Meet The Most Interesting Person In New York City | Elliot Choy
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In this episode of *Ice Coffee Hour*, host Graham Stephan interviews Elliot Choy, a successful YouTuber and creator based in New York City who recently attended a clothing trade show in Las Vegas for his personal brand merchandise line. The conversation highlights the origins of Choy's viral success, specifically focusing on his 2018 "Day in the Life" video from Vanderbilt University that garnered millions of views despite featuring an average day rather than high-stakes events. This breakthrough occurred when he was a sophomore with limited funds; after spending nearly all his savings on two iPhones to give away and a flight home, the video generated approximately $20,000 in AdSense revenue within its first week. Choy explains that while this viral hit brought him 400,000 subscribers quickly, he intentionally pivoted back to standard vlogging content about his life as an introvert rather than chasing another viral gimmick like the Harvard iPhone giveaway, prioritizing authenticity over algorithmic trends even though it meant a temporary dip in viewership. Choy discusses his current lifestyle and career structure, noting that he decided to go full-time on YouTube when his earnings matched what he would have made as an investment banker or consultant—around $100,000 annually at the time of his decision three years ago. He now lives with a group of creator friends in New York City within a space they jokingly call "Your Mom's House," which features unique amenities like a skate ramp and halfpipe rather than typical luxury finishes. Unlike many sponsored content houses, this living arrangement is organic and not monetized by brands, though Choy does receive product support from his memory card sponsor, Lexar. He addresses the financial realities of being in New York versus Las Vegas, noting that while NYC offers a harsher environment with high costs and less space, he values it for the personal growth and resilience it fosters, contrasting this with his preference for the low-traffic lifestyle of Las Vegas where he currently resides. A significant portion of the interview covers Choy's content strategy involving public interactions, such as asking strangers about their net worth or opinions on figures like Andrew Tate in busy areas like Fremont Street. He admits to feeling intense anxiety when approaching people but emphasizes that overcoming this fear is essential for his work ethic and growth. The discussion also touches upon professional disagreements regarding productivity; Graham pushes Choy to maximize every opportunity while he advocates for a balanced approach where quality matters more than quantity, warning against the "treadmill" of endless grinding without life experiences. They debate whether one should sacrifice their twenties entirely for career building or use that time to travel and explore different environments before settling down later in life, with Choy leaning toward maximizing his 20s through diverse experiences while maintaining a strong work ethic. The dialogue concludes with insights into Choy's creative process and personal development habits. He reveals that he does not use stock B-roll or voiceovers for his videos, preferring to show raw footage of his own life to build a direct relationship with the audience, though he is open to experimenting more in the future. Drawing inspiration from Tim Ferriss' *The 4-Hour Workweek*, Choy shares how he practiced uncomfortable exercises like maintaining eye contact until strangers looked away or lying down in public cafeterias to desensitize himself to judgment and fear of failure. Ultimately, both speakers agree that while external pressure can help push individuals toward success, it is crucial for creators to listen to their own values and priorities to ensure they are living a fulfilling life rather than simply chasing metrics, whether that means grinding relentlessly or taking time to travel and experience the world.
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Welcome back to the Ice Coffee Hour. I'm
Ellie Choy and so far this podcast has
made $230,000.
Very close. That was a fantastic guess.
It's $247,000.
That was good. You're one of the closest
we've ever had, I think.
That's true. So,
I I kind of like watched one from like a
month ago. So,
yeah, that was that was a good guess.
Thank you.
Welcome to Vegas.
Thank you.
What are you doing here?
I'm here for trade show, actually.
A clothing a clothing trade show. It's
called magic sourcing. So here to like
talk to manufacturers. So I was here for
like the past few days doing that.
Is that manufacturers for like a
personal brand or something like that
for clothing?
For clothing.
Yeah. So just trying to find new
manufacturers and factories.
That's your merch line.
Yeah. For copyright.
So we've seen your videos from back in
the day. I remember when it was a big
thing to do like a day in the life of a
Harvard student.
Uh day in the life of Yale student.
And then there's you day in the life at
Vanderbilt. Yeah.
And that video got how many was it? 5
million views, 4 million?
No, not that much. That was Yeah, around
two, I think. Last I
checked. Yeah.
And that was your Was that your first
video ever?
So that's my first public video.
Uhhuh.
But maybe overall like my seventh video.
Seventh video.
Was that like the first video you took
seriously or was it like
Yeah, that was like Okay. So I made a
few videos about like flipping and
reselling because I used to do that in
high school. Very Gary Vee inspired. And
then I I made some videos about like
selling on Amazon
because I used to do that and that was
terrible. And then I took a year off and
then my first real attempt back was that
day in the life video
and it just absolutely popped off.
It did it did really well for like my
first real attempt at YouTube
and honestly I think like having the
other videos beforehand kind of helped
with that though.
It's pretty amazing because like you
gained 50,000 subscribers in just like
two months, right?
I think I have a video named something
like that. Yeah.
What was so special about that
Vanderbilt video? Why do you think so
many people watched it?
Yeah, there was like a ton of day in the
life videos at the time. Like Harvard,
like you said, Harvard, Princeton, like
any other college, there was like a ton
of viral videos. And then with my
school, Vanderbilt, there was only like
one video, day in the life video, and it
had 10K views. So, I was like, okay,
like if I make a decent video, it'll
probably do well. And I got lucky, and
it it ended up doing well. though. Um I
spent like a week like researching cuz
at the time this is 2018
at the time the only thing you needed
was good watch time and good good
clickthrough rate and it's like a viral
video. Nowadays it's a little different.
Tell us about that video. What did you
do in that video?
In that video specifically that made it
Yeah.
do perform well.
Yeah. Like how was your day?
Oh, how was my day? Um it's a really
like regular video. Just like wake up,
breakfast, I read a book maybe like went
to classes, went to the gym, hung out
with friends. very normal average day.
Um, I think what made it like do well
was a lot of the other videos, uh, day
in the life videos, there's a lot of
people kind of talking and not showing
and I was like kind of bothered by that.
I was like, "Oh, I want to know like how
long are your classes or like how nice
are the amenities there like at at your
college campus." Um, so I try to like
lean into that and fix some of those
things that I saw as problems. day in
the life videos. I have a feeling that
someone picks like if you're going to
make one of those day in the life
videos, you're going to pick out a day
that you have a lot of exciting things
going on.
Did you do that or did you just do like
a So you you picked out a day where
you're like, [laughter] "Okay, I'm going
to read. It's my first time reading in
two months, but I'm going to read today.
Do like a cold shower and journal." But
yeah, some of it is definitely like
hyped up a little bit. I think that's
also just like my effort to like really
show like a variety of things that maybe
it wouldn't just go into one day, but
like
an an average of of multiple different
days. So, I was really thinking about
like myself as like a high school
student looking up day in the life
videos for my school and not finding
anything that was like actually relevant
or actually that informational. So,
do you think that goes into a high
schooler's decision? Oh yeah. Do they
YouTube like day in the life of you know
when I was making college videos like
guaranteed a ton of those viewers were
high schoolers
really?
Yeah. Just and even myself like when I
got accepted into Vandy I was like
looking up day in the life videos and
there was none that was like super super
good or well produced or anything. So
even myself I was like looking at stuff
like that.
How did you pick Vanderbilt?
Vanderbilt they gave me good financial
aid.
Okay.
So they threw me a lot of money and I
said okay I'll go.
Did you apply to like Harvard, Yale?
No. No, not really. Um, I only applied
to mostly state schools. Okay.
Like maybe like USC, Cornell,
Vanderbilt, like those are the ones, you
know, probably. Yeah.
Yeah. So,
yeah.
And that video did extremely well. Did
it do well out the gate or did it take a
while to like start catching on?
I have some like screenshots. I don't
remember exactly. Um, maybe like I want
to say like 10k views in the first week,
which was crazy for me
coming from 100 views max on some of
those older videos. So 10k views off the
gate and then within the span of a few
months like
and that probably
20 30 40 up to maybe 100.
Wow.
How much clout do you get at a college
campus after that? I'm I've been so
curious. Everyone must be like, "Yo,
that's Ellie that he had that video."
That's funny. No, I feel like my peers
like didn't didn't know at all like
anyone in my grade. It was more so like
I really noticed it when a new freshman
class came in
because every single one of those
freshman coming into the school like had
watched that video because they were
just like just like me when I was a
senior in high school just curious about
like what is college life like and like
what am I going to expect like what do I
what am I going to experience? They're
just like so curious. So that was weird.
And then the next freshman class after
that it was even more so that's the
first week of like a new semester was
always pretty interesting. Really? Yeah,
but definitely not like
my people in my grade.
What did you go to study there?
I studied business. Yeah. Just like
general business.
So, was your expectation you were going
to graduate and then just go in the
field of of like what did you want to
be?
Freshman year I wanted to go into IB
like investment banking.
Uh sophomore I wanted to be in like in
consulting
and I'm like so glad I did. Like I'm so
glad I escaped that. But I was very much
just like um I was kind of brainwashed.
It's really like oh that's like what I'm
supposed to do. That's like the best job
you can get.
It's like IB or or consulting. So
how many of your friends went into
investment banking?
A good amount actually. Right around
like my year investment banking was
becoming less popular and consulting was
becoming more popular mostly probably
because of like the work culture and
that type of thing. So, a lot of people,
a lot of my friends are in consulting
and then a good amount are also in like
tech, like from college specifically.
Sounds stupid. What does a consultant
do? Because I I would have a hard time
imagining like what a fresh college
graduate, no offense, could could
consult on for like a large company. You
would think that they would just hire
people with prior experience in the
industry to consult.
Right. Right. Yeah. I don't I I mean, I
never worked a consulting job, so I
couldn't tell you. Um, I guess my
friends would say they just like apply
problem solving like frameworks. I guess
I don't I don't know. I I was never a
consultant, so I don't know.
The exact same way, man. I never knew
what it was cuz I was studying econ at
UCSB and I was like I was like, "Okay,
like I go into consulting." [laughter]
Uh, what is that? Like I have no idea.
I feel like consulting is one of those
buzzwords now. It's like democratizing
whatever it is. You know what I mean?
Like it means a lot of other things that
are under consulting.
But people throw that in to confuse you.
Yeah. Yeah, it's like I do consult
thing. All right. It's one of those
things that just like I do real estate.
Okay.
But it could mean anything.
Yeah, it really could.
That's interesting. But at what point
then did you realize it's like I'm not
going to do consulting. I'm not going to
do investment banking. The YouTube
channel's popping off. I'm going to be a
YouTuber.
It was like a very gradual process for
me. I definitely started off like not
really convinced that YouTube was going
to work out. Like I was still like
trying to get summer internships and
that type of thing. And then I remember
like there being a little bit of a
turning point which was I made like this
viral video and it ended up like making
a lot of revenue like off that from
AdSense. And then that that was like
really a turning point cuz I had I
hadn't really made money from YouTube
before that and then at that point I was
like oh like you can actually like make
money from YouTube like you know
comparable to what I might make at like
a consulting job or a finance job. know
for me I was like okay like I'll always
like do YouTube on the side right like
that's what I was doing at the time
full-time student YouTube on the side
maybe I was like oh maybe I'll just like
go work a normal job do YouTube on the
side but yeah definitely at a point kind
of like which
what was that video
that was giving Harvard students an
iPhone
um giving away
I saw that video
yeah giving away a iPhone at Harvard or
something
yeah that was like a very different
video but I was in a group chat with
like with like Jimmy Mr. beast like Ryan
and a few other friends and like it was
called I forget what it was called 10
million bangers or something and we were
just focused on making a video with 10
million views and so I was very
influenced by them and I was like oh I
need to make a viral video I need to
make a viral video so uh that was my
effort at that and yeah I think it got
like 24 million views or something
wait what goes on in this this secret
world that [laughter]
is that group chat dead now is it
it's totally dead now yeah it's totally
dead I feel like they just like start up
and and then like they kind of die. But
what was going on in there? Like how did
you get access to that?
I was friends with Ryan. So Ryan Tran,
great YouTuber. Um
yeah, I met Ryan like at a talk that I
gave with him at my other friend um
friends conference and
yeah, that was how I met Ryan and then
Ryan kind of invited me in. But what
goes on in there like just conversations
about like oh this video is it going to
do well? Like why is it going to do
well? Um, a lot of like thumbnail
comparisons, like what's the what's the
better thumbnail and why? Um, a lot of
times like previewing each other's
videos and like we used to do like a
weekly call where we just like gave
feedback and like kind of roasted each
other.
How long ago was that?
This was a while ago. This was like my
sophomore junior year of college.
Was it intimidating to be in that group?
Um, not intimidating. Um, it was just
like super exciting just cuz yeah, it
was just fun to like learn. Whose idea
was it to go to Harvard and give away
iPhones?
Whose idea was it?
Yeah. Was it yours? Okay.
Yeah. I um so at the time, like when I
made this video, there were a ton of
really viral videos where people were
giving away iPhones and I had done like
a Harvard day in the life video and that
had done like super well, like a few
million views. So I was like, okay, like
trivia, giving away iPhones already
hitting 10 millions of views or
whatever. And then like my day in the
life video at Harvard already had like a
few million views and I was like let me
just combine the two and like do that so
it's kind of like on brand and like I
don't know.
Video. Did you know it was going to be a
banger?
Yeah. When I was planning it I was like
oh this is going to go viral like this
is going to be this is going to be big.
Um
people Oh, sorry. Go for it.
Yeah. No, I I thought it was going to
reach like a few few million views but
um it did like way better than that. So
how much did that video make you?
Okay, so this is a really interesting
story. Um, I basically had $3,000 in my
bank account when I made that video. Uh,
I spent $2,000 on the two iPhones that I
gave away, $500 on a roundtrip flight to
Boston from Vanderbilt. And so, I had
like $500 in my bank account when I went
to Boston. And I was like I was really
like I put all my chips on on on one
thing. I was just like, "Okay, this is
going to this has to do well or else I'm
like I'm screwed." Um, the video made
like I think like right now it's close
to 100K. So maybe around like 98 99 in
that r. I don't I don't know. I don't
know the last time I checked. Hopefully
that makes sense.
Incredible ROI.
Yeah, it was like I can't tell you guys
like how insane that feeling was because
remember I had like $500 left in my bank
account
and the first week I think in the first
six days it had six million views or
something like that.
Holy cow. And then the AdSense hit, like
the first check for AdSense was like 20
or 30 or 40, something like that. And so
imagine going from like 500, never
having more than 4,000, $5,000 in my
bank account ever
to now having like my first check of
that 100K was 20, 30, 40K. And so like I
it literally felt I I can imagine like
what it feels like to win the lottery
because it it literally felt like that.
It was like
the most insane high I've ever felt in
my life. Yeah. And like even just
talking about it right now, I'm like
kind of like bringing myself back and
like,
oh my god, like sophomore year, junior
year, Elliot was just like
I was just off the walls.
So, how do you not then just go back to
Harvard and do it again?
Why not just repeat? You found a winning
thing, just keep doing that.
Yeah. I didn't like want to end up being
one of those creators that like just did
interviews and stuff. Um, I get that
question a lot like why didn't I just go
back and do it? But at the end of the
day, like I love making vlogs. like I
like making videos about my life and you
know like that type of video is more of
like a hosting role than like a main
character role if you want to make that
comparison. So for me it's like I really
cared about like sharing stories about
my life and sharing my perspective and
although like that type of video does
well and makes a lot of money like makes
you successful because you get a get a
lot of subscribers. I got like 400k
subscribers for that video. Um yeah it
just like wasn't what I wanted. So I
went back to like just making normal
like vlogs.
Yeah. What's amazing to me is that you
gained 400,000 subscribers from that
video, but still you were somehow able
to pivot to vlogging where usually like
you see someone grow and then they pivot
and then their child their channel dies,
but you also have amazing engagement for
the amount of subscribers that you have.
You have like 1.2 million subscribers,
but each of your videos gets like 200k
views, which is like nearly 20%
engagement, which is fantastic.
So, how were you able to pivot in such a
successful way, do you think? Yeah,
actually it's funny because like I went
from having a few million views on that
video and then the next video I posted
it like just went back to my normal
viewership. I thought my life was like
totally changed after I hit that viral
video. I was like, "Oh my god, all my
views are going to do super well now."
So I I experienced like a lot of burnout
after because I was like, "Okay, that's
not the case." I think how it ends up
working out is usually like that's the
top of the funnel. like people might
find your channel that way and they
might subscribe for that type of
content. And then the videos I was
making like not really the type of
content that people subscribe for, but
there's still some a little bit of
overlap. People interested in college or
people interested in like college life
in general. So
yeah, I think that kind of helped. But
um I was trying to find this like I'm
sure you guys do this too, but like find
this fine balance between making videos
that bring new people in and then making
videos that also kind of like keep
people in the ecosystem and keep people
engaged.
Now, was that the time you decided to go
full-time?
I I really didn't decide to do full-time
YouTube until like my second semester
senior year of college, like three years
in, and still was like, uh should I go
like apply for a job? Um, I come from
like a pretty like conservative family
and so they were definitely like pushing
for me to just like go get a job. So it
took a lot of like I don't know even
though it was like a no-brainer for most
people like I feel like it would be a
no-brainer for me it was still a very
like last minute decision of like okay
I'm just like I'm going to do YouTube
like after I graduate college.
So yeah.
How much were you making at the time
where you decided all right I'm doing
this? I decided to do YouTube full-time,
like that that full-time decision was
when I was making as much as I would at
like a consulting job. And so I was
like, if I'm going to make the same
amount, but I can do what I love, then
there's no there's no opportunity cost
in like going to go work a corporate job
because it's not like I'd be making more
money there. It's not like I'd be having
more fun. It's not like at the time it
wasn't like I was getting more
opportunities. So for me it was just
like okay when the pendulum kind of like
switched over to okay most of the
opportunity is on on the YouTube side
that's when it made sense for me to like
really commit to that.
So was that like 100 100 grand a month
or a year or something like that?
100 grand a month. Yeah 100 grand a
month. I was like
I might want to be a consultant. So the
finance niche [laughter]
100 grand a year.
Yeah. Sorry guys. I don't have a finance
channel.
Not like that.
Your threshold is not like that.
I I just misspoke. year. It's funny now
when people say like uh when sometimes
we'll ask like how much you make.
They'll be like 80 grand. I'm like I
always think a month. Everything is now
a month. It's so bad.
Oh, 80 grand a month. That's not bad at
all. That's okay.
That
double it.
Yeah, we can work on it. Um no, that was
that was huge for me. Like the six
figure threshold um was definitely like,
okay, I can I can do this like full
time.
Yeah.
What did your parents think about it?
Um at first they were like very very
hesitant, very reluctant. They
definitely were like every time I went
back home for break, they're like, "So,
where are you working next year? Where
you where you getting that internship?"
Um, but over time they I'm kind of like
I'm very stubborn and especially with my
parents, I'm very stubborn. Um,
they know now like if I if I'm going to
do something, I'm just going to do it.
Like, they can't really change my mind.
So, over time, they just gave up and
yeah,
they're very supportive now. Like, of
course.
What do you vlog now? If someone asks
like what your style is or why people
watch. Yeah. What would you say?
Um, you mentioned like day in the life
videos. It's kind of like day in the
It's just like honestly like a bunch of
day in the life videos, but they're just
vlogs. And now I live in New York
instead of on a college campus. And so a
lot of it is just like me hanging out
with my friends, getting coffee. And
that just sounds like life to me. That
sounds like the life. You go out, you
hang out with your friends, you just
film it, right? Like everyone already
does like on Snapchat and stuff like
that. Yeah,
you post it, you make a bunch of money.
How is that? Are you just like on cloud
N?
I mean, lifestyle content is great in
that like yeah, you can just live your
life and then document it and that's
like very natural and organic. I would
say like it has its own consequences and
like its own I don't know there's
there's sacrifices that you make because
your work and your life are so
intertwined
and sometimes I wish that I could just
like have work mode which is like going
in and like making a video, producing a
video and then like getting off and then
like just kind of being on personal time
if that makes sense. So yeah, it's hard
because like if you So in college like I
was making videos about being in college
and so once I graduated college like I
had to make videos about being someone
who makes videos and so it's a very like
weird loop where you're like okay if if
most of my day is consumed by like
thinking about how to make videos like
what are you actually making videos
about? So that's like a very like
challenging thing as a lifestyle creator
is like okay then you have to go make
your life interesting. you have to go
like do things that are interesting
otherwise it's not going to be
entertaining to watch. So yeah, you hear
that from a lot of vloggers. But
what about like the David Dori kind of
vlogs?
Do you think that you could produce
something similar to that?
I don't think so.
You don't think you want to go?
I definitely would not. It's just like
too produced for me and like
Yeah. You know what's crazy? I just
realized that style has officially died
out.
David's not posting.
No, but Logan Paul was doing that.
Remember that?
Yeah. Logan quit before David though,
didn't he? I think so. But there was
that that brief period of time where
everybody I feel like did the David Dori
route as like five minutee videos just
clip clip with high retention
and I have not seen a video like that.
And then but then now I feel like we
went the Emma Chamberlain route of just
like these long 20 minute vlogs very low
editing just very personal.
I don't think we're there yet. I think
we're not at I don't think we're at the
Emma Chamberlain. Emma pulls it off
really well.
Yeah.
But I think like it is a it is a bit of
a pendulum.
I don't know. There's still I feel like
the dominant thing is still like
fast-paced. It's not as like it's not
like David Dori style, but it's still
I agree. It's fast paced and also like
challenges. Like that's kind of what's
like popping off.
Yeah. But you also can't compare like
10 million views on a challenge video to
like an Emma Chamberlain video. It's
like totally different.
Yeah.
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with that said, back to the podcast. How
are you able to cultivate such a
dedicated audience? I still can't wrap
my head around it because like like I
said, you have like what 200,000
followers on Instagram, but you have
videos that get or photos that get like
50,000 likes. Those ratios are insane.
Like the people that follow you, they
actually watch all of your content. It's
not like they just like hit subscribe
and they don't stick around. How are you
able to keep these people around? Is it
just because you're very personal in
your videos?
I think it it is that like when you
spend 10 minutes a week with someone and
like you share kind of like what's going
on in your mind. Um, a lot of times I
think the the relationship that I like
compared to is like if I was like
facetiming my friend like and I'm
updating them on like what my week looks
like or like what I'm up to and just
like having almost like if you're
hanging out like the way we're hanging
out, but then imagine there's like I
mean this it's kind of like this
actually where you have like another
person just kind of sitting in on on
that conversation and you can directly
address that person if you want
sometimes and that's pretty much like
they're a part of this friend group and
they're just like hanging out with you.
So, in that way, I think a lot of times
people come up to me and they're like,
"Hey, like, hey, it's me." Like, you
know me, right? Like, but I I have no
idea who they are, but I get it because
like I I sometimes watch creators and
I've also like been like had that
feeling of like, "Oh, it's me." Like,
we're friends. Like, you know, like
Yeah. Exactly.
Yeah.
So, I think like that creates a very
strong bond because in a way like they
don't feel like just a fan, but they
just feel like a friend. So, I think
that's like a huge I don't know. For me,
it's like a a great part about making
like personal videos is that you get to
develop like a personal relationship
with your viewer.
And would you say you're very genuine in
your YouTube videos? And can viewers
sense people being genuine or not?
Of course, he's going to say yes. He's
genuine.
I'm actually fake as [laughter]
hell no man.
Actually, everything
actually everything is just fake. You
know, [laughter]
viewers can tell if a creator is being
genuine or not.
Yeah, 100%. Like it's uncanny how
viewers know like certain things like we
like I never talk about sometimes they
just know like they can sense like the
craziest things like that they they
would have no idea what's going on but
like sometimes they'll DM me and they're
like hey Ellie you okay like you look a
little down today. I was like, or like
they're like, is there something going
on between like you and a friend? Like,
you know, they're just I'm just like,
how could you know that? Like it makes
no sense. But
there are some smart there are some
smart people out there.
Highly like emotionally intelligent.
Just
it's crazy.
People tell me all the time, Graham, you
look tired.
You look tired. Like I am. [laughter]
Half the time it's the lighting. It's
the lighting.
Bad lighting makes me tired.
Are [laughter] you tired?
Sometimes some videos I'm not tired and
people like, oh man, you look tired. I'm
like, it's the lighting.
It's the lighting.
That's why that's why Graham's so
particular about the lighting. I'm sick
of the tired comments.
Tired to counteract the lack of sleep.
That's funny.
How is your business broken down now?
Like YouTube in general.
Um, I mean, a lot of it is so for a long
time, I used copyrighted music for a
while. So, AdSense is like I still
mostly use like nowadays I do use
non-copyrighted, but it's I've never
like relied on AdSense. um it's just
like not as high for lifestyle creators
and so mostly like brand deals for sure.
Um, and then a huge part is like the
clothing copyright. Um, sorry that's
confusing because I just talked about
copyright, but um, no, the clothing is
called copyright. And then, yeah, so
clothing, brand deals, AdSense, it's
kind of like the mix for YouTube. Um,
and then of course just like random
things on the side, but
yeah.
Can you give us a rough like, you know,
estimate on on what your income would be
every month?
It fluctuates a lot. Um, because some
months I'll do drop, some months I don't
do drop. So that makes a huge difference
because I only like do drop every few
months. Um
it really varies like yeah I will say
like I have seen it like for for some
reason I always imagine that like my my
channel is dying and like my career is
[snorts] going to die.
That's every single day.
Every single day I'm like oh my god this
is it. Like we just hit the apex and
like we're going downhill now. Um
but you know you had Shelby on here a
few months or maybe a month ago or
whatever. We were talking because we had
like a we went on like a trip together
and she was like, "Yeah, like you know,
like my income just keeps growing." And
I'm like, "Okay." Like, [laughter] you
know, she's a little bit more has a few
more years on me. I'm like, "Okay, like
I'm just going to keep it up because
like hopefully it'll just like keep
growing." It really is like interesting
how more opportunities just like keep
coming up
and sometimes that's like a problem
because you don't really know which ones
to choose uh just because you have so
many. But it's a great problem to have,
but it gets distracting sometimes for
sure. So, it's extremely variable
basically.
It is. It is. Um, yeah. I feel like I
don't know if you guys feel that, but
mine's extremely variable in general.
Literally will go like 2x and then like
50%.
Yeah, cuz you could have a great like
brand deal or you could have like a good
month in views. Um, you can't you can
control it a little bit, but sometimes
you I mean I don't know. Sometimes you
can't. So,
do you ever worry that making more money
is going to make you seem less
relatable? That all of a sudden you're
like a rich guy who's like he's
pretending to be, you know, a certain
way. Yeah. Or if you get, you know, too
flashy, then it's like, oh, he doesn't
get it anymore.
Yeah. It's definitely like a risk. Like
you've I've seen it happen to like a lot
of people where they become very
successful and then they're like
suddenly out of touch. Um it's a thing
like especially for lifestyle creators.
I think for me like my goal is just to
like be genuine, be authentic. Like if I
am like making more, like I'm not I'm
not going to hide it. Like I'm not going
to like go some people like I don't
know. I'm not calling anyone out. But um
you might like go like live in like a
small apartment cuz you're like oh like
um you know I don't make any money or
sometimes people just be like oh I don't
make money like I'm broke. They're
clearly not broke. Um I'm never going to
be like oh I'm broke and like when I'm
not broke but um I think that's that's
important like that trust in like a
viewer like as long as you're being
honest is like fine. I think like I know
I I follow some creators that like I
know make a lot of money and like it's
not like I like them any less cuz they
make more. Like I'm happy for them. like
I root like I think true fans they like
root for your success. Um so I've never
been like oh I need to like hide like if
I'm making money. Of course there is a
risk of like you don't want to like this
is just me as a person like I don't want
to be overly flashy like
I don't want to like flex on anyone like
that's not the goal. So yeah I think
just being like being yourself with it
like and if you're just like a person
about it then it'll probably just bite
you in the butt.
I agree. I think it depends on how you
use it, right? Like if you're making a
bunch of money and you're like, "Guys,
I'm like, I can't believe it. This is
amazing. Like, I'm so fortunate to be in
the position I'm in." Uh, then people
are rooting for you. But if you're if
you're just like, "Oh, yeah. I just got
this new car. I got this ice." You know
what I mean? Like, you know, there's
stuff on you.
Yeah.
Danny Duncan was a great example of
that. I remember when I first met Danny,
he was living, I think it was a
one-bedroom apartment in Hollywood. I
knew he was making a killing.
Guy didn't spend money, and that was
just him. I mean, but he invested so
well, too.
Oh, really? Yeah.
That's awesome. He's so He's so smart
behind the scenes. But yeah, he's just
one-bedroom apartment in Hollywood. He
just went there every now and then.
Uh I think he like trashed it. I've seen
some of the videos. He's like throwing
people against the wall. I feel bad for
the landlord.
But yeah, I mean it goes to show you. I
mean, it was he was really authentic
with a lot of like his spending in his
his videos.
I think I was like just chatting with
him like I think he's like a very just
downer like he's a real guy, you know,
like
Yeah. doesn't try to like just like
shows it as it is. And I think that's
the best way to do it. eventually, if
you just are faking it, it'll eventually
like bite you in the butt. So,
yeah. Now, you were mentioning that your
phone is black and white. Is there a
reason for that? Like, you you've said
you never saw the colors of the podcast
room.
Yeah. Yeah, it's Well, I maybe I've seen
it, but like maybe it's just cuz I
walked in and it was like in person. Um,
yeah, my phone isn't black and white.
It's just uh
that's just the way.
Is it healthy?
Is it better or like that?
What does it what does that do? Is there
I bet there's a study. There's got to be
a Vanderbilt study done that like said
[laughter] black and white is better on
the eyes smarter or something like that.
Yeah. I don't I don't know the study and
I don't know where I start like when I
started doing this in college I think
and I don't know if I read it somewhere
probably like
you had it for a little bit.
Yeah. I mean sometimes like I go through
phases where it's color but like I'm in
a good phase right now where it's been
black and white for a while. Good phase.
Yeah. This one's a good one.
What does it do?
It just like keeps me off my phone if
you um I have this I'm I'm just like
very addicted to my phone because
Well, everyone is. And then also like we
do it for our job, so it's also there's
that factor. Um I just when I'm
scrolling through Instagram stories,
like it doesn't it's just not Yeah, it's
just not as like fun to look at. So then
you end up putting it down versus if you
um are scrolling with color, it's just
like
I don't know, you can scroll for hours.
But what about for things like if you're
studying someone else's YouTube
thumbnail, you know, you you want to
look at their colors or you're taking
photos. How how does that work out?
Yeah, it's funny. Like I take all my
photos in black and white and then like
sometimes I like send them over to like
my friend and it's terrible. Like the
lighting is so bad.
That would be a great way to test
thumbnails though is do it black and
white and see if it if if you could get
it to stand out
in terms of just the visuals alone and
then you could add
Yeah,
cuz that will also show you contrast
pretty well.
Honestly, like not not that well. Like
sometimes I'm like this is a great photo
and then it's just like terrible.
Terrible.
Yeah, but that makes sense.
I don't know. It's a small price to pay
to just stay off my phone. I I get very
like jittery if I like spend too much
time on my phone.
Um I don't have Tik Tok on my phone. I
just like I don't know.
Tik Tok is way too addicting. I feel
like every episode I I talk
You love talking about Tik Tok.
Tik Tok.
Yeah.
It's bad.
Yeah. It's It's gotten to the point I
I've been trash talkinging it for such a
long time, but now
uh anytime I have like just downtime
where I know I just want to like my mind
is going to go to mush for five minutes,
I'm like, "All right, open Tik Tok and
just see what's up there." And uh yeah,
20 minutes goes by. It's
so bad.
Yeah, 20 minutes not bad.
No, 20 minutes is not bad. That means
you have a lot of self-control.
You know what? Actually, we could look
at the I turned on the um the screen
time.
Oh, nice.
Oh, okay. So, a long time ago, we had
someone on the on the podcast and we
were talking about screen time and I was
so curious what Grahams was cuz he's
like working all the time.
Yeah.
Yeah. Let's recmp, guys.
Should we guess? Can I guess?
Guess.
Four and a half hours. Too much.
Wow.
4 hours and 42 minutes.
Oh,
yeah. But okay, now let's see. YouTube.
Yeah.
Oh god.
Oh, this isn't terrible. I don't think
it's that.
Well, that's Yeah, that's not per day.
Okay.
No. So, this is uh what is this? In the
last week, I've spent 7 hours and 30
minutes on YouTube. 2 hours 14 minutes
on maps, but that doesn't really count
that. Like, if we get rid of 2 hours on
iMessage, but sometimes I just leave it
open. Like I'll
two hours. Oh, okay.
I'll respond to a text, but then I'll
leave my phone like that.
What? Why?
I don't know. Cuz sometimes someone's
typing and I just don't want to click
out of it. I'm like a little bubble.
An hour on Instagram. Wow. This is
actually higher than I expected. An hour
on Tik Tok in 4 days. So, what is that?
Uh little under 20 minutes a day.
6 hours and 9 minutes. Yeah. And I have
three hours on YouTube, two hours, three
hours on Safari, two and a half hours on
Instagram, two hours on Google Maps.
Yeah.
An hour and a half on Tik Tok. It's bad.
An hour.
I'm right around like four hours. Like
under four daily average.
I try that black and white thing,
which is still not great, but I was It
was a lot worse. Like 6 to 8 hours at
one point.
Now, switching topics here. You were
saying that you watched Jack's video.
Oh, yeah. You saw Okay. Well, it came up
like on my way here.
It came up on your way here.
Yeah. Yeah. I didn't see it. I haven't
clicked on it yet.
I haven't clicked it.
Yeah.
Let me say first off, shout out to Sean
Rizwan.
Okay. Gave me
I know Sean.
Yeah, I know that you know him. I'm good
friends with Sean. You guys hang out.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. Well, he gave me that thumbnail
suggestion and it was a banger thumbnail
and I liked it a lot. But yeah, like the
the asking strangers like money
questions. That stuff's just like
popping off right now. And I thought to
myself, I think I could do this. Okay.
So, I went out to like downtown Vegas
and went but for some reason it's like
blowing up on Tik Tok.
People on Tik Tok like eat it up.
It's good. It's a good format.
My I mean my most viral video is me
asking questions to strangers.
I like the idea of being able to get
content just kind of like letting
strangers be strange. Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Just going up to them and letting like
you know what I mean? Like instigating
some weird conversation, seeing where
they take it.
It's not a new thing either. You guys
know like Humans of New York. like it's
like a blog and it used to be very very
popular. I don't know if it's as popular
anymore, but it's a similar concept like
going out and like interviewing just
random strangers in New York and it was
like it was huge and like this is like
the next generation of that.
It's always like there have always been
pranks like that's always been huge on
YouTube like telling jokes to people
stuff like that that's always been huge
but it's just showing up right now
finally for like finance like people are
like talking about their income and
stuff. Yeah,
you could one up this by going to
Fremont Street at night on a weekend.
You need to do this at night.
Great idea.
I feel like you
Jack Manley but money.
Yes, because [laughter] you know what?
You went you went in the middle of the
day.
You went in the middle of the day.
Yeah,
that place gets crazy at night. And just
imagine the interactions you have. It
would be 10 times what you did.
30% of the people I interacted with
during the day were already drunk.
Imagine night.
Imagine. And how about this? You pay
people $5 to tell you their net worth.
Oh, they would just tell me anyways,
man.
Really? You think?
Yeah, that was They'll just tell you.
Yeah, I just went out to people. They
were all cool. Like I Some people
rejected me, but overall I would say
like 80 75% of people were okay with it.
If they're wasted though, like I don't
know. You can if you can like really
assess the credibility of the
Oh, that's true. Yeah.
If you're just like really drunk and
someone's like, "What's your net worth?"
I don't know how honest that is.
I would do that at night.
Yeah,
I would try it at night. Maybe the net
worth question people are gonna be like,
"What's a net worth?"
Yeah, [laughter]
that would be good. That's good content,
you know. But a really simple qu like a
finance question. Really easy.
I I love those videos where people go up
and like, "All right, how many
continents are there?" And people say,
"Oh, continent.
What's a 35?" Like favorite videos. I
want to do something like that.
I have a great idea. I love the videos
where uh the the news reporter, whoever
make up a fact. So you should just make
up a crazy fact like, "So did you hear
that the president just raised the
interest rates by 20%." And just see
what people say.
That's good, too.
Yeah.
Somebody's gonna be like, "Oh, I
expected it from that guy."
Yeah, that's good. Did you Oh, you say,
"Did you hear about this?" And then they
say, "Oh, yeah. I heard about it."
Completely false.
There's like a statistic. It's like um
or like not a stat. There's a study,
maybe some Vanderbilt study, I don't
know. They're like, "Oh, just say any if
you say a fact, it's it doesn't have to
be true. not a fact. I guess if you say
any general statement about anything,
but you add like a little bit of
specificity to it,
people will 90% of the time say like
it's okay. Yeah, I believe that. That's
that's real.
Yeah. So, you could probably pull that
off.
Be a good piece of content.
Yeah.
You know, you know what, man? What?
Go to Fremont at night on a weekend. Ask
people what their thoughts are on Andrew
Tate.
You [laughter]
would get some wild answers.
That's a good idea. Wilders done.
I get credit for that one.
See you tonight at free. [laughter]
You run into me and I'm like I'm just
like I thought you were leaving.
[laughter]
Oh no. I had to go to free
and get but but get like everyone from
like old, young men, women, professional
like just
I just got to go and like collect
footage for like 5 hours. Just go and
just get as much as I can.
But realistically that's what you should
be doing is spending like you know 8
hours from honestly from 6:00 p.m. to
probably 2:00 a.m. if you can. Yeah.
And get a wide range of questions. Spend
three hours. Andrew Tate, three hours
network, three hours something else.
That's what I did.
Yeah.
When I shot the first time, I probably
shot for nearly 5 hours. And it was like
midday. It was burning hot. It was
really hot. A lot.
Yeah. And I mean the end product was
like a 9-minute video.
Yeah. So,
why did it take so long? Was that
because a lot of people said no or they
their answers weren't interesting?
Uh, a lot of people said I was extremely
anxious to be honest. It was very hard
for me to go up to people uh and like
ask them personal questions in general.
[clears throat] Just like for me going
up to someone's very challenging. So a
lot of the times if you look at the raw
footage it's just like I can't do this
JJ I can't do it. And JJ's like you got
it man just one more. We need one more.
I'm like okay I think I got it. And then
I'd walk up to someone I like
immediately turn around. Nope. I can't
do it. I can't do it JJ. But that was a
lot of the raw footage to be honest. But
it it was very draining. Yeah. But
that's why it took so long.
So at the end the security guard came up
and gave you guys a bit of a hard time
what happened.
Yeah. Okay. So I got in trouble. I was
like approaching these this couple and
the security guard came up to me on a
bike and he's saying, "Oh, you can't do
that. You can't do that." And I cut the
video and then I went back in and I was
just finishing the interview with the
people. So, the guy came up to me. He's
like, "Okay, these brands behind us, if
you're making money off of this, they
don't want their like logos shown." It
was like White Castle and like other
brands and I was like, "Oh, no. I'm not
making money off that." Channel wasn't
monetized when I said that. So, I wasn't
technically lying.
Sure.
Now, it's monetized. Made like 40 bucks.
Okay. So if these guys want to shoot 40,
okay, they can have my $40.
I I don't believe it either. It was a
public space.
Yeah.
But you know, I'm not gonna I'm not
going to like argue with a cop guy. You
know what I mean? A bike. I don't know.
I think you'll be fine.
Yeah, I think so, too.
I don't think White Castle is going to
come after you.
But it was funny cuz he comes up and
he's like, "You can't do this." And he's
like all mad. I'm trying to put He's
like, "Don't put the camera." And he
slaps my hand away. Then it cuts and I'm
just asking the same people the
question. He's just gone.
You know what? It would have been funny
to get him to answer if he went to
college.
Yeah, that would have [laughter] been
really good. He was not in any good mood
though. He was very upset.
That's funny. Like you just got to push
the boundaries. Like never stop
recording and you just you just kind of
go with it.
I think I could I think I could do that,
but I had like during hour four and five
I was getting much more comfortable. So
I probably have to be near the tail end.
But I would I would love to do that.
It's hard going up to people and just
like
it it takes some practice. It's really
hard. Yeah,
I once tried to film this video where I
was uh selling like trying to go from
like a dollar to like $100 or $1,000 in
a weekend or a week
and I just filmed the first day and for
some reason I was filming 4K which is
terrible. Um and I just like six hours
of me trying to sell water bottles to
people and I scrapped the video cuz it
was so bad. It was so hard but um a lot
of it was same exact thing me just being
like I cannot do this. Like I do not
want to go up to people and like ask
them to buy this one water bottle that I
have. part is when you're soliciting
value out of people. Like you're like,
you know what I mean? Like I'm asking
people personal finance questions. Like
they're not I'm not necessarily like
like taking anything away from them
except like maybe their like financial
like privacy. Um but if you're like
trying to sell something like a selling
a water bottle like what Ryan Trean did.
I was like there is no chance that I can
do that.
It's hard trying to get something out of
random.
What are your thoughts on the Ryan Trean
uh penny challenge?
I thought it was great. Like he
basically daily vlogged, right? like
that.
I mean, I thought that you couldn't
really do that anymore, but he did a
great job. I think I'm I'm a huge fan of
any content style where you have to like
watch multiple videos. It's like an
ongoing story line. Like, I love it when
like most videos on YouTube, I feel like
they're oneoff. It's not like you watch
one and then you're waiting to see the
next video. Like, normally on TV shows,
it's kind of like that. There's like a
cliffhanger and then you start it back
up on the next episode and then there's
another cliffhanger. So, it keeps you
going. So, like I love that there's an
overarching story line because I think
like there is a place for that on
YouTube. It's just like really hard to
achieve because it just sometimes like
your videos just don't do as well and so
it's hard to like keep that if you have
that's consistent viewership right
there.
So, I think it's great. It's like TV.
Yeah.
In a way,
his ability to go up and be like,
"Howdy, you want to buy some water?" And
just like constant nose
is incredible because I would imagine he
has to approach 100 people for like
every
Oh, yeah. Five maybe that say yes. So
one in 20.
Yeah.
Yeah. Guys, so uh speaking of making
money, um I sold out.
You sold out? How'd you sell out?
Oh jeez. Here we go again.
I'm going to have to tell you guys the
story here. But uh you may notice
something different about the camera
angle.
Wait a second. You don't have a uh you
have a memory card in the camera.
I actually just noticed that. This is
the first time you
Let me explain to you guys what
happened. I was uh minding my own
business on Instagram when I get this
message from Lexar. Lexar, if you guys
didn't know, is an SD card company and
they said they wanted to send me a SD
card. So, I stuck it in the camera and
you know what else I said? I said, "Why
don't you guys sponsor me and I don't
give any of the profits to Graham and
Jack and I stick a sign right here."
I think that's a terrible idea. I think
this is a really, really bad idea. But
on the bright side, guys, they did send
you guys some card readers, some cards,
so I'll bless you guys for that. But uh
so yeah, guys, the official memory
sponsor of the podcast or myself is
Have you guys Have you guys really not
seen this?
So Elliot, I was kind of aware of it,
[laughter]
but I'm still I'm still a little in
shock that it's actually happening.
That's so funny.
We're going to [laughter]
change the direction of this
conversation back on Elliot.
I can't believe that's that was that's
funny. That's funny. You got to keep the
side hustle up.
One thing.
Oh my gosh. Alex, we'll have it. We're
going to have to talk about
We're going to have a very very serious
talk about this. Alex,
as [laughter] you know what they pay you
this we'll do this as a midweek episode
to keep you guys watching. So you have
to subscribe to see our
our confrontation
confrontation with Alex about what's
going on here. So uh now we have a
continuing story line.
That's funny. And there you go.
Gosh, Alex,
that's funny.
So how much it cost to sell out, Alex?
Well, I guess just
I I can't listen, man. I can't reveal my
secrets, but if you're interested, hit
me up on Instagram. Okay. Yeah. I don't
know how. Yeah.
In all serious, it would be funny if all
of a sudden like everywhere [laughter]
is sold out. Like there's multiple
sponsors.
I think it'd be funny if you had a hat
with like a dangling thing on it.
[laughter]
Look. I mean, look how much retail
space. I mean, there's a sign connect
here, one up here.
We got some space right here, too.
We have a lot of Yeah, we could sell out
really big,
guys. You can't take my money.
Wait a second. Is that the iced coffee
hour? A fan sent a fan? Oh, yeah. And
you're covering No, no. The other one
behind the hard drive.
Oh, no. No. There's that. No, there's
No, there's nothing.
A fan made us that thing. And you're
covering it up with your sponsor.
No, no, no. How does that feel? I don't
know.
Listen, the fans should be happy for me.
Okay. I'm I'm making some Jack, what are
you doing? What are you doing?
What are you? What are you doing?
Come on.
The fans The fans come first.
Someone made that, man.
The fans come first, guys.
All right, guys. All right.
I mean, that needs to be There we go.
The fans come first.
I just wanted to keep those there to let
you guys know.
That is so funny. I saw that and I was
like, "Oh, nice. You guys got like, you
know, likes are sponsor."
Oh, no. They didn't. No, they they
genuinely didn't. They didn't.
I was like, "Oh, you guys are doing like
sponsored uh segment here." That's
funny.
One thing that I wanted to talk about
with you is that you're in a content
house, aren't you?
Yes. I'm uh in a creator house. It's
called Your Mom's House.
Your mom's house.
Actually, is it actually called your
mom's house?
It's actually called your mom's house.
Don't talk about my mom like that.
[laughter]
You're You're at my mom's house.
Talk about your mom like that. Where are
you?
I'm going to your mom's house later, you
know. [laughter]
Save it for creator clash. There you go.
Clash part two.
So, you're in your mom's house?
Yeah.
Okay. [laughter] You're still You're
still living with your mom?
I'm I live in my mom's No, I live in
your mom's house, actually.
Not in your mom's house?
No. No, I live in your mom's house.
Your mom's house.
I No, I do live in your mom's house.
Yeah, there you go.
Your mom's house. So, um
Mom's [laughter] house seems pretty
nice, though.
Your mom's house? Yeah, it is.
We're all getting confused. Your mom's
house,
but you live in a creator house, you
said, right?
And um what's like the reason behind
that? And I've also noticed like all of
these companies going and like
sponsoring these houses. Yeah.
And they're usually like mansions or
super nice places. Do you have any like
insider information on that or or how
exactly did your mom's house come about?
Yeah, it's not like a typical creator
house. Like we don't have like brands
sponsoring it and like we're not even
making money off of it. like it's very
much just friends that are creators that
happen to live live with each other. Um
actually not even in a house because we
live in New York so in an apartment.
So technically that name is not even
right. Uh it should be your mom's
apartment but yeah no we um we're just
like group of friends and like we live
together and we make videos together. It
so I did this like month in LA where I
like live with creators. It wasn't a
creator house. It wasn't like a content
house. Um, and and I mean it was in the
sense of like creators living together,
but it was very much just like super
natural and organic and it was like the
best month ever. Like we made videos
together. It was like very organic
collaboration. Um, and it was fun. It
was just super fun and we learned a lot
off of each other. And so like we went
back I went back to college. A lot of
people went back to school and I was
like, "Okay, like how can we like do
this again after college? It's like such
a good environment to be in." Um, and so
that's when we started the house. like I
guess it's been a year now for uh
yeah firstly uh Kelly Wakasa your mom
Ashley so there's some inspiration for
the name there we previously had a
member her name was Ammer Chase she's no
longer a part of the house and then we
have like some new members coming so
yeah it's very much just like an
apartment living together for New York
it's like spacious like it's really hard
to find a lot of space in New York so
for New York it's quite spacious So,
it's not like a it's not a luxury
high-rise. Like, it's not a it's not
like nice.
It's pretty good in the in the photos
I've seen of it or the videos.
Yeah, it's a little bit ratchet,
actually. Like, but it's nice cuz like
we beat it up a little bit. Like, we got
a skate ramp in there
and that's weird for New York for sure.
Skate ramp in the place.
Like a There's a halfpipe in there.
Wow.
Yeah.
Reminds you of the movie Big.
Yeah, that's exactly what I was
thinking. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
We're just like I don't know, just kids
like screwing around in there. So,
how much is rent? rent, you know, you
know, uh, you reacted to my what I spend
in a week video
and you,
uh, were spot on.
So, for me, I think it was, um, do you
remember what you said?
I probably said 7,500 bucks, 65.
No, not for me. Uh, so
me personally,
a month.
4,000 bucks a month
for me. Yeah.
Do you have like the nicest room?
I don't have the master. I I think I
have the nicest room, low key,
but they wouldn't agree. Uh, no. I think
they would agree. I feel like I have the
nicest room.
Okay.
I think I got lucky.
But it's not the It's not the master.
It's not the master. Master pays a
little more.
But
so you got a good deal.
Do the math then.
Yeah. All right.
Yeah. But yeah, in the what I spend in a
week video, I'm spending a lot of money
going out and uh you know, I think I
gave you a lot of uh criticism that I
think after speaking to you now was uh
unwarranted.
Oh yeah.
Yeah. I do.
I think it was warranted. you were going
you were going to coffee shops, you're
spending like $8 on designer coffee and
$15
avocado toast. But now that I'm hearing
about it that this is like your
full-time thing and going out making
content, you can't really make the
content like that being like, "Hey guys,
I'm going to make my coffee at home and
have an avocado toast by myself and I'm
going to invite someone over at the
house today. We're going to It's more
entertaining to watch you go somewhere
even if it's at a cost because that cost
is at that point just the the price of
doing business. It's a little bit of
both. Like I mean honestly, yeah, I
could definitely cook a little bit more.
Like that's I don't know. It's something
I'm trying to work on. Um you inspire me
to like try to cook more. But no, it is
also like sometimes I'm like, "Okay, I
can like film it if I'm like going out
and like meeting up with a friend." I
think New York is obviously like very
glamorized. Like people like the idea of
like going to New York and like what is
life like? And if I just stay in my
apartment all day, it's like I don't get
to show off the city as much. So there's
like that. But no, I should definitely
be cooking more. I'm just like terrible
at it. So,
and when you're trying to figure out
like which day you're going to vlog, is
it based off of if you know something's
going to happen that day or do you just
pick a random day? I'm going to vlog
today and then you try to create
exciting stuff in that day.
Yeah, that's that's pretty accurate.
Like if I if something's going to happen
already, like I might just like add in a
few more things to like make it a little
bit more interesting. That being said,
like sometimes I just like commit to
like I'm going to vlog that day and I
have nothing planned. It's always a
really tough vlogging day. But I only
vlog like really one day out of the
week. So,
would you say you work a lot in general?
Um, I do like I honestly used to work
way more because I was in college. So,
like balancing school and and YouTube.
Um, nowadays I still do work a lot, but
I also like hiring people and like
working with more people like is
definitely like I don't edit my own
videos anymore. Like still a little bit
of retouching, but yeah. So, like that
saves a lot of time and like focus on
more things.
So, walk us through a normal day. What
do you do? Because it seems like if you
don't
he doesn't want to watch [laughter] a
video. He'd rather just keep going.
Well, the thing is it's like if you if
you don't edit the video and you spend
one day a week vlogging.
Yeah.
What do you do? What What are you doing?
That's a great question. It's just like
so different every single day. Like
usually I wake up, I go get some coffee,
get some food in me, uh go to the
computer, just like go through some
emails. Um maybe I get lunch with
someone. It's like a meeting. Um, yeah,
think about like if I if I need to plan
some videos, like I'll just like
brainstorm some video ideas. Um, a lot
of times I'm like working on copyright,
so like talking to manufacturers or like
talking to my team and it's just like
all over the place like a lot of like
meeting up with people, a lot of uh
planning videos or like thinking about
YouTube, but then also like planning um
copyright and doing operation stuff
there. It's really different like every
day. I couldn't tell you. It's just like
all over the place. And then sometimes I
travel so
that gets in the way. It's a lot.
It's pretty amazing because you only had
like four hours of screen time. So
you're like not on your phone that much.
No, I'm not on my phone too. Uh this is
a good week. So
it's a good week.
Yeah, it's a good week. Yeah.
Huh. Wow. Yeah. It's hard to be on your
phone when you're at lunch every day,
Jack.
Yeah.
Going out to breakfast every morning.
Yeah. I I've been eating dinner every
night. I've been eating out every single
day. Have you really?
Yeah, I have. Every single day. Every
single day.
Why? I get Chipotle every single day.
Oh, you're doing the Alex Formosi?
Nope. Okay, so let me explain. Let me
You know who Alex Hormos is?
No, I don't.
He's like this like entrepreneur guy who
only eats Chipotle.
Uh kind of. He did. Yeah. For for a
period of time, for a year or so. Uh I I
decided I don't want to cook in the
kitchen. Takes too long. It's
exhausting. I always buy a bunch of
stuff from the grocery store. It always
goes bad. Feel like I'm wasting food.
But if I just go to Chipotle, a bowl is
like a meal and a half for me. Yeah. you
know, and I make some overnight oats and
that's pretty much I'm good for the day.
Overnight oats and like Chipotle bowl.
Uh, and Alex Ramoszi said that his
accountant came to him and was like,
"Hey, it says here that you order
Chipotle like 500 and so times this
year. There must be some sort of error."
And then Alex said like, "No, that's
right."
Yeah,
that's right.
So, why don't you try Chipotle catering
because that would give you enough to
make your own bowls for a whole week.
That is a really good idea. That is an
extremely good idea. You just need to
win one of those. My friends, like one
of my friends had the Chipotle card.
It's like a year free Chipotle. Try to
win that.
He got it.
Yeah, but he got it.
Um, he just won it. It's like won it in
a sweep stakes
and he got like $50 of Chipotle every
day.
What was one? I I completely forgot.
There was a Was it like a soup
plantation thing or it was a all you
could eat pasta from Olive Garden? That
was it.
That's a thing.
Yep. And they gave away 500 of these,
but you had to apply for it and then
there's a lottery system where you have
to sign in at a certain time to buy it.
It was like a $100 for it was all you
could eat at Olive Garden for like a
year or something like that. Really?
Yeah.
And I thought I was going to buy it for
a video and that morning like I had
applied. I had secured a spot to go in
and like buy it
but you had to be really quick and I
overslept.
That's like uh that's like you know that
old like American Airlines like free
flight pass. It was what was it? 250
grand for free flights for a lifetime.
Oh yeah.
It's like that's like that but
a little worse actually. But
yeah. Well, what about you guys? Like
what is your dayto-day like every
typical day?
Oh, Jack, you want to go first? Your
busy schedule?
Yeah. So, usually what I do is I wake
up, right? And then I go to the gym.
That's generally speaking like the first
thing I do.
Uh I come back home,
eat a little bit of food, overnight oats
maybe. and uh take a shower and then get
ready, start working pretty much. So
that would
work.
Work. Yeah, sometimes I have some stuff
to do surprisingly. And I I'll usually
take care of some work. Uh probably done
by like
done by [laughter] done by 11:00 a.m.
probably done with all my work. No. Uh I
keep working. Usually take some breaks.
I play a lot of ping pong. Oh, really?
Uh I just go back to work. I usually
don't go out. It's pretty much just like
I'm in my room on my computer basically
all day. Yeah. Uh, and that's pretty
much it. A lot of the times I come over
here to film sponsors or we'll be
filming podcasts and uh that's pretty
much I I don't go out, right? I live in
like a a suburban type of
You live in a content house, Jack.
I kind of do. Yeah. I mean, all five
rooms are filled up with kids that are
between the age of 20 kids
with men. It feels [laughter] weird
saying like adults, right? Like it feels
weird saying that cuz I still feel like
I'm a kid, but it's between the age of
21 and 23.
So, And yeah, like a couple of us like
making YouTube. I'm 23.
23. Okay.
Yeah.
So,
kind of a content house. Yeah. But we we
mess around, you know, we we have fun.
Yeah.
Be funny if you call it your dad's
house.
Your dad's [laughter] All right. My
place is your dad's house. Yeah. The
guys will love that one.
Yeah. That's good.
All right. Yeah. That's pretty much the
average day. Your 10 grand.
Oh, man. Every day is every day is
different. Um depends if it's a posting
day or a non-posting day, but usually
like Monday, Wednesday, Fridays, I'll
wake up, try to plan out a video. Alex
comes between 12:00 and 1. We review the
video that's posting that day. We'll
spend two hours thinking title,
thumbnail, answer comments for an hour
afterwards. And then after that, usually
we'll either be filming a podcast. I'll
go to the gym. I'll react to a video for
the second channel or I'll film what I
planned out earlier. And then Tuesdays
and Thursdays are usually planning days
where I'll spend all day just trying to
script out videos to then post the next
day or that that following day.
Cuz I was going to say you you pump out
a lot of videos. Like I was going to say
you have to just be filming a lot
every day.
Every day.
Every day. Just one video a day
cuz you have what, like three channels?
Uh three channels posting seven days a
week. So there's a video posting every
day. And that and that's actually down
at the peak. I think it was 12 videos a
week. Wow. At the peak. And I did that
for a few months.
Uh actually it was nine videos a week
for I think almost a year.
A year, give or take. Nine videos a
week.
That's crazy.
Went up to 12 for a month. And then now
I'm back down to seven.
And you think seven is where you're
going to stay
uh for as long as I can. Yeah. Yeah.
Actually sometimes seven because we'll
post a midweek episode.
Seven is still a lot.
Yeah.
Do you ever feel like
normal?
Really?
Yeah.
Well, you're coming from 12. So
yeah, exactly. So it's just whatever the
threshold is, but like three of those
videos don't count because I think those
are the reaction videos. So that's just
me like reacting to a video. Pretty
easy. It's an hour title thumbnail.
Not the end of the world. Uh the podcast
is simple because it's just one day a
week and that's usually something like
this. It feels kind of like hanging out.
It's the three main channel videos a
week.
Gotcha. That's
that's a lot. Yeah.
Still a lot. Like
a lot.
Every video is its own video. Like
there's a lot.
It's got to be its own topic.
Yeah. And especially in times like this,
there's not a lot to
talk about that that that's that
different. So, there's got to be topics
that repeat because sometimes people
don't watch they'll they'll there'll be
a topic on a video and people won't
watch that one, but they'll watch the
next one. Sometimes it's just,
you know, busy. Yeah. So, there's got to
be some topics that repeat every now.
Is that your biggest challenge? Like
coming up with new video ideas.
Yeah.
If I had uh a list of topics where all I
knew is just like, "All right, Graham,
you got to plan out this video this
day."
Mhm.
Uh I could I could do that so easily.
They had the video just topic
video topic title thumbnail done and
then all I had to do is plan it out and
film it would be so easy. But part of it
is like trying to see what I watch so
much YouTube videos to try to figure out
like
what people want to see and I'll create
videos around that, right?
Very little about like what I care about
at this point. It's just
whatever the viewers want to see and
it's dictated by how many views uh each
video gets.
What is that different from in the
beginning? In the beginning, were you
just like making things that you wanted
to make? Yeah. And then now is it like,
okay, you feel a little bit more
responsibility of like, no, I have to
now create for like my viewers.
Oh, totally. Yeah. In the beginning, it
was really fun because these were videos
that I wanted to make that didn't exist.
And the finance space on YouTube was
nothing. Yeah.
And so when I saw it, I was like, "Oh,
wow. Um, there's no videos on being a
real estate agent. These are the videos
that I wish were up there for me." And
so I'd make all these videos. and
financial independence very quickly
became a thing in like 2017 on YouTube.
Yeah.
No one was making those videos except
Beat the Bush
and maybe like two other people, but
they were they weren't doing well with
title thumbnails. So, I thought, wow, uh
we could make this so much bigger with a
good title and a good thumbnail. House
hacking was a was one of the first
videos for me that did well. That didn't
exist on YouTube with that sort of title
thumbnail that would attract an
audience,
right? Um, but as the space grew, it
became way more competitive because now
everybody's doing the same videos the
same day because there's nothing. So
when you have a hundred creators all
searching the internet for the same
topics and there's one little nibble of
something, they're going to hop on it
fast. Yeah.
And so if I don't cover a topic within
24 hours, everyone else has already
covered it and there's no need for my
take on that.
So now you're you feel like you're more
like almost like a news outlet, like you
got to be fast with it.
Yeah. Cuz I'm never going to be the
fastest because you have other people
who will literally live stream the
event.
Right. and they provide such great
context on it. So, I know I can't
compete with that. There are other
people who will just freestyle a video
within an hour afterwards. I can't do
that. So, mine is always I'll come to it
with the with as much perspective as
possible.
Yeah.
In a way that's, you know, edited and
informative and entertaining, but it's
got to be within 24 hours.
That's interesting. That's so
interesting. I also feel that where like
in the beginning it was like a huge gap
and you're like, "Okay, I can fill this
gap. There's a huge gap in the market."
And now it's like super interesting
where it's not so much of that. It's
more of just like how do I keep growing
like what I've built.
Yeah. It's hard to see where the next
gap is.
Uh because for a while I think Jake Tran
really got on that bandwagon. Do you
watch his channel? Yeah. He got on that
bandwagon of just the really cool like
documentary style videos, but now I'm
seeing everybody making documentary
styles. Like um Moon is another channel
I've been watching a lot of that makes
similar videos just different topics.
But it's like these documentary style
videos are popping off. Same with like
Patrick CC, Sunny V2, like the the rise
and fall of
Yeah. like narrated, very dramatic.
They do so well, but so many channels
now are popping up like that. It's hard
to figure out like where's the need now
in the marketplace and like what's next.
Yeah. It's like that intersection of
like what where's the gap and like what
are you good at? Like for you was
probably very clear.
So I'm trying to find it too.
I think there's a lot of like
soularching on YouTube like who am I?
like who am I, who do I want to be? Not
to get so deep or whatever, but I think
I think I don't know if you feel the
same way, but just on YouTube, it's just
a lot of like and I feel like are you
like Jack, you're trying to like figure
out your stride on YouTube as well or
I suppose so. I mean, [clears throat]
basically all my focus on is on the ice
coffee hour and on my off time like I'm
just kind of doing whatever I guess I
have fun with. Yeah, I'm on my own
personal channel. Uh, that's pretty much
I guess I kind of in a in in a sense
trying to find what I like because every
single video I've posted has been a
completely different format like a
reaction versus like a challenge versus
like a strangers question thing. You
know what I mean?
There's so many like different type of
types of [clears throat] videos on
YouTube. And I feel like a lot of people
starting off are just like,
okay, what's going to do well? Like how
can I make something that does well?
Um, but I think it's actually the
opposite. Like what am I good at? Like
who am I as a person? Like what can I
bring to the platform? It's it's there's
I don't know. It's a different game. I
don't know. It's a different game.
How often How often do you have those
feelings or go through those moments?
Oh, like all the time. Like I always
have to do a ton of soulsearching like
who am I? Like who do I want to be? Like
what do I stand for or what am I good
at? Um in the beginning it was so clear
like okay college videos like I didn't
like the ones that were being made but
they were doing well. So like okay I can
make ones that I like and they'll
hopefully do well. Um but yeah now I'm
like I really feel like I'm approaching
a little bit of a pivot actually which
is also kind of scary. Yeah. Yeah, I'm
just like trying to think of like
what's prompted that.
Um, just like being just not complacent,
but just doing making similar videos and
like not really innovating and growing.
So, I think it's like a constant cycle
of like, okay, you're really happy with
the videos you're making and then you're
not so happy with them and then you
change something up and like try to make
them better and you become happy with
them.
Do you feel like you've stagnated in a
way like you've kind of peaked and
plateaued in terms of like what you are
currently capable of? I think like I
haven't been as like creative and I
think part of it is actually also like
having an editor now like not being as
like not being able to like do as much
creatively because like I there's only
so much you can communicate like
creatively and it is a challenge. Um and
then I think YouTube also is a lot about
like consistency over like trying to
like change it up all the time. But a
lot of times for myself like it comes
from like making videos just comes from
a place of like wanting to share
something like creatively. So, it's a
balance because like you don't want to
switch it up too hard cuz then that kind
of like is not good for your channel.
But at the same time, I think it's like
important to like think about how you
want to innovate and like bring
something new. I think you guys need a
soundboard. Do you guys have a
soundboard?
Yeah.
Yeah. We'll put
one of those. But like right here and
then you guys could be like
sound effects like [laughter] that.
Yeah. Like oh like how much you make
this month.
Yeah. Exactly. Say a low number, but
we're already pressing it.
Yeah, that'd be funny. No, just for
comedic effect. No, I think you guys do
great. Okay,
this set is crazy. This something else,
huh?
What is something you think you can work
on?
Something I can work on. I can work on a
lot of things.
This could be business related,
personal,
anything.
I think a lot of times I just need to
remind myself to like be patient. I
think I'm I'm 23, too. like I'm just
very young and I think like YouTube is
going well and there's a lot of great
opportunities there and like I'm excited
about it but I also like like you said
Graham I want to like maximize my life
experience still. Um I just like I don't
know there's a lot of pressure because
there's a lot of like opportunities and
you want to make sure you're like making
the most of it but at the same time I'm
just I'm really young. Like I feel like
I I am really young and still have a lot
of um going to do. So I always feel like
I need I need to be in a position where
I'm learning the most. And early on on
YouTube, that was YouTube, just like how
do I learn how to like grow on YouTube,
all that stuff. And I think like I'm
learning different things nowadays. But
yeah, I think like I really have to
think critically about like what is
going to make me kind of like a more
well-rounded person.
That's really interesting because I'm
the same age as you, but I see it in a
different way. I feel like like I'm
going slow. I feel like I need to like
speed things up. I feel like I'm too too
old, you know what I mean? Like I don't
like
excuse my like naivity even though I am
only 23. You know what I mean?
Yeah. You feel like a sense of urgency.
Like you're running out of time.
Not that I'm running out of time, but
like a sense of urgency in so far as
that I'm like racing. You know what I
mean? That I got to keep going. Like hit
some goal, hit something. You know what
I mean?
Yeah. I [clears throat] mean, I've been
there, too. like just trying to like
reach the next milestone and reach the
next milestone and I'm interested to
hear Graham your perspective on this too
but
how you still just move the goalpost
like
I just keep moving it but after a while
it's like
just not the same as
I don't know
I would tell you to keep going and for
Jack Jack I' I'd say I would double your
output
there's so much there's so much more I
feel like there's so much more I' I'd
say uh
a lot more guest outreach I think
[clears throat] a lot more um picking
videos for second channel. I would say
for the filming, I I don't know your
filming schedule right now, but I I'd
pick one day a week, like you know,
Saturday or something like that where
you just film for six to eight hours.
Um,
I'm fine if you outsource the editing on
those videos.
On what videos?
The the you going in the public, like
there's no sense of you editing those
videos.
I agree. Yeah, just it's just tough to
find an editor.
Well, I guarantee that it's not tough.
There there are probably hundreds of
people right now who would love to be
your editor. The only thing that I'll
say as a counterpoint to that is the
fact that and I mean this in no offense.
I mean this in the most respectful way
every single every single time you seen
that.
I I I really mean it in a respectful way
because I think that there's a lot about
you that is extremely admirable. But
when I look at you and I see that you're
continuing to push and you're pushing
and you're pushing and you're going to
hold out for as long as you can and
you've been saying the same thing for
years,
but it seems like like you haven't like
traveled. you haven't like gone and do
things that I would at least find
enjoyable. Like maybe you find enjoyment
in sitting down and working, but that's
just not how I I find a lot of
enjoyment. I I like trying out things
and being creative and filming new
videos and doing trying out new things,
but when I see you, I'm like, God, I do
not want to to like in 10 years, I don't
want to be like that.
But the thing is, it's like now is the
opportunity. When you have that golden
egg and you have that golden
opportunity, you shouldn't waste it.
When you think of how many people would
would love to be in that position, if
you don't give it 110%, you don't make
the most of it, I feel like it's being
wasted.
I agree that it can easily be wasted,
but I I think as it currently stands,
I'm actually doing a very good job. I
don't I think you're doing a good job,
but I don't think it means taking it
easy or being complacent or not pushing
yourself even further because I' I've
seen more people not give it 110% and
and lose it then have pushed and and
maybe gotten an extra few years. I just
think it's such a volatile career in
but you can say you keep pushing for an
extra few years and then a few years
pass and you're like keep pushing and
it's just like a treadmill.
There's going to be a point of
diminishing returns at a certain point.
it either your income scales at direct
proportion to that or your other
investments just become more to to
offset everything. I I think there'll be
a point of diminishing returns where all
of a sudden I think life experience
trumps the opportunity of of continuing
as is. What do you think about this?
I think it's really important to like
know what your priorities are like what
is important to you what are you willing
to sacrifice. I think people are
different. Like some people like a lot
of it is like how you grew up or like
what were your childhood influences or
traumas or whatever. I think it matters
a lot. Like you do have to like listen
to yourself a little bit. I like for me
I needed that push a lot. Like people
just telling me like you're not working
hard enough and it got me to like work
harder and it got me to a place where I
was happy. But I I do think like just
depends on like what's important to you.
Like just got to ask yourself that
because different things are important
to different people. So,
I agree with that and I think I have a
fairly good idea of what's important to
me.
But Graham likes [laughter] to continue
to put his opinion over my shoulder. No,
this is what's important to you, Jack.
This is what's important to you.
It helps to have someone pushing you.
I agree. I agree. But I think that it's
better when it comes from a more
encouraging a place of encouragement for
the the fact that I'm pushing means I
believe that you have the potential. I
wouldn't push someone who I don't think
has the potential to do it.
I'd be wasting my time.
What's your personality type? Do you
know?
Uh, it's an introvert of some sort. I
Yeah. How do you know that?
Cuz we took a test on the podcast.
I think it's super funny like seeing the
interaction because
so I'm like an ENFJ and I just took like
I didn't take the test recently but I
like looked it up recently and it was
funny like one of the things that it
said it was like oh likes to give advice
to people that that um that he cares
about or he or she cares about um but
often too forceful in a way where it's
not received the right way. And so I was
just curious, but I've had this where
like I've also been someone that like
likes to push people to like work really
hard and like go for it. And it's also
like kind of backfired on me a little
bit in some of like my personal
relationships because I figure that
everyone like wants the same level of
success or like has the same drive or
same priorities that I do. But then I
come to find out that, you know, some
people are just like interested in
different things or like have different
priorities. And I just think it's
important to like listen to yourself and
like really listen to how you feel. That
being said, like I
sometimes you need that push. So I do
think like that question of like what do
you do every day? You know, it's like
such a hard question to answer because
it's a very difficult question.
It is like so different every day. Like
you're right like I do feel sometimes
like I'm really busy and then if I look
back I'm like like what exactly am I
doing? Like you know like I just like
write it down almost or check my
calendar just gets blurred.
Yeah. There is a lot during the day
though, even for myself, that you
realize you waste doing stuff that
doesn't really matter. Yeah.
I'll I'll spend a lot of time sometimes.
I'll be in the middle of planning, but
my mind is just elsewhere, and I'll
check my email for five minutes. Yeah.
And then that leads to checking CNBC for
5 minutes, which leads to checking
Reddit for five minutes, and then I get
back to planning, but it takes me 20
minutes to get back into the zone. So,
there's like 40 minutes. It's gone.
Yeah.
Um that didn't need to be gone.
Yeah. Yeah, I used to think that like if
I wasn't working from the moment that I
woke up to to the moment that I fall
asleep, then I wasn't working hard
enough. But I really think that like
quality work matters way more than the
hours you put in. Like there's a lot
that you can do. I agree 100%.
I think that matters a lot.
Yeah. It's it's tough for me because I
just I've I've always had this mentality
that your 20s could be like completely
sacrificed to set yourself up for the
rest of your life. And I think if if
people just gave themselves from 18 to
30 just to put their head down and work
and just bust their ass like all the
time,
maybe see, you know, the occasional
weekend trip or whatever, but like the
focus should be work for 12 years. I I
I'm curious to see how many people would
be
um further ahead.
Yeah.
If if they really gave it 100%. Um, and
that's and not to discredit people who,
you know, are maybe in a job that they
don't like and a bajillion other things
could come up, but to really be like
very dedicated, right, of like I'm going
to spend these next 12 years and I'm
going to work on myself every day.
Yeah, I think it's great. Like I also
think it's idealistic. Like a lot of
people I think just don't don't care for
it. Like
that's fair.
I'm a little bit more like work
experience on that spectrum. Like I care
about like experiencing like stuff like
travel. It it seems like worth to me
just to like go travel and like
experience life. And just like how you
said like oh 20s time to like work and
like grind and like set yourself up for
life. I could also be like oh 20s it's a
time when like you're young and like you
can travel and then you can tolerate
like
you know
going to like different places like five
different places in a week. You can't do
that when you're you know a lot older.
It's just like harder. So I don't know.
It's a balance. I just think it depends
on what's important to you as a person.
Yeah. I guess I've never had the urgency
to to go and do those things because I
feel like I could do them anytime. If I
really place the importance on that, I
could do it,
right? And that's that's a conscious
decision for you. That's like, okay, I
could do that, but I don't want to
because I would rather do this. So,
that's like your values. And I think
like that's that's what it is. It's too
I think if you are as long as you're
aligned like with your action and what
you value then you're living a good life
because like
what more could you do is like if you if
you are living out the life that's in
line with your values.
Yeah.
I think that's that's really the goal.
Do you guys live like living out here in
Vegas?
Love it.
Really?
Yeah.
What do you like about it?
I like that there's no traffic. I went
across town the other day at uh was it
6:00 p.m.
Mhm. was the same as driving in the
morning on a Sunday or you know
Saturday. No traffic tax and it was
tax is fantastic. The food I had $25 all
you can eat sushi the other day.
Food is good.
$25 for quality sushi with a good fish
to rice ratio. Very good.
Um and everything about it just the the
people here are very friendly.
Uh the neighbors now we know the
neighbors. We we wave to the neighbors.
There you go.
Walk down and a neighbor will come up
and say hi.
Nice. Uh, Alex is working with uh some
neighbors now, which is cool. Alex
picked up some business from that.
It's just really friendly. Really nice.
Heat. Can you take the heat?
Uh, heat's not bad cuz I'm inside all
day.
Ah, it
doesn't really matter. Yeah. At night,
it's really nice cuz you cuz you go out,
it's kind of like a little warm, but
it's like a comfortable warm at night.
Yeah. Do you think you'll stay here for
a while?
I do.
For many years, decades?
Most likely.
Decades. For the rest of your life.
I mean, too early to tell, but I mean,
where did you grow up?
Los Angeles.
Okay. So that's why you think the
traffic is good because LA traffic is
terrible.
Yeah.
Interesting.
Have you lived anywhere else?
Uh, nope.
Are you willing to?
I'd be open.
You'd be open to it?
Have you lived anywhere else?
Uh, I grew up in Ventura, which is an
hour north of LA.
And then that's where you like grew up
in
Yeah. I grew up in Ventura and then I
moved to UCSB and then from there I
moved in with him in Santa Monica and
then here.
Interesting.
Yeah.
Yeah. I would say go go live somewhere
for a year.
I want to live in New York.
Yeah. come to New York.
New York for one year. I've told myself
that.
I think that everyone should try New
York for a year.
That's what a lot of people say.
Yeah. I really feel like you learn a lot
about yourself in New York. It's a
really tough city and it's very
uncomfortable, but that's what that's
its charm actually.
Yeah. What is it about New York though?
It's uncomfortable. It's just like so
it's everything's expensive. It's very
like you don't get a lot of space.
It's dirty. It smells. It's like the the
the weather is like really harsh. And I
kind of like that because it keeps me
like on my toes and it kind of like
keeps me I don't know. It's like a cold
shower. It's the equivalent of like a
cold shower. Like I don't know. It's
hard to explain.
That makes sense.
You learn a lot about yourself when
you're like under those conditions.
I feel like all of the people that I
know that have spoken about living in
New York speak very fondly of it.
Yeah. I don't think I'm going to live
there, you know, past my after I turn
30, but I' probably going to spend my
20s in New York just because it's
I don't know. There's, you know, there's
plenty of things wrong with it. Tax is
one of them. But, um, it's just, like I
said, I'm someone who like maximizes
like cares a lot about experiences and I
I go through a lot there, like in a lot
of different ways, in a lot of different
areas of my life, personal, work,
everything. So, I don't know. I've
learned a lot about myself just because
there's a lot of trials there.
What about those experiences? Like what
stands out to you? Um like this past
year a lot of like personal experiences
like dealing with friends like a lot of
my personal relationships. Um part of
that is also like living in a creator
house like obviously very complicated
but I've learned so much about like
navigating some things like even stuff
like me not being a confrontational
person but then by then by nature of
like trying to do business and then also
live with friends like having to work on
that skill. That's an example of like
something in my personal life. um just
areas of growth that like you would find
you would not find unless you were fa
like put in those specific situations. I
think like every every few months like I
go through like some stuff in New York
and I learn a lot about like myself and
I think I come out usually like a better
person just having grown and it's not
always just like career stuff a lot of
personal stuff and um I care I care a
lot about like the personal career work
life balance so it's important to me to
like focus on everything.
Yeah.
So we're going to be taking questions
from our audience from the fans on
Patreon. Okay. Here are some questions
for you from Ben. What is your process
from making videos to uploading videos?
I feel like we answered that pretty
well.
Yeah. Uh, plan out a day, bring my
camera around.
Mhm.
Is there anything in that day that you
know hits with the audience? You're
like, they love when I go to this one
coffee shop.
Not necessarily. I do try to fit in a
talking segment into every video, which
doesn't always work out because people
click off of like talking segments
usually in a vlog. Like you see the
retention go like this when you start
talking. But I do think like it's really
important to build that audience
relationship by talking to them
directly. Like a lot of times it's more
like the viewers just like sorry like
watching in on you versus like you're
actually there and they're talking
directly to you. I think that's a
different type of creator.
Where do you source? Do you use stock
B-roll?
Stock B-roll? No.
You don't stock B-roll?
Yeah.
No,
you don't use any stock B-roll?
No. Why would I use stock B-roll? What
if there's a something you're trying to
explain and there's a really nice, you
know, stock footage or something?
I don't know. I just never have used
B-roll like that. I mean, I use my own
B-roll. I don't use stock B-roll. Just
not my style.
That's interesting. I feel like all we
use is stock B-roll
pretty much.
Pretty much.
That's like every all of the Huh.
I don't know. I just never have like
I'm showing my life. It's weird if I
kind of show someone else's footage.
Shelby Church, I think, does the same.
She films such good B-roll. I think
she's got a backlog. She has to have a
catalog. It just was like her walking in
a hund different spots like her in a
grocery store and like different
buildings and stuff and then she could
pull back from this,
right? I also don't do voiceovers like
Oh, yeah.
So, that's a little different.
Why not? Don't you think that would be a
good idea?
I'm I want to experiment more with
voiceovers just cuz it's a little bit
more versatile. I just like for the
longest time I've been doing this and
just talking.
So, that's what I'm used to. But, I'm
actually really interested in like
experimenting more. What about walking
around with that thing? Do you get
embarrassed like filming out in public?
Not anymore. Like in the beginning.
Yeah. But I got over it real quick. Just
a lot of just like loud and proud, you
know? Just like really just you got for
me it's like if I don't do it, no one's
going to do it for me. If I don't do it
right, then I'm if I don't get the high
enough this is not a good shot, you
know? Like this is the right shot.
Yeah.
Straight on. Like what about looks at
you in public or do people ever try to
interfere cuz yourself they like, "Hey."
Yeah. Um, I read 4-hour work week my
freshman year of college and in there
there's a bunch of like uncomfortable
exercises that you're supposed to do and
one of them was like lying on the ground
in a public area for like 5 minutes. So
in the middle of uh lunch like in my
college dining hall
cafeteria
dining hall I would just lie down in the
middle like you know you you're scared
of judgment
you were doing it.
No, I just do it like and people are
just like what are you doing? um or just
random stuff like p push-ups in the
middle of nowhere and like weirdest
looks obviously very judgmental looks
and like a lot of judgment from my my
friends and like people that I was like
meeting because it's a freshman year of
college. Um but it really trained me
like super well to just like not care
like I need what what I need to get done
I get done. Like I don't care if it's
like this and if I have to yell or
whatever it's just like
practice. It's cool.
Yeah.
What other like challenges did you do
from the 4-hour work week? That was the
one that was the most memorable. I don't
really remember.
I think there's one it was maintain eye
contact until the other person looks
away.
Did I did that where you just maintain
eye contact until other and then it gets
very uncomfortable really fast
with someone you're not talking to?
Yeah. [laughter] I would
So you're saying like you're sitting
over here, there's someone else sitting
over there and you just stare.
No, even even during a conversation like
you want to look away.
We could do it right now. Like really?
Yeah. G and I could have a little
We both read the book. So
So we're just going to go forever
really. Like I can probably just go
forever unless I just like keep talking
and get you to look away. But yeah, we
can just gaze into each other.
You really want to look away.
I know. Like right now, is that a point?
[laughter]
Now, now my eyes are just getting
watery. So, I was like also not
blinking. So, that wasn't helping.
It's okay to blink.
Yeah, it's okay to blink. It's actually
weirder if you don't blink.
That could be an added layer. [laughter]
Try that and then report back on the
next episode.
Yeah.
Just with a stranger.
Yeah,
it could be with a Chipotle tomorrow
that you're talking to like the order
Chipotle, but stare at them until they
look away. Yeah.
I mean, that's not hard cuz I mean, if
I'm speaking to someone, I actually
maintain I actually maintain eye
contact. [laughter]
I feel like I do it pretty well and I'm
not really scared to look.
You should do it with people that are
just like walking by.
I think would be harder. If I was just
sitting down,
you know, biting my burrito,
just staring intently.
Depends how you're eating the burrito.
How [laughter] else would you eat it?
Would you eat it sideways like this?
The joke is lost.
I got it, Graham. It's okay. [laughter]
But
yeah, I don't know. I think that's
definitely something I try. Got a
lollipop,
a popsicle.
Yeah, the the props might not really
help, but no, it's great. I actually,
you know, you were just talking about
being uncomfortable in public. This will
help
like not uncomfort, sorry, not
uncomfortable in public. Uncomfortable
asking people questions in public
settings.
Yeah,
it it'll actually [laughter] help a lot.
Like um the eye contact thing is big.
I got to practice that. You can lie down
a lot actually. Okay, I'll report back.
Yeah,
I'll report back. All right. Well, cool.
Well, thank you. I really appreciate
this. Thanks for coming to Vegas. Thanks
for coming on.
Thanks for having me.
Yeah, you're welcome.
Uh, did you get your free stock in the
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with that said, you guys, thank you so
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Elliot, for coming over here. Very of
you. With that said, you guys, until
next time. Until next time. Cool.