I saw I actually
caught my attent. What the hell is he
doing to the dunk said? And then another
band like wrapping around her body and
she's holding it out like this and a
dumbbell. And I said, and I put up her
before and after picture. I said,
"Here's how we took Rya's glutes from
flat to fat in 4 months. We start off by
doing this deep whatever I called it,
you know, like deep lunge, deep split
squat with lots of bands to to activate
the spiral chain and the like what's the
spiral [laughter] chain? The spiral
chain and the deep core. That's also
Yeah, that's also
>> Did you not see this? No.
>> Oh, it so it so caught my attention. It
was on your page and I'm like, what is
this? I don't know about
>> this. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. [laughter]
>> Not Naughty was shaking his head. Yes,
now you're on to something.
>> But um but uh uh and then I said, "Just
kidding. We didn't do any of that."
>> What we did do was straight up
progressive overload.
>> And then I showed her using a lot of
weight. And so yes, I do get criticisms
and you do get
>> in my experience, a lot of women want to
do like six to seven exercises per
session.
>> Yeah. And it's hard to get them not to
cuz they but when they really when you
really push yourself you four four four
is good enough. Maybe five,
>> but yeah, a lot of times they're not
pushing themselves hard enough. So they
try to compensate there for lack of
effort with more volume, but a lot of
it's junk volume. And when you really do
have quality volume, you don't you rest
more. You don't want as many sets, you
know, cuz that's what I train my women.
They're like, "Coach, what else should I
do? Go home. What I want to do one
more." go home. You got to train in two
days. You just crushed heavy squats or
like leg. What? You just killed it
today. You got to train in two days. If
you train Monday, Wednesday, Friday,
sometimes I'll give them a little more
on Friday, but other times on Friday
they're beat up. We have to go. So,
yeah, it's really complicated because
they train and a lot of guys don't
understand it. They don't understand
glute training because they have never
trained glutes three times a week.
There's an art to it. It's and and you
get guys chiming in wanting to be expert
at it, but then they'll be like, "Here's
what I like to do." And like because
remember back in the day it was like
where we grew up it was when we grew up
it was one leg day a week and you would
do death sets like what you do.
>> You didn't walk to do that was the test.
Did you fall off the curb walking out of
the gym? If you didn't it wasn't enough.
I couldn't push the clutch on my car.
German volume training drop sets
>> super setter with it like like it was
like there was no like Arnold's book
he's like I would go into the forest and
do 50 sets of squats like what
>> yeah [laughter]
so we grew up with that but you try try
that three times a week no and that's
something I've done in my own training
I've eliminated the the the drop sets
the the real the stuff I realized I was
doing to impress people cuz if you're a
trainer and you give them a drop set or
just really high reps or super sets,
they love it. They feel like especially
you get them sore the next day, they're
like, "I've never been that sore in my
life." And you're like, "Sorry." And
they're like, "No, I like it."
>> Or you get them to have some crazy glute
pump or burn, which just have them do
something new for super high reps with a
controlled tempo and they're going to
burn like crazy. They will love you and
think you're the best. But I try to tell
them that doesn't that stuff is fluff.
That's me winning you over for session
number one. And then by week two, we
aren't doing that. So great. So great.
Such a such a such a a veteran trainer
move right there. So give them a taste
of something. They really wanted to do
the bait and switch like we don't need
to do that [ __ ] Just so you know.
>> Just so you know, I can do this.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Just so you know,
>> now we're not doing it. Yeah.
>> Let's talk about frequency because you
said 3 days a week and you'll see some
data that says uh so long as the volume
is controlled, you know, two days a week
versus three days a week versus four all
builds the same amount of muscle. I
always disagreed with that because I
know if I do 15 sets for back on Monday,
it's not the same as if I did five on
Monday, five on Wednesday, five on
Friday. Yes.
>> And you can't control the volume in real
in the real world. When I do five five,
I'm stronger. Yes. The volume naturally
goes up. So talk about that a little bit
because I hate it when that debate comes
up. So like when you work out in real
world and in the in real life, breaking
it up, you just tend to have better
workouts.
>> So it's kind of what you said earlier
like there are some problems with
research. One of them is that it's short
term. It's, you know, it's usually
universities doing it during a semester.
And so, you know, you've got a 16 week
long semester, but you can't just have
them started on day one. So, they're
usually eight week studies, 10 week
studies. That's it.
>> But, uh, they're short-term studies, but
also another pitfall is you want to have
advanced subjects and you say,
I want you to do one exercise
It's not going to happen. No serious
lifter would just do one
or an advanced lifter. I want you with
your left leg,
we're going to do this and on your right
leg I would have like
OCD paran like asymmetry OCD paranoia
set in and be like wait
>> I'm going to be off balance. Newbies or
like non-liffters
they're they're game for anything. So
you so you're going to have way more
research on newbies than advanced
lifters
>> and it's always going to be
>> 8 weeks 10 weeks long.
>> So is three times a week more effective
than twice a week in the literature? Not
really.
It it might be. We might get that data
over time, but it's it's it's not going
to be
it's it's not going to be like it's
crazy more beneficial. But I I I I will
always say my programs are three times a
week. Could you see amazing results
doing twice a week? Yeah, of course you
could. How much percent better is doing
three times a week? Well, it is under
these conditions. My booty barrett for
example, and it's funny because they do
see good upper body results. I do one
press, so it's three days a week,
Monday, Wednesday, Friday. For example,
I do one upper body press, three sets,
and one upper body pull, three sets. So,
it's any compound press
>> and any compound pull. So, basically
either pushup or bench press with
dumbbells or barbells or overhead press,
you know, some shoulder press variation.
And then it's a chin up, a pull down, or
a row, you know, and they do three sets
of that. Okay? The the the glute
component is four typically four. It's
hard to throw kickbacks in one of these
columns because technically it's a
hinge, but what if you bend the knee and
kick? What if you do more donkey kick?
Is that a squat? Not really. So, it's
hard to program kickbacks in there then.
Then I just say if you want add in a
couple sets of kickbacks, but I do a
thrust bridge pattern, a squat lunge
pattern, and a hinge pull pattern. What
I like to do if I'm just training
someone in real life and we're not doing
like booty by breath style programming
is I alternate the thrust pattern. Oh,
by the way, you can do it in any order,
too. So, we might do squats first. With
the squat pattern, I I I alternate
between a double leg and a single leg.
The double leg being squats, leg press.
And there I try to make them glute
dominant still, but there's no way to
take your quads completely out of any
squat. Even if you're doing glute
dominant box squats, your quads are
still
>> Yeah.
>> in my opinion, still the prime mover.
Yep.
>> Um but then then then then two days
later, you'll do a single leg variation,
a glute do step up, single leg leg
press.
>> Reverse lunge. I try to stick to more on
Friday because you get two days off. You
do it on the day where you have two days
afterwards because those beat you up
pretty good. Or a Bulgarian. But then
you alternate between those. Now, if you
do the the hinge pattern, alternate
between a vertical and a horizontal,
meaning one day it's RDL or stiff leg or
good morning. The next day it's 45 hyper
or reverse hyper back extension. Those
don't make you sore as the and then with
the with the thrust bridge pattern, it's
a full range movement and then a lockout
focus because the lockout focus doesn't
beat you up as much and do hip thrusts
don't beat you up in general, but get
really strong at hip thrust and they do
start to beat you up. So the lockout
focus is a little less daunting. So the
lockout focus would be bar plus band
which is my favorite or pauses or
pulses. Pulses being just the top half
or the top third. And then with the
abduction pattern. So it's yeah with the
abduction did I mention that the four
squat lunge hinge pull thrust bridge
abduction. Abduction it's frontal plane
one day transverse plane the next day.
So, if you're thinking of a seated hip
abduction machine, one day it's leaning
forward, the next day would be bridged
or leaning back.
>> But there's also a ton of different
movements you could do. For the for the
leaning, your options would be kind of
like basically leaning seated hip
abduction, sideline hip raises, uh band
seated hip abduction, or the uh or the
like hip dumbbell hip airplanes you see
now, which you want to be stable, but
that kind of works a similar pattern or
any of these 3D abductors that are
getting more and more popular. Okay. And
then then the other day would be the
frontal plane. That's all of your um
cable standing well your bridge seated
hip abduction your cable standing
variations and then like the you could
do straight out to the side or kind of
angled to make it more glute medius
kickback and then you have your
extra range sideline hip abductions with
or without a band or ankle weight. You
could do any band any lateral band walk
type thing where you're more upright.
Um, but yeah, basically with bands, with
ankle weights, or uh now we have like
the snow angel machine, which I call it,
I just made it up. Someone tried to copy
the hammer strength seated hip
abduction, just made it way too big. So,
we just put the seat all the way back
and you lay down on it and it's like I
call it snow angel cuz you just you're
going straight out to the side.
>> Um, but yeah, basically it's a good
system, but what you talked about, it's
a it's a system and it prevents
injuries. If you stick to that, it's
less injuries and less pain. And you
just mentioned that pain and injuries
are everything. I think it's everything
with with
I think it's more important than we talk
about. And the reason why and you have
to get older to appreciate it because me
I had my like four years ago I had my no
it was six years ago. My god my camera
guy Alex he was living with me when I
moved to Vegas. He lived in the
upstairs. There's like a 1,200 square
foot studio up there and I'm like, you
can just live up there and then we can
film more. But he's younger than me and
he's spry, you know? He's he's he's like
now I think he's like 30 now. So he's
like yeah, like 20 years younger than
me. So, when he's around or if I have a
girlfriend, um, I'm always like, "Hey,"
because I'll be like sitting down and
I'm like, "Hey, can you grab me a a can
you grab me a an energy drink drink or
can you grab me a dinner? Can you toss
this on your way out? I don't want to
get up cuz my [laughter] knees hurt. My
knees hurt and I'm trying not to move."
But think about it. Remember when you
were a kid? Yeah.
>> You You could be like jump jump jump
jump jump jump jump jump jump jump jump
jump jump jump jump jump jump up right
now and try to touch the ceiling and
then take off in a sprint. You could do
that right now. If the four of us tried
that, we would Have you seen the Have
you seen the viral? I shared it on my
story just like 3 days ago of uh your
20s, your 30s, and your 40s and it was
like these 20-year-old kids jumping off
a roof and I did see that and another
one jumping off
>> and then and then it's like the 40y old
getting out of the truck. Yeah, he's
trying to get out of the truck. the t
the the bed of the truck.
I can relate. So that's me going, uh, if
I just jump, I might Yeah, it's better
to just sit down and put my leg.
>> You know what you got to do because that
cuz that's true, but you got to compare
yourself against the average 50 in which
case,
>> but yeah, I'm not too hard on myself,
but what I realize it decreases your
neat. We always say your metabolism goes
down. No, it doesn't drop that much.
It's your neat
>> and it's because of pain. Yeah.
>> If you didn't have any pain, you'd go
play sports all day long. You would do
everything. Pain. Pain is related to
neat. I've seen no studies on this.
>> No, no, no, no. That's that's obvious.
>> It's obvious. You you you glossed over
something I want to highlight for the
audience that I think is so important.
Um, we talk about this a lot. uh and you
and you just went right over it and I
think it's it just highlights, you know,
what a great coach and and and
programming that you do [snorts] is a
lot of times when someone will hear an
episode like this, they hear us all
talking about glut and they want to
build their glutes, they go take all
this these great exercises that you're
throwing out and what we're talking
about and they pile it on to their kind
of routine they already did. If you
notice that you have a very minimalist
upper body.
>> Oh my god, that's what I didn't finish.
I that's what I meant. So I was
describing my system. So think about it.
It's 36. What if you do that Monday,
Wednesday, Friday, pick these exercises?
Pick a squat, lunge, thrust, bridge,
hinge, pull, abduction. Yeah.
>> And then a upper body press and an upper
body pull. Do that three times a week.
Three sets each. That ends up being 36
sets for glutes.
>> Nine [snorts] sets for quads and
adductors, nine sets for hamstrings, cuz
the squat lunge works your quads and
adductors. The hinge works your hammies.
So it's nine sets for quads and
adductors, nine sets for hammies, nine
sets for the upper body pressing
musculature, nine sets for the upper
body pulling musculature, and 36 sets
for glutes. It's a permanent glute
specialization program.
>> Yes.
>> And that way you can recover. If we were
trying to do
>> everything, 36 sets, you're dead.
>> 20 you you could not recover. And by the
way, because we're alternating with the
things I mentioned,
>> like abduction doesn't get you too sore,
you know? And like you it's not people
say well 20 sets is is enough for most
muscle groups. And I agree like chest
like I 20 sets a week. I can't do 20
sets a week for chest anymore and still
recover.
>> Um but think of the delts. The glutes
are kind of like you know you've got
upper glute max glute max and glute me
in. The delts you could do 20 sets cuz
it's front delts, side delts, rear delts
a bunch of laterals your rear fly and
then you got your military presses, your
upright rows and then all your delt
raises. You could easily do 36 if you're
on a delt specialization program which I
did in 2024. I didn't increase my weight
on anything. I just started doing more
volume and I was like I'm going to do
cables like with later I've always just
done dumbbells. I'm going to do the
later machine dumbbells cables
and bands. And with cables sometimes
just lengthen partials.
>> Yeah.
>> And my delts grew just from doing more
volume.
>> That's awesome. Mhm. But yeah,
>> but but real quick, you get so sick of
it.
>> I got so sick of it.
>> That's why these guys are like,
>> they see a movement, they're like, "Just
do a Romanian. Just do a
>> just squat."
>> Yeah.
>> You don't get this. You don't train
glutes. Yeah.
>> I've been working out for decades and
I've been
>> Well, the girls, they want different.
They want variety because
>> Yeah.
>> It gets really freaking boring.
>> So, you want a new program every four
weeks in my opinion.
>> Four weeks works out well.
>> Yes, you can do an 8week program. Yes,
you could do a 12week pro, but like four
weeks,
that's what another thing I learned from
Louis Simmons. Like they would pick a
movement, stick with it for three weeks,
and then switch.
>> All of our master program three or four
weeks.
>> Yeah. They f there's different phases
every three or four weeks within the
same program. And that's part of the
reason. The other part of the reason is
avoid injury.
>> Um, and just keep things fresh. Uh, you
know, when you work with people,
>> it's those two those two things are
equally important. Avoid injury and keep
it fun.
>> That's right. 100%. Otherwise, you won't
be you won't be consistent. I got to ask
you a question. Not glute related, but
you brought something up and it just
makes me makes me laugh. Talked about if
you have a girlfriend or when you have a
girlfriend. How is it dating women when
you do what you do and you're surrounded
by
>> bikini models and stuff all day long
like all your posts.
>> Champion bikini models.
>> Yeah. Like how is that for you as a guy
trying to date? Are they okay with it?
Does it cause problems? Well, my my um
my client Angela, she's Chinese. I
mentioned how I've had Chinese clients
with really round glutes. She has great
glute development and she hip thrust 600
barbell hip thrust 610 lbs at 120 body
weight. That's crazy.
>> Yeah. But um she's so freaking strong.
>> But anyway, um she once said Brett Brett
like Brett Brett doesn't Brett belongs
to all of us. not like like [laughter]
oh no not not in a sexual manner but
like he's I'm always you FaceTime me I I
I answer um but I've been single for 18
months now
>> and that's um I've always been good at
business I've been good at social media
I'm good at being a personal trainer I'm
not good at business I'm a good personal
trainer
>> um and then there's just some things
you're not as good at
>> and I've just I mean I'm still single at
age 50 I would like to you know settle
down. I would love to get married, but
it is hard. And I think if I want to
make a relationship work, we're going to
have to quit training. I mean, who first
of all, I go back and Yeah. I go back
and forth between I have a house in Fort
Lauderdale trying to sell it and it will
not sell. It's a bad market there
>> right now. It's crazy over there in
Florida.
>> Yeah. And then I have two houses in San
Diego and one in Vegas. And I just go
back and forth between my three houses
and train my clients. And I don't have
any schedule. It's when I get bored and
I get a flight like that day. I really
want to fly out.
>> It's a It's a great life.
>> But I do miss I do miss having a girl. I
miss having I would like to have a life
partner. I would like to have a best
friend to go do life with. I'm a little
lonely. Like I don't mean I wanted to
say lonely, but I like watching I love
watching Netflix with someone that is
interested. And
>> I feel like there aren't a lot of us
left that like to watch TV at night. I'm
going, can I get a girlfriend? I I make
good money. I don't You don't need to
work. If you want to work, I'll support
you. I'll even help you with it, but you
don't have to work. Just travel around
with me, eat food with me, and I'll pay
for it. And then watch some TV with me
and give me quality time. And I realized
over time that I like, you know, the
love languages. When I first learned
about it years ago, I was like, this is
like this is so gay. And then now I'm
like, okay, [laughter] I realize I like
all the love. Well, not gifts, but I
like quality time. I like words of
affirmation. I like um I like physical
touch.
>> It might be all the pictures that your
your clients send you of their
if I want to make a relationship work, I
think I have to quit
>> training quit training so many women. I
got I'm going what do I do? Switch to
training bros. But do you know when Fort
Lauderdale Fort Lauderdale
>> you just need you just need the the
ultimate the ultimate confident woman
that doesn't she just has like cuz
there's there's
>> I need to make her like in charge.
That's what I've never been good at.
making her feel so special and I wish so
taking the last 18 months off
>> um and being single I was like and I
also moved moved back to Vegas and I've
been alone a lot and not to switch and
get all sentimental here but you I've
got a lot of downtime and I also thought
I follow this guy Arthur Brooks and he's
always talking about really
just talked to Mr.
>> Been on the show like four times.
>> Oh really? Oh yeah great. Okay. So, he
talks about how like so I'm like I need
to put my phone down and like live life
and not so it's hard for me to just go
20 minutes without my phone,
>> but I'll use my jacuzzi or like red
light sauna or something and put the
phone down and then sometimes I'll be in
the jacuzzi for a half an hour and you
just think and I've been thinking a lot
and you reflect on how I could have been
a better boyfriend, how I could have I
don't think back and like be like I was
a victim. This person never loved me. I
don't think that way. I always think of
I'm used to being like I've got like
five people mad at me at all times and
I'm always trying to use humor to gloss
it over and keep everyone happy. It's
like the the balls I mentioned earlier
juggling. I'm trying to keep everyone
happy and
>> um and I tease everyone so there I
always piss some people off like you
know like going too far. So I'm always
trying to make everyone happy but I
realized I was I never made anyone feel
that special and I I could have been a
lot better. So, I've been following like
the Gotman's. They're like the
relationship expert.
>> Had them on the show, too. They're
awesome.
>> You've had them on the show? Oh my god.
>> I don't listen to podcasts, by the way.
I [laughter] don't even listen to
>> I don't expect you Joe Rogan episode or
anything.
>> That's all stuff we like.
>> Like, I love you guys. I love Huberman.
I love Joe Rogan. I just don't listen to
podcasts ever.
>> Yeah, we had the Gmans on a long time
ago.
>> Okay, so the Gutman's I've been
listening to John Gottman. I'm like,
man, that's how you're supposed to be?
[laughter] Yeah. Now I know why I'm
single. Like but yeah. So
>> have you have you connect have you uh
since you're going down this rabbit hole
I mean I find all this stuff interesting
this conversation um have you have you
connected it to um childhood stuff or
like what is what is cuz a lot of times
it's there's something that
subconsciously you're running from you
don't even know it. Have you connected?
>> So that's another thing I've been doing.
I've been going to therapy twice a week
for three years now and it's it's
luckily I make good money but that's
expensive if you didn't make I mean if
if your therapist is
>> you know 250 bucks an hour or something
that's 500 bucks a week
>> you know 52 weeks a year you're looking
at 26,000 a year just for therapy
therapy but anyway
>> um yeah so I've I've figured out a lot
of things about myself like an anxious
attachment style things like that but
also just watching John got me he got
through to me
>> and I'm like what a loving man and a
supportive man and he's like when
>> when you know Julia sits down to talk
he'll take out a notepad
>> I feel like I was always arguing to win
in the past
>> being the scientist like I want to win
>> cool you you won you won the argument
and then you're sleeping on the couch
that night you know so you lost so have
you I'm sure you are fascinated with all
the research they've done like they
they've done some really cool
>> I I've never pulled up the actual
studies you got some the most duplicated
studies in uh mental health because
mental health studies are very difficult
to duplicate. I think 60% of them they
can't but Gman studies they've repeated
their prediction on divorce is like
crazy.
>> Well, I I quote them like the four
horsemen of relationship like contempt
being the worst.
>> Have you seen back to uh I think it was
Arthur Brooks that said this the other
day. This this was another I'm going off
on a tangent. He said the dark triad. If
you have uh narcissism,
>> macavlianism,
>> macavelianism, and psychopathy,
>> it's like that's the dark triad. Like I
>> I I it's all about me.
>> Y
>> the end justifies the means. I will do
whatever it takes to get what I want and
I will feel no guilt in that guilt.
Yeah.
>> But anyway, I've been I've been paying
more attention to this stuff.
>> Have you seen the podcast with Arthur
and his wife where they talk Esther? No.
>> Those are the ones you got to watch.
>> Really?
>> They're phenomenal. They're phenomenal.
It's it's it's you realize, all right,
what what was I good at in life? I was
good at personal training. Go figure. I
love it. Um I'm naturally love if you
love something so much.
>> You're going to be good at it.
>> I I loved relationships, but I wasn't
ready to settle down.
>> A lot of guys can be there in their 20s.
I feel like I took to like my late 40s
to really really want to prioritize a
relationship. [snorts] And you know,
Chris Rock said it in a skit a long time
ago, like a man is as faithful as his
options. [laughter]
>> And as I got more popular, I realized,
wow, I have more females are into me,
but then you reach 50 and you're like
invisible.
>> I don't get hit on. People will be like,
nice thirst trap you posted on your
story. I'm like, you think that people
respond to me? [laughter] Like in their
minds, I'm getting like 50 women being
like, heart, heart, heart. Like, no,
[laughter] I'm posting that for me. I'm
making myself feel good.
>> I'm invisible. And in my 30s, I didn't
make any money in my younger 30s, but I
was I was getting hit on by, you know,
superm models in in Spain and stuff. And
I'm like, now I have all the money and I
[laughter] I don't get hit on at all.
And even I've noticed with my clients
like like I feel like they all have
admiration for me and they love me but
they like the 30-year-olds. I'm too old.
I don't want to date I don't want to
date someone in their transition into
dad now. It's
>> I'm dad now and and the women that come
get form the closest bonds with me are
the women who had daddy issues
>> and I'm like a father figure to them.
And it's it's and and I like I love it
cuz I like the
>> closeness, but then I sabotage my
ability to have a a girlfriend
>> and I've made a lot of mistakes along
the way. It's always been my fault. Um
every relationship I had, I feel like I
was good at blaming. I'm good at like
and everyone takes my side, you know,
cuz I can describe things in a way that
[laughter] like But then I this whole
last 18 months I sit in the jacuzzi. I'm
like, "Oh my god, it's been me the whole
time. [laughter] I'm the problem. Well,
have you have you uh any any recent
breakthroughs going through the therapy?
Have you had a recent breakthrough?
>> No, it's it's more like for me trying to
like you express things but not dwell on
them. Like I don't ever want to go down
the road of I had a therapist years in
2020 and she was like, Brett, I I
what I was going through at the time,
she's she said, "I have sympathy for you
and I do believe you've been dealt a bad
hand here. like you're a victim in this
case, but I just can implore you, never
have victim mindset.
>> Yeah.
>> If you and she said this to me and it
changed my life. It made so much sense.
She goes, "If you go if you develop a
victim mindset, you stop in your tracks.
You will stagnate the rest of your
life." I have a a couple that I've been
seeing off and on for 20 years. And the
the man and the wife split up. The man
went and remarried. He has two kids.
He's happy, you know, I barely see him
anywhere. He's so happy. He moved on
with his life and the woman is still
complaining to this day 20 years later
about the relationship. That's all she
wants to talk about.
>> And I want, oh, I do not ever want to be
like that. So, for me, it's like
>> realizing I need to take time
>> and the the women that I pick um it like
I thought it could work out. What I
realize is I need to I need to notice
red flag not not necessarily like red
flags for everyone but like what were
what would be red flags for sustaining a
relationship for me if you know cuz
[snorts] I'm older and people are
sometimes like you should be with this
influencer. I don't want to date a
popular influencer. It's all about them.
I don't want to be their photo you're
their photographer in life you know
>> and I not to mention you've lived that
life already.
>> I've lived that life. I want to settle
down and I want and you think I also
think the world changed a little bit
>> and men have always been so had the
upper hand and it's been all about men
and we've been
>> um but now women the world changed and
women are more picky now and they want
they want to have um they they want
their men to have the the whole package
and I and it's because of Only Fans it's
because of social media being an
influencer You can crush it as an
entrepreneur now if you want.
>> You can crush it. Not just only like I
have
>> people like clients that aren't only
Only Fans. They don't post nude. They
post sexy pictures, but it's never it's
not nude. And they might make four grand
a month that way and then two grand a
month in this vent like this avenue and
another two grand this way. and they're
they're making 10 grand a month do being
influencers, you know, and and having
fun and and they wake up they don't wake
up to alarm. They don't have a boss
breathing down their neck and they're
loving life and they tend to get free
stuff all the time. So, they're loving
their life and they don't need a man.
So, if they're going to be with a man,
what do you add to my how do you add to
my life? And so in Florida, I I realize
this in South Florida, there's a lot of
um transactional relationships and
neither side are happy because you have
the you have the the woman that's with
the man just for money and it's never
enough. Um it's never enough. And the
man who yeah, he can if he's if he has
money, he can upgrade. He might be a six
and he can date a 10, but he knows he
has to pay for it. So the woman is is
like, "Man, I could date this
short king in Dubai paying me a million
a month. This guy's giving me 10 grand a
month. I could get a hundred grand a
month if I dated this guy." So she's
always comparing
>> cuz they tell they talk they tell
stories. Things things overheard in my
gym sometimes in Florida.
>> Oh my god. Um, so they tell stories, but
then the man is going, I could get
someone who just loves me and wants to
be with me without money. So they're
both resentful, and it doesn't work in
my opinion.
>> What you're looking for is a wife, not a
girlfriend. Yes. And a mother is what
you're looking for. Not your mother, but
a mother to your children.
>> Yeah.
>> And so those are the qualities you want
to look for. What kind of a mother do I
want for my kids? What are those
qualities? And what is a wife?
>> What are the qualities I'm looking for
in a wife? And and when you pull from
that pool of women, then I think you'll
find
>> somebody different.
>> My therapist says, "Go do things."
>> Yeah.
>> Cuz I just travel around and I'm always
in the gym and I need to do a fan on
that.
>> I'm also I'm not on dating apps and I
don't put out the vibe that I'm looking.
I don't
>> Well, this episode will come out. We'll
see if
>> I know you get flooded. [laughter]
>> I don't know.
>> Too exhausting though filtering through
and
>> Yeah. [laughter]
>> But I also realized that Give me your
therapist, your therapist money, and
I'll call you once a week and I'll
filter all the the data. I'll kill two
birds, one stone. I got you.
>> There we go. There we go. [laughter] But
I also realized, this is kind of funny.
>> Um, I I dressed up for a wedding two
weekends ago. And then a couple weekends
before that, my my squad threw me in my
50th birthday party. And
>> and they made me dress up. It was like a
fancy dressed. And I'm like, I would
have rather had a jort and tank top
party, you know. [laughter]
But I realized I get way more attention.
And I realized this cuz um one time it
was like St. Patrick's Day. This is a
funny story. I was walking down in San
Diego. I was walking down the street and
it was St. Patty's Day. And I went to
the gym. I'd bring a backpack. I'd have
my computer in there so I could work
while I lifted. And it was late. I'd
lift, this was like 2020ish,
and I'd lift weights late at night.
>> I don't do that now. Now I try to focus
more on sleep and my health. But anyway,
I was walking by this bar. Thrusters is
kind of by my house and there's this big
old long line and I'm like, "Excuse me,
I need to get through." And this guy was
drunk and he's like he's like, "Uh,
you know, I was like, "Excuse me, can I
get through?" He goes, "Walk around."
And I'm like, "You know, I don't need
your permission, right? I could just
remove you." And his [laughter]
his his girlfriend goes, "Babe, listen
to me. It's a lot bigger than you." And
she and he goes, he looks at his
girlfriend. He goes, "Honey, he's
homeless."
>> What? [laughter]
>> It was like, you know, at the end of the
movie where the mug drops in slow motion
and you have all these realizations, oh
my god, I've got this scraggly beard
[laughter]
George and tank top and a backpack.
>> I don't even know what to say right now.
And [laughter]
you know, I drive
>> Oh, man.
>> I drive a 2012 Toyota Tacoma. And I
drive so little. It's about It's at like
985,000
miles. Like, it's about to get the 100.
I don't even have 100,000 miles on my
truck, but I like I have a 2024 in San
Diego. I like the 2012 more. I I mean,
that's truck I couldn't sell it for five
grand, I don't think. I don't care about
cars. I bought this just to wear for
things like this. I don't wear this in
[laughter] real life. This Rolex, I
don't even know what the heck.
>> I'm so glad I didn't ask you the model
cuz you are going to be able to answer
it. Are you
>> nothing about Rolexes? [laughter]
I know nothing about jewelry. I don't
care about and it's kind of a cool
feeling like I don't care about money
that all my people, my family and
friends care more about my money than I
do. I'm happy. I go to the gym every
day. I don't need anything else. I'm not
trying to buy a nicer house. I'm not
trying I don't care about cars.
>> Um and I clearly don't care about
dressing. But [laughter] I did notice
the two times I dressed up, I got so
much attention. And I'm like, "Oh my
god, that's just don't look homeless and
[laughter]
>> don't look homeless and you'll get the
lesson."
>> Maybe we'll find a wife if you That's
all I got to do.
>> Get you out of fights, I guess.
[laughter]
>> So good.
>> Well, Brent, this was great, man.
>> It's a lot of fun having you on.
>> Yeah, it's too long. I I can't believe
we let that much time. We won't let that
much time go by next time. So,
>> but yeah, you're one of the good guys in
the fitness space. Uh we we appreciate
you. The way you communicate things. Um,
you you do a good job and I think we
need more.
>> It's good to have people like you in our
space because there's so much noise
>> and you've been doing this for a while,
but in through that period of time,
you've seen people come up and down.
>> Uh,
>> you listen to the podcast, you hear how
many times we pump your tires. We pump
your tires all the time. No, people tell
me and I always I always tell if anyone
ever says,
>> "What podcast would I listen?" I say
mind pump for for fitness.
>> I don't think there's any better one out
there. But um yeah, it's it's we've seen
we've seen the industry change and we've
seen
it's the the era of the fake trainers.
Like think about most of these popular
people, they've literally never trained
anyone ever had a client
>> 23 years old and they're million
followers arguing with me on on
Instagram
>> and like imagine
>> feeling confident and like arguing with
someone when you've never had experience
in the field. It's crazy and
>> it's crazy and that's what we're dealing
with. So, it's nice to that's why we can
have and that's why I always say
>> I always train people because you know
Arnold said that in his like I watched
his documentary
be useful.
>> Mhm.
>> Yeah.
>> You got to stay useful. That's the
secret.
>> Yeah.
>> So, it keeps me being useful but also
keeps me interesting.
Have one of those guys on the podcast.
What would he talk about? He only has
his own experience.
>> That's why we never have any of them on
our podcast.
Like I, you know, Louis Simmons, you
knew he really trained people. He
>> he'd go, I trained this, you know, this
guy, this guy Kenny Patterson had this
much. He was benching 600 lb and he'd be
reeling off numbers. And I realize I
kind of do that, too. Like when you
really train people, you're like, I took
this person's strength from this to this
or I built their I put two inches on
this person's glutes doing this. You
have actual have stories to tell.
>> Yeah.
>> And so you will it's how to stay
marketable when you're 50 on social
media. I don't understand social media
the way the younger crowd does anymore.
And so I have to stay competitive. I do
that by staying on top of the research,
lifting weights myself, and then
training other people, which is the most
important component, and it's what I
love doing anyway. So, I I had that epi
to close this up, I had this epiphany
that if you don't care if you if you
saved up enough money and you don't
really care about it that much and you
found what you like to do and you know,
I would be doing this if I won the
lottery or if I was dirt poor.
>> I I love training people and being in
charge of their fitness. And I love when
people are like, I need to step it up. I
need to get in shape and they can call
me and I will be equally as enthusiastic
as they are about it. It's a lucky way
to live life. And I think it's the
missing element. It's what Arthur Brooks
talks about. A lot of the younger
generation, they don't have a purpose.
They have a missing element to
themselves because they're always on
their phones. And you don't figure out
the meaning of life when you're staring
at your phone 24 hours a day. You figure
out when you're bored.
>> And we came up in an era where we had to
be bored. we had to figure stuff out.
So, I'm glad that we came up when we did
before social media, before the internet
was huge, before AI. I'm I I love the
prospects of AI and everything and we've
benefited very much from social media,
but I do like that we've been we've been
able to experience two extremes of life,
you know.
>> Agreed. Agreed, man. Well, Brett, thanks
for coming on the show, dude.
>> Great time, dude.
>> Thank you for having me. Greatly
appreciate it.
>> Thank you.
>> All right. I know you like that episode.
If you did, check this one out. One of
the keys to fat loss is protein. It's
true. If you're not eating a high
protein diet, you're not going to burn
as much body fat as you can. So, today's
episode, we're going to talk about the
smartest ways to use protein for fat
burn and to build muscle. You got to
watch this. I wish [music] I understood
this earlier in my career. I think it
was probably
almost 10 years in when I started to
just focus [music] on this with clients.
>> I knew it was important, but I don't
know how important.
>> Yeah, I also did. I knew it was
important and but I also