Video summary
The video chronicles a busy week centered around the ongoing process of moving into and decorating a new home office space for the creator's brand, Friend of Mine. The vlogger begins by sharing her morning routine, which includes strength training at the gym where she has been lifting heavy weights for five years, emphasizing that strength training is excellent for aging and becoming friends with workout partners makes the experience more enjoyable. She discusses her excitement about a new product drop launching on her friend's birthday, noting the confusion surrounding the exact date due to multiple delays, before heading to the office to organize and prepare for upcoming photo shoots and team meetings.
A significant portion of the video is dedicated to transforming the office walls with fabric-covered boards, a DIY project inspired by TikTok that she finds incredibly cost-effective and aesthetically pleasing. The creator and her assistant spend time stapling fabric onto insulation boards to create large bulletin boards and gallery walls filled with memories from parties hosted and photoshoots for friends. She also reveals plans to replace stained, uncomfortable chairs with new ones from Wayfair and eventually repaint the black cabinet doors in the kitchen, which she feels are throwing off the desired vibe of the space. Additionally, she shares updates on her wedding skin preparation routine, specifically her experience with microneedling treatments that have left her skin feeling tight and looking great.
As the week progresses, the focus shifts to finalizing the office layout and preparing for a trip to the lake house with family. The creator expresses satisfaction with the new Murphy bed in a flex room that will serve various purposes over time, including as a communal workspace. She highlights the arrival of restocked products like the Dolly Garden canvas and mentions future wholesale opportunities for viewers. Despite some unfinished tasks like painting cabinets and hanging mahjong mats, she feels proud of the progress made, particularly with the new gallery wall and the overall organization of the space. The week concludes with her packing for a lake trip, reflecting on how much work remains but expressing optimism about completing the remaining decor projects soon.
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[music]
>> And a lot prettier than most that come
in here. Fair, but not friendly like
some redheads.
>> Good morning, y'all. Welcome back to
another week in my life vlog. I'm about
to head out to my workout. I have
everything packed up. I've been
Having the office feels like I'm like
back in school because when I was in
school people would do it in an office.
Actually, I guess not everyone picks out
their outfit the night before. But, I
love to pick out my outfit the night
before, have everything good to go,
everything packed up. Anyway, I'm going
to wear this set of active set. I'm
going to Sculpt.
I just wear cuz it's just been so hot
out and sometimes my sets are just like
barely sets. So, if I like want to wear
something over it, I just wear these
massive Abercrombie shirts. Today is
friend of mine's third birthday. And
what's funny about friend of mine's
birthday is that I [clears throat]
don't actually know what it is. And I
think originally it was supposed to
launch September 5th, and then it got
pushed 3 days, and then I thought it was
September 8th, but then I got texts from
friends that it was like their memories,
and they screenshotted their first
order, and that was 6th of September
6th, so
you know, it's just kind of like a
concept, but we're doing like our
birthday drop today, and I'm bringing my
birthday basket to the office, and I'm
going to organize a little bit. I
definitely plan to get more stuff done
around the office this weekend, but we
ended up just having like so much going
on that I didn't even make it over one
time to do that stuff, so we have some
things to get done there. Last Friday, I
got a ton of fabric to cover our boards,
which is going to be so cute once I can
like do our L and S board.
>> [music]
>> I'm very, very excited about that one.
So, that'll be good. I feel like it
might be a slick back day. I might need
to pull this.
All right, guys.
Back we go. Going to the lake this
weekend and next weekend. I'm so
tired, but anyways, we're
moving. The best part of a new home
project is when you go in to see it the
next morning.
Wow, I've started back on my gallery
wall
for hosting. I This was always the plan,
and then when I hung up in here, wasn't
actually things that I had hosted. It
was just photo shoots that we have for a
friend of mine, so I moved those to the
office, and then these are just all
the different parties and memories and
things. I mean, not every single one
I've hosted, cuz
I don't have photos of a good chunk of
them. That's why I started hiring
photographer, because I would spend so
much time and effort on these parties,
and then I had like no photos. And I'm
such a like nostalgic memories girl. So,
this just makes me so happy. So,
obviously eventually, we have one that
broke that Charlie fixed that needs to
go up over there, but eventually, the
entire wall will be full of stuff from
hosting, which is really exciting. But
anyway, I came out here to grab my
birthday basket,
because I'm very into the office today.
The birthday basket is really
everything.
>> [music]
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>> This is like insane. Here we go.
It's just like I want to make sure it's
as tight as possible.
>> The good news is that you actually
[music] don't staple yourself because
there's no back. It doesn't go in.
>> Oh, okay.
I don't see how that's good news, but
>> Well, if it if it was a bit too hard
>> If I staple myself, there is no good
news.
>> [music]
>> Can you do the other side first? And
then if you give me your scissors, I'll
go ahead and cut Yeah, this.
>> Hold on.
>> Or Or wait, I have to
>> I need you on this side first. We want
to pull it as tight.
>> pull it tight on that side? [music]
>> We're also going to pre-cut it.
>> This is like the cheapest thing ever.
All of this cost, I think like $500 for
all three of them.
>> Wow.
>> I do think it's a little slanted.
So, I guess we'll see. Big reveal.
Oh, no, it's perfect. It looks good.
Great. Oh my god, this is amazing.
This is the best thing ever. We have two
more to do.
It's just an insulation board with
fabric that we staple guns. I saw it on
TikTok. I know a lot of people do this,
but wow, so nice and it looks beautiful.
It's also great because like something
of this size would just be so expensive
and it was so like inexpensive compared
to
what it would like normally cost. Love
this. Welcome to my new LNS.
We're going to do staples for this,
Charlie. Same thing.
Yeah, this size is fine cuz it's just
going to go across the whole wall like
this.
So.
>> Hold on before you do anything.
Actually, we're going to pull it tight
after you put it down.
>> [music]
>> All right, do this corner first.
>> [music]
>> All right, and we got to staple off of
it though. I'm going to follow you.
You pull.
>> Okay.
>> [music]
>> All right, you can fold.
>> All right, let's see.
Oh, it looks good.
Yeah. All right, some updates. We
haven't done this board. It's the
afternoon now. I did add on these ties,
which I like a lot and they're fun cuz I
don't like the curtains are just kind of
like bland, you know? But it did bring a
lot more light in here, which is great.
Also, I went through my stash of stuff
and I found all these old curtains that
were like my aunt's. And honestly, I
mean they would need to be like taken
in, but kind of love that. So, we're
going through that. This fabric is going
to be as you guys probably saw last week
or maybe earlier in this vlog, that's
going to be over the bulletin board in
my office. And then here, I'm going to
have I was going to do a Gray Malin
print, but I think the one I got is like
too small for that area. So, I actually
don't know exactly what I'm going to do.
I am still wanting to do the gallery
wall thing here and then I'm going to do
the cork board here. So, that's good.
And then we did finish these. So, we did
move this in here. I'm going to have
this board actually mounted and this is
going to be like our LNS if you will
with all of our canvases in here. We're
going to get two lamps, books, fake
florals, the whole thing. So, that'll be
good. And then we have a lot of stuff
cuz we're still mid moving.
We got a bunch of like fabrics and stuff
back today, but this looks amazing. I
know I've already shown it, but love
that. Good morning, y'all. It is now
Wednesday. It is 7:00 a.m. I'm heading
out to my workout. I strength train.
I've talked about this a billion times,
but I strength train 3 days a week and
then I take strength sculpt. I lift like
very heavy.
I'm like I'm a bodybuilder. No, guys. I
hate the way I said that, but I lift
heavy. I have been lifting for I don't
know. Yesterday was the 400th class, so
probably like I think I've been going
there for like 5 years at this point. I
can never remember when I started going.
And also even if I'm like, "Oh, I've
been going since 2022." I'm like, "Wait,
2 years ago." And then I'm like,
"Wait a second." You know, that's crazy.
But I have become like very close
friends. This is not new. This is like
in the past couple like years at this
point, but I've become very close
friends with my friends that I work out
with. One like owns the gym and then
just like other two friends of ours. I
love them. And it's funny because like
we actually do hang out at the school.
Like one of them was the one who was
here Sunday night late or Monday night
late and is like in my fantasy league.
Like we actually hang out like outside
of the gym and stuff, but it almost
feels like school friends. Mainly
because like I'm like 10 years younger
than them, less than 10 years younger
than them. A little No, I'm 10 years
younger than them. And
it's just like so fun. But anyway, I
like need my morning workout and this is
our hack to doing the workout. When you
strength train, you can like talk
through the class. So, that really helps
because I when I go to sculpt like
strength sculpt, I love the class, but
I'm like, "Oh, I can't gossip with my
friends." Like that sucks. Here's the
key though. You just need to work out
with your friends or be friendly with
who you work out next to. And then it's
like every morning I'm going I'm like,
"Oh, I'm going to see my friends. It's
like not the workout, you know? I
actually love the workout. I genuinely
like working out. Like I'm not
especially cuz I like what I like the
kind of workouts that I do. Strength
training is just like the best because
you can feel yourself getting better.
It's like the best thing for you with
aging.
It feels kind of like a sport or
practice because I'm consistently
getting better and I can see that versus
like of course if you're and I love
Pilates and stuff like if you're in
Pilates it's different because there's
less markers like your weights are like
typically lower anyway. So you can't
really see the difference between like
oh, when I started I was doing five and
now I'm doing like 40. You know what I
mean? Like you can see the actual
difference and you can feel the
difference and just in general like when
you're like playing with kids or
whatever like I notice it so much more.
Anyway, all that to say highly recommend
strength training, highly recommend
becoming friends with who you like to
workout with cuz it makes it so much
more fun. Guys, you will never believe
this. I watched Practical Magic last
night for the first time ever. I don't
know how I had not seen that movie and
how it was not like a staple of my cuz
that is so like my vibe of a movie.
Like I do not know how I haven't seen
it. Loved it. Charlie obsessed. Like how
would Charlie not see it? He watches
like every movie ever. Anyway, great
movie. I don't know how I was like I
needed to do a Practical Magic dinner
party. We need to do the whole thing. I
do. I do. Good morning y'all. I'm at the
office now. It's a couple hours later.
It's 11:30. I just took a call, did a
bunch of podcast stuff and we are about
to head off not head off. We're about to
hop on a wedding design call for our
like general invitations, general vibe,
all those things. I want to get this
done sooner rather than later because I
might like I'm very lucky because
obviously I have like a home and hosting
brand. So there's certain vendors and
stuff that I might have things made that
are custom. I don't know that for a fact
um but I want to get our stuff done like
sooner rather than later. So anyway,
here's what I'm wearing today. This is
actually the top that we got engaged in.
I wasn't thinking about it, but jeans,
these Guys, where are we buying jeans? I
cannot find jeans. I love my Abercrombie
curve love jeans, but like I need like a
Morgan Stewart jean. You know what I'm
saying? Like I just need and I need them
in every single color and I need them to
be like straight leg and fit me
perfectly and not stretch out and I like
so desperately need them, so please let
me know.
>> [music]
>> I have misophonia, so when I hear people
chewing
>> Like it it would be to the point where
like I would
>> But I can try to do it as quiet as
possible and it won't matter.
>> Yeah. [music]
>> [laughter]
>> No, but it's like
>> That's actually fair.
>> It actually drives me up like my whole
family has it and like there's certain
friends of mine that I like won't eat
with but because I would never say
something like I would never
>> But it just feels like we're going out
to dinner would be fun.
>> All right, we're getting on our design
call.
Hello.
>> Hey, hey, hey, Haley.
>> I'm so excited for this call. I'm going
to say
>> Yeah, yeah. Okay, Haley, so I really
don't have as much of a vision around
this as like you would think. [music]
>> these people card number things or
something like that and like just like
that I don't have it in my brain. I
don't need to know exactly how it's like
going to be die cut.
>> If I like need to make those decisions
and it makes it so much easier on you
like we can do that. We actually are
back in on like September 20th. I'll
probably have a little bit better of an
idea and [music] we're starting to like
book more stuff, so I think that that
will help me and there's of course
things that I'll want to do that are
like more personalized and stuff. Like
we're going to also write like an thank
you like a note to every single person
at their table.
Okay, I'm the last one in the office,
but my new chairs have arrived from
Wayfair and I think they're perfect for
my office. Let's see. Anyway, chair's
honestly comfortable. It's big, which is
what I needed.
Love this thing.
So, I'm off to get my facial. I'm going
to look crazy, so I'll probably
I'll probably talk to you guys tomorrow
cuz my skin's going to look absolutely
insane. Tomorrow is going to be a really
big like setup day for the office. Good
morning, y'all.
I got my microneedling done yesterday,
and honestly, my skin has been not even
that red. Microneedling is by far the
best treatment I've ever gotten. It
makes your skin like so tight, and your
pores disappear. They gave me this sheet
mask. They said to do it last night, and
I didn't. So, I'm doing it now.
It's like 6:00 a.m. I'm up early to
stitch a little, watch a podcast. Um I
can't work out this morning, actually.
So, I'm going to have
a nice little morning at home getting
ready. Okay, I don't know if
This feels kind of wrong. Oh god. Okay.
I just felt like my skin has been
looking really dull. And also,
I've been meaning to get microneedling
done
every month. And now, I mean, I've got
over a year until our wedding, but I
think
for prep and stuff, I needed to start
now and get into the routine of it. I'm
not doing like bride like all the crazy
like whatever stuff, but I want to feel
good. And also, it's just an excuse
because that will just be in my
everyday. So, with that being said,
if you were to done like skin prep or
things for your wedding, what did you
do, and what do you think was worth it?
This is something that I just like would
do period. Like I get microneedling
done. I I don't know. I I've been
consistent with it, but I've got
microneedling done probably like five or
six times. Also, y'all, my starter is so
active.
Perfect. I wish I was going to be home,
but I think we're going to do date night
cuz I would just try to bake some loaves
for the lake house tomorrow.
But I don't think I'm going to be able
to do that. so
>> You could always bring it to the office.
>> Maybe I try.
Let's see.
>> [music]
>> Hi my girls. We're at the office today.
I'm trying to get the remainder of the
stuff that we can just like moved in
unboxed. I got my new chairs. I just
need to move things away or around and
organize to the best of my ability
before we get like the rest of our stuff
because we have like two major shoot
days next week. We'll have the whole
team in town next week. So there's only
four of us, but we'll all be here.
So I need to get all that situated. Um I
have a podcast recording day.
I There's a bunch of us lots of
meetings. Like it's just it's a busy
week. That's basically what I'm getting
at. Also, look at how perfect this is.
It has like chickens everywhere in this
office because it's like uh obviously
iconic. Update on getting the office, I
think it was the best thing I've done
because it is just so much better to
like leave my house and go somewhere and
with Friend of Mine specifically, one we
were growing and two like we just had so
much stuff everywhere and like products
and everything and I just needed it laid
out. So today, I'm going to move the
chairs around. We're going to move the
other chairs, the pink striped ones. I
love those, but I I mentioned this
before, the fabric is terrible. People
only ever sat on those for the podcast
and they're like stained all over and
like no one not one single time did they
stain ever like anything when they were
sitting on those chairs. So eventually
as we develop Friend of Mine product, I
will get those like refinished. I'm just
kind of like holding out until we do
that. So I'm going to switch the chairs
out. We need to sell the boucle couch.
Bye boucle couch. We're done with with
trend. And figure out that situation and
then I'm going to set up our like LNS,
which is going to be our board with all
of our like needlepoint canvases and
stuff.
And just get as many things done as
possible. Um because we have that shoot
and stuff, I'm not trying I would also
be like can't afford it, but I'm not
trying to like furnish everything all at
once because we need the space for the
shoots and whatnot. So, just going
getting stuff
situated. We also got a speaker.
Oh, this is not the speaker I brought
over an
Sorry everyone. So, now I can have music
playing and the vibes are going to be so
good. And honestly, it already looks
like really cute over here.
Like I like that vibe. So,
anyway, I do really want to paint the
cabinets like so desperately. They're
fine, they're just like not my vibe.
But these are things that are just like
unfortunately not taking priority.
However, they're priority to me, you
know, but like not to anyone not to
people who, you know, do the finances of
this I'm the one who does the finances.
It's priority to me, but you know,
probably not a priority as far as like
the other things that we need [music] to
be doing. So, that won't be happening
anytime soon, but I do hope and pray
that it happens.
>> [music]
>> All right, guys. My lips look insane
because I don't have any makeup on and
this is my outfit, but we are going to
start you and I are going to start
decorating the friend of mine LNS,
that's at our office only. So, we are
just going to pin this. You guys saw how
we did this earlier. And we're taking a
bunch of needle point canvas. I also
need to say, so many of the
pre-orders {slash} big massive restocks
that we placed for like the Dolly Garden
canvas, like all of the like core stuff
that you guys want and have asked for
for so many times, they're finally
starting to arrive. We've placed
multiple orders. Like there's going to
be a big restock coming very soon.
That's why you always want to get on the
restock notifications. And then, there's
another restock for like Christmas
[snorts]
and whatever. We have like multiple of
them coming. So, stay
tuned. And if you are in LNS, we do sell
wholesale. You guys can just go on the
website. We use wholesale drill other
really nice. They're really convenient.
Also, these push pins are little pearls.
And I'm realizing now that these are not
enough.
>> [music]
[music]
>> All right, giving y'all some office
updates. This pillow is like an old
family pillow, and then this one
is you guys know the story at this
point. But anyway, I really like the new
chairs. I can't wait for somebody to be
hanging there. I can't wait for the
block to be painted. And I love the rug.
So, we're keeping this. Now, over here,
this whole situation is still a big
mess.
And honestly, like it's going to be kind
of for a little bit, but
I love this. I cannot wait for this to
be hung up on the wall and everything to
be situated. It's going to be incredible
once it's actually like ready to go.
Good morning, y'all. It is Friday. I
have a workout soon. It's 7:00. I just
spent an hour
stitching and listening to the Calamity
Club. I'm trying to finish it this
weekend because I need to recap it on
the podcast for y'all. And oh my god,
it's so good. You have to listen to the
audiobook. Anyway,
um right now, I'm about to do a little
like 20-minute cleanout of my closet
because I found that like my tops are a
little unorganized, that stuff is
unorganized, like falls back, whatever.
So, I need to go through to um bag some
stuff for donations. Oh, you know what?
I should wear and I need to pack for the
lake, but I have a workout soon. I'm
going to wear these on the boat
tomorrow. I got these, so excited.
Haven't worn them. Like we were barely
in the pool this summer, granted we were
gone, and it still is warm enough for
the next like probably month and a half,
2 months to go in the pool here. I mean,
these are things that I'll have forever.
We're going to the lake today, as you
guys know. But I'm going to do a little
like 20-minute
donation of things really quickly, cuz
I'm trying to just do like I find that
with organizing your closet
specifically, you think you need like a
full day, and it takes you like an hour,
you know? So, if I just do like
20-minute cleanups and stuff, then I'll
be good, you know? And then I need
to pick out what I'm going to wear to
work out, and then I'm just going to go
straight to the office and get some
stuff there, and then come back here. We
need to get some groceries because we're
in charge of a couple meals
while we're at the lake with my family.
Also, it's like I'll wear this, but I
wear this like every day, so I don't
even know where the shorts are for it.
>> [music]
[music]
>> All right, so this is done and set up.
This is our new like Murphy bed
situation. You pull this drawer all the
way out and then you bring that down and
then there's the mattress, but it's not
my like favorite looking thing ever. I
mean it's fine.
Really what drives me crazy is the black
doors. Like guys, what color should I be
painting these? Cuz that has to happen
stat. Anyway, this will be cute to have
like a painting of over it and books and
like florals and all that stuff. So
really cute nice. We'll add a cute
little rug in here and then depending
like this room will probably be like
more of a flex room which is like over
time it'll kind of just be like whatever
we need it to be. It might end up being
another like communal workplace. We
might get like a rug and like a big
table where people can work back here so
we have like different working spaces
and they can take calls and everything,
but
I'm glad that is done finally.
Guys, office update. Here we are. Things
are looking way better. I hung this up
this morning.
This is the greatest thing that we've
ever done. I have this stuff. This will
be reupholstered. Best couch ever. Need
to think figure out what's going to go
up there.
Same situation. This is going to be the
ottoman, entry table, design book wall.
Obviously, the dream would be to I don't
even think I would necessarily need to
paint. Like, I think we can make the
kitchen work, but the black doors and
stuff, like, that's got to go.
So, I need paint suggestions. Um and
then eventually we'll replace these
chairs, too, but they're just here for
the time being. This is our little
situation over here. More books, coffee
station, which we'll have set up. We are
going to do like fun things for snacks
and everything. This eventually will be
like a plate wall of some sort. We
haven't really done much outside.
Um this is going to be, you know, slowly
but surely we're getting over there. My
dream would be to take our silk scarves
and have them framed and have them go
down this
office or this uh hallway. So, that's
the dream. Over here, we have a bunch of
our mahjong mats. We're going to hang
them. We got something to hang them up
here, which will be cute. I want new
chairs.
I would love to wallpaper this room like
so much. So, that's also the dream. We
have tassels coming to make this cuter.
This is our L&S wall that you guys saw
yesterday. That's looking great. And
then over here, oh, my office. I don't
know if I've already said all of this,
but you guys have seen this throughout
the week.
Still deciding on that stuff, but that's
what we have here. We still need to
cover that.
And then down this hallway,
I finally kind of like fixed it up a
little bit today.
That's the guest room situation or not
the guest room, but
pullout situation. And then we have some
extra Like, this is like
vintage Like, this is like stuff that my
mom and my grandma made for their
company forever ago. So, and then we
have all of that, which will be nice.
And that is the update for the office
currently. So, I'm like, yeah,
everything's coming along. We need to
paint these. This is like the one thing
that I'm like, I actually would want to
do that sooner rather than later cuz it
just like is really throwing off the
vibe. See how it all looks too modern?
It's not very like friend of mine.
Anyway, that is that.
Um, I'm actually going to go home and
get ready and leave for the lake house
today. So, I'll see you guys in my next
vlog. Bye.
>> [music]
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