Should a cheating Partner be forgiven or given a Second Chance? This is why..

[music] Welcome back once again. This is our last segment for the day and we are having a very amazing discussion here. Okay. And we're speaking about things that have been going on probably in the society to Mayona some examples. But yeah, I want to get to hear from you and I have a very amazing panel in the house with me. So we're going to be discussing this amazing discussion. Yes. And we are talking about trust after betrayal. Someone gets to betray you and breaks your heart terribly or they do something against you but still again they come apologize or do something and again kiddog kiddogo you guys are back together. So that is the discussion that we're going to be having in the house today. I have two amazing uh good-looking young ladies in the house. So, I am first going to allow them to say hello to us and then from there we proceed with the amazing discussion that we have. This is why in the morning here on Y254 channel and we are on all social media platforms at Y254 channel. So if you have something probably you want to tell us hey kido me take someone back after they've broken my heart or your perspective in regards to all that. Make sure that you tell us p Facebook we're going to be reading your comments in a few. So I'm going to start with blessing because she was here with us in the morning. Uh so she's going to first say hello to us. uh we get to hear from her and then from her we get to hear from the amazing uh lady that we still we also have in the house. Good morning. >> Good morning. Good morning. Good morning ladies and gentlemen. My good name is Bessie Blessing. I'm so excited to be back cuz we are having a fire topic darling you can't afford to miss. >> Amazing. >> Yes. >> Hi. Um good morning. My name is Paul Wangro and I'm so glad to be here and join the discussion today. >> Amazing. Yes. So like you've seen I'm here with deir young ladies in the house and we're speaking about betrayal and this is in regards to what we've been seeing online stories aro namak diamond how they do things we also have this guy who was um I'm forgetting his name this um guy who >> Kenyan prince >> yes Kenyan prince and we see different men with their different ways of apologizing or showing that they are still there for women. But one thing that stands out throughout all those examples is that the young women still go back to these young men. Yeah. So what is really going on? What is the issue? What is it that uh these men give after this heartbreak, after this betrayal? Hey man, east or west home is the best. I'm going back because uh CeCe as the audience, we look at things and we are like what? [screaming] I can't take that. I can't allow anyone to do that to me. But then there they are. >> They're still going back. So maybe let's get to hear from your side what you think that what is really going on like the side of the story we know is not the real or true side of the story. >> Yeah. So starting me. >> Yeah. Y >> first of all I want to say when you are in love with someone there's something that in a relationship I feel like this the love of my life I don't want to leave them um we have built a lot maybe business trust connections now you feel like ah even though this person I'm in >> there's so much at stake >> attraction So as much as they they are breaking your trust and I feel like I have to go back east or west is the best. So I feel like we ladies sometimes what these people has done to us multiple women betray is not treating you. You are buying him gift gifts but yeah he's not reciprocating you doing a lot. It's like you are the man in the relationship but at the end of the day you see see other women going back. Yes. Yeah. But she was so with him. She's not feeling it. The vibe, but she's just giving him chance. So >> just just do it cuz you're already here. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Just do it. Just just finish up and go. >> Yes. >> Okay. What do you think is the problem with women because they just come? And now let's think about the Kenyan prince scenario big apology flowers. Why is it that most of the times when that happens, these young women forget about everything else that this guy ever did and they just accept the apology? >> First of all, I think that is um some cognitive dissonance like this person has done me wrong, this person has like everything. But then again like um the atonement like from like it's it's much higher. So like um let me excuse his behavior because at the end of the day and like we we're viewing from a other eye like a a perspective that we don't know like we are the outsiders. They know how they love themselves. Uh they love each other and then at the at the end of the day these people these two people have chemistry. These two people have um history and there is familiarity between the two of them. Um us we are viewing from a point of like um to now to now think critically like how to think um to think like there is chemistry like we don't know what's going on behind closed doors. So I feel like Nivo um with the case of Nadia Mukami and Arab Boy coming on stage um during her performance nema she did like she didn't because she said that only close friends know that this was not pre-planned or anything. So I can feel like she agreed like to continue with boy because first of all there was some manipulation there because he came with a kid and and we know like Nadia like loves her children like your like your issue. So, so yes and I feel like with the case of Kenyan Prince from a point of I feel like he did this big gesture that um Steph saw as like an atonement and at the end of the day as I said these people have chemistry these people have history. Yeah. >> Amazing. So that means that we should not start >> getting into people's relationships. But what if you know what was done against you? Uh most of the times when you're in a relationship, your friends are the ones that see how this guy is not treating you right, how he's taking advantage of you. Your friends are the ones who notice, eh no, this guy is taking it too far. But most of the times, uh they always say you can never advise someone who's in love. And you find that even if your friends really try to come and tell you, hey, this is not right. You feel some people feel like this person is jealous of you and all that. But maybe we should always give um give it give our friends a benefit of doubt. What if what this person is saying is true? Cuz at the end of the day, we find ourselves we've wasted a lot of investment, a lot of time on the wrong people, people who should not even deserve the kind of love we give. Uh so maybe we can start with can and when now it's in such kind of a point can trust really be fully restored after this person has broken your heart this person has done all these terrible things against you and now again apologize big and you're like wow okay I think this is genuine can trust really be restored fully in case of that blessing >> uh to me it's hard okay personally to me it's very hard when I okay I've never been married but when I'm in relationship I'm fully there like I need to update you but I think I will just inform you part of my life >> yes you part of my life and I want to involve you in what I do so if I'm doing that you should reciprocate okay you're not telling me everything that you doing maybe oh There's a video I saw on Tik Tok. Hey babe, how are you? Uh, I'm at work. When I'm done, I will get back to you. Those are 5 seconds. >> Yeah. >> Yes. So that's >> Yeah. Like if you wanted to do that, he would. Yeah. So I I feel like at the end of the day just for me I you can't just break that trust and come back. What are you coming to do? The trust that I had trust me. No they not trust me. The same same things happen to relationship. You cheated. I will never forget like women we never forget. So my side >> that's why it cannot be restored. >> Yeah. Yeah. No. >> And what's on your side? >> Um I think trust can be earned back because like first of all if like um you're you're in your good graces because at the end of the day forgiveness is different from trust. So like when you forgive this person you do it for your own self and everything. Da da da. it doesn't mean you trust this person. So like when you forgive this person like bad blood you may hold. So I feel like um trust can be earned through demonstrative behavior because first of all when this person broke your trust like when this person betrayed you the thing you asked yourself most is like how did I miss this? Like this person like the red flags were there literally in front of my face. So like how did I miss this? So like I feel like evaluate and you come back from like okay accept because at the end of the day when this person betrays you like breaks your trust two things on your hand like you we talked about grief like there there was this conversation about grief in the morning you grieve the person you used to know and and on the on the other hand you like you like like question like how did I miss this? So like I feel like when you evaluate yourself you forgive this person and then like this person like for example for example there is daily contact like everything everything for example the same place and everything this person if if like they choose to like fix their behavior and everything. I feel like earn your trust back but it take a while like it will take a long while because at the end of the day this person has betrayed you already. So like okay yeah I didn't see this coming but then again okay I saw this coming like surprise because you've done this before. So yeah I feel like trust can be earned back through demonstrative like behavior >> but it needs a lot of time. >> Yeah and a lot of work. Amazing because I feel like um like you said, we forgive people for ourselves. Like we don't forgive them because of anything else or because of them. We forgive you because of ourselves. But then after we done forgiving you and then I look at you and I see that every you've you you're working towards building up on this relationship. You're working towards seeing that everything is working out. Then at that moment um I would trust you again. Actually for women it's very easy to trust someone back especially if they really bring back the person that you used to because like she said at times you grieve the person you used to know but if that person comes back that is the person you fell in love with so it's very easy for you to get back uh to that. So maybe what does betrayal look for you? Um what is that thing that someone would do to you and you feel like you can never take it or you can it's very difficult for you to even think of forgiving them. What is that terrible thing that you you just sit down and imagine and you're like if anyone dares do this to me I will never ever ever forgive them. Blessing >> uh infidelity first of all >> I'm sorry you it was just a a time it was just for the moment. >> No no no infidelity you go especially when you cheat with my friend like I know. I saw I saw a certain video on Tik Tok. The way a man betrayed the girlfriend best friend. Why did you take my best friend? You have been talking about this for your best friend. And I felt like she's the one who I needed to be with. I'm like, "Oh, babe, I'm so sorry. I was wrong. Go. [laughter] >> Yeah. Yeah. So one thing is infidelity and another thingocray like if I buy you gift Liza >> buy me gift. >> Finally someone has spoken about it. Do you know [clears throat] >> I Hey y you you I am carrying a gift box. I am bringing to you and you're picking it and you're empty-handed. Shame on you. Yes. >> Finally, someone is speaking about that Australia like >> and it's not that we do it so that you can do it. No, but most of the times people love you >> with their love language. So what you see me doing most of the times do it to me because that is what I also expect you to do. That's >> and they say women are not are not easy people like women are difficult it's the easy things actually >> yeah actually and you know what I do most of the times do I love talking to you then I expect you to talk to me because that is what I enjoy doing if I love um and we always hint that looks nice I have already told you that that is what I want why do you again come saying that we are difficult we are not Yes. So that's my second point just to buy something else. Something sweet. So anyone can eat chocolate. That's the second thing. Another thing, communication. What are we doing in relationship if you're not communicating well? Communication is the backbone is the foundation of relationship. But if you babe, what are we doing? >> Good morning. Good evening. >> Good night. >> Yeah. [laughter] What's What's going on? What's going on? So if there's no communication like communication is not very important. >> Yes. If communication is not good in relationship to to time next. Yeah. >> Amazing. And what uh does betrayal look for uh for you? >> For me it's two things. Two things that if you cross on my book like we're done done. >> The first one is cheating. We can never come back from cheating. No matter how you sugar it, no matter the kind of history we have, no matter the chemistry. Yes, it's a new like, oh, I loved you and everything, but um I respect myself more to know like I should look away from this like because I'm disrespected. So, first of all, if you cheat out the door because we're not doing that over here. The second one, and this one is something that I usually insist on, lying. I hate a liar because like small small gather up a big thing issues like like you know it's the small small things that build up to like betray or like feel comfortable in our relationship. and lying for me. A big lie like a big tell me a lie or like you like not tell me yeah don't you don't tell me the truth. So I feel like those are two things I cannot I can't come back I can't come back from because you're lying, you know, usually in like I cannot beat you if you come and tell me this and this and this. And then like we see how >> at the end of the day it's good that you are honest and you said the truth >> and that's where communication now comes in okay now how do we move forward from this because so I feel like communication lying not lying they go like this yeah >> and again keeping your promises like The moment you promise I am expect hotel. You haven't done anything and you promised me, bro. Like, no. I at least tell me what that's a big problem with men especially because they always feel like if I tell you I don't have money, you're going to see me as a lesser person. And that's where they uh make a very big mistake because if you said you're taking me out on Saturday then the whole of Friday what do I wear? >> Yeah. >> I went did my hair and everything did my nails are now I'm there expecting everyone else that wanted to book me on Saturday. No guys I am not available expecting to go out with you. You're not saying anything. notating, you're not 2 days later, you know, bro. >> Yeah. And this is something that very many people, women love. As long as you've told me, >> yeah, >> okay, we had these plans, but I think I'm going to cancel because of ABCD. I'll understand. It's it's not the best, but this is life. But you know they don't like every uphold your promises. You can imagine last month after weeks it comes to a point you're like okay sour. So as long as it doesn't build up to like something you usually do or a behavior or a pattern like make it one time thing, two time thing [laughter] do it once and we forgive you. do it the next time and you know women and probably I would be wrong they will say on their side but as a woman if for example you had planned that you're going out and this man tells you man I don't have a problem with telling you all right I'll just sort it out let's just go I'll handle the bill but I'm not saying that this is what you do every time but in case you're genuine and you really wanted to go probably may buy ticket you guys are going to watch a movie and that is the only time it's going to be played you know so s suddenly and everything and all that I would be like all right we'll go with my car if your car is has some problems you see and that's not to to show that you do this every time you know excuses not really but what I'm saying is that women don't have a with stepping up and helping you when they can't do it, I'm going to go off and go silent. That's the worst >> way. Yeah. It's the worst mistake you can make because >> we interpret that differently. You're like, "Oh, so you were never serious. So all this was just a joke for you." That's how we think about that when it comes to you not keeping your promise. >> Yeah. Uh another question is why do people betray those they love? >> Someone would uh do something and they come saying okay I love you you know it was a mistake it was I will never do it. But bro if you love someone then you should really uh have them in mind and be very uh careful not to hurt them but most of the times people get to hurt people that they love. Why is it that way? >> Uh sometimes I think it's a petty things. You have a very beautiful beautiful girl. Everybody want to is just turning and like oh she is so pretty and then when I feel like that person cheated on that lady like what's going on? So I feel sometimes like she's now so in love with me even if I do whatever I want to do that she can't leave me. And And we live relationship when we are still in relationship. Yeah. The guy thinks they're still together, but you've already moved on. >> Yes. broken relationship updation. So I think sometimes uh the the the main reason why one feeling like they add the people they love feel like and >> for you and Ju >> I feel like it's the notion that grass is always greener on the other side you know like oh I have pulled one beautiful lady I have I can do this somewhere else like I'm getting I'm getting this here I can like say for example relationship I'm fully I like so I feel like and then the lack of consideration and lack of respect because you can't do that to your partner if like is usually never enough in a relationship like respect respect love trust those are things that build a strong foundation in a relationship so I feel like not considering your partner, excuse [clears throat] and like not not respecting like disrespecting your partner. So I feel like those are the the things that makes someone a a man like betray their trusted their their partner in a relationship. >> Yeah. >> And most of the times when uh betrayal happens does it always mean that the relationship has to end? when it comes to uh betrayal, am I on a levels of this level kido we can forgive but this one we cannot forgive does um does it always mean that as they've betrayed me we are done >> according to me when you betray me first I I'll stay cuz I love you I've been investing on this person so to just move out relationship just immediately promptly no that will not happen but I will live. I will live. I will live. And again like you're not doing communicating well. You're not doing what you're supposed to do. Like you love this person so hard and so bad. Like you you don't feel like leaving them. Feel like they're the love of your life. You get married, have kids, you have future together. But this is not what I want to settle for. I deserve more better things. Yes. >> Amazing. When we were speaking about trust and if it can really be rebuilt, you said that it needs it's a process and it needs time so that it can be rebuilt. So probably what are some other things that are needed for you to fully rebuild trust that was broken again? >> I feel like redemption and atonement or I am the I'm sorry any the whole the whole shabam. I feel like the mistake Steph did was to immediately go back into that relationship. I feel like that will would have been um okay not the grand gestures every time but I feel like that will be many of the baby steps that he would have taken to like win Steph back instead of like okay because in the mind of this man now he knows anytime and I do a grand gesture you'll just come back running to me and as we've said when you break someone's trust it takes like time to build or earn that trust back She's she's in there for the material things, sorry to say, but Kenyan prince has not earned her trust fully yet. So I feel like take baby steps like okay the next day let me take you out for lunch like in a like atone atone fully for for for whatever you did. And then to answer your question, I feel like there is levels of walk. I feel like this this walk away from this one small things like not big things. For example, today I was not available for the date and everything. communicate that is not something like walk away from because that's not something you walk away from. I feel like you give as a warning like first strike, second strike, third strike out. >> Amazing. And blessing. How long should someone take to uh for the healing to happen? >> Cuz at times relationship and then someone is like see I thought you forgave me. Why are you not doing this? Probably this person wants you to get back uh to intimacy and such kinds of things because you said you forgiven me. I already said I'm sorry, but how long should someone take for them to heal from a betrayal that someone did to them? >> Okay. >> Now, I think it's um after probably well the the person is back, but we said that trust needs to be earned. So, I am still now being careful with you. But now the guy expects everything to be back to normal just because he already said sorry. I think on my new so make me fall in love with you again. Just let's redo it again. So if if if you you used to bring me some goodies if you used to pump me with love sometimes some kind of letter chocolate letter popcorns. >> This lady loves chocolate. [laughter] Hey, >> for me make me feel like you hold my my my trust like I can just be free to call you my love to call you this person that I love but to to then you expecting me to to be all over you all of a sudden no it doesn't work like that when you you add me and when you take the trust that trust must be unpack make sure that you have done something no it doesn't work like that >> and for you what are some of the actions that really matter um in the process of rebuilding the trust after betrayal >> I feel like because then again remember okay we're talking from a point of right um I've already forgiven you but I walked away from that relationship I had already detached as blessing said relationship so like clock out before actually clock out so like relationship it's not that we are picking up from where we left we left from you know like you used to cut me back then cut me again like date me again so that like Okay. Okay. Sour. That that should never be repeated again. And if it does, but I don't think I don't think I can I can actually go back to that relationship like okay maybe maybe trust from a point of we the ones like we are homies we are like friends and everything but relationship after you did all that clock out already. I feel like it will take a mountain to move. Yeah. And which is not possible for me. I think I think sometimes you feel like you have to go back. >> But then again, you know, sometimes women take a lot of, okay, we give men the benefit of the doubt and everything, but they're the ones really benefiting from this doubt. Yeah. Yeah. I take all this like nonsense from this man because in the in the grounds of we have a family. That should never be the cause that you're forgiving someone because you have a family. >> Because when he was betraying you, didn't he know? didn't consider you. So that should not be a point of let me I trust you. Let me forgive you that quick because we have kids. No, we're coming at a point of we were two people who are in love. We were two people who trusted each other because you said a relationship cannot be solely built on love alone. So you you you broke my trust, you disrespected me, you like didn't consider me, you like all these things. So I don't think like at because you have a family I should excuse your behavior because you didn't consider me when you were doing that. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Blessing [laughter] like >> because at the end of the day I I usually see most of the women they can >> that's what they do but it's wrong. That's not what you should do. they don't consider how they feel the disrespect they went through just because they with this man but I'm there for my kids I want my kids to grow with the father I don't want them to grow with a single mother I'm like >> and that person will still hurt you again and again and again that is the problem >> I have actually encountered people like some of my friends um who have given me stories like this and they were like their mom tolerated that marriage because of the kids but then again the kids want the parents to separate because now it's become too toxic. So like you say, you're doing it for the kids, but the kids are saying, "Okay, this is not like good." And that is where your point comes in. Like you can be in a relationship with someone, but from a from another perspective, like an outsider, they're like, "Um, these two people are not good for each other. These people is not working anymore." >> So like don't ever like be there for the I'm doing this for the kids. That should not be should not excuse any sort of disrespect or like trust broken. >> Yeah. >> That takes us to our other question. Is everyone or does everyone deserve second chances? Um what are the qualifications of someone who deserves a second chance and someone who does not? Blessing. I feel like uh how first of all are you apologizing or if especially when you apologize when you say if >> if you saying I did it I'm sorry apology like first of all that apology and >> I asked does everyone One deserves second chances. Who deserves a second chance? >> Yes. I will forgive you. change. No, these people man the same thing. weeks. It doesn't work like that. So, yes, I can give you a second chance, but after your second 9 10 12 promise you made you know I I will go back to be single. >> Yeah. And actually something else that people should really know is that you can forgive somebody and let them go. >> You don't have actually like uh Wu said, you're forgiving people for yourself. You're not forgiving people for them. Because um unforgiveness, someone said is like taking poison and expecting someone else to die. That's what unforgiveness looks like. So when I forgive you or when you're forgiving someone, you're forgiving them for your heart to heal, for you to be okay. But I can forgive you and let you go because at times um some things make people >> get disrespected. Yeah. Like my self worth is being crushed just because I have forgiven you and it's not worth it at all. Yeah. So as we get to wind up, how should someone forgive people while still or probably take someone back but still hold on to their selfrespect? Uh we can start with you. Um it's it's how can I forgive someone and then like I hold on to my selfrespect. >> Yes. Like because at uh now this is in regards to you've forgiven him and you've brought him back. You you're back in a relationship together but now you want to really you learned from what he did and you're like okay so this and this and this and this is what he did. So I have to respect myself in regards to all these. So like how should how would you accept someone back but still hold on to your selfrespect? >> I think I think I'll conquer what you had said earlier. I can forgive you but it doesn't mean I have to take you back. Yeah. Because I feel like I'm one of those people who is very cautious with who I let in like in my life and in my circle and in everything. And if you hurt me once, trust you will hurt me again. That's what I think. But then again it doesn't mean like I have a grudge towards you like I have I have forgiven and let let you go. So I feel like by letting you go that's how I hold myself respect because in like the way I think is if I take you back by the way respect so I feel like by taking you back first of all I would have disrespected myself disrespected my feelings for how I felt for how you had hurt me and all that. So you feel like forgive but stay away from my circle or my life and everything. So by not let taking you back is how I uphold myself respect person personally my personal opinion. Yeah. >> Okay. Amazing. Uh blessing. What's your perspective? >> Boundaries matters a lot. Yes. So to come up with this plan, I don't like when you do this and this and that. I don't like when you pick at night. I don't like when you sneak um to go and party with friends. Just let me know you're going out. We all grownups. So boundaries will matter a lot. You are still breaking those boundaries. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Amazing. We're speaking about uh taking how to uh go on when someone betrays you, how do you get to trust them again? That is the discussion that we have been having here. And like what we're seeing is even if I am taking you back, even if I am giving you a chance and trusting you again, it still needs you to I still need you to do something like I still need you to um show me that you are worth me trusting you again. And it's a process. It takes a a lifelong process for someone to get to trust you. And as we wind up probably we can take the last question uh here. What are some of the signs that someone has not really changed? Cuz most of the times people say I will change. I promise you that is the last time. I am not going to do it again. And then when you give them the second chance they were asking for do you know there are people who ask for second chances almost 10 times. The last chance babe I will not do it again. Yeah [laughter] I think taking full responsibility. So just come. It's now you and me to the world. That fun thing. Exchanging changing the behavior spoken to you about make sure that you change. I will consider number three being honest and transparent. I will do something communicate just be open and honest with me. Next give giving the heart time expectation. And last but not least, open communication. We keep this relationship will have kids in future. Sounicunication really matters and I think emotional >> [laughter] >> It reminds you of some some things. >> It's a very sensitive topic and I think that's how I can [laughter] >> Yeah. >> All right. Um before we get to hear from Wiru and her last remarks p Facebook, do you believe in second chances? Amma, can you forgive a cheating partner and why? And so I have seen some of the reactions. I'll just uh take a few because of time. I see Dark Moon saying no room for an honest an honest like when you see honest man never on earth. If you're not honest then it's a no. I see Zen Hong Kagawa saying cheating is a choice not a mistake which is based on unsatisfactory needs or facts. I guess one should stay where he or she thought the need were satisfied. Okay. Cheese is saying no room for that. We are not doing this anymore. I have seen you. All right. Weru in one minute probably. What is your advice to someone watching in regards to the discussion that we have had? >> First of all, I would say forgive them. and just forgive them. Because um when you hold that grudge in your heart because just by them existing you know like it's it's away at your inner peace like with yourself like like just at times it's hard to forgive someone like it's really hard but you really have to forgive them but then again it doesn't mean like at this person has the right now to come back in your life and walk all over you again. So I can say like when you forgive them be cautious about letting them back in your life or like trusting them again because at the end of the day we said we had said that if you if you want this person back in your life if it's one of those people like you want back in your life make them earn that trust back because don't don't expect don't and don't don't think that just because they have done something today ah it takes steps baby steps and then this person does the same thing again and again and again like you should read the patterns like you're now cautious your walls are up yes but they're still in your life so like so patterns no joy um if if they if they messing up or like if they are truly owning up to their actions for you to forgive them and fully be able to trust them again. >> Amazing. That's a very uh good advice to the person watching. So make sure that if you're in such a situation, let them do they really want you back? They should do it so that you can be very convinced and fully convinced that this person is actually serious when they say that they want you back in the relationship. Blessing, what's your last advice in one minute? >> I want to say that your peace comes first and you matters a lot. Uh don't be convinced by people how you feel like you can't live with those people. Jesus Christ loves you so much. And I feel like when you're going in a situation whereby lose trust anyone, I think you can talk to God. Just pray. direct you to sometimes in certain relationships like we even don't know how to go about them we were I feel like what should I do and again you know when you praying I feel like and your purpose in life. So make sure that you pray and make sure that you consult God in in every relationship that you get and remember your peace come first. Just be that sharp girl and be thank you so much for watching my best blessing. I think this is see you in the see you next week. >> All right. Where can we find you online in one in five seconds? uh social media platform Facebook blessing, Instagram bessie blessing, Tik Tok bessie blessing and YouTube bessie blessing. >> Um you can find me on Instagram at polar and on Tik Tok at meet.poli. >> Okay. Amazing. We've had the amazing discussion here until now. The time has gone and it's been amazing. I am very sure that you've gotten to learn a thing or two from morning till now. So make sure that you go and do what we've said you should do. Yes. And u make sure that you have an amazing and beautiful day ahead. This is why in the morning here on Y254 channel we are on all social media platforms at Y254 channel. Make sure that you follow us and until tomorrow. That's it from me. My good name is Eliza Kimmani. See youa.