Video summary
The video recounts the tragic story of a young Caucasian man who killed his girlfriend after a disagreement at her home, only for his mother to assist him in hiding the body by cleaning the blood and placing the victim in her car. Despite their efforts to dispose of the evidence, the girl's father tracked her phone location and discovered her dead body, forcing the mother to confess to the authorities. The speaker uses this horrific event to illustrate that love is a gamble with no guarantees, emphasizing that relationships can turn deadly when one partner loses control or succumbs to what he describes as demonic possession. He argues that such extreme violence does not happen without warning signs, suggesting that the victim failed to recognize the red flags exhibited by her boyfriend before it was too late.
Drawing from personal experience and family history, the speaker discusses his own sister's struggles with toxic relationships and how he prepared for the worst-case scenario by purchasing life insurance for her. He shares a story about his father nearly going to prison after confronting an abusive man who was pursuing his daughter, highlighting the importance of recognizing danger early and detaching from harmful situations. The speaker warns that many people ignore these warning signs because they are swept up in romantic ideals seen on TV or in books, leading them to underestimate the potential for violence. He stresses that individuals must learn to identify behavioral changes, such as mood swings or aggression, and take immediate action to protect themselves before tragedy strikes.
To prevent future tragedies, the speaker advocates for establishing strict personal boundaries and rules regarding relationships, particularly concerning sexual activity and safety. He argues that sex should never be spontaneous but rather planned and scheduled on a calendar to ensure both parties are mentally prepared and protected against diseases like HIV or herpes. He recounts his own past mistakes of engaging in unprotected sex without protection, which led him to pray for deliverance from STDs and eventually change his lifestyle entirely. He urges listeners to stop making excuses based on their upbringing or lack of education and to take responsibility for their choices, warning that ignoring red flags will inevitably lead to severe consequences like disease, unwanted pregnancy, or death.
Ultimately, the speaker promotes his "Purpose Pushers" community as a resource for learning how to navigate relationships safely and avoid the pitfalls that led to the deaths in stories like the one he shared. He encourages people to build a strong circle of influence consisting of trusted friends and family members who can offer objective advice when they notice something is wrong in a relationship. By listening to these advisors and implementing their suggestions, individuals can make better decisions and avoid repeating the mistakes of others. The video concludes with an invitation for viewers to join his community to learn practical lessons from real-life events, ensuring that people do not have to suffer or lose loved ones just to understand how to live right.
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Hey, saw this thing my wife was showed
me. A mom
helped her son
hide a body
and the body was still found.
And so mom had to go on ahead and admit,
you know, after the body was found and
mom was like, you know, I'm sorry, my
son took a life.
Now, this was appears to be a Caucasian
family.
And reason why I state that just cuz
biases and things that people have in
their mind talking about a story like
this, somebody could just automatically
put a race to it based on their own
personal prejudice.
But it's a Caucasian young man and his
girlfriend was
at her house. I believe she's a
Caucasian young lady as well. She was at
her house with her family and she left
and she was getting ready to, you know,
head back home to head to school and she
had signed a letter of intent to play
soccer at the school and
stopped by her boyfriend house
and they got into a disagreement
and the young lady had shared some
things with the young man and talking to
him. Young man went in the house, got a
knife, came back out,
and
proceeded to stab her in the chest.
And then
he left and drove to his mama house
and
went into his mama. His mama agreed to
come out and clean up his car, clean up
the blood, try to She got some
disinfectant spray and start trying to
clean up the blood, help him clean up
the blood. Then they they put her in her
car, you know, they drove separately to
where they was going
and they parked and left her in her car
dead
and went on about their business. The
young lady phone was being tracked
though. She was being tracked by her
dad. And so when they saw the dad saw
she stopped at the boyfriend house. Then
the dad saw where she parked her car at.
And say he knew something was off.
Something was up.
So they went and they found their
daughter dead. And this is something
that there's really no
fancy or eloquent words for. This isn't
something that you really can prepare
for. This isn't something you really can
predict. Like this is a this is the
unfortunate part about relationships.
It's the unfortunate part that love is a
gamble. And I've been saying that for as
long as I can remember. Love is a
gamble. Sometimes you win, sometimes you
lose. That's that's honestly why I
started the purpose pushers community
and why I want everybody to join it
because the one thing that you will
always have is your purpose.
That's the one thing you'll always have.
you.
I cannot guarantee love for you. Can't
guarantee you a husband. Can't guarantee
you a wife. Can't guarantee you a
happily ever after. But one thing I know
you have is a purpose on this earth.
And this young lady
now
her purpose
is now being served through me and
everybody else who talk about it because
now
parents will sit down with their child,
their son and their daughter.
The boy who the boy said a demon took
over.
Now, one thing that I've realized,
I've seen some people that I feel like
are demonp possessed
who haven't taken a life yet. There's
some people I know that I feel like at
times express demon possession and they
haven't taken a life yet.
So,
there may be signs, there may be. You
can't guarantee that though. That can't
be guaranteed.
But there may be signs to where you have
to take and look
and pay close attention. So if you see
somebody, they black out, they turn red,
whatever, all that different stuff. See
red, see blacklight,
see all that different stuff that people
be talking about.
If you see that cool little Tesla there,
then
you need to get distance. You need to
get distance.
You got to pull back. You got to look.
You got to see like, hold on now. What's
going on here before I get too deep in?
What's going on before I before I go too
far?
And then what you need to do, you need
to take that action
that they exhibited
and you need to
talk about that to your board of
directors.
I was talking to the we had a class in
the purpose pushers community
last night and I was telling them a way
that you could pick your board of
directors. When I mean board of
directors, I mean the people in your
corner that you know, love, and trust.
You need to have at least three board of
directors.
So for me, it might be my wife, my
oldest son, my dad. That that'll be
three. But then I have other board of
directors rotating members, advisory
board. So sometimes I go to one of my
homeboys,
my mama
from my friend, stuff like that. So you
you have your board of directors. That's
your board of influence. That's your
circle of influence. That's the people
that you take their opinion very serious
and you'll make decisions based off
their opinion. You'll make changes in
your life based off their opinion.
That's a circle of influence. And then
outside of that, now you can have your
advisory board where you take what they
say into consideration, but you might
not make you might not take it all away.
Y'all forgive me. My wife made me iced
coffee, so had to hit that right there.
And uh I don't like to drink on the
camera.
So you got to realize that.
And you take that behavior that was
exhibited and you talk to your board and
you say, "Hey, what you think about
this? Do you think I ought to leave? You
know what? What's up now? You think I
ought to leave? You think I need to just
say we need a break? Like, do we need
counseling? Do we need therapy,
coaching? like we need to go sit with
pastor,
go sit with Tony Gins or his dad and
talk this thing through. Like what you
think we need now? And listen to what
they say. And I'm going tell you like
this right here. Yes, sometimes your
friends and your family can be jealous
of your relationship
if if there's a But you got to know what
what why would they be jealous? Are they
single and miserable? If they single and
miserable, then that's not the person
you need to ask anyways. Ask somebody
who's not miserable. Ask somebody who's
married and happy or dating and happy or
single and happy. That's the first thing
you want to do. So now that minimizes
the chances of you asking somebody who
could be jealous. Then you got to ask,
do they have a reason to be jealous? So
let's say they single and happy or they
in a relationship and happy. They still
could be jealous, but what would make
them jealous? One thing that make them
jealous is if your person you with is a
millionaire and y'all get to fly around
the world. You get to fly private or
first class. You in different countries.
You you know they buying you all kind of
jewelry, fancy stuff, nice stuff. So a
person can be jealous of you because of
the lifestyle that you have with this
person. Now, if that's not the case,
that's not in there, and you sense no
jealousy. Now, one thing I'mma tell you,
I'm never gonna be jealous of you, and
I'm gonna be able to see the situation,
assess the situation. So, if you don't
have nobody else to talk to, then go to
my mentor.life.
The link might be in the description. If
not, book a session with me. If I have
them available, I'm I'm getting ready to
close them. So, if I have them
available, then book a session. If
they're not available on there, then you
have to join the Purpose Pushers
community. The link is in the
description because if they close when
you see this, that mean the only people
who have access to one-on-one sessions
are in the community.
So, and I'm going to tell you the truth
because you have to recognize if there
are signs, you have to recognize the
signs early.
I am I am going to venture to believe
that this young lady that this young man
who killed this young lady showed signs
before
because I don't think you go from cool,
calm, collected, amazing, sweet
boyfriend to stabbing somebody in the
chest and killing them. I don't believe
you you go from that to that. So,
I believe he showed signs, but she
didn't know what the signs were. She
didn't know how to recognize the sign.
She's still a kid herself. She probably
didn't tell her parents about some of
the stuff he did or said cuz she
probably just thinking like this is this
is love. This is a relationship like
this is you know this dangerous love
like Beyonce saying about you know this
this whatever it and they see this type
of stuff. They see these relationships
on Netflix shows.
They read about these relationships in
books. So all of that plays into it.
So
I'm pretty sure that that played into it
and that was part of the reason why.
So she probably didn't recognize it.
Now if I mess around and go to this boy
case, I'mma swing on him cuz he grown
now. But I'mma swing on you, boy. I'mma
take that little charge. I'mma get my
little battery charge cuz boy you wrong
for that. They even they even walk them
close to me. I'm stealing off on them.
Hitting them right in the mouth, man.
You kill that one
little punk and then me talking about a
demon took over. All right. F to show
you a demon.
Listen, I do not like that right there,
man. I don't like that. Everybody go
through stuff. We all been young and
dumb and we all done been
spiritually at war and stuff like that.
But to take somebody whole life, man,
listen,
I just I I don't think the government
doing stuff the right way. Like you take
somebody life maliciously like that. It
was no self-defense, none of that.
We need to have a different type of
torture for you. You need to it need to
be death by torture
and I for eye and take it back old
school man because
people just getting off too easy and
watch this boy go to trial he'll get
he'll get 10 years man he'll be out
before Carmelo Anthony
watch and that's just how they be. It be
crazy but cuz I'mma tell you and I think
God ain't got no daughter. God knew. God
knew. He already knew. He said, "Man,
this man had too many concussions. The
man been through too much. I'm not f to
give his behind no daughter
cuz he going to be in prison for murder.
Not f to give this man no daughter. Like
my sister, I thank God she ain't my
daughter."
And that cuz my daddy is a lot more
eventempered than me. He a lot more cool
than me. He a lot more emotionally
intelligent than me. But if my daughter,
if my sister was my daughter, I'd have
been in prison. I don't know how my dad
stayed out of prison this long. But he
he literally had to come to a place
where he detached himself.
Cuz I'll never forget it was a time
where
her boyfriend came over to the house
doing something, her baby daddy.
And my daddy had to had to confront him.
Had to walk up on him. Had to pull up on
him. And then later my daddy told me
like he said I had my knife in my hand.
He was like cuz you know the boy 6'5. He
like I ain't know we if we went to
tussling he went to get the best of me I
going to have to juke him. And had that
thing had that boy not got in his car
and walked away and like went away from
my dad and had he tried my daddy,
my daddy would have went to prison that
day over his daughter and me and my
daddy. And then I fought the boy. I
ain't have no weapon on me though. But I
fought the boy. So me and my daddy had
to come to the place where we was like,
man, we can't be fool up with this girl.
She She keep going back to this man. She
keep dealing with these guys like, man,
we got to let it go. And so we just
decided to let it go. And I started
preparing. I got life insurance on my
sister. I got life insurance on my
sister. is for her daughters is the
beneficiaries,
but I pay her $80 a month term life
insurance, half a million dollar policy
because of the because of the toxic
relationships
because it all it take is just one hit.
It take one wrong hit to your temple and
you dead. It take one little thing and I
had so many visions so many times. I'm
like, man, I don't I don't think my
sister going to make it to be a old age
because her her relationships just be so
toxic.
And it just
it just be so toxic. And so that's what
a lot of people don't realize what I do
this because also the spiritual warfare.
My first book really was written for my
sister and my mom. like what I do more
so my sister not really my mom but just
for women in my life that I love and
that book my wife she's a reader she's
she's very smart she's very studious
my wife was able to wrap me around her
finger because she read my book she read
my book and she took the game
face value like she she read the book
and she didn't think she knew more than
the book. She took the book literally
and she used the game that I gave away.
She used it against me. She used it on
me and that's how we still married to
this day. And a lot of people don't
understand that. That's my first book.
Um, what daddy never told a little girl,
but it's really the rewrite of it is
Mrs. Wright. So, it's really my book
Mrs. Right.
And my wife,
she live the stuff that I that I teach
to a T.
So I've never seen my wife. If I get my
wife on and I go through her watch
history on Tik Tok, Instagram, she don't
watch no relationship coaches. She don't
watch no motivational speakers. My wife
don't even she don't even read
self-development books because she live
with me. And so she she hear it all. She
done seen it all. And she take it. She
take it and she implemented. Like she
smart like that. She take it and she
implemented.
And that's why we still married today.
That's why we work so well because she
took the game that I gave.
But y'all y'all will listen to me talk
all day every day and still go and be
stupid.
that. And I don't say that in a
derogatory way. I talk to women every
day who say, "Tony, I've been watching
you for five years, 10 years, and they
be flipped and tossed. They be twisted
up like a pretzel." And I'll be like,
"How you watch me every day and then you
going through this? This don't make no
sense." And they all say the same thing.
I thought I I thought I understood.
I thought I had it. I thought I knew
what it meant. I thought I was stronger.
I thought I was smarter. I thought this.
I thought that. You none of that when a
dangle in your face. You're none of
that. So, you got to know your rules.
You got to have your rules. And if one
of your rules is no sex until marriage,
there's no a man have to take it from
you. is there should be nothing that
make you open your legs
unless he take it from you. And as soon
as he take it from you, the next thing
you do is 911
and he's going to prison.
He going to prison. And if they let him
off,
you call me
and we'll take it from there.
And that's what you have to realize and
understand
like you got to start listening.
You got to listen.
And that's the thing that the Bible say
about women. And my daddy will probably
correct me on this in his Bible study.
When the Bible say women forever seeking
knowledge and never coming into the
knowledge of truth.
Y'all show up. Y'all watch all the
videos. Y'all go all the seminars. Y'all
do all the everything and ankles still
be behind your ears.
Soon as you meet a man with a hard ding
lang, your ankles is in the air.
You have got to grow. You have got to
learn. You have got to start listening
or you're going to end up dead just like
this young lady.
You either going to end up dead or with
a disease or carrying the child of a man
that's leaving you.
Saw saw a beautiful young lady online.
She amazingly talented
and I have a management company. A lot
of y'all don't know that I manage
artists and stuff like that. I just be a
like a adviser and just help them with
their deals and stuff cuz I did all that
for myself and by myself. got on the
phone with her. So talented, amazing
future.
Guess what? She pregnant by a dead beat.
Fell for a sweet nothings of a man.
Opened her leg unprotected. Got
pregnant.
Got pregnant. The man told her, "I don't
want nothing to do with the child.
Nothing to do with you. Nothing to do
with a child." She say she going to
cheat keep the child cuz she don't
believe in termination.
So she keeping the child and now she
going on now she on her second child
from a second man
and neither of the fathers are active in
the life and it's all from being a
hopeless romantic.
It's all from wanting love but not
having standards and not having
boundaries. And I'm going to tell y'all
something. If you're going to have sex,
at least require protection.
And this is the thing. This is the
problem with women. And and y'all carry
this into marriage. Sex cannot be
spontaneous. And y'all want it to be
spontaneous. Y'all want to You want sex
to be so like perfect for your mind to
be in it, your body to be in it, for
everything to be flowing. That's how you
get pregnant.
Sex has to be planned.
It has to be on your calendar.
If you get caught up to where, oh, I'm
going to have sex when I'm turned on,
when I feel like it. No, you got to make
a decision. This is when I'm going to
have sex, and I'm going to prepare my
mind for it, and then I'm going to start
kissing and rubbing and touching to get
moist and to get ready. I'm not going to
just let it just come out of nowhere.
And I ain't got no plan for it. I'm not
planning for it. I'm not prepared for
it. And the next thing you know, you got
HIV. The next thing you know, you got
genital warts, you got herpes, or you
pregnant. And it's because you wanted
spontaneity.
No, it need to be a date on your
calendar. On September 10th, I'm f to
get this negro some of that good pee.
And it got to be a plan so that you know
that you ready. So that you know if you
fa to do it, he fa to scrap up. Unless
you ready to get pregnant or catch a
disease
and you can't just be going through no
flow. Because the thing about it is men,
we are stupid.
We are stupid.
We will come all in you.
Ski all in you.
We will catch herpes, genital wars, HIV.
When the dangling lane get hard, the
brain stop working.
When the dangle lane get hard, the brain
stop working.
That is how these men sleeping with
children because they get around a child
and they dangling get hard and they
ain't got no sense and they nasty. They
was touched as a child. They turned out
and that's how you find these men
sleeping with 14y old girls, 15 year old
boys. That dangling got hard and they
lost all common sense. Listen, when a
man get a dangling ain't hard, it ain't
almost nothing he won't do. It's almost
nothing he won't risk his life for. It's
almost nothing he ain't willing to
catch. And he will think about the
consequences later.
I remember being out there and doing
what y'all doing, being unprotected. And
I remember every time like the last
probably like the last five women that I
slept with
at the end of it, I would go into prayer
and I would be like, "Lord, please,
Lord, please Lord,
please Lord, do not let me have HIV.
Lord, please don't let me have HIV." And
I'm changing my life. Lord, I'm changing
my life. I will never sleep with another
woman unprotected again. Lord, please
don't let me have HIV or herpes or
genital warts. And I cuz I knew that I
had to run the risk too many times. I
knew that I had them played Russian
roulette too many times. I knew it. And
so when people see what I do and men get
mad with me, men call me a s, men call
me this, men call me that, they call me
everything in the book. I do not care,
boy. I will punch you in your mouth,
boy, about my purpose. That's why I
started the purpose pushing community. I
do not care what you think about me cuz
God spared me
to not have no STD,
to not have no kids outside of my wife,
having lived the life that I was living.
I owe God everything.
That's why I talk how I talk. That's why
I do what I do. I'm telling you
because God spared me. And I'm and this
what I try to tell you. Your grace will
not be my grace. You're going to catch a
disease. You're going to have a child
out of wetlock. You know why? Because my
grace brought me here to you.
When I was out there, this didn't exist.
YouTube didn't exist. Nobody talked to
me like this. People always say, "Well,
Tony, you were grown. you making excuses
for you being a fornicator and you doing
this and you doing that. You making
excuses you was grown. And I'm like,
listen here, dummy. My daddy never had a
birds and bees talk with me. My mama
never had a birds and bees talk with me.
YouTube was not a thing. Life coaching
was not a thing. Relationship coaches
was not a thing. Talking about Yeah, but
you still knew right from wrong. Yeah.
You know right from wrong and still
taking hard dangling lane.
And you got me on YouTube holling at you
every day and you still taking hard
dangling lane or dipping off in some raw
vagina.
So what do that say? How how you going
to judge me and what I did when you got
everything I had and more and still
being dumb? So guess what? You're not
going to be spared. You're going to
catch a disease or you're going to have
a baby out of wedlock and you're not
going to be spared cuz God didn't
already sent you the warning.
He didn't already sent you the warning.
So after that, now it's payola. After
that, now it's a price to pay. Now you
got to pay the price cuz you did not
want to listen.
You wanted to open your legs and have
unprotected sex or have sex. You want to
ignore the red flags. You want to let
you let this man or woman yell in your
face, put hands on you, cuss you out, go
through all this and that. So when you
wake up dead,
that's a figure of speech. People be
like, "How is he gonna wake up dead?"
It's a figure of speech. D when you wake
up dead, that's why
you got what you was asking for. You got
what you was begging for because
the message already there. The lesson
already there. I'm coming on here. I
show up now by every single day sharing
a lesson based on the stuff we seeing in
our media and the stuff that's going on
in the world. I use that and pull and
extract the real lesson from it and
share the lesson with you. So it ain't
no excuse for you to be dumb. It ain't
no excuse for you to get played. It
ain't no excuse for you to go through
nothing out here.
So listen, go on grab your spot in the
Purpose Pushers community. You'll see
it's the first link in the description.
Might be the only link. Grab your spot.
We have class every week. We have
impromptu classes as well. Get on in
there.
7 days free on me. See what it's about.
Go to the recorded call. Go to the
classroom. Click at the top. You'll see
classroom. Got may have to swipe
through. They got a app. go to the
classroom, listen to the recorded call
so you can hear all about it. Here's
some of the stuff I dropped in there and
all the classes will be recorded and put
in there. So, hey, keep your head up,
keep going. It's time to start living
right, doing the right thing, getting
your life right, and being better so you
don't have to learn the hard way. So,
you don't have to lose.
You ain't got to lose to learn. Learn so
you don't lose. But hey, this Tony
Gaston, God bless you. I'm coming up
here to get a birthday card and stuff
for Tate and friend. He about to go to a
little birthday get together. So my wife
sent me up here. But God bless you and
we'll talk soon.