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Leading productivity expert David Epstein argues that in our current era of information overload and infinite choice, algorithms will inevitably structure our attention unless we impose our own constraints; therefore, viewing limits not as obstacles but as opportunities is vital for creativity and well-being. He challenges common myths like the 10,000-hour rule by advocating for early sampling to build a broad skill set rather than hyper-specialization, illustrating that strong ideas should be loosely held so individuals can change their minds based on evidence without eroding trust. This perspective counters social media culture's punishment of changing one's mind and critiques scientific practices where researchers retroactively fit hypotheses to data, leading to false positives; instead, Epstein suggests focusing on fundamentals over marginal gains or fads that promise huge effects from tiny interventions.
To apply these principles practically, the discussion introduces a framework involving batching commitments into mono-tasking blocks rather than multitasking, which is crucial given how degraded modern attention spans have become and how frequent switching harms immune function. This approach combines with making all commitments visible to overcome subtractive neglect bias, where humans overlook solutions that involve taking things away due to an evolutionary fear of scarcity, allowing individuals to identify overcommitment before starting new tasks. Furthermore, adopting a "satisficing" mindset—setting good enough criteria beforehand rather than endlessly optimizing—helps avoid the regret and anxiety associated with maximization, while grounding creativity in familiar contexts ensures that innovations gain necessary buy-in without alienating audiences or relying on pure flashes of genius.
Beyond individual productivity strategies, the conversation highlights how eroding social norms and trust can cause lasting societal damage unless corrective actions are taken to restore shared "imagined stories" essential for collective action. To counteract this decline in cohesion, advocates suggest engaging in real-world activities like clubs or dance classes that reduce mortality risk more effectively than quitting smoking alone, thereby restoring sync with others and countering excessive autonomy. While some may pursue extreme self-constraint experiments or optimization tactics involving supplements and gadgets to claim precise biological ages, the speaker warns these often induce anxiety and FOMO by suggesting there are always better ways to live; instead, sustainable success usually requires slow gestation through small changes over time, embracing discomfort as essential for growth rather than seeking a perfect plan.
Ultimately, the central message is that institutions, social norms, and self-imposed guardrails form the foundation of shared prosperity and personal stability in an overwhelming world. By shifting from viewing limits as oppressive constraints to seeing them as tools to clarify priorities, individuals can launch productive experimentation without needing all necessary skills beforehand or a perfect strategy. This approach embraces imperfection and accepts that great works often result from tinkering with existing ideas rather than pure novelty, allowing people to stop wondering how to live and start living through meaningful commitments and rituals that provide structure amidst the chaos of modern convenience.
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Because everything's competing for your
attention now, if you're not structuring
your attention, then algorithms are
going to structure it for you. David
Epstein is a New York Times best-selling
author
>> examining the factors that enable people
to excel in sports, the arts, business,
science. His TED [music] Talks on
performance science have been viewed
more than 11 million times. You're
somebody who thinks a lot about how we
can be
better. I have now almost 20 years of
experience in [music] in in vetting
studies. If I think there's some
misperception out there, I'm kind of
obsessive about wanting to to change the
narrative. You may think that your brain
is made for [music] thinking, but it's
actually made for preventing you from
having to think whenever possible. We
spend the most time and energy on the
least important decisions because we're
having trouble telling the difference
between the options. What we often need
to do is clarify our priorities.
>> [music]
>> For our productivity, for our sense of
well-being, we have to have constraints
and boundaries. And that's hard, but
more important in this kind of
information overload, infinite choice
world that we're living in now.
David, so great to see you. So excited
to have you back on the show. It's been
a handful of years. You're on the
precipice of releasing this fantastic
new book. Congratulations.
>> Thank you. And I wanted to start with
kind of how I think of you. I think of
you as an athlete, of course, this track
and field athlete, this lifelong runner,
a writer, a scientist, a thought leader,
very much in the tradition of other
authors like Malcolm Gladwell, perhaps,
Adam Grant, Daniel Pink. And you come up
with these positions that put you at
odds with modern productivity culture.
The most famous of which is you upending
the 10,000-hour rule that pitted you
mano a mano against Malcolm Gladwell.
This sort of match quality grit versus
fit thing that
you know, kind of made you an antagonist
Angela Duckworth. How do you think about
your work and when somebody asks you at
a cocktail party like, you know, what do
you do? Like, how do you answer that
question? I usually start asking them
about what they do instead because I'm
more curious about that than telling
them what I do, but I think about it as
I obsess over
mistranslations
or misperception of data in scientific
research and then work to try to either
correct or or temper the
repurcussions of those
misperceptions basically. So, when I see
something, I follow a ton of research.
You know, I transitioned from training
to be a scientist to being a writer.
And I'm like a dog with a bone when I
get onto some research that I see is
becoming very popular and is being
completely misinterpreted. Um
and I should say with that happened with
both Angela and Malcolm, but they are
like
two of the most wonderful people in my
life now. So, these were
very generative relationships based on
disagreement.
>> Yeah, so you had this very famous kind
of debate with Malcolm where you guys
were pitted against each other on this
10,000 hour rule idea. But, you know,
the TLDR of that is that in the
aftermath of that, you guys became
friends and running buddies. And if
there's one thing about Malcolm is like
he's fine with being wrong. Like, he's
like, it's cool. Like, ideas change and
you evolve and he's not really hung up
on that. No, not at all. So, the first
the first time we ever met was for this
debate at MIT and they brought us back
five years later.
And at the end
you know, I we were we were talking
about how our minds had changed since
our first meeting and he said,
"Oh, you you you convinced me." We were
because I was arguing about that the
science actually shows early
specialization is not the typical path
to becoming elite, the 10,000 hours and
usually it's early sampling where you
gain these broader toolbox and learn
where you fit and things like that. And
he said, "You convinced me. I think I
made this error of conflation where
with the idea that it takes a lot of
practice to become great, which is true,
but I conflated that with the idea that
implies necessary early hyper
specialization, which I now think is
false. So, we ended up kind of on the
same ground. And I think he actually set
a great model for me.
After some years of us So, we we ran
together the first time the day after
our debate because he kind of said, when
we were coming off stage, "You got me
with some of that data. Like, why don't
we go run together and we'll talk about
this?" And several years later, I said,
"You know, now we're good friends,
you could have just crushed me. You
know, I I just didn't have the
professional capital at that point." And
he said, "Yeah, but I have the luxury of
learning from my critics." And that set
like such a beacon for me to think about
when you have earnest critics, not just
someone like ranting at you on the
internet, but earnest critics, is what
can I learn from them to be better. And
he became kind of a even though we still
have disagreements about plenty of
things, but he became a role model for
me in that sense. There's something very
high integrity about that and and
somewhat obvious also, like if we can
just hold our ideas a little more
loosely and be open to being proven
wrong and when we're proven wrong, like
kind of embrace that with curiosity.
That engenders trust over time and yet
when you kind of canvas culture, like
people don't generally do that. They
doubling down even in the face of you
know, incontrovertible evidence that
suggests that they're wrong. And there
is this idea that if you change your
mind or if you're proven wrong, that
like there's something bad about that
that that erodes trust, but in fact it's
quite the opposite.
>> And I'd say Malcolm's like the
embodiment of that phrase, strong ideas
loosely held. Like, he will put
something forth as if it's like
absolutely he's positive, but then if
you bring something that contradicts it,
he'll change, right? He'll be like,
"Yeah, oh yeah, I was wrong about that."
>> Next, moving on, you know. And that like
all all this research I've written about
about people who have good judgment and
make good forecasts, you know, about
things in the future. One of the
absolute
uh
common characteristics of them is many
small updates. Like they're constantly
flip-flopping and changing.
But it seems like sometimes in the
public sphere, you get punished for
flip-flopping, even though it is one of
the hallmarks of people with good
judgment. Somebody
I don't know if it's you, but somebody
who kind of writes books like you do
should write a book about this. Yeah,
there there is
>> Cuz it is a real cultural problem. Yeah,
yeah, I mean, I wrote a chapter about it
in Range about this good judgment. And
also Philip Tetlock, the psychologist,
has written about some of this. But I
think what remains to be done is putting
it in this context of kind of the
information environment today, where it
feels like you'll you'll really be
punished and people become so
reactionary that they they double down
cuz that's so easy to do, right? Like
somebody, if you put something out in
the public, somebody on the internet is
going to attack you in a
horrible way. Like in a way where
prior to the internet, you maybe would
have been attacked twice in your life
and now you might get it 10,000 times a
week. And I think that just makes people
really, really
reactionary and and difficult to kind of
Mhm. change, right? They just want to
punch back. Like they feel hurt and they
want to hurt somebody back instead of
actually looking for the the right idea.
>> Yeah, and what are the long-term
implications of that on, you know, human
psychology and just culture, politics,
etc. when we're in that fear stance?
Like nobody wants to say anything
because they don't want to be criticized
because of the nature of social media
and just
you know, having a voice in the public
square. I mean, again to go to Malcolm,
one amazing thing was
I was attacking his most famous idea
and he was still willing to change on
it, where there was a British author who
who
wrote kind of a version of the same
thing in the UK that was very popular.
And when I was on British radio with
him, he just absolutely came after me.
Like there was no maybe you have some
points here. It was
you're wrong and even if you were right,
it would be the wrong message to send,
right? So, I kind of got to see these
two different avenues where one person
who because he had published this and
become famous for it
was just like
holding on to it with a death grip, you
know?
>> So, in other words, not only is he
holding on to being right he's also
saying at the same time like even if I'm
wrong it doesn't matter cuz it's like
better if this was true. And and and I I
>> [laughter]
>> and I think that's really presumptuous
cuz my take is always
what
kind of differences between people are
important uh for outcomes we care about
not just folklore but which are which
are real, which matter for outcomes we
care about and then how do we use those
things to get the best outcomes for all
people and sometimes that might involve
information that people don't
necessarily like but I still think it's
important to do.
And in terms of science writing
generally I mean
right? I have a I have a new book coming
out and
something in there I mean I have a
chapter in there about how much
scientific research is wrong, right? And
and I learned some of this because when
I was a grad student I did some
inappropriate statistical analysis.
And I I had an independent fact I
fact-checked it. I hired independent
fact-checkers and yet something in there
will not be right. Whether it's because
I made a mistake, I framed something
wrong, it it's just science that doesn't
replicate. I I did a tons of vetting.
You know, I had scientists read it. I
had my fact-checker read it. I have now
almost 20 years of experience in in in
vetting studies.
But if you're going to write about a lot
of science, I think you have to go in
knowing something here is not going to
hold up the way that I thought it would.
I just don't know what it is yet.
>> Mhm. And then be ready to to correct
that when you find
>> Yeah, in the new book you use the
example of this Cornell uh nutrition
researcher and
you kind of canvas, you know, the
problematic nature of like the you know,
developing the hypothesis in advance and
in retrospect. I mean, maybe it's worth
kind of like discussing that right now.
>> Yeah, so this was a Cornell researcher
named was Brian Wansink who was the the
most arguably the most famous nutrition
researcher in the world at at one time.
He did these really fascinating studies,
the most famous one being the so-called
bottomless bowl study where people were
told to eat as much soup as they wanted,
but some people had a there was a hidden
tube under one of the bowls that was
refilling it. And the finding was that
those people ate much more. The idea
being like we don't know when we're
actually full.
>> [snorts]
>> Fast forward a few years and basically
his his whole life's work was retracted
more or less.
Retracted or at least corrected. And
what happened was he was doing what's
called harking, which is stands for
hypothesizing after the results are
known, meaning he would have some
hypothesis for what he wanted to test.
You know, like that people will eat more
if their snacks come in a larger bowl or
something like that. Or if they're
watching an action movie versus a
romance.
>> Mhm.
And maybe that wouldn't work out. And
he'd say
bummer. Like my hypothesis didn't work
out, but then he had all this data. So,
well, let's go look through the data to
actually see some correlations that do
hold up. Maybe it's uh
well, if you are watching the action
movie and your snacks are in a big bowl
after 9:00 p.m., then you eat more,
right? They'd add all these qualifiers.
It's like when you watch an NFL game and
you hear, you know, the Chiefs are
undefeated at home when Taylor Swift is
in the audience and they're wearing
their alternate jerseys or something.
You can be sure that somebody first
looked for a simpler stat. It didn't
hold up. And then they went data
dredging basically to look for
associations. The problem is
when you do that, you're almost ensuring
that you're going to find false
positives. Cuz you're essentially doing
an infinite number of tests just looking
for something that'll work.
>> So that you can reverse engineer almost
to you know, confirmation of your your
bias towards a certain hypothesis.
>> And and you may not even know that
you're doing it, right? So what you have
to do is set your hypothesis ahead of
time and stick to it, right? This is the
problem is what's called researcher
degrees of freedom. Having too much
freedom in to to retroactively fit a
hypothesis to the data.
And it it's this has led to some kind of
a sadly funny story that some scientists
call the everything in your fridge
causes and prevents cancer study. This
study that looked at all
all of the research done on various
foods and showed that almost everything
has been found both to cause and prevent
cancer. Except bacon which sadly was
only found to cause cancer. So
Yeah, this is uh you know, in a macro
sense
uh
when you kind of think about that in the
context of our eroded
um you know, trust in experts and
institutions is truly problematic and
just
because I'm I'm steeped in the the kind
of like health and nutrition space. I'm
not a scientist, but anybody who is
interested in that and is scrolling on
social media will find any number of
like influencers who are cherry-picking
whatever study to say whatever.
>> Yeah. And it just creates mass confusion
and paralysis because essentially to
your point like everything's toxic,
everything's going to kill you. And
there's always some PubMed thing that
somebody can point to to say this is bad
or this is good. And it's very reductive
and you can't help but think like what
was the hypothesis going into this? You
know, what were the variables that were
controlled for and you know, what were
the biases of the researchers etc. uh
that are driving these results. And it
just creates this morass of confusion.
Absolutely. I think there are a few few
good things though. One is
this problem
which is akin the analogy I use is like
a sharpshooter who shoots at a wall
and then goes and draws a bull's-eye
around some of the bullets that are
grouped. And then then people come in
later and say wow, what a good shooter.
But the person was just firing randomly
and then drawing the bull's-eye around
it. That's like what's happening with
some of this science and especially in
nutrition science.
The good thing is it's scientists
themselves who raised these concerns
sometimes about their own work. Once
that I did this in one occasion as a
grad student not realizing it was a
problem. I had access to a very powerful
statistical program, had a ton of data.
Go find me some correlations, right? It
didn't occur to me, it's kind of
counterintuitive that
looking backward would cause would make
you almost assuredly finding false
positives.
But the scientific community raised this
and now things are are better, which is
why
in in the book I lead one chapter with
this crazy study that makes it look like
in the lead-up to the year 2000 to the
millennium, all these dietary supplement
and medication studies are producing all
these miracles. And then in 2000, bang,
everything stops working. It's like,
what happened? Was there a millennium
bug or something that caused this to
stop working? It's no, it's
that the the funding agency said, you
have to register your hypothesis
beforehand now, so we know what it is.
And that caused almost all of these
studies to stop working. So that So
science is working better because of it.
So I think
working better than ever, so I hope
trust can be rebuilt. But the the
influencer point, it's tough to do
anything about that, but I think there's
some basics that people should be
equipped with, like
small interventions almost never cause
huge changes. So when you see studies
that are promising some tiny change that
leads to some big effect,
very unlikely to hold up in the long
run. Big Big effects usually require
large or sustained interventions.
And also when they're very particular,
like there was a sauna study that I was
criticizing at some point
where it was like some
cognitive effect, but you had to
do sauna between 9 and 12 times, you
know, for at least like certain years
during your life. And when you start to
see these very particular
requirements for it, that means somebody
almost certainly was like looking how
they could divide the subject groups in
the study to to get a positive result.
It wasn't there in the first place.
Yeah, I mean, I think a lot of it is
over indexing on weak data sets to draw
conclusions that aren't necessarily
supported by the data. Like, that's sort
of the general kind of like root of a
lot of these conclusions around
outcomes. Like,
small sample sizes, very minimal
positive outcome, but an overemphasis on
the connection between these two things
to create a video and like make
everybody engage in a habit change that
isn't really moving the needle. And all
of these things are like 1% cherry on
top of the Sunday stuff. That's like a
whole I'm glad you said that because
that I feel like is a whole
ethos or movement that
And I understand why people get
attracted to this 1% stuff. Like, let's
say it's true.
>> Yeah.
But while ignoring these fundamentals
that account for all of the other stuff,
right?
>> it's like usually it it involves a
capsule or some kind of like fun new
behavior as opposed to the drudgery of
like, well, you know, go to bed early
and
>> [laughter]
>> like eat real food and move your body.
That's right. And and I mean, I'm for
stuff that motivates people to change,
right? But
but it's like
the fundamentals are the fundamentals
for for a reason. If you want to be a
good runner, you have to run a lot.
>> I see this all the time with runners.
Like, it's like
which of these shoes with the new foam
should I get and and these trying these
little things and these dietary
supplements and
>> Norwegian method is going to unlock, you
know, unlimited potential all of a
sudden and this is all you have to do.
But it's like first of all, you have to
run consistently and stay injury free
and and and recover. Like, you have to
run and recover. And so, it's like
jumping ahead
to get getting the new equipment or the
or the latest fad where you kind of
haven't gone through the basics. It's
sort of a dopamine inducing activity
that is
confused with actually doing something
that's moving you forward. It's a form
of analysis paralysis.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And and it's I think it's
tough to get away from too. I mean, even
knowing I don't know about you, but even
knowing everything I know,
I I still sometimes if I get fed some
influencer thing that's giving me some
kind of 1% thing and claiming it's going
to change my life, I still sometimes I'm
like a little bit curious and I look
even knowing what I know cuz it's
everywhere, right? So.
>> And I'll try these things. I love it,
too. You know what I mean? I'm not going
to the source material and you know,
rifling through it to see its
effectiveness, but you know, as a
lifelong athlete, you know, swimmer,
what- whatever, like, you know, I know
that like it's just it's really about
the basics. And yeah, there's always
improvements and iterations on training
science, etc. But it's all marginal in
comparison to
you know, what we know works. But then
what gets trafficked on the internet,
you know, is just a is this reductive
version of that that gets delivered to
the average person who doesn't have the
kind of background that you have in
athletics or science.
>> right. I mean, the the good thing about
some of the science
sort of good and I made sure to to put
in a little bit about this because I was
in writing in this chapter about how
much scientific research is not true is
that
there are studies showing that people
are reasonably good at guessing what
science isn't going to replicate. So, if
they if they're if a study is described
to them and and then they're asked, do
you think this replicated or not? People
actually get it right a majority of the
time. Like it just doesn't sound right.
So, I think if you can slow down a
little and say, does this sound likely?
Is this a small intervention that
promises a huge effect? It's it's not
likely to be true.
Meanwhile, I think the less sexy thing,
and maybe I would say this having
because I've just been thinking about
constraints for the last few years, is
structuring your life in a way that
makes make the basics easier and more
repeatable, right? It's like putting
structures in place that get you just to
do the fundamental things instead of
looking for these kind of marginal gains
that that often, you know, at the elite
level often people are focusing on the
marginal gains and that's what you hear
about.
>> take advantage of that 1%. But for the
average person, this is a distraction.
Yeah. Yeah.
>> More than it is helpful.
>> they've already gone through that other
99% that you haven't really seen, right?
So that's why they're focused on those
little margins. Well, good thing we have
Steve Magness to police the internet.
>> [laughter]
>> On this stuff, right? God bless him.
>> energy for policing the internet than I
do.
>> he has he must
>> have a very thick skin. Yeah. Oh, he
does Do you know how I don't know if
I've told you Steve and I first met
years ago
when he was a
source of mine when I was at ProPublica
when I was investigating the Oregon
Project. Okay, that's how we first met.
And so
Cuz you're the one who broke the story
the Nike Oregon Project story and he was
your inside man.
>> He was an inside He was one of the
inside men, yeah. And um
he went through some stuff I mean, that
is a tough position to be in. Like
I was getting
stacks of paper from lawyers and I had
an organization behind me.
Explain for the audience who might not
know what we're talking about.
>> Oregon Project was
probably the most famous track group in
the world for years. It was funded by
Nike, highly funded. It was meant to
create Americans who could win medals in
distance running. It was the head coach
was Alberto Salazar, the most famous
American
distance runner
and one of the greatest.
And Steve Magness, who who we're talking
about, who's a physiologist and and
performance writer and coach to some
elite runners,
was an assistant coach there
and started to be asked to do things
that he thought were unethical, like to
test an illegal method of of using a
supplement for training to You know, he
saw some documents that suggested
athletes were using banned substances
and things like that.
And he decided to
to speak out about it. Um and when I was
at ProPublica working with the BBC, we
did an investigation of the team.
Long story short, it led to the the team
being disbanded and the coach being
suspended.
And Steve was the first person to be
willing to put his name and face,
you know, on camera. We were doing a
documentary for the BBC behind these
allegations, which then led other people
to come out. But he was kind of on an
island against a very famous
organization that didn't like what he
was saying. And so, I kind of feel like
he's like
been through it, you know? There's a
He's battle-tested. You know, he was a
Jeffrey Wigand character. There's when I
think of him, this this will sound
silly, but there's a
in in in anime that I really like called
One Piece, that's really famous. And
there's a part where one guy is trying
to encourage another guy to have
bravery.
And so, he has him
uh
It's This is silly.
I can't believe I just said publicly
that I watch this thing. But anyway,
There's a fight between these two guys
that can turn into dragons at one point.
And one is way overmatched. And the guy
who's trying to encourage him, his
mentor, says, "Bite him. Bite him." And
he's like, "What?" And he bites him. He
says,
"You just bit the strongest guy in the
world. Can anything frighten you now?"
And I feel like that's kind of where
Steve was. It's like he he just bit the
strongest guy in the world. Like, can
anything frighten him now? And
>> [laughter]
>> I don't think so.
>> Yeah, that's wild. Steve has told that
story on the show. He's been on a couple
times. I've had Mary Cain on. I've had
Kara Goucher on. So, if you if you're
watching or listening and you want to
learn more. And I think we talked about
it when you were on the show the first
time a couple years
>> time ago. I don't remember for sure, but
Yes. Let's talk about constraints. I
mean, the last time you were on,
we talked mostly about range,
which is essentially you making the case
for
why being a generalist is better than
honing in on a specific skill early in
life. And you have all these case
studies that kind of dispel this idea
that
you know, whether it's Tiger Woods or,
you know, name your kind of superstar in
their respective discipline, you're kind
of upending this idea that like you have
to specify early and just commit
yourself, uh, you know, maniacally to a
certain thing. And
the new book is really kind of the
inverse of that. You know, you're
saying,
uh, yes to generalism, which is
basically like kind of expanding the
scope of your life experience to this
new book which is about like, okay, how
do you focus and kind of implement
constraints to drive productivity,
creativity, and essentially like your
hottest take is is that constraints are
like a necessary,
um,
component of having a happy life. Yeah.
Yeah. And I mean,
first of all, you've obviously tapped
into
something clear, which is it seems on
the face of it like it's in conflict
with with this book Inside the Box with
my last book Range.
And first of all, if someone's going to
argue with me, it's going to be me. Like
I'm always kind of looking to challenge
my own ideas, but also I view it as a
kind of an obvious next question in some
ways. Like some of the most
uh, common questions I got after Range
were things like, okay, I have this
broad toolbox, I have these broad
experiences, what now?
And it's some point you have to focus
that into achievement of some sort. And
there's a hefty dose of me search in
this book, right? Where
I have this wide-ranging curiosity, I
have this zigzagging career, and I have
struggled to channel that. In There's a
reason why I have a book out every 6
years
is because it's really hard for me to
draw boundaries around my projects, and
so I wanted to get better at this.
And and I did.
So, I don't think it would take me 6
years again. So, if if AI doesn't
obviate books, then I think I'll be
writing them more often.
Um,
>> So, you've benefited from going on this
exploration. I mean, that was a major
impetus for the exploration in the first
place is that readers were asking me the
same question I had for myself.
Um which is how can I draw boundaries
around my projects to to contain them
and and and kind of focus my energy in a
productive way.
And along the way as I got interested in
learning about constraints, I realized
also that
we are always attracted to more freedom,
but more freedom isn't actually always
good for our for our creativity, for our
well-being, especially and I think this
is especially true now in
the AI age where
there is infinite capacity to start
things and be overwhelmed by things and
to do more and more and more and more.
And there are all these kind of
productivity hacks that I think are
really illusions and what we often need
to do is
uh clarify our priorities and grapple
with the fact that we have limited time
and energy and and clarify. So, one of
one of the most useful things I did as I
learned about constraints was
that I now recommend everyone is make
all of my current commitments visible.
Like I took posted notes. I write about
a genomics lab in the book that did
this, but
put them on posted notes, put them on
the wall and
immediately the thing that I saw was I
couldn't finish all of this stuff
ever. And that's just what I have going
now.
And so immediately you start to say,
what are the priorities here and and
what are the things that I can I can
move to later.
And so I think it's for our
productivity, for our sense of
well-being, we have to have
constraints and boundaries. And that's
hard, but more important in this kind of
information overload, infinite choice
world that we're living in now.
>> Mhm.
It's not dissimilar from the idea that
we need to welcome discomfort into our
lives. Like discomfort, this Susan David
idea of like discomfort is a price of
admission for a meaningful life. And you
know, our lives are so lined with
convenience these days and this cultural
priority around like luxury and
relaxation, etc. that we actually have
to go out of our way to seek out
uncomfortable experiences to stress
ourselves to feel alive. And this is a
sort of creativity, productivity version
of that. Like we have to seek out
constraints because things like AI or
technological tools or the infinite
scroll or you know, like just an
unlimited number of movies that we can
watch on Netflix we sort of dilute
ourselves into thinking that this is
good Yeah.
>> when in fact it's limiting. And it makes
people unhappy like the
there are these international surveys
that show that people have been becoming
more bored since infinite scrolling
came into existence. More bored.
That's very counterintuitive. The fact
that you can choose from all these
entertainment options and find the best
thing and yet you get more bored.
>> But it's the wrong kind of boredom
because we want boredom, rumination, you
know, or like just our
our ability to like engage our
imagination as a function of boredom.
But this is a boredom it's almost like a
more like an anime. Like it's not it's
not that kind of boredom. It's kind of
like a depressed boredom. I mean anime
is a is a is a keyword in the late in
the book this word that means basically
rulelessness.
And and a popularizer of it was Emile
Durkheim who was widely regarded as the
founder of modern sociology, French
sociologist in the late 19th century
when governments started keeping
statistics about all sorts of things. He
looked at suicide statistics in a
systematic way for the first time ever.
And at the time
suicide was considered an individual
psychological problem. Like something's
wrong with that person. Okay.
What he showed was that's absolutely not
the case that it rises and falls the
prevalence of of suicide with social
conditions. And that it's a a movement
in many ways, not individual
psychological problems. He saw that
when the economic fate of a country
plummets, that suicide goes up. But
surprisingly, he saw that when it rises
too fast, it also goes up. Like anything
that unmoors people from the things that
ground them you know, in their identity
and that that in some sense of habit and
repetition causes people to feel
desperate.
And I feel like we have so much of that
today where
so much of virtual life is as as
Jonathan Haidt told me when I was
interviewing him for that chapter is
this endless cycle of micro dramas with
a cast of changing characters, right?
People who just come in and out. And it
just doesn't feel very grounded in
reality. And so I think we
the convenience you mentioned.
Convenience is a problem. Everything has
gotten so convenient
that
we don't have the friction that like
adds meaning that causes learning. There
There's I was just I was just writing
about these brand new studies that look
at people writing essays with AI, and
they don't learn anything from their own
essay cuz they're just relying on the
tool. So you want these what
psychologists call desirable
difficulties. These things that slow you
down, that make learning more
frustrating, but they actually make it
much better in the long term. So in some
ways I agree, the book is very much
about things that feel inconvenient,
but that actually
make you better and have a greater sense
of meaning.
There's something tragic about the fact
that we have to
go out of our way to find these things.
Like, you know, it wasn't that long ago
where life would just present us with
this naturally, and this was just part
of living and growing up.
>> Yeah.
And now we're insulated from these
things that
uh you know, actually make us feel alive
because we were under the
misapprehension that
uh they were making us unhappy when in
fact the contrary is the case. Yeah. No,
I I I I totally agree. I mean, I I I
think it's it's it's counterintuitive,
right? It's deeply counterintuitive.
Like
the idea that having more options and
all these things won't just be better
and bring us to better decisions and
make us happier, but it's what the
research shows again and again and again
is that
like people are
making decisions in the interest of
preserving optionality. Like you hear
that phrase all the time, keeping your
options open.
And that becomes an end to itself and
that's actually like a really bad way to
to make decisions basically. People in
in in studies express a preference for
reversible decisions for example because
they want to keep their options open,
but tend to be much happier with
irreversible decisions.
>> Mhm. And so I think it's seemed
attractive. Like I remember when Mark
Zuckerberg talked about making the
metaverse.
And he he he had this kind of video that
he made and he said, "It's going to be
amazing.
Everyone can live in a universe that's
tailored just to them."
And I'm now looking at this through the
lens of the constraints research that I
did for this book. It's like that is the
worst thing a man like that's like
literally sounds like, you know, the
underworld that you go to if you're bad.
And so I think some of the things that
sound like they might be good
uh
just turn out, you know, our brains
aren't meant to have access to
everything everywhere all of the time.
For better or worse, we are in this
hyper optimization focused culture that
tells us if we're not fully dialed in,
then there's something wrong with us,
which in my opinion is kind of a form of
violence given how challenging life is
already, how difficult it is to just
strike a healthy balance between work,
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If you pay attention at all, you know
that constraints drive uh unique
creative solutions. And yet, there still
is this intractable notion that um the
path to creativity is freedom. Like, oh,
you you know, when you're free, then you
can just create. So, like, state the
thesis, and I want to understand like
this journey that you've gone on to
really understand the relationship
between constraints and you know, kind
of transcending productivity, you know,
into like kind of breakthroughs and, you
know, interesting results. Like, when
you look at all these case studies,
like, what have you discovered?
>> Yeah, and you and you're right that it
feels that So, in this group of
psychologists did an international
survey recently about creativity myths,
and things that we know are not true
from research. And they found the most
popular myth was that people are most
creative when they are most free. Well,
in fact, it's it's the opposite. So,
as the cognitive scientist Daniel
Willingham says, you may think that your
brain is made for thinking, but it's
actually made for preventing you from
having to think whenever possible
because
thinking is energetically costly.
And so, if you have total freedom, you
just go down what cognitive
psychologists call the path of least
resistance, meaning
you will reach for solutions that you
have seen before, that you have done
before. It's almost impossible to do
anything creative unless that path is
blocked, the path of least resistance,
using what's often called a preclude
constraint. You you preclude the
solution that you're that you're used
to.
And so, now one psychologist calls this
this impact of blocking familiar
solutions on creativity. It's like the
fastest way to spur creativity is to
say, "What's the thing I usually do? I'm
not allowed to do that this next time."
Whether that's
art or I'm going into a client meeting,
what if I couldn't propose the usual
thing, what would I do?
This one psychologist calls it the Green
Eggs and Ham effect, which is named for
the fact that Dr. Seuss wrote Green Eggs
and Ham on a bet that he couldn't write
a children's book using only 50 words.
And so, it forced him to
experiment with rhythm.
Uh because he couldn't experiment with
vocabulary. Even before that, he had a
bet that he couldn't do one with 200
words from a vocabulary list.
First, he looks at the list,
starts carping to his wife, says,
"There's no adjectives. What am I
supposed to do?"
Then he he he said in in in fine
Seussian form, he compared it to making
a strudel with no strudels. So, I think
he was like in his personal life who he
was in his public life. And then he
decides, "You know what?
I'm just going to take the first two
rhyming words on the list and make a
book." And the first two rhyming words
are cat and hat, and changes children's
literature forever. But this shows up
again and again and again when people
are often it's not by choice,
right? That that I think is a important
thing in the book that whether you
self-impose constraints or whether
they're imposed on you,
if you view them instead of limitations
as opportunities to clarify priorities
and to launch into productive
experimentation,
it can be the most powerful tool you
have. So,
there are things like
we were talking a little bit about NASA
before this and NASA had a mission when
I gave this book to this guy named Ed
Hoffman who was that what's called
NASA's first chief knowledge officer.
It's kind of like the head psychologist
at NASA.
He goes, "Oh man, I'm really thinking
about this mission called El Cross where
the team ended up with half the time and
budget that they wanted." So, first they
complained
and then they said, "If we were going to
get this done, how would we do it?"
And they end up having to borrow tech.
They take imaging equipment from army
tanks and engine temperature sensors
from that straight out of NASCAR.
They build a probe that finds confirms
water on the moon.
And so, it's this always that blocking
of of what you would have done otherwise
that is the thing that launches us into
creative exploration. A lot of
artistic innovators, you know, whether
it's Picasso or Bach,
they will self-impose these constraints.
It's as if they have some I mean, I
guess it's like great practitioners
always. They're like way ahead of the
science. They they do this stuff
intuitively and then
decades later science catches up and
says, "This is why it works." So, a lot
of the serial innovators kind of
self-imposed constraints that that block
their own solutions. The musician who
says, "These chords are off the table."
You have the colon concert example of
the kind of mistuned broken piano, you
know, kind of creating this legendary
concert experience.
>> Miles Davis did that for kind of Blue
where he limited what, you know,
probably the greatest
jazz album of all time. Yeah. This is
where your work kind of intersects with
Tom Sachs who's just on my brain because
uh he was recently on the podcast and I
was with him at South by Southwest, you
know, just the other week. And his whole
idea of ISRU, in situ resource
utilization. Like this is a guy who
decided he wanted to have have space
program.
>> Yeah. Uh and he was going to uh erect
this space program with
basically plywood and like whatever he
could find at the scrapyard, you know?
And this this this turns into like this
really magical kind of gigantic art
installation
that leads him into a relationship with
JPL and NASA. Like by him kind of
imagining I'm going to do this, working
with the constraints, and you know, kind
of leveraging his
sculptural talents,
actually turns into like this
long-standing relationship where he's
like the in-house art director to JPL
with their Mars mission. Like it's
insane, right? So it's like this
visionary aspect that's also grounded in
like practicality and driven entirely by
very limited resources and constraints.
I mean, that whole Institute Resource
Utilization, right? Because it's NASA,
it sounds like because they make
acronyms for everything, right?
Basically, it means
use what you got. Yeah, basically.
What's what's what's what's what's
what's around here that we can use? And
And how can we repurpose all this stuff,
right?
>> Yeah, in the same way that Robert
Rodriguez made El Mariachi. Like you
just like these incredible projects are
are entirely, you know, on a very
foundational level,
like expressions that emerge from
constraints. Constraints are the very
essence of what gives birth to these
timeless works. Absolutely.
>> And yet culturally, you know, we think,
"Well, okay, you did that, but now you
have the big budget. You're going to
make the movie." And then you make some
giant movie, and it's terrible.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And I I think that that
testifies to the fact that we kind of
can't do this kind of thinking unless
we're forced. We can force ourselves,
right? We can self-impose constraints.
But without them, we do the path of
least resistance thing. Like we we we
don't think about how we could use all
the different materials around us and
use other things unless we're forced to.
Right. Life is hard, and for most
people, these constraints are imposed
upon us. You know, you could take the
case of an author with a publishing
deadline, but in the in the context of a
person with their everyday job, they're
constantly, you know, being told what
they can't do and there's guardrails
everywhere. Like that's the average
person, you know, daily experience. But
if you look at an artist or just even a
musician who has
a keyboard. Like today, you could do
there's just an infinite number of
sounds that that thing could make,
right? And that essentially is
paralyzing. And so you have to
volunteer, in the same way that you have
to sign up for a marathon or like go out
of your way to like do something that's
difficult.
The onus is on the individual to take
responsibility for imposing those
constraints and that's difficult.
>> It's very difficult. And to your point
about the kind of typical person's
everyday experience, I should say
I wrote a book about how constraints can
be useful and why we undervalue them,
but it is also clear in creativity
research that when you if you prescribe
what someone has to do and basically how
they have to do it, that that can be
stifling. Like
if you're telling them No agency with
>> constraints in place and the person
says,
"I can't possibly surprise myself." That
means they're in a bad spot, right? You
cuz you There needs to be enough room
for them to do something surprising,
basically.
But you're right. I think in a lot of
life right now, it's it's incumbent upon
us to to to impose useful constraints
because everything is so
open and there's so much choice and so
much optionality and and and all this
kind of stuff.
>> So make the use case for the average
person. I'm not an artist. I'm not a
musician. I'm not, you know, a sculptor
like like Why is this relevant to me and
how is it of practical use in my daily
life? I go to my job and, you know, my
life's, you know, already hurried and
insane and you know, I'm just trying to
level up a little bit here. Like how
does this actually work? So when I think
about constraints that I've applied to
myself, I think of this acronym BCS in
my head, which is B is batching your
work, so doing work in in blocks so that
you're mono-tasking in specific blocks
instead of multi-tasking. C is
commitments visible, make all of your
current commitments visible, posted
notes, and then you'll probably realize
you're overcommitted and look for things
that maybe you can take away. And S
satisficing, setting good enough rules
for your decision that once they're
reached, you make the decision and and
don't look back. So, first batch some of
your work if you can, like
because everything's competing for your
attention now, if you're not structuring
your attention, then
algorithms are going to structure it for
you, basically.
And so, if you can batch some of
[clears throat] your work where
you're doing a you're mono-tasking for
blocks during the day. So, I I write a
lot about the research of this woman
named Gloria Mark who studies attention
span and focus at work, and it's been
getting worse, right? Like 20 years ago
when she started, people would spend
about 3 minutes on a task before
flipping. Now, it's about 45 seconds,
basically. Yeah, I mean, say that again.
The average person in their job is
shifting their attention every 45
seconds.
>> Yeah, switching what's on their screen
every 45 seconds, basically. And and
checking email about 77 times a day on
average. And what she found is that the
number of switches you make
predicts poorer productivity at the end
of the day, but also, you know, she was
started measuring heart rate variability
and it predicts stress also at the end
of the day. There's now some
budding evidence showing that it impacts
immune function if you're toggling a
lot, like it's a stressful thing to do,
but I don't think people realize that.
So, if you can batch, you can check all
those emails,
but can you check them in one block or
two blocks so you're not toggling
between things? Like, if you took all
the stuff you have to do for the day,
could you try to organize it into these
blocks where that's the only thing
you're doing?
And it should be better for your
productivity and your and your stress
level and your attention.
Some of her research was I think some of
the scariest stuff when I was
doing the book, because one of the
things she found was that
our attention spans get trained. So, if
you're interrupted by notifications or
other people or whatever all day long,
you become accustomed to a certain level
of cadence of interruption. And so, then
if you say, "Now I have to focus." and
you remove the phone or whatever it is,
you will self-interrupt at the cadence
to which you've become accustomed with
intrusive thoughts
in order to to maintain that cadence of
interruption. I've noticed that in my
own That's scary.
>> own brain. Yeah, like I will like,
"Okay, I've locked the phone away and
I'm ready to like work on the book."
And then I'm just, you know, I'm so
acclimated to those,
you know, minute constant interruptions.
>> It's like we have some internal
distraction barometer that's like gets
set.
The good news is you can start to make a
difference in a few days of like
blocking work so that you're not
toggling as much. And also doing what's
called cognitive outsourcing, which
means just give a pad next to you and
when that intrusive thought comes in,
just write it down so it's not stuck in
your head.
So, the BCS, the three main tips, C was
commitments visible. Like I said, make
all of your current commitments visible.
So,
we have a hardwired bias humans do
called subtractive neglect bias. So, we
overlook solutions that involve taking
stuff away.
Maybe this is because for most of our
evolutionary history, we didn't have to
worry about having too much. We had to
worry about having too little.
But so, we always reach for additive
solutions. And so, if you can make all
of your commitments visible, you'll
probably see that you're over subscribed
and can say, "Which are the ones I
really need to focus on now?" Put the
other ones
other ones later. So, stop starting and
start finishing like don't start a new
one until you've you finished one. So,
get the post-it notes out and write
these things down and put them on your
wall and have a, you know, kind of come
to Jesus moment.
>> That's right. And then the S in the BCS
is for satisficing rule. So, satisficing
is a term uh coined by
a Herbert Simon, who I think was one of
the most brilliant people who ever
lived. Political scientist trained by
training.
Did the first AI demonstrations. He won
the highest award in computer science,
won the highest award in psychology, is
one of the founders of cognitive
psychology, then won the Nobel Prize in
economics for good measure. And
he coined this term satisficing,
which means instead of trying to
optimize, it's like the the antithesis
of optimizing. He said humans
can try to optimize, but they can't
because we have finite brains, we can't
evaluate all the options, we don't know
all the repercussions.
So, we have to come up with shortcuts.
And in fact, we should do that
proactively
because then you save cognitive
bandwidth for decisions,
and you end up happier. So,
coming from his work,
researchers developed a
satisficer-maximizer
scale. Maximizer means you're always
trying to optimize. We'd probably call
it an optimizer now.
And it turns out it's almost always a
bad thing to be.
Less happy with their decisions,
maximizers are
less happy with their lives, they're
more prone to regret. Even when they
make a good decision, they don't feel as
good about it.
And
there's evidence that it's on the rise
as a as a as a quality, maybe because it
you can infinitely compare your choices
now to so many things.
Whereas satisficers will set good enough
criteria for a decision ahead of time
saying,
"Here are the three things that
need to be met by this decision. Once
those are met, I go with it." Instead of
endlessly evaluating options. So, I
think in this world of infinite choice,
where consumer choice has multiplied a
hundred millionfold compared to before
the
Industrial Revolution,
that setting these kind of rules for
good enough and saying once I surpass
that, maybe that'll go to outstanding,
but once I surpass good enough,
done with that decision. Otherwise,
you'll constantly fall prey to something
called Fredkin's Paradox, which is we
spend the most time and energy on the
least important decisions because we're
having trouble telling the difference
between the options,
which means
it probably doesn't matter if we spend
more energy because we can't tell the
difference, but that's where we end up
spending the most time and energy in
agonizing because the options are
similar, which also means
we could probably just choose and and
and wouldn't make much difference.
The distillation of that idea is
essentially that perfectionism is toxic,
uh whether you call it optimization or
just this, you know, really unhealthy
relationship with holding yourself to a
certain standard that's unachievable.
It's a It's a personal violence.
And this idea of of good enough being
the ultimate life hack. Yeah. It It
sounds And that runs contrary to this
whole like, you know, kind of like
self-optimization
uh culture. And and it sounds bad
because like when I think about anything
I'm doing, am I aiming for good enough?
No, I'm not aiming for good enough. You
know, you're aiming for great. Well,
that's actually not true.
I started a newsletter a few years ago
and that has actually turned out to be
and I started doing some like a form of
dancing class where I was a total
beginner.
And one of the reasons these have been
very important good enough exercises in
my life. So, when I'm writing a book, if
I say it this has to be like a nine or
10 on the effort level, a newsletter, if
I hit six and a half, ready to send.
And that's been a really important
exercise for me in satisficing and
saying some things can be good enough.
And And that means sometimes they'll go
to great, like it'll come out that way.
But once I hit good enough and it goes
out and then the sun rises again
tomorrow,
and I think it's helped
dilute some of my own maximizing
tendencies.
So, it kind of goes against my natural
proclivities. Like I think I'm more
naturally a maximizer, but I've
I've become much more proactive in
setting out criteria for good enough and
saying, "Look, when that when that's
met, I'm okay to move to the next
thing." That's similar to the Seth Godin
kind of idea of like you have to ship
your work, right? Like he's just he's
constantly These books are coming out
all the time with him and he writes a
blog post every day and he just moves
on, but he's so focused on the shipping
part, like, you know, and
whether it's a book or, you know,
somebody who's writing a song or trying
to come up with a comedy routine, you
know, we just get in our own way and we
don't want to
put it up on its feet until it's perfect
and we then never end up shipping
anything as a result of that kind of
self-upbraiding
of our, you know, the quality of our
work product. I I got that paralysis
kind of after Range because it ended up
being more successful than I expected
and I had left my normal day job to
finish it because I I I was
I was a traditional investigative
reporter at the time and I was just not
able to get both things done at the same
time.
And so suddenly I didn't have this place
where I was writing constantly
and had this one bigger work that I was
associated with and I kind of felt like
oh gosh, anything short of that means
I'm going backward
and I did have a little bit of paralysis
for a little while.
And that's when I started the newsletter
where good enough is good enough and I
think that was really really helpful for
me. Yeah, how can you get off the dime?
Lower the stakes. I'm a huge fan of low
stakes practice.
In thinking about the new book, uh I was
this is such a trivial example, but um
I think you've seen like I've been
posting these sort of daily morning gym,
you know, like just holding myself
accountable by like being in my home gym
in the morning.
Every time it's like 4:24 and it's at
the crack [laughter] of dawn.
And I keep saying like I'm just wake I
wish I could sleep in more like I just I
you know, like anyway, I'm just up at
that hour so I might as well get in the
gym. But it's you know, how can I turn
this into a creative fun thing of like
sharing this um
through a through a unique lens
as a creative exercise, not for any
other reason than that, honestly. Almost
like going on an artist date out of
Julia Cameron's like the artist way
book. Like this is my artist date. Yes,
I'm in the gym, but like let me make
this a fun creative thing with
photography.
One of the rules that I set for myself
is like I'm going to take a picture of
this LED clock, no matter what time it
says.
But
I want that photo to be different every
time. Like how can I get it, you know, a
different angle on it or whatever and
keep it interesting within the
constraints of this shipping container,
you know, kind of situation. So there's
guardrails and walls, like there's only
so many things I can do. The clock is
there. How can I do How can I play with
that and find new and interesting ways
to photograph it? That's been really
fun. That's not a silly example at all.
I mean, that that's basically like what
Picasso was often doing where he would
do a whole bunch of versions of the same
idea. It's like, this is the idea. Now
I'm going to look at all these little
tweaks that I can do on it. And in fact,
that
tinkering with something that you have
already, instead of like creating
something totally new,
was synonymous with creativity for most
of human history until the romantic
period, basically in the late 18th
century, where there was this sort of
rebellion against enlightenment
thinking,
and that's That's when this idea of like
the pure flashes of originality and
genius and the and the so-called cult of
the hero rose up.
But that's That's not the real story of
creativity. It's much more often
taking something and and tweaking it and
what can you do with all the I mean,
I write about Shakespeare's work in the
book.
All copied. Like everything he was
Romeo and Juliet, he adapted from this
guy Arthur Brooke's epic poem, which was
adapted from a bunch of other people.
He almost took some exact lines,
actually, Shakespeare did.
And with King Lear, like he probably
even acted in a different King Lear. He
like changed one of the daughters' names
from Cordelia to Cordelia. And he
changed the ending and he made it his
own.
But it's like one of the most creative
minds in history and he was always
taking something that was there and
seeing
how can I make this my own? And so I
think when we're thinking about
creativity,
the idea that it's these like free
creations of the mind with no limits is
is like a-historic. You know, it's it's
much more often
building on something that's already
there. And so, I think that's how that's
how people should think of it. And And
by the way, I was telling you before, I
think your morning posts have been
important to me personally in a
different way. I don't know if we can
get into that, but I'm like, I don't
know why anyone would care about this.
But anyway,
um yeah, a couple things in what you
just shared. First of all, like upending
the genius myth. Um this is This is
just, you know, total fabrication. like
Anytime you see some great man theory,
you know, there's legions of people who
supported that and probably a lot of
other people who were dancing around the
same idea at the same time and this
person got all the credit. But beneath
the surface at the same time, like all
great artists steal.
But the interesting
um kind of ripple that you offer in the
book is this notion of,
you know, taking the new idea, but
contextualizing it in something
familiar. And you use like MLK and and
how he, you know, kind of was borrowing
from white preachers uh sermons and
making them his own so that there was
something familiar
like in the way that Shakespeare would
borrow and create this like capsule that
was relatable for an audience, but then
doing your own unique thing within that.
That's right. Yeah, this this chapter is
sort of about the tension between
creativity and originality. And
if you want people to come along with a
new idea, the best way to do it is to
ground it in something that's really
familiar with them to them. If it's too
original, it kind of doesn't work for
people. And you can see this all over
the place in product design, by the way.
It's like why
early electric vehicles
had the charging port where the
non-existent gas tank is with a thing
that looks like a gas hose, right? It's
to to
convey to people what the function is
compared to something they're used to.
Or when Edison first electrified New
York City, he kept the bulbs at a
certain dimness so it would look like
gas and kept lamp shades even though he
didn't need them so it feel still like
the gas light people were used to.
Or folders on your computer, right?
They're not really folders, but that
tells you what they do.
With MLK, he was trying to get people to
come along with a really radical idea,
which is
uh he was trying to get white
Protestants to accept um the black
demand for equality, which was a radical
idea and and to get involved in in
helping it along.
And so he borrowed what he what he was
used to coming up from the gospel
preaching tradition
where originality was seen as suspect,
basically. You were supposed to preach
to the choir. Like sometimes people use
that phrase preaching to the choir as a
negative thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You
wanted to preach to the choir. They they
expected a version of the hits. And so
he would give them a version of the
hits. He would borrow, but he would put
his own spin on it. So, even the let
freedom ring repetition from his most
famous speech was borrowed from a speech
by his friend Archibald Carey who
borrowed that from a speech by the
activist investigative journalist Ida B.
Wells.
It was this culture of repurposing
things people were familiar with
and then kind of
shoehorning your unique message into it.
So, what MLK would do
something called typology where
he would find a story throughout
history. He'd start with something that
the audience could not disagree with,
right? The story of
uh Moses as a liberator. Can't disagree
with that, right? Foundational story.
And then he'd move to
uh Abraham Lincoln.
Liberator like Moses. And then he'd move
to Gandhi, liberator from colonialism.
And then he'd move to
now it's your turn, right? So, he tells
these stories that everyone totally
agrees with. And then he would say, "And
by the way, here's how it's going on
right now and what you can participate
in." And by that point this
uncomfortable idea looks like it's just
a lineage from
Moses to Abraham Lincoln to Gandhi to
like this the Supreme Court um
and so he smuggled these really radical
ideas by grounding them in incredibly
familiar material. Sometimes so familiar
that, you know,
like some analogies he used to it get
voted that they shouldn't be used
anymore because they've been so overused
and things like that. But But that's
kind of the
the real history of getting people to
accept creative ideas is grounding them
in in in something really familiar.
Yeah, you get buy-in by sharing the
familiar and you're engendering trust
uh before you kind of hit them with the
novel idea within that kind of like
nutshell that
um people are already comfortable with.
Totally. And And whatever it is,
grounding it like the visions for change
you know, are are are more compelling. I
think this is Adam Grant said it this
way once that I resonated with me.
Visions for change are more compelling
when they're when they include visions
of continuity. And I think that's really
true. From a persuasiveness perspective,
there's obvious takeaways. But like how
is you know, like I again like okay,
somebody's listening to this. Like how
is this how does this operate in their
life? Like what how are they taking, you
know, some some of that wisdom in a
practical sense and implementing it?
>> Yeah, I think it depends what they're
trying to do. If they're trying to Let's
say they're trying to build something or
they're trying to change people. Maybe
those people are people in their
personal life, people in their
professional life, whatever it is.
That's starting in places that those
people already understand and agree with
and showing them
how this connects to the continuum
they're familiar with is really
important. And I think that's important
even for yourself. So, I would say in
the past
cuz I'm I'm very much kind of a
relentless self-experimenter, I would
say.
And
often in the past that's been
today I'm going to do this to I'm going
to be a totally new person starting
tomorrow, you know. I went through this
phase where once I decided I I was like
missing lunch, I decided I was only
going to eat like raw kale stalks for
lunch. And it's like man, you really
have to chew those things, you know. So,
it's like going from zero to 60 just
instantly. And it has never worked well.
You you fall prey to this thing um in
psychology called the what the hell
effect, where you then you mess up once
and you're like, "Ah, what the hell."
And just throw the whole thing out.
>> whole thing out.
And so I think even for personal
self-improvement, looking at
where have you been
and you want to aim for this change, but
but what sort of a continuous through
line where you can do that? Like
building on things that that already
work for you, whether that's
your sense of motivation, your sense of
structure, your sense of obsessiveness,
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uh
how scientists sort of go into an
experiment with a certain hypothesis,
how that can become problem
problematical.
In the case of this book and this
adventure that you went on to kind of
get to the bottom of of these ideas,
is there anything that surprised you or
that you ended up changing your mind on
from your operating hypothesis going
into it?
>> I would say the first
the most famous work done the most
obvious work. And when I even mentioned
that I was doing a book on this, people
said, "Oh, you have to read the paradox
of choice research." Which some of the
most famous research involved people
this like clever experiment where people
were exposed to different number of like
jelly at a store that they could buy.
And when the
when the choice set became reached a
certain size, they would be paralyzed
and just wouldn't buy anything at all.
>> [snorts]
>> And that probably became the most famous
work in this. So, it's it's the most
common thing people tell me about.
And by the way, I love the researcher
that's the most associated with this.
And I cite some of his other work.
But
that work
it didn't give me great confidence that
it would hold up.
And
when I was looking around there, I think
there are signs that it hasn't held up
that well. And so, the the like kind of
first thing that I thought I was going
to write about, I turned out not to
write about at all.
I think there are other problems with
too much choice like we can see and I
cite some of this research in the book
that when health care choices or
investment choice sets become too large
and complex,
people actually do make worse decisions
or will just not do it at all.
But some of the more famous paradox of
choice stuff turned out I I just I just
couldn't convince myself that the
research would hold up basically. And
so, I basically left it out. So, that
definitely went against like what I
wrote in my book proposal cuz I thought
maybe I would lead the book with this
kind of stuff.
>> That whole idea. Yeah, I mean just
reflecting on that
example of like you're at the grocery
store and there's like, you know, 50
different brands of peanut butter. Yeah,
if I want peanut butter, I'm still
buying peanut butter. I'll make a
choice. But I can see it for example in
the supplement context. Like, you know,
there's just a million supplements that
are all making these great promises and
you're like, well, this is all nonsense
and then you don't buy any of them.
>> Yeah, when I looked at the the bigger
body of research, it looks like it has
more to do with choice set complexity.
So, like peanut butter's not that
complex, but 401k options may be pretty
complex. And so, as they get this the
options grow larger, people are more
likely to just be like, I don't know and
and not do anything.
Um that study, that jelly study, and
other So, the two most famous studies in
the area that I was counting on going
into the book, I ended up not writing
about. The other one was this famous
playground study where when I would talk
to psychologist, they'd say, oh, this is
like
the study where
kindergartners were taken to a
playground, one with no fence and one
with a fence, and in the one with no
fence, they all huddled around the
teacher. In the one with a fence, they
went crazy and explored.
And the idea was that these boundaries
give them the safety to explore.
This is great. Like, maybe I lead the
book with this.
And I could not track down I saw this
study being cited all the time in other
studies, but I could not find the
primary study.
And so, finally I track it down. The
best
source I can find is to like and all
these citations in books are citing each
other, right? So, I'm just like going
around in a circle.
>> [snorts]
>> Finally, I track it down to like a
student project that won some award. The
get the guy is now a
a professor. So, I reach out to him and
say,
this thing's really famous like, do you
know is what did you base this on? And
he says,
I took the word of some child
psychologist, and I could never find a
primary study. I'm really sorry I
perpetuated this.
And so, I think it got famous because it
it gets at something that we kind of
know is true, that like you you you
explore more within boundaries.
But again, it was like the other most
famous study that everyone told me about
when I said I'm writing about
constraints, turned out to not even
exist. So,
>> no there there. It's like this
ouroboros. It makes it it it lowers my
confidence in the the you know the
scientific canon. Like if that could you
know become so famous and so accepted
without there actually being a root
source for the idea.
Uh what else is out there that you know
Yeah, I mean you start to realize like
how sloppy some of the stuff is.
That said again, I think the scientific
community
is what compared to the rest of the
world is like wonderfully
self-correcting in some ways and a lot
of the problems they're having is
because they have criticized you know
scientists have criticized scientists.
But
you know that that that finding is it's
sexy. It's interesting. Like I could
have seen opening a book with it or it's
like this picture of kindergarteners in
one area where they're huddled around
the teacher and then the other area
where they're exploring and wild and
this is like a metaphor for life. But
you know sadly for me it turned out the
study doesn't exist.
>> the experiment, it would probably be
true. It may It just didn't get run. It
didn't get run and so I'm not going to
open a book with it if it didn't
[laughter] actually happen. But what I
take from that is the doggedness in your
in your reporting. Like you you are
truly a science-minded investigative
journalist. And I reached out to Brad
Stolberg to say like hey Dave's coming
in like you know
what in your experience would be good to
talk to him about or what might I not
know that would be cool.
And he said David is a guy who will
literally get on a plane and fly across
the country to have a one-hour
conversation with somebody when it could
have easily been on Zoom. And I think
that speaks to the the depth of your
commitment to really to veracity and and
getting to the truth and and and really
being deeply connected to the ideas that
you're exploring.
What is that about? And maybe a
follow-up to that is
you know how are you thinking about the
current state of investigative
journalism in 2026?
>> I'm really flattered to hear that by the
way.
Um
I thought you were going to say his
favorite work of mine was some reporting
I did about drug cartels. That's how I
was doing that for a year. But
for for this book, I think maybe one of
the things he's thinking of is I did
this whole road trip through rural
Mississippi while I was following up on
a sort of legend about a famous musician
for the book. And
I basically ended up road tripping
through rural Mississippi so that I
could sit in an abandoned graveyard for
an hour at midnight and experience
something that I want to write about. So
it was a I even I broke the windshield
on the rental car driving down like a
famous crossroads where musicians make
deals with the devil. So it was like
this long trip where I broke a rental
car, didn't hadn't gotten the insurance
just so that I could sit in a certain
graveyard at midnight. And I think Brad
was like
>> Robert Johnson. Um who was uh supposedly
famously sold his soul uh
to the devil to become the greatest
guitar player in the world. But in fact,
what he just did was went and found some
solitude and a and a teacher basically.
And I remember Brad was like
"What are you doing there?" Like
[laughter] in
But when I get curious about something,
I I just I'm very motivated to I I just
I can't drop it. When I For example,
with that playground study, when I
started to feel like maybe it's not real
I just can't drop it. I find that very
interesting to follow up on. And like I
told you at the beginning of this, how I
describe my job is I obsess over
misperceptions of research. And so if I
think there's some misperception out
there
I'm kind of obsessive about wanting to
to change the narrative.
To your question about how investigative
reporting is now
it's challenged, I think for a lot of
reasons. One of which is it's slow. It's
an inherently slow form.
When I was at ProPublica, which is an an
all investigative uh operation
so much time was spent going down dead
ends.
You know, I don't know what the story is
yet. I'm just in exploratory mode. And
that happens for my books, too. I do a
lot of interviews where I'm just in
exploratory mode.
And it's really hard to have that luxury
now when people are forced to produce so
much
where you may not have the luxury of
going down a dead end because something
has to be has to be made like every 2
seconds.
Um so ProPublica had like when I came in
they said we do have rules. The rules
are you have to take on something that
is of a certain level of importance and
they would help you evaluate that.
And it it has to be something that's you
know not done already and those sorts of
things but you did have the luxury of
failing. Mhm. And I just think that is
such a luxury now. Like investigative
journalism is expensive. You have to
have the opportunity to fail.
That
there are just not many people who are
being afforded the the ability to fail
in their work in a way that would allow
them to do that. And and you might get
sued, right? So it's expensive in that
way too.
I think one of my
friends my closest friend from Sports
Illustrated guy named Pablo Torre
has been doing some incredible
investigative reporting
and it's kind of made a new format. He
has a podcast now.
And
I don't know if you heard about this
stuff with the LA Clippers kind of
circumventing the salary cap by like
funneling some money through a a sort of
what turned out to be a fraudulent
environmental company.
He's been doing that work. And he
likened it to he saw unboxing videos on
YouTube, you know where like a kid will
open a toy and you share in the joy of
their excitement and he's doing that
with journalism where he's got his
documents and he'll bring a few people
into the
studio and he'll say turn over page one
and they'll unbox the journalism
together. And I think that format is
really innovative.
And so maybe it'll open up people to
seeing how we can do investigative work
cuz
one of the things he and I talked about
was when we were to SI it would have
been very hard to do stories like that
because of the kind of traditional
format but he found this other format
that works in a different medium.
And so I hope we'll start to see some of
these what what you can keep going back
to it too, right? He doesn't have to
encompass everything in one story. It's
been like nine episodes or something.
Cuz once he does one people leak him
stuff, and then he does another.
>> That's interesting. It's just making it
visually dynamic. And using the
affordances of the medium, you know? And
so I think investigative journalism is
in trouble. It's very easy to attack
investigative journalists, also. And so
like I used to always be white-knuckling
it through investigative stories. Like
some of my colleagues at ProPublica
would like almost gain energy from being
in a public controversy. I I was not
like that. I If I felt like something
was important to do, I'd do it, but I
said, "When will this be over and
everybody stop being mad at me?"
And I think even knowing that the
internet people are going to criticize
you, it's still hard to put something
out that's investigative in nature and
just have
this army of people or maybe bots or who
knows
like tearing you down all the time. So I
think there's the social aspect, there's
the economic conditions of journalism.
But I'm hopeful when I see stuff like
Pablo.
I mean, cuz I've now started pitching
him investigative ideas that I don't
think I could have gotten into
traditional magazines.
So I'm hopeful that we'll see some kind
of rebirth, but it's under pressure, for
sure, cuz people just don't have the
ability to fail.
>> Yeah. I mean, that idea of creating a
visually arresting, you know,
uh version of investigative reporting
via like this unboxing, you know,
conceit is a is an example of leveraging
constraints to make something to like
reinvent the form, you know, which I
think is really cool.
But in reflecting on
investigative journalism, you know, writ
large, like this is necessary to a
healthy society, right? And when I think
about it, I think about two different
aspects. The incentive structure, which
is broken, really right now. There is no
viable business model to support like
reporting that takes months and months
and months and months.
>> And I would argue there never was. It
was just piggybacking on the other stuff
that made money.
>> It was subsidized by advertising in
magazines that had wide distribution,
right?
>> at SI, when I would do investigative
stories, and some of the criticism would
always be, you guys are just trying to
sell magazines. I'm like,
this is the nobody will advertise an
investigative story. Like, we're not
doing this because it's selling
magazines, right? Um
so,
it was it was always piggybacking on the
other stuff.
>> Yeah.
The second pillar is an appreciation for
the truth. Yeah. And we're in this
post-truth world. Like, do people care
about the truth? They should.
>> Do they? You know what I mean? Like,
that that that's the the heart that has
to pump the whole thing right now.
>> Yeah, as well. I mean,
and that's kind of a scary thing. Like,
when I was thinking about this, I would
say the most unusual chapter in the new
book is chapter 10, which is about based
on the work of this economist named
Douglas North, who won the Nobel Prize
for
showing the importance of institutions
for the long-run flourishing of
countries. And I institutions, he didn't
mean hospitals or colleges. He meant
what he called the rules of the game in
a society. Or as he put it, the
constraints on human behavior that come
from social norms or
or political and economic structures.
And what he showed
was that these are the foundation of
shared prosperity. That for long for
most of human history, people only did
business with their kinship network or
their religious network, but then when
constraints came in that made strangers
more predictable to one another, they
started doing business across these
boundaries and that led to shared
prosperity.
What some of his work and the the people
that then did work after him showed that
these rules of the game in society, when
they're sort of more equitable and
people can see that,
they trust strangers more. They
collaborate more.
And that that has an effect long after
those institutions are gone. So, these
natural experiments I write about where
like a border was drawn between some
towns,
some of them have good equitable
institutions and some don't.
And a a century after those institutions
disappear, it still affects how the
grandchildren in that area will trust
and collaborate with strangers.
The implication of that, I think, is
that we've now been seeing
almost open public corruption in many
cases,
uh clear cases of rules don't apply to
some people that are basically flaunted.
And based on this research, that should
have a really bad effect in the long run
on people's willingness to trust
strangers. And I just saw that Pew just
released a survey showing that America
is now the only country where
a majority of adults say other people
have bad morals.
Which is exactly what you'd expect if
we're kind of proactively tearing down
these agreed-upon social norms and
institutions. So I think even if we
turned it around tomorrow, we'd have
some lasting damage.
But we have to kind of find some
hopefully way back and and and to have
some agreed-upon social norms
for for behavior so that it's not just a
free-for-all all the time. The degree of
norm violation these days is
unlike anything I've ever seen. And I
often I'm reflecting on like, what are
the long-term implications of this?
Even if we were to reverse course and
try to find our way back, like what is
the you know, what is the full extent of
the damage that has been done? Yeah. And
you see it played out in
the psyche of the average person and the
way they conduct themselves on social
media, if that is, you know, kind of a
reliable proxy for kind of where people
are at. Yeah. Just the anger and the
vitriol and the the division and the
acrimony is is
really at a level that is unprecedented.
Totally.
>> At least in my life. I actually think at
this point
you know, I used to want to sometimes
online kind of correct people if I
thought they were saying something
wrong. And
then I had a no fighting on Twitter
policy so that that I implemented. But
now I think it's also just getting older
that I wouldn't fight on Twitter anyway
and more mature, but
I almost think that having a certain
temperature and tone when you're in the
public discourse
is like a radical act of like staying
moderate and not turning the temperature
up. A lot of people are turning the
temperature up for profit, right? And
but
I'm I'm almost less concerned with
people saying something wrong now than
if their tone than if they are uh
conflict entrepreneurs. Mhm. You know,
if that's what they're thriving off of
building conflict. So, even if someone's
wrong, but I think they have an earnest
and civil tone, I'm like, I think you're
contributing to the good side even if I
think your idea is wrong.
But the presumption that people are
operating in good faith when you engage
with them, you know, in my experience is
quickly, you know, becoming eroded. Like
now I'm beginning to assume that, you
know, this that people are are, you
know, I'm going to assume first that
they're not operating in good faith.
Like that's been flipped.
>> And that's like a terrible
>> Yeah, it's terrible.
>> flip to have. I mean, ultimately, I
think, you know, we're a hyper social
species that survives by collaborating
in huge groups, and I think in the long
term that could really undermine it. But
on the topic of
institutions, norms, and trust,
I'm reminded what you shared reminded me
of
of Yuval Noah Harari's kind of
perspective on this, which is
essentially
that human beings have built societies
based upon stories. And whether it's a
border or a corporation or, you know, a
government institution,
it's essentially an imagined story that
we all buy into, and that engenders
trust and allows us to function as a
society. When you erode these norms and
you degrade the trust, these stories
start to become porous, and they
degrade, and with it our trust. And
how does a society move forward and
cohere when, you know, we can't all
agree upon some shared story of reality?
Yeah, I mean, the the foundational
stories are like to your point about
Harari, that's what allows human
collective action. That's one of the
reasons why we're special, right?
Symbolic language, we can have stories
that are agreed upon, shared abstract
ideas
that allow us to all move in a direction
together. I think we don't have that
then we won't all move together,
basically. Then you don't have
collective action. So, I'm hoping we can
find a way to kind of rewrite some of
our shared stories.
You know, I hope out of some of this
crisis there'll be an opportunity to do
some of that. Because if we if we don't
have some agreed upon social norms,
again, going to Douglas North's work,
just the long-run fate of the nation
just looks a lot worse.
Period.
>> Mhm.
And a norm, I suppose on some level, is
a constraint. Absolutely. I mean, that's
what Douglas North called it, and that's
what he won the Nobel Prize for, and
what in showing that these norms
preceded rather than followed
technological innovation. Where social
norms would come up that gave people
freedom within a framework, ability to
collaborate because they understood how
other people would work. And and that
led to That was one of his great
paradigm shifts was showing that these
changes of norms preceded rather than
followed technological innovation and
and enabled it.
The core of your work always comes back
to this idea of how we can be a little
bit better.
Um at work, at home, in our
relationships, with respect to whatever
goal that we're working towards or or
thing that we're trying to realize in
our life. And I'm curious cuz I've been
thinking a lot about change, like how
you think about change. What really
drives change and what differentiates
someone who could read a book like yours
and go, "Got it. I'm putting it into
action, and wow, my life's already
getting better."
versus the person who might read your
book and still get still be stuck and
and and unable to actually translate
self-awareness or information into
positive action.
>> That is such an interesting question.
And so, I'll speak from my own
experience of a lot of books that have
changed me and what's made the
difference. I think, and maybe this will
go to the medium being the message of
constraints is
picking something small to start with
and and picking one thing. Even I
haven't implemented everything that my
book implies one should be doing. But
there are some things that I
implemented. But you got to get back to
the dance videos. To the dance Yeah, I
Do you know how I got interested in that
kind of dancing, by the way?
It was during the research process, I
saw a documentary about shuffle dancing.
And it's it's created in crowded clubs
in Melbourne when people had limited
space and wanted to be able to change
direction quickly with limited That's
why it ended up being good for Instagram
because people have to change direction
in really small space. So I was like,
"Oh, this is right up my alley. Let me
do this." So It was it was a courageous
act. I
>> learn how to dance and make videos and
put those on social media.
>> Well, when I first did it, I had like
100 followers who were my friends.
>> [laughter]
>> Now I'm starting to make like other
videos and so now I'm much getting more
self-conscious about it. So I think I
should I go back and delete them or
actually do more. I don't know what the
answer is.
Um but I think just picking off one
thing that seems like a reasonable
personal experiment because
I don't want people with my book or any
other book
to feel that what the hell effect where
you have to change everything tomorrow
and then
you don't do it and you say, "Well,
forget it." Throw the baby out with the
bathwater. If you do that thing of like
putting all your current commitments up
on the wall, say if I had to cut out one
thing in the next 90 days, what would it
be? And maybe try that. Maybe try one
week
where
you don't look at email first thing in
the morning and you do some of your
other important work. So it's not
you don't fall prey to this thing called
the Zeigarnik effect where open things
that you haven't answered occupy your
brain so you can't do other stuff.
Take take Take just one thing and and
implement that instead of
worrying about doing all of the stuff.
Cuz
I just think that can feel so
overwhelming. It's like if I only did
these 20 things, everything would be
perfect. Like
one experiment at a time. One experiment
at a time.
It's one thing to say constraints drive
creativity.
Uh
another thing to say constraints drive
productivity. This is kind of like a Cal
Newport idea, deep work, like put your
phone in a lock box and, you know, like
don't check you only check your email
twice a day, etc. He's my neighbor. I've
taken a few tips from him that I did
implement in my life.
>> Yeah, that's an interesting brain trust,
you know. And Dan Pink, it's like we're
all like in the
That's very cool. I'm imagining these
salons of, you know, you [laughter]
you sitting around exchanging
high-minded ideas over a whiskey or
something. You might be disappointed
about the high-mindedness of the ideas,
but
>> [laughter]
>> Um
but it's another thing altogether to tie
this idea of constraints to happiness.
So, I want to spend some time around how
you kind of arrived on that and and, you
know, what the what the support for that
notion is. Yeah.
There are a few different things where I
think about constraints and happiness.
One we talked about a little, which is
setting these satisficing rules, right?
Which is not falling prey to maximizing
and trying to optimize all of your
decisions and setting those good enough
rules and just sticking to them. It
shows that people are happier. Mhm. That
they're happier with their lives,
they're happier with their decisions.
Not agonizing after you make the
decision, right? Herbert Simon, who came
up with satisficing, he was very much
like that. And he he simplified his own
life in many ways. He said, you you only
need three pairs of clothes, one in the
wash,
uh one in the closet, one on your body.
And he he kind of simplified everything
he possibly could.
Um to save his bandwidth for things that
were were more important.
>> Minimalism as a a lifestyle constraint.
>> And and at least in the places where
it's not a big deal, right? If there's
some places you want to agonize more,
okay, but you don't have to do it in
everything. And again, there are these
surveys showing the rise of this
kind of maximization of everything. Even
there's interesting study that looked at
as consumer options have exploded,
people start to see the things they buy
more of as an expression of their
identity. And so, they start to feel
this greater weight for every decision
they made. So, just setting good enough
criteria for some of these decisions.
Satisficers are more happier are happier
by almost every metric than are
maximizers. And again, what I'm wary of
is is that it sounds like have low
standards.
Satisficers don't necessarily have low
standards, but they have standards at
all other than best imaginable. And so,
they have the possibility of being happy
with their with their decisions.
I think
the other type of it and this is like
the last chapter of the book is where I
get sort of more personal and
philosophical about kind of
this more conceptual constraints in
life, some of which have to do with
grounding yourself in the real world.
And I think of Robert Putnam, the
political scientist who wrote the book
Bowling Alone, which looks incredibly
prescient in retrospect, where he talked
about the decline of civic engagement
and the impacts it would have on health
and longevity. And this was around 2000
when he was writing it and saying,
you know, people are retreating into
their own world with TV, so they're not
going to the bowling club anymore and
having civic engagement. And he famously
said,
"Joining a club Joining one club cuts
your risk of dying in the next year in
half." That's kind of a rule of thumb.
But now this analysis of about 150
studies with over 300,000 subjects
pretty much backed him up that that kind
of social integration has a a greater
impact on survival than does quitting
smoking for cardiac patients.
Like grounding yourself in something
real. It requires you to give up some
scheduling autonomy. So, like when I
started going to dance classes, I wasn't
having any embodied experience with
strangers, I realized.
And I wanted some of that. And so, I
started going to these meetups or
classes and it it's it's an As an
independent writer,
I could have the absolute ultimate
cocoon Yeah, lifestyle.
There was a I was invited to a writer's
retreat some years ago after Range and I
was we all had to answer a question,
"What are you optimizing for this year?"
And I said autonomy. I thought what I
always wanted as a writer was to spend
every minute in a way of my own
choosing.
Fast forward 2 years, I realized there's
such a thing as too much autonomy. Like
I ended up in this individualized
schedule I wasn't synced with anybody
else.
So started getting back in activities. I
joined a club. I started going these
dance things where
it's annoying. I may have to go
somewhere, you know, at the time may not
fit my schedule,
but it actually started to give me back
some sense of syncing with other people
and some sense of meaning. I started
reading about like the Soviet Union had
desynced everybody to keep factories
going where they gave everybody a
four-day work week and a one-day weekend
and it was a social disaster because
everyone had individualized schedules so
they weren't synced up with other
people.
And so I think sacrificing some of your
own scheduling autonomy
to sync up with other people is a is a
really important thing. So join
something. Join anything. This is where
the new book dovetails with Range
because
essentially what you're saying is
we have this notion like let's say,
okay, you're a writer.
You've got an epiphany for a new book.
The first thing that comes to mind is
wouldn't it be great if I could just go
to this cabin in the woods without a
phone or anything and nobody could
bother me and I would just write, you
know, an absolute masterpiece because I
wouldn't be distracted.
But ultimately that is not in service to
your best work. You're better off being
at home where you're interacting with
friends and going to a dance class and
having people kind of impede upon, you
know, your schedule in ways you probably
prefer they didn't. But ultimately
that's going to end up not only making
you happy, but also the book that it
might take longer for the book, but when
the book comes out, it's probably going
to be a better book. I don't know if it
does take longer also. I'll say this
book was a new experience for me. And
there was one cabin in the woods thing I
did cuz I wanted to put constraints on
myself cuz I've had These are different
kinds of constraint. The The cabin in
the woods is a constraint is it's a
different kind of constraint. And the
My first two books I wrote 150% of a
book to get one book because I had not
drawn a a boundary around
the project. Then I became a dad and
said, "I cut a trip to Arctic Sweden for
my first book." Right? To Brad's point,
I went to Arctic Sweden for something
that didn't end up in the book.
And
I can't be doing this now that I have a
kid.
And so, and I need my work day to end at
a certain point.
>> Uh-huh. And so, I did a few things like
>> that contrasting that with the idea that
like, "Well, this kid is very
inconvenient to like my writing
lifestyle."
>> inconvenient. [laughter]
Incredibly
Adds all this meaning to my life,
>> Yeah. but super inconvenient. And so, I
This time I did I have this thing I call
a master thought list that's all my
ideas. It's arranged in a certain way. I
printed it out. I went to a hermitage in
the garden of a Franciscan monastery for
2 days, but didn't talk to anybody, no
internet, nothing.
Read through it. Said And it's well
longer than the book. Whichever ideas
are stuck in my head now, I'm doing a
one-page outline for this book. If it's
not on that page, it's not in the book.
And this is the first time the book is
20% shorter. It's the first time I
didn't overwrite it. I turned it in
early. And this is the first time I had
a work day that ended. In the past, I
said my competitive advantage will be
that I will let this swallow my life,
and then I'll recover afterward.
This time
I borrowed from one of the characters in
the book, Isabel Allende, one of the
greatest living writers.
I got to follow her through sort of her
writing routine. And one piece of it,
she starts her books on the same day
every year, but one piece of it was she
lit a candle to start every work day,
turns it off, close blows it out, closes
the door to end the work day, and that's
shut down.
I took that ritual. I I use electric
candles. I have too much She's braver
than I, and I have paper in my office,
but
Cal does that, too, actually. He says
like, "System shutting down." at the end
of his day. And so, for the first time,
I said I have a time when my work day is
going to end.
And I turned my book in early. I I know
I sat around for 2 weeks saying, "I'm
early. I can't possibly turn it in. I
have to keep tinkering." I never would
have thought like, "My plan is to turn
it in at 5:00 p.m. on the day it's due
in the contract."
But I think I'd forgotten what I knew
from like athletic training, which was
you're better when recovery is part of
the program, when you program in the
recovery instead of just letting it
swallow everything. And so, I would
I think I was both better and faster.
Listening to that story, I'm I'm hearing
you, the scientist, and I'm hearing Cal,
the, you know, computer scientist. Yeah.
You know, people who are trying to like,
you know, de- decode like, you know, how
to function, you know, in the world at a
you know, at a at an op- in an optimal
way or a good enough way, I suppose.
But then I hear But like But like what
is so funny about this story that you
just shared is like, you used the
example of Allende and like this this
beautiful practice of like her lighting
a candle and, you know, like I
And what's missing in your and Cal's
analysis of that is her treating
that as a ritual, like a sacred ritual.
Like it has a certain energy to it that
that is is
beckoning and demanding a level of like
reverence.
>> Yeah. Right?
>> Yeah. That maybe gets missed in the, you
know, the ones and zeros of the Cal
Newport brain.
>> No question. I see you're you're very
diplomatically and eloquently calling us
robotic and and her wonderful, which is
which is true. Um but I mean, everything
about writing still has like a spiritual
mystique to me. Like I still see books
as these magical little puzzle boxes
that are more mysterious to me than like
any technology really is. So,
I do have a feeling, you know, and I
look at I have a library in my office
and I look at the books that I admire
and still wonder how people got these
things done. I look at even my own books
and wonder how I got them done.
I'm not all the way on the end of the
Isabel Allende spectrum where she puts
like a book of Pablo Neruda poetry under
her computer just in case
uh beauty by osmosis is a thing that
will will get into her writing.
Um
but I do feel that ritual gets me in a
sort of state of
sort of a sacred space, I guess, for for
doing what I want to do that
I rarely inhabit in other times. You
know, may- maybe sometimes when I'm
floating on a forest trail or something
like that, I feel that way.
But the ritual for writing does make me
feel that way. I mean, it really is the
doing that brings me back, right? If I'm
glad I'm forced to produce a book
because otherwise I'd probably do it and
and and never put it out there, but
>> This takes us back to Tom Sachs and this
idea that he has,
called nolling. He used to be a
furniture designer for Knoll, and Knoll
has all of these rules about how you
should organize your workspace. And when
you're
facing a creative block, his sort of
practice is always be nolling. Okay, so
that's fine. So, all right, well then,
you know, clean your workspace or
whatever. And there's something sacred
about that. It's cheeky, like this idea
that he has, but the idea is you have to
acclimate yourself into the creative
kind of head space in order to like do
your thing. And whether it's lighting a
candle or organizing your pens or
whatever, what feels like
procrastination or maybe trivial or
frivolous is actually essential to um
kind of luring yourself lulling yourself
into the head space where you can do
your best work.
>> It's interesting that, you know, we
think of creative people as just this
like free-flowing, you know, they're
they're like wandering around like a
undersea plants, you know, being
whatever the wave takes them and then
being hit by inspiration.
>> [gasps]
>> But when I was reading a tons of work
about the habits and rituals of
creators while working on this book,
and it's pretty remarkable how
structured they are. Like, they all have
these sort of regularities and rituals.
And I think it's
really what liberates them to perform
within that. It gets them in that
performance mindset, you know, just like
someone before shooting a free throw or
doing whatever the figure skating
routine has kind of that routine that
gets them in the mindset.
Um and I think it does create that
space.
Um but it can I I think it can be it can
seem surprisingly rigid from the outside
when you're thinking about people doing
creative work, but I think it's actually
like that structure that gets people in
the space. And And I have I implemented
other stuff like
you know, I like to borrow anywhere you
see good ideas. So like Hemingway would
end on
in the middle of a sentence so that he
automatically knew where he was going to
pick up the next day. Yeah, that's very
helpful to me, too. Cuz I I get cut If I
don't know where where I'm picking up
the next day, then I'll just I'll just
wander around and do nothing.
>> You do that for a while if you're not.
So I like to do that because then I come
back and I'm like I'm I'm I'm positive
of something that I can do right now
that's important where I start and it's
not opening my email. It's starting with
this thing. So lots of those like
structures and rituals. On the uh
subject of having your feet planted
firmly on the ground while also reaching
for the stars like the there's you and
Cal and then there's Ayende. I'm curious
around how you think about goals. You
have some interesting ideas around goal
setting and and and working towards
goals. And I've I've kind of evolved my
thinking on this.
Certainly, you know, goals have been
crucial in my life and have, you know,
kind of helped me go from where I was to
where I am in in many stages of my life.
And there's a practicality to that and
um
a functionality to that and it's like
arithmetic like you set it, you calendar
it, there's a way to do it. And when it
works, it's great. It engenders
self-esteem and it progresses your life
in positive directions. But
as I reflect on my life now and identify
like the most meaningful experiences
that I've had and really how I went from
where I was to where I am right now,
it really has nothing to do with goals.
And so [snorts] I'm thinking about goals
as something to almost transcend
on some level. So, I'm curious around
your thoughts on this. I mean, I'd be
interested to hear you hear hear you say
more about that about what you think did
do it for you.
Um
but I kind of agree with that. I mean,
I've always I would say when I was
teenager or early 20s,
I was incredibly long-term goal-driven,
right? I knew all the things I was going
to do exactly how I was going to do them
well and they were going to be like I
was going to go to the Air Force
Academy, I was going to become a test
pilot, I was going to become an
astronaut. Of course, I didn't do any of
those things. And all of the most
important projects in my life have been
opportunistic pivots.
Sometimes from
personal tragedies or devastations,
other times
uh from something that just popped up
and interested me that I
for whatever random reason got some
keyhole view into.
And so, I think goals can be useful, but
I think if they're preventing you from
opportunistic pivots,
>> [snorts]
>> that's a really a bad thing. And so,
I think having a you know, instead of
asking who's younger than me and has
more than me saying
comparing yourself to yourself yesterday
because you're not really sure where
you're going anyway and being open to
opportunistic pivots is is really really
important. And at this point, again, I I
did so much there's so much me search in
this latest project that now I feel like
putting these kind of structures and
rituals in place and trusting that I'm
going to kind of thrive and do
interesting things within them is sort
of more important to me than the goal
because the the goal often doesn't give
me anything actionable to do. Like I I
think about this when I was an 800-meter
runner where I would have these time
goals
and then I'd cross the finish line and
get a glance at the clock and either I'd
be happy or sad. And usually sad because
they were usually stretch goals. So,
most of the time it just makes you
annoying and annoyed.
And it did but it didn't give me
anything to do. Whereas if I had certain
experiments that were like
make a move with 300 m to go. Oh, that's
something that I can try in practice and
then try in a race.
And so a lot of goals I think just
they're like an aspiration, but they're
not actually giving you the thing to do
today. Where I think these kind of
structures and experiments can actually
give you something to do today. But I'd
be interested to hear you say more about
what you think did work for you though.
>> Well, I think from a constraints
perspective, when you set a goal, you're
layering your life with constraints.
Like because you're working towards this
goal, it means you're going to have to
say no to these things so that you can
say yes to these things and it, you
know, provides structure to your life.
>> And I think that that is fantastic and
probably more people more people than
less can benefit from a little bit more
goal setting. Like knowing what to say
no to. Yeah, so that it drives a
decision tree and and really focuses
your attention.
Um
the flip side of that is what you talk
about like this, you know, developing
this proclivity to quit things. Like if
you're so attached to a certain goal,
then those blinders that you have on are
going to prevent you from pivoting or,
you know, if all the evidence while
you're working towards this goal is
trying to tug you in a certain
direction, you're going to ignore that
when maybe that is the true direction
that you should be leading your life.
And so you know, you can go off course
ultimately, you know, if you look at it
in a long term, you know, from a long
term perspective. So it's a yes and
situation. I think you should have goals
and work towards them, but you need to
be open to experiences from that kind of
curiosity and experimentation kind of
spirit. Like let's just say like, oh,
the first book I wrote or this podcast
or like being in these in this studio,
like none of these are a function of
having white boarded them. Like they are
an outgrowth of like investing in my
curiosity and being like, oh, this is
cool. I'm going to do this and like, oh,
that looks interesting. I'm going to
move over here. And that doesn't mean
that I'm like a ping-ponging around.
Like I'm doing it from a place of
intentionality and, you know, kind of
trusting
my gut and there are guardrails and
structures around like how I make those
decisions, but it's not because I set a
goal. Yeah. Yeah.
>> And so, I'm trying to make sense of like
how these two things live together.
That's like I mean, it sounds like
you're describing this kind of freedom
within some decision-making framework,
right? And I was just in Angela
Duckworth's class, actually. So, we were
talking about her earlier. And she
invited me to class just for one of her
sessions and
in the class she was talking about what
she now calls the Paramecium principle.
Have you heard of this already? Okay, so
obviously she's most famous for grit,
passion and perseverance.
>> Yeah.
And what she was telling her students
was
I she was basically saying, "If I could
redo grit a little bit, I think I'd put
a little bit more
on the passion side emphasis because I
think we've actually often taught young
people to persevere, but then they
persevere at something and put their
head up 10 years later and they're like,
'I actually don't like this thing.'"
Mhm. And so, the Paramecium principle,
this Paramecium single-celled organism,
and all it really has is detectors that
detect food nourishment or warmth. And
it'll detect a little and it will move
in that direction. If it detects more,
it goes in that direction again. If it
doesn't, it tries a different direction.
And so, it's making this constant series
of pivots and what she was explaining to
her students was
that's engagement or interest is the
thing that you should be pivoting to.
And she was saying not not happiness,
that's a different thing,
but interest or engagement
and pivot toward it. And to me, this is
like a total reconception of her of her
work
um
in a way that I think is really
interesting and productive where
don't feel like you're a failure because
you didn't persist in this goal that
might not be the right goal for you
because
how could you have how could you know if
it's the right like
one of my favorite
phrases from Range was we learn who we
are in practice, not in theory. That you
can't conceptualize what's right for you
in the future because you change and the
world changes. You actually have to do
stuff and then reflect on it to
understand you have to act and then
think.
Not not the reverse.
And so I was pretty psyched to see her
promoting this Paramecium principle
where it's like, "Yeah, you want to
persevere when something matters, but
you want to be constantly like
titrating, you know, your your path so
that you're you're reacting your level
of interest." So again,
everything that's been important to me
in my life has been an opportunistic
pivot. And and that requires kind of
letting go of the the direction I
thought I was going in.
>> Mhm.
>> So when you think of yourself as this
successful author, was that a goal that
you set for yourself or was that more,
uh, you know, kind of a maturation of
your curiosities and your obsessions?
No, I mean, I did like disclaimer is a
little bit of a sad origin to the story,
but more than a little bit, but, um,
when I became a writer, so I was in
grad school. I was training to be a
scientist. Um, I lived in the Arctic
studying the carbon cycle and stuff.
And I had a training partner when I was
a runner who dropped dead at the end of
a race, few steps after a mile race.
First guy in his family of Jamaican
immigrants, you know, who was who was
making it and
uh,
he was like one of the top ranked guys
in the country in his age group.
And I was devastated. I mean, I remember
I still remember the day like our coach
I wasn't there when it happened, called
and said,
"Oh, Kevin died at the track today." You
know, you say died when somebody ties up
at the end of a race. I'm like, "Well,
you know, it happens to the best of us."
He said, "No, no, he died, like he
died."
And
that's what launched me into writing
because our newspaper said, you know, he
had a heart attack. I don't even What
does that even mean for a guy at this
age, this level of health? I ended up
getting his family to sign, uh,
waiver allowing me to gather up his
medical records and investigate.
Turned out he had this misdiagnosed, uh,
textbook case of hypertrophic
cardiomyopathy, an enlargement of a
certain part of the heart that's usually
the cause of a young athlete dropping
dead with no prior symptoms.
That's what got me interested in
genetics, eventually led to my my first
book The Sports Gene.
And and that's when I said, I want to
write about this cuz I think we can save
some people for a public audience, not
people like me who are buying a science
magazine with their disposable income,
but people who read say Sports
Illustrated. And that's when I decided
to
go in that path and try to become the
science writer at Sports Illustrated.
So, it was very much a pivot from
something
that
felt meaningful to me at that moment and
totally changed my trajectory from from
going into the sciences to becoming a
writer. But it does illustrate this idea
of of you know, this this career emerged
from you investing in your curiosity and
what was lighting you up. Yeah, for
sure. I mean, I will say one other thing
that I learned when I was
in grad school for sciences was
I started you know, my work started
getting so narrow
and I started asking myself, am I the
type of person who wants to spend my
whole life learning one or two things
new to the world
or much shorter spans of time learning
things new to me and synthesizing them
and translating them and I was
learning that I was the latter type of
personality. And and I just couldn't
have known that before I tried it.
What is it that hamstrings you the most
from the subject matter in in the new
book? Like what is it that trips you up
or you still struggle with? You mean in
terms of the implications of things that
I would implement say or
>> refusal or recalcitrance around like
putting up constraints when you know,
after writing this book you know, you
should.
>> struggle with satisficing because I
think my
um
even I I know how much of the
optimization stuff online is nonsense
and and praying on our
intentions, but I still have that reflex
to want to maximize a lot of my
decisions and look for the best. So,
that's a struggle for sure.
The amount of autonomy that I have the
luxury to have in my schedule, giving
some of that up has been a struggle, but
I've done I mean, when I realized that
it was bad for my well-being that I had
optimized for something that is bad for
me,
I joined the board of a non-profit in my
community. I you know, joined a
like dinner and discussion club.
You know, I started doing all these
things to have a grounding in the real
world again and sometimes that's an
annoyance from a scheduling standpoint.
Um and so I still
struggle with that sometimes but it's
but it has undoubtedly been better for
my well-being.
And there's some advice that important
figure in the book Tony Fadell gave me
that Tony Fadell was the
he he led the team that created the iPod
and he co-founded he co-founded Nest the
smart thermostat company.
He now mentors entrepreneurs and he says
the most important advice he gives them
is write the press release first.
Cuz he says that will give your bounding
box like on one page assume this thing
is done
and write the press release as it would
look cuz that will show you what the
priorities are and if it's not there and
you know, maybe it's not as much of a
priority.
And he was like you got to do this for
your for your book. Um
and any project you do and I struggle
with that because
early on I kind of say, well, I can't do
that. I need to be more exploratory but
but I think it actually is a good
exercise cuz it's not that you can't
change it but it at least gives you some
direction to start moving in.
Um
and and and there is good work showing
that I write about that specific
curiosity boosts creativity like if you
can find a sort of a narrow lens to to
dive in at first that will actually help
your curiosity flourish and I've been so
used to in the past being so
wide-ranging that um
it's good advice but it's been hard for
me to take.
Another example of that or a similar
parallel is screen writing which
other [snorts] than poetry is the most
constrained form of writing. It has all
these rules and you know, you can't say
too much and it's very restrictive but
fundamental to it is this art and
science of crafting the log line like
almost you know, in advance of even
writing the script Mhm. really distills
everything down to, you know, literally
one sentence and everything stems from
that. So, that constraint drives the
creative process of like telling this
story.
>> Yeah. That reminds me when you say that
of
uh
Hayao Miyazaki's work who did Spirited
Away and Princess Mononoke and all those
great movies
where he the first thing he would do
would be
to like he'd he'd he'd he'd go away and
he'd he'd draw one picture like one
image and then he would show it to the
whole team and say
this is like the tenor Mhm. of what this
movie's going to be. Everyone has to
work to like the the tenor of this image
which is like that logline. It's like
here's the
the the core thing. Or in advertising
industry they have a famous saying,
"Give me the freedom of a tight brief."
It's like give me really specifically
what we're doing here and then that kind
of liberates you to create uh inside of
it. Where I think the the
the blank page is often kind of people's
Mhm. people's [clears throat] enemy. I
mean, what Isabel Allende told me is she
often she'll start with historical
research and that gives her like the
stage for her theater basically. Because
if it's just too open, um it's it's
difficult to start.
>> Mhm. [clears throat]
Or Ryan Holiday's note card
you know, routine where he's just he's
never not working on a book cuz he's
always reading and he's making these
note cards and so there there's always a
process.
>> You know, I I was in the bookstore and I
accidentally elbowed over a stack of one
of the note cards. I was [laughter] like
absolutely horrifying but luckily they
luckily they slid and like fanned out so
they were still in order and he's like
Yeah.
>> he he was very stoic about it as you
might imagine but like kindly put them
in palm like I'm taking a wide berth
around that table from now on.
>> We read these narratives of people who
have transformed their lives and it
seems so dramatic and it it it's always
portrayed as one fell swoop when the
reality is it's, you know, a million
micro behaviors and tiny decisions over
a very extended period of time that
really is the engine of transformation
every single time. And so so the
question that I have for you is
does the hare ever beat the tortoise?
>> [sighs]
>> Does the hare ever beat the tortoise?
Cuz I'm a tortoise guy. I'm always
playing the long game and I'm a late
bloomer and you know, everything that
I've been able to actualize in my life
essentially was a decade in gestation.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think there are
there are a million ways to get anything
done.
So, I don't want to say the hare doesn't
ever beat the tortoise. Like but I kind
of think one of the themes underlying
a whole bunch of my work is that
optimizing for the short-term will often
undermine longer-term development. And
so that head starts are overrated.
And that if you want to do something
sustainable in the long-term, like it's
going to be slow and it's going to be
many small changes, you know, layering
of constraints and structures and things
like that.
But I think there are there are
exceptions. Like if I think about
you know, there was this
research about entrepreneurs a few years
back looking at
the average age of founders of
fast-growing startups. You want to guess
what the average age of I think it was
top 1 in 10,000 rate of growth. Average
age of a founder on the day of founding.
You want to guess?
42. 45. Good guess. Cuz I think we
usually associate it with people who are
younger, right? 32. Yeah, 35. Or the
Mark Zuckerberg or famous drops out
famously drops out of college and he he
said young people are just smarter. He
said that when he was 22, right? Don't
hear him saying that anymore,
surprisingly.
But, you know, some of those young
entrepreneurs absolutely succeed by
going fast and being early, but it's the
exception.
It's not the norm.
>> Mhm.
And so I think the norm is this much
slower gestation that requires pivots
and requires learning things that you
just couldn't have known without
experience.
Um and it's more sustainable too.
You said optimizing for the What did you
say again? What was the quote?
Optimizing for the short-term
>> short will often undermine long-term
development. Yeah.
When you say that,
the first person that comes to mind
is Bryan Johnson. Are you familiar with
Bryan Johnson and his quest to live
forever?
>> Isn't he trying to Yeah, I was going to
say, isn't he trying to optimize for
eternity?
But he's optimizing in the short-term as
a means to optimize for the ultimate
long-term, right? Like it's a conundrum
on some level. And he's a very curious
figure. Like on the one hand, like talk
about his experimentation. Like he's
just experimenting all the time and he's
sharing transparently what he's doing,
what's working, what's what what what's
not working.
And is he not the ultimate
uh human guinea pig for
self-imposed constraints? Because he has
constrained his lifestyle to such a
degree,
and yet he seems happier than he was
before.
And I'm just curious if you've followed
this trajectory at all or if you have
any kind of insights on this or what we
can what we can kind of take away from
what he's doing. I see him only
sparingly, so I don't know the details
of his behaviors, but I see like when it
pops up sometimes if something he does
goes viral. And sometimes I think
there's, you know, some nonsense in some
of the things that he's talking about.
Other times where he's doing clearly
healthy things. He's [laughter]
exercising. And And I also think to your
to your point about putting all these
constraints on himself, I think he's
clearly doing something that has given
his life meaning.
Right? He's found this project and this
structure that he's sort of all in on,
like his own little sports team kind of.
So good for him. I think when he's
sharing
some of these things about his
biological age and some of that stuff is
pretty suspect. You know, it used to be
based on telomeres, these like
>> a rigorous scientist.
>> Yeah, yeah. So there's some measures of
those that I think are
You know, I always when you see somebody
giving their biological age to like two
decimal points, you're like
no. Like this is just fake accuracy
about some of this kind of stuff. So,
without knowing all the details of the
stuff he's doing, I think he's doing
something providing structures to give
his life meaning. He's obviously doing
some things that are very healthy,
eating healthier, exercising. All right,
we talked about
But it's probably he's getting attention
for these marginal gains attempts
where most of the gain is probably
coming from these very foundational
things that that he's doing.
>> Sleep, nutrition, things like that. I
mean, I I don't think that he's he's
giving those short shrift. Yeah. But
yeah, there's a lot of bells and
whistles and fancy stuff, and he's a
brilliant marketer, and he clearly
understands how to operate on the
internet to garner attention. Um and I
promise you he is going to die short of
some kind of AI breakthrough that's
going to, you know, like that we upload
his consciousness or something. Um but I
don't think any amount of supplements or
or, you know, putting a helmet on your
head or whatever is going to make him
live forever. Um
but there's a cheekiness to it, you
know, that makes it kind of fun to
follow what he's doing, and and he's
just, you know, he's he's a provocateur.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
And I think personal experimentation's
interesting. I think where it gets
troublesome is like
passing off some of these marginal gain
things, first of all, as if they're the
whole secret, or passing off things that
are not gains at all, right? Which is
classic in a lot of the supplement
industry, basically, where something it
it doesn't work, basically, and you're
passing it off as a miracle cure, or it
works a very little, Mhm.
[clears throat] and you're passing it
off as having a huge effect. Again, I
don't know the extent to which he's
doing that cuz I'm familiar with him,
but I don't know Yeah.
>> the specifics of his routine.
>> that he is almost subliminally like
conveying this message of self-imposed
constraints actually make your life
better and happier, it's consistent with
your message.
>> That That That I don't think is is
That I think is true, and I think
boundaries and guardrails and rituals
and things give people a feeling of
meaning. Mhm. Um
and happiness and structure
um
and of bounds in a world that can feel
very overwhelming.
But again, to the extent that he is
like
making people have FOMO about these
little optimizations that they should be
doing, I don't think that's great.
Again, I I don't I don't I don't know.
I'd be careful about speaking to this
cuz I don't know exactly what he's
doing.
>> is the neurosis that accompanies like
our inability to live up to some
optimization standard. And there's stuff
like this looks maxing stuff now. Have
you heard of this?
>> did a whole episode on this. Yeah, so so
oh, that's right. Um It's insane. Um
and you guys were talking about that. I
I can't remember the name of the
Adam Skolnick? Uh clavicular? That guy.
That's the guy that you guys were
talking about him. Um
and uh
that's
not helpful for people, I think. Like
that again is a space where I think we
have to have
a good enough feeling. Like maybe this
is a weird thing to relate it to, but
when I was thinking about writing
this my third book, I I was actually I
had so much freedom that I started
bouncing around all these ideas. I was
like, I I find books so consuming that
I'm not going to go until I find the
perfect idea.
So, I ended up just bouncing around a
million ideas and never diving in. And
then I read this passage from Mihaly
Csikszentmihalyi, the psychologist who
coined the term flow for the feeling of
immersion in an activity.
He was actually talking about
uh
like marriage, but it doesn't matter.
You could apply what he was saying to
anything where he said, "The great thing
is, once you're committed by your own
choice, if you're committed,
you can stop you can start living and
stop wondering how to live. Like instead
of spending all this energy on wondering
what else you should be doing, you can
you can start just living." And I
immediately read that and said, "I'm
spending all this time wondering what
topic to take on where I should pick
something that interests me and just
dive in." And I was like, immediately
that day decided I'm writing a proposal
on constraints, right?
And and I think that applies more
broadly to life, whereas you want to
decide on something that's good enough
and dive in on it and give it some of
yourself instead of thinking, "How are
all the other ways that I could be
optimizing this this thing?"
And so,
you know, I bristle a little bit against
some of the optimization culture, even
though I'm very much like a
self-improver,
just because
I think it can give people a feeling of
like never finding some stability. You
know, there's always some other things
they could and should be doing that
would make it better if only.
But like
you're never going to clear the decks
and have that moment where "Now is the
time when I'm going to start the thing I
really want to do." So, you just have to
start it in this imperfect, messy way
and not worry about what the internet is
telling you about optimization. A lot of
it is
an ill-fated attempt to
uh fill some spiritual void on some
level that will give your life a sense
of like meaning and purpose. But on the
point of
that you just made, I'm reminded of
Ellen Langer, like her whole thing about
like stop worrying if you're making the
right decision, just make the decision
right.
>> Yeah, make the decision right. That's
right.
>> decisive. There's a difference between
decisiveness and optimization, I guess.
Um when you're decisive and then you
just you make a decision and then you
just take the first the next, you know,
little action and you start to string
these actions together,
that's how everything works. Like I too,
like I'm writing a book right now. I
haven't written a book in a really long
time and I couldn't figure out what it
was that would get me excited enough to
write about. And then finally, I was
just sort of cajoled into committing to
a certain idea,
not knowing if I was capable of actually
being able to see it through, but just,
you know, okay, well, here's one idea
like today and that's not very good,
but, you know, it's it's been 2 years,
you know, it's taken me a long time, but
I'm like, "Oh, I can see it now, you
know, it's starting to come together."
When I couldn't at the beginning. So,
this notion that you have to have it all
fully actualized in your mind before you
can start keeps people stuck in the
starting gate and never doing anything.
>> I think that's a good prompt like you
mentioning, you know, you you couldn't
see how maybe this book was going to be
at the beginning.
I I when I do a book project, since I
don't do them that often, I want to take
on a project that at the start I don't
have the skills required to finish it.
Cuz I I can't find any other way to like
voluntarily force myself to learn with
the
ferocity that I do when I have a book
project. And so, I actually think that's
a really good thing. It's scary, right?
Because you don't know everything about
what you're going to have to find, but I
think that's like a great
like force you forcing function for
improvement is starting a project where
you don't have everything you need to be
able to do
>> embracing the discomfort of it and
discomfort is the grist for growth. I I
mean, desirable difficulties. Yeah.
Final thoughts. Uh what is it
that you want people to take away from
this notion of constraints make us
better? If you had to distill it down
into kind of a final call to action. I'd
say um
uh a mindset shift from viewing limits
as oppressing you to viewing them as
opportunities to clarify your priorities
and launch into productive
experimentation instead of bristling
against them.
What can I do with this?
Amazing. Inside the Box: How Constraints
Make Us Better, available everywhere.
And [clears throat] thanks for coming on
the show, man. It's great. It it's a
total pleasure.
>> about anything. You should come back all
the time.
>> love to come back more often and and I
hope you'll keep posting your morning
routines because as I've converted
myself into a morning person, I find
them very inspiring. Like it's no matter
when I wake up, I see your digital clock
and
um so, you know, you've just also been a
a personal inspiration for me and the
way you approach things with a very
human kind of
um
truth seeking, right? Like I think you
you I think you could peddle a lot of
nonsense if you wanted to
and you don't. I appreciate that.
Thanks, man. [snorts]
Pleasure. To be continued.
>> [laughter]
>> Cheers. Peace.