Kim Zolciak's Son's Case Is a Lesson For All Parents! - Life Lessons

Hey, Tony Gaskins here. Now, this is a tough one and I know that we don't always as parents, we don't want to blame ourselves and we don't want to get caught up in that, but it is very, very tough. And there's nothing you can do as a parent that's perfect. I done seen every situation. I done seen single parents raise amazing amazing adults, amazing citizens. And then I've seen two parent households raise heathens and problem child. I done met a lot of women who come from a two parent home and they be getting flipped and tossed doing threesomes sucking and ducking and clucking and chucking all around the board. And then I done met women from single parent homes, from orphanages, from shelters who now bought still virgins. So, it is a hard situation. But here's the thing that I'm guesstimating with this Kim Zosiac situation. Don't know if I spelled her name right, but the Atlanta housewife who was tardy for the party with Candy Burus on that song they had. And God bless Candy. I think Candy helped her with the song and maybe made it at to Kim's level. Song was Candy, forgive him saying this song was terrible. Song was terrible. But made Kim some great money from what I heard. But here's the thing. When you don't want to parent your children, when you always dumping your children off to nannies and other people. Somebody told me that they sent the daughter out to another state to live with the grandparents. When you all when you too busy for your children and you let a tablet raise your children, you let a magazine raise your children, you let your children just tend to themselves, they're going to get into stuff. And I bet that young man having so much money and so much access, having a credit card, debit card or whatever it is, computers, laptops, tablets, just complete access. He obviously clearly got into the corn. Got into the corn. Got into all of that stuff. And this what I try to tell y'all. See, now we're seeing it play out. Like they say he did a lot of stuff. I ain't going to get into it and run down the whole list. You can look it up for yourself because they'll be done dog on took my video off here. But he allegedly got into so much stuff. allegedly now is what they saying that the lawyer his lawyer saying it ain't true but I don't know how it's going to be this many lies but if what they saying is true I'm 99% sure it's a result of getting into the corn watching that right there stuff and here's the thing this stuff this stuff. Y'all forgive me. This stuff here is detrimental. It's just it'll destroy the mind of a grown man. So, imagine what it does to uh a child. Let me see what Let me see how old he is. And they say they trying to tra him. The boy 15. My goodness. I'm thinking the boy might be 17 cuz they said they trying to try him as an adult. My goodness. Yeah. He been indicted as an adult on seven felony counts including aggravated the sword. Uh the word where from the bike what the men tried to do to the angels that visited was it was it can't remember the man name that the angels went to visit in Sodom and was it Sodom and Gomorrah and they were like hey bring them men out here so we can have it's like what like y'all I don't want to get from around here. What the real y'all talking about? Bring the men out there. And the man was like, "Man, I'll send my daughters out there. Can't send these men out there. What the real? These the Lord's servants. You trying to bend them over?" That's how the devil will do. And so this thing say aggravated from the back. Then aggravated aggravated child and false and to somebody under 16. Come on now. Come on now. The charges stem from a from an alleged April 23rd incident at an Alpharetta gym. I'm thinking he at the house with it. This boy shot out. If this right here real, he shot out. That's at the gym. So you see what I'm saying? So listen, this is where and I'mma tell you like this right here. If you're not like dogging yours out, if you not dogging them out, I don't think it's such a thing as being too strict. Yes, they might rebel when they get to college, go get drunk, be at the party, woot woot woot woot, whoopde with young thug and all of that, but still they grown. They know what they doing. Like my dad was strict my whole life. So I went out I went to the streets. I'm out there serving. I'm out there flipping and tossing the women. But I it's like I never went all the way cuz I knew better. It's like I was doing it for the clout, for the credit to be able to say I did it. But I knew what I was doing. So I ain't go all the way. Like I ain't fill up no trunk with no pounds on top of pounds and go across no state lines. Like I ain't touch no white. I'm selling green. I ain't sell nothing white because I knew what I was doing was wrong. And when I was out there with them women, I ain't go all the way to the furthest extent because I knew like, hey, you playing with fire. And so I I rebelled as an adult and I made it back. Like the prodigal son, I made it back. It's better to be strict than to be loose and lenient. Like it's better like my wife was raised by a very strict mom and I thank God for it because I don't think she done ever been drunk. Like I just never seen her. I've been with her 20 years. I ain't never had to carry out no club. I ain't never had to drag her nohere. I ain't never none of that. Like just ain't never I ain't got to be chasing around. I ain't got to be begging her. I ain't got to put no hands on her. I ain't I ain't caught her with no man in no bed and all this and that. And mama didn't allow her to date in high school. No, you can't date. Can't have no men. So anything she wanted to do, she had to sneak. And that's the way it need to be. And that's what I tell people all the time, like don't ever condone stuff. Tell them no, you can't do that. and see a lot of people so just ignorant like it could be it could be some people to where they might take and introduce they might take and introduce theirs to the stuff to say oh this going to make you a man this gonna help you out this g whatever I'm looking at the the young man 15 years old that's I you know I ain't want to touch on the situation because he under the age but this is for the other parents. This for parents to say you got to re these children in. You got to have rules and regulations. And I'm going tell you one thing that you could do. Every device that they got access to, it need to be put up in your room or somewhere. They can't get to it at night. So, my sons at night, they got to plug in that phone. You got to plug that phone in at night. Yeah. M phone got to be it it get plugged up in the kitchen and you who know they might sneak in there some night 3:00 in the morning my oldest you never know but I don't think so cuz he be knocked out sleep so hard now that he grown we don't make him do that no more before he went to college I let him start taking his phone in the room cuz I said I want you to get used to having your phone with you and putting that phone down to go to bed cuz you ain't I ain't going to be able to make you plug it in nowhere Well, when you go to college and guess what? He probably lived his life a little too much that freshman year and it kicked his butt and he ain't get the goal that he wanted. And so he had to reset, start over and had to leave a school and go to another school and now he learned a lesson. And it's like if he don't do all the way right on this one, he going to have to learn another lesson. But I'mma raise you strict though. I ain't gonna let you just rip and run and just get out here and just do what you want to do. Absolutely not. I ain't gonna let you act no fool now. You sir revol. And so you got to get to a place to where you know and you understand what you doing when you raising your children and you have to be at that place to where you doing the right thing. Like you can't be caught up and getting trapped and feeling like, "Oh, I can't do this. Can't do that. Oh, I got to woo the woo blas blas." No, got to put that blim blam. You have got to be strict. You have got to hold them accountable. You can't worry about it. And I'mma tell you the thing that kids need is structure. Got to have structure. We don't want to have enough structure. So if you don't want to have that structure, it's going to hurt you. If you don't want to create and implement structure that is needed, it is going to hurt you. You have got to put structure in place and from sun up to sun down like they in school portion of the day. That's great. That's what you want to have. You need that school, that portion of the day. You need that. Got to have it. And you cannot ignore that. You cannot let that slide. That got to be something. And so afternoon got to have structure, nighttime got to have structure. And and I'mma tell y'all something to all y'all men. This they saying that the boy dug off in somebody from the back from the behind. Ain't talking about from the bike entering the front from the back. I'm talking about entering the bike from the bike allegedly sound like to a stranger at the gym. That's what you going to be doing if you keep watching that nastiness. You got to get a hold of yourself, playboy. I'm going tell you like that right now. You got to get a hold of yourself. So, you need to go. They got a thing called a Bali time chamber. And I think they just added one somewhere else in Morocco. It's for men only. You need to go over there. You need to go over there. You got to do something different, boy. I'm tell you that now. You got to do something different. You need to go over there because you whatever you got to do, if it make you stop breathing, so be it. you whatever it's going to take for you to break that addiction because you're going to destroy your life and everybody life or the people connected to you. That is a demonic portal. Look how look how it turned this this 15 year old. Look how look how bad this man turned out. And I'mma tell you like this right here. It's very rare somebody going to tell this big of a lie. Like you you ain't f to put that much on it. Not not all that aggravated this aggravated that aggravated that aggravated like no it might be one oh he did this but all all of these right here charges that's too much there that's too much and then think about it imagine her embarrassment they'll be trying to send me a cease and desist trying to sue me for defamation trying to get the I said allegedly not I said allegedly I'm just reading what's ly. I ain't saying he guilty of it now, but I'm telling you, if he is, I know what it come from. It come from watching that corn. Point blank, period. And I'm going tell you something. Like, what you got to realize is I have a brain. I understand how the brain work. And I done been hit in my head a lot of times playing college football and youth football and all all the football from the age of seven to the age of 21. and I played football getting hit in my head. And I think that better that made that helped me understand the brain even more. So that's why I don't watch the stuff because I know right now like I ain't dumb. I could picture I know what it look like. I seen little clips and stuff like that and cuz I remember I had to coach one of the ladies that do the stuff and she said and she was like told me her name. So out of curiosity, I Googled it. I googled her name and back then Google had like videos that just used to come up on the top of the screen and and it just started playing and I'm just seeing like a row of videos. I can't remember her name right now. And it just went I'm like what this child doing? Oh my goodness, man. What the world you on the phone with me for? like don't come over here talking to me trying to set me up. And so I seen that and I'm like, man, that's crazy. Like that's what you doing? And so come to find not so I so I could see that right there and I already know that if I was to see that if I'm looking at that right there then I already know that would be addicting. I already know you're going to want to watch one. And you going to watch another one and another one and another one and another one and and the way the brain works and the way the body works, anything you give it, it needs eventually it needs more and more and more. Think about the first time you did anything that's not advantageous like smoke or drink. I've never smoked but I didn't drink alcohol. And it's like first time you had alcohol you You drinking alcohol, you drink alcohol every week. It might, you know, you always feel it on that first one, but then it'll go away and where you feel like, can I have me a second drink? What about a third? What about a fourth? And you'll mess around and be done got drunk or be done hurt yourself. And I remember being around a drinker. But he was drinking beers. And I feel like I watched that man drink about 40 beers that day. And I mean, body just held it. Body just was able to soak it up like a fish. I'm like, "Wow. Wow." But think about that though. Think about that. Like that's what's possible when you get into something. So I remember talking to a a young man, a college athlete, and he was telling me about his roommate. He said, "Man, yeah, son and son always joking that thing." Say, "Man, he be in there jacking that thing like five times a day." I'm like, "Wow." I'm like, "Well, how you know?" He like, he'll tell me. He'll be like, "Yeah, man. Just had to had to squeeze one out." I'm like, man. [snorts] But guess what? It's an addiction. You get, you go to watching that stuff, these boys know these women by their government name. These boys done search these women. The boy don't find they address. I bet these workers have men sitting outside like the feds outside of their place just sitting there in the car just staked out 12 hours a day just to see them walk out that building, walk out that apartment complex or out that house just to see them in person. Might not approach them, might not say a word to them, just watch them and probably zoom in on them with their phone camera and record them and then go use that for as live footage. the squeeeding one out with. I'm telling you, like that stuff destroys your mind, destroys your nervous system. It ruins you. And so the best thing you could do is when your son and daughter become of age, especially if you know they going to a fast school, school is very mananish and fast and frisky and nasty and you know they're around kids who are not being raised, who not being taught right from wrong. That's when you know you got to talk to your children and you got to have a conversation with them about this stuff because if you don't, you're not preparing them and you got to show them the horror story. You got to show them the downside to it. And I know you think they innocent. I know you think they're not going to talk about they're not going to see it. They're not going to think about it. I know you thinking that. But the stuff will sneak up and they will know about it before you realize they know about it. And it'll be other kids that's talking to them about it and that's putting them on. I remember I was in at the Boys and Girls Club and I was I was in the what you the concession stand where you could come up there and buy stuff. If your parents gave you money, you could come up there and buy you something for as cheap as 50 cent. And I was in there with a white boy. I probably was 11 and I think he was like 14. And he asked me, "Have are you hanging on?" And I said, "What's that?" He said, "You know, like your thing like are you?" And so he 14. He's a white boy. I'm I'm 11. I didn't know at the time what was going on, but now being adult, I'm looking back, I'm like, he was trying to groom me. cuz why are you asking me about my heen and what I'm doing with my like what is that any of your business? And then I'm like um I said what's that? He said, you know, like with a thing. And he had a roll of he had a roll of, you know, the little the roll of quarters or pennies that used to be in the brown paper. And he had a roll of that. And he said, you know, it's like you take your thing and it's like you you you push down and push up, push down, push up. And he doing the thing like that. So I'm like, okay. Soon as I got home that night, I'm the next thing you know and and I think he told me like at the end some white stuff gonna come out. So I'm in there. So at [clears throat] 11 years old, I learned how that right there work. And I would have never known had I not been at the Boys and Girls Club working in the concession stand with that boy. I would have never known. Now, as a grown grown musky adult, another guy taught me about, hey, you know, women could do this right here. And it's like, that's where the information be coming from. It be coming from other people. So, you like, man, I'm I'm in church every week with my children. Like, we reading the Bible every day. the the devil want him even more. The more you doing with your child, the more structured you are, the more Satan want your child. And he will send one of his little free reagent minions who doesn't have structure, who doesn't have a covering, who doesn't have love and support at home, who is turn all the way out, will send them to turn out your child. And I'mma tell you something. That young man right there, when I look back now, I realized he was gay because the tone of his voice, the way he talked, and the fact that that was a conversation that he had. And then it was another time where I could have been older, like 12 or 13, and my cousin, she got married. Her boyfriend, I mean, her husband punched in the eye like yada the awakening and Charleston White punched their woman in the eye. I just can't understand punching a woman in her eye. My goodness. Like I just that that right there, I can't wrap my head around that. I can't I can't wrap my head around that. But yeah, Punch and I So she got her black eye. She end up divorcing him. So she divorced him and she became a lesbian. And now that I look back, I realized the house, the lady house that we went to, I think she was a lesbian. Cuz back then I was young. I didn't know that, you know, the lesbians, they kind of they wear big old oversized shorts and big old shirts and talk in a deeper voice and kind of walk like a man. And so I didn't know what what that was. And I didn't even know my cousin was that at the time. Now she all the way out, got a girlfriend, all that. So now I know like, oh, that what she was. So that what that is. And so I had my cousin went that way. Another cousin I think she would buy. My auntie went that way. So my cousin took me over to the lady house. And I told some of y'all about this on here and it was a young man in there and I think it was his grandma that he was living with. And we sitting in there watching the little squiggly line TV where you can't see nothing but the little the little white static lines going up the TV and you could barely see through it. And he put it on this little channel and I think on that channel it was a nasty channel. But it was back then where the nasty channel was just on it was regular programming. Probably was channel 44 or something like that. You just keep turning the knob till you get get and it'll go from the regular TV and you get deeper on down in there to the nasty channel and you got to have your good antenna to be able to get that TV to show a little more clear. And TVs back then was black and white and well at least the one he had. And he trying and he said, "Yeah, yeah, you know, you know them bumps you got right there in your forehead." I'm like, "Yeah." He say, "See what that is? that sperm, he say, cuz I used to have bumps like that. He say what it is, your body get that sperm in it and the sperm just go up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up up and when the sperm get past your neck it get up to your face and then it give you little white bumps. That's why you got them little couple white bumps up there because that's sperm. So what you got to do is you got to jike off and then when you jike off that sperm go down down down down down down down down down down down down and then them white bumps gonna be gone. So like we we really like with this right here, what I got on the TV, we could jike off right now. Like we could jike off. Like that don't mean nothing. Like like you jike your thing, I jack my thing. Like I ain't got to look at yours. You ain't got to look at mine. But we could like jike off together. And I was like I'm look I'm like I'm I'm I'm straight. I'm straight. Now if I did something else, I wouldn't be telling y'all this story. I'm looking at I'm like no, I'm all right. No. No. I really don't do that. No, I don't do that. I But I'm sitting there thinking like, what in the world is wrong with this boy? I'm like, is this boy trying me? I'm like, why you gay? Why you in the man? I'm sitting there blown away. And guess what? He was gay. I ain't know it for sure at the time, but but after I got older and I look back and I thought about his mannerisms and how he were moving and talking and yeah, it was got and it wasn't all the way like that, but it was close enough. And that's why I try to tell y'all all the time that a lot of times that stuff be a spirit and it be a perversion. them boys be done. They had somebody another man tell them about this stuff and sometimes the man be done went there with them and did something to them and then they get turned out and so what they do and that's why I believe it's spiritual because it's like now it's like okay if you do that to yourself that's your business. Why are you talking about that to me? Why are you telling me about what you got going on? Like, what of my business is that what you do with your thing? So, it's a conquering spirit. That's what I'm trying to tell y'all. A lot of people like, "Oh, I'm born that way and all of that." No, that's it's a demonic portal where people get possessed and then they want to go conquer. And the same thing I saw with the women, they would go and they would become one of them who like women and they would go get women who are straight and just show them a lot of love, a lot of tension, a lot of time and just and and women already hug on each other, lay on each other, be all over each other. So women so free with each other that they be halfway there before they even realize like oh no this woman like women like and the next thing you know and they would always I I had a home girl she was black she would all she would turning out all the white girl all the white girl cuz you you always get all the way close enough with them now it it was some sisters that probably be about to punch in your mouth if they don't get down like that but I was I saw this conquering spirit and that's the thing and and it's like that spirit knows that what they're doing is abnormal and it's rare and it's not as common. But sometimes they'll just be a vessel and will get beside themselves and just want to come out and do something. And you have to be aware of that. And so think about when that portal is open for a underdeveloped mind. They say the mind ain't fully developed till the age of 25. So imagine being introduced to this filth and this nastiness at 10, 11, 12. Like it's it's some people probably as young as eight. Y'all forgive I'm trying to see when when I'm supposed to work out. It's probably some people as young as eight years old getting turned all the way out. And so now what you going to want to do? You're going to want to go all the way. And I'mma tell y'all around that 14, 15, 16, that's a very tough time for young men. Like that's a very intense time. Like that's an intense time to where that thing go to standing up. You got to be careful with that thing now cuz that thing poke you in eye. Like you have to be very careful. That's when that that that routine, that regimen, that phone, that tablet, that computer, no computer, no tablet, no phone in the room. You really don't want no TV in the room. You want stuff out in a public area because that TV could have Apple TV and you might could go download a certain site or it got the web on there. You go download long download certain things and get on there and be in the TV and then they'll set a little alarm on their watch or on the alarm clock to go off 2:00, 3:00 in the morning. They going to hit the alarm real fast. you knocked out snoring, they they on there on that TV. And I'mma tell you, be honest with you, I would have the tablet, the phone, and all that. I would have it plugged up in my room. I get it plugged up in my room. Especially if you know that your your child could be a little a little man, a little fast, just just how they grew up. No devices in my room. Why you invade my privacy? Ah, why have this? Got to let them know like sit down and show them. I seen a thing. It's called I can't remember what it's called, but he is E, it's EDM or EPDM watch or something like that. It's it's a black guy and I guess he get on the I guess he get on the chats and he set these men up men and women and have them thinking they talking to a 13 14 and then he set up the meeting and then when he go meet them he pull that camera out on them. So he doing what Chris Hansen was doing like but and the people be very very socially awkward. It make your stomach hurt. Like you feel bad for the people. Like you don't even you the people look like just woo we like they just woo we. It's it's really sad because it's like you know they not all there. Like he ain't pulling up on no on no doctors and lawyers and principles and people with an education. Like the people look like in their mind they could be 13 14. And so he making a lot of money, a lot of content and stuff like that off of it. But it look it look bad like it. But you got to show that show that to your teenager and let them see like, yeah, why you want to be in them chat rooms and all of that? You going to end up talking to somebody like this. Like my son used to be on Roblox and he used to be on the phone and ain't no telling what somebody said to him. like and he probably ain't going to tell us everything cuz he a quiet kid. But so now he be on he's not on the phone with it no more. He be on the up on the TV and then they not in the chats no more and it probably cuz they probably had somebody say something to them and they probably like, "Man, this is weird, man." Yeah. And so now they get on the speaker phone on like a three-way, four-way, how many of a way call and they be on speaker phone talking to each other and the game be on mute and they just play the game. But he's in a media room where when when I walk in from the garage, I'm sitting there looking right at them. When I'm going out to the garage to the refrigerator out there, me and my wife walking through there all the time. So we hear they whole conversation cuz they on speaker phone and look at TV, see what he playing on Roblox or whatever he on. But a lot of the stuff go down in there. And so they're not. So you got to talk to your child and say, "Listen, if somebody ever ask you like send them a picture, do not send no picture." And you got to tell them about these people, prepare them about these people. If somebody curse at you, say something rude to you, you bring the phone to me because that may be an adult and this person is a pervert. And you got to explain what a pervert is. You also got to get get ready for them to get written up in school for calling somebody a pervert because you just taught them what the word is. So understand that's going to come with it too or or use a different word but explain it and just let them know like I will fight them. Like bring that to me because I will fight them and I need to be able to see what their name is. I might write them back but I want to report their account because they shouldn't be in there cursing. And you got to tell the child early enough while the child is still innocent. while the child still listen to you, trust you, love you. You wait till your child 15, 16 years old, it's probably going to be too late. They're like, "Man, child, please bump you. I ain't bringing you nothing. I ain't telling you nothing. You you you you the you 12." Talking about the police now. 12. I ain't talking about 12 years old now. Y'all know what they call the police. 12. Yeah. Uhhuh. Yeah. Yeah. They don't even like you at that point. So they they ain't trying to hear nothing. You got to talk to them, 10, 11, 12, some of them eight. And you got to sneak and listen to them when they don't know you listening to them. If you find out your child cuss, now you know you need to sit down and have that birds and bees talk right then, immediately. If you got a cussing child, cuz a cursing child, you fa to have a hunching child. You fa have a lot going on with that child. And I'm trying to tell I was in eighth grade and it was sixth grade girls asking me can they suck my thing. Sixth grade girls ask me can they suck my thing? And then when I was in sixth grade, I had a girlfriend in the seventh grade. She was having sex with 10th graders. And I don't know why my older homeboys used to love to mess with younger girls, but she was messing with 10th graders and people was telling me that the 10th graders was going over to her house cuz her mama work late and running the train on her. So these was 10th graders running the train on seventh graders. But I live in one of them punk backwards towns. So I remember me and her used to tongue kiss under the stairwell or in front of the stairwell cuz it was like in its own little little little closet type thing. You go in the door and then there go the stairs and you walk up the stairs to the next level. So you can get in there and get your little action in cuz the teachers ain't really come through there like that. So we in there tongue kissing and I'm in sixth grade. the girl tonging me down. And then she writes me a letter and the letter was a long letter, but the letter said, you know, I want you to take the bus with me home, ride the bus home with me cuz it's time for us to have sex. And I'm like, "What the Cuz cuz where our school was, she lived probably 30 minutes away, at least a good 20." So I'm thinking in my head like, "Child, I go to your house. How am I going to get home? My mama not f to come pick me up from your house. And then what is we f to be over there doing? I don't even know if my thing get up for that. Like I don't even know if this thing work yet. I'm in the sixth grade. So I can't remember if I told I think I probably just rode a bike and told her I can't go to your house cuz I don't have a ride home. I don't know if I told her I'm a Christian or and I don't do that. I could have told her that now cuz I I was innocent back then. I ain't lo till ninth grade. So I'm like, okay, man. So imagine how that young lady probably end up getting pregnant 10th, 11th grade or whatever. But imagine how many bodies she had on her by the time she were 18. And all it was from is just her mama having to work and her mama just not being able to be home. And so what what what I would say do if that's your case, they got $20 cameras, they got nanny cams, they got little apps now. I would let your child know, hey, I got a camera up. Got these cameras up. This camera over here, that camera over there, the camera over there, the camera over there. So I'm watching and I'm listening. And so just know just just in case somebody break in. And it ain't for me to watch you, it's for me to watch the house cuz I can't be there cuz I got to work. But I don't want nobody in and out my house. All All of the windows have sensors on them, alarm sensors. Any window go up, any door open, my phone pings. So don't try nothing slick. And you really honestly don't really want nobody that you don't really know know and love over there with your young ones because people be nasty. People be turned out. People be turned out. And I'mma tell y'all something too also. No matter how young your child is or whatever, don't be doing stuff in front of your child. Because I never forget I'm at my grandma house and one of my cousins, little cousin, she come up to me and she like, "Hey, you know," and I don't even know if she was talking. She could have been 2 years old. And it was like she came and like I'm sitting out on the bed and she came and like pushed me down. And so she's so little. So I'm just, you know, she just playing. I'm just thinking she playing. And she grabbed one of my hands and she lay it out there like she scratching me out. lay the other hand out there and then lay my leg down and then pulled my leg and then pulled the other leg and then she climbed up and got on top of me and I'm like whoa now cuz like what going on cuz she was like a little baby. She was like two years old and so I'm like whoa what going on cuz so then it hit me. I think I talked to my mom about it. I say, "Yeah, such and such." Kind of laid me down and scratched my arms out and all that. Mama say, "Uh oh." She say, "Such and such having sex in front of that girl. That girl don't watch her parents get it on and she trying to recreate it and don't even know what she doing. She just seen here go here go daddy, here go mama." And they laying on top of each other. So if I see a guy, I'm supposed to lay on top of him. And so this kind of stuff that people be learning. And and I had another cousin one time. She tried me like that. I went outside. Mama picked him up. I said, "Yo, so try with me." I regret tell my mama that when I tell you my mama went in there and beat the brakes off that child. Don't you ever in your life try my son again. You trying to do this with my sons right here. I mean, walked her behind. Good boy. I say, man, I shouldn't have said nothing cuz I we ain't even we ain't like she know what she was even doing. We were little kids, you know. We probably could have been 10 cellmate. But it's like we Yeah. If you from that type of neighborhood, you from that type of family, you know exactly what I'm talking about. You know exactly what I'm talking about. Playing house. I just seen a girl the other day online talking about she like something. Oh, Dolly House. I think she called it Dolly House. Playing Dolly House. Like, oh, that's a different name. Y'all forgive me. And so and she the the lady was on a little podcast and she basically was admitting to sleeping with her cousin when they used to play Dolly House. And the guy was like, "Well, we played Dolly House. We ain't never go all the way. We ain't do that though." and she was like, "Okay, and so what? It is what it is." Like, uh, whatever. And it's just like that is a reality for a lot of kids. So when you drop your children off to your sister house, your brother house, your mama house, your daddy house, and your other siblings drop their kids off to the house or you drop them off and it's other and it's homeless adults. You know, mean when I say homeless adults, meaning your your older nieces and nephews, your second and third cousins, your aunts and uncles, whoever it is that's living over there at your mama house or whoever house, and you dropping your kids off over there and they under the age of 12, they under the age of 15, you don't know what's going on. You don't know who touching them. You don't know what they being told. And when the mind is so young, they being told if you tell somebody this right here gonna happen to you. This gonna happen to your mama. This going and so they don't know what to believe and what not to believe. So you have to have these conversations of the good touch and the bad touch. You have to have these conversations. And you also got to put a necklace with a recorder on it. And you need to let everybody in that house know. And you're going to offend them, but this is your child. You only get one chance with this, but you need to let everybody in that house know. Say, "Hey, listen. Everybody, everybody in this room right here, listen. I'm leaving my child over here. I'm not accusing anybody of anything, but we all grown or we all know stuff happened. I'm letting you know if you touch my child, my child has a recorder on his or her neck and on their wrist, it does not die. If you touch my child, I will kill you. Try me. And you go through that house and you look, you look your crackhead uncle right in his eyes. Your crackhead auntie right in her eyes. And you look through each one of them and oh f you. Who the who you think you will coming in here. Ain't nobody f to touch that little such and such. Hey, I'll whoop your behind for free right now. And then if they want to keep running their mouth, whoever own the house, hey, get them out of here. Get up and get out of here. Get out. Get out my mama house. Get out my daddy house. Get out my Get up and get out of here. They they unsafe. Get them up out of here. Go go go to a shelter. You got to protect the children at all costs. Whatever it take, right? Then they go to talk and I'm spraying mace in the face. Rat then I'm spraying mace in the face. They just me now. Don't Don't do what I do. I'm spraying Mason in your mouth, running your mouth with me. And so this is the thing. If you don't want your child to grow up like allegedly they saying this young man done grew up, you got to have boundaries. You got to have parameters. You got to have these conversations. It's not going to be easy. It's not going to be fun. And you also got to warn the people around because if somebody if people think you don't care, if they think you don't care, they they will try your child. Y'all forgive me. I'm trying to got to set up my thing. And so I want you to think about this. and and get to that place to where you able to know that you got some and I'mma tell you like you might say, "Well, man, my family too dysfunctional." I'mma take I'mma take uh my family dysfunctional. I'mma take and hire somebody off of care.com. You'll be better off with your family. You'll be better off and just cuz you could you could put some fear in them. You could talk to them. This my mama had a typo in my video. She talking about, "Yeah, I watched the video to get the understanding." And so that's one thing you got to realize. Hold on. So that what you got to realize and you'll see what it look like and how people going to look at you crazy. But you got to let them know you don't play by yours. And here's the thing, only you know when they ready. Like you'll have an idea. you'll have an understanding. I told my wife, I'mma wait till our youngest is 13 and I'm going to sit down and have a birds and the bees talk. And it's an uncomfortable talk. It's a uncomfortable talk, but got to have it. My dad never had it with me. And I wish he would have if my life would have looked a lot different cuz I just would have had the knowledge and the understanding. And I and I love him and I trust him. So I'd have been like, "Listen, my daddy know better than me. He done been there, done that. He He done seen it all, done it all. So if he say it's not worth it to be having sex with these women until I'm married, then I'mma trust him cuz I know he wouldn't lie to me. I know he not here to lead me astray. So I ain't going to worry about it. And I would I think I would have listened to him for the most part. Probably not all the way, but you know, I never know. But when I talked to him about it as adult, he was like, "Son, I just I ain't know how to talk to you about it. And I didn't want you to think I was condoning it. I didn't want you to think that me talking to you about it mean that it's cool to do it." And I'm like, I get that. I get that. I understand that. And so, it's one of those things to where you know you you're gonna go through that. But for me, I just rather be safe than sorry. I'd rather be safe than sorry. You know, I don't know if my oldest son still a virgin. He said going into college, he want to save himself, but it's not a conversation we have. And I'm not going to ask him about it cuz I don't I don't want to talk about it. But anytime I talk to him about it, I say, "Son, man, save yourself. Don't be out here trying to sleep around like these girls going to try to set you up. They they going to try to lure you in like, "Don't fall for it, son. It ain't worth it. It ain't worth it. It's a dead end." And so I talked to him about that. and I'mma talk to my youngest. And that's what I want you to realize and understand. Like we got to be able to have them tough conversation. You got to put them parameters in. And if you can't find no necklace with the little recorder on it, you know, might maybe you could be the inventor of it to where you do it to where it's a recorder and it got a little little bead necklace with a football on it, one with a basketball, one with a soccer ball, with a volleyball, with a baseball, with a softball, with a lacrosse ball, with a fool's ball, with a video game controller, with a laptop, whatever kind of little shape you want to get. There go your billion dollar idea right there. Cuz what parent won't buy that? Y'all don't let me figure out how to make it. Both of us will be having the company. We'll be compete with each other, man. Let me get over here. See what I can get done real quick. Man, I'm going to launch that thing and be selling it. Y'all get get the necklace from me. Let me talk to chat. Rat nine. Hey, make my old specs on this right here and get this over here to get a quote on this. Mhm. All right. Hey, chat the prom. So yeah, don't try to try to steal my business. Who want to invest? You want to invest, right? Hey, we f to we, hey, we f to save the world and make million. Might start a Kickstarter for it. But Kickstarter is just it's just a donation. But hey, you want to invest in it? What? I'mma take investments at 1%. I'm gonna need at least a grand 1%. need at least a grand. Probably have to I give up about 10%. So I only collect 10 people in. But and I know and this already exists. It just don't mean you it probably I know it exists out there but it don't mean you can't compete with them. Don't mean you can't come out there and compete. I mean we we a whole group. We're a collective. So we we launching all us by for all the children in our family. We growing. They got to see us. They got to hear about us. You know it going it going to be what it's going to be. But hey, think about that right there. Get your mind together. Get your life together. And we got to get it together. I don't know what this thing it's talking about. It's searching this here, searching that there. But hey, all the important links in the description. Check out the links if you need you some accountability. Walking in your purpose. Join the purpose pushers. We also right now got a $5 I got a $5 course called recession ready. I know it sound crazy. It sound like it just Tony. What is five? What can it be worth? Trust me, the course going to bless you. Launch you a product just like what I just told y'all. What I'm trying to do right now. I'm I might launch this right here. I'mma see how much it going to cost me to get it going. Hey, boom. I'm going with it. And you got to do business. Like you only get one life to live. You got to do you got to do business. And look here. There go chat right there. Then shot it back to me. Yes, I built this as a manufacturer ready a tech pack, not just a concept sheet. I also structured the four pendants around one common electronics module which will help keep tooling, engineering, and unit cost down. Download the tech pack. right there. Recording sports necklace, tech pack, PDF. All right. And we gonna add a couple of we we add a couple other little thing. Laptop, whatever little Just add a little thing that look like a diamond or something like that. We'll add the other ones. But hey, God bless you right there. Got me got me a business right there. Now y'all probably a gonna do nothing with it, but if you got a full 1k, you might could buy it off of me. I'mma set this thing on up. See what this thing going to take to get get out there. But I'm going tell y'all this right here. This exactly what the white people, they'll take this idea, they'll lock all the way in on it, and they'll go make a hund, it'll be selling, it'll they'll sell it for hundreds of millions in five years. You be like, "What the real that little ragged idea?" But that's how they do. I be having these ideas all day, every day, but just ain't got the capacity to do it all. But hey, this Tony Gaston, God bless you. Keep your head up. Check the links in the description. Look forward to seeing you in the Purpose Pushes community. We'll talk soon.