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Spencer Greenberg and his research team conducted a massive replication study involving over 3,000 participants to test claims about intelligence (IQ) amidst a broader crisis in social science reproducibility. They implemented 62 distinct cognitive tasks ranging from memorization and math problems to reaction time tests like clicking on a changing color square. The findings revealed that while IQ captures approximately 40% of the variation in performance across these diverse tasks, it leaves about 60% unexplained by general intelligence alone. This remaining variance is attributed to idiosyncratic aptitudes—such as being naturally better at words versus shapes—and acquired skills developed through practice and experience. Greenberg emphasizes that while IQ predicts success in analytical jobs well, it does not predict performance on every conceivable intelligent activity, such as physical tracking or dancing, nor can current methods reliably raise a person's baseline IQ; however, individuals can significantly improve their specific skills regardless of their starting point. The discussion extends to the predictive power of personality traits compared to IQ regarding life outcomes like income and education levels. Surprisingly, Greenberg found that Big Five personality traits—specifically conscientiousness and low neuroticism—are often more predictive than IQ alone because they influence behaviors such as organization, attendance, and resilience against anxiety. The conversation also shifts to imposter syndrome, a condition where skilled individuals feel like frauds fearing their incompetence will be discovered. Greenberg identifies two core components: the fear that praise creates an unmanageable expectation for future success and the belief that others know more about one's lack of ability than they admit. This phenomenon is linked closely with perfectionism and procrastination, as individuals may delay tasks to protect their ego from potential failure or because holding themselves to unreasonable standards makes any imperfection feel like a catastrophic proof of inadequacy rather than a normal human experience. The dialogue further explores personality disorders such as narcissism, sociopathy (antisocial personality disorder), and psychopathy, distinguishing them through internal experiences and behavioral patterns rather than just outward symptoms. Greenberg notes that while narcissists are experts at curating an image to gain admiration and often use subtle flattery or bragging about anonymous acts of charity to appear altruistic, high-functioning sociopaths operate like "aliens" who have learned to mimic human emotions through a handbook-like understanding of social rules rather than genuine feeling. Sociopathy can be viewed as adaptive in specific contexts; for instance, during wartime or internal tribal conflicts, the ability to manipulate and act without hesitation regarding harming others could provide strategic advantages that empathy might hinder. However, this adaptability is context-dependent; while useful for a startup founder needing cutthroat decisions early on, such traits become liabilities once an organization grows large enough where extracting value from employees becomes more beneficial than driving collective success. Ultimately, the episode concludes by reframing how society views these psychological constructs and behaviors. Greenberg suggests that pathologizing difficult people as having disorders may be excessive when many are simply extreme versions of normal personality traits like narcissism or unpleasantness on a spectrum. He argues that understanding the mechanisms behind imposter syndrome allows for interventions such as self-compassion, which helps individuals treat themselves with kindness rather than harsh criticism, and cognitive behavioral techniques to challenge distorted negative thoughts. The overarching message is one of nuance: while IQ provides a foundational but incomplete picture of human capability, personality traits like conscientiousness play a massive role in life outcomes, and skills can be cultivated through practice regardless of innate intelligence or baseline psychological challenges. By recognizing that people are not static sums of their genetics but dynamic combinations of general ability, unique aptitudes, learned skills, and modifiable behaviors, individuals can navigate the complexities of self-assessment and interpersonal dynamics more effectively.
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What was this study you did on
intelligence?
>> Yeah. So, some people say that IQ is a
pseudoscientific swindle and other
people think it fully captures
everything about your intelligence and
says who you are as a person
fundamentally. And as you probably know,
there was a big replication crisis in
social science where many studies failed
to replicate. And so, we thought, hey,
we can do our part by trying to
replicate a lot of claims about IQ and
intelligence. So, we recruited over
3,000 people. We implemented 62 distinct
intelligence tasks, which includes
everything from like memorization,
puzzle solving, math problems, spelling,
reaction time, sort of everything you
could possibly think about that you
could do online automatically. And then
uh we tested about 40 different claims
that are made about intelligence. And we
checked if they held up,
>> right? Yeah. that it is intelligence is
kind of like the barbell chalk and
cheese. It's the uh how would you say
it's like the cognitive raw shock test.
It's like what do you what how you see
it kind of tells me probably quite a lot
about your prior coming into it. You're
right. It's either the fundamental
underpinning that explains all of the
outcomes that you're going to get in
life or it is a Naziish policy that
never had any basis in science and
should be totally disbanded.
Yeah, it's it's pretty wild. And so the
question is like, yeah, what's really
true about it? To what extent is
academia right about it? To what extent
are the lay public right about it? And
so we explored a bunch of those
questions.
>> Why do you think even before we get into
that, why do you think it's so
contentious?
>> Yeah, I think it's a few things. One, it
does have a horrendous history. It was
used, for example, like the idea of IQ
or measuring intelligence was used for
force sterilization. So that's pretty
horrible. I mean, the Nazis got into
really some evil stuff around, you know,
thinking about how intelligent people
are and and murdering people on that
basis. Um, so I think that's part of it.
I think another thing is, you know,
everyone kind of thinks it's like, yeah,
it's good to be organized, but if
someone says you're disorganized, it
doesn't feel like it cuts to the bone
like of who you are as a human or it
doesn't make you subhuman, but I think
some people feel this about
intelligence. If you're told you're
unintelligent, that it sort of like says
you're bad in a fundamental way or
you're lesser. Exactly. And I think
that's you know and I think um so I
think that it feels different.
>> That's interesting. Intelligence is very
close to our sense of self in a way that
the cleanliness of our cupboards uh or
like our obsessiveness or something
isn't quite so much.
>> Yeah. And it's really interesting
because having run many different
studies on human psychology, we find
there are some things people can report
accurately about themselves and there's
some things they can't. Like for
example, if you ask people how organized
they are, they're pretty accurate
actually. But if you ask people are you
intelligent and not so not so accurate
like they don't like it's hard for
people to self assess because sort of
everyone has to believe that they're
intelligent, right? Um or if you ask
people how rational they are, it's not
something they can self assess. And so
actually one one kind of just funny
finding we ask people to estimate their
own IQ and then our study was a able to
get an accurate estimate of their IQ.
And guess how related those two things
are?
Were people 50% right?
>> Yeah, that's yeah, it turns out not even
right. The correlation was about 0 23.
So yeah, people don't have a very
accurate assessment. It's better than
total random guessing, but not a very
accurate assessment of their own
intelligences, at least as far as IQ is
concerned.
>> Okay, let's get into the different
claims about IQ. Which ones held up?
Which ones totally fell apart under
scrutiny?
>> Totally. Well, should we talk about what
IQ is? Maybe just to people that like
what what is this thing IQ, right?
Because uh you know, if you really if
you want really want to say, well, IQ is
intelligence. Well,
>> is that really the case like
theoretically? And so, we implemented
these 62 distinct intelligence tasks or
each one's totally different and then
one simple question we can ask is
suppose you do well at one of the tasks,
does it make you more likely to do well
at the others? And it turns out it's
almost always the case that being better
at one makes you more likely at the
others. Almost throughout all of the
different 62 intelligence tasks. And
this is a this is a very strange
finding. Like this was a finding that we
replicated that was occurred early on in
the history of IQ. And it's not obvious
that it would be the case. Like for
example, you can imagine a world where
being good at math that says nothing
about how good you are at let's say
vocabulary or spelling, right? But
that's not the world we live in. there's
something funny that's going on about
humans where being good at one task
makes you more likely to be good at the
other tasks. And then IQ is kind of
built on this observation. The idea of
IQ is it's a measurement of this thing
they call G, which is stands for general
intelligence, which is essentially what
intelligence tasks have in common. So
it's kind of the common stuff. So that
if you can measure G using IQ, then you
have a sense of how well will people do
on intelligence tasks in general.
How much truth is there in saying that G
or IQ might be able to predict your
ability to complete other tasks that
measure the same thing, but it is not
predictive of anything as soon as you
step outside of the classroom, so to
speak.
>> Yeah. So, that's a really good question.
It's part of why we wanted to develop a
really wide range of intelligence tasks.
Like, so we didn't take a strong view
on, well, what is intelligence? We said
let's just implement everything we could
kind of measure that could be reasonably
said to be related to intelligence that
we could do quickly on a computer. And
so we find that almost all of them are
to at least some extent predicted by IQ,
right? However, what about things like
you go uh you go study a small scale
culture where they do hunter hunter
gathering activities, you know, is is
tracking an animal or being really good
at like planting and picking, you know,
the best fruit is that really the IQ? I
think we don't really know, right? So I
think when you get to that kind of
stuff, it's far enough away from what
we're measuring on a computer that it's
hard to say. Or take a phenomenal dancer
that just has an incredible sense of
where their body is and they can
position in exactly the way they have in
their mind. Is that related to IQ? I
don't know. It's hard to measure that in
a laboratory. So I don't think we can
say that that IQ is meased to every
single thing that you might say involves
intelligence, but I would say it's
connected to almost everything you can
measure in a lab that you can quickly
measure in a lab that that connects to
intelligence.
>> I would imagine as well in a
increasingly brainbased as opposed to a
broad-based economy. Um, more of our
life outside of the lab is actually
going to look like tests inside of the
lab.
>> Yeah. And I and I think a a lot of it
depends on sort of what career
trajectory you're on, right? If you're a
white collar worker, like I think that's
going to be true. If you know, if you
work, you know, building infrastructure
physically, then you know, maybe it's
not true. So, you know, and that right
there I think is actually a key thing to
note that IQ tends to predictability at
certain kinds of things and those kinds
of things are much more relevant for
some people's lives and other people's
lives.
>> Yeah. So, IQ is more predictive for
certain people than it is for others.
>> Yeah. And actually you find that if you
look at uh so IQ predicts job
performance across a wide range of jobs.
But if you look at what jobs it predicts
job performance better it turns out it's
these higher complexity more analytical
type jobs that does a better job of
predicting rather than sort of maybe
more physical jobs or uh or or jobs that
involve less sort of analytical
thinking.
>> Okay. What were the sort of tests that
you did to this wide ranging
set of assessments? What did that
consist of?
>> Yeah, so things like memorization, uh,
solving puzzles, guessing the next
symbol in a sequence, like Raven's
matrices, a famous one, um, spelling,
vocabulary, we even had one on reaction
time where we we had a a green square
and we said as soon as it turns red,
click. And literally IQ is somewhat
predictive of how quickly you click,
which is kind of nuts.
But funnily enough, people funnily
enough, IQ had a negative predictive
ability with how fast people thought
they would be at clicking. So people
people actually with higher IQ thought
they had lower reaction times even
though they had somewhat better reaction
times.
>> Oh, that's interesting. Well, yeah, we
can I guess we can get into the
implications of people's self perceived
expectation and then what actually
happened. Um, talk to me about the the
main claims around IQ. What were the
ones I mean even going in you must have
had an idea where you thought h feel
like this is probably going to get
replication crisis or there was stuff
that was more surprising.
>> Yeah. And so we weren't sure because you
know in some areas of social science
there's been really bad replication
crisis where maybe like 40% of the
papers just don't hold up if you redo
the experiment. That's pretty bad. Other
areas it's more solid like in cognitive
psychology where they're like having you
look at like lines on a screen and like
measuring really low level brain
function. That stuff tends to hold up
better. So you know where is IQ on that
range? I would say overall just like
taking a bird's eye view. We did
replicate a lot of the academic findings
but uh but not not necessarily every
single one of them. Um, but I think one
of the sort of key things that that's
really important to understand about IQ
is that if you look at these 62
intelligence tasks, IQ captured about
40% of the variation in people's
ability. In other words, you could you
could guess about 40% of how people
would do loosely speaking based on their
IQ. But that leaves 60% which is really
interesting. And some of that 60% is
just random noise, right? Like you know
what side of the bed you woke up on that
morning or you did you misread the
question, right? There's random noise in
there. But there is a big chunk that IQ
is not explaining. The interesting thing
about that big chunk it's not explaining
is it's idiosyncratic. It really depends
on which task you're doing. So, so for
example, it's often perceived that
people who are good at math are not good
at verbal stuff and vice versa. You
know, there's like the journalist versus
scientist,
>> the shape versus the word cell.
>> Exactly. And they're kind of at odds
with each other. It turns out being a
word cell is actually positively with
being a shape.
Right. But interestingly enough, if you
control for IQ, you take people the same
IQ, some of them are better at word
stuff and some are better at math stuff.
And that's part of what's in that
missing 60%. And so the model, the
mental model I like to use for this I
think is really helpful is to think
about three things. There's IQ, which is
your ability at the things that
intelligence tasks have in common. Then
there's your your idiosyncratic
aptitudes. Like you might be more of a
math person or more of a word person
even compared to people of your own IQ.
For me, for example, I did my PhD in
math. Like, I'm definitely a math
person. You give me a word scramble and
I'm like, I have no idea. I'll start
moving letters one by one trying to, you
know, it's just ridiculous. I'm terrible
at word scrambles, right? Um, and then
the third thing, and this is really,
really important, is skills. And skills
are things we develop by practice. And
skills can also increase our
intelligence in a meaningful sense. So,
take for example someone who has never
played chess before. All they know is
the rules, and they have 140 IQ. and pit
them against someone with 100 IQ who's
played 10,000 hours. I mean, who's going
to win that chess match? I mean, clearly
the person with 100 IQ with 10,000 hours
of experience is gonna absolutely wipe
the floor with a higher IQ person. It's
not even a question. And that's because
they developed the skill. And so, if you
think about if you want to make a mental
model of being good at stuff, you've got
your IQ, you've got your idiosyncratic
abilities, which are, you know, you
might be better at certain things than
other things, which is probably based on
a combination of genetics and also maybe
your early in childhood environment and
things like that. And then you've got
your skills that you can, you know, you
can get good good at anything you want.
And the really crazy thing in the IQ
literature is that we know lots of ways
that people get their IQ lowered. You
know, you take too many head blows that
will lower your IQ. You get lead
poisoning as a child, you know, if you
live with like lead paint. Um, you get
malnutrition as a child that will lower
your IQ. Nobody has really figured out a
good way to raise your IQ, which is kind
of shocking.
>> Do you think there is any?
>> Well, here I I think that it's
theoretically possible. I don't think we
know any good ways to do it. But I think
there's something that makes that much
less depressing than it sounds. Cuz it
sound it sounds depressing, right? Like
>> you start at a number and it can only be
subtracted from.
>> Yeah. But here's the here's the really
fascinating thing. So what would it mean
to raise your IQ? Well, it would mean
like let's say on on our 62 intelligence
task, it would mean that if you let's
say practice one of those tasks, you'd
get better at a bunch of the others or
all of the others, right?
>> As opposed to getting better at the
specific one which would be skill-based.
>> Exactly. So here's the here's the
reality. Nobody really knows how to
raise your IQ, but you can get good at
anything you want. You can improve your
skill. So, in a weird way, it doesn't
matter. If you want to get good at
something, go practice it. Develop a
training routine. You will get better at
it. Okay, maybe it won't generalize
everything else. And that, you know, it
would be nice if we lived in that world
where it generalized everything else,
but you can get good at anything. And
so, I think that that is sort of what
saves it. It makes it not so depressing.
>> Okay. So, do you come to think of IQ as
foundational or fundamental in some way?
Does it create a window or a bracket
within which people's capacities sort of
sit? It certainly seems and yeah, I
think both of us have to be diplomatic
when talking about IQ given its feted
past. Um, but
>> absolutely
>> the rubber's going to meet the road
eventually. Um, just how important is IQ
is I guess is my question.
>> Yeah. So, I think there's a couple ways
to answer this. So, one way is say well
it explains about 40% of the variation
of people's ability at tasks. Okay. 40%.
That's a big chunk but it's far from
everything, right? skill and individual
aptitudes are going to also play a big
role, right? Okay, so that's one thing
to think about. Another thing you could
ask is to what extent does it predict
outcomes? And this is one of our this is
one of our results that most surprised
me that I've never seen anywhere else is
we actually pitted IQ against
personality and said if you take into
account someone's personality traits,
their big five personality, uh which is
five traits, openness,
conscientiousness, extroversion,
agreeability, and neuroticism. You take
those five traits, you try to predict
outcomes, and you also try to predict
outcomes with IQ. Which actually wins?
Which is more predictive? What would you
guess?
>> I would guess IQ.
>> Yeah. So, um, I actually recently
launched a YouTube channel and we made a
video about this IQ versus personality.
The shocking thing to me was actually
personality won on almost every one of
the predictions or it tied IQ. I don't
think it lost in a single one. So
whether it's GPA or income or education
level, your personality actually matter
more overall which is pretty fascinating
I think.
>> Why? What's the mechanism by which
personality is beating IQ?
>> I think it's hard to say. I mean you
could think about in individual cases,
right? Like take something like
education. Well clearly having a higher
IQ is going to make it easier for you to
perform well in school. But you know
what else is going to make it you
perform well in school?
Conscientiousness. If you're organized,
you're perfe, you know, a little bit
perfectionistic but not too
perfectionistic, you know, you always go
to your classes on time, etc. versus the
really, you know, smart person who just
loves around and doesn't try, right? So,
consciousness matters a lot. Um, also
neuroticism can be disabling, right? If
you have if you have really terrible
anxiety, really terrible depression,
it's going to make it hard to study,
potentially be distracting. So, you
know, I think you take these five
personality forces together, they
actually account for quite a lot.
Does this not just pass the book to
another area that is relatively
immalleable
uh given that people are I I don't know
how much people can change their
personalities. I had David Robson on
talking about a book of his which was
how much you can change your personality
and the answer was like a bit but not
exclusively. Um, so
is this any more hope inspiring or does
it simply sort of hedge against IQ being
all that matters?
>> Well, you know, it's interesting. I
think um there's a lot of random dice
that get rolled when you're born and not
just in your genetics, but also your
your early childhood experiences, things
like that. And I think we have to accept
that, you know, there's a lot of a lot
of dice that get rolled and they can
really affect your life in a lot of
ways, right? Um, I think an interesting
analogy is like with basketball, like
could you be like a 5 foot10 basketball
player, like the answer is yes, but it's
going to be a lot harder, right? And and
you know, they exist, but if you're, you
know, 6'5, that's going to help you a
lot. And I think it's like that, like I
personality, they don't they don't fully
determine what will happen to you, but
they make some things harder and they
make some things easier. Um, but on the
topic of changing personality, there's
actually I think there's a lot of of
room to to kind of move things there.
doesn't necessarily mean you're going to
change your sort of fundamental core
nature, but you can change a lot of your
behaviors that give you a lot of the
benefits. Um, for example, think
conscientiousness, right? So, systems
like getting things done that can
sometimes take someone who's like just
terrible and at being organized and give
them a system and as long as they follow
the system, actually, they can behave
like a person who's much more
conscientious.
>> Oh, yeah. That's interesting. Uh I
suppose you know somebody who's high in
neuroticism but chooses to spend a lot
of time in sunlight or around friends or
contributing to a job that they mean
that that's meaningful to them. Well,
that's really going to counter a lot of
neuroticism. Somebody who is very low in
neuroticism but spends all of their time
on their own and not exercising and
eating poorly is going to display the
sort of traits that somebody who is
higher in neuroticism would do.
>> Absolutely. That's going to be a huge
factor. And for neuroticism in
particular, we actually have a lot of
techniques that work pretty well, right?
Like cognitive behavioral therapy has
really good evidence for helping people
with depression and anxiety. And so
that's a good place to start. Um, and
and it doesn't necessarily mean you're
going to, you know, go from being a
highly anxious person your whole life to
not anxious person. But yeah, it can
really it can actually reduce the
symptoms quite a bit. Um, but I think
the behavioral thing is huge. I mean,
there's even some interesting
experiments where they get people who
are introverted to say just pretend to
be extroverted and just be more social
for a couple weeks and often they get a
a pickup in their mood. It doesn't apply
to all introverts. Like I think some
introverts just fundamentally don't have
a desire for social activity. But I
think some introverts it's more around
shyness or feeling socially awkward. And
I think when it's more of that kind of
stuff, just acting extroverted, you
might get some of the boost as though
you were an extrovert.
>> Okay. Uh what about some of the other
claims uh around IQ? What were some of
the ones that got decapitated and some
of the ones that held up?
>> Yeah. So one theory about um IQ is
Howard Gardner's multiple intelligences
theory which says there like eight
distinct types of intelligence uh you
know things like uh mathematical
linguistic you know interpersonal etc.
And um our data did not support that
view. We couldn't test all of his claims
or anything like that but I would say
it's it's not really consistent with
that. we find is sort of almost
everything is currently with almost
everything else, right? Whereas his
theory is sort of like there these
distinct brain regions that do these
distinct things and you know I don't
think it's I don't think it's so true.
Um so that's one. Uh we also had some we
had some funny ones that uh we
replicated. So there was an ACIC paper
that claimed that uh people with lower
IQs tend to have more pathological
celebrity attitudes. So, like they think
that if you like meet your favorite
celebrity, they're going to like really
enjoy talking to you or or like you're
gonna find that you and your favorite
celebrity have all these deep hidden
connections. And yeah, we actually did
find Laura people do believe that
that's like that's such a culturally
uh unfortunate like inconvenient thing
to find out. Oh, the proletariat. No,
they're working in the mines all day and
then going home and dreaming about this
person on reality TV that they're going
to spend the rest of their life talking
to about interesting things. It's like a
it's it's very cliche in a to totally
tragic sort of way.
>> Cliche. Yeah. Another another kind of
like fascinating one. So there was a
paper that claimed if you make up
nonsense nonsense phrases like you know
the destiny of darkness is everything or
whatever that um uh people with higher
IQ will be like those are [ __ ] where
people with lower Q be more likely to be
like oh that's profound and we actually
replicated that indeed um people with
lower IQ tend to find these nonsense
statements more profound.
>> Oh that's interesting. What
what was some of the or were there any
disadvantages of higher IQ? Was it
predictive in some way of things that
were usually undesirable?
>> You know what's funny about that? So, I
I uh I ask a question of the week every
week on my social media on Twitter and
one of my questions of the week was what
do you think like more intelligent
people like are worse at or what
disadvantages do they have? And people
had like all kinds of theories like you
know so many different theories and the
reality is like almost none of them hold
up like it's just a weird it's a weird
thing like the I would say the best
evidence of what is bad about having a
high IQ is you might be more likely to
be nearsighted and that's probably
because of like behavior stuff like
people you know maybe from their
Facebook I don't know I don't know
exactly what or staring at screens um
the other thing is they may be more
prone to loneliness especially as
children uh like I do think that there
can be some sense like you know if
you're much higher kid than the people
around you it might be a little bit
isolating when you're but I think when
people become adults they like find
people that they connect with you can
broaden your pool of people that you can
hang out with and also find other high
IQ freaks.
>> Yeah, exactly. And you know what's
actually has made the the field very
confused for a long time. Like there
were a bunch of studies looking at
Mensah and discovering all these
negative things about having high IQ.
But it turns out there seem to be at
least the evidence seems to suggest
there's some kind of negative self-
selection. Like if you identify yourself
as a high IQ person, that's probably
really not a good sign. Like just having
high IQ is not a bad thing. But think
making that a major part of your
identity uh probably not not a healthy
way to live. I wonder whether that is uh
negatively predictive of having a high
IQ as well. What what did what did you
find out there? What did you find out
about people's ability to self assess
compared with what came up in the data?
>> Yeah. So people Yeah. So we we
replicated the general finding that
people with hierarchy do believe they
have hierarchy but not very much. Like
there's a very very very low
correlation. It's like a I think it was
about 0.23 in our study. So people
didn't were not very good at self
assessing but they were better than
random chance. But I think, you know, I
I do want to just emphasize that IQ is
very far from destiny, right? Like you
can develop any skills you want. You can
keep getting better and better at them.
IQ might make it harder. It's like the
going back to basketball analogy, right?
It's like height in basketball. Like it
can make it harder based on your
starting IQ.
>> But if you lean into your, you know,
idiosyncratic aptitudes, the things you
tend to be better at, and you develop
your skills, you build good training
programs, you can get better for pretty
much anything. So just, yeah, I really
do want people to keep that in mind.
Let's say that there was a way to
improve the IQ of everybody.
Uh
would that be the sort of thing that on
average is likely to improve life
quality for all of the people who got
it?
>> Well, see this is really fascinating.
What do you think the relationship
between IQ is and happiness or life
satisfaction?
>> Positive.
you you gota it's got to be positive,
right? But it's not this is it's insane
for [ __ ] sake. It's not. It's crazy.
Like, and it's almost unbelievable
because it's like, well, surely I should
at least give you more optionality like,
you know, open up more possibilities,
help you do better in school. It's
crazy. It's not it's not correlated with
lifestyle or happiness or moment to
moment happiness. And this is our
finding. It's also a finding of others.
And it's honestly, I feel it as like
this incredible mystery. I hope someone
figures out it suggest to me it suggests
that there's something that hierarchy
people are doing that like tend to make
their life worse. And I don't know what
that thing is. whether it's like they're
taking on more stress or whatever. I'll
tell you another like
>> is it not it's it's not correlated or
it's negatively correlated.
>> No correlation. Zero correlation.
>> Right. Okay. But if we assume that the
objective life outcomes of somebody
whose higher IQ is better, right?
>> Yeah. Well, they tend to have higher
income. They have more
>> soio economic. They're less less likely
to go to jail. They're more likely to
complete college. They're less likely to
be a single parent. They're more likely
to stay in a marriage. Um, I' I've just
made a ton of [ __ ] predictions, many
of which may be incorrect there, but
it's I I read it once on the internet.
Um, so even if it's not predictive at
all in terms of life satisfaction,
happiness, those things you would assume
would be, right? Income, poverty is
associated with a lot of stresses that
probably don't make people particularly
happy, etc.
>> 100% poverty is definitely associated
with lower life satisfaction. So in
order for it to be uh not correlated at
all, you're having to compensate for
some of these uh better quote life
outcomes that are predicted by IQ. Uh so
that actually kind of does suggest that
there is some kind of break being
applied. Not just that you're coasting
with it, not just that it's totally
impartial, but that it is actually
applying some sort of um negative
multiplier to the life that you've got.
Is that a fair way? Am I talking
bollocks?
>> Yeah. No, no, you're completely right.
There's something and I I say this is
really a genuine mystery. Like I do not
think we as society know the answer to
this because everything points to the
fact that it should give you higher life
satisfaction, higher happiness, but it
doesn't. So there's some some factor
we're missing that kind of explains
this. And uh hopefully one day we'll
someone will figure it out. I'll tell
you like even more baffling thing we
found. We asked people to what extent
they achieved their life their their
like their life goals. No correlation
with IQ
like which which and especially odd
because we know that people with higher
IQs are like better achieving certain
kinds of goals, right? And so it
suggests that people's view of like what
is a good life or what are the goals
that they have or you know must it must
change based on
>> it must change. Yeah. And you know and
if you go back to thinking well what is
happiness like on some fundamental level
it does relate to our expectations
versus our reality and not just our
reality. There may be something going on
there about like the way that people
plan their life might change uh on
average when they have higher IQs that
screws them over in some way. It
compensates for Yeah. I had this uh I
had this idea called the curse of
competence which I think maybe kind of
relates to this a little bit that
basically if things tend to go well for
you that you set your sights very high.
Um and also that
if you are good at maybe only a small
range of things or maybe only one thing.
If you only have a skill in one
particular area, then your life options
are constrained more by your capacity
than they are by your ability to choose.
And a sort of rationalist utilitarian
approach would say, well, the
optionality is in favor of the person
who has the competence, not the one that
doesn't. But that's not the way that the
human brain works. Like the paradox of
choice suggests that you're actually
less satisfied when you have more
options as opposed to when you have
fewer. So I kind of totally bro scienced
all of this together and thought well
okay that means that somebody who is
maybe higher in competence you could
probably given how predictive G seems to
be for lots of things people this it's
robust and and and varied and allows you
to have all of these different life
paths open to you. I wonder whether this
is one of probably tons of different
areas that contributes to the lower life
satisfaction lower happiness thing. uh
you're caught up in the optionality of
life. You're unsure about which
direction to go in. Uh there is a um
switching uh cost and also just a
executive functioning cost that you need
to pay in order to be able to choose
what it is that you want to do. Um the
loss aversion, the sunk cost fallacy,
all of this stuff plays in in a manner
where it wouldn't if you had fewer
options open to you. And it's a very
like unpopular opinion to hold that
somehow having fewer options gives you a
better quality of life. But I think
when you look at the way that the human
sort of system works that that does seem
I would guess that that would be
predictive of what's going on.
>> Yeah, it's really interesting. You could
see it cutting both ways, right? Like if
you only have two options and they're
both shitty, like that's not that's not
going to make a good life. But if you
have like a thousand options, you have
no idea which one to take and you're
constantly second guessing it. That's
also not a good life. So there's kind of
this intermediate territory where it
feels where like you want at least at
least some good options. Yeah. But you
don't want endless options and end I
mean you know people say this about
online dating that it can actually uh
make it more difficult to find a like a
really good life partner because of the
sort of the the feeling of endless
options can make you constantly second
guess and not give people a fair shake
where like instead of going on that date
and really being like let me really take
seriously the possibility that this
could be my life partner and try that on
>> just for a couple days and then see you
know decide uh that they maybe are just
always thinking about you know three
other people they could go on a date
with
>> nexting as it's known in in the world of
online dating. Um
>> what
just to linger on because I'm fascinated
by this life satisfaction happiness
thing. Have you got any other mechanisms
by which you
can say this might be something that
would contribute to it?
>> Yeah. So I mean I have hypothesis but
they're speculative.
>> This is this is a home of bro science.
It's a safe space for you here Spencer.
>> Oh I appreciate that. Um yeah, so one
thing I suspect is that when people are
higher IQ, they they tend to question
what they're told more and they like
question all the like the sort of
beliefs of their society and that this
might like create a sense of social
isolation. Um and you see this for
example that that there tends to be a
negative correlation between IQ and
religiosity and uh not it's not to you
know diss religion but just to say that
I think
>> I think there might you know it's like
religion you know if you fit well if
you're sort of like the median or modal
religious member like it might give you
a sense of community a sense of you know
uh ease at you know life after death it
might give you a sense that someone's
you know look or some great power is
looking out for you and then if you're
like you know questioning all that and
being like, well, I don't know what to
believe and like this seems like
[ __ ] Like that may may actually
make you less happy. I don't know. Very
speculative, but
>> interesting. So IQ is a prophylactic
against religion, but religion is a
prophylactic against misery. And yeah,
you're fighting against it. It's it's an
interesting one, man. I um so the reason
that I asked about if there was a a way
that we could raise everybody's IQ, um
I've just become an adviser in a company
that does embryo selection, uh gene
polygenic risk score, embryo selection.
And one of the things that they can get
a little bit into is looking at raising
IQ. Hey, here's a dashboard of 10
embryos that we've harvested. These
three, you don't want those three.
Here's seven that are left. Hey, this is
better immune system,
higher IQ, more externalizing behavior,
etc., etc. Um I wonder
it seems to me inevitable that this
technology is going to be used um
especially to avoid what John Tubi talks
about with gene decay. Are you familiar
with that?
>> No, it's not.
>> It's it's a really interesting idea that
basically
ancestrally
the selection pressures that were being
applied to humans were so high that any
suboptimal genetic mutations were
selected out of the gene pool. But as
you get rid of that pressure, as you
raise the floor basically with modern
healthcare, a perfect and totally
non-controversial example, which it took
me a really long time to try and come up
with one, is uh myopia. So uh people
that need glasses, we we have to assume
on the savannah 50,000 years ago, if
your eyesight wasn't that good, you had
a less high chance of survival and
reproduction, right? Maybe by a little
bit, maybe by a lot. Um it was less
high. We now have glasses, right? It
makes very little difference whether
you're a child or whatever. I imagine
it's maybe even not predictive at all of
anything in life other than whether or
not your kids have got but what that
means is over time people with bad
eyesight are more likely to have kids
who've got bad eyesight who more likely
to have kids that have got bad eyesight
because the um delletterious mutations
are being accumulated and not selected
out. what you end up with is a what's
called a crumbling genome, which is one
that's kind of less robust over time
because it's being buttressed and
supported more by infrastructure. I
absolutely do not think that people who
need glasses should be killed at
childirth or at any point later in life.
I think that would be a a terrible idea.
Um, but I would guess anybody who needs
glasses. I'm someone that did need
glasses and I got laser eye surgery to
fix it. if you could have told me that
my parents would have been able to not
have that be an issue for me at birth.
Now, I'm aware that this isn't actually
technically the way that it works, you
get into a much more sort of mess messy
ethical territory because it's not about
getting this same embryo and getting rid
of the myopia. It would actually be
choosing a different one. But we, you
know, for the purposes of not talking
about whether the soul is transferable
or not, I think we just need to stick
with it here. My point being, I think
that this is going to be used a lot. Um,
I think it's going to counter hopefully
um some of the
mental health. Like, we could see that.
I I certainly think that you could look
at some of the negative outcomes we've
got, the the um predilictions people
have toward negative mental health and
say, well, you know,
if selection pressures were high as
somebody that had a lot of depression
and anxiety, maybe they would be less
likely to survive and reproduce. I don't
think that that should be the case
either. I'm somebody that suffered with
depression and anxiety. I don't want to
be like left out to dry because my tribe
doesn't like me or whatever cuz I'm not
a fun hang all the time in my 20s. But
yeah, I I just get the sense that this
is going to happen more and if we've got
that and IQ is one of the things that's
going to be selected for. Um I think
it's really important that conversations
like this that sort of look at IQ
apolitically
uh that work out what it's good for,
what it's not good for, where the limits
of it lie. But to basically say that if
you've got the choice to make like don't
live in a house with lead paint, right?
Like that's a good idea. Don't get hit
in the head too much. Don't live in a
house with lead paint because your life
outcomes are maybe not going to be that
good. That being said, not actually
going to make that much of an impact on
your happiness or your life
satisfaction.
>> Well, that's the that's the irony. If
the parent wants the kid to be happy,
don't select for IQ.
>> And if you want to help the world, you
know, uh maybe you select for altruism.
Maybe that's, you know, maybe that's
that's what's more beneficial. Obviously
point. Well, think about
>> Yeah. I I'm just that's such a great
point and I one that like even for me
hasn't fully sunk in given I already
forgot it kind of um
most parents if you ask parents what is
it that you want for your kids so I just
want them to be happy.
All right. Well, you're left with a
pretty difficult decision here, right?
Because you know that life outcomes
objectively on average in a modern
capitalist meritocrac meritocratic
society are going to be better with
higher IQ,
but maybe they're going to be a little
bit more sad. So, actually, what do you
want? And that's
>> Yeah, I don't know if they're more sad.
I just think they're not necessarily not
necessarily happier. If you're trying to
do it for the kid, know it's an
interesting question. Or are you trying
to do it for the kid or you trying to do
it for your idea of what you want your
child to be? And that's a different it's
a somewhat different thing.
>> What do you think the future of IQ
research, IQ discussion looks like?
>> It's a good question. Um I mean I do
think there are a lot of things that are
on solid footing like I was it was nice
to see that because we we've replicated
studies in other areas where we see
really big problems, right? We have a
project called transparent replications
where when new papers come out in top
psychology journals, we'll use a random
number generator to pick some of them.
We go take the study, we redo it from
scratch, rerun it on a new population
and see if it holds up and analyze it
carefully and release a report. Um, and
we find that a bunch of really serious
problems. So, at least it's good to see
the science is like largely functioning
properly. You know, we got a lot of
stuff did did seem to hold up. Um, I
would love to see more research on uh
>> can you raise IQ because that would be
really really cool if we could test lots
and lots of different methods. Like I'd
love to see a study that like, you know,
gets 25 different researchers to come up
with ideas of how you might train at
something that helps you at everything,
right? It improves your skill at
everything and and like just test them
all, you know, because there's been some
efforts in this and they haven't gone
well, but it doesn't mean there's not
some way to do it that we just haven't
figured out yet.
>> Fascinating stuff. All right. What have
you learned about imposter syndrome?
>> Yeah. Oh, just one more last thing about
um IQ and intelligence. If you're
interested in this topic, we released a
giant report with all of our findings,
all the 40 different claims we tested.
It's on our website,
clearerthinking.org.
Um, so you can check that out,
>> dude. Everyone everyone needs to check
out all of the [ __ ] that you're doing. I
I love I love the podcast. I love the
blog. I love your articles as well. Um,
everything
>> I'll get linked.
>> Thank you so much. Yeah, I appreciate
that. Yeah. So, the podcast is Clear
Thinking with Spencer Greenberg. Every
week I invite on someone I think is
brilliant to discuss four ideas. So,
yeah, I'd love for you to check that
out. Cool. So yes, imposter syndrome. Uh
so this is something that we deep dived
in. We what we did is this is kind of
the style of our work a lot of times. We
took all the different scales to measure
imposter syndrome. We put them together.
We ran a big study testing them all
simultaneously and then we analyzed it
to figure out sort of what are the core
components of imposter syndrome and what
is it related to? And so for those who
don't know, imposter syndrome is
basically when you're someone who's
skilled, but you believe that all your
success it was just lucky and that
you're somehow secretly a fraud and that
you don't really have the skills that
people think. And um and so we found so
in analyzing all these different ways of
you know kind of measuring imposter
syndrome two of the the questions that
were most predictive of it were when I
achieve results that are praised I worry
that I might not be able to fulfill that
person's expectations in the future. So
if that's something that you resonate
with, you might have imposter syndrome.
>> And another one was, I'm afraid others
will discover to the extent to which I
lack knowledge or ability.
>> Um, so you feel like you're keeping the
secret of the your incapability.
>> So both of these
both of these are uh in relation to
others.
>> Yeah. Because a lot of it is is feeling
like people's beliefs about you don't
match the reality. like, "Oh, people
think I'm really successful, but like if
they only knew or you know, people think
I'm talented, but if they only knew."
There's a there's an amazing quote from
Tom Hanks.
>> He said, let me just read this because
it's so good.
>> No matter what we've done, there comes a
point where you think, "How did I get
here? When are they going to discover
that I am in fact a fraud and take
everything away from me?" That's Tom
Hanks, right?
>> Yeah, Woody. Um
so
it's an interesting question around
the higher someone's praise than the the
this sense that that is now an
obligation to meet it again in future
and I have to assume that that's because
if you feel like your successes are
um by chance and that you don't have
quite as much control or agency over the
outcomes at this kind of a level that
every new success is not a cause for
celebration. It's simply a higher bar to
fall from next time. And
>> because if you if you go below that, oh,
now you're you know, you're in the
>> Oh, they're going to find out. And that
plays into your precisely the concern
that you have.
So that's very interesting this sort of
and I imagine that that's it's going to
be tied in with status. Did you see was
this at all um
like intraexual competition, interexual
competition, status anxiety? Was it
related to that at all?
>> Well, interestingly enough, early on in
the research, people believed that it
was mostly women that had imposter
syndrome, but then they discovered
actually men have a ton of it, too. So,
now it's thought that actually it's like
maybe about equal in genders, maybe
slightly more women, but but like
roughly equal. And like it's it's hard
to say who exactly has imposter syndrome
for two reasons. One because it depends
on where you draw the line, right? Like
at what you have to pick some point of
the line where you say that person has
imposter syndrome but the person just
below them doesn't. So that's arbitrary.
And the the other thing is there
obviously could be people who genuinely
just lack skill and people think they're
skilled and they're not. Right.
>> Yeah. Maybe you have imposter syndrome
or maybe you're just [ __ ] at your job.
>> Well, and the problem is that the people
of imposter syndrome think that they're
that person. They're like, "No, that's
me. You're talking about me. Those other
people have imposter syndrome. I just
suck." Right.
>> [ __ ] That's interesting. Okay. So, how
common is imposter syndrome?
>> Yeah. So, you get a wide range of
estimates. Typically, the estimates are
20% to 60%. I know it's an enormous
range, but it depends on these factors
like where do we draw the line and like
how do we know who really who really has
it? But it's it's extremely common like
ridiculously common,
>> right? What
>> even even in high achieving groups like
there have been studies on like medical
students, right? and they're working
their ass off and they they grinded so
hard to get there and like a bunch of
them have imposter syndrome too.
>> Are high achieving people more likely to
suffer with imposter syndrome than low
achieving people?
>> That's a good question. I don't know the
answer to that. That someone should
research that.
>> Yeah. Well, I mean, come on, you're the
guy. Uh, okay. What did you find out
that we didn't already know? What was
interesting?
>> Yeah. So, here's some here's some
fascinating things.
uh people with imposter syndrome are
more likely to have perfectionism and I
suspect that what's going on here is
that if you hold yourself to an
unreasonable standard it's going to
create this gap between your performance
and your perceived performance right
like you know if your standard is like
you have to do everything perfectly or
you suck then you do things like you
know you don't get perfect but you do
really well and then you're like I suck
right
>> yes
>> uh outwardly you've outperformed
everybody else because of your inner
anxiety inwardly you're never sad
satisfied with your performance because
of your unreasonable expectation.
>> Exa Exactly. Exactly. And so they find
it easy to dismiss their achievements
because of the bar that they set is so
unreasonably high. It also tends to be
associated with me thinking that
mistakes are unacceptable, right? Like
you know, one thing I like to say is
that I I want to fail at more things
than most people try at their entire
life. And uh you know, it's like I
because I think that's a healthy
attitude towards like mistakes and and
[ __ ] up and doing you know, and not
succeeding. Um but it's challenging,
right? Like it sucks to feel like you
made a mistake. Like it's painful and
and to fail really really sucks, right?
Uh but the reality is like we're humans
where everyone's going to make mistakes
all the time. But if you view mistakes
as unacceptable, well, you're human, so
you're going to make them, but that
means you're going to end up thinking
that you suck a lot more than you do.
>> What are the what are the key dimensions
of imposter syndrome on your test? What
was it measuring?
Yeah. So, we found it's a pretty pure
dimension by itself, which is it's it's
mainly around like this fear that people
think more highly of you than they than
you really can justify and you kind of
worry about it and you worry you're a
fraud and you're worried that they're
going to find out, right? So, that's
kind of the key like like a pure
dimension. But then it has this
perfectionism link. We also found
interestingly enough a procrastination
link. People with impost syndrome tend
to like delay the tasks, not do them on
time.
>> Oh, that makes total sense.
>> Yeah. I think um and that also might
might tie into perfectionism to some
extent too. But it is interesting how
sometimes if we don't give ourselves
time to do something that it's easy to
kind of like give ourselves an excuse
and feel less bad about it, right? It's
like oh well yeah I only did I only put
two hours. I know I should have like
started it last week but then it's like
so I'm not really that bad a person
because like you know I didn't do a good
job just because I only spent two hours
on it. Right. So there's this these
weird like ego games we play with
ourselves to try to protect ourselves.
>> Yeah. Yeah, we've got a get out of jail
free card because it's the same as
somebody that gets into a relationship
and they're kind of committed but kind
of not committed all that much. And if
the relationship doesn't work, they
think, well, you know, it's not that
much of a comment. I mean, it's like I
gave it my all in any case.
>> Yeah. I mean, it, you know, it's
interesting if you are really intent on
protecting your ego, it creates a lot of
weird effects that can make your life
worse. um like behaviors where you try
to protect your ego instead of doing the
thing you actually care about like
having a good relationship or like
getting this project done. Right.
>> Right. Yeah. Okay. So, um, the reason
that you're dating is to find a life
partner that makes you feel happy and
fulfilled, but in the process of trying
to not feel like somebody rejects you,
sees you truly who you are and doesn't
want you or you're not good enough or
whatever it is, you behave in a manner
which defeats the very thing that you
were doing the dating to try and achieve
because you don't show somebody all of
you and you're not fully committed.
>> Ex. Exactly. And I don't know if we're
going to talk about narcissism later in
this conversation, but yeah, like is
especially a problem for narcissistic
people, but but everyone like tries to
protect their ego to some extent. We
just differ in how much we try to do it.
>> What do you make of this lean slight
lean uh towards females?
>> Yeah. You know, it's interesting. I
think that that um women tend to be less
self-confident
and um uh men so we did ran this uh you
know funny study where we asked people
um out of a hundred people of your age
and gender how many of them do you think
you adapt perform at different skills
like surviving in a zombie apocalypse
and dancing and kissing and you know
cooking and all these kinds of things
and you know men tend to be a bit more
overconfident like they tend to be a bit
more yeah I could you know beat 70% of
men at you fighting or you know kissing
or whatever you know kissing men not
kissing men kissing women but um uh yeah
so I think you know and I think that's
probably why people assume that women
would have this more because like they
tend to have lower self-esteem and less
confidence but funnily enough it seems
like on a posture syndrome not
necessarily and you know and it's hard
to know why that might be that it's more
balanced but it could come it could be
related to men often treat their sort of
their work as sort of fundamentally
their value Right. Like so what they do
in the the marketplace is like
>> says who they are.
>> Okay. So are there any counterintuitive
benefits to imposter syndrome?
>> Well that's really interesting. I think
a lot of times when we have these like
damaging psychological beliefs they're
solving some kind of problem for us.
It's often not worth it but like they're
often not random. And so so a good
example of this is like negative selft
talk. You know, some people when they
don't do a good job, they're like,
"You're a piece of shit." Like they're
saying this to themselves in their mind
like, "You're a piece of [ __ ] You
suck." And you like imagine how damaging
that would be if like a your father said
that to you, you know, or or your friend
said that to you, like how mean that
would be. But it's like, well, why do
people do that? And I think it's because
at some point in their life, they learn
that like that squeezed a little bit
more performance out of them and then
they like they're like stuck to that
rule of like
>> if I if I whip myself into submission,
then sometimes things go well for me.
>> Exactly. I'll get myself to work harder
and blah blah. Of course, there's an
incredible cost and the cost is usually
not worth it, right? But it's like
they're often I'm not going to say
always, but often I think people are
solving a problem with these
dysfunctional psychological beliefs.
It's just that they're creating more
problems and it like but then if you
sort of challenge it and said, "Well,
what if you just didn't treat yourself
like [ __ ] What if you didn't call
yourself a dick all the time?" You know,
like they're like on some level they're
like, "But then I wouldn't be high, you
know, I wouldn't push myself." So
they're like scared to let go of this
dysfunctional measure. So you like you
have to kind of give them another tool
to be like well you could instead of
don't get don't just throw it away. Try
this other tool for getting good
performance out of yourself. Right.
>> Have you got any idea of potential
interventions for imposter syndrome?
>> Yeah. So we looked into this a bunch and
we actually so we made um unclear
thing.org you can find our imposter
syndrome assessment. You can go measure
your imposter syndrome but we also in it
have a bunch of techniques you can try.
Um, I'll say that the evidence is not
there's not a huge amount of evidence,
but we look at the evidence and we teach
you techniques that are at least
somewhat evidence-based. So, one of them
is self-compassion. And I have to say
this tends to resonate a lot more with
women than men in my experience. But
self-compassion is actually like a
pretty cool set of techniques for
someone who tends to be pretty harsh on
themselves. And it's basically I mean
like at a core it's saying well how
would you treat like someone you really
care about when they're going through
something difficult and just use that
same energy towards yourself right like
treat yourself with understanding treat
yourself with respect treat yourself
with kindness and empathy and you know
don't berate yourself just like you
wouldn't berate a loved one um obviously
there's more to it than that but I think
that's like a good starting point and I
think for people that have a lot of
negative selft talk I think that's a a
really useful technique
>> anything
Yeah, another one is cognitive therapy
can be useful here. So the this basic
tool from cognitive therapy where when
you when you're feeling emotional, you
tend to have distortions in your
thinking. This is actually one of the
things that first made me obsessed with
psychology. So I was reading a book on
cognitive behavioral therapy and and it
said it made this claim like when you're
em you're feeling intense negative
emotions, your beliefs tend to get
distorted in predictable ways. And I was
like what really is that true? So one
time when I was feeling like emotional,
I wrote down my thoughts and then I came
back to them when I was in a neutral
emotional state and I was like, "Holy
[ __ ] that's exactly what happened."
>> Psychopathic. Yeah.
>> My beliefs were distorted by the intense
emotion. And so cognitive therapy, I
think, has this correct observation that
that often it really often is the case.
And so you one cool technique is you
write down your thoughts when you're
feeling negative emotions. Like let's
say you're telling yourself that you're
a fraud and everyone's going to find
out. You write down those thoughts. You
come back to them in a neutral emotional
state and you really try to evaluate the
evidence. You say, "What's the evidence
for? What's the evidence against?" And
then once you've done that, you ask
yourself, can I replace this thought
with a with a thought that's at least as
true and more helpful? So take let's say
you let's say the thought that you tend
to have is like I'm a fraud and
everyone's going to find out, right? You
think what is a belief that's just as
true or more true, but it's more helpful
than that. Like maybe it'll be a belief
like, you know, I'm not good at
everything, but I am really good at some
things, right? as an example of like a
replacement thought. And then what you
try to do is you try to practice that
replacement thought. You try to notice
when you're having that first thought
and just immediately replace it with the
second thought. Like just say the second
thought to yourself in your head or out
loud. And it can be actually quite a
powerful technique.
>> Is there any relationship between IQ and
imposter syndrome?
>> Oh, that's a good question. We we didn't
study it unfortunately.
>> Ah, okay. Well, so the reason I ask it
is I'm seeing at least one thread
between the two topics that we've spoken
about so far, which is outwardly the uh
the outcomes. Oh, actually that's let me
ask you this first. Do people that have
got imposter syndrome have better life
outcomes?
>> Yeah, unfortunately I don't know that
either. So I don't know much about the
link between imposter syndrome and like
objective achievement or life outcomes.
>> Um I mean it is linked. So I will say
imposter syndrome is linked to more
depression and anxiety. So on on the
emotional front they have worse outcomes
but things like whether they do better
in school or things like that I don't
know.
>> Yeah. So you can probably see where I'm
going with this. higher IQ, better
objective life outcomes. The only way
that we can be measured which is
externally inwardly these people seem to
be it's not correlated but if life
outcomes are better and that would be
predictive of better life internally and
it's not there's a little bit of a sort
of a minus multiplier going on there and
the same thing goes for the imposter
syndrome. I I would guess that people
with imposter syndrome on average are
higher performers than people who don't
have it. Uh, and I think that it's
because of this u sort of paranoia that
they have about being found out which
will drive them to pay more attention,
be more diligent, be more obsessive,
compulsive, neurotic, um, work harder at
these things in a desperate attempt to
try and disprove their own unreasonable
expectation for their standard that
everybody else doesn't even know exists.
Um, so again, one of the questions I've
been the most fascinated by probably
since I started this podcast is what is
the price that somebody pays in order to
be a person that you admire? So
>> high performers, high achievers, the
ones that everybody seems to look up to.
Okay, well that's what it's like
externally, but what's their experience
of like life like internally? And I I'm
like a Pokémon card collector for just
more little uh pieces of evidence that
the way that somebody's life is going
externally is not necessarily predictive
of the things that you care about the
most, which is peace of mind, the life
satisfaction, happiness, connection with
others, you know, texture of their own
existence as their head hits the pillow
at night, that sort of stuff. And um it
seems like at least between the two
things that we've we've seen so far um
it's there's a a bit of a coraly going
on there.
>> I think that's really astute. Often to
get sort of the top of something someone
has to dedicate themselves fully to it.
Obviously there's there's weird examples
where someone gets lucky, but like
usually it's people who dedicate
themselves fully. I mean look at Mr.
Beast. Like could someone be more
dedicated to getting views on YouTube?
Like he's the he's probably the most
obsessive person getting views in the
world and he also has the most views in
the world. like it kind of makes sense
and I think a lot of times that
obsessive focus really comes at a
tremendous cost to other things.
>> Yeah.
>> Um I mean Mr. Beast I think if he's even
said like I'm not the YouTuber you want
to you want to be right. Um and this
been my experience also like um when I
meet billionaires like some of them are
like you know great people and like you
know seemed like you know happy but a
bunch of them seem really like there's
something wrong with them. On average,
high performers are more miserable than
normal people as far as I've seen. And
I've spoken to like, you know, nearly a
thousand on the show in in in one form
or another. And when you see somebody
that's got a well balanced sense of self
and they don't castigate themselves if
they fall short and they relate to the
people around them well and they're
connected and their sleep's okay and
their health's not bad and they're not
too stressed and all the rest of this
stuff, like holy [ __ ] Like that's
that's really rare. That's rarer. That's
significantly rarer than somebody who is
a high performer. And yet we look at the
high performers as the ones that are
people who have the least desirable
internal states have some of the most
desirable external lives. And uh that
that paradox will never cease to
fascinate me. I think I think it's so
[ __ ] interesting.
>> Yeah. I think a really interesting
question is are you actually willing to
make the sacrifices to be at that level?
And like people I don't think take
seriously that question. And yeah, of
course, like you want to incrementally
improve your life and make things
better. But do you do you want to make
the sacrifice to be at that level,
right? At the very very top achiever
level. Yeah.
>> And for some people it's worth it and
some it's not. And I think it comes down
to values. Like what do you really value
in life? Right.
>> Mhm. You reexamined the Dunning Krueger
effect as well. Like we're just going
through and decapitating all of the sort
of uh interesting psychological insights
of the last few decades. Yeah, the Denny
Krueger one is it's a little hard to
explain, but I think it's really
fascinating. So, just for those who are
not as familiar, the basic Denny Krueger
effect is the idea that people who have
low performance or low skill or low
intelligence tend to overestimate their
abilities. And the original explanation
is that it's because they they know so
little that they don't even know how to
evaluate, right? They're so they're so
unskilled they can't even evaluate
skill. So, they think they're better
than they are, right? So, that's the
basic idea. Sometimes in modern usage,
people also mean the opposite that
people who are high skill tend to
underestimate their abilities. So you
could also think of that a Dunning
Krueger like effect, right?
>> So we've got those two things to
explain. And if you look at the original
research, the way that they essentially
prove prove the Dunning Krueger effect
is they'll make these plots of people's
actual skill versus their perceived
skill and they'll show that there's a
gap where people who are lower in skill
are over overshooting their their
predictions about themselves and people
are higher in skill or undershooting.
believe they're not as good as they
really are, right? And they say, "Look,
there's an effect." And so we set about
to replicate this, but also we ran a
bunch of simulations to try to really
understand like what produces those
plots.
>> And we found two really crazy things.
The first crazy thing is that it turns
out you can get those plots that look
exactly the same as like the original
Dunning Krueger studies with nothing to
do with human psychology. It turns out
if you if you're you've got to measure
skill using something, right? you give
people a test or something, right? If
you measure skill with something that
has a decent amount of noise or error,
right? Because you you know, you give
people a vocab test. Well, you know,
there's some noise in it, right? It's
not a perfect measure of someone's
vocabulary, right? You there's some
choice of what questions to ask and so
so it's somewhat noisy, right? So, you
have this imperfect measure. You get a
done in Kruger plot that the noise
actually causes that effect. uh where
people who have lower who you you think
have lower ability tend to overestimate
their ability.
>> And the reason yeah it's a little bit
subtle but the reason is because so you
don't know someone's true ability right
like how would you know all you know is
someone's measured ability but measured
ability is true ability plus noise. So
think about someone who was unlucky on
the test like they performed worse than
their true ability.
>> Oh.
>> So they're going to overestimate.
They're going to appear look like they
overestimated with their ability,
>> right?
>> But actually, they were just lucky.
>> Oh, wow. That's so interesting. Holy
[ __ ] Yeah. So, both groups
are maybe accurately perceiving their
what should have been their expected
level of output, but due to noise or
luck or chance or a good night's sleep
or a bad night's sleep or a crying baby
or whatever, they didn't show up as
themselves.
And that resulted in a disparity between
what should have happened that they
predicted and what did happen that they
didn't predict.
>> Exactly. And if anyone wants to deep
dive on this on my YouTube channel,
Spencer Greenberg, we've got a video
that like breaks this down. But yeah,
exa. Exactly. And so in order to really
say there's a Ven Kruger effect, you
actually have to have a test with
incredibly little noise. It's like a
really really accurate measure
>> to protect against this. And that's
really hard to do, right? It's like hard
to build such a good test of almost
anything. So, so that's the first
problem. It's like, well, we can't, it's
hard to even show it's not just a
mathematical artifact, but here's a
potentially even bigger problem. Turns
out perfectly rational agents also get a
done in cruer effect.
>> Okay, explain that to me.
>> Yeah, so it's it seems weird, right?
Okay, so suppose you're doing a new
skill you've never done before. You've
like you've no idea how good you are and
you're competing against people who've
also never done it before. What would
you estimate your percentile to be?
>> [ __ ] knows. I I guess it would depend on
analogous other things that I'd done
that were kind of similar to it in the
past and I'd try and predict that.
>> Yeah. So if you had analogous things
exactly you try to predict it based on
that. But let's say you had nothing
analogous, right? You're like well what
percentile
I have no idea. I have no idea.
>> Well, let's say would you put like would
you put yourself at 99 percentile?
>> No. Absolutely.
>> Right. Would you put yourself at first?
>> No. 50
>> percentile. Right. Right. Okay, so
you're going to like the rational thing
if you don't have information is to be
like, okay, I'm probably near the
middle, right? Before I get evidence,
right, prior to evidence. Okay, but then
think about what happens if you the
rational thing is put yourself in the
middle without evidence, you start
getting evidence. What do you do? You
update on the information. You just use
basian reasoning to update. So you get
some evidence, it push as you get more
evidence, it pushes you away from the
center. So if you get some evidence that
you're not very good, you start pushing
down. If you get evidence you're good,
you start pushing up. Well, guess what
that leads to? It means you end up too
close to the center. Everyone is
squished towards the center, which is
exactly the Dunning Krueger effect.
People
>> People are lower skill are
overestimating themselves because
they're squished to the center and
people are higher skill are
underestimating themselves because
they're squished in the center.
>> Okay, so is the Dunning Krueger effect
[ __ ] Well, that's the this is the
incredibly unsatisfying thing. I told
you how the Dunning Krueger effect might
just be a mathematical artifact. It
might just be rational actors, but we
can't tell the difference. It's so hard
to tell. So I I can't even be positive
there's no Denny Krueger effect because
I'm just saying like these results have
two other interpretations and we can't
tell which one it is.
>> Is it irrationality? Is it a
mathematical artifact? Or is it rational
actors being basian reasoners? Um but I
will tell you something funny that we
observed. I do think there's some
irrationality going on and that's
because you could see in these plots. So
we you know we ran our own study and we
got these plots and we looked at a bunch
of others from other studies. What you
see is that there tends to be the line
tends to be too high. On average, people
overestimate their abilities. And I
think that is a pretty robust finding.
And so I think this better than average
effect that people tend to overestimate
how good they are on average. I think
that is true. And that is a form of
irrational. It's not a Vancouver effect,
but it it is a form of rationality. Of
course, it's not true for everyone. Like
depressed people might underestimate
their abilities, but on average, right?
So that's one thing. The other thing
that's really peculiar about these
curves is they tend to be really flat.
In other words, you might think, well,
as you get out, get better and better,
you know, you have a slope of one. Like,
for every unit of increased skill, you
go up by one unit in prediction. It
tends to not be what you see. Like, it's
really flat where like the people who
are really good think they're only like
a little bit better than the people who
are not very good. And the extreme
flatness I find very suspicious. It
makes it hard for me to believe people
are being rational because it like how
could you really have so little evidence
about your skill, right? like, you know,
it seems like people actually have a lot
of evidence of like how good they are at
driving or, you know, how intelligent
they are or, you know, etc., etc. And
yet there's very flat slopes, meaning
that the people who are really good
think they're not that much better than
everyone else. And actually, the
funniest example of this is there's a
study asking people to rate how
attractive they are on a like a, you
know, 0 to 10 scale. And they also had
third parties rate how attractive they
are on a zero to 10 scale. It's
ridiculously flat. Like almost everyone
thinks they're between a six and a seven
on average. Like
The lowest attractiveness people on
average think they're like a six and
highest think they're like a seven. It's
like what is going on here? How is that
possible? But it's super Yeah, it seems
like people are weirdly under updating
on evidence
>> with the attractiveness thing. I get the
sense as opposed to something that's
more skill-based.
I think there is a there's going to be a
huge amount of sort of white coat
syndrome or whatever the equivalent is
of like, oh god, like who says it about
themselves that they're an eight out of
10? I'd better say a seven.
>> True. But an these are anonymous
surveys. So yeah, I agree. Like
definitely definitely if you're being
interviewed. Yeah. But most people would
like they don't want to seem arrogant.
>> Social desiraability [ __ ] going on.
Yeah. I don't know. Well, I mean maybe
that's just I I I get the sense that
maybe with things like self-rated
attractiveness.
Um it is so enshed socially that even if
you do, it's anonymous. No one's ever
going to see. The metadata has been
wiped. we don't know your IP address. Um
it there's just this sort of it feels
like someone's watching you over your
shoulder when you think about doing
that.
>> Well, you know what's so strange is that
people tend to self assort by
attractiveness. So they must on some
implicit level have a sense of their
attractiveness, right? Like I mean like
how often when people date are they
dating someone who's like pretty close
to their attractive like it's usually
>> it's almost always. It's almost always
even in even in relationships that are
supposedly looks for wealth trades. Even
when you've got the sugar daddy with the
Playboy model, like most of the time
when you actually look at those
relationships, they actually end up
starting to match in terms of
attractiveness. Mac and Murphy did a a
great breakdown about this. He does a
species podcast. He's great. And um
yeah, it was it's fascinating. It's
really really fascinating that people
just seem so I have a I have a really
really spicy theory about this actually
which is
um one of the reasons that there's many
many many many reasons about why people
aren't coupling up. One of the spicier
ones that I've got is that with
increasing levels of obesity, with
calorie rich foods and hyper palatable,
hyperprocessed stuff going everywhere,
everybody is becoming a little bit
bigger. And there has to be a line below
which even if you are also a three, a
three just isn't that attractive to you.
And I wonder whether there's kind of a
lower a lower bracket to attractiveness
that people are just not prepared or
they're less prepared, let's say, uh to
uh to get into a relationship with even
if that's your level. Like, but then
there's also this sort of uh lagging
indicator of where you know that you
should be. Well, that's not who I am
underneath. Like I've gained weight a
little bit recently, but they've really
gained weight. And it's like, no, dude,
you've gained the same amount of weight
that she has or whatever. Um, but yeah,
I I uh I think it's fascinating to see
what happens if you And I guess body
weight is probably one of the reliable
ways that you could step in and adjust
uh levels of desiraability kind of
populationwide. That's not to say that
you can't have people that are bigger
that aren't beautiful, but you know what
I mean in terms of desiraability. Uh
it's just what are some of the things
that have happened across the board?
Like I don't know if the ozone layer
above America got disintegrated and
everybody had leathery skin or something
like that. Like what what's something
that's happening in a relatively sort of
global at least like populationwide
level that's impacting um appearance and
this is one of the I guess interventions
unfortunate uh experiments that's kind
of being run.
>> So it's like it's like decreasing
baseline how attractive people are to
each other. That's across the board.
It's interesting, you know, um Ayah, the
sex researcher, did a really interesting
study, uh where she found she could get
people to more accurately indicate their
own attractiveness level by having them
compare themselves to people of their
own gender. So, she actually developed a
scale of faces that were like people
were, you know, faces where people rated
them a one on average, two or three, a
four. And then she said, "Where do you
rate rank like rank yourself against
these faces?" And people were actually
more accurate than when they had to put
it on like an objective scale
themselves. M okay. What do people
consistently get wrong about personality
disorders? You mentioned earlier on
about narcissism and BPDs, stuff like
that. Where where do we not understand
personality disorders very well?
>> Yeah, great question. Um, so this is
something I've been deep diving a lot on
recently. I actually did a series of
interviews from our podcast with a
narcissist, a sociopath, someone with
borderline. Um, so just search Clear
Thinking on your podcast app if you want
to check that out. But um I think it's
actually like a surprisingly important
topic because almost certainly unless
you're like really kind of a hermit, you
know people with personality disorders,
right? So if we think about even just
three personality disorders, we think
narcissistic personality disorder, um
antisocial personality disorder, also
like known as sociopathy casually and uh
borderline like each of them is is
estimated to be more than 1% of the
population. So you know you know 100
people you there's a good chance you
know someone with one or more
personality disorder. And I think they
also while there absolutely people with
personality disorders are good people
and not harmful these they tend to have
have an elevated risk of causing harm to
others like a very substantially
elevated risk especially if you end up
in a romantic relationship or a business
relationship or they're your best friend
or that kind of thing or family member.
So I think it is useful and important to
understand these disorders. Um, I think
the first like big misconception is that
people confuse like traits with the
disorders. You know, people think, you
know, a lot of people be like, "Oh, my
exartner was a narcissist or my boss is
a narcissist or my boss is a sociopath
or whatever." And I think it's important
to understand that like these are these
are trait based things, right? That
narcissism is a trait, grandiosity is a
trait, you know, manipuliveness is a
trait. And so, everyone kind of is
somewhere on the spectrum of these
traits. And most people who are like
somewhat narcissistic or somewhat, you
know, manipulative or not, they don't
have the disorder. And I think that's so
I think on the first on the one hand
they're like often overdiagnosed like
people are like accusing others of
having them when they usually don't. On
the other hand the people that do have
them often go overlooked and like people
actually don't realize that they have
them and that sometimes comes at
incredible cost.
>> So they're both being uh overdiagnosed
and underdiagnosed at the same time.
>> Exactly. Exactly. And you know, I think
one thing that contributes a little bit
here, if you think about, let's say,
someone with narcissistic personality
disorder,
if you really get to the core of like
their underlying motivations, which is
how I like to think about it, I think
what they're really driving towards
fundamentally is attention and
admiration as sort of like their highest
value or drive and uh and thinking of
themselves as special and better than
other people. And if you think about it
that way, you realize that their
behaviors are not necessarily what
people would expect of a narcissist. And
so, let me give you an example. Suppose
that someone says, "Hey, Chris, that's a
really cool watch. Like, I really like
it. Where'd you get it?" Right? You
might you might think of that as sort of
like a nice thing to say, right? An
altruistic kind of thing to say. But
what do you think is likely to happen
after someone gives you let's suppose
you like actually care about your watch,
right? What do you think is likely to
happen after that?
>> You care about your watch more. that you
tell them, maybe they go and buy it as
well.
>> Yeah. So, that's on your side, but also
like you probably feel kind of good
about that person, right? That's like a
nice thing.
>> Oh, of course. Yeah. Pro-social. What a
lovely compliment. Thanks, Spencer.
Yeah. I love this watch. I'm glad that
you noticed.
>> And how do you think that affects the
likelihood that you compliment them
later?
>> Uh, yes, yes, yes, yes. So, it's this
sort of reciprocal debt that you need to
pay.
>> Exactly. Because they love admiration
and attention and feeling special. So
>> flattering, even even though that
doesn't seem like the sort of thing that
somebody who is a narcissist would do,
flattery is a tool that they can use to
reciprocally get that back.
>> Yes. And I think it's useful to think of
like obviously people have different
skill levels, but it's useful to think
of a lot of people with narcissistic
personality disorder as experts in
getting admiration and attention. So
they're not using like some of them use
really like crude methods or just brag,
you know, really boldly and, you know,
and obnoxiously, but they're experts in
getting admiration and attention. So,
they do sly subtle things. They give you
really nice compliments that make you
feel special and make you like them and
then make you give them a compliment
later, right? I'll give you I'll give
you another example. My friend was
dating um a narcissist and uh we were
talking about him and she's like, you
know, it's I mean, he was just textbook
like everything, you know, clearly a
narcissist, but she was saying, you
know, the thing is that like I felt like
he wasn't a narcissist because he would
give away all this money anonymously to
charity. And I was like, that's really
interesting. How did you know about
that?
So he would literally constantly brag
about his anonymous donations. So
>> it's no longer anonymous.
>> Yeah. It but it worked like like it
somehow worked, right? Where she was
like persuaded by this that he must not
be narcissistic.
>> And so I think that like if you think
about them being savvy at this, it
really changes your perspective. And it
it makes you realize that they're a lot
harder to pick up on than a lot of
people realize. And that's why people
often misidentify, right? And in fact,
there was a fascinating study where they
measured people's narcissism and had
them give like a just a two-minute
speech about themselves, like introduce
yourself to the whole room. And they
asked people to rate how likable people
were. And what do you think happened?
>> The narcissists were more likable.
>> The narcissists were more likable. In
fact, not only were they more likable,
they were even more likable if they cut
out the audio. So people like they had
people watch videos, they cut out the
audio, they were still more likable.
Their facial expressions were more
likable. Their clothing was more
likable.
>> M
>> like they're they're like experts in
being liable.
>> Curated themselves.
>> Exactly. But they people's impression of
them does tend to fall over time, right?
Cuz you know it's a bit of a mask,
right?
>> Mhm.
>> It's like they're trying to get
>> slip eventually.
>> Yeah. Yeah. And so I think I think um I
think it's really important to know when
you're dealing with someone with
narcissistic personality disorder. It
doesn't mean you should necessarily cut
them out of your life. It doesn't mean
they're a bad person necessarily, but I
think you should know it is it's an
extremely elevated risk to causing harm.
And then you should take that seriously
and say, "Do I want this person in my
life?" And if you do want them in your
life, it also is helpful to know because
it actually can help you relate to them
much more effectively
>> if you understand the way that their
minds operate.
>> What about sociopathy and BPD?
>> Yeah. So, sociopathy. Uh, so I used to
never be able to identify sociopaths
until about three years ago and
something suddenly clicked and I I meet
them like all the time. It's absolutely
wild. Like I almost can't believe how
often I meet them. I was at a party like
three months ago. I met two sociopaths
at the party. Now you might say,
"Spencer, maybe you're full of [ __ ] How
do you know they're sociopaths?" Well,
>> I I'll tell you. Do you want to know how
I know they're sociopaths?
>> Yes. Yes. Yes. I take them aside and I
say, "Hey, I know this is a weird
question, but have you ever considered
the possibility that you have antisocial
personality disorder?" And do you know
what they say to me? They always say
something very similar.
>> No. What do they say?
>> They say no emotional reaction. They
say, "I have considered that."
>> Yeah. But we have a convers.
>> No, I'm just saying it to people. I
think you're supposed.
>> So, what's the what's the lead
indicator? What's the indicator that
happened before?
>> Yeah. So, here's the funny thing. You
might think it's like, "Oh, I must be
noticing that they're, you know, acting
manipulative or callously, right, or
whatever." It's very rarely that
actually. It's I think the best way to
think of sociopaths is it's like imagine
there were aliens that look just like
humans, right? Obviously, they're not
aliens. They're humans, but their their
minds operate so differently that it's
like they're aliens. So, how would you
tell someone was an alien, right? You
would notice that they said something
that like what no human would say. It's
just like out of the distribution of
human behavior. That's actually what I
notice. And I don't think they're a
sociopath in media. It's not like I'm
like, "Oh, they did something so unusual
that they're a sociopath." What I'm I
like my obsession is human psychology.
So when I notice someone do something
like where I'm like I would predict like
essentially zero people would ever do
that thing and this person just did that
thing,
>> I like become really curious. I start
asking them questions and then that's
when I develop the theory that I ask him
about it. Um so let me give you an
example. talking to a guy at a
conference. We were talking about how
sometimes you can feel emotions in your
body. And I was like, "Oh, do you ever
feel emotions in your body?" He's like,
"Yes." One time I was driving down the
highway and a refrigerator fell out of
the back of the truck, smashed in my
windshield, and I felt something in my
stomach.
And I was like, "Uh, what?"
So, I didn't think this is so bad. I was
just like, "What is going on? This is
not a psychology I'm familiar with." And
then, you know, we talked about it for a
while. And then, you know, then he
eventually came out that he keeps a list
of everyone who's wronged him. And once
a month he checks it to see if he can
hurt any of those people in ways that
take very little effort because he
wouldn't want to expend a lot of effort
to hurt them. But if there's a loweffort
way he can hurt them, then then he might
as well because they hurt him.
>> Wow.
Okay. Yeah. I mean, that's that's a
slightly brighter red flag than
>> Well, yeah. Exactly. But he would
probably wouldn't say that in just the
normal conversation, right? So it's
usually usually what happens is there's
this thread of wow this person like
seems like an alien like they don't seem
like a human like there's something they
said that's so unusual and then that's
the thread that I pull on and then
eventually yeah um I actually like
hanging out with sociopaths way more
than narcissists uh
>> why
>> they just tend to be well no the thing I
think the fundamental thing is that
narcissists they tend to make everything
about their ego and as much as they can
so everything's being redirected back to
their ego and I just find that like very
uninteresting it's actually pretty
exhausting as well as opposed to someone
who's a sociopath who you're not going
to trust but is kind of fascinating at a
distance.
>> Exactly. Yeah. And the soc Yeah. The
sociopath, you know, they're like when
I, for example, when I interviewed um
the sociopath, she describes it almost
like she doesn't even know who her
fundamental self is. Like she is like a
shell and she's like learn to blend in
so you like think that she's just like
you. But it's like this practice thing
over years like I've asked sociopaths
like do you like watching movies? Cuz
like I don't know without empathy like
if you don't like have empathy for the
characters like do you is what are you
interested in?
>> Exactly. And they tell me they love
movies because they teach them how to
behave. Like one sociopath is saying
that he learned that if your friend's
dad dies you have to you you have to
make a sad face and then say I'm so
sorry.
>> It's like someone's read a handbook on
how to be a human.
>> Yeah. And I think this is where we can
differentiate between low functioning
and high functioning sociopaths that low
functioning ones often have struggle to
fit in like they don't learn those
skills. They, you know, they they don't
get adept and so they they constantly
have this jarring thing where they're
like they're ostracized and people don't
like them and whatever. And then the
high functioning ones like the ones you
meet in a boardroom, the ones you meet,
you know, in a courtroom or the one, you
know, as as the lawyer, not the the the
convicted felon, um, they tend to be
really good at blending in, right?
They've worked their whole life at
blending in. What's the difference
between sociopath and psychopath?
>> Yeah, that's a great question. So,
unfortunately the terms are like all
messy and all over the place. Um,
technically psychopath is like not in
the DSM5 which is a diagnostic and
cysical manual. No, nor sociopath. The
technical term is antisocial personality
disorder and it tends to focus more on
like the outward signs like
manipuliveness and violating the rights
of others whereas I tend to focus more
on like what the internal experience is
because I think it gives a deeper sense
of like who they are. Um, sometimes
sociopath is used to refer to less
severe forms of the disorder where
psychopaths is the more severe forms.
Sometimes sociopaths are thought to be
more like hotaded and emotional where
psychopath is more cold-blooded. Um, and
then there's also something called the
the psychopath checklist which is
sometimes used as a scale to measure
like really severe levels. It's used in
prisons and stuff like that, but
unfortunately the terms are really not
standardized and the sociopaths I've
talked to tend to sort of use them
interchangeably.
>> Right. Okay.
Can you think of
how
narcissism or sociopathy is adaptive? Is
this a spandrel? Is this a weird
byproduct of stuff or is this an
adaptive trait that we needed at some
point?
>> It's a great question and I it's
obviously hard to know for sure. I'll
tell you my speculation.
Narcissists tend to be good at getting
admiration and attention. And I think
that that actually sets people up to be
leaders and to get everyone to rally
around them. And so I think that they're
way over represented among politicians.
I think they're way over represented
among uh like people are in the public
spotlight, leaders of all all different
sorts. And I think it cuts both ways. On
the one hand, they tend to be drawn to
those kind of positions because that's
what they want. Um they also though I
think tend to be better at it because
they're like practiced their whole life
getting admiration and attention right
they also are over represented among
cult leaders and so I think we have like
the negative archetype of a narcissist
as a cult leader like it's everything is
about themselves and they want to be
worshiped like a god the positive
archetype of a narcissist would be like
a visionary CEO who's maybe willing to
like doesn't care so much about you know
the well-being of their employees
because they have this bigger vision of
this grandio vision but they they end up
playing a very positive role in society
because they they bring in something
>> their self their self-belief and their
desire to achieve things in the world
will have some negative externalities.
But if either by design or by fluke they
were pointing in a direction which is a
net benefit for humanity overall you end
up with them being like kind of
antisocial and manipulative on route and
you end up with a question there of
whether or not the ends justify the
means to get there.
>> Yeah. And you can think of it as someone
who's like they're devoted to that
grandiose vision rather than you know
the people around them or right things
like that. And sometimes that greatest
vision ushers in something really
important, right? I I think they really
can rally people and get people moving
in the same direction which is also why
they make great cole leaders and harm a
lot of people. Right.
>> What about sociopathy?
>> Yeah. So let me ask you a question.
Imagine you're living in a tribe of 100
people, you know, 50,000 years ago. When
would you want a sociopath in your tribe
and when would you not?
Um
maybe
when there is some sort of fracturing
internally, some sort of mutiny,
treacherous kind of gamesmanship type
thing, and you need somebody that can
shapeshift and do the kind of political
gamesman thing back and forth.
Uh psychopath,
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again, the definitions are kind of
messy. Um perhaps when there was a war I
guess as well you need to be conniving
and and and manipulative with basically
anytime that there's a rivalous game
going on either internally or externally
and you need someone that can play that
and uh not have any empathy or um
hesitation around [ __ ] other people
over.
>> I think I think that's astute, right?
Like imagine for example there's you're
surrounded by a bunch of tribes. They
hate you. They want to kill you. They
might just come and like kill you all
or, you know, rape the women or
whatever. Like, but there's a sociopath
in your team who doesn't want them to
come kill you. And you're like, "Yeah,
that sociopath might just go and
assassinate their leader and not think
twice about think about it." Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah.
>> Like just I'll just go over I'll just go
over and kill them, you know? And it's
like, wow, actually that's pretty useful
to have on your team. But imagine you're
in peace time, right? Like everyone's
planting the fields and things are good.
Like do you want that sociopath? You
know, it's a little bit like having a
wolf with a bunch of sheep, right? Like
the sociopath is gonna it's like
probably not doing their part.
>> The sociopath is is being wartime
manipulative during peace. And that's
not really what you need. Well, I mean,
I guess who's to say that the sociopath
would actually they're kind of like, you
know what a sociopath's kind of like?
They're kind of like a misaligned AI.
They're kind of like a a a relatively
powerful
agent that you just don't know what
direction they're pointing in because
who's to say that during a time of what
we've seen it in movies and stuff a lot,
but there is a a distraction that
creates a vacuum of leadership
internally and someone as opposed to
trying to help the tribe by using their
sociopathy against the opposition, they
use it internally to try and capture
power for themselves.
because this is a a turbulent moment
where they can step in and ascend to the
top.
>> Yeah, I'll tell you something. A top VC
in Silicon Valley told me this. I don't
know why he told me this. He told me he
likes to fund small startups and
sociopaths as leaders, but then he kicks
them out when the company becomes big.
And he said it's because when it's a
smaller company, the sociopaths like
interests are very aligned with like the
startup succeeding
and they're willing to make like really
brutal cutthroat decisions. Mhm.
>> But when it gets big, they actually
benefit most by just extracting value
from the the company itself.
>> Whereas the small startup doesn't have
value to extract. And so I like it's
like crazy. He like I he essentially
find sociopaths and it kicks them out of
their companies. Dude, I mean, look, if
you want to use sociopaths as the launch
pad booster rocket to get your heavy
load off the out of orbit and then you
actually switch to a cleaner fuel source
once you get up into the atmosphere, I
guess.
Uh, yeah, that's that's an interesting
one. I had this idea, I guess. I wonder
whether we're over pathologizing
difficult people as disordered rather
than just unpleasant. It's like how many
people are just [ __ ] unpleasant to be
around.
>> That's absolutely true. I mean, the vast
majority of people like kind of a dick
or unpleasant. They don't have a they
don't have a personality disorder,
right?
>> They're just, you know, a bit of a
narcissist or they're a bit of a dick or
they're or they're just like dealing
with their own [ __ ] and then like they
put it out on you because they don't
have good emotional regulation skills,
right? So, it's it is a lot of that. And
like we're really talking here about
extreme personality types like really
really extreme
>> where you you know it's something I
thought a lot about like is it even
useful having these categories right if
these are all traits that are on a
spectrum my suspicion is that what
happens is as you get more and more
extreme it starts to dominate more and
more of their behavior. So if someone's
a little narcissistic, they may not have
that much in common with other little
bit narcissistic people, right? Because
they have so many other things going on.
But if like narcissism actually drives
like is their fundamental drive in life,
they actually might behave really
similar to other narcissist because
they're kind of like guided by the same
north star. So I think that's what
happens. That's why I think these
categories are useful at the real
extreme. you start noticing so many
similarities across across that
>> because this I it's if someone is 99%
made of custard, it's okay to say that
you are custard, but if you're only sort
of 65% made of custard, it's like, well,
I'm kind of interested in what the other
35% of that is.
>> Yeah, exactly.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Custard analogies. You
weren't thinking I was going to go there
today. Um,
>> dude, your work's so [ __ ] good.
you're like the only guy I know that's
doing this stuff. And uh it's just as
well that you've got the obsession
because I don't think that anybody else
would be prepared to put up with the
level of like fiddliness that you have
to do in order to be able to test this
stuff. So everyone needs to check out
all of the [ __ ] that you've got going on
where the links will be posted around,
but where do you want them to go to?
>> Oh, thank you so much. Yeah, so I have a
new YouTube channel. Would love for you
to check it out. Subscribe if you find
it interesting. Just search uh Spencer
Greenberg on YouTube. my podcast, Clear
Thinking with Spencer Grieber. Search it
at any podcast app and our website
clearthinking.org. We have so much so
much stuff. We have over 80 tools you
can use on there for all kinds of
things. Uh forming healthy habits. We've
got a tool actual cognitive assessment
tool. So if you want to assess your
cognitive abilities, strengths and
weaknesses. So lots of stuff on there.
>> Dude, you're king. Until next time, get
some more studies done and uh let's run
this back soon.
>> Thanks so much, Chris.
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