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Will Ahmed and his guest discuss the dramatic decline of CrossFit, attributing its downfall to a combination of leadership dysfunction, racial controversies surrounding Greg Glassman during the Black Lives Matter era, and poor management following recent tragedies. While acknowledging that CrossFit was once a highly successful grassroots movement with rapid adoption rates comparable to modern boutique fitness brands like Hyrox or F42, they argue that internal operational failures created an environment where users were turned off by intimidation rather than community. The conversation highlights how the void left by CrossFit's struggles has allowed other micro-communities and lower-impact activities to flourish, though it is noted that these new pursuits also face inherent challenges like high injury rates or accessibility issues. The dialogue shifts to broader fitness trends tracked through Whoop data, identifying pickleball as a major growth area in 2023 followed by paddle sports in 2024 and 2025. A significant portion of the discussion focuses on sleep, which has become more important than step counting for many users; however, only about 22% of people achieve over seven hours of rest. The speakers emphasize that consistency is paramount to circadian rhythm health, warning against "social jet lag" where weekend catch-up sleep cannot offset weekday deficits. Global data reveals interesting outliers, such as late bedtimes in the Middle East due to cultural habits and stimulants like caffeine or nicotine substituting for alcohol, while Ireland stands out for high alcohol consumption and Australia/US for higher reported sexual activity rates. Beyond fitness metrics, Will Ahmed reflects on his personal journey as an only child entrepreneur who faced significant skepticism regarding ageism when launching Whoop at 22 years old against established giants like Nike and Apple. He recounts painful rejections from investors and industry veterans in the nightlife sector during the late 2000s, illustrating how young innovators often struggle to gain respect for their ideas until they have proven success. Ahmed argues that failure is frequently over-romanticized; while learning from mistakes is valuable, he believes most startups fail due to common reasons like poor product-market fit or cash flow issues rather than a lack of innovation. He suggests that true growth comes from taking calculated risks and moving faster, even if it means failing occasionally, rather than waiting for 100% confidence which eliminates the possibility of iteration. The conversation concludes with detailed insights into daily routines optimized for performance and longevity, including morning rituals involving meditation, cold plunges, sauna sessions, and specific dietary choices like low-carb breakfasts to maintain mental clarity. Ahmed shares his strategies for managing jet lag during extensive travel, such as avoiding food on planes, drinking hydrogen water from Echo Go bottles, and strictly adhering to local sleep schedules without napping. He also touches upon the upcoming launch of Whoop 5.0, which features new capabilities like heart screening, blood pressure monitoring, and a "Whoop Age" metric designed to track health span rather than just fitness metrics. Ultimately, both speakers agree that while external circumstances often dictate success through luck or timing, internal consistency in sleep, diet, and mindset forms the foundation for overcoming life's inevitable challenges.
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Dude, how high and how hard did CrossFit
drop the ball over the last few years?
Wow.
CrossFit. Well, CrossFit is first of all
a great grassroots st um it's a great
grassroots movement in the sense that
like it literally began as an email list
and it's amazing to think how far they
were able to go with that. And then
you've got the Greg Glassman racism
stuff and like the craziness during
Black Lives Matter. And then you've got
this whole new leadership team that
comes in. By the way, around that time,
we became partners with CrossFit. And I
mean, I've now been building Whoop for
uh 13 years. Without question, the most
dysfunctional partner we've ever worked.
um like and we've worked with a lot of
partners like that like and a lot of
dysfunction I imagine as well a lot of
different partners and uh and then the
tragedy at this recent event I I don't
know the whole thing is so poorly run
it's hard to even talk about it cuz it's
such a missed opportunity. I've never
seen
anybody fumble the bag so hard in like
in fitness. If you'd said 10 years ago,
2015,
uh actually probably when was peak 2017,
probably 2018, something like that, like
absolute peak CrossFit, I think. So,
yeah. Yeah. Uh if you'd said then what
the
next seven, eight years had in store, no
one would have believed you. It's it's
it's outrageous. And I think
it a lot of people when they look at
businesses from the outside, they see
sophistication, they see popularity,
they see uh rate of adoption. The thing
that nobody sees is what the internal
operations of that company is like. And
sometimes it can be all shiny shiny and
perfect out front and inside is just a
total like mess. It's just a a dumpster
fire. And uh it feels like that might be
the case. And they also had like a great
community and a great brand which are
two things that are that are pretty
resilient like when things go wrong and
there's like elements of dysfunction and
even with that I mean it's unbelievable
how yeah how sorry of a place it is now
turning people that whatever consume
your product or are a user into an
evangelist for it. I mean it everybody's
new fitness pursuit is their most
exciting thing. You know every vegan
wants to tell you about veganism and
every CrossFitter wanted to tell you
about CrossFit and every high rocks
athlete wanted to tell you about high
rocks and then now every run club person
is trying to get you to go to their run
club on a Saturday morning and do a 5K.
Uh but
yeah, the level of adoption that
CrossFit had and the pace of change. Uh,
and I think I I get the sense that the
only reason we're seeing Hier rocks and
sort of hybrid training come through is
because of the hole that has been left
by sort of the exiting of of CrossFit.
There's some new things. It's a bit it's
lower impact. Maybe it's a little bit
more accessible to go into a High Rocks
event than it would have been to have
tried to go to sectionals or do a local
CrossFit comp. Like I'd rather do burpee
broad jumps than try and do a snatch or
a handstand walk. But uh yeah, I don't
think I think Hyrox's ascendancy can be
laid to the feet of what CrossFit
dropped. I think there's an opportunity
for a lot of these different like
fitness communities. I mean, you have
F42, you've got Berries, you've got
Orange Theory, you've got uh these
different types of Pilates studios, and
like it sort of seems
like people are looking almost for the
new thing, and that in turn allows for
these different, you know, micro
communities to pop up around a
particular activity. And at the end of
the day, I think, you know,
weightlifting for a lot of people is
intimidating. Exercise is lonely and
hard. like, you know, it makes sense
that there are these uh boutique
communities, so to speak. And so, I
wouldn't actually attribute the success
of these other communities solely to
CrossFit's downfall. I think CrossFit in
itself, it probably appeals to you and
me, but, you know, it had a high injury
rate before they even had dysfunction as
as a company. Uh, it is like a pretty
intimidating workout out of the gates.
Like there's a lot of people that it's
you don't just go in and have a gentle
crossfit. There's a lot of people it's
going to turn off like right out of the
gate. So Mhm. Yeah. You can go and plot
along in a 5K, but you can't do that in
a CrossFit class. Yeah. Yeah. What are
you seeing from a fitness
industry perspective at the moment? What
is sort of the broad trends that you've
been able to track over however long
you've been watching everything?
So last year the biggest uptick was
pickle ball. Let's go. And then in the
last so so I mean
2023 actually and then 2024
uh the biggest we saw was paddle. So two
racket sports interestingly pickle ball
grew a lot in the United States. Paddle
um which people in the states call pedel
but paddle um which is what it's called
internationally
uh has just taken off. And so that's a
pretty fascinating game too. I grew up
playing squash and tennis. So for me,
paddle's like maybe the most fun game
I've ever played cuz it's a sort of
perfect hybrid of the two. Are you
familiar with what it looks like? Yeah.
So it's, you know, the whole glass
courts all the way around and you're
sort of you're sort of in a tennis court
in um like, you know, a glass cage and
you can essentially play the ball off of
anything and it's uh it's pretty dynamic
and fun. And is this based on the number
of activities tracked? Yeah, in terms of
like the percent percentage increase of
activities we've seen on Whoop, that was
that was the biggest one last. So, you
guys are kind of like a fitness trend
aggregator now. Yeah, we've got a lot of
data, that's for sure. Uh the the thing
that people still struggle with the most
is sleep. It's amazing
how
um you know like 20 I think it's 22% of
people on Whoop um get over 7 hours of
sleep. So just think about that that
like you know roughly 80% of people are
getting less than seven hours of sleep.
Uh, and I think
sleep sometime in the last like 5 years
became the new steps where all of a
sudden people just realized that was an
important thing to care about and steps
maybe in turn was a less important thing
to care about in the grand scheme of
things. And uh yeah, we've we've
certainly benefited from people's
enthusiasm towards sleep, but it's yeah,
it's super important. It's hard to
track. I I've said this for a long time
that as soon as you begin using any
fitness tracker, the first thing that
you learn is you're not sleeping
anywhere near as much as you thought you
were. Yeah. It's a very painful You're
like, "No, I got 8 hours." It's like,
"No, dude. You were in bed for 7 and 1
half and you were asleep at 6:45."
Yeah. That that's the trap is people
previously if you ask them how much
sleep did they get last night. They're
like, "Well, I went to bed at 11:00. I
woke up at 6:00. I got 7 hours of
sleep." and then they realize after you
do all the factoring of time awake and
this yeah it's 5 and a half hours of
sleep and uh yeah so you know one of the
things we recently did was update how we
we think about sleep where it's less
just the total hours that you got versus
how much you needed and it's now um also
looking at sleep consistency efficiency
and stress and so it's sort of a better
it took us a while to get there but it
we did a lot of research around what is
quality sleep and Uh, one of the biggest
things that shows up in the research is
the importance of um, consistency, which
is going to bed and waking up at the
same time. And you and I were just
talking about how hard that is in
general. I mean, you you the nightclub
promoter, you the new dad. Yeah. So,
that's probably my worst metric on Whoop
in part because travel just nukes it.
So, for people wondering how it's
calculated, like for the last you look
at like the for the last four nights,
how similarly was your bedtime and wake
time? And if you travel over time zones,
that that of course factors into your to
your consistency. And uh but essentially
there's all this research just showing
that uh if you can build uh you know a
sort of continuity around bed and wake
times, your your overall circadian
rhythm, your overall performance of your
body longevity. I mean it's one of the
um key indicators we discovered when we
built this health span score uh for um
you know o overall health span and and
actually all cause mortality. I had Dr.
Matthew Walker sat here and he was
telling me about how for some people
that are I think they're like circadian
sensitive. I actually unfortunately
think that I'm one of these people. Uh
sleep consistency and regularity are
more important than sleep duration.
Yeah. And that means that the classic,
well, you know, I get good sleep during
the week, but I kind of send it on a
weekend. It is actually not, you can't
do that. You can't accumulate sleep debt
Monday through Friday and then pay it
off on Saturday or Sunday or do the
reverse. Um, and that, you know, [ __ ]
about with the time that you go to bed
and the time that you wake up is
actually like pretty detrimental. Yeah,
we call that uh social jet lag. And
uh it's interesting for a lot of people
on Whoop. It's it's quite common
that they lock in for Yeah. They're good
for 5 days and then on the weekend it's
like off by 3 hours and they're kind of
back to the What's people's worst day of
sleep typically? Do you know? Uh it's
either Friday or Saturday night in the
US. Now it's interesting now that Whoop
is global. We have a lot of different
perspectives on this, but the Middle
East with sleep is crazy. They're like
in their own world. How so? So, the
average bedtime in Riad or in Doha is
like 1:55 a.m. No way. Yeah. I think
Doha is the latest. I think it's like a
little after 2 a.m. What do you
attribute that to? So, late night food,
shisha, bars. Yeah. So, those are two
countries that for the most part don't
drink alcohol. And so, I think in part
they're substituting that with things
like caffeine and nicotine. And so like
those are stimulants that are going to
keep you up later. It's a good
justification for letting alcohol into
your country to just bring that bedtime.
Dial that back in. Um yeah. So I think
it's entirely cultural. It's
interesting. What else? What is some
other outlier countries that are
interesting with some odd metrics? Uh
Ireland uh drinks more alcohol than
everyone else.
Maybe maybe that's not too unexpected.
Um
I think Australia and the US report um
the highest rates of sex. Okay, that's
interesting. Uh so so uh good for them.
Um uh cold plunging I think is very
popular in Sweden relative to other
countries. Finlandas probably. Yeah,
Finland
persona.
Uh and then there's there's very
activity specific stuff like you know
certain countries do way more of like um
uh certain activities like in the US the
top three activities are like walking,
running and cycling. And then like after
that it's like functional fitness and
weightlifting which is you know kind of
like the order of operations that you'd
expect. Um, but then like in the in the
UK for example, they've got like a much
higher uh weightlifting uh culture
interestingly. So like that replaces
cycling and Yeah. Well, it's also
freezing cold and wet so I don't think
people want to be out on the road. Why
is there no bodybuilding on the app? I
think we have
powerlifting and we have weightlifting.
Neither of those are functional fitness.
No, neither of those are bodybuilding.
Me and all my bros in the gym like,
"Fuck, I got to pretend that I did
snatch and [ __ ] clean and joke
today." The What do you What do you
define as power lifting? Bodybuilding or
excuse me, bodybuilding versus
powerlifting. A normal push per leg
split, a sort of 8 to 14 rep range, not
working to the goal of strength and not
working to the goal of specific
movements, but working to the goal of
hypertrophy. It wouldn't be intense
enough to be called functional fitness
or varied enough to be that. uh
weightlifting, the sport of Olympic
weightlifting, right, is the snatch and
the clean and jerk. Powerlifting is SPD,
squat bench deadlift. And if I go in and
I
do, you know,
4x4 on bicep curls, what do I log that
as? I So I I put it in as weightlifting,
which I assume is what most other people
are doing, too, cuz you are lifting
weights. Okay, we'll add it. We'll add
it. We'll we'll have an activity for
bodybuilding. My my my my gym bros, I've
done it. God, it's only taken me five or
six years to do it. Um, I found out
something during my research. I found
out that you're an only child, too. And
this is going to be kind of like a
immovable object and an unstoppable
[ __ ] force as two only children meet.
Um, have you ever reflected or do you
reflect much on how that influenced you?
Sort of how it shaped your personality,
the things that you expect, the way that
you were socialized, how you showed up
as a young man and now an older man is a
great question. I mean, I
think the first obvious thing is
that I do think only children are more
self-centered. Like, I think that
there's an element of
uh if there's things that
you want in life, there's sort of an
element that you believe you can go get
them. Uh, and I think that that's
probably something that that only
children uh have a stronger gravitation
to or comes more naturally. There's also
another element which is that you at
least for me I found I spent a lot of
time with adults when I was a kid and I
would travel with my parents to
different countries and um and so I also
got comfortable around being people like
sitting at a dining room table with like
seven other adults in me
and strangely the two things that I just
described actually boded well for being
a young entrepreneur
because I think so much of building
anything, it's probably even so much of
like what do you want to do in life
is knowing what you want and figuring
out how to get what you
want.
And I think that knowing what you want
is like a deeply
um it it requires a deep sort of inwards
reflection. I think the mistake that a
lot of people make, particularly when
they're young, like I started whoop when
I was 22 years old. The mistake that a
lot of people make when they're that
age, is they ask everyone else what they
should do and they don't ask themselves.
And so I think the the the best path of
trying to figure out what you want, like
knowing what you want, is to look
inwards. And as an only child, you also
spend a lot of time alone. And so
looking inwards is sort of a natural
thing. Second nature. Yeah. Uh and then
there's of course like practices that
you can develop to look inwards like I
got into meditating and we could talk
about that but um so looking inwards was
something I became comfort you know
comfortable with and
um and then the process of getting what
you want I think is actually it's really
important to get outwards like to go be
around a lot of people and you know
essentially try to ask for what you want
in the world and get rejected a lot and
sort of deal with that and again the
mistake that a lot of people make when
they're trying to get what they want is
they actually become
isolationist. And so there's an
interesting, you know, um, irony to this
whole concept of get what you want and
or, you know, discover what you want and
get what you want. Um, but then I think
there's also an element with being an
only child where
uh, you can build up you you potentially
can build up more self-esteem because
your parents have more time to sort of,
you know, pay attention to you, right?
And I, you know, I have great parents
and they they loved me considerably. And
I think that helped with self-esteem,
you know, probably throughout my
childhood and and growing up, which
probably in turn when I was starting a
company made me more resilient in the
face of rejection. You believe that you
can do things that other people might
have had second thoughts about.
Yeah. Yeah. Now, I also had a lot of
conviction in what I was building. more
conviction in the thing than I had in
myself, which is an interesting concept
in itself. But like I believed that what
I was building should exist in the world
and would exist in the world. And what I
struggled with for years in building it
was can I do this? Am I capable of this?
Oh gosh, I feel like I'm under a lot of
stress or I feel like I'm under a lot of
pressure or um I don't know the answers
to these things or how do I hire someone
or how do I fire someone or how do I
raise money? Like for me it was it was
dealing with that sort of trauma of
building the company.
How did you learn
to get past your self-doubt? Have you
got past your self-doubt? How much does
it still creep in?
I don't have a lot of self-doubt now. I
think that
uh I think that I'm I'm I've gotten good
at um questioning why I have conviction
in things and then you know sort of
examining that through other people's
perspectives or through my own
uh you know sort of deeper examination
if you will. I don't think that um you
ever stop entirely having self-doubt and
you probably shouldn't you know because
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resonate with a lot of the points you
made. Certainly, the spending much time
on your own. Um, the uncertainty, the
self-doubt. There's something I want to
do, but I don't know if I can do it. Am
I the person to do it? I think it should
be here. I think this is something
that's important. But is it my role, my
capac do I have the capacity to bring
this thing into existence? I certainly
feel that. And I think this is a
regardless of how many brothers or
sisters you had, I think this is a
pretty perennial problem. people who are
growthminded and have high standards,
insecure overachievers,
they they position an ideal and then
they compare themselves to the ideal and
they find themselves falling short by
design because that's what an ideal is.
Uh or you set big goals or you have a
dream or you have whatever whatever it
is that you want to do. Uh, and also
sort of programmed into just the typical
cadence of how this stuff works
is you have something you're chasing
toward and you're uncertain about
whether or not you're going to get there
right up until basically the moment you
get there and then the second you get
there you move the goalpost again. So
there's no point at which you feel like
you've arrived. So you very rarely
actually sit in accomplishment and
gratitude. So, if you're permanently
doing this iterative sort of I get close
and I move away and I get close and I
move away and I get close and I move
away. If you're permanently doing
that, at what point are you not going to
feel like you're lacking? You're
permanently in lack because you continue
to push it further away, continue to
push it. I think all of this sort of
combined together creates this uh a soup
that's probably pretty fertile to grow
self-doubt out of. But at least for me,
I realized this last year. I did this
live show in London. It was kind of a
formative a little bit of a formative
moment. It was three and a half thousand
people at this big theater and I was
like, "Holy fuck." Like, I'm on stage in
front of three and a half thousand
people. This is insane. And uh someone
asked me, we do these uh people can come
and watch the sound check that are in
the first few rows. And uh someone asked
me a question. They said, "So, did you
think is this part of the plan? Did you
think you were going to get here?" I the
poster child for imposter syndrome in a
lot of ways. uh chronic self-doubt, a
lot of uncertainty, but I think kind of
in the same way that you said, which is
if you believe that this thing is
supposed to exist in the world and if
you really like the thing and you kind
of you almost outsource your own
self-doubt to well, this has got rocket
fuel behind it and I'm just going to
keep seeing if that thing can come and I
can't tell anybody else to bring it into
existence, so I might as well have a
crack at it myself. And if you're
sufficiently stubborn, kind of before
you know it, you you don't fake it until
you make it. You sort of make it until
you believe it. And then you go, "Oh,
like I this is a thing. This is a
company. Like there's a tracker and it
actually tells people that there's a
podcast and oh my god, I'm on stage in
front of all of these people." Or, you
know, this is I managed to get the
degree or I managed to move out of the
the town that I hated or I managed to
find a partner. I managed to build a f
whatever it is that you thought like
this thing is supposed to exist. I don't
know if I'm a person that can do it, but
I'm just going to keep sort of grinding
away until it happens. And then when you
actually turn around and look, you go,
"Oh, I guess this is what arriving is."
Yeah, that's really well said. I mean,
for me in
building Whoop, it was helpful to sort
of disassociate building the company and
building myself as a CEO or an
entrepreneur. And I think in the for
years like I had kind of wrapped those
two things up as one. And so if you know
if Whoop had a good day, I had a good
day. If Whoop had a bad day, I had a bad
day. If Whoop was failing, I was
failing. And uh and it's not a
particularly productive sort of framing,
if you will, for actually growing either
yourself or the business. And the
reality is
that, you know, the business could be
doing great and you could be spiraling
out of control or vice versa. You know,
how many businesses suffered during
COVID to no fault of their management
team, right? And so there's it it just
it's it's quite important to separate
those two things I think literally. And
then I realized also that if I didn't
start growing better, I was going to be
the detriment to Whoop growing because
as the CEO, lame duck in your own
company. Yeah. Because as the CEO, if
you're, you know, projecting all sorts
of stresses and and uh you're not
managing the company properly and you're
kind of spinning out of control
yourself, uh well, the business isn't
it's very difficult to have an orderly
company and a chaotic founder. Yeah.
Yeah. Um and and so I felt Yeah. I felt
especially early on I was very much that
chaotic founder. Now, it's hard to it's
hard to go back and say, "Well, I wish I
could change the way I behaved for the
first few years of the company's history
because there is an element of and I I
think I believe this. There's an element
of you change one thing and you know,
everything else changes going forward
going on." Yeah. And of course, I'm I'm
super grateful with where I sit today
and and you know what we've been able to
build, but
um yeah, I I I put up real walls in
those. So that the period of like 22
probably to 24 25 of just like real
walls to anyone's feedback and I was so
certain about things and I was so
stubborn and I think it's in in a way
it's a good it's a it's a helpful
mechanism to get something off the
ground because there's no ambiguity
but you're very hard to work with.
I hear the same thing from the people
that I work with. Yeah. Uh maybe a
little bit of only child syndrome
showing through that. Yeah. There you
go. Yeah, from both of us, my business
partners would agree.
Um, I really resonate with, and this is
something, you
know, no matter what your pursuit is, if
you're scrabbling a little bit for
meaning, uh, in life, which almost
everybody who's a bit sensitive and
introspective is when they're young,
because who the [ __ ] are you? Like, how
many people arrive at 20 or 23 and like,
"Yeah, I know who I am. I've got a good
strong sense of self. You know, things
don't sway me. Shut up, dude. Of course,
stuff does. You get the weather's bad
and you feel bad about yourself because
you just haven't had enough time to get
those sort of stabilizers down. And I
run nightclubs for for all this time and
and exactly the same. The weird thing
about running events, it's uh kind of
like being a a baseball player. It's
iterative, right? You have as for
especially for us we had this big
Saturday and that was our our big event
from the age of
22
until 28. It was the Saturday that was
our big money maker. The big game so to
speak. Yeah. That was the big one. And
if the event had been successful, I was
worthy. I was I was uh good. Um I was
validated. And if it was bad, then that
was a reflection on me.
Then I managed to get it to this much
more penitious place which was I
dissociated working hard and pain and
difficulty with good outcomes because
typically when you worked a little bit
harder there was some pain that came
along with it but when you worked harder
the outcomes were better but my brain
you're already grinning my brain had
shortcuted the link and it ended up
being if we had an event that went well
but I hadn't suffered that I didn't feel
And I started to make a direct link
between Chris suffered. Chris is good
and worthy. So the event had to go well
first, but I also had to have suffered.
So if it went well and I hadn't
suffered, I that wasn't good. If it went
badly, whether I'd suffered or not, that
didn't matter. So the only key that
unlocked my selfworth for like a good
bit of time was success objectively and
pain subjectively. And if I'd done that,
then hooray, maybe that's okay. So, it's
just it's a really interesting twist, I
guess, on the Puritan work ethic. It's
like a a capitalist Puritan work ethic
where you know that you should be
grinding and you are just in so driven
by dopamine and chaos and and and
caffeine uh and in the nightlife
industry other substances too that you
end up in a place
where you signal off of how hard this
thing was. And then you get into your
30s and you go, "Hey, I want to have a
family or I want to chill out. I want to
be able to go to bed on a nighttime and
my thoughts be a good quality." You go,
"Oh, you need to let go of the entire
pathway catalyst fuel that you were
using previously. Good luck trying to
unwind that." And that's been a task of
basically best part of a decade now for
me to try and unwind that that little
linkage.
Yeah, the unlock for me in that category
has been to be driven and grateful. And
I feel like it's easy to get stuck on
just the drive train and the dopamine
system of, you know, when the company's
worth $und00 million or a billion
dollars or $10 billion. You sort of keep
telling yourself when I get to X, I'm
going to be happy. And what's good about
that from a drive standpoint is it it
drives you there. But of course when you
get there there's sort of enormous
letdown and it's also
uh you have to you have to balance it
with being grateful for the moment that
you're in. And I think a lot of
entrepreneurs worry that or sort of
misinterpret gratitude as complacency.
But I think they're they are
fundamentally different things. and you
know and they work different uh you know
aspects of your brain like the the drive
system is dopamine and the gratitude
system is serotonin and both of those
have a you know a way of making you
happier.
How have you learned to navigate those
two things given that there's still
things you want to achieve and you still
do want to be driven. Yeah. But you
don't want to look back on a series of
miserable successes as a career. No, I
mean, so I I would say my my sort of um
broad operating principle is that I want
to be of service. And that's a helpful
framing because just out of the gates,
it it makes it less about what you
accumulate and more about what you do
for your company or society or your
customers or fill in the blank. And
beyond that, I also um get to work in uh
you know unlocking human performance and
health span and this sort of like uh
what I would call noble mission uh which
is around making people perform better
and you know live longer. And so by by
not having
uh my sole mission be around uh you know
revenue numbers or um company valuation
or those sorts of things like I think
that alone helps you get a little bit
outside of um the miserable successes so
to speak. And so like it's very easy to
um just gloss over numbers that get
bigger and not really associate any
meaning with them. But when you go from
getting um you know one testimonial
every six months to getting hundreds a
week from people that are like your
product changed my life and you get to
stand in front of your company and read
that to 500 people who are you know
blood sweat and tears trying to make
this product
great. You feel something. I mean that
there's a lot of gratitude for me that
comes from that experience. And uh and
so I can still want to push for the
company to be bigger and more successful
and be affecting more people, but I can
also at the same time I think appreciate
the impact that it's having and and
that's I would say will the entrepreneur
or CEO, right? We all have these
different identities and
uh you know I I've I've sort of looked
at hard things that happen in your life
as a path to growth. Like we talked
about early on when I was 22 like not
really knowing what I was doing running
a company and just having to go through
that sort of painful period of of
becoming a better CEO or becoming a
better human. I think that in general
um you know pain in some form leads to
growth and so if you if you kind of
adopt a growth mindset it makes you much
more comfortable with being in that
painful state. Now you don't want to be
you don't want to be in sort of a
masochistic way where you're yeah like
what you just described where you're
like you want to force yourself to be in
pain but more just in the sense that
like wow a bunch of things just went
wrong in a row for me and this is very
painful. Um, like my best friend
committed suicide a little over a year
ago
and that like in my personal life that
was the most pain that I'd ever felt in
my life. I'd never lost anyone um let
alone someone who I had seen you know a
week earlier.
And I think when you're first going
through the um the trauma of an
experience like that, it's hard to find
perspective in it. But, you know, if my
emotional range at that point in my life
was like from a six to a 10 where like,
you know, zero is a bad zero is like the
worst thing in your life and and 10 is
like, you know, you feel great euphoria.
Like, in hindsight, my emotional range
was actually kind of narrow, right? And
so being able to go down to a to a one
or a two for some period of
time actually opened me up in a in a
really healthy way in the months later
and in a way that I never would have
anticipated from having this terrible
thing happen in my life. And uh and so
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just how you reframe everything. But I
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your life that you're feeling some kind
of enormous pain, there is like there is
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How do you keep operating a fast growing
business when personally you've gone
through something like that? I think a
lot of people have to show up to
whatever their job is, whether they're
the founder of a big company or they've
just got a normal position or they've
got to be there for the kids or they've
got to be there for their partner or
whatever it is uh when they're kind of
going through it. How did you come to
I'm sure that you've reflected on this.
How do you come to split brain yourself
into actually being a functional human?
Well, your first
reaction is uh to try to go numb because
that is a coping mechanism. If you don't
feel the pain, you can kind of still get
through the day
and you have to process the emotion. You
have to feel it. And so I think in the
first 10 days of it, I was sort of white
knuckling through it and especially kind
of dayto-day and running the company.
Now, fortunately, the company's also at
a stage where I've got, you know, an
executive team that's that's pretty
functional and um and they knew what I
was going through. It wasn't like uh it
was a secret. Uh and then at least in
this specific case for me,
I I delivered the uh the eulogy um and
it was he I mean he was a very popular
young man and it was in front of 800 or
a thousand people in this massive church
and
uh and so that and that was one of the
hardest things I've ever done in my life
was having to talk about his life um and
you know someone I loved and cared about
and
uh and just a whole wave of emotions
went through me doing that. And so
that one, I felt enormous relief from
doing it. And uh and then, you know, two
in the aftermath of it, I was I was
proud of being able to celebrate his
life. And so there were there was sort
of a weight that was taken off from that
experience. And then of course you deal
with these other stages of grief which
is around like you know I would play
squash with them every week and so now
every time I go to the squash courts
like I think about him or I go to the
steam room and I would say with them. So
you have these different um you have
these different stages of grief but but
I think in the sort of in those first 30
days the the best thing that I could
have done was to go through that huge
like wave of of um painful release of
emotion.
Yeah. It's
uh the classic male denial of any
emotional issue. Yeah, I'm just going to
lean into knowing myself to I can keep
moving. This is what they would have
wanted in any case from me, you know,
logically, emotionally, psychologically,
however you want to try and rationalize.
Yeah. The I just this kind of sucks and
I don't want to feel it.
I I think that that's sort of a natural
uh that's a sort of a natural thing that
any anyone can do because it's it's
scary how your body feels like it's a
physical overwhelming
um uh state and uh and it it's
distracting like you you know you think
you're in the middle of a conversation
next thing you're you're crying. So, I
understand that, but I if anyone's
listening to this who's going through
grief, I would encourage them to um take
whatever time or whatever process they
need to release what they're feeling in
that period.
Interesting that doing a eulogy is in
itself a form of sort of therapeutic
release in in some ways for you. Oh, it
was huge. and and
and I think it was exag it was an
exaggerated experience because I had I
had to write down everything I felt
about him. I had to, you know, deliver
that in front of actually a large number
of people that happened to also be all
of my closest friends and all the
hardcore type of public journal entry
that you're ever going to do. Yeah. And
and it and it was, you know, a large
public speaking event, too, which is,
you know, it's its own form of whatever.
and uh and I had never, you know,
experienced death like that and I wanted
to celebrate someone who was a really
important person in a lot of people's
lives. So, yeah, I think that that it
was a very exaggerated experience and um
I'm I'm I'm grateful that I got to do
that that aspect of it. Yeah, I think uh
just going back to the two points that
you raised earlier on, sort of working
out what you want and then working out
how to get it.
Um, I would hazardly guess that most
people get stuck, think they get stuck
in problem two, but are actually stuck
in problem one. Yeah, that's a great way
to describe it. They're they're kind of
out and about trying to chase a bunch of
things and they're upset they're not
getting what they want, but they've
never actually declared what they want.
How did you investigate what it was that
you wanted? What's some advice that you
have for how people can better define
that?
Well, I think the the first thing to
know is that it's an inwards
examination. You have to ask yourself
what you want. You can't go asking
everyone in your life what you want.
You'll never figure out what you want.
And and so that's that's a very internal
and introspective pursuit. And I do
think
that it's hard when you're young because
you you haven't quite figured out how to
talk to yourself yet. At least I hadn't
when I was 18 or 19 years old. Uh, but
you can be sort of self-aware of things
that you're drawn to. So, let's start
with things that you're not drawn to.
Well, you know, I did a bunch of
internships, so to speak, when I was
like 18, 19, and 20 or whatever, and I
worked in finance, which sort of seemed
like what I should do because other
people I knew were going to go into
finance. And um, and I just didn't enjoy
it. And by the way, in my free time, I
was, you know, doing research on the
fitness industry or the wearables
industry or those sorts of things. And
uh and then you know when I would go uh
play squash practice at Harvard or
whatever uh like I would love working
out and love like pushing myself and and
through that I also was someone who used
to overtrain. So I got interested in how
you can figure you know how can you
understand overtraining and through that
I found myself doing physiology research
on things that in the past I wouldn't
have been interested in or not drawn to
and I think the things that you think
about in a shower or in the back of a
cab like when your mind is quiet so to
speak I think those things really matter
like what are you actually drawn to like
pay attention to that probably the
biggest curse of cell phones and
smartphones is that people aren't bored
anymore and so they actually lose some
of that inner dialogue.
Yeah, I did a lot of therapy last year
and one of the best things that my
therapist reminded me to do was pay
attention to fleeting thoughts and yeah,
that's well said. Specifically, it was
when I was on the cushion, but also
throughout the rest of life. And
fleeting thoughts are quiet, you know,
they sort of appear and they come and go
and quite easily ignore them. And um if
you have some distraction in your
pocket, if the volume that you need the
rest of the world at to be able to hear
fleeting thoughts is so low. Yeah. And
the volume that kind of comes out of
your phone proportionally and mentally,
whatever, cognitively is so high, it's
so loud that it just, you're right, it
doesn't have any room, doesn't have any
space to appear. And yeah, that the
ability to pay attention to fleeting
thoughts and to think, huh? But then you
need to be careful, right? Because the
mind's slippery and sometimes it'll say
stuff to you. You go, "Yeah, that's
[ __ ] That's bullshit." Uh, so
that's a fleeting thought. That's
[ __ ] Sometimes they are. Yeah. But
sometimes it's a I don't know what it
is. I don't know where it comes from. I
don't know. Well, I I would say it's
recurring fleeting thoughts because the
things that matter to you keep coming
back. I at least I've found. And uh and
then I think the other thing that
everyone should learn in some form is is
the ability to close their eyes and
breathe. And whether you call that
meditation or mindfulness or fill in the
blank, develop some process to sit with
yourself.
And what about getting what you want?
Let's say that somebody's managed to set
they've developed the ability to pay
attention to fleeting thoughts. They're
actually working in that
way. Where have you noticed with the
people that are around you, your team,
yourself? What are the pitfalls that
people find when it comes to actually
getting what they want, assuming that
they managed to define it?
Well, one one step is to state it. I
mean, don't be koi about it. I want to
build this company. I want to be a
musician. I, you know, fill in the blank
like what do you want and state it to
the world and
then you cannot underestimate hard work
and
consistency. If you are hard charging
and consistently hard charging, that is
such a differentiator on the on sort of
everyone else. And uh and that's in turn
what creates
luck, you know, like if you keep showing
up
and you keep getting rejected and all of
a sudden you meet this person and they
introduce you to that person and next
thing you know you're on a plane and you
showed up to the city and it didn't
quite make sense and now you're meeting
the person who all of a sudden has the
answer to that thing you wanted to that
break that you needed. And so I, you
know, I think getting what you want is
some com combination of hard work,
consistency, and luck. And you could
probably bolt on to that like a comfort
with rejection
cuz you're going to get rejected
enormously. And the more ambitious what
you want is, the more you're going to be
rejected. Most people aren't that
bothered by rejection. I think most
people are bothered by the fear of
rejection. The idea of failure or
rejection hurts so much more I think
than actually being rejected. And that
goes back to my point about people when
they're trying to get what they want
actually get insular rather than going
out, right? Like you want to be
introspective about what you want and
then you want to be extroverted about
getting what you want. And I think
people get stuck sort of going out and
about because they're afraid of what's
someone gonna think if they know I want
this thing or you know what we outsource
to our family or our friends what is it
that I should want and then when it
comes to trying to go and get it we
don't go and ask for it because that
insulates us from failure. Yeah. Yeah.
That's interesting. I hadn't thought
about framing it that way but I think
it's I certainly think it's correct. I
mean cynicism I think a lot of the
cynicism that we see in the modern world
is people assuring failure privately so
they don't need to face the risk of fail
failure publicly.
uh if I don't basically if I don't try
then I can't fail and yeah that's true
uh there's always sort of one foot a lot
of the time when people commit not going
100% in to a relationship it's like you
know if I don't give everything to this
if I don't fully open myself up if I
sort of you know keep my eye wandering a
little bit more if I convince myself
that this person isn't ain't quite my
person or whatever. That's a good point.
Then if this doesn't go well then, you
know, like it's not a comment on me
because I wasn't in it. I wasn't fully
in it. It's like most of me or a bit of
me, but the bit of me that I care about
gets saved over here. I think commitment
is another criteria to get what you
want. Like being deeply committed to it.
And whether that's a relationship or,
you know, a uh a pursuit that you're
after in your career, like staying
committed to it is huge. A lot of I meet
a lot of young founders who are kind
of they're sort of in school, they sort
of have a job, they're sort of starting
something, right? And there's a safety
in that because if any one of those
things sort of blows up, they've still
got the other two and you'll still sound
good at a dinner table, you know. I will
say though,
getting over fear of rejection is part
one, but getting over rejection is part
two. Like I struggled with that and Oh,
did you get rejected?
Well, from the age of 21 to I I mean,
look, I' I've now dealt with rejection
throughout every phase of building this
company, but I would say it was most
painful from the ages of like 21 to 24
because I hadn't experienced actually a
lot of rejection in hindsight up to that
point in my life.
And everyone I was telling this idea to
about like, hey, I want to start this
company. This is the thing I'm going to
do. a lot of people I respected like
they were all kind of telling me like
this is a bad idea dude like you should
not do this and and then of course you
go try to raise capital and investors
tell you no and you try to hire people
and they tell you no and and
um and I you know looking back on it I
think there was good reason for that
like I was a kid I was starting
something
that is big in engineering and medicine
and computer science and math and you
know I'm not an engineer or a computer
science scientist or a doctor or
mathematician and like and so there's
just and I was super young and naive and
so like I understand why I faced all
that rejection but it still was very
painful and
um and then that's where the conviction
piece waivers like your commitment and
your conviction
um I was committed I stayed very
committed to the idea again because I
believed it was going to exist in the
world and I had like deep conviction
around that but my self-belief That's
That's what wavered cuz when you get
told no enough times, you're kind of
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supposed to have some degree of
expertise or, you know, I went to them
so they're not total idiots. Totally.
Maybe they are. Or maybe they just don't
see it or maybe Yeah. I I I think
I think one reflection is that
I just hadn't proven enough at that
point in time to
uh to make it more obvious or to make it
a more acceptable idea and and that
could that was both in the form of the
idea and the maturation around the idea
and the capability of the tech as much
as it was
also sitting there like a future your
CEO and entrepor 23. Yeah. You know, so
I remember again to use my equivalent,
the world of night life. Uh I would have
been 19 or 20. So I would have been in
my second or third year of university.
We would sit down with these grizzled
old leisure company owners who've got,
you know, portfolios of many nightclubs
and they've been in the industry since
the '9s or the 80s. Yeah. Some of them.
And you know, me and my business partner
are there. it's 2008 or
2009 and we're saying well look you have
a a fantastic venue and the way that you
stock and staff the bar is great and
your contacts with breweries are
fantastic you know your service your
ingress and egress are fantastic uh
doors team uh solid needs a little bit
of work sometimes they get a bit
heavy-handed with the but you know all
in all we think it's a really really
good place and DJ booth is in a good
position we can move people around
quickly you don't know anybody that
wants to party what the [ __ ] are you
doing with this empty venue and we
needed to say that to someone that was
you're onethird of my age. I don't need
you. And I always
remember thinking, you can't see
perspective in problems while you're in
them, right? It's only in retrospect
that you're able to go, I know that's
the lesson that I was. You don't learn
the lesson while it's happening. It's
one of the sort of ruthless things about
people saying, well, you know, it's
either a blessing or a lesson. And you
go, yeah, but the lesson comes down the
line. So, it's kind of like either a
blessing or a curse that has delayed
onset to become a lesson in future. And
uh yeah, I'd sit with these guys, these
grizzled old
northern club promoter gateway keepers
to between us and the venue. It's like,
look, I don't own a venue. You're right.
I don't own a nightclub. I don't want to
tie up half a million or a million or 5
million pounds of capital in bricks and
mortar and stock and staff and bars and
licenses and stuff like that. Uh so I
don't have I have lots of people that
want to go and party and I don't have
anywhere to put them. But you have a big
[ __ ] building and it's really
expensive and you don't know anyone that
wants to go and drink there. And that
was
a to just have someone who was so much
younger. You know, if you're a
60-year-old Leisure Company owner and
you've got a 20-year-old sat in front of
you going, "You need me." It's like go
[ __ ] yourself. I don't need you. Go. So,
and I always felt indignant. I felt very
indignant about the fact that I knew
that what I was saying was right. And I
had belief in the product. Maybe even if
I didn't have belief in myself, I had
belief in what we could achieve. I knew
what our track record was like. And
yeah, maybe the same with you. it. And
this is kind of I guess an insight for
anyone who
is performing or shooting for goals that
are kind of beyond their age a little
bit that we talk about agism as you know
discriminating against Joe Biden being
old and like you know Nancy Pelosi and
stuff like that but agism happens in
reverse in the world of business too.
There is a you know if you're too young.
Yeah. Yeah. If you're 38, no one's
really got a problem with you doing
anything. It's like you're slap out
until you probably get to like top top
level VC [ __ ] where you maybe need to be
a little bit older or you start getting
into government stuff, but like really
if you're mid to late 30s to probably
what 60s, everyone's just like, "Oh,
he's just he's just in the mix, right?
He's in the mixer." But before that,
there's just this sense of, "Yeah, all
right, that's nice." But you really
uh skepticism, like maybe undue
skepticism that people have around this.
I remember being so pissed off by it.
Didn't want to be treated like a kid. Uh
because you know what you can achieve,
but sometimes people can't quite see
past the uh like what's in front of
them, the age of what's in front of
them. If you're trying to build a a
orthogonal
wearable company with tech that as yet
doesn't exist, like there's going to be
some hurdles for you to get over there.
Yeah. And I didn't have great answers to
the competition either. And that was the
sort of other variable in building the
business that was quite complicated. It
was
just any sensible person was going to
ask the 22year-old or the 25year-old
like, well, how are you going to beat
Nike? how you gonna beat Apple, how you
gonna beat Adidas and Under Armour and
Microsoft and all these sort of big
gargantuan
companies. So that probably played a
role in an appropriate level of
skepticism.
Yeah, it was fair.
Yeah. Well, that's a special type of
pain, right? To look back in retrospect
and realize that this thing that you
felt really agrieved by was actually
maybe justified a little bit. Yeah. I
mean, there's an element of, I think,
building anything
where you have to see a version of the
future that other people don't see. And
then at some point, you either need to
be right or you're not. And you don't
know until you get there. Yeah, that's
that's kind of interesting. I think
we because of the ability of people to
use leverage, we
maybe overindex, over glorify the solo
lone wolf, crazy genius entrepreneur.
And obviously, you end up with a ton of
survivorship bias because you don't hear
about all of the people that tried the
crazy new idea and yeah, you remortgaged
your mom and dad's house and didn't
work. Yeah, that's those aren't
newsworthy stories. What's your take on
on on failure? Cuz I feel like failure's
gotten very romanticized. I [ __ ] hate
failing. Yeah, I hate failing so much.
And uh
I don't have a particularly good
relationship with the idea of it. Uh
I've failed very few times across my
entire professional career, which
suggests that I'm moving too slowly. And
I would tell somebody else if they like,
"Hey man, I've basically never failed at
anything I've tried professionally." go.
That's just an indication that you're
playing within the bounds. Your uh
safety tolerance and comfort is too much
push further. Exactly. Because you're
waiting until you've got basically 100%
confidence in whatever it is that you're
going to do. The confidence interval is
collapsed so much that there's no chance
it's not going to essentially no chance
it's not going to work. Uh which means
that you could iterate more quickly,
maybe break a few things, but move
significantly faster. That's me. Um, it
I knew I wanted to move to America three
or four years before I actually finally
made it. Uh, I probably should have left
the world of nightlife at least a couple
of years before that. No, we're talking
not huge amounts of time, but when
you're 28, 3 years is [ __ ] 10% of
your life. It's, you know, 30% of your
adult life. Sure. So,
it's you the failure porn thing. I get
where it comes from and it comes from a
place of wanting to reassure people that
if stuff doesn't go badly, if stuff
doesn't go well, if it does go badly,
you'll be okay. I understand. I think
that's a noble place to put it in. And I
I'd go a step further. I think it's
actually in part to get people over the
fear of failure. Mhm. Get sort of get
them out of the blocks, right? Take the
leap. Stop being paralyzed. Don't be
paralyzed. Yeah. I think that's where to
your point the failure porn's coming
from is trying to convince people that
it's okay to put put themselves out
there. That's a much more noble way to
think about it if it's
because Yeah. My my my reflection is
that I've learned more from successful
endeavors than I have from ones that
have failed. And I think failure is
largely overrated. That's interesting.
Why?
So, so sometimes I think this is
particularly true of startups. I think
that um a lot of startups all kind of
fail for the same reasons. You know,
they didn't find product market fit or
they burned cash too fast or um you know
ultimately the the product or service
was something that another competitor
did faster than them or they got
undercut on price. Like there's like
five things that most of the the the
co-founders got angry at each other.
There's like five things that like all
startups essentially fail from. But the
companies that really make it, they all
kind of have some kind of like secret in
a way. Like they have some magic. And uh
and I think that there's probably more
that's unique about each of those than
um than sort of it is the same. And and
so so for people who have been
on that sort of one in a 100 rocket
ship, I I think that you're you're
learning some special sauce.
And in the future, you're going to look
for, hey, what is the special sauce?
Like we actually have to we have we have
to create something here. We have to we
have to spark something that otherwise
we're not going to have. That's such a
good point that if if people were to
learn more from failures than they were
from successes, they still don't know
what they're looking for. You don't
actually know what it is you're looking
for. You just have a series of things
you know you're not looking for. Yeah.
And I agree with what you said earlier
on, which is that like uh avoiding
pitfalls can sometimes be more useful
than expediting success. Like if you if
you learn a really really important
lesson about uh not reducing down your
[ __ ] cash flow to the point where one
bad week kicks you out the bottom of
your business. Like yeah, that's a
that's a lesson you're only ever going
to hopefully only ever going to learn
once, but that still doesn't actually
tell you the lesson that you're trying
to get toward. Just tells you some of
the ones that you're trying to get away
from. And uh I wonder whether this is
why we see consistent winners in the
world of startups and in the world of
business and in some ways maybe in the
world of life too. You end up with you
know the Matthew principle to those who
have everything more will be given to
those who have nothing more will be
taken to the Bible. Uh and it's true in
everything. It's true in compounding in
wealth. It's true in uh uh astrophysics
in the size of stars and black holes you
know almost all of the gains almost all
of the mass accrs to a very small
number. It's the same in rivers in
geology. It's the same in uh in business
right like the being number one is 10
times better than being number two which
is 10 times better than being number
three. And being number 100 is basically
unless the market's insanely huge but
like dead. So yeah, I
think understanding what is it that I'm
actually trying to get toward a a
perfect example of this. I've been
through 15 failed relationships so far.
I really know what I don't want. It's
like great. What about what you do want?
What do you want? Yeah. Because it is
important to know what the red flags
are.
The only reason for avoiding red flags,
whether it's in business or in your
personal life, the only reason for
avoiding red flags is to expedite you
getting green flags. Like, don't make
the game be avoiding red flags.
Yeah. And I think I think what's
happening a little bit with people that
say they've learned so much from failure
is
uh it goes back to the pain thing. It's
like they they realized how much they
can sort of personally overcome the
suffering of a failure. It one takes
away I think the fear of future
failures. It's like okay like I know
what that is. I've been through that and
um and it sort of broadens that that
emotional tolerance going forwards and
you know ultimately probably makes you
more resilient in a way but it also
dampens down the pain of having to deal
with the failure. Yeah. Right. You're
like, "Oh, [ __ ] I had to eat [ __ ]
there." But I learned a lesson, right?
Well, at least I learned a lesson. Yeah.
Right. You try to take that positive
from it. Yes. With the same my my friend
passed and that sucked and and I had to
do this eulogy and that also sucked and
it was in front of loads of people and
that made it even harder and I was
struggling and that made it but I
learned a lot about myself and I got to
expand my you know there's there's ways
that we try and alchemize even the most
difficult situations to to to become
that.
Yeah, that's well said. The
um yeah, I I mean, look, I think
whatever whatever can be done to make
people have a like a like a lower fear
of failure is is probably good. So, I'm
not I'm not out here like, you know,
bashing the the failure energy, but
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I think uh but I do
think you learn more from these unique
successes than and the one thing I
reflect on is Whoop almost failed a lot
of times like we really almost ran out
of money a few times in the in the
history of the company and
uh in particular about six years into
the company like we were right on the
verge of bankruptcy and I think a lot
about if the company had failed then
like what would have my lesson been
And it almost certainly would have been
to have been less ambitious with the
technology, to have gone to market
sooner with something that was like less
cutting edge. Um to be mass market
faster rather than working with
athletes, you know, a lot of sort of to
be honest the the feedback that I got
from people who rejected the business, I
would have taken those as the lessons.
But in in turn actually when we did
ultimately become successful those were
the reasons we were successful. But the
line is so tight right I guess another
another 5% of cash flow another 10% of
cash flow maybe even less. Yeah. And
you'd have eaten [ __ ] and that would
have been the the takeaway. This is it's
such a good
point retrospectively trying to
take lessons
from someone who had a
close to a a victory that was at least
in part dependent on something like
timing on something like luck on
something like first mover or early
mover advantage uh on the stars
aligning. I mean of the four traits that
you said earlier on, luck was one of
them which you can largely with
consistency uh and like a high work rate
can you can almost create your own luck
in in many ways but the external you
know circumstances are largely out of
your control. you can just sort of be in
the best position possible, but it ends
up with people post hawk rationalizing
loads of [ __ ] And you go, I don't know
if this is an evergreen lesson. Yeah. Or
if this is just a quirk of the specific
time and space that you were in when
this thing
happened. I I don't know what to make of
this. I don't know. And everybody only
experiences life the way that they
experienced it. They don't get to go
back and see the other ways that only a
hair's width left or right could have
happened would have been different. So
how universal are the lessons that you
took away from this if it was so close
to not being the thing that happened?
How can you say that the lesson that you
took away from that was a universal
rule? Because it was almost not. It was
almost not by design. It was so close to
it being a completely different sort of
outcome. And especially if it's
something, you know, existential like
the end of a relationship or a
friendship or a life or a business or or
uh a trajectory that you were following
on. It's really hard even for us.
Well, I I think one takeaway is that
it's helpful for us in general to take
meaning from experiences.
And so whether it's a success or a
failure, taking something from that is
in turn a path towards growth. And so
you can question whether or not the
lesson could have been actually the
exact opposite or completely different.
But by taking a lesson, you are in turn
feeling like you're growing. Well,
you're also training yourself to be the
sort of person who reflects on their
experiences. Yeah. and reflecting and
having a growth mindset like these are
things that are
uh just enormously useful in your life.
You I mean one other way to look at
everything we talk about through the
lens of sports
like there's so many examples of what
you were describing in sports of like
this the the most recent example is is
with Rory Mroy winning the Masters and
Rory's been a friend now for like you
know seven or eight years. He was one of
the first big golfers to wear Whoop. And
so I got to know him well. And that
final round at the Masters was like
every version of uh like a human
experiencing
uh you know like this emotional roller
coaster and and such highs and lows. I
mean, he hit he hit shots in that round
that he's the only person on the planet
that can hit, right? Like on the 15th
hole, he hits this like sweeping seven
iron, like 200 yards to 5 feet. And
then, you know, on the 13th hole, he hit
a shot from 80 yards that an amateur
golfer would put on the green. And so at
at moments during that that round, not
just the tournament, but just that one
round, like he was the very best golfer
in the world by far. And he was a
complete amateur. And the and and he had
to go through these huge ups and downs
to like, you know, overcome what was
this painful 14-year trauma that he
essentially was experiencing of of
winning the career grand slam and
winning one more major. And uh and
there's this amazing photo at the end
of, you know, the moment he's won and
he's sort of released his putter and his
putter is like, you know, because it's a
photo, just sort of frozen above him.
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Rory is one of them, but who else are
some of the athletes that you've got to
spend time with and you just think,
"Holy [ __ ] this person's
uh mindset, their approach to the game
is a different level."
There's a lot of common themes amongst
the world's best athletes. Uh, so you
know, Michael Phelps and Cristiano
Ronaldo and Patrick Mahomes and Rory and
like like I've spent a lot of time
around these guys
and there's a certain intensity that
burns inside them that is uh hard to
fake. Like you can kind of feel it even
when you're chilling. Ronaldo is
probably the most exaggerated example of
that that I've ever felt. How so? Just
you can feel a drive like you can feel a
certain energy and you know people all
everyone kind of gives off an energy and
and depending on how healthy you are in
a given day or how good you're feeling
maybe your energy is stronger or less
strong but like um his the energy that
he gives off is one of of real drive and
there's like an intensity burning there
that you can't fake. like you can just
feel it. And uh and I think for a lot of
these guys, there's a cost that comes
with that that we the fans don't see.
Like you don't see
the the cost of having to be the first
person at the practice facility every
single day and cold plunging for hours
afterwards and and the time away from
the family and the sacrifices in all
these other areas of life. I mean, it is
very inspiring when you really get a
close-up look at it and you realize just
like what a grind it is. Like, it is
such a grind. You see the goals and you
see the the master's jacket, but you
don't you don't see the grind and the
pain and the injuries and like the the
time that they're not on camera. And
there's something about it that's both
inspiring and also you're like, "Yeah,
maybe I wouldn't want to do that."
Intimidating. Yeah. I mean, this is
you've activated one of my trap cards
and
um the question of what is the price
that people pay to be someone that you
admire has been it's a good question.
one of the most
compelling ever since I started since I
grew out of being an adult infant. Um,
started to be a little bit more of a
grown-up, I guess, intellectually. Uh,
it's one of the the questions I've been
fascinated with to look
at what's it like to be that person. You
want to be that person. You want to be
Rory Mroy, do you? Okay, let me explain
all of the prices that he's had to pay
to be Rory Mroy. You like the look of
Patrick Mahomes or Michael Jordan.
Perfect example. [ __ ] the, you know, uh,
The Last Dance. Um, still
now at what is he? Probably 50,
something like that. I don't know how
old he is. Sorry if he's in his 40s, but
yeah, like
50s. Doesn't look happy. A man who is
tormented by drive and perfection and
obsession. He's the greatest. Okay, but
that's the that's the price that you
need to pay. Elon was asked on Lex's
show three years ago said, uh, he says
something like, "How are you doing?" He
takes a little moment. He goes, "Most
people think they would want to be me.
They don't want to be me. They don't
know. They don't understand. My mind is
a storm." This is the richest guy on the
planet. Sending rockets to space,
building world changing cars. He's on on
stage in Japan doing robot dances and
shed fathering a million children.
He's actually easier to compare to some
professional athletes than any other
business leader. How so? In just that
it's clear that he's he's got a drive
that he's tormented by and he's willing
to sacrifice everything else for it. And
you see that with the world's best
athletes. Well, the the thing with at
least the problem with looking at
anybody through the lens of a narrow
pursuit like their success in business
or the success in the sport is that you
only see the one vector that they've
channeled their outputs into and you
don't see any of the other fissures that
their costs leaked out of. Right? Well,
what what if this guy hasn't had sex
with his wife in like two years? What if
the the the drugging themselves to go to
sleep and stimulating themselves to wake
up in the morning? What if their
relationship with their father or their
mother is just non-existent? What if
they hate themselves? What if they can't
bear to look at their body in the
mirror? You know, all of these things
happen and you go, "Okay, but they're
the great the greatest. They're the
best." Yeah. Would you want that? Is
that what you want? Because you don't,
as you said earlier on, it's kind of
stupid to just look at one element
either of a business or of a person and
say, I want I really want Rory Mroyy's
masters thing. The not being able to
sleep on a nighttime because he's
obsessing about that shot he missed. I I
don't really like the idea of that so
much, but the green jacket that sounds
great. It's like you don't get to piece
this person together. Someone is a
whole, right? uh his level of obsession.
I'm totally like just throwing shade at
Rory's like mental state, but I imagine
his level of obsession, inability to let
go of things and and you know is the
reason that he's got to there. It's not
some weird bug on a on the side of the
code that makes him Rory Malroy. It's a
feature that is a part of his
performance. And uh yeah, this this
question of what is the price people pay
to be someone that you admire is [ __ ]
endlessly interesting to me. Yeah. And I
think athletes have gotten more uh
introspective like I I actually Rory is
extremely uh thoughtful and he's gone
through phases of reading books on the
stoics and meditating and all sorts of
things. I think a lot of a lot of
athletes end up being more introspective
because they get into visualization
which becomes sort of the gateway to
uh meditation, intuition, these sorts of
different um levels of of of
self-discovery.
And then I think there's there's plenty
of really capable athletes
who don't actually go that deep inwards
and they don't really analyze the how it
works as much as know that it works and
they just go I had who was I talking to
this? I can't remember who it was. Uh
cultivated stupidity we called it. Uh
that Matt Fraser good example of this I
think actually. Um, so Matt in Ben
Burgron's book Chasing Excellence, he
tells this story about Matt was an
engineering student, I think, and he
would make himself wrote, memorize
entire textbooks, word for word, and he
would then sort of play them back in his
head, or maybe he was writing them out.
If he missed one word, he would just
make himself go back to the starts. This
guy was very, very smart and very, very
driven and very, very obsessed. But
there is a kind
of boneheadedness and almost simplicity
that you need to turn up and do 90
minutes of zone 2 work because you
there's got to be a better way. I go I
just need to sit on the rowing machine
for 90 minutes. It's zone 2. I'm not
going to go that hard. You just want me
at 135 BPM? Really? That's where you
That's That's what I'm supposed to Yeah,
it is. You need to go in and have this.
Just follow the plan. Don't overthink
it. Don't spend too much time
ruminating. Uh, can you chill out?
What's your recovery like? Are you able
to sit on the couch and play Xbox after
a big training session? And uh, yeah, we
often celebrate a really good work ethic
and very rarely celebrate a good rest
ethic. And it both of those are a skill.
The rest thing was kind of the unlock
for whoop getting into all these pro
athletes and building those
relationships was this idea that you can
now measure recovery. And one thing that
I was really surprised by, but now makes
sense kind of knowing the cast of
characters is like amongst the very best
athletes, they're actually willing to
experiment a lot. Like they're kind of
always looking for what is that
additional way I can get a little edge.
And and that's one of the things that
separates, I think, the very best from
from just like a great professional
athlete is this like drive towards
experimentation. And it's part of the
reason that in the early days of
building this company like someone like
LeBron James or Michael Phelps was
willing to wear
Whoop see if it gave them an edge. Yeah.
Yeah. One of the things that you were
talking about earlier on this sort of
fear of failure, this uh you know
obsession with detail but not beyond a
point. I'm sure this is something that
you consider the sort of health anxiety
that's downstream. The perils of
overoptimization, being able to see why,
you know, god, I didn't sleep very well
last night says my whoop. I feel kind of
okay, but then I get in my own head
about that and I didn't hit my 10,000
steps today. [ __ ] step tracker on
there now. Um, how do you come to think
about
uh using data to assist to improve
people but not to be uh an object uh
like a taskmaster or or a prison that
people can get trapped in? I I think
first and foremost we view Whoop as a
tool that
anyone can use. you know, we don't view
it as uh your master. We view it as a
tool that uh can make you healthier or
live longer or perform better. And the
general sort
of broad critique of is more knowledge
better? I've always rejected. I mean,
you can go back to the printing press
and people being like, "Oh, we can't
have the printing press. God forbid so
many people have access to information."
So I I think in almost every stage of
human history, this rejection of people
having more knowledge is is uh is sort
of a lazy analysis. Now there's certain
things from a technology design
standpoint that we've done with that in
mind. So, I've never believed that
having a screen on the product actually
uh made it a better tool, you know, and
and I've always thought there's plenty
of screens in the world and do we really
need one more screen that's giving you
numbers that you're obsessing over and
looking at and they're vibrating and
alerting you. And so, in many ways, we
designed the product to disappear into
the background and to to be there when
you needed it and to look at it when you
need it.
And for a product that people wear 247,
it's actually remarkably unobtrusive.
You know, it's not talking to you. It's
not beeping at you. It's only going to
vibrate if you want it to vibrate.
Vibrate. Yeah. If you want it to wake
you up. Um,
so yeah, we've done we've done I think a
lot of things around the concept of have
this be a tool that's in the background
versus having it being a master that's
trying to control you. Mhm. Yeah. Alas,
I know that some people do struggle with
that. Actually, there's a uh I can give
you an idea from my friend George. Um,
and this is uh specifically from when he
was wearing Whoop and uh focusing on
improving his sleep. He wished that
there was a way that you could set and I
know that you guys do a weekly review,
monthly review, end of year review as
well, but that uh all notifications
could be turned off except for a
check-in on a weekly basis or that you
could hide your data from yourself until
a particular day of the week to sort of
interrupt your ability to be able to
see. I'm aware that journal like you
need to do that on a daily basis. It
restricts a lot of the turn [ __ ]
activity on like how am I going to do
that? Um, but I do think, you know, the
general position he's trying to get
himself to is to focus on signal, not
noise. And a daily check-in on daily
metrics a lot of the time is there's a
lot of noise in that. If you to look at
your week-long trend, the bad Monday
doesn't look so bad because it's spread
across seven days. If it's Tuesday and
you look at your Monday, I might as well
kill myself. Like, this is horrendous.
Yeah. And look, I I think you well,
first of all, the concept of
um hiding data, that is actually one
thing that we did develop against
because we would have these really
exaggerated examples. Like imagine
you're an Olympian and you're training
for four years for one day. It turned
out for the most part the Olympians
wanted to know how recovered they were,
but they didn't necessarily want to see
how recovered they were. So we would we
created a a toggle. This actually exists
in the app today. No. Where you can
literally have your data collect, but
it'll hide your recovery score and your
sleep score. Oh. And so, um, in a sense,
we built the George feature, um, for
Olympians a long time ago. Now, the
point about it being for a week. I mean,
what I would just say is just don't open
the app for a week, right? And keep the
thing charged because it's going to
store data. Mhm. Now that Whoop has 14
day battery life, too, like you can How
long can it store stuff without being
connected through Bluetooth? 30 days.
Oh, wow. Okay. So, you could actually
just run the sucker for ages and not
even have it connected to your phone.
Yeah. Oh, that would be a solution.
That's a slightly more low tech solution
like just disconnect. Now, you know, it
might if you're uploading a week of
data, it might take, you know, a couple
hours to upload, but yeah, but you sick.
What's the herz frequency now on a
nighttime?
It's a little variable, but it's it's
anywhere between probably 25 and 50,
right? So, in terms of, you know, the
number of times we're sampling a second.
Mhm. Mhm. Yeah. It's interesting. I've
been uh digging into sleep stuff. I did
an at home sleep study, which was pretty
interesting. Nalia, I had the the tube
the dodes on the face. I had the tubes
coming out. I had this thing. This is
pretty interesting. It's a real getup.
Oh, yeah. I look great. Um they put a
sensor on your sole on the outside of
your leg, outside of your calf. And this
was super interesting. People who've got
restless leg syndrome move their legs a
lot when they sleep. But you can have
restless leg syndrome and not move your
legs. So what this sensor does is it
detects whether or not your brain is
sending a signal to your legs, but below
the threshold that moves them, but above
the threshold that it's nothing. And
that's still classed as a minor form of
restless leg syndrome even if you're not
moving your legs because your brain is
still saying maybe we should do this but
it doesn't breach whatever particular
line there is where you would you would
start moving around. Uh don't have
restless leg syndrome. That was pretty
interesting. Um so you don't have that?
No, I don't. I I have REM induced sleep
apnnea which [ __ ] sucks dick. Uh so
you bounce yourself in and out of REM a
lot. You go REM to wake to wake to wake.
Um, so I need to work on that. And then
as soon as you learn about uh any apnic
events, you then go down the rabbit hole
of dentistry and biological dentistry
and you start to think about pallet size
and uh airway opening and then you learn
about how wind instrument players have
no sleep apnnea. So the new device, it
seems that one of the new devices that
are good for uh apnea events, uh 8 to 14
weeks of 15 minutes a day. It's sets a 5
by five which to me like given a a sort
of heavy weightlifting background. Yeah.
5x5 to me slap bang in the middle of
what I'm used to. And um it's kind of
like the read from a saxophone but
without the saxophone attached to it.
And it's got a lot of resistance in it
when you do a special um exercise
blowing like very hard through this
thing. Uh the original study was done on
marching band uh performers and they
found that none of the horn or wind
players had sleep apnnea and a lot of
the others did. They said, "Well,
there's got to be something to do with
the way that they play." The only
difference between these people is the
way they play the instruments. And yeah,
I think it was a not an obo. What's the
other thing that's like an obo? A digery
do. The original study was done in a
[ __ ] digy do sleep study. Um that
seems like kind of a breakthrough study.
Yeah, it was dude. Uh so uh I think this
is going to be this is real frontline
stuff from Andy Galpin and Matthew
Walker and the really cool some guys I'm
sleep working with. So you're now going
to start doing this? Yes. So I've got it
should be in the air. It should be
arriving this week and uh between uh
mouth tape and nasal dilators and not
sleeping on my back and
using tracking and and all this other
stuff. But one of the big things is
going to be this. So yeah, I should just
learn to play the saxophone. That'll be
way easier. and I'd be functionally, you
know, musically. Saxophone is cool. I
played sax when I was in like fifth
grade. Not particularly well, but Well,
maybe your lack of sleep apnnea is
contributed to by your brief stint as a
saxoponist. I do think there's an
element
of if you can't be great at something,
it's kind of like dangerous to be okay
at it. Like there's part of me that
feels like if I was even a mediocre
musician, like I'd be playing at, you
know, the local bar and that would like
I would have Yeah. I'd have no
entrepreneurial anything. I just would
have been this like, you know, dude, you
certainly want to pick your suit playing
a bad saxophone. you do want to pick up
suits, but that's also, you know, the
drive that you were talking about from
Rory and from other guys that you've
worked with. And also, uh, the one that
you see in yourself, uh, very much
doesn't allow you to do things that
you're not particularly good at. At
least I find this was talking to a
friend who's working with a coach and
the coach said, "And you just take up a
pursuit. What would you what would you
like to do? Anything. Pick pick
something that you think would be be
cool for you to to do." And he said,
"Oh, um, watercolors. Watercolors sounds
like a cool thing to do." You know, he
wanted to outside of his highowered
degenerate business like pursuit that he
could do. Watercolors. She goes, "Okay,
I you you get yourself some watercolor
stuff, but there's one stipulation about
your pursuit of watercolors. You can't
try to get better." And he was like,
"Oh, fuck." Like, she just wanted him to
just play to just like be in the joy of
doing watercolors. She's like, "Cuz I
know what you're going to do. You're
going to go on YouTube and you're going
to start watching videos and you're
going to start refining your technique
and then you're going to find the person
that made the YouTube videos and find
out they've got a course online. Then
you're going to see they've got a
retreat in Costa Rica and before I know
it, you have another business that is
about yourself or another aggressive
pursuit. Um,
so that idea of you're going to try to
do a thing, but you're not going to try
to be the best at it. And in many ways,
your progress towards becoming better in
it is only ever going to be emergent.
It's only ever going to be bottom up,
not top down. You're sort of not going
to dictate yourself into betterness.
You're just going to practice yourself
into enjoyment. And uh I I may try and
use this as an excuse for why I have a
woefully low pickle ball rating. Um I
don't know. You don't understand. I'm
I'm trying to I'm just in the flow,
dude. You may be a better pickle ball
player, but I'm actually more flowy than
you are. Uh but yeah, I thought that was
I don't know if that's a good thing or a
bad thing, but I remember him telling me
and thinking it was interesting as a as
a framing. That is interesting. Although
it had me thinking that there are things
in my life that I like to do or have
liked to do just because I was getting a
little better, but I wasn't obsessed
with, you know what I mean? Like I
played in a soccer league from the ages
of like 25 to 32. And I was, you know,
there were some sports I was
athletically I would say more gifted at.
I wouldn't say soccer was ever one of
them, but I just enjoyed it so much.
Like running around like a total, you
know, goof kid, uh, with refs and
90minute games and whatever. Uh, you
know, I'm I'm I would say an okay cook
and I like to cook steaks and stuff from
time to time, but it doesn't I don't I
don't necessarily feel bothered that I'm
not making a better steak than, you
know, fill in the blank down the road
here in Austin. like you can I think you
can pursue some of these things with
just an eye towards getting better and I
actually think there are I think there's
something um for people older in life
picking up particularly activities that
they can get better at because there's
there's sort of this comfort with doing
the thing that you did in college or you
did on some high school team and you do
like you do like a bad version of it as
you're older and you always think about
oh like I wish I was this younger but if
you can get into lifting weights for
example and all of a sudden you see the
numbers going up a little bit over time
or uh you know yoga or Pilates like I I
think that's great. Mhm. and you don't
pursue and you don't need to become a
yoga instructor but like progress I
think progress matters it it does and I
wonder you know the sort of balance
between yoga is a really really good
example because there is no such thing
as winning right there is no such thing
as winning at yoga there is getting
better and there is there is pro it's
hard to keep score too yes yes so for
the perennially metric obsessed how golf
golf you can keep score baseball pickle
all you know there's a literal rating
next to your [ __ ] podcasting YouTube
you know you know lot of numbers again
where you're ranked you know business oh
well you know how year on year quarter
on quarter where we you know but I do
believe that you can't you can't you
have to be careful how
many desires you have at the same time
because that's essentially this contract
with yourself to
be unhappy until you get what you want
And you want to pick a couple lanes,
ideally only one or two lanes where
you're really all in. Because if you try
to do too many things at once that to be
great
at, you know,
it's you're not you're not going to be
great at all. Mhm. James Clear's got
this new [ __ ] slamming insight, which
is if you desire the life but not the
lifestyle, you guarantee disappointment.
So, you want the outcome, but you're not
prepared to do the things that get you
toward the outcome. I love the idea.
That's been a theme of this conversation
with the athletes and you know, but Mhm.
I want to be in a band. Love the idea of
playing on stage in front of thousands
of people. Okay. You need to be in a
van, a very small van playing butt [ __ ]
nowhere shows for a decade. Yeah. That's
what that that is the lifestyle to get
you to life. Do you want to do that?
Yeah. You go to the Taylor Swift
concert, but you don't see her training
at 8 a.m. singing her entire set list on
a treadmill.
I have seen uh videos of not Taylor
Swift, who is Miley Cyrus before the
Super Bowl. Have you seen this video?
No. Epic, epic video. So, I think Miley
Cyrus performed at the half time in the
Super Bowl not long ago. Or maybe it's
I'm pretty sure it was Miley Cyrus. and
she's on a treadmill singing and uh it's
the sort of buildup and she's just, you
know, heart rate's going to be through.
She should have won a whoop. Heart
rate's going to be through the roof and
she's like building this thing out and
she's obviously trying to work out this
energy, this sort of nervous anxious
energy. She's warming her body up. She's
warming and uh yeah, it's crazy in a not
too dissimilar way. my equivalent, the
only equivalent I've got uh uh going to
do Rogan like is you're on your way,
you're driving from my house to Rogan
Studio. It's 12 minutesish. Should be
longer. It'd be better if it was longer.
I should drive further away and then
loop back around. That would make my
life easier. And uh it very much does
feel a little bit like sort of going
through the players tunnel toward like a
pretty big match. Yeah. You're a little
stressed out. Yeah. And there's, you
know, you need solutions from that. So,
I've got a And this is now the same
thing I've used for every big episode.
Peterson, Naval, Sam Harris, Rogan,
whoever.
Um, you have a pre-match ritual in that.
What is it? Uh, so, uh, wake up on time
regardless of how tired I am. So, I
don't let myself sleep in. I would
rather be up and in a good mood.
Sleeping in tends to put me in a bit of
a bad mood. Makes me feel like my day
started off on the back foot. So, I want
to kind of win the pillow. I think about
winning like owning the pillow. It's a
good name for a book. Win the pillow.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like I've it's
a big predictor for me of how well the
rest of the day goes. So, get up, do my
usual morning routine, walk, journal,
breath work, meditate, read, go to the
gym, train, like moderately hard. I've
done it too hard previously and I end up
crashing partway through the episode.
So, that was a lesson from failure that
I only ever needed to learn once. One
coffee, one coffee, no more than one
coffee, one coffee max. Uh, breakfast,
but no carbs. So, typically eggs, bacon,
sausage, something like that. Uh, then
go back any notes, whatever it is that
I'm reviewing. And then the sort of
final hour is just listen to really
great music, have a little sing along.
If I'm going to have a shave, if I'm
going to have a shower, if I'm going to
like, you know, whatever sort I'm going
to wear out, uh, do that and then get in
the car and then on the way there, more
good music, having a little sing along.
So, maybe Miley Cyrus had it right all
along. I should get on a treadmill and
start building out Miley Cyrus songs.
Um, it's relatively stripped back. What
it, at least my sort of current working
theory is it's a combination of all of
the things that feel like home to me
that are very comfortable, the things
that I do on a daily. It's the perfect
morning when chaos doesn't occur. And
that happens maybe only once every week
to me where I get the full run of all of
them perfectly done without [ __ ] say
phone call in the middle of this. Oh
[ __ ] what's happened with the most
recent upload? Whatever it is that goes
on.
Um, but it's not so
uh novel that it's sort of disquing to
your systems. This is comfortable and
this is comfortable and this is normal
and this is whatever. Hey, there's
there's stresses in that experience that
you've walked through. Mhm. I mean, that
sounds like a great routine in general.
It's awesome. It's awesome. I get to
midday and I'm just locked in. I'll
usually have my optimal neutonic uh
consumption is like one can on route in
one as I'm starting and then I'm like
[ __ ] I'm at 30,000 ft just locked in.
Yeah, that's it, dude. I I can if I go
more than about one an hour for 3 hours,
I start to [ __ ] hear colors and see
sounds. It ends up being a good but a
little bit activating. and the
mindfulness that you want to just be
able to sit back and give things a
little bit of room to breathe. Um, yeah,
it's it's interesting to I love learning
about people's pregame rituals as well.
I know baseball one of the most
superstitious ritualistic sports, maybe
the most I would guess in in perhaps all
of sports because it's so iterative,
right? And it's so uh replicable. So you
see players that will tap the bat on
both feet, undo and redo each glove.
It's like why? Like you don't they
haven't come undone, but it's all just
part of this, you know, very very
consistent schedule of how they What
about you? What's a morning look like? I
guess you've got a six week old, so
[ __ ] chaos, I imagine. Yeah. I
mean, one thing I was just reflecting on
and listening to your uh very healthy
day is like
I realize there aren't that many days in
my life over the course of a year where
I'm like, "Oh, today I have a big
blank." You know, it's almost like it
feels like every day I go into it trying
to have a similar output and a similar
sort of,
you know, game plan. you know, avoiding
that roller coaster. Yeah. And so, in
terms of my morning routine, wake up,
um, shower, work out with a trainer,
um, uh, sauna, cold plunge, meditate,
uh,
breakfast, uh, off to work. I mean,
that's kind of like the perfect morning
for me. And how often do you hit that?
That's three days a week when I'm in
Boston. And then, you know, the Tuesday
and the Thursday I'll try to work out.
So, Monday, that's Monday, Wednesday,
Friday. And then like the Tuesday and
the Thursday, I'll try to do something
on my own in the morning. Um or for the
last six weeks, it's been more like
family time in the morning. So, I'll
have like breakfast with the little
little Tommy and my wife. And um hang
out with the little guy, which is pretty
incredible. And and in a way like it's
interesting hanging you spending time
with your newborn has a similar
physiological effect to meditating. At
least it does for me. Um and I meditate
every day. So that's become a huge part
of my life and
just being able to manage everything
that comes at you. But I find if you can
have a great first couple hours of the
day, it just makes the rest of the day
and everything that gets thrown at you
so much more manageable. Yeah, like most
of my most of my professional like work
life is just things coming at me. Like I
don't know what problems going to walk
into my door that day. But it is a lot
of sort of managing problems. Very much
think about starting the day on the
front foot. Yeah. And I think that's a
good way to to think about it. Yeah. And
in a way you I've also kind of started
to think of the day starting at you know
9:00 p.m. the day before which is like
what's your sleep routine? And I wear
blue light blocking glasses, which I
love. You know, you don't want to get
into a fight with your wife before bed.
You want to have like, you know, you
look like a nerd. Shut up, wife.
Well, I've gotten her to wear them, too.
Fortunately, lately is a dead team
player in all of my Yep. health
optimizations.
Uh I haven't gotten off of the devices.
I would say that's
probably I don't know if that's a
frontier actually I'm ever going to
conquer because I'm still optimizing so
much around being like a productive
entrepreneur and CEO and you kind of you
know it's such a global world so many
trade-offs. Yeah. And so I will look at
my phone kind of up until I go to bed.
And um but you know things like red
light in your bedroom and
um warm shower before bed some nights,
little uh
magnesium. If if I feel a little tense,
maybe I'll have some
melatonin, read a book, you know, those
things. Those that that's a good way to
start tomorrow. Mhm. Mhm. One of the
worst things, and this was a lesson
learned from going to bed at 4 in the
morning a couple of times a week for a
decade and a half, was uh realizing that
tomorrow was ruined before tomorrow has
even begun. There's a special kind of
hell there where you go, [ __ ] it's 5:00
a.m. I haven't like this morning. I
thankfully today hasn't been ruined and
I had a really great day, but uh my body
just decided to wake me up at 3:00 in
the morning. [ __ ] you, dude. got up. I'm
like, "Right, okay. I'm going to do all
of the things that CBTI tells you to do.
So, I'm not going to get I'm going to
stay in bed." All right. You want to be
awake? Be awake. You're going to have to
walk around. You're going to have to
look. You're going to have to keep your
eyes open. Your body doesn't want to do
that either. I'm like, "Well, pick."
Right. Would you want to be asleep? No.
Okay. Would you want to be awake? No, I
don't want that either. Like, you are a
petulant child. Sleep brain anyway. And
that is actually hell. Yeah. It's It
[ __ ] sucks. and uh I get back to bed
at
4:30 a.m. 4:45 a.m. Oh my god. Do I do I
try and drug myself into sleep? Cuz I
could, but that means that when I get up
to train at 7, I'm going to be pressing
the brake and the accelerator at the
same time. I'm like, okay. So, let's say
I took an ambient 3 hours ago. I'm like,
right, okay, so I've just ambient 3
hours ago. Yeah, that's going to affect
your workout. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I felt
great this morning, dude. I maybe the
ambient That was this morning. The
ambient neutonic combo. Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. And I felt And then I went and did
this photo shoot with your guys. Uh so I
trained twice before midday. I think I
had probably less than 5 hours of sleep.
I feel fantastic. Have you seen that
meme? I post this meme all the time. the
meme of the different uh amount
different different hours of sleep and
the way that this guy looks and one hour
of sleep is just like a a shadow with
his face falling off and it's goes all
the way up to 8 hours where he sort of
feels like a god and then but for some
reason six and seven hours of sleep the
guy's face is falling off too but two
hours of sleep the guy's like
transcendent there's something about two
hours of sleep I get the sense that it's
one full sleep cycle that it's one full
90 minutes you're still in a nap Yeah,
there's one full 90-minute cycle and you
you're going to eat [ __ ] at 3:00 p.m.
that day, but up until midday or so,
you're like, "Dude, I flooked it last
night. Like, I dance through that
minefield. I'm going to" and then it
gets to 2 p.m. and you go, "Oh, no. Oh,
it's hitting me." Uh, do you do you
travel overseas a lot or over time
zones? It was last year a lot. I do it
all the time and I've I find I've I've
gotten pretty good at it. one um two two
great hacks for it are one not eating at
all on planes.
So never eat on a plane even if you take
food. Yeah. I'm not going to eat period
like 14 hours to Dubai or something. Not
not eating. Yep. That's painful. And uh
and I drink a ton of hydrogen water.
Mhm. What's your hydrogen water of
choice? I use this uh bottle called Echo
Go. Let's [ __ ] go, dude. Is that your
thing? They're fire. Have you got the
new one? The square one. Or have you got
the old slightly older one that's
cylindrical? Uh, I think I have the
older one. The new Echo Flask. It's It's
got this This new one's got a screen on
the side and there's an app that comes
with it. Everything needs an apparently.
Yeah, mine doesn't have an app. This new
one. So, the the new one is is [ __ ]
sick. But yeah, dude. Hydrogen water is
I So, if I could I was saying this for I
picked that up from Gary Brea and he's
like all about hydrogen water and turns
out he's totally right. Electrolytes,
too. I'll pound electrolytes, but I
won't do it in my hydrogen water. Echo
go. Yep. No, I mean that circulating
that through would be a bad idea. Uh
yeah, I was with Gary. I was at the
health optimization summit here in
Austin this weekend and I went to there
was a dinner for the speakers. It was
like a meetup or whatever for the
speakers and it was Mark Sison, Gary
Breer, Ben Greenfield, Max Lugavir, Dr.
Dom, the world's leading biological
dentist. Like every different uh But Dr.
Steven Gundry, like some very forward
thinking. Yeah, it was it was fun, man.
And I'm the absolutely the token stupid
person in the room and I'm just sort of
listening to stuff that I'm like, that
sounds maybe that's true. That sounds
plausible, that sounds plausible, that
sounds like it might be fun. But one of
the things that pretty much everybody
zeroed in on was hydrogen water. And um
if I was saying this at the start of the
year or if I could make some bets sort
of on the roulette chip table of health
um I would have
done three or four years ago I would
have said four stage reverse osmosis
water filtration for drinking. Um I
think everyone's really worried about
the municipal water standards and water
quality and what what's in your drinking
water. Um, I would have said uh sleep
trackers and liquid cooled mattress
toppers probably six or seven years ago.
I would have said that those would be
and now I think hydrogen water including
hydrogen baths and breathing molecular
hydrogen that's a little bit more like a
flask that's 200 bucks and will last you
until you break it. Pretty good
investment. It's like pretty accessible
to most most people. uh redoing your
entire bath so that you can have
hydrogen water pumped in and dermally
absorb it through your skin. That's like
a higher higher barrier and that machine
I think's like 100 grand or something.
But the I I actually shout out again to
Gary Brack like I did one of his
hydrogen baths um at his place in Miami
and uh I felt incredible the next day. I
mean it's a very
uh it's a very unique uh mechanism for
improving health and I'm surprised that
it's not more mainstream I think but
when something's that effective and
expensive it just requires a little bit
of like technology so to speak to access
you've got to the problem with hydrogen
I think look at me talking about [ __ ]
I spent half an afternoon with Gary
Breer and I talk about hydrogen uh
that's actually a meme. Yeah. Yeah. the
uh I think the problem but this is a
commercial insight
is at the bottom end there's no way
except Echko actually have patented
their bottle and their technology but
you can get hydrogen into water
relatively inexpensively and it's not
patented no one can patent putting
hydrogen into water the levels that you
do it to and the functionality and the
durability and the battery life of the
device all of that stuff is uh so at the
bottom end it's unprotectable largely uh
and at the top end it's not accessible
So I think you have this weird market
where you go
well what's the incentive to push on the
bottom end given that anybody anybody
can do this and there's no protection.
Not anybody can build the device that's
on your wrist but pretty much anybody
can make a comparable device uh at the
bottom end and then at the top end it's
just so [ __ ] expensive and hard to
get. And what you don't want to do, the
other thing is even if you had 100
grand, I think you can get like a
equivalent one for maybe 20 or something
from Echo, but you also need to have
water filtration in your house because
if the water is not of good quality,
you're pushing Austin municipal. I had
an email this morning from Echko because
they're going to send out some sort of a
unit to do hydrogen baths in my house.
And I was like, "Oh, I I've heard about
worries to do with water quality." He,
"Oh, give us your postcode. We'll area
code. We'll tell you uh whether your
water's up to scratch." And he said,
"Oh, no. You've got 17 markers that are
outside the advisory. Oh wow. For
whatever it is that we would do and
they've just been a dink dink dink just
searched it online. Oh [ __ ] So yeah,
there should be a little service too
they provide this. Oh we'll do a survey.
Yeah, that'd be sick. Or like have have
that be built into their app. It's like
you know check out your water. Yeah. The
slight disadvantage there is you're just
going to create a number of reasons for
people not to buy your product. Although
the drinking stuff I would go I mean
everybody knows this but you need to
watch your water quality. It's pointless
hydrogenating your water if it's full of
all sorts of [ __ ] So I think four
stage reverse osmosis something or any
kind of burky filtration aquatru
something similar or plummet in
underneath is like that's the first
step. I think there's still probably an
opportunity to create that high-end
experience at a more accessible price
point, even if it's not highly
patentable. I'm surprised that there
isn't a brand around it. What was the
second thing? So, you said don't eat on
planes, drink lots of hydrogen water,
pound the electrolytes. Yeah. Was there
a second hack for uh travel? No, the two
the two that I found were unlocks were
don't eat on planes and drink hydrogen
water. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. And you could
add this as a third, which is when you
get into the right time zone, go to bed
on the right time zone. I also try to
avoid naps at all costs because I feel
like naps when you're jetlagged are a
trap. Next thing you know, you're asleep
for 4 and a half hours and you're like,
am I waking up? Is this white knuckle?
White knuckle. Yeah, I did Australia
toward the back end of last year and
that was 14 hour time. I think you're
supposed to have one supposed to.
Whoever came up with the one day for 1
hour time change thing. Dude, that's
[ __ ] No one has that much time to
do stuff. I was in Australia for 2
weeks. Oh, yes. So, the idea is you're
you're you're going to be jelly for 2
weeks. Basically, that you should give
yourself you should account for one day
per hour of time change. I I remember
reading this online. I have no idea.
Well, this is actually a very unwoobed
point of view, but I think a lot of jet
lag is psychological and that people
start telling themselves they're
jetlagged and they get kind of into this
downward cycle and then they start
drinking alcohol and napping and they
just sort of do all these sort of things
that are on a negative spiral. Whereas,
if you go in with a real positive
attitude of like, I'm going to defeat
jet lag out of the gates, going to make
it my [ __ ] Yeah. Uh yeah, but
Australia Australia hurt. That was Yeah,
that's hard. That was a real a real
painful one. Uh what should people
expect from you over the next apart from
new child dad life presumably a change
of wardrobe and body composition over
the next couple of months? Uh what else
is coming up?
Well, we recently launched uh the Whoop
5.0 and the MG. So that's all of our new
hardware with Whoop. It's got much
longer battery life and uh new features
like around health span. And so it'll
tell you how old you are in your Whoop
age and what you can do to to get
younger. Uh there's a whole feature
that's around heart screening. So if
you're someone who's worried about
having AIB or um you know you're talking
to a cardiologist or you might need to
talk to a cardiologist, there's a whole
feature for that that's now medically
cleared. Uh we came out with blood
pressure monitoring which is pretty
badass. So we're the first wearable to
do that on a on a large scale. Uh yeah,
I mean a lot a lot of new technology
that we just launched which I'm pretty
stoked about. In some ways it's been you
know 13 years in the making and uh in
terms of me I think it's you know trying
to get a little better every day try to
keep building the business at some point
this is probably a company we'll take
public which is in itself
another chapter another challenge
another growth opportunity. Mhm. Yeah. I
mentioned I was with your guys earlier
on today and I I I just had to bring up
the fact that Steven Bartlett got an
advisory position uh but he's got
smaller forearms than me and uh I
thought that that was not necessarily
relevant or important but something of
note and uh I just you know I'm gonna
sort of leave that to to linger in the
air but dude congratulations. You know
launching a human and a new product in
the space of a couple of weeks is no is
no small feat. So um yeah it's awesome.
I've been a, you know, a huge fan of the
product for forever. I was grandfathered
into the monthly from the buy it once
you Oh, so you're a founding member.
Yeah. Yeah, dude. Yeah. And then also a
partner. You must have a lot of
recoveries. Uh, yeah. Like thousands
thousands and thousands. Um, which was
fun. And before that, I actually totally
forgot about this, but I use Sleep
Cycle. Uh, you know that app?
It's an alarm. It's kind of Was it one
of those things you stuck on your bed
and like it was a just a phone app that
you put your phone near your bed. Yeah.
Um I use it as an an alarm, but it also
does a little bit of tracking stuff,
too. It uses a mic, so it's like
rustling around. I guess it's real raw
like rough stuff. Um but yeah, I've been
in one form or another, I've been
tracking sleep for a decade now, which
is pretty crazy think that I've got that
much data. But uh yeah, dude, I I really
appreciate what you do. I think it's
awesome. And the fact you're enabling
these athletes and helping everyone to
realize just how much little sleep
they're getting is cool. And I
appreciate your mind as well. I think
it's it's nice to see somebody that's
committed to one thing and yeah,
limiting desires whether they're
personal or corporate is is pretty sick.
So really glad to meet you today. Thanks
brother. I've really enjoyed this. Oo
made it to the end of the Will Ahmed
episode. Well the Indian Will Ahmed
Naval Rabac is waiting for you just
here. So go and watch the episode. It's
one of my favorites.