Video summary
Michelle Khare, a former professional cyclist and BuzzFeed video producer with over 3 million YouTube subscribers, shares her journey of merging athleticism with entrepreneurship through her channel, Challenge Accepted. After winning nationals in cycling during college, she worked grueling hours at the peak of BuzzFeed's popularity before deciding to leave in 2017 to take full ownership of her content. Her transition involved significant financial risk; she moved into a frugal apartment and cut expenses six months prior to quitting, aiming to be comfortable with potential failure while carving out her own path as an immigrant who wanted to avoid following a prescribed trajectory. Khare explains that the first major success for her independent channel came from a strategic "bait-and-switch" video where she hired Marvel stunt teams to film a high-production trailer instead of doing a standard sit-down interview, which helped launch her career on YouTube without relying solely on viral luck or established shows like those produced by The Try Guys. The core format of Challenge Accepted involves Khare committing to extreme challenges over extended periods, such as training for five weeks with Steve Zim to become a Victoria's Secret runway model or running 30 miles in the marathon video sponsored by Brooks. These projects often cost between $20,000 and $30,000 per episode but are monetized through a diversified revenue strategy that includes AdSense, high-level brand deals requiring specific pay structures, and her paid fitness app, MK Fit. The app features white-labeled video demonstrations of exercises she performs in the videos, recipe guides, and direct messaging capabilities where Khare personally responds to users during challenges like the 10K run event. This multi-stream approach ensures financial stability even if a single high-cost video does not immediately recoup its production expenses through views alone. Khare's business is deeply intertwined with her personal life, particularly her relationship with creative director and fiancé Garrett, whom she met while working on her channel after leaving BuzzFeed. They established strict "rules of engagement" to separate their professional work hours from their romantic time, creating a structured environment that allows for both high-level creativity and healthy intimacy despite the pressures of running a business together. Their upcoming wedding in Malibu is being planned as content itself, with Khare aiming to cover costs through video production and sponsorships rather than traditional spending, reflecting her philosophy on investing in "tentpole memory experiences" that feel longer and more meaningful over time. She also discusses how she balances the rigorous schedule of filming multiple videos a year—often taking months for editing alone—with personal life by learning when to say no and maintaining clear boundaries between work mode and relationship hours. Looking toward the future, Khare aims to secure an Emmy nomination for Challenge Accepted while expanding her content strategy beyond just fitness challenges into interviews with extraordinary individuals in various fields like finance and law enforcement. She acknowledges that growth brings intimidation regarding hiring new talent who fit their specific mission or entering other business ventures outside of content creation, but she remains focused on the main channel as the primary funnel driving all other revenue streams. Her biggest financial mistake was purchasing a Tesla Full Self-Driving unit for a video review that underperformed and failed to generate sufficient ad revenue to cover its cost, serving as a lesson in judging ROI based on audience interest rather than just personal passion or product quality. Ultimately, Khare emphasizes the importance of listening to one's gut instinct over external advice; she notes that every time she has gone against her intuition regarding projects like merchandise lines or specific video ideas, she lost money and felt miserable, reinforcing her belief in dedicating 100% effort only to ventures where she feels a genuine obsession.
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Michelle Khare has amassed over 3
million subscribers with her unique
ability to take on the world's most
demanding challenges.
From marine boot camp to FBI Academy to
training like a Victoria's Secret
supermodel, Michelle has completely
lived it all while sharing her
experiences for the entire world to see.
Today we're diving into the business of
Michelle, getting an inside look into
some of the most demanding careers of
the 21st century, seeing which careers
make the most amount of money, and all
of that starts as soon as you subscribe.
Did you subscribe, Jack?
No.
Are you going to do it? Yes. Okay.
Welcome back to the Ice Coffee Hour. My
name is Michelle, and if I had to guess,
I think that the podcast has made $2
million.
Oh, man. No.
Divide it by like 10. Yeah, and then it
would be closer. $270,000
exactly today. Just off of AdSense. Just
off of AdSense. Just off of AdSense,
yeah. And here we are
we are
back at the old abode.
I know. We're in LA for VidSummit, and
so we make do, and we're back at our old
spot now. So, uh Thank you so much for
being able to make this happen, for
coming down here, and uh here's what I
found interesting. Colin and Samir
called you the most badass person. What
was it? In the world, or what what is
this?
Not in the world. I think Colin said in
the world.
Yeah.
is it on YouTube? On YouTube.
[laughter]
On the in the universe. And I have to
say, I recently watched your marathon
video where you ran 30 miles, and I
watched your progression through that,
and then I went through the backlog. And
I've seen your videos before in the
past, but I think it was about a week
and a half, 2 weeks ago where when you
posted that video, I went through all
the other videos.
I was I was really impressed because it
looked like these movie production
uh videos that you're posting on
YouTube, like joining the SWAT team, the
911 dispatch. And you've done these
incredible careers for like a week, and
then documented that. It's incredible.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Thank you so much. Thanks for the views.
Yeah, you're you're welcome. [laughter]
How did you get started on that? And you
start with BuzzFeed, is that correct?
Yeah, so um when I moved to LA I
actually moved out because I was signed
to a professional cycling team for road
cycling. My senior year of college I
somehow won nationals and so I got
signed and moved to LA. And while I was
here I was also working at Buzzfeed
because
being a female professional athlete is
not a very lucrative thing specifically
in cycling you can't speak for other
sports and so I was literally like
waking up at 4:00, training, going to
work, making you know the crazy Buzzfeed
videos you've seen
and then after work training again,
going to sleep. Friday I would leave
work, fly somewhere in the world, race,
come back. It was a pretty wild
experience at the same time so I was
growing as an athlete and also as a
video producer.
And so it kind of got to this point
where I was like, I feel like I should
merge these two loves. And so I left my
job at Buzzfeed and started Challenge
Accepted which is a series I do on my
channel and I kind of said goodbye to
professional cycling because I felt like
I could reach a larger audience if I
took my skill set of athleticism and
everything I learned from being on a
professional team and applied it to
profession. I'm really curious cuz you
said that you won nationals so there was
a time where you were the best female
cycler like basically in high school? A
very brief time.
Cycler. Cycler or cyclist? Yeah,
[laughter] cycler or cyclist?
And well in a very specific event the
criterium under 23. That's interesting
so I did cross country in high school
and I noticed that a lot of the hard
work and effort that I put into cross
country translates into so many other
facets of my life. Have you noticed that
your history in cycling
translates to some other growth in your
professional career? Yeah, absolutely. I
would I would say that just like being
able to be regimented, waking up early,
committing fully to everything I do, all
of that comes from
that arena of life.
there's a big crossover between people
who are good at fitness and who are
successful in other areas cuz anyone
who's like really buff or like really
dedicated to their craft of like working
out, I've noticed though, they tend to
be good in other areas too because of
the same qualities it takes to like go
to the gym, do stuff when you don't feel
like it. You have to have an affinity
for pain
and an understanding that on the other
side of pain is something greater. Yeah.
And that applies to any form of
entrepreneurship.
it's also delayed gratification because
if you go to the gym once, you're like,
"Why didn't I get a six-pack?" Then it's
like you want to see the progression
over a year and not necessarily like
here's a day or a week.
Also, if you're physically fit, you feel
more motivated just in general and
feeling better obviously will translate
to working harder.
Yeah. How do you get a job at BuzzFeed?
How did that start? What What year was
this? Oh my gosh.
Like was this that This was like that
2014.
So like as Buzz BuzzFeed was like the
heyday, like going through their thing.
Was that
the heyday and then I sort of witnessed
that The rise and fall, okay. I I left
before
fall
[laughter]
The rise and fall To be blunt with it,
Graham. I don't think the title of the
video has to say the rise and fall of It
It sounds exactly like a SunnyV2 video.
I'm watching too many of these videos
now.
Yeah.
[laughter]
I watch all of them. But so yeah, the
rise and fall of BuzzFeed. Um I honestly
just applied and I got an opportunity to
interview.
And as part of the interview process,
you have to say like you check a box as
if you live in Los Angeles. Obviously, I
checked the box but I didn't. Um so when
I got the interview, I
like the little savings I had and I was
like, "I'm just going to buy a
round-trip ticket to LA for 24 hours.
Hope I get it." Thank god I did
and I moved to LA. What's the pay like
when you started BuzzFeed? Is it Is it
good or I I've I've heard they
maybe don't pay the most competitive but
it's BuzzFeed so it's like you want to
get your foot in the door. Well, I mean
I think that at that time, the
connotation of BuzzFeed was very
different than it is now. Um and again,
this was like like you just mentioned,
kind of on the rise to peak. I think the
peak viewership was in 2015. I I might
have that wrong. Um but it was like a
really cool place to work and to learn
and as you know even from your
experience working
for Graham and everything you've learned
from that you make those sacrifices at
the beginning of your career. So it was
definitely like hourly like just barely
above minimum wage. Definitely make a
lot more as a solo YouTuber than you do.
And what was the appeal to BuzzFeed for
you? So I am very I'm a very structured
person. I work very well when there's a
coach figure in my life and I'd seen a
lot of other YouTubers just sort of I
put up a video and then I went viral and
and now I have a career out of it. But
at that time I felt like there were very
few case studies of a procedural
approach to success on YouTube and
BuzzFeed to me was like a Disney Channel
of YouTube at the time. It was an
opportunity to oh I could go I can be on
a show there or learn learn the whole
industry and then after my career at
Disney Channel is done I go on and do
something else. So that's sort of how I
saw it. I saw it almost as like instead
of going to grad school and going in
debt for grad school okay I'm going to
go to grad school for YouTube and learn
everything and I and I did. What were
you doing for them exactly? So my
technical title was video producer. So
that really meant [laughter]
everything. Yeah sure. So we would have
to conceptualize the videos film them
edit them and upload six a month. And
what's the process like? Who comes up
with the ideas? Is this all on you and
you do you run the ideas by if that's
the case? Well again it's been a it's
been quite a while since I've been there
but at the time we would you know have
group brainstorms. We were kind of
divided into different teams. There was
a team for like food videos or
IRL scripted videos. There was
unscripted so we would sort of
brainstorm as a team things would get
greenlit and then you'd go off and shoot
and edit everything.
Speaking of whatever happened to that
one guy did the food did like the the
most expensive food the least yeah. What
happened to it? Are they still doing
that? Um so, he, Steven Lim,
um
Ryan and Shane, who were the guys from
BuzzFeed Unsolved, they left and started
their own YouTube channel called
Watcher. Are they not doing that format
anymore? Cuz it was so good. I loved
when they were in the car and the guys
in the back with the audio things like
tinkering. I miss those videos. It was
really special. Um I don't think they're
doing that exact series anymore cuz
they're not at BuzzFeed and I'm assuming
it's owned by them, but they do kind of
similar content on there.
Sure.
Got it. And when did you decide to
leave? I decided to leave in 2017.
And I kind of got to this point where
a lot of creators that are probably the
most famous creators, they're like
Quinta, The Try Guys, etc.
They were sort of moved into this really
cool department called
development department, develop They all
got these special contracts. And I sort
of reached this point where I was like I
could either stay here and wait for the
opportunity to be given a contract or I
could leave and like really bet on
myself and see if I can do it and own
the whole thing in the process.
Yeah. So, I I really took a risk, but I
I just put in my two weeks and I was
like, "I've got to do something for me
because again, like
being, you know, an a first-generation
immigrant, um
my dad moved here with nothing. I felt
like my whole life I'd sort of done
stuff that followed a specific path,
whether it was like get a good SAT
score, go to a college, do this, do
this. And I was like, "You know what? I
want to try carving my own and if it
fails, then you'll come back and work
here again." Were you making videos on
the side already or were you just a
BuzzFeed, you had some savings and
decided to make the the leap? So, I
would say like 6 to 12 months before I
left, I decided to move into
a small studio apartment, cut down all
of my expenses. I stopped doing like
literally everything. I I'm pulled the
Gram stuff and lifestyle full frugality.
It's great. It's great. I'm happy. A
duplex, yeah.
[laughter]
I drive a Prius. All right.
Um not even a Prius, like a really like
10-year-old car.
in watches. Okay.
[laughter]
Um no watches.
Ford GT as an investment.
Um and I I did that because I wanted to
train myself to be comfortable with
failure. If I go out and do something
entrepreneurial and I make no money
doing it, I'm going to have to be
comfortable with this lifestyle. And so
I decided why not get comfortable there.
So everything else is a fun surprise.
Every form of success is a surprise. Um
yeah, but thankfully the channel did
well. Is it right off the bat? Was it
like an instant success? Like what was
the first video you posted? So the first
So I did a why I left BuzzFeed video
because everybody did, right? Um
honestly
pop off, right?
They did. Yeah. And I think a lot of
people look at those videos and like,
"Oh, it's like a way to get tea or drama
for views or whatever." And I was like,
"You know what? I think people are just
going to click on this video because of
the title." So I instead of sit-down
talk to camera about my experience cuz I
was like, "Nobody actually cares." I
decided to make it Marvel trailer. So I
hired a bunch of people who were like in
the Marvel stunt team to craft this
fight scene and it was meant to be like
a trailer for my channel. So it's kind
of a fun bait and switch surprise. Sure.
But when I posted that video, I got a
couple hundred thousand subscribers. Now
again, when other people have left
BuzzFeed, they've grown a million
followers in a week. That was not me.
And so from there, I had just had steady
grind. You know, like grinding out
videos, pushing myself because again,
like I didn't have an established show
like the Try Guys or anything when I was
there. I really kind of developed that
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today. And now, let's get back to the
podcast. I'm curious when you put in
your 2 weeks, did they not try to fight
for you to keep you around? Cuz I still
feel like, although you maybe didn't you
didn't have like a dedicated show, you
were still kind of a staple of Thank
you. Um I
You know, I had I had some meetings when
I was there before I left, but
ultimately, I I stayed firm in my wants,
and they were not
at the time, I think, seeing the value
in keeping me on in that capacity.
Again, because I wasn't like a try guy
or anything like that. And other people
had left. Um
and I was just really firm in what I
wanted in the level Oh. Oh, wow. You're
good. You're good.
[laughter]
Don't worry.
That's terrifying. Oh my god, I was
like, "Fuzzy is talking right now."
[laughter]
I think I was just really firm in what I
wanted, and honestly, like, the things I
wanted, I could have only gotten doing
myself, having full ownership of the
show, having complete creative control.
You can really only get that when you
totally own something end to end. So,
even if they had come back with like,
"Oh, we'll pay you this much, or this,
that, or the other." I don't think I
would have gotten the actual value I
wanted until I actually had left, which
is why
you know, you see so many people have
left, even regardless of whatever
contract they had. How long was it until
you stumbled upon the current format of
your of your channel? It probably took
me a year of trial and error on my own
YouTube channel before
we developed what people know today as
Challenge Accepted.
And what was the first one you did? The
first one that I did, technically, I I
did a video where I trained like a
Victoria's Secret model for 5 weeks, and
I found this guy named Steve who is like
in Culver City, and he's trained
multiple of the Victoria's Secret runway
models. And, you know, back then, in
like 2018, I guess, that was sort of a
hot topic is like, how are these women
actually preparing for this runway show?
I'm someone who is very short, so I
would never get hired by Victoria's
Secret anyways, but I thought, what
would happen if I, you know, as a a
normal person, would push myself to do
something like this, following the diet,
following everything, and just see what
happens. And, um the video ended up
doing really well, and so I I found
myself at this crux, like,
you have these difficult decisions where
you can do what's easy, like you could
do a video that takes end to end to
produce, or you could do something that
takes a really long time to produce,
and bet on it, you know? Like, I don't
know when I put up a video that I've
spent 6 months of time [clears throat]
filming if it's going to do
astronomically well, but I will know
that it's a great product, and that
video really challenged me to do that.
Yeah. Oh my god, we spent 5 weeks
training for this, 3 weeks editing, put
it up,
God knows how it will do,
And thankfully it
did well. So it really encouraged me to
just put my head down and really commit
fully to every single video I make. What
was that process like? Can you walk us
through what it was like training? And
like what was the most surprising from
that?
The that for that specifically was a
yeah. Oh my gosh.
was involved in that? Um
[laughter]
Graham's looking for a new training
regimen. Yeah, yeah. He's taking notes.
So uh again, I was working with Steve
Zim who's a fantastic trainer. So I'd
pretty much just show up at like 6:00 or
7:00 every day, work out there for 2
hours, go home. There was a very
specific meal plan that I followed. And
from there it was just rinse and repeat.
And I would say with any challenge,
whether it's fitness or otherwise, the
first week is really exciting because
it's oh my gosh, I have a new lifestyle,
I'm really committed, I feel a lot of um
excitement about it. It's a whole mind
and body shift. And I find that in every
single video I do. It doesn't matter if
it's training like Victoria's Secret
model, training like a chess
grandmaster. Every single video I do
where I have to commit to something for
an extended period of time, it's a
complete like metamorphosis, in a way.
Have any of these habits stuck with you?
Let's say that the 2 hours of working
out in the morning and egg whites, like
I bet if I did that for a few months,
I'd just stick with it. I'd just
continue that. No, it's really easy to
stick to it when you have a video or
like a specific goal in mind. But the
time period after, like once you put up
the video, is this very bizarre like no
man's land. And someone I know, another
creator, actually did a video recently
where they like did a body
transformation for 5 weeks. And he
texted me, he's like, "Is it normal to
feel completely directionless after the
video goes up?" And I was like, "Yes,
completely normal." Um but I find unless
unless I have a video or like a very
specific goal, it doesn't
work for me. Like it doesn't become like
a full habit shift. Now obviously
aspects of things, like from my military
videos for example, anytime I've worked
with the military or a you know, a a
distinct government organization, I
reaffirm that appreciation for waking up
early and like every minute of every day
can be effectively used. Um but I don't
fully like I haven't like fully changed
my life necessarily from one. It's kind
of like picking and pulling the things
that I love the most out of each.
What would you say was your least
favorite to train for? Chess. Really?
Why is that? Do you just not like chess?
[laughter]
Well, what was the hardest? It was the
hardest. There were lots of things I
loved about chess and so many great
people who tried to help me out learn
chess when I did it. Um but chess was
absolutely the most difficult for me.
Um because it was fully mental challenge
and
I like I was a pretty academic person
growing up. Like I was I loved math and
but and I thought, okay, I like math.
Chess Chess is math, right? Is it? I
don't even know.
math? I don't even know.
Obviously aspects of chess are math,
yeah, but
it's definitely a different muscle
beyond academia or physical ability. I
don't even how to describe it, but it
literally drove me crazy cuz it was in
the pandemic, so I couldn't film
a lot of the normal stuff I I usually
film and people had requested chess for
a while, so I
decided I gave myself this arbitrary
goal of a thousand ELO, which is like a
ranking within chess. I said, okay, I'm
going to try and get a thousand and one
of the chess coaches I was working with,
another YouTuber, Gotham Chess, like,
okay, you can get there in a
month, maybe three months. It took me
eight months. This video is eight months
of footage of me just pouring my heart
and soul over a freaking chessboard,
losing my mind in the pandemic. Like I
felt
I was going through so many arcs. Like
the world was shutting down. I was like
stuck inside my brain, but that was
chess is I I admit defeat to chess. I
feel like I've succeeded
it? What about chess? Like what was the
most
difficult part about that? Cuz I know
it's all strategy and like this piece
goes here. It's just a game of like
logic, right? Or do you have to
logic a lot of it's memorization. Is it?
Yeah, but isn't it some you have to know
your opponent and like they're more
likely to play aggressive and therefore
I have to like build around that.
There's a there's a lot of knowing the
opponent, studying [clears throat] their
opening versus yours, adjusting your
defense against their opening. Like the
permutations of chess are just literally
infinite and it kind of drove me crazy.
Just a little. But I think that it it
bothered it was tough for me to sit with
myself. In every other challenge,
there's a physical component. I'm moving
through something. I understand that
pain as an athlete.
Mhm. Um but for some reason chess,
because I couldn't
there wasn't like a meditation to it for
me like there is moving my body
physically. That makes sense.
Is there a point you wanted to give up
on that one? Oh my god.
in between.
Scrap scrap this idea.
I mean I I think there was even a a
segment of time where I was like I got
to take a week off. I can't you know I I
I had to take time away. I had to come
back.
Um
It it was like wrestling this It's like
wrestling a snake or something.
[laughter]
That was crazy. But yeah, I I definitely
wanted to give up. There are a lot of
times in my videos I want to give up.
Even the marathon video that you saw
recently. I'm like do I really need to
run 30 miles in the hottest place on
Earth?
to the viewers who have not seen that
video? Yeah, so
I I my most recent upload is a video
where I ran a marathon in the hottest
place on Earth kind of to celebrate my
30th birthday, I guess. Weird weird
birthday celebration. And I wanted to do
it because
I felt like it just sounded like a crazy
thing to do. Who would run a marathon in
the hottest place on Earth? And it turns
out, as I learned, there is a group of
people who do this every summer. It's
called the Badwater 135. They run 135
miles
hottest place on Earth in Death Valley,
um which So, they're actually the true
heroes of this. But, I thought, "You
know what? I want to challenge myself to
really ring out the end of my 20s and
push myself to that next level and just
see what happens to my body and mind,
you know? What can be achieved
pushing myself to this limit?" So, I
trained for 4 weeks. I had 4 weeks to
prepare. How long is that? I know. Don't
do that, guys. What was the most
[laughter] you'd run before that? I have
done a marathon previously, but it'd
been a few years, and it wasn't in the
hottest place on Earth. Got it. Okay.
Yeah.
So, for uh for training for a marathon
of this nature, you go out, you do your
run, come home, and immediately get in a
sauna. No water. Intentionally.
What? No water. And you sit there for
like 30 minutes, just sweating and
honestly confronting that.
To acclimate to the heat.
Because even though we're here in Los
Angeles, where it's quite warm during
the summer, it doesn't compare
to Death Valley. So.
Wow. Yeah. How challenging was that?
Was that like
Pretty challenging.
That was Was that like
[laughter]
harder than the average challenge or not
as hard as the average?
It was more difficult than the average
challenge, I would say. I mean, all of
them are incredibly hard. I mean, okay,
listen. I This is going to sound crazy.
I would rather run a marathon than do 8
months of chess ever again.
Okay, what is it about this chess thing?
to Death Valley, put my ass back there,
and run a marathon in Death Valley. You
just like strongly dislike chess now?
No, I I love chess. When's the last time
you played chess casually?
of chess. Um the last game I played was
literally the game where I crossed
1,000. And I was like,
So, you're just done? Should play Alex
Botez. Oh, she's great. She She actually
helped coach me.
Really? Yeah. Okay.
Yeah. Is that it? If you do a a match
with her.
Well, I mean I would lose very promptly,
but
[laughter]
Maybe we could do chess boxing. So, she
can handle the chess and I can That's a
good idea. That's what love is.
is doing.
Yeah.
Isn't that so cool?
Yeah. Yeah. Are you You're not
participating in that?
I am not. Um That would actually be
something to participate in. Chess
boxing.
Yeah.
Yeah. That would be interesting. Are
there Are there any ideas that you've
just automatically just said no to? That
you just don't want to do or maybe it's
too dangerous or like it's just There
are ones that I have said hard no to and
then they find their way in somehow. I
end up doing them. The marathon is one
of them.
Um training like a professional gamer
was one that I did. So, I trained with
like a professional Fortnite team back
like a couple years ago when Fortnite
was a bit more popular. That one I was
like, I don't Is anyone going to care
about this video cuz I am not a person
who grew up with video games.
So, I didn't know too much about it.
Now, obviously I understand now just
like again,
being a professional gamer is another
thing that I just have even more respect
for, but probably the one I was most
skeptical of was so I went to fire
academy for like training to be a
firefighter. Yeah. And as a part of the
training they they're like, "We're going
to put you in a burning building." Now,
was this a simulated burning building or
like
fire. Real fire.
real actual fire that they did not like
they not Like a real house that was
burning.
like a
it was a my apologies. It was a training
structure. That's okay. Yeah. But the
whole thing's lit on fire. Got it. Yeah.
I thought it's like, "Hey, there's a
burning house over there. You run in
there and we'll be there in like 3
minutes. See you there."
I only had a few days of training, but
when they said that I was going to do
that I was like, "Are you actually
serious that
y'all are going to put me in a suit and
have me go in there not just sit in
there and experience what it's like to
be in a a burning structure, but there
was a challenge involved. They had a a
mannequin in there and then I like a
certain amount of time for me to get in,
drag the hose in,
spray it down, and save the the body
before it was too late. I was like, "Are
y'all actually serious here? Like I am
going in this burning building and um,
you know, obviously I'm I'm glad that I
was surrounded by incredible
professionals to help guide me safely
through all of that. But we've just
gotten to do some really crazy
once-in-a-lifetime stuff. Now, one video
I found very interesting is the 911
dispatch. Oh, thank you.
up with that idea?
Well, actually, what's interesting about
that video is So, it's the same
organization that we did the
firefighting episode with. So, I did um
it's South Metro Fire Rescue in
Colorado. They're amazing. They actually
have their own YouTube channel where
they show day-in-the-life of being a
firefighter, paramedic. So, we did the
firefighter video, we had a fantastic
experience with them. We went back and I
did a video where I went on a 24-hour
paramedic shift with them. And while we
were there, I was just thinking,
"This is obviously what we're
experiencing is crazy, but could you
imagine being the person who's answering
the phone for victim?" And then, while
on the phone with the victim, calling
out the paramedics and the firefighters
and everything. So, I was just kind of
curious. And honestly, it's sort of like
at the end of
2021 when we started thinking about this
idea,
the pandemic was still a little hit or
miss in terms of filming ability, and we
thought, "Okay, if we do 911 dispatch,
it's a bit more contained." And
honestly, I didn't know how it was going
to perform. I was like, "Are people
going to care if I'm sitting at a desk
answering the phone?"
And obviously, there's way more drama
involved than that, but I truly thought,
you know, when we put up the episode, I
was like,
"We'll see how it does." Yeah. And I did
not expect the reaction at all. Because
I think we all take for granted the
ability to call 911. Mhm. Like if
you passed out right now, we can call a
phone number and someone will come at
some point. And that is such a privilege
and
and these people sit at a desk
just waiting for those calls and waiting
to receive someone on the worst day of
their life. And the mental trauma and
the chaos, I wanted to better understand
all of that. Yeah, I don't think I could
do that. I would get too wrapped up into
emotional and like the calls. And I've
heard some of these 911 calls on TikTok.
It seems like a new
those are a new thing right now is
posting those calls on TikTok but like,
you know, um, voice and not the voice
overs but like showing some B-roll and
stuff like that. And I'm amazed at their
ability to stay so calm and unemotional
throughout the call and just and just
like they're like, "This is happening,
this is happening.
Okay, uh, so is, you know, is anyone
injured? Oh, what's the injury? Okay.
Where are you? Like like stuff like that
but they're not affected. I'd be like,
Oh, man, you
I wouldn't laugh but I'm just like I
would [laughter] No, of course not but I
but I'm just saying I I would just be
like, you know, I I wouldn't be able to
understand what they're
could do that?
And remain unemotional? No.
know, man. I feel like you'd be good at
it. You're very logical and No, I my
heart would be racing.
Yeah, I mean, when I did my
fake call with an actor Yeah. uh,
at the end of my episode, I didn't know
what kind of call I was going to get and
I was so surprised like,
"Why am I so emotionally impacted just
hearing an actor
talk to me about the birthing process
and they're having a baby in their home
and I'm the person guiding them through
that." I mean, I think I was just so
overwhelmed with
the fact that like
when I was working there and taking this
fake baby call, there were people in the
office who had actually done that
recently. Like, "Oh, yeah, I've
delivered multiple babies over the
phone."
I
was the person that parents were calling
during the STEM shooting.
It's incredible. The The fact that these
people are able to
vocally remain calm while probably
mentally going through a billion
different hurdles is it's a different
type of bravery to me. So, is it common
for 911 dispatch people to be like
constantly in therapy or in some sort of
like
what the The mental health component is
very interesting and I don't think every
dispatch location offers the services
Thankfully, South Metro does have some
services of that kind where they
um you know, for any of their employees,
I believe.
who have experienced something
specifically traumatic.
Yeah, how do they become that? Like,
what's the process like to go through
that process and say I want to answer
calls for 911? It's a pretty rigorous
process. So, I got to experience a
little bit of it in my video, but
there's like a a comprehension computer
test where it's almost like it's it's
sort of testing how quickly you can move
the mouse and give directions over the
phone, those kinds of things. There's a
typing test because while you're on the
phone, you're also typing to the
paramedics what's going on. So, you're
listening and then going through.
Um so, that's a lot of the skills and
then of course an interview and doing
some of those mock calls like I did to
see how you actually perform under
pressure. Wow. And what's your process
like now for picking a video and like
what what does that look like? I pick
the topics honestly based on things that
I'm very curious about and
people will comment and ask for
for specific things, but something we
did this summer was I actually went to
the International Butler Academy in
Europe. It's this castle in the middle
of the Netherlands where they train the
butlers that go on to serve like the
royal family, presidents, billionaires.
The profession of butlering is one that
I didn't even know
Wait, it's called butlering? I think
that's the verb. How do you know that it
still exists, honestly? I thought that
was gone like 100 years ago.
You You've heard of that, Jack? No, no.
Just being a butler, period. Oh, yeah.
that crazy?
Is that They still Do they call them
butlers? I feel like Really? No,
obviously some of the graduates still go
on to like
work at five-star hotels or
Executive assistants or something like
that.
Yeah, or like butler service on cruises.
Yeah, some of these people go on to work
for like private jet families, like
maybe become a part of the family.
training like for that? Like why does
someone need to be trained to be a a
butler? The training for Butler Academy
is fascinating. I really can't wait for
this video to come out, but
um
it's a combination of like learning the
specifics on every form of etiquette.
There was a 3-hour class I sat in on
tea. If it's a green tea, it steeps at
this temperature for this long, and then
you remove this, and it should be served
with honey, not sugar. Like
there was a whole like chart [snorts]
like diagrams for every form of
etiquette. One of the tasks I have to do
is set a table. Did you know that there
is a
measurement-accurate way to set a table?
Like as in this many centimeters from
the fork is the is the is the spoon and
the knife and
measure that out?
With these big
like measuring sticks. They pull them
out, and it has to be measured
perfectly. He gave me 45 minutes to do a
place setting, and I failed. Why does it
matter? That's a really good question.
And I think that's something I ask in
like every episode or challenge that I
take on. Why does it Why does it matter,
or why would you want to do this? What's
fascinating about the Butler Academy is
I looked these students in the eyes. I'm
like, why are you doing this? What are
you doing this for? And they all
genuinely in their heart wanted to
serve. They They receive like it's a It
They must be a unique gene, in my
opinion, but they genuinely find their
life's purpose is to
help other people.
Yeah.
And the the measurement thing, I was
like I looked That's a little over the
was like, "Why? Why are we doing this?"
Because when it's done correctly, it's
it's almost an art form. It just looks
so beautiful. And I guess to some
clients at dinner, whatever you you
know, whoever you're trying to impress,
those little things that they might not
even notice, that's what a butler is
responsible for. It's the unspoken and
unseen things that make you feel good
inside.
I feel like if I had a butler, I would
just become their friend. And then
they'd just like be hanging out with me
all the time. It wouldn't like they
couldn't really serve me anymore because
like we'd Yeah, I feel bad asking them
to do stuff like that. Like, "Hey, this
fork is like a centimeter off." Like, I
couldn't I I wouldn't care. Right.
so many things that I would just let
slide cuz I'm
[laughter]
just let it slide. That's not a big
deal. Oh, yeah, that you know, that's
fine. I'd be probably too easy. I mean,
I I learned that I don't think I'm cut
out to be a butler, but having one would
be great.
What is the pay like? Let's say they
graduate. How much do they make
afterwards? Six figures. Really? Oh my
gosh.
It's a 12-week program. You graduate and
Wait a second. So you're saying someone
without a college degree can go through
a 12-week program and make a hundred
thousand dollars?
hustle right there. Add that to your
next video. Why aren't people doing
this? Cuz I'd much rather do that than
work like four years in college to maybe
Yeah, going to debt for maybe, you know,
50, 60 grand right afterwards. Why
aren't more people doing that? I think
people don't know it exists. And now
they will because of
[laughter]
my video. I don't know. Um I I guess it
Could be just happening in your I was
thinking we should withhold this
information in case YouTube falls. He
[laughter] can then go in there. He
doesn't want supply to be too It's I'm
just saying it sounds too good to be
true. A 12-week program. Like people are
going into the trades and like working
their way up as an appren- apprentice.
You know, when they could just be a
butler. Of course. I mean, I'm sure it's
so competitive. Like only the top like
10%. And a lot
of the people there had prior
hospitality service experience of some
kind. Now, not all of them had college
graduates college degrees I should say
by any means, but they all had like
worked at a nice hotel in some capacity.
They had experience before coming here.
It wasn't Well, actually No, now I'm
thinking about it. There were a couple
people who were 18 years old just
graduated high school
who were going to Balor Academy. No,
obviously getting a job after this.
That's the difficult part. But
the academy claims that many of their
students on average go on to six figure
salary.
have to learn security, too? I would
imagine that that should be part of
their training.
Just in security in general. Like if
they're out with their their employer
and something happens that they would
have some sort of security training in
addition to Yeah, I think they do that
and I believe they also do I didn't
personally get to experience this, but
they also learn some self defense, um,
how to deal with a guest that maybe at a
party that they think stolen something
like very difficult social situations
that
I mean, it's incredible what they can
do. Be like, "Sir, empty your pockets.
Let me see what's inside."
[laughter]
You know what? There's one This reminds
me of something that I think you'd be
fantastic at. There's that in England
What was it? The nanny. It was like the
super nanny one.
wanted to do a nanny school episode. I
reached out to them, but they weren't
available this summer, but
Please, the Norland School.
Yeah, that was it. And that was the one
where they they make crazy income, but
they but for me it was the security
aspect of it. Like they have the
stroller, but they have this thing where
they could like swap the stroller
around, take the kid, like shoot a gun
with the other hand. It's like, "What?"
Yeah. And a nanny?
A nanny. Yeah, they're they're trained
with like firearms. And like like
accuracy and like every weapon you could
imagine.
But but they say that the salaries are
like 150,000 dollars a year when they
get to the chamber. But they could like
seriously think of a a good nanny a
wealthy person would easily pay 300
grand a year for someone that travels
with them who has security training.
Yeah.
It's incredible and and the interviews
of the people who go through that
genuinely love kids Mhm.
want to do it and it makes a ton of
money. Just like the butler academy. I
was like why why do you want to do this?
And
the genuine like they they one of the
instructors we met with he said that one
of the greatest joys was when he felt
that his
boss had accepted as part of the family.
Like that was
for him
a life milestone. Is buttling a 9-5 or
is it like a
like a 24/7 type situation. I'm sure
that you know in a lot of like upper
class households who have this type of
service there are shifts [clears throat]
or multiple butlers. Um
but in a way you're you're the house
manager. If something goes wrong with
the house or the family you're there.
It'd be so hard to have a life outside
of buttling. Like having a girlfriend or
boyfriend or I had a friend in high
school who had a live-in
nanny since he was a kid. Like I think
since like you know he was born there
was always a live-in nanny and she was a
part of the family. I mean just like
she'd be at all the family events. I
mean they embraced her as just like you
know
as you would like a brother or a sister.
Yeah. And I think she continued to live
in the house even after he moved out cuz
she's just that a part of the household.
And she's like she was in her like you
know 60s I think at that point but um
just it seems like a great relationship.
You're really happy.
I think it'd be cool to talk a little
bit about the business structure
you have.
I've I've been waiting for this
question.
Here we go. I'm curious about it too
because it seems the videos are so well
produced Thank you.
I'd imagine there's there's more than
just like you and one person with a
camera. Let's guess the size of her
team. I'm going to say I'm going to say
they're probably
two to three full-time people. And then
three to
five half-time.
Like part-time.
Do you have a guess? Yeah. No, no, no. I
want to guess. You probably have
two people for for
camera work. I would say two people for
editing and then one person for like
management and stuff. I'm going to say
five.
Okay. So, we have in addition to myself
three full-time employees, so you're
perfect on right on there. And then we
have like
probably 10 different freelancers that
come in and out for filming. Whenever we
do an episode like marathon, that was a
crew of 13 people. Wow. Yeah. That's
incredible.
Yeah. So.
So, walk us through like walk us through
first like your average day. Like an
average work day. How do
What is that Well, what does that
process look like? Just in general.
so like
yeah, I got it. Okay. So,
my day is very completely based on what
I'm training for, but typically the way
it goes is I'll wake up early. I will go
and get my training done. For So, for
example, earlier this year I did a video
where I trained like an Olympic boxer
for 100 days. So, I would go super early
in the morning, train, come home,
shower, and then the rest of the day I
spend producing. So, I would say that my
strongest skill set is in organization
and Google calendar, email management,
like
me and Carissa do a lot of all of that
crazy planning. So, when we shoot with
the FBI, when we shoot with Secret
Service, it's me on those calls. It's me
picking the crew and making schedules
and everything. So, I I get like a weird
sadistic
joy out of that type of stuff. So,
that's pretty much what I spend the
majority of my day doing and then in the
afternoon I'll do some sort of recovery
like an ice bath so I'll do an ice bath,
cook dinner
go to bed and do it all over again. But
this is coupled with like
you know in a couple weeks we're going
to fly out and shoot a video so we'll be
gone for a week but then I'm also while
we're on set waking up early taking
calls training for the other projects
while I'm training for something else.
At any given time I'm probably training
for two to three different projects at
once. But to kind of answer your thing
about like what's a day like?
Um like a year or two ago there was one
day where in the morning I went and I
piloted a fighter jet for NASA training
and then in the afternoon I went to
ballet class or training like a
ballerina for six weeks so
it it's really exciting which is fun. So
what's today? So today today was um
today we had a team meeting with our
editors.
Um we're working on bringing on another
editor right now which is really
exciting. We're also hiring so if you
want to want to pull a Jack and just
slide into my DMs and tell me how you
can help me that'd be great.
We're available and excited to have you.
Yeah so we were doing that and then
Carissa actually our assistant producer
she's part-time Singapore part-time LA.
So she came in last night so we were
doing stuff with her and then you're
like let's do a podcast so we cleared
off the afternoon and we're like let's
do it.
Perfect. Do you have an office or do you
work from home? That was an interesting
thing I was excited to talk to you about
cuz you're the real estate person.
Um so in the pandemic we entertained the
idea of an office or renting commercial
real estate. And
when we did the math I was like we're
going to pay so much money for a rental
on commercial real estate so what we
ended up doing
was we found a house that has a guest
house. So we re-outfitted the guest
house to be our production office and
then we live in the main house. It's a
very smart idea. That's what we had
going on.
Grim, that's something I did something
smart. You did something right this
time.
Please clip that. Oh my god, I was so
ready you're going to you're going to be
like you're doing No, no. Yeah, you
should be moving to Vegas. Yeah.
[laughter]
That's what we did here though. Jack was
in the guest house and then I was here
and then we have the office here and
some other like, you know, we use this
for filming. But it worked out really
well. I love it. I love it because we
don't have to drive anywhere to go in to
work or whatever and it just saves time
because I found that the most valuable
resource is my time because I have to
use so much of it for training, for
being in the car for whatever that every
minute matters and the the less time I
can waste even if it's just walking to
the backyard to have a conversation with
our team versus driving 10 minutes that
every minute matters.
Yeah, I think even yesterday we did a
podcast with Patty Galloway Oh, oh he's
fantastic. He's really good. I spent
more time in the car driving down there
than we did actually filming a podcast.
Wow, yeah, that's right. Yeah, but you
went to the wrong hotel. No, it was 50
minutes to go from here to Marina Del
Rey. That doesn't make any sense.
Lincoln Boulevard. Oh. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah, exactly. During rush hour
traffic. Patty was great, but it was 50
minutes down there and then I got to the
wrong hotel. So Jack [snorts] just tells
me he's at the Hyatt. I didn't know,
man. There are three Hyatt hotels on
Century Boulevard. Three, there's like
the Hyatt Regency, the Hyatt Place and
there's like another Hyatt. I show up to
the Hyatt Regency. And Jack says his
room is 1700 1207 and so I go up to
1207. I'm knocking on the door and I
hear the shower going and so I called
Jack. I'm like, "Hey, no, you know, the
shower's running." He's like, "No,
Humphrey's there. He'll let you in." I'm
thinking maybe Humphrey's is in the
shower so I just wait.
went to the wrong hotel, stranger's
room. Oh my god.
so but I hear the shower keep going and
then I'm just like I'm still knocking.
They're not getting it but I hear the
shower going and then I called Jack
back. Give me Humphrey's number. I'm
like,
call Humphrey. Then he says, "Oh, let me
open the door for you." I'm like, he's
in the shower. [laughter] Opens it up,
he's like, "You're not here. You got the
wrong hotel." So packed everything up,
went to the right hotel.
you have a great story.
Now I have a great story. So that's that
person was taking a shower and they're
knocking. I'm curious like if they open
and be like, "Am here for Jack?" I don't
know.
gosh. Yeah. Oh, and the only reason I
got up to the room, by the way, was
someone else went to the 17th floor and
used their key card. Oh my gosh.
Yeah.
That was the only reason. It's just you
were like
about it though. That was fine. But
yeah, no, I think I think that uh that
time aspect is extremely important.
Yeah. Do you know how much it how much
it costs to make your average video?
Yeah, so our average videos these days
are anywhere from 20 to 30,000 dollars.
Wow. Yeah. And how often are you
posting? Once a month. Oh my gosh. That
is more than I thought.
Did Did you
do this math prior to coming on or do
you just know just you Well, I figured
you guys were going to ask me. I just
know it already.
Wow. Does that make you nervous in case
the video gets demonetized or it doesn't
perform or are you pretty confident that
Um so the way that
kind of our business The way that our
business is working currently is
obviously we have AdSense and brand
deals are awesome. And then we also have
a fitness app that we run. So there's
kind of an expectation of a certain
level of income per [snorts] month. And
so we allocate it in various ways across
the different projects. But typically
for some of the the bigger episodes like
the marathon for example, we're not
going to do unless we have a sponsor
involved and it's of a certain
pay structure.
Yeah. So do you figure this out ahead of
time? Like you have this video idea, you
go to the sponsor, negotiate and say,
"We'll get you this video in 3 months."
Wait for the video.
for the marathon video it was a really
amazing opportunity. We partnered with
Brooks for that. So we actually made
like a full outline with like pictures
and you know, temp VO and everything and
we pitched it to them and they were
really into it, thankfully, and they
offered to not only pay for the episode
and, you know, like a brand deal rate,
but also they provided us professional
athletes to be in the episode. They came
out, they supported me. It was a really
cool partnership. So, I'm always looking
for those like bigger, more tentpole
situations because we have so few videos
to choose from, you know, 12 to 15 a
year, probably,
um that I am pretty
strict on who we work with and how it's
going to work and when payments come in
and so on. Should do a day on Wall
Street. Please.
That would be That would be really
interesting.
That would be good. If you did that with
like a good uh sponsor like
public.com/graham,
you would be I That video would do so
well. If you rang the bell on Wall
Street, I don't know how you could do
that. I'm sure somebody watching this
podcast would be able to make it but But
now I want to do that, too. Now I want
that Yeah, we'd both do it. We'd both do
it. That would be great.
I'll produce the video so you don't have
to worry about
Yeah, honestly, if you get that
opportunity, I'd love to just show up I
would love to just show up and do that.
Okay, cuz one of the things I wanted to
talk to you about was today was I want
to do a finance episode cuz I just think
it'd be Obviously, you know the benefit
of everybody having more um education
equity on finance and
I don't know what we would do, but that
all sounds awesome.
love to do that. Have you ever seen Mike
Shake? Oh, he's great.
Yeah, he did like uh I learned how to
day trade and that video did pretty well
for him. And that might be kind of
interesting like learning how to day
trade in 30 days or something.
[laughter]
You just lose everything. Yeah. So, what
would I do on Wall Street? Because a lot
of people from my college I mean, I even
interviewed for Wall Street stuff and I
don't even know what they do. Yeah.
and I don't even know what [laughter] I
would've been doing.
I I mean, my first thought is you're
going to get someone who's on the Wall
Street uh Wall Street floor or the the
trading floor and you're going to watch
them go back and forth with their papers
and yelling on the phone and like do it
with the depressing buttons and stuff
like that. I think a lot I don't I don't
know I don't know what really they do.
You're the finance guru.
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.
anything.
Well, what?
Like everything I do is from like last
time.
I think it's digital now, right? Yeah,
they don't have to
[laughter]
Yo, I got these oil contracts. You know
what I mean? Yeah.
Like Leonardo DiCaprio, Wolf of Wall
Street.
Yeah. But I'm sure you could find
somebody there who's like busy, could
walk you through the average day. I've
heard though they're very strict on
filming.
So like a lot of the times they don't
want any filming done. So I'm sure maybe
you'd be able to get like an exception
through that. Like if it goes through
the I I have no clue.
Goldman Sachs. Chances are someone
watching has a connection with Wall
Street who could maybe put us through to
make that happen, but I'd love to do
that. I'm going to work on making it
happen, and I will let you know. How
would they let you know? How Okay,
michelcarreplusbusiness@gmail.com.
Just email me. If you can do it, just
email me. Let's go back to your income.
Are you comfortable talking about that?
Could If If a video costs $30,000 to
make, what's the ROI on that? Oh my god.
So, we So like I was mentioning to you
earlier, we have
three
three different buckets of where we get
income from. AdSense is one, and now
because of how the videos have been
performing this year, we have kind of a
standard of where that will be.
Brand deals, we only accept over like
a high level at this point. Like we
don't really do a 60-second shout-out or
like a random website or anything. It
has to be like
a pretty big opportunity. And then the
fitness app, which is a paid
subscription service. So even if a video
doesn't make
30 grand back in AdSense by itself,
typically we can get that back with
the app or like plugging the app and
having people go to it. Like in the
marathon video, we also launched a run a
10K challenge, which is another thing we
spent today doing. And basically in the
app, you can get all of my workouts,
which are actually the workouts I do in
the videos. So
kind of measure it in a
variety of different ways if that makes
sense. What's the app? Could you walk us
through this?
Yeah. Yeah. So, the app is called MK Fit
and it's actually a white label app. So,
I work with another company who kind of
runs all the customer service and back
end and everything. But, I was really,
really excited about this opportunity
because instead of selling like PDFs or
like here's my nutrition guide
downloadable thing, it's actually
replayable videos of me doing
hundreds of exercises. So, when you open
the workout, you actually see me
demonstrating
the exercise, tells you how many reps,
everything you can fill it out in in the
app itself. And it also has recipe
guides. You can DM me personally. So,
like for literally 2 hours today we were
responding to people who were in the
middle of the 10K challenge. Yes, it's
actually us responding. It's actually
me. Yeah, I I love that because I love
actually working with people one-on-one.
Yeah. Um
That That to me is where I find the most
value. Yeah. Is your fiance involved in
the business as well? Yeah, so he's the
creative director.
How did you meet him? I met him uh
working on my YouTube channel actually.
Yeah, so when I left my job, I wanted to
work with a director because I was
previously at the job like,
you know, being on camera, directing
myself, editing, everything and I just
wanted like an external pair of eyes to
kind of
be on the lookout for story
specifically. So, Garrett has like a
really strong background in traditional
filmmaking. So, he's done multiple docs.
He's won a bunch of film festival awards
for narrative, too. So, I brought him on
to kind of
help with that and
he is so good at it. He's He's just
amazing and But, how did that start
[clears throat] from like the
professional aspect to then now there's
like a romantic element to it?
we were strictly a professional
friendship for like a year.
And,
Who made the Cuz I'm always curious like
who made Oh my god.
[laughter]
I'm just curious.
want to hear the whole love story?
Yeah, I do. I want to like how do you
how do you break? I'm just curious.
Yeah, right? So
[laughter]
It's a really long very long story. It's
too long for this podcast. Okay. Um
But yeah, I mean
Garrett Garrett basically
I don't I don't know how much I can say
about this.
Okay.
I keep looking at Carissa for
It's [laughter] it's not scandalous.
It's just long to explain but
Garrett basically approached me
very romantic way and said I have to
tell you something that could either
be amazing or ruin our relationship.
And he
you know proceeded to tell me how he
felt and I was like my God.
Obviously this makes so much sense and
so we sort of just like leaped into it
headfirst and I was so nervous because
everyone tells you
don't work with your spouse. Don't do
this. Don't do whatever and we really
approached it in this really cool way
where we like made rules of engagement
almost like kind of like a
business pre-nup if you will kind of
thing and once we laid everything out it
just allowed us to be fully creative
with one another and it was so cool.
Um so I I really value the relationship
we have like we're
really good with each other about these
are working hours. These are our
relationship hours and just the energy
that Garrett brings. I I I know that you
probably know from experience both of
you that trying to find
uh a partner is one thing both
romantically and business-wise but
finding someone who brings that same
level of enthusiasm to what you're doing
is like a diamond in the rough. How do
you shut that off though and be like all
right, it's 6:00 p.m. We're going to
shift from like work mode now to like
you know partner mode?
gosh now we're in like relationship
couple therapy land. This is so funny.
So for us what we do is if if past a
certain time we ask permission like hey
I have this work thing on my mind. I
have this really cool idea. Can I talk
to you about it?" And the other person
can say,
"Nah, I really just want to watch
Survivor and go to sleep right now. Can
we talk about it in the morning?" And
sometimes that's hard, you know, when
one person's really excited about one
specific thing and the other isn't, but
most of the time we we end up talking
about it. But like we we have kind of
like this language that we approach
when it's not working hours.
Yeah. So, sometimes permission is
denied. Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely.
do you separate that? Because if for me
it bleeds like work bleeds into
everything. And so for me if it's like,
"Hey, got a 10 out of 10 today. I'm in a
bad mood." It's like how does how do you
shut that off or like if you guys get in
an argument if like like a business
disagreement. Like how does that not
carry forward when you're watching
Survivor, let's just say.
Oh, well well, I mean of course like the
energy of who we are as people carries
over in the same way if we worked two
office jobs and came home and both had
bad days, it would impact the
relationship. So, it's it's the same
thing as that. And obviously if
something really needs to be talked
about, we talk about it and it does
bring us closer in our relationship,
which is really cool. But yeah, to
answer your question, we definitely are
like, "Nah, I just want to watch Game of
Thrones, House of the Dragon. We can
talk about it tomorrow. We'll like put
it in calendar and then talk about it
then."
That's interesting. So, when he
approached you, were you all in as soon
as you mentioned that? Or did it take
you some time to think, "Oh, let me
think this through." Like it's
time and then I was like, "You know
what? I just Let's just try it. Who
cares?" Once we laid everything out,
too, um you know, further into the
relationship, it it just allows so much
freedom. I encourage anyone who's in a
romantic relationship that involves
business as well, like lay it out. What
happens if this doesn't work out? What
happens if we move out? Who keeps what?
Like we literally made a spreadsheet of
when we move in together.
I own this, you own that, we co-own
this, I would keep it, I stay here, you
leave. Like
whatever it is. And thankfully, you
know, that is something that has so far
had a zero
ROI on doing and it's been a great
investment at the same time to take that
time and have that
perceptively difficult conversation, but
like it leads to a lot of relationship
intimacy, too, because you feel so much
freedom. Like there's nothing like
lingering or like, "I well, I'm kind of
like stuck on this one little thing, but
I'm scared to talk about it." No. Having
that open all out discussion has been
I mean, really set the tone. I mean, we
did that like in the first month. That's
great. And when did you get engaged?
We got engaged a week before the
pandemic and we're getting married in 2
weeks. Really?
gosh. Congratulations. When is that
going to be? When? Yeah, oh sorry,
sorry, the where? Um Malibu. Wow. That
is awesome. Now, can we ask how much
you're going to spend on the wedding? Do
you know how much this is going
[laughter] to be?
It's very expensive. 0% ROI is the
answer to your question.
[laughter]
More than 60 grand? I mean It's pretty
Yeah, it's it's
Oh my gosh. Malibu. How much are you
planning on spending on your wedding?
So,
pricing this out with Macy and there's
there's one spot that Macy looked at. I
think it was like 30 grand just for the
venue. I don't know. Uh it was like
In LA? Yeah, no, it was Ojai, I think.
It's going to be so pretty.
Yeah, but it was like 30 grand plus
everything else and then all in it's
going to be like probably 50 or 60.
There's another spot she wants me to see
on Sunday that I think the venue is like
10K, but it includes some other stuff
and they're just now starting to do uh
weddings, so they're like we would be
one of the first, so I think they want
to give us a break on that. Yeah, what
about some sort of promotion or
something like that? What do you mean?
Like sponsors? We've strategically
Yeah, are you making content around it?
We are making content. So, like we did a
video um that will be coming out where
we planned the entire wedding in a week.
Video's we planned our wedding in a
week. It's a good video.
You can plan it in a week and get it
over with and also make content.
if you have the ability to take a week
off of work and just say
this is the week we do it, I highly
encourage literally everybody to do it
because there's no like, "Oh, it's after
work and we got to like look at flowers
and I'm tired." Like you just bang it
out. We lined up every single vendor
meeting. We were like, "Those chairs,
this, this, this dress." It was Do they
agree in advance to be in the video?
Like they know they're Okay.
That's very cool. And so that pays for
the wedding. I mean, so whatever cost
probably is what you spend. You're going
to get it back probably in the video,
right? Well, uh hopefully I mean, we'll
we'll see. If everybody here watches
that video, then maybe that's what will
pay it back.
find a sponsor for it? This wedding is
sponsored [laughter] by
the new Aura ring. That would be
fantastic. You know, a lot of the the
businesses featured in the video are
local businesses. So, you know,
sometimes we work out like, "Okay, I'll
post on Instagram and we'll get a
discount or whatever."
But in terms of a title sponsor,
we're
we're working on that. But even if we
don't get that, that's okay. Cuz to me I
think it I think it's going to be a
great video, so. That's kind of how I
measure value, which is probably very
different from Mr. Gram Stefan. I don't
know. I I've joked about having sponsors
in the past. Be like, you know, get
Public gives everyone at the wedding a
free stock. It's just you know, stuff
like that. Like hey, like under under
your chair right now is a free stock.
One of you guys gets uh
One of you guys gets Berkshire Hathaway.
[laughter]
That's amazing. Well, how are you
feeling like we'll see what happens,
yeah. Energetically, as someone who's
incredibly frugal Yeah. about spending
on a wedding, why not elope? Courthouse,
Santa Barbara. Part of me wants to do
that. Um but I think there's an aspect
to that where like family wants to be
involved and
Well, are you doing it for family or for
you? I think well, to have a bigger
wedding would be for family. If it were
for me, I'd probably have more fun just
picking a random night like with no
planning at all. I'd just be like,
"Hey." But but you know what? We want to
do it on
um I I don't I don't want to say the
exact date. We want to do it on the day
that we met. Like, that same day. So,
we're kind of limited to like it's got
to be that specific day.
Um but part of me also just be like, it
would be fun just to be like, "Hey, what
are you doing tonight?" All right, let's
do it. You live in Vegas, so I know.
But, but there is something also special
about having that exact day.
So, I think we're leaning towards that
exact day. But, then I think it also
makes sense for people that want to be a
part of it. Yeah. Something that Garrett
has helped me understand is just like
there's this concept [snorts] that the
people I I think they like interviewed a
bunch of people who were
like on their death bed about regrets
and and and whatnot. And people have
said that the people who have the most
number of novel life experiences
throughout their lifetime feel like
their life is longer.
So, for example, if you work a day job
and you're just kind of doing the same
thing every single day, your life will
feel much shorter than someone who is
investing in tentpole memory
experiences. So,
Mhm.
maybe your life will be a little bit
longer from having a blowout wedding.
Maybe.
[laughter]
No, I'm just trying to think usually
like it it feels longer when you're
doing the more repetitive thing cuz it
seems like the day just like drags on
versus when you're doing new
experiences, like a week will go by
really fast. So, I'm thinking, "Hey, it
feels longer."
and remember much stuff if it's the same
thing every day.
feels longer when you're
to At the end of Graham's life, he's
going to be like, "I lived like one of
my I lived when [laughter] he's like
90." That's just going to happen.
I don't know. Can you say approximately
or assign percentages to like where
income Yeah, absolutely. Yeah.
So, I would say that probably
like a large portion, probably 70% of my
income is from sponsorships. And those
like big tentpole types of sponsorships.
Then it would be, I guess, 15% AdSense
and then 15%
the app.
Got it. How do you balance between such
a rigorous schedule and like a personal
life?
[laughter]
Um it's difficult, but I'm fortunate
that a lot of the the activities that I
do for videos are things that I would
curious about in my own real life and my
own hobbies, but it does make it
difficult because sometimes I have to
remind myself when I'm going to the gym
to work out, that's not personal time,
it's technically working time. And
sometimes it catches up to me. Yeah, but
I mean it it's it's definitely
difficult, but I
I feel like as I've gotten more episodes
under my belt and just more time in the
YouTube world, I've found a better
balance in general and I know when to
say no and stop. Where do you want to
take it from here? Because it seems like
you've got a great format that's working
and how do you expand on that? Well, my
big goal right now is I want to get
nominated for an Emmy for Challenge
Accepted. Mhm. So, I would love to be a
YouTuber
who can who gets nominated for an Emmy,
which other YouTubers have done with the
help of other production companies, but
I want to see if I can do it myself. And
that's why I've invested so much into
the quality of the episodes themselves,
why we don't upload as frequently
because I'm very particular on the
quality of the content itself. And just
developing myself as a producer who can
produce not just on YouTube, but in
other formats as well. Um for
television, I've had some experience
hosting on traditional TV and I loved
that. So, I'd love to kind of grow as a
as a performer, um you know, whether
it's like being in a Marvel TV show
would be really cool or hosting an
adventure show would be amazing to do
again. I would also think that there are
a lot of ideas that we have about
expanding my business in terms of
product, whether it's fitness or fitness
adjacent or lifestyle based stuff. I
can't too much about it, but that's kind
of where I see the business going next
is working with like Ideally, I'd love
to find a company that is making a
product kind of in their early stages
and see if I can attach with them and
work towards it. Got it.
together. To be nominated for an Emmy,
where does the content need to be
posted? It could be on YouTube. It could
be on YouTube?
Really? I thought there had to be like
another medium like that.
No, um Johnny Harris, who is a YouTuber,
produced an amazing piece for the New
York Times and he literally won an Emmy
this week. Like what was on stage
accepting an Emmy.
Can anybody be nominated?
Or does it have to be a certain format?
Like can someone nominate me? Like, "Hey
guys, nominate me for an Emmy on my
video with Mr. Beast." Does like without
even qualify if enough people I I think
there you know, there are a lot of like
different facets of the Emmy. So like
there's the front-facing primetime
Emmys, which we see on TV. Then there's
the daytime Emmys, which are for soap
operas, Law & Order, etc. So it depends
on how you spin it if you want it to
qualify as like
you know, Challenge Accepted could
technically be like short-form
documentary. It could long-form like it
depends.
You kind of have to like work with a
with someone who's applied previously or
like a PR agency to figure out where you
fit in. That would be interesting to get
one of the interviews is like, you know,
an Emmy nominated I'm not going to lie,
man. I don't even know what the Emmy
what an like is that Emmys are basically
the Oscars for TV. I thought that was
Golden Globes. The Golden Globes
uh expands it it Golden Globes is movies
and TV. It's very confusing. Oh, okay.
just different agencies
that give out awards.
We should get an Emmy, Graham. We should
get an Yeah. You know what the Emmy is?
An Emmy This podcast will get an Emmy. I
want to be a New York Times bestseller
at some point. I think that would be a
fantastic one. Isn't that like not that
challenging? Yeah, well so it's 10,000
physical copies have to be sold, I
believe, within a certain time frame.
Um if you sold each copy for like two
bucks and then bought them all yourself.
I don't know.
I don't know if you could do that
though.
an amazing video. You make yourself a
New York Times best seller. Like you
No one bought it except you.
I bought my own.
Yeah, you were the only owner of a New
York Times
did that for the for the Shopify stuff?
Was it Shopify or um
Oh gosh, ClickFunnels.
They'd get the awards, but they would
buy their own stuff.
[gasps and sighs]
Please Please
say that is such a good video.
the stories.
I made myself a New York Times best
seller.
Yeah, but I wouldn't want to buy my own
copies. Like cuz that feels like just
cheating and I I don't think There's no
way that that could be
doing it for the content.
Yeah, it's not like you actually want to
be an author. You know, but the thing is
you if I did it I would want to be
serious about it. You know who Alex
Fasulo is? Okay, so she's like this girl
that ghostwrites thing on Fiverr
ghostwrites things on Fiverr, basically.
Is she on TikTok? Yes. Okay. Okay. And
Graham wanted her to to write a book for
Graham to be a What is it? A New York
Times best seller
No, no. It was a joke for Ramsey at
Ramsey Manor.
wanted that to be a New York Times best
seller, right?
Yes, that was your goal.
Was it? I don't know. Wait, I have a
question. Is it units, 10,000 units, or
10,000 like of Does it have to be a
certain price point?
I don't know. Can you just make a book
that's like $1, sell it in Barnes &
Yeah, but I feel like it then that's a
hack that anybody could use just to call
them
call themselves a New York Times best
seller.
a great video. Yeah, you got to exploit
the [laughter] other people I feel like
other people would have done that.
do this, I'm going to do this. I'm going
to make myself a New York Times best
seller. I feel like it then everyone
would do it and then it wouldn't work
anymore.
I think nobody's done it.
I'm pretty sure they have. I I think
it's an exploit that people already are
aware of and like there there's got to
be something else to it.
video on it yet.
Or Or it can't just Or it's got to be
sold throughout like a certain amount of
stores. Like it's not like someone could
like buy 10,000 copies for a dollar each
and like
spend 50 grand and be one, yeah. Plus, I
wouldn't want to be a New York Times
best-seller by like cheating Okay, okay,
okay. I'd actually want to do it
seriously. Yeah, I'll get that, yeah.
But I would like to do that. Now, I want
to be a an Emmy Award-winning video
creator, yeah.
With the right heart and soul.
Yeah. I would do that.
What's something you think you're doing
poorly that you should work on and do
better at? Oh, this is such a good
question.
I think
what I would like to get better at
myself is
I feel comfortable in the
entrepreneurial phase of like
I feel totally comfortable cold emailing
the FBI and pitching them on a video and
making it happen. I feel really
comfortable in the entrepreneurial side
of my life when it comes to content
itself or the avenues that I currently
have within the business. But when it
comes to like like I was mentioning to
you earlier, finding a a company in its
infancy and working with them and
becoming their CMO and kind of like
marketing the product as my own in that
capacity,
I find is
is is very is is a lot more difficult to
find those right partnerships. So, I
think for me it would be expanding in
product. I think it'd be good for you to
associate a little bit more with the
finance space then if that's something
you want to look into.
Like the Hormozis and the John Coogans.
Really? Cuz they're all trying to do
stuff that are similar to that, yeah.
Like finding companies in their infancy
[laughter]
I don't know. I like the I like the
challenge concept. I think you could
take that to 10 million subscribers.
[clears throat]
Oh, yeah. I mean, if if if truly if I
had it my own way and all I had to do
was make content,
that's what I would do. That's where my
heart is, absolutely.
Yeah. And I feel fortunate that like
some people grow their YouTube channel
on one format and they're like, I have
to keep
one-upping it or it has to be bigger and
higher quality. and I feel like we've
kind of found a certain threshold for
that with what we have already, and I
just want to keep doing that. I mean, if
I had it my way, you know, we're
bringing on another editor. Hopefully,
we can increase to two uploads a month.
That in and of itself will do so much
for our channel in terms of viewership,
brand opportunities, etc. But, if I had
it my way, I would just do the show.
That's all I want to do. Yeah. I think
you could do that. I think you should
also be doing shorts. Yes. Yes, I have
I've heard a lot about shorts. I went to
the YouTube Creator Summit, and the
whole time they were like, "Shorts,
shorts, shorts." They were really
pushing it. And now you can monetize
them. Uh 2023.
Yes, in January.
So, yeah, in a few months. Yeah, I'm I'm
shocked with shorts. We've been posting
shorts in the Ice Coffee Hour. It's
driven so much growth.
But, but monetarily, I'm curious where
that will go. Like, when we can activate
it, what is the CPM on a short? How does
it change based on viewership or length?
Like, My understanding is that it's
going to be based on a percentage.
They're they're going to have like a
total fund, and then you get a
percentage of that. I bet it's going to
be higher than Tik Tok, but
Yeah.
probably not going to be that much.
There's so many views for shorts.
we can make money off of it, but what
what does that actually look like? And
can someone truly just be a shorts
creator? People can be long form only
and have Probably not in AdSense. It's
probably going to be a lot like YouTube
during the adpocalypse, where people are
not making money on videos, but they're
making money on affiliates and
sponsorships. That's probably how it's
going to be for shorts. They won't make
any money on the short.
Yeah. They'll make money maybe doing a
sponsored short every now and then.
Yeah. I mean, I
I I'm curious to see where that will go.
And truthfully, I haven't done much with
shorts just because I've been so focused
on long form, and our videos take so
much manpower just to get one long form
out.
But, the
shorts I'm curious what Yeah. I bet if
you hired one person full-time just on
shorts, you would double your audience
in a year. Just from taking your
existing videos.
over to the longs? Now, it's beginning
to. Okay. It's yeah.
what scared me because I am familiar
with a few other very big YouTube
channels. Once they started posting
shorts, they get like no views on the
longs. I found the opposite. I was
really worried about that, too. When we
started testing on the Ice Coffee Hour,
posting shorts, and those shorts are are
getting millions of views, and it's
beginning to translate over to the
long-form content. Never thought. And so
then I started testing on the main
channel, and it's you're seeing some
conversion. Overall, the videos are
doing better because I think YouTube is
now recognizing that people who watch
shorts, a higher percentage of them
would be interested in the long-form
content.
They rolled out that feature. Yeah. It
wasn't that way previously, but then
they just changed that. So, I'm guessing
that probably will But yeah, your best
hire would be one person shorts
full-time. Pay them really well, just
make sure they know shorts, and just
take every video you've made so far and
turn that down into 45 seconds. You
would do so well. I agree.
You would double your audience in a
year. You should.
I'd say that would That should be your
priority.
Is it you editing? Who has it Who has
No, we got this guy, Josh, Josh.
who's
um who's editing our shorts right now,
and we're we're tweaking a little bit
just to optimize them. So, he is
full-time? No, he's He has multiple
clients. He's like Want another client?
Probably. Or are you trying to hire him
full-time? I don't want to I don't know.
Yeah. Oh my god, we're going to fight
over Josh. No, I'm sure I'm sure I'm
sure he'll take Yeah.
Yeah. Okay. Yeah. I mean, yeah.
you his contact. Yeah. Yeah, cuz I've
I've had trouble with the short stuff,
finding someone who
can take the story and narrow it down to
to be really good, and I've started just
like I'm obsessive over the long-form
content like from the algorithm
standpoint. I started really spending so
much time on shorts. And so he'll send
me a short, and I'll watch it when come
back with notes on top of already his
stuff, and I'm getting really into it
and I think there's there's it's so much
different than just taking a video
clipping it up and like reposting it.
Right. We've had a lot of success with
both like we did a week where like we
had our editor we're like you're only
going to do shorts. He he took a video
and boiled it down into the one minute
and it's it took a few like a while to
get it there but it did well and then
we've also had some success with like
taking
specific scenes and just making them
vertical. What questions do you have for
us?
Or is there anything else you want to
talk about? Of that I want to talk about
I'm I'm I'm just having fun. I'm so
excited to meet you both. What would you
change about what I'm doing? Like
financially. How much are you saving and
investing? How much am I saving and
investing?
I'm saving and I'm investing like very
conservatively like How much is like
what percentage of your income would you
say you're saving? Probably
because I put so much back into the
business probably like
20% We could get that up. I think I
think we could definitely get that up a
little bit.
[laughter]
Do you have expensive taste in anything?
Are you No. You're not spending money
like expensive stuff. That's a nice
that's a nice jacket.
It's a gift. I didn't buy it. How much
is the jacket? Where's that from?
This jacket is an expensive jacket but
Really?
Yeah. Who's the designer? Who's it
where's it from?
Company. The what? The Mighty Company.
The Mighty Company? I've never heard
that before. How much would it be? This
is a thousand dollar jacket but I got it
as a gift. I got it as a gift.
Who gave it to you? Garrett.
[laughter]
For my birthday.
Um I was about to say as I don't spend
money on things.
it's a nice jacket cuz I saw you had
something similar for Colin and Samir.
Yeah. It's the same company.
But I I got that was That's a good
jacket as well. A good jacket. Yeah.
It's a good jacket.
Anyway, so I don't besides this jacket I
guess I don't like have
like I feel like a lot of influencers
they get money and they're like I'm
going to buy a Prada purse. I'm going to
do this. I'm going to buy I don't even
know. Like a lot of that stuff. I don't
I I don't.
Yeah. Everything goes back into my
business.
I mean, that's fair. And your channel is
growing. So, it's not like you're
putting money into this business is just
like not doing well. I think that's
fine. I mean, I'd I'd always just say
like maybe 25% like you could just push
it up a little bit. Where are you
investing it?
Where am I investing it? In like mutual
funds.
Do you know which ones or what they
track? [laughter]
I work with a business manager and I
pretty much tell her like
put it in somewhere safe.
Business manager.
Yeah.
That's kind of an interesting. Do you
know how much they like charge for that
service? For that service? That's like
part
Is it flat fee or a percentage of what
you invest?
of not of the investment of um
just like total revenue.
Wow.
Yeah.
That's it. What What's the
What's the purpose of that? Like what
What does that serve for you in terms of
having a business manager?
So, because I'm not really at the point
where I need like a full-time accountant
internally, but they handle like
everything. So, they do taxes, they do
payroll, they do investing. Like if a
credit card gets stolen, they fix it and
whatever. You know, like it's very I get
that. It It's really nice because we
have so many freelancers coming in and
out.
Yeah.
And they do all the paperwork, they
handle everything, they make sure
Yeah, like I don't
Okay. I get that.
very It's It's a white glove service.
we a good service to have. Do you do
that all yourself? Yeah.
Yeah, I
It's a mess. It is It is horrible. Your
finances are a mess? Um
kind of It's sloppy.
I I just cuz cuz
There's a lot of things where
I think that you need bookkeeping.
I do. I mean, I I do it myself, but
there are some things where I'll get
invoices and just like I'll
I keep a a Word document on my computer.
I just
Word? Not even Google Doc?
No. Oh my god.
it in and I'm you know, I keep track of
payments like that.
Like this doesn't even make any sense.
know how to use Excel.
I've just been doing it this way since
the very beginning.
Okay. I understand that.
just like, you know, I have a credit
card I use for one thing, a credit card
I use for another thing, and like my
expenses are there, and then like two
bank accounts, three bank accounts.
Yeah, right.
at the end of the year I could look
through these let's just call them six
accounts in total, and then tally up
where the money went. I mean, there's
always a record of like money went from
this account over here, and then I could
check over here and do that. Okay, that
person was paid X amount.
But
I'm sure it could be better.
I'm sure it could be structured more.
use um
like Rapbook or Stir or any program like
that?
We use Stir. We used to. Not anymore.
What happened to them?
What happened to them? We just Well, we
I don't think we Actually, yeah, we
received payments through Stir, but that
was it. Like they the the people that
were paying us changed. There's just
There's just like a lot of money coming
in, and then it
Too much.
Too much money coming in. Yeah, it's
such a big problem.
octopuses, you know, everywhere else.
And uh but I mean, I
I I track everything, so like I know
where it's going, but it's at the But
it's a
Sometimes uh when it comes to tax time
and like gathering all of that, it's I
just book out one day. With your
accountant?
Or you With you?
Yeah, I take one day.
I don't do my taxes, no. But in terms of
uh tracking everything, before like
usually the beginning of the year I'll
take one Saturday, and from the start to
the end I'll just coordinate everything,
and just go through every account, track
every penny that goes in and out, where
it's going, and then I reward myself the
end of the day with sushi. And like
that's the one thing I look forward to.
Like I'm not finishing until
It takes me a full day. So but I would
say it's like 10 hours that day. It's
not awful because I know which accounts
the money goes in and out of.
Yeah, I mean, I would much rather have
someone hourly or like full-time just
I probably should. Yeah, I should.
mean, not you can obviously do whatever
is most comfortable, but I mean like
Yeah. I should probably do that. I
should probably have a better
understanding on stuff. And I think like
this year specifically we've just been
growing so
quickly that like just getting videos
out has been such a priority and sitting
back and being like where is stuff
going financially is something I want to
get better at for sure.
Yeah. A lot of it too is I I have a big
interest in taxes. So sometimes I'll be
reading up on stuff and then I'll pass
it by a tax attorney. Say, "Hey, I just
saw this. Like what do you think of
this?" And they'll either like say
that's a good idea or it's too risky,
don't do that, or here's why it doesn't
apply to you. But I'll do a lot of
research on on just random stuff that I
see coming up and I like passing it by
like bouncing ideas off of like a tax
professional. It's It's way too
complicated. Should not be that
complicated.
prefer this over
hiring a bookkeeper.
I should hire a bookkeeper. I think
Graham would prefer to hire a
bookkeeper. But Graham doesn't like
having many like employees or anything.
Expensive. Yeah. I mean, it's probably a
worthwhile expense, but I like just I
know when I do it I I
track everything and I have it, but they
could do that for me, too. But I like
just seeing it and then doing the
tracking. They would do a better job
than me. I get that, though.
It's I've done it this way for so long
that I It's like it's working. But are
you going to continue doing it for the
next 10 Do you feel like it's inhibiting
your growth?
No. No, I don't. No, cuz it's one
Saturday. I mean, like when you think of
a weekend, how much time most people
waste, it's just like one day. Out of
the month or the year? Out of the year.
I mean, throughout the month. I mean, I
every day check the bank account. I'll
just like just see what's going in and
out. Like I I I look at it.
But one day a year it's just like
much
money coming in every day. Just check
what what
the profits are coming out to be.
[laughter]
It just keeps going. I just keep
refreshing and like the number keeps
growing.
Do you
[laughter]
What?
god. What are you laughing at? Until you
have to pay Jack and then it goes all
the way down.
Yeah. Then it just can't zeros out.
It's the same It's the same for me and I
hate it.
But even I do one day every single year
right before the taxes and
the same thing as me. I do the exact
same thing. [laughter] I hate it, dude.
And you know what? You know you don't
like it that much. You really I dread it
but I feel so great after I get it done.
Once it's over it's good but
Yeah. The one thing though I've because
Alex now has a business credit card
that's under me and so once every other
month I'll look through the credit card
for like expenses and I'll be like, "Oh,
Alex, what's this?" She's like, "Oh, we
did this for the podcast." I'm like,
"What's this?" "Oh, we did this." I'm
sure there's a better way to to track
that but but yeah.
But that would require like someone
That would require somebody. Yeah.
Man, I said I was about to say
something, Joe. What did you say? You
were You were saying you did that too.
Uh I do that too. Just one day and I go
through like I don't even know how many
expenses. Probably like over a thousand
transactions and I I have to remember
like what did I do in February? That's
probably not good to publicly say but
yes, I do that as well.
is what I was going to mention is that
[clears throat]
this year is the first full year I've
paid
my estimated taxes. Usually I prefer to
pay the penalty. I'll pay the full
amount at the end of the year. So
whatever I would owe for that year, I
just pay it all in one lump sum and I've
taken the penalty. Usually I think it's
like 3% and typically in the past I've
I've justified that I'd rather pay 3%
and have access to my money liquid to
invest it and the investments would make
me more than what I would get
from paying the penalty.
it different this year? Um this year I I
I've been holding on to too much cash,
and so I figured I'd rather just instead
of
There's [snorts] way too much money.
Yeah. [laughter]
So I started But no, no, but my whole
point was What does that even mean? Like
what sentence is that? I I've I've never
cuz I I have not been investing all of
it. And so at the end of the year, like
it made sense when I was at the point
where I'd be investing everything, and
then I would find a way to pay the tax,
like just enough would come in that I
could pay the tax afterwards, but I'd be
investing all of it. And really up until
like 3 years ago, every year around like
November, I'd spend all the money cuz
I'd be investing all of it. Um and then
it was last year where I had extras left
over where I was like, I should have
just paid this off instead of paying the
penalty cuz I'm not earning any interest
on it, and now that just cost me money.
Okay. So. But it's a great feeling. Now
I'm Now I've actually overpaid on taxes,
so I'll get
So I'll get a refund, and I'm really
looking forward to that.
Yeah. Yeah. I've never I've never had a
refund.
you could only underpay since there's
just so much money always coming.
[laughter]
Yeah.
No, I've overpaid cuz you're supposed to
pay like 110% of your prior year's tax
Mhm. um or like up to, and uh yeah, I
did that. So I finally get a refund.
So. I paid a lot, but I'm hoping that I
I get some money back. I don't know yet.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Get solar.
Yeah, I should. I've I also found out
apparently my accountant forgot to close
out my California thing when I moved to
Las Vegas, so I owe like five grand
that. Even though I I didn't live in
California at all that year, for a
single day, but I have to pay California
still, and I live in Las Vegas.
what happened. So apparently like I
didn't There's like some form that you
have to file if you leave California to
announce that you've left, even though I
was in Las Vegas for the entirety of
last year, I still have to pay It's
about five grand.
Because you kept the Because like I
didn't close I think it was my Yeah, my
S corp, like I didn't close it until
like the next year, although I did open
the one
then. I don't know. It's something It's
something weird. I don't I don't really
understand it.
take some of his return to pay
Yeah. I'll take a little [laughter] loan
now. It'll be nice. Yeah. So, are you
paid
in an S corp? Yeah. Through. Okay,
interesting.
Yeah. Yeah.
Good business structure. It is. Jack's
Jack's happy with it. I'm happy with it.
[laughter]
I hope so.
Yeah. What other questions you have?
Okay, so I asked, "What do you think I'm
doing wrong? What can I do?"
Oh, oh, sorry.
[laughter]
Sorry. To go back to your investments.
Okay. Um mutual funds, I'm sure are
I'm not on here because I'm a finance
[clears throat] person. I want to make
that super clear.
feel like index funds might be
Until I work on Wall Street for a day
with Graham.
say I would say you're probably I I'd
like to see which mutual funds it is,
like how you're invested, but I'd say
most likely, if it's a mutual fund,
you're already diversified.
Yeah. Uh as long as you're not like in
bond mutual funds right now, which have
like really declined in price. As long
as you're not in in those. I'd say
you're probably fine. I'm guessing it's
just like a diversified index fund,
basically, which is good. Uh 20% is not
bad. I I would just up it a little bit
if you're able to. But I would say it's
not a terrible
me I need to hire a full-time shorts
editor. Yes. But that wouldn't be
[laughter]
I think I I don't think it'd be that bad
cuz you're you're going to get an ROI
from the shorts. Like Like I think the
the realistic
for me to see when it's not monetized.
The Well, the realistic scenario is that
the shorts Yeah, the shorts would
probably break even. So, let's say you
you pay somebody like 70 grand a year or
like 60 grand for just shorts, uh which
actually might be high if you're only
posting like one a week, like one really
good short a week. Let's even say like
50 grand, you'll make that money back
from the people that convert to the
long-form content, the app that you
have, or even if you do one or two
sponsored a year, will pay for that
person entirely.
Also, just like the creator fund on
TikTok, although it is very small, when
you couple that with the Instagram Reels
bonuses,
Facebook.
Yeah, and Facebook, too.
make money. actually you could actually
profit. So, there were a couple of
months this year
same content everywhere.
Yeah, everywhere. There were a couple of
months this year that we actually made
money accounting for the amount that we
pay our TikTok. Interesting.
Yeah, just from the TikTok income. Like
and also Snapchat Discover.
Try to get like a Snapchat Discover
tile.
a Snapchat thing. Okay.
You don't use it? Is it Discover? You
would know if it's Discover. It's uh
yeah. It's like we have a show like
Yeah, yeah. Accepted, yeah. And how
often are you posting on that? Once a
week?
it's once a week, yeah. They're going
through the whole back catalog. Cool.
That's good. Are you doing Facebook?
Yes.
I am doing Facebook. And how often do
you post on there? Once a week, also, I
believe. Yeah, I would say for the
shorts cuz you could double that
throughout everything. So, Instagram,
Facebook Reels, um
Snapchat, you could figure out something
on that. I would say you'll make your
money back. So, that's not an expense.
It'll break even or you'll make money on
it.
Okay. So.
That's what I would do. But yeah, I The
income I'm sure sounds fine.
Sounds fine. Sounds fine. It's not too
much money.
too much It's not too much cash. It's
not too much cash. Oh my god. What's
something you think we're doing bad or
poorly, I should say? How could we
improve? Now that we can get better.
Yeah. Or you could hire a bookkeeper.
[laughter]
Okay. Yeah, 100% I agree with that,
yeah. That's fair. I can get that. Hm.
Well, tell me like
So, obviously you guys advised me on the
finance. What about content? How are you
feeling about the content you're
creating and making? Relatively good
because there's finally stuff going on
in the market. It was a rough last
4 months for me. It's odd when the
market is going up, people lose interest
in investing. When it's going down,
everyone's now in Yeah. So, it's amazing
that I see the difference on views.
Every day the market closes up versus
down. If the market's down a percent,
views usually increase by like 10 to
20%. If the market's up, views are down.
It's crazy. So, in a way it's it's
almost as a hedge against my investments
because if my investments are going
down, I make more. But if my investments
are going up, I make less. So, it's it's
kind of like it balances Yeah, it really
balances out. But there's more for me to
talk about when the market's going down
because more is happening. And more
people are interested. Yeah, because
they're like, "What just happened? What
did Jerome Powell just say? How does
this affect me?" Um
and I think for a lot of people I think
it's just human nature where we're more
impacted by losing money than making.
So, if I told you like you could either
make a hundred or lose a hundred, you'd
fear more the losing a hundred than
making. So, um so there's more interest
in investing. But I've been pivoting a
little bit to these interviews that I've
really enjoyed. And um my goal is to get
like two a month.
So, what's preventing that? Do you need
to hire a producer to
No, no, no, no. I have three in the
pipeline right now. Um that I but I
don't want to post them like
back-to-back. So, I'm like I want to
post one, wait like two weeks
on the main. This is main channel.
yeah. Yeah. Um but there's a I I've
started creating a list of people that I
want to meet and interview in that sort
of style. And so, I'm just kind of
working my way through the list. Nice.
Yeah, but there's like twenty people on
the list that I really want to go
through. Yeah. And are you feeling
fulfilled and excited by what you're
doing? By that, yes. Cuz I think that's
such a cool style and it just opens up
the audience cuz finance I think there's
um
you know, there's a limit to how many
people are interested in finance and
growing beyond that is really
challenging. Um because then you get in
the maintenance phase where like people
So, you know, some people are dropping
off while new people are coming on and I
think there's that that natural cycle
over time. But when you get into
interviews, then you you tap into people
who are interested in the finance of
creators or just extraordinary people in
general. Doesn't have to be creators.
Yeah.
I mean, I feel like what you guys are
doing definitely works in terms of like
the level of fulfillment you have on the
main channel as well as the podcast. How
do you feel about your relationship, the
two of you? Uh I I always feel like I'm
I'm tough on Jack. I feel like sometimes
because I'm always like, "Jack, we
should like I'm so on it all the time,
24/7." Where I think I had that
unrealistic expectation for Jack, too.
It's like, "We always got to be working
all the time." Uh you know, always pick
up the phone call. Yeah.
What do you mean, asking
a romantic relationship.
No.
[laughter]
No, we we have a good I think we have a
good balance. That's That's what I
That's what I think. And Jack has some
great ideas and I trust Jack's judgment
on a lot of things. Like, if I come in
with an idea
and Jack hates it, like absolutely
against it, I'll usually end up siding
with Jack unless I'm like 100% sure on
the idea. But Jack could usually sway me
either way. We had a good thing going
when we were here, we would go for runs.
Ah.
run down to the park. It's too hot in
Vegas. Uh well, we just don't live with
each other anymore. Oh, okay. Yeah.
But when we were here, we'd run down to
the park and uh
it's kind of creepy, but there's a
there's a
Where's this going?
[laughter]
It was a It's a It's a children's park,
but yeah. They had these awesome like
monkey bars. And so, when Awesome monkey
bars. They were not just your average
monkey bars because they were awesome.
You're like two guys going there and
then we do pull-ups on the monkey bars.
okay with that. But like sometimes
there's kids like playing on the monkey
bars, so we like just wait around until
they stop using them and then we go over
there and do pull-ups. Yeah. We just
didn't want to like interrupt the kids
or like you're just like two random
guys. It's not
It's their space. Yeah. Yeah. I would
say that's honestly that's the main
thing. I realized that communication,
obviously, like everyone knows this in
the back of their mind, but they need to
be constantly reminded of it, at least
me, is that communication is key. You
always need to be talking, be open with
the other person, and uh I think that's
something Graham and I always need to
work on, for sure. Um but overall, yeah,
obviously, he's one of my best friends.
Like, we're very satisfied with our
relationship. Do you guys enjoy Vegas?
Yes, it's it's interesting because when
I'm there, I don't want to leave. And
then when I get here, I kind of feel
mixed because we're we're rarely ever
here, and sometimes we'll just be here
for a weekend. But then when it's here,
it's like, "Wow, it's it's so nice with
the weather and like all the greenery."
I miss that. It only takes me a day to
get used to it back in Vegas. But So, I
like it when I'm in Vegas, and then I
also like it when I'm here.
What about for you? Yeah, I like Vegas.
I definitely like it a lot more than I
thought that I would. But I think a big
part of that was me just establishing a
friend group. So, now since I have like
my core friend group, it's very very
easy.
Hang out, work done. My house is a great
culture as well, so that's also and
makes it
Nice as well. Yeah. What are y'all most
intimidated by?
With your current content or business?
Um
intimidated. I would say for the
podcast, I would say
it's intimidating to see what cuz I
watch all the other podcasts here, and I
see the guests that they have come on.
Some of them I'm like, when I see Nelk
getting on Elon Musk, I'm like,
"Where do we go from there? Like, how
could we ever compete with Elon Musk
getting on a podcast?" Um so, some of
that I'm I'm probably a little bit too
hard on myself for that. When I see that
Yeah, when I see cuz Nelk is able to
pull like such incredible like to have
the president on their podcast, I'm
like, "Welp, they did it first."
But, you know, it I have to remember
that, you know, we're not
you know, the the same the same as them.
At least right now, I don't feel very
intimidated. Honestly, with the podcast
at all. I don't at least I don't know
how I would just Yeah, describe being
intimidated seeing someone else doing
well. I'm like, "Oh, that that opens up
a lot of doors just for podcasting in
general." Yeah, that is true.
How about you with your work?
Oh, I Yeah, I think I'm I think I'm
intimidated in terms of
just like the growth overall. Um and
like hiring new people and making sure
that they fit and have the same mission
and vibe. I mean, it's it's taken us so
long to find another editor because for
us it's not like just edit the video. It
We're very involved in the edits and I'm
also intimidated by the prospect of
expanding into other businesses because
I feel so
at home with the content itself, but
investing in other things in general
kind of freaks me out. Do you worry that
it's going to take time away from the
video? So, you're not going to make as
good of a video if your time is split.
I don't worry about that because I will
stay up as late as I need to make sure
the video is good. It's more just like
investing in something that might fail.
Yeah. Well, I think even if it does
fail, the loss is not going to be that
much. Yeah.
the big picture
and you'll be able to probably get a
video out of it even if you do fail.
True.
Which creators do you watch on YouTube?
So, I
The creators I feel like I look up to a
lot and learn a lot from and watch a lot
of are Ryan Trahan, Erik, Max Fosh.
Guys, oh my god.
like I know that name, but I I yeah,
I've probably seen a couple of videos.
Max Fosh is someone I'm very inspired by
lately. So, he is a comedian who also
does kind of like IRL
um challenge content, but he does this
crazy stuff like he did a video where he
joined the royal family for a day. So,
he found a distant relative of the royal
family who literally signed a marriage
agreement with him and then for the day
he was like a part of the royal family.
He's done that. Like, his videos are are
are really impressive in terms of just
like the ideas themselves are really
funny and he's a funny person. Um and
obviously Mike Shake is someone who's
kind of similar to my content, so I love
him. He's great. And I think Ryan Trahan
I I He's obviously the person we're all
talking about this year, right? Just
someone who has done high spectacle, but
maintained a grounded level of himself
throughout without it having to be an
extravagant spending of money for it to
be meaningful or even spectacle.
Yeah. I think that's really powerful.
I've been watching his vlog channel. Oh,
yeah, the secret channel. Where he's
been watering his grass. It's like, how
do you make a video that's entertaining?
And I watch them. I'm so invested in the
grass. I look at that like, how could I
do something like that? How can you
water grass and monetize it?
Yeah. Yeah. Um but Ian Ian did one, save
the squirrels initiative.
great. Um where he just traps squirrels.
He make like a 15-minute video and just
like, how to trap and release squirrels.
But he made it so hilarious and
interesting and like,
here's how you make the trap and I'm
going to put it here and like report
back the next day. I love that sort of
content. This is offbeat. Yeah. I
appreciate it because it's
it's risky but with no risk. Like, it's
risky to invest the time and energy to
create the content. Um
and make it like something different
from everybody else. But they make it
seem so effortless. Like, they just
happen to like turn on the camera and
just happen to be there and record, but
like, I'm looking at somebody I'm
looking at some of these like these
shots that he's getting are so good.
He's thinking this through ahead of
time. It's not just off the fly. I bet
some of this is at least loosely planned
out.
Yeah. So, I want to be able to do that.
Yeah, I'm appreciating this like
this new wave of almost return to
grounded personality because there was
such a big movement of like money money
money and like
just
wealth extravagance, I think. And now
it's it's sort of coming back to like
Casey Neistat returning to YouTube. I'm
sure everybody talked about all this
stuff. I'm appreciating that
almost like homecoming that's happening.
Yeah. Yeah, I think Ryan Trahan
definitely led that um with that penny
series and I'm curious to see what he's
going to do next. I think he should just
do another penny series. The same thing.
I would just do the same thing but like
circumnavigate the globe. Yeah, or or
give giving a penny to Elon Musk I think
would be an interesting one or just pick
someone who's maybe unattainable and be
like I'm going to
do that person. Or he did the trading a
penny to a house but maybe like do that
again would be interesting. Like give
him I think he's got to like go up a
little bit. I think going around the the
world would be really good. Oh yeah, do
that in another country. Navigate the
globe on a penny. Mhm. Take me, Ryan.
Yeah. That would be fine. That would be
interesting. I'm curious with your
your different avenues of content
creation and the products surrounding
them
what has been your biggest
financial mistake? Full self-driving on
your Tesla.
That is expensive.
Yeah. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
for a YouTube video and immediately like
afterwards he's like I regret [laughter]
this so much cuz it's like eight grand
or something. It's 12 grand now. Yeah,
it went up. Yeah. He wanted to make a
video around it cuz all the other Tesla
videos do super well and he makes money
but this one I think the video just
underperformed and like I've I've had a
really bad run. Every time I've spent
money for a video I've lost money.
Every single time.
the Pokémon card one? Uh took two years
to break even on that.
But you did.
Yeah.
But I did break even after two years.
Now you're profitable.
But not Okay. So now I'm profitable.
With the Pokémon card. With the Pokémon
card.
Um but yeah, but that was a video where
like I'd made three Tesla videos in six
months and all of them did one to three
million views. And so I thought well
full self-driving would be interesting.
I'm going to buy it and then review it
and then it's it should make its money
back in ad revenue and it didn't. The
video bombed. Um I re
Why do you think that happened though?
Probably bad title thumbnail. I thought
it was an interesting video but I don't
really think people cared that much
about it.
And I probably just miscalculated, but
uh you know, the video made two grand
back, so I'm I'm in the hole six grand
for full self-driving. So, it could be
worse, but yeah, I look at that and it
was just like I spent so much time on
that video. And Jack was helping me film
at that time. We're like looking for
locations to film and like reverse into
certain spots and we I spent so long on
that video. Are you proud of the
product? Uh it's a good video, but uh
but I judge those videos by like the
ROI. Mhm. Everything has to have the ROI
and that does not have an ROI.
find pure satisfaction is just ROI. So,
it could be the worst video you've ever
made. You could be like, "I don't think
that's my best." And if it's a one out
of 10, you're like Kind of, yeah,
because I because that means the
audience likes it. So, I don't really
make too many videos for myself. I think
of what the audience would want to see.
And so, I I gauge that metric based on
how many views it gets, what what's the
retention, what's the the
the overall sentiment about the video in
terms of like the comments and if people
like it or not. So, I make content for
the viewer. But you don't feel like it
harms you whenever you get a 10 out of
10 and it's a bad day? Uh
I've done better about not taking it
personally because then I think to
myself, "Well, it's title thumbnail or I
I misjudged how big the audience is on
this." And some of them I know are going
to be 10s out of 10s, but long tail.
Like I would say once a month I post a
video purposely like how to invest $100
a day as an example. I know my audience
is not going to be interested in that,
but it picks up a new audience.
So, over a year, it'll do really well
because people are interested in that,
but in the short term it doesn't. So, I
kind
Long term investment.
Right.
Yeah. But like passive income and side
hustle videos are the examples. I say
this all the time. I don't like making
them, but people love watching them. So,
every six months I'll make a passive
income video or a side hustle video
because people enjoy it.
Like an eat your veggies video. Like you
just got to do it.
got to do it. Um the audience enjoys it.
There's an interest in that. I don't
want to deprive them of those videos
just because I personally don't like it.
Like it's For me it's more about the
viewer and their enjoyment of it.
So, if they're happy with it, then I'm
happy with it. So, hope that answers it.
Well, that's pretty good. I mean, if
your your biggest loss was 6K on a on a
single video.
No, I mean,
a bigger loss was was probably not
paying attention to things that I should
have been paying attention to. There
were a few things that I've done over
the past like year where I should have
been more involved and I wasn't and
because I was not as involved as I I
should have been,
um they didn't turn out as expected.
Like content adjacent. Content adjacent
stuff, yeah. But that I blame myself for
because I think, well, I should, you
know, I've been prioritizing all these
other things and if I'm going to do
something, I really should be fully
involved and I can't be
as involved as I would need to while
maintaining everything else. So, like
something's got to give. I'm not willing
to sacrifice anything at this point. So,
like, you know.
your to In terms of like your hierarchy
of what is important to you is content
first then and then the other stuff.
Yeah, it's always main channel,
podcast right below that, second
channel, vlog channel's down there. Um
but the main channel's always been the
priority cuz that that's like the top of
the line funnel. Like people come from
the main channel, Yeah. then go to the
podcast. It used to be main channel,
second channel, podcast, but now the
podcast is is just doing way better. So,
I think main channel, podcast. And we
have a lot of um overlap between the
two. And for these other ventures you
explored, if you don't mind me asking,
was it the partnership with the other
people involved or was it just like you
you know, I don't know if you felt this,
but sometimes I feel like, I've got to
make a product because everyone says I'm
supposed to and
or Probably a combination of both. What
is your advice in terms of
listening to that gut instinct?
For myself if I'm like a Every time
every time I've gone against my gut
because people have told me oh this is a
good idea you should be doing this I've
lost money and I've been miserable and
so I've stopped and and that's part of
it because I've just always had this
this
air of like I I I know what what's best
I know what I'm doing but other people
are telling me no you should do this and
do this and makes it like really trusted
people and I'm like maybe I should do
that that's a good idea but I don't
think it's for me and every time I've
done that even if it's not something I
really feel passionate about I've just
lost money it's taken away focus I'm
stressed about it's not worth it.
That's how I felt about like even just
simple merch t-shirt hoodie whatever
because I feel that my audience is going
to expect a certain level of quality or
even that it's an athletic material or
whatever and
I don't know. Yeah.
I I've struggled even just simply doing
that.
I've always found that unless I'm able
to give it a 100% and like dedicate
everything to it it doesn't turn out as
it should it's not as good as it could
be if I was like really into it like I
have to be as obsessed as I am with the
main channel on something else if I'm
not doing that then it's not going to be
as good.
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