Video summary
Tony Gaskins opens his video by briefly addressing his current coaching schedule, noting that a recent promotional sale has significantly extended his workload and drained him, though he remains committed to helping aspiring coaches set up their profiles on his platform. He offers practical advice for new users, suggesting they utilize AI tools like Gemini and ChatGPT to generate professional headshots and polished bios, while also warning against signing up with unreliable email services that could cause them to miss important client sessions. This introductory segment serves as a transition into the main topic of the video, which is a discussion sparked by a TikTok post from his wife regarding a specific incident involving a woman named Angel Victoria Murdoch who claimed to be attending Physician Assistant (PA) school at Duke University.
The core of the discussion revolves around the exposure of Angel's deception, where she allegedly faked her enrollment in a prestigious medical program to secure lucrative brand deals and social media clout. Gaskins expresses deep disappointment and concern over the mental state required to maintain such delusions, contrasting Angel's fabricated success with the immense stress, sacrifice, and rigorous education that legitimate PA students endure at institutions like Duke. He highlights the irony that while real medical professionals are working tirelessly to save lives, individuals without credentials are profiting from brand partnerships based on lies. Furthermore, he touches upon a friend who tried to support Angel during her alleged mental health struggles, only for Angel to eventually reveal she was not actually in the program, raising questions about whether her friends were unknowingly promoting a fraud or if they were complicit in the scheme.
Gaskins expands his critique beyond this specific case to address a broader cultural issue of people living lies on social media to appear wealthy or successful, a phenomenon he attributes to insecurity and the damaging effects of comparison culture. He shares anecdotes about women pretending to buy luxury items or posing as HR managers when they are not, and warns against the strategy of using medical degrees as a "Plan B" to secure a relationship with an athlete, citing stories where such plans backfire financially and emotionally. He emphasizes that true success comes from doing the hard work required for one's career rather than taking shortcuts, urging viewers to love themselves enough to live authentically rather than chasing fame or validation through deception.
In his conclusion, Tony Gaskins encourages his audience to prioritize their mental health by disconnecting from social media scrolling and focusing on self-improvement through exercise and genuine community building. He advises people to use AI tools responsibly to build legitimate businesses rather than relying on fakes, and he promotes his "Purpose Pushers" community as a space for accountability and motivation. Ultimately, he calls for viewers to stop worrying about what others have—the so-called "Joneses"—and instead focus on living within their means, pursuing education or entrepreneurship with integrity, and building lives that do not require them to perpetuate a lie.
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Hey, hey, Tony Gaskins here. Now, I
ain't got too long because I got a
coaching call in 55 minutes. To God be
the glory. Got pushed back an hour.
Coaching is winding down uh from the
discount sale I did in October of last
year. It it literally has stretched out
this far and it has been one of the most
taxing, one of the most draining things
I've ever done in my life. It definitely
make me want to give up on coaching. It
is very hard just talking to so many
people.
But my mentor.life is still up and
running. So if you want to be a coach,
uh definitely visit the site, join us.
If you already a certified life coach or
if you're a therapist or counselor or
consultant of any kind, business
consultant, author, consultant, go to
mymentor.life, life. Claim your profile.
Set it up. Set up your payment.
Perfect your photo. But y'all don't
forget that you could take those photos
and put it in gemini.google.com
and have it turn it into a professional
head shot and tell it the size it need
to be cuz the site will tell you what
size the photo need to be. And you can
have chat GPT write your bio, your
favorite quote to get it super nice and
polished. and perfect it and start
booking you some clients. And just pay
attention to your email that you sign up
with. Y'all need to stop signing up with
them bat emails, them backend emails
that you never check cuz then you'll be
missing your sessions and all of that.
And so we got that right there set up.
Knew my mentor Bill. Shout out to Austin
Penny Feather. the number one developer
in the world is now on my team and we
knocking projects out the park. So, get
on over there. Saw this right here. Very
interesting. This from my wife's Tik Tok
timeline. Not really something I would
necessarily see, but being that we have
so many black women on here, I want to
come on here and talk to you about this
because
there is a lot of pressure on you to be
something and to do something and the
boss girl movement, boss woman movement,
and being this and being that, and you
know, people making you feel like you
less than or you nothing if you don't
have this and that going on. And also
too, I want y'all to understand just the
level that it takes for you in in life
to stay mentally stable. Like I cannot
wrap my head around what Cheyenne Bryan
and this young lady
um is it Angel
Victoria Murdoch
has done. It is just so painful to see.
She pretended she was in PA school,
which that's physician assistant.
PA, which doesn't mean an an assistant
to a physician, which I learned from the
historian of the class that Victoria, I
mean, that Angel pretended to be in. She
said she's nobody's assistant. She say
it's not position's assistant. is
physician
assistant.
Not sure how much of a difference that
is, but she said they that mean they can
work independently,
see clients
independently,
write prescriptions for for medicine and
all of that. And they said Duke is like
the number one program. I want to be a
PA. Hey, one of y'all can help me get my
bachelor's cuz I tried to sign up on
University of the People because it's
free tuition. You got to pay a few fees,
but the raggedy site don't be working
right. So, I ain't even been able to do
none of my school work. So, I'm So,
I'mma drop out again. And after seeing
Angel and Cheyenne, I'm I'm about to
fake me a degree. Lord, be with me. I'm
about to fake me a degree. Y'all listen.
And now we got Chat GPT. one of y'all
send me a copy of your degree so I could
photo scan it and have chat make me one
just like get me a better job. And so
I'm just shocked.
But this is what I try to tell y'all.
Imagine the state of delusion that
Cheyenne and and Angel are in. And
imagine me working with a lot a lot of
women on social media. These are the
type of women that I have to deal with
in the comments sometime. And I and a
lot of the comments y'all don't even see
because it'll just show it to me. It's
almost like it's hidden because they
could tell that it's certain words in it
that just are harsh or what have you.
And I I have a block party every day.
You might as well I might as well be a
club promoter cuz I have to throw a
block party every day blocking
delusional
people
because sometimes it's men but very
rarely. It's typically women that I have
to block every day for just talking out
the neck
sideways
disrespectfully,
delusionally.
And
it's a lot to deal with, but just
imagine like the lady
she took
and and I'm going tell you something
like I don't really use the word
narcissist, but I feel like what
Cheyenne and Angel is,
if if anything is a narcissist, it it'll
be that. And so I don't really feel bad
talking about it because those type of
people really don't have
feelings in the sense of they don't
really have feelings or like a
conscience. And a lot of times people
try to like humanize them which they are
human but imagine what they're doing to
other people. Imagine what they're
stealing. And imagine how the people who
have gone to school and got that
education and had that blood, sweat, and
tears. Imagine how they feel for
somebody to cosplay, the word that
everybody using, and come up off of it.
Like Cheyenne and Angel made more money
than the people who have the actual
credentials
make. So them young ladies, young men
and women in that PA school at Duke,
which I seen just mostly young ladies,
they was so stressed and strained and wo
out and tow up from doing that school
work. They ain't have time to think
about a brand deal. Like they was
posting on social media when they could,
but them women wasn't thinking about no
brand deal. And I'mma tell y'all
something now. If you have the brains to
be a PA or RN or LPN or whatever it is
in the medical field, go do it. Because
I'mma tell you from a male perspective,
it is sexy. It is attractive. It is
whatever term the guy want to use, it's
all of that because a woman with brains
is hard to come by and it's very
attractive. So if you got what it take
to go do that, go do that. And it's sad,
but see, it's so hard that you have
people who fake it. And not just the
medical field, even just getting a
doctorate, getting a bachelor's, a
master's, a doctorate, all that stuff is
hard. That's why I ain't got no
bachelors because it takes a certain
level of attention and focus,
consistency,
and school just don't turn me on enough.
It don't do enough for me to for me to
lock in on it. And I take that attention
and focus into to entrepreneurship and
doing what I do. But for school, I just
ain't had the time and energy and
attention for it yet.
Maybe after my youngest is is out the
house and and I don't need to make as
much money to give them the the best
life possible, I can work a little less
and focus on school. But I say that to
say it's one of those things to where it
takes a lot. And some people would
rather take a shortcut. And here's the
thing with Angel, like we don't see
these people as crazy. We don't see him
as crazy in the sense of like you need a
straight jacket, but she played her home
girl. Like her home girl did a video
with her and was shouting her out.
Black girl magic like supporting her
like really there for her and and Angel
over there all of that. Yes. And all of
that. And the home girl is like
putting like putting her on doing a
little video with her like she in the
health field doing something in the
health field.
And here go
my wife sent me the friend post and she
basically was saying like I need some
time
to to heal. I need to take some time to
myself. I need to think and focus.
And she was just like, oh, she took it
down look like. And
she was like, I just need some time for
me.
And
she was saying
that she don't want to pile on a already
difficult time. And maybe being that she
is in the medical field, she could see
and feel and know
how hard it is for her friend to be
dealing with the mental health issues
that she dealing with. And she don't
want to kick her while she down is
basically what she was saying. And
that's a that's a good friend to not
kick you while you down. Like that's a
good friend. You can't even be mad about
that. And I feel bad for the friend. But
I don't know, but imagine the young
lady, mama or daddy or brother or
sister,
all of them who they grew up with and
all they friends know that this is their
sister and she just was out here rap
capping. And what are you going to do
after this? Now you got to go work at
Wendy's. Like I'm out here. I'm public
and it's hard for me to earn a living
and I'm out here, you know. I'm public
um
personal personable
um
trusted and respected. [clears throat]
No scandal. And it's hard for me to
earn. And so
I can't really imagine
how
I can't really imagine how Cheyenne is
eating right now and what that is like
and what she going through and I feel
terrible for her. And then also with
with
Angel, she they said she had brand
deals, which we don't know if it was
real brand deals, but
if she had brand deals, it's a
possibility
that them people are coming back for
their coins and they like, "Hey, you
breached the contract cuz you weren't in
PA school and we need we going to need
our coins
and so run me my money
or I'm suing you. And the companies who
paid her, if she was actually being
paid, the companies who paid her, they
probably down bad right now cuz
everybody down bad right now. And so
they want that money back. Oh, but honey
child, that money gone. That money, that
money up a creek. You s if you want to,
you ain't going to get nothing. She
ain't got nothing to give you. So just
take that L. Y'all should have reached
out to the registar at Duke to see if
they could tell you or verify that this
young lady in the program. And if that's
a violation they couldn't tell you, then
okay, you did what you could do. But
that's a cost of business. Chalk it up
as a loss. But I want y'all to know who
you are, to love yourself, and stop
faking for social media because there's
different levels to it. You might be
faking like you bought that pair of
shoes that you tried on or you bought
that outfit that you tried on or that
you was sitting in that seat on the
plane that you walked by and going to
the to the last seat on the plane to sit
next to the lavatory but you done filmed
in 3 4 seconds. You done filmed the
business class life flat seat on your
way back to your seat. And now you done
uploaded that business class light flat
seat
knowing you sitting in the laboratory
with a jump seat on bike there smelling
doodoo and fumes and or it's like live
your life. Live where you at with what
you got and keep grinding. Get in the
purpose pushers community. Tap into your
purpose. connect with good people,
like-minded people, and build your life
so that you don't have to live a lie.
You don't have to fake. And I never
forget, I tell y'all all the time, when
my client went into the Jeppi store, and
she's a celebrity wife and baby mama.
Uh, well, was baby mama then became
wife, but of a celebrity. But when she
was just the baby mom,
the mother of the children, as we like
to call it, more polish and
professional,
she went into the Jeppi store and
pretend and tried on a pair of shoes,
took a picture of it and posted it. And
then her friend,
who was another client, which this over
a decade ago, I don't work with them no
more. So I you know and and they weren't
paid clients. It was just kind of like
one of them little favorite things for
the celebrities. And so the friend said
she ain't buy them shoes. She just took
a picture of it and posted like she
bought them. I was like dang
y'all moving like that. And I never
forget I seen them young ladies go at at
Fountain Blue in Miami. them young
ladies go dive on that center stage
cabana thing, take quick selfies, hop up
and run before security caught them. And
just the front, just the flex, just the
floss perpetrating.
Y'all got to stop doing that. Y'all got
to stop doing that. Like live the life
you can live. Like I'm I'm f to
downgrade. I'm f to downgrade, decrease
everything, live my life, man. I'm I'm f
to stop worrying about the Joneses. If I
don't need it, I ain't buying it. If I
don't need it, I ain't keeping it. I'm f
to downgrade and I ain't worried about
the Joneses. And so I see so many people
that they will get a bunch of fake stuff
to to show it off. It's like if you want
to wear something fake or what have you,
then okay, cool. Somebody see it, they
see it. But now you can't floss with
fake. You can't be flossing
and
the shoes, the purge, the clothes, and
you showing it off like it real now.
Don't do that now. Like live at your
means where you at. And but what this is
a bigger sign of
this is a bigger sign of the mental
health issues that people are dealing
with and living with
from social media comparison.
And if you don't have any sense, if you
don't have common sense, if you don't
have an accountability partner, if you
don't have somebody to kind of call you
out on the amount of scrolling that
you're doing on social media, you'll end
up comparing your life so much to where
you will be absolutely miserable
and you will you'll take
and start to live a lie like this woman.
And I and I guarantee you this is
happening on much smaller scales. Like a
lady who is the customer service rep at
the front desk got HR manager in her bio
and she's showing
video of somebody else desk like it's
her desk and she posing as a HR manager.
It's women posing as we are in and we
know the men be posing as the club owner
and they they sweep the flows and be
posing as the athlete, the pro alete and
they live with the pro alete that they
happen to grow up with be posing as uh
remember the black boy who posed as a
doctor. I think the boy was getting
clients and everything and was a fake
doctor. Like people want to be something
without doing the work to be that. It
just like in my field you got Yoda uh
Yada,
Derek Jackson,
Stephan Labosiier, Ace Metaphor. They
all want to be relationship coaches but
don't want don't want to do what it take
to be a relationship coach. don't want
to get married and be faithful and love
a woman the way she deserve to be loved.
Don't want to do that now, but want to
bump gums, want to make the money, want
to get the clout, want to get the fame,
but don't want to do what it take to
really be this here. And that's the
downside of it. And and and that's
unfortunate. And so here go the young
lady
who she gets out there
and she faking
and it's just sad.
It is sad.
And I follow this account
who posted about it
and she showed it
She showed it now. I say, "Wow."
Yeah, she showed it.
And then here go the thing. The lady was
taking it's account on Instagram, the
public opinion court. The lady was
taking
and posting. Get ready with me. Nah,
get ready with me for psych rotations.
And so her page, Angel Vic, sold that
looked like it was on Tik Tok. The lady
took
and then here go another post.
It's a beautiful day to be a black woman
in medicine.
Less than 4% of PAS are black. Let's
change that. The angel Victoria
I think they say she done disabled her
accounts and it looked like she come
from money cuz that dough that dough
handle
that door handle is like a Benz. That's
like a Benz door handle. Unless she got
a fancy Kia
but and then she and then
P thing. The child in scrubs. The child
in scrubs showing the PA badge.
Oh my goodness. P thing.
PA school
obgyn.
Now what y'all call that? Cuz it sound
like I heard them pronouncing objen
or something. Obggin. I was like, "No,
y'all stop trying to be fancy and just
say OBGYn."
And I got clients who OBGYNS and And I
ain't got no college degree. Won't he do
it? God will do it. He will get you to
Well, I think I got one or two CL I know
I got one for sure
and might have a second one. And one of
them is a surgeon who do surgery for
women, fibroids and stuff like that. and
I don't have a college degree, but I
specialize in what I specialize in. And
so you could be yourself.
And then on this one, she put I'm 50% a
PAC. I don't know what PAC mean. That
mean must mean physicians assistant
certified or something or I don't know
what that mean. And then she doing
what's in my bag. Physician assistant
student edition.
Lord
[snorts] Lord my goodness she told
what's in my bag a lie
about what's in my bag lies
and then I don't she she put on March
12th 2025 guess the secret is out go
watch me on Temptation Island streaming
on Netflix so maybe she want maybe she
went on Temptation Island and so that
just right there is if that's her on
Temptation Island that could be a chat
GPT fill
But maybe she just want to be famous
that bad.
And I'mma tell you, I'mma tell you, I
rather you like listen, we need to be
you need to be saving yourself until
marriage.
But listen, I rather you get meat
meatated down every day than to get out
here and do this
than to get out here and tell a lot is
this big.
Yeah, I rather get rather you get you a
toy and pray it off of you. Ask for
forgiveness. Don't get out here and make
no fool of yourself like this. And then
here go the friend
Ning
we always talk about career. This will
always be a security.
So do you want to tell a little bit
about that?
last two and a half years
working at the same time.
So we have
relate with
also one of the most part
I'm glad I went through something
challenging to give me the confidence
that I have now because you're really
dealing with people's lives and then
being a black woman
be you got to be on your toes. Of
course, they want you to know what
you're thinking. They want you to be
like neglectable about that stuff
because you're dealing with real people
from school.
>> She a few months off. She's three.
And then she adding to the story.
She want to elaborate on it. She want to
tell you what you could do with it. She
try she want to give you a little extra
and Yeah. And you can switch. You know,
I think I'm about to go in emergency
medicine and then derm. It's like,
child, you about to be in emergency
medical with a straight jacket on. What
the world is you talking about? And
then,
see, the thing about it is you have to
love yourself.
You got to love yourself. So, I could
tell that she had a late glow up.
But she have a a a set of teeth on her.
And so when she was 12,
she was chomping at the bit and it
looked like she was chomping at the bit.
So the boys were overlooking her. And
that's the thing. Get your braces, get
your get your Invisalign, like correct
what you want to correct so you can fall
in love with you. And so that insecurity
drove her, see, I'm I'm a human be
behavior specialist studying human
behavior. That insecurity drove her to
want to be significant and to want to be
seen.
And then the child said, "For the last
two and a half years,
I just been grinding."
So it's like, "Ma'am, have you and Yada
been having it griff going for last two
and a half years?"
Like I hope she ain't been getting brand
deals for last two and a half years now.
And then the other young lady said they
learned about her in their didactic
year. Now I thought that was a dinosaur.
So whatever that is, my wife told me
it's like your first year or something
preparation year or something first
year. But in the didactic year, they say
they saw her post that she was in the
Duke PA program and they say they just
was so busy they ain't pay much
attention to it and they figure well I
bump into her at some point. I ain't
seen her but don't know who she is but
I'll bump into her at some point. And
then they start to realize like hold on
now like I ain't seen her around. So,
one of the sisters who got a little bit
of hood in her, she went on the young
lady page and she commented, "Hey, such
and such, such and such, how you getting
through this? Can you talk about how you
getting through this? I haven't seen you
around, you know, campus yet, but can
you tell about how you getting through
this?" And then she gonna reply, Angel,
the the crook. She going to reply, "Yes,
I can." Talking about she could explain
how she getting through this or that.
And then they say on her page, she'll be
in Mexico.
Ian out there Cabo Taloon whatever on a
on a vacation and then going to post
like oh she back and she fa to pop in
the class and they like you ain't got no
time to be taking no vacation while you
in this here Duke PA school and she
talking about and I've been working. She
had to say she been working so her
co-workers know
why they've been seeing her at work cuz
like child how you in PA school and we
seeing your butt at work every day. So
what PA school you in her co-workers was
confused. Now, I don't know if she
really work or she just said that, but
she talking about I've been in PA school
and working.
And then
let me tell you what these girls is
though.
They are the yada awakenings of
influencing because the girl driving got
a ring on. And what she didn't realize
what she what she gave away is she said
this is something you can always fall
back on.
Child, you ain't going no PA school to
fall back.
You go to PA school, you f to lead from
the front.
PA school ain't no fall back plan,
child. That's a lead plan. You leading.
But this young lady, she married the
friend. She got a ring on. It's a rock
about a two karat. Got the eternity
bands in front of it and behind it. She
got a Van Clee necklace on which could
be fake since her friend or scammer. She
got on the nice Penelope glasses. I'm
going just call it a Penelope, but the
black frame, good little shape. She got
perfect skin, perfect features, perfect
hair. The car she in looked like a Benz
or a Range Rover unless it's a fancy
kill stepping they game up with them
telling sport tubes and so she look like
she got on a a Cardier love bracelet
which may not be could be some a dupe or
something like that but
she look like money and either like she
done married a man with money or she
come from money. But whenever a woman
say something like being a PA is the
fall back on that mean plan A is to
finesse you in finesse you a dumb in who
is probably a athlete and he snatch you
up
meet you down put meat leg on you get
you pregnant and then he never knows
that you were not in PA school. He
literally believe she probably had
athletes in her DM. She probably will
popping pee for athletes. Probably
dating an athlete and was on the low and
she getting ready to get married or
getting ready to get engaged to this
athlete or to this lawyer or to this
doctor or something like that. So that
is not new now cuz I I never forget when
I was at college in college there was
this video vixen who was known to be
around town and she went to college with
me but she was in all the music videos
even all the way up to Lil Wayne videos
and then all of a sudden she somehow got
into med school or some kind of health
school and started dating being a NFL
player and became and then NFL player
came to me
and was like, "Hey, do you know her? I
see she follow you. She went to your
your college. Do you know her?" And I
said, "Yeah, but she ain't had the best
reputation. She was kind of like a bop,
like kind of like getting knocked down."
And people were saying like she was like
a ho and that she people they say she
slept with Lil Wayne, slept with this
person, slept with that person. So this
bros, I'm giving him the game. I'm
telling him just what I heard about her.
How about this dummy? I I feel like I
want still want to slap him in the mouth
to this day. How about this dummy going
to go and tell her what I said? instead
of taking the knowledge for himself, he
gonna go and tell her what Tony Gaskin
said this.
So then she tells her friend who is a
what y'all call a 304. She bopping
around trying to get pregnant by
athlete. I think she end up getting
pregnant by athlete. Her friend go on
Twitter and was like, "I wish people
knew how Tony Gins really feel about
women." And it's like, ain't how I feel
about women. That's how I feel about
y'all hos. That how I feel about y'all
three out here trying to get pregnant by
athlete. That's how I feel about y'all
that you scamming these men cuz you know
they dumb cuz you know they have been
hit in the head too many times and they
thinking with their little head instead
of they big head. And you know how dumb
they is and how easy you could play
these athletes because they grew up
without a real childhood and they never
been him cuz they've been catching balls
their whole life and they done made it
to the pros and a lot of them don't know
no better. And I try to get them the
game because I was on the other side. I
was the womanizer. I was sleeping around
and I try to tell them like bro that
woman don't want you. She playing you.
She does not want you and nothing about
you. All she want is your money. And she
want a baby from you cuz that's going to
guarantee her a paycheck for the next 22
years. And she plans to figure it out
then. But her plan is to raise a pro
alete because she got your genetics now.
So now her baby got your DNA. She know
you going to support your child. she
gonna put your child in the best sport
that she could possibly put that child
in. Then that boy gonna become a pro
alete and take care of his mama. And so
now she went from you taking care of her
to him taking care of her and she never
had to work. And so that's what I was
trying to tell these guys. He goes and
tell her, but the friend didn't realize
she gave it away when she said fall back
on this. something you could always fall
back on. It's like fall back on.
It's like what in the world?
Y'all talking crazy.
And then
somebody put thousandpage powerpoints
with all the crime faces and then
somebody put we thank God it's crazy.
And so and they was asking like did the
friend go to the graduation cuz I want
the detail.
And so this the thing. So the young lady
and then so they was wondering if the
friend is in on it. The friend came out
and say she grieving too. She she ain't
know nothing about it. She wasn't aware.
She a long distance friend and all of
that. So it's like I guess the friend
wanted to come get her a little clout.
wanted to come meet her friend that's
about to be a PA or something. And she
say she went through a health school
journey and got PTSD from school. So I I
don't but she didn't say she's a PA. So
So I don't know if if she got PTSD from
becoming a RN or becoming something else
that was very strenuous and hard for
her. I don't know cuz she ain't specify
but it looked like she didn't got
married. She didn't got married on the
way. So she might not even be doing her
health job. or maybe she is, but that's
what the goal is. And it's like, listen,
a man don't care about that. We don't
care if you a doctor or anytime when a
man care about that cuz he want to use
you. So that's all what it is. When my
wife told me she wanted to be a doctor,
I was a grown boy. So it's like now that
I'm a grown man, my wife could be a
janitor if she want to be. She could be
she could be a rock picker. Like she
could be anything she want to be cuz I'm
a grown man. But when I was a grown boy
and she said she fa to be a doctor, I'm
I'm like, "Yeah, I'm f to be a
stay-at-home dad.
Yes, sir. I'm going to be able to count
E chip watching TV, kick my feet up,
that putting good pipe down." That what
I'm thinking. God had other plans.
Flip the script on me. Now I'm a soul
provider.
I'm a provider.
I'm not gonna give up. And I'm like, I
know it say survival, but I'm a
provider.
Have B2K make that song for us. And so
that's the thing I had to realize like
we don't care nothing about your job. So
y'all don't go try to become something
just to look more classy to a man. So
that's what the video vision did. She
went to like med school or so try to do
something in medicine to look classy so
that she could snag a athlete. And I and
I remember I met a athlete pro alete and
his career hadn't come to an end and he
was fire hot
that his woman
had done decided not to go to med school
after she met him.
and he and she was on track to go to med
school and then met him
and dropped out of it and started having
kids. And so now his career was over and
he was going broke. And he was like, had
she went to med school,
she would have finished
after a few years and become a doctor.
and we wouldn't have no financial
problems right now cuz she would already
be a doctor. But now we got to sit and
wait for her to finish med school. And
he was hot
cuz then she went to go enroll in med
school. And then guess what? They end up
divorcing. Not long after she finished
or probably before they finished, they
end up divorcing. And it was like
and but him going through financial
issues and having stuff going on from
being a pro alete and started having
mental issues and he kind of lost his
mind. He kind of lost his mind. So it's
like it it she had to leave him. So it
wasn't even like at that point it wasn't
even like a finesse like oh I got
knocked up by a pro alete. I get to I
get to kick my feet up. Be a wife, be a
mom, do nothing.
And then after he done playing and not
making no money, now I could go run my
bag up and I could just leave him. Cuz
it wasn't like she left him and he was
in a perfect perfect man, perfect
situation, good man or nothing like
that. Because her friend, same thing,
was with an athlete. He stopped playing.
They he he ain't been playing in several
several several years and they still
together. And so it was like
she and because he didn't lose his mind,
but the other guy lost his mind. And so
his wife had to leave him. And now,
rightfully so, she's a doctor. She could
take care of herself. And so it's like,
if you going to do it, do it for you.
Don't do it to snag no man. And if
you're not going to do it, don't fake in
front and pretend like you doing it.
Like, don't do it. And here go Kira6.
>> He telling her story.
>> So she the historian.
And and I'mma tell you now, you know,
and the these young ladies, they they
look like
they look like they come from money. I
mean, look at her. I mean, just glowing
and just hair good and just skin care
routine good lip gloss popping. I mean,
come from money now. It may not come
from money, but just good good mom or
good mom and dad or good dad, whatever
it is.
Talk to your kids like that. Talk to
your kids like that. Put your kids on
that path. Let them know it's possible.
Take out the loans if you got to take it
out. Do what you got to do. Show them
the route. Show it to them from a young
age and put them on the right path. Tell
them to love their self. Tell them to do
it for their self and live their life.
Live their life because that just how it
go. That's one of them things.
So, you got you got to realize that. And
that's that's very unfortunate.
And listen, I I I don't you know, I'm
not a psychotherapist or nothing like
that. So, I don't have a blueprint for
your mental health. But one thing I'mma
tell you that I do,
one thing, one thing I do
is if my mental health is starting to to
Wayne, I'll take and take me some me
time. I'mma go get me a massage.
I'mma do something like that. I'mma
I'mma go to you. I'mma do something.
I'mma go get me a massage. I'mma take
and
go sit at the water. I'mma do something
and
just do what I got to do. Do what I can
do. I'mma do that. And the reason why is
because
you got to take care of you. Now one
thing I noticed this one thing I have
literally felt a physical change is when
I work out
that mental get so strong. If I work out
and and then don't let me work out
consistently. If I mess around and work
out consistently
that mental health gets so strong. I'm
talking about I be so good.
I just I I can't even can't believe it.
So, that's what you got to realize. And
so, just
take that understanding, y'all. Do the
work. Do the work on yourself
and just take the time and realize that
you can't fake the phone. like you got
to be the real deal. Love on yourself.
And and another thing that I'm going to
tell y'all,
use social media and don't let social
media use you. One of the things that
y'all are sleeping on is the fact that
you are smart. You sleeping on the fact
that you smart and you sleeping on the
fact that you can work and that you can
figure this out and you can do what you
need to do. And you sleeping on the fact
that every social media
can be pimped
for your good. You can figure out the
social media and you can make it work.
every social media and you can earn
money from every social media
and you got to take and learn that right
there. Learn that you can make the money
and if you got to sit with chat GPT some
of y'all don't like
AI but if it's going to make you a
living then you need to you need to get
with it. But take and learn what you
need to learn
and
get to that point to that place to where
you master whether it's Tik Tok,
Instagram, whatever it may be, master it
and start making money from it. And let
me tell you what you do. You log in
and
you log in. You make your post and you
log out.
Point blank period. Log in, make the
post, log out.
Don't scroll. Don't look around.
You've been on social media long enough
now to know who edifies you. When you go
on social media, don't look at nothing.
Type in the name that you looking for.
So, you type in RC Blakes, you type in
Tony Gaskins, you type in the name, you
go right to it, you look for the latest
video, you watch the video, you go to
your next person, watch the video, and
get out of it. Don't scroll. Don't be
looking around. Don't be wasting time.
Don't do none of that. If you want to
know what's going on in the world, then
you got your blog, your gossip blog that
you follow.
or you got your news channel that you
follow. Do that
and
be done. Go on about your business. Go
on about your business. And so think
about that.
But hey, if you ain't in the purpose
pushers, we got a call tonight. 7 PM if
it's tonight. Not sure. But join us.
Grab your spot.
It's uh free trial. Check it out. When
you go in, go to classroom. Listen to
the recorded calls that you've missed.
Get in the the group chat, the community
chat. Read the motivational quotes. I
got people posting. Connect. You could
DM people.
Post your own quotes. Go on, get on in
there, join us. You gonna hear me
mention it every video.
Get on on there. We still moving along
with the destinyapp.com.
We working on getting in the app store.
So that's why I ain't really been
pushing it too hard just in case we make
that transition.
So think about that and keep your head
up. God bless you and keep going.