Jeremiah 35 | The Witness of Unbelievers to Fathers | 6.4.1997
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The video explores the biblical account in Jeremiah 35, focusing on the Recabites, a nomadic clan descended from the Kenites and related to Moses through his father-in-law Jethro. Historically known for their integrity and opposition to idolatry, particularly Baal worship, they were summoned by God to drink wine within the temple but refused, citing an ancestral command from their forefather Jonadab to abstain from alcohol, avoid building permanent houses or planting vineyards, and live exclusively in tents. This narrative serves as a flashback to approximately 606 BC, occurring nearly three centuries before Jeremiah's writing, where God utilized the Recabites' unwavering obedience as a living testament to contrast with the disobedience of Israel, who possessed far greater divine revelation yet failed to remain faithful.
The speaker draws profound parenting and spiritual lessons from this story, highlighting four key principles demonstrated by the Recabites: integrity, self-control, simplicity, and non-attachment. Integrity is established when children listen to parents who live out their convictions, whereas hypocrisy undermines authority; the Recabites' refusal to drink wine illustrates that true joy stems from the Spirit rather than alcohol, which often leads to debauchery and a loss of control. Furthermore, their choice to live in tents fostered a life of simplicity that discouraged materialism, greed, and pampering, instead promoting industriousness, humility, and a "hearty" existence where children learned to work for their own rewards rather than relying on handouts. This nomadic lifestyle also taught flexibility and the vital lesson that one should not take root in worldly things or fall in love with material possessions, viewing life instead as a pilgrimage.
In stark contrast to the Recabites' faithfulness, Judah repeatedly ignored God's instructions despite having access to His word, leading to their eventual doom while the Recabites were promised eternal favor and a perpetual lineage of men standing before God. The divergence between these two groups is attributed to several factors: the Recabites followed a human leader who commanded them to reject idolatrous practices, whereas Israel rejected the Holy Spirit; they obeyed a single command from Jonadab across generations, unlike Israel's repeated failures to heed divine instructions; and they maintained their obedience while facing societal decay that consumed others. Ultimately, the story concludes that rejecting the guidance of the Spirit leads to judgment, but faithful adherence to simple commands given by a father can preserve a family's character and destiny for generations, serving as a powerful example of how true faithfulness is measured by action rather than mere knowledge of God's law.
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We're going to be looking at a
mysterious group of people called the
Rakabites.
Jeremiah chapter 35,
beginning at verse one. the word which
came to Jeremiah from the Lord in the
days of Jehookim the son of Josiah king
of Judah saying go to the house of the
recabites speak to them and bring them
into the house of the Lord into one of
the chambers and to give them wine to
drink.
Then I took Jaz Jazaniah the son of
Jeremiah the son of Azinia his brothers
and all his sons and the whole house of
the recites. And I brought them into the
house of the Lord, into the chamber of
the sons of Hanan, the son of Idalia, a
man of God, who was by the chamber of
the princes, above the chamber of Mia,
the son of Shalom, the keeper of the
door. Now, don't you wish to say Bob and
George, and it's so hard to try and
pretend I'm pronouncing those names.
Then I set before the sons of the house
of the recabites bowls full of wine and
cups. And I said to them, "Drink wine."
But they said, "We will drink no wine.
For John, the son of Rakab, our brother,
our father, commanded us, saying, "You
shall drink no wine, you nor your sons
forever.
You shall not build a house, seow seed,
plant a vineyard, nor have any of these,
but all your days you shall dwell in
tents, that you may live many days in
the land where you are sojourers.
Thus we have obeyed the voice of
Johnadab, the son of Ratab, our father,
in all that he charged us to drink no
wine all our days. We our wives, our
sons, or our daughters, nor to build
ourselves houses to dwell in. Nor do we
have vineyards, fields, or seeds. But we
have dwelt in tents and have obeyed and
done according to all that Johnab our
father commanded us. But it came to pass
when Nebuchadnezzar, king of Babylon,
came up into the land that we said,
"Come, let us go to Jerusalem for fear
of the army of the Calaldanss,
and for fear of the army of the Syrians,
so we dwell
Jerusalem."
We're going to need to develop a
background here for just a moment in
order to get an understanding of what is
taking place. Let me give you a brief
glimpse into these people called the
Rackabites.
First let me begin in verse one when he
says the word which came to Jeremiah
from the Lord. Notice in the days of
Jehoakim the son of Josiah.
This chapter actually is a flashback
because the events that we're looking at
here in this chapter chapter 35 and also
in chapter 36 actually took place around
the year 606 before Christ. which means
that these chapters were written some 17
years earlier during the reign of the
king Jehakim. We see that in chapter
36:1
when it gives the date it came to pass
in the fourth year of Jehoakim, the son
of Josiah. And so we know that the
dating is somewhere around 606 before
Christ. So this is what you would call a
flashback chapter.
And in verse two, the Lord gives a
command to go to the house of the
Recabites and to speak to them and to
bring them into the house of the Lord.
Now, the Recoites,
who were these people?
The Recoites are part of a clan called
the Kennites.
The Kennites were married to the
Barbites, but that comes later on.
Actually,
they were part of a clan called the
Kennites. In 1 Chronicles 2:55,
the Bible says the clans of scribes who
lived at Yavez and goes on to name these
scribes, the Terites, Timothites,
the Cathites.
These are the Kennites who came from
Hamas, the father of the house of Rakab.
And so the Recoit were descendants of a
people that were called the Kennites.
They were a nomadic tribe and were
closely associated with the Israelites
through Moses's father-in-law, Jethro.
In Judges 1:16, it says, "The children
of the Kennites, Moses's father-in-law,
went up out of the city of palm trees
with the people of Judah into the
wilderness of Judah." And so these
people were related through marriage to
Moses. Now, when Israel had left Egypt
after Egyptian bondage, these Kennites
were very kind to the nation of Israel.
In the book of numbers in chapter 10:es
29-33 we see what took place.
Now you need to know that in this
passage Jethro who is Moses's
father-in-law had another name that he
was known by. So it's named Ruel.
And so it says in numbers 10:es 29-33,
Moses said to Hab, "Son of Rel Jethro,
the Midionite, Moses's father-in-law, we
are setting out for the place about
which the Lord said, I will give it to
you. Come with us and we will treat you
well, for the Lord has promised good
things to Israel." He answered, "No, I
will not go. I'm going back to my own
land and my own people." But Moses said,
"Please do not leave us. you know where
we should camp in the desert and you can
be our eyes. If you come with us, we
will share with you whatever good things
the Lord gives us." So they set out from
the mountain of the Lord and traveled
for three days. The ark of the covenant
of the Lord went before them during
those three days to find them a place to
rest. And so they had done good to Moses
and to the children of Israel. And
that's why later in the history of
Israel, the king by the name of Saul
remembered their kindness that they had
shown to Israel. And in 1st Samuel 15 at
verse 6, Saul says to the Kennites, "Go
away. Leave the Amalachites so that I do
not destroy you along with them, for you
showed kindness to all the Israelites
when they came out of Egypt." So the
Canites moved away from the Amalachites.
Now, they had an ancestor. We've already
seen this man's name mentioned, Jonadab.
And Johnadab was a prominent man. He was
utilized to be part of the ridding of
the nation of Israel of worship of Baal
or Baal. In 2 Kings in chapter 10 15 and
16, the Bible says after Jahu left
there, he came to Janadab son of Raab
who was on his way to meet him. Ju
greeted him and said, "Are you in accord
with me as I am with you?" "I am."
Janadab answered. If so, said Joo, give
me your hand. So he did, and Ju helped
him up into the chariot. Ju said, "Come
with me and see my zeal for the Lord."
He had him ride along in his chariot. In
2 Kings 10:23-25,
we see Jahu and Janadabad, son of Rakab,
went into the temple of Baal. Jesus said
to the ministers of Baal, "Look around
and see that no servants of the Lord are
here with you. Only ministers of Baal."
So they went in to make sacrifices and
burnt offerings. Now Jahu had posted 80
men outside with this warning. If one of
you lets any of the men I am placing in
your hands escape, it will be your life
for his life. As soon as Ju had finished
making the burnt offering, he ordered
the guards and officers go in and kill
them. Let no one escape. So they cut
them down with the sword. The guards and
officers threw the bodies out and then
entered the inner shrine of the temple
of Bahal. And so the whole point of
reading this to you and giving you this
short background to identify the
Recoites was because their ancestry was
filled with integrity. And that's a very
important point because I'm going to
develop something with you as we go into
this Bible study that I think is very
very important for us, especially
those of us who have a desire
to raise not just godly children, but to
have an impact, to have an influence on
not only our children, but should the
Lord Jesus carry for generations that we
might have an impact not only on our
children,
but our grandchildren and great
grandchildren throughout our ancestry.
Because what we're looking at here today
is the fact that for nearly three
centuries, the Recoites have been
following the command that they received
from an ancestor.
Three centuries of remembering what he
had said to them on one occasion when he
had given them commandments. simple
commandments basically really don't
drink wine
and live intents all of your life those
are really simple commands and yet they
followed these commands for up to this
writing it's close to three centuries
and I want to develop something from
those two commands today that I really
think is important for us
really important for all of us and even
as I was studying this the Lord was
giving me insight that I want to
strength to you.
In order to do so, let me uh continue on
here in Jeremiah 35 by reading verse 2
again.
It says, "Go to the house of the recites
and speak to them. Bring them into the
house of the Lord into one of the
chambers and give them wine to drink."
Notice verse five. He said, "I set
before the sons of the house of the
recites bowls full of wine and cups, and
I said to them, drink wine.
Your conviction
will always be tested."
You can write that down and take it to
the bank.
Your convictions will always be tested.
You will always be tested if you hold
fast to something
that will demonstrate character or
integrity.
You will always be tested.
If you stand up and say, "I believe in
God," you will always be tested. It
doesn't matter whether you're an adult
on the job. It doesn't matter whether
you're an adult who is the boss. It
doesn't matter if you're in college or
in high school or elementary school. You
will always find somebody testing you.
If you stand up and say, "I believe in
God." If you stand up and say, "But I I
trust the word of God."
You will always have somebody pushing
your conviction. So don't be surprised.
And what's amazing is sometimes the Lord
is even behind that. Not to cause you to
fall, by the way. Not to cause you to
fall. The Lord never tempts you with
evil, intending to see you fall. But
very often, the quality of your life
will be demonstrated through the testing
of your life. And the quality of your
faith is going to be demonstrated by the
things you go through. It's easy to say,
"I would never fall into sexual sin," as
long as you're staying at home. But once
you get out of the house or once you
turn on the television set and you begin
to watch some of the shows that come on
into the privacy of your house now it's
another thing. It's one thing to say I
never will. It's another thing never to.
And the Lord allows trials into our
lives because the Bible very clearly
points this out because it demonstrates
the quality of our faith. And so the
Lord is actually behind this. He wants
to make a public demonstration
of the conviction and integrity of these
people amongst the Jews called the
Recabites. He wants to use them as an
example as a living illustration to the
children of Israel
because the children of Israel had
tremendous advantage. They had received
the law from Moses. They had prophets
amongst them. God had revealed himself
in various ways through miracles and
signs and wonders. and the nation of
Israel had a history of God's presence
with them. And yet the Lord is going to
use these Recoites to demonstrate to the
Jews what true character and integrity
is. And so you see that Jeremiah goes
and he invites the leadership of the
Recabites and brings them into a an area
there of the temple and he offers them
bowls of wine. Notice with me, by the
way, that this is a a very tempting
thing because those bowls of wine, the
scripture says in verse 5, those bowls
are full of wine. And so they're filled
to the brim, if you will, and he even
gives to them the uh the the glasses,
the cups, if you will, to drink. So they
have full opportunity
to fall.
Very appealing. And it's a very real
temptation. And it's an appeal to a
fleshly appetite. combination of the
lust of the flesh and the lust of the
eyes. Now in 1 Peter chapter 1:es 6 and
7, the apostle Peter writing in this
portion of scripture said this. Peter
said, "In this you greatly rejoice,
though now for a little while you may
have to suffer grief in all kinds of
trials.
These have come so that your faith of
greater worth than gold, which perishes
even though refined by fire, may be
proved genuine and may result in praise,
glory, and honor when Jesus Christ is
revealed.
And so, your faith will always be
tested.
It will be demonstrating its quality.
Who here would go out and buy a product
that hasn't had quality control measures
done?
You go to a car lot, buy a car, you
better hope that that car has been
tested from A to Z. You go out and buy
anything. You buy a haird dryer, you
better hope that it doesn't short on
you. I mean, everything has to have
quality control. We understand that. And
under the stress and under the pressure,
the weaknesses are revealed or its
qualities. And so, that's what a trial
is in our lives, guys. So many times we
kick against the trials. We say, "Oh, I
hate this." We pray, "Oh, God, give me
patience." And then we go through a
bunch of trials and we get mad. It's
like, you know, that old saying, you
know, Lord, give me patience now. I
mean, we really don't want to go through
what it is that is necessary to receive.
And I remember hearing a young lady say,
I don't ever pray for patience because I
know I'm going to go through trial.
You're going to go through trial anyway.
Anyway, it doesn't really matter. You
will go through trials anyway. And the
only ones who ever really truly pray for
patients are are doctors. And you know
that's true. And so
the Lord allows us to go through trials.
Now, as I was going through this, and
I'm going to look at verses 6-10, and
I'm going to develop something with you.
The majority of our study is going to be
here in verses 6-10, and then we're
going to conclude. But in verses 6-10,
what I really see here, and this is
something I really want to give to you,
is, and I would say this in this way,
it's like advice to parents. It's like
advice to parents. And we'll see that as
we go through this, because I believe we
see this. Notice what happens and we'll
look at it clearly in a second here.
Verse six, it says, "They said we we
will drink no wine. For Johnab, the son
of Ratab, our father, commanded us,
saying, you shall drink no wine. You
know your sons forever. You shall not
build a house, seow seed, plant a
vineyard, nor have any of these. But all
your days you shall dwell in tents, that
you may live many days in the land where
you are sojourers." And thus we have
obeyed the voice of Johnab, the son of
Raab, our father, in all that he charged
us to drink no wine. All our days we are
wives but sons are daughters. Nor to
build ourselves houses to dwell in. Nor
do we have vineyard field and seed. We
have dwelt in tents and have obeyed and
done according to all that Johnab our
father commanded us. Let's look at this
advice to parents.
I was speaking to a dear friend of mine
just yesterday. His name is Jim. He's a
pastor of Calvary Chapel of
Ranchukamonga.
and Jim and I and uh another Calvary
pastor named Randy Walls from Calvary
Upland every month get together and and
have lunch together and we spend time in
fellowship and just sharing what the
Lord is doing and it's it's a rich time
for me and I I enjoy it and that happens
on a monthly basis and just yesterday
Jim and Randy and I got together to eat
and Jimmy was sharing with me something
I'd like to use as an introduction to
this advice to parents.
Jimmy just this last week was driving on
Sunday morning to church.
And as he was driving to church,
he passed up on the side of the road a
freshly placed cross
and two young girls were there sitting
next to this cross.
We all know that often when a young
person dies in an accident on the side
of the road, their friends will go and
erect a cross. And so Jimmy was driving
and he passed by and saw this cross
there and these two girls. He said, "I
got about a block up the road and the
spirit said go back." So he said, "I
made a U-turn and I came back and I
drove up." He said, "Ian, one of my sons
and I climbed out of the truck and I
walked up to the young girls and I said,
"What are you girls doing? What happened
here?" and they said, "Well,
one of our friends was killed here last
night. It was a horrible accident at
that spot.
The girl's vehicle collided with another
vehicle and she was thrown out of her
vehicle and she hit her head on the
curb. She lay there on the curb, 17
years old, and she laid there in the
curb with her two girlfriends holding
her hands." Now, we're talking about
teenage kids now holding her hands as
she breathed her last. And they saw her
as she closed her eyes and passed into
eternity. And so, they had come just to
sit there at that cross that had been
placed there to think of their
girlfriend that had died just the night
before.
And Jimmy began to share with them a
little bit. Make a very long story
short. Jimmy, they told Jimmy, "Well,
some of the kids are going to cut school
and they'll be here tomorrow."
Jim gave him a card and said, "Listen,
if you need to talk, this is the number.
Give me a call." And the next day, Jim
said that he was driving by about 15
kids had cut school and they were there
by this cross. He said, "I walked up."
He said, "And you see all these kids and
these kids are are what what are called
today stoners." He said, "You go walking
up there." He said, "And they're they're
you know, they're they're lost
children." He said, "And I walked up to
this one young boy," he said, who was
standing there just emotional. And Jimmy
said, 'I put my arm on his shoulder and
I said, 'So, what's your name? And the
boy told him his name. And Jimmy said, I
just put my hand on his shoulder. And I
said, you know, you know, the Lord will
take care of this. And he begins to
share. And he said, this young man just
put his arm around me, he said, and just
wouldn't let go. And and and Jim was
sharing about the agony in a lot of
kids' lives. You know, guys, they don't
have dads.
A lot of the kids don't have mamas. A
lot of the kids have been basically just
thrown out of the houses. Their only
family today is is a friendship that
they have. It's very unusual for a child
to be raised in the home of two people
who've been married through their
lifetime.
Most of them come from homes that have
been broken and they don't have trust. A
lot of them have been abused. It's it's
a it's a very common thing as you know.
And this little guy probably hadn't had
a man put his arm around his shoulder.
Who knows since when? And Jimmy says,
you know, he said he just wouldn't let
go of me. And I began to share with him.
He said, and I shared with the kids. And
this young boy says, can you can you
come to the funeral, please? Would you
be at the funeral? And Jim said, "I'll
be there." And he shared again with the
kids and said, "If you need anything,
just let me know. I'll do what I can."
kids went off to school apparently and
told one of the counselors there who in
turn gave a call to Jim and said, "We'd
like to refer some of the kids who are
grieving to you if that would be all
right." And so Jimmy said, "I I sure
would." And the lady on the other end of
the line said, "Well, praise the Lord."
And Jimmy said, "Oh, you're a Christian,
huh?" She goes, "Absolutely."
And so Jimmy was sharing with me how as
he was there and these 15 kids had shown
up that these two girls came pulling up
and he gave them a ride home. And he
said, "We we went home." He said, "And
we were sitting down in the front lawn
at their house. You see this little girl
who passed away apparently had just been
kicked out by her dad from the home and
for drug usage. And the father said, "I
just can't take it anymore. you're going
to have to leave. And he had just been
kicked out. And that's basically his
last memory of his daughter.
He did what he thought was the right
thing. I would not fault that father for
a moment. The daughter is abusing drugs,
disrupting the house. The father says,
"What can I do? If you don't want to
live here under the rope in the proper
way, honey, then find your road."
Unfortunately for her, that was the
road.
But you know, these two girls were there
talking to Jim and they said, "You know,
we went to church the other day
and we heard the invitation given. I
wish we'd have gone forward to get right
with God." And Jimmy looked at him and
said, "Well, honey, you don't have to be
in church. Do you want to give your
heart to Jesus right now?" And they
said, "You know what? We need to can we
give our hearts to the Lord?" And Jimmy
led these two little girls to Christ.
And you want to know something?
As Jim was sharing that his eyes got wet
with tears, you know, and the Lord began
to minister to me about this lost
generation of children.
Kids with no dad. Kids who could never
ever say, you know, my father told me to
abstain from wine.
They can never say that because they
don't even know who pop is. And some who
do have dad, dad never talks to them and
never takes the time to share of the
important things. And so as I was
reading this passage, guys, I have to be
honest with you. The Lord spoke to my
heart and he said, "This is the advice
of a father. This is the advice that
these kids took almost three centuries
before and faithfully lived out." And
they're simple commands. There are four
things I want to give you here. Four
things that I call advice to parents.
Four things here that can radically
change a kid's life. Four things that
you can impart to a child that you can
live out and impart to a child. Now
obviously the underpinning here and
that's the reason I gave to you such a
long introduction though it really
wasn't long but it was several
scriptures and all the underpinning was
the integrity and character of the man.
A man who hated idolatry and was willing
to jump into a chariot with a king by
the name of Jahoo. And Joo was just
using this man by the way just to build
up his reputation by being with a godly
person like this this man Johnab.
Because Jah was not a godly man himself
but the reputation of Johnab was greater
than that of the king. And so the king
that's why the king said will you climb
on my chariot and go with me. Why was
that? So that when people see you with
me, I will immediately be borrowing your
reputation and your integrity. Because I
didn't take you through the rest of the
story cuz Ju never really did clean up
the idolatry in Israel. He used this man
for his own purposes. The first thing I
would lay for you here as a foundation
is the integrity of the father who is a
man of integrity. And as a man of
integrity and a man of character, his
children listen to him.
the the people that he passed this on to
saw in him this character. It's one
thing for me to tell my kids something.
It's another thing for me to live in
such a way that they know it's true.
All of us, all of us know what it's like
in one way or another. If it weren't our
parents, perhaps it were some adults
that we knew.
Perhaps it was somebody that we knew
from the parents of one of our friends.
But we've seen hypocrisy. Remember
remember what it's like. I'm I'll
probably 47 years old pretty soon.
Sometimes it's difficult to remember
what it's like, but I do.
I do remember what it's like.
I do remember looking at adults and
wondering, "Why do you tell me not to
smoke pot when you're smoking
cigarettes?
What do you tell me not to smoke pot
when you drink? You're getting bombed
and you're telling me not to get loaded?
You've got to be kidding. I used to
think, why are you telling me that I
need to go to church when you haven't
been in your life? It makes no sense.
Why are you telling me you hate my
music? Listen to the garbage that you
play on the radio. You got to tell me
something about music. And that and then
most of us, if we just think for a
moment, some of us adults, if you think
for a moment, it's true.
It's true. Every generation suffers with
rebellion. I was rebellious. The
generation coming up, they're
rebellious. My dad's generation was
rebellious. During my dad, when my dad
was growing up, they had what they call
the zoot suit. Some of you may remember
that one. The zoot suit. Hey, there's
one out there. No,
dad. No, they had the zoot suit.
My dad didn't wear a zoot suit, but he
had a friend who had one. And his friend
said to my dad, "Could you please take
care of my suit because my dad doesn't
want this in the house?" So my dad
brought it to his house. My dad tells me
my grandfather saw the zoot suit and
took a pair of scissors and just chopped
it up.
And so every generation going back to
Adam and Eve has had some form of
rebellion.
And so we have that today. But what I
see today that is different than mine is
the absence of fathers.
It's the absence of fathers.
It's the rampant divorce. It even
affects the church. It's a lack of
relationship between dad and son.
Mother and son. Dad and daughter. Mother
and daughter. The anger.
How can I
How can I be successful in communicating
the things that are most dear to me?
One, be a man of integrity, a person of
integrity, if you will, so that they
know the things that you're saying are
true. And you're not just telling them
to do this so it makes it easier to live
with them in the house,
but it's true. It's what you built your
life on. And as we look at this, he
gives them some simple commands. I want
you to notice these commands here. By
the way, when it says in verse 6, they
said, "We will drink no wine." For John
Adab, the son of Raab, our father,
commanded us, saying, "You shall drink
no wine, you nor your sons forever." And
the second command, "You shall not build
a house, so seed, plant a vineyard, nor
have any of these. All your days you
shall dwell in tents." Two simple
commands. Don't drink wine, and don't
build a house. Now, what is this all
about? Let's look at it. Why these
commands? Abstain from wine and live
intent. Well, first when he said abstain
from wine, you need to know that wine is
associated with a lack of self-control
in scripture.
Wine is associated with a lack of
self-control in scripture. And also wine
was attached to the idolatrous worship
of the pagan god. And so when they
received this command, abstain from
wine, in essence, he was saying, live a
life that is self-controlled.
Live a self-controlled life. The Bible
in Proverbs, and I'll give you a few
scriptures here if you're taking notes.
In Proverbs 20:1 says this, "Wine is a
mocker and beer a brawler. Whoever is
led astray by them is not wise."
Proverbs 23 20 and 21. Do not join those
who drink too much wine or gorge
themselves on meat. For drunkards and
glutton become poor, and drowsiness
clothe them in rags. Proverbs 23:es
31-35.
Do not gaze at wine when it's red, when
it sparkles in the cup, when it goes
down smoothly. Sounds like a commercial.
Why? Well, in the end, it bites like a
snake and poisons like a viper. Your
eyes will see strange sights.
and your mind imagine confusing things.
You'll be like one sleeping on the high
seas, lying on top of a rigging.
They hit me, you'll say, but I'm not
hurt. They beat me, but I don't feel it.
Anybody know what he's talking about?
I think anybody here who's drink drunk,
gotten drunk before knows exactly when
and and when will I wake up so I can
find another drink. Anybody
who's ever been drunk knows exactly what
he's talking about. You're numb.
You feel like you're dizzy and you're
confused.
And if somebody punches you cuz you're
getting smart, I don't feel it. And
that's basically the way that it is. And
he says, "When you're doing this, you
are simply not wise."
Anybody argue with that? If you do,
I've told you before,
I spent about five years of my life
from 15 to 20 finding out exactly what
he's saying is true.
Alcoholic the age of 16 or so,
drinking as much as I could, not only of
what I would buy, but if you walked away
from the table and left what you had, I
drank what you had, too.
I used to drink a half gallon of wine on
Friday night and a quart of beer. Used
to mix them together and that was what I
bought. I used to buy this cheap wine.
It cost a buck 69 a gallon
a red mountain.
We'd put lemons and stuff in it to try
and make it taste better and we down
that stuff. It was horrible. They
brought spinyatta out and all this other
garbage. That's when they began to make
soda pop wine for kids.
Because the real stuff, nobody would
really drink. So what did they do? They
brought out Boon Farm and all of this
stuff, apple and cherry wine and, you
know, crackling rosé and all of these
different things. It would bring out,
they weren't for adults, they were for
kids because the first time you tasted
the alcohol, normally it wasn't a good
taste. The same is true when you smoke
your first cigarette, your body tells
you this is not good. You know, if you
thought for just a moment about it, I'm
burning some leaves and some paper and
sucking that in and I paid this much for
it and it will kill me. Your brain is
not in operation here. I mean, if you
sit down and did a skit about that, how
stupid it is. Burn some leaves and some
paper and suck it in and choke for a
while, but you're going to get addicted
and eventually maybe die. People really
don't think about it that way because
right now it's still sophisticated.
That's why I agree with this movement
against the Joe Camel thing because it's
absolutely true. 91% of kids who are
being interviewed today know who Mickey
Mouse is. And 91% know who Joe Camel is.
And that image is selling cigarettes,
selling death to children. Absolutely.
There's no doubt about that. This desire
to smoke and look sophisticated and all
that. I went through that. I used to
pick up cigarette butts out of the out
of the gutter when I was 12 years old
and I would smoke them. I would find
bottles of wine that were discarded in
fields and I would drink it when I was
about 10 and 11 years old. I know what
I'm talking about. I used to do that and
it's a horrible way to live and it's a
stupid way to live. But I did live that
way and I would find this stuff and I
would drink and it didn't really matter
to me at all. And so when you do drink
when you drink, you lose self-control.
A lot of times we make excuses for the
things that we're doing. We say, "Well,
it's the wine." No, it's me and the
excuse of wine. I remember my mom and my
dad before they were saved. And when I
was a a young boy, less than 10 years of
age, my mom and dad had a group of their
friends over at the house and they had
served vodka and different things to
these people. And one of the people who
was there at the at the party was kind
of acting tipsy and bumping into things
and saying nasty little things and all.
Oh, excuse me. It's it's the alcohol,
you know, making me say this and act
this way. My mom went into the kitchen
and the only thing this person had been
drinking was orange juice, but they
thought it was vodka and orange juice.
And it just demonstrates that people
once they're under that impression that
they're drunk gives them an excuse don't
do dumb things, stupid things. And so
it's true. It's true. It is not wise
to involve yourself to drink. Proverbs
31:es 4 and 5 says, "It's not for kings,
oh LMuel, not for kings to drink wine,
nor for rulers to crave beer, lest they
drink and forget what the law decrees
and deprive all the oppressed of their
rights.
For the righteous man or woman, drinking
wine is not necessary."
You see, some people drink so that they
might laugh and enjoy themselves. Some
will drink so they might have a little
peace and relaxation. But for the
righteous person, listen, for the
righteous person, joy, peace comes from
the spirit of God. So if I want my
children to have a godly heritage,
I command them in the name of Jesus,
don't drink. Don't drink. Abstain from
wine. Now I can tell you this quite
honestly. I hate
I hate alcohol. Not just for David. I
hate alcohol. I wish there weren't any.
I've seen too much pain caused by the
drinking and for people to argue it's
okay to drink a little bit. Amazing to
me that people would actually take that
line. No, don't drink a little wine. Be
filled with the spirit is what the
apostle Paul says. And so that's what we
as godly parents should be encou
encouraging our children to be filled
with the spirit. Receive the power of
God into your life. Walk in the spirit
of God. In Ephesians 5 when he says at
verse 18, don't get drunk on wine. He
said that will lead you to debauchery.
Instead he said be filled with the
spirit. In Psalm 4 6 and 7, many are
asking who can show us any good? Let the
light of your face shine upon us, oh
Lord. Listen, you have filled my heart
with greater joy than when their grain
and new wine abound. I don't need to go
to a party and drink to be happy, but I
have people I know who did and do. There
are kids today who think that they've
got to go and drink at the party to have
a good time. You don't have to do that.
Some choose to do that. But look what
it's causing. It's causing kids to climb
in cars to drive drunk and get killed at
the age of 17.
Too much to live for.
There's too much hope that God gives to
us. And that's what I encourage my
children to. One, encourage your child
to a spiritfilled life. Secondly, when
he speaks about living in tents and
planting no vineyards, city living was
recognized as a source of temptations
and so nomadic living resulted in no
vineyards and no wine. The question is,
well, why live in tents? Well, first, a
tent is a simple structure. So if I'm
going to encourage my children to godly
values, I will encourage them one, don't
drink wine, and two, live a simple life.
Live a simple life because a tent is a
simple structure. So this will encourage
a virtue of humility and will encourage
the virtues of simplicity.
Materialism was combed by encouraging
them to live in tense.
Materialism is destroying kids today.
Some are not wanting to graduate from
high school. Some graduate from high
school with no hope because they don't
figure they're going to be able to get
as much as they want. Speak to your kids
and listen to what they're saying. They
don't want to graduate from high or they
hate it while they're in it.
man, when that day comes to graduate,
they know they're on the street. And
they know that they've got to work a
full-time job.
And they know that a high school diploma
doesn't necessarily guarantee very much
anymore.
They also know that if they go to
college, they're going to be under
stress. They also know four years of
college may have to lead to six years.
My daughter was going to one of the
local colleges here. In order for her to
graduate with a four-year degree, it's
going to take between five and a half
and six years.
because it's overcrowded. She can't even
get her core classes because there's a
line waiting the moment registration
happens. And so she has to take all
these other elective classes. Can't even
get the classes she needs. She says to
get a four-year college degree. Marie
graduated out of the same college in
four years. To get a four-year college
degree, it's going to take her six years
to get it.
And so a lot of the young people today
as I'm seeing them are thinking in terms
of well if I get this degree then I can
get the money. If I get the money I have
the nice car. And so the second thing
that he wants to encourage them to one
walk in your spirit. Two don't be a
materialist.
Don't be a materialist. Don't get caught
up with all this outward appearance
working all of your life to have
something that eventually just rots or
breaks down on you. So living in a tent,
remember a tent is a simple structure.
Materialism was combed in this manner.
In Luke 12:15 when Jesus was speaking,
Jesus said this. He said, "Watch out. Be
on guard against all kinds of greed. A
man's life does not consist in the
abundance of his possessions.
You are not what you wear.
You are not what you drive. You are not
where you live.
You're beyond all of that."
And so one of the things that I'm trying
to train my children in, and I encourage
all of us to do the same kinds of things
because it's biblical,
to live a simple life, not to be a
materialist. A third thing when you
speak about tents, remember tents
weren't comfortable to live in as a
home. So what's the result? Well, the
result would be that they weren't
pampered.
They lived what would be called, it used
to be called a hearty life.
They weren't pampered. They were willing
to sweat.
I encourage the kids to get calluses.
They're good for them.
To get back.
It's good for them to work and stand up
at the end of a day and say, "Man, Dad,
oh, this hurts." Yeah, it does, doesn't
it? Part of the curse, son. Enjoy.
If we hand our kids too much too soon,
they don't know the joy of working and
accomplishing.
They don't know what it's like to save
and to save and to save and then finally
go out and buy something that they
bought with their own allowance, with
their own money that they they earned.
The joy of being able to purchase
something, there's nothing wrong with
that. But if I'm always handing them
things, I've discovered with my own
children, perhaps some of you have
discovered, if I hand them something,
it's normally the wrong color, wrong
size. It wasn't exactly what they
wanted, and they want something else.
It's never enough.
It's never costly enough. It's never the
right thing. And so, you know what?
Living in tents, because tents were not
necessarily the most comfortable thing
in the world, taught them to be a hearty
people. taught them to be industrious,
to work, and to be willing to suffer,
to be willing to to ache. You know,
these other people are living in nice
homes, but they're living as nomads in
tents and they remain strong and they
were developing their character.
So, don't be afraid to struggle. Be
content. Another thing about a tent,
it's not permanent.
A tent isn't permanent. It's something
that you set up and take down.
So in living in tents they were taught
to remain flexible and not to take root
in the world.
So what do I say to my kids? Children
please
don't fall in love with the world.
Don't fall in love with the world. Don't
look to Madonna
as a role model.
Don't look to these women who flaunt
their sexuality and
go outdressed or half-dressed and say
this is the way you ought to be. Please
don't use the world as a model.
Pour into your children values that are
eternal.
Pour into them the spirit of God. Please
pour in them a simple life
pushing them away from the material.
Pour into them the love of the Lord.
Pour into them prayer.
Pour into them support.
Pour into them a heart that is willing
to hear and a directive so that they
might know which way to go. Be there
with them. Because if you do that, if
you teach them these simple simple
lessons, if you teach them, if you
follow the ways of the violent man, then
you're going to be living by the sword.
And Jesus said, "Those who live by the
sword will die by the sword."
So peace, not violence. Learn to turn
the other cheek.
Be willing to be embarrassed.
Don't fight for nothing.
Learn. I got to tell you something,
guys. I believe so very strong. I
believe so very strongly that God wants
to bring a revival in the young people.
I'm starting to see hope. Young people
are hungry spiritually.
They don't have anybody telling them
right from wrong. The teachers won't do
it anymore. Maybe they think they can't.
But that's where we come in. That's
where we parents come in. So, you open
your house to your your kids' friend.
They make a lot of noise and make a big
mess and they eat your food
and belch and leave and don't even say
thank.
But I would just assume they'd be there
than someplace else.
Pour these things in.
Pour into them the desire to live for
the Lord. Pour the spirit. Tell them
stay away from the drugs and the
alcohol. Walk in the spirit. Teach them
to be simple in their life. Teach them
to be tough and strong and be willing to
sweat. Teach them not to love the world.
Because in doing so, you're teaching
them things that last. And that's what
they're pointing at when they say, "Our
father taught us these things. Our
father taught us to do these things.
We've held fast to these things. We've
never stepped away from these things.
And this is what has made this this
tribe, this clan, this family, this
people a strong people." And so he's
saying that the father had through his
responsibility encouraged them in the
things that would ultimately benefit
them. The Bible says in Proverbs 23:24,
"The father of the righteous shall
greatly rejoice, and he who beggets a
wise child shall have joy in him."
Now, the response was, "We have obeyed
the voice of John Adab, the son of
Rahab, our father. For all of these
years, we have remained faithful to his
words, and as such, we've been preserved
from the social and the religious decay
of the world around us."
But they said in verse 11, "It came to
pass when Nebuchadnezzar came of Babylon
came up into the land and we said we
have to move into Jerusalem. But even
while we're living here in the city
temporarily, we still refuse to drink
wine. And we know that we're only
sojourners. We're pilgrims. We're just
staying here temporarily. We're getting
out as soon as we can." That's what it's
like for me, by the way. I'm a I'm a
sojourer. I'm a pilgrim. This world is
not my home. I'm just passing through.
I've got a more permanent, enduring
place called heaven waiting for me. And
that's why I encourage our kids to that.
Now, you're thinking, "Pastor, you only
went to verse 11."
Let's read the last, and I'll close with
four thoughts. Bang, bang, bang, bang,
bang. 1 2 3 4 5 Five thoughts.
Then came the word of the Lord to
Jeremiah, saying, "Thus says the Lord of
hosts, the God of Israel, go and tell
the men of Judah and the inhabitants of
Jerusalem. Will you not receive
instruction to obey my word, says the
Lord." The words of Johnab, the son of
Raab, which he commanded his sons not to
drink wine are performed, for to this
day they drink none and obey their
father's commandment. Although I have
spoken to you, rising early and
speaking, you didn't obey me. I have
also sent to you all my servants, the
prophets, rising up early and sending
them, saying, "Turn now, everyone from
his evil way. Amend your doings, and do
not go after other gods, to serve them.
Then you will dwell in the land which I
have given you and your fathers. But you
have not inclined your ear, nor obeyed
me. Surely the sons of Johnab, the son
of Rakab, have performed the commandment
of their father, which he commanded
them, but this people has not obeyed me.
Therefore, thus says the Lord God of
hosts, the God of Israel, behold, I will
bring on Judah and all of the
inhabitants of Jerusalem, all the doom
that I have pronounced against them,
because I have spoken to them, but they
have not heard. I have called to them,
but they have not answered. So, the Lord
says, I'm going to bring condemnation on
you. Why? Well, first, because the
Recabites have followed the lead of a
non-inspired human leader, but you have
rejected me, and I am your God.
Secondly, because Johnab gave his orders
only one time, but I have repeatedly
given you the same instructions, yet you
failed to obey. Thirdly, Johnab's
commands were obeyed for many
generations, but you have generations of
repeated failure. And fourth, the
Recabites are going to be rewarded, but
you, Israel, will be doomed.
They listened, they obeyed, they were
blessed. You ignored, you rejected, you
are condemned. And that's the way it
works, guys, in the old and the new.
When you hear what the hol hol holy
spirit says and you reject what the
spirit says, there's only one thing
awaiting us, and that's judgment from
the Lord. And he says in verses 18 and
19, Jeremiah said to the house of the
recites, "Thus says the Lord of hosts,
the God of Israel, because you have
obeyed the commandment of Johnab your
father, and kept all his precepts and
done according to all that he commanded
you. Therefore, thus says the Lord of
hosts, the God of Israel, Jonadab, the
son of Recab, shall not lack a man to
stand before me forever. I will accord
them favor. They will worship me as
their God." What a wonderful promise to
the Reabite.