How to Start Over When You Don’t Know What to Do | Allison Maslan on Impact Theory
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In this episode of Impact Theory, Allison Maslan shares her journey from a young gymnast to an entrepreneur with ten successful companies across diverse industries like beauty, software, and homeopathy. Her approach is deeply rooted in understanding that success requires more than brute force; it demands uncovering the underlying mechanisms of business and personal growth. A central theme of her philosophy is "pushing the edge," which she learned from a five-generation circus family where dedication and persistence are paramount. Maslan explains that breakthroughs occur when individuals push their limits, creating new pathways for themselves much like how Nadia Comăneci's first perfect score in gymnastics opened doors for others to follow suit. She emphasizes that overnight success is often an illusion masking twenty years of unseen effort, urging listeners to commit to long-term dedication rather than seeking quick fixes. Maslan introduces the concept of "stuckness," a state where individuals or businesses hit walls despite having traction, preventing them from achieving their full potential. Drawing on her background as a homeopathic physician, she argues that fear and panic must be addressed by finding their root cause in early life experiences rather than just treating symptoms. She uses the metaphor of a burning house to illustrate this point: banging fire alarms won't extinguish a blaze; one must reach the ember at its source. Similarly, overcoming stuckness requires digging into unconscious drivers formed between ages three and seven that dictate 90% to 96% of our actions. By identifying these core issues, individuals can move from a state of paralysis to action, realizing that their current struggles are often rooted in past conditioning rather than present reality. A pivotal moment in Maslan's life occurred when she was running over by her car after forgetting to pick up her daughter, an event that served as a massive wake-up call leading her out of an unhappy marriage and into single motherhood with no money but immense passion. This experience birthed the "Hell Yes or No Way" principle, which dictates that opportunities must align perfectly with one's values and desires; if it is not a resounding yes, it should be rejected to avoid settling for less than what brings true fulfillment. She stresses that clarity arises when internal feelings, actions, and beliefs are in alignment, eliminating the constant battle of living two different lives. To achieve this clarity, she suggests engaging in creative activities like painting or gardening to clear the mind, allowing one to reconnect with talents loved since childhood and passions that fuel persistence through difficult times. Self-care is another critical component of Maslan's methodology, particularly after her traumatic accident highlighted the dangers of burnout. She advocates for a holistic approach involving sleep, fitness, and homeopathy, noting that the body cannot hold two like diseases simultaneously; treating one often resolves others naturally. Her regimen includes maintaining seven to seven-and-a-half hours of sleep as a night owl, exercising with the same trainer for over twenty years, and strictly doing only what brings happiness unless it is necessary work toward a meaningful goal. Furthermore, she highlights the power of storytelling in reshaping identity from victimhood to empowerment, teaching that while we cannot change past events, we can decide their meaning and use our journey as a tool to connect with others rather than remaining trapped in old narratives or family dynamics. Ultimately, Maslan's mission is to elevate consciousness through business by helping entrepreneurs break through barriers one at a time, ultimately impacting millions of lives. She believes that business owners are the true change-makers who innovate in health, technology, and environment, but they must first master themselves to lead effectively. Her book serves as an instructional manual rather than fluff-filled inspiration, providing concrete steps for scaling businesses while maintaining personal well-being. By combining tenacity with flexibility, asking for help when needed, and staying grounded through practices like meditation or trapeze flying, individuals can build resilient lives that withstand challenges. Maslan concludes by affirming that persistence is simply stubbornness dressed up as determination, a trait essential for anyone seeking to execute their dreams regardless of the industry they choose to serve.
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You know, if your house is burning down,
you're not going to just bang the fire
alarms. That's not going to put the fire
out. You have to get to that burning
ember. So, if someone is having fear or
panic or worry, get to When was the
first time you felt this way? What was
really going on in your life
at that time? To show them that that's
not what's happening now.
Hey everybody, welcome to Impact Theory.
Our goal with this show and company is
to introduce you to the people and ideas
that will help you actually execute on
your dreams.
All right, Entrepreneur Magazine called
today's guest an entrepreneurial force.
She started building companies when she
was just 19 and now already has 10
successful companies under her belt.
Proving her brand of success can be
replicated, she's built businesses
around her passions across a stunningly
diverse array of industries, including
the beauty space, homeopathy, education,
software, and jewelry manufacturing. The
key to her success, she knows business.
Realizing that there just weren't enough
hours in the day to solve every problem
through brute force, she dedicated
herself to understanding the mechanisms
that underlie any successful business.
These insights allowed her not only to
build her own mind-blowing string of
winning companies, but it also turned
her into one of the most potent
executors and advisers on the planet.
Through her different endeavors, she has
serviced or guided some of the largest
companies in the world, including
Fortune 500 behemoths such as Allstate,
Merrill Lynch, Ben & Jerry's, Supercuts,
and many, many more. Her more than three
decades worth of experience in scaling
companies has seen her covered by
virtually every credible news outlet
there is. She's been featured by Forbes,
Success, NBC, CBS, and CNN to name but a
few. And Self-Made Magazine recently
named her one of the top women
entrepreneurs who inspire. So, please
help me in welcoming the best-selling
author of Blast Off and Scale or Fail,
the trapeze artist with nearly 20 years
of high-flying experience, the business
whisperer herself, Alison Maslin.
How you doing?
That was great.
So good to have you.
Oh my goodness.
I'm excited to be here.
Awesome. I'm excited to have you. So, I
had heard, even before we met, I'd heard
about your trapeze experience, which is
pretty insane. My wife had a chance to
try it, and she came back absolutely
raving about it. Why is that something
that you wanted to do, and you used it
as such a powerful metaphor in the book?
Why is it important, and how's it helped
you in business?
Well, I was a gymnast growing up, and at
that time I wasn't thinking about
business, but I had a gym coach that
built a set of uneven bars in my
backyard made out of plastic tubing.
And I used to flip around on those
things for hours and hours on end.
And so, as I became an adult and found
out you could actually fly on the
trapeze, I was all over it. And I found
a five-generation circus family, and
I've been training with them for 20
years.
Wow. Do they have like a life philosophy
or anything? Like a five-generation just
getting people to stick with something
that long is already pretty incredible.
Um have you picked anything up from
them?
Definitely. I mean, dedi- dedication,
commitment, persistence,
uh pushing the edge. And also, you know,
I've been doing it for 20 years and same
thing with business. It's not something
that you do overnight.
You might hear otherwise on the
internet, but
you know, it's that overnight success
story of that took 20 years. So,
Talk to me about pushing the edge. What
do they mean by that or what do you mean
by that?
I think pushing the edge is doing things
differently.
It is seeing how far you can go.
And I remember, you know, going back to
the gymnastics metaphor, when you think
of
people like Olga Korbut if
those remember and Nadia Comăneci.
At the time, nobody had ever scored a
perfect 10.
The thought that that could even be
done, they said was impossible.
And once Nadia Comăneci did that,
then there was another perfect 10 and
someone else did a perfect 10. So, every
time you can push your life a little bit
further,
there's a breakthrough and then there's
a door that opens and a whole new
pathway opens up.
It's really interesting. Talk to me
about what is it like the very first
time you're going to do the trapeze and
you're climbing up? What do you have to
deal with? What's running through your
mind?
Well, when I think back to that first
time, I was terrified.
And look, we're all human. We all have
fear. So, it's not about making the fear
go away. It's about facing the fear and
jumping through it. But when they said
hep, which means go,
my feet stuck to the platform and
it didn't go. I wasn't moving and so
somebody on the board just kicked me
off. Really literally put their foot
behind my knees and I was flying. But
once I got about halfway up in the air,
I was like, "Ooh, that's that familiar
feeling."
And from then I I was just hooked.
Okay, I have to ask. So,
we live in a world where I think we're
going to get a mixed reaction from them
kicking you onto the thing, but it
really excites me and I feel like that's
something that um a lot of people never
get that in their life and so they they
get stuck at that moment where they want
to do it, but just some primitive part
of their brain is saying absolutely not.
Um what do you think about that? Are you
glad they gave you that little kick?
Yeah.
I kick my clients all the time. I mean,
not uh literally.
[laughter]
Um
Yeah, see, okay, now we're just going to
get into really weird waters, but I find
that this is really fascinating and I
wonder myself. So, I had a moment not
quite that cool, but when I didn't want
to leave for college and my mom all but
kicked me out of the house and was like,
"You are going to go do this." Um and
and ended up being tremendously valuable
in my life and I've thanked her
profusely for refusing to let me back
down. How do you get your clients to
push it that? I'm sure that's something,
especially when it comes to business,
people are absolutely petrified of
either embarrassing themselves and
looking stupid or really losing money.
Yeah.
Um how do you help them over that hump?
Well, I really get to the core of what
is driving that and I actually give
credit to that as my life as a
homeopathic physician
That's interesting.
might get to that a little bit later.
But in homeopathy,
uh which is a holistic type of medicine
that treats the whole person, you have
to get to the core.
You know, if your house is burning down,
you're not going to just bang the fire
alarms. That's not going to put the fire
out. You have to get to that burning
ember. So, if someone is having fear or
panic or worry, get to when was the
first time you felt this way?
What was really going on in your life
at that time to show them that that's
not what's happening now. That's the
past because we are driven by our
unconscious mind. 90 96% of our actions
are from our unconscious mind which
develops in the first you know, 3 to 7
years of life.
So, we really need to get to that core.
If you just keep telling someone do it,
do it, do it,
they might do it for a little while, but
they're not going to stick with it.
Mhm. I'm deeply distressed by how much
of our what I call frame of reference is
determined that early in our life. Um is
that a formal part of your coaching?
Like do you really um track back and I
ask because if you do, I'd really love
to know um
what's the process of questions or
whatever that helps people identify
that. How often are people already aware
and they don't want to talk? And then
how often is it they really don't
realize that's what's driving them?
Most people don't realize it. I mean,
I'm sure I don't realize it in the
moment. It's not that you're going, "Oh,
well, that's an unconscious action and
that's a conscious action, right?" And I
think you've got to test the waters a
little bit. Some people are more open
than others.
But most people really want change in
their life. They want to have that
breakthrough. They don't want to be in
that stuck place.
And whether you're mentoring somebody,
you know, on their health or their
business, uh you know, it's
if you can help pull back the curtain
and help them see what they're capable
of and that it's, you know, just a few
steps in front of them, you know,
they're more willing to to work with you
on that.
Now, in your book you coin a phrase,
stuckness.
So, how do you one, is that just sort of
where people come to you at? Like you
know, okay, they're going to walk in the
door, they're going to be in a stuck
place. Um and then how do you get people
out of that? What's that kick to the
back of the legs that really forces
people to the other side?
Well, I get two types of clients. Ones
that, you know, are stuck and they've
just been hitting this wall for years.
You could be in business for 10 years,
20 years, and you had good traction for
a while, but you just can't get over
that wall. And every year, comes
December, they're looking at the P&L
going, here we are again. Or maybe just
incremental growth.
You know, or maybe the stuckness is
about, you know, just not really happy.
You know, I've got success, but is this
all there is?
And then there are those others that are
making good traction, but they want to
get to the top of the curve a lot
faster. Let's take that five-year plan
and get it done in a year.
And so, to get them unstuck, it's it
really is looking for each individual,
what are your obstacles?
You know, if you could choose one or two
things
that would just excite you to get them
out of the way,
what would they be? And really dive
right into that pain point. And work to,
you know, erase that.
What I love about the things that you
put forward in the book and the really
concrete, highly tactical way that you
walk people through things, obviously
comes from deep personal experience. Not
the least of which is this stuckness
notion. Walk us through um, running
yourself over with a car, which is
pretty fascinating. When I first heard
that, I was like, how do you do that?
And then how radically you allowed that
to shift your life.
Uh, my daughter was really young at the
time. I was in a really unhappy
marriage,
and I just felt like
I was being run around by my life.
Like I I just felt like I didn't have
choices at that point. And I I had a lot
of fear.
And one day
I think this is the day the universe
said, "We're really tired of you messing
around here, and we're just going to
give you a massive wake-up call."
And so it was like 3:30 or 4:00 in the
afternoon, and I'm with one of my
biggest ad clients. I'd been up almost
all night working on a campaign,
and I go, "Oh my god, I forgot to pick
up my daughter from daycare."
And you know, if anyone
uh uh
that is watching this has ever been the
last parent to pick up their child from
daycare, you know, it's kind of
um you know, I was racked with guilt.
And so I jump in the car, and all I'm
thinking of is I got to get my daughter.
I got to get my daughter. So I'm racing
to get her, and the driveway was like on
an incline like this at the daycare. I
jump out of the car, and I it starts
rolling back. It was a Ford Taurus.
It had really heavy doors,
and I jumped in like superwoman to try
to
push it back into park, and the door was
really heavy, knocked my feet out from
underneath me, and pulled me underneath
the car.
And the car pulled me It rolled over my
legs, and pulled me out into the middle
of the street.
And because the street kind of went up
like this, right when it got to the top,
which it was literally at my face,
it rolled back.
Mhm.
And that's really what saved my life.
And uh in that moment that I knew that I
was going to make it, I said, "That's
it."
You know, this is you know, either it's
a hell yes
or a no way. I'm out of here.
And I I said, "I have got to live a life
that I'm passionate about. I don't care
how much money that I make because this
is not success.
And I walked away from that business
with nothing, and I walked away from a
difficult marriage.
Set out in the world as a single mom,
no money,
no idea what I was going to do, and
really happier than I'd been in years.
Wow, that's phenomenal. What advice do
you have for people on the marriage side
that are in a similar situations not
working out anymore? Um
so many people stay in a relationship
because it they just cannot face the
either um acknowledging that they
couldn't make it work or the what if,
what if I never find love again, or you
know, whatever the scenario is that
they're playing in their head. What did
you learn through that experience that
you can pass on?
Yeah, I mean, it's actually was kind of
similar to the business because what I
would tell people is never settle in
your life.
And especially, you know, with business
or passion or opportunities, it's never
going to be the right time.
People stay in a in a career even that
they
hate for years cuz they're so afraid
of what's on the other side. I mean, in
a in a marriage, there's a little more I
I had a
have a beautiful daughter, and she was 7
years old. So, it was a big decision. We
did a lot of counseling. There was a lot
of processing.
And again, same thing. I really felt
like I gave it everything that I could.
And I don't regret it. I don't regret
that relationship. I That was my growing
up time. There were a lot of lessons. I
chose that relationship,
and I feel that I needed to go through
those things, that time, to bring me
where I am today, to give me the
resilience that I have today.
Yeah, resiliency that that's uh uh
probably one of the most important
traits that I think somebody can have if
they want to be successful at anything,
let alone being an entrepreneur.
Um
it's critical because that's the only
way that you're going to be able to
learn and keep pushing and you know,
bring together all the lessons that
you're learning to build something. Um
what would you say is the number one
trait that's made you successful?
Persistence.
Why persistence?
I say persistence is stubbornness all
dressed up.
Uh I was born stubborn.
Uh my mom will would definitely um
attest to that.
If I got something stuck in my head as a
kid, it was it was going to happen.
But the persistence part is a little bit
different. I mean, stubbornness can also
be an obstacle and get in your way
because as you become a leader, you need
to be flexible. You really need to
listen and
and um
and know that you don't always have the
answers, you know, lots of times.
But persistence is that you are so
determined that you're going to make it
happen even if it looks like all the
cards are against you. Even if you wake
up going, "There is absolutely no proof
that this is going to happen." But if
you have that
uh persistence inside of you that you're
just going to stick with it and you're
just going to stick with it until it
happens,
it always does.
It always does.
What's the process that you use for
that? Because I loved what you said
earlier and this is something that my
mom said to me when I was a little kid
as well and I think there was a TV show
with like My Friend Flicka or something
and the kid that rode the horse in the
show didn't know how to ride a horse,
but his mom said if anyone ever asks you
in an interview or an audition if you
know how to do something, just say yes
and we'll figure it out. So, they said,
"Do you know how to ride a horse?" He
didn't, but he says, "Yes."
They, you know, hire him, and then he
goes and learns before they shoot for
the first day. And when my mom told me
that story, that always stuck with me.
So, I love that, but many people don't
know how to follow that up with how to
go learn how to ride the horse. So, in
your tenacity, your perseverance,
sticking through with something, what is
your process? And this is the thing that
I want people to really understand about
your book. There's no fluff or hype in
your book. You just like do this, do
this, do this, learn this, go here. It's
like it's so instructional. It's
basically an instruction manual, which I
love, and it's one of the reasons that I
respect the book so much. So, what is
your process for when you've said yes,
and now you have to go learn? How do you
actually in an efficient manner go learn
something new?
Well, I mean, in the book, you know,
just backing up a little bit, I wanted
to not only inspire people to break
through, and to be able to scale their
business in in this last book.
Uh but, I want to give them the steps to
do it. You know, let's make it easy.
Business doesn't have to be complicated.
But, I think that as far as persistence
goes, and once you say yes, and your
back's against the wall, you're either
you got two choices. You can look like a
complete fool because you kind of
Oh, yeah, I can do this. You've got to
back it up. So, having a little pressure
on you, I think is a good thing.
Uh I know that when I was a single mom,
and I had no money, and I mean, getting
purses and shaking them out, trying to
find a a few coins to be able to go get
a cup of coffee.
Um there's something about being there
that's really good and humbling.
Because it makes you want that more, and
to say, "You know what? That's the
impetus that's going to push you
forward."
And, you know, I think the beginning is
ask for help. I think that people feel
like asking is a sign of weakness.
Asking for help is a sign of weakness,
and I really feel like it's a sign of
strength.
And it's just smart.
You know, if if you ask someone that's
been there and done it, you know,
they're walking the talk, then they're
going to get you directly to where you
want to go. It's like a geo force moving
you forward
to your solution.
Yeah, it's interesting. When I hear
people talk about solutions, I think
about one of the most important things
you had in your book, which is clarity.
And your whole notion of it's either a
hell yes or
uh no way. And how does that all work
together? What is the concept of hell
yes or no way? Why is clarity so
important?
Yeah, the the hell yes or no way first
came to me, you know, after that
accident. When I think that
when your desire for change
becomes stronger than your fear.
Because your fear will keep you
crippled, it will keep you paralyzed.
But when you want it so badly that
you're like, "You know what, fear? Out
of my way." You know?
Uh that's really where the breakthrough
happens.
And the clarity is
it's just that
feeling inside where everything is
congruent.
Where the way you feel,
the way you live, the way every
everything on the inside, your values,
your beliefs are in sync, they're in
alignment with what you say and put out
into the world.
I think there are a lot of people that
are depressed,
ill
because they're living one way, but
they're feeling another, and there is
this constant battle. There's this
constant fight.
So, the clarity comes when it finally
all comes together, and it just feels
like
Ooh, yeah. That feels right. That feels
good.
Yeah, that's um getting in that
alignment is really important. I know
that you walk people through how to
create that clarity in their life. How
do you help people with that, and what
can somebody watching now, like what
kind of process can they go through to
get the level of clarity that they're
going to need?
Yeah, so it obviously depends on what
type of clarity they're looking for, but
I really like to give people the space
to do that. I think that if we're like
pushing it and pushing it and searching,
it doesn't always come. So, when you can
get yourself into a creative space, like
when you're a kid and you're just
playing and having fun, you are who you
are. You are in alignment. You're not
doing it because you have
responsibilities or you have demands or
you're going to feel guilty if you don't
do it. You're just doing what feels
right. So, I think if we can take
moments, and part of why I love the
trapeze, but whether that's painting
uh or whether that's gardening or taking
a walk and really allowing your mind to
clear, that's where the best ideas come.
So, the first is just to clear your mind
and get to that space. And in the book,
I show several processes to get to that
clarity, and um one of them is looking
at what did you love doing as a kid?
What did you love from 0 to 12, 12 to
20,
and uh what were some things that um
you've always wanted to do? like your
bucket list, but you've never done. What
are your talents?
You know, what are your passive talents
like, oh, I'm really organized or I'm
I'm very compassionate. Or those active
talents like, I play classical piano or
I know rocket science, whatever whatever
it is. And you start to pull all these
things together in the system of the
things we do with our clients, whether
we're helping them create new revenue
streams,
uh you know, or a new business all
together or taking their business to the
next level.
It needs to be in alignment
with who they are.
Because if they're just doing it for the
money,
they won't stay with it. They won't give
it that persistence
that's needed in the long haul to see it
through, to see it through to success.
It's what's going to get you out of bed
on the tough days.
What's going to get you excited when the
doors are slamming in your face?
What's going to, you know,
get you
rah-rah for your team
when you just looked at your P&L and you
can barely cover salaries.
It's not going to be for the love of
money.
It's got to be that deeper passion.
That
bigger reason.
Your legacy.
Uh that is going to fuel you forward.
And then that ultimately turns
everything else around. Because then you
stick with it and you give it that
persistence.
So,
as you continue to build your businesses
and take it to the next level, you've
gone across so many different
industries.
Um obviously it takes an extraordinary
amount of time. You must clock an
unbelievable number of hours, but one
thing that you've spoken to is just
being absolutely critical is self-care.
Um why is that so important? Do you
think of work-life being a balance? Um I
know you said that that there's a real
um crossover between life and work for
you, but how do you integrate that in a
way that's healthy for you?
Well, after you run over yourself,
[laughter]
you kind of re-look at the way you're
operating, and um that was not healthy
for me. And I would say over the years,
a couple other times that I really
crossed that line, not not in, you know,
an automobile, but uh where I was just
really run down, or I I had a friend
going, "You look like hell, you know?"
It's like, "Okay, I need to to sleep."
Uh
I um when I
the trajectory was when I got out of the
ad business, I discovered homeopathic
medicine.
And that actually changed my life.
Why is that?
Well, uh
I had, you know, as I was raised in
Oklahoma, I my mom always took me to the
doctor. I didn't even know what holistic
was. And then
If you had to define holistic, you gave
a brief definition before, but if you
really had to
um break it down for somebody that's
watching that doesn't know what that
means.
Well, holistic and homeopathic are very
different, and I think a lot of people
interchange and use it as the same, and
it's incorrect. Holistic is just mind,
body, spirit. It's the whole picture.
A homeopathic
does cover the, you know, it treats the
whole person, but it's actually a system
of medicine that's been around over 200
years, over 100 years longer than
Western medicine, allopathic medicine.
Homeopathic means
same disease.
Allopathy,
which is Western medicine, means
opposite disease.
And so with homeopathy, uh the the body
cannot hold two like diseases.
So for instance, if you ever experienced
where you might have, let's say neck
pain, or you you have some chronic pain,
and then you get sick, you get a cold,
and then that pain goes away.
Mhm.
So the body cannot hold two like
diseases. So you take a substance, a
homeopathic substance, they're those
little tiny pellets that you get like in
Whole Foods, right?
And they are highly diluted substances,
plant, mineral, animal. So there's not
the actual substance anymore, it's the
molecular structure. And this is where
so many people uh poo-poo it, say, you
know, nothing's there, but they have
actually been able to show that the
water holds the molecular memory.
And so by taking a substance
that causes the symptoms that your body
is experiencing,
one knocks out the other.
That's the law of similars.
And so that's really what happened to
me. Here I was, had the car accident,
major change, you know, leaving uh a
marriage I'd been in for 9 years, my
confidence was like this. Uh I was, you
know,
just
did not have a lot of clarity at the
time. I had aches and pains, I had tire
tracks on my legs
from the car.
I went to this homeopath somebody
referred me.
And she chose this one homeopathic for
me.
And I took that, and it wasn't like a
drug-like effect, it was just gradual
over the next 6 months. I felt more
clarity, I felt confidence, uh I felt
excitement about life again.
and uh I just felt
resilient and I thought gosh this is
incredible and this just makes so much
sense.
So that's really how all my businesses
have evolved if I'm passionate about it
and I'm excited about it then I want to
delve deeper into it and that led me to
20 years
running my homeopathic practice and
building one of the largest homeopathic
schools in the country.
In 1999.
So going back to the self-care what is
your process look like do you have a
daily regimen like how do you really
stay in tip-top shape?
For me the biggest one is sleep
because I'm a night owl and I really it
is genetic in my family we could do a
conference call with my mom my brother
my sister at 2:00 a.m.
We would all be up. And so that's
I finally have just accepted I am a
night owl but I really need that seven
at least seven seven and a half hours of
sleep and so I will just plan out my
week if I know I'm going to be up late
cuz I get this creative burst and I
allow myself that I make sure I don't
schedule anything till a little bit
later on in the morning or late morning
to get started so that is a gift to
myself
I have had the same fitness trainer for
over 20 years and that you know having
that discipline
you know the boost of endorphins and
that's given me a lot of resilient over
resilience over the years.
And the other the biggest thing I would
say is that I only do what makes me
happy.
Wow.
Now how do you stay true to that while
building businesses?
Cuz there are inevitably times where
there's things that are not so much fun.
Okay let Let let me back up on that
statement just a little bit.
The purpose of what I'm creating, I am
totally in sync with.
I'm totally in love with.
There may be some instances or some
conflict, you know.
It's not my favorite. Um
that you that's just part of it.
But I know that you know, what I have
what I'm doing really has meaning to me.
And if I come to a place where, you know
what? There's a sense of completion.
I'm done.
I'm ready to move on.
Right.
So, you talked about meaning just a
second ago and I think that's so
important and you in your book talk very
wonderfully about the power of
storytelling, how we conceptualize what
we're doing in the frame of a story.
Walk us through that. Like what is the
importance of story and storytelling and
how can anybody use it in their life?
I think that people don't realize the
value of their story.
And what is their story?
Well, their story can be their journey.
And there's so much wisdom in their
journey. You know, they say it's not
about the fall or the fail, it's what
you do once you get up.
That's the, you know,
you know, that's the golden ticket. So,
we got to learn from our story.
And but you don't want to then live in
your story, either. You don't want to be
living in the past.
Um
and there's there's the old story and
the new story. I think people that are
too stuck in their story stay in this
place of being a victim.
They're playing the blame game.
And whatever scenario it is, unless
you're a little child, you've made the
choice to be there in, let's say, 99% of
the cases.
But I think story can is a great way to
connect us with others, connect us with
community. It's a great way to get your
message out there, and people remember
story.
If I'm on stage and I'm speaking, I
could teach several things, but what
people are really going to remember is
the story
and then the valuable lesson
from the story.
So, how do you get people to um begin to
understand that their life can be seen
as a story and that the story you get to
essentially decide the meaning of that?
It's not predetermined. Um how do you
help them find the power in that? So,
I'm sure people come to you A in victim
mode, right? They're stuck. Okay, we can
help them out of that. But, then how do
you help them reshape the same sequence
of events, but to see them in a new
light that hopefully is more empowering?
You know, sometimes when people come in
victim mode, it's hard to shift them
out.
Really? Have you ever had somebody that
you couldn't get out of that?
Yeah, I I think sometimes people are so
they get a lot out of staying stuck in
their old story.
That's interesting. Can you go deeper on
that? What do you mean they get a lot
out of it?
Well, because maybe it created a family
dynamic that when they're the victim,
everybody runs to save them.
Uh you know, it's maybe they didn't get
much attention as a kid and that's their
way of getting attention.
Or, you know, or maybe it's the story
that their parents had. And so, they're
holding on to it with dear life.
And they believe that, you know,
the world is a terrible place and
everyone's against them and then this
horrible thing happened and see, I told
you.
I told you I was right. You know, it is
all so bad. So, sometimes when they are
so wrapped that it's part of their
identity, it is hard to break that. And,
you know,
it's hard to be around people like that.
I'm sure you've experienced that, right?
Yes.
You know, so I like to be around people
that um it's okay to be scared. It's
okay to be stuck. We're going to help
you through that, but uh let's at least
be willing to, you know, open your eyes
to things, try things, and be coachable.
You know, don't work with a coach if
you're not willing to do what they
suggest that you do.
And I think too in business, and it's
just
what people see and hear, you know, this
overnight success story like I was
saying earlier, and you have to do the
work. You have to be willing to stay in
the game even though you don't see the
results happening.
You just know that you're, you know, a
few feet from gold.
But what if you quit, and you never saw
that?
You know?
There's one thing that you've talked
about that really resonates with me, and
I wonder how much you use it and what
particular style, but what is your take
on meditation?
Yeah, so
um I am a fan of meditation when
I can sit still like that. And I did TM
for quite a long time. And it was really
beneficial to me. Now, my husband
meditates almost every day.
Uh but I just really struggled with
sitting still.
You didn't want to do it, or you have
ADD, or what was the driver for that not
being easy?
Yeah, I just felt like I was sitting
there. There were I was I was wanting to
do other things.
I just think that my constitution likes
to be in motion. So, therefore, when I
am on trapeze,
I am in the most meditative state
that I could ever be in. I mean, when
you're on up in that platform, time
stands still.
And you, you know, you have to be
focused cuz, you know, you don't want to
kill yourself.
But it's it really does bring you into
the state of
being so grounded even though you're up
in the air. And when I come down after,
you know, a session of of flying for
like an hour or so,
I feel my feet on the ground.
It really does bring me back into
congruency.
I love that.
All right, before I ask my last
question, where can these guys find you
online?
Well, go to my website alisonmaslan.com
um or Pinnacle Global Network, which is
our mentoring company.
And um
yeah.
And wherever books are sold.
Fantastic. All right, my last question.
What is the impact that you want to have
on the world?
Well, I
believe I've been given this gift um to
understanding business, and I truly
believe that
um
business owners are the change makers of
the world. They're the innovators. They
are the inventors.
And whether it's health or technology or
the environment or making people feel
more beautiful, whatever it is,
that if I can help them to break
through,
then it is my way of elevating
consciousness through business.
One business owner at a time and
ultimately impacting millions.
I love that.
That's how you change the world.
Awesome. Alison, thank you so much. That
was wonderful. [applause]
Guys, the notion of breaking through I
think is so important and I think that
that's something that all of us
naturally gravitate towards. We want to
push ourselves to the edge. We want to
get to that next plateau and then
hopefully beyond that one and beyond the
next one beyond that. But to do that,
you've really got to have the tenacity
that she's talking about and most
importantly you've got to have some kind
of road map. And that's what I was
really impressed with is her book is
that road map. It is very tactical. It's
not fluff. It's very direct. It's very
clear. It talks about the things you're
going to need to instill in yourself,
the things you're going to have to
learn, the tools you're going to have to
be armed with in order to move forward
and she walks you through in a way where
each brick stacks on itself until at the
end you really are armed to build your
own company. Now, the great news about
the book is if you want to build a
company it's a no brainer, but even if
you don't I think that there's a lot of
information in there that really applies
uh to not business. And so you'll notice
in this interview I didn't really ask
her a lot about business because I think
so much of what she talks about just
applies to getting the clarity we want
in our own lives, the self-care, the
things that are going to apply to
everybody. So it really is quite
powerful in having that systematized
approach. And I think it's really
extraordinary that she's been able to do
this 10 times. It's replicable and when
something's replicable it's teachable.
And I think that's really the unique
gift is she's put something together
that really is helping people have those
kind of profound breakthroughs. So I
highly encourage you guys to check it
out. I think that it will give you
something that will help you have your
own breakthrough and begin to build the
life that you want.
All right, if you haven't already my
friends, be sure to subscribe and until
next time be legendary. Take care.
[applause]
Alison, thank you so much.
That was amazing.
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