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Ignore Successful People’s Advice - Alex Hormozi

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Alex Hormozi opens his discussion with a critical command to use advice selectively, urging listeners to ask successful people what they did at their own starting point rather than where they are now. He emphasizes that content should be viewed as a documentary showing reality rather than a sermon dictating dogma, meaning strategies must evolve if the creator's mindset changes. A core principle he advocates is modeling success for those who want it and plateauing for those seeking stability; blindly adopting high-level tactics like Warren Buffett making one good decision to get rich ignores the specific sequence of events that led there. Hormozi argues against conflating variables, noting that actions taken after achieving wealth or energy do not cause them, a logical fallacy often found in motivational manifestos and manifestation culture that leads people astray without providing actionable value. The central narrative of his argument revolves around discerning signal from noise to translate amorphous advice into concrete action. Hormozi believes the greatest skill is identifying what aspects of someone's success are generalizable versus those dependent on specific conditions, a nuance often missed by entrepreneurs who simply copy others without understanding their context. He illustrates this with an anecdote about a gym owner who applied a price raise strategy that worked for service-based gyms to his own facility usage business, resulting in the loss of 90% of members because he ignored the fundamental difference between selling sessions and renting equipment. This example underscores how winners find silver linings even in terrible experiences by adapting principles rather than complaining about their failure or blindly following a rule that doesn't fit their specific circumstances. Hormozi draws on his background in alternative education to highlight that while some industries have bad reputations, the fundamentals of persuasion and sales are powerful tools regardless of what is being sold. He references Andrew Wilkinson's tweet comparing every entrepreneur claiming success to winning lottery tickets with fixed numbers, asserting that there is no single path like copying Hormozi or Williamson; instead, one must apply generalizable principles with nuance to their specific situation. His personal track record involves purchasing only courses and services from which he received exceptional returns because he could extract useful information while discarding the rest, a process akin to using Harry Potter's Sword of Gryffindor made of dwarven steel that absorbs poison rather than being destroyed by it. Ultimately, Hormozi concludes that failure often stems from an inability to make things work in one's specific context rather than the advice itself being invalid, leading people to complain instead of adapting. He suggests that buyer resistance is so high in markets like insurance or coaching that mastering these fundamentals allows for success even when selling products with a negative vibe. The ability to pause and observe before acting, coupled with the discernment to map general principles onto individual realities, has provided him disproportionate returns on his life. By focusing on behavior over vague motivation and treating advice as raw material to be refined rather than scripture, individuals can navigate the noise of success stories to build their own winning strategies without falling into the trap of assuming a linear path that does not exist for everyone.
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You should ask somebody what they did when they were at the stage that you were at, not where they are now. There's so many things I want to respond to. So number one, my my embedded command to everyone is use if useful. Use if useful. Number one. Number two, this is a documentary, not a sermon. This is a showing, you know, like at least my content is like this is me showing what's going on. And I try to be real. And that means that if I change my mind, then it'll change. Third, model the rise if you want the rise. Model the plateau if you want the plateau. And so saying, "Oh, you know, Warren Buffett says he had a great year if he only makes one good decision." It's like saying, "Oh, to get rich, I should fly private." Doesn't really work that way. I should play basketball. I want to get tall. It's you're you're you're conflating variables, right? I should I should go to the gym once I have energy. I should start saving money once I'm rich. Uh like that's when I'll do it. It's just it just conflates sequence, right? It's a when fallacy. Um and so I think the the man I I haven't talked about this in in I don't I don't even know if I've ever talked about this. The greatest skill is the ability to discern what things to use and what things to cast out. It is the is it is the the the central narrative of noise versus signal. And the reason that I've spent such a disproportionate amount of time focused on behavior was because there's so much noise that if people cannot translate their quote advice into what I should do, then there's nothing useful about it. Which is why I think the density of useful information uh people I think people are blood hounds for value. Um but I think that value gets translated most in the most crystallized distilled concentrated manner when it can be translated into do this instead of that. Period. And everything else the amorphous words that people use especially the you know the motivation manifesto the the the or just manifestation we'll get into that one. Uh people get triggered on that. um that is what leads more people astray. And so they take the entirety of someone and without all of the other conditions that apply to that person and say, "Oh, I will take this and apply it to my life." And if you cannot pull out what is useful for you, you will never win. And that is a really strong statement, but because all you're going to be doing is trying to and I love this is my favorite tweet that I've heard from um Andrew Wilkinson from Tiny Here are the numbers for my winning lottery ticket. Every entrepreneur explaining how they were successful. And so like the next Google isn't a search engine, right? The best version of your life isn't copying Hormosi or copying Williamson. It's being able to with nuance apply the principles that are generalizable across domains but then having the wherewithal yeah the discernment to apply the nuance to your specific circumstance and being able to map those two things I think is the skill that has got me the disproportionate return on my life. I have bought and I've been public about this. I've been, you know, very the earlier part of my career is very involved in what I would consider the alternative education, you know, space, right? People, you know, the the courses, the the world that has, I would say, a relatively bad reputation. But I have yet in my life to have purchased anything from anyone that I have not had an exceptional return from. And is that because of them or is that because of me? Who knows? But I can say that when I even had bad experiences, I could say these are all the things that I will not do to a customer. And then I have my notebook of the the crinkled can and the end that's off the center. And that ability to observe and pause before immediately taking action. Like there are some people that I have met where I know I'll tell you this story because it's it's heartbreaking. I've helped a lot of gyms in my career is, you know, probably my second season of entrepreneurship. Um, one of the things that we'll do to a gym to make it more profitable is we, you know, we adjust pricing. Sometimes we send a price raise letter and this, you know, this thing's tested. We that, we've done it hundreds of times. A guy, you know, reaches out and said, "Hey, I did your the whole price raise and 90% of my members left." And I was like, "What? Like what h like how what happened?" And so he explained that he had a $29 a month gym and then he raised it to $200 a month. That only works when you're a service business, not a what I consider a facility usage business where you're just like $10 a month crunch and it's just like you can use the gym whatever you want. You have equipment. My model was for people who had trainers and who who were teaching, you know, classes or sessions or semi-privates. And so in those instances, if you're at 99 and you go to to $200, you're not going to lose half your customers. You might lose a third, but you still make more money, have more profit, etc. But he had taken what is otherwise something that has made so many gyms profitable and successful and he applied it to a specific context. Now he says, I'm a gym owner. He said gym stuff. Why did but then what happens is for you and I or anybody who wants to make content if I were to say okay under these situations under this part you know particular context if you have a decent relationship with your customers and you have ongoing communication then you can say it's like you you don't it takes 10 minutes of disclaimers to get to the point right and so then this is why fundamentally like winners will always win because they will still be able to find you know the the silver lining even in the terrible experiences that will make them better And my favorite my favorite visualization of the type of person that I want to be is and this is a a Harry Potter reference. Uh but the sword of Gryffindor uh was made of dwarfven steel and dwarfven steel in the in the mythology of Harry Potter um could only take in that which made it stronger. And so it's not to say that the sword of Gryffindor couldn't cut butter or couldn't you know uh just get into a sword fight but if it happens to you know kill a basilisk then it will absorb the poison of the basilisk. And so like so many people lose because they want to prove that this too did not work when in reality it was that you don't know how to make it work and it has been easier for you to complain and say this did not work the way that I would prefer right rather than like how can I make this work for me how can I turn this into something that has been that can still be a W. And I think that one skill has probably been the single unlock that I've been able to have because like I I learned these alternative, you know, the this this alternative world of education of like how do you sell? How do you how do you run ads? How do you how do you sell, you know, courses, how do you do coaching, all this stuff that has a really negative kind of vibe. But the thing is is the fundamentals of persuasion there are so powerful. They were just being used to sell stuff that's not good. But the thing is is that there's so much buyer resistance there that if you can sell stuff in that market, when you go to sell insurance, you murder. And so I think people fail to take into consideration the context of the person who's given the advice and what piece is useful that they should use and the rest you can cast away. In other news, this episode is brought to you by Momentous. If your workouts feel flat, your recovery is slow, or you've just been feeling off, it might not be your training plan or diet. It might be something a bit more boring like your testosterone. So, if you're not performing well in the gym or the bedroom, or you just want to improve your testosterone naturally, tonatali is a fantastic researchbacked place to start. 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