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Sometimes You Need to Give Up What You Love - Chris Bumstead

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Chris Bumstead reflects on a pivotal moment in his bodybuilding career, specifically addressing whether he would have retired immediately after failing to win an Olympia title had that loss occurred. Although he initially entered each competition year with uncertainty about victory, by his final prep he reached a state of complete self-belief where winning felt inevitable if executed correctly. Despite this confidence, Bumstead asserts that retirement was not contingent on the outcome; rather, it was driven by a desire to protect his principles and avoid resentment toward the sport later in life. He emphasizes that stepping away while still loving bodybuilding ensures he can look back at his career with "rose-colored glasses," preserving its beauty without the taint of injury, loss, or regret. To illustrate the mindset surrounding final performances, Bumstead draws parallels to other high-profile athletes who prioritize legacy over victory in their last attempts. He cites Mark Cavendish, a British cyclist from Manchester competing in the Tour de France, whose documentary *Tour de France Unchained* depicts his struggle during what was meant to be his final year. Despite needing only one stage win to secure history's most wins and having family support, Cavendish suffered near misses and a devastating crash that broke his collarbone. Following this failure, he announced retirement but returned the next season under pressure from his wife, ultimately achieving victory before leaving on high terms. This contrasts sharply with Jon Jones, another Manchester native who chose to vacate his UFC title rather than face Tom Aspinall in what was perceived as a risky final fight that could mar his legacy against an aggressive opponent outside his prime. Bumstead uses these examples to highlight the "champion mentality" where one's defining moment cannot be a loss, leading athletes to either retry until success or exit on their own terms rather than being forced out by defeat. He notes that while he respects figures like Mark Cuban and Andrew Huberman (implied through Hormozi references), his approach differs in how he views failure as an opportunity for growth rather than a reason to quit immediately. When faced with the hypothetical scenario of losing, Bumstead argues that he would have utilized the loss to learn lessons within his control—specifically how to handle adversity and maintain integrity—even if it meant stepping away from competition sooner. The core of Bumstead's argument rests on the distinction between ego-driven desires for victory and values-driven decisions regarding life balance. He acknowledges that while his ego might enjoy a final win, he recognizes the luxury of having already achieved success allows him to speak freely about retirement without fear of failure defining his career. With a pregnant wife and a young daughter, Bumstead feels unable to lock in selfishly on bodybuilding anymore; the sport has enriched his life sufficiently for it to be time to move forward. He concludes that true champions are defined not just by their wins but by how they handle outcomes outside their control, ensuring that their final chapter remains consistent with their core values and love for the journey rather than a desperate need to prove themselves one last time.
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If you hadn't won, crazy world I know, if you hadn't won, would you have still retired? This year? That's an incredible question. I actually haven't even thought about that. It's so funny cuz I went into that year with I would even like every year and my sister one year looked at me in the Olympia and she's like, "Are you ever going to believe you're going to win?" Cuz I was she's Cuz it'd be the day before the Olympia. >> or four or five? It was like in between pre-judging and night show and I just dominated the show. She's like, "So, you feel good about it?" I was like, "I don't know. Like maybe I'll win." She's like, "Are you ever going to [ __ ] believe that you're going to win?" Like and I was and I didn't and then the last year I went into that prep and I like I didn't even like I had those moments of do I love this, do I not and I worked my way back to a point of like this is the last time and I enjoyed it and I like loved the experience but the whole time it was just like am I going to do it, am I going to am I going to win or am I going to not compete? Mhm. >> That was what was in my brain and I didn't even think and it was finally that point where I just believed in myself where I knew like I know what to do, I know my what I'm capable of and like I'm going to come in and win if I do it. So, I never even thought about it but That is a champion mentality, right? Finally you reached it. >> got it and then and then I leave. Yeah, yeah. >> Um but no, yeah, I like to believe that I would have retired I would have stuck to my principles. >> regardless and looking back now I can't I can't imagine being in a prep right now, you know? And it like I said it's very different because my mind did just like release all these focuses where it opened up the ability to realize all these things that I had been holding that might have been creating tension in my life. So, I'm in a state right now where I can't imagine trying to lock in and focus on being so selfish at something with a pregnant wife, 16-month-year-old daughter life-changing like it is but my ego would love to tell you that hell yeah, man, I would have retired regardless. I wouldn't have even cared if I lost. >> a luxury belief because you won. You can say whatever you want. You can't go back and run the run the experiment again. >> Very true. You know Mark Cavendish? He's a cyclist in the Tour de France, British British guy from Manchester, I think. Uh 37, 38 now so older in the Tour and he's a sprinter as well and um the Tour de France Unchained, if people need a good documentary, so it's Drive to Survive Formula 1 but for the Tour de France. They've done it for 3 years now and in the second year he just needs one stage win to have the title of the most stage wins in Tour de France history. So, it's I guess it must be a particular hack that the sprinters have got that because they work for the finish, they actually end up with more stage wins than the general classification, the yellow jersey. And he is going for it and he's saying this is my final year, he just needs one stage win and his wife's there and the kids are there and he's sort of working himself up to it and he has a couple of near misses and then he has a big crash at at the sprint finish and he's devastated. Oh, no, he has it I think he breaks his collarbone in maybe a pileup partway through which is even less glorious. And uh the whole thing was this was going to be the final year he was going to win and then season 3 comes along and he's made this big song and dance. He has this sort of tearful announcement about how he's going to leave the sport behind and he I've given my given my life to the sport and he raced for England, for Great Britain, all this stuff and then it comes back and it's him and his wife and his wife basically says, "I know that you're not going to rest. I know that you're not going to be satisfied." She's like, "What does it matter? You said that you were going to leave. You're not satisfied. So, run it back. Do it again." And he does and he gets his victory and he he sort of goes out on his shield but the opposite of that is Jon Jones. Jon Jones uh it seems wanted to vacate the title rather than lose it to Tom Aspinall who is real aggressive fighter, also from Manchester. Everyone's from Manchester. And um it it just seems like he was so concerned about his legacy being marred with the final fight up against this young, very heavy, very talented, natural heavyweight uh as opposed to Jon who's maybe not quite so in his prime. >> Mhm. And you have someone who in both cases have got the same mentality which is my final performance cannot be a loss. I either need to go back and do it again in order to be able to achieve victory or I need to bow out on my own terms as opposed to stop and people remember the way that you left the party so to speak in that way. Like the the footnote or the the the final song, the encore of your entire career is so amazing. Shame about how his final competition went, you know? Like when he got beaten by whatever, whatever. Yeah. So, I it doesn't surprise me that that would be a difficult question to answer. Yeah. No, it's funny too. Hormozi sent me a text going in the last prep he had he had like suspicions that I was going to retire that year and he said something. I can't even remember exactly what he said about me going and winning or something. And I threw like a little flick back at him because we think very differently and I like respect how like what he does is incredible. This is like the beautiful champion mentality like you can think however you want, you just have to win. And I was like, "Well, what if I lost? What about the lesson that I could learn in the loss?" And he was he posted on Instagram the next day being like, "I got a text from someone last night and it made me mad." He went off and I commented on it being like, "Love me." But no, like genuinely like when I like I was talking about my most important values right now, if I trust and believe in myself to live up to those values what I would have been able to do was to use that loss, something out of my control, to take what is in my control, how I handle it, to learn something and try to apply it to be the best version of myself and to stick to my values and in trusting myself I would have still made the decision that I know I need to step away cuz before I won, before I had the chance of losing, I had made the decision why I was walking away. What was most important to >> with >> And it wasn't about if I win or I lose or if I lose I it was unrelated to all that stuff. It was or what's best for me and my life and my family is to step away right now and it's for the love because I love the sport I'm walking away so I don't put myself in a position where I'll resent it. Mhm. Cuz people who go too long and then they'll step away and they'll look back at their whole career with resentment. Either if they at least have health issues or injuries or on a loss or something, it taints it in your own mind and it loses that like kind of beautiful like lies that you have on it. Yes, yes, yes, yes. Yeah, you're able to >> You can look back with yourself into the rose-colored glasses. You can look back and be like it was perfect, you know? And I have the privilege now to be like my career was perfect which it was far from Yeah. But >> if it'd been the other way and your only second place victory had been the final one. Yeah. Why I was second before but yes, it'd be my third second. This episode is brought to you by Momentous. Trust really is everything when it comes to supplements. A lot of brands may say that they're top quality but very few can actually prove it which is why I partnered with Momentous. 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