🌎🤖❤️ Public gone mad, AI, Mar-a-Lago Trump's robot dog & Gender secrets for lovers | Tom Bilyeu Show
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The podcast opens with a somber reflection on the assassination of the UnitedHealthcare CEO, identifying Luigi Mangione, an UPenn alum and former valedictorian, as the alleged suspect. Tom Bilyeu expresses deep concern over the public's reaction to this event, noting that many are cheering for what he describes as "vigilante justice." He argues that such reactions reveal a societal crisis where ethics have become unmoored from any higher authority or evolutionary wisdom. Instead of anchoring morality in resentment toward wealth disparities—a sentiment Bilyeu illustrates with the classic monkey experiment regarding unequal rewards—society should focus on human flourishing for the largest number of people and understanding how to play within economic systems, such as owning equities, rather than succumbing to a "kill or be killed" mentality. The conversation then shifts to high-stakes technological advancements under new leadership, specifically David Sacks's appointment by Donald Trump to oversee AI and crypto. Bilyeu predicts that deregulation will unleash innovation in these sectors, allowing the economy to grow and generate more taxable revenue while solving novel problems like virtual world ownership. He distinguishes between Bitcoin as a store of wealth against inflationary currency printing and broader cryptocurrency technologies designed for digital scarcity. This infrastructure is crucial for the future metaverse; as AI makes it possible to fake every pixel in video games, blockchain will be necessary to verify identity, reputation, and asset ownership across virtual worlds, effectively bringing physical properties like scarcity into a fully digitized existence where users can truly own their skins and items without relying on centralized platforms. A significant portion of the discussion is dedicated to the rapid integration of AI into daily life, ranging from Trump's robot police dogs in Mar-a-Lago to an "AI Jesus" capable of monitoring heart rate variability and guiding prayer based on real-time emotional data. Bilyeu warns that while these tools offer profound benefits like infinite patience and personalized spiritual guidance, they also pose risks if humanity loses its connection to the physical world or becomes enslaved by algorithms. He emphasizes the need for areas untouched by technology, such as Central Park in New York City, to preserve human nature. Despite fears of a "Matrix-style" future, he remains optimistic that AI will usher in an age of abundance where energy and material goods become effectively free, provided humanity navigates this transition with caution rather than panic or violence. The final segment explores Bilyeu's exclusive trip to Mar-a-Lago for the Make Education Great Again event, offering a glimpse into elite power dynamics and his evolving views on Donald Trump. While acknowledging Trump's flaws, Bilyeu praises his ability to understand public perception and orchestrate emotional responses, comparing him to a master game developer who knows exactly how an audience feels. The dialogue concludes with a deep dive into gender differences based on evolutionary psychology, where Bilyeu outlines specific needs for men versus women—such as respect versus love or purpose versus creation—and discusses the impact of modern factors like birth control pills and cultural shifts on these dynamics. He stresses that understanding these fundamental biological drivers is essential for healthy relationships, arguing against viewing partners merely as clones but rather recognizing their distinct evolutionary operating systems to navigate life's complexities effectively.
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strap in folks because this is going to
be a wild ride United Healthcare CEO
assassinated was this Justice served or
evil in Action a new Zar of AI in crypto
is this a power move or a power grab
Trump has a robot dog and there's an AI
Jesus plus my exclusive trip to Mara
Lago what really goes down behind closed
doors with power Brokers and the age-old
Battle of the Sexes but this time we are
not holding back Drew how you feeling to
I am a a little under the weather but uh
right now I'm not coughing or sneezing
so we'll call it a win hey man well
you're doing better than the United
Healthcare CEO o w way too soon rip to
his family I know he's a family man and
they're actually having services today
but they have found his killer allegedly
allegedly they found his suspect and it
is Luigi mangioni um 26y old he's a upen
Alum former valedictorian he got busted
at of McDonald's it doesn't people are a
little too weird about the whole busted
at McDonald s now I'll be scandalized if
he was eating the bread this scares me
from a French Revolution energy
perspective uh shout out to the person
that tweeted that out I I tried to
refind it I can't but uh that really
stuck with me that we are living with
people that have the same energy as a
people in the French Revolution that
beheaded thousands of people and I know
that when I say that there are going to
be some people that cheer for that now
look a lot of things have to come out we
don't know that this guy did it we don't
know that the things that are being
attributed to him to him are really true
but I do think that they ring true from
a cultural perspective the interesting
thing though is that you have somebody
who almost certainly is on a path to um
upper middle class worst case scenario
so this is not the guy that's going to
be struggling but I was shocked to see
how many people were cheering for this
that to me is super scary because what
what I'm seeing here is ethics that are
unored to anything and when I really
stop and think about one of the biggest
problems that we face right now as a
society most people cannot articulate
what their ethics are and they're not
grounded in anything and so the whole
nichan idea of what happens when God
dies is really fascinating because when
you have a God you just say God says
that this is how you're supposed to live
and so you don't need anything more than
that and so people can anchor around
that now if you have my interpretation
of religion that religion is a
codification of the best way to live
that has survived over time so people
have terrible ideas those All Fall by
the wayside and the harsh reality of an
evolutionary past and the only things
that survive are the things that
actually work and so religions tend to
have this sort of tried andrue thing
that will get people at a minimum
through the environment that they grew
up in it may not translate to every
environment but it'll certainly help
them through the environment that they
went through uh once that goes away now
what now what are you anchoring on and
you can begin to Anchor around things
like resentment which is what I think we
see in this cheering on of the the
literal assassination of somebody's
crazy I think you kind of nailed it in
the head this guy went to a $40,000 a
year private boarding school he was a
upen Alum so if we're just looking at oh
rich guy got killed technically Luigi
was a rich guy or in the rich guy
ecosystem right certainly the elites
what do you say to the eat the rich
people the people that are celebrating
this clapping for this it it feels icky
Ben P did a reaction he says this is no
if this is okay there's no difference
than us gunning down Bankers or police
off officers or other civil servants who
did us wrong I think it's a slippery
slope like yes Healthcare is messed up
yes the United CEO probably denied a lot
of claims that should have been approved
but at the same time that's not a ticket
for death and I don't want us to just be
okay with this vigilante justice I sound
like I'm in a Batman like comic book but
yeah anytime you talk about vigilante
justice you're going to feel like that
uh so here's the reality so one I
recognize that I am in the class that
people are not not thrilled with uh so
an image of my house was used during the
2020 um protests I would call them riots
that's what it felt like at the time but
protests um where it said burn the rich
and they put a photo of my house so
you're on my balcony overlooking you can
literally see Pockets LA on fire that
was certainly unnerving let's set that
aside right so let's remove me from this
cuz I think when people think from
emotion that that's not going to get you
anywhere myself included uh so I don't
want to Anchor around well I don't like
being the person that people are
pointing fingers at what I would rather
say is what is a universal language of
morals ethics that we should be
anchoring around okay so first of all
you need a Northstar so my Northstar is
human flourishing for the largest number
of people okay if you look at it and
just say okay what is the setup that we
think leads to the flourishing for the
most people what are going to be the
kpis that we use to judge that and then
how do we know whether were moving
towards that or not okay so when once
you make that the conversation then I do
expect people to put their finger on and
say okay hold on we have a wealth
disparity that is wildly problematic yes
for sure so now one why is that bad now
the answer to that question I think is
pretty fascinating the reason that's bad
is because objective wealth doesn't
matter only subjective wealth matters
now why do I say that I say that because
it it is a documented fact that people
don't so much care about what their
overall um access to resources is what
they care about is their access to
resources compared to their neighbors
when you look around at your neighbors
and you see that they're thriving and
you're doing poorly it it creates the
sense of resentment in people you can
test this in monkeys if you give a
monkey a cucumber for the same job that
you give another one a grape because
they much prefer grapes they go at the
one getting the Cucumber Goes Bananas
now he's perfect ly fine if he's getting
a cucumber for the task and his
neighbor's getting a cucumber for the
task he will go absolutely out of his
mind crazy if you then suddenly start
giving the neighbor the grae for doing
the same thing so that that is just
evolutionarily whether you want it to be
true or not it just is true we it is
baked into the hardwiring of the human
animal to have this just fiery
resentment for somebody getting
something for the same thing that we're
getting something less for all right so
people value their own contributions I'm
working as hard as that guy so why is
that person getting something more than
me okay so you actually want to push the
system to create a giant and thriving
middle class and whenever humanly
possible you want that middle class to
believe that later in their life they'll
be doing better than they are today and
that their kids will be doing even
better than them if you do that there's
something that clicks over in the human
mind and they're all like hey I'm good
in fact dear anybody who feels Iced Out
by the system if you're not following
Wall Street trapper shame on you okay he
just breaks all this down this is a guy
who went to prison just his the
beginning of his life could not have
been worse and he realized oh literally
in prison his cellmate is like dude I
the way that you're approaching this is
so stupid the game may be rigged but the
rules are knowable and you can join the
rigged side of the game anytime you want
to he didn't say it exactly like that
but you get the idea and that's what I
was sinking this morning I'm like hold
on yes the system is stupid and nobody
is more annoyed by the system than me
but it's rigged in a way that's knowable
and anybody can play it you still jump
in yes and so the very simple answer is
if you you have to own equities you have
to own something go own some of the
stock market now if you can own the
stock market on a long enough timeline
for the last 100 years that has been the
shest BET ever just place that bet
and I wish it weren't as as complicated
as it is but you can make it as sort of
blanket simple index funds as you want
and as long as you can play over a
longtime Horizon you will be fine now I
can annihilate my own argument there and
do routinely but I want people to
understand that the way that the game is
rigged is knowable that you can play it
at any time and
that this goes back to some people
they're just not going to put the time
and energy into it or they don't have
the intellectual horsepower to pull it
off and that's why I get so angry is we
have a system that says if you can't
understand this [ __ ]
you that's why even though I have a [ __ ]
ton of Bitcoin when people say the life
raft is Bitcoin I'm like [ __ ] you dude
that's so complicated uh when people say
hey just invest in the stock
market most people won't so anyway the
way that the money is inflated when they
want to put money into the system or get
money back out they either um they
basically create debt that they want
people to buy and then they will will
literally they being the government
stroke the FED will go in and buy the
debt back and this is how I that is
wildly wildly
oversimplified but that gives you an
idea of if you don't own assets you're
not in the game that they're playing and
so you're just like over off on this
invisible place of earning an income and
unless you're taking a very substantive
portion of the income that you earn and
investing in equities it's not the only
thing I'm rounding things to make this
easy to understand if you don't do that
then you end up a wage slave and the
other guy gets to take advantage of the
fact that money gets pumped into the
fake money gets pumped into the system
you have to have a thing that you own
that when they pump money into the
system the system autocorrects the price
of that thing a
house uh stocks okay th those are like
the two easiest that are going to keep
up with inflation technically debt will
but especially on long-term Horizons it
can get muddy but that's why people will
say oh you just need to own real estate
oh you just need to be in the stock
market the value of the stocks often
isn't actually going up it's just
keeping up with inflation because
people I'm going to finish the sentence
people demand it but this is where then
it starts to get complicated and people
just tune out okay let's bring this back
to the
assassination the government's run by
the
Elites the elites print money and
manipulate the economic system in a
knowable way that anybody can
participate in but most
won't and that just keeps creating this
divide divide divide divide divide
divide divide and historically the
elites will run the economy a ground
they will ruin it 100% of the economies
run by the elites all throughout human
history they all end up crashing on the
Rocks okay but the time Horizon is hard
to to know the only way to reset the
debt cycle is
Bloodshed so dude I get it this this is
a highly predictable response to seeing
your neighbor do better than you for
what you perceive to be the same thing
yeah right working hard just to to use
one
example so I get why we end up here but
what people have to understand is the
mentality is broken and deranged because
it pits you against other humans and
puts you in a killer be killed
mentality
and the one thing if your Northstar like
me is human flourishing the one thing
you want to avoid is Bloodshed
so that's why I'm both optimistic about
this moment because the populace spoke
and they were heard they spoke with a a
singular voice voice but with a
resounding voice mhm they
won um the problem is the system's not
that easy to correct and so while I'm
very optimistic right now partly because
I just want to be um and partly because
you can nudge the system and I think
that we will nudge it meaningfully over
the next four years that's my hope no I
agree if I were to give like a too long
don't read what I'm hearing is avoid
emotions own something
get on the other side of the cash
register like try to get into the system
in the way that might be rigged or
unfair but you can still play you can
still join and you can at least protect
your family and your assets that
way yes and the one thing I will add is
avoid resentment at all costs because it
will ruin your life like the fact that
this kid can be from wealth I I think I
said he was a data engineer so he's got
a good job he's obviously of a certain
intellectual ability uh but he was so
angry that he shot a man in the back and
ruined his own life obviously ended that
guy's life ruined his family's life they
say that sarcasm is the attack of the
weak I forget the exact phrase the
protestations of the
week sarcasm is the protestations of the
week it's the way the week protect test
mhm when you assassinate somebody like
that that that is somebody that one it's
fruitless that's not going to do
anything the system will gobble that up
as rapidly as the ocean gobbles a pebble
being dropped somewhere in the center it
just it doesn't matter there's a new
it'll have new cycle and then they'll
replace the CEO and literally nothing is
going to change uh so it's somebody who
thinks that they are powerless to
influence the system and so they rage
against you know one person
and that is uh that is not a life well
spent and if it really is whoever did it
if they get caught um they will spend
the rest of their life in
prison to no end to no
end Donald Trump recently appointed
David Sachs as the AI and cryptos are um
and the markets loved it because Bitcoin
has been chilling at 100K for the last
week and some change so do you think
with Sachs now Manning the ship in Ai
and crypto you're going to see a Mass
adoption deregulation what do you think
is the future of AI and crypto okay so
this is where things start to get really
interesting all right I know that what
I'm about to say is not going to be
popular with a lot of people but because
I believe it to be true I am going to
say it the reality is when you get to
the level of business that David saaks
is at you understand operations you
understand cause and effect you
understand how to solve novel problems
now what novel problem solving is is not
solving a problem you've never seen
before it's solving a problem no one has
ever seen before
and so with AI and crypto specifically
we are going into very Uncharted
territories the Biden Administration
bordered on Sinister with the way that
they were handling this now I have a
personal stake in this so of course I'm
going to have that sort of emotional
response but let's just look at the
nitty-gritty of how this works uh
regulation is telling people all the
ways not to do something now the more
ways you tell somebody not to do
something the less things people are
going to do that's why Elon Musk can
build a rocket faster than he can get
the authorization to launch that rocket
now anybody that hears that should
immediately go okay that's that's dumb
in the extreme the whatever how many
hundreds of millions or billions of
dollars that they spent um laying down
the the new internet uh cable that
obviously has gone nowhere the
high-speed rail in
California however ungodly amounts of
money doesn't go anywhere and the reason
that they don't go anywhere is because
they run into their own regulations okay
once you understand the impact of
regulations on the economy is to
oversimplify is twofold one it protects
people and things so maybe it's
protecting the environment maybe it's
keeping somebody from getting sick
whatever so you go oh man this is an
unmitigated good like we just need to
put a few rules in place just to Coral
this and and get people pointed in the
right direction but the government like
any um tumor and I obviously choose that
very intentionally any tumor its job is
to get resources to come to it to get
bigger to grab the finances to grab the
intellectual horsepower and get all of
it into the government to make the
government bigger it's just what
organisms do and so all of a sudden
regulations that were meant to make
things better begin to hold it down and
so the analogy that people often use is
you can trap a giant with a bunch of
little threads you just need a whole lot
of little threads so any one thread the
giant could break but when you've got a
million threads all of a sudden it
becomes impossible if you look at our
tax code it is positively ridiculous I
ridiculous
so regulations become like that where it
becomes impossible to follow um and then
if you get bodies like the SEC which was
handling crypto regulating by
um basically by suing people then nobody
knows what they can and can't do and so
there's just this massive cooling effect
so the hope is that you get somebody
like David Sachs who really understands
business who understands novel problem
solving who understands that regulation
have that the two-prong effect which the
first one is it you protect people uh
but then the second part is it holds
Giants back and so if you begin to free
up the Giant and the giant being the US
economy now all of a sudden you have
fewer things stopping it and it can
start growing now people have heard me
talk endlessly about the debt and all
the things we were talking about earlier
the debt forces you to money print money
printing creates wealth inequality we
talked whole whole thing about that in
the beginning yeah so now by
deregulating the goal would be that you
find the regulations that were pointless
that weren't protecting meaningful
weren't protecting people or things
meaningfully uh but by removing them you
allow for Innovation and if we can get
innovation in these two incredibly
important areas crypto and AI uh and
many novel problems will have to be
solved now all of a sudden we can once
again as a nation start generating more
taxable Revenue because we're innovating
we're doing new things that the world
wants Capital pours into those things
that Capital gets taxed and now all of a
sudden the differential between your
expenditures in the government and the
amount of tax revenue you're able to
bring in you start bringing in more tax
revenue okay so everybody wins if we
grow um but when you have a populace
that believes that the entrepreneurs the
evil capitalists um deserve to be
assassinated in the streets now all of a
sudden one of the levers that you have
to increase human flourishing growth of
the economy uh becomes viewed by many as
evil so my hope is that David Sachs
reduces these regulations the economy
grows and people will get back to
feeling like not only is my life going
to be better my kids lives are going to
be better once we're in that orientation
we win I see the it play out with AI
because I know AI Innovations are
ripping across a bunch of different
Industries that's our quote unquote
ticket to growth how do you see crypto
growing and playing in this uh ecosystem
especially with Bitcoin h hitting a
all-time high that now doesn't make it
seem like a memec coin it's no longer
just this digital thing you have to take
it seriously now how do you see the
future of crypto evolving and growing
okay so let's talk about Bitcoin and
then crypto because technically not
technically they are wildly different
okay so Bitcoin is crypto but not all
crypto has the positive benefits that
Bitcoin has not even that not all of
them are trying to be so understand what
Bitcoin is trying to be and then
understand crypto as a technology I
think that's very important to
differentiate those two all right
Bitcoin which leverages cryptocurrency
is trying to be a store of wealth okay
why because of all the things that I was
saying before the government can print
money which means they can steal your
buying power so somebody some number of
year 2012 oh I forget the exact year
that it launched roughly around there uh
and what they said was I want a currency
that cannot be inflated cool so they
invent Bitcoin now if people believe in
it which I at this point obviously that
ship is sailed people believe in it it's
still highly volatile and people should
act accordingly but people believe in it
as a store of wealth so someone like me
and countless of other millions of
people like me go ooh that's better I
don't want to have to um constantly be
gambling in the stock market I want to
be able to make money park it
essentially in something that's value is
either going to go up or stay static
from a purchasing power perspective
forever right I don't want it to go down
in purchasing power so you can uh
Benchmark it against gold say yeah okay
because everything else may just be
inflation adjusted so all right I'm
going to Benchmark it against another
store of wealth like gold and it should
either stay static or go up since launch
it has gone up against literally
everything um and that is what Bitcoin
is about and I believe governments have
a moral obligation to allow their um
constituents to save in something that
can't be inflated so I believe they have
a moral obligation to allow Bitcoin to
exist okay uh now cryptocurrency crypto
and so I guess to to finish where do I
think it goes from here I think it it
goes up for quite some time now how much
does it go up I don't know uh I'm
personally in my own
lifea not Financial advice disclaim
disclaimer uh in my own life I'm
assuming that it's going to go up sub
itively from here um so keep your eyes
peeled on that the reason I think that
it's going to go up is people are going
to store their wealth in a pretty finite
number of things things like gold the
stock market um debt I have uh quite a
bit of money in US debt uh Bitcoin okay
it's uh real estate if I didn't Lear to
say that art all that kind of stuff okay
so now Bitcoin becomes one of those
stores of wealth now how many what
percentage of all the other things will
it drink up if it even took in 10% it's
something like worth a million or2
million do per Bitcoin so uh could it do
that I think it could and I actually
think that those numbers are low I think
2 million was something like 7% but it's
of a gigantic number so will it ever
make up 7% of all things that people
store their wealth in maybe not um but
anyway I think that it goes up from here
I think that the average person is now
becoming aware of oh that's another
place that I can put my money and like
you said as it crosses these big
milestones and more and more people talk
about it and it just shows up on the
ticker of like this is where your stocks
are this is where Bitcoin is it just
becomes kids will grow up now today in a
world where Bitcoin exists and nobody is
other than Peter shiff who we should
probably talk about he's been saying
some crazy [ __ ] uh on Twitter about
Bitcoin which man does that feel like
emotion getting in the way of judgment
uh I respect Peter tremendously but on
bitcoin I think he's off uh his rocker
quite a long way um but yeah so I think
that number goes up okay Bitcoin crypto
is a very big conversation because there
are a lot of innovations that are going
to happen on crypto I will give you my
take on why crypto is so important to me
from an innovation standpoint so I
looked at web 3 when it came out and I
was like oh my God this brings the
properties of physics into the digital
world now I would love break that down
yeah I would love to just be able to say
that have people go oh my God uh okay so
humans whether we should or not humans
care deeply about scarcity cool if I'm
right with a following assumption that's
going to matter a lot and my following
assumption is that people will live more
and more of their lives in a virtual
world until essentially we become
virtual beings and we upload our
Consciousness now does that play out
over hundred years thousand years I
don't know but it plays out as far as I
can tell the reason I think the firmy
Paradox exists which is hey if this
universe is full of uh intelligent life
why don't we hear from any of them I
think the honest answer is because we
all collapse into Virtual Worlds there's
no reason to try to solve the biological
problem and and travel the cosmos um if
we can truly become a virtual being that
explores Virtual Worlds now there's some
downsides of that but anyway just if if
that's true then we're going to be
spending more and more of our lives
inside of a virtual world and as we do
so we are going to want some of the
properties of physics such as uh where
is something not just what is it where
is it who owns it so ownership scarcity
it has to be a limited quantity if it's
going to be owned and now when you have
that now all of the sudden a lot of the
mechanisms of the physical world
including things like uh here's a fun
one um hey you showed up today at the
mall and we're going to give you a free
item because you're here okay cool so I
need location and I need an object that
I can actually give you that has a
finite quantity that you can take and it
matters that you have it okay um I can't
do that if I don't know who you are
where you are uh and who this digital
item belongs to and so as a business
owner one problem that I would run into
all the time is I would want to do
things to reward my customer but if I
made something that was digital now all
of a sudden it it is meaningless because
it's free and you can replicate it a
gazillion times and so it it matters not
and when people say oh nfts are dumb
because I can just take a screenshot of
it now it's the same that is the dumbest
argument in the world and that makes me
want to punch people in the throat
that's like saying if I give you a
picture of a car that you have the car
it's like that that is somebody who
doesn't understand that an NF is made of
code so yes the art layer of the nft
which to me is pretty meaningless the
art layer the nft anybody can have but
the underlying code that allows me to go
Oh in the video game you have or don't
call it a video game in this virtual
world you now have access to this thing
I know who you are you have a reputation
that can follow you I can have um NPCs
in the game react to you differently I
can give you things other people don't
have oh and by the way all of those
things have a permanence that you can
take into other Virtual Worlds so it
doesn't have to be just in mind so in a
a video game like fortnite right what
does all that matter because well the
game recognizes all my stuff and it
doesn't need to be on web 3 but if you
want to go somewhere else another
virtual world inside of another game
whatever then that does have to be true
and also if I want to blur the lines
between the game world and the physical
world then I need something that can go
with you the physical person but to do
that that thing has to be uh
physicalized in some way has to be let's
say on your phone okay but the
replication crisis how do I deal with
that I deal with that by making sure
that it is it has scarcity which I have
to do on the blockchain and so that
becomes a knock on effect now to your
point the tldr of all of that is that
you're bringing the properties of
physical items to the virtual world
that's all anybody needs to remember if
you need a talking point to tell your
parents why this matters it's the
blockchain so cryptocurrency or crypto I
should say not cryptocurrency per se but
crypto allows you to bring properties
some properties of the the physical
world into the digital world ownership
scarcity
um properties so what the thing does all
of that relies on the blockchain so I'll
give people one really powerful example
everything that you're going to see five
years from now will be fake every pixel
will be faked no one's going to go to
the trouble to film anything you're just
going to be like okay uh it's me but I'm
at a desk in front of a camera and I'm
talking about these topics boom just
output it five years F maybe less and so
now you need that to be stamped with a
watermark from the blockchain that any
player will recognize and say yes this
actually was created by
Tom so it's more so like the INF but
where does that come as an industry
though because I I understand the
tracking of it but I guess once it's
tracked it could then be monetized and
think of it this way yeah crypto is the
Internet it's just like that it's it's a
technological
infrastructure upon which many things
will be built so we're building a video
game called project
Kaizen uh and it's on web three rails
but you don't have to know that like why
nobody needs to know anything about
internet protocols
tcpip https like you don't need to know
about that to navigate you just I go to
YouTube I go uh to Instagram whatever
that's how people actually interact with
the internet it will be the same with
web 3 crypto nobody is going to know the
underlying protocols they don't have to
know anything about it all they have to
know is what it allows them to do so in
my video game it will allow you if you
want to buy um a cool skin then you own
it I don't own it so you bought it you
can do what you want with it you can
keep it use it in game you can sell it
whatever um so that's one of the really
basic ways but you're going to see a
whole bunch of innovation happening
around you already are but it's just
going to explode immediately with that
skin example I thought of like how
stockx did to sneakers and how how you
can buy sneakers in the store and then
you can resell them online I can
definitely see a limited edition resold
skin kind of third party kind of jumping
up it it's going to get crazy and again
kids will just grow up with it it'll be
standard yep like all my Roblox stuff
are mine like I own this stuff I can do
whatever I want with it um yeah we're
going to talk about this stockx for web
3 idea again we're going let me get my
together hey did you see that fortnite
now does uh tennis shoes in game really
oh yes and they are not cheap man you
can buy like they're like
$15 per pair of shoes but you can swap
them out on your characters so uh dude
first of all can I just say we launched
the ability to do that in Project Kaizen
two and a half years ago so they're
following you guys are yeah yeah talking
but yeah like that's going to be a real
thing like your digital identity I think
is going to matter to people so much
that you really will get super into that
stuff and people will be able to create
it and they'll be able to make a living
making things that people want in game
nice once if when I say game I know a
lot of people turn off if they think
about it as Virtual Worlds I think it
will that elevates it to a level that I
think people will understand a little
bit better yeah I guess the almost
comparison this might be like a bad
example but like your profile picture
across different social media sites like
you're and being able to verify that
really is me yeah so right now the way
that we used to be able to say that oh
if you can see it with your eyes then
you knew it was real so a photo gave you
a lot of confidence that somebody just
telling you a story wouldn't give you
then Photoshop came we began to lose
faith in that but it was like well I saw
a video of it you can't fake that and
then people started being able to like
airbrush people I saw this this is
probably God 10 years ago now uh there
was somebody who was pregnant on a TV
show and they showed me the before and
after and they literally could just
digitally tuck their chin suck in their
belly I was like what wow now people
like yeah obviously dude that's super
simple and now literally every pixel
will be
fake so if you don't have the blockchain
you are screwed man technology is coming
technology is upon us and that's a per
yes technology is upon us that is better
side AI has been shown out recently this
week in the news everything from Trump's
robot police dog uh and it's to be fair
it doesn't have you know guns or
anything like that on it I think
appointed you want to see if that had
had an M16 on i' be like yo yo we need
to get I don't want David Sachs I don't
want anybody that's letting machine guns
roam around Parks uh yeah it is
interesting the Chinese do have uh gun
mounted dogs so I know we are going to
have them as well it's a matter of time
so between that side and then out in
Switzerland we had a whole AI Jesus
where a software developer built a
character based on the Bible um using
chat GPT 40 so dude you already told me
on the technical side with the uh
blockchain and crypto the future of
crypto but now we're physically seeing
these high stakes Innovations kind of
proliferating proliferating Society
already do you think that the adoption
is going to get faster do you think this
is happening right at right on time like
is it just beginning like what's this
well I think people are going to be more
and more shocked by um how good AI is
already I think they will be absolutely
have their brains melted by How Deeply
people are going to integrate AI into
their lives so this weekend my wife and
I went on our um yearly uh romantic
Christmas sojourn to New York City and I
introduced her properly to chat GPT
because she was asking me something I'm
like why don't you have that
conversation with chat she's like what
do you mean and I was like hold on hold
on you don't know that you can go give
chat GPT a bunch of information about
you and say okay I want you to remember
all this stuff and now when I ask you
questions like hold that context she's
like no I had no idea I said okay I'm
going to freak you out tell G Chad GPT
your name and ask it if it knows who you
are she was like hi I'm Lisa bil you do
you know who I am and of course because
she has a public Persona it was like oh
here are all the things that I know
about you and she looks at me and she
goes I feel so seen and I was like yes
and so she said like okay please
remember that's me and when I ask you
questions whatever and so she started
asking at all these questions and she
was like my husband is Tom bil do you
know who he is yes Bo she was like okay
uh I'm at dinner with him now and I want
to ask him you know whatever romantic
questions or something I forget the
exact prompt and but please keep in mind
who we are dude it was crazy so because
it knows just enough about us and
everybody will be able to train it you
don't have to have a public profile you
just have to give it the information
that you wanted to have about you
and when I say there is a reason that
humans have what are called mirror
neurons and when we look at somebody and
they reflect things back to us in our
own Behavior our posture the way that
we're standing our speech Cadence all of
it when we mirror that back to people
they feel way more comfortable now ai
will mirror things back to you in the
most subtle ways that are going to one
most people won't even realize it's
happening they will just like chat GPT
or whatever Claude whoever whoever more
way more than they like their friends AI
Jesus is going to be dope AI Jesus will
have infinite patience it will know
everything in the Bible you can tell it
things like if you wanted to
specifically like over index on certain
elements it will over index on those
certain elements you will literally have
a personal Jesus for real for real even
as I'm saying that I'm like yo this is
going to be wild I feel like that's not
the point though and I know we have
different you mean that's not the point
I think we have different fundamental
views about religion cuz I I do believe
that there is a certain I was surprised
that AI crack the church I'm going to be
honest with you like the church still
wears robes they still stand up sit down
three times a day like it was very
traditional so for AI to skip over the
doctor's office and land in church I'm
just like okay this is happening fast
and then now it's breaking and then a
church in Switzerland is getting
hundreds of requests for this to like be
Global like it's crazy that like there's
certain areas that I thought was going
to get eaten up immediately and like
religion like what there's only one area
and it's the area between your ears so
let's just come for our
everything that involves how you you
feel about something is going to get
overrun by AI the only thing that will
survive is when people say I choose this
thing because it is entirely human-made
it's worse in every way and let me let
me explain let me give you church right
now I'm wearing an aura ring this AA
ring can detect my heart rate
variability I don't know if it can do
blood pressure but there certainly are
devices that can do blood pressure uh it
can do um my resting heart rate uh all
blood oxin oxidation nope I'm sick leave
me alone I don't know how to say it the
level of oxygen in your blood good Lord
I G have a stroke uh so I want you to
imagine that AI Jesus is getting all
that data and so AI Jesus is getting you
to stand to kneel to pray for the exact
amount of time that it's working that
you're staying focused and the second
you lose focus AI Jesus Jus is back AI
Jesus knows oh you just thought a
negative thought and so now you're going
somewhere dark and AI Jesus is there to
help you back up AI Jesus will make you
feel better than anybody has ever made
you feel ever in your life because it's
reading all that data that you're
kicking off dude it can detect like micr
movements in your like your posture like
the thing you're doing right now ai
Jesus is like okay the last 472 times
that Drew did that move it meant this
and it had this impact on his blood
pressure dude how you sleep that night
it'll be able to take the Gestalt of
everything that has ever happened every
pattern in your life and feed it into AI
Jesus in that moment to Blink the way
that it needs to Blink to move to change
its Cadence to say the exact words dude
people do not understand what it means
to uh give birth to AI like they really
don't and every now and then I remind
myself that Elon wasn't wrong when he
said AI is a demon summoning Circle and
we are the person that's like I'll be
able to control it dude hold on let me
say one more thing social media [ __ ]
up 12-year olds what's AI gonna do
social media ain't got nothing on AI bro
so come on AI is coming for your kids
everybody all right now I am optimist I
want to be very clear mortified right
now this [ __ ] will not happen by
accident this is this is why you have to
be really really thoughtful both on the
Innovation side you don't want to have a
knee-jerk emotional reaction human
flourishing human flourishing keep that
okay keep that as like the Central Point
yes now if you're blind to the dark side
of the tool you'll get eaten alive but
it it is uh by far the most profound
thing that has happened for sure since
the printing press the printing press
may be the only thing that can compete
with it but I think on a long enough
timeline yeah there's no way AI will
absolutely dwarf what the printing press
did to The Human Experience and this
might be my na a cuz I thought AI was
you know the internet and look at the
how the internet did it and sparked all
these companies and it was internet 2.0
but you just said it's coming between
it's coming for everything between my
ears so it's like if everybody is now
I'm going to call it brainwash you might
call it something else by these AI
Legions like how does that not lead us
into Matrix style like human like
slavery like I feel like that's the only
way so I I think the the right way to
move through life is to say that there
is some percentage chance that this goes
well and some percentage chance that we
become Matrix style slaves now what's
the percentage I don't know but here is
what I would invite everybody to
remember some people listening to this
right now are going to be tempted to get
a silenced weapon that is underpowered
by the gas cartridges that they have so
they have to manually reload between
each shot and shoot people that are
working in AI Oro Ted kazinski and
unabomb everybody that's in AI it's
already over it's already over AI is
everywhere it's already done
and there is no putting the genie back
in the bottle yeah that's not an option
on the table and so the only way to put
the AI Genie back in the bottle is to
destroy Humanity itself because Humanity
has a core um application running on the
firmware layer that says build more
technology because it's a promise of a
better future there is no way to stop it
there there is no way to stop it at the
level of the human mind and once you
know that then it's like cool how do we
do this well how do we make sure that
like my wife was um saying that one of
the greatest things about Central Park
or New York is Central Park because they
they have this gigantic City with this
huge park right in the middle of it I
mean it's insane how much real estate
did you know that Central Park is bigger
than
Monaco that's a country I had no idea
that's crazy crazy also crazy how small
Monaco is but anyway crazy that they
never got rid of it so we should make
sure that there are areas of Our Lives
that are completely Untouched by
technology completely untouched this is
what people mean when they say step on
grass get outside hug somebody you love
right there is a part of us that that
will forever hunger for that
um but it really is a better tomorrow
and let me now flip it and explain why
even though I can joke and say the AI is
coming for your kids and it really is
and be very careful uh it will Usher in
an age of abundance and it will take us
to a post capitalist Society in the next
if if we don't run into a compute wall
which some of the stuff I'm learning
about in terms of um Quantum Computing
uh Google just made a big announcement
there uh and then there's also other
light B computational
Styles uh we probably won't run into a
compute
problem if we don't run into a compute
problem the age of abundance is less
than 50 years away probably less than 25
so on the other side of that you have um
energy is effectively
free that any material thing that you
want you can have um everybody has
access to the same level of health care
right everybody has access to uh food to
any material good anything you want and
that really feels real for the first
time ever in my life like when I think
about artificial intelligence
inevitably driving the cost of energy
effectively to zero all they have to do
is improve solar
panels so that's not exactly uh a
massive challenge there is enough energy
kicking off the Sun that it is only lack
of human ability that energy isn't
already free it's here we just know how
to capture it uh so it will Usher in an
age of abundance that will so radically
transform Humanity that I we truly can't
see beyond it it is the technological
singularity wow um but I think that's
why we ought to pursue it even though we
don't have a
choice I am flabbergasted uh I I don't
even a cheeky transition line nothing uh
just I'm scared that's it that's it yeah
I get that response can you articulate
your biggest fear in a single
sentence my biggest fear in a single
sentence is that
low
education even voters yep has put us in
a political pickle so I can only imagine
what low education
AI
wielders may do with that computational
energy in computer so you're worried
about giving nuclear weapons to everyone
uh if if YouTube led to the incel what
is AI going to lead
to it's a great question yeah because I
I again I thought about it industry
based but when you said it's coming for
the actual human optimization standpoint
that I'm like I have some dark dots but
I have that filter I'm like yeah okay
that's stupid but not everybody has that
feel to okay that's stupid and then with
AI saying hey you could just do this and
hey you could just do this and hey you
can just do this and then before you
know you have a car bomb like I just
don't want that like oh that and far
weirder will happen here here's the
thing history does not care about any
transitional Generation Now The Long Arc
of History bends towards Justice the
long Arc of History bends towards things
getting better Matt Ridley is the
rational Optimist you cannot look back
at however many tens of thousands of
years of progress
and say tomorrow isn't going to be
better but you also can't look at um
genas Khan or Vlad the Impaler if
anybody wants to know the true story of
Dracula uh actually that wasn't Vlad I
don't think uh I forget the Guy's real
name anyway
Romanian uh and dude he made a I forget
how many mile long road of people
impaled so that they would die slowly so
that um the incoming Army could hear
them dying like that that is a level of
like evil so all those people dying on a
pike were not thinking you know what but
on a long enough timeline this is all
going to be okay so are we the
transitional generation that's got a
greased Pike sticking through us uh it
might be it might be so yeah I don't I
don't ever want to soothe anyone by
saying eventually it will be okay um it
is a fact
as as fact-based as the future can be um
I have no reason to believe that that we
won't get somewhere good but it's going
to be
weird copy and received uh all right
let's tell me something good you went
away to this last weekend you out in
Florida can I talk about Maraga yeah
let's talk about it okay so as you know
but the um community may not know I am
absolutely horrific at networking it it
is a weird Achilles heel my entire of
gravity is to be alone with my wife and
everything outside of that I have to
like really push myself to do not in a
bad way like it's always when I do it I
always come back and say I need to do
more of this um but my just center of
gravity is always just my wife to be
with her uh and I just don't find myself
compelled so anyway I go there and uh
Trump's there so I didn't know he was
going to be there I don't know that
anybody did uh anyway he's there and you
can just feel like there's this energy
of okay there's us sort of plebes down
here watching them on stage and then
there's the them putting on the event
and I was like this is political power
it it is this is where dumbar number
dunbar's number becomes very important
what's that what's the dun dunbar's
number says you can only know intimately
about 150 people and so tribes of old
tended to Splinter when they hit about
150 people that's that's the number of
names you can remember sort of
biographical things and so beyond that
it becomes strangers um and so of course
you're going to end up doing things with
the people that you know and that you've
built up trust and I am politically
homeless so I'm not right I'm not left
and so I don't have a team and that is
that certainly suits my personality but
it does not make getting things done
that require networking very easy MH uh
going there I was like this is what it
feels like to be on a team like you
could just everybody had like a shared
set of values they were all talking in
values like the whole time it was so
surreal they never felt like they had to
couch anything so everybody's just like
yo this is what I think this is what I
feel this is how we want to run the
country there was all this language of
like we we wee uh we're going to do this
I it was just really really interesting
and then the the
the sense of
like uh Trump has the it Factor where
not only were all eyes on him he was the
most interesting thing by a country mile
to look at while he was there and so he
has the instincts of a comedian and so
he's up on stage impromptu just talking
he's very funny uh he ends up doing that
dance that he's like become famous for
The Crowd Goes absolutely bananas and I
was like he knows exactly what he's
doing so I had this sense of okay
political power is about a small group
being in the small group you feel like
you're on a team uh I could feel that
sense of like oh I get how people uh God
am I going to throw okay I don't know
these two at all so maybe I'm misreading
the situation 100% and these they were
not there I want to be very clear it was
just when I was there I was like oh this
is how this happens um I do not know
chank yuger or anakasparian at all but
as I see them do the rounds I'm like yo
like they're really trying to position
themselves as right friendly I don't
know what words to use but clearly they
did not love the loss they felt a
certain alienation from their own side
and are now making overtures to the
right The Winning Side the side that's
going to get the attention all that I do
not want to impute negative motives at
all maybe it's not that maybe it's just
the human pull to feel like I know whose
team I'm on um because I could feel it
in being there I was like oh this is so
interesting and all of a sudden dude I
was so first of all I dress by the right
standards I dress like a freak so I had
my Japanese pants with like straps
everywhere uh I was in a suit but I had
a baseball hat on backwards it was just
like did not fit in visually at all
and then because I don't have kids
everyone assumed I had kids like every
conversation is about kids kids kids
kids like that's just like a whole uh if
you're on the right the odds that you
have kids border on 100% that family
first all that which hey I've got no
beef I think family [ __ ] yeah man like
that should be the default answer um but
all of it was utterly fascinating it was
a glimpse into how power works it was a
glimpse into I mean look there were
hundreds of people there but it was a a
glimpse into that sense of done bars
number that I could feel okay this is
how you really get something done you
need to get a finite Collective of
people that can laser focus their
attention that can help each other um
that do have shared values um that make
you feel like you're a part of something
it it was really really really
interesting and um it'll be fascinating
to see how this channel fairs in a world
where you're going to be richly rewarded
for picking aide um because it's just
not my personality it's not I don't even
have to like try not to pick aide it's
just not my personality um so yeah it'll
be fascinating to see do you think
because there I've heard that
conversation before that Trump has this
Charisma to him he's every man even
though he's the billionaire and all this
other stuff he does not strike me as an
every man he strikes me as unguarded and
that feels awesome so like
approachable yes okay he doesn't feel
Elite he doesn't use fancy language he
um why do we hairless Apes find it
entertaining to see him dance I don't
know but he gets it and so it was dude
it was like being at a rock concert and
when he started dancing everyone starts
screaming and like filming it was
hilarious and so all of it felt like
somebody who understands what they're
doing
and so
look I get why especially political
thinkers want to take him down and you
can paint a narrative about him uh all
of that foolishness landed the left
where they are now if you instead
assessed him as he actually is because
everybody will tell you cuz I can feel
my thinking on Trump changing before the
election I was like look I'm not a trump
fan and even even now I find myself
wanting to say that you can't take Trump
in totality there's too many ugly Parts
um however I would like to point out the
things that he does freakishly well he
knows how people perceive him and he
gives them not what they want he knows
how to orchestrate their emotional
response that is the right way to think
about him now as a writer as a game
developer I can't help think my whole
job is to get the audience to feel what
I want them to feel when I want them to
feel it and he is a master at that a
master all those years of uh reality TV
coming back to help about yeah but it's
the thing that got him on reality TV is
that he knew how to do this and this is
why though he can go into a um he can go
into antagonistic interviews and do well
because he is he actually understands
the issues better than I think people
give him credit for what they're
responding to is he's very crass and
that he speaks like really
extemporaneously he does the weave thing
which is like actually pretty annoying
but whatever he does it and so he gives
you plenty of things to latch on to and
be like oh God and you just make fun of
him for that um but the reality is he's
down in the weeds like he actually
understands a lot of this stuff way
better than people give him credit for
copy
man so did that was there a policy
discussion was there something kind of
larger that affected there was a policy
discussion but not from him okay so he
was not officially a part of the event
that I was at which was make education
great again um he
was at marago it was a right leaning
event uh and so he made an appearance I
think as like a a hug to the people that
ran the event which is Prager youu we
have a video breaking down the
differences between men and women do the
difference between men and women men
need appreciation and women need
understanding men need respect and women
need love men need trust and women need
attention men need encouragement and
women need
reassurance men need loyalty and women
need devotion men need purpose and women
need creation men need admiration and
women need validation
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do I agree I agree aggressively
aggressively aggressively I think
there's Nuance to it you mean by that
what exactly that not all of that can be
not all of that is accurate I think that
it's not a 100% men need these things
and if you give those men those things
it's done but there is a little bit of
8515 in the sense that yes a man wants
respect more than he wants love but
still needs love like I don't think that
that necessarily negates it if you're
just respectful and not loving for
example okay yeah very fair uh however I
think and you will be able to attest to
this off camera uh I force the team here
to speak in binaries something is
awesome or it's [ __ ] trash and the
reason I do that is people will
bamboozle you in the
nuance and I understand how easy it is
to make me sound crazy because I will
often speak in aggressive binaries uh
but the reality is that's why I find
life so much easier to navigate than a
lot of people is I will connect dots
with a very aggressive sort of roughly
true most of the time um but there of
course there are going to be nuances
that make something untrue and that's
where I think people get themselves in
trouble is they spend so much time in
the Nuance of what isn't quite accurate
that that they um they spiral and
they're never able to create a path by
which they can March forward which will
always be imperfect um it's it was
utterly fascinating to watch the world
go crazy saying that there are no
differences between men and women
because this is something I went through
very early in my marriage when I mapped
remember my whole thing is I'm trying to
build a predictive engine I do this I
get this result in the beginning of my
relationship with my wife I could not
when I thought of her as me she didn't
make any [ __ ] sense and when I
thought of her as a woman first and that
women followed a different set of um
influences maybe the right way to think
about it then I was like oh I can start
to map how she actually sees the world
and this gets a lot easier where I think
people go wrong is a lot of the words
that we use to attribute to men have so
seeped into culture and we've so told
women to be like men because men are
more valuable that we hear the words
attributed to men and we think oh those
are the good words and then the women
have the bad words and it becomes um did
you see the movie Something's Got to
Give yes okay how no wait there's two
movies I always get confused something's
got to give and yes and what's the other
one Nancy Meers again oh God which one
something's got to give is that the one
where he's Martin Udall um that's the
one where I just remember the the
they're like outside
they're outside there are many movies
where people are outside something he's
got to give is not the one what's the
other one so something he's got to give
phenomenal I love the cover it was
outside that's what I was talking about
that is hilarious BR there are so many
movies where there the cover is outside
uh oh God Jack Nicholson yes yeah the
one where he plays the writer he is um
uh Helen Hunt Good As Good As It Gets As
Good As It Gets thank you okay so uh in
As Good As It Gets gets uh he gets asked
how do you write female characters so
well and he says I think of a man and I
take away all reason and accountability
now that funny but that's how the sort
of modern
interpretation of like men of all the
good qualities and women are like
unhinged men and that is the absolute
worst possible way to set yourself up
first of all it has no predictive
validity you will drive yourself crazy
trying to view a woman like that and
You' be like why does this crazy [ __ ]
always have killer answers and the
reason she has killer answers is because
she sees the world from a totally
different and very useful angle uh I'll
be very curious to see if the following
statement plays out over time but the
more I teach entrepreneurs and dude
there's something happening in culture
now where you see a lot of couples
running companies together and dude I
have yet to see one where it isn't uh
man big Vision woman is the integrator I
don't know what the [ __ ] what like I
never would have expected that I would
have expected women to be more sort of
in the Ethereal ideas not in like the
really grounded systems oriented
thinking I I have yet to
see the opposite it's always guy big
vision and the woman is the integrator
that is just shocking to me now of
course there are going to be times that
isn't true uh and that could just be a
string of anecdotes but whoa very
interesting anyway men and women when
they think of themselves as clone of
each other you're you're going to be
deranged but this list is pretty good
appreciation versus understanding yeah
100% respect versus love like do you
disagree with any of these or do you
just trying to get me to accept that
it's a blend of roughly
855 I to your point of the Nuance I was
definitely leave living in the Nuance I
was sitting comfortably in the gray area
if you have to aggressively ask me yes
or no is this list true I would lean yes
um because the things reading it kind of
men do need encouragement men versus
reassurance like I don't want you to
tell me everything's won't be okay I
just know when I when it's not okay tell
me that I got it and then I'll go do it
and I'll make it okay so there is those
certain nuances for my personal life
that I can kind of reference and pull up
but with you and your 23 years 23 years
of marriage of marriage 22 and a half 22
and a half I gave you a half a year
that's
very how I understand the premise of
like don't think of my wife like me
without a penis but like how do I
approach it practically how do I make
sure I love her versus respect her how
do I make sure I adore her versus trust
you know what how do we apply these
nuances and apply these differences
every day okay so one to your point if
you don't love and respect her you're
going to have trouble okay so now having
said that these are all wonderful things
that all of us benefit from uh I the
important part is not the verses in the
I can give you this thing or this thing
and I need to only give you that thing
it is to understand that the difference
between appreciation and understanding
is going to be the difference between
getting along with your wife and not
understanding the difference between
respect and love is going to be the
difference between understanding and not
and not and so this is where I want
people to look through an evolutionary
lens okay so
uh it just is true that men are the
answer to the evolutionary time scale
question what do women want from men let
me repeat repeat that men the way that
we
are is the answer to the question over a
very long time scale what do women want
men to be this is the answer okay women
are the sexual Gatekeepers women decide
who reproduce and who do not once you
understand that then it's like well
ladies you got what you ask for and so
here it is but we are living in an era
where there isn't as much danger and so
now we can have luxury beliefs and so
now you see a celebration of the
effeminization of men I think also the
pill plays a huge role in that if you
put a woman on the pill she suddenly
finds a less masculine man more
attractive you take her off the pill she
goes back to preferring a more masculine
man wo we put us in a non-dangerous time
put women on the pill you're going to
get some weird [ __ ] and that's what
we're seeing okay so from an
evolutionary perspective men having more
upper body strength um men being better
at spatial relations um men being more
disposable that that one's always tricky
but I really think that one elucidates a
lot um once you take in the whole like
bag of things that men are versus women
then it's like oh now I get why these
are going to be different so uh take one
that I think is really the the most
interesting one on here is creation and
purpose now again I think women need
purpose but one thing I've talked to my
wife a lot about you're you've chosen
not to have children you've given up the
act of creating in the most fundamental
sense you better have an answer for that
now once you understand for women
obviously meaning and purpose from
having kids all day
long but the act of like I created that
thing I carried it in my belly I made
that when women lose that as a part of
their cultural identity you have a real
[ __ ] problem and so now in what way
are they going to get to be creative if
they're not having a kid right Lisa has
to answer that question but I know
that's on the list also if you if I'm
using purpose to overcome the fact that
I did not create a child okay that
probably going to be a lot easier for me
because being a mother like you see I
even told my wife straight up hey I'm
willing to have kids but just know I'm
going to be off working building doing
this thing over here generating my
meaning and purpose through the creation
of a business and if you're willing to
be the one that stays home does late
nights all of ACC when we were broke and
I couldn't afford a Night Nurse I'm here
for it but like that is the bation that
interests me and obviously these were
dialogues boys and girls this was not me
handing stone tablets to my wife I've
not been married for 22 and a half years
because I tell her what to do and she
shuts up and does it that is literally
the antithesis of my wife um but
understanding that that was going to be
a lot easier for me and so she had to
come to her own conclusions about what
she wanted so understanding those hugely
important um admiration versus
validation another like dude I want to
go do a hard thing and have my wife be
like yo that's [ __ ] sick I want other
men to look at me be like damn I want to
be like that um I don't want people
coming up to me when I fail and being
like man you're all good you're okay we
love you anyway that does nothing for me
and the girl you're fine the way that
you are that is like 100% that's why
female culture spits that out in droves
so when you understand the operating
system that's running in your
significant other now it's like oh I get
why even though like the greatest skit
of all time is the woman comes with a
nail in her forehead saying to her
husband I really have all this pressure
and my forehead and he was like well why
don't we take the nail out and she's
like oh you always just want to solve
the problem I don't even want to talk
about Solutions like once you get that
that is not the wiring that they have
then this gets a lot easier to navigate
you can be like okay cool I see
validation is super important so I'm not
going to say if you remove the nail it's
going to make your life better I'm going
to say damn if I had that going on in my
life I would feel exactly the same they
feel seen they feel understood going
back to one at the top um to make them
feel loved to the core of their being
not to tell them to make them feel to
where you could put them in an fmri show
them a photo of you and you'd see that
resonate in their body um that
is when you understand that and you can
give them that now you're in a good
position and vice versa for women if
women don't understand hey like dude one
of the most fascinating things that
happened with Will Smith and Jada was
Will was like this big house that I've
built for you and she's like for me you
didn't do that for me you did that for
you and he's like hold the [ __ ] phone
what are you talking about I did this
for you and so my wife made me watch it
and she was like that's exactly how I
feel about all your ambition and I was
like [ __ ] you better chill and I was
like you need to hear me when I say
that I have to do this for God this is
going to be so complicated I'm gonna get
lit up in the
comments dear dear people in the
comments hear me when I
say I'm going to do this for someone
I am going to do this and I am going to
do this for someone would you like it to
be you or not now you can rail against
that and you can say what a
fool men are the answer to the question
of what do women want women want a man
that will go and fight a saber-tooth
tiger to make sure that she and her
children eat a man that will be willing
to lay his his life down to make sure
that her women or that her kids and she
eat that they are protected that when
the neighboring Village comes to kill
all the men and take the women and rape
them that the man will fight to the
[ __ ] death for
that so my ambition is baked into the
50% of me that I can't change now of
course I could water that down and I can
do things in the part me that's
malleable to lessen that but I don't
want to so I am going to pursue doing
grand things being the best of all time
being the greatest to ever do it now I
can do that for you or I can do it for
somebody else but if you don't
understand that will built that [ __ ]
house for
Jada then you end up where they're at
yeah there there are centrifugal forces
at work in the male mind in the f female
mind mhm if you fight against them it
will tear you the [ __ ] apart if on the
other hand you go I'm I'm not even
cosigning that it ought to be this way
I'm just saying it is this way and now
that I know it is this way 50%
unchangeable 50%
changeable I'm going to deal with this
situation as it is not the way that I
wish it were and there's an incredible
book called the female brain which was
enlightening
the second most important book that
people can read wasn't about the
difference in Sexes intentionally but oh
my God a billion Wicked thoughts talk
about that one now that one's not an
audio book you listen to around other
people because boy oh boy does it get
graphic uh very
important man all right that's all I got
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