Menstrual Wellbeing - Ep.5 | மாதவிடாய் நன்னலம் | Conversation with Kalvikarasi from Eco Femme
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The video introduces "Menstrual Wellbeing," a program dedicated to dismantling misconceptions about menstruation and promoting healthy habits through eco-friendly products like cloth pads. The conversation centers on Eco Femme, a project originating from Auroville that aims to serve as a model for human unity and social change rather than focusing solely on women's empowerment. The host emphasizes that true societal transformation requires moral values alongside physical development, viewing Eco Femme as a source of pride and goodwill for the community. By sharing its ethical standards and educational resources, the project seeks to inspire global participation and demonstrate how sustainable practices can contribute to broader city development.
To expand their mission, the speakers outline various ways individuals and organizations can engage with the initiative, ranging from education to retail partnerships. They encourage people worldwide to follow their social media channels for positivity messages and educational materials, noting that menstrual health is a universal issue affecting both developed and developing nations. Potential collaborators are invited to become ambassadors by conducting workshops in schools or clubs, act as retailers by stocking and exporting Eco Femme products, or simply share resources with friends and communities. The team expresses a strong desire to reach more women and girls globally, offering wholesale opportunities for those who wish to sell their products abroad while fostering open dialogues about periods in diverse cultural contexts.
Despite facing financial challenges that have led to a reduction in some product lines, the organization remains optimistic about its future growth and plans to introduce new items such as period panties and menstrual cups. The host reflects deeply on her personal journey, driven by a desire to educate her own children and break the silence surrounding menstruation that often plagues mothers who grew up with ignorance. She stresses the importance of mothers initiating honest, age-appropriate conversations with their daughters to dispel fears and build confidence, viewing this intergenerational education as the ultimate success of her career. The program concludes by reaffirming its goal to provide a safe space for learning, ensuring that every girl receives accurate knowledge about her body without needing to search for it elsewhere.
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Menstrual Wellbeing is
a new program about menstrual well-being. In this
program, we're going to
talk about healthy habits [music] by breaking down misconceptions about menstruation
. We are also learning a lot about the benefits of eco-friendly
men's products, especially cloth
parts
. Above all, we are
going to develop a positive attitude throughout the period.
You have come to tell me how important worship is to you. I
went to Chennai, I didn't like working there, I
came back here, there
are many projects to do,
so I am a dedicated person to Auravil. According to the
Auravil ideal, every
individual and every unit here should
contribute to the city's development, whatever they can. In this way,
you can see what kind of contribution the Ecofam unit is making for the development of Auravil. Just as
Ecofam came, it became
a global project for our human unity, and a project to be an example of human
unity,
I also see Ecofam as a project to be a model for human unity. Okay. Ego fame is
a social change. There is
no such thing as empowerment for women alone. A complete social
change. One that is also a human unity.
Okay, everyone, how come
society has come and
So, the reason this
revolution came, and
now this project, is because of
Aruvil.
I
see Ego Fame on a small level as a project that came to Aaruvil to be a model for human unity.
Okay.
I see this as a project for human unity
. So,
I see it as a project that came from Auroville, a project that was created by a divine force, and all the values and qualities that Ego Fame carried out, and all the learning that came with it. Okay, so, what is
Ego Fame's contribution?
What do you think? There is such
a project. There is such a project in Auroville.
I see this coming and bringing a lot of pride to Auroville
. This social change is
sure to bring a lot of
goodwill to Auroville. As far as
city development is concerned, I don't
see just buildings, I don't see any
moral values, what
kind of moral values are there? Now, those who are
watching from outside, those who are
not interested, are watching from outside, there is
such a project,
this project is for such a purpose, it
has all the values of eco-fame, this value, this project is in
Auroville,
I see it as a pride for Auroville
. So, the way I
see it, EcoFame is a
credit to Auroville. This is a great goodwill.
Its values, its ethics, all of this
comes together and we see
a value that we bring to the development of Auroville City
.
So now
how can others participate in your efforts?
Education means that if there is only one person who wants to participate, it is not possible. No matter where in the world, those who want to contribute to
this project, how can they approach me?
How can they approach you? No matter
what language they are in, they must
come to
us and type.
How can they type? If you asked such a question, if you
came and watched our program, it
is like a bad bad bad sister. So,
come to our program and
contribute to the Bad for Bad program. Okay, now they are in a good,
developed country. If they
have a desire to come and invest in a good project, contribute to it, support it, etc., then it would be
great if they would come and contribute to our Bad for Bad program.
We will reach out to more women and girls, and
our educational work will also
contribute to creating a better society.
The second thing is, if you saw
the case and
saw an education like this, is menstruation
only suppressed here, is it
only India that needs period positivity when talking about menstruation, is it not
only the people here who need it?
The whole world has come to this world, to be in this
world, to
come to developed countries, what kind of dialogue do we have about periods?
They are developing
countries, maybe they
came to infrastructure and
were developed, but we are still very
interested in them, aren't we?
Many ministers, many guests,
many people come to our open house to
participate, many people will watch,
many foreigners will tell us, we don't know
this, we need this, we
need this kind of
conversation,
I myself have
faced all this kind of things, they must have
faced it on a different level, now
we have a cultural disadvantage, a oppression, do
n't we? So why come and come to us,
this education work, we have a
lot of resources, educational resources,
our own, our social
media If you
look at our Instagram and Facebook, there are a lot of educational
materials, a lot of period-related materials, a
lot of period positivity
messages, and it's actually really
good. I came here and thought about it, and we feel
very proud. Like, over the
years, if
someone went and looked at that material, there's a
lot of learning, a lot of
learning. So, definitely, a lot of
people can follow us. You
need a lot of knowledge about your period. We need some positivity. If you
want women empowerment or
want to learn a lot, you can follow us on
Instagram or Facebook. Then
come and see, how else can you
type? You might be an ambassador
. Are you a period related,
a yoga teacher, a
school teacher, or do you come to
us and conduct a workshop?
You come and
conduct a lot of workshops, like sex education, period education, etc. You come to us and we
know what we do. You and I are like-minded people. We
can't give you your reserves. Can you
contribute to them somewhere? Can you
share resource materials with them in our program? So
they can be our ambassadors.
Okay. If you look at the next one,
they might become our retailers. Our
product now comes, let's say the person
you mentioned comes and lives in Denmark or some other
country, they are
abroad, they come and
buy our product, they
have a small store, this
product comes and sells in their store, it creates
value for them
. If they want,
they can export our products
. Okay, we'll
give them the wholesale price. So you can
type in the retailer like that. If that's the case, you can
come to India and become our retailer
. If you want to become a retailer anywhere,
you only need to have one store.
Now you just have to come and open a store
. You do
n't have to be a retailer. If you want to come and talk about periods in
a positive way, if
you have an interest in coming here, if
you have a personal interest, if you want to become a menstrual educator, you can
come to your group of friends, your club, or some other place, and provide menstrual education, and if you
buy our product,
you can go to them as a retailer and
talk to them. So, how is that for
you? Then, if you want to
see it, how else can you
make it a diary for ego fame?
Apart from this, you can come and post
your work on our social media
. So, if you want to do it, like it or not, you can send us an email. We can
definitely come and
form a partnership if we can align your interests with our needs and yours. So if you are
interested, please send an
email to info@ecom.org
or email info@eecfame.org
. Do you
have any future plans or new initiatives to further expand your mission? If you
come and see us, as I
told you before,
we are still trying to sustain ourselves from those economic crimes
. We
arrived and that eco-fame has
now gone flat
. Okay, what do you think of us?
We were at a very high peak before
. Now we've come to a point where we're a little bit on the decline
. We have cut down on
a lot of our products now so that we don't go into complete decline
. Now, if we want to
expand the Eco-Fam even further,
we will come up with many product lines and add them
. Like period panties,
menstrual cups, etc.
We have a lot of products like Eco-Fame brands, like
baby
diapers, etc. We have
included and
expanded them, but
we have a financial crisis, so we have to work out
all those plants. I am
sure that one day it will come and take shape.
So let's see. It is not an exaggeration to
say that all these years of experience with you will be a huge blessing for both of them in the next few years. It is not an exaggeration to say that they will definitely get the right education and
understanding about their bodies from you. They will
not need to go and search for this awareness anywhere else. As a
mother, you will come and pass on your
experiences and your understanding to
them. This is
something that every girl child should get.
It should definitely start from her mother.
So every mother should
start talking openly to her daughters, leaving aside their hesitations. Only then will those daughters also
break the questions and hesitations in their minds and think
about this in a different and
better way. So
this will definitely come true. So many
daughters have benefited from you in all these years. When they
go to their mother's place tomorrow, they will definitely
talk openly to their children. The
reason for that is education. Note on it. Soti is the ultimate success of your career.
Education is definitely the key.
Now you have seen that we come to
sleep every day. What is our purpose? What is our purpose?
We live for? Our purpose of living is
not there. So, you have
come to see me.
Today I have thought about my journey. I have thought about
my eco-fam journey.
I am very
proud. I will buy it.
I am very happy. Many people came to me,
many girls came, and there was a
lot of doubt about the change. All of this will come and
be a small light for us. This is where
Ego Fame came in and gave me an
opportunity. To
give me faith and to have
a word of mouth, not only that, but also the
teacher principal who is in these schools, and then
these school girls,
what did they accept, come to this class, come to do something, come to
give me a space, I feel very
grateful and
honestly, for me, both my
children are my God's gift, I don't know why, I don't know why, I
myself came because of a girl child,
I personally
like it very much, my second child came and I wanted to have a girl child, I really wished that
she would give birth to a girl, as if she were my wish, and
honestly, I will not complain like I want to complain,
my mother
came to me, I don't know about menstruation, she is the one who is
wrong, she doesn't have such a view,
they don't know about their ignorance,
they don't know about the society they grew up in, so
I have a lot of understanding, so
that menstruation awareness that I give to my girl child I really want to
come to my children at a very early age and have a
small dialogue with them.
What kind of person do I look at today? What am I like? What would
I have
thought as a child? What do I look at now?
I see a very conscious person. So I really want to
come to my children and have a small conversation with them in many ways. I am
very happy. If they
ask me that question, I will ask them something to
understand. So, what kind of
answer do they give her? We should
give them our real answer. What we
say should have
a truthfulness. It should be
appropriate for the age of the child. We should
modulate it and
tell it to her so that she understands. So
I really enjoy coming on a journey like that,
even my kids.
Keep Enjoying It So that
many more women and
girls can benefit from this program is
our desire and goal. Education.
Thank you so much for the education. Please be very patient and
answer every question.
Today, you've
shared a lot with us about yourself, your ego, your period, and cloth pads
. We look forward to hearing from you about
many more things about menstruation in the upcoming episodes
. We
will ask you many more questions and information in the next episode. Thank you, hello.
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Om
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