Purple Friday Nothing Compares

Hey PRDs, it's purple Friday. As I mentioned earlier in the month of April, we're going to keep going into May to help spring into spring, you know, that spring thing. So, today on our purple Friday, I hope you're wearing purple by the way. Our letter is N for our inspiration. >> [snorts] >> And this one's going to be a little bit sassy. Well, not sassy. I wanted to be sassy, but he corrected me. >> [laughter] >> Let me just say that. Okay. So, it's nothing compares to you. Nothing compares to you. Nothing compares to you. Write that down. Write that down in your journal, your purple notepad with your purple gel pen. Nothing compares to you. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Which is a great reminder from a life coaching perspective to not compare. But it's natural. It's human nature for us to compare. We've talked about this before, but comparison leads to judgement. And judgement leads to a downward spiral of negative self-talk. So, we don't want that because it will derail you from recognizing your worth. And your worthiness is something that Prince's legacy has imbued to us. It has been part of this healing journey for the last 10 years is worthiness, your self-worth. And we've talked about love, we've talked about compassion, not just toward other people as you as the purple empath that you are, but toward ourselves, inward. This today here now is a reminder. Nothing compares to you. Nothing. So, it is your role, your responsibility to resist the urge to compare yourself. Either yourself today to your past self, or yourself today to other versions of yourself that other people have projected upon you throughout all this time. And in And perhaps recognizing that you might have past life influences in this timeline, because timelines are crunchy and munchy, and they are like all over the place, man. There are so much little particles and dust bunnies coming in from other realities that you've experienced, and it can be confusing, and also conflicting, and then you can find yourself comparing and feeling worse, lower, heavier energetically, because it's not just the nature of what you're experiencing or have expressed in this timeline, but it's other timelines that you're feeling a sense of potentially responsibility for, which might lead to a feeling of failure or disappointment, or just a level of heaviness, because you're not there right now. And as we understand time, time is relative, and it is in the now. Ooh, another N-word. Now. Write that one down. Now, N O W. Now. Right here and right now. So, it is extremely important to your sanity and for your ability to soak up the nutrients of inspiration in this time because there is inspiration. There is hope here. There is. Doesn't feel like it a lot because we are bombarded by outside influences, allergens, toxins in the environment energetically and it does take us off what we know is our center point. Our center point of that purple connectivity to our roots of love, compassion and empathy that we have been cultivating and healing from past wounding because of this legacy the last 10 years that we have all had in exchange lots and lots and lots of opportunities to work with our worthiness. Acknowledging our personal worth, just innate worth. This is some of the stuff that we've learned because of the legacy of Prince. And yeah, yeah, yeah, I know. Oh, he was just a musician, just a creative, just a guy that wore heels. He was somebody that had lots of life choices that you yourself and myself also might find questionable and yet at the same time when we invoke comparison, that's where the confusion comes in. That's where we get confused. Feel the purity of your heart space and what is what is now, now in this moment. How do you feel right now? How do you feel right now in this moment? And by the way, if you feel like crap right now, give it a minute. Stand up, get off your duff, go for a walk, go listen to some great music. Take a break if you're at work if you can. Or take a breather. Walk to the bathroom, stand in the bathroom for a minute or two and just breathe into your body. Acknowledge a beautiful purple energy of light around you encompassing you and folding you. Create your own safe and sacred space as you're moving through the day and recognizing that you might be getting handed all sorts of crap from people, forms of comparison, forms of examples of lacking self-worth. Because often times people will pass their own bad feelings onto others because they're trying to just get rid of it. I'm not faulting anybody for doing that because I think it's just a natural thing is to blow your top, to release. Now, the way that you do that, of course, there's consequences as there should be. But for you, you the person in the moment of now to not buy into the comparison or the confusion or the cycle of lack, of less than, of I'm not worthy, I'm not good enough. There must be something wrong with me cuz this person is yelling at me about their bill. There must be something wrong with me because my boss is in a bad mood. No, the comparison, again, creates an internal dialogue of self-defeating energetic that comes from disappointment, past feelings of failure, from other people's projections in their lives and their feelings of failure coming at you. It's not yours even in the first place nine times out of 10 and yet we own it as though it's our responsibility because why? Because we're empathic, caring, compassionate, healing people who seem to sometimes get really crabby, annoyed, and jaded. And so maybe the person that's giving it to you, the crabbiness, is exactly like you. And they're having a moment in the now. And maybe that's you. You're that person having a moment in the now. Forgive yourself as quickly as you can. And remember that nothing, absolutely nothing, no moment in time defines you. No moment in time can label you for the rest of your life or multiple lifetimes, and it sure as hell feels like that, doesn't it? Yes, it does. Yes, I understand the reality of this because I carry it myself. I understand the wounding of that. I do. I personally do. And I know you do. So forgive quickly yourself for the negative self-talk, and remember nothing compares to you. Nothing. And in this now moment, just forgive yourself. Forgive. Forgive. And acknowledge your power and your worth. This is Bridget, formerly known as the purple medium. Thank you so much for sharing purple Fridays with me, and look forward to connecting with you next week. I hope I've inspired your spirit, filled you with some hope and encouraged you to live your life. This is your life after all, and you get to live it in the now.