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The lecture introduces the concept of life skills as practical abilities and expertise necessary to solve problems, increase efficiency, and navigate daily challenges effectively in various contexts such as work, ministry, and household management. Drawing on Ecclesiastes 10:10, the speaker uses the metaphor of sharpening an axe before cutting wood to illustrate that wisdom often involves preparing our tools or skills beforehand rather than relying solely on brute strength; similarly, developing life skills allows individuals to tackle tasks with greater ease without exhausting physical effort. The course focuses on non-academic aptitudes like communication, time management, money management, conflict resolution, and emotional intelligence, emphasizing that these are essential for anyone seeking to fulfill God's purposes or serve effectively in their calling.
A significant portion of the discussion centers on personal development as a long-term process akin to running a marathon rather than a short-term fix, requiring patience and perseverance across different seasons of life such as studenthood, parenthood, or retirement. The speaker references Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs to explain human motivation, ranging from basic physiological requirements up through safety, love, esteem, cognitive growth, aesthetics, and finally self-actualization; personal development helps individuals meet these higher-level needs by improving their abilities in areas where they may struggle rather than just focusing on natural inclinations. This approach encourages people to identify uncomfortable challenges like poor time management or fear of public speaking and actively work to improve them through intentional effort and practice.
To facilitate effective personal growth, the lecture outlines practical strategies for organizing one's limited twenty-four-hour day by learning to say no to unnecessary distractions, delegating responsibilities when appropriate, creating prioritized to-do lists with specific deadlines, and identifying peak energy times for demanding tasks while remaining flexible enough to meet team obligations even during less productive hours. The speaker also highlights the importance of maintaining an updated resume or personal record not only for job applications but as a tool for self-assessment to track newly acquired skills over time, noting that modern technology has largely removed financial barriers to education through accessible online platforms like Coursera and Udemy. Ultimately, overcoming natural hesitations such as lack of confidence requires pushing past comfort zones with the understanding that even small daily improvements lead to significant progress toward becoming a better version of oneself equipped for life's demands.
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Excuse me.
Um, says Ecclesiastes 10, verse 10,
[clears throat]
"If the ax is dull, and one does not
sharpen the edge, then he must use more
strength, but wisdom brings success."
Right? So, it talks about
wisdom, it talks about ability,
and talks about some practical things,
right? And using the example of an ax
uh to maybe cut wood,
and it says that if the ax is dull, then
you have to use more effort.
Um, maybe hit or cut that particular
wood. You have to swing it many times in
order to cut through,
and [clears throat] you're going to make
you're going to need to use more
strength. Well, you can use more
strength. You you have maybe you have
more strength. You can use more
strength. No problem with that.
But, the wise thing to do,
uh the better thing to do, would be to
use wisdom and sharpen the ax. And you
sharpen it to such a degree that
you don't have to use more physical
strength. So, that's the that's the
verse.
So, as we study this course,
you know, as we as we pray,
just pray that the Lord will give us
wisdom. The Lord will also enable us to
identify the skills that we have and the
skills that we need in order to
you know, use that in life. Right?
So, let's pray.
Father, we thank you this morning, Lord.
We thank you for this day that you've
given us. We thank you for this time
that you've given us, Lord.
And Lord, even as we go through this
course,
Lord, we pray for your wisdom to be made
manifest in us. And Lord, we thank you
that Lord, that you have become our
wisdom um through the cross, through the
finished work of the cross, that we have
access to God to to your wisdom, Father
God, which you make readily available
for us, Lord. And so, Lord, we we thank
you and we open up our hearts, we open
up our minds, Lord, to receive, Lord,
the wisdom that is from you, Lord, in
order to live life, Lord,
well and live life and to tackle
challenges and to, Lord,
fulfill the purposes of the kingdom,
>> [snorts]
>> Lord, in a wise manner. We thank you,
Lord, we give you all the praise and
glory. In Jesus' master's name we pray.
Amen.
Okay.
Just one second, please.
Okay. So, as we look at this course,
life skills,
um now, this course is a very practical
course and we're going to be looking at
something which are
readily,
you know, applicable. Right? We can try
it out, we can learn things, and uh we
can identify certain things that we need
to use in our lives.
So, if you look at the term skills,
right? We're looking at the term skill.
What is a skill?
Skill is the ability to do something.
It ability to do something well.
Right? In other words, we can say it is
expertise.
Right?
Um
and skills are, you know,
varied in nature.
Right? If you're going to
uh you know, if if you're an athlete,
the skill that you would require is to
maybe
have more strength, maybe maybe run
well, maybe jump higher,
uh run fast, you know, those are the
skills or the abilities.
>> [clears throat]
>> Right? So, um a skill in a general term
is just that, ability to do something
well.
And we what we would call as an
expertise. Okay.
So, when we look at the term life
skills,
we're looking at any skill or any
ability or any expertise
that is effective,
that is useful.
Useful for what? To solve,
to
um enable things to be effective, to
solve problems, um to to generally get
through um our day-to-day
our day-to-day life. And also the things
that we are involved in. Like it could
be work, it could be ministry, it could
be, you know, certain things that we are
doing like, you know, reg- regular
things like maybe cooking, maybe
cleaning. Uh and so these life skills
help us to be more efficient, right? To
be more effective in the things that we
do. Right?
Even that example that we saw
>> [clears throat]
>> of Ecclesiastes 10:10,
it's a simple thing, right? It's like
cutting a tree, cutting firewood, maybe.
Uh maybe chopping down something.
But that act of sharpening
that axe, right? That act of using
something to sharpen the axe, um
like a stone, like a grinder stone or
something to sharpen the axe, that
enables that axe to be sharp sharper
to get the work done. So, that's a life.
So, similarly we have certain skills to
help us to be more effective and
efficient in our life. So, that is what
we are
calling as life skills, right? So, in
this course, um course 315,
life skills, we're going to be looking
at a few of those things that are
required, right?
Um so, these are these are what we would
call as non-academic skills, right?
Aptit- aptitudes,
uh
abilities, and uh
it can even be some behaviors, right?
It can even be some behavior which is
necessary for
uh
to do things well. It is necessary to
live life successfully. And as ministers
of God or as people who are getting
trained and equipped to be effective
[clears throat] ministers,
now these are things that are
that are important. These are things
that are
uh that would enable us to be even more
effective. Uh so we're looking at
communication. We're looking at team
um we're looking at several things,
right? Let's just go through that list,
right?
Okay. So if you look at the content, you
will see that um
Okay. We're looking at, you know,
personal development, personal planning,
goal setting,
uh interpersonal communication skills,
management of time, management of money,
management of people,
So these are the sources.
Um how do we handle conflict because
when it comes to management of people,
you're bound to have that.
Then
um critical thinking, creative
creativity,
um
team. We're talking about team. We We
already I think we kind of studied about
leadership.
So this is about team decision-making.
And also we look at um emotional and
cultural intelligence.
Then change and also continuous
learning. You know, these are these are
some things that are that we're going to
look at. Okay. Um
just one second.
Okay.
Um and also I just wanted to uh say that
for this course, like all the other
courses, some of the other courses that
we've been handling, we will um
uh look at two uh quizzes, one in
September, one in the towards the end of
the course in November. So two quizzes
and um we're going to be uh you know,
having those assessments, two quizzes.
So the total of that
for the course, right? And for
uh the same grading would apply for
e-learning uh we would we would see that
we require at least 70% for e-learning
for online cuz it's the same as the
in-person class, right?
Okay. So,
um
uh
yeah, so notes are uploaded. You can use
that
and the follow through even as I'm
sharing this right on the screen, okay?
So, the term life skills
refers to skills that we need to make
life more efficient, to like make life
more effective for us. And it can be
anything, right? It can be any skill, it
can be any any learning, can be any
ability that we use, you know, even
things like driving
uh skills [clears throat] like uh
cooking, skills like language skills, um
these are useful, right? And for
typically for uh
uh a minister of God, right? Let's say
you're we are training to be ministers
of God, we are training to be, you know,
people who can proclaim or share the
gospel and um
and typically in our situation, right?
What what are some skills that are
required? We're looking at certain
skills only,
right? Somehow that list that we went
through, we're looking at that and there
are there are more, right?
But the idea is for us to be exposed to
the this uh this aspect of life skills,
right? For us, maybe we never even
considered that, right? Maybe we never
considered
uh language skill. Maybe we never
considered communication.
Excuse me, um as as a skill to sharpen,
right? Um
yes, uh we we've been focusing on a lot
of spiritual aspects like gifts and
calling and um you know, other gifts of
the spirit and we've been learning, you
know, we've been doing book studies and
all that, but we we need this as well,
right? We need this because this is
given by God. This is how God has
created us and these are skills that are
uh that that we we can develop within
ourselves so that we can be even more
effective, right? So, um
like each one of us have a little
uh I would say an inclination
or a natural inclination uh which means
natural interests, right? There are some
things that we are we normally move
towards, right? Maybe it is music, maybe
it is reading, maybe it is uh
you know, certain things that uh become
easily to us or we are which we are
interested in, right?
So, the thing is that we normally
uh when it comes to developing skills,
we normally move towards that which we
are good at
to some extent or maybe things that we
like,
right? We are interested in.
Now,
the thing is that we need to look beyond
that. Beyond the just likes. Yes, you
know, things that you normally like, you
are very interested in.
It is uh you know, it is easy to develop
those skills because you are naturally
interested in. But, what about those
areas where we are challenged,
right? What about those areas where we
are struggling,
right?
Maybe we have a difficulty in managing
our time, our schedules. Maybe we have
difficulty in planning, right?
Now, that is a challenge for us and
because it does not come naturally to
us, right? Maybe when it comes to you
know, uh
resolving conflicts, we want to maybe we
are of the you know, like an avoidant
nature.
So, we don't
uh normally you know,
we don't prefer to face conflicts.
Now, those are things that we don't
normally we don't like. So, in such a
setting, how do we
uh you know, develop those skills,
right?
So, one
we need to look at things that are
making us uncomfortable also,
right?
And not necessarily things that we like
and say, "Oh, I love learning languages,
so let me learn a new language." No,
these are things that are troubling you.
These are things that are challenging
us. Um these are things that don't come
easily to us. Now, those areas also, you
know, we need to look at and say, "How
can I be a better
version of myself in this area, right?
How can I change in this particular
area?" And so, those are things that we
need to recognize, right?
Um yeah. So,
when it comes to
recognizing skills and recognizing areas
that we need to change and uh you know,
um sharpen and be better at, this is
what we call as personal development,
right? You're developing yourself
and um improving yourself, right? Um
certain things that God has called you
to do maybe in a in a certain season of
uh life that you are in. And um we are
developing ourselves in order to move
forward. And we are developing ourselves
in order to be better, right?
So, we what we do either when you look
at personal development, it is a way by
which um it is a way by which we
look at ourselves, we assess,
and we see, "What are the skills,
qualities that are required in order to
achieve the goals that we have in life
and to maximize our potential, right?"
So, we look at it as a process. It's not
a one-day thing.
Like when we look at personal
development, um we need to It's like
running a marathon, right? It's not
something um it's not a short-term
thing. It is a long-term. Like certain
things within that personal development,
maybe it would it might take less time.
But on the whole, it would We need to
understand that this takes time. We need
to have patience with ourselves, right?
And we need to persevere. We need to
continue to work at it so that we can
move forward, right? So this personal
development, how can it help us, right?
Now when we develop ourselves
personally,
right? When we set life goals,
um this actually in you know, if you are
a working professional,
it actually sets us up
to do even better, to move forward, to
get promoted
in that work scenario, right?
Maybe if you're a person, if you're
saying, "Okay, I I want to serve God in
the work
uh in in a in a corporate setting,
right? Uh and as we are going through
the college and saying, "Okay, I I want
to get back to the corporate setting and
I want to have you know, serve God in
that area uh uh with my profession."
Fantastic, right? So this when we
develop ourselves personally,
uh it helps us to
get into such a setting and it helps us
to move forward in that area as well,
right? Personal development when it
comes to you know, maybe you called for
quote unquote full-time ministry, right?
And maybe church planting, maybe to be
in a pastoral kind of a setting, uh
maybe as an evangelist, right? Maybe
maybe to help uh someone in the church
uh that someone has planted and then you
want to just be there to assist and to
you know, help in that area.
So even then, personal development would
help because
we are constantly facing uh
uh challenges, we constantly face
um situations or problems that we need
to solve, right? That is why we are
there.
Um so it is
very very important for us. Right? To to
be in a
even if you're saying, "Okay, I'm a I'm
a full-time minister of God.
I I Yes, I I need to have the you know,
understanding of the word
what of God says, 2 Timothy 3 verse 16
that you know, it is it is God great
scriptures God great it is given so that
I can
so the man of God can be thoroughly
equipped. Yes, all that is relevant and
true.
But also, the word of God we see in
Proverbs, we see in Ecclesiastes, we see
the wisdom of God
actually directing us to improve our
abilities to improve our skills. Right?
You know, if you look at um
>> [clears throat]
>> If you look at psychology itself, okay?
So, that is what we're looking at. We're
looking at psychology. There there is
this person by name uh or
he used to be
This is the person Abraham Maslow,
psychologist. Uh in 1970,
he came up with this theory
He said that you know,
um sorry, somebody said something?
Okay,
uh I thought I could hear some
someone
unmuted their mic and spoke something.
Okay. Anyway, so um
Um so, this person actually
if you studied psychology, you know, you
see that Okay, he has actually put
together a table. Yeah, just go to that.
So, he's put together that and saying
there's this hierarchy of needs.
Okay?
Everyone has this hierarchy of needs as
a human being. Okay? Now,
if you look at it at the bottom of the
pyramid, it's like a pyramid at the
triangle.
At the bottom
which physiological needs. Okay? What
are physical physiological needs?
Physiological needs are physical needs
like things like food, shelter, sleep,
rest.
Right?
Exercise and these kind of things
oxygen that we need to breathe and so
on. These are physiological
physiological needs that the body
requires, right?
So that is the is puts that at the
bottom that everybody has that.
We has a need for these these
requirements to be met.
Then
>> [clears throat]
>> um
there's a safety need.
Okay? So next is safety need which means
that
a need to be secure, a need to be
healthy.
A need to have some kind of familiarity,
right?
To to be comfortable.
So there is a safety need.
Then
>> [clears throat]
>> he says that
Sorry.
Excuse me.
Then he talks about a need where So this
thing is when these needs are met, let's
say
the physical or physiological need is
met, then there is a need for a safety
that needs to be met. When that is met,
then you know, he talks about love and
belonging.
Now this is a theory
and
uh based on human behavior and human
observing human behavior, right? So it's
not uh something that is
Christian in nature but it's just
general human behavior
and observing that, right? So it talks
about love and belongingness, right?
Where
um you know, being part of a group,
being part of a community, being part of
a family and socially and even at work,
right? Um so giving something, receiving
something and uh affection and respect
and love and so on. So that
belongingness, right? Is there.
Then he talks about esteem,
right? Uh Meaning
self-respect,
um self-esteem,
and respect of others,
um and
respect and recognition of people, maybe
at work, you know, affirmation,
approval,
all these things, right? Which goes
above
above that need of
when when you and your love and
belongingness is need is met, then he
talks about
Then, he talks about cognitive needs,
meaning, you know, the the need for
knowledge, the need for learning things,
understanding things, right? Um being
curious about how things work, um why
why is it why are why are people
behaving like this,
um the need for learning new things,
okay? So, he calls it a cognitive need.
And then, need for beauty, order,
creativity, um
uh you know, maybe uh
composing something, creating something,
maybe art, maybe literature, like a you
know, poetry and things like that,
aesthetic needs.
So, we see that
you know, there's design more than just
functional things, you know, we know
that things can work, you know, if you
uh let's say if you're building a house,
a simple structure would be fine, right?
You just need a Yeah, you need to have a
foundation, you need to have the
flooring, you need to have the you know,
the pillars, you need to have the roof,
you need to have the wall
um to keep things out and to keep things
in, you know, like wall and then
functional and drainage and
uh and electricity and so many things,
you know, it can it is a very functional
thing, right, when you have a place of
dwelling.
But, [clears throat] when your
functional needs are met, there is a
need for creativity, right? So, you're
saying that, "Okay, you know, I'd like
my house to have some plants.
I want to grow some plants. I want to
grow some maybe plants which have which
bear flowers. And I want this to be a
beautiful and I want the plants to be
here, here, here, you know, in the in
the in the house.
Um and maybe you might think like, okay,
uh maybe the walls can be of a certain
color because uh you know, it brightens
the place. And maybe you put some
artwork, you put some paintings.
Um maybe some quotes, you know, you put
a frame, picture frame, and you and you
put it on the wall. Now, why do you do
that? Right?
Because
within you there is a there is a need to
to be creative, you appreciate beauty,
and you appreciate, you know, things
like color and design and so on. And you
So, you want it to be in a certain way.
Right? Um otherwise, everybody every all
houses, all buildings would be the same
thing, right? But there is a there is a
inner desire to be creative, an inner
desire to make things beautiful, and and
so on. So, this is aesthetic needs,
right? And beyond that is the need for
becoming who you were created to be.
Right? There is that drive, there is
that uh there is that hunger. I want to
reach the full potential of who I have
been created to be.
I I want to I want that significance.
Um so, he he calls it the
self-actualization
need, right? Now, well, people can say,
okay, this is uh this is not the right
order or But then, if you look at it, uh
if you look at generally the people
around and if you look at the world
around, you see that this uh it kind of
falls in place, right? So,
um it is general human um behavior,
observing human behavior. Yes, it's a
fallen world, and because of which, you
know, um even your identity could be
based on one of these things, you know,
uh love and belongingness. Your identity
could flow from that. Now, that's
because it's a fallen world. But over
and overall, we see that yes,
this kind of
need is there, right? It starts with
physiological needs and it goes way up
and climbs up and reaches that place of
self need for self-actualization, right?
That hunger is there in people. And we
know, like all these things are met in
Christ, right? But we really look at
some of these physical things, some of
these things that are there, we see that
God has created us, right? In in these
in the in the in this way. And God and
there's nothing wrong in reaching that
place. There's nothing wrong in
fulfilling that within God-ordained
ways and methods, right? So, that's the
that's the thing. Um
So,
when it comes to personal development,
right?
Um
again, I'm just going back to that. So,
you know, the
the
we develop ourselves when it comes to
meeting these needs in the best way
possible, right? In the effective way
possible. We develop ourselves, right?
When it comes to let's say
the need for learning, yes, we develop
some skills
and abilities. Like if it's relational
skill, for example, love and
belongingness, right? We're looking at
the third level, love and belongingness.
Now, there is again
a need for us to be to develop ourselves
to be able to communicate, right? Maybe
it doesn't come naturally to be able to
communicate, to be able to relate to
people,
to be able to,
you know, get along with people,
right?
So, maybe there are certain things that
we are doing wrong,
right? Certain things, certain behaviors
that we have learned wrong that we need
to undo in order to
you know, fulfill that need.
Right?
So, so these are things. So, when we
look at personal development, we are
looking at things that actually
uh help us
uh in this even when we look at this
Maslow's hierarchy of needs to help us
to reach that place. Right? So, uh so it
help definitely personal development is
something that is ongoing and it is
necessary uh in every season of our
lives, right?
Some practical things if we want to look
at when it comes to personal
development, practical things is how we
are spending our time. Okay?
So, um you know, changes we need to make
in order to develop ourselves. Right?
Um you know,
So, to uh some changes that we need to
make
with the way we spend our time so that
we can develop ourselves. Right? Now,
we know that everyone has the equal
amount of time. Right?
Whether you're young, whether you're
old, whether you're living in this
country or that country, all of us have
only 24 hours a day. Right? Now, that's
the thing.
Now, how we utilize that time, how we
use that time is up to us. Right?
And maybe you're in the season of life
where you are a student, like you're a
full-time student. Uh that's a that is
what you are.
Or maybe you're in a season of life
where you are a working person and of
course you are enrolled in this course,
so you're learning as well. Right? Maybe
you're in a season of life where you are
a parent, parent with young children or
parent with um teenage children or
parent with adult children. Right?
You're in a season of life. So,
in every season of life
there is a demand of how we spend our
time.
Right?
Um so, there is a demand on how we spend
our time, how we spend our
9:00 to 5:00, how we spend our 5:00 to
9:00, right? There is a demand.
Okay, this is this responsibility
requires our time to be spent in these
ways. In these
uh in these duties, right?
Uh so
Now, that is that differs from season to
season, from people to people. And maybe
you're in a kind of a different
profession. Maybe you're retired. So, it
requires that your time needs to be
spent in a certain way, right?
Like spending time with family, spending
time on work, and education, things that
we do enjoy like a hobby, maybe.
Now,
if we need to develop ourselves,
if we need to give time to develop
ourselves,
okay, so one of the things that we need
to do is to say no, learn to say no to
certain things, right?
We cannot If we need to organize our
time, we need to be able to
say no to certain things that are
unnecessary,
right? That are stealing our time,
activities that are taking away our
time,
um and you know, making things wasteful.
So, we need to learn to say no.
Okay. Maybe things that are If you're a
working professional,
um things that are not
fully your responsibility. You know, you
we are responsible for certain things.
We are not responsible for other things.
And if we give our time and effort into
that,
uh we we will not have time to you know,
personally develop ourselves, right? So,
we need to learn to say no. The other
thing is to learn to delegate, right?
This is another important thing. What
does delegate mean? We're going to look
at it a little later, but in a simple
way, delegate means to learn to hand
over responsibilities. And there's a way
to do that, right? So that
we we can especially if you're
overseeing a team, if you're over you
have a big responsibility. Now, we need
to delegate responsibly, right? We need
to do it in a way so that the work
uh you
give that responsibility to the person
in a way that that person can actually
do it effectively. Right? In fact, more
effectively than
how we would have done it, right?
Because
for various reasons, it is they they are
good at it
and they have the time for it and
they've also been trained for it. And
so, you know, you give them the work and
they do it.
But you're just overseeing it. So so,
delegating, right? So that leaves us
with more time. The third thing,
how we can organize our time better for,
you know, spending time on ourselves to
develop ourselves is to have a list.
Like it is to have a what we can call as
a to-do list. We studied in this
leadership as well. To do a to-do list
to that helps us to do things
um you know, without missing out certain
things and also that helps us to do the
work
assigned for us.
So we don't miss out on certain things
and what are those things that we need
to be done. And also, along with that
to-do list, it is good for us to assign
a
time frame, right? Saying, "Okay, by
this time I need to do this." So that
you don't
spend the whole 24 hours doing one task,
right? So we we say, "Okay, I need to
finish this task within this time." The
to-do list.
Um
Yes, it also means to give up certain
things that you don't want to do, you
don't need to do.
Don't want to do meaning
it it it means that, okay, you postpone
it to a certain time. If it's important,
you need to do it. If it's necessary,
you need to do it. But, if it's not
important, if it's not urgent, if it's
not necessary,
then you can put it on the shelf. Like,
you don't have to waste your time with
it
right now, right? Because time is
only 24 hours. Okay. So,
if there are some things that you don't
need to do,
right? It is not necessary, even those
we don't have to
um [snorts] you know, take care of them,
take it upon ourselves to do it, right?
Um this is also something that we
studied earlier,
identifying
what is our
most productive time of the day, right?
Uh because all of us have that uh sense
of
you know, time in the sense we certain
times of the day we are very productive,
right? We are we are able to do things
well, and certain times of the day we
are not able to do things well because
our energy level is low, our
concentration, focus, everything is low.
So,
the thing is to do the most demanding
task during that time. You know, what is
it really required, what is really
important, what really demands our
thinking,
our analysis, our physical effort. Why?
Because we are
um we are most effective during such
times, right? So, do it. Now,
uh again, we should say we we should
also say that
when we are working in a team,
well, irrespective of whether we are
you know, most productive at that at
that certain time or not, we need to be
able to work.
Like, we need to be able to put in that
effort, right? Because the others
require our
uh our our work. They they require what
what work we are doing. We need to do
that.
For example, if
uh let's say in a church setting, if you
you know as a as a as a setup team, you
know, you're part of the setup team
where you're setting up the audio,
you're setting up the video
so that the next team can come and take
over or you know
participate in in the result of the work
that you've done. Maybe you've set up
everything, all the
equipment, everything, the audio you've
set up. Now the worship team will need
to come
and as soon as your work is done in
order to be able to practice
in order to be able to you know run
through their songs so that they can be
ready for the service, right? So the
setup team, the worship team.
Now you might be part of the setup team
and you might be let's say most
energetic in the afternoon, right?
But if the setup required is required to
be done early in the morning so that the
worship team may come
irrespective of when you're energetic,
you need to be able to go and do it,
right? But
normally in the normal course of life,
if you are most
energetic at a certain time, identify it
and work that requires your thinking,
your your energy, you know, do it at
that time, right? Okay, then of course
this
so we looked at time then you know it
it's good for us to put up put together
a a CV, a resume that
it's it's not only for you know normally
when we think of resume
we do it when we apply for
jobs, right? When you're applying for a
ministry position or applying for a
employment. Now that is when we put
together a resume, right? Curriculum
vitae as it's called, CV, right? But
yes it is useful during for that and we
need it, but it It be very useful for
our own benefits, for our own
putting together of a what what have we
done
with our life?
Right? What have we studied?
What has been our experience? Because,
you know, you learn new skills, we don't
put it there. You know, if you don't
update our resume, right? Maybe you in
the last 6 months you learned something
new. Maybe in the last 1 year you
learned something new. So,
if we update our resume, then those
skills, those learnings can be
transferred, you know, it could be just
a word doc, it could be just a piece of
paper that you write it.
Um but it it ain't for sure, size paper
and you file it away. But it can be
helpful. Okay, you're saying, "Okay,
2026 August.
Okay, this is my resume." Right? So, it
it'll help to put to the list down the
skills and abilities, education,
um employment qualifications,
everything, you know, whatever
activities that you were involved in,
whatever volunteer work that you did.
All that goes into the resume to to
for you to be personally able able to
assess it. And also, if you need to
share it with a prospective
employer, then you can share that,
right?
Now,
just want to say that
when we want to develop ourselves
personally
or
if we want to learn a new skill
or sharpen an old skill,
definitely there are barriers,
right? So, uh
there's there is a barrier because
something which is new, which is uh not
our comfort zone.
And we're not comfortable with it, it is
something new. So, definitely there will
we will feel some kind of a lack of
confidence, right?
Um
And so,
we it it is not normal
for us to experience that because it's a
new thing. Right? Maybe you want to do
you know you want to do a
course on public speaking. Maybe you've
never spoken publicly. [clears throat]
You've always publicly in the sense
addressing a you know formal gathering.
You've never done that and you know that
is something that you
feel that okay this work that I'm
thinking of requires that making
presentations and so on. And so you're
saying okay I need to build that skill.
Right? So suppose you do a course. You
now you're required to speak. Right? Now
that's not something that is
comfortable. So you feel
maybe your confidence level is low.
You feel that you know my thoughts are
not coming in order. My you know the
words that I speak you know I'm I'm
constantly searching for words. I need
to build my vocabulary the language that
I you you know the grammar and
everything it's it's not proper. So you
feel less confident. Right? It's normal
to feel that. But
that lack of confidence or that lack of
even self-esteem
should not be an obstacle.
Right?
We we need to push past that barrier.
Say yes it's normal but it's not I'm not
going to be this way. Right? Yes it is
normal to feel this way but I'm not
going to be in that same
same place that I'm going to move
further
and even if we improve 1% you know
that's what they say you know
1% every day.
Now that's progress.
1% one out of 100. Right? So
it's a small shift
but definitely it's a shift for the
better.
Right? So if you learn a new word if you
learn a new phrase if you learn a new
way of doing things,
Excuse me.
It's better. It's progress. Right? So,
don't let the lack of confidence or lack
of you know self-esteem stop you
from moving forward. Yes, it let it not
be a permanent obstacle. Right?
The second one is the finances required.
Right? Sometimes See, let's say we're
doing a course, if we're doing
something, maybe you want to do it in a
in a in a different place, different
country. Definitely there are you know
finances are
required. Like money is required.
But then today with the technology that
we have, with the internet, and with the
content that is available on the
internet, this is definitely overcome.
Right? So, those days maybe years
before, you know, [clears throat] if we
cannot travel to a certain place and you
know be in that place and enroll in that
um physically be part of some university
or school, then we may not be have
access to that education. But today
we can do that. Right? With the
technology, we can enroll online and and
so many of you are you know are online
and you know from from a different place
in in the in in from different places in
India, from you know from places outside
of India. So, you see that
>> [clears throat]
>> it is possible.
So, even though this can seem like a
barrier, it is not
because of technology, because of so
many free courses as well. Like
inexpensive and also, you know, where we
don't have to spend any money.
This is available on
certain other platforms also. Like if
you're looking at practical learning and
practical skills,
you know, there is like Coursera and
Udemy and all and all these sites offer
courses that you can do it for free,
right? Um and of course, if you need a
certificate, you need to pay
um a certain amount. But these these the
the learning is available, right?
And so many other avenues also.
So, that is a second thing. The third
one would be of course, if you are in a
season of life where you are a um
you know, a
you have you have always you committed
to a family in the sense you you know,
you are a parent, you are have young
children and you are a parent, you have
maybe teenage children and whatever be
the season of life, there are some
family commitments like when you uh
spending time with the family, uh family
responsibilities are there. Maybe you're
a you know, you're like a homemaker,
there are some fam you know,
responsibilities. But we can always work
around those responsibilities, right?
Maybe a few hours on a certain day,
uh we can always find and we can we can
always work around it, right? But the
main thing is to find out, okay,
and be intentional and see, okay, in a
week or in a day, what are those hours
that I can use for bettering myself, for
developing myself, right? What I What is
it can I What is it I can invest towards
personal development, right?
So, with that we come to the end of this
chapter and then we'll move into uh you
know, personal planning and and all the
other other skills that we want to
develop into. Some Some of Some of these
things we will go at a brisk pace
because we've already learned in
leadership and so on.
Uh Christian leadership. But some we
will take some time to dwell on dwell on
this uh dwell further in into
[clears throat] this topic, right?
Okay. So, with that we'll stop here and
um
we'll meet next class. If you have any
questions, you know, you can make a note
of it. We'll address it in our
uh next class, right? All right, thank
you. God bless.
>> Thank you, sir.
Thank you, sir.
>> Thank you. God bless you. Bye-bye.