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The lecture addresses the challenging reality of maintaining faith within difficult family dynamics, particularly when individuals are pushed out due to their belief in Jesus or face narcissistic behaviors. The speaker emphasizes that regardless of the situation, believers must respond with love, patience, and forbearance, mirroring how Jesus treated others. Even when leaving a toxic environment, one should do so without hatred or grudges, instead choosing to leave in love and remain connected where possible. This approach allows others to experience God's grace through the believer's actions. The speaker shares personal insights on leading teams with difficult members, noting that it is often wiser to trust God to handle such battles rather than engaging in futile conflicts, allowing divine intervention to either change people or remove them from the picture while preserving unity.
To navigate life's transitions and positioning, the lesson outlines several key principles drawn from biblical examples like Lot, Joseph, Jonah, Moses, and Paul. Believers are encouraged to be willing to let go of the past, step into the unknown, and remain open to change, understanding that God can use even negative actions or criticisms by others to shape character and advance His purposes. The speaker illustrates this with the story of Joseph, whose setbacks were stepping stones to his role as prime minister, and advises listeners to view criticism not as an attack but as an opportunity for growth and self-correction. By asking God how He is using current circumstances, individuals can align their lives with His greater plan, turning potential hindrances into opportunities for spiritual maturity and kingdom advancement.
The course then shifts to the concept of paying a price for fulfilling God's high calling, which inevitably involves suffering, separation from worldly attractions, and sacrifice. The speaker explains that carrying the cross daily means dying to self, sinful passions, and selfish desires, a process necessary for resurrection power and fruitfulness. Sacrifices are categorized into three types: daily acts like saying no to sin and yes to God; life-altering decisions such as becoming a missionary or leaving a comfortable home; and distinguishing between spirit-led sacrifices that produce transformed lives and flesh-led ones that do not. The speaker warns against taking ministry lightly, urging students to count the cost before embarking on any calling, much like a builder calculates expenses or a king assesses military strength before war, ensuring they are truly prepared for the task God has assigned them.
Finally, the lecture concludes with a strong call to discipline and strategic planning, comparing the Christian life to an athlete training rigorously for an imperishable crown. The speaker clarifies that biblical instructions not to worry about tomorrow do not mean avoiding planning; rather, believers are called to think deeply, write down goals, and prepare practically while remaining flexible to the Holy Spirit's redirection. Using examples like the ant storing food for winter and Paul following divine guidance over his original plans, the message is clear that effective planning balances spiritual submission with practical foresight. The session ends with an encouragement for students to integrate these lessons into their daily lives, preparing them to finish their race successfully while awaiting future assessments and continuing education.
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Welcome back everyone. Uh so Sri L has a
question here. Ma'am, what about people
who are pushed out of families due to
faith or faith issues or due to
narcissist families? So any kind of
families, any kind of situation, you
know, it's not about, you know, who the
people are, it's about our attitude
towards them, right? So if they are you
pushed out from your family because you
believe in Jesus then you need to
exercise love and patience and you know
forbearance
uh just like Jesus does towards us and
also forgive and show them Christlike
love and when you do they are going to
experience God. How are people going to
experience God's love and forgiveness?
only when they see God's love and
forgiveness exhibited in and through
you. Yes or no? Right? So you can you
have to leave the family but you don't
leave with grudges or hatred or you know
shouting or screaming or fight leave in
love. Keep in touch show love and even
narcissist families is very very
difficult. you have a spouse who's a
narcissist also very difficult
but you know God's grace is more than
sufficient uh for us and I think love
covers a multitude of sins and it's even
when you see Jesus for the Samaritan
woman the woman caught in the act of
adultery anyone even when he healed
people it was out of compassion and love
so when we do that we are actually uh
doing what God asked us to do the
greatest commandment is love the Lord
your God with all your heart, soul,
mind, and strength and love your
neighbor as yourself. You're following
that and when you do that, God would
work on your behalf. Right? Some battles
we can't fight with people. I, you know,
I lead teams. There are people who are
difficult in teams but I always tell God
I don't have the time and energy to
fight them because you're already having
so much of work to do so many things to
do so many responsibilities. I told God,
I always tell God that I don't have the
time and the energy to fight them,
right? I can see things they are doing,
talking, behaving, attitudes, but I say
God, you just deal. This is your
vineyard. This is your kingdom. This is
we are just ministering. You need to
work on my behalf. So God works. He
either changes them or he brings them up
and they are pulled up for their bad
attitudes or God quietly takes them away
and I don't have to fight with them. I
just concentrating I just concentrate on
keep the unity and the oneness of the
team that is very very important. Okay.
So I think when we do that God works
beautifully on our behalf and he just
fights the battle for us. I hope that
helps.
Okay. So, we are on page number 42.
>> P. Thank you. Page number 42, chapter 4.
We're looking at things to keep in mind
even as we position ourselves. What is
the first one?
What is the first one?
>> Be willing to let go. Okay. Second one.
Be willing to step out into the unknown.
Uh the be willing to let go. Lot's wife
is an example. You know Lot. Who was
Lot?
Abraham's
>> Abraham's brother some.
>> Yes.
[laughter]
So sweet. Yeah. His uncle, Lord's uncle
was Abraham. Okay. So, we see that, you
know, God was going to burn down Sodom
Man Gomorrah. And what does he tell uh
Lot and his family? Do not turn back.
But what did Lot's wife do?
She doesn't want she's not willing to
give up on Sodom and Gomorrah, her
friends and her past. See, and that
causes a big uh you know is is an end of
her life. Okay. What's the second one?
Be willing to step out into the unknown.
Third one.
>> Be careful. Please look at page number
42 everyone.
Be careful how you enter and leave.
Fourth one.
>> Be open to change. Uh fifth one.
>> Before you move, make prepare for it.
Okay. The sixth one is what?
>> God can use the actions of others to
position you. Sometimes God can use
other people's actions whether they are
good or bad to position you for his
purposes. Now some of those people can
be well-meaning. Some can be helpful
while other people can be very
difficult. They can do things that are
wrong that can hurt you. But God can
still use you to shape our character and
move us towards his plan. So let me give
you an example from the Bible. Joseph.
Okay. Joseph,
was everything going well for Joseph in
his life? No. His brother sold him as a
slave. He worked hard in Portifer's
house, but he was falsely accused. And
where was he thrown? Into prison. From
prison, God raised him up to be the
prime minister of Egypt. Second only to
Pharaoh. Okay. So we if you look at
Joseph's life there was a series of
setbacks and failures but these setbacks
were actually stepping stones to his
success. So what did God do? God used
all of those hindrances, those setbacks,
those negative circumstances to position
Joseph exactly where he needed to be.
Okay. So what can we learn from this?
How can we apply this in our life? Even
when people speak against you, when
people criticize you and or leave you
with negative feelings, just ask God,
God, how are you using these things, the
situation to position me and what do you
want me to learn? Right? In my life, I
have faced a lot of criticisms, a lot of
backbiting, people saying she's like
this, he's she's like this, she does
this, like this, you know, but I've
always heard them out. I've heard those
criticisms, those negative feelings,
those negative attitudes. But what have
I done?
I've never said, "Oh, he or she is bad.
You know, they don't know. I'm better.
They don't understand." I've always
tried to look at what is a truth in
that. If there's some truth in what they
are saying then you know I I correct
myself and I've seen that through the
years I have become a better person
listening to people's negativity
criticisms accusations you know even the
false things that they say quest I
question myself did I really do it did I
really mean it did I really behave like
that and it you know I correct myself so
it's not like I'm the best but I have
seen myself grow and improve as a result
or of all of those things. So
personally, I've always learned to
listen to feedback even from those
people who don't like me and I've seen
I've improved myself. Sometimes their
words contain truth which I need to hear
and I need to correct and they may
intend to hurt me but I am willing to
learn. I'm willing to change and God can
use criticisms to help us to change to
mature and to grow. Okay. So God can
even use the bad for our good to turn
around for our good. So you know that is
what it says God can at times use the
actions of other people uh you know to
position us right. So even if people say
your boss says you know work hard you
have to do this and you're putting long
hours of work you are sad you're
disappointed but God sees your effort he
uses that to raise you up to the
position that you want to move ahead
okay so don't be negative don't be uh
grumbling and murmuring just take things
as they come be wise ask God to lead you
and guide you and God is changing you
and moving you up amen
what is the seventh One,
be strategic. Don't wander aimlessly. We
must not drift through life aimlessly.
Instead, we should always ask God, how
are you connect uh correcting me? Or how
are you connecting my current season to
your greater purposes? God, what are you
doing in my life? How are you building
your kingdom through me? How are you
raising me up to be a kingdom builder?
How are you extending your kingdom in
and through my life? Show me God this
difficult situation that I'm facing.
What do you want me to learn God? How do
you want me to correct myself? What are
the things that I'm not doing right? How
can I be like Christlike to others? So
the all of those things can really help
us to learn and move up in life. Amen.
So in any career whether you are a
teacher, you own a business, you're a
pastor, you're a chef, you're a youth
pastor, you should ask how can I be
better in this role?
Right? What new strategies can I use?
How is God using this season of my life
to prepare me for the next? So think,
God, I have to get up at 5:00 in the
morning. I just don't like it. But you
can say, God, how are you preparing me,
you know, to use this for the next
season of my life, right? or even
whatever area you're struggling with,
say, "God, how are you preparing me and
I'm just willing even though it's
difficult, give me a right attitude and
show me, God, change me, God, prepare me
for what you have ahead of me." And God
is going to use that and prepare you and
build you so that he can use you
mightily. What is the eighth one?
>> God is greater than our mistakes and he
can reposition us to do his will. Any of
us here perfect? No. Right. Do we all
make mistakes? Yes. Is God greater than
our failures, our mistakes? Can he
reposition us? Yes. Okay. Look at Jonah.
God told Jonah to go where?
Yes. Instead, he ran in the opposite
direction. Even after his rebellion, did
God abandon him? God give up on him? No.
After the storm and the fish, Jonah
still ended up in Nineveh to fulfill
God's call. Right? Look at Moses. Moses
made a mistake that cost him 40 more
years of his life in the wilderness. But
by the time he came, did God reject him
at the age of 80?
No. He sent him to deliver the people of
Israel. And he sent him with this
assurance that I will be with you. Amen.
So sometimes we can make the wrong
choices. Maybe leaving a job too
quickly. Maybe we don't like this
college. We go to another college. Maybe
you don't like the people here. You move
to some other you know college. You make
decisions that you regret later. But
even then when we repent God and we turn
back to God, he can graciously bring us
back on course and fulfill what he has
for us. Okay. So if you didn't remember
anything in this lesson four, there's
one thing that you can pray. You can
say, "God,
help me to position myself in the right
place at the right time, doing the right
things so that I can fulfill your plan
and purpose for my life." Amen. That's
some pray a prayer that you can make
even if you don't remember anything in
chapter 4 because some of you are
falling asleep and um you can just pray
this prayer and say God position my me
in the right place at the right time
doing the right thing so that I can
fulfill your plan and purpose for my
life. Amen.
>> Any questions? Any doubts?
No questions. Doubts.
Okay.
Okay. Chapter five. Then online
students, any questions you'll have?
Okay. Chapter five, the prize of the
high calling of God. Okay. So, as you
and I go about fulfilling God's purpose
for our life, we must understand that it
is exciting. It is the best part of our
life, but there is also a price to pay.
So tell your neighbor, be ready to pay
the price.
And please tell yourself, be ready to
pay the price
>> because it's not always going to be
easy. How many of you like the words
suffering and sacrifice?
[laughter]
Nobody. Okay. We don't like the word
suffering and sacrifice. And most of the
time we don't want to suffer and
sacrifice. Yes. Reata.
No, I just wanted to say I like
suffering and sacrifice because I've
done much.
>> You like suffering and sacrifice.
>> I've done much. I've gone through
certain things.
>> You've gone through a lot in life. Okay.
So, you have seen suffering and
sacrifice as part of your life. Yes. So
true. Some of us are have been there are
there now and we know it. Okay. So most
of the time we don't like suffering and
sacrifice. But the truth is if you want
to live out God's plan and purpose for
your life, if you want to do everything
God has called you to do, there will be
times when you will there will be
suffering. There will be times when you
have to make sacrifices. Okay? So a life
of for God is not devoid of these
things. Even Jesus said in this world
you will have
tribulations and trials and
persecutions. So Jesus also said it's
not going to be easy. Right? So when we
go about fulfilling God's purpose for
our life, it will cost us something.
So look at what Jesus said in Luke 14 27
on top of page number 43, chapter 5.
Read that quickly please everybody. Luke
chapter 14 27.
So if you're going to be a disciple of
Jesus, there's one thing that is going
to be part of your life. And what is
that?
What does this verse say? What is going
to be the cross? Yes. So how often do
you have to carry the cross?
Huh? Daily. Yes. Not weekly, not
monthly, not seasonally, not yearly, but
daily, right? Every day. Okay. Your
life, your life as a disciple involves
around carrying the cross. Now, the
cross denotes three things. What are the
three things? When you look at the
cross, what are the three things that
comes to your mind?
Sacrifice. Okay. Huh? Pain, suffering.
Yes.
salvation. Okay. Uh love, yes.
But here we're going to focus on three
things in context with what we are
studying. When we look at the cross, it
can denote three things. Suffering,
separation, and sacrifice. The cross is
a place of suffering. So when we look at
the cross, we see how much Jesus
suffered for us. The cross is also a
place of suffering. A separation sorry.
Why is the cross a place for separation
when yeah Jesus took on the sins of the
world. He who knew no sin became the
became sin for us. He took on the sins
of the whole world and at that moment he
was separated from the father. So for us
the cross also separates us from the
from what?
The cross for Jesus separated him from
the father but the cross for us
separates us from what?
>> Sin world. Yes. Separates us from the
world. Good. So look at Galatians 6:14
on top of page number 43. Please read
that everyone.
So here Paul is saying through the cross
the world loses its attraction. Right?
Are we attracted to the world?
Yes or no?
>> Honestly yes. All of us are attracted to
things of this world. So things of this
world will no longer draw us and you
know that will not be anymore a longing
for us and something that will attract
us and no longer please us because of
when we carry the cross. Okay the cross
the third thing is also a place of
sacrifice. Why is the cross a place of
sacrifice?
What does sacrifice mean for us?
When do you say I'm making a sacrifice?
>> When you give up,
>> you're keeping others before us.
>> Yes.
>> Putting others before us.
>> Yes. Sacrifice can mean two things. When
you give up something that is precious
and valuable or when you give up
something that you have a right to.
Right. Okay. And also when you take up
something that you don't have to like
Sri Lata said. So the sacrifice can mean
giving up something that you have a
right to. Okay. And taking up something
also that you don't have to is also a
sacrifice. So let's look at an example.
You know Paul uh we look at Paul as an
example for sacrifice. Paul says in 1
Corinthians chapter 9 verse 5 that he
had the right to marry a believing wife.
Did Paul have a right to marry a
believing wife?
>> Yes or no?
>> But he gave up that right for the sake
of the gospel. So that was his rights.
He had the right to marry but he gave it
up for the sake of the gospel. Okay.
Also as an apostle,
Paul did he have the right to live from
the offerings of the people he
ministered to?
>> Yes, he had the right to do that. But he
gave up that right and instead he worked
as a tent maker. You know he was a
businessman. He did tent making business
and he did that to support himself and
his team so that he would not be a
burden to anyone. So here we see that
Paul was willing to give up something
that he had a right to and he took up
something that he didn't have to. He
took up this business even though he
didn't have to. Okay? So that he doesn't
trouble anyone. You're able to
understand? Yes. So, look at what uh
Paul says in Philippians chapter 3:7.
It's on page number 43. Everyone, please
read that quickly.
Philippians 3:7.
What is Paul saying? Paul is saying his
background. Who was uh Paul
before that?
Paul was a
Jew. Yes, he was a Jew. He was a
Pharisee. He was a very learned man.
Studied the Old Testament from very
learned people, learned scholars, you
know. And so he's saying his background,
his learning, his status is he says is
all a loss compared to receiving Christ.
Amen. everything he counts as loss you
know in comparison to what he has
received in Christ. Okay. So those are
the three things uh what uh the cross
denotes for us. It denotes suffering,
separation and sacrifice. Okay. Now what
does it what did Jesus mean that we need
to carry our cross daily? When Jesus
said in John chapter 12 verse 24- 26,
look at John chapter 12 page number 43
again. Quickly read that please.
So what does carrying the cross daily
mean here from this verse? It means
what?
From these verses.
We have to die to what dear? To the
self. Yes. We need to die to the things
of this world. We have to die to sinful
passions, ungodly habits, worldly ways
and selfish desires.
And what is a path to fruitfulness?
If that that grain falls to the of wheat
falls to the ground, what should it do?
It should die first and then only it
gives life. Okay? So the path to
fruitfulness always requires what?
Death.
The path to fruitfulness requires death.
So if you want to be fruitful in life,
you have to die. Die to what?
Die to the to the things of this world,
ungodly habits, passions, desire,
selfish desires. Okay? And then you will
be fruitful. Okay.
Sid is saying what does hate his life
mean? Hate is life mean basically hate
the ungodly things the worldly ways that
you're living selfish desires the the
sinful passions you know uh that is what
we need to hate in us and we need to
love things of God righteousness
holiness purity those are the things
that we need to love okay so we all want
resurrection power yes or no
yes or no we want God's resurrection
power to move and work mighty in us But
there is no resurrection power without
death.
There's no resurrection power without
death. Right? So every time you die to
yourself, you are actually preparing
yourself for resurrection. Every time
you're dying to yourself, you're
preparing yourself for fruitfulness and
resurrection. Amen. Okay. So if you turn
to page number 44 there are uh different
types of sacrifices that are mentioned.
Three types of sacrifices. What is the
first sacrifice?
Daily sacrifices.
Okay. These daily sacrifices are small
but essential sacrifices. So what are
the daily sacrifices that you and I have
to make?
What are daily sacrifices you have to
you and I have to make?
Come on.
Yeah. Not to choose sin. Say no to sin.
Yes. Say yes to God. Say no to the
world. Say yes to God. Sorry.
Do things that are right even if you
don't feel like. Yes.
What else?
Being humble.
Sacrificing your sleep to pray. I think
all of you do that 5:00 in the morning.
Sacrificing entertainment to read God's
word. You know, loving your spouse, your
family, your colleagues, your children
even though your people in the hostel
even though they are difficult. Okay.
Forgiving, showing compassion, being
merciful is another sacrifice that each
of us have to make daily. Right? also
overcoming temptation, gossiping about
others, backbiting,
retaliating, doing tit for tat, treating
people badly,
anger, all of that those things that we
have is something that we also need to
make a daily sacrifice. And I think all
of you also have to make a daily
sacrifice of not sleeping in the class
lectures. Okay, that's something that
it's a daily sacrifice. I'm just joking.
So these daily sacrifices actually shape
our your character, shape my character
and prepare us for bigger sacrifices.
What is the second kind of sacrifices?
Life sacrifices. These life sacrifices
are bigger than the daily sacrifices. So
what are some of the life sacrifices?
What do you think is the life
sacrifices?
Bigger life sacrifices. Some all of you
are making bigger life sacrifices now
living your leaving your good jobs to
serve the Lord to be a missionary
leaving the comfort of your home inerson
students to come and study in the hostel
some of you washing clothes eating the
food here waking up so early okay so
leaving a comfortable life to serve as a
missionary or answering God's call to
ministry or leadership you know moving
to a new city to fulfill fill God's plan
and purpose for your life. All can be
big life sacrifices, right? So like
Abraham leaving his homeland, Moses
taking on the leadership of Israel. Did
Moses enjoy that job? No. He said, you
know, these people are wearing me out,
God, you know, I got tired. Hudson
Taylor, you know Hudson Taylor, the
missionary that who goes to
>> mainland China. Yes. So those days uh
China was not like how it was now very
difficult terrain you know William Kerry
came to where
West Bengal India you know he his wife's
health collapsed she became mad his
children passed away his printing press
got burned in spite of all that this man
just pursued the call of God and did so
much in printing those Bibles in those
languages es and all of those things.
Great man of God. Great things that he
did, but he had to make a lot of
sacrifices. Please read some of these
missionary stories. It will really
motivate your life and will look at your
present circumstances and situations as
nothing compared to them. Sometimes when
I'm grumbling and whining about my own
life, I I read these people. I look at
these people's life and I look at you
know what sacrifices that they have made
and it just pulls me up. What is the
third kind of sacrifice?
>> Spiritled sacrifice versus
>> flesh sacrifices. Now what does it mean?
It means that not all sacrifices that we
make are God orained.
right now. Some of you can be in Bible
college, but you are here just because
you I'm just saying, don't take me
wrong. You might be here because you
didn't have any anything else to do or
you wanted to run away from your
circumstance in your family or your home
or your situation, you know. Uh so it's
not God's calling and that's why you are
you're just here because you want to do
something. Okay. So not all sacrifices
are God orained. Sometimes people can be
in ministry because their parents push
them into ministry because their dad is
the pastor of a church. He wants his
children to be there. They are not
interested. So it's not God orained. So
some sacrifices are not God ordained. So
for example, some people see others
leaving their job and going into
ministry and they imitate them without
God's call and they struggle there. They
bear no fruit and they even regret. Why?
They're not the right place at the right
time doing the right thing. Okay. So,
how do you know if your sacrifice is
spiritled or fleshled? How do you know
if your sacrifice that you're making is
led by the spirit or led by the flesh?
What should you look for? What did Jesus
say?
>> Yes, your fruit. Very good. You know, by
your fruit you will know them. If you
also want to know if somebody is a
spirit-led person or a flesh-led person,
you know, you look at the fruit. So what
should if it's a spiritled sacrifice,
the fruit will be transformed lives.
Your life will be transformed. You will
make a impact in the kingdom of God. You
will grow in the calling of God. If
there it's a flesh sacrifice,
there will be no fruit. Okay? So if it's
God's call, there will be lasting fruit
and there will also be blessing. Amen.
>> Okay. So that is chapter um five. We've
come to the last chapter, chapter six.
You might be wondering why I am rushing.
You know, it's because I have two more
big books to complete in this course.
And also if you are not looking in space
and following you can see that I'm not
just following the notes but I'm just
giving you a lot of extra content. So
it's not that I'm just you know doing
something but doing something with a
good uh this one with extra you know um
notes and everything and it's the thing
is why we are running so fast is because
we have two more big books to finish.
Okay, we have uh receiving God's
guidance for your life and code of
honor. We have to finish that by end of
November. Okay, so let's look at chapter
six. Before that, any questions please?
Any doubts?
Okay, the last lesson. Uh what is the
last lesson title? Finishing your
course. Okay, finishing the course. This
is not finishing the course. We
[laughter] have we have lots to finish.
Okay. Miles to go before we sleep. But
uh yeah, but this is the last lesson for
this book. Okay. So Paul compares a
Christian life to that of an athlete in
1 Corinthians chapter 9 24- 27.
Okay, it's not there
in I'll just read it out for you. So,
can somebody read it if you have 1
Corinthians 9:24-27,
please?
1 Corinthians 9:24-27,
please.
Do you know not know that those who run
in a race all run, but one receives the
prize? Run in such a way that you may
obtain it. And everyone who competes for
the prize is temperate in all things.
Now they do it to obtain a perishable
crown, but we for an imperishable crown.
Therefore I run thus not with
uncertainty. Thus I fight not as one who
beats the air, but I discipline my body
and bring it to subjection, lest when I
have preached to others, I myself should
become disqualified.
>> Amen. Thank you. So here Paul is
comparing our Christian life to what? To
whom?
Athlete. Yes. Who is an athlete?
Competes in games. Yes. So you know uh
earthly athletes train and you know they
train with strict discipline. Yes or no?
Why? Because they want to get one medal.
Sometimes when you look at the Olympics,
there are so many people who come they
spend years of their life just training
hard and hard and hard and when they
lose, they can see them crying because
it's years of hard work and labor and
it's not something easy. But comparing
to the race that we run in Christ Jesus,
you know the athletes run for a race
that is they might not get a prize but
we run that if we finish we will get a
prize. They run for an imp perishable
crown but we run for a
they run for a perishable crown. Sorry.
And but we run for an imperishable
crown. Okay. So athletes train with
strict diets, hours of practice, intense
discipline just for one medal. When they
do that, how much more should we
discipline ourselves for eternal prides?
Sometimes when we look at the attitude
of people when they come to Bible
college, it is so sad because you know
you show the same attitude when you go
to study in degree college or medicine
or engineering.
you won't show this kind of attitude,
you know, the way you sit, the way you
sleep in class, you know, you're
disinterested, the way you come, you
know, all of those things. It it is so
sad. It's because anyway, it is a
theological college. You know, what is
it? You know, anyway, we're going to
serve God. God just accepts us. Grace,
we take it so lightly, right? We're not
interested. We don't even spend time
reading the material. We don't even
spend time uh you know equipping
ourselves learning and I just look at
some of you you just sit like this
sleeping you know you're not writing
your notes you're not following your
Bibles your books are not open it's such
a sad attitude and I'm thinking now if
you do this somewhere else it's not
something that will be appreciated you
will be just sent off right but we do
that because we think we can do anything
and everything in the Bible college or
in the house of God or with the things
of God,
right? And that is such a sad attitude
and is something that God is going to
hold us accountable to. Hold you
accountable, hold me accountable too,
right? So if I also come here and teach,
just come, you know, take this book and
just read it. it's so easy for me rather
than spending hours in preparing and
upgrading my notes and teaching with you
know some kind of enthusiasm and zeal
because I'm not doing that for y'all but
I'm doing it for God right so you know
we take things of god so lightly and so
simply and it is so sad okay so we see
that you know um uh it's important that
not only how we run the race but how we
finish the course. Okay. Uh so look at
what Luke 14 27-35
says. Can somebody read that? Read that
dear please. It's on page number 46.
And whosoever does not bear his cross
and come after me cannot be my disciple.
For which of you intend to build a tower
does not sit down first and put the and
count the cost whether he has enough to
finish it least after he has laid the
foundation and is not able to finish all
who see it begin to mock him saying this
man began to build and was not able to
finish or what king going to make war
against another king does not sit down
first and consider whether He is able
with 10,000 to meet him who comes
against him with 20,000 or else while
the other is still a great way off he
send a diligent and ask conditions of
peace. So likewise whosoever
whoever o of you does not forsake all
that he he has cannot be my disciple.
Salt is good, but if the salt has lost
his flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It
is neither fit for the land nor for the
>> dungail, but man throw it out. He who
has here to hear, let him hear.
>> Thank you. Amen. So Jesus is teaching us
here that we must count the cost in the
beginning of our journey. For example,
if you want to build a building, what
will you do first?
Uh, you will see what how much it costs
and whether you have that money, right?
So, you first the builder first sits and
calculates and if he has enough
resources to build and start and to
finish. Okay? Now, when a king is going
to fight uh another army, what does he
do?
He sees if he has an army equipped
enough, strong enough to fight the the
the king that is coming against him.
Okay? So, think about what will it take
to become what God has called you and me
to be. Okay? Don't rush into it blindly.
So for example, if you feel in your
heart God has called you to be a chef or
a teacher or a professor, you know, or a
doctor or a engineer or businessman, you
know, God can certainly use you in those
areas. But you must go through that
preparation process, right? You must
know whether I I wanted to become a
cardiologist,
cardiac surgeon. So when in my 11th and
12th standard I studied science and you
know they give us fish and cockroach and
all that to do the sections right and we
have to bring out the the nervous system
the digestive system and I was not I
would not cut properly. I would not be
able to do anything properly. I would
squash up everything all of my specimens
use five six and finally the lab
attender said you have run out of your
kota for I cannot give you any more. And
then I realized that if I become a
cardiologist, I will cut people's veins
and arteries in the wrong place and they
will die. I realize that I'm not very
good with my hands. So let me do what
God wants me to do. And I asked God and
he showed me what he where he wants me
to be. Okay. So we need to, you know, um
uh think about the cost and we must
learn what it takes to actually become
that. It's not enough to simply declare
God told me to do this or God told me to
do that and then rush off. If you do
that, you will begin to do things
carelessly and you know it'll easily
fall apart in a few months and you would
have discovered that's not your purpose
but and you would have discovered that
you have not yet prepared for it and you
are not doing what God has called you to
do. Okay? So if you're not prepared, you
risk failing the task and you're losing
out completely or you're starting
something and you're going to leave it
half finished. So the question is how
can you finish your race successfully?
The first thing is what what is there in
your book? Planning, right? Some uh look
at what Jesus says in um
uh you know in in Matthew uh Jesus says
you know that uh do not worry about
tomorrow for tomorrow will worry about
itself.
Okay. Now many Christians take this
verse to mean that they should not plan
for the future. God told us not to plan
for the future. But is God telling us
here not to plan for the future? No.
What is he saying?
Planning and worrying are not the same.
What is Jesus telling us here?
Don't worry about tomorrow. Is he saying
don't plan for tomorrow? No. Right. So
planning means thinking through
when, how, where, what, and answering
all these questions. Okay. And actually
does the Bible encourage us to plan
Yes. Is our God a God of plan and order?
Yes. Okay. So, look at what Proverbs
4:26 says. It's on bottom of page number
46. Everyone quickly read it please.
Proverbs 4 26.
What does ponder mean?
To think deeply. to think honestly about
the direction that you are going. Look
at Proverbs 6 verse 6 to8. Can you read
that please? Everyone quietly on top of
page number 47. Proverbs 6 to8.
Who is God talking about here?
>> An ant. And what does it say?
Does the ant have a leader,
a captain, a ruler? No. The ant has no
external guidance. But yet, what does it
do?
What does the ant do?
It plans for its future. How does it
plans for its future? It knows that
winter is coming and it prepares ahead
of time. It stores for the winter
season. So God is saying, "Look at the
ant. So small but yet so wise, right?
Consider its ways and be wise like that
ant." Let's read Proverbs 148 and verse
15 also on page number 47. Everyone read
that please. Proverbs 14 8 and verse 15
as well.
Who is a prudent person?
Somebody who sensible, somebody who's
cautious, practical, careful. So a
prudent person carefully evaluates the
road that he is going to take and he
asks where is this path leading me to?
Is it leading me to fulfill God's paran
purpose for my life? If yes, then that
person will continue on that road. If
no, then a prudent person will wisely
choose another path. Okay. Again,
talking about prudent person, look at
what Proverbs 22:3 says. Everyone,
please read it. Proverbs chapter 22:3.
So here it's saying a prudent person who
is a wise, sensible, cautious, practical
person is a person who has foresight.
That means he's able to see the dangers
ahead and take precautions. And so the
Bible gives us clear instructions that
we must look ahead and we must plan for
the future. Amen. Look ahead and plan
for the future. So how to effectively
plan for your future? There are some
things that you can do. You can write
down your plan. You know, you can write
down your plan for the next one year or
two years or 5 years or 10 years. Pastor
Ashish makes his life plan in 10 years.
You know, he writes down his plans, what
he wants to do the next 10 years. And
then he says, God, this is my plan.
Yeah, I know this is all what I have in
my heart, what I think, but I'm just
God, I'm bringing my thoughts. I want to
align my will to your will. I want to
submit to you. You change wherever is
needed and I'm willing to adjust it.
Okay? So, some of you needn't have to
make 10ear plan or fiveear plan. You can
make a one-ear plan and just say, "God,
the next one year, these are the things
I want to do. Maybe I want to learn this
language or need this instrument or this
game or finish reading the Bible or you
know equip myself for ministry or start
ministry or get married or whatever. You
know, sit down and write your plans.
Now, expect the unexpected. Be prepared
that when you submit your plans to God,
there will be heavenly interruptions.
Sometimes God's plan differs from our
plans and we must be flexible and adjust
to God's timing and direction. Okay? And
the third thing is we need to plan
according to the spirit and not the
flesh. So when you put write down your
life plan, your plan for next one year,
5 year, 10 year, you can ask the holy
spirit. Look at what Paul says in 2
Corinthians chapter 1 verse 15 and to
17. Can somebody read verse 17 please?
It's there on page number 47. Just verse
17. Can you read that? Therefore when I
was planning this did I do it lightly or
the things I plan do I plan according to
the flesh that with me there should be
yes yes yes and no no
>> amen thank you so Paul is saying when he
plans that does he do it carelessly
does he do it in the flesh
he plans according to the spirit okay so
we see in his second missionary journey
I'll give you an example go uh Paul had
plans to go back to all the places that
he went during his first missionary
journey. But when he goes there, you
know, he goes to the region of Galatia,
the Holy Spirit reveals to him and shows
him a man from Macedonia and the Holy
Spirit tells him, leads him to go to
Macedonia. Okay? And the Holy Spirit
redirected him and Paul and Silas
followed the spirit's leading and went
wherever God asked them to go. So they
took the gospel from Asia into Europe
and also parts of Africa. Okay. So that
is what we need to do. Sometimes we have
our plans but the Holy Spirit will
redirect us and we must be open to it.
Jesus also promised us in John chapter
16 verse 13. Can somebody read that
please? John chapter 16 verse 13.
What does it say?
>> We can't hear you dear.
>> However, when he the spirit of truth has
come, he will guide you into all truth.
For he will not speak on his own
authority, but whatever he hears, he
will speak and he will tell you things
to come.
>> Amen. So the Holy Spirit gives us
foresight. He shows us what lies ahead.
He helps us in planning for the future.
Okay? So we don't worry about tomorrow,
but we plan and prepare ourselves for
what God has in store for us. And we
it's important that we balance the
spiritual and the practical. We'll stop
here. Okay, we'll continue next week.
So, there is a question from Janet
Thomas. When will we have our first
assessment? So, Janet, if you clearly
read the course uh introduction and the
course thing that I have put up in the
uh in the in the Google page, okay, that
is the the course introduction. It
clearly says that after we finish this
book on um you know fulfilling God's
purpose for your life, I will give you
the first assessment. So I've not
finished it. We'll finish it next week
and then I will suggest dates and then I
will give you the assessment. Okay.
Ma'am give some work for online students
also. I don't give any work for our
in-person students. uh Sri L your work
for the online students you please read
this book listen to the lecture and I
think the biggest work is there is so
many things that you can learn from
these lectures and you know make it part
of your life and practice it okay yeah
thank you everyone for joining class I
will meet you next week have a good day
bless all of you thank You