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The video opens with hosts Eliza Kimani and Tu welcoming viewers to an early morning segment dedicated to injecting positive energy into the day. Before diving into their main topic, they discuss several trending stories that highlight the complexities of modern life. One story involves a viral image of the Virgin Mary appearing on a wall in Kenya, which led to a massive crowd gathering and the eventual demolition of the house by authorities who claimed it was an optical illusion caused by smoke and steam rather than a supernatural event. Another segment addresses the plight of a young Rwandan national born and raised in Kenya who lacks proper documentation due to the passing of his parents, prompting a discussion on citizenship laws which allow for naturalization through birth registration, marriage, or long-term residency. The hosts also touch upon issues of bullying against foreigners and a former priest leaving the clergy to marry, using these anecdotes to emphasize the importance of authenticity, humanity, and making personal choices rather than living a double life or being forced into roles by societal pressure. The core of the discussion shifts to the concept of the "digital footprint," exploring how individuals curate their online personas versus their real selves. The hosts debate whether social media profiles should accurately reflect who a person is or if they serve as a carefully packaged brand image, noting that platforms like Instagram often encourage a polished, professional presentation while apps like TikTok allow for more raw, unfiltered expression. They address concerns regarding employers checking candidates' social media history, the potential dangers of fake identities online, and the necessity of verifying people through video calls or in-person meetings before investing emotionally or financially. A significant portion of the conversation is dedicated to the ethics of parents posting photos of their children without consent; while acknowledging that sharing milestones is understandable, the hosts argue that children should ideally have a say in their own digital presence as they mature, respecting their future autonomy over their online identity. In conclusion, the video advocates for a balanced approach to social media usage where users remain mindful of how their content might be perceived by employers, strangers, and family members. The hosts stress that while it is acceptable to present a specific side of oneself online, one should not judge others solely based on their digital profiles, as these are often incomplete glimpses of reality. They encourage viewers to "be human" and treat others with kindness, regardless of their background or online behavior, warning against the toxicity of bullying and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards. Ultimately, the segment serves as a reminder that while social media is a powerful tool for connection and self-expression, it requires responsibility, critical thinking, and a commitment to genuine human interaction over curated digital illusions.
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and beautiful day. Yes, it's exactly 6 minutes past 7 in the A.M. How is the morning going blanket? You know, it's very cold this morning, so probably as it could get. Yes, my very good name is Eliza Kimmani and as always I never sit alone. I am here with the amazing most beautiful pretty lady in the house. Yes. And her name is Tu. So right about now let's get to hear from her and what's going to be popping today. Good morning. Good morning. What's the secret? Tell us because behind the scenes and I'll explain to you a few minutes before it was the show. She's like, "Hey, I was I was keeping the energy for now." >> I was not familiar with your game, girl. I wasn't familiar with the game. My name is Tunifa and of course this is why morning WCW WCW man. This is where we get to inject you with good vibes you know we you for you to jump start your day in a good positive energy and yeah with some good stories be so you tell us where you're watching us from. We want to know that. Yeah. And by the way, >> by the way, do you know that is a stress that really eats someone up? What to dress? Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow. Wow. >> Especially for ladies, by the way. Am I the only thinking? by you can send us your pick of the outfit before you step out because she'll she's going to help you understand which outfit makes you look better for whatever it is that you're going to do. It's very very early in the morning. Thank you so much. You knowinc, we know. Look at her. She's looking amazing. You're looking amazing. >> Thank you so much. But so shy. Let's talk. Let's talk. No worries. Facebook actually already. And like she has said, let us get to know where you are, um how you're getting ready for your morning, how you looking, uh what's the plan. And we are on all social media platforms at Y254 channel. And this is # Y in the morning. Yesibana to the vibe launch and as we vibe guys to co in the end times. Why? Why do I say that? There was beautiful Wednesday morning. Good vibes last week. What's your intention? Touch the screen. Yes. And guys, she's not au anyways. Yes. So, I was saying that um I hope or probably you've come across this story. But let me tell you for you who's not g gotten a chance to see it. That's why I'm here for you. Okay. Yes. The kissing uh it's a video. Let me first explain what happened. So I scroll online and then I come across a crowd of people and they were surrounding a mad house and I'm like okay wait a minute about Virgin Mary. For those of you who do not know Virgin Mary, Virgin Mary is a photo or I I don't know if it's a photo or whatever. Yeah. Of of the mother of Jesus Christ. Yes, at least you know Jesus. At least you've heard about Jesus. So, yes, the mother of Jesus Jesus is your savior. Yes, he died for you and for your sins. >> Son of God. >> Yes, the son of God. So, Virgin Mary and they were saying as if it's as if that house was either some people are saying it's haunted, others are saying it's holy. And so the recent news is that the family uh demolishes the house after the alleged Virgin Mary image appeared on wall and it drew a a huge crowd. So I don't know why demolish people are still using the house. So that means yeah come check this manes apparently the own of the oh not the own of the house a priest Ali you know the priest >> and uh this priest was saying that actually it was caused by water mixing with smoke from the kitchen >> so that's why but how can it be so accurate the the whole cuz I saw it I saw the video and I was like hey actually it looks like it but now That's what he's saying. And now they had to demolish the house cuz people crack with the force. It's it's it's mad. Yeah. You want Jesus to come back? Not now. I like but I think of the exact picture before something. So how sure are we going to be if it was even true or you are just lying to us man. You are a good artist by the way. It was a good one. If you are the one who did that art there's a lot but it was a good one. Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I I I didn't even think it was serious until I came across this other story about them demolishing the house. That's when I realized, oh, it was something that was actually really going on. >> Yeah. And me, okay, for those who are watching us from the videos and the photos also to me. >> Yeah. First hand from you. We would really like to see them. Um, in other news, okay, I see a story here of someone that has texted NGC. Please hide ID. Okay. So, I'm a foreigner from I'm a foreign national from Rwanda, but I was born and raised here. Here means in Kenya. Okay. And I have a Kenyan birth certificate butina ID because I am yet to get to uh because I am 20 years of age. My parents died a long time ago and if we are forced to go back I do not know where my home is. I do not know where to go because I don't have even other families. So I say mom uh please Kenyans for the sake of humanity have mercy on us. Okay. This is a story following um and the people from Rwanda and also from But now um first I would like us to address this before we get deeper into this discussion. I would like us to talk about this this specific story for this guy or lady. I don't know if it's a she or a he because very many people don't know that you there are so many ways of you getting citizenship. >> So Tulu is going to take us through that. How do you get citizenship? Because I realize most people probably because according to this question it shows that this person doesn't know that what social studies that's why though I don't >> I don't do history so science I don't do history. Let me do three sciences. >> Okay. >> We see you. We see you. >> Mind you proper. >> Okay. I I think uh with the small knowledge that I have I think through birth registration first I mean your two parents you know definitely anyway I love my dad anyway so >> but you see I'm pretty so the outcome cuz me I a product of the two of them. So if they had replaced with someone else, it's someone else who would have been there. And I'm happy I'm alive. Yeah. You saying by birth and by registration by registration for more than 10 years. I don't know. I'm not sure. I I I think um you've not gone back. You've not gone back home. I think so. Yes. Come back. Yeah. So by registration appear by adoption like maybe you >> so you are ours. >> Yeah. >> Also by marriage. >> By marriage. >> Yeah. But marriage it depends on I think a span of six plus years. That's when now you can when you're married to a Kenyan citizen, you're living in Kenya for more than six years, you can get the citizenship. But now uh yes, so if you're married to a Kenyan and you are not a Kenyan >> and I think it depends on how long you've stayed in Kenya also. Yes. If that means if you're married to a Kenyan or even if you're not married to a Kenyan and you've been in Kenya for more than 10 years, you also are um allowed to stay. And also like the story we've read here, whoever you're still a Kenyan by birth. >> Yeah. As long as you can speak and English, those are national languages like you can apply for Kenyan citizenship. So Don't worry, you're okay. You're cool. Yes. Another question to the Kenyans. I saw a a story of a man that was harassing a guy. And as we all know, these guys Baba shops by the way. >> Oh, >> you have to mention all I don't go to barber shops. I didn't even know they are there. >> And she told us she's single last week. Okay. Her boyfriend. >> It's going to be my brother, my cousin, my neighbor, >> your boss. >> My my boss, Mr. George. Yeah. >> Anyways, yeah. So, like any other business I thought why am I why is my knowledge this limited? But I love I love nuts. So most of the time she would see. So what I was saying is that I saw a video of a man that was harassing one. Yeah. So the guy is there and everything and the guy and for me I came to think about humanity first. This is a person like yourself. This is a person trying to make ends meet or something you know. So, I don't see why you need to get to a point of making someone feel like that or anything, but bullies are just bullies, man. Bullies are just bullies because I don't even see the reason as to why people are running. I mean, kick out the Bundians in our country, they're supposed to go home. So bullies are just you know which is not really good by the way. We are supposed to be to love one another. We are one mean I feel like East African is just one big country with some small bedrooms. you know, and they feel this is like actually exactly it's the same same thing. >> Exactly. So imagine in the country and another thing I feel like to stand up to one another to see what I wanted to say is this like they don't belong because humanity first actually they were not there scared already. Scared scared. So we should be just let's be nice. Let's be nice, man. It will it will go a long way. Yeah. So stop harassing them for two days. I even saw like they were that scared. >> Oh my god. >> You can imagine these are human beings like yourself. You know, some things just make me very angry cuz I'm like, how special are you? You know what? What pisses me off is that actually that's what I wanted to say because how many there's no cheap labor cheap actually I feel like we We we can just like as a country they can just come up with a way of all these maybe by them as a government it's okay but you're like want to feel inseure in our beautiful country and the way we always preach peace we always speak of let's love one another and then at the end of the day the first people our foreigners I mean visitors yes who are mean to us in our country. >> Yeah. By the way, me I will fight for them. If I find a person harassing them, I don't Okay, not just them, anyone. I don't like people harassing people. So, if I if I am able to do something, I'll just get >> you know I have so many things that are coming in my mind. My my mouth is Yes. Tell us about the video. yesterday and I felt like yeah that's good man we should be doing that kick out of the country >> amazing um another story here former Catholic priest father Sandro leaves priesthood to marry a woman from he was really waiting for he has waited for this his whole life. his whole life you know >> Paul said if you can don't marry but if you know you cannot really really really really keep keep to the discipline just go and marry okay but that's how I understand we are given different revelations but that's what I understood but yeah maybe I and they decided to be like Paul. >> But I feel like this is this is better. >> This is me speaking. Okay. Okay. This is this is better rather than hiding. You know, it's good to just come out clean. I can't do this. And you can't serve two masters. At some point, I I don't know if you came across some stories. So you see instead of all those dramas you just quit this cuz it's not it's not a scene. This is me thinking yeah it's not a scene. You just instead of living a double life just choose. >> My question is how many priests I don't want to mention them. this is the path I want to marry or I want to I want to get married because no I feel like fishy stories okay let me be good let me be Nice. Of course, but yeah, with this story, I feel like I want to quit. >> And something else I realized forced by the parents. It's not a decision he or she made. What are you even saying? So like this person might do that not because you love it, not because it's something you want to do, but you're going to do that because at some point and so you find yourself fall in love, but there's no way you're going to get out of this. come priest >> and by the way like priesthood at what age? >> I do >> cuz I feel like in our early 20ies we are just all over the place. We are not even sure of what we want >> but that young okay I don't know if they are priests or whatever they are but yeah when you do that in your church you can help us to understand how it goes. Yeah, we have someone I think tun I I think they can just maybe for me I feel like they can introduce a rule whereby you try this thing of priesthood to a certain age like this is level one like you see like in the military level one after some few years a certain level are you still ready to go to level two or you want to go yeah exactly or continue He was so happy. >> But he's old. >> Okay. I didn't mean to. Okay. I didn't mean to say that. Yeah. But okay. Apologize. >> I'm I'm taking it to us. My question is just already it's still good that he realized he doesn't want to die. What are you waiting for as a man? As a young man? >> No. Yes. Escalate real quick. Why? Come back. Come back. >> Where? What are you doing? >> Come back. I know. I know. Please come back. Go marry. >> No peace. Just go marry. >> Well, but but I think they should just introduce that role. Yeah. I mean rule. Levels. after 5 years because I feel like some people are forced into this priesthood and sisterhood whatever Catholic where it's not something Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. So yeah and also parents should also be be Anyway, you're still Yeah. Yeah, those kind of parents. >> But uh I love saying do whatever it is that you're doing for yourself not for your parents cuz most people what they do. Why did you waste all that time and you knew that's not what you wanted to do? professional gossip. We up for a living. >> Wow, >> what a life. A story here as we get to end up on this segment. Niku, the >> kid of or rather dragon and people went and it was okay. So I know like No wonder guys you guys can really Wait, wait. What? Tanzanian celebrity like Yeah. She's second like there was like a whole debate online something here like I I think the issue by the way to say, what to do about I don't know what they're trying to say, but well to them I love how to develop a thick skin. >> I go for lessons however much to just get to learn from him. how to imp how how do you do that simple like tell us because oh my god how do you do it Mr. We would really love to know you. I had seen I had heard had that. Okay. Yeah, I get it. I get it. some peacece but I don't think there but it's not like it's a big deal I almost kiss you're making me moreown and more Everyone is running to see the videos. Everyone is running to go check. And by the way, one thing about like always Yeah, true. >> Not people are above you. There are always people who are >> they just be likeve I know you know the TV host of the Mad respect to you. You're doing amazing for me. I'm just team it. He's such an hardworking guy. >> Yes. And as we the last story animation as we wind up on this segment story this is the last one. Okay. Yes. So and Liz Jackson call for arrest of adults seen giving alcohol to a minor in a disturbing video. Over to you. Was he 100%? >> Do you know that people don't drink in front of kids? Like that used to happen back in the days. That used to happen back in the days. I feel so bad by the way because I feel like our I mean our old enough to make decisions for himself. >> Exactly. >> I know this is what I want or I don't want to do it. >> Cuz I remember like an incident when I was young I used to see someone smoking. One of our neighbors used to smoke. So I used to feel like ah this is beautiful man. Even when I smoke I was a kid. >> Yeah. So you feel like I feel like it's a flex, you know. So I'm imagining a lot of especially young people 18 to 20 something early 20s the way they always flex drinking streets outside and they feel like okay we having fun. I want to feel like It's so wrong. Why drink in front of kids? Like you do take your things because that was so wrong because now I end up quite drunkard. So what are you going to do about that? Is it really happening? It's going to be sweet. Like that's how everyone starts. So I feel like I support something should be done like action should be taken against these people because you see right now 21 years. So >> 21. >> Yes. Well from 18. >> Yeah. So like so that means that this this child is not supposed to take alcohol. Yeah. Just be ready cuz now that was wrong or anything. Wow. And also parents should also be responsible. Okay, I get it. Bills at the end of the day for nothing afterwards. to raise the kid. But then again, drug dealer or something. So parents should also be very careful. As much as we know the economy, I mean, we should also be careful as parents. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Well, I think we have told you a lot. Go research for yourself. Go do your research. I'm on social media pages. Y24 on Facebook, Y25 on Instagram, Y24 like Tik Tok, Twitter, I mean X. Yeah, just tell us. And remember, we told you if you're stepping out today, we want to see your outfit of the day, man. who is that you can also send that picture. You look at them and they're like, "Wow, >> you really went all out single." This is a would be a very very good opportunity for you. Speaking of, are we in Europe? Are we freezing and shine? Freeze and shine. We have to freeze and shine. But are we in Europe because it is September crop tops but the weather man. Hey single people how you doing guys at this point. Is it only Nairobi though? I have a friend in she tells me every day like every day what's not happening world anyways by the way till forever now we have a very very amazing discussion that we have for the day okay and our topic today is the digital footprint So all you're talking about is posts, photos, comments, search, online interactions, digital footprint foot, print digital in one sentence >> like you're just like your image on social media. That's what we talking about. Yeah, we want to know who are you? What kind of person am I going to see? And um the question that is very interesting is who do you want people to see? Because there is you and all that. Yes, there is you. And now there is the you that we see online with makeup. and all that. So yes, that's all we talking about today. >> And we want to know consequences social media. We want to know the positive and the negative of uh your images. I mean your image on social media. So we were just we just want to talk about like you are packaging like how you're packaging yourself on social media. That's the topic for today. So yeah, we can't wait to dive into that because there's so much to unpack >> right now. Uh we are in the digital era. Everyone is online. Everyone is online. And it's funny that times you just see a grandma post Facebook and it's just like okay so she has like right now I think 90% of people work online Facebook. What's your Instagram handle? Like that's that's the normal language. Number WhatsApp then you go ahead and give them the number >> which I feel is better. >> Yeah. into your personal life because this effect profile there. So you you don't get actually to get to know this person unless the contact that's when you do the video. Oh even on Instagram you can video call each other. So, okay. But I think >> speaking of which I think it's on Facebook that people use one fake names, you see those those funny funny names. So, you can't know who that person is. Also, Ronaldo. Yeah. So, like you can't really trust these people. You can't know who they are. for them that like yeah about that and also if if you have like an experience online like we you interacted with someone or maybe you posted a picture online We want to know all those stories. So yeah, we are here for that. >> Yeah. And let's dive in straight into this discussion. So uh from our first question, what exactly makes up someone's digital footprint? >> Wow, good question. >> Mhm. I feel like okay, social media mostly is how you want it to be. You personal like what you post, what you type. Let's say social med like even that's your image on social media. actually speaking of which most of the time Facebook and now since you're tagged it's also so how do you deal with that okay You're getting what I'm saying. Someone tagged you on a post and so like you don't post a lot. Instead of seeing you, I'm seeing other people's posts. Oh, welcome to this welcome to watch. So, I feel like in some sort of way, but I've not seen that with other plat other apps. So, I feel like at some point that affects the image of your page of your content because um and but I I saw cuz I I realized I can just delete that post from my side. So, yes, that's what I actually do. I just delete it. So because Yeah. to come through. So I think but I think except ac except that you can be able to um you can be able to know how your page should look like and on Instagram. >> Yeah. Instagram. Yeah. >> Yeah. It's very easy for you and also pictures. But you know back in the days I used to ask myself this like why is it that artist but I came to realize that the >> now that you are the celebrity now a hair tellers. >> Wow. Hallelujah. But I came to realize that but you don't know who they are. for you. Yeah. So now I understand people even use though right now it's not as much used. They use your photo to get to places. I know. I mean, I mean, what happened? >> Where were you? What's this? You're tired of working with us, right? You don't know who is who. So, don't just take picturesity anyone. Yeah. Be careful by the way. So, but I feel like also >> apps. Is it true that squeezy what especially interviewers want to go through your social media? >> They do. >> Yeah. >> They should be who are you online if you have a following and all that what kind of content you do so that they know if you're going to tamper with the image of their company. But then again, I feel like there is this >> 19 no like age 19. Yeah. Early 20s the things we post on online like crazy because likes followers. No what you do at such a point you hide >> or you make them private for yourself that content >> and then again sometimes really >> I feel like internet doesn't forget >> yeah yeah so they just be careful do okay I'm very sure that they understand that you're a young person and whatever it is that like you have to enjoy life. So people have do that. Wow. But but then again, how many accounts do you have? Let's say maybe for Instagram or Tik Tok or even Facebook >> one just one >> one one for every okay yeah I just like that something wrong in the you don't even know my username but >> I know you're my colleague know used to do funny funny clips. I think I think that was in 2022. I think that's when I right now. So clips I I just laugh cuz they're just funny. This was my best photo. Wow. Wow. Like what was wrong with you? But I get it. But I feel like maybe for even the bosses who are looking forward to hire someone is not the only aspect. Okay, just be good, excellent at every other thing. So, added advantage. Okay, like ah that was a long time ago or something like it doesn't affect who you are at the end of the day. >> Exactly. The problem is not like for example. Yeah. For example, you are going to look for a job at a government organization. How do you speak about the government? >> How are they towards the big employer? Cuz now that is the big because the government is a big test. So obviously employing negatively about it depends on the person or the organization that is going to hire you. So those are some of the things that they look at but but then again we have those people who judge us because of I mean by just looking at our social media pages village back in the village You know something I'm attached too. Zopia people should be nice, man. Don't judge people through their social media pages. No, social media. I can just lie to you that I'm happy. >> That's what happens. >> This this is my life. But deep down you can be anywhere at any time and it's you. Yes, you. glasses. So like right now with the eye, it's very easy to fake it. Yeah, exactly. But >> again, by the point of AI, people are faking sake overdue, guys. Slow down. Slow down. Slow down. Slow down. Slow down. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. you know make it but this is too much and so you see I think it's Google profile profile picture so the leader who was leading the meeting so she was like come on says that she So, but if you can't if you don't have a good photo that can take a good a good phone that can take a good photo, you go. Okay, guys. And on that note, by the way, like for those people when you meet online, especially for those dating apps and ensure that you get to meet this person like in person shocked at the end of the day invest baby girls when I invest. >> I know what you do, ma. I'm coming to that baby girl. So you're going to sp I mean we also want the money but not to spoil them. Okay to spoil ourselves. >> At this point I think no wants to me. I'm just a girl. I'm just a baby. So maybe after that we can figure out. Yeah. So invest in that person because of the image. So ensure that you get to meet this mean this person in person. Lunch date. or something. Get to know this person. social media package respond. smart, you know. Very smart. Deep down, deep down, come over, baby. I want to see you. I want to know who you are. Also, I think people do video calls. If you're sure like probably au and you really can't meet, okay, make sure that you do these video calls. make sure that you see this person on a random Saturday. Yeah. So, it's very very important. >> Very important. >> Realize for ladies and the day I see you without makeup, >> I'll be very shocked cuz makeup enhances someone's beauty. >> Yeah. So like what are you trying to do? See like I'm just giving an example. Okay. But I'm just giving an example. Yeah. But I get that a lot. I used to see that like people trash talking other people. after trust me. So if they are not like me, a person who is not a makeup person forever. Do you know there's forever and ever, I always saw her on makeup. She was always on. So me I never saw her real face now I didn't even get it so you can imagine like I I I didn't understand but yes without seeing your real face we see a difference but there's a slight difference so even for the I saw a certain video on um a lady that went out and then the guy tells her to wipe off the makeup >> one that was very rude makeup up, bro. But that's the end for me and you and everything. And you're here trying to do that. And do you know how expensive it is and time time, man? Almost 1 hour. >> Yeah. >> Getting ready to come see you. That's so rude, man. You shouldn't be like that. You can do better. And on that note, by the I just want you to take your phone and Google. I just want you to type your like social media Google. Where is my Google? Okay. Google, please. All right. Let's go. Who is Eliza Kimani? All right. So, so from Instagram um the description is >> an awardwinning TV host, a publisher, a publishing and other services, founder of hope givers. I am not a founder of hope givers. Founder of Since when? Yeah, I'm not the one. But yeah, I posted that story at some point. Professional moderator and corporate MC. >> Yeah, that is what it says. Attended Kenya Institute of Mass Communication Celebrities. Okay. Yes. That's Yeah. So like can you explain professional moderator corporate MC publishing and other services KBC channel one TV >> so I feel like it's very important because so I feel like sometimes once in a while there was a certain meeting we attended online and they were saying that it's very important for you to just check Google describe descriptions >> actually I've realized that about that founder it's a story I had posted so they've also brought it here so is that the main thing that's dominating cuz definitely it's taking what the dominant the dominant content >> yeah so you you just try to to go through it like your profile description in a match what you're representing in the society because sometimes but that's how you presented yourself on social media and right now we don't have time to social media if you're looking for that job yeah just clean your social media description the company in a negative way to the negative comments. You know, most of the time with mindset negative thing, what do I say? What do I think? So be very careful when you're looking for those comments. Is it effect in a way or the other? >> Yes. And where where do they actually where do you think people should draw the line that okay at this point? Do you think there should be a certain age where people should be like this age or this certain age? Do you feel like there should be a certain age? I don't think that we should really focus on someone's age because who mature differently. So like people people think differently, people have different um perspectives. >> I'll not really say about the age, but let's say about the kind of content someone is doing. And then to advice on good health on how we should do this and that. Your page how it looks is what should make our minds change. Okay. I don't know if you got to a point you know. >> Yeah. So, yeah. But then she got to a point and she was like, "This is not the content I want to do." And she had to clean her social media pages and that looked like start advertising what you do as an MC professionally who she is, you know, and that was the best I think that's the best way to handle it. Like all you're supposed to do is this is who I want people to know me as. I used to do funny funny things. But when you go to my page right now, you're going to see videos of us doing co-hosting. So it's not really about the age of someone. Yeah. So, exactly. It's crazy. It's her first experience. She's like, so you see, we can't really limit it to age. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. For sure. And also on that note, I feel like we should also not like judge people because of their social media. That's who she is to see. I think we should separate that social media and person. Now I know you 100%. Yeah, that's all the the real them. So like and if I don't show you that side of me, you'll never think that. Yeah. You'll never think that I can do that. But that's a life that I'm not showing you. This is what I'm showing you. This is what I want you to see. So like she's saying, social media is just a little glimpse of who that person actually is. >> Yeah. But I I love social media platforms like real life because I feel like Tik Tok is somehow crazy. >> Yeah. >> You can people are just doing their crazy stuff. But when it comes to Instagram, I don't know. But it's so crazy because like are you sure not seeing the right thing? What's going on here? Yeah. content. And funny enough, on Tik Tok, it's crazy that you're just being you. You're not faking. You're not like putting the professionalism in it. Instagram. They are the same same people who are also on Instagram and Tik Tok. So, I don't know. I don't know. Tik Tok, this is where you go crazy and do crazy stuff and just be you. Then Instagram, this is a whole you full package now brand new. I don't know who told us that, but it's interesting. Yeah. >> As we get to wind up on this uh discussion, there's a story that I saw >> online of a young boy, I think or something like that. Grade N. Yeah. And um the mom wanted to take a photo or do a video with him and so I see a question here asking should parents be allowed to post photos of their children online without asking them for their permission. So I'm like okay baby I want to post your photo. Should I post it? Okay we are in a digital era so maybe that's something that's happening. So do you think that they should be asking for the permission of the child? >> Okay, I think yeah they should but So I feel like okay mangu okay my opinions okay so I don't think it's a cool thing to post your kids on social media I personally I don't even think if I'll post my kids on social media unless I feel like okay this is what this is because I feel like this is like without even giving that child permission. I feel like their own decision whether they want to be online or not. But and then again, you don't know why the some of the parents are doing that. that so there are those pros and cons but but I don't think it's the right thing to actually post your kids on social media at least give them a chance decide this is the life they want or not because for some of lawyers on social media. But I just this is not the life I want to to live. >> But so excited. You want to post your first born. You want the world to see that you're now a mother, which is understandable, but we should consider that. I used to see most of the time especially for the small young babies but me I feel as a parent I have all rights especially okay small infant but so I don't know if that is the cause of the kids Because I feel like people can't attack what they don't know. Simple boy now. Everyone knows. >> Yeah. Everyone know the kid. This can be so I mean the mother of the child. So I feel like it's not good. >> It's not the best. >> Yeah. For me, I feel like it's not. But then again, >> do what makes you happy. >> If posting her or him makes you happy, go for it. >> Yeah. So, I feel like do what makes you happy at the end of the day. Yeah. >> Social media is a topic that we cannot really exhaust. We can talk and talk and talk and talk and still questions are still going to be there. We're still going to have so much to say. And so this is a topic to be continued. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Now I think we can close the topic for a minute. I just hate the fact that no good reason. Yeah. So it's really wrong. Yeah. Very wrong. Like we said, in this world if you can be anything, be nice. >> Yeah. >> Be human. Like today is me. Okay. So just just be human. If everyone was trying to be the best human in the world, >> Yeah. >> but now everyone wants everything for themselves and all that which is not a really good thing. Okay. Yes. And so I want us to get to wind up but we coming back. Okay. Yes. So yes, stay here with us. 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